Latest / The Two Authors’ Podcast / The Wheel of Life with Adrienne Giordano
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- 0:00I think we all have a two-year-old inside of us that we just have to...
- 0:03I've got twin two-year-olds inside of us.
- 0:08Welcome to the Two Authors podcast, an entertaining chat show hosted by best-selling mystery and
- 0:14thriller authors Douglas Pratt and Nicholas Harvey in lively, humorous and informative
- 0:20conversation with distinguished guests who share their thoughts and experience about
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- 0:29Welcome to the show, everyone.
- 0:31Hope you're doing fabulous, just like my co-host, Mr. Douglas Pratt.
- 0:36I'm always doing fabulous.
- 0:37I can't help it.
- 0:38I live in a constant state of fabulosity.
- 0:42Fabulosity.
- 0:44That is it.
- 0:44That is the word of the week.
- 0:46Fabulosity.
- 0:46People use it liberally.
- 0:47Yes, everybody should put that in a book.
- 0:49So.
- 0:50Yeah.
- 0:51As you run across people you haven't seen in a while, say,
- 0:53how's your fabulosity today?
- 0:55My fabulosity level, like you've got like all sorts of levels.
- 0:59I'm gonna just have me a little level of fabulosity and we should just rank everybody.
- 1:03Well, you're 11 out of 10 every day.
- 1:04Oh, you're so sweet.
- 1:06I put you at a solid seven.
- 1:07How's that?
- 1:08I think I'd barely eat above a four, but you're generous.
- 1:12All right.
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- 1:29that hit like 15 out of 10.
- 1:31So it's an amazing, yeah.
- 1:33So they got some cool stuff.
- 1:34We talked about like the,
- 1:37I don't have a sub stack,
- 1:38but you don't have a sub stack.
- 1:39But you could put like your sub stack
- 1:42and your other social media in there with it.
- 1:44- Sub stack's a new one with one of the updates
- 1:46they did at the end of last year.
- 1:48And I didn't know that actually,
- 1:49and just recently found out.
- 1:51I have my Facebook, Instagram, Bookbub and Blue Sky.
- 1:55- Are you and the seven other people on Blue Sky?
- 1:58(laughs)
- 1:59- Well, no, there's actually tons of people on there.
- 2:01I just don't think they're doing very much with it.
- 2:03It sort of came out and it was like,
- 2:05okay, is this gonna be a thing?
- 2:07Is this gonna be a place?
- 2:08And it's, so I grabbed it
- 2:11and I don't wanna be on some of the other ones.
- 2:12So I was like, okay.
- 2:14So anyway, yeah, it's lingering in the back.
- 2:16- I'm thinking about putting my MySpace on there.
- 2:18So I may do that.
- 2:19- You should. - I should have it
- 2:20MySpace making a big comeback.
- 2:22- It could, I bet the music that I had set on MySpace
- 2:24is still playing 'cause I haven't gone in there.
- 2:26- Still playing there.
- 2:27- Yeah. - Anything with it
- 2:28in 30 years, so.
- 2:31Also though, big thank you to all of our
- 2:33Patreon supporters out there.
- 2:35Thank you so much for popping in and joining us.
- 2:38And if you find you guys get any value out of the show,
- 2:42please jump on there.
- 2:42It's like $3 a month and you get the just extra pictures
- 2:46of me and Nick just hanging out our other guests
- 2:51as we come in, nothing overly fun.
- 2:53- There's no pictures on there.
- 2:55There's videos of us with the extra questions.
- 2:59- It's perfect, yeah.
- 3:01- Somebody might want to just look at us
- 3:02and throw us up as their screens saver.
- 3:05- Fabulosity is worth $3 a month.
- 3:08That's your $3 justified this month.
- 3:10- You should do the word of the day on there,
- 3:11that'd be perfect.
- 3:13- Boom, I've been doing kind of one of those
- 3:14on some of my social media posts having interesting words.
- 3:19Yeah, we could do that.
- 3:20And of course, your subscription is tax deductible.
- 3:24Absolutely it is.
- 3:26It's education, and all.
- 3:27- I'm not sure that that is.
- 3:29I don't know that we would take our tax advice from us.
- 3:33(laughs)
- 3:35- Well, you are correct.
- 3:36I would not take tax advice from us,
- 3:38but I'm pretty damn sure that's tax deductible.
- 3:41- Okay, well, if Nick says it,
- 3:42he doesn't live in the US anymore,
- 3:44So take your chances.
- 3:45- Exactly, yeah.
- 3:46I live in a tax-free country now.
- 3:48So anyway, if you have any questions about it,
- 3:51Doug at DouglasPractice.com and ask him.
- 3:54All right, so let's move on.
- 3:56Our guest today is the fabulous Adrienne Giordano.
- 3:59She's a USA Today bestselling author
- 4:01of over 40 romantic suspense and mystery novels
- 4:04who also pulls from our vast experience in this biz
- 4:08to provide author and life coaching.
- 4:10So we'll chat with Adrienne shortly here,
- 4:12But first, I'll listen to a question from our recent guest, the wonderful Jane Friedman.
- 4:17Jane Friedman, you're a glutton to stick around a little longer, and you have a listener question
- 4:23for us.
- 4:24I'm a little scared here.
- 4:25I'm a little scared.
- 4:26I do.
- 4:26I have been asking a lot of authors recently, self-publishing authors, how they are doing
- 4:33with direct sales.
- 4:35And if they haven't tried direct sales yet, why not?
- 4:38And one of the reasons I want to ask you both is because if you're in KU or Reliant on KU,
- 4:44I've found that some are, they might do a Kickstarter, they might do some type of pre-order
- 4:49process where it's available to everyone regardless of how they shop or where they prefer to read
- 4:54and then they will move into KU after that.
