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Emotion vs Logic: Loren Lorosa Breakfast Club Drama and Cardi B vs Offset · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: George.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a homegrow that knows a little bit about everything
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  Speaker 2: and everybody, you know, if.
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  Speaker 1: You don't lie about that, right, Lauren came in hot. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's get it going. I have sound effects, y'all. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: we are here. Welcome.
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  Speaker 2: This is the first episode of the Latest with Lauren
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  Speaker 2: the Rosa, which is a podcast where we are doing
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  Speaker 2: all the things. So I'll be here, as you guys
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  Speaker 2: have heard in the trailer, and me talk about every
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  Speaker 2: day Monday through Friday, breaking down the latest, the hottest,
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  Speaker 2: the trending, uh in exclusive celebrity news and pop culture news. Also,
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  Speaker 2: I'll be bringing you guys exclusives here, so it'll be
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  Speaker 2: like a here here first, talk about it here.
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  Speaker 1: First thing.
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  Speaker 2: We'll be doing an extension of what you will also
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  Speaker 2: be seeing me do weekdays on the Breakfast Club right here. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: So this very first episode, you know, I just wanted
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  Speaker 2: to open it up with something very you know, personal
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  Speaker 2: and near and deer in the headlines. If you guys
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  Speaker 2: are listening to this, you're like, oh wow, I'm so
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  Speaker 2: excited for her. I've been watching her, or you're tuned
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  Speaker 2: in because you've recently just I don't know, begin to
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  Speaker 2: learn to hate me or whatever the case may be,
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  Speaker 2: because you think I sold just as job. So we
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  Speaker 2: are going to talk about it right here, right now.
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  Speaker 2: For the first time ever in my life, I wasn't
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  Speaker 2: reaching out to break the story. I wasn't detelling the story.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't regurgitating a story. I was a story. And
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  Speaker 2: in me talking about this today, it's not to conjure
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  Speaker 2: up anything or stir up anything. Because when I tell
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  Speaker 2: y'all me and just are good, we're good. And when
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  Speaker 2: I tell y'all ass, things come because it's a team
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  Speaker 2: of four very opinionated people, and it will.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna always, We're gonna be good. We're gonna figure
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  Speaker 1: it out.
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  Speaker 2: I think that this and a lot of the other
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  Speaker 2: things that led up to this have helped us really
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  Speaker 2: understand you know, what communications should look like.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what we're good.
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  Speaker 2: But I wanted to talk about just kind of like
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  Speaker 2: what my point of view, in my perspective and just my.
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  Speaker 1: Experience was there.
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  Speaker 2: And the biggest thing I kept telling myself is like, dang, Lauren,
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  Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you because Lauren a year ago,
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  Speaker 2: Lauren two years ago, Lauren three years ago, would not
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  Speaker 2: have been able to kind of remove herself and be empathetic,
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  Speaker 2: you know, to a woman who just had a baby
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  Speaker 2: trying to figure things out on a platform with eight
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  Speaker 2: to nine million you know, listeners and all these homes
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  Speaker 2: and all these markets, and you know you have social media.
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  Speaker 2: But even stepping outside of her and just bringing it
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  Speaker 2: to myself me a few years ago, wouldn't have been
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  Speaker 2: able to You don't just see everything that I had
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  Speaker 2: worked for and everything that I had on the table,
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  Speaker 2: and how important that was, and how important maintaining a
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  Speaker 2: certain composure, a certain level of professionalism, and just knowing, like,
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  Speaker 2: girl is rough and this ain't what you imagined, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean. And you coming in here and
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  Speaker 2: you have no ill will or no ill intention, but
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  Speaker 2: it's not about you. There's so many other things that
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  Speaker 2: are bigger right now that are above you. You got
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  Speaker 2: to sit back, do your thing, put your head down,
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  Speaker 2: do the work, and let it stay above you, and
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  Speaker 2: you know, just stays true to what your intentions are.
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  Speaker 2: And I think nothing could have prepared me for that
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  Speaker 2: more than my relationship with God that I have right now.
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  Speaker 1: And I was raised in the church. I've always had
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with God.
