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ALONE BUT UNSTOPPABLE – Find Strength in Solitude and Resilience · Motivational Podcast

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Speaker 1: Don't die like this.
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Speaker 2: Bro.
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Speaker 3: This ain't you.
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Speaker 4: Bro, This ain't you. You weren't born like this. One
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Speaker 4: time I was running by a graveyard and I was
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Speaker 4: just trying to become I was fat, and I look
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Speaker 4: out there. I'm like, man, I wonder how many you
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Speaker 4: mothers in there. I can just are so upset with
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Speaker 4: how you lived your life.
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Speaker 1: What do you want in your life?
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Speaker 5: We have so.
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Speaker 1: Much influence coming at us that we are so lost.
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Speaker 1: We don't know what we want to do because we
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Speaker 1: don't spend enough time with ourselves.
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Speaker 5: God com missing something.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's about seventy five of you.
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Speaker 6: It's still fucking in there.
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Speaker 1: It's still chained up because you just didn't want to
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Speaker 1: find your will power, didn't want to find your soul,
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Speaker 1: your will, your heart, your determination, your guts, your courage.
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Speaker 1: You have to learn how to get up and do
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Speaker 1: shit when you ain't got fucking five K, no ten K, nothing,
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Speaker 1: nothing exists.
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Speaker 4: Your life can sucks you in the dungeon.
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Speaker 7: Now I'm going to make something out of myself that
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Speaker 7: it's going to be so good it's bad.
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Speaker 8: Remembering that you are going to die is the best
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Speaker 8: way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you
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Speaker 8: have something to lose, you are already naked. There is
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Speaker 8: no reason not to follow your heart.
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Speaker 9: So I come from a centered place. I come from
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Speaker 9: a focused place. I come from compassion. It is just
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Speaker 9: my nature. I come from a willingness to understand and
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Speaker 9: to be understood, and I come from wanting to.
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Speaker 10: Connect.
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Speaker 9: I mean, the secret of that show for twenty five
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Speaker 9: years is that people could see themselves in me. All
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Speaker 9: over the world, they could see themselves in me. And
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Speaker 9: even as I became more and more financially successful, which
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Speaker 9: was a big surprise to me, let me teach you
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Speaker 9: the real life how it really is.
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Speaker 1: The reason why you're a loser, the reason why you're
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Speaker 1: not fucking making it, and the reason why you're trying
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Speaker 1: to go through all these I go to all these.
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Speaker 4: Fucking conventions, speak all the fucking time.
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Speaker 1: I'm look into fucking audience, and these people sign up,
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Speaker 1: sign up, sign up fucking every year to go to
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Speaker 1: convention thinking they're going to learn something fucking different.
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Speaker 6: No, you're lazy.
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Speaker 11: You know exactly what to do, exactly what to do.
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Speaker 1: It just sucks doing it. It sucks to do it.
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Speaker 1: Everybody has the ability to do it, but they just
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Speaker 1: don't want to.
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Speaker 8: If I had never dropped out, I would have never
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Speaker 8: dropped in on that calligraphy class, and personal computers might
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Speaker 8: not have the wonderful typography.
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Speaker 12: That they do.
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Speaker 8: Of course, it was impossible to connect the dots looking
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Speaker 8: forward when I was in college, but it was very
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Speaker 8: very clear looking backwards ten years later. Again, you can't
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Speaker 8: connect the dots looking forward. You can only connect them
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Speaker 8: looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots
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Speaker 8: will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust
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Speaker 8: in something, your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever, because believing
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Speaker 8: that the dots will connect down the road will give
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Speaker 8: you the confidence to follow your heart even when it
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Speaker 8: leads you off the well worn path, And that will
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Speaker 8: make all the difference.
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Speaker 13: When I tell you motivation is life. When I tell
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Speaker 13: you that I need you to next hundred days, I need.
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Speaker 2: You to stay plugged in, right, because the days you're
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Speaker 2: not plugged in are the days you don't get one twenty.
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Speaker 2: They say an alligator is so carocious in a killer lion,
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Speaker 2: but I can kill it.
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Speaker 14: I can kill it alligator.
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Speaker 15: With my bare heads.
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Speaker 13: Low et how they say you want to kill an alligator,
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Speaker 13: you kill it right, after you eats, because right after
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Speaker 13: it eats, you get satisfied, and it goes to a
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Speaker 13: state like it's almost paralyzed.
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Speaker 11: Some of you all's room.
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Speaker 2: When you paralyzed, you have a little success.
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Speaker 14: You're done with nobody.
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Speaker 16: Else in your family has done and not even chill it.
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Speaker 13: Come on, you ain't hungry no more?
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Speaker 15: Next hearted?
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Speaker 17: I need you to stay. Fuckers, Why there's just still
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Speaker 17: be angry? What of you e got you satisfied?
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Speaker 18: What have you done?
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Speaker 14: What have you accomplished that got.
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Speaker 17: You so full? You see the thing we have to
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Speaker 17: understand about everything that we're a part of. First and foremost,
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Speaker 17: it's a blessing by God. And when it's a blessing,
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Speaker 17: you can't help but to give everything you got to it.
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Speaker 19: My life got.
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Speaker 20: Sick, I got spared, My life almost died.
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Speaker 7: The doctor came to me on the field.
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Speaker 15: It was on one knee.
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Speaker 17: He grabbed my wrist and he said, son, you don't
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Speaker 17: have a post. I don't even know how you're still living.
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Speaker 12: You want to go out there in that water, that
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Speaker 12: deep water. I don't care what kind of shif you
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Speaker 12: got it. You ain't got an anchor. You threw you
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Speaker 12: want all that success without an anchor. You want to
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Speaker 12: be in the deep. You want a phenomenal life.
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Speaker 3: With no anchor.
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Speaker 2: You can't survive without an anchor.
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Speaker 3: I got an anchor.
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Speaker 2: Young dudes, be like, yo, E, I want to be
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Speaker 2: like you E. I said, Bro, you don't want this life.
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Speaker 3: You don't want these responsibilities.
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Speaker 21: Bruh, it's a lot of responsibilities.
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Speaker 15: Bruh.
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Speaker 2: Like I'm a leader, Bruh, it's a lot of responsibility.
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Speaker 3: There are people.
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Speaker 2: Who are in a position of hurt whatever it could
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Speaker 2: be manipulated.
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Speaker 3: Like, bruh, you don't want these responsibilities. Bruh.
