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STIMULATED: WHERE TO TAKE HER ON A FIRST DATE · Relatables

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Speaker 2: It was very fun, very very good juice. We're going
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Speaker 2: to keep you enter tank for the next fiftey and
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Speaker 2: the twenty minutes. What are we starting with today, Jake?
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Speaker 2: We are starting with men used to open the car
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Speaker 2: door and now they ooh, let's put them in their
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Speaker 2: places as always. What percentage of men you can still
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Speaker 2: open the car door for their part, no or special
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Speaker 2: person in their life?
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Speaker 1: Man, I don't know. I like the numbers like drastically low.
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Speaker 2: I think the number is going to be like gobsmackingly low,
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Speaker 2: and I will very very likely.
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Speaker 1: So I'd be very very surprised if the number was
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Speaker 1: over ten percent.
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Speaker 3: And how many men do you reckon we've influence to
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Speaker 3: open the car door for the lovely lady, good question.
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Speaker 3: I reckon ten.
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Speaker 1: I'd be happy with one.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so would I because it's better than zero. You
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Speaker 2: got me better. I may have influenced you, Yeah, you
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Speaker 2: have definitely influenced you. I'll give you that.
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Speaker 1: So I've got one. Who have you got? Should we
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Speaker 1: get do it? Drinking? Jack opens the cardor for just fuck?
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Speaker 1: No fuck? If you can influence him.
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Speaker 2: I don't think so. But any mail listeners out there,
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Speaker 2: don't think it's too much to open the car door
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Speaker 2: for your partner. Be extravagant, do as much as much
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Speaker 2: as possible.
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Speaker 3: That will go, It will go so far. It's so simple,
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Speaker 3: so easy to do. Yeah, so easy to maybe downgrade
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Speaker 3: your car so you have to unlock it with a
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Speaker 3: key like Jake. Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And then you
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Speaker 3: are forced to open the car door for it's so hey,
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Speaker 3: that's technology ruining love once again.
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Speaker 2: You've got to click a button now, exactly one does it?
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Speaker 1: What's it called?
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Speaker 2: And whatever's making life easier is making dating harder? Yeah,
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Speaker 2: ruining love all right, to start off, though, kick us off? Okay,
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Speaker 2: So men used to open the car door and now
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Speaker 2: they are figuring out their dating goals.
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Speaker 1: At thirty seven.
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Speaker 2: I thought you were going to stop at thirty and
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Speaker 2: then I met seven dating goals at thirty. Mate. To
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Speaker 2: be fair, everyone goes through life on their own journey,
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Speaker 2: even fair.
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Speaker 4: But here's the thing is, even if you let's just
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Speaker 4: say that someone was married.
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Speaker 2: From maybe twenty five to thirty four, and now they
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Speaker 2: were at thirty four, they got divorced, and then at
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Speaker 2: thirty seven they're dating and they're like still.
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Speaker 1: Thinking about what they're looking for.
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Speaker 2: I think, like, look, there comes an age where it's
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Speaker 2: default that what you're looking for is something serious. Mate.
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Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door for their wife
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Speaker 2: and get married at like twenty Yeah, now they don't
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Speaker 2: even do that and they don't even know that.
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Speaker 1: What happened to romantic gestures?
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Speaker 2: Yeah?
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Speaker 4: So what happened to it? What happened in history where
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Speaker 4: romantic gestures are dead?
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Speaker 2: Like, do guys even drop a D anymore?
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Speaker 1: Fuck? Yeah?
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Speaker 2: When someone when a guy asks to go to marry him.
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Speaker 1: Are they standing?
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Speaker 2: Yeah? What they're probably just like you and me.
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Speaker 1: Let's make it like I don't want to get my
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Speaker 1: pants to it. Yeah, I'm not going to put friends
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Speaker 1: was in my Nike dunks?
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Speaker 2: Why would I do that, that's gonna devalue them.
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Speaker 3: These are the Travis Scott Dugs men used to open
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Speaker 3: the car door. Now they expect princess treatment.
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Speaker 2: Don't give it to him.
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Speaker 1: I could be semi guilty of you.
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Speaker 2: You are a bit, a little bit, you are a
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Speaker 2: bit of.
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Speaker 1: A princess treatment.
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Speaker 4: I will say every now and then, it's quite nice.
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Speaker 2: What do you what do you want? I'm not very picky,
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Speaker 2: just whatever I saw. I saw a really good video
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Speaker 2: about being the passenger princess, and so you know how,
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Speaker 2: I think we've said it before, like if your passenger princess, your.
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Speaker 1: Duty is maps and music. Yes, okay.
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Speaker 2: I saw a really good video of a girl saying,
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Speaker 2: if I'm a passenger princess, but I have.
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Speaker 1: To do to do things.
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Speaker 2: But I have to do the maps and the music
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Speaker 2: and stuff like that, Like why is the word princess
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Speaker 2: in it?
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Speaker 1: And I was kind of thinking, Okay, she's getting someone.
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Speaker 4: She goes if I passetor princess, I should be a princess.
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Speaker 4: And I was like, she has a point. We use
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Speaker 4: the word princess, which is a strong word. True, it
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Speaker 4: is a strong word, and yet we expect things from them.
