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012 The Rebellion: Your Dream Life Is One Scary Decision Away · The Good Girl Rebellion

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  SPEAKER_00: Your dream life is one big fucking scary decision away.
• 0:04
  SPEAKER_00: What would you do if you knew no one was gonna judge you?
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_00: You knew nothing was gonna go wrong, there was no way in hell you were gonna embarrass yourself.
• 0:11
  SPEAKER_00: You knew you were gonna get every single thing you have ever dreamt of on the other side of that decision.
• 0:16
  SPEAKER_00: What would you be doing?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that decision, that move you're not making, that one thing that just popped into your mind right now, in this very moment, is the one thing you need to be doing that is going to get you onto the other side of the threshold of the life that you know you were put here to live.
• 0:32
  SPEAKER_00: Because your dream life doesn't begin when you're ready to begin living it.
• 0:36
  SPEAKER_00: Your dream life begins when you decide to stop letting fear dictate what is possible for you.
• 0:40
  SPEAKER_00: When you stop letting the opinions of others, the fears within you, the conditioning, every single thing we have talked about in this rebellion series, when you stop allowing all of those parts of your life to stop you making the one big fucking scary decision that you know you should make, but you're too afraid to make, that is when your dream life starts.
• 0:59
  SPEAKER_00: That is when you get everything you want.
• 1:00
  SPEAKER_00: That is when you finally become the woman you know you are put on this earth to be.
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome to the Good Girl Rebellion Podcast.
• 1:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Izzy, and I'm so grateful to have you here on another episode.
• 1:21
  SPEAKER_00: The Good Girl Rebellion is all about reclaiming your rhythm in mind, body, and spirit.
• 1:25
  SPEAKER_00: Each week we are unraveling years of conditioning to reclaim our wild, rebellious, and intuitive truth.
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_00: So if you're ready to reclaim your power, reconnect with your wildest self and rise as the woman you were never taught to be, you are in the right place.
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the rebellion.
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot create a new life while negotiating with the old one.
• 1:43
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot create the life you know you are put here to live.
• 1:46
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot become the version of you you know you are meant to be without making that big fucking scary move, without making that big decision, without taking action, without a certain level of discomfort, because you cannot have freedom without uncertainty, and you cannot have confidence without vulnerability.
• 2:02
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot have what you want without sacrificing something or without feeling some form of discomfort in the process.
• 2:09
  SPEAKER_00: So many of us want that new identity, but we are too afraid to let the old one go.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_00: So many of us want the new job, the new destination, the new relationship, but we're so afraid to let the baggage holding us back in these past experiences go to allow us to create space to welcome in what it is we actually truly want and deserve.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_00: Because most of the time we know exactly what we want, we know exactly the move we should make, we know that one big scary decision that is gonna change the rest of our life, but we are too afraid of what pursuing it might cost us in the long run.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: We're too afraid of what we have to sacrifice to get there.
• 2:40
  SPEAKER_00: We're too afraid to step outside of our comfort zone, to face our fears, to actually see what we're truly possible of.
• 2:46
  SPEAKER_00: Because staying where you are is a decision too.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_00: Staying exactly where you are, not evolving, not growing, not becoming who you know you are meant to be is a decision too.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_00: You are actively choosing to remain the same.
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_00: And are you willing to accept that?
• 3:00
  SPEAKER_00: Are you willing to allow that to be your story, to be your life, to be everything?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or are you going to take action?
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  SPEAKER_00: Are you going to take radical responsibility?
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_00: And are you going to face your fucking fears and go after what it is you want on the other side of that scary decision?
• 3:13
  SPEAKER_00: Because we often spend years protecting ourselves from temporary discomfort while allowing ourselves to live in a long period of discomfort.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_00: We're allowing ourselves to live discomfort in our everyday life and just accept it for what it is because we're too afraid to face that one fear, to have that one level of discomfort to actually potentially get us to where it is we've always wanted to go.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_00: Because you're so afraid of making the wrong decision that you don't actually realize that every single day you choose not to make that move because you're afraid of making the wrong decision is a decision you decide to stay the same.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_00: It's a decision every day you make to remain as you are, to allow yourself not to grow.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_00: And as we've spoken about throughout the whole of this rebellion series, why we don't make the decision, why this good girl conditioning stops us from going after what it is we truly want, why we don't make the move and take action immediately because we are so ingrained in our good girl conditioning because we don't want to disappoint other people, we don't want to let people down, we want to be agreeable and sensible and be seen to be doing the right thing in our life.