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Speaker 2: Like one day I'm gonna have to stand before my
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Speaker 2: creator and give an account of how I may every
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Speaker 2: move I made.
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Speaker 7: You don't want this life under this idea and this
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Speaker 7: notion that you could be anything you want. You can
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Speaker 7: accomplish anything you want.
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Speaker 3: Right, we hear that.
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Speaker 7: You've heard that from the time you were little boys.
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Speaker 7: You hear that now you're already incredibly accomplished. You guys
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Speaker 7: know that the thing that has worked for me is
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Speaker 7: to remember the hard times. Anything big that would happen,
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Speaker 7: I would always take a moment and I just remind myself,
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Speaker 7: all right, I was evicted when I was fourteen. We
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Speaker 7: were kicked off the island. We couldn't live in Hawaii
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Speaker 7: and no place to live. I would remember that, and
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Speaker 7: it allows me then to be present in the moment
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Speaker 7: and understand, Holy the stuff I have around me right now,
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Speaker 7: this is that I dreamed of when I was a kid.
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Speaker 14: Listen, You've got at least three fourths of your life
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Speaker 14: to go. That's three more lifetimes to you. So don't
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Speaker 14: blow it. Don't do drugs. If you're doing it, stop it,
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Speaker 14: get some help, give yourself a chance, a chance to
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Speaker 14: find out all the wonderful things you really can be.
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Speaker 1: Something in you has to wake up, and usually the
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Speaker 1: only person that can wake it.
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Speaker 17: Up is you.
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Speaker 1: But if you don't have a little flame, you know,
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Speaker 1: just that, just barely.
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Speaker 4: If you're done, I can't, I can't light it for you.
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Speaker 16: There are nothing but difficulties in achieving your goal. Listen, folks,
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Speaker 16: success is hard, It's really hard. Being not successful is
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Speaker 16: hard too. Now here's the difference between the two hards,
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Speaker 16: being not successful and hard and trying to become successful
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Speaker 16: and hard. When you are not successful and hard, there
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Speaker 16: are no options. You can't decide where you're going to dinner.
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Speaker 16: You can't decide if you're gonna buy a pair of shoes.
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Speaker 16: You can't decide if you're going on vacation. You can't
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Speaker 16: decide what you're gonna eat. Yep, don't have options on
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Speaker 16: the road to success. It's hard, but it creates options
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Speaker 16: for you.
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Speaker 1: I want you to learn that the only way you grow.
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Speaker 6: Is how to look at yourself and say, okay, like
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Speaker 6: I did take belonger than this, what the fuck I
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Speaker 6: have to do to get somewhere.
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Speaker 14: I'm this, I'm this, I'm this, I'm this, I'm this.
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Speaker 4: Well, basically, I'm not this, I'm not this, I'm not this.
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Speaker 1: I can't this, I can't do this, I'm all these insecurities.
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Speaker 4: Your life finally started when you sit in the underly
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Speaker 4: mirror and say I'm this and this and this and this,
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Speaker 4: you finally started your life. But most of all, your
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Speaker 4: biggest fears, the.
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Speaker 1: Biggest things that put you in the fuck the place
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Speaker 1: you are today, are in there.
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Speaker 4: So you all have to keep them shut, even like
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Speaker 4: to lock them up. May it never happened. They never grow,
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Speaker 4: you never improved, You never have real conversations that we're
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Speaker 4: having right now. Never never, oh no, no, no, no
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Speaker 4: no no, let's not no no no, let's not go there.
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Speaker 1: You gotta relive it, every fucking detail of it.
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Speaker 17: But most importantly, you know what I had invested in.
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Speaker 17: I had sweat acting, I had been working my whole life.
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Speaker 17: And what I didn't understand by being determined to chase something,
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Speaker 17: by being committed to it. And what commitment is.
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Speaker 15: Commitment is staying.
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Speaker 17: True to what you said you were going to do
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Speaker 17: long after the move that you have said.
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Speaker 22: It and has left you.
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Speaker 17: See, people think commitment is saying.
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Speaker 20: Yes, I'll do it on the days when it feel good.
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Speaker 17: But I've been committed to everything that I ever started
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Speaker 17: in my life, and I never stopped and I never quitted.
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Speaker 5: And so by being committed.
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Speaker 20: To everything that I started, I finished it.
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Speaker 23: It built a certain.
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Speaker 20: Type of spirit, It built a certain type of mentality,
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Speaker 20: it built.
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Speaker 17: A certain type of individual.
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Speaker 20: And so now I couldn't quit even if I wanted to.
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Speaker 20: I couldn't lay in the bed even if I wanted to.
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Speaker 20: I couldn't stop even if I wanted to. I had
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Speaker 20: too much wet aquity in my life. And every thing
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Speaker 20: that I was doing, I understood.
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Speaker 17: The process is more important in the product.
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Speaker 20: It wasn't about the outcome for me, whether I made
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Speaker 20: it to the NFL or not. That was inconsequent during
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Speaker 20: God's plan for my life. But I was going to
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Speaker 20: fall in love with that process because I understood by
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Speaker 20: falling in love with that process.
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Speaker 24: It was going to turn me into a machine.
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Speaker 20: If it's just about you, and it's just about the product,
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Speaker 20: it will trust you. Every day I get up, I
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Speaker 20: understand it's.
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Speaker 17: Somebody in the free world that's looking at me to
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Speaker 17: see if I'm gonna keep going.
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Speaker 18: And so I can't quit.
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Speaker 2: Just say I can, Yeah, come on, come on, I can.
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Speaker 5: I can't come on one time?
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Speaker 3: Yep I will, yep I must.
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Speaker 23: Those of you that have experienced some hardships, don't give
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Speaker 23: up on your dream. No one could have convinced me
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Speaker 23: by holding on, by continuing to push forward, by continuing
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Speaker 23: to run toward my dream. Had one day I would
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Speaker 23: have my own talk show. It's a long shot, ladies
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Speaker 23: and gentlemen from Liberty City and abandoned building on the floor,
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Speaker 23: not anning my mother or father. It's a long shot.
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Speaker 23: Being here with you today in this dome in Atlanta.
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Speaker 23: It's a long shot, no colleg trating, labels, edgigable, mentally, retarded.
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Speaker 23: But I kept running to what my dream.
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Speaker 16: You gotta be grateful when you're making fifty thousands, Then
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Speaker 16: you gotta be grateful when you get to seventy five thousands.