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Speaker 4: I see where she's coming from. But like, if you're
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Speaker 4: driving three four hours, you want to be fucking engaged
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Speaker 4: the whole time making sure these two lives get there safely,
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Speaker 4: and then she can't be to shuffle a song play.
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Speaker 2: So we don't want passenger princesses. We just want passenger something.
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Speaker 2: I just want company.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, shut up, okay. Men used to open the car
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Speaker 1: door for you, and now they block you if you
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Speaker 1: leave them on delivered.
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Speaker 2: Oh oh, never got the blocking thing? Hey yeah, never
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Speaker 2: like either the dudes like say, oh, it's been twenty
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Speaker 2: four hours, and also, what's a block you gonna do? Yeah,
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Speaker 2: it's like, oh yeah, I got you, bitch, Like, yeah,
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Speaker 2: I want to know what sort of power move they
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Speaker 2: think that is because she left you and delivered, and
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Speaker 2: she probably doesn't even know that you've blocked her because
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Speaker 2: she left you on delivered.
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Speaker 3: If anything, that's a win though for her. I don't
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Speaker 3: have to deal with this weird dude.
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Speaker 2: Anymore, exactly he blocked. I've never understood the blocking thing.
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Speaker 2: I think. I don't think when you block someone actually
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Speaker 2: does it delete your messages? And so therefore she has
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Speaker 2: no like sort of receipts. It's the embarrassing thing. She
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Speaker 2: never send me booby people.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, she sent a video.
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Speaker 2: He sent something and then she leaves him on delivered,
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Speaker 2: so he blocks her and does it delete that. Maybe
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Speaker 2: that's what it is, like he's embarrassed about the drunken
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Speaker 2: we could taste it.
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I'll block your Yeah, your back either.
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Speaker 1: You probably won't.
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Speaker 3: Men used to open the car door for you. Now
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Speaker 3: they calling you out scream at spider's.
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Speaker 2: Fuck that one. That one can fuck right off. Now
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Speaker 2: that one can fuck right off because if the person
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Speaker 2: that wrote that isn't from Australia, they can shut up.
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Speaker 2: Spiders killing spiders looking after him in the house. Is
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Speaker 2: shi we made in a relationship?
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Speaker 1: No? You being like, ah, I hate what? I don't know?
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Speaker 1: Is it? What's it?
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Speaker 2: Carded raetmophobia. I don't think it's a rachmophobia because I
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Speaker 2: can be in the same room as one.
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Speaker 1: But I'm just like, oh yeah, and I don't want
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Speaker 1: to go near and kill it.
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Speaker 2: Like what, psycho, you picks up just a towel to
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Speaker 2: pick up a fucking massive huntsman and throw it outside.
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Speaker 1: That's insane. Yeah, it's insane.
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Speaker 3: We're in their world, mate, live together in harmony.
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Speaker 1: We have not in there.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, lived together. And I would like to point out
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Speaker 2: that humans made this our world, and so they are
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Speaker 2: in our world. Yeah, they are clearly in our world.
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Speaker 2: And if a spider is the size of the piper
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Speaker 2: of my hands, it's never been the of your first
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Speaker 2: spider is the size of the pip of my hand,
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Speaker 2: and or bigger. It's lived long enough and it's wise enough. Okay,
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Speaker 2: it's given enough advice to the younger spiders, and it
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Speaker 2: can fucking die. Man, you're over exaggerating bigger than our hand.
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Speaker 2: I've never once seen a spider bigger than my hand.
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Speaker 1: I have no.
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Speaker 2: Maybe at the zoo they have those like spiders.
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Speaker 1: Actually have I have actually seen one.
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Speaker 3: You're one of those guys who watched like late night
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Speaker 3: Tiktoks and it's like the world's most dangerous spiders, And
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Speaker 3: then you're thinking of that.
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Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine. I hate them.
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Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door, and now they
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Speaker 2: complain that there isn't an international Men's Day too. Oh
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Speaker 2: if we're complaining about that, like complain, yes, I mean
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Speaker 2: like the world. Yeah, the world was built in away
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Speaker 2: where every day is kind of like International Men's Day. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: we didn't have to. Why are we complaining we didn't
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Speaker 2: have to fight for ship?
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Speaker 1: Yeah? What why are we complaining about that? Yeah?
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Speaker 2: And like we've got Father's Day Yeah yeah, father's a man?
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, sure, yeah, fucking hell, I don't see that one.
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Speaker 1: All right.
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Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door for you, Now
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Speaker 2: they skip leg day.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're very, very guilty, guilty. It's just so hard.
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Speaker 1: It is like I.
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Speaker 4: Really enjoy every other muscle group, Dan, really really enjoy everyone.
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna put it down for the pure length of
8:13
Speaker 2: our legs compared to like, yeah.
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Speaker 1: We gotta go a lot further we're gonna go.
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Speaker 2: It's that little bit more fatiguing, isn't it?
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Speaker 1: Ever so slightly? Yeah?
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Speaker 2: Okay, men used to open the car door and now
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Speaker 2: they get in the car before their partner. Straight. Facts,
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Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door. Now they can
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Speaker 2: only stare at you to flirt. Facts, bro, what happened?
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Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know.
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Speaker 2: Even in Australia, we're scared to stare Eyven know it's
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Speaker 2: a bit weird. I do know that it is weird,
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Speaker 2: but also like that part even makes me nervous.
