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6-5: NY State Wants To Replace 'Mother' With 'Gestating Parent'. Umm, How About NO! · Wicked Radio with Bill Adams

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  Speaker 1: Careyby.
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  Speaker 2: Once in a while while doing this, I'll come across
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  Speaker 2: the headline that is so bizarre, that is just so
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  Speaker 2: unbelievably insane.
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  Speaker 1: Then I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly sure whether it's true or not, because there's so
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  Speaker 2: much great satire out there, right, I mean, you could
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  Speaker 2: look at like the Babylon b with some of their
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  Speaker 2: fake headlines, which are just so good, and there's so
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  Speaker 2: many great writers that are in social media now. But
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  Speaker 2: when I come across the headline and I happen to
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  Speaker 2: see it first, it's all over the place this morning,
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  Speaker 2: but I happen to see it first on the New
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  Speaker 2: York Post that said what New York Post you get
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  Speaker 2: a question things do?
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  Speaker 1: But it said New York State moves to replace.
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  Speaker 2: Mothers and fathers with ges stating and non gestating parents.
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  Speaker 2: And honest to God, the first thought I had was, no,
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  Speaker 2: that's okay, this is said. Wait it is from the Post.
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  Speaker 2: This is actually a real thing. This actually happened. He
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  Speaker 2: had dig deeper into the story, and their legislature actually
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  Speaker 2: moved to pass this. It's a bill that's actually sitting
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  Speaker 2: on Governor Cathley Hoche's desk right now. Will she sign it?
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  Speaker 2: I have no idea, And look, let's be honest, you
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  Speaker 2: and me and everybody else with half of an ounce
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  Speaker 2: of common sense thinks this is outrageous. But we still
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  Speaker 2: have a duty to mock the sh you know what
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  Speaker 2: out of this to make sure it doesn't it don't
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  Speaker 2: ever stand for this kind of thing. And we'll get
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for finding me.
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  Speaker 2: Let's get into it. Here's what we're gonna do. So
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  Speaker 2: past the headline, let's just break it into pieces. Some
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  Speaker 2: of the news reports. Obviously, Fox was all over this.
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  Speaker 2: This is like for Fox News and the Five and.
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  Speaker 1: Their morning show.
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  Speaker 2: This is like right in their wheelhouse, right, So let's
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  Speaker 2: go to them because they had a pretty good breakdown
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  Speaker 2: of it when this headline broke just yesterday, and then
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  Speaker 2: they all reaction shows last night.
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  Speaker 1: So we'll take it in pieces.
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  Speaker 2: This first guy is who they brought on to react
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  Speaker 2: to this news, and we'll take it out in pieces
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  Speaker 2: what he says, just to make sure that this is
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  Speaker 2: actually real. No more mothers and fathers in New York State.
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  Speaker 2: It's ges dating and non gestating parents. I'm surprised that
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  Speaker 2: you've got the parent's part in there now. Is this
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  Speaker 2: all part of Pride Month? I would have to assume, so,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, not too sure, but the timing of
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  Speaker 2: this whole thing is pretty suspicious, so I think so
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  Speaker 2: maybe I don't know. Let's find out. Here's how they
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  Speaker 2: broke down the details. Who can describe it a lot
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  Speaker 2: better than I can? You and I will react to it.
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  Speaker 3: Here. You go, all right to argue the words mother
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  Speaker 3: and father are outdated and need to be replaced with
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  Speaker 3: more inclusive terms under state law. All this needed now
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  Speaker 3: is Governor Kathy Hochel's signature. So if Hokle approves, in
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  Speaker 3: New York's family court and in domestic and education law,
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  Speaker 3: a mother would be labeled as a gestating parent, a
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  Speaker 3: father as a non gestating parent, and paternity proceedings to
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  Speaker 3: determine the child's father would be called parented.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's another element. I forgot about this.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I actually didn't see it yet, So you've got okay,
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  Speaker 2: so you've got a mother they're going to call a
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  Speaker 2: ges stating parent father who they're trying to wipe out
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  Speaker 2: obviously are non gestating parents, and the court proceedings will
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  Speaker 2: be called parentage. You have to wonder if that changes
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  Speaker 2: how custody laws are even changed in this I mean this,
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  Speaker 2: if listen, it's ridiculous, it's stupid. I don't even know
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  Speaker 2: if it's going to be signed, but it does affect
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  Speaker 2: a lot of things, including what's on your forms you signed,
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  Speaker 2: not just in New York but across the world. Unless
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  Speaker 2: we mock this thing, this.
