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51 - MAFS, Below Deck Med, Big Brother, The Valley, RHOL, RHOA, RHOC, 90 Day Fiance Last Resort, and 90 Day Fiance · Rather Be Rotting

• 0:09
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Rather Be Running.
• 0:11
  SPEAKER_00: We're two sisters who should really be doing something more productive.
• 0:15
  SPEAKER_00: I expect all things reality, TV, and pop culture chaos, because no matter what's going on in life, we would always Rather Be Rollin.
• 0:32
  SPEAKER_02: What a beautiful voice.
• 0:34
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
• 0:36
  SPEAKER_02: Do you see how I encourage your musicality whereas you shut mine down at every turn?
• 0:41
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I just like to be real with you.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_02: But I have the music in me and just you stifle it.
• 0:51
  SPEAKER_02: While um while I'm uh what's the word?
• 0:56
  SPEAKER_00: It's early for you.
• 0:58
  SPEAKER_00: You woke up early to record.
• 1:00
  SPEAKER_02: I just yeah, I just opened my eyes and took to the mic.
• 1:04
  SPEAKER_02: But while I'm, I guess, taking shots at you, kind of, I just would like to say that Kara from Last Resort, who I find to be very cool, cool girl, was wearing an Amelia Earhart jacket and she looked great, and you told me I couldn't get one.
• 1:18
  SPEAKER_01: Why I didn't did I actually say you can't?
• 1:21
  SPEAKER_01: I don't feel like I've ever told you you can't do anything.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_01: You're an adult.
• 1:24
  SPEAKER_02: I showed you the picture of the jacket, and you looked at me with this look of like, wow.
• 1:31
  SPEAKER_02: And you said, Oh, an Amelia Earhart jacket?
• 1:36
  SPEAKER_02: Are you Amelia Earhart?
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_02: That's what you said in that exact tone.
• 1:41
  SPEAKER_01: I don't remember saying that in that fashion.
• 1:44
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, are you Amelia Earhart?
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_02: Are you?
• 1:48
  SPEAKER_02: Are you?
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_02: Obviously, I'm not, but it's a cool jacket, and all the cool girls have them.
• 1:53
  SPEAKER_02: Now I don't.
• 1:55
  SPEAKER_02: Do what you want.
• 1:56
  SPEAKER_02: Buy the jacket.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_02: It's a little late for that.
• 2:00
  SPEAKER_02: It's just like when you at that time you told me I couldn't get a bucket hat.
• 2:03
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know why you look to me.
• 2:05
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not the expert on anything.
• 2:07
  SPEAKER_02: You know what?
• 2:07
  SPEAKER_02: That's true.
• 2:08
  SPEAKER_02: Like, don't ask me these things.
• 2:10
  SPEAKER_02: What do I know?
• 2:11
  SPEAKER_02: I wear leggings and t-shirts quite literally every day.
• 2:16
  SPEAKER_02: Although who knows what's gonna change when I start going back to the office?
• 2:19
  SPEAKER_02: When is that happening?
• 2:21
  SPEAKER_02: August 11th.
• 2:22
  SPEAKER_02: I go back to work.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_02: You're so excited.
• 2:25
  SPEAKER_02: I need to go shopping.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_02: Speaking of, you know, aviator jackets.
• 2:30
  SPEAKER_02: Are you gonna get one?
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_02: No.
• 2:33
  SPEAKER_02: Well, how has your weekend been so far?
• 2:36
  SPEAKER_02: Yesterday I did a full day of rotting, literally the whole day, other than going to the grocery store, because I had let myself fall behind on our shows, and we are in a time, and I'm not complaining, this is a great problem to have, but a time of so many shows.
• 2:54
  SPEAKER_02: There's a lot.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_02: I was struggling this week to get it all in.
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_02: Some better than others, and you don't even have a job.
• 3:00
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I mean you do, but you don't go to work.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_02: Excuse you.
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_02: I'm sorry.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_02: Being a mother is a full-time job.
• 3:06
  SPEAKER_00: Some things say I have the hardest job of them all.
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_00: I can't wait to make them make you know this job somebody else's job when I send him to daycare.
• 3:13
  SPEAKER_02: You know, and then I can't wait until you're bitching about your other job, wishing you were back to this.
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_02: No, I think I'll remember.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_02: We'll see.
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_02: Anyway, what'd you do this weekend?
• 3:26
  SPEAKER_00: Yesterday we went to a barbecue with some parent friends.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_00: Cute.
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_02: So social.
• 3:36
  SPEAKER_02: So social.
• 3:37
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and that's now it's Sunday.
• 3:39
  SPEAKER_02: So my boyfriend and I watched Obsession last night.
• 3:43
  SPEAKER_02: What did you think?
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_02: I've heard everybody who's seen it loves it.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm not really a scary movie person, but this movie made like 300 million on a shoestring budget, you know, like it was like a surprise, massive hit.
• 3:58
  SPEAKER_02: So I had to see what the fuss was about.
• 4:00
  SPEAKER_02: Natch.
• 4:01
  SPEAKER_02: And it was pretty good.
• 4:03
  SPEAKER_02: It was, I would give it like an eight out of 10.
• 4:06
  SPEAKER_02: Wow.
• 4:06
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I liked it a lot.
• 4:08
  SPEAKER_02: We also are almost done with Widow's Bay, which is like a little bit of a scary show, but um, it got 19 Emmy nominations.
• 4:16
  SPEAKER_02: It was the third most nominated show after The Pit and Our Beloved Hex, of course.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_00: Now, is it funny?
• 4:23
  SPEAKER_02: Um it is.
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_02: It's like if Parks and Wreck were a horror.
• 4:29
  SPEAKER_02: Should I watch it?
• 4:31
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think you should.
• 4:32
  SPEAKER_02: I honestly think you should.
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_02: What's it on?
• 4:35
  SPEAKER_02: Apple Apple TV.
• 4:37
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, okay.
• 4:38
  SPEAKER_02: They lost the plot.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_02: Um, it's like there are moments that are scary, but it's not that scary.
• 4:45
  SPEAKER_02: I I give it also what is it gory?
• 4:50
  SPEAKER_02: Um, no.