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Speaker 1: It's like the eye contact, like like.
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Speaker 2: Like if you see where it was when single, if
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Speaker 2: you see lest you're somewhere, you see a girl that
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Speaker 2: you think is attractive, and you'd be like in your head,
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Speaker 2: you thinking like I'd really like to go up and
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Speaker 2: talk to her, and you're like, no, I'm not going
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Speaker 2: to do it. And then you're like, hopefully she catches
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Speaker 2: eyes with me. If their eyes were glancing in my direction,
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Speaker 2: I'd move mine.
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Speaker 1: So they know I wasn't looking at her.
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Speaker 3: I'm one of the like I wonderers, especially at the
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Speaker 3: gym or whatever. I'm like, if anyone ever saw me
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Speaker 3: at the gym, Like I'm wandering in the around like
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Speaker 3: just everywhere, looking at random shit and TV the back
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Speaker 3: corner that no one looks, trying to sty off my phone.
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And sometimes I catch eye contact with people
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Speaker 2: and they're like in this like equipment all the way
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Speaker 2: on the other corner, and I'm like, fu, hope, I
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Speaker 2: don't think I was checking them out.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then it happens again. Yeah. I'm like You're like, well,
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Speaker 1: now they really And.
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Speaker 2: Then I'm like, well, most was fucking go on my phone?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeh yeah. Phones are good for something.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a great for something exactly. Okay, men used
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Speaker 2: to open the car door, and now they are twenty
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Speaker 2: five and their mom still buys their underwear. Oh, I've
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Speaker 2: got one. Where's this one? Where is it?
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Speaker 1: Where is it?
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Speaker 2: Where is it? Men used to open the car door,
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Speaker 2: or now they ask their mum to do their laundry.
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Speaker 2: I would like to say, if you're getting anything other
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Speaker 2: than underwear.
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Speaker 1: For Christmas from your parents, you're doing too much. That's
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Speaker 1: all they need to get you.
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Speaker 2: Underwear is weirdly expensive. Where's the prices on that? Like?
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Speaker 2: Why is a pair of three pack of Bundies cost
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Speaker 2: me sixty bucks?
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Speaker 1: Three pack of Calvins bro nine? Yeah, but like the.
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Speaker 2: Fabric quantity is nothing compared to three Such a great question.
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Speaker 2: Do you think there's this whole thing with underwear because
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Speaker 2: it's like all the underwear companies are probably thinking, well,
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Speaker 2: they have to wear it.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're going to pay whatever it is.
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Speaker 3: Weird Hey, and why is there like a sort of
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Speaker 3: stigma around like what brand of undeasy wear means you're
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Speaker 3: like sexy or yeah?
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Speaker 1: True?
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Speaker 2: Like if you're wearing Calvins then girls really like that,
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Speaker 2: yeah they have Like or if we build up this
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Speaker 2: false pretense in our head that they like that.
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Speaker 1: I don't know, because at the.
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Speaker 2: End of the day, they're on the floor. Yeah, but look,
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Speaker 2: at the end of the day, if a girls wearing
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Speaker 2: a matching set, it's on the floor.
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Speaker 1: But we still think it's sexy.
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Speaker 2: True, you know, and they wear it for a reason,
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Speaker 2: because it's like they're like, I wore this because I
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Speaker 2: wanted to me. I've never once thought, well, they're a
11:03
Speaker 2: nice pair of hondies. Oh you haven't looked at a
11:06
Speaker 2: lazy pair of moneies and yeah, I but I mean
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Speaker 2: men's undies, no girls, But I've never I'm just more
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Speaker 2: distracted by the beauty in front of me.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: True, it's like I might think, I might think about
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Speaker 2: it after the fact, but like, wow, they asked you
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Speaker 2: what you thought of this set, You're like, yeah, it
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Speaker 2: was great, but it looked better on the floor. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: I'm not thinking about it. Just go that came out today,
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Speaker 2: you go menu, so open the car door. And now
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Speaker 2: they take shirtless pics at the gym.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, facts we do.
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Speaker 2: I couldn't take much shirt off.
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Speaker 1: I couldn't.
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Speaker 2: We've done it not in Australia, Yes we have. There's
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Speaker 2: I literally drive. You know what I'm talking about, don't you? Yeah,
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Speaker 2: you gas let me do that your that The day
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Speaker 2: of that was it was like two days before we
11:53
Speaker 2: went to Bali.
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Speaker 1: For the first time.
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Speaker 2: We went for six weeks, and you said, I'm I like,
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Speaker 2: I cut pretty hard for this trip. I want to
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Speaker 2: get some And then you were taking pics and I
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Speaker 2: was like, well, fuck it, the light is good. I
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Speaker 2: might get some picks too, And so we both took
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Speaker 2: pics and I went second. Jake just touched my foot
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Speaker 2: in the studio when he was talking about us taking
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Speaker 2: shut the pigs. It made me really uncomfortable. Don't do
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Speaker 2: that again. A you are more than halfway on my side.
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Speaker 2: Do it again, at least when we're talking about something.
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Speaker 1: Normal, like I will. I will say when I start
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Speaker 1: talking about I really lean.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 3: Men used to open the car door. Now they can't
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Speaker 3: even plan a day.
