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The One Where Everyone Is Fair Game & Social Media Isn’t Real · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Good morning, my gorgeous full happy hump day. If motherfucker
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  Speaker 1: La La can't welcome back to give them La La podcast,
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  Speaker 1: how is everybody?
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  Speaker 2: How are you, Jess? I'm good, I'm good. We both
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  Speaker 2: just got back into town. Sorry it's oh no, I
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  Speaker 2: told him.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, people are like really loving you on the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I love about this podcast is that it
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  Speaker 1: creates a safe place for people to come and we
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  Speaker 1: can talk, and you know, it takes me out of
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  Speaker 1: vander Pump, which is you know, no matter how you
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  Speaker 1: want to break it down, there's positive moments in reality TV.
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  Speaker 1: But let's be honest, like we're tuning in to watch
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  Speaker 1: bitches beat each other. Like that's just what it is, right,
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  Speaker 1: If you can't compartmentalize, like being a part of reality TV.
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  Speaker 2: Will eat you alive.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to separate the two real life from
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  Speaker 1: real life. I've or like you're done for Yeah, it's interesting.
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  Speaker 2: Too to hear you say that, because it is real.
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  Speaker 3: Like, like I've said before, it's like I've never I
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  Speaker 3: never When I first started working with you, I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I bet they set up and no, the cameras just
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  Speaker 3: pop in and you guys are just going about your
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  Speaker 3: your days.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so yeah, people loved him on the podcast. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like, and I told him, like a while back,
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  Speaker 1: I want to have you on the podcast because.
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  Speaker 2: I think we should squash the beef.
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  Speaker 1: We had a really intense reunion last year m hm,
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  Speaker 1: and like he came for me, I was just tired
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  Speaker 1: during that time.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I like literally.
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  Speaker 1: Couldn't give one fuck about this reunion right now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: with my life.
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  Speaker 2: So we've moved on.
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  Speaker 1: He got to sit here last week and kind of
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  Speaker 1: deep dive into his past and where he is now.
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  Speaker 1: And I just got back from Mexico.
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  Speaker 2: They got married, Yes, they got married husband and wife.
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  Speaker 1: Now. I guess people will see that unfold. Yes, So
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  Speaker 1: maybe we can't talk about it, but I will say though,
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  Speaker 1: I always talk about how I just can knock it
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  Speaker 1: down with weddings, even before I became like I don't
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  Speaker 1: believe in marriage. I just like, I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: it was about weddings. But then when you put me
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  Speaker 1: at the actual wedding, yeah, I'm sobbing. I'm like, when
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  Speaker 1: is the next one? I want to feel this forever,
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  Speaker 1: Like it's just like so beautiful, full of love like
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  Speaker 1: watching them together.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he was just so sweet. I've always been that
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  Speaker 2: way too.
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  Speaker 3: I remember talking to Kyle about it a couple of
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  Speaker 3: years ago and being like, but what's like having the conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, but what's the point of marriage?
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  Speaker 3: Because Kyle's always, ever since I met him, been like
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  Speaker 3: marriage guy, and I've always been like, not skeptical, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, but I need to know the point, and
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  Speaker 3: like we would have a conversation about it, and he
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  Speaker 3: kind of was on my page at some point He's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I know, it seems when you kind of take a
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  Speaker 3: step back, Oh, it's just like a tax break, which
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  Speaker 3: is like, fine, you know you want to get married,
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  Speaker 3: and you get, but then the older I get, I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: you know what, it's kind kind of beautiful. It's sort
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  Speaker 3: of a promise to each other. However, in front of
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  Speaker 3: whoever that like, this is my person for life. And
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  Speaker 3: I used to make the argument, well, I can do
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  Speaker 3: that when we're not married, I can promise to you.
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  Speaker 2: But I see both sides, and I do think marriage
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  Speaker 2: is beautiful. I do.
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  Speaker 1: I I think the ceremony is beautiful. Yes, I think
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  Speaker 1: I don't necessarily know that the marriage certificate is anything
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  Speaker 1: that I want, right, A part of right, that's a
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  Speaker 1: whole different story. But I mean even Katie has said,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I didn't realize how much of a business
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  Speaker 1: transaction my marriage was until I got until we started
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  Speaker 1: the process of divorce.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And for me, you know, I thank God every day
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  Speaker 1: that I never got married. I'm not trying to inherit
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  Speaker 1: someone else's dead. And you take that on on your own.
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  Speaker 2: Baby.
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  Speaker 1: What's mine is mine and what's yours is yours? Right,
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  Speaker 1: keep it over there, motherfucker.
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  Speaker 2: But no, we're running. We're running a tight ship over here,
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  Speaker 2: all right. We ran our bills over here. Yeah. Some
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  Speaker 2: how terrifying, is it? Though?
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  Speaker 1: And this is real that like I could get married
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  Speaker 1: to Kyle and he could he's not. We already know this,
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  Speaker 1: but he could be have been lying to me for years,
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  Speaker 1: He could be two three million dollars in debt and
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  Speaker 1: he doesn't legally have to tell me, and then we
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  Speaker 1: get married, and then I automatically inherit that that I know,
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  Speaker 1: so wild he's not, no, But I mean that's why
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  Speaker 1: there I have the same PI Like, you're not getting
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  Speaker 1: through unless I see what's going on. Yeah, Yeah, And
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  Speaker 1: I told Kyle too, I don't know why I've always
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  Speaker 1: been weird about finances, but I said, we don't even
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  Speaker 1: think about marriage or proposal until I pay off my student.
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  Speaker 2: Loans, and I, like, literally a month ago paid them off.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I'm so proud of you.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, so I have to I saved this and
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  Speaker 1: it's on Instagram and it said it's the biz owners.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Six Non sexual advice is for youngsters. Okay, do not
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  Speaker 1: do not spend too much time. I'm trying to be
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  Speaker 1: more physically attractive in order to just impress your crush
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  Speaker 1: rather than making yourself mentally attractive. Educate yourself, address reoccurring
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  Speaker 1: toxic thoughts, deal with your insecurities, and learn how to
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  Speaker 1: be happy on your own. Then normalize saying no without
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  Speaker 1: needing to over explain yourself. If someone is offended by
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  Speaker 1: your boundaries, that's their problem. Love this one because I'm
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  Speaker 1: obviously sober. Don't subscribe to other people's definition of fun.
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  Speaker 1: Fund doesn't have to mean drinking, party and socializing. Fun
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  Speaker 1: can be a night alone, getting lost in a book,
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  Speaker 1: a deep conversation, a walk, creating art, playing music, etc.
