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Ep. 62 "Domestic Discipline?" · We Talk Back

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Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who
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Speaker 1: talked back? What's up, y'all? Welcome to a new episode
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Speaker 1: of We Talk Back. It's your girl, a j A. Hey, y'all,
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Speaker 1: it's tampam. Y'all know what it is. Y'all know I
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Speaker 1: love y'all. Don't like you. Ain't know that. How y'all doing?
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Speaker 1: How about your weekend? Girl? My weekend was full. I
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Speaker 1: was outside outside. Oh weekend girl, I just did them
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Speaker 1: most mm hmmm um. I had on this little leopard
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Speaker 1: d You know what, I gotta start taking pictures. I
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Speaker 1: don't be taking no fucking pictures but that everywhere, and
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Speaker 1: when I had to beat the boys off with his
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Speaker 1: stick in that dress, the boys and the bitches. I
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Speaker 1: might wear that ship again next weekend. I don't know.
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Speaker 1: You know, the motherfucker's gonna remember that dress. Shot. Well,
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Speaker 1: you know what, I only went to. I went to Para,
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Speaker 1: which is the rest around here in Charlotte, and then
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Speaker 1: I went to like a bar. I ain't seen nobody,
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Speaker 1: so it didn't happen, and I ain't post no picture.
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Speaker 1: That's a shame. We live in a society where you
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Speaker 1: gotta think, damn did I take a picture in this
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Speaker 1: You gotta stroll through Instagram like girl? Where that should
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Speaker 1: again for the people. The hell? Then Sunday, Sunday Funday,
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Speaker 1: I went outside. I went to this place called Stats
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Speaker 1: in Charlotte. Then I went to Um Papa Rozzie after that,
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Speaker 1: then I went to Cloud I just was all over
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Speaker 1: the place Sunday night, section after section. Then Monday, I
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Speaker 1: went to the Hornets game sitting on the floor. Okay, yeah,
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Speaker 1: And then I went to this place called Barrel at
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Speaker 1: the Lift. I'm shouting out all these Charlotte spots, y'all.
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Speaker 1: So if y'all in Charlotte, these are the hot spots
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Speaker 1: right a Monday night, R and B night. So that
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Speaker 1: was fine. And now a bitch, did you just be
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Speaker 1: out here, I'd be living vicuriously through your ass, because
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Speaker 1: you know how my weekends go. Maybe a little bad
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Speaker 1: and speaking, but well, I was in the house for
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Speaker 1: real this weekend because I should. I literally just got
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Speaker 1: back home on Friday from from from what month is this, look,
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Speaker 1: I don't even know what month is. From March four.
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Speaker 1: I just got back home on Friday, whatever that date was.
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Speaker 1: So I've been chilling for the last couple of days.
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Speaker 1: But y'all, she don't really be telling y'all after we've
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Speaker 1: done then she black girl, let me tell you what
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Speaker 1: really happen on the weekend. I'll be giving it to
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Speaker 1: y'all for real. Girl, I'm scared out here. I can't
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Speaker 1: be telling all my damn business might be listening. It's
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Speaker 1: a lot of people listening, you and my business. So
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Speaker 1: it happened is stupid internet news. We have a lot
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Speaker 1: of fun ship going on. Man, So call ye got
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Speaker 1: pulled from the Grammys? Did you see that I did?
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Speaker 1: What do you think about that? Well? How you? I mean,
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Speaker 1: I get did and I don't So y'all invited him
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Speaker 1: knowing he'd be doing the most. So why are you're
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Speaker 1: gonna pull him? He's just a wild card because he'll
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Speaker 1: get up there and be like George Bush hates black people. Still,
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Speaker 1: Pete Davidson, you're better not be around my motherfucker kids
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Speaker 1: with that damn Hillary Clinton tattoo. Right, stop the music.
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Speaker 1: Stopped the music, stop the music. Everybody like burning a
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Speaker 1: church on the stage and ship right with Marilyn Manson. Man,
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Speaker 1: I don't know, I really feel like his antics last week,
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Speaker 1: did not like constitute being cancelled from the Grammys because
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Speaker 1: it really wasn't that serious to me, Like he really
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Speaker 1: was going on and on about Kim not not having
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Speaker 1: the kids that um Sunday service, and to me, Pete
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Speaker 1: interjected and put his fucking ass in there, because he
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Speaker 1: really was dragging him initially. But I guess like he
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Speaker 1: came to the rescue of his of his uh him
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Speaker 1: in whatever, I guess. But the thing I don't like
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Speaker 1: about that ship is like, how the hell do you
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Speaker 1: send a man a picture in Sindu waiting you in
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Speaker 1: the bed with his wife and then you're gonna talk
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Speaker 1: about his mental health after that? That is gas lighting.
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Speaker 1: One on one, louked up. They all playing, No, it's
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Speaker 1: not it's it's par for the course. You cut my
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Speaker 1: head off. Now, look, I mean the bid you used
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Speaker 1: to sleep, but he really wasn't though he's actually never
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Speaker 1: been around the kids, you know what I'm saying. So
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Speaker 1: I think, um, that's what Kanye probably fears that at
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Speaker 1: some point, like maybe him and Kim K will get
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Speaker 1: real deep in it. So um U J. Prince is
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Speaker 1: actually calling for us to boycott the Grammys this year.
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Speaker 1: He's asking Nicki Minaj Drake, Kanye and the Weekend to
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Speaker 1: do a show in Vegas around the same time, UM
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Speaker 1: on a sea written network, UM and streaming service during
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Speaker 1: the during the Grammys, basically, what you think about that? Well,
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Speaker 1: I don't have no Parlem boycott in the Grammys because
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Speaker 1: my boycott every year. I don't know when the last
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Speaker 1: time I watched any of those goddamn shows. Yes, I went.
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Speaker 1: Nikki Nicky always be getting snagged for the Grammys, so
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Speaker 1: she probably like yes, because she definitely comment commented back
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Speaker 1: and was like, um. All she said was, um respect,
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Speaker 1: That's all she said that. Yeah, you know, it's the
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Speaker 1: Grammys even for us. Nah, we make that ship anybody,
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Speaker 1: So if we're not there, it's gonna be whacked. What
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Speaker 1: y'all go? Who y'all gonna listen to Taylor Swift? That's it,
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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift litt whatever. We know. Cardi b As showing up,
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Speaker 1: she even she even rich long enough, you know her
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Speaker 1: ask or be at the Grammy. Someone Walker gonna be
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Speaker 1: there too. I feel like some walk a little woke though.
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Speaker 1: Someone Walker want to show up because BT Awards she
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Speaker 1: didn't go on because she wasn't vaccinating and she wasn't
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Speaker 1: about that ship. So is she wearing them slave dresser?
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Speaker 1: Calling it a slave dresser? When is that? That girl
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Speaker 1: said she was doing not a ritual, but I know
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Speaker 1: a slave dress. You saw what she said about that
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Speaker 1: because people were talking about it. She was like, Oh,
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Speaker 1: if I'm half naked with we've down my ass. That's
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Speaker 1: cool though, right, But now like I'm covered up with, girl,
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Speaker 1: you don't have covered up with a head dress. Now,
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Speaker 1: you know, she probably, I mean it's given her, it's
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Speaker 1: given slave, But you know, where what you want I
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Speaker 1: got move moves, not giving slave. It's given uh, some
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Speaker 1: type of healing, that's what it's given me. She's it
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Speaker 1: was supposed to be like transition, and I respect that. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean, I respect any transition that's going to make
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Speaker 1: you better, right, But I'm gonna still say you're dress
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Speaker 1: a little slave driop you about the about your titty, Oh,
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Speaker 1: don't say that, Do not say that. Oh my master's babies.
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Speaker 1: Oh that's what you're going to hell girl, exactly. Let's
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Speaker 1: apologize to the ancestors girl, because none of them wanted
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Speaker 1: to feed. I'm sorry, I ain't say they wanted to,
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Speaker 1: but that's what happened and they had on them dresses.