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Speaker 2: Oh, that one hurts me so bad. We're about to
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Speaker 2: help you in segment two. Because it's not even hard, No,
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Speaker 2: it's really not. It's so easy.
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Speaker 1: It's like, also, I will say.
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Speaker 2: A bit of a hack is plan something that you
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Speaker 2: as a man really want to do, because it's pretty
12:49
Speaker 2: like if you think something's fun, it's probably going to
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Speaker 2: be fun for a female as well.
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Speaker 4: No, a little hack like care, yeah yeah, just like
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Speaker 4: actually give a shit like care about what you do.
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Speaker 2: It's like a ho about the litt hack actually trying
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Speaker 2: to press.
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Speaker 4: Her, little hack, just trying to impress her.
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Speaker 2: It's like work, like, if you care about it, you're
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Speaker 2: gonna do a good job. If you care about the date,
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Speaker 2: you're going to plan a good day. So simple. And
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Speaker 2: also at work, if you're passionate about work, your boss
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Speaker 2: is like, oh, he's doing a great If you're passionate
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Speaker 2: about the girl, you're going on a date, when she's
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Speaker 2: gonna be like this guy really likes me. It's because
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Speaker 2: most guys just want to smash that. I'm actually passionate
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Speaker 2: about the beautiful person in front of him. This one's
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Speaker 2: taking a upper cut to men right now. Okay, and
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Speaker 2: I think I've done this a couple of times. Men
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Speaker 2: used to open the car door. Now they can't even
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Speaker 2: get a nice towel to wipe the come off. You
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Speaker 2: looks some toilet paper. That's crazy. I think what's better.
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Speaker 2: I've even gone a shirt. I've said, here's a shirt. Well,
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Speaker 2: I thought that was better than me running to the
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Speaker 2: bathroom or naked ship.
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Speaker 1: And getting to a TP. It was a clean it
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Speaker 1: was a clean shirt.
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Speaker 2: He's okay, here's a place that I think we could
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Speaker 2: improve as men, all right, and it's baby wipes. Okay,
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Speaker 2: either that or I was gonna say, like, if you
14:09
Speaker 2: live with family, leave them in your room, right, But
14:11
Speaker 2: if you live alone with your girlfriend, then leave them
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Speaker 2: in the obviously the linen cupboard, but a stack of
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Speaker 2: towels that are like yay, why yay big, and they're
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Speaker 2: dedicated room. They're dedicated to that thing. But and so
14:26
Speaker 2: when you and you so you know those towels are
14:28
Speaker 2: dedicated to that thing, you wash them and you reuse them,
14:30
Speaker 2: like you don't use it more than once for the
14:31
Speaker 2: same like you have to watch it every time, so
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Speaker 2: you have like five or six.
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Speaker 3: My problem is, so that's good if you're in a relationship, right,
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Speaker 3: I don't understand that. But if you're single, is this
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Speaker 3: like implying like even if you have baby wips in
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Speaker 3: your bedside table, or like a couple of towers that
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Speaker 3: are real nice and clean and fluffy, is that implying
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Speaker 3: that they get like a lot of sex and that's
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Speaker 3: bad or is it better just to have a shirt
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Speaker 3: on hand?
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Speaker 2: You Like, I've never do this before. It's such a
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Speaker 2: great question, Like I've always even thought apparently it's such
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Speaker 2: a nice gesture for men to have tampons in their house.
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Speaker 2: But then I think, like, let's say you ask single
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Speaker 2: when you have a girl over you have tampons in
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Speaker 2: the house, and she notices, she's probably gonna think, oh, wow,
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Speaker 2: he's prepared that.
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Speaker 1: Also, she's gonna be thinking how many girls does he bring?
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Speaker 3: I think if you have that in your house, she's
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Speaker 3: thinking he's got a girlfriend.
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Speaker 1: True. Yeah, yeah, I.
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Speaker 2: Think the bare minimum is which you should should. A
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Speaker 2: lot of dudes don't.
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Speaker 1: Even have little bins in there.
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Speaker 2: I've never been in my room, not in your room.
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Speaker 2: Probably should have been in your room. But your bathroom
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Speaker 2: released too, oh bathroom like disposable little bit. That's a
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Speaker 2: little yea, yeah, yeah, one of those ones. But we
15:31
Speaker 2: can do better.
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Speaker 1: We definitely could.
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Speaker 5: Okay.
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Speaker 2: So for the IG this week, guys, we asked you
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Speaker 2: to rate these dates with a yes or no answer
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Speaker 2: on whether or not you think they're a good date. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: because sometimes it is a little bit hard to know. Yeap,
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Speaker 2: so yeah, so we asked the Instagram, are these dates
15:56
Speaker 2: good dates for a first date?
15:58
Speaker 1: Yeah?
15:59
Speaker 2: All right, wine and painting.
16:02
Speaker 3: Class, And I'm going to guess yes or no. One
16:04
Speaker 3: you're gonna say a percentage yes, wine painting class has
16:08
Speaker 3: got to be if they're drinkers, I'm gonna say yes,
16:11
Speaker 3: sixty percent, seventy three percent.
16:14
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, they love it wine and painting. This is
16:16
Speaker 2: going to give some people some good insights to what
16:18
Speaker 2: to do. So yeah, we want to give tips on
16:19
Speaker 2: actually some good first dates like these. Aren't that hard
16:22
Speaker 2: to organize. You just have to book a class online.
