Latest / Mindset Magic with Mika / 65: cope while waiting for the interior design board exam results with IDLE topnotchers and passers
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- 0:00It's it's such a blessing to be to have her so open forum and to
- 0:05be part of your podcast number. I can't express.
- 0:09Thank you. Having alignment of us.
- 0:12So we'll see. Manifest and resource, not all
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- 0:26Yeah, so grateful. Welcome to Mindset Magic with
- 0:30Mika, where we unlock clarity, courage, confidence, creativity,
- 0:33and connections so you can show up as their most expressed, most
- 0:37aligned, most unstoppable self. If you are ready to shift into
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- 0:46I'm Mika Doria, your interior designer, your mindset.
- 0:50Magic news, Bradley Goddess. Let's dive in.
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- 0:57Wow Pastor, is Nasila nothing the delay your exam for you, but
- 1:02how did you stay grounded during the waiting game?
- 1:06Waiting game. No, the present, but the advice
- 1:10was to distract yourself and to just think of anything else
- 1:18other than the board exam to say.
- 1:20For us, it's a very long waiting game.
- 1:22It was like 20 working days so afternoon it was reconnecting
- 1:30with first May family cause selling unang the most because
- 1:37they were all nice in the whole para.
- 1:41Malapit also reviews Indigo. And that was reconnecting with
- 1:45them. So my family are the people who
- 1:49matter most to me. So that was one.
- 1:52And then falling into hobbies, so.
- 1:56And yeah, that time it was running.
- 1:58So hello, someone likes Strava? Only you and Kay.
- 2:04Travis, you up where you drop if you don't go work Akka or you
- 2:08run past the mall, see you're on you're.
- 2:14In Paleo, yeah. So everyday at the time I was, I
- 2:23was thankful. Nah I also had like childhood
- 2:27like my childhood friends now to reconnect with.
- 2:32So it was really all about spending time on the people and
- 2:40the things I wasn't able to spend on, like during the review
- 2:46period, Tapos, very Madalas Gray and McManus Fest because there's
- 2:56nothing in there. And Magagawa.
- 3:00But to premiere and I feel like during the that time I was doing
- 3:09everything to cope and to not think about it, but I still end
- 3:13up doing like football back on when you're sitting in light of
- 3:18a senior resource like. That.
- 3:21Yeah guess what if like the one thing but it's all about finding
- 3:30your best distraction and my times the man and my dad would
- 3:36and my parents would be like we work for this year.
- 3:42The main about going there before, now there's that fear
- 3:45now what if I don't pass? So that that was put on hold for
- 3:50me and for those not in the waiting game now, when you are
- 3:54in the waiting game now, you just, you can't deny that thing.
- 3:59No, there will always be an aside during the waiting game
- 4:05that you'd be afraid. So sit with that feeling and
- 4:11then move the OR pick up a book or start a passion project that
- 4:21you never had time for before. Just move.
- 4:24Just say you will feel worse if you don't, so you're on.
- 4:31There will be days now you won't be able to move and that's fine.
- 4:36But at one point you will have to pick yourself up because in
- 4:42the end, no matter how good our support systems are, your number
- 4:46one supporter will be yourself then.
- 4:50So you would have to. So take this time now, McGuire,
- 4:58for yourself #1 because they for sure if you're on the waiting
- 5:02game now and the boards at this moment, you for sure in the time
- 5:09during the review and the prep. So take this time to reward
- 5:12yourself now, no matter what their thoughts are.
- 5:15You did your best. Reward yourself and distract
- 5:19yourself, but mostly reward yourself because you did the
- 5:23work now. So don't.
- 5:27Don't let yourself fall into despair of the waiting game.
- 5:32Because really? So just move, yeah.
- 5:39You don't pause your life. Yeah, we go back to that talaga
- 5:45zoom. Out.
- 5:47Yeah. It's because they're waiting,
- 5:49you know, Next stop, can I have the van pick it up?
- 5:54That's really, really good. Cause that made it easier for
- 5:58you to integrate now. Ohh after the.
- 6:00Results not detaining life course, so I'll just insert that
- 6:04moment of passing there. Ohh.
- 6:07And then life continues. Wow.
- 6:10How much really, actually? Next, go home.
- 6:19Yeah, I know, no longer post exam takeaways from the
- 6:24interviews. Yeah, but while they're in the
- 6:27waiting game, like that boost for you.
- 6:30Ohh, I love that. Wow, you saw it on the go
- 6:36everybody. Ohh my gosh it's so easy shift.
- 6:41Nothing silica. Ohh I was saying exam results.
- 6:48Okay, bye, have fun. So you go banana Panamanian
- 6:53navigate you season Lyon, but it's.
- 6:57Got in nothing. I'm not sure the gap from exam
- 7:09to result. Ohh people like takes it on
- 7:15boards Auto third day 11:20 PM May result now.