- 4:57So really, I'm just asking you, how are your direct sales doing and what's your take?
- 5:01Because it's such the popular thing to talk about right now.
- 5:04but I find it very hard to do.
- 5:07Like there are a lot of moving pieces to it.
- 5:09- There are, totally.
- 5:10Okay, so I do have in the last year
- 5:13started doing my pre-orders all wide.
- 5:15And thankfully I use Drafted Digital.
- 5:17They're super great about just launching everything at once.
- 5:20And then I know it's gotta go and turn it off.
- 5:23And so I'll do a pre-order wide.
- 5:25My pre-orders generally run,
- 5:26as soon as I put the next book out,
- 5:28I'll set it a year out, but they'll run six months.
- 5:30And then the day the book comes out,
- 5:31I go in and turn it off on Drafted Digital,
- 5:33flip on that KU button. And I do, for my last two, I've actually done them pre-orders on
- 5:40my direct store. So I've had a direct store, but because I was in KU and it's such a balancing
- 5:46act to sell versus not, I haven't really taken advantage of my direct store. So I've started
- 5:53coming up with new strategies in the last two months and pretty pleased with what my
- 5:59sales are been at on my direct store. They're not anywhere near scraping the bottom of the
- 6:03Barrel where I am on Amazon, but it is something because to me I wanted to build multiple avenues of revenue for that same reason
- 6:12I've I've we talked about patreon. I've started a patreon last year. It is slowly building up
- 6:17We have a patreon for the podcast as well
- 6:19But I have my own and I'm trying to build other areas and using direct sales
- 6:25Kind of as that purpose. So I am seeing some some use for it is a slow burn
- 6:28I'm trying not to get discouraged by it because I see it as an opportunity to continue to build an audience that I don't already have so
- 6:37So for me I live in the Cayman Islands. So I'm not going to be shipping any books to anybody
- 6:43It's cost prohibitive. I do have a VA in the States who's marvelous and she's wonderful
- 6:48But it's another layer of expense
- 6:50I would have to have in there and the same if I use the fulfillment
- 6:54So I have a merchandise store which I do steady stuff through and works out great
- 6:58but it's full fill print on demand so i did i don't have to touch it.
- 7:03i'm so i could do that and i've been thinking about options of doing maybe a kickstarter maybe some special editions.
- 7:10But as we were talking about in another in another section because i built my audience off of primarily kindle unlimited the audience tends to be.
- 7:20fix the limited income that's why they're in k you because they get value out of being in k u and they're not spending this extra money especially while we're in the uncertain environment that we've been in for a while now.
- 7:34So there's lots of people just killing it on special editions and doing extra stuff i did a version of that based on one of my books recently and had some vinyl lp record album.
- 7:48made and pressed i love it it's brilliant i haven't sold very many so i've sold some but not many so my v_a_
- 7:57big box of vinyl l_p_ that she sends one out every week or so so i'm very cautious about venturing into that
- 8:08realm because i just right now i don't think i've
- 8:12built my audience around the kind of people that are gonna spend money on extra stuff like that
- 8:16I want to expand into that and that's why you know the dogs ahead of the curve on ahead of me on this that he's venturing into different areas and trying to broaden that audience but i think it's something that's very very much we've talked about a lot.
- 8:29Trying to expand our audience out in towards that wide audience that is going to spend on more of the special editions and stuff.
- 8:36It's tricky and also worth or thrillers and less special editions don't do as well i'll think yet as far as the.
- 8:44That realm there's some that mean like the freedom McFadden thrillers for sure can do that but you know there's more different than action thrillers like we write so.
- 8:53Yeah you don't see deluxe editions of nonfiction books just being put out all the time.
- 8:58Yeah yeah yeah great edges of house of moe.
- 9:04We cool if you could get like lawn clippings on the side of it.
- 9:08See, look at that.
- 9:09We're thinking like, you know, I don't know who's going to read a book about cutting your
- 9:12lawn, but you know.
- 9:14Especially AI.
- 9:15Look it up now.
- 9:16All right.
- 9:16That's a good place to end.
- 9:17Jay, great question.
- 9:18Thank you so much.
- 9:23Hey, Joanne.
- 9:24Welcome to the show.
- 9:24Thank you so much for joining us.
- 9:26Thank you for having me.
- 9:28Absolutely.
- 9:29You've been on our shortlist for a long time from an author point of view, but also the
- 9:34coaching stuff that we're going to sort of focus on today.
- 9:36But give the listeners a bit of background on when you first got into writing and when
- 9:41you were first published.
- 9:42So I think like probably many of us, I have been writing since I was a kid, you know,
- 9:48creating my little stories.
- 9:50And I always had the dream of being a published author, you know, but life gets in the way,
- 9:55right?
- 9:55And you get your, you know, you get out of school and you get your big boy, big girl job
- 10:01and all that.
- 10:01But I was always writing and I actually, when my dad got sick, I had taken a leave of absence
- 10:09from work and I found myself, I was traveling back and forth.
- 10:13I live in the Midwest now, but I'm from the East Coast.
- 10:17So I was traveling back and forth, spending a couple of weeks there, a couple of weeks
- 10:20here, and I was bored.
- 10:23I hadn't had my son yet, so I was bored.
- 10:26It was, my husband said to me, you know, like,
- 10:29why don't you just work on this writing gig
- 10:32and see, you know, you have the time.
- 10:34So I literally wrote my first book sitting beside my dad
- 10:39in a hospital room, which is,
- 10:41it's kind of a bittersweet memory,
- 10:43but it probably all told to be five years to write that book
- 10:47because, you know, you just keep going back over it
- 10:51and you're learning the hard lessons and all that.