• 4:11
  SPEAKER_00: We are afraid of the uncertainty because we're afraid to put ourselves out there, we're afraid of the unknown, we're afraid of what this void space could be in between leaving what it is we know and getting what it is we know we truly want.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_00: We're afraid of failure, we're afraid to have to go home and say, do you know what?
• 4:27
  SPEAKER_00: I took a fucking chance and I fucked it up and it all went wrong, and here I am with my tail between my legs, but I tried.
• 4:34
  SPEAKER_00: And at least you tried.
• 4:35
  SPEAKER_00: If you fail, you tried more times than probably most people in your life have tried.
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_00: You followed your intuition, you made the move to go after the life you truly want.
• 4:45
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, you might not be there, but at least you showed up, at least you actually tried.
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  SPEAKER_00: So many people don't try.
• 4:51
  SPEAKER_00: You have to fail.
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  SPEAKER_00: As long as you fall down seven and get up eight, it doesn't matter.
• 4:56
  SPEAKER_00: As long as every single time you fail, you get up, you dust yourself off, you try again, it doesn't matter.
• 5:01
  SPEAKER_00: You tried, you lived with your heart on your sleeve, you went after what it is you desired in that moment.
• 5:05
  SPEAKER_00: And if it all goes wrong, if it all fucks up, then at least you learnt a lesson along the way, and at least you now have more knowledge, more power, more wisdom to help you get where you need to go.
• 5:15
  SPEAKER_00: Because I bet you, in that experience, you will have learned a lesson that later down the line you can call upon, and you know that you wouldn't be exactly where you are supposed to be right now in this moment if you hadn't have made all of those wrong decisions.
• 5:27
  SPEAKER_00: This is something I did last year.
• 5:29
  SPEAKER_00: I made the move to go to Bali.
• 5:32
  SPEAKER_00: I was gonna move to Bali.
• 5:33
  SPEAKER_00: I had all of these dreams, I had all of these desires, I had all of these ideas of how it was gonna go and what was gonna happen and the incredible life I was gonna live, and it all fucking blew up in my face.
• 5:43
  SPEAKER_00: I said goodbye to every single one of my friends and family.
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_00: I told them I was not gonna be home for like at least a year or two years or three years, and I was gonna have this amazing life and I was gonna be doing all these things, and it all fucked up.
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_00: It all blew up in my face.
• 5:57
  SPEAKER_00: I ended up back home five weeks later, six weeks later, and was then home for six months.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_00: Now looking back, it was obviously I know it was the wrong decision.
• 6:07
  SPEAKER_00: I know I shouldn't have done it, but in the moment, I wanted to try.
• 6:10
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to fuck around, find out, and have fun in the process.
• 6:13
  SPEAKER_00: So I followed my dreams, I followed my desires, I followed my hopes and my wishes, and yes, it didn't go to plan, yes, it all fucked up.
• 6:20
  SPEAKER_00: But if I hadn't have been there, I wouldn't have met some of the people who I've then been with while I've been in Australia.
• 6:26
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't have met Becca, one of my closest girlfriends, who I then came to Australia and lived with for the first three weeks.
• 6:33
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't have had all of these experiences, all of this knowledge, all of these lessons given to me to be able to help me where I am right now.
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't have sat in a women's circle where I had the deep realization that I am supposed to be a healer, that I'm supposed to help, that I'm supposed to guide, that nothing else matters.
• 6:50
  SPEAKER_00: I wouldn't have experienced all of these incredible synchronicities, all of these incredible things, all of these incredible moments, if I hadn't have followed my heart, if I hadn't have followed my dreams and my desires to Bali and allowed it all to blow up in my face and allowed myself, yes, I went home and it was embarrassing and I felt like a failure.