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Speaker 1: They coming for your ass. What y'all said, I'm sorry, y'all, Damn,
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Speaker 1: when do you want me to laugh? Girl? Ancestors are
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Speaker 1: speaking to me right now, and they said, bitch sleeping
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Speaker 1: one eye open. The ancestors would never call me a
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Speaker 1: bit so that's how I know they ain't talking to you. Man,
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Speaker 1: it's talking. They called me a heathen. That's how they
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Speaker 1: would have said, you fucking heathen. Oh, that's definitely beloved dressed.
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Speaker 1: On the end of the movie when she was on
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Speaker 1: that fucking porch when when they went over there to
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Speaker 1: rescue over they were the lady was like, we gotta
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Speaker 1: help her because she over there. Whooper. Now, finally a
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Speaker 1: movie you saw, because you know you don't know no
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Speaker 1: movie like that. Okay, so a lotto. She did an
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Speaker 1: interview and she was saying, like, you know, working with
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Speaker 1: men is hard because they want to trade sexual favors
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Speaker 1: for gameful employment. Kodak girl, what the fun That black
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Speaker 1: came out and saying it's not him bitches that she's
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Speaker 1: talking about. Everybody thought it was because he just literally
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Speaker 1: said that ship on the interview. Well, wasn't an interview,
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Speaker 1: or maybe he said it on Live like shit if
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Speaker 1: he if he worked with a woman, they better they're
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Speaker 1: better be fucking he said that. So that's why people,
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Speaker 1: you know, assumed it was him that lot of was
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Speaker 1: talking about. But that's a lot of it. Could you
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Speaker 1: imagine everybody want to see it, they can get a
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Speaker 1: little pussy exactly. Could you imagine being is popping as
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Speaker 1: a lot of is and Nigga still trying to play
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Speaker 1: with her like she's probably doing well better. Yeah, I
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Speaker 1: can definitely imagine it. I definitely can't imagine it. I don't.
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Speaker 1: I don't think there's a woman out here that hasn't
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Speaker 1: been tried like that, successful or not unless they just
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Speaker 1: real ugly. Yes. She said that whoever the artist is
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Speaker 1: was holding clearing his verse on his song because she
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Speaker 1: wouldn't um respond to a DM. That's the wild open,
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Speaker 1: she said, because he wouldn't. She wouldn't respond to the
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Speaker 1: d M. Yeah, like, I ain't got time for that.
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Speaker 1: It's business, nigger. That's why I just I don't even
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Speaker 1: take my pussy out with me no more. I'm put
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Speaker 1: my pussy in the freezing when I leave the house.
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Speaker 1: Cold ass serial pussy girl. What, Yeah, that pussy stays
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Speaker 1: on ice baby. I keep it on ice baby. It's
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Speaker 1: all right hot being there melting all the ship in
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Speaker 1: the frigerid and the freezer. Girl whatever y'all know saying
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Speaker 1: got that like a cereal pussy whatever, cereal cold. That's
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Speaker 1: my heart, not my part. Okay, I'm lying about that too,
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Speaker 1: because I'm a soft bench because you when it come
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Speaker 1: to these niggas, I'll be crying. Well we got oh
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Speaker 1: Coilrey and Nicki Minaj on their live. I'm so proud
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Speaker 1: of that young woman because it could have been easy
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Speaker 1: for her to like not pop. Okay, so I like
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Speaker 1: these It's the only song I've actually was it Blickli.
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Speaker 1: It's actually the only song that I've streamed of hers,
10:26
Speaker 1: and like put on my workout and put on my
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Speaker 1: workout playlists. When I put you on my motherfuck the
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Speaker 1: workout playlist is on. Okay, I funk with you. She
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Speaker 1: I know. I was listening to a part of the
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Speaker 1: live and she was saying, like she asked her what
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Speaker 1: she a lesbian or bisexual because she does give like
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Speaker 1: an andros gyen this kind of vibe like yeah, because
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Speaker 1: she looks you know, you're not a no no, no,
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Speaker 1: I like that. Are you bisexual? No? I ain't pushing
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Speaker 1: before though, but I mean, yeah, it just wasn't for me.
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Speaker 1: After they've been that's been realized. I said, yeah, after
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Speaker 1: I was liking that's when I realized that. I was like, listen,
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Speaker 1: this is not for me. That's not my type of thing.
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Speaker 1: You know what it is. I like a man's touch,
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Speaker 1: like I like aggression. A girl can't really give me
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Speaker 1: that aggression. How do you know if you don't, you
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Speaker 1: don't like beats. You gotta taste like nothing slimery. That's
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Speaker 1: how I know the girl. Ain't you lying because I
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Speaker 1: said you sloped down some oysters like tomorrow? No, it's not.
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Speaker 1: It's literally the same thing. It's literally almost the same thing.
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Speaker 1: So you don't plail me. Okay, crystall all over the
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Speaker 1: stinking hole's actually flow alkaline spring water. Girl. No, I
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Speaker 1: don't need to try that ship. I don't like women like.
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Speaker 1: I don't even want to bitch with. What a bunch
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Speaker 1: of bundles eating my couchie. I'm good on that. Okay,
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Speaker 1: thank you, Okay, seot yourself. I'm joking, y'all know I'm joking.
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Speaker 1: When I say that, right, y'all, I don't be doing that.
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Speaker 1: I'd just be talking because it sounds so fine. Whatever.
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Speaker 1: One day. But that's all I got for stupid internet news.
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Speaker 1: We ain't spend it too much time on that ship today.
12:14
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, we're gonna pay some bills and come
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Speaker 1: right back, stay tuned. So look what I wanted to
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Speaker 1: talk about today, tam so you know, i'd be on Clubhouse.
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Speaker 1: I'm in this room today and there was a clip
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Speaker 1: was being played of ks Kevin Daniels, and he was
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Speaker 1: talking about basically hitting women, like promoting smacking women when
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Speaker 1: they you know, talking or getting out of line. And
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Speaker 1: what did he call it? He called it, uh, domestic discipline.
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Speaker 1: So look I looked up domestic discipline, um, and you know,
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Speaker 1: had an eye. And this is why it's important to
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Speaker 1: do your own primary research, right, because people will play
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Speaker 1: a little shift for clickbait. So this guy, uh, this
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Speaker 1: gay guy that i I'm in his room a lot
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Speaker 1: on Clubhouse. He was playing this clip of Kevin Samuels
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Speaker 1: and he played it all at ten times, and like,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, this nigga is really out here promoting, you know,
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Speaker 1: beating black women up like, now, I'm not gonna say
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Speaker 1: he didn't say that, because he didn't, and we're gonna
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Speaker 1: insert the clipping just a second. But he did say
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Speaker 1: that we should smack women. But when he started talking
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Speaker 1: about like the domestic domestic discipline, to me, that's more
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Speaker 1: of like a I don't know, fifty shades a great
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Speaker 1: type ship or some b DSM type ship, like you
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Speaker 1: lay your wife, cross her, cross your lap and spanker
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Speaker 1: for misbehaving. Basically, the women today don't feel what Sean
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Speaker 1: Connery told Barbara Walters. There are times when the best
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Speaker 1: course of action is to slap a woman. Let me
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Speaker 1: explain what I mean. He's like, women have a way
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Speaker 1: of not knowing how to let things go, and they
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Speaker 1: will continue to push and push. At that point, once
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Speaker 1: you've exhausted all other options, then a slap becomes a
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Speaker 1: good option and you only have to do it once.
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Speaker 1: We have to moderate what we say, whether we know
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Speaker 1: each other or not, because there's a low level threat
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Speaker 1: of violence and aggression between all men. But see, there's
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Speaker 1: no low level threat of violence between women and men. Today.