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  Speaker 1: This one is the winning one where I'm like, everyone
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  Speaker 1: needs a fucking reasons. Okay, I'm like, so passionate about
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  Speaker 1: it before you get married, discuss bills, parenting styles, credit debt,
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  Speaker 1: how to deal with family, what belief will be installed
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  Speaker 1: in your children, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, partner expectations, financial expectations,
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  Speaker 1: family health history, bucket list, dream home, career and education,
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  Speaker 1: political views, and whatever else comes to mind. The age
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  Speaker 1: of fifteen to thirty is golden era of your life.
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  Speaker 1: You make friends, lose them, you make mistakes, correct them,
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  Speaker 1: you fall, you fail, you learn, you realize, you hit reality,
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  Speaker 1: you fall in love, you get hurt, you lose yourself
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  Speaker 1: and eventually become stronger.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: If I would have read this at the age of
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  Speaker 1: fucking twenty five, I would have disengaged.
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  Speaker 2: Bitch.
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  Speaker 1: Wow. I love that. That's so true and that's a lot.
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  Speaker 1: But when I was reading it last night, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: this is for youngsters. Like, I'm approaching thirty two in
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  Speaker 1: a week.
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  Speaker 2: I need this. That's so important. Yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 1: I tell any youngster when they're like it's time, because
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  Speaker 1: I come from Ushah.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone's married six kids deep at my age.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I see these youngins and they're like just
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  Speaker 1: moved in with their girlfriend. They're thinking about buying a ring.
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  Speaker 1: How old are you son, Uh twenty four?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: No, yeah, I think thirty. For women thirty years old,
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  Speaker 1: you start deciding it's time to find a partner, it's
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  Speaker 1: time to do this, that and the other. Now again,
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  Speaker 1: we have the biological clock that ticks right. It's a
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  Speaker 1: real fucking bitch. I have friends who haven't been able
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  Speaker 1: to get pregnant even when they were younger. It's still
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  Speaker 1: a problem. But I just think mentally, I'm a different
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  Speaker 1: person than I was at twenty five. I'm a different
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  Speaker 1: person than I was at twenty seven. Like thirty is
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  Speaker 1: when my blinders came off, and it was just like
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  Speaker 1: this is the world, and what the fuck am I
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  Speaker 1: supposed to do with all of this. Yeah, here's what
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  Speaker 1: I see in young marriages because I'm also from a
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  Speaker 1: small town and they all get married young.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of them get married young.
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  Speaker 3: I see that the ones who last are the ones
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  Speaker 3: who grow together and accept and work with their partner's changes.
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  Speaker 3: Because the friends that I've seen who got married at
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  Speaker 3: twenty twenty one and now they're thirty thirty one, I
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  Speaker 3: meet them.
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  Speaker 2: Both and they're both completely different.
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  Speaker 3: But when I get to them and talk to them,
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  Speaker 3: they go, oh, we had years of therapy and this
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  Speaker 3: is not the person I met when I was eighteen.
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  Speaker 3: But I grew with her and I grew to communicate
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  Speaker 3: and accept her changes and love them and work on them,
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  Speaker 3: and they grew together. But a lot of times you
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  Speaker 3: meet young and they get married, and then everyone changes
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  Speaker 3: when they become adults, and those two people that change
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  Speaker 3: have not accepted each other's changes, or they kind of
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  Speaker 3: grow apart, and then it's just like, I.
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  Speaker 2: Don't even know you like anymore.
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  Speaker 3: If I would have met this person ten years ago,
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't I would have never married them.
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  Speaker 2: I'm absolutely not.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, in my with my situation, I let go of
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  Speaker 1: so many things because I felt like certain things outweighed
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  Speaker 1: the shit that didn't exist.
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  Speaker 2: In the relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Right, I'm telling you to No, it sounds so cliche
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  Speaker 1: when someone says like, don't settle, you can have it all.
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  Speaker 1: I hate when people say that. I know, but now
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  Speaker 1: I'm living it. It's kind of like when people say,
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  Speaker 1: enjoy this time with your baby. It go so you're like, okay, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm being for real. Like, do not settle.
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  Speaker 2: The sex is bad, but he's got a good heart.
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  Speaker 2: Abort mission. Yeah, especially if that's why I love I'm
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  Speaker 2: so ice cold.
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  Speaker 3: But that's why I love that post because it's like,
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  Speaker 3: talk about the sex, because there are some couples who
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  Speaker 3: are like, I'm good, I'm good with having sex once
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  Speaker 3: a month, or I'm not a big sex person. Great,
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  Speaker 3: you've talked about it, so you know, five years down
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  Speaker 3: the road, you know, if someone if they're not having sex,
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  Speaker 3: you already talked about that. And there are some couples
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  Speaker 3: that are like, I need sex once a day or
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  Speaker 3: I will go crazy.
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  Speaker 2: So let's figure this out. So I have to talk
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  Speaker 2: about it.
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  Speaker 1: Find the happy met Yeah, I mean back in the
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  Speaker 1: day with ex partners like and granted I blame a
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  Speaker 1: lot of it on they were young.
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  Speaker 2: We were young.
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  Speaker 1: The sex was a mind blowing and the dick had
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  Speaker 1: me discombined.
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  Speaker 2: It still does, God damn it. The dig had me
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  Speaker 2: disc combined.
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  Speaker 1: I tell you what my mother said to me. So
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  Speaker 1: I was hanging out with this person and didn't work
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  Speaker 1: out for reasons. But I told my mom, like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sad about this, and she was like, this is why
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want you sleeping with anyone because your heart
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  Speaker 1: would get involved. Anyway, Yesterday we're walking and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm really like bummed out on this, and I told
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  Speaker 1: her you got to stop coming to me and being
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  Speaker 1: like you're better off you're this, that and the other,
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  Speaker 1: cause you know, she is more cold hearted than I am.
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  Speaker 1: Now she's watched it, you know, yeah, it would be
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  Speaker 1: like me watching ocean. You want to know the advice
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  Speaker 1: that this bitch gave me my mother, You you shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: kiss them. You can sleep with them, but you shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: kiss them because then you get emotionally attached. I was like,
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: that's literally the advice of like sex.
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  Speaker 2: Workers, they don't kiss. What the fuck are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: I love her too because I heard her say that,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like, Lisa, we just had to talk like
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  Speaker 1: a week ago where I told Lisa because I heard
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  Speaker 1: her go, well, once you have sex, you get attached,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, Lisa, we are on the opposite
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  Speaker 1: ends of that spectrum. Because I remember being in like
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  Speaker 1: my twenties and being like having a quick talk with
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  Speaker 1: a guy and being like, hey, just so you know,
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  Speaker 1: this is fun, you know that, right, And we'd have sex,
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  Speaker 1: and then a couple days later they'd text me and
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  Speaker 1: I'd be like.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, I told you it was just for fun.
