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Yearning Aimlessly Part 2 · Outcast

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Welcome back. All right, welcome back.
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Thank you for those that have been listening and those are the
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new welcome and that before we start, we always pray.
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Because last time we forgot. Yeah, we did.
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We did. Sorry, God, Lord, thank you for
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allowing us to be here so that we speak about whatever it is
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that You want us to speak about. You are the one true, living
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God, and there's no one greater than You.
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Amen. Amen.
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Amen bro. Alright, last time we spoke
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about aiming aimlessly. Yearning him aimlessly.
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Oh, yearning aimlessly. Something like that.
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Yeah, something like that. Yeah.
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Yeah. No, that's that that really,
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that really has changed a lot. Like that really has made me see
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things a little more differently now.
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Yeah. Yeah, a lot more differently,
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yo, you know. What's up?
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Yeah, now go ahead. Where are you gonna?
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Say social media doesn't help. No, it doesn't help.
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You think a woman should be looking like this?
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Uh huh. Like the ideal, it's not the
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case. Yeah.
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And the same is true for. And I'm not justifying that
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because perhaps you shouldn't be healthy.
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You should be healthy. Yeah, you should not justifying
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that. Yeah, it's just that, you know,
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when you see, like, for example, people from our country, like
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foreign people, like, you know, they're not, they're not like
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insanely ripped, filled with veins not, but they're insanely
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healthy. Like they're full of energy.
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You know, you see them wake up in the morning perfectly fine.
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So that that's why I say that, you know, we yearn aimlessly
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because we think this is what we want, but really you don't know
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what you want. Yeah, that's true.
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But yeah, that's that's. True it.
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Was Yeah. I'm sorry, What were you gonna
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say? No.
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No, no, I was just saying like, like now it it's really, it
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really does come down to like meditating and really like
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seeing discerning the perfect rule of God so that you can ask
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God to what it is that you were looking for.
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Of course, according to his will.
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And I believe that no, it's actually this is the truth.
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If you are aligned with God and you are in God's will, then what
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you asked for will be, of course, according to His will,
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automatically by Lena, because your heart is.
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Yeah, because when you become alive, right?
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Yeah, Spiritually, I mean, you surrender, you repent, you
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become alive, your spirit becomes alive, right?
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Spark in there as you're walking by the Spirit, right?
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You then start to realize that your selfish desires start to
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shift. Yes, and they start to shift to
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the desires that God have. Yeah.
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So then of course, common sense, your prayer will be aligned to
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to the desires of God, not. Yours, right, Right.
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And then you will be able to pray yes, accordingly,
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accordingly and appropriately. Yeah, yeah.
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So exactly. So that's, that's, I mean, if
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you, if anybody's looking for the secret sauce, if you will,
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that's it right there. Yeah, no, it's true.
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Prayer, fasting and reading scripture.
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I know we've spoken about this a lot, but.
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Yeah, the threefold. We've we've yeah, we've never
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gone to the series yet. Yeah.
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Yeah, we will soon. Yeah.
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But what you were saying right now, what you ask for, you'll
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ask because now you think you have the you have your your mind
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onto the things of this period. Yes, yeah, you have set them on
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that right. So you will pray according to
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that. Right, right.
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Yes, absolutely. So, yeah, so if you're yearning
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aimlessly, it's because you have, you are setting your mind
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to the things of the flesh or, and by that I mean, if I'm going
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to be very literal, by that I mean those dead parts or the
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that death part of your spirit that was dead is still
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lingering. Yeah, you're alive now.
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Exactly. So you have to think I So yes,
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being alive through Christ. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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So you know what I mean? Absolutely.
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So if you set the things of the it's, if you set your mind to
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the things of the flesh, that's what's happening.
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If you're yearning aimlessly, if you yearn with aim, it will
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align based on your walk. Yeah.
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Step by step. Exactly.
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To the square foot, right? You know I.
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Was just thinking that so funny because I remember when God
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revealed to us. Make sure that every word that
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you utter out of your mouth is the same equivalent like square
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footage of the way you are walking with God.