• 4:52
  SPEAKER_02: Because that's not for me.
• 4:54
  SPEAKER_02: No, it's not gory.
• 4:55
  SPEAKER_02: Obsession, obsession has a little bit of floor, but it's very, very easy to look away.
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I don't I honestly don't know that I'm gonna take obsession on, but maybe Widow's back.
• 5:07
  SPEAKER_02: I think you should.
• 5:07
  SPEAKER_02: I think the acting that this lead lead character has to do in that movie is so impressive.
• 5:14
  SPEAKER_02: She has to do a lot.
• 5:16
  SPEAKER_02: We are going to just to back to what we're doing this weekend.
• 5:20
  SPEAKER_02: Actually, I'll save it for the end for our outro.
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, I cannot wait.
• 5:25
  SPEAKER_02: A little tease.
• 5:26
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, don't be excited.
• 5:30
  SPEAKER_02: Uh also, but you're I we just I was briefly chatting with your boyfriend, and he said that the movie obsession was quote non-stop.
• 5:38
  SPEAKER_02: It was, and it was less than two hours, which is rare.
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_02: Bless.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_02: I know, I know.
• 5:44
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I mean.
• 5:45
  SPEAKER_02: Everyone should learn from that.
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_02: Christopher Nolan.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_02: We were also love a short movie.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_02: We were also talking about the Odyssey, which I think I'm going to see, but you are probably not, I assume.
• 5:55
  SPEAKER_02: When when am I gonna fit that one in?
• 5:58
  SPEAKER_02: You know?
• 5:59
  SPEAKER_02: Date.
• 5:59
  SPEAKER_02: No, I do I want to spend a date.
• 6:02
  SPEAKER_02: How long is the Odyssey?
• 6:04
  SPEAKER_02: Like a thousand hours, probably.
• 6:06
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'll fall asleep at the theater, so it'll be a waste.
• 6:11
  SPEAKER_02: Remember when our dad, have I ever said this on the podcast before that we our dad would take us to movies, like when we were kids, like the Rugratz movie or the Wild Thorn Marys movie, and I would look over at him and I would see him asleep, and I would be like, oh no, he's missing the movie, and I would jolt him awake, and he would get so mad because that was his only time in the day he could take a nap.
• 6:35
  SPEAKER_00: What's so funny about that is I have zero memory of him sleeping because I was not paying attention to anyone but myself.
• 6:46
  SPEAKER_02: Is dad enjoying it?
• 6:47
  SPEAKER_02: I I don't care.
• 6:48
  SPEAKER_02: Am I enjoying it?
• 6:49
  SPEAKER_02: That's what matters.
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 6:52
  SPEAKER_02: Anyway, um, where should we start?
• 6:54
  SPEAKER_02: Should we start with Big Brother, which was excellent this week?
• 6:58
  SPEAKER_00: So excellent.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_02: Everything is better with an egg costume.
• 7:03
  SPEAKER_02: Like, this is round two of our egg experience, and I think it stirred up just as many emotions in me as the first time.
• 7:13
  SPEAKER_01: How did you feel about Angela crying because she hates being in the egg?
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_02: Um, you know, that's just like par for the course with our Ange.
• 7:23
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 7:23
  SPEAKER_02: If she didn't cry, I would be surprised.
• 7:26
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 7:27
  SPEAKER_02: Well Angela versus Jason.
• 7:30
  SPEAKER_02: That was the big, the big fight that we were waiting for.
• 7:34
  SPEAKER_02: I really thought it would take many more weeks for us to get all that exposed.
• 7:40
  SPEAKER_02: How did she know that he was looking at the camera?
• 7:46
  SPEAKER_02: I don't I don't know.
• 7:49
  SPEAKER_02: She read him for filth.
• 7:51
  SPEAKER_02: He could not respond.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_02: I expected so much more from him.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_02: He did not have a comeback.
• 7:58
  SPEAKER_02: She left him speechless.
• 7:59
  SPEAKER_02: It was beautiful.
• 8:03
  SPEAKER_02: She said something that cut so deep to him, which was I'm in this egg because America wanted to protect me, which was like more cutting to him than she even knew.
• 8:14
  SPEAKER_00: It was flawlessly executed because he was so butthurt that America didn't pick him.
• 8:20
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 8:21
  SPEAKER_02: And then she says that just like a real knife in the heart.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_02: And my favorite part is that everyone was laughing, even the two that were fighting Angela and Jason, they couldn't help but laugh because they knew that this is just insane, but they just leaned in and they kept going.
• 8:37
  SPEAKER_02: And I thank them.
• 8:39
  SPEAKER_00: Two stars among us, you know.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_00: But you know, his assessment was correct.
• 8:44
  SPEAKER_00: And the reason he was so upset and thought America hated him is because of these looks to camera, because he's been telling America how he wants to how he wants to take her down, and they go and reward her.
• 8:56
  SPEAKER_02: So he is correct.
• 8:59
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he he should have known.
• 9:02
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know if he doesn't know the big brother's lore, but like Angela is everything to us.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he fucked up.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_02: She's proving it.
• 9:09
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, when she first found out about him, she was like, I'm gonna keep this to myself because I'm not gonna blow up like I did last time.
• 9:15
  SPEAKER_02: And you know, she did wait like a good what one or two days.
• 9:19
  SPEAKER_02: She did.
• 9:20
  SPEAKER_02: Um we started it.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, oh yeah, he deserved everything he had coming to him.
• 9:27
  SPEAKER_02: She would have kept it under her hat if he hadn't said at the nomination ceremony, good job, Angela.
• 9:33
  SPEAKER_02: Tried to like fix it off her.
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and then she did something that I never thought I would see is she let Rome tell his full side at the table.
• 9:43
  SPEAKER_02: He's like, Do I get to tell my side?
• 9:45
  SPEAKER_02: And she said, Absolutely.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_02: And he did, and she didn't accept.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_02: So, spoiler alert, because you know, I'm just I gotta tell you, man.
• 9:54
  SPEAKER_02: I fast forward a lot of these episodes.
• 9:57
  SPEAKER_02: I fast forward like all the competitions, yeah.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_02: All of the commentary between the competition, the entire blockbuster, and the coming up down the stairs of it all.