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Speaker 16: You gotta be grateful at eighty thousand. A lot of
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Speaker 16: people stay pissed off because they ain't a millionaire. But
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Speaker 16: I got news for you. If you pissed off where
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Speaker 16: you are right now, you'll never be a millionaire.
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Speaker 7: You want me to.
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Speaker 16: Tell you why, because there is a principle of success
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Speaker 16: that God requires our gratitude. The more you're grateful for,
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Speaker 16: the more God will give you to be grateful for.
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Speaker 16: Instead of complaining about what's going on, Man, I got
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Speaker 16: to go to work today. Man, I got these kids.
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Speaker 23: All of us. You're in some tragedy that if we haven't,
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Speaker 23: we will, and you can either let.
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Speaker 5: It destroy your life.
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Speaker 23: Or you can build upon it. You can permit it
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Speaker 23: to let you let it hold you down, or you
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Speaker 23: can decide I'm not going to let that happen to me.
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Speaker 23: I'm bigger than this. Make a declaration to yourself, declare
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Speaker 23: all out wall that you're going to get out of
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Speaker 23: this run.
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Speaker 2: So I was like, yo, eve real, you got to
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Speaker 2: stop playing the blame game. You know, at some point
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Speaker 2: you have to take personal responsibility. And it click like, yo,
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Speaker 2: you got yourself here, Like regardless of everything else, you
11:33
Speaker 2: played a role in getting yourself here. Now you got
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Speaker 2: to get yourself out. And I just remember man saying like, yo,
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Speaker 2: e you homeless nom. But this ain't the rest of
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Speaker 2: your life, man, this might be the story today, this
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Speaker 2: ain't how my life is going in I remember thinking
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Speaker 2: that to myself, like, we gonna get out of here.
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Speaker 3: You wire yourself, rewire the pattern, and give yourself freedom.
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Speaker 3: That's the game that we're going to play here. This
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Speaker 3: is not a game of just sitting around going oh,
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Speaker 3: this was done to me. Doesn't matter what was done.
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Speaker 3: What matters what are're gonna do with it?
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Speaker 25: Right?
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Speaker 3: And then the third skill is you become a creator
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Speaker 3: of patterns and then you're masterful. Then you're the best
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Speaker 3: in your business. Then you can do things no one
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Speaker 3: else does because you're not limited to what everybody else does.
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Speaker 3: You create a new way. That's what the greatest business
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Speaker 3: people do, That's what the greatest musicians do. The dancer,
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Speaker 3: the Michael Jackson of the world. He knew every movement,
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Speaker 3: he knew exactly what it would do to you. A
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Speaker 3: great musician knows which upbeats, down beats are gonna produce
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Speaker 3: what emotions. Great director knows if I come in closer,
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Speaker 3: far away, faster, slow, how to change your emotions. They
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Speaker 3: know exactly the patterns, and that's why they're the best
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Speaker 3: on earth.
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Speaker 18: I told you all that I was the greatest of
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Speaker 18: all time, gonna be done, and listen, I told you
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Speaker 18: today I'm still the greatest of all time. Never again
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Speaker 18: defeat me, Never again say that I'm gonna be defeated.
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Speaker 18: Never again. That make me done the doll until I'm
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Speaker 18: about fifty years old.
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Speaker 26: Right, Danie might get men every single day.
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Speaker 17: You don't have to always be your best, but just
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Speaker 17: plain me your best. People don't burn out and quit
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Speaker 17: because of what they do.
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Speaker 27: People burn out and.
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Speaker 17: Quit because life makes them forget why.
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Speaker 15: They do it.
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Speaker 17: The greatest trick that life plays on us all is
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Speaker 17: when we aspire to do something. When we say we're
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Speaker 17: gonna do something, go dreams aspirations. When we attack things,
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Speaker 17: when we want to do things for our family. The
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Speaker 17: greatest trick that life plays on us.
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Speaker 14: Once we put it out.
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Speaker 17: In the atmosphere, life hits us with a level of adversity, uncertainty,
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Speaker 17: COVID pandemic, and step back and say, let me see
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Speaker 17: if you remember your mother now.
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Speaker 28: The only thing I'm asking you.
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Speaker 17: To do is if you got to step back, regroup,
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Speaker 17: wipe your odds, wipe your face, shake it off.
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Speaker 29: Fair prayer, step back, then step.
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Speaker 17: Back up and say, I'll never forget why I do
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Speaker 17: what I do.
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Speaker 2: We must not stop, We must not surrender, We must
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Speaker 2: not quit, We must not give in.
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Speaker 16: You have to find a dream that's so big and
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Speaker 16: that overwhelms all of your fears and causes you to
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Speaker 16: never give up.
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Speaker 28: You take steps in this direction, you take steps in
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Speaker 28: that direction, so to get lost along the way. Sometimes
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Speaker 28: you fall down.
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Speaker 2: It should be.
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Speaker 28: Impossible for me to get back up, but it's not.
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Speaker 28: You See, I will try one hundred times to get up.
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Speaker 28: And if I fail one hundred times, if I fail
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Speaker 28: and I give up, do you think that I'm ever
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Speaker 28: gonna get up?
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Speaker 8: No?
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Speaker 25: But if I fail, I try again and again and again.
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Speaker 25: For as long as I try, there's always that chance
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Speaker 25: of getting up. Does that make sense? And it's not
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Speaker 25: the end until you've given up. It matters how you're
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Speaker 25: going to finish, and you're gonna finish strong, and you
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Speaker 25: will find that strength to get back up.
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Speaker 3: If you find yourself saying I can't do something, I
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Speaker 3: can't do it because I don't have the time, I
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Speaker 3: can't do it and other money. I can't do it
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Speaker 3: because I don't know the resource. I can't do it
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Speaker 3: because I don't know the right people. Anytime you start
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Speaker 3: finding yourself you say I can't do something, and you
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Speaker 3: must take action immediately, even if you don't know how,
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Speaker 3: even if you don't think it's possible. You've got to
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Speaker 3: develop a habit that says, if I can't, then I must.
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Speaker 1: I turn a person, this fuck stump into this motherfucking
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Speaker 1: right here, not off of reading a fuck the book,
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Speaker 1: off a theorist, off of going to work on myself
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Speaker 1: and saying, I don't know how to do this, but
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Speaker 1: I know that to get over there to that fucking time,
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Speaker 1: I gotta grind myself into a fucking fine power, and
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Speaker 1: I did it.
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Speaker 24: Run as hard as you can, same thing with a swim.