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So every word should match like the way you are walking with
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God. I mean, yeah, the spirit of the
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Lord revealed that to me because I was meditating one day.
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Like whatever you bind here on earth, you bind on heaven,
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whatever you unbound. So what's that?
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Whatever you bind here like is is that 24/7?
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Does that look like just seven days a week for like 8 hours a
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day right? What does that look like right
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and you know it was I think it was in a like I was dreaming.
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Oh no, it was a dream it. Was.
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Yeah, I remember. It was a dream.
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I don't know if we've spoken about this in the previous
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episodes, have we? I think we have.
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Yeah, but it's just maybe it's just a quick little recap that
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literally like I it was vivid. Yeah.
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Yeah. You know, let let your prayer be
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to me like every square foot stride you make.
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Yeah. I'm like, anyways, that was
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besides the point. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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But that was the episode about last week, about yearning
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aimlessly. And seems like if you want to
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yearn with aim then you then should know where do you stand.
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Yeah, I agree. Your heart parture because your
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heart is as youthful, right? Yeah.
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And you need to know where you stand.
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If those desires that you have, do they align with God?
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Because God, God know he created us.
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He did, yeah. He created Adam and Eve.
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I want you to keep this in mind. We say God said to Jeremiah, I I
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knew I knew you before you were born.
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Yes, before you were creating your mother's womb, right?
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What does it what does that mean?
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That means that before the designed takes place, and what
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is that design that he put in place?
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That of male and female can interact with each other and
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have a child. That's the design that's
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predestined, right? You understand?
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Yes. Yeah.
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So when he says I knew you before, that's what it means.
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If he told Jeremiah I knew before you were creating your
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mother's womb. That is true.
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Yeah. Right, because if in fact he
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designed this to be predestined, then he is going to know you
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before you are made, right? Your mother's woo.
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Right Now, I'm saying this because we need to understand
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that a man and a female by nature will have an impulse like
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an attraction. Yeah, God knows that.
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Yeah, right. He knows that, but he doesn't
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necessarily care about that. Right.
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Yeah. Can you align yourself to that
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right? Yeah, ask the question.
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Like can you like deny that part?
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Can you deny that flesh part? Because you did say something
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interestingly. Do you love lust?
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Do you like it? I mean, who doesn't like it?
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Yeah, no, I you. Have to deny it, yes, right,
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right. Unfortunately, because of
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liking, loving that lust, it then inevitably will make you
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dishonour God. Mm hmm.
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That's why you hate it, yes. Because of that reason.
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Right, so that's right. So God knows that you will have
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an attraction to a woman, A woman too.
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Mm hmm. He knows that, right?
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He will consider that. Mm hmm.
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I mean, yeah, it's part of our nature, right?
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Does he care? Probably not.
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No, it's not the all. That's not the all of it, right?
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So, but he will consider it because he knows you have an
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attraction. He knows that he would obviously
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wouldn't want you to be disloyal to her because you're there by
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force. No, no, no.
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There has to be an attraction. Yeah.
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An attraction is just not physical.
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It's also mental. Emotionally, right?
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It's much, right? Other things.
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Yeah, 'cause you're not, you're not marrying that girl for her
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flesh. No, you're not.
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You're marrying her because of her intelligence.
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Yeah. What she's going to bring to the
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table, Spiritual, emotional, all that, all those.
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Yeah, but the physical part God doesn't, right?
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It's not something where it's like, yeah, the Olivet, yeah,
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it's a. Skin it's an organ like yeah,
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what do you mean? You know you're attracted to
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Oregon. Yeah, but that's what I'm trying
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to say. He considers it.
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But what he, what he wants you to align yourself is someone who
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fears him, who fears the Lord fears him right, who honors him,
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who's willing to attend to his will to be a servant with you
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and him, Yes, where he is at the epicenter between you and and
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that person. Hey man, I agree.
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So if you're yearning and you don't understand that, then
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you'd like you're yearning aimlessly like the last episode.
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Exactly, Exactly. I agree, Totally agree.