- 10:54So I probably, my first book came out in 2010.
- 10:58And I'm primarily known for my romantic suspense,
- 11:02but I do some funny mysteries.
- 11:05We have, I have a co-written series with Misty Evans.
- 11:09That's a serial killer, like cold case mystery series.
- 11:14That was a ton of fun.
- 11:15And I just dipped my toe into women's fiction recently
- 11:18under a pen name.
- 11:19So that was different.
- 11:21- Wow, you're covering some gamuts there
- 11:23- Go from psychological thrillers to kind of cosies with a dog.
- 11:27- Yeah, oh yeah, my dog collar crime stuff.
- 11:30I love those books.
- 11:32- Way to break you into some sci-fi next, huh?
- 11:34- Oh gosh, never, never.
- 11:36I could never write sci-fi.
- 11:38I like, I give sci-fi writers so much credit
- 11:42because just the world building all of that,
- 11:46you know, I could never do that.
- 11:48I just don't have the brain power for it.
- 11:50(laughs)
- 11:51- There's a lot.
- 11:52Fascinating to me in fantasy and science fiction.
- 11:56All that world building seems really cool.
- 11:59Building it would be fascinating and fun
- 12:02and then actually maintaining and sticking to it.
- 12:05- I try to remember it. - And the folks would be
- 12:05a great man. - I try to remember it.
- 12:07(laughing)
- 12:08- All right, so when did you start branching out
- 12:11into doing coaching with other authors?
- 12:13- So I have always been involved in, you know,
- 12:16different writing organizations and, you know,
- 12:19In the beginning, I got a lot of help from some really well established authors.
- 12:25So it was always kind of a, I'm going to pass this on, right?
- 12:28Because they gave me time.
- 12:30So I've always worked with authors informally.
- 12:34And then I kind of got into coaching.
- 12:37It was sort of a backdoor thing because during COVID, like most of us, I had gained some weight
- 12:45and I joined Weight Watchers.
- 12:49And I would go to, after COVID was over, I would go to the weekly workshops and I had
- 12:55a really awesome coach in my workshop.
- 12:57And they were hiring coaches and I thought, you know, this would be kind of a fun gig
- 13:04that I could do, you know, once a week, whatever.
- 13:07So I got the job, I applied and I got the job and I still work for them.
- 13:11And that's what got me into coaching and they give, they give training with coaching.
- 13:19But I wanted to take it a step further because I really saw how this could help authors.
- 13:25I mean, it helped me just in my personal life.
- 13:29So I went back to school.
- 13:31I went to coaching school.
- 13:33Yeah, I got my certification, I think, two years ago now.
- 13:37As you've kind of approached this now, what are some of the challenges that you're seeing
- 13:41authors coming to you that are hoping to solve?
- 13:43So if I've got tons of challenges, I just need to know which ones I need to come to you
- 13:47with, I guess, is my question.
- 13:49Well, and I think that's what's so interesting is we all, it's so different for all of us,
- 13:55right?
- 13:55Some folks, it's time management.
- 13:58Some folks, it's just this business is so brutal and it has such a high rate of failure
- 14:06and it's managing our expectations and just figuring out, you know, how we move forward,
- 14:14whether it's traditional publishing,
- 14:17whether it's the rejection,
- 14:19whether it's your indie publishing
- 14:22and you published a book and it didn't sell.
- 14:26And, you know, just trying to figure out how you move forward.
- 14:31- Yeah, yeah.
- 14:32And you use, I think called the wheel of life,
- 14:34when I was doing a bit of research here,
- 14:37and I thought that was the Lion King.
- 14:39I didn't know what it was talking about.
- 14:40So I had to actually search it.
- 14:42And it brought up this, that's the circle of life.
- 14:45- Could have been the Wheel of Time,
- 14:46that was like the Robert Jordan book, there you go.
- 14:48- I watched that series, yeah, that was like Netflix.
- 14:51Okay, so the Wheel of Life is--
- 14:53- He digress.
- 14:55- Yeah, I do digress, we digress a lot.
- 14:57So tell us about the Wheel of Life, what is it?
- 14:59- So the Wheel of Life is a coaching tool
- 15:02that it looks at different areas of your life, right?
- 15:06So, you know, your family, your career, money,
- 15:11your significant other, your health.
- 15:15And it's a kind of a life balance tool, I call it,
- 15:19where you look at this wheel,
- 15:22I'm happy to give you a free download of it
- 15:26if your readers want to--
- 15:27- Great, we'll put it in the show notes, perfect, yeah.
- 15:30- I can give you a PDF of it.
- 15:32And what it does is it helps you kind of categorize
- 15:37where you are, you go from,
- 15:40you rate yourself from zero to 10 in each category.
- 15:44So if you're working too much,
- 15:49if you feel totally overwhelmed by work,
- 15:52maybe it's a very high number.
- 15:57And it helps you, it gives you just a visual snapshot
- 16:02of maybe where you need to be paying a little more attention.
- 16:07Are you having enough fun in your life?
- 16:10And it really gives you a quick down and dirty.
- 16:14- Yeah, pretty much everyone's gonna go no.
- 16:17- Exactly.
- 16:18- I really do have a lot of fun.
- 16:19I'm just kidding.
- 16:20I feel like you could always have more fun, right?
- 16:23- Oh, absolutely.
- 16:24And that's where, you know, you rate it a one
- 16:27if you're dissatisfied and it's a 10
- 16:30if you're knocking it out of the park.
- 16:32So it just gives you, and we're never totally imbalanced,
- 16:37right? Life balance.
- 16:39It's never going to be a 50/50 thing with work and life balance, right?