• 10:07
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, me too.
• 10:09
  SPEAKER_02: Hugging, none of it.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not watching any of that.
• 10:11
  SPEAKER_02: But I do have one question before we get to like who was voted out or whatever.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 10:16
  SPEAKER_02: Were you attracted to Rome as he was sobbing in the diary room over his betrayal of Lala?
• 10:23
  SPEAKER_02: No, I just remember you were thought he was attractive, and so I just want to update on that.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_02: Let me clarify because that's not entirely accurate.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think he's attractive now, I think he has potential.
• 10:35
  SPEAKER_02: Should he shave his mustache and cut his hair?
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, because you still think that when he was sobbing in the diary room, yeah.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_02: What is with these boys crying all the time?
• 10:45
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I guess I should be glad that men are in touch with that.
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_02: I was gonna say, as a mother of a boy, I hope that my son feels comfortable crying when he needs to.
• 10:53
  SPEAKER_02: So far, so good with all.
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so what do we think about their relationship?
• 10:59
  SPEAKER_02: Roman lyric, telling each other they love so much.
• 11:04
  SPEAKER_02: How long have they been in there?
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_02: Like two weeks in there in Lerve.
• 11:09
  SPEAKER_02: Like literally.
• 11:11
  SPEAKER_02: The thing about Big Brother, though, is of all the shows on the television, it has the best track record of successful relationships.
• 11:18
  SPEAKER_02: So maybe they'll go the distance.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_02: I think they will.
• 11:21
  SPEAKER_02: I think they're a good couple.
• 11:22
  SPEAKER_02: They're they don't have a brain cell between the two of them, but it was love at first sight.
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it definitely was.
• 11:28
  SPEAKER_02: Um, I gotta say, so Rome has since departed the house.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, and because I fast-forwarded so much, Lyric voting to vote him out shocked me.
• 11:42
  SPEAKER_00: Did I miss something there?
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_02: So, yeah, it was Taylor that voted.
• 11:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I know.
• 11:47
  SPEAKER_02: I saw that, but like, why did Lyric well because she wants to be with the other side of the house?
• 11:52
  SPEAKER_02: Like, you don't ever want to be on the wrong side of a vote, and now but I think everybody would understand.
• 11:57
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, I think they would too, but and now they're gonna think that she did do it, and she's gonna tell them that she didn't, and no one's gonna believe her.
• 12:05
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, well, whatever.
• 12:06
  SPEAKER_02: Um, so I just was curious about that.
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like upon his exit, I just like like him so much, he seems so nice, he took it so well.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_02: He did, he did, and I it we we really definitely judged a book by its cover on that.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_02: He did, but I think that was warranted because if you're the type of person who makes a decision to present yourself in this way, like I'm going to judge you because what is like the what does that say about you that you walk around this world with a mullet?
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_02: That's a very fair point, you know.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_02: You're on par with Kyle Cook.
• 12:42
  SPEAKER_02: So, how does that doesn't bode well?
• 12:46
  SPEAKER_02: Um, I did think their pretend breakup was just ridiculous, ridiculous.
• 12:51
  SPEAKER_02: Even that little teeny bopper boy was like, I'm not buying it.
• 12:54
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, stupid.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_02: Um, I did think there was an argument to be made for keeping Rome because it does keep a target in the house that's bigger than anyone else.
• 13:04
  SPEAKER_02: I do agree, I do agree.
• 13:07
  SPEAKER_02: I I thought D was correct, they should have sent Melody packing because the shit situation with her and Drew is going to be problematic.
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_02: Definitely, but they have time.
• 13:19
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, it's so early.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but she read it, and I'm like, you're reading this now, you should act on it now.
• 13:25
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, you know who I thought was pretty smart was that glasses boy.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_02: I think he also might have a mullet.
• 13:33
  SPEAKER_02: Uh gosh, what's his name?
• 13:35
  SPEAKER_02: Unclear, but he clocked that he was the last person dragged into that room of the eight-person alliance, and being in the bottom of an eight-person alliance is not good.
• 13:46
  SPEAKER_02: Barrett, perhaps?
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_02: It could be Barrett.
• 13:48
  SPEAKER_02: I think that's probably it.
• 13:50
  unknown: Okay.
• 13:51
  SPEAKER_02: That's a nice name.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_02: What do you think about that one?
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_02: Garrett, perhaps.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_02: No, I think it's Barrett.
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 13:57
  SPEAKER_02: Um, yeah, it's my name.
• 13:59
  SPEAKER_02: Any more thoughts?
• 14:00
  SPEAKER_02: I think.
• 14:01
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, actually, I do have a thought.
• 14:02
  SPEAKER_02: I do have a very important thought because this is what I thought you were about to say with that last statement during Rome's exit interview.
• 14:10
  SPEAKER_00: This is nothing new, but can can we please, for fuck's sake, replace this incapable host.
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_00: There are so many people walking down the street that could do a better job than this fucking idiot.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_00: I swear to god, as I'm sitting there watching her, the way she was speaking and asking him the questions, you could tell she was repeating.
• 14:40
  SPEAKER_02: You could tell someone who has no idea of how live television works could tell that she was repeating what's being fed in her ear because the her her cadence of speech did not sound natural.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_02: It sounded as if she was constantly a second behind, waiting for the next word, and then trying not to screw up the word she's already saying.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_02: And she did screw up the word, and then at one point, at one point, you could tell someone told her something in her ear and she corrected herself.
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_00: I can't stand it, man.
• 15:15
  SPEAKER_02: The fact that she's employed in this position kills me, it's not deserved.
• 15:22
  SPEAKER_02: It's a rant, it's a familiar rant.
• 15:24
  SPEAKER_02: Some might say, you know, stating the obvious, but la after Thursday night, it was really bad.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_02: It was particularly bad.
• 15:31
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we needed to revisit because you're right, it was really bad.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_02: That's my final thought.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_02: Love it.
• 15:39
  SPEAKER_02: Shall we move on to another show that has me equally delighted?
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_02: Which one?