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  Speaker 1: I was like the queen of that and I loved it,
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  Speaker 1: but like and Lisa was like, oh my god, I
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  Speaker 1: could never. And then this today, she's like, you just
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  Speaker 1: gotta have sex with him, and I'm like, what, but.
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  Speaker 2: Not kiss them?
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  Speaker 1: I go, what what series have you started on Netflix?
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  Speaker 2: That that is like in her mind she watched something
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  Speaker 2: on TV.
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  Speaker 3: I but you know what, there's people out there that
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  Speaker 3: are like, yes, that's how you do it if I kiss,
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  Speaker 3: because it's like romance.
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  Speaker 2: It's like romance versus like getting your rocks off there right. Difference.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'm like going back to what I'm sexual attracted
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  Speaker 1: to right now. And I mean when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: like okay, the face is bomb, the the tattoos are
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  Speaker 1: on point, the body is hitten right, the jawline, the skin,
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  Speaker 1: it's all working. And then he goes down south and
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  Speaker 1: that hits right. It's like, I'm hooked. I saw this thing.
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  Speaker 1: I saw this other thing. I've been having a heyday
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  Speaker 1: on Graham lately.
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  Speaker 2: We love it.
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  Speaker 1: I saw this other post and it's this meme, it's
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  Speaker 1: this girl hiding her face and like opening her fingers
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  Speaker 1: and like dodging her hand, and it says me, ignoring
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: the red flags because he does indeed eat it before
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  Speaker 1: he puts it in.
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  Speaker 2: Every girl can relate a man that takes care of
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  Speaker 2: you before himself.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't gotten no red flags with the chef's kiss hand
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  Speaker 1: my favorite emoji, yes, which is so funny because that
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  Speaker 1: is so that is so like it should be given.
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  Speaker 2: It should be given. I know it cannot it's not,
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  Speaker 2: I know, but that's like wild wild to me.
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  Speaker 1: So the the dude I looked up, Okay, okay, so
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  Speaker 1: the dude you hooked up with is it's it's not
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  Speaker 1: it's no more.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so bummed about it. I can't even tell you.
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: I'm so bummed about it because I've been like talking
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  Speaker 1: to other dudes. But like the butterflies are gone, and
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  Speaker 1: my mom goes, well, butterflies fadeade, and I'm like, already, yeah, I.
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  Speaker 2: Don't even get a couple of weeks in it. No,
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  Speaker 2: that's like, yeah, that's funny. No, it's insane. I think it's.
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: Finding what's causing the butterflies for you, because to me,
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  Speaker 3: it's like, is it that he makes you feel safe?
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  Speaker 2: Is it that he's hot? And then figuring out it's.
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  Speaker 1: All it's all hitting right, but you know what it is?
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  Speaker 2: What it is? Yeah, I can. I can suck it
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  Speaker 2: up and move on. I'm a busy bitch. Speaking of
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  Speaker 2: which bitch.
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  Speaker 1: So I did that post, right, Yeah, the first one
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  Speaker 1: because people were dragging me for the picture of me
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  Speaker 1: with my bangs. Yeah, the banks so much, the new
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  Speaker 1: lips lips right, So I reposted and I was like,
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: y'all saying, this shit ain't looking like Giselle. I spelled
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: it like Giselle Bryant and not Gazelle the supermodel. But
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  Speaker 1: like I was okay with that, right. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if my phone auto corrected it whatever. Okay, But for me,
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  Speaker 1: like when someone spells something incorrectly, I'm like, didn't hit right,
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  Speaker 1: you should have proof read that shit.
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  Speaker 2: So then I did it again. I did it again.
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  Speaker 2: So but this part's not funny.
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: Garcel on Housewives of BH her son who's like fifteen
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  Speaker 1: to start a high school, is being attacked on social media,
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  Speaker 1: and the things that I have read I'm not even
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  Speaker 1: going to repeat because it's so disgusting, and I keep
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  Speaker 1: going back to it's something I will never understand because
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: I am a white person with a white child, and
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  Speaker 1: no one can tell me otherwise. All right, you want
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  Speaker 1: to come to me, and you know, troll, that's the truth.
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  Speaker 1: I will never have to experience things that some mothers
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  Speaker 1: have to experience and worry about. Yeah, so I write
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  Speaker 1: this post, which was very heartfelt. You know, as a mother,
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  Speaker 1: it was heartbreaking to see that I can't imagine someone
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  Speaker 1: coming for ocean the way that they're coming for her son.
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  Speaker 1: And as a human being, I'm disgusted. I go on
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  Speaker 1: and I think I didn't proofread it. Again, Like I'm
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: a busy bitch, I'm doing. I don't have time to
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  Speaker 1: proof read. I barely have time to get a post out,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Like, I just don't think about it. You
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  Speaker 1: look at my gram it's like, did this bitch die?
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: You know, like where she at? So I must have
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: spelled her name wrong, which was not on purpose. But
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you all know who follow me. I'm well aware.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: I saw your trolling who decided to look past the
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  Speaker 1: heart of the post and hone in on that. I
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  Speaker 1: don't even know how I spelled. It maybe auto corrected.
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  Speaker 1: I don't fucking know, but bit I've done it.
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  Speaker 3: See when it's names that are misspelled or stuff like that,
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  Speaker 3: I let it go. It's just when you're and youre
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: and there and there are misspelled, that's when I and
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: it's only when they're being an asshole.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: My favorite is when people say, Layla, I've been such
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: a huge trait of.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: You for years.
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, I I just love Laylah so much?
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: Do you not that much?
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: I literally like Laala is a nickname and like literally
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: my daughter can say it. Yeah, a year and a half,
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: la La very very easy. Oh. Another thing, as La
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: gets more terrifying every single day. I told my mom
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: because she wanted to walk to the office today, said,
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: you are not walking anywhere? Yeah, I mean, shootings are
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: happening left and right in this city. It's terrifying. Someone
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: get me the fuck out of this city.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: You know, do you think you'll ever move if it
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: keeps up?