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Because like I said it, we like we said in the last episode,
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like it's common sense, obviously, like for a believer,
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yeah, I want to grow that loves God, all this stuff.
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It's common sense. Yeah.
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But then the attributes, what things does she like?
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Look what you were saying. Like what does she bring?
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Will she be with you throughout this walk?
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Will she understand the journey that God will put you through?
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You know, will she see that you know you, you love God more than
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her. All these things because you
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know every anyone can say I love God by their lips.
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But when it comes to displaying it, then it's a whole different
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story. Yeah, yeah, of course.
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You know, I mean, they are examples in Scripture of women
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who support their their men, but there's also examples of women
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who not really the greatest. Yeah, per SE.
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I agree, yeah. Ideal, right?
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Yeah, almost disrespectful. But let's take the good ones,
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for example, right? Yeah.
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Take take the the the good examples that are there, that
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the women are there. You know, yeah, like I'd say
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like Abraham's wife, even though she was like.
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That's that's pretty bad. I mean, she did stick with him.
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No. You know, like throughout the, I
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mean, she did, she did think it was ridiculous.
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I got it would make her pregnant and all, but she still stuck
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with him, I guess through the journey.
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Who's a good one? Abigail.
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Oh, Abigail. Yeah, Abigail, who attended to
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King David. Deborah was a great woman.
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Esther. Yeah.
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You know what I mean? Yeah.
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Joseph's wife, who was Egyptian, but he didn't do it alone,
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Right. Right.
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She was there. And if in fact, Joseph married
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an Egyptian, she ended up believing.
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She must have had ended up believing in in Joseph because
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how is Joseph going to display conviction his throughout his
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young years and then all of a sudden a woman?
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Yeah. Who's serving Beacon Gods,
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right? He's gonna marry, right?
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Right. She must have.
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Had some sort. Of have recognized this is the
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God of Joseph, this is the real God and so you have that right.
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You have Jacob's wives, They were there supportive, although
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both of them had rivalry. But that's what happens when you
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have two wives, right? But they were both there
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supporting, right, Right. Right.
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So it was Isaac's wife, right? Although she was a little bit
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discouraged to whom would take the next inheritance if it was
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Esau or Jacob. But that's neither or there.
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But you could see there's good examples around.
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Yeah. And you can also see not great
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ones, Yeah. Like like a bad one would be
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like Job's wife. He she literally.
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Gave up, unfortunately. You would think he'd be with
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like a woman who's like, beside him to the end, no?
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She was like just cursed God already.
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And then he was like, you speak like a foolish woman.
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Yeah, he kept his entirety. Yeah, he kept pushing.
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Forward. So you need to know, OK, what
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that looks like, whoever is listening, would that be a woman
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vice versa or a man vice versa, where you stand and how you pray
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accordingly? And is it aligned to to to what
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God wants? Yes exactly 100% no it's true
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because once you marry that person it's your one flesh with
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her or or a girl to to a guy. Any thoughts?
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No no, I just I guess spend time meditating and discerning and
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don't just don't aim aimlessly like we said on the other
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episode. Pretty much.
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Yeah, and meditating. What would you say?
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Meditating. And just now, what would you
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say? Meditating and discerning.
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Yeah, meditate and discern, right?
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That might mean you might have to be alone in your room.
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Meditate. Think.
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Yeah, challenge yourself within your mind.
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Yeah, like what Paul says, examines yourself.
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You can. If he says examine yourself,
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it's because you can. Yes, inside your mind you can
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examine yourself. See where you stand.
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Be honest with yourself. Yeah, challenge yourself.
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Yeah, ask yourself hard. Questions.
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You know what I mean? Yeah, and, and look, I know I
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get lost as a part of the body. And yeah, we do love it.
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It's not like we don't. But we, like you said, we hate.
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We hate it because it dishonors God and examine yourselves.
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So you do not like, let the thoughts of, you know, like of
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the flesh creep in. And also when God presents that
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one girl to you or a girl to a guy, like you don't get confused
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with lust and and love or Oh yeah, you know what I mean?
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You don't get confused with that aspect.