• 15:43
  SPEAKER_02: Married at first sight.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my god, this show is like the the the re-haul overhaul it's been given by moving to Peacock is really helping it.
• 15:52
  SPEAKER_02: But I miss my Dr.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_02: Pepper.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_02: I miss my Pastor Cal, and we have a new Pastor Cal who is actually more like Michael Scott than Pastor Cal.
• 16:01
  SPEAKER_02: He is Michael Scott.
• 16:03
  SPEAKER_02: I'm talking about Dr.
• 16:04
  SPEAKER_02: Sean Best.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_02: Is he not Michael Scott?
• 16:07
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know about that.
• 16:09
  SPEAKER_02: But he does seem insufferable.
• 16:12
  SPEAKER_02: I have never felt so uncomfortable watching someone as I do watching Dr.
• 16:17
  SPEAKER_02: Sean Best.
• 16:18
  SPEAKER_02: He is a meh-ness.
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_02: That poor poor woman.
• 16:22
  SPEAKER_02: She's really trying.
• 16:24
  SPEAKER_02: She he at first I thought she was a bitch, but like she is doing her damn best.
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_02: She really is.
• 16:32
  SPEAKER_02: She's not doing Dr.
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_02: Sean Best.
• 16:34
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, the fact that he's talking so many times, like, oh, I gotta rein it in.
• 16:38
  SPEAKER_02: I gotta let you shine.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_02: I you know, I gotta stop.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_02: Then he just can't help himself.
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_02: Every joke is a sex joke, every joke is 69.
• 16:46
  SPEAKER_02: Is that not Michael Scott?
• 16:48
  SPEAKER_02: It's Michael Scott-esque for sure.
• 16:51
  SPEAKER_02: He needs to meet his Jan.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_00: He needs to meet his Holly.
• 16:56
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, he needs to meet his Holly.
• 16:58
  SPEAKER_02: This woman is not Holly.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_02: This woman is like Carol.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_02: It's I mean, yeah, totally.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_02: And it's it's like it's watching.
• 17:08
  SPEAKER_02: I want to say this delicately because there's a similarity that I'm gonna draw, and I and but the feeling is not the same at all.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_00: But I recall this from when I started dating my husband, not on the same level whatsoever.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_00: But at times when I was getting to know him and we were discussing, like, you know, our views on politics, etc.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_00: And even sometimes now, still, if I bring up a hot take or something, he he'll like debate me or go into a line of questioning that's like doesn't feel like a conversation anymore, it feels like a debate, or like I'm need to defend my argument, you know?
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_00: And that's gonna be he's he's just an inquisitive person, and his dad is the same way, so like you know, and now we've been together so long, like I can if I don't want to engage in that way, I'm just gonna tell him like I just need you to not do that at this time.
• 18:05
  SPEAKER_00: But it's one of the things I like about him because he likes to challenge people's views and get them to see both sides, and I it's you know, we need that, but and so I noticed that Dr.
• 18:14
  SPEAKER_00: Sean does the same thing times a million, everything she says turns into a debate, and she kind of called him on this, yeah.
• 18:23
  SPEAKER_00: She did, and it's it would be exhausting if I said, Yeah, you know, in third grade I couldn't spell, and then I got better at it.
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_00: And he said, Well, what words specifically?
• 18:36
  SPEAKER_00: I'd want to kill myself.
• 18:38
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I also think that when they're on camera, and you can tell this for all the couples, they are clearly given talking points that they have to hit based on the questions they ask each other.
• 18:51
  SPEAKER_02: Like, um, so if if we were to fight, what do you think we'd fight about?
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_00: You know, like there's like I just I think he overdues he like takes it to the next level.
• 19:01
  SPEAKER_02: No, I agree with you, but I I think that like you know, and everyone reacts to they're having cameras shoved in their face for the first time differently, and like some sometimes you can tell.
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_02: And I don't know if he's performing or what, but like he is just I've never seen anyone like him since Michael Scott.
• 19:20
  SPEAKER_02: So they're not gonna they're not gonna make it.
• 19:22
  SPEAKER_02: No, and part of me loves watching them, and part of me hates watching them.
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_02: I just feel bad for her primarily.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, me too.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_02: Of course, I thought it was a bitch because she said she was a sapo-sexual or whatever.
• 19:36
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm attracted to mine, so I don't care what he looks like.
• 19:38
  SPEAKER_02: And then he comes down the aisle and she's like, Well, I didn't expect him to have a dad, but I'm not attracted to him.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_03: Mm-hmm.
• 19:45
  SPEAKER_03: Mm-hmm.
• 19:45
  SPEAKER_03: Mm-hmm.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_02: Sorry, anyway, moving on, moving on.
• 19:48
  SPEAKER_02: Who would you like to talk about next?
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_02: Well, we talk about um the our Jim Carrey or our self-proclaimed Jim Carrey, who's so funny that he bores his wife out of her fucking mind.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_02: Like she's literally said she was gonna shoot herself in the head.
• 20:04
  SPEAKER_02: What do you make of all that?
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_02: I think that he basically admitted that he went on reality TV to like become a celebrity because his 10th grade drama teacher told him he was like Jim Carrey.
• 20:19
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he 100% admitted that.
• 20:22
  SPEAKER_02: Oh okay, put it all out there.
• 20:24
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, just admit it.
• 20:26
  SPEAKER_02: But I also think so if he is funny, um, I'm still waiting to see it.
• 20:32
  SPEAKER_02: There is not an ounce of charisma in this man.
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_02: No, no, he's attractive.
• 20:39
  SPEAKER_02: Um, but as far as personality goes, I got nothing.
• 20:43
  SPEAKER_00: Boring.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_02: But I also think she is a lot.
• 20:51
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know if she's a lot.
• 20:54
  SPEAKER_02: I think my boyfriend would agree with you on that.
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know if it's just because she's so buff and so short, and she just like is so animated when she talks.
• 21:04
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I also kind of was annoyed with her because she's saying how bored she is, and then when he's like, we could go swim, and she's like, I'm not getting my I'm not, I'm not swimming.
• 21:12
  SPEAKER_02: It's like, well then what do you want to do?
• 21:14
  SPEAKER_02: You're in Mexico, but then she said that she wanted him to push her in the pool, even though she's wearing her extensions.