16:24
Speaker 2: That's it's not even five minutes of your time of
16:27
Speaker 2: booking it. Yeah Google book done, done. Okay, maybe it
16:30
Speaker 2: hasn't painted a positive man.
16:31
Speaker 1: Pretty odd, that's heavy. Maybe don't do it all right?
16:38
Speaker 1: A trivia night?
16:40
Speaker 2: Okay, this is difficult because for me, I actually, to
16:44
Speaker 2: be fair, I did one by accident out of the
16:47
Speaker 2: club that I remember, and I remember you saying it
16:49
Speaker 2: was not bad. It was actually fun, but I wasn't
16:52
Speaker 2: very good at trivia. But I'm gonna say, yeah, let's
16:54
Speaker 2: go to seventy percent good, fifty four percent? Yes, see
16:59
Speaker 2: people said no, would have been me before, they haven't
17:01
Speaker 2: done one. Yeah, so I think, yeah, this one's the
17:03
Speaker 2: one that you need to try because you're not from experience.
17:04
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. All right, now this one the arcade.
17:10
Speaker 2: Okay, this is where me and Jake differ because I
17:13
Speaker 2: will say first date with girlfriend was arcade. I'm gonna
17:22
Speaker 2: say no, I personally wouldn't like it as a first day.
17:25
Speaker 2: There's too much stimulation going on. Okay, maybe good for
17:28
Speaker 2: this episode to go to an arcade. Maybe, but me, no,
17:31
Speaker 2: sixty percent.
17:32
Speaker 1: Seventy one percent.
17:34
Speaker 4: Yes, really, arcade is winning. Really, and I can speak
17:38
Speaker 4: from experience because here's the thing.
17:40
Speaker 1: I know.
17:41
Speaker 2: Competitiveness is flirty. Now I can see like I'm going
17:44
Speaker 2: to beg you. Yeah, I will say I like act
17:49
Speaker 2: because I'm not a competitive person.
17:51
Speaker 1: I Seemi acted competitive.
17:53
Speaker 2: But I will like to also add one more thing
17:56
Speaker 2: is I didn't let her win anything, but she won
17:58
Speaker 2: everything you find she like in her house. Bullshit, Y,
18:02
Speaker 2: she had experience and she worked at an arcade.
18:04
Speaker 3: Maybe all girls have experience and just want to beat boys. Yeah,
18:07
Speaker 3: maybe that's a good reason to go.
18:08
Speaker 2: Okay, a drive in movie, I like it, but not
18:13
Speaker 2: a first date. I think you've got to know the
18:14
Speaker 2: person first.
18:15
Speaker 1: Sixty nine percent.
18:18
Speaker 2: Yes, really, yeah, boy, they want it, they want it.
18:21
Speaker 1: Maybe a lot of people want to have sex in
18:23
Speaker 1: the first date, but they want it.
18:24
Speaker 2: Maybe it doesn't imply sex.
18:25
Speaker 1: And I'm overthinking it. Picnic with a little game.
18:30
Speaker 2: Ten yes, ten out of ten that was what that meant?
18:33
Speaker 2: Eighty nine percent Yeah, yes, yeah, I think these have
18:37
Speaker 2: all been Yes, you can't go wrong, can't go wrong.
18:40
Speaker 1: We did come up with this.
18:41
Speaker 2: We have two we have two more learn to surf
18:47
Speaker 2: lesson together, so you both don't know how to surf
18:50
Speaker 2: and you're learning to surf together. This is tricky because
18:54
Speaker 2: this is really good character building and shows what type
18:58
Speaker 2: of person you are and you're happy to make a
18:59
Speaker 2: fool of yourself, which is to.
19:00
Speaker 3: Me, the very honorable trait. Yes me personally. Yes, I
19:05
Speaker 3: know a lot of our listeners and fans aren't from
19:06
Speaker 3: Australia though, which they're back there, suck. I live in
19:09
Speaker 3: fucking Canada.
19:12
Speaker 2: Seventy yes, fifty seven percent. No, they don't like surfing, mate,
19:19
Speaker 2: well a lot.
19:19
Speaker 1: Of people don't.
19:20
Speaker 2: We're very beachy boys. It's a good point, like we
19:22
Speaker 2: grew up with that. Yeah, so that's been so much fun. Yeah,
19:26
Speaker 2: but I see, I see that's so maybe no surf
19:29
Speaker 2: classes especially suppose a lot of people can't like even
19:31
Speaker 2: like swim very good.
19:32
Speaker 1: That's actually a good point. I think it's not uncommon
19:34
Speaker 1: for people that.
19:35
Speaker 2: Aren't for Australia to not know how to swim, yeah,
19:37
Speaker 2: or not be very competent swimming.
19:39
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, very last one.
19:41
Speaker 2: The aquarium is going to set a little debate. I
19:44
Speaker 2: am a big, big fan of aquarium on a first date.
19:49
Speaker 2: Never done it, but the date, the first date that
19:52
Speaker 2: I went on my girl friend with the arcade, we
19:53
Speaker 2: actually planned to go to the aquarium but.
19:55
Speaker 1: It was closed, so I didn't plan it very well.