- 16:45Because if we're on a deadline and we're pushing whatever.
- 16:49So what it tells you is just in that snapshot, in that moment of time, where are you?
- 16:57And it can kind of help you figure out, like if you're really feeling tired or exhausted or whatever, it's like, oh, well, it's
- 17:05because I'm spending so much time at my desk and not making time for my family or to have fun, whatever.
- 17:13So yeah, I do it a few times a year. Every time I get cranky, I pull it out and I do it because it just helps me.
- 17:19Yeah, you know, it's a self check. Yeah.
- 17:23It's difficult sometimes for us as authors, especially we work for ourselves, we work at home, isolated for the most part, to get that
- 17:30work-life balance, you know, and like that's something Nick and I have talked about on a regular basis, you know,
- 17:35or, you know, we joke not too long ago that Nick's like, "I'll keep working because, you know, instead of getting up to
- 17:39go to the bathroom, I'm just gonna keep working all the way through because that's his mentality is I gotta keep working at it
- 17:45because this is what we do." And so we forget sometimes that we gotta balance that out a little bit, so.
- 17:50Yeah, and figuring out what you need to put in place to get out of the office, you know, whether it's treating it like a corporate job where you,
- 17:59you know, you go home at night, right?
- 18:01You close the door to the office
- 18:04because if you were working in a corporate setting,
- 18:08you wouldn't necessarily have access to that office, right?
- 18:11So it's just figuring out the little tricks
- 18:14that help you separate yourself from that
- 18:17because it is super easy to do,
- 18:19especially when you're an indie pub author
- 18:23because there is always something more to do.
- 18:27- That covers a couple of things
- 18:29that we were gonna talk to you about.
- 18:31For a lot of us, it's a home office.
- 18:34For me, my home office is actually
- 18:36in a corner of our bedroom.
- 18:38So there is no escaping.
- 18:41My commute is three steps.
- 18:44So the good and the bad of that.
- 18:46So when you're talking with authors
- 18:48that are in that sort of situation,
- 18:50and as you mentioned, and we've talked about this before,
- 18:53in this business, we're never done,
- 18:55because you're working for yourself,
- 18:57And in most businesses, you're working for yourself.
- 18:58It's kind of you're never done.
- 19:00And when you do work for somebody else and you go to an office, there are a lot of jobs
- 19:03that require stuff after hours.
- 19:06But for most, you leave, you go home, and you have a personal life, and then you return
- 19:10to work within those hours.
- 19:12But we don't really do that.
- 19:14So what do you suggest for guardrails to help the authors with their timing?
- 19:19Again, this is a totally individualized thing, right?
- 19:23It's about sitting down and figuring out what your habits are.
- 19:27are and what things you can put in place.
- 19:32Right? So if you were a client and we were in a session,
- 19:36I would say to you, okay,
- 19:37so your office is in the bedroom,
- 19:40are you happy with that setup?
- 19:42First of all, if you're not happy with it,
- 19:46what are the things you can put in place to help you
- 19:50separate that from your personal life to your work life?
- 19:55Right? Because, and the thing with coaching is like, I could sit here and give advice all day long, right?
- 20:01But it's not necessarily going to resonate with you because that's not your habits, right?
- 20:07It has to be based on the individual and what works with four of them, right?
- 20:13So that's where the work really comes in is digging into how you feel about it being in the bedroom
- 20:20And what are some tricks and things that you can put in place that will help you to A, feel better about it if you are unhappy about it and will help you to separate yourself from it?
- 20:36For me, it's tricky because the other option is the living room and my wife has her office in the corner of the living room. So we can trade.
- 20:44Are you saying you can't share an office? Is that what you're saying, Nick? Or Cheryl can't share an office?
- 20:49We live in a small place.
- 20:50I get it.
- 20:52There's no room to be actually side by side.
- 20:55Yeah.
- 20:55So for you, it might be something like, OK, you can't physically change it because of
- 21:01the setup, but what can you put a screen in there or something?
- 21:07I'm going to give myself 10 minutes out of the room, however often.
- 21:14So if you're not able to physically move from that space, what else can you put in place
- 21:20that helps you to separate yourself from it?
- 21:24And that doesn't mean putting screens in the bathroom, Nick, so you can work in there too.
- 21:28So yeah.
- 21:31We have a little half bath.
- 21:32I actually looked at it when we first moved in, I'm like, this is a waste.
- 21:35You only need one loo in the house.
- 21:37How could I convert this basically cupboard sized space?
- 21:42- Even came with its own seat.
- 21:43You don't even have to bring in an office chair.
- 21:45You can bring in a table and bam, you're ready to go.
- 21:49- Be a great little podcast booths, but.
- 21:52- But I mean, I have had authors say that they'd go out
- 21:55and they buy some kind of a partition
- 21:58because at night when they go to bed,
- 22:01it's they're looking at the desk
- 22:03and they're thinking about all the things
- 22:05that they need to do and it's disrupting their sleep.
- 22:10So sometimes it's as simple as just blocking the view of the desk so you can't see it.
- 22:17I'll face the other wall when I go to sleep.
- 22:19That might help.
- 22:19Yeah, there you go.
- 22:23Push it.
- 22:23You know, when you need a little Murphy desk, that way it'll fold up and be out of the way.
- 22:26A Murphy desk instead of having a Murphy bed.
- 22:29A Murphy desk.
- 22:31And then it's out of the way and you're like, oh, and I'm not even thinking as if, like, I like that idea because as if I need to look at the, the desk to be thinking about all the stuff
- 22:40that I'm thinking about anyway.
- 22:41- No, no, we just lay there and look at the ceiling
- 22:43and think about all the--
- 22:44- I mean, you know, we're laughing about it.