• 21:20
  SPEAKER_02: Well, then she needs to make her mind up.
• 21:22
  SPEAKER_02: Like some of some of me, part of me feels like you know, boring people are bored.
• 21:30
  SPEAKER_02: What do you want to do?
• 21:31
  SPEAKER_02: What do you want to do?
• 21:32
  SPEAKER_02: Go do something.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, she could suggest things, and you know what sucks is like this other couple got this amazing date where they got to like jump into the cenote and yeah, why aren't they doing that?
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like they probably were presented with the opportunity.
• 21:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, if I were watching this back and saw that someone else got that date, I would be pissed.
• 21:54
  SPEAKER_02: I'm certain they got the opportunity to do something because the other couple was like taking a dance lesson, like.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know if they were like assigned.
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_02: Like no one would pick to take the dance lesson.
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, we totally would.
• 22:07
  unknown: Okay.
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_02: That's we absolutely would.
• 22:10
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think that the couple who took the dance lesson would have.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_02: The show seems really game for pretty much anything.
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_02: I guess that's true.
• 22:19
  SPEAKER_02: It's actually really growing on me.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_02: Do you want to move over to them?
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, our frosted tips.
• 22:23
  SPEAKER_02: Frosty tip frosty tipped sunglass wearing.
• 22:27
  SPEAKER_02: The people on the shoots, the field producers here, are awful because they never told that man to take off his sunglasses.
• 22:33
  SPEAKER_02: Let's not forget that this poor Dr.
• 22:34
  SPEAKER_02: Schombest's poor bride had lipstick on her face the whole time.
• 22:38
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I think the sunglasses were obviously a choice.
• 22:41
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't think they were there.
• 22:43
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, he didn't.
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_02: And honestly, I didn't even know they were there for it because they kind of blended in when you have frosted chips.
• 22:51
  SPEAKER_02: The sunglasses were kind of buried in there, like hiding from it.
• 22:53
  SPEAKER_00: All I can see.
• 22:54
  SPEAKER_00: It's all I could see, and I was furious.
• 22:56
  SPEAKER_00: I was livid.
• 22:57
  SPEAKER_00: I was irked when I saw those sunglasses on his head for a wedding ceremony.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_00: It was beside myself.
• 23:03
  SPEAKER_00: I still am.
• 23:04
  SPEAKER_02: How many times do people say, Where are my sunglasses?
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, they're on my head.
• 23:07
  SPEAKER_02: He did not know.
• 23:07
  SPEAKER_02: He would never never have I ever said that.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_02: He knew.
• 23:10
  SPEAKER_02: He would not have made that choice.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_02: We can agree to do that.
• 23:13
  SPEAKER_02: And they didn't tell Dr.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_02: Sean Best's bride when she had toothpaste on her mouth.
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_02: She was going to bed.
• 23:21
  SPEAKER_02: So anyway, so back to these two.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_02: These this couple just can't quite click in.
• 23:26
  SPEAKER_02: So I kind of I'm on I'm on both of their sides a little bit.
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_02: Like she does need to um warm up a bit, but he also needs to calm down.
• 23:38
  SPEAKER_02: Like when they were at the therapist, and she's like, You guys have known each other a week.
• 23:44
  SPEAKER_02: Valid.
• 23:45
  SPEAKER_00: Like he wants a lot more than I think is normal.
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_00: Like he's just comparing them them to Adam and What's her bucket, yeah, who are like the only couple who's all over each other like that.
• 23:59
  SPEAKER_00: And well, Felipe and Tori, but we'll get to them.
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_00: So I feel bad.
• 24:06
  SPEAKER_02: Like they they both need to kind of meet a little more in the middle, and I think they could be successful for sure.
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's what the therapist told them.
• 24:14
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_02: So I'm not giving up hope for them just yet.
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_02: No, I really hope that they can figure it out because I think they're a good match.
• 24:22
  SPEAKER_02: She seems self-aware in the way that like I've never had a relationship like this.
• 24:26
  SPEAKER_02: He's just nice and she's like just not used to it.
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, well she needs to get maybe when she like gets herself a little more comfortable with that, she'll feel like I'm wondering if she has like the ick from it a little bit.
• 24:41
  SPEAKER_02: From his frosted tips?
• 24:43
  SPEAKER_02: Well, definitely that, but also just like his clinginess.
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe.
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_02: But you can get over that, I feel.
• 24:52
  SPEAKER_02: I think so too.
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_02: I think there's like a I think there are things that even like I mean, you we don't want to put our partners on blast, but like there are there might be icky things.
• 25:05
  SPEAKER_01: You know, when when it was COVID and my husband couldn't get a haircut for like months, I icked out on it so bad that I learned how to cut it so that I could fix that.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_02: So it's like a matter of like, do I have the full-on ick of like I can't be with this man anymore?
• 25:23
  SPEAKER_02: Or is it like I just need to lean in?
• 25:25
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_02: So we'll see.
• 25:27
  SPEAKER_02: I think she just needs to lean in.
• 25:29
  SPEAKER_02: Someone else who got the ick in a major way.
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_02: So I do think he and he was self-aware.
• 25:38
  SPEAKER_02: We're talking about Felipe and Tori.
• 25:39
  SPEAKER_02: I do think he was self-aware because he called out, I don't want to love bomb her.
• 25:43
  SPEAKER_02: He is love bombing her.
• 25:45
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but she didn't get the ick until they had sex.
• 25:49
  SPEAKER_02: So why do you think that is?
• 25:51
  SPEAKER_02: Because she said it wasn't anything he did.
• 25:54
  SPEAKER_02: Is she being nice?
• 25:56
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think she was just being nice, or like she said she felt suffocated and she had to get out.
• 26:00
  SPEAKER_02: I'm like, does this one have sexual trauma?
• 26:03
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe because that reaction of feeling suffocated, like, I don't know, or maybe, yeah, maybe she got the ick from him.
• 26:11
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, this man is like I am he says he gets hit on all the time.
• 26:15
  SPEAKER_02: That is shocking to me.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah, I would never think twice if he walked past me.