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Speaker 15: What do you do?
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Speaker 24: Swim as hard as you can? Same thing with the
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Speaker 24: homeschool course. The motivation won't be there. Three and a
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Speaker 24: half miles into a four at time run, you're dying.
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Speaker 24: You feel like you're gonna die.
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Speaker 15: What do you gotta do?
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Speaker 24: You gotta have the discipline to keep pushing, otherwise you're
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Speaker 24: not gonna make the time.
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Speaker 2: What I want you to do on twenty twenty five
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Speaker 2: is I want you to find difficulty and I want
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Speaker 2: you to go after it. Everybody said I wouldn't find difficult.
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Speaker 3: Come on, come on, come on.
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Speaker 2: Mike told me this was a crowd find difficult.
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Speaker 3: Oh, listen to me. The way you're gonna.
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Speaker 2: Separate yourself from everybody else is not to do what
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Speaker 2: everybody else is doing. You have to find difficult, and
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Speaker 2: you have to master difficult, because when you master difficult,
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Speaker 2: you separate yourself from everybody else.
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Speaker 16: The only way to learn how to get up, you
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Speaker 16: gotta fall. The only way to learn how to win,
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Speaker 16: you gotta lose. The only way to appreciate the laughter
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Speaker 16: you got to be crime. You would not appreciate the
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Speaker 16: sunshine if you do it.
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Speaker 21: If it didn't rain, I.
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Speaker 1: Was getting beat down physically, mentally, spiritually, whatever else going
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Speaker 1: through Just saying you know, I would put you know,
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Speaker 1: you can't hurt me.
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Speaker 4: Can't hurt me just became a message, you know, I
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Speaker 4: would say to myself.
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Speaker 1: And that's just kind of where it comes from.
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Speaker 30: Success is measured on the dark, stormy, cloudy days, and
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Speaker 30: if you can't of disorb failure, you're never gonna meet success.
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Speaker 27: I am sorry. If you've been abused, I'm sorry. If
16:53
Speaker 27: someone has mistreated you, I'm sorry. If you're struggling with
16:57
Speaker 27: something that I don't know about. But I want you
16:59
Speaker 27: to know something.
17:01
Speaker 28: That you don't know.
17:01
Speaker 27: What miracles can come from your broken pieces until you
17:04
Speaker 27: give your broken pieces a chance.
17:08
Speaker 31: Listen to me.
17:09
Speaker 15: Hey, it's temporary.
17:11
Speaker 2: It may laugh for a minute or an hour, or
17:14
Speaker 2: a day or.
17:15
Speaker 18: Even a year, but eventually it will provide and something
17:20
Speaker 18: else will.
17:21
Speaker 15: Take its place.
17:22
Speaker 2: If I quit, however, it will laugh forever.
17:31
Speaker 32: You know, as we come to the end of this
17:33
Speaker 32: phase of our life, we find ourselves trying to remember
17:36
Speaker 32: the good times and trying to forget the bad times,
17:39
Speaker 32: and we find ourselves thinking about the future.
17:41
Speaker 33: You start to worry, thinking what am I going to do?
17:44
Speaker 33: Where am I going to be in ten years? But
17:46
Speaker 33: I say to you, worry so much because in the end,
17:50
Speaker 33: none of us have very long on this earth.
17:53
Speaker 10: Now, fear is going to be a player in your life,
17:57
Speaker 10: but you get to decide how much, and spend your
18:00
Speaker 10: whole life imagining ghosts, worrying about the pathway to the future.
18:04
Speaker 10: But all there will ever be is what's happening here
18:08
Speaker 10: and the decisions we make in this moment, which are
18:11
Speaker 10: based in either love or fear.
18:14
Speaker 34: The only thing I have ever wanted to be for
18:16
Speaker 34: my whole life was a writer.
18:18
Speaker 16: I wrote all through.
18:19
Speaker 34: Childhood, all through adolescence. By the time I was a teenager,
18:22
Speaker 34: I was sending my very bad stories to the New Yorker,
18:24
Speaker 34: hoping to be discovered. After college, I got a job
18:27
Speaker 34: as a diner waitress, kept working, kept writing, kept trying
18:31
Speaker 34: really hard to get published, and failing at it. I
18:34
Speaker 34: failed at getting published for almost six years. Every single
18:38
Speaker 34: time I had to ask myself if I should just
18:40
Speaker 34: quit while I was behind and give up and spare
18:44
Speaker 34: myself this pain. But then I would find my resolve,
18:47
Speaker 34: and always in the same way by saying I'm not
18:50
Speaker 34: going to quit, I'm going home. You have to understand
18:53
Speaker 34: that for me, going home did not mean returning to
18:56
Speaker 34: my family's farm. For me, going home meant returning to
18:59
Speaker 34: the work of writing, because writing was my home.
19:03
Speaker 35: Everything that happened yesterday back means nothing.
19:09
Speaker 36: I was dying, and I knew it. I immediately began
19:13
Speaker 36: to panic. My heart was beating out of my chest.
19:15
Speaker 36: I was seeing tunnel vision. I was sicker than I
19:17
Speaker 36: could ever explain. I started to realize that there was
19:20
Speaker 36: something really, really wrong. My heart was beating out of
19:23
Speaker 36: my chest. I was so shaky, I was so weak
19:26
Speaker 36: as I lay in a coma that the doctors diagnosed
19:29
Speaker 36: me with something called Ninja cockle meningitis, which is a
19:32
Speaker 36: vaccine for ventable blood infection. I was going to less
19:35
Speaker 36: than a two percent chance of living and immediately put
19:37
Speaker 36: on life support. It was times like these that first
19:40
Speaker 36: prompted me to ask myself, if my life were a book,
19:45
Speaker 36: and I was the author of that book, how would
19:48
Speaker 36: I want this story to go. I saw myself walking gracefully,
19:54
Speaker 36: and I saw myself somehow helping other people through my journey.
19:59
Speaker 36: And I saw myself snowboarding again, and that passion and
20:02
Speaker 36: that fire that I felt inside That is when a
20:06
Speaker 36: new chapter of my life began.
20:10
Speaker 35: Everybody's got strengths and weaknesses. What a sixty year old
20:13
Speaker 35: has is experience, but doesn't have time.
20:15
Speaker 1: What youth has is time.
20:17
Speaker 37: You can literally do four different things over the next
20:20
Speaker 37: two years, six months at a time to figure out
20:22
Speaker 37: everything that you think you might like you should try
20:25
Speaker 37: to do.