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Speaker 1: Women are allowed to be verbally disrespectful beyond the point
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Speaker 1: of reason because they don't fear the repercussion. Anybody familiar
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Speaker 1: with the concept of domestic discipline. Domestic discipline in a
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Speaker 1: nutshell is me and Courtney are married, and Courtney and
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Speaker 1: I are vibing, but Courtney know that she can get
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Speaker 1: on one sometimes. And I used the safe word banana split,
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Speaker 1: and you still stay on one after I say banana split. Well,
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Speaker 1: then it's time for the domestic discipline. And it is
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Speaker 1: exactly what it sounds like. Lay across the knee, And
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Speaker 1: at first it sounds like he's talking about being from
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Speaker 1: the lap of home her right, but once as she
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Speaker 1: talks more, you understand that. I mean, obviously it's some
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Speaker 1: level of discipline, but it's two people consenting to this
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Speaker 1: type of domestic discipline up to get a better understanding
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Speaker 1: of what it was. But if you just listen to
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Speaker 1: that clip, you just would think he's talked about whopping
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Speaker 1: his wife right and wrong. So is there ever a
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Speaker 1: right time? No, that's never right, especially if she's not
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Speaker 1: asking for that. Ship Like if you'll, if y'all sit
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Speaker 1: down to consenting adults and say, hey, whenever you feel
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Speaker 1: like I might, I might intentionally push you off so
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Speaker 1: you can spank me Okay, let's let's be clear. But
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Speaker 1: the the guy on the podcast, on the show he
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Speaker 1: was on, you know, he gave me like a little
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Speaker 1: story of how his sister he wasn't even talked about
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Speaker 1: a woman like a woman he's with. He talked about
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Speaker 1: his sister being rude and um. Kevin Samuels goes on
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Speaker 1: to talk about out a time when Sean Connery was
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Speaker 1: on what Barbara Walters and was talking about you know,
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Speaker 1: sometimes women get out of line, you gotta smack them,
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Speaker 1: like That's how Kevin saying started off talking. Right, So
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Speaker 1: I can't think of one time where I saw a
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Speaker 1: man smack the fire out a bit. And I was like, yo,
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Speaker 1: one time, one time. All right, let me tell have
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Speaker 1: you ever seen the movie The Family that plays And
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Speaker 1: when he smacked so not Lathan across that motherfucker counter,
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Speaker 1: I was like, yes, smack that bitch. That's the only
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Speaker 1: time I've ever in my life felt a bit deserved
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Speaker 1: to smack. She was like, that's not he's not your son,
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Speaker 1: He's a kift cart like anybody else like in real
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Speaker 1: life probably would have blacked out and did worse to her. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: So I don't believe in domestic violence, honestly, but that
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Speaker 1: was a one time where I'm like, you know, it's situation,
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Speaker 1: y'all know a movie talking about remember that. What was
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Speaker 1: the name of the movie against him? The Family that Friends?
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Speaker 1: So what happened in that movie? You guys, if you
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Speaker 1: haven't seen it? Uh? Sonal Lathan was married to a
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Speaker 1: black man and she was cheating on him with her boss,
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Speaker 1: who was a white man, and her son that she
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Speaker 1: pretended to share with the black man was actually her
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Speaker 1: white boss's son, which was weird because he didn't look mixed.
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Speaker 1: But Tyler Perry don't give a fuck, right, so he
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Speaker 1: had your hair, your wigs looking bad, and the goddamn
17:38
Speaker 1: parts of the movie like what that, don't go and
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Speaker 1: and she admitted to cheating on her husband and birthing
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Speaker 1: a child with another man during her marriage, and the
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Speaker 1: way she admitted was like that ain't even your fucking baby.
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Speaker 1: You know. She didn't say that, but that's how she
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Speaker 1: said it. And he slapped her ass across that counter,
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Speaker 1: and I was like, but I was only like because
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Speaker 1: it was my friend or my sister. If it was
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Speaker 1: my friend or my sister, I don't give a fuck
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Speaker 1: who she slept with don't put your hairs on my sister, right,
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Speaker 1: But because I was outside of the situation and I
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Speaker 1: agree with him, it was just like dam But that's
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Speaker 1: kind of strange because you know, that's how some men
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Speaker 1: they think that their mama's and their sisters and their
18:23
Speaker 1: daughters are exempt from running into one of these kas
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Speaker 1: minions and having somebody, you know, display some type of
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Speaker 1: domestic violence against them because of some ship they're listening
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Speaker 1: to even more awful to get smacked by, and they
18:38
Speaker 1: can not be able to shoot them, Like that's even
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Speaker 1: more awful. Yeah. Like I feel like men only do
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Speaker 1: that type of ship to women they think have nobody
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Speaker 1: that's gonna come see you about them, Like you you
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Speaker 1: don't do that to a woman who has a daddy
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Speaker 1: who knows you and knows where you live at We'll
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Speaker 1: pull up on your ass about their child. Yeah, don't
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Speaker 1: come out to mic. Yeah. So I mean I'm kind
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Speaker 1: of like, I guess what's the word I'm looking for
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Speaker 1: outside of fum of ship? What's another word? Uh? Ship
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Speaker 1: full of Because I'm I'm I'm playing both sides because
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Speaker 1: I don't believe in beating a bit, but I also
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Speaker 1: believe in slapping a bit every down then when this
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Speaker 1: situation is right, So you on Kevin samuel side, that's
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Speaker 1: what you're saying. No, no, no, I'm not saying that
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Speaker 1: because I tried to stay away from any side that
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Speaker 1: Kevin Samuels is on, just as a general rule a thumb.
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Speaker 1: But in that movie, I understood why he backed in her.
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Speaker 1: I understood that. That's a movie, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: If that happened in real life, I would be like, damn,
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Speaker 1: she kind of deserved that slap. And it was just
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Speaker 1: a slight right. It wasn't like he beat her up,
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Speaker 1: start came across the counter and start punching the shot
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Speaker 1: out of her like some n you know, right, he
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Speaker 1: didn't do that. It was just the open hand swap.
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Speaker 1: And I know you're about to be mad at fucking
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Speaker 1: at me. I am already prepared for the d M s.
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Speaker 1: I'm about to get about domestic violence. But I'm not
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Speaker 1: saying I think it's okay. I just get it sometimes,
20:14
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, So I've made jokes that um like,
20:17
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship where I was so frustrated
20:20
Speaker 1: with the person I was with. It's like I just
20:23
Speaker 1: wanted to rip their head off. And I have made
20:26
Speaker 1: comments like you know what, I see why niggas beat bitches,
20:29
Speaker 1: like once you I lost control and like the words
20:31
Speaker 1: ain't working no more. It's like, oh, g t on
20:36
Speaker 1: the job, training for this nigga. Okay, all hands on deck.
20:40
Speaker 1: But it's not the way to go. I get that,
20:42
Speaker 1: but it's not a code. Yeah, no, it's not the
20:44
Speaker 1: best approach because once somebody can end up, you know,
20:48
Speaker 1: and then then you end up. I know. I remember
20:51
Speaker 1: staring at my nigga, this is a long time ago,
20:54
Speaker 1: in the bed and I was thinking, like, if I
20:56
Speaker 1: can kill this motherfucker right now, I'd probably go to jail.
21:01
Speaker 1: So I ain't gonna do it. And I was just
21:02
Speaker 1: staring at him and he woke up and he could
21:04
Speaker 1: see the terror in my eyes, like and he was
21:08
Speaker 1: he was like he looked scared. He could see it.
21:15
Speaker 1: I was ready. And I don't see how men do
21:18
Speaker 1: crazy ship to women and still sleeping eat from them.
21:22
Speaker 1: You're brave as hell. I know. One of my homeboys
21:24
Speaker 1: told me like, because he was out doing his girl wrong,
21:26
Speaker 1: he was just cheating. He wasn't he didn't have no
21:28
Speaker 1: respect for her at this point, and he was just
21:30
Speaker 1: moving like a nigger with no respect. And he came
21:33
Speaker 1: into the house late. And now he said, it was
21:35
Speaker 1: almost four thirty in the morning and he just coming in.
21:39
Speaker 1: He'd been out cheating, doing whatever he wanted to do.