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  Speaker 2: That's you know, my family and all of that, Like
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  Speaker 2: that's just how I was raised. But I think when
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  Speaker 2: you're grown and you established that relationship yourself, it is
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  Speaker 2: so different. And like a year ago, when I decided
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  Speaker 2: to like get my apartment in New York and I
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  Speaker 2: was trying to figure everything out, one of the things
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  Speaker 2: that I did was I was like, you know what,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get my life to God again. When I
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  Speaker 2: did that, though, I knew that it was a conscious decision,
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  Speaker 2: and I told myself. I told myself then that I
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  Speaker 2: was like farming myself for everything that I was going
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  Speaker 2: to need to go to this like next level of things.
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  Speaker 2: And when I tell y'all, I had no idea everything
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  Speaker 2: that was going to happen. And this is not about
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  Speaker 2: like the just Instagram live, I mean like everything. I
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  Speaker 2: just mean, like, you know, me being blessed with the opportunities.
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  Speaker 2: And when I created my production company, Brown gir Grinding,
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  Speaker 2: when I decided to lead TMC, it was a big
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  Speaker 2: that was my like folkus. It was like, Okay, I
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  Speaker 2: want to cass create conversation that matters, but that really
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  Speaker 2: shakes the room for real. So when I got on
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  Speaker 2: the other side of that, and now the conversation that's
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  Speaker 2: shaking the room is about me.
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  Speaker 1: Following Jessico on live on Instagram, I.
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  Speaker 2: Was like, oh shit, this is crazy. Behind the scenes,
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  Speaker 2: I knew that like, things weren't perfect. I knew she
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  Speaker 2: wasn't the most happiest person. But I think in my role,
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  Speaker 2: I can only speak for myself. I was trying to
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  Speaker 2: do as much as I could to make sure that
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  Speaker 2: things worked out well enough where she could at least
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  Speaker 2: show up and do her job comfortable, like that was
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  Speaker 2: my job and it wasn't about me as talent at
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  Speaker 2: that point. It was like, okay, me and my producer role,
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  Speaker 2: the the show has to work like this full product
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  Speaker 2: has the product, and how can I make that happen?
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  Speaker 2: So I was doing everything I could, but I think
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  Speaker 2: it was obvious that, you know, she wasn't happy, and
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  Speaker 2: she was, you know, trying to figure things out, and
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  Speaker 2: I had to learn that there was nothing Again, it
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  Speaker 2: was so much of me learning Lauren, that's above you
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  Speaker 2: like that had nothing to do with me or her.
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  Speaker 2: I mean a lot of it is something that you know,
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  Speaker 2: and I can't speak to her experience, and I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to.
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  Speaker 1: I think she'll We've talked about it on air.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if she'll revisit this or not, but
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  Speaker 2: a lot of her figuring out her voice in that
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  Speaker 2: space is a her thing. But coming in I wanted
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  Speaker 2: things to work so well that, you know, I was
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  Speaker 2: just like, Okay, if I gotta lean, if I gotta bend,
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  Speaker 2: if I gotta get off air, for whatever I gotta do,
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  Speaker 2: It's like, okay, Beck, I'm with I'm down for the team,
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  Speaker 2: Like this is home team, Like let's do it. So
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  Speaker 2: to see it not work out the way that I
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  Speaker 2: wanted it to and then to see the big explosion
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  Speaker 2: on Instagram Live, I was like all right, like woo,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and this is me and Jess have talked
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  Speaker 2: about this, but I think my biggest point was just.
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  Speaker 1: Like, whoa hold on, It's not us versus you.
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  Speaker 2: We all and is trying to figure this shit out
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  Speaker 2: as crazy as this is going to see. When I
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  Speaker 2: came into this, I remember feeling like, all right, it's
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  Speaker 2: us against the world because you've never seen this. You've
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  Speaker 2: never seen two black women on a mainstream platform that
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  Speaker 2: picks up across so many different you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: I mean Fox shave rooms seeing it TMZ Hollywood and
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  Speaker 2: locked all of the things right. But and you've never
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  Speaker 2: seen it. It's like number one, we don't really have.
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  Speaker 1: Like a guide. We're figuring it out.
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  Speaker 2: But number two, so many people are going to like
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  Speaker 2: want to put their hand in it, stir it up.
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  Speaker 2: The noise is gonna come. And I was always like,
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  Speaker 2: all right, fuck all the outside shit, like it's us,
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  Speaker 2: Like forget everything outside.