20:26
Speaker 35: That's not what people tell you to do.
20:28
Speaker 3: It's important to realize wherever focus goes, energy flows. It's corny,
20:31
Speaker 3: but it's true. We don't experience life, none of us do.
20:34
Speaker 3: We experience the life we focus on. So in any moment,
20:36
Speaker 3: what's wrong is always available, so as it's right. So
20:39
Speaker 3: it's not about being positive, it's about being intelligent. You know,
20:43
Speaker 3: you got to look at the impact of what you're believing,
20:45
Speaker 3: and you got to look at and say, you know,
20:47
Speaker 3: where's my focus going. There's I can always be upset
20:50
Speaker 3: about something. I could always find something to be joyous
20:53
Speaker 3: or at least grateful for, which leads to joy.
20:56
Speaker 16: Your life is powered by you.
20:59
Speaker 21: Give you a dream out of applause.
21:00
Speaker 3: It's going to happen. It's going to happen. It's going
21:02
Speaker 3: to happen.
21:04
Speaker 38: Life is short. Every moment, every choice, it matters. Imagine
21:08
Speaker 38: yourself years from now looking back will you see a
21:11
Speaker 38: life that was lived fully with heart and purpose, or
21:14
Speaker 38: will you see miss chances, lost, potential dreams that slip
21:18
Speaker 38: through your fingers because you let doubt, fear, or distraction
21:22
Speaker 38: stand in your way. What if I told you that
21:24
Speaker 38: everything you need to succeed is already inside of you,
21:28
Speaker 38: That the path you're on, the challenges you face, they're
21:33
Speaker 38: not there to stop you. They're there to shape you,
21:36
Speaker 38: to prepare you for the greatness that lies ahead.
21:40
Speaker 11: Do what you can't.
21:43
Speaker 8: The thing I would say is when you grow up,
21:45
Speaker 8: you tend to get told that the world is the
21:48
Speaker 8: way it is, and your your life is just to
21:51
Speaker 8: live your life inside the world. Try not to bash
21:54
Speaker 8: into the walls too much, try to have a nice
21:57
Speaker 8: family life, have fun, save a little money. But life
22:02
Speaker 8: that's a very limited life. Life can be much broader
22:05
Speaker 8: once you discover one simple fact, and that is everything
22:08
Speaker 8: around you that you call life was made up by
22:11
Speaker 8: people that were no smarter than you, and you can
22:13
Speaker 8: change it. You can influence it. You can you can
22:16
Speaker 8: build your own things that other people can use.
22:19
Speaker 34: I appreciate it today more than ever, more than I
22:22
Speaker 34: did yesterday, and tomorrow I will appreciate it more tomorrow
22:25
Speaker 34: than today, because life is short and it's fragile.
22:28
Speaker 9: And we don't know how.
22:28
Speaker 24: Many birthdays we have, so we don't have to have
22:31
Speaker 24: a birthday to celebrate.
22:32
Speaker 8: Just celebrate life.
22:33
Speaker 37: Go and travel and learn, Go and start that business
22:36
Speaker 37: that you've always wanted. Hook up with those threemates and
22:39
Speaker 37: start that band you've always wanted.
22:41
Speaker 35: This is the time to be massively risk.
22:43
Speaker 37: Massively risk areas.
22:45
Speaker 29: The three things I'm going to be stressed in today
22:47
Speaker 29: because I think they're so important. Number One, I'm going
22:50
Speaker 29: to say to you that you are what you are
22:52
Speaker 29: and where you are because of what's going into your mind,
22:56
Speaker 29: and that you can change what you are. You can
22:58
Speaker 29: change where you are by changing what goes into your mind.
23:04
Speaker 29: The second thing I'm going to stress so hard is
23:07
Speaker 29: that life is tough. You See, I don't care what
23:10
Speaker 29: you do, whether you're a student or whether you're the
23:13
Speaker 29: newest distributor whether you're a golden wreck, a diamond or pearl,
23:17
Speaker 29: or whether you're a crown. Life is tough. But I'm
23:21
Speaker 29: also going to stress the fact that when you are
23:23
Speaker 29: tough on yourself, that life is going to be infinitely
23:27
Speaker 29: easier on you. Now, life is tremendously exciting, it's enormously rewarding,
23:35
Speaker 29: But first of all, it is demanding. You See, you
23:37
Speaker 29: gotta be before you can do, and you gotta do
23:40
Speaker 29: before you can have. The third thing I'm going to
23:43
Speaker 29: stress to you this morning is basically the fact that
23:46
Speaker 29: you can have everything in life that you want if
23:50
Speaker 29: you'll just help enough other people get what they want.
23:55
Speaker 39: What does it mean to live an infinite life? Clearly,
23:57
Speaker 39: our lives are finite. We're born, we die, we come,
24:01
Speaker 39: we go. Life is infinite. The game of life will
24:05
Speaker 39: continue with us or without us, which means every single
24:08
Speaker 39: one of us has a choice. We don't get to
24:11
Speaker 39: choose the nature of the game. Life is infinite. We
24:14
Speaker 39: don't even get to choose if we want to play
24:15
Speaker 39: in the gamer night. Once you're born, you're in it.
24:17
Speaker 39: We get one choice. Do you want to play with
24:21
Speaker 39: a finite mindset? Or do you want to play with
24:24
Speaker 39: an infinite mindset?
24:26
Speaker 19: I told my mom when I was sixteen years old,
24:29
Speaker 19: one day, one day, I'm going to be successful. One day,
24:32
Speaker 19: one day I'm gonna be successful, and one day I'm gonna.
24:35
Speaker 7: Help a lot of people.
24:35
Speaker 11: I always said this pay the price today.
24:38
Speaker 19: So you can pay any price in the future.
24:40
Speaker 40: Pay the price now, okay, pay the price.
24:45
Speaker 37: Stop making excuses. Stop complaining. Nobody's listening. They made me
24:51
Speaker 37: contend they're listening. The market doesn't care. When you need
24:56
Speaker 37: to do this, make one person happier you, then you
25:00
Speaker 37: and make everybody else happy. You know why I like
25:02
Speaker 37: making people happy because I'm already happy.