21:42
Speaker 1: And he said when he pulled up to the house,
21:45
Speaker 1: he could hear Beyonce lemonade loud as fuck at four
21:50
Speaker 1: thirty in the morning. He's like, but the house looked
21:52
Speaker 1: pitch black. He's like, so I was already scared in
21:55
Speaker 1: the in the driveway of the house. So then I
21:58
Speaker 1: walked in the house and this he said. This bitch
22:00
Speaker 1: is sitting in the dark in a chair, listening to
22:04
Speaker 1: lemonade with a hammer in her lap. He's like, bro,
22:09
Speaker 1: I ain never been I'm laughing so hard because dog
22:13
Speaker 1: in my early twenties, my boyfriend at the time, like,
22:16
Speaker 1: I'm living in Colombia. He was visiting me from Charleston
22:20
Speaker 1: at my house. I'm at work. I get offer fucking work.
22:24
Speaker 1: I had a music blasting my apartment. Use this nigga,
22:30
Speaker 1: I went through my fucking college trump in my house,
22:34
Speaker 1: found my fucking list. This nigga was mad because his
22:38
Speaker 1: name wasn't at the top of the list. I'm like
22:40
Speaker 1: nigga because I fuck you first, Like, why was your name?
22:44
Speaker 1: It's not in order by best? Where? Why are you
22:47
Speaker 1: going through my ship? This nick used to hack my computer.
22:50
Speaker 1: Nigdn't even graduate from high school. This motherfucker's a computer
22:53
Speaker 1: genius to this day. I used to go through nigga ship.
23:00
Speaker 1: I don't learn my lesson. I did not want to
23:03
Speaker 1: ruin my own days try into her in my own feelings,
23:06
Speaker 1: like I won't let you do you and set ready
23:08
Speaker 1: to leave your ass or until it comes to me.
23:12
Speaker 1: I'm not going. Okay, Well, let me tell you what
23:18
Speaker 1: I had n't seen and what I know. I let you,
23:22
Speaker 1: I let you live. But you you can't even hold
23:24
Speaker 1: your piece at all. Niggas can't ever holy a piece.
23:29
Speaker 1: They gotta ask you about it. They gotta address some ship.
23:32
Speaker 1: I don't always have to address ship, especially if I
23:35
Speaker 1: love you, like I want to have good days with
23:36
Speaker 1: your sucking ask even if your hope. I would leave
23:40
Speaker 1: some ship in my back pocket until I get caught
23:42
Speaker 1: me something wrong. I was just remember one time I
23:49
Speaker 1: was stevvy. I feel like a motherfucker. I was communicating
23:56
Speaker 1: with one of my old pieces over Facebook. This is
23:58
Speaker 1: when I was living in Europe and I was just talking.
24:02
Speaker 1: It wasn't nothing like he was all the way America.
24:05
Speaker 1: I was living in Europe. He was far away. I mean,
24:07
Speaker 1: I guess it wasn't nothing but to fly away. But
24:10
Speaker 1: I wasn't on that type of time. I was just saying,
24:12
Speaker 1: like just flirting, and I was like, oh, we could
24:14
Speaker 1: have been a power couple. That's what I said. And
24:18
Speaker 1: my nigga went through my Facebook and saw that, and
24:22
Speaker 1: then I had to pull up I had to pull
24:24
Speaker 1: up some receipts I had about some conversations with his
24:27
Speaker 1: baby mama. I was like, exhibit A exhibit me carry
24:32
Speaker 1: your motherfucking asked to sleep. Don't say nothing else said
24:36
Speaker 1: you bad? Now? Oh no, oh, nigga, you mad now
24:39
Speaker 1: Acabad pulling out your gaps now. Yeah, I wasn't even
24:45
Speaker 1: doing that. I mean, I shouldn't have said that to
24:47
Speaker 1: that man, but I wasn't. He did. All I said
24:53
Speaker 1: is we could have been a power couple. I didn't
24:55
Speaker 1: say we could be I said we could have been
24:57
Speaker 1: a long time ago. That's you know. It wasn't It
25:00
Speaker 1: was innocent. I wasn't trying to be I just don't
25:03
Speaker 1: give a funk about that type of communication. I just don't,
25:06
Speaker 1: especially if we're living again and we together every fucking day. Man,
25:09
Speaker 1: if you can bag him, you can have him. No,
25:12
Speaker 1: I'm not getting mad about I think everybody be fucking
25:15
Speaker 1: frattenizing in that way, you know, especially as motherfucking a
25:19
Speaker 1: whole other country. Come on, what are we talking about?
25:21
Speaker 1: What are we doing? Why are you trying to ruin
25:22
Speaker 1: my day with this bullshit? I learned my lesson with
25:26
Speaker 1: that relationship. It was a toxic situation. We used to
25:29
Speaker 1: be get physical when we were upset. I like, I
25:34
Speaker 1: tried to stab that nigg in the back of the
25:36
Speaker 1: head with my toothbrush. I took a toothbrush and like,
25:44
Speaker 1: literally what, I never put my hands on nobody else again. Though, Yeah,
25:52
Speaker 1: I'm not with that. I don't even want to be
25:54
Speaker 1: with anybody. Like if you're with a woman that makes
25:56
Speaker 1: you get that much out of character. First of all,
25:58
Speaker 1: I guess violent were gonna be violent, and um, some
26:01
Speaker 1: of the women in the room today in clubhouse was saying,
26:03
Speaker 1: you know, uh, somebody can only do what you allow.
26:07
Speaker 1: But an abuser is going to be an abuser whether
26:10
Speaker 1: or not you allowed it or not. You know what
26:11
Speaker 1: I'm saying, You got that one time they show you
26:14
Speaker 1: what the funk they about? So do you think do
26:16
Speaker 1: you think abusive people can change? I do think so.
26:19
Speaker 1: And I also think that abusive people abuse people who
26:24
Speaker 1: are used to being abused. Also, I feel like there's
26:28
Speaker 1: a certain type of woman and as a certain type
26:30
Speaker 1: of man, and they end up together somehow. And this
26:32
Speaker 1: woman probably got abused in every relationship she's been in.
26:35
Speaker 1: She probably are like her parents. She even probably grew
26:39
Speaker 1: up in an abusive home. That's why I always say
26:41
Speaker 1: it's nothing to break a broken bitch. You know what
26:44
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Um that ship with what with Kevin Samuels
26:47
Speaker 1: like that rhetoric that he pushes Sometimes I feel like
26:51
Speaker 1: you got these men right, y'all want an independent woman
26:54
Speaker 1: who can All right? Can I stop you? I hate
26:57
Speaker 1: that you said a broken bitch like that sounds so sad.
27:00
Speaker 1: Do we call her a broken woman? But it doesn't
27:02
Speaker 1: sound the same though I said, it's nothing to break
27:05
Speaker 1: a broken bitch. All the bees gotta be in there.
27:11
Speaker 1: I'm not. I forgot you as a rapper hole. I
27:17
Speaker 1: hate you, Yes, fucking stupid man. I don't forgot what
27:22
Speaker 1: the funk I was saying, Like, you stay interrupting a nigga.
27:24
Speaker 1: God damn, I'm sorry. I just didn't like broken bitch.
27:28
Speaker 1: She sounds so sad. Okay, So what I was saying
27:31
Speaker 1: was like Kevin Samuel's like they're his target market. Oftentimes
27:36
Speaker 1: are men who don't get pussy, who probably never had
27:39
Speaker 1: access to the pussy. Day would like I've said that before, um,
27:43
Speaker 1: and he's like giving him like this power pack. And
27:46
Speaker 1: you're not even Kevin Samuel's target market. You're the best
27:50
Speaker 1: niggas that he'd be talking about, Like you're not even
27:53
Speaker 1: the quote unquote high value whatever whatever whatever. But it's
27:58
Speaker 1: a lot of men that listened to Kevin saying real
28:01
Speaker 1: real niggas don't listen to Kevin Samuels. I'm gonna tell
28:04
Speaker 1: you that now. Uh, high value men don't listen to
28:07
Speaker 1: Kevin Samuel's. It would be like the bottom of the
28:10
Speaker 1: totem pole. Niggas that listens to Kevin Samuels, it would
28:14
Speaker 1: be I think it would just be like bitterness. Yes,
28:16
Speaker 1: they've been hurt, they've been hurt, and there there. Then
28:20
Speaker 1: they talk about how women they want, they want independent women,
28:25
Speaker 1: they want a woman that can show up and do
28:26
Speaker 1: all these different things. But then y'all want these strong
28:29
Speaker 1: women so you could try to break them. And that's
28:32
Speaker 1: what to me, that's what he promotes. I don't know
28:36
Speaker 1: if that's always the case. Some of these men are
28:38
Speaker 1: just all right, let's let's call a spade to space.