- 22:47Yeah, we're laughing about it,
- 22:48but I mean, think about how your brain
- 22:52would react to that, right?
- 22:53You're physically putting the desk up, right?
- 22:57It's signaling your brain that the workday is over,
- 23:00the desk is up, right?
- 23:02It's putting in, like as you said, a guardrail,
- 23:06that, okay, workday is over.
- 23:08You know, for me, when I leave my home office,
- 23:10I close the doors, right?
- 23:12For me, that's enough for me that the door is closed
- 23:16and I don't come in anymore at night.
- 23:19Like that to me is enough to signal it.
- 23:21So it, again, it depends on all of us as individuals.
- 23:26What's that thing that's going to click in our brain
- 23:29that work day is over, time to focus on whatever,
- 23:33my family, having fun.
- 23:36- So I'm gonna back up a little,
- 23:37Maybe back up side track just a little bit though, because I'm curious about something else.
- 23:41And it's something that I see all the time, especially with emerging authors and newer authors who are seeing, you know, the, who, whose self worth is suddenly tied to their sales or rankings, that any of that outside validation, what are some things you suggest for authors to do to set goals that they can actually control?
- 24:00And I think I think that's sometimes we look at that like I don't have any reviews and I don't have the ranking is not quite
- 24:06We're you know, and we start especially some of us who haven't been around for a while
- 24:11Some of us who've been around for already know that where we're at we just don't worry about it
- 24:14But what are some goals we can do to kind of set that a little bit more manageable?
- 24:19Absolutely, and this is like this is a big thing for me. I actually do a goal-setting workshop because
- 24:26You know when you set these goals, right? We have different types of goals. Some of them are called outcome goals
- 24:33So your outcome goals are okay. I want to write a book, right?
- 24:37That's the big goal. Then you have what you call there. They're also called result goals, right?
- 24:43They can be outcome or result goals
- 24:46Then you have what's called a process goal
- 24:48So the process goal if you think of like just a regular ladder
- 24:53Your big goal is at the top of the ladder, right?
- 24:56But you're at the bottom of the ladder and you have to try and figure out, okay
- 24:59How do I get to the top?
- 25:01The process goals are the rungs on the ladder
- 25:05So if you have a ladder that has a lot of rungs, it's going to be easier to climb, right?
- 25:12So the process goals are all the little things you need to do to get that book written
- 25:19so, you know
- 25:21maybe wrong one is coming up with an idea.
- 25:26You know, maybe wrong two is setting yourself a word count.
- 25:31And it's setting these smaller doable goals because
- 25:37if you're just looking at, I have to write a, and you know, some books are 150,000 words, right?
- 25:44Like, you know, in my genre, they're generally 95,000 words, right?
- 25:48So if you're looking at a 95,000 word book, that can be very overwhelming, especially
- 25:54if you're a newer writer and don't necessarily know how to get to that end.
- 26:00But if you set those smaller goals and you're hitting those smaller goals, it helps you
- 26:06build confidence and moves you to the next spot, right?
- 26:10So it's all about figuring out what the end goal is and then figuring out what you have
- 26:17to do to get there. What feels doable and not overwhelming.
- 26:21Right. That's good. I love the ladder analogy. My biggest problem is I keep adding rungs to the top.
- 26:27So my ladder is getting longer.
- 26:31You're losing your hold, isn't that the case at that point?
- 26:35Absolutely. That's exactly what it is. We tend to do that as well. You accomplish one thing
- 26:41and then you just bump the goal out a little bit further and it's finding something that'll...
- 26:46Is that the same thing?
- 26:49Is if you know, hey, I'm thinking of it like running I want to learn how to run
- 26:54Because that sounds terrible, but I'm gonna start off right
- 26:56I just want to run to the end of the street and then that that's my first goal
- 26:59But then because I made that goal
- 27:01I think that's the other thing that like Nick saying he moves that goal
- 27:04But it's it's also just a new goal together. I've made that first goal
- 27:07So now I build the next goal, which is I want to make it a mile, you know, or I've never made it a mile
- 27:13But I want to make it a quarter mile then I make it you know that far
- 27:16You know so it's kind of move it a little bit as opposed to the idea that you're moving the goal
- 27:21You're just creating new goals. So
- 27:23Yeah, and what it does for you too is going back to the mindset stuff. It's about oh my
- 27:31Original goal like is to run whatever the marathon, right?
- 27:35So my first goal was to run to the end of the block. I did that, right? And then it's oh
- 27:41Let me keep going I can run to you know rather than saying I will never be able to run a marathon
- 27:49It's hey, I made it to the end of the block
- 27:53You know, it's just it's a subtle shift, but it's
- 27:57it's looking at it in a more positive light because we are like
- 28:0480% and their science behind this 80% of our thoughts in a day are negative
- 28:10So we are just yeah, we are built to think negative thoughts.
- 28:17So we have to come up with ways to kind of combat that so we don't get mired down in it.
- 28:23So let me ask you this because also we can talk about this a lot of new authors feel that way as you're kind of going into this whole goal setting and trying to keep that healthy.
- 28:33but also experienced authors like us who've been around for a while have a, I mean, is there a way to,
- 28:40we keep adding not just new goals, but additional goals on top of that. And that's where I think
- 28:45sometimes we start finding ourselves becoming overwhelmed, at least I find myself, because I've,
- 28:51I've like, well, let me add this on, I want to do this too now, because I've heard about
- 28:56Facebook ads, and I've also heard about Pinterest, and I want to write letters like David Virgates,
- 29:00and I'm just nuts. So, yeah, so what is the way for us been around for a little bit more? We've got a lot more on our plate, we feel
- 29:07like we keep adding it to it.