• 7:08
  SPEAKER_00: But you know what?
• 7:08
  SPEAKER_00: If anybody laughed at me, if anybody judged me, then they're probably not somebody I want in my life anyway, because I tried.
• 7:15
  SPEAKER_00: And if somebody's laughing at you for trying, I guarantee they haven't tried.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_00: And if somebody laughs at you for trying, I can guarantee it is just because they are jealous and they don't understand that their jealousy is actually being triggered because you are living the life and you're experiencing things that they actually want to be doing, but they're too afraid to do them because of all of their conditioning, because of their fear of failure, because of their fear of embarrassment, because of all the things that you have faced to make that decision, to make that move, they aren't ready to face.
• 7:42
  SPEAKER_00: So fuck the failure, fuck the embarrassment.
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_00: If you think you want to do something, go and do it, regardless of what anybody else thinks.
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_00: Because if you fuck it up, who cares?
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_00: You pick yourself up, you dust yourself off, and you just try again.
• 7:55
  SPEAKER_00: Because in this rebellion series, we have been through 12 weeks of lessons.
• 7:59
  SPEAKER_00: We have been through how to find your purpose and take back your life.
• 8:03
  SPEAKER_00: How society trains women to abandon themselves, and how we are told to put everybody else's needs before our own.
• 8:10
  SPEAKER_00: How life isn't supposed to be this serious, and how to fuck around and have fun, how to experience the power of pleasure and play in every single day.
• 8:18
  SPEAKER_00: Because pleasure and play and fun are your birthright.
• 8:21
  SPEAKER_00: Joy is your birthright, it is not something that has to be earned.
• 8:24
  SPEAKER_00: The realization that no one is coming to save you and that you have to take radical responsibility for where you are now.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_00: Understanding that you and only you are solely responsible for your life.
• 8:35
  SPEAKER_00: Every single thing you want to change, every single move you want to make is on you.
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_00: And owning that is one of the most powerful things you can do to actually help you along your way and help you evolve and help you grow and help you actually change your reality because you know it's all within you, it's all within your own hands.
• 8:52
  SPEAKER_00: We've talked about what your narrative is and do you even think it's possible for you?
• 8:56
  SPEAKER_00: What are your internal loops running over and over and over again?
• 8:59
  SPEAKER_00: Are you conditioned into talking yourself off every single cliff you want to jump off?
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_00: Are you conditioned to talking yourself out of every big decision you want to make?
• 9:09
  SPEAKER_00: And how confidence comes after action, how you're not going to feel ready.
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_00: You just have to take action, you just have to make the moves, you just have to take the step.
• 9:17
  SPEAKER_00: You have to show up and you have to be messy and you have to try and you have to try again.
• 9:21
  SPEAKER_00: And then eventually you're just gonna get better at it, and then it's all gonna flow and it's all gonna evolve and it's all gonna run seamlessly, but you have to show up in the messy middle.
• 9:30
  SPEAKER_00: You have to show up messily and maybe a little bit chaotically at the start.
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_00: But if you show up and try, at least you've showed up and tried.
• 9:37
  SPEAKER_00: At least it might not be perfect, but at least you are there.
• 9:40
  SPEAKER_00: We've talked about how the old you has to die in order for you to level up, and how you cannot carry the baggage of the woman you once were into the woman you are becoming.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_00: How you cannot step into this new chapter of your life while still rereading the pages of what has previously happened.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_00: You have to allow everything that's happened to you up until this moment to be a part of your story, be a part of your past, to allow it to teach you the lessons it needs to teach you, but know that it's not the story of where you have to go and it's not something that can't be changed.
• 10:09
  SPEAKER_00: If something happened to you once, if something was a decision for you once, you can evolve, you can grow, you can change your mind.
• 10:14
  SPEAKER_00: You can change your mind and reinvent yourself and recreate your life as many times as you want.
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_00: We've talked about why fear isn't always a red flag, and how just because you're afraid to take action, just because something might be big and scary, doesn't mean it's the wrong decision.