28:41
Speaker 1: Some of these niggas don't be sucked over by women.
28:43
Speaker 1: Bad man. These niggas been about a woman in first grade,
28:47
Speaker 1: and now you've been treating women like ship forever. Like,
28:51
Speaker 1: let's be clear. Yeah, every time we have a SIMP series,
28:55
Speaker 1: they always talk about some ship that happened exactly. If
28:59
Speaker 1: you don't go to therapy and get the funking through,
29:01
Speaker 1: I'd rather you blame your mama something first. Just say
29:04
Speaker 1: he was raised by a bitch, and then I'll be
29:06
Speaker 1: okay with that. But don't be But I never known
29:09
Speaker 1: some good niggas that then got, you know, ran over
29:13
Speaker 1: by some awful women, just ran through the mud. And
29:16
Speaker 1: now they turned into Kevin Samuel's I don't know. I
29:25
Speaker 1: remember one of my homeboys. He had a girlfriend who
29:29
Speaker 1: lived in uh two cities over in Texas, and it
29:34
Speaker 1: was Valentine's Week and She told him she didn't want
29:37
Speaker 1: him to come from Valentine's Day because her house. She
29:40
Speaker 1: was doing renovations on her house. And it wasn't together.
29:43
Speaker 1: That is not your hold on. It was another nigga. Okay,
29:47
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'll be talking about club house girl. It
29:52
Speaker 1: was this nigga on club House and I was like, dog,
29:54
Speaker 1: niggas really be dumb my head. Niggas. Women really be
29:57
Speaker 1: doing some of these dudes dirty. But it was like
30:00
Speaker 1: something he was missing in the story. But he was
30:02
Speaker 1: saying how it was his birthday weekend and he took
30:05
Speaker 1: his girls to Miami and she didn't give him nothing
30:07
Speaker 1: the whole time, like not even not even like she
30:10
Speaker 1: didn't give him any She didn't, she didn't. It was
30:12
Speaker 1: no intimacy at all. She had an attitude the entire time,
30:15
Speaker 1: basically ruined his birthday and she said he said she
30:19
Speaker 1: lived in Chicago. He lived in l a um On
30:24
Speaker 1: another trip for her birthday, she told him he couldn't
30:27
Speaker 1: come because it was all girls trip and the trip
30:31
Speaker 1: was in Los Angeles. Now mind you, like I said,
30:33
Speaker 1: she's in Chicago, but she's doing a birthday in Vegas
30:36
Speaker 1: with her girls. But he lives in l A, like
30:38
Speaker 1: three hours away. Who don't want I don't want birthday Dick.
30:43
Speaker 1: I said, no, she's just not that into you, sir,
30:47
Speaker 1: that's not your b I'm sorry saying that's the She
30:57
Speaker 1: basically used me for a trip to Miami and acts stinks,
31:00
Speaker 1: so she can't give you the coochie. I've gone on
31:02
Speaker 1: a vacation with a guy to Vegas one time, and
31:05
Speaker 1: I did not but they already slept together like they
31:07
Speaker 1: were fucking you see what I'm saying, Like, that's different
31:11
Speaker 1: at this age, I'm not letting a man take me
31:13
Speaker 1: anywhere of my fucking I'm not doing that. I come
31:16
Speaker 1: with my I bring my couch with me, you know,
31:17
Speaker 1: I bring it with me. I take it out the
31:19
Speaker 1: freezer I thought out, put it in the suitcase. I
31:22
Speaker 1: can't take it on the plane because it's too bomb
31:26
Speaker 1: do a fed exit. I check it, I check it
31:29
Speaker 1: under the play but I bring bag that What if
31:37
Speaker 1: you have a tag in there from ts A THEW
31:39
Speaker 1: I went through your bag and took your pussy out.
31:43
Speaker 1: Who's the who's the pussy garl? I can imagine you
31:48
Speaker 1: digging that. I know my pussy here somewhere where the
31:50
Speaker 1: fund is my pussy. I know where I packed my pussy.
31:53
Speaker 1: Ad was right here next to the block a lot.
31:57
Speaker 1: I do not like how bakaa smell girl, That pussy
32:00
Speaker 1: ain't the bag of rock and my pussy gone. So
32:06
Speaker 1: my perfect man, my puss? What about that? I mean
32:14
Speaker 1: where he's seeing the suitcase righte you on the plane
32:17
Speaker 1: in the suitcase rolling going on. That was my pussy,
32:23
Speaker 1: that suitcase. I was jumping out that window bit catching
32:29
Speaker 1: my pussy. All right, all right, my pussy ain't just
32:34
Speaker 1: gonna be out here rolling by itself, pussy on the road.
32:41
Speaker 1: But I went on the trip and I just was
32:43
Speaker 1: not attracted to him. He was lying about dumb ship like.
32:46
Speaker 1: So I was just discussing some of the accolades my
32:49
Speaker 1: father has, and I was talking about being in the
32:51
Speaker 1: Who's Who of America and being like an engineer and
32:54
Speaker 1: all the things that are very proud of my father.
32:56
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, I'm in there, I'm in the
32:57
Speaker 1: Who's Who America. I was like, oh, really for what
33:01
Speaker 1: when he was just lying, like why are you lying
33:04
Speaker 1: about dumb shit like that? Like it's like like I
33:07
Speaker 1: can look that up, you know, right right? He was like,
33:10
Speaker 1: I just wanted to impress you impress me with being
33:14
Speaker 1: your funking self, And then he just kept talking bad
33:17
Speaker 1: about everybody, like, oh, these people aren't as beautiful as us.
33:21
Speaker 1: What you're not even all of that? First of all,
33:24
Speaker 1: to be there, I'm playing all I don't even want
33:25
Speaker 1: to chatty patty ask man, that's calling other niggas ugly?
33:28
Speaker 1: Like what are we talking about? Yeah here talking about
33:31
Speaker 1: these people around they're not beautiful like us. Yes, so
33:35
Speaker 1: look maybe a lot. I don't like the times we
33:37
Speaker 1: fucking a lot of times we are. But you can
33:40
Speaker 1: easily talk to yourself out the pussy, sir. And so
33:43
Speaker 1: that's probably what this guy did on that Miami trip.
33:45
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I don't get too far of
33:47
Speaker 1: talking topic because when we were talking about this Kevin
33:49
Speaker 1: Samuel ship before we started recording, and I was telling
33:52
Speaker 1: you about this dude in Baltimore, um, because before then
33:57
Speaker 1: you were saying you don't think that Kevin Samuel can
34:00
Speaker 1: really influence people in that way. Right, let's play this
34:05
Speaker 1: clip right quick so you can y'all can listen to this.
34:07
Speaker 1: This is a guy in Baltimore who set his girlfriend's
34:11
Speaker 1: apartment on fire. The home set on fire by Lexus'
34:16
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend Luther Trent, who explains how it happened after
34:20
Speaker 1: he says he was chalked into the crime by his friend.
34:23
Speaker 1: In my head, it was kind of like some Romeo
34:25
Speaker 1: Juliette type of thing where I was like, oh, if
34:27
Speaker 1: nobody can have you, if I can't have, nobody can,
34:31
Speaker 1: or at least nobody in portable. And so that's when
34:33
Speaker 1: you went to her house. And that's when I went
34:37
Speaker 1: to a house. I went to the side of the house,
34:40
Speaker 1: start pouring gasling on the side of the house, and
34:42
Speaker 1: look the side of the house. So yeah, he said
34:44
Speaker 1: that his homeboy told him to go burn his girlfriend
34:48
Speaker 1: house down with her home girl, and you just did it.
34:53
Speaker 1: That just made me think of your mom alive. If
34:54
Speaker 1: your friends jump off a cliff, you jumping with stupid.