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna have to like figure some things
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: out when I get nervous to go out.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't matter where you are. You could
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: be in Beverly Hills.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, to walk and yeah, I'm nervous. I just like
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: to stay indoors. I want to drive places I don't
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: which it doesn't even matter driving walking, it's just a
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: scary place to be makes me scared for my kid. However,
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: there was.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: One funny thing that I did see.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: I'm driving, ready to pull on Samacinte over by Beverly Center.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, there's a woman. She was very chic.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm pretty sure she was without a home, but
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: like girl had it together. But she had a giant
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: handle of like dawn detergent or not dawn, but like
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: a tied tied or something, the one with the bear
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: on it.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, wait with the one with a bear on it.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: You know, he's like a cuddly bear and in the
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: that's sharman.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: I thought, No, there's like a fuzzy bear, snuggle fully
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: dumping the liquid detritionent all over herself.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: And my Mom's like, it's got to be water. I
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: was like, look at the thickness of that. That is detergent.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: She smells maybe wait, detergent, walking across the street with
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: a group of group of people screwing about their day,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: dumping it on top of her fucking head.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: Maybe she knows something we don't know, like it like
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: makes your hair super soft.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: That's the thing though she had I guess big scarfet.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: It was interesting.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's like, what the fuck is this? There's quite
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: the characters around here. There's quite the characters.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: We coming from Utah. That's the perfect way to describe them.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: Quite the care We don't there's some different kind of characters.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: We have a well, we have an unhoused man who
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: resides near our office and he's the most jacked unhoused.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Man you've ever seen.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: And I like, at first I was like, oh, there's
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: a fitness guy I pulled in.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: I'm like, doesn't bother you. He just kind of walks around.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Mind's his business.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, look there's a fitness guy.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: And then I saw him keeing a car, which and
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: then I was like, oh, he's and talking to him.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: But he's he's a character as well.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean there's a man without a home.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Near where I live, which his name is Christophe Okay,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: and we have bought him shoes, which he was very
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: appreciative of. And every time we walk into seven seven
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: to eleven, he knows that it's time to come in
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: with us, and like the other day, he like it
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: was so hot and he just wanted milk and cereal
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: And I was like, Christophe, it's so hot outside. You
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: have to get water, Like, yeah, that's not going to
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: last in the sun for very long. Yeah, So like
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: we got him his water whatever.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Like does he talk to you?
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean a little bit, yeah, kind of in
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: his own but he's you know, it's my boy.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: No, he's nice and he he doesn't really talk to me,
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: but I've come across him a couple of times and
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: and he uh.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just doing his thing. He's doing his thing,
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: figuring stuff out. Yes, yeah.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Did you see the documentary or docuseries on Netflix called
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: train Wreck?
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: Is that Netflix?
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: It's on Netflix. It's called train Wreck Woodstock ninety nine.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Digit Ile was watching that and it had like Limp
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Biscuit there and oh he was and it looked like
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: a war zone.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: It was a war zone wars and it made me terrified.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: I Mean, there were these kids that are now much older,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: but they were talking about the experience and how horrific
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: it was, but how they it was fun, right, But
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: like these kids talking about how I was fifteen, I
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: told my parents that this is what I was doing,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: and really I was doing this, and I took ahead
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: of Acid, and I'm like, I'm locking Ocean up in
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: a fucking tower with a fire breathing dragon.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: There's no way, I know, but.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: You it's not you were we were eight years old,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: then it's well, we wouldn't have been able to go.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't have wanted to go to something like that.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: I don't think Ocean is.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: But what about like Coachella?
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: What if my kids or like the new the newest
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: whatever like festival when she's fifteen, born and raised in
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Los Angeles, California, freaks me out. I want to show her,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I know, and you know, yes, got it. Like she's
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: my kid and she's gonna see me. She's not gonna
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: see substances around. I'm not gonna see alcohol. But like
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: kids are curious, and I see her personality right now,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: and I tell her one hundred and fifty thousand times hot, hot,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: don't touch She's gonna touch it, Like that's just her personality.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: She has to learn for herself.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: And that's probably what terrifies you, because some things that
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: you learn for yourself as you grow up can get
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: real dangerous, right, Yeah, like you don't wanna.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: So these are the things that keep me up at
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: night is how do I protect ocean? While Also because
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: you have to know, I was like a super good kid.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: I never had a curfew, Like I really like I
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: could do whatever the fuck I wanted. Yeah, however, if
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: I crossed my mom and dad, like the world was
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: gonna end really like you were terrified, Like I knew,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I have all the freedom in the world, but if
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I mess this up, the wrath ain't worth it.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: Would you get in trouble if you came home like
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: drunk or anything? In high school or call it or whatever.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: So my first drink was the night I graduated from
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: high school. I never had a drink before, and I
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: wasn't a big drinker. I was such a homebody, like
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: I probably went out once a month.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it just wasn't a big drinker, like my friends
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: were drinking all the time. Yeah, and I just wasn't
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: like that. Did your mom know you drank? You would
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: be honest with her though, Yeah, I know I told
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: her everything. I think she knew that I had had
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: drinks before. But it was like I just felt like
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I had a lot of freedom. No, I didn't smoke
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: weed until I was like twenty. My first puff of
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: weed was like twenty years old. Do you think that's
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: how you'll be with Ocean, because I do notice being
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: raised in a strict household, a strict Catholic household.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: Love my parents. They're way better now. But I kids
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: naturally want to rebel. And when I say rebel, I
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: don't mean like be bad. I just mean like figure
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: stuff out, go do stuff that they're told not to do. Yes,
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: would you want to raise her with that same freedom
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: you eraise me?