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Yeah, cuz it's, it's there's like stages to it.
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If you don't know how to discern, I will tell you right
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now, Lust will feel like love. It will, yeah.
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It will feel like love. It will, but it's not.
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Exactly, exactly, 100%. And remember, it doesn't have to
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be something sexual. It can mean like like maybe the
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girl's so beautiful, so pretty that you just like, you just
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kind of like have this like attraction towards her where it
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feels like love and you're still keeping that pure mindset in
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your mind. But you never know, it could be.
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It could be like your flesh trying to creep in.
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You got to discern. Ruby No, Yeah, you have to,
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because then you start playing chess with yourself.
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Exactly like what Solomon did. You start playing, you start
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playing chess. Exactly.
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And then next thing you know, you end up thinking in the flesh
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at the end of the day. So there's layers to it.
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There's common sense lust where it's like, you can be like,
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yeah, I'm just lusting hardcore. And then there's this other part
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where it's like deceiving cunning.
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So you got to be careful. You got to really examine
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yourself in that aspect. Yeah.
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Like, is this woman really the one that will stick with me
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through thick and thin? It's not just because she's
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beautiful, but her attributes, what she brings, her spiritual
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life, all this stuff. So you got to discern those,
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those, those things too. You got to go deeper, deeper
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than what they just teach you at, you know, Sunday church or
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go to your room and and meditate.
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Exactly. Challenge yourself.
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Be, be still and present. That doesn't necessarily mean to
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sit and cross your arms and wait.
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Yeah, that's just you. You just call it what it is.
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You're you're you're being alone with God and meditating.
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Yes, but being still in present also means be present.
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Like go about your day. Don't worry about tomorrow,
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right? Right.
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Don't worry about 2-3 hours later, five hours later.
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Just do what you're doing. Yes, exactly we do.
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You know, we can say, well, I have plans for dinner at five.
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Yeah, you have those plans. Let it arrive if you get there,
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You get there if you don't, right, Something like that.
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So being president still meaning like continue walking side by
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side, like step by step by the Holy Spirit.
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Yeah, I agree. That's being still in present.
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Don't react to a certain emotion or to a certain feeling because
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of this or because of that, right?
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Right. Because I understand that the
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modern times that we're in, you know, there's a certain criteria
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that social media tells you or the world culture you need to
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meet. And because of the diverse
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divorce rate going up could imply, you know, that there
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could be a a, a both roles, both men and women role are not
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playing it appropriately how it should.
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Yeah. So it causes that or you lose
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attraction because you perhaps you don't care how you look.
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You gotta be healthy. Be healthy doesn't necessarily
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mean for the guy to look like chiseled.
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No, be fit in the aspect of like healthy.
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Yeah, and it's common sense. If you work out any healthy,
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it's common sense. You're going to lose weight.
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That's just common sense. Yeah.
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Don't let it get it in your head.
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Same true for the woman. So there is, there is.
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Unfortunately, it isn't unfortunate that in our culture
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you have to look a certain way. And that can be exhausting for
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some people. Yeah.
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You're always thinking like, Oh my God, yeah, I gotta look this
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like it's exhausting. Yeah, I would.
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I would imagine so. Be healthy.
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Keep in mind that if you work out or you eat healthy, you're
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gonna lose weight. Yeah, it's confident.
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Don't let it get in your head and don't be looking at yourself
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in the mirror all the time. Yeah, yeah.
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Confidence or no confidence, that's just a social construct.
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Your trust is in God. Period.
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Yeah, that's it. And you know you wanna.
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Those are those are unfortunate effects of the culture we live
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in right now. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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And, you know, it makes so much sense why the divorce rates are
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so high as you know what, you know what I think starts to
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happen, man. It keeps increasing by the way.
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No, it does. Yeah.
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Like, you know what I think starts to happen that let's just
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say the the wife, she keeps her fatigue and all that stuff and,
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and. She's you mean fatigue?
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Like, like her appearance or physique?
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Physique. Sorry, it's all great.