19:57
Speaker 2: And I can say me and Jake recently went to
19:59
Speaker 2: an aquarium in South Korea. We almost kissed. Yeah, so
20:06
Speaker 2: I'm going to say I reckon the GIRLI pops are
20:08
Speaker 2: against this on this, but I'm going to stand with
20:10
Speaker 2: what I think.
20:11
Speaker 1: Yeah, eighty percent, great date, seventy two percent.
20:16
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, go take the girl and see some fish.
20:20
Speaker 2: How Oh that's no, that's certainly cool things to talk about, Like, wow,
20:28
Speaker 2: this one's so big.
20:29
Speaker 1: I know, they fucking see it's the only thing is bigger.
20:32
Speaker 1: I want to find out what's really.
20:33
Speaker 2: Big talking about dates, Jake, Yeah, something that happens to me,
20:46
Speaker 2: especially on a first date, is my heart starts to boom, boom,
20:52
Speaker 2: starts to beat.
20:52
Speaker 1: Don't even get me started. Yes, on that feeling, I.
20:56
Speaker 2: Know, it's a great feeling, it's a it is a
20:58
Speaker 2: great feeling. I like to lean into it. I sometimes
21:00
Speaker 2: started to lean out of it as well.
21:01
Speaker 1: Yeah.
21:02
Speaker 2: No, I'm a big fan of leaning into it and
21:04
Speaker 2: just really being like, well, I'm here, I'm on my way,
21:07
Speaker 2: I'm back out.
21:08
Speaker 3: I was like maybe twenty maybe twenty one.
21:11
Speaker 2: I don't know, there was I was went on a
21:13
Speaker 2: date with a girl and I had to drive a
21:15
Speaker 2: long way and my heart was beating because of the
21:17
Speaker 2: drive was so long. A long drive makes the anticipation crazy. Yeah,
21:21
Speaker 2: and like nothing against the girl, but we didn't connect
21:24
Speaker 2: that much. But for some reason, I normally steer clear
21:26
Speaker 2: of that feeling. But I went on a couple more
21:29
Speaker 2: dates of her because I wanted to try and deal
21:30
Speaker 2: with that feeling better.
21:31
Speaker 1: Yeah, like to go away.
21:33
Speaker 3: Nah, I didn't see anymore. But now I normally get
21:37
Speaker 3: scared of that feeling. I tried to lean in and
21:39
Speaker 3: grow as a person a little.
21:39
Speaker 1: Bit, and maybe you did. Maybe that was a growing point.
21:41
Speaker 1: You didn't feel growing at the time. Yeah, No, I
21:43
Speaker 1: think it was like, yeah, about myself.
21:45
Speaker 2: I was trying to were nervous to see your girlfriend
21:47
Speaker 2: when the first time you saw her? Yeah, if I
21:49
Speaker 2: wast my palms were sweaty, mate, I wouldn't even wanted
21:52
Speaker 2: to touch your hands.
21:53
Speaker 1: They would have been so clammy. Holy.
21:57
Speaker 2: She was good because she like she had stuff and
21:59
Speaker 2: I'm so nervous all like the first initiation.
22:01
Speaker 1: She probably confin sense it to you. She's like, this
22:03
Speaker 1: is this guy's my little beer chazy.
22:04
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, But that's besides the point. This is
22:11
Speaker 2: things girls do that make our heart race.
22:15
Speaker 1: Okay, if I go first, I need to do two consecutive.
22:19
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gone first name Okay, things girls do that
22:24
Speaker 2: make our heart race, look in our direction? Okay, going
22:29
Speaker 2: off that, that's a good one. Okay, Things girls do
22:32
Speaker 2: that make guys heart race. I was going to start
22:34
Speaker 2: it off with they exist, yeah, okay, yeah, and so
22:39
Speaker 2: when you send them like this is these two next
22:42
Speaker 2: two were just to do with them existing. When you
22:44
Speaker 2: send them the message like actually asking them on the date,
22:47
Speaker 2: and then you kind of you get rid of the phone.
22:50
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and then you're your heart's racing then, and
22:53
Speaker 2: she's like not even meaning to do it, yeah, true,
22:56
Speaker 2: not even something she's done.
22:57
Speaker 1: She just exists.
22:58
Speaker 2: She probably doesn't even see the message exactly. That's a
23:00
Speaker 2: great one. And another one for where them just existing
23:04
Speaker 2: was the drive to pick them up on the first
23:07
Speaker 2: date nerve racket. They're not doing anything but them existing.
23:12
Speaker 2: I'm shipping my pants in the car on the way there.
23:14
Speaker 2: I'm trying to put any song on to calm you down.
23:17
Speaker 2: I spull over fifty meters up street to just like
23:19
Speaker 2: tell you what, how do you feel like you pick
23:22
Speaker 2: it up or whatever.
23:22
Speaker 3: And then like first couple five minutes, he's still really
23:24
Speaker 3: nervous and heart's beitten. No, okay, I'm still a bit
23:28
Speaker 3: fucking But something a little trick for girls out there
23:31
Speaker 3: to stop the nerves. Probably a couple of dates in obviously, yeah,
23:34
Speaker 3: because it's got to get consent to touch him and stuff.