34:58
Speaker 1: And don't you know he said he you heard him
35:00
Speaker 1: when he said he doubled back to see what he
35:02
Speaker 1: had done, right, But that's what people do. They always
35:06
Speaker 1: returned to the scene of the crime. He said he
35:09
Speaker 1: had a lapse in judgment. Uh, yes, you did stupid,
35:12
Speaker 1: And guess what y'all and you still got a last year.
35:16
Speaker 1: This guy, he basically got six months in jail for this,
35:18
Speaker 1: like he had attempted murder, all types of charges. They
35:21
Speaker 1: reduced it. He got six months in prison. He was
35:24
Speaker 1: all the news saying this is how killers get out
35:27
Speaker 1: because the system still I can't believe him out. He
35:29
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I'm happy, I'm out, but you know
35:32
Speaker 1: that ass is back in jail in two stupid ass.
35:35
Speaker 1: You should have stayed off the news right for the
35:37
Speaker 1: same ship, not for doing the same not for doing
35:40
Speaker 1: the same crime. But they basically like throughout his goddamn
35:44
Speaker 1: pleadio and brought his ass right on back to jail.
35:47
Speaker 1: He's dumb right, basically for the same time. He going
35:49
Speaker 1: he's about to do more time because he got on
35:51
Speaker 1: the news talking about I should be in jail. Okay,
35:54
Speaker 1: well we got some time for you, stupid enough time.
36:01
Speaker 1: I just actually got some extra time right here that
36:05
Speaker 1: you can have. So okay, I stand corrected. You know
36:12
Speaker 1: you people, But you know what, people will take Kevin
36:15
Speaker 1: Samuel's clips and they'll chop it up to the part
36:20
Speaker 1: where he's only talking about Sean Connery, right, and then
36:23
Speaker 1: don't and don't play the part where he's like, put
36:26
Speaker 1: her across your knee, and pop that ass, you know,
36:30
Speaker 1: and it makes you think he's talking about slapping across
36:32
Speaker 1: that counter, like what if you're popping your ass too
36:35
Speaker 1: hard to where you can't sit down the next day. No, bit, No,
36:42
Speaker 1: he was beating me like when my mama used to
36:44
Speaker 1: beat me as a kid like that kind of like
36:47
Speaker 1: where nobody can see the bruisers. My great grandma used
36:51
Speaker 1: to put that elbow in that forearm across the front
36:54
Speaker 1: of my back and spank my ass and where I
36:58
Speaker 1: couldn't get up from misbehavior. I deserve that ship, though
37:01
Speaker 1: I was. Tell me one thing that I used to man,
37:04
Speaker 1: I used to I was I was stripped naked and
37:08
Speaker 1: run out the front door of the house and run
37:10
Speaker 1: around the hand and she couldn't catch me because she
37:13
Speaker 1: was old, and she'd be like, oh, when I catch
37:16
Speaker 1: your ass, I'm gonna turn you every which away. But
37:19
Speaker 1: hope I have enough so my kid could run around
37:23
Speaker 1: naked like that really feels good to run out having
37:26
Speaker 1: did I used to love that like close our soul.
37:28
Speaker 1: It be time for me to get into up and
37:30
Speaker 1: I just run around? Or did I do ship like this?
37:33
Speaker 1: Like she she only had a second grade school education, right,
37:36
Speaker 1: so she she could read, but she wasn't the best reader, right.
37:39
Speaker 1: And I remember I had this book and it was
37:42
Speaker 1: called kick Pass and Run, right, and it was just
37:45
Speaker 1: like a little children's book about playing football and out
37:49
Speaker 1: and it said kick passed and run like lined up.
37:53
Speaker 1: So I put my thumb over the p and I
37:55
Speaker 1: was like, Grandma, what the name of this book? And
37:58
Speaker 1: she was like, kid, what they're giving y'all? School? You
38:06
Speaker 1: made the whole fucking life? Yo? What is that? That is? Hell?
38:11
Speaker 1: I know you definitely get your ass. Ya who does
38:18
Speaker 1: that to their grandmama? Oh? You mean that was bad
38:22
Speaker 1: to him? That's my great grandma? Yo? What is spelled? Grandma?
38:33
Speaker 1: I know you can't read that good. It's not about
38:35
Speaker 1: the funk with you, yo. Oh God forgive me all right?
38:42
Speaker 1: So tam, I know. So this is we missed this.
38:45
Speaker 1: I think I wanted to talk about this earlier on.
38:48
Speaker 1: But it was a clip with this girl saying how
38:51
Speaker 1: she took her her baby daddy off child support and
38:55
Speaker 1: you know, she basically like trying to help him start
38:58
Speaker 1: a rucking company. As far as I'm concerned, I'm cool
39:01
Speaker 1: with that. The only thing I didn't like in the
39:02
Speaker 1: clip is that little thing. So I decided to take
39:06
Speaker 1: my son's father off the child support because it was
39:08
Speaker 1: causing turmoil and our co parenting relationship recently. You know,
39:13
Speaker 1: I looked up a few places for him to get
39:15
Speaker 1: his CDL so that he could possibly start his own
39:18
Speaker 1: trucking company, or he can even carry loads and make
39:23
Speaker 1: money for himself. What I decided was, you know what, britty,
39:26
Speaker 1: let me change my mind set, let me help him
39:30
Speaker 1: help us take care of our child. And that's co parenting.
39:35
Speaker 1: So what's wrong with it? Uh? Because that little ding
39:39
Speaker 1: to me, it's like a light bulb for other women.
39:42
Speaker 1: That's how I took that, like, well, what's wrong with that? Know,
39:46
Speaker 1: your situation is your particular situation. There are a lot
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Speaker 1: of men that may take, you know, super advantage of that,
39:52
Speaker 1: and when peter child support, don't you take them off?
39:54
Speaker 1: I'm not listen to me personally, when I have a
39:56
Speaker 1: child with somebody, especially at this age, I don't want
39:59
Speaker 1: to be with that for and they ain't know splitting
40:01
Speaker 1: up and in that bullshit. Well, I think a woman
40:04
Speaker 1: has to obviously, do you know, you have to use
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Speaker 1: some discern to know like maybe this this man is
40:10
Speaker 1: the type of man that if I do this, he
40:12
Speaker 1: is going, that's not everybody's going to help us both, yeah,
40:16
Speaker 1: you know, and as a woman, you're gonna have to
40:17
Speaker 1: have that discernment, you know. So it's okay for it
40:20
Speaker 1: to be a light, but for the people it should
40:22
Speaker 1: be a light before. But you can't say that as
40:24
Speaker 1: a as as like as if it's like a matter
40:26
Speaker 1: of fact type thing, because your situation is your situation.
40:29
Speaker 1: Like I said, like somebody else's baby daddy, they don't
40:34
Speaker 1: even pay the child support. They're wrong. So imagine taking
40:37
Speaker 1: him off child support. There's no repercussions for not taking
40:39
Speaker 1: care of your kids. Well, that would be dumb. You know,
40:43
Speaker 1: he don't do the right thing. Yeah, But for the
40:46
Speaker 1: one she was sounding is this as if if I
40:49
Speaker 1: take him off the child support and then help him
40:52
Speaker 1: start a business, then he can help us take care
40:55
Speaker 1: of my child, take care of our child. That's what
40:57
Speaker 1: it sounded like to me. So you're about to go,
41:00
Speaker 1: that's what she was saying. So we're building up. That's
41:02
Speaker 1: a super builder. Are you his mother or his baby mama?
41:07
Speaker 1: I mean, what's wrong with helping your nigga be? I mean,
41:10
Speaker 1: y'all got a kid together? So ultimately, helping him is
41:13
Speaker 1: helping you. But you but what about helping helping himself?