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  Speaker 1: It is us.
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  Speaker 2: And I think, like our program director, her name is
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  Speaker 2: Dia Mitchell.
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  Speaker 1: One of the things she always.
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  Speaker 2: Says to me is like and I had to learn it,
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  Speaker 2: but y'all know, I come from TMC. I come from
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  Speaker 2: like instant like this working. That's not what's the story,
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  Speaker 2: what's the headline? To just let things breathe. And I
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  Speaker 2: think that that is what this whole experience has taught
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  Speaker 2: me on another level, is to let things breathe because
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  Speaker 2: what is supposed to happen will happen. Moving forward, we
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  Speaker 2: did the Boy's Mind remake. We called it The Job
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  Speaker 2: Is Mine. Just wrote the lyrics to it, we recorded it,
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  Speaker 2: the whole team jumped in and just to see like
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  Speaker 2: the how it's received, and it just felt good. It
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  Speaker 2: felt like okay, like you know, you have an argument
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  Speaker 2: with your sibling or like your mom, your dad, whoever,
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  Speaker 2: or your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your whoever your partner is, however,
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  Speaker 2: you identify whatever you do, and then y'all get through it,
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  Speaker 2: and it's like, Okay, I'm glad we might have needed
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  Speaker 2: that because that that communication needed to happen.
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  Speaker 1: It felt good. It felt like, okay, we are through it.
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  Speaker 1: It happened.
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  Speaker 2: It taught me a lot about being the actual story
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  Speaker 2: and how to handle that and you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 2: what to do, what not to do. I think that
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  Speaker 2: people received it well because they could feel that genuinely.
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  Speaker 2: We both were like, it's not a competition, like you
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  Speaker 2: do what you do, I do what I do, and
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  Speaker 2: you're here. Granted again, it's for people for the first
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  Speaker 2: time figuring this out together. This is my first time
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  Speaker 2: ever working with any of these people. We might rub
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  Speaker 2: heads again, you know what I mean, bump heads again,
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  Speaker 2: but we are in a space now where we will
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  Speaker 2: figure it out and make sure. I'll go check out
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  Speaker 2: the job is mine and listen to the song and
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  Speaker 2: let me know what you feel about it.
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  Speaker 1: But no, y'all, this.
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  Speaker 2: Was not a gimmick This was not promo for the podcast,
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  Speaker 2: promo for the Breakfast Club. This is me addressing that
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  Speaker 2: and shutting that down. I'm debunking that story. That was
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  Speaker 2: not fake djustment live. It was real, it happened. We're
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  Speaker 2: moving on.
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  Speaker 1: It is done. We're in a good space, and that's it.
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  Speaker 2: That's all I want to talk to you guys about
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  Speaker 2: Party B and Offset.
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  Speaker 1: So I was very disappointed.
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  Speaker 2: When I say very disappointed, I mean extremely disappointed by
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  Speaker 2: what I heard over the weekend from Cardi B about offsets.
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  Speaker 1: So, Cardi B went.
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  Speaker 2: On Twitter spaces and she accused Offset of threatening to
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  Speaker 2: kill her and himself, and she also said that Offset
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  Speaker 2: had actually sent videos of Offset and Carti engaged in
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  Speaker 2: sexual activities to the new person that Cardi was dating.
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  Speaker 2: If what Carti is alleging is true, all of that
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  Speaker 2: is trash.
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  Speaker 1: That is such trash behavior from Amen Banne.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know all the details of their breakup. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know all the details of who did what, when
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  Speaker 2: they did it, who they did it with, where they slept,
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  Speaker 2: that would they slept with whatever.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know any of that.
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  Speaker 2: But what I do know, and what we all do know,
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  Speaker 2: is that Cardi b has children by Offset, so that
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  Speaker 2: means that everything she is alleging that Offset has done,
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  Speaker 2: he is doing this to the mother of his children.
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  Speaker 2: These children are yes, they're babies, right, but these children
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  Speaker 2: are old enough and they're human beings, so they'll feel
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  Speaker 2: what their mom is dealing with. They'll feel what their
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  Speaker 2: mom is going through. And I think a lot of
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  Speaker 2: times in situations like this, like men are quick to say, well,
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  Speaker 2: everybody always thinks about the woman in a breakup.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody always thinks about, well, what the demand did?