23:36
Speaker 3: But hand back of the hair while he's driving. First date,
23:41
Speaker 3: you could not not not do that, not first, but
23:43
Speaker 3: like a second after you've kissed. I think, ye yah yea, yeah,
23:45
Speaker 3: yea yeah, And I loved it. I was like, oh,
23:47
Speaker 3: don't feels it's kind of like a massage in a way.
23:49
Speaker 2: I mean, I know I'm a big fan of that,
23:50
Speaker 2: but it's definitely that's more of like you've got a
23:52
Speaker 2: bit of what's it called rapport. Yeah, you couldn't. You
23:55
Speaker 2: couldn't just get in the carameck.
23:59
Speaker 1: Like your hair. So you know what, Actually, let me
24:02
Speaker 1: think about this. Okay, let's say let's say your hair's
24:04
Speaker 1: grown a bit.
24:04
Speaker 2: You gotta be a curls at the back a right,
24:06
Speaker 2: and then she gets in the car.
24:07
Speaker 1: You're nervous, but you hug her when you meet her
24:09
Speaker 1: and stuff like that.
24:11
Speaker 2: And then and then when you guys get and you
24:13
Speaker 2: open the car door for her obvious. And then you
24:16
Speaker 2: get you go around and get the you're driving, and
24:17
Speaker 2: she goes, oh, the back of your hair, like is
24:19
Speaker 2: so cute. I love it, And she's like, touches it
24:21
Speaker 2: is that weird. I don't think I would think it's
24:26
Speaker 2: weird in the moment, I'd be like, oh, thank you, Like,
24:28
Speaker 2: if I liked her, it's not weird. But if I didn't,
24:30
Speaker 2: if I didn't like a backstick, but how do you know, Yeah,
24:33
Speaker 2: you find it's in Yeah, I think you can get
24:35
Speaker 2: away with it.
24:35
Speaker 3: I think, But I also think like just on the
24:37
Speaker 3: scheme of things you should ask for, like con set
24:39
Speaker 3: like still touching someone's back of the head, can I
24:41
Speaker 3: touch it?
24:42
Speaker 2: Yeah?
24:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fair, fair, fair, all right.
24:45
Speaker 3: Things girls do that make our heart race seeing them
24:49
Speaker 3: in their natural habitat might be work, working out or
24:53
Speaker 3: them just being them.
24:56
Speaker 1: I don't know if that does it for me.
24:58
Speaker 2: A it's just me, I reckon. Have you ever just
25:03
Speaker 2: like love a boy over partner, like just at work
25:07
Speaker 2: and she's just like you know, what I will say
25:10
Speaker 2: is seeing my girlfriend at her job like being in charge.
25:15
Speaker 5: Because it's like like seeing them that's like a kink,
25:17
Speaker 5: but like like she like they like know all this
25:21
Speaker 5: like random ship. That's I mean, yeah, okay, okay, maybe
25:24
Speaker 5: it does do for me, even like when she's just
25:26
Speaker 5: at the gym and then you see her like wrapping
25:28
Speaker 5: out some fucking one hundred kg squads and then she
25:30
Speaker 5: just rocks.
25:31
Speaker 2: Over and.
25:33
Speaker 1: Does the thing man.
25:42
Speaker 2: Could have got a Scott me matey. Maybe not relatable
25:47
Speaker 2: for you movie are you imagining you on her back?
25:50
Speaker 1: And he squat.
25:52
Speaker 2: Equality in that? Okay? Things girls do that make guys
25:58
Speaker 2: hearts race and they ask you this is like when
26:01
Speaker 2: you're dating, right, Yeah, when they ask you, do you know,
26:05
Speaker 2: do you notice anything different about me today? And you're like, well,
26:10
Speaker 2: you know, yes, I actually do.
26:12
Speaker 1: Your hair looks great.
26:14
Speaker 2: That's like I'm about to die. Heart raising, Hey, heart racing,
26:18
Speaker 2: It's still racing, That's all I gotta say. You go
26:21
Speaker 2: a different way. Things girls do to make guys hearts
26:24
Speaker 2: race random acts of affection. Have you ever randomly grab
26:28
Speaker 2: your hand or randomly give you a hug from behind
26:30
Speaker 2: or randomly say I fucking love you?
26:32
Speaker 1: I like the hugs from behind, big fan of the
26:34
Speaker 1: hugs from behind?
26:35
Speaker 2: Me of that like, I even try to implement them
26:36
Speaker 2: myself after learning like girls when they must feel nicey,
26:39
Speaker 2: it feels nice for me.
26:39
Speaker 1: Yeah.
26:40
Speaker 2: I love a little random like kind of like, you know,
26:42
Speaker 2: you look sexy today, booty squeeze.
26:44
Speaker 1: I hate it when my bum gets touched.
26:47
Speaker 2: I get so, Okay, this isn't really anything to do
26:51
Speaker 2: with this.
26:51
Speaker 1: I just got to call make a little call out.
26:55
Speaker 2: Speaking heart I have openly I feel like all females
27:00
Speaker 2: do this. Okay, this is at my golfice is targeted
27:03
Speaker 2: at my girlfriend. Make it rel well, it's pretty relatable.