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Yeah, sorry, my English. Her, her appearance, like she
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keeps her appearance so much. And then you know she attracts a
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man, right? That man for years will be
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conditioned to like look at the physical.
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Next thing you know, you know beauty is temporary.
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She gets wrinkly, she gets old. What's going to start to happen
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since the guy for years has been conditioned to that beautiful
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model beautiful chick, she will that guy if he's not with God,
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he will start looking elsewhere and vice versa with with with
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the guy to the girl. If you condition you know your
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wife just to be just like at the physical aspect of it,
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eventually beauty and all that stuff fades away.
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So what starts to happen? They will look somewhere else.
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Don't know that's that's what's happening.
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It it it the the divorce rates are going high because of money.
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It's always a problem. Yeah, roles.
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Yeah. The roles get mixed up because
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of the culture we live in. Yeah.
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You know, women in our country are very independent.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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And that's a good thing. Yeah.
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That's the times we live in. But if you're going to marry
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someone to take care of, you depend on him.
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You don't have to be independent anymore.
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Depend on the guy, Right? Because if you in fact marry a
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man of God. Oh yeah, he will.
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He's kind of, he knows his duty. Yeah, he knows his duty.
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He knows exactly what he needs to do.
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Whether if he's rich or not, it doesn't matter.
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He knows his duty. Yeah, period.
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Exactly. Right.
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Exactly. But that, that's, that's one of
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the, you know, appearance money roles.
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Mm, hmm. It's really, yeah, the issue
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here and social media, the technology, the access to, to
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have your own account and be sneaky with it if you wanted to.
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Yeah, those things, those things, we don't live ancient
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times anymore. Nah.
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We live where we're exposed to media constantly.
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People know about stuff quickly. Gossip is at a much faster rate
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than it was ever before. Things are completely different.
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How to navigate is is the issue. You have to look for a woman who
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really yearns to. YEAH, to serve God and honor
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him. Not because she knows that saves
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her or not because she's just. That's what a new creator, new
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creation looks like. Yeah, they honor God exactly.
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Obedience, it's at the forefront of it.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, 100%. So you're right, the guy gets
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conditioned and vice versa, the girl gets conditioned.
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Yeah, to assert you, that could be appearance, money, anything.
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They get conditioned to that and then next thing you know, when
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that falls apart, the relationship falls apart.
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Exactly. How can a relationship that's
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centered in God that will never fall apart?
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No, never, because no one can take away God from you.
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If you remain, abide in God, God will abide in you.
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Then that's key to every relationship.
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Of course, we live in a world where we have to work.
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Yes, yeah. And Speaking of money is not a
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bad thing because that is the thing we need to buy stuff.
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Yeah. You know what I mean?
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Yeah, yeah. That's, you know, we don't
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trade. We don't have merchants like we
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were before in the past, which would have been very cool.
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Yeah, it would have been. Really cool.
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In other countries they still practice that, you know, very,
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very rarely. Yeah.
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Yeah. But we live in a modern culture
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and it's everywhere around the world.
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It's not the US, It's in the Europe.
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It's in. It's everywhere.
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Maybe in some countries, like in the East or in Africa, some
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areas in Central America, you can still see this, this, this,
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this, the the natural function, if you will.
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Yeah, not the modern function. But yeah, like it's just, it's
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weird. I mean, there's entrepreneurs
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out there, women, right? There's a girl called Cody
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Sanchez, and she's super entrepreneurial.
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She's really successful. But she said in an interview
24:20
that that just because of that, she still lets her man be the
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man. Oh yeah, yeah.
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Yeah, and I respect. I was like weird.
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No, that, yeah, that's a lot of respect.
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So that's what's happening with the divorce rate.
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Now imagine in a, in a, in the context of a, of a Christian
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couple, how would that look like that the divorce rates are also
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going up in the, in the, in the, in the Christian yeah community,
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you know? Yeah, no, I mean, it's sad to
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say that a lot of young, young Christians, they get confused,
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you know, they start feeling this passion and they're like,
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Oh no, this is God's will. Is it or is it your emotion?
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There's a thing called long-suffering, and a lot of
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young Christians forget that that's a thing.