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  Speaker 2: What did Demand do, especially in situations like this because
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  Speaker 2: also has such a history of being the cheater in
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  Speaker 2: the relationship. I mean, I remember the DMS from Jay
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  Speaker 2: that you know, he came out at one point and said,
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  Speaker 2: we're his page was hacked up to you guys to believe.
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  Speaker 2: I just think that regardless of who's doing dirt where right,
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  Speaker 2: like whether.
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  Speaker 1: Wherever the blame is going to be.
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  Speaker 2: I think that there's a certain level of respect that
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  Speaker 2: you should carry about somebody that you once were in
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  Speaker 2: love with, that you, you know what I mean, you
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  Speaker 2: dealt with, you had kids with, you publicly had a
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  Speaker 2: relationship with. There should be just a sort of level
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  Speaker 2: of respect, and from my observation, that level of respect.
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  Speaker 1: Has never been there from Offset two parties.
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  Speaker 2: At all because some of the things that we've had
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  Speaker 2: to publicly hear her get online and cry about and
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  Speaker 2: break down about. For her, Number one, for her to
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  Speaker 2: be who she is as Cardi b right, this huge
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  Speaker 2: force in entertainment, right, this celebrity, this woman that people
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  Speaker 2: are looking at, that their people are seeking after, idolizing.
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  Speaker 2: There should be a level of respect for what she's
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  Speaker 2: built career wise where you didn't want to do that
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  Speaker 2: to her. There's the video of off Sever out the
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  Speaker 2: doctor Schayanne Bryant, the screenshots of the dms, and they
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  Speaker 2: teased it and people thought it was a whole thing,
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  Speaker 2: when really he was reaching out trying to get I guess,
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  Speaker 2: trying to get help by trying to figure out, you know,
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  Speaker 2: wanted to talk to somebody relationship wise.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's a good idea.
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  Speaker 2: I really do think that's a good idea because I
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  Speaker 2: think if what we're hearing, you know, from what Cardi
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  Speaker 2: is a legend is true, off Set should definitely figure
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  Speaker 2: that out because not even just for the sake of
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  Speaker 2: him and Cardi getting back together, that might be done
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  Speaker 2: at this point.
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  Speaker 1: If I was hurt, it would be done at this point.
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  Speaker 2: But again I don't judge if not, because it's not
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  Speaker 2: my business to judge. This is my business to report
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  Speaker 2: about it, to talk about it. But I wouldn't go
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  Speaker 2: back at this point. I think he is demonstrated where
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  Speaker 2: his love of respect stands. I think his insecurities and
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  Speaker 2: his respect for himself are very low. And if you
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  Speaker 2: don't love itself, he can't love you. That's what I
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  Speaker 2: look at and that's what I take away from this.
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  Speaker 2: But again, people got to learn on their own, according
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  Speaker 2: their own time. But I think that him getting help
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  Speaker 2: and really sitting down and talking to somebody Mike can
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  Speaker 2: help him.
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  Speaker 1: A lot, like a whole lot. Because this is just
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  Speaker 1: sad to hear. And I did post a.
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  Speaker 2: Tweet and because I knew I was gonna be talking
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  Speaker 2: about Cartdi being offset, I was asking, you know, the ladies, like,
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  Speaker 2: as women, we take so much shit for the men
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  Speaker 2: that we love. In quotation marks dot dot dot, why
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  Speaker 2: ladies love music on Xcess because we understand their struggle.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to continue to love on them by enemies necessary.
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  Speaker 2: So she's talking, she's saying, you know, as women, we
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  Speaker 2: understand men struggle. Ezra rgr on xcess emotions the lesser
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  Speaker 2: signed logic. Basically, once you get in, your emotion logic
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  Speaker 2: goes out the window. And I think we've all been here.
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  Speaker 2: So thank you guys again for tuning on in and
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  Speaker 2: again connect with me on social media. I'm Lauren Lerosa
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  Speaker 2: everywhere Twitter, Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: TikTok YouTube.
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  Speaker 2: I'm also on Instagram under the Brown Girl Grinding account,
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  Speaker 2: which is where we have these conversations like this as
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  Speaker 2: well two in real time throughout the day. Thank you
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  Speaker 2: guys for tuning in and I'll see you in the
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  Speaker 2: next episode. Yes, we got through episode one.