• 26:20
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but she seems into him, he's very into her, obviously.
• 26:26
  SPEAKER_02: Like I hope they figure it out.
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_02: I liked the use of the the home cameras, like when they were showing them like making out and stuff in the the like their their overhead, you know, you know something's gonna go down when they do that, yeah.
• 26:41
  SPEAKER_00: So I kind of feel like maybe I get where she's coming from because and not to put you on blast, but you haven't like dated a bunch, yeah.
• 26:53
  SPEAKER_02: So mom and dad, please just like skip ahead a minute.
• 26:58
  SPEAKER_02: I know you're all like the floor.
• 27:00
  SPEAKER_02: No, there just have been times in my dating life where I've moved quickly and regretted it and felt afterward like I'm not super comfortable with that I had that I did that, you know.
• 27:15
  SPEAKER_00: Like I I don't know this person well enough.
• 27:18
  SPEAKER_00: I don't it made me feel not because they made me feel any way, you know, in the moment.
• 27:24
  SPEAKER_00: I was like very much a willing participant, but afterward, I felt like maybe I shouldn't have done that, and it wasn't their fault at all.
• 27:33
  SPEAKER_00: I just felt icky, I don't know them well enough, I don't know if this is going anywhere, you know.
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_02: It's and so I totally actually think I get where she's coming from, and she lives with this guy, so she can't like have her but her bedroom back to herself when he leaves in the Uber the next morning because they live together.
• 27:54
  SPEAKER_00: So I actually now upon reflection, like I I kind of do understand.
• 27:58
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know that it's ever happened to me where I've started to feel suffocated in the moment.
• 28:02
  SPEAKER_00: Typically, it happens like after when he's in the Uber on his way home.
• 28:06
  SPEAKER_00: But yeah, I got I think I get it.
• 28:09
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, well that's fair.
• 28:10
  SPEAKER_02: So do you think that she can move past it?
• 28:13
  SPEAKER_02: Because yes, okay, but she needs to be honest with him, I think.
• 28:22
  SPEAKER_02: She's going to be because in the next episode there was a scene where she said, like, I just feel like we're we need to slow down a little bit.
• 28:27
  SPEAKER_02: And I think that's I think that is what she needs.
• 28:29
  SPEAKER_02: I think that's valid.
• 28:30
  SPEAKER_02: And he needs to, and I hope he cannot take that personally.
• 28:34
  SPEAKER_02: No, you know what's crazy is next week they're doing like the big dinner.
• 28:38
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 28:40
  SPEAKER_02: That's what they do in Australia.
• 28:42
  SPEAKER_01: I'm excited.
• 28:43
  SPEAKER_02: You've seen Mary Never Say Australia.
• 28:45
  SPEAKER_02: I saw like one season of it.
• 28:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it like it's very cartoony and exaggerated, but they do do those weekly dinners, and I kind of I don't know how I feel about them incorporating this into the American one.
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_02: It's making it a little bit too like tabloid-y, you know.
• 28:59
  SPEAKER_02: Well, we'll see.
• 29:01
  SPEAKER_02: It's leaning too trashy, and I really do like, you know, I like to believe that these people are, some of them at least are here for love.
• 29:09
  SPEAKER_02: Like our sweet Becca.
• 29:12
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, but how did you feel about the fact that he said, I think you're more attracted to me than I am to you?
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_02: I think he was just talking and he said something stupid.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_02: Don't say that.
• 29:22
  SPEAKER_02: I hate that.
• 29:23
  SPEAKER_02: I know, but I think that it'll be fine.
• 29:25
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I've said stupid things, my boyfriend has said stupid things in the course of our 10 plus years together.
• 29:30
  SPEAKER_02: Like, it just sucks that a camera caught it.
• 29:32
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, dude, look in a mirror, okay?
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_01: She's way hotter than you.
• 29:35
  SPEAKER_02: Not that she's ugly, but like she's stunning.
• 29:39
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, she is.
• 29:40
  SPEAKER_02: I think they're gonna go the distance.
• 29:42
  SPEAKER_02: He's just like a lot, you know.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_02: I uh forgot when he took the video diary and said, 6 a.m.
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_02: I gotta get to work.
• 29:50
  SPEAKER_02: I was like, oh yeah, this man cleans porta potties.
• 29:53
  SPEAKER_02: Hi, baby gorgeous.
• 29:55
  SPEAKER_00: We have a guest for our final couple.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_02: Baby Gorgeous, what did you think of our mustache Adam and his wife?
• 30:04
  SPEAKER_02: Say hi.
• 30:05
  SPEAKER_02: What did you think?
• 30:06
  SPEAKER_02: I think they're gonna go the distance, even though they're both terrible.
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_03: I'm shocked.
• 30:13
  SPEAKER_02: Why is she terrible?
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_02: She just, I mean, she's not terrible, she just doesn't seem like the brightest bulb.
• 30:18
  SPEAKER_02: Like when they're both talking, they're both sound like surfers from California, I guess.
• 30:23
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 30:24
  SPEAKER_02: But again, let's remember that they're having cameras in their face and they're given prompts.
• 30:28
  SPEAKER_02: So, like, we have to give them a little bit of grace with these boring ass conversations.
• 30:32
  SPEAKER_02: I guess so.
• 30:34
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm just shocked because they really did seem like opposites, and like she said, even was seemed shocked that like she could get along so well with someone who doesn't drink.
• 30:40
  SPEAKER_02: And I feel like that would be me.
• 30:42
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I would automatically assume that we were doomed.
• 30:45
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, well, that's fine.
• 30:48
  SPEAKER_02: Do you think they're gonna go the distance?
• 30:50
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I do actually.
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_00: What do you think, honey?
• 30:55
  SPEAKER_00: Did you see what he's wearing?
• 30:57
  SPEAKER_00: It's baby gorgeous.
• 31:01
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, a great segue into Bravo because boy, have we had a lot of splits.
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_02: We have from Lisa, not Lisa.
• 31:11
  SPEAKER_02: Not no, they're partners for life, partners in everything.
• 31:15
  SPEAKER_02: Is that what the post said?
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_02: Um, RAP to Angie and Sean.
• 31:20
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe he'll finally go be with men like he wants.
