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Right Order Changes Everything · High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

• 0:33
  SPEAKER_00: I'm back with another high level wife espresso shot.
• 0:37
  SPEAKER_00: And today we're getting back to a cornerstone, a foundational truth, pillar, if you will, of high-level wife.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_00: Right order changes everything.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_00: I truly believe that most marriage problems aren't actually marriage problems.
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_00: They're worship problems, they're order problems.
• 0:59
  SPEAKER_00: When God is first, everything else finds its proper place.
• 1:03
  SPEAKER_00: But when something else takes his place, everything else begins to drift, right?
• 1:09
  SPEAKER_00: The things dethrone God in our hearts, right?
• 1:13
  SPEAKER_00: Not actually in reality.
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_00: And then everything else begins to drift.
• 1:17
  SPEAKER_00: Jesus didn't say seek a better marriage first.
• 1:21
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, let that hit you and sit with it.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_00: Jesus did not tell you to seek a better marriage first.
• 1:27
  SPEAKER_00: He said, seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
• 1:33
  SPEAKER_00: When I put my husband first, I become disappointed because he can't do what only God can do.
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_00: When I put myself first, I become selfish.
• 1:44
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 1:44
  SPEAKER_00: When I put my kids first, I put pressure and expectation on them that they can never measure up to.
• 1:52
  SPEAKER_00: But when Christ is first, I can finally love everyone else rightly because it's about overflow.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_00: Right order isn't about rules, it's about relationship.
• 2:02
  SPEAKER_00: It's about the vertical enabling us to be filled to overflowing then on the horizontal or other relationships.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_00: So today ask yourself, what's first in my heart?
• 2:16
  SPEAKER_00: All right, get nitty-gritty with this.
• 2:18
  SPEAKER_00: Let the Holy Spirit search you and know you and reveal any wayward desire within you.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_00: Go read Matthew 6, 25 through 34 and notice what Jesus says about seeking Him first.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_00: Everything changes when the order changes.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: I will preach this until the day that I die because I've experienced it.
• 2:42
  SPEAKER_00: I've watched marriages transform when they make that shift.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_00: It's powerful and it is key.
• 2:51
  SPEAKER_00: I'll see you on the next espresso show.