27:05
Speaker 2: Let me see if you relate to this. The example is,
27:09
Speaker 2: I hate it when my bum gets touched. I hate
27:11
Speaker 2: it when my bum gets squeezed. She knows I hate it, alright,
27:14
Speaker 2: she knows. I've told her so many times. I hate
27:16
Speaker 2: it when she does it. I get upset. Me getting
27:22
Speaker 2: upset makes her upset. I was gonna say it makes it,
27:25
Speaker 2: do it more, makes her upset that I got upset
27:28
Speaker 2: at her, and I say then upset, Well, I just
27:31
Speaker 2: say like, I'm just like, oh, you know, I don't
27:32
Speaker 2: like that.
27:33
Speaker 1: Please don't do that. Like it just I just stop it.
27:35
Speaker 1: I hate it so much.
27:37
Speaker 2: And then she's like and then she'll be like like
27:39
Speaker 2: she'll they'll just be like whatever. But sometimes if she
27:41
Speaker 2: gets upset at me geting upset at her, I'm just
27:43
Speaker 2: kind of like, well, you.
27:44
Speaker 1: Knew I was gonna get upset.
27:45
Speaker 2: True, true, true. I was thinking, like, I reckon, you
27:49
Speaker 2: should lean into it more and like freak.
27:51
Speaker 1: Her out and be like do it again.
27:53
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that, what are you doing? Get a
27:55
Speaker 2: full grab? Yeah, don't be a pussy about it. Hate
28:02
Speaker 2: wait into a man? Who's this guy?
28:04
Speaker 3: It's like, I wonder if that will work like a
28:06
Speaker 3: chad thing, like yeah, give it to someone work.
28:08
Speaker 1: And you'll stop doing it all together.
28:09
Speaker 2: She's like, no, I didn't like that, But what if
28:12
Speaker 2: she But what if she really likes it? She just
28:14
Speaker 2: goes in it like yeah right, yeah, give me some
28:18
Speaker 2: of that ass, and I'd be like, fuck, I'll be done,
28:21
Speaker 2: and I dug myself a hole. That's the point where
28:24
Speaker 2: you go get a BBL just take the loss.
28:30
Speaker 1: I got one more this one. Okay.
28:35
Speaker 2: Things girls do they make guys hearts Race. I would
28:38
Speaker 2: say it's gonna be like a few weeks in okay,
28:42
Speaker 2: and they'll give you a little look. And it's also
28:45
Speaker 2: kind of a way of them telling you they like
28:47
Speaker 2: you without actually telling you they like you. And they'll
28:49
Speaker 2: be kind of like, look, you'll do something and you'll
28:52
Speaker 2: be like and they'll say to you like like you're
28:54
Speaker 2: bad news or something like that, something along the lines
28:58
Speaker 2: of like don't hurt me, or like like they're like
29:00
Speaker 2: saying I like you, Yeah you know what I mean, Like, oh, yeah,
29:03
Speaker 2: you're bad news or something like that.
29:05
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly so much.
29:08
Speaker 2: My heart, Race, I'm all like fall in love of
29:10
Speaker 2: them a bit more. But I see while you're heart.
29:12
Speaker 1: Yeah I was. I just fucking love it.
29:15
Speaker 2: Yeah, would it work with You're not sleeping with anyone
29:19
Speaker 2: else else?
29:23
Speaker 4: It did for me for me, and the reason it
29:27
Speaker 4: worked with me was because I was like, fuck, I
29:28
Speaker 4: hope you believes me when I say no, because I'm
29:30
Speaker 4: actually not.
29:33
Speaker 2: I got two more things girls do that make guys
29:37
Speaker 2: hearts race sort of goes off the surfing one, the
29:40
Speaker 2: surfing date. Not being afraid to make themselves look stupid.
29:44
Speaker 1: Oh that's actually a good one, like.
29:46
Speaker 2: Beer full of himself, Like they lean into it, like
29:48
Speaker 2: they slip over or whatever, like you don't have to
29:50
Speaker 2: be perfect, and no humans perfect. And when they admit
29:53
Speaker 2: and like accept not being perfect, that really is a
29:55
Speaker 2: big trait for me. You know.
29:56
Speaker 1: I actually I'm a fan of that one.
29:58
Speaker 2: I think of that because everyone everyone makes mistakes. Yeah,
30:01
Speaker 2: and my last one. Things girls do that make guys
30:04
Speaker 2: hearts race when you haven't seen him in a while
30:08
Speaker 2: and like just you forget how beautiful they are and
30:10
Speaker 2: they just rock, Like fuck I forgot you actually have
30:14
Speaker 2: you not seen your girlfriend for a week and maybe
30:16
Speaker 2: you FaceTime or you pot on the phone, and then
30:18
Speaker 2: but when you actually do go see them in a
30:20
Speaker 2: person with the real proper lion the son on them,
30:22
Speaker 2: and you're like, Oh, I knew you were beautiful, but I.
30:26
Speaker 1: Forgot how beautiful.
30:27
Speaker 2: Yes, you're that's so relatable for me.
30:29
Speaker 3: It happens all the time, man, whoa, And it's just
30:32
Speaker 3: like a little cherry on top it is because you
30:34
Speaker 3: know that beautiful and then you're just like a man,
30:36
Speaker 3: I'm lucky.
30:37
Speaker 1: Facts.
30:38
Speaker 2: Yeah, but everybody, that was another episode of stimulated Stimulated.
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Speaker 2: We love you all and we'll see you next time.