• 10:27
  SPEAKER_00: Most of the time, this is just our ego keeping us safe in our comfort zone, in our known environment, and stopping us from growing, stopping us from going into the unknown, stopping us from potentially risking everything, but potentially getting everything we want in the process.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_00: We've talked about the freedom of being alone and being misunderstood, how going on this journey potentially means that people aren't going to understand you.
• 10:51
  SPEAKER_00: It means that you might have to go it alone, it means that you might have to disappoint people on the way, but as long as you don't disappoint yourself, then that's all that matters.
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_00: We've talked about how to become her, how to truly embody the woman you know you were put on this earth to be.
• 11:02
  SPEAKER_00: We went through the whole becoming her framework to actually understand what it is you want, who you want to become, what it is she wants to do, what it is you would be doing each and every day if you already were her, so that you can get crystal clear on where it is you want to go so that you can embody that version of yourself every single day.
• 11:21
  SPEAKER_00: Because if you show up as the future version of yourself, if you show up as the woman who already has every single one of her hopes, every single one of her desires, every single thing she ever wanted from life, the universe has no other option but to put it in your path.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_00: Because like attracts like.
• 11:41
  SPEAKER_00: Every single thing you want is on the other side of becoming the woman you know you were put on this earth to be.
• 11:46
  SPEAKER_00: We talked about how to stop looking outside of yourself to make decisions, how to stop allowing every single person in your life to dictate what it is you do, how you live your life, how you show up, how you prioritize everything, how you allow yourself to abandon your inner knowing, abandon your soul's true desires, abandon what it is you know you truly should be doing just because people don't agree with you.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_00: We've talked about how to reconnect your intuition, how to actually ask her for guidance, and how to listen to this divine feminine wisdom that sits within every single one of us.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_00: And then finally, this week we're talking about the final episode.
• 12:20
  SPEAKER_00: How the life you truly want to live is on the other side of that big scary decision that you are too afraid to make.
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_00: How every single thing you have ever dreamt of is in that one thing that you are putting off is in that one thing that you are procrastinating over and around over and over and over again to stop you from doing the thing you know you should be doing.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_00: How many side projects, how many other things have you done to avoid actually doing the thing you know you're supposed to be doing?
• 12:49
  SPEAKER_00: I know I'm so guilty of this.
• 12:51
  SPEAKER_00: I am so guilty.
• 12:53
  SPEAKER_00: I have always wanted to be a coach.
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_00: I am a coach, I'm a qualified coach.
• 12:57
  SPEAKER_00: I have everything I need to be coaching people, but I've never put myself out there to do it, and that is what I'm doing.
• 13:03
  SPEAKER_00: I have created the podcasts, I've created courses, I've created all of these mini things to take me on the journey and that assist me in the woman that I know I want to be.
• 13:12
  SPEAKER_00: But I am a coach, I'm a healer, I'm a guide.
• 13:14
  SPEAKER_00: I'm here to work with women one-on-one to help them achieve the life they've always dreamt of living.
• 13:19
  SPEAKER_00: But that is the one thing that I've been too afraid of doing, and that is the one thing that I'm going to be doing.
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_00: So if you haven't already, you can come and join me for a six-month one-on-one training program where we are going to go through mind, body, soul.
• 13:33
  SPEAKER_00: We are going to reconnect to our intuition, we're going to reconnect to our divine feminine wisdom, we're going to reconnect to our cycle.
• 13:39
  SPEAKER_00: We are going to go through every single foundational basic in your life to help you glow from the inside out and help you find the confidence within yourself in remembering your own ancient wisdom to make the moves, to take the steps, to truly go after how it is you want to be living in your life.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_00: So if that is something you're interested in, come and find me on Instagram at I am Isabel Martucci, and you can find more information there about my new one-on-one six-month coaching program to help you go from lost, broken, disconnected, unfulfilled to living the life you know you put on this earth to live, to being fulfilled and happy and confident and joyful and radiant and glowing from the inside out, and actually excited to wake up every day and live the life that you know you have built single-handedly by yourself because nobody is coming to save you other than yourself.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: And I will be there with you on this journey, holding your hand step by step through this six-month process.