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I think yes, I think I want to tell her
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: I would prefer you not drink. Let's just say it's
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: senior prompt. I would prefer you not drink. However, I'm
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: not stupid. Yeah, I know what goes down. I know
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: you may not realize this, but like I've been in
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: high school prom before, all right, I know what goes on.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Yes, if you choose to do that, I want you
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: to call me.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: I will come pick you up. I won't ask any questions.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I will baby you. You're in a safe place, yea.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: Even though I would prefer because this is what could
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: happen I want you safe, So you call me, Yeah,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I Ariah, I let me know where you are. You
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: let me know if you've decided to drink. My goal
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: as your mother is to create a safe place. I
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: know shit that goes on, and I'm not stupid, but
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: I want to baby you and protect you. So however
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I can do that is what I'm going to be doing. Yeah,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: I also know kids have sex. I would prefer you
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: to have the person wear a condom. M I would
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: prefer you not have sex at all, but if you do,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: please make sure he's wearing a condom. Right, And yeah, no,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I think that's the way to go. I've just seen
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: it with my friends.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: I sat with myself with my family, how my parents
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: were different with me than they were with mister Bubbs.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: He's the most well behaved kid ever, right because he
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: has more freedom.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he gets allowed, he's allowed to have a party
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: at the house, he's allowed to have alcohol, and then
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: he doesn't even drink.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: It's like it's the freedom. I think that's the way
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: to do it. And I think I mean Ocean's also
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: And I'm not just saying that she is a genius.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: You can see it in her she's smart. So I
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: think she's not going to grow up and be like
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: she's smart, She's gonna Well.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I remember my dad was raised in a very strict
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Mormon home, and like when they would pass by bars,
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: my dad would be like, what's in there? And his
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: parents would be like, the devil's work happens in there.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: It's a really bad place.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: So when he was.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Twenty two and finally was like, the church just ain't
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: hiding this is wrong, he was like, the first thing
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: I went and did was walked into where the devil's
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: work has happened, and he probably loves it, you know.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: He said.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: The only thing I saw was a football game on
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: the TV and people like sitting.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: There with like a drink in hair. Yeah, that was it.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: And can you imagine being twenty two and finding out
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: my entire life, or at least about this bar was
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: a lie.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: I would be questioning everything. Yeah.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the polygamus, who their like leader or whatever,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: said if you wear rad, you'll burst into flames. And
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: one girl escaped and put on red and she didn't
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: burst into flames, So was like, are.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: You kidding me? I ever been able to wear red
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: this long? Yees. Yeah, See, that's what I want to teach.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Do you think you'll teach Ocean about all religions or
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: do you think you'll say, this is what Mama believes.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: This is but there's a ton of other beliefs out there. Well.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: I've always said I don't want to raise her with religion.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: I want to raise her with spirituality. I want to
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: raise her with a higher power. But I think when
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: she gets older, whatever resonates with her, even if it
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: doesn't resonate with me, it doesn't matter. Your higher power
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: is to create a safe place for you and something
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: to lean back on when you feel like the world
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: is just too much. Right, So whatever resonates with her
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and she feels a connection to that's what we're going with. Right.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: As long as I can raise her to believe that
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: there is something greater than her that she cannot explain,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: then I've done my job. And she could look at
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: organized religion and find one that she falls into and
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: is like obsessed and her moral compasses on point and
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: she lives a great life. I'm all about it. Coming
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: from Utah, organized religion for me scares me, freaks me out.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: A little bit.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, yeah, that makes sense. So but Lord knows,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm no stranger to the Lord. Lord knows
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: the Lord.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: No, I'm no strangers to the Lord.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: He hears from me often. Please God give me guidance. Oh,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: this is what I wanted to talk about really quickly.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: That made me going back to like how I don't
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: proof read what I post, and like, is she dead?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: She's never on social media.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: So we're like out hanging out in Mexico. Sheena heard,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: you know, guess all the girls, and I'm clicking through
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: everyone's stories and there's like ten to fifteen posts like
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: her story. Yeah, oh my God, like content. They all
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: got pictures on the boat. They all had stories of
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: the water, them swimming. Oh, there's a moment that I
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: was sitting one time, so we got to capture that. Oh,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: there was a moment that I was in the water.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: But then there's a moment I was in the water
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: on a floaty, so we got to capture that too.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: And I literally Jessica scanned scanned the water, and I was.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Like, I'm but you're living in the moment. That's how
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: I feel.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: But then I look at my social media versus everyone
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: else's and I'm like, yo, you gotta you have to
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: get it together, like you have to step it up.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: This is this is what life is about right now?
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Is social media is content? Yeah, no, I get that,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: But on your deathbed, you're not gonna be like I
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: wish I posted more.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: The second that I don't have to deal with social media. Yeah,
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: because it will happen. There will be a day where
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm punting it to someone else. Like a
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: lot of times you'll post for me.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but obviously you can't post me in Mexico if
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not sending you content, yeah, because I'm.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: Not taking it. Yeah, I have other things to do.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: You were just like I was hoping when you went
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: on that trip. I'm like, you know, you're you gotta
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: do some things that are scheduled, but I was hoping,
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: like just chill and relax and have a good time.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: If I saw you post, if I saw ten stories,
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh damn, like what's going on with her?
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: Because she's obviously not having a good time. No, I
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: was not posting anything.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: And the one picture I got that Christina Kelly took
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: of me because she was like the lighting's great.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: She took a few steps.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: I love that picture, and then I was done with it.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: But even you know, before we start doing anything, it's like,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: let's take a picture today of like whatever I'm wearing,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: And then you asked me, should we take the picture?
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I don't feel like it.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: I know it's so much work.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: It's a lot of work. And I wish too that
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: I was passionate because I worked. You know, I worked
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: in social media before I worked with you. I was
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: a digital producer for American Idol and that was my
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: full time job Monday through Friday, eight to freaking seven pm,
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: posting the contestants. I was like helping them run their platforms,
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: all of it. But it is a full time job,
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: and it's like it's a lot, and I know people
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: are passionate about it, but it's also like I went, I.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Was at a gathering. I won't say exactly what it
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: was because it'll give it away.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: And out of my group of ten friends, there are
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: about five who like social media as their thing, and
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I talked to them we were out of town. I
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: talked to them a couple times because when they weren't
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: posting and taking selfies, and taking videos. They were planning
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: for the next thing they were gonna shoot, and they
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: just weren't existing in the trip. And when they weren't posting,
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: they were on their phone texting. We'd be out to
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: dinner and they were like, weren't there. I don't even
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: feel like I was on the.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: Trip with them. And I hated that, and I was like, ugh.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: You know what, though, a lot of my some of
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: my cast members who are also my friends, they don't
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: love social media either, so it makes it easy, yeah,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: because I've been in situations like that that you've been
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: talking about. My first experience with it, I was twenty
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: one and there was this girl who was like very.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: Well known in Salt Lake and.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: She you looked at her social media page. I don't
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: even think I had social media at the time. I
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: think you're thinking I had like a Facebook page, but
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: her her life looked insane. It was amazing right through
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: social media. I remember going to a dinner with her.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: She was like kind of moody the whole entire trip, right,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: And I was like, this is weird because, like, you know,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: social media looks like you have so much fun, and yeah,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: what is happening here? I remember sitting down whatever she's moody.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: I see her pick her phone up, get super happy,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: living her best life, films her food, films her drink,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: picks it up, puts the phone down, back to just
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: the mood, and I was like, oh my god, it's
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: not real. That's why yesterday, when these bitches are on gram,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: they're like, the lighting is hitting right. It's like, no, bitch,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: the face tune, the face tune, the snow plus the
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: lighting is all coming together and hitting right for a
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: postable moment.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: See what we love? A relatable we love relatable queen.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: I hate that fucking saying, but we do.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: But can I tell you what? I was watching someone
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: I won't say, who edit a picture for their page.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: The shit that I do to my photos.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Nothing.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: This person was lowering the hairlines, thinning the legs, doing
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: the body making the boobs, the eye shaped, tilting up.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: I was like, Yo, this is crazy. Okay, I saw them.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I need to learn how to lower the hairline.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Thanks, But how I won't do that because I'm terrified
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I'll meet people and they'll be like, wait, you aren't
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: not gonna very You don't look like you do in
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: your photos no. But by the way, you're gonna see
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: me on TV, right, You're gonna know what my face
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: looks like. Yeah, So if I just want to like,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: this is how my routine goes. When I didn't have
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: my new lips, yeah, because I just got them injected,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: like a couple months ago. Before that, when I couldn't
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: get injections, I was definitely plumping the lips a bit
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: for you. I was plumping the in what face tune
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: or snow in snow okay. Never fucked with the eyes.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: I've brightened the eyes and photos because I like clarity,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: but tilting the eye shape, Okay, I don't want to
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: meet someone and then be like, this is a different human.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: Do you change the face shape at all? Ever I have,
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: I won't lie.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I don't now because I kind of got my face
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: on point again where how I like the structure of it,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: so you would lift or no, not lift. It was
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: more like creating more of like a jalla a jaw
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: yeah interesting, okay, or like when I started losing the chin,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: it was like, okay, we'll do that. But usually it's
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: just a little bit of the skin cover up the molassma,
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: you know, smooth it out a bit.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I can tell.