25:07
Speaker 2: I am here because I want to be here. That's
25:14
Speaker 2: why I'm here. Nobody forced me to come here. I'm
25:17
Speaker 2: not getting paid to be here. I am here because
25:20
Speaker 2: I want to be here. If you ask people, why
25:23
Speaker 2: didn't you achieve something? Somebody who's working for you, you know,
25:26
Speaker 2: or a partner, even yourself, and you fail to achieve
25:28
Speaker 2: a goal, what's the reason people say they failed to achieve?
25:31
Speaker 15: What do they tell you? I don't have the didn't
25:32
Speaker 15: know enough, didn't have the knowledge, didn't have the money,
25:34
Speaker 15: didn't have the didn't have the technology. You know, I
25:38
Speaker 15: didn't have the right manager. You may not have the money,
25:40
Speaker 15: you may not have the Supreme Court, but that is
25:42
Speaker 15: not the defining factor. Defining factor is never resources. It's resourcefulness.
25:47
Speaker 15: And what I mean specifically rather than just some phrase,
25:49
Speaker 15: is if you have emotion human emotion, something that I
25:54
Speaker 15: experienced from you day before yesterday, and a level that
25:57
Speaker 15: is as profound as I've ever experienced. And if you
25:59
Speaker 15: communicate with that emotion, I believe you would have morning.
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Speaker 17: I tell my son all the time, I'm like, it's
26:04
Speaker 17: a big difference between a hard worker and somebody that
26:08
Speaker 17: works hard. Right, Most cats are somebody that works hard.
26:12
Speaker 17: If the situation, in the circumstances what they wanted to be,
26:15
Speaker 17: they gonna come out and they gonna act accordingly, and
26:18
Speaker 17: they gonna give you everything they got. But a hard worker,
26:21
Speaker 17: regardless of the situation, regardless of circumstance, regardless.
26:24
Speaker 22: Of what happened, I'm gonna show up and I'm.
26:26
Speaker 17: Gonna give everything I got to it because I'm looking
26:28
Speaker 17: for something.
26:28
Speaker 14: That's totally different.
26:30
Speaker 23: Right, the question.
26:31
Speaker 17: Becomes this, can you be committed to the process of
26:33
Speaker 17: what you're doing without being emotion you're attached to the
26:36
Speaker 17: results of what you're doing.
26:38
Speaker 1: Some people have been bullied, some people are distressed out,
26:41
Speaker 1: some people are insecure, some people are fat and overweight,
26:44
Speaker 1: and the world puts a lot of this shit in
26:47
Speaker 1: your mind. It's not just you, yet you help it.
26:51
Speaker 1: And my whole thing is about I to develop a mindset,
26:55
Speaker 1: a mindset that was indestructible. I had to armor plate
26:59
Speaker 1: my mind.
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Speaker 4: And it's about what you're saying to yourself.
27:03
Speaker 16: But it also comes at work.
27:05
Speaker 1: So whenever I was getting beat down physically, mentally, spiritually,
27:08
Speaker 1: whatever else going through, just saying you know, I would
27:11
Speaker 1: put you know you can't hurt me, can't hurt me
27:14
Speaker 1: just became a message. You know, I would say to myself.
27:17
Speaker 35: You can step back right now and think about who
27:19
Speaker 35: we all admire. They're all people that punted the system.
27:23
Speaker 35: There are people that practice singing since they were five.
27:26
Speaker 35: There are people that shot ten thousand basketballs every morning.
27:29
Speaker 35: It's always that anything meaningful and good takes real time
27:33
Speaker 35: and effort.
27:34
Speaker 37: You have to work for it.
27:35
Speaker 35: But we recognize the world we're living in.
27:37
Speaker 40: The world is abundant.
27:39
Speaker 35: If you're good enough, you can get yours too.
27:42
Speaker 2: I need you to eat, sleep, breathdalmin eight.
27:47
Speaker 23: It doesn't matter how good the bad they are.
27:49
Speaker 2: We're not playing for the level of our competition no more.
27:52
Speaker 3: We're not even playing.
27:54
Speaker 2: Sometimes were good, sometimes were great.
27:56
Speaker 3: Were gonna go out.
27:57
Speaker 21: There on three young We're gonna do what this year?
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Speaker 17: One?
28:00
Speaker 14: What two?
28:01
Speaker 28: Three, and there were times where I sort of looked
28:04
Speaker 28: at my life and thinking, well, I can't do this
28:05
Speaker 28: and I can't do that. And you keep on concentrating
28:09
Speaker 28: on the things that you wish you had, all the
28:10
Speaker 28: things that you wish you didn't have. As so many
28:12
Speaker 28: people come and say how come you smile so much?
28:15
Speaker 28: You see, it's very hot to smile sometimes in life
28:17
Speaker 28: through the things that happen that you don't know, when
28:19
Speaker 28: you don't understand and you don't know if you're gonna
28:21
Speaker 28: get through it. You know, you go through your storms
28:24
Speaker 28: in life and you don't know how long this storm
28:27
Speaker 28: is gonna be.
28:28
Speaker 40: Failures, it's a bullshit code for you.
28:30
Speaker 2: Quit. I'll be a quit a bitch.
28:33
Speaker 26: Don't be a quitter because if you quit, you will fail.
28:37
Speaker 5: When you hear.
28:37
Speaker 40: Somebody walk up here and talk about their success, you.
28:40
Speaker 24: Need to unload on the audience.
28:43
Speaker 26: If he can get it and she can get it,
28:45
Speaker 26: I can get it. I'm telling you, like, like you
28:48
Speaker 26: guys got to figure out how to quit worrying about
28:51
Speaker 26: your damn refrigerator and your kids shoes. Money matters.
28:56
Speaker 11: It gives you options.
28:57
Speaker 2: You can move.
28:58
Speaker 26: Around a little bit and say shit, I want to
29:00
Speaker 26: put ten thousand every month, I want ten thousand.
29:02
Speaker 3: Go on to that chait.
29:04
Speaker 26: You gotta have money. Don't have to have money to
29:06
Speaker 26: make money. You need courage and commitment to get money.
29:11
Speaker 41: You need to be sort of very rigorous in your
29:14
Speaker 41: self analysis I think, certainly extremely tenacious, and then just
29:22
Speaker 41: work like hell. I mean, you just have to put
29:24
Speaker 41: in you know, eighty hour eighty one hundred hour weeks
29:29
Speaker 41: every week. That all those things improve the odds of success. Okay,
29:34
Speaker 41: I mean if other people are putting in forty hour
29:36
Speaker 41: work weeks and you're putting in one hundred hour work weeks,
29:40
Speaker 41: then even if you're doing the same thing, you know
29:44
Speaker 41: that in one year you will achieve what they achieve.