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But it's like, I feel bad, you know?
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I feel bad. Yeah, I know that's that is a
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fruit of the Spirit. Yeah, yeah.
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What if God wants you to long suffer for?
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That's OK unless we always receive good all the time.
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Like why can't we also endure bad things too?
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Like when when we have to suffer?
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Yeah, that's. True.
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You know what I mean? So like, that's what I think is
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happening too. The reason why a lot of
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Christians get divorced or maybe they're just not Christians.
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They say they are and then they just at the end of the day,
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their hearts are definitely not aligned with God or they take
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up. That's crazy.
25:42
That blows my. Mind.
25:43
Yeah, yeah. Or, you know, it's a lot of
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aspects. Yeah.
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So, I mean, those are a lot of things to consider.
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You only know that it's, it's just what what Brian said in the
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beginning. If you are lying, yeah, with God
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you will know exactly. Yes.
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What to say? 100 percent, 100%.
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While simultaneously ignoring those parts of your flesh.
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Yes, that you like. Yes, because you do.
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You do like them. Don't.
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Don't lie to yourself. Yeah.
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You know what I mean? So.
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That's how you can appropriately ask God what what you want,
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because you're not your your mind is set on the things of the
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Spirit. Absolutely.
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You know what I mean? Absolutely.
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So understand that if you wanna have an aim of what you're
26:31
yearning, where's your mind set up upon the things of the Spirit
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were the things of the flesh. Exactly.
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Amen. Yeah.
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And I think that's should wrap it up for for, for all those who
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are yearning to get married. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely,
26:53
man. Yeah.
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I mean, yeah, I think it also super important, man.
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Don't forget your role, men out there, don't forget your role.
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Don't just act it. Don't just say live it, live it
27:05
out. Yeah.
27:07
Don't just pretend to be a man. It's not that hard.
27:10
It's really not. It should come like you.
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Want to know something? This is weird, the culture we
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live in, but it's not hard for a woman to be a woman.
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It's not hard for a man to be a man.
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It's really not. It's in our nature, right?
27:20
No, Yeah, yeah, like masculinity comes natural to a man.
27:26
Yeah, like, yeah, feminism comes natural to a woman.
27:28
But what type of feminism? We're not talking about the
27:30
feminism where you you start to take the the, the male traits of
27:35
of trying to act like a man and conquer like a man and they'll
27:39
dis like a man. Yeah, you're right.
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Trying to have the ambition of a man.
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No, no, definitely. No, you and it's this why I say
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it's not hard. It's because it's simple.
27:48
It's actually quite simple, right?
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It's actually quite simple. Yeah, Yeah, right.
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But if you lean towards, if the dude, the male leans towards, he
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speaks because he likes to hear how it sounds, what it is to be
28:02
a man, but doesn't like act necessarily like it.
28:06
It's because it's he's still taking those traits of a of a
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female, unfortunately. It's true.
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No, it's true. It's true.
28:15
It's true. Yeah, man, it's true.
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You can only enjoy those female traits when you have a wife.
28:25
Yeah, right. But yeah, man.
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So I'm not trying to be and vice versa, a woman, you know, like,
28:30
it's easy. Yeah.
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That you want to deny that part because society and culture and
28:35
all this tells you so, then that's on you.
28:38
That's on you. But if you.
28:39
Were really to be in tune with your actual designed, forget it,
28:45
you'd be happy. Yeah, you'd be.
28:47
You would literally feel in. You would feel like you're in
28:49
place. You'd feel some sense of
28:51
contentment. Yes, if you will.
28:53
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because you, you know what you
28:55
are. Yeah.
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So same thing for a man. Same thing for a man too.
28:59
Yeah, exactly. Exactly.
29:00
But we live in tricky times. We have a hard time
29:06
understanding and where the world is going.
29:09
And I understand too. I'm 35.
29:12
I'm like a decade older than you, but I understand too.
29:14
Like, yeah, the economy is not great.
29:20
But I can also say too that we, we do live one of the greatest
29:25
countries where it's almost. You have to actually put effort
29:29
to be poor. Yeah.