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: Maybe I can't, but I can usually tell when people
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: over edit and it makes me feel a little e yeky.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: Well you can definitely tell. Yeah.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: With this person you're talking about, could you tell in
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: their Instagram that they overest?
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Whenever I see her on Instagram, I'm like, holy shit,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: she's never looked better. And then on like the rare
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: occasion that I see her in person, yeah, I'm like
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: still beautiful, Yeah, actually stunning, but a different person than
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: on social media.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: Do you feel this is an interesting question because I've
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: always I've gone back and forth. Do you think that
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: for social media would you rather everyone just like, like,
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: let's stop the editing, let's post who we really are
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: and really because that helps younger people and or is
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: it like no, At the end of the day, social
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: media can be a very lucrative business. So if you
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: got to craft it, it's like how people craft their websites.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: If you've got to do it and make it art,
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: do it, do some edits?
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: Do some?
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: No. I don't think that we should take filters and editing,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: but I think we should educate people in the fact, like, hey,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: it's not real.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not real, because it is hard when a
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: young I was looking at my little cousin and she's
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: I think twelve, and she just got on Instagram and
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: I'm like looking at out everything she's scrolling through and
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: it's all these influencers who are young, these like teeny boppers,
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: and I'm like looking at their photo and I'm like,
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: they don't look like that.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: They don't like, don't.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: Freak out because she's got you know, acne air right,
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: and you know you can tell. It like makes them
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: so insecure because there's these other thirteen fourteen year old
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: girls that they see and they're like, but how is
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: she so perfect?
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, it's not.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: But that's why I appreciate the pages that show like
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Instagram versus real life, and because even me at thirty
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: two years old, I sit there and.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like, how the fuck does this person have this
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: kind of skin?
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you see a picture of them on
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: the red carpet and it's like, Okay, I don't feel
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: so bad like this.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: This is what skin is supposed to look like. How
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: do they look so fawless?
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Why is there not one freckle, one mole, one blemish
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: one bump. Yeah, and it's like, oh, but here's the
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: reality and I'm seeing all of that.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: So I do like those pages. But people got it
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: tough en up a bit. Yeah, yeah, Wait, what do
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: you mean by that?
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: We we cannot This world is getting very sensitive. Everything
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: you say, everything you do is how does this affect
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: other people? And it's like, we cannot live for other people.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: We have to live.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying go out and be an asshole, but
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: when you start telling people you can't edit this photo
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: anymore because there are young girls who are as a
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: parent to ocean. The world is nitty gritty. There's nothing
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I can do about it.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Right. What I can do.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I can go out, I can post about what I
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: want to see change in the world. And granted, yes,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: in numbers we do make a difference.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: But you have to create that safe space for your
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: kid at home.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: Teach them what's real versus what isn't real, so that
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: they go into the world and they know the difference
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: between an illusion and they can be tough motherfuckers. Because
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: this world, whether it's your job, social media, your friend group,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: it will eat you alive if you let it. M Yes,
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: you have to build that kid up to their highest
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: self so that when they go out there they can
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: handle it.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I love that.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: It's all about education, I agree, rather than limiting others
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: and being like, you can't just teach, educate.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: That's why I feel it's important every time I get
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: a filler or a poke to say what it is.
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: This is what it is, and you can tell me
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: to stop doing it. But at the end of the day,
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: I'm doing this because I feel confident when I do
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: have a little bit more of a jawline, when my
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: forehead isn't super freaking wrinkled. Yeah, but I'm gonna tell you.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that I've done that.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to tell you that I facetune my
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: photos because I'm sick of these bitches who don't, who
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: sit there and they're like natural life.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: You're like no, no, no, like suck my ovarias.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. I'm not a fan of the and
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: we all know what I'm talking about when.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: I say it.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: But the women who are asked if they've ever had
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: surgery and then they hate decline it.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: If you're gonna do it, I support it. Do what
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: makes you happy.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: But I don't know if I support you declining it
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: and saying no, no, no, I'll natural honey, No I know,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: But can I tell you my nose does look smaller,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: does it? Yeah? People have done before and after photos,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: being like she definitely got a nose job, which, by
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: the way, I like a discounted or free procedure.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: Way too much to not let y'all know. So you're
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: saying you've never got done a nose job. No, I've
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: never had a nose job. You have a great nose.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: It tilts a little, which is why I like my
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: right side better because it kind of tilts to the
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: left and the left side has like this shadow whatever
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: it's in my head, but there's no real like but
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: if I looked at that, I'd be like, this bitch
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: got a nose job. Yeah, And it wasn't done with contoying,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: Like what is it? Is it because I filled my
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: face maybe a little bit? Yeah, who knows, Maybe I
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: grew into.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: It a little more.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: See.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: But then I was the girl who was looking at
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: pictures of Koe Kardashian and defending her, and I was
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: like they were like, nose job, nose job, And I'm like, no, no,
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: absolutely not. And I was like talking to mister Bubbs
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: and I was like, see, it's the same. And then
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: she comes out and she like, I got a nose job,
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, okay, so I don't know.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: Then I just don't know. I can't tell. I'm not.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: You can tell when someone's been cut, and you can
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: tell when someone's just been inject filled.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a big difference. Yeah.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: I was so happy this week. So we got home
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: on until I get home Wednesday or Thursday, Wednesday night Wednesday, Yeah,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: just in time for ocean. And I got to spend
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: every waking moment with her because usually, you know, my
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: schedule's filled and I have to work and we I know,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: you guys.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: There's cameras sometimes.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: Anyway, I didn't have to do any of that, and
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: I got to spend like every second with her. Where
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: did you would you guys do? Because I saw content
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: at the beach. We went back down to Newport, my
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: my baby. So I hate the sand, Okay, I hate this.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: I like to admire the beach, yeah, but like the
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: ocean unless it's crystal blue and warm.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: So I can see what's going on in there. It
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: freaks me out.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: My baby wants loves the sand so much, she wants
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: it in her body. Okay, I have to stop her
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: from eating it. I'm like, you're gonna have diarrhea if
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you keep putting it in, and she does and it
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: burns her and I don't know how to make it stop.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she loves the beach.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: She's upsets to be which I was like, thank god,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: because if I named her ocean and she wanted nothing
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: to do with it, it would be like not great.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Do you do you take her into the water and no.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Yes, That's why I'm saying. She's like making me have
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: to get down and dirty. Yeah, like she wants to
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: be in the water, she wants to dig in the sand.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: She wants to dump sand on me. Yeah, she wants
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: to hug me covered in sand. And I'm like, my
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: baby's gonna be the one where, at six years old,
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to be like around the tower, around
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: because she doesn't get it around.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: That is actually, up until this point, I had no
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: idea you hated sand. I thought you were like your
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: mom because you always want to go to the beach with.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: My mom always wants to do and what mama want Mama,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: get okay, because I'm like, oh, wild, I thought you're
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: just ocean lady, through and through ocean lady.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: You know, I like to yacht on the ocean. I
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: as I am yacht. How big of you? How big
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: of me? I love it?