29:47
Speaker 20: You will achieve.
29:49
Speaker 41: In four months what it takes them a year.
29:52
Speaker 35: To achieve, four hundred trillion to one.
29:56
Speaker 37: When you understand that math, how can't you live your life?
30:00
Speaker 37: That's how rare.
30:01
Speaker 35: It is to be a human being.
30:06
Speaker 37: You've been given this ridiculous triple miracle. You've got one
30:10
Speaker 37: at back. Please do something about it. We are living
30:13
Speaker 37: through the greatest era to be alive.
30:15
Speaker 4: Ever.
30:16
Speaker 37: Yes, there's stuck. I got news for you. There's always stuff,
30:20
Speaker 37: But when you take control of your at back, when
30:22
Speaker 37: you put it all on yourself, when it's your fault
30:25
Speaker 37: and your wins, when you own it, that's when it
30:28
Speaker 37: starts happening.
30:30
Speaker 40: It don't matter that you broke, as long as you
30:32
Speaker 40: hadn't quit.
30:33
Speaker 37: So like you can't break me, that means I can
30:35
Speaker 37: take a lot of risks.
30:36
Speaker 19: Because I'm not worried about going broke, because I can't
30:38
Speaker 19: be broke.
30:39
Speaker 22: I have my spirituality and my creativity.
30:41
Speaker 10: I have my persistence.
30:43
Speaker 40: I got courage like they.
30:44
Speaker 10: Ain't no breaking me man, And I'm a dangerous, my
30:46
Speaker 10: dangerous beast.
30:48
Speaker 6: With every obstacle, I look at its friction.
30:51
Speaker 1: Now, without friction, there is no growth.
30:54
Speaker 6: You have to have friction in your life to grow.
30:56
Speaker 6: So I started looking at all these different things versus
30:58
Speaker 6: the whate was memon tal like, oh my god, look
31:00
Speaker 6: at my life. My life is so fucked up. I
31:02
Speaker 6: come from this fucked up family. I'm being beaten, I'm
31:06
Speaker 6: being abused mentally physically. I started looking at it as
31:09
Speaker 6: a as a perfect trial ground. So I did to
31:12
Speaker 6: flip it upside down and say, okay, I'm suffering tremendously mentally.
31:18
Speaker 5: Use this to your advantage.
31:19
Speaker 6: Yes, is your disadvantage. So that's what I did, versus
31:23
Speaker 6: looking at it as like, oh my god, what was me?
31:24
Speaker 6: I'm never gonna get out of here.
31:25
Speaker 15: I looked at it.
31:26
Speaker 6: Okay, hang on a second, Hang on a second. If
31:29
Speaker 6: I can overcome this, if I can find some power
31:33
Speaker 6: in this, some way to get through this, that right
31:38
Speaker 6: there would be the fuel for the rest of my life.
31:41
Speaker 11: In bed that long term goal in your mind. Burn
31:45
Speaker 11: it into your soul and think about it, and write
31:49
Speaker 11: about it, and talk about it and hang it.
31:51
Speaker 2: Up on your wall.
31:52
Speaker 11: But most important, we do something about it.
31:55
Speaker 3: Do something about it.
31:56
Speaker 11: Every day, every day. Do something that moves toward that goal,
32:01
Speaker 11: that keeps the goal alive and insight and in focus. However,
32:08
Speaker 11: however small or insignificant that step might seem. Take it,
32:13
Speaker 11: do it, do that little piece, make it happen, because
32:17
Speaker 11: that goal isn't going to achieve itself.
32:22
Speaker 21: It's all on you.
32:28
Speaker 42: Ultimately, everybody's purpose is to serve the evolutionary impulse of
32:33
Speaker 42: the universe. But along the way, it could be how
32:38
Speaker 42: do you express your unique skills of talents? What would
32:41
Speaker 42: you do if you had all the money and all
32:43
Speaker 42: the time in the world. Would you feel joyful doing it,
32:47
Speaker 42: what it brings about joy to others, or did improve
32:51
Speaker 42: the quality of life, then that would be a purpose.
32:56
Speaker 31: What's your purpose? What your cause with your belief? Why
32:58
Speaker 31: did you get out of that this morning? And why
33:00
Speaker 31: should anyone care? And most of us cannot answer that question?
33:04
Speaker 31: And what I learned was based on the principles of
33:06
Speaker 31: how the brain makes decisions, the Olympic brain versus the
33:09
Speaker 31: neo cortex, which is the most inspiring leaders, the most
33:15
Speaker 31: inspiring organizations, those that seem to have an unbalanced capacity
33:19
Speaker 31: for let's call it movement building. Every single one of
33:22
Speaker 31: them thinks, hacks and communicate the same.
33:23
Speaker 8: Way, and they will start with why.
33:25
Speaker 31: The rest of us start with what you said? On
33:27
Speaker 31: a planet, somebody says, what do you do?
33:28
Speaker 15: Do?
33:28
Speaker 31: Answer that question?
33:30
Speaker 11: They don't.
33:31
Speaker 31: They tell you what they believe.
33:33
Speaker 19: I don't end up doing things that are destructive when
33:35
Speaker 19: I'm busy doing things that are constructive. The truth is
33:38
Speaker 19: I was never a drug addict. I just had too
33:41
Speaker 19: much free time and made bad choices. This planet is
33:45
Speaker 19: filled with bad choices, pornography, strip joints, casinos. If you
33:50
Speaker 19: were filled up all day long with.
33:53
Speaker 40: Activities if you were addicted to productivity, if you were
33:57
Speaker 40: junkied out on potential, you wouldn't have time for all
34:01
Speaker 40: the other gardens.
34:03
Speaker 19: I wouldn't spend money on stuff I don't need. When
34:06
Speaker 19: is that money spent? When do we waste most of
34:08
Speaker 19: our money on this planet during the holidays, when we
34:11
Speaker 19: have free time?
34:13
Speaker 5: When do you spend your money?
34:14
Speaker 19: When do you go in debt on the holidays? Free time?
34:17
Speaker 19: So if I can just stay busy, if I can
34:19
Speaker 19: use time and create time, how.
34:21
Speaker 5: Do I create time?
34:22
Speaker 19: I have twenty four hours, and I'm like, I'm a
34:24
Speaker 19: jam as much in those twenty four hours as I can,
34:27
Speaker 19: and then I'll let you worry about me burning out,
34:29
Speaker 19: because that's what I'll hear next.