29:30
Like you actually have to put effort to actually be poor.
29:33
Yeah. So what I what do I mean by
29:34
that? Like, there's no excuse in
29:36
regards to do something, whatever that means to being a
29:41
man and whatever that means in regards to being a woman.
29:44
Right, right. It makes sense for a woman to
29:47
have an interest to look for a guy who will take care of her.
29:50
There's nothing wrong with that. Yeah, She has every right to
29:52
think that way. Yeah.
29:53
And a guy has every right to look for a woman who will be
29:56
there and take care of his things because he works hard for
29:59
them. Right.
30:01
Yes, yeah. I don't like that one because
30:03
she just wants my money. There's some truth to it, yeah.
30:08
Do you want security? She wants to be fed.
30:10
She wants to be okay. Yeah, there's nothing wrong.
30:12
With there's nothing wrong with. That there's nothing wrong with
30:14
that. You know what I mean?
30:15
Yeah. When I hear guys complaining
30:17
about that. I was like, there is some truth
30:20
to it. You want a girl to want to
30:22
depend on you. Because you're the leader,
30:25
right? Because and if she depends on
30:26
you and and you start to falter, she will be the one to pick you
30:29
up. Like, you can do this.
30:31
Yes. And yes.
30:32
Maybe because of her own interest.
30:34
That's fine, too. That's fine.
30:35
She wants to survive. Yeah.
30:36
Yeah. But she will also help.
30:38
She will. She'll push you.
30:40
Yes. Hey, listen, that's how it is.
30:43
I don't understand. I don't.
30:44
See anything wrong with that? That's the thing.
30:46
You know. Some guys see there's like a lot
30:48
of things wrong with that, but yeah, you know, I, I guess, but.
30:51
That's just an example. Right.
30:52
Yeah. And guys should look for a women
30:56
who's going to take care of things, Who's going to push
30:58
them? Yeah, who's going to want to see
31:02
that version of him better and better, ever, ever so slightly.
31:05
Right, right. She's not going to be a baggage
31:07
or or a burden to you. She's going to feel like this is
31:10
my helper. Yeah, exactly.
31:12
Exactly. Yeah.
31:13
And then imagine how you translate that as a Christian
31:18
couple and God being at the center of it all.
31:21
You'd be a powerhouse. Yeah, exactly.
31:23
A strong family. Because of the Lord, Because
31:25
He's the foundation. Yes, yes.
31:27
A strong family is when God is the center of it all.
31:31
A weak family is when God is not in the center of it all.
31:34
It's just common sense. It's that easy.
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Yeah. Yeah.
31:38
But can you live? It is a question.
31:41
All right, guys, that's what we got for today.
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And stay tuned for other updates that will be coming up.
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We're trying our best here. Stay tuned for the next one.
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We'll close it with a prayer. Thank you, Father, for this
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opportunity to speak about perhaps uncomfortable
32:00
conversations perhaps others don't want to have.
32:04
But we depend on you. We set our mind on the things of
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your Spirit. O Lord, that you guide us.
32:13
You give us a strength. We depend on you.
32:15
We need you and all that we do, we do it for you.
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We do it to glorify you, O Lord. And then, then all those who are
32:25
listening, may those hear this message and then they can share
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with others. That'd be one or two or three
32:30
people. That's fine.
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As long as people share this, this conversation that could
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help them or others. I know that it will be of of
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fruitful information for for them.
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And these are, if you will, gifts that you've given us, that
32:49
we, we are sharing, you know, and gifts in the aspect of, of,
32:53
of what you reveal to us, information, goodies, I guess
32:58
you can say that others can enjoy and also share because one
33:02
thing we are for sure for is you are our number one priority.
33:06
You should be at the epicenter of everything.
33:09
You are first and everything. And so help us all the time to
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to walk each stride of that square foot, be binding in
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heaven rather than unbinding and meet the Holy Spirit guide us
33:27
every day. We follow Him step by step.
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And thank you, Lord. Amen to the next one, guys.