- 7:27Me. Better waiting game device.
- 7:31Ohh. Ohh what I did continue to work
- 7:38asking the granddaughter Nothing.
- 7:43Tell me what you also gonna tell me more about gonna talk and
- 7:46then you anymore. Are you male?
- 7:53Anxiety small I have enough I don't not necessarily he can
- 8:01advise someone like share. Oh my God.
- 8:06The walk, you know balance will not help you.
- 8:16Like, can you talk? And yeah, some of our boss,
- 8:21Alamilla, I really want it. Yeah, they're hoping for me now.
- 8:29It's cause I'm so passers. Hello, politically, not
- 8:35everyone. So in the refresh lumpy arse
- 8:40board. Ohh.
- 8:45Search annoying Chatman. No signal?
- 8:59What? Time and again the link is
- 9:02supportive. You match netting that in that
- 9:06time. Mean.
- 9:18Every night, young mother, and then build it.
- 9:28Fellas. Nanako not apical.
- 9:32Ohh yeah. We ohh guess is the new.
- 9:41Over. And that's valuable time, normal
- 9:49work, and not if you see so daddy.
- 10:01Reward. Reward.
- 10:04La La la using the inside. Don't know when, but I know I
- 10:12would stop with you. I know they go and the.
- 10:19I don't know about your result in you.
- 10:21To go to manga 6:00 Manganoan the Devil just like that gonna I
- 10:34think. They go behind that.
- 10:39Like vanilla? You saying no?
- 10:47Active blank The active blank minutes ago.
- 10:51About yeah, okay. Like the dinner or what?
- 11:00So see you guys they know refreshing PRC because.
- 11:04Update saying. Ohh man, to save yourself the
- 11:09anxiety, the worry. Ohh.
- 11:13Ohh, and then they're not after January.
- 11:17Visit now. Page 9.
- 11:18No, no, no means. Board Pedal Hindi OK Union feel
- 11:34like it's happening. Ohh, get the language.
- 11:36To chat, it's at the end. Guess the Selena grey refresh.
- 11:43Oh oh your mother can take you to be fair.
- 11:52Ohh you're family. More parents Google search then.
- 11:56Yeah. Ohh support system again then
- 12:03one OK, at least one delighted just jump tired and a jamsa idea
- 12:09now wow waiting as well as a result stop listening exam so
- 12:15and the young man advice more someone A *** and pain and
- 12:18results but that thing so waiting game the bar however you
- 12:22during that time. The waiting game.
- 12:26It came by in a flash, the meaning I didn't really dread
- 12:31you. Waiting game little guy.
- 12:36Ohh, an overthinker, you know, awful.
- 12:39I made an Apple notes and then telephone and then ohh.
- 12:46You'll start off just to see, just to see if you married just
- 12:58for the past. And then it's a conservative and
- 13:01it's a feeling I can still reach this cycle, extreme, other
- 13:07extreme. And so they don't fart now Sure,
- 13:15be nice. Good.
- 13:16Yeah, Staples after that, don't they get knock on the we're
- 13:22friends? Ohh I didn't really think about
- 13:29think of it too much because I didn't go out before now I did
- 13:35my best. I gave it my best shot and see
- 13:42how your mindset colour I and the thing that's solidified that
- 13:48one is you. He's at church and every time
- 13:55there would be bigger. That's how they now Lord.
- 14:00Ohh so I so the waiting game for me was more of a parang exciting
- 14:09part yeah like but on the. Ground.
- 14:17Okay, ohh God, I mean battle with the thought bubble.
- 14:26So see go to your intense part of the waiting game was you'll
- 14:34feel moments just before the results were out so that come in
- 14:40as a office known Ganyan and because everyone was already
- 14:47celebrating it was a victory party before the results were
- 14:51already out. I said the manifest.
- 14:55We'll see our names on the screen and check but then the
- 15:00back so the time they only had drinks but in case liquid
- 15:05courage. Ohh that was if I remember
- 15:12cannon and NASA office that's we were just chanting, cheering
- 15:18again. Big love to you stream.
- 15:23So the same Stockport and then something, something, yeah,
- 15:28forgot got on. And that was the battle
- 15:34projectors. Ohh, he'd had a colonial name KO
- 15:40as a new album. I just wanna see Alba.
- 15:45Thankfully, God, God gave me. That spot?
- 15:49Of you, I called my family and they were not surprised.
- 15:55They were happy and excited but all they were telling me the
- 16:00para, the moment that you asked it, that's what was already
- 16:06yours. So you know, OHH affirmation
- 16:14they they own and I would say they go, but go.
- 16:23So they had the positive energy. I had it.
- 16:29Thankfully though they got a shot the bear iron ohh more than
- 16:38the passing in the topping hold down individual must look
- 16:46forward call you time from UP would pass and then all of our
- 16:54TV it's will pass because they grab.