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  Speaker 1: Guy goes on. What are some of the other details.
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  Speaker 3: The bill passed the State Senate this week and the
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  Speaker 3: State Assembly back in March. Governor Hokle proudly calls herself
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  Speaker 3: New York's first mom governor. It's not unclear if she'll
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  Speaker 3: support this change, though.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not familiar with what was introduced late last night,
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  Speaker 4: so I'll take a look at it if I haven't
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  Speaker 4: until the end of the year to review them and
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  Speaker 4: make a decision, so I won't be commedy on penning legislation.
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  Speaker 2: So far, it sounds like she's going to let this
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  Speaker 2: thing sit and die, right because it's a hot potato.
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  Speaker 2: Not all of New York that she governs is New
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  Speaker 2: York City.
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  Speaker 1: Not all of it is wooke.
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  Speaker 2: You've get upstate New York and a whole bunch of
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  Speaker 2: districts in county in New York State that's very red.
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  Speaker 1: So didn't want to piss them off.
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  Speaker 2: She's a governor and they should be totally different if
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  Speaker 2: this is just New York City law, right, But she's
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  Speaker 2: the governor of the entire state. And what she said
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  Speaker 2: right there was I'm not gonna comment on any pending legislation.
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  Speaker 2: That's political talk for I'm gonna let this thing sit
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  Speaker 2: on my desk and die, most likely. And she said
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  Speaker 2: she has like six months the end of the year
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  Speaker 2: whatever to let that happen. Most likely that's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 2: But wouldn't it be interesting what if this happens. What
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  Speaker 2: if there actually is some sort of big movement, if
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  Speaker 2: they're not too busy with the pride parades in New York,
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  Speaker 2: what if this is some sort of a big movement
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  Speaker 2: of the LGBTQ plus at a letter whatever it is
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  Speaker 2: to force her to address this thing.
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  Speaker 1: What if that happens. It hasn't happened yet. The story
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  Speaker 1: is still new.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it was strong enough that lobby was strong
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  Speaker 2: enough to get the New York legislature to pass this thing,
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  Speaker 2: to get it to her desk.
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  Speaker 1: What if they force her to talk about.
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  Speaker 2: It, to even just to forget about signing it or
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  Speaker 2: not signing it, to even talk about it would be
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  Speaker 2: a massive win for them.
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  Speaker 1: This guy goes on, Let's see, New.
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  Speaker 3: York would join other states like Massachusetts, California, Connecticut, in
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  Speaker 3: Colorado to change the definition and wording of parents in
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  Speaker 3: their state laws. Democrats argue the bill is necessary to
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  Speaker 3: accommodate surrogacy cases and same sex couples. Now, Governor hochels
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  Speaker 3: up for reelection this year. Her main challenger, Republican Nassau
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  Speaker 3: County executive Bruce Blakeman, tells Fox This Morning, this bill
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  Speaker 3: is a continuation of war declared on families.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so her main political opponent, apparently the biggest threat
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  Speaker 2: to her getting reelected is that guy he just mentioned
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  Speaker 2: there and said it's a war on families. This is
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  Speaker 2: why you always see because the left has gone so
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  Speaker 2: crazily far left. You see the people on the right
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  Speaker 2: going back to the most basic things culture, right, going
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  Speaker 2: back to American Western, patriotic, traditional, what traditionally you'd call
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  Speaker 2: it culture, to go back to those old things.
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  Speaker 1: That's why he's saying it's a war on the family.
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  Speaker 1: But is that guy wrong?
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  Speaker 2: Isn't it sort of a war on the family and
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  Speaker 2: the legal proceedings at this sets And it's scary because
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  Speaker 2: he said, this is we always tend to think this
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  Speaker 2: kind of stuff insane level of war. And this only
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  Speaker 2: happens in New York or LA or Chicago or Boston
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  Speaker 2: or Philly or something like that, right, the deep blue cities.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, oh no, it creeps in wherever people let
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  Speaker 2: it creep in.
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  Speaker 1: And that's where you and I come in.
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  Speaker 2: Because let's just say, and let's just pretend that this
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  Speaker 2: did happen to come to your city or your county,
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  Speaker 2: and this kind of legislation with a redefine the terms
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  Speaker 2: of what parents are, what humans are. This is why
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  Speaker 2: language matters, This is why they attack it in this
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  Speaker 2: kind of way. Let's say you were faced with this
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  Speaker 2: kind of thing. You're not even a New York City resident,
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  Speaker 2: New York State resident. Right, here's how it does affect you.