• 14:33
  SPEAKER_00: But you are the only person that can give you what it is you want from your life.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_00: So allow me to help guide you along this journey into getting everything you have ever wanted.
• 14:41
  SPEAKER_00: Because I want you to stop asking yourself, what if it all goes wrong?
• 14:45
  SPEAKER_00: Why don't you ask yourself, what if it actually all works out?
• 14:48
  SPEAKER_00: What if I actually get every single thing I've ever dreamt of?
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_00: What is staying the same actually costing me?
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_00: If this doesn't work, could I recover?
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_00: If this relationship fell apart, would I be okay?
• 14:58
  SPEAKER_00: If this job didn't work out, am I gonna be okay?
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_00: If I move to the other side of the world and it all blows up in my face, am I gonna be okay?
• 15:05
  SPEAKER_00: Am I choosing from my values or from fear of other people's reactions?
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_00: Am I doing what I actually want to do or am I doing what I think everybody else wants me to do?
• 15:14
  SPEAKER_00: What would I regret if I don't attempt this five years from now?
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_00: If you look back in five years' time and you know that you didn't make this one big scary decision, what is it you would most regret?
• 15:25
  SPEAKER_00: How would you be disappointed?
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_00: Because if you know in five years' time you'll look back and you'll be disappointed in yourself, you know you have to make that move, you have to take that step.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_00: You have to allow yourself to fuck the fear and do it anyway, because you're never gonna feel ready.
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_00: You're never gonna feel like you have everything within you to make this big scary decision.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_00: You just have to trust that if you know you're gonna regret it in the long run, you have to do it.
• 15:50
  SPEAKER_00: There is no other option.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_00: I don't even know how else to put it into words.
• 15:53
  SPEAKER_00: If you have this deep knowing within your soul that you know this is what you're supposed to be doing, you can't fuck around.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_00: You can't act like it's not there, you can't try and squash this soul's desire, this soul's calling, because it's never gonna go away.
• 16:07
  SPEAKER_00: If you have an urge to do something, if you have an urge and a calling and something within you that is burning, this burning desire, it is never going to go away.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_00: This gives me full body goosebumps.
• 16:17
  SPEAKER_00: Because it is never ever gonna go away.
• 16:19
  SPEAKER_00: You can try and get rid of it.
• 16:22
  SPEAKER_00: You can try and distract yourself, you can try and numb, but if you are connected to your mind, if you're connected to your body, if you're connected to your soul, if you are an intuitive, empathic, conscious human being, which I know you are because you are here listening to this podcast, that soul's calling, that desire is never going to go away.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_00: So act on it.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_00: And if you need guidance, come and find my coaching program because I will help you do it.
• 16:45
  SPEAKER_00: I will help you become every single thing you know you are put on this earth to be.
• 16:49
  SPEAKER_00: I help you become the woman that you can finally look back and be proud of.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_00: Because you don't need to change your entire life overnight.
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_00: You don't have to get every single thing you want overnight.
• 16:58
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes things take time, sometimes things take a journey, sometimes things take experience.
• 17:03
  SPEAKER_00: But making that first decision to get there is the very first step.
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_00: The decision is the beginning, it's not the finish line.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_00: And every single one of your decisions, every single one of your big scary things are going to be different.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_00: For some people, the big scary decision might be to leave a job, leave a relationship, leave a destination, leave a country, leave a hometown.
• 17:21
  SPEAKER_00: But for some people, the big scary decision might be to stay.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_00: It might be to actually try, to actually put your whole heart and soul into something, to stay and to commit and to show up and do the thing you know you were supposed to be doing.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_00: But just because you're making this big scary decision doesn't have to mean you have to go it without a plan.
• 17:37
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't mean you have to do it without thinking things through.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_00: You have to allow your intuition to guide you into making these next steps.
• 17:43
  SPEAKER_00: Allow your intuition to give you the plan to help you figure out how it is you're gonna make this happen, how it is you're gonna make this your reality.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_00: You don't have to be reckless.