• 31:22
  SPEAKER_00: Well, I heard the rumor is that he had an affaya with a stylist from their salon.
• 31:30
  SPEAKER_02: Didn't clarify the gend.
• 31:32
  SPEAKER_02: She probably started that rumor herself.
• 31:34
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 31:36
  SPEAKER_02: I was honestly surprised.
• 31:37
  SPEAKER_02: I thought they I thought they were together forever.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_02: What about um Whitney and what's Justin?
• 31:46
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I'm not surprised about them because they've been having marital issues for like two seasons now, so I felt like that was kind of a matter of time.
• 31:52
  SPEAKER_02: But like I'm surprised from where they started, but like I feel like this has kind of been coming, no?
• 31:58
  SPEAKER_02: I just thought that they were really sweet and a love story.
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_02: Like at the end of the day, I just really thought that they were gonna be together forever, and there's just ups and downs.
• 32:07
  SPEAKER_02: So now there's only three marriages standing.
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_02: If you want to include Mary Cosby and Robert Sr.
• 32:14
  SPEAKER_02: I don't okay, so there's two marriages standing, yeah.
• 32:18
  SPEAKER_02: And Seth and Meredith are like who knows?
• 32:21
  SPEAKER_02: They basically have an open relationship on it.
• 32:24
  SPEAKER_02: Never not a ruler, nastiness about the husband.
• 32:30
  SPEAKER_02: So we got a trailer for uh the New New York, and Carol is a full-time cast member, not a friend of some may say this is a bit of a Frankenstein cast, a hundred percent.
• 32:43
  SPEAKER_02: So, what do you think?
• 32:44
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, the drama looks real.
• 32:46
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't see any like, oh my god, she's pregnant with another man's baby stunts.
• 32:51
  SPEAKER_02: Oh yeah, that was an atrocity, and all honestly, all of them should have been fired for that.
• 32:57
  SPEAKER_02: Facts.
• 32:58
  SPEAKER_02: But guess who's back?
• 33:00
  SPEAKER_02: Erin and the star of the trailer, Cy.
• 33:04
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't need that much of Cy, honestly.
• 33:06
  SPEAKER_02: Who's asking for that much of Cy?
• 33:08
  SPEAKER_02: If she made it in the trailer this much, does that mean she's gonna be the main one, you know, the center of all the drama?
• 33:15
  SPEAKER_02: Is she gonna be center apple?
• 33:17
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, I think Carol's center apple.
• 33:19
  SPEAKER_02: Carol was supposed to be a friend of something changed along the way, obviously.
• 33:24
  SPEAKER_02: I know, but did it change enough to give her center apple?
• 33:27
  SPEAKER_02: I think her tenure gives her center apple.
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_02: I guess we'll see.
• 33:31
  SPEAKER_02: And I I didn't like how she um made a callback to her five good summers comment.
• 33:36
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, you know what I just thought of that I haven't thought of in years?
• 33:40
  SPEAKER_02: What?
• 33:41
  SPEAKER_02: Because I said the word tenure.
• 33:44
  SPEAKER_02: Our mom is a retired teacher, and I remember her talking about getting tenure, and I always was like, but you've been teaching for like one day I said, but you've been teaching for like 11 years.
• 33:55
  SPEAKER_02: And what is she's like, no, it's not 10 years, it's 10 years for so long.
• 34:01
  SPEAKER_00: I thought it was 10 year.
• 34:03
  SPEAKER_02: I don't blame you for that.
• 34:04
  SPEAKER_02: I'm pretty sure I probably probably everyone has a day where they realize I was a teenager when that happened.
• 34:11
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I was in my 20s when I realized that raspberry had a P in it, so yesterday I said Sherbet, and my husband was like, What did you just say?
• 34:20
  SPEAKER_02: And I said, Sherbet, and he goes, No, Sherbet.
• 34:24
  SPEAKER_02: And I was like, Look at how the word is spelled.
• 34:26
  SPEAKER_02: It is in fact sherbet.
• 34:29
  SPEAKER_02: But that doesn't mean we have to acknowledge everything based on how it's literally spelled.
• 34:34
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, you're like our mother going like white, wheat thins.
• 34:39
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, we don't we don't need to do that.
• 34:40
  SPEAKER_02: So I think you should drop to drop the sherbet.
• 34:43
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not going to.
• 34:44
  SPEAKER_02: Anyway, tenure.
• 34:45
  SPEAKER_02: Carol's tenure.
• 34:47
  SPEAKER_02: I'm excited.
• 34:48
  SPEAKER_02: I'm trying to be optimist.
• 34:50
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I mean, I will be there watching.
• 34:52
  SPEAKER_02: So we also got a new show, Real Housewives of London, that I I just kind of let wash over me.
• 34:58
  SPEAKER_02: I don't have too many thoughts.
• 35:00
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, what about you?
• 35:00
  SPEAKER_02: Same, same.
• 35:01
  SPEAKER_02: I actually had to watch it twice um because the first time I was doing something else.
• 35:05
  SPEAKER_02: So we didn't even get the one person I know, Juliet Angus.
• 35:10
  SPEAKER_02: I'm surprised there's two Julietes.
• 35:12
  SPEAKER_02: Like, how common is the name Juliet?
• 35:14
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe in London it's more common than we think.
• 35:16
  SPEAKER_02: Well, Juliet, the one is American.
• 35:19
  SPEAKER_02: I know, that's true.
• 35:20
  SPEAKER_02: What most thrilled me were the previews because we get Carolyn Stanberry back.
• 35:24
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 35:25
  SPEAKER_02: We get a little Dorinda.
• 35:27
  SPEAKER_02: We get a little Dorind.
• 35:28
  SPEAKER_02: And it was you know she loves London.
• 35:30
  SPEAKER_02: It was a thrill to see her again.
• 35:32
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I can't wait for that.
• 35:34
  SPEAKER_02: Otherwise, like the only drama was they were like fighting over borrowing clothes from seven years ago.
• 35:40
  SPEAKER_02: And a dentist.
• 35:41
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it seemed like a stretch to me, and it was only two girls.
• 35:44
  SPEAKER_02: I had a hard time following that argument.