- 29:09So it's about prioritization, right? And picking anywhere from say three to six goals, right? Three to six outcome goals. So
- 29:21three to six big goals. And then what that does is it helps you just to narrow down, okay, what am I working on?
- 29:30right now. It's about what feels doable.
- 29:34You know, and that's the thing like when I'm sitting down because I, you know,
- 29:37and as crazy as it is as much as I love talking about goal setting,
- 29:41I don't love goal setting because it gets
- 29:44overwhelming to me, right? So I will stick to,
- 29:48okay, these are the three things I am working on
- 29:51right now. Then I determine, okay, when do I want to have this done by?
- 29:56is this a one month goal, three month goal, six month goal?
- 30:02Like what is this?
- 30:04And then it's just about does this feel doable?
- 30:07Because we can set all of these lofty goals for ourselves,
- 30:12but then what happens when we can't hit the goal?
- 30:17We start to feel crummy about it,
- 30:19and then that's when our mindset takes a hit.
- 30:23So it's just about figuring out, is this doable for me?
- 30:28Can I physically write 5,000 words a day?
- 30:32If the answer is no, you need to adjust that goal
- 30:35because if you're not hitting 5,000 words,
- 30:37you're just gonna be like, oh, I can't do this,
- 30:41I'm just gonna quit.
- 30:42- Right, setting yourself up for failure, right?
- 30:44Yeah, and the word count thing is such a big deal
- 30:49in this industry, 'cause there's people
- 30:51that genuinely can sit down and mash out incredible word counts in short periods of time.
- 30:58And there's some that can do it for a relatively sustained period as well.
- 31:02And there's others that just don't work that way.
- 31:05And I think it's super important to find what works for you and understand that works for
- 31:10you because it's super easy if you're plotting stuff out.
- 31:13And I know this because I'm a guy with an Excel sheet that plans out my writing for
- 31:17a year.
- 31:18super easy to put on that spreadsheet. You know what? I'm going to do an extra this or an extra
- 31:24that number of words. And you plan this out. And next minute, your schedule that could be
- 31:29based around pre-orders is locked into this thing that's unrealistic. Right? And that, you know,
- 31:35again, if depending on if you're traditionally pubbed or independently pubbed, right? Because
- 31:41with indie pubbing, you're a small business owner, right? There's all these other, you know,
- 31:47You have to get your cover done.
- 31:49You have to line up your editors, right?
- 31:51There's all these things that need to be done.
- 31:54So it does get overwhelming.
- 31:57And figuring out what's doable, just asking the question,
- 32:01is this doable for me?
- 32:03And it just helps you--
- 32:05I can remember when I first started,
- 32:09I was part of an RWA chapter here in Chicago.
- 32:13And one of the more established authors
- 32:16gave a presentation and she said, "You need to protect your process."
- 32:20That has always stuck with me because first you have to figure out what the
- 32:24process is that works for you.
- 32:26And then when you do figure it out, you have to really stick to it.
- 32:31Like for me, I know I have to do my pages first thing in the morning because if I
- 32:37don't, all the other stuff that goes on in my brain is just going to hijack my
- 32:43brain and I'm toast.
- 32:45So I'm usually done with my pages by 10, 10, 30.
- 32:50And I literally schedule my days around that
- 32:53because that's my process.
- 32:54- I think the majority of writers kind of operate that way,
- 32:58but that's not the same for everyone.
- 32:59I've spoken to some people that have to get the business
- 33:03stuff cleared out.
- 33:04Like it's, they clear the slate so their mind's open
- 33:07to the creative side of things, which is,
- 33:10my brain doesn't work that way.
- 33:12It kind of works like, it sounds like yours does,
- 33:14But but it's interesting how everybody is different and you've got to recognize that well
- 33:18Yeah, and there's people who are gonna say there's people who are gonna who are who are gonna you don't want to fit
- 33:24I don't want to think just cuz hey writing first in the morning works for you guys means I should have to do it too
- 33:30Because that may not be me
- 33:31I may not I may be a it's midnight and I can write midnight to two in the morning
- 33:36And that's when my brain is the best could be that's if that's your process like you said
- 33:40I think that that's something that that we oftentimes say well, you know
- 33:44So-and-so said he's walking on the beach and dictating a thousand words every 15 minutes.
- 33:50So I need to do that.
- 33:51Well, that doesn't always work for you.
- 33:53So that may not be your mindset.
- 33:55So yeah.
- 33:56And, you know, yeah, you can try it.
- 33:58And then if it feels good, okay, I'll add this to my, you know, my process.
- 34:02If it doesn't feel good, you, you know, move on to something else.
- 34:06But, you know, I think it's just having that confidence to lean into what works for us
- 34:11and what doesn't work for us.
- 34:14We all kind of fall foul of the comparison it is right so that has to be something you spend a lot of time talking about with the folks you coach.
- 34:24And it really comes down to what's doable for us does it feel doable does it feel good i think a lot of times to.
- 34:35We don't pay attention to the signals our bodies give us right when something just doesn't feel good.
- 34:41We tend to just oh i can push through it i can push through it right but there's a lot to be said for you know when our instincts.
- 34:49Are telling us something yeah that's the reason that we have those we need to kind of start listening to him.
- 34:56My son play baseball all through college right so talk about a game of failure.
- 35:02And I often say to him, you know, baseball and publishing are similar games in that they're both games of failure, right?
- 35:09So he's a college coach now, but I had developed a mindset workshop for baseball players.
- 35:16And one of the exercises that I make them do in the workshop is I make them think about somebody that they admire and respect.