- 17:03So it was a nice I remember during the start of our review
- 17:10season, maybe this pattern cafe and beneficial whiteboard
- 17:16wallboard was excellent Delta. Well I did everyone hold them
- 17:25slowly again. Ohh that I think about it for
- 17:31the top guy. Get off.
- 17:35It delivered yeah guys manifest yeah ohh, I won't be able to
- 17:41hopelessness on my own demand. So having the right people
- 17:45around the mindset, your manifestation.
- 17:49It's one thing cause it's in your mind, but if you're but if
- 17:54you're gonna actually yes. The.
- 17:57True, it's useless, so it's also work.
- 18:05Ohh and they like to echo that cause that's so true.
- 18:09Like manifestation isn't just mental.
- 18:12You really have to do actions because we.
- 18:15Live in a. 3D World We live in a 3D World.
- 18:20Ohh I. Love you translate.
- 18:24I'm so so like hearing your story makes me really appreciate
- 18:29so much more. Younger Nina, you went through
- 18:32JAM and it's such a blessing to hear this.
- 18:35Chavez Cobra. Ohh my.
- 18:39God ohh I wanted to share it initially.
- 18:44It's a unique experience for me. I for one, am a person who's
- 18:49very negative, a pessimist, and that every time I think of
- 18:54something, every time I take an action.
- 18:57And what's the worst case scenario scenario so?
- 19:01Organon cabbie for. Before idle journey goal it was
- 19:13like, ohh, they get ball good. So it's kind of more than the
- 19:19passing and the topping you the learning curve.
- 19:23Sassari Liko, why don't you eat their personal aspect as well?
- 19:29How to eat their act with others?
- 19:31Work with the team. The must be the valuable for say
- 19:39instrument your ideal for me to experience those kinds of
- 19:43things. So for you guys who are taking
- 19:46either, don't be so hard on yourself and take it to say Pata
- 19:51moment, then the and then just to trust the process and.
- 20:01I can see. Ohh do you see what happened?
- 20:07Because it's the memories years from now you where you bring
- 20:15more with you and happy shopper, can you look back to it?
- 20:22The journey, the stories, you know.
- 20:28Martin Mother, sleep overcome myself.
- 20:31Tribute to eventually led you there and getting so.
- 20:36Wow, the hardest part talaga. So once you have the momentum,
- 20:42write it. Yeah.
- 20:44Is that? Right and Nah jump thi is a
- 20:51waiting game. That was the waiting game sale
- 20:55after the words. Where is the shop today?
- 21:00As much as possible you can. Entertainment, thoughts and all
- 21:06battle. I know better my doubts. 100%
- 21:15OHH. Ohh, you're hunting possibility
- 21:19now what if? Gets you on the phone.
- 21:27Hindi from the from the design barrel.
- 21:34But on most parts of Vietnam, and you know, when you convince,
- 21:39screens are really gonna as in, yeah, Megan, the champagne, your
- 21:49Mama friends around you. I'm just not into that.
- 21:51So this means that you don't want to talk about it now then
- 21:56so, so let me know about the exam, about the results.
- 22:03We're just waiting for it to be released but in and then ohh I
- 22:10don't know but my manifesto. Manga projects mentally parent.
- 22:21Well, that among personal stuff, the 100 focus, but in the
- 22:31anxious series was although although now days before the
- 22:35result. You want my tentative date?
- 22:39Tentative. February Say what if just want
- 22:51to check again uh and slow single point of me cannot
- 23:02convince ohh Hindi condition and your there's always next time.
- 23:17There's always. Ohh and then.
- 23:23End of the world. So little.
- 23:27Another. Year in the London Review, you
- 23:33have been. Ryan, 19.
- 23:41OHH. You know, meaning ohh.
- 23:48Better, better, better on funding premonition that.
- 23:55I know. Right after the exam cause I
- 23:58kept literally in building no exam you place to stay.
- 24:03Ohh, that was. Last date I would say design
- 24:07next time again that was know that you medicine exactly no
- 24:19picture not come before the group picture named party.
- 24:24I see Russia as in Russia like see Russia as in.
- 24:32Oh my God. Premonition.
- 24:34I'm gonna. Ohh.
- 24:38Ohh yeah. It's mean.
- 24:43I am there. Premonition.
- 24:52Ohh it can mean anything. Ohh stop it.
- 24:57Stop. No, I don't.
- 25:01Ohh. Congrats now ohh.
- 25:04Wow, that's a wrap for today's episode.
- 25:06I hope this insights give you clarity, courage, confidence,
- 25:10and peace as you prepare for your own board exam journey.
- 25:15Until next time, trust yourself, take up space, and keep going.
- 25:19You got this. You are the main character of
- 25:22your life. If this episode sparks something
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- 25:38you find this space. And as always, let's shift into
- 25:42our main character energy together.
- 25:44Keep shining, keep creating, and I'll see you in the next one.