34:33
Speaker 43: Are you being busy being busy? Have you lost that
34:38
Speaker 43: connection to the life you wanted to live when you
34:41
Speaker 43: were a little kid. Are you so busy stringing your
34:45
Speaker 43: instrument that the song that your life was meant to
34:48
Speaker 43: sing has died or is dormant within you? And my
34:53
Speaker 43: channels to you is simply this, to do whatever it
34:56
Speaker 43: takes before you sleep tonight to reconnect with the best
34:59
Speaker 43: within you that you may have lost. Because one of
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Speaker 43: the things I've noticed is this, there are too many
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Speaker 43: amongst us walking the planet today who are sort of
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Speaker 43: in a waking sleep. They have lost a sense of
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Speaker 43: who they truly are. And your life will never work
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Speaker 43: if there's a huge space between who you truly are
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Speaker 43: and the person you know you're meant to be. Your
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Speaker 43: life will never be flooded with energy, creativity, productivity, and
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Speaker 43: happiness if there is a large space between your life
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Speaker 43: right now and your unlived life.
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Speaker 39: Purpose is always idealized.
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Speaker 37: Right.
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Speaker 39: Like as I said before.
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Speaker 10: I imagine a world of witch right.
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Speaker 39: I know I'm not going to get there.
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Speaker 30: If life was nothing but green lights and we didn't
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Speaker 30: have yellows and reds, things that make us pause, hardships,
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Speaker 30: crisis is times for introspection, then what the hell would
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Speaker 30: it all be for. We need the yellows in the reds.
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Speaker 30: That's how we evolve, That's how hopefully there's some ascension
35:54
Speaker 30: to our being. If anything, I would say to my
35:58
Speaker 30: fifteen year old self, go fail. Anything i'd say to you,
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Speaker 30: go fail more. Forget them. Those people on the sideline
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Speaker 30: that are saying the thumbs down, are calling you something
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Speaker 30: or being snarky. They're on the sidelines for a reason.
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Speaker 40: You want you guys want to be around more people
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Speaker 40: than are spontaneous. Spontaneity, have an idea, do it, don't
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Speaker 40: have an idea and think, have an idea. Move as
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Speaker 40: fast as you can, or you move and say yes,
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Speaker 40: or you move and say no. Don't be in Maybe
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Speaker 40: get out of Maybe maybe is killing you.
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Speaker 5: Following your dreams is a lonely, solitary, scary, dangerous pursuit.
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Speaker 5: You can't wait for somebody to think you can do it.
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Speaker 5: And it's like they they because they don't think you
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Speaker 5: can do nothing.
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Speaker 15: They can.
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Speaker 5: Everybody has dreams.
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Speaker 22: And as much as you you want to be able
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Speaker 22: to listen a little bit because somebody's gonna give you
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Speaker 22: a gem, but you nobody knows but you. You can't
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Speaker 22: get advice on what you should do with your life right.
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Speaker 22: Nobody knows what you are. Even sometimes you don't really
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Speaker 22: even know what you are. You gotta take your shot.
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Speaker 22: And it's like, as much as you want people to
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Speaker 22: agree and you want the people around you to be
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Speaker 22: supporting your dreams, and it's not going to be like
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Speaker 22: that all the time. You got to do it alone.
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Speaker 21: If you are having a difficult time finding your purpose
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Speaker 21: in life. Look at the intersection of your passion the
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Speaker 21: thing you love to do, and your proficiency, the thing
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Speaker 21: you're good at. Right at X marks the spot that
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Speaker 21: is more than likely where you'll find your purpose. A
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Speaker 21: lot of people say, I just don't know what I'm
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Speaker 21: supposed to do with my life. I submit to you
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Speaker 21: that for most people, that's not the real problem. They
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Speaker 21: think they're struggling finding their purpose, but they're actually struggling
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Speaker 21: accepting their purpose because they're too concerned about what they think.
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Speaker 21: Other people will think.
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Speaker 39: There's nothing wrong with goals as long as we understand
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Speaker 39: the contact and the purpose of that goal.
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Speaker 36: Right.
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Speaker 39: I like to think of money like fuel, right, And
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Speaker 39: a car is the company, and the purpose is the destination.
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Speaker 35: Right.
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Speaker 39: And if money is fuel, it makes the car go.
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Speaker 39: You absolutely have to have money to make the company go.
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Speaker 39: You have to have you have to There is no
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Speaker 39: dreaming big if you have no fuel. You could have
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Speaker 39: the most beautiful car in the world. And yet if
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Speaker 39: you've got no fuel, it's pointless. But we don't own
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Speaker 39: a car to buy fuel, right. We don't own we
38:27
Speaker 39: don't have companies simply for the money. Right, it's the
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Speaker 39: destination you want to be able to go somewhere, and
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Speaker 39: the and the passengers are the employees. And they're excited,
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Speaker 39: not about the fuel in the car. How much fuel
38:37
Speaker 39: do we have? No one gets excited by that. We
38:39
Speaker 39: get excited where we're going.
38:42
Speaker 19: I believe I'm a spiritual being, not a human being.
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Speaker 19: The spiritual being would have tremendous potential, unbelievable potential. It
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Speaker 19: would be the light on the candle, not the candle.
38:51
Speaker 19: The body would be the candle, okay, and the spiritual
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Speaker 19: being would be the flame. I'm not on the flame.
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Speaker 19: And and I want to see how hot can I burn?
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Speaker 3: Okay?
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Speaker 21: How far can I go?
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Speaker 19: How much light can I bring the world? How much
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Speaker 19: positive truth message can I bring this planet? How much
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Speaker 19: more can I do? And I think the problem is
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Speaker 19: people are settling out with just enough. Pay the bills,
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Speaker 19: take care of my family. Get my little box, get
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Speaker 19: my little house, put my little welcome mat on the front,
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Speaker 19: put the little gate around the yard. We're all going
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Speaker 19: to be happy. I don't want the box. I don't
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Speaker 19: want one location. I don't need to welcome at I
39:34
Speaker 19: want to know the world. I want to travel the world.
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Speaker 19: I want to do more. I want to be in
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Speaker 19: more places. I want to have friends in every country.
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Speaker 19: I want to inspire people in every language, and I
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Speaker 19: want other people to see and they could do the
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Speaker 19: same thing, you know, And maybe maybe at the end
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Speaker 19: of all this, I just become everybody's uncle that I
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Speaker 19: never had