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  Speaker 2: Let's say you're going in you're a couple, and you're
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  Speaker 2: going into the OBGYNS office and you have to fill
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  Speaker 2: out the lengthy clip of papers and forms and you know,
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  Speaker 2: waivers and all this other crab and they put in
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  Speaker 2: there what you are, you know, identify yourself as and
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  Speaker 2: instead of mother, father, it would be gestating person or
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  Speaker 2: non gestating person. Here's what you and I have to do,
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  Speaker 2: because we all think this is stupid. Obviously you can't
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  Speaker 2: even tolerate it. You can't just say, oh, well, I
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  Speaker 2: just want to get in the appointment, so okay, I'll
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  Speaker 2: just put I'll just put non just dating person there
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  Speaker 2: just to get in so I don't like, I don't
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  Speaker 2: cause a ruckus. No, you have to cause a ruckets.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's our civic duty to not put up
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  Speaker 2: with this crap. You really can't. You have to make
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  Speaker 2: a statement, like literally, if anybody asks you that in
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  Speaker 2: a piece of paper, to say what you are? No,
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  Speaker 2: take your pen hopefully I have a sharpie le eye.
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  Speaker 2: Do you cross it out and you say no, And
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  Speaker 2: in my case it would be I am father, and
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  Speaker 2: write it on there no matter what it is, and
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  Speaker 2: you'll probably get to the desk he might wind up
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  Speaker 2: getting some nose ringed blue hair.
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  Speaker 1: And who's giving you a hard time?
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  Speaker 2: You didn't feel out the paperwork correctly, No, I did,
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  Speaker 2: and I refuse to use that term. Eventually, they can't
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  Speaker 2: force you to call yourself something like that. They can
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  Speaker 2: change the term whatever they want, but you don't have
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  Speaker 2: to tolerate it, because that's how this that's how this
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  Speaker 2: stuff even happens in the first place, where you gets
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  Speaker 2: to Governor Kathy Hochel's desk. You can't tolerate this stuff
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  Speaker 2: because I'll tell you personally, if anybody ever ever said
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  Speaker 2: to my wife, the mother of my beautiful children, that
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  Speaker 2: she's not a mother, she's a gestating parent, I think
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  Speaker 2: she'd punch you right.
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  Speaker 1: In the neck.
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  Speaker 2: I'd be honest if if anybody ever did that, and
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  Speaker 2: rightfully so, this is so, and it always happens this
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  Speaker 2: way in the name of inclusivity, in the name of diversity,
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  Speaker 2: in the name of it's never really totally inclusive because
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  Speaker 2: to get their super rights, they always trample on the
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  Speaker 2: rights of somebody else. And again this affects mom's mother's
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  Speaker 2: way more than us dads.
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  Speaker 1: It just does.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, you know, they can call us
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  Speaker 2: non gestating parent. That's insulting on its own, but we
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  Speaker 2: can be like whatever, but you're But think about the
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  Speaker 2: difference here, if you're a parent, the difference between mothers
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  Speaker 2: and fathers. The mothers go through this, their bodies change,
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  Speaker 2: they actually give life to this little Person' credible what
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  Speaker 2: they do to take that away and to dehumanize them
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  Speaker 2: by calling them a gestating parent. It's the most awful
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  Speaker 2: thing in the world they can. So a lot of
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  Speaker 2: this is on moms to not put up with it,
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  Speaker 2: but we got to support them. I mean, honestly, this
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  Speaker 2: is just you can't ever let this creep into your
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  Speaker 2: society wherever you live. If you ever start to see
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  Speaker 2: it happen, you really truly can't.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: Fox also had later on last night Tommy Lauren. She's
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  Speaker 2: a commentator. I haven't heard from her in a little while,
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  Speaker 2: and she makes another good point about this though. These
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  Speaker 2: kinds of things, when they make the headlines, do get
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  Speaker 2: across to everybody, no matter where you live, not just
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  Speaker 2: New York State. That's why I always say these kinds
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  Speaker 2: of stories affect all of us, because you've got to
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  Speaker 2: be aware of them. Makes another good point. This is
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  Speaker 2: just another ball in the bucket. This is another reason
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  Speaker 2: why they're in states like this. They're losing people by
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  Speaker 2: the hundreds of thousands. She makes a good point here.
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  Speaker 4: It prevents me from moving there, even though it's more convenient.