41:17
Speaker 1: I guess I need more context. I need more context
41:20
Speaker 1: before you put a ding in there, as if there's
41:22
Speaker 1: a lot a lot of women out here who are
41:24
Speaker 1: in your very same situation with capable men who just
41:28
Speaker 1: aren't aren't, aren't or are doing There are a lot
41:31
Speaker 1: of men, Yeah, there are a lot of I know
41:34
Speaker 1: something you don't. I only know something like I know
41:36
Speaker 1: some men who are doing a thousand times better now
41:40
Speaker 1: and they may have asked like like I have a
41:42
Speaker 1: friend who was going through like truck and school and
41:44
Speaker 1: ship like that, and he had asked his baby mom
41:47
Speaker 1: to take him off child support. At the time, he
41:49
Speaker 1: always took care of his kid. He had asked her
41:52
Speaker 1: to take him off of child support because he wasn't
41:54
Speaker 1: working at the time, and she told him no. So
41:58
Speaker 1: now he's married, Oh he continue. He just struggled. He
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Speaker 1: just struggled and just paid it. So and it wasn't
42:05
Speaker 1: because she didn't think that he wasn't a good dad
42:07
Speaker 1: that would still come through. It's because he was in
42:10
Speaker 1: a relationship with another woman at the time who had
42:13
Speaker 1: a child. So you see that's how you create a
42:18
Speaker 1: Kevin Samuel Seen. And then now their son is in college,
42:23
Speaker 1: so there's no more child support. Once the child turns eighteen,
42:27
Speaker 1: he continues to pay child support because his son is
42:29
Speaker 1: in school. Now, I mean, he you know, helps his
42:31
Speaker 1: son more. But she's like she's still a bitter bit.
42:35
Speaker 1: So I understand that in some situations. But I'm just
42:37
Speaker 1: saying for that, but like for that clip, that's not
42:40
Speaker 1: every woman's situation. And neither one of us have kids,
42:43
Speaker 1: so that's a sensitive little thing. I know. I have friends,
42:46
Speaker 1: My best friend actually her daughter is my second cousin's child,
42:53
Speaker 1: and there's a high school baby, like she had her
42:57
Speaker 1: daughter when we were when we was in high school,
42:59
Speaker 1: and and she ended up taking her baby daddy to
43:01
Speaker 1: court only because this nigga was calling calling their daughter like, yeah,
43:08
Speaker 1: I'd be sending your mama money, She'd be spending the
43:10
Speaker 1: money on what she want to spend on. Lying was
43:13
Speaker 1: never sending any money. So then she took him to
43:16
Speaker 1: court for back child support. And in court, so now
43:20
Speaker 1: she pulls up looking like the grown woman that she is,
43:22
Speaker 1: and he pulls up looking like he's still in high school,
43:25
Speaker 1: busting the sag looking bad. She was embarrassed that that
43:28
Speaker 1: was her baby daddy, And he tells the judge look
43:33
Speaker 1: at her. She got money. That's what he told the
43:36
Speaker 1: judge him over the phone, like why are you counting
43:42
Speaker 1: my pocket, sir as if you're not supposed to contribute,
43:45
Speaker 1: contribute to the welfare of your child, just because I
43:49
Speaker 1: got it. And a lot of men be calculating a
43:51
Speaker 1: baby mama pocket and like even men who pay like
43:54
Speaker 1: the hundred dollars every week or hunt like especially if
43:57
Speaker 1: you have a small child, that's no money. Didn't care,
44:00
Speaker 1: it's rent right it is. I need to start me
44:04
Speaker 1: a data get them ABC vouching bang right. But I
44:09
Speaker 1: don't funk with kids enough to have no eight or
44:11
Speaker 1: no damn. I like his. I like to give him
44:15
Speaker 1: back sooner. Yeah, I like his too, But I'm just
44:19
Speaker 1: not I couldn't have a daycare center if I think
44:23
Speaker 1: about it. They'd be like, why did my baby have
44:28
Speaker 1: wheat nuggets in his scamper? How did they get that
44:33
Speaker 1: said nuggets? M you about to lose your job. You're
44:41
Speaker 1: about to your job, and you're about to get this
44:44
Speaker 1: day the jail in hell, you're going to jail man yo, No,
44:53
Speaker 1: I'm joking. It just would be too many babies. I
44:55
Speaker 1: could watch one or two. You know I could do
44:57
Speaker 1: it too, man, so I can keep on. I don't
44:59
Speaker 1: know that's a listen. I shout out to everybody who
45:02
Speaker 1: works in childcare of any sort. Teachers, fucking daycare singers, man,
45:09
Speaker 1: y'all want to go. They got patience. That that patience is.
45:13
Speaker 1: I won't say that. Let me back the funk up
45:15
Speaker 1: for a second. I was abused in day here, like
45:19
Speaker 1: for real abuse. Did I ever tell you about that? Listen?
45:23
Speaker 1: And I worked in my family's restaurant a couple of
45:25
Speaker 1: weeks ago, and my abuser came through the motherfucking lunch line.
45:30
Speaker 1: I didn't seen nothing. I kept my mask on so
45:31
Speaker 1: she didn't know it was me. Her son went to
45:33
Speaker 1: school with us too, He went to benneting. He was
45:35
Speaker 1: like into our fisher. I'm still standing. I'm still strong, y'all.
45:40
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what this bit used to do.
45:42
Speaker 1: And she looks so old and decrepit now, like see
45:46
Speaker 1: how life did your motherfucking ask for abusing me? Girl?
45:49
Speaker 1: My mom used to stop and stopped the burger king
45:51
Speaker 1: every morning for me and my cousin and get us, uh,
45:53
Speaker 1: the fucking sausageack and cheese croissans, and we would get
45:57
Speaker 1: powdered doughnuts from Crispy Kream. She would cut my sandwich
46:01
Speaker 1: in half, cut my cousin sandwich in half, take one
46:04
Speaker 1: of my powder donuts and give to her son. Take
46:06
Speaker 1: the other one from my cousin, and he has a
46:08
Speaker 1: whole sandwich, and she doesn't cut off shot half. She
46:11
Speaker 1: had put my head underneath the water in the bathroom
46:14
Speaker 1: one day. In the sink. They would beat us with
46:17
Speaker 1: this big gass brush on our knuckles. She's putting your hand. Yeah, oter, goddamn,
46:24
Speaker 1: that was military tactics. Did you know some information exactly? Girl,
46:28
Speaker 1: like for real abuse. I was just telling my friend
46:31
Speaker 1: about that ship this weekend. He was like, not the sandwich, y'all.
46:34
Speaker 1: Didn't need to be eating that every morning. She probably
46:37
Speaker 1: did you, yes, because her from the sun and fat.
46:39
Speaker 1: Since we've made babies, you hear me that nyt get
46:42
Speaker 1: big as a house. Though to this day she did
46:47
Speaker 1: your favor and your mama was wrong for feet back
46:50
Speaker 1: in the day. Back in the day, Burger King was like,
46:53
Speaker 1: it's a matter of fact, Burger King did remove a
46:56
Speaker 1: lot of preservatives from their menu earlier this year. All
47:00
Speaker 1: so but back and again, you know that stuff used
47:02
Speaker 1: to be fresh as hell. We probably was eating real
47:04
Speaker 1: food back then. Yeah, we was probably eating better, actually
47:08
Speaker 1: eating it. And then I remember, like I spent a
47:11
Speaker 1: lot of my life inhaling cigarettes, smoke in restaurants because
47:15
Speaker 1: it used to be okay. You know. So could you
47:17
Speaker 1: imagine people who smoke cigarettes on the airplane, Like, what
47:19
Speaker 1: the fuck? In the hospital. It's crazy, that's real, wicked, man.
47:25
Speaker 1: We got set up for a lot of ship you know,
47:27
Speaker 1: I was watching that and I'm trying to get these
47:29
Speaker 1: people on the show. I was watching that bad Vegan
47:32
Speaker 1: uh show on Netflix? Have you seen that? I really thought,
47:37
Speaker 1: I really think the government was after her because she
47:40
Speaker 1: was doing she was doing wait before anybody else, dog
47:45
Speaker 1: healthy eating in early two thousand's, that's when she was
47:50
Speaker 1: getting We just need to start a new segment called
47:52
Speaker 1: a coming soon anyway. Look, we're gonna do one more
47:58
Speaker 1: commercial break and we'll be back with dumb bitch stories.