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_00: You can still be methodical and practical and wise with your decisions, but it's just about facing your fears and allowing yourself to do what it is you know you want to be doing.
• 18:01
  SPEAKER_00: Because if this rebellion series has taught you anything, if this 12 weeks has taught you anything, it's that you have to stop waiting to become her.
• 18:09
  SPEAKER_00: You make the brave decision and then you become her in the process.
• 18:12
  SPEAKER_00: You embody the version of you who makes that brave decision as her default, not somebody who talks herself out of it over and over and over again.
• 18:19
  SPEAKER_00: You become her through the decisions you make today.
• 18:21
  SPEAKER_00: You become her by keeping your discipline, by keeping your promises to yourself, by listening to your intuition and both facing your fears and making the hard decisions.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_00: You become her every single time you choose honesty over approval, every single time you choose curiosity over fear.
• 18:36
  SPEAKER_00: Every single time you choose self-trust over external validation, every single time you follow your dreams, your desires, your heart, every single time you do what you know in your soul is right for you, what you know you should be doing and how you know you should be living, regardless of anybody else's opinion.
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_00: That is when you embody her, that is when you become her.
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_00: You don't have to be perfect, fully healed, or completely confident just to be her.
• 18:59
  SPEAKER_00: You just have to stop using fear as a reason to abandon yourself.
• 19:02
  SPEAKER_00: You just have to show up, you have to fuck around, find out, and have fun in the process.
• 19:05
  SPEAKER_00: Because the whole point of life is to have fun.
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_00: The whole point of life is to experience every single aspect that it has to offer.
• 19:12
  SPEAKER_00: And the whole point of becoming her and embodying the woman you are supposed to be is to have fun in the process.
• 19:16
  SPEAKER_00: You can't be strict and rigid and controlling over how it is you're gonna go about this in your life.
• 19:23
  SPEAKER_00: You have to do it with fun, you have to do it with play, you have to do it with pleasure, you have to intertwine all of your divine feminine assets because that is gonna give you the broad spectrum, that is gonna give you the whole picture, that is what is gonna help you create a life that you are so incredibly proud of, that is so deliciously yours that you are so excited to live every single day.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: That is what is gonna help you become the audacious, outrageous, bold, wild, raw, truly authentic, sexy, incredible version of yourself.
• 19:54
  SPEAKER_00: Because there is not one single person on this earth that is like you.
• 19:57
  SPEAKER_00: There is not one single soul who is you, and that is your power.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_00: So stop hiding yourself.
• 20:03
  SPEAKER_00: Stop allowing your fear to run your life, stop allowing outside validation to run your life, stop allowing every single thing that you are allowing to get in your way to get in your way.
• 20:13
  SPEAKER_00: Allow yourself to show up, allow yourself to face your fears, allow yourself to take control of the life you are living and go after what it is you truly desire.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_00: Go after the life that sets your fucking soul on fire.
• 20:25
  SPEAKER_00: Because the woman you are becoming doesn't appear when you finally have enough confidence.
• 20:29
  SPEAKER_00: She appears every single time you do something the old version of you would have talked yourself out of.
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_00: Every single time you take action, every single time you live boldly, every single time you show up as your true authentic self, you become her, moment after moment after moment.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_00: So your final rebellious act of the rebellion series is to actually reflect on this 12-week journey.
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_00: Actually ask yourself, what do you truly want?
• 20:53
  SPEAKER_00: What is it you want?
• 20:54
  SPEAKER_00: And if you don't know by now, go back and listen to the wall again.
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_00: Because you should know.
• 20:58
  SPEAKER_00: You should know exactly what it is you want to change, you should know how you want to take your life into your own hands, what it is you want to do, how it is you want to be living, how it is you want to show up, and you should know that big fucking scary decision that you need to make in order to get there.
• 21:12
  SPEAKER_00: And if you need help along the way, as I said, come and find me on Instagram for my one-on-one six-month coaching program to help you with a personalized journey for you and your hopes and your dreams and your desires to tap into all of your inner wisdom, to tap into your inner knowing, to tap into this ancient wisdom that you hold within you to help you get where it is you know you want to go.