- 35:28And then I have them say, you know, whoever that person is,
- 35:34that person doesn't like me.
- 35:36Coach doesn't like me.
- 35:37Coach hates me.
- 35:39And I make them like really pay attention
- 35:42to how that feels in the body.
- 35:45It blows their mind every time, you know,
- 35:47because they're taking that moment to just pay attention
- 35:51to how their body is responding to the negativity.
- 35:56And I just, I think it's such an important part
- 35:58of all of this mindset is just paying attention
- 36:02to how we feel about certain things.
- 36:04- One of the other things we've talked about a lot
- 36:06and we always talk with our author friends a lot is,
- 36:09we laugh about FOMO, that fear of missing out.
- 36:12And one of the things that 10 years ago,
- 36:16there weren't many resources,
- 36:18especially for an indie author to pull from
- 36:20to know how to go.
- 36:21The tools were less, now we've got these brilliant things
- 36:24like Vellum and all these kinds of things that make our jobs so much easier.
- 36:27But what comes with all these resources we can tap into is FOMO.
- 36:32There's so much.
- 36:33You can be inundated and there's experts everywhere in every subject.
- 36:37Do you have any advice for helping especially emerging authors filter some of that?
- 36:43Well, and again, it's about prioritizing and figuring out a plan.
- 36:49you are totally overwhelmed, what's the first next best thing I can do? Because if you can
- 36:58break it down into smaller doable chunks, it doesn't feel so overwhelming. So if you're
- 37:05faced with whatever 10 different workshops to take or 10 different classes on Facebook
- 37:14ads, right? It's about, okay, of these 10, can I break it down to five? And then can
- 37:22I break it down to three? And then can I break it down to two, right? Just a step at a time,
- 37:29just making it more manageable.
- 37:31Let me ask you this though. What is something you're seeing, like, that's one major blind
- 37:35spot that you see authors make or these mistakes that they make again and again, both newer
- 37:41and experienced authors, it's kind of nice to know what blind spot I need to be watching out for too.
- 37:46So I don't know that it's necessarily mistakes. It's figuring out the things that trigger us
- 37:56into negative thinking, right? The habits that we have that may not be serving us. And again,
- 38:06It's going to be different for all of us, right?
- 38:09And I'm just using this as an example, right?
- 38:12You know, maybe we get feedback from an editor and maybe the feedback is a little negative
- 38:19and it trips us into that, oh my gosh, I'm never going to be a good writer because of this.
- 38:24Instead of like looking at it from the standpoint of, well, okay, maybe this will make me a better writer.
- 38:34And this is where the hard work really, because this stuff is not easy to do because for a lot of us, the negative thinking and the habits we have around negative thinking have been ingrained since childhood.
- 38:47It's about figuring out what those triggers are and how we can deal with them.
- 38:53One of the things, you know, I taught my former life was race cars and race car driving and for a long time I coached and taught in that then it has its day.
- 39:03But one of the things i can't came away with overall is is especially in teaching is your teaching a process you're teaching the person a process to get from a to b.
- 39:13So you're not necessary you know there's a lot of things you can do to teach especially in a sport like that and use baseball analogies you know you can teach people the techniques of swinging or pitching or what have you.
- 39:25But the most important lesson that everyone has to learn is how they personally.
- 39:30Build a process to get from a to b and i found that's one way of looking at it that you can start if you believe.
- 39:38That you have the skills to put in place a process to learn and improve then it kind of gets you away from going well man i can't do a lap as fast as that guy.
- 39:48Well, you didn't today and you might not be able to tomorrow, but do you think you can analyze the data and work on yourself to get there?
- 39:57I have a quick question, Nick. If you're a racetrack, wouldn't that just be from Ada?
- 40:02I worked in rallying too, so no.
- 40:04Oh, okay, sorry.
- 40:05Oh my gosh. Wow.
- 40:09Okay, Adrian, please continue with something sensible to say.
- 40:13Well, to your point, that's where it comes into the, "What's the next best thing I can
- 40:19do right now?"
- 40:20Right?
- 40:20It's figuring out what is that one small doable step.
- 40:24And then you do that one small doable step, and then you figure out what's the next small
- 40:28doable step.
- 40:30It just helps to take some of the overwhelm out of it, especially when you're looking
- 40:34at writing a book that's 150,000 words.
- 40:37Well, if I can't get 250 words down, how am I going to get to 150,000?
- 40:44Right? So then the goal becomes, let me just write 100 words.
- 40:49Yeah, rungs of the ladder. That's great. I love that analogy.
- 40:52So let me ask you this. Let's put you on the spot here.
- 40:54What's your personal biggest challenge that you find that you have to
- 41:00constantly work on to overcome as an author?
- 41:02Without question, am I good enough?
- 41:05Is it good enough? Is the work good enough? And it will probably be a lifelong challenge for me.
- 41:13You know, I've learned some, you know, I use the tools, I use the goal setting,
- 41:20but it is, it's, and I don't know if it's just something that's inherent with a creative career.
- 41:28I just did an article for Nink because I turned in a book. I'm a hybrid author. I have a
- 41:36traditionally published books and I have my own stuff that I do with indie pubbing. And I turned
- 41:42in a book around the holidays and I was on deadline and I was pushing and I was just exhausted when
- 41:50I turned in the book. And then after I turned in the book, instead of having that feeling of like,
- 41:56"Oh, I did that. I was, you know, wow, I'm done. I got it turned in." I went into full panic mode.
- 42:02It was like, "What if she hates it? What do I have?" Like, you know, and I just spiraled because I was
- 42:09so exhausted. And I learned something about myself that, "Okay, I need to watch out for this now.
- 42:16Next time, to have a conversation with the two-year-old inside me that says, "Take a minute."