48:04
Speaker 1: Dumb bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch
48:08
Speaker 1: at least it once or twice. Al Right, So today's
48:13
Speaker 1: dumb bit story says, hey, aj and Tam Bam. I
48:15
Speaker 1: have a lot going on right now. I caught my
48:18
Speaker 1: boyfriend cheating last month, and instead of leaving, I slept
48:23
Speaker 1: with my ex that I had basically been sexting for
48:26
Speaker 1: the last few months. Shortly thereafter, something didn't feel right
48:30
Speaker 1: and I went to the doctor and found out I
48:32
Speaker 1: contracted lamidia and gna rhea. I did you hear that
48:38
Speaker 1: ship right? Pus go ahead, fish fish scale. I did
48:44
Speaker 1: sleep with my boyfriend after he cheated, so I'm not
48:47
Speaker 1: sure where it came from. I'm too scared and ashamed
48:50
Speaker 1: of myself to tell either of them, but I have
48:53
Speaker 1: to do it immediately for obvious reasons. I have completed
48:57
Speaker 1: my meds and avoiding sex with my boyfriend. If he
49:01
Speaker 1: has something, wouldn't he be experiencing symptoms by now? Can
49:05
Speaker 1: y'all tell him? I ain't telling him nothing. I'm staying
49:08
Speaker 1: like I'm not even saying her name. This is one
49:12
Speaker 1: about Instagram listeners. Girl, girl, you know what you're saying, like,
49:19
Speaker 1: why did I get married? I already got a shot.
49:22
Speaker 1: I was just waiting on you to say. See I
49:27
Speaker 1: watched that movie too, look at you? Two movies today
49:30
Speaker 1: and you're doing something, girl. I don't know what to
49:33
Speaker 1: tell you, but you have to tell him if you
49:35
Speaker 1: plan on staying with him, because you're gonna you're gonna
49:37
Speaker 1: catch that again. If he hasn't been to the doctor.
49:40
Speaker 1: That's what she's saying. She went to the doctor and
49:43
Speaker 1: took med's. She hasn't told either one of the guys
49:46
Speaker 1: that she had a disease. I don't know what she
49:49
Speaker 1: needs to do because I wouldn't tell my mother. How
49:51
Speaker 1: she just gonna keep she how she know she she
49:54
Speaker 1: got it from her, She might have got it from him.
49:57
Speaker 1: She either got it from her boyfriend or her ex boyfriend. Basically,
50:01
Speaker 1: she doesn't know which one of them. But those only
50:04
Speaker 1: two people she slept with, and neither one of them,
50:07
Speaker 1: basically based on her based on her message, neither one
50:10
Speaker 1: of them have said anything to her about having any
50:12
Speaker 1: symptoms because they think they got it from exactly. So
50:19
Speaker 1: I really, okay, let me tell you what I would do.
50:21
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, girl. I would just accuse both of
50:23
Speaker 1: them and make them make both of them feel shitty.
50:26
Speaker 1: You already caught this naked cheating, right your ex didn't
50:30
Speaker 1: catch you cheating, But then it's gonna be fucked up.
50:32
Speaker 1: If your man at the house don't have nothing when
50:34
Speaker 1: he goes to the doctor, then you're gonna know it
50:37
Speaker 1: came from your ex. No right, But he also gonna
50:41
Speaker 1: be wondering where I had to funk your pussy exactly.
50:43
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Why your pussy smell like that?
50:46
Speaker 1: But if you ain't get it from me, you just
50:49
Speaker 1: gotta come clean. You gotta tell your boyfriend. Yes she does, Like,
50:52
Speaker 1: how do you explain having the STD if you didn't
50:54
Speaker 1: cheat on your man and he doesn't have it? He
50:57
Speaker 1: she said, she that went through her mans and she good. Now, okay,
51:01
Speaker 1: but somebody else has the disease. It's either her boyfriend
51:06
Speaker 1: and you already know men will sit around listen ship fester.
51:09
Speaker 1: She sleeps with him again, get it again? So stop
51:12
Speaker 1: having sex with her aunts and just have sex with
51:15
Speaker 1: her boyfriend. And if she get it again, then why
51:20
Speaker 1: are we doing this? I would say, baby, I don't
51:24
Speaker 1: know what I felt, some type of it. I was
51:26
Speaker 1: so vulnerable. I have to find out you cheated on me.
51:29
Speaker 1: I slept with Joseph, not Joseph. He having Samuel's your ass, bitch, girl.
51:43
Speaker 1: We type evil Okay, she has to tell them listen.
51:50
Speaker 1: I'm not listen. I don't I don't know what to
51:52
Speaker 1: tell you. But if it were me, if I had,
51:55
Speaker 1: you know, had this issue, I'd just be honest with
51:58
Speaker 1: who would every with all parties that ship? I mean,
52:01
Speaker 1: it does more harm to a woman's body for sure,
52:04
Speaker 1: clamidia and stuff like that, because you, you know, you
52:07
Speaker 1: sunk up your reproductive system. But if you listen, ship
52:11
Speaker 1: like that fester. But men, you know whatever, they just
52:15
Speaker 1: go on about their life. They take their pill or whatever,
52:17
Speaker 1: might have a little burned dickhead or whatever, but they live.
52:21
Speaker 1: So just make him breakfast, tell him like, I really
52:26
Speaker 1: want to show you that you're special to me, and
52:28
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I vow and make you breakfast every day
52:31
Speaker 1: this week and just crush up a peel in his
52:33
Speaker 1: juice all weeks. You know. The worst part is one
52:39
Speaker 1: of my friends doctors definitely prescribed her enough mad's for
52:43
Speaker 1: her and her boyfriend before. Yeah, so she probably could
52:48
Speaker 1: call her got in colleges and get some extra mads
52:50
Speaker 1: for her boyfriend and definitely they do that. They had
52:57
Speaker 1: a home boy said he got put playing being a
52:59
Speaker 1: bitch food before. Why am I said, was taste like that.
53:08
Speaker 1: That bite was weird. You said it was a blt
53:12
Speaker 1: It was crunchy in that little bit. That was our plan,
53:15
Speaker 1: you know, chewed up a plan that's wicked. I don't know.
53:20
Speaker 1: We wish you the best, though, Listen to a j
53:23
Speaker 1: Don't take my advice. I just can tell me jokes.
53:25
Speaker 1: I don't want you to. She just out here burning.
53:27
Speaker 1: You know there's only six degrees of separation. She nigga?
53:30
Speaker 1: You fucking mm hm. Well you know I always used
53:35
Speaker 1: a condo. Damn, she suck nigga. I'm fucking god. Damn. Yeah,
53:50
Speaker 1: we still ain't growing up this year. We all feel
53:53
Speaker 1: like it. So nope, we I feel like we were
53:57
Speaker 1: reclaiming our time for one where we had to live inside.
54:03
Speaker 1: We are old. Another year of childishness, shame, but anyway.
54:09
Speaker 1: Bit sure. Well girl, I'm glad you're with Johnny is
54:13
Speaker 1: doing better, and I hope it all works out for you.
54:15
Speaker 1: Six All right, y'all listen, we're getting the funk up
54:18
Speaker 1: out of here. Listen. If you enjoyed this episode, please
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54:29
Speaker 1: this is your girl A J Holiday two point oh
54:31
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Uh, keep sitting undumbe bitch stories, man, but
54:37
Speaker 1: don't be stressing us out. Okay, that should kind of
54:40
Speaker 1: no stress us out. We need that. That should kind
54:42
Speaker 1: of stressful, man, because I feel like that might be
54:44
Speaker 1: my little sister or niece messaging me. That's scary. No,
54:48
Speaker 1: I mean it happens. Keep sitting in us, y'all. Ship.
54:50
Speaker 1: That's whatna make it interesting, y'all. It's official Tim Mam
54:53
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Y'all follow me. I'm I'm actually actively trying
54:56
Speaker 1: to post more so it won't be just bullshit memes.
55:01
Speaker 1: All right. We love y'all, man for real, y'all stay
55:03
Speaker 1: cool and taken.