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  Speaker 4: I'll tell you things like this, and I'm not alone
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  Speaker 4: in that. Not only is it preventing people from moving
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  Speaker 4: to these blue, woke, insane states, but it's actually pushing
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  Speaker 4: people out the door into the red states. And it
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  Speaker 4: might seem like small potatoes, and in the scheme and
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  Speaker 4: scope of everything, perhaps that it is. But when you
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  Speaker 4: look at this woke insanity that's impacting families, it's impacting schools,
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  Speaker 4: impacting women's sports. It's just another tick on the radar
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  Speaker 4: that keeps people out of blue states and coming on
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  Speaker 4: over to these great red states.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, couldn't you see it? Couldn't you see this
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  Speaker 2: being the absolute final straw. Let's just assume for a second.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's going to I don't, but let's
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  Speaker 2: say that Kathy Hokl did pass this. Let's say that
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  Speaker 2: the Pride parade actually marched to Albany, and they had,
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  Speaker 2: you know, pitchforks and torches, and they demanded, they demanded
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  Speaker 2: that she passed this law to replace mothers and fathers
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  Speaker 2: with gestating and non gestating parents.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say that that that actually happened.
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  Speaker 2: Couldn't you see that as the final straw that would
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  Speaker 2: make somebody move? You know, Let's say you're a business person,
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  Speaker 2: you have a business there, You're like, I'm getting taxed
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  Speaker 2: to death. This is ridiculous, this crime all over my city.
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  Speaker 2: Can't handle this, I can't afford my house even more.
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  Speaker 2: And then let's say you're somebody a new parent, you're
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  Speaker 2: about to have a baby, and then you hear this law,
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  Speaker 2: then you hear that this got passed, that you're not
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  Speaker 2: a father or you're not a mother anymore. Wouldn't that
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  Speaker 2: couldn't you not see that as the final straw to
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  Speaker 2: drive people out of that state, because let me tell
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  Speaker 2: you something, that absolutely would be for a lot of people.
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  Speaker 2: So here's another thing, and they're very aware of this now,
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  Speaker 2: this exodus out of these blue states and cities that
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  Speaker 2: are happening. You could see it if you've ever looked
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  Speaker 2: up one of those U haul studies where all the
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  Speaker 2: U haul trucks are going to and coming from. They're
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  Speaker 2: not going to the blue cities, trust me on that one.
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  Speaker 2: They're going to the Red states and red cities and
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  Speaker 2: red counties. That's what's happening. And this is the kind
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  Speaker 2: of crap why that's the exact reason why, because you
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  Speaker 2: can't tolerate it. Don't ever let this happen. Okay, is
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  Speaker 2: it hyped up? Would you even hear about the story
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  Speaker 2: if it wasn't Pride month?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe possibly could be. But the point.
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  Speaker 2: Stands, and they said there in the first Fox report,
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  Speaker 2: It's not the only state that is considered this. It's
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  Speaker 2: not the only city that has considered this, and not
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  Speaker 2: even recently. By the way, this is not a new
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  Speaker 2: This is not a new concept to try to replace
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  Speaker 2: mothers and fathers. This has been going on a long
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  Speaker 2: long time.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: You always used to hear people and everybody got called
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  Speaker 2: crazy for saying it's always an attack on the family.
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  Speaker 2: And why is it always an attack on specifically women?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's just ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: You'd get mocked by saying that that's not true. That's
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  Speaker 2: not Oh, really, look at cases like this, why specifically
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  Speaker 2: do they take out of the language mothers and fathers.
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  Speaker 2: It weakens that family because for whatever reason, whatever it is,
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  Speaker 2: whoever is behind pushing things like this that got this
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  Speaker 2: bill passed in New York State, they don't like traditional
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  Speaker 2: values the way that everybody else does. Most people don't
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  Speaker 2: care what you do in your lifestyle, don't care about it.
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  Speaker 1: But something like this.
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  Speaker 2: Like replacing mothers and fathers, like, actually, technically this would
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  Speaker 2: be outlawing that term in that state if it ever passed.
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  Speaker 2: Technically doing that, yeah, that's an attack on you personally.
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  Speaker 2: That's dehumanizing. You don't ever let them do it. And
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  Speaker 2: the best way to do that is to mock the
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  Speaker 2: you know what out of it by starting that. And Sally,
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  Speaker 2: if you ever see that on paperwork anywhere and they
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  Speaker 2: try to call you something other than a mother and
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  Speaker 2: father if you have to fill out a form.
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  Speaker 1: Nope, replace that right away. Refuse to. You can't tolerate that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, we'll see what happens with it. Who knows.
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