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: And I was like, I could totally live in that house.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: It's like ten million dollars, How big of you?
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: I learned that from you, and I say it all
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: the time. Now I could, oh how big of you?
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: To people always say, yeah, we get home from I
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: get home from Mexico.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: And keep in mind there's a lot of human interaction.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: When filming, right, and you know, I'm an introvert extrovert,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: so I need time to like reel it in extroverted
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: intro Nope, introvert, extroverted introvert.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: You're an extrovert. Okay, that's what it is.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I come home and my mom wants to
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: talk and I'm like, I just want to listen to
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: this fucking song for five seconds, please, I'm begging you.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: And she's like, my feelings are hurt because I haven't
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: seen you in so long.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: I'm like, it's been four days. It's been four days.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Okay to talk tomorrow and she's like, well, we're going
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: to the beach tomorrow, which makes me really happy because
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: my childhood friends were there.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: They wanted to see ocean. Ocean loves the beach.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: But I'm telling you today, yeah, I'm tired.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: You're tired. I'm a little tired. Yeah, so you are.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, see, because I always Kyle's like that a little
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: where I'll come home from work and he will have
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: come home from long day of work and I'll just
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: talk talk talk, and he'll be on the couch and
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: he'll just be like, A mean you guys can't see me,
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: but he's just like laying on the couch, eyes wide,
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: and I could tell he's like, I just need and
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: he's nice about it. He doesn't ever say anything, but
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: I look at him and I go, do you need
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: like an hour to just like for me to stop talking?
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: And he's like, yes, please, and I'm like, okay, get it.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: Just like five minutes, yeah, to regroup, unwind, gather your thoughts. Yes,
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: because you throw me into the real world and I
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: can handle it. Can put on the face and I
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: am having a good time. But when I get home,
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: I'm just like freaking beat and we need to recharge
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: and I have to silence the noises in my head,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, so I do a lot of like
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: hot boxing, the room with sage.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, baths, relaxing, a lot of baths. Yeah, all of that.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of watching Real Housewives. By the way,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: let's talk about that.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: Did you start watching it again?
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Started watching because I love Jersey Shore. But I will
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: say the Housewives franchise, like every season you're freaking interested,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: even in ones that are like not great, which we
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: all know which seasons and cities I'm talking about, but
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: like you go to OGC seasons, they're amazing. So I'm
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: rewatching Beverly Hills. I'm watching the current season, and obviously,
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: you know, because I've had so many days off. When
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: ocean goes down for a nap, I am balls deep
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: in house content.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: You are, Oh yeah.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: So Lisa Renna is getting a really hard time this year.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: Yes, that's okay, yeah not great. Yeah.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: Number one, we've already spoken about this, the grieving process,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: like she just lost her mom, like let her allow
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: her to like get angry and do all those things.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: And so many people are like, I lost my parent
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: and I didn't act like that, and that's like, well,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: that's good for you. But grieving isn't one size fits all.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: It's just not so.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Even though you may have grieved quote unquote properly, which
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: is bullshit. When someone tells me they grieved properly, it's
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: like that doesn't even make it doesn't exist, there's no
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: such thing.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: You just deal with it how it comes. Yeah, it's
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: my biggest thing.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: If you feel angry, surround yourself with people who will
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: allow you to feel angry. Because I got angry and
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: I was beheading anybody who was in my way of
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: grieving the way I felt like I needed to right.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: But so many people there was like this post that
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: said certain cast members had either been demoted to friends
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: of and somebody was leaving. And it's so interesting when
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: you go into the comments section. I've seen this with
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: my own with our own show with Vander Pump, But
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: so many people saying keep this person, this person, and
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: let go of this person, this person, And it's like
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: the quote unquote mean girls, okay, And I want to
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: shake these people because I'm like, are you you're not
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: tuning in? Like do you realize why you're tuning in?
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: You're not tuning into Kumbai.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: Yah right, all right. I know you think you love.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: This character, character, this person, but you're not tuning in
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: to watch them. Yes, you're tuning in to watch all
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: the people that you want to have let go.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: And by the way, once they're let go.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: You're gonna bitch your boy. Yeah, and everyone was. There
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: were a few comments that were like, until Lisa Renna
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: is fair game, I can't watch or well know you're
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: a game to like what what that come for? Oh?
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, got it? And I want to remind
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: everybody everyone is fair game.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but usually what happens is the person who's strong
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: and shuts shit down. It's like there are so many
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: times where they're like even with me, you did this
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: that in the other and it's like, well, that person
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: could have rebuttled, and I'll tell you how I would
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: have rebuttled.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like Tom and Ariana. I told them their house
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: was beautiful and Tom made a comment I, well you
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: used to revert or oh so you don't think it's
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: a frat house anymore? And I was like, you want
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: to know how you come back at what I said
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: about your house being a frat house. You asked to
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: see my house because I don't have one. Yeah, so
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: like that's that's what you say, something like that. Like
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: it's like, so you can't say Lisa Rinna isn't fair game.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: She is fair game.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you just haven't seen a bitch who can put
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: her in her place yet.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: Yes, you can't be mad at it. Can't be mad
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: at her, you know. Yes, she just goes heavy in
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: the paint.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: So put someone against her who's also willing to go
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: heavy in the paint like me and Katie Maloney. Yeah, yeah, hello, god, yeah,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: fair game. Everyone's fair game. You sign you sign on
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: the dotted line, you are fair game?
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah right, yeah, no, one hundred percent.