• 21:32
  SPEAKER_00: Because your life is happening now.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_00: Every single moment you are living your life.
• 21:36
  SPEAKER_00: Your life doesn't start when you get enough money.
• 21:38
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't start when you find your partner, it doesn't start when you leave your hometown, doesn't start when you quit your job.
• 21:43
  SPEAKER_00: It starts right now.
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_00: So act even if you're scared, even if you're unconfident, even if you're uncertain, act now because you are living your life now and you're never gonna get this moment back ever, ever, ever again.
• 21:56
  SPEAKER_00: So take action because one day you're gonna look back at the woman you are right now whilst listening to this episode.
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_00: And I want you to look back and I want you to be proud of the action you took, of the changes you actually made to make yourself proud, to get yourself one step closer to where it is you know you are supposed to be.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_00: Because you don't need to know how the story ends just to turn the page.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_00: You don't need to know the whole staircase before you take the next step.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_00: You just have to trust that you are doing exactly what you're supposed to be doing, you are exactly where you're supposed to be, and you're surrounded by the people you are supposed to be surrounded by.
• 22:26
  SPEAKER_00: And for the very end of the rebellion series, I will leave you with this.
• 22:29
  SPEAKER_00: Because everything you've ever wanted might just be on the other side of the big, scary decision you are too afraid to make.
• 22:36
  SPEAKER_00: In a world where women were taught to be small, to be palatable, to be well behaved, to be the good girl, the people pleaser, the responsible one, the one who plays it safe and sacrifices herself to keep everyone else happy.
• 22:47
  SPEAKER_00: It's no wonder so many of us grow up feeling disconnected from who we truly are.
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_00: We're taught from such a young age who we should be, what we should want, how we should behave, and then we wonder why something inside of us whispers that there must be more, that we were meant for more, that we were supposed to be doing more.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm here to tell you that there is.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_00: I'm here to tell you that you're allowed to want more, that you deserve more, that you're allowed to create a life that feels so good on the inside and looks just as good on the outside.
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_00: You're allowed to glow from the inside out, and you're allowed to live a life that truly sets your soul on fire.
• 23:20
  SPEAKER_00: But the thing is that finding it takes rebellion.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: Not a rebellion against the world, but a rebellion against the version of you who has spent her whole life trying to fit in.
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_00: A rebellion against the conditioning, the expectations, the fear of being misunderstood, and the voice that tells you to stay small when everything inside of you is asking you to expand.
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_00: Because ultimately this is about taking your life back.
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_00: It's about learning to trust yourself, to stop looking outside of yourself for permission and to start making decisions that honor the woman you are becoming.
• 23:48
  SPEAKER_00: Because you don't need to find yourself.
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_00: You just need to stop abandoning yourself.
• 23:52
  SPEAKER_00: You don't need more answers, you need to start trusting the ones you already have.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_00: And maybe the woman you've been waiting to become isn't some distant, far-off future version of yourself.
• 24:01
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe she's already in there, beneath all the layers of who you've been taught to be, waiting for you to be bold enough, brave enough, rebellious enough, wild enough, authentic enough to finally let her out.
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_00: So stop waiting for permission.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_00: Stop waiting until you're ready and give yourself the chance to discover just how beautiful your life can become when you finally start living on your own terms.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Good Girl Rebellion and thank you so much for joining me on this 12-week rebellion.
• 24:28
  SPEAKER_00: If you haven't already, make sure to follow if you are listening on Spotify or subscribe if you're here with me watching on YouTube.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_00: And you can come and find me on Instagram at Iam Isabel Martucci for all the good girls who are ready to break the rules and the girls who need a helping hand and would like my guidance in their own journey to becoming the future version of selves, becoming the woman they know they are put on this earth to be.
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you again so much for listening, and I hope the Rebellion series can help you light the fire within you and become everything you've ever dreamt of.
• 24:59
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you again so much for listening, and I will see you in the next episode.
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_00: All my love, as always.