- 42:25Relax like you're freaking out over nothing.
- 42:30I have that conversation, my two year old self all the time. It's usually.
- 42:35I think we all have a two year old inside of us that we just have to
- 42:38I've got twin two year olds inside of us.
- 42:42We just have to have a conversation with the two year old.
- 42:46So if we have an author listening today who,
- 42:49who might be feeling like their two year olds kind of scattered discourage,
- 42:53maybe unsure about what they're doing or what to focus on,
- 42:55What's a game planner?
- 42:56What's something you would tell them to do over say just the next seven days to get themselves kind of on the right mindset path?
- 43:04I think too, it depends on what the situation is, right?
- 43:07If it's if it's bad editor feedback, if they're, you know, having a writer's block or whatever, it's again, figuring out what's the thing that's going to get me moving, right?
- 43:21So when things are going really well
- 43:24and you're rocking along,
- 43:26what is in place for you that is making it work?
- 43:31And can you replicate that, right?
- 43:33So it's about just that moment of mindfulness,
- 43:37of thinking back to, okay, when things are really going well,
- 43:41what's happening around me?
- 43:43And figuring out, okay, well, this is why
- 43:47this is not working for me.
- 43:49maybe there is something that's not in place
- 43:52that needs to be in place.
- 43:55- Well, this has been outstanding.
- 43:57Thank you so much for giving us some time
- 43:59and we'll put the links to the Wheel of Life
- 44:02in the show notes and to your coaching and your books
- 44:06and all that good stuff.
- 44:07And we've got one more question for you here.
- 44:10We have a wheel of questions.
- 44:11- I'm ready.
- 44:12(laughs)
- 44:13- Doug's gonna spin the wheel.
- 44:15- Oh my gosh, I love the wheel.
- 44:17(wheel clicking)
- 44:18wheels. Amazing.
- 44:19Have I mentioned how much I love to play roulette? So like, I love
- 44:23roulette.
- 44:25Black, black, black. Okay. Well, you kind of already answered it,
- 44:28but we're going to ask what's the first thing you do in the
- 44:30morning?
- 44:31Actually, the first thing I do is I have 110 pound shepherd mix
- 44:37that he and I go for a walk first thing in the morning.
- 44:40Before I have coffee, you know, we come downstairs, we put our
- 44:44shoes on and we go. And I do that even we trump through snow. It's, uh, for me,
- 44:52it's just the fresh air. It's, I think it's the thing that triggers my brain to
- 44:59know, you know, this is the start of the day. So yeah, we go for a walk every
- 45:03morning.
- 45:04Besides P that's usually the very first thing, but, uh,
- 45:07Yeah, well, yeah,
- 45:08that's, that's your contribution.
- 45:10I mean, I'm just gonna say, but, uh, coffee, I'm going to start my coffee and
- 45:13and then go like generally what I do first thing is if I don't have to walk a dog, which
- 45:17sometimes I do, but if I don't then I do, we'll just get up and I do my wordle first
- 45:22thing in the morning and do my wordle and my little, and my wife, Ashley and I will
- 45:27do our little puzzles together and then I do do olingo and then I jump into whatever I'm
- 45:31working on that day.
- 45:32So Nicholas, what are you up to?
- 45:34Well, I was just going to suggest what you might want to do is get out of bed then P that's
- 45:38going to probably improve the start of your day.
- 45:41No, no.
- 45:41- Yeah, I'm gonna set up.
- 45:42I've got a little vacuum system, it's all perfect.
- 45:44I don't have to move.
- 45:46- That's more than we all wanted to know.
- 45:48Now I'm coffee.
- 45:49- As much as we laugh about it, again,
- 45:52we have these neural pathways in our brains, right?
- 45:54So these little habits that we have
- 45:58can sometimes trigger us to know,
- 46:01oh, it's time to start working now.
- 46:03- Yeah, yeah, those routines can really help.
- 46:06Adrienne, thank you so much for spending the time with us.
- 46:08We'd really appreciate it.
- 46:10Oh, you're quite welcome.
- 46:17Big thanks to Adrian.
- 46:18That was cool.
- 46:19Oh, yeah, man.
- 46:20Good conversation.
- 46:22Important conversation, right?
- 46:24I think that's something we do.
- 46:26And we've talked about this a lot, mindset, just being
- 46:29overwhelmed by everything, because there's so much that
- 46:31you have to do in this business to keep up with what's going on.
- 46:34Just to put a book out.
- 46:36You know, you got to get, you know, got to get the words down.
- 46:38Like she said, you have so many different goals.
- 46:40One to finish the book, one to get through all the stuff done to get edited and then get it
- 46:45ready to publish. And it can be a long thing and we can often just be inundated by it. So I don't
- 46:51know, you and I both talked about this before. So it can be a lot. Yeah. And I think we've got a
- 46:56few shows come in, have come out and will come out about this mental approach to the game and
- 47:01staying the course and staying strong in the course and using the support that's available.
- 47:05There are a lot of seasoned authors who have gotten out of it because it's just become too much too much of overwhelming.
- 47:12This is, you know, it's what you said and it's any job can be that way. You've got to be able to work balance everything.
- 47:18You know, imposter syndrome. That's another thing that.
- 47:21To boat just sink?
- 47:22No, but if it just rocked the side and everything went to one side.
- 47:30I thought we lost Doug there for a second.
- 47:31No, everything just kind of shifted all at once. It was like, huh?
- 47:35Recorded live folks, recorded live. No doubt.
- 47:37Couldn't get the video of it, but that's perfect.
- 47:39The video would have been gold, man, because the look on your face was like, oh, shit.
- 47:44All right. Well, this was a good one.
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