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: I need to start watching because all I've learned is
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: that that mister Bubbs told me.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: He said, Garcella is a fan favorite this season, and
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: myself's amazing. She knows how to remain interesting and still
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: be like a voice of reason, be a badass bitch,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: and be classy at the same time. M h that's
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: an hard yeah, or is just something you're born with?
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Because I only it's like which lane are we
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: are we gonna be classy today? Are we gonna be
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: a bad bitch. I can't.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but how is Kathy this season?
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: Because last season I would see so many videos and
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: now I don't really see a ton is she just
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: kind of I think her stuff is coming. I know
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: that most of it happened on like the Aspen trip,
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: but she was funny.
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: So I do this thing. I like to binge watch.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: So if an episode comes out of something and I
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: know that I have to wait a whole week to
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: see the next one, I wait until I have like
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: at least a.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: Stack of three. Okay, got it? You know you can't
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: just watch one, No, and then I lose interest.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like, there's not another one, and then so it's
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: just better for me to like compile them and watch through. Okay,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: but the last one I just watched and I'm far behind.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: But I know my listeners already know that the Homeless
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: and Toothless thing you So I didn't see the episode.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: I didn't know that that was the actual name of
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: the charity. Name of the charity.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: Bubba made me watch it like four times, and then
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: she's like, I work with the homeless. I worked with
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: the toothless I've worked with the homeless, I've worked with
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: the toothless, and they're like, I was dying.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: And finally they admitted, like even Kyle was like, the
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: name isn't great.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: The name needs some work, but it's horrible.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: That's a really strange name because it feels like I
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: think it's it's homeless, not toothless. Correct, but it's hard
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: to think of because you're like, oh, toothless, not homeless.
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: But either way, it's not a very it doesn't feel
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: like a very kind name. So it's like and it
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: doesn't seem like a very great charity. But out of
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: all the charities.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: In the world, I'm going to get in trouble for
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: this from people.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Out of all the charities in the world, I'm not
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: going to be like, you know what I could give
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: to this person a new smile, a new set of
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: teeth maybe down the line, but I think there are
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: other things that I want to help with. For providing
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: this man or woman without a home with a new grill. True,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: granted I didn't look into it. Maybe it's like toward
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: the end and they're helping them, and but it feels
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: weird and almost unkind for me when it's called homeless
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: not toothless, because it almost feels like they're like, oh yeah,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: well yeah, yeah, yeah, they're so homeless, but at least
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: they're not toothless.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: And then I'm like, that's what isn't hitting for me,
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: it's not hitting.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I was kind of dying, and then she was getting mad,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: and then Kathy's like, wow, they're really coming.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: I really messed up with calling it the homeless, suff
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: tooth or toothless, that homeless. I was kind of laughing.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: It was. It was a chaotic scene. I was like,
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: it made this scene. As a viewer, I thoroughly enjoyed it.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: But the name needs some work. Yeah, I've worked with
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: the homeless.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: I've worked with the toothless, Like okay, you gotta really.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, and then they get upset at ourselves.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: She's like she's funny.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: He's like.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: It was funny. She's not making fun of it. She's
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: just like trying to get it right. I'm just thrilled
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: that Kyle was like, the name's not good.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the name is not A name isn't good, but
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: it's a great organization we to read. She's like, it's
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: a really good organization and it means a lot to her,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: it does, I know, you know, for everything I just said,
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: but you know what Dorri is helping. So that's more
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: I can say. That's more than I can say for
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: a lot of people.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: She's doing what she wants, she has, she's doing what
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: she feels is right, and I'm like, bravo dey right though. Yes,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: it's like when people talk about like you care about this,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: but what about this, and it's like, okay, okay, but
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: like if you care about that, like it's not that
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: I don't care about it, but like this is this is.
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: My is it a niche? This is my Yeah, this
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: is my this is my calling.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and maybe if if you're like really
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: passionate about that, you should go make a difference, you know,
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: and let me know what to post in the link
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: and all for.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: Sure do that. Yeah.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: There's a woman who lived a town next to my
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: town growing up, and her thing was getting designer.
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: Bags for people who couldn't afford them. And I was like, okay,
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: you're too fine, find your cause and it was.
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: Like donate to get her a Louis or whatever, and
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: I'm just like, okay.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know I think that.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: But everyone if they feel they have a calling, I
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: guess at least it's helping someone in living for others, answer,
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: help the the the woman living in Middle America get
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: a chanel back.
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: It's not yet, I'm sorry. Not No.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of things like that where it's like, okay,
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of organization.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: But you know what I don't know it is do
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: any of us really know?
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: We're all just out in these it's doing the best
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: we can. We're all doing the best we can. We
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: are all doing the no. We're trying to raise these kids.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: Put food on the table, fill our cars up with gas,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: send our kids to elementary school, junior high, high school,
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: provide them if they want to go to call.
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: It's just a lot.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: These are the things that I think about.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: So when I tell you I got to silence the mind,
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: it's very intense up there.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's intense up there. It's intense up there.
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So good for organizations. Actually speaking of this is
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: a tangent. This was a tangent, but I kind of
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: like that. And we have a guest coming up that
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: I think people will really enjoy.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: Can't wait for.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: Her, Yeah, so I think that'll be great. I kind
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: of like because this is what most people said they wanted.
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: They loved the tangents, but they also loved interviews with
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: people close to you.
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: And that's what you've been doing to give the people
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: what they want, which is LA, give them la la.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: I just want to make people feel good when they're
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: driving to work or driving home from work. You know,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: I hope they're not listening to this with their kids
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: in the car, but if they are.
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: If they are, we're teaching them lessons full circle. Now,
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: this is what you don't say when you're a kid.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: My friend texted me the other day and she goes,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: you will never believe what my daughter just said. And
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: she's like, five, Okay. They're listening to a song and
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: she screamed. She goes, this is the part where they
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: say the fuck word, so don't say it.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, I guess that's a good job.
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: This is the part where they say fuck, so please
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: don't say It's like.
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay, why is it so funny?
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: Though funny when little kids swear it's funny, it's so funny.
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: It's there's a fine line when little kids swear. I
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: laugh when the parents are like mortified or off guard,
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: caught off guard. But when I see videos on tiktoks
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: of like of.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: The parents like encouraging them, like say it, and then
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: the little kid swears and the parents die laughing.
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: No, cringe, Are you kidding me? Ultimate?
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: Oh no, there's a gross and the parents like say
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: it and then they die laughing and all the parents
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: and the kids like and I'm like ultimate cringe.
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: No, that is horrific. Yeah, it's gross.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: But when the parents are mortified to stay in this
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: sweet and I.
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: Know, But when the parents are mortified, it's flairs. I don't.
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: Then I die laughing.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: All right, that was a fun podcast. I love you
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: guys so much.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: Happy hump Day again, and I will catch you next