• 35:48
  SPEAKER_02: So I guess we'll see.
• 35:50
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm not gonna make any judgments yet.
• 35:53
  unknown: Nope.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_02: Where to next?
• 35:55
  SPEAKER_02: Wherefore art thou?
• 35:57
  SPEAKER_02: Should we briefly touch on Orange County?
• 35:59
  SPEAKER_02: I really honestly.
• 36:00
  SPEAKER_02: No, I do have one thought about Jen's kid.
• 36:03
  SPEAKER_02: I think if he really is bullied, that's devastating.
• 36:09
  SPEAKER_02: But is he?
• 36:10
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 36:11
  SPEAKER_02: You're calling a kid into questions kind of fucked up.
• 36:14
  SPEAKER_02: Is it?
• 36:15
  SPEAKER_02: Because I think there's lots of 17-year-olds who, if they got a ticket for speeding at over 100 miles an hour and then said, But I'm being bullied, and their mom suddenly wasn't mad about the ticket anymore.
• 36:26
  SPEAKER_01: It's an effective measure.
• 36:28
  SPEAKER_02: But part of me worries that like driving at 105 miles per hour, like you have a death wish.
• 36:34
  SPEAKER_02: You do, but also teenagers are known to do crap like this, especially teenage boys.
• 36:43
  SPEAKER_02: That's why car insurance on teenage boys is the most expensive car insurance you can pay.
• 36:49
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's true.
• 36:50
  SPEAKER_02: He might be being bullied, he might be making it up.
• 36:54
  SPEAKER_02: Well, we'll put a pin in that one.
• 36:58
  SPEAKER_01: And otherwise, like, god damn, we're back at the quiet fucking woman.
• 37:03
  SPEAKER_02: So I don't know the lore of the quiet woman.
• 37:05
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I know the lore, but I haven't I haven't been there myself personally.
• 37:09
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like we need to go.
• 37:11
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like we need to go.
• 37:12
  SPEAKER_02: No, we do, but I meant in my in my Orange County watch room.
• 37:16
  SPEAKER_01: No, yeah, you've you haven't been there yet spiritually, but I think we also should physically go someday.
• 37:22
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think I watched the last 10 minutes of this episode.
• 37:24
  SPEAKER_02: What happened at The Quiet Woman?
• 37:27
  SPEAKER_02: Shannon and Tamara made up, essentially agreed to move forward.
• 37:31
  SPEAKER_02: Great.
• 37:32
  unknown: Yep.
• 37:33
  SPEAKER_02: So in my re-watch, where I watch five minutes a day, uh, I didn't know that they go to Tahiti.
• 37:38
  SPEAKER_02: I'm excited because I have been there.
• 37:41
  SPEAKER_02: And um Vicky has just consulted with a medium, Re, her dead mother.
• 37:47
  SPEAKER_02: And the dead mother wants to make sure that Vicky's brother gets like a colonic or something because he's constipated.
• 37:56
  SPEAKER_01: Well, that's helpful.
• 37:58
  SPEAKER_02: And then also Tamara's there, and he the medium says that he wants, I guess, Billy's kid or somebody, like, she wants to tell so-and-so that she likes their tattoo.
• 38:11
  SPEAKER_02: And Tamara goes, What is it of?
• 38:14
  SPEAKER_02: And he's like, That's a good question, Tamara.
• 38:16
  SPEAKER_02: And then he couldn't answer it.
• 38:18
  SPEAKER_02: And then he said something about how, like, I get interference, like, you know, when people ask questions like Tamara, like he called her on, basically told her to be quiet.
• 38:25
  SPEAKER_02: It was classic, it was a much better episode than whatever I just watched yesterday.
• 38:29
  SPEAKER_01: They should have got the medium from the Beverly Hills dinner party that was actually the most accurate medium we've ever seen.
• 38:35
  SPEAKER_02: Chillingly accurate.
• 38:37
  SPEAKER_02: What about Atlanta?
• 38:39
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like that episode was kind of a nothing, also.
• 38:42
  SPEAKER_01: Um, what happened on the third?
• 38:44
  SPEAKER_02: So they go to a club in Scotland that was actually lit.
• 38:49
  SPEAKER_02: El and Drew do karaoke to their own songs.
• 38:54
  SPEAKER_02: Portia and Shamia do not make up.
• 38:56
  SPEAKER_02: And uh Phaedra meets her soulmate at a graveyard in Scotland.
• 39:03
  SPEAKER_01: I was hoping that you would jog my memory to something else, like something worthwhile to say, but I guess I just don't have anything.
• 39:10
  SPEAKER_01: Um, but I remember being entertained by the episode.
• 39:13
  SPEAKER_02: Like I don't think I was bored necessarily, but one thing I did notice about something about the way that Pinky speaks has been throwing me off.
• 39:23
  SPEAKER_02: Something about her face, and I realized what it is.
• 39:27
  SPEAKER_02: Is it the underbite?
• 39:29
  SPEAKER_02: Is it is that what it is?
• 39:31
  SPEAKER_00: Because I've noticed when when most people talk, you see primarily their top teeth.
• 39:36
  SPEAKER_00: When she talks, you see primarily her bottom teeth, and it makes her look good, Julie.
• 39:46
  SPEAKER_02: But you can't see her top teeth as much, it's just the bottom teeth.
• 39:49
  SPEAKER_02: That has never clocked that.
• 39:53
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it took me a while.
• 39:54
  SPEAKER_01: Something's just always looked kind of off, but now I've I've figured it out.
• 39:58
  SPEAKER_02: I like Pinky, I like her presence in the show.
• 40:01
  SPEAKER_02: I like her too, for sure.
• 40:02
  SPEAKER_02: She she breathes enough and she yeah, she's a great fit.
• 40:06
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm aligned.
• 40:09
  SPEAKER_02: Shall we move on to uh below deck?
• 40:12
  SPEAKER_02: Our poor Luke.
• 40:13
  SPEAKER_02: Luke is sad and Luke is crying because he got written up.
• 40:19
  SPEAKER_02: Well, at the end, yeah, he's gonna excuse himself.
• 40:25
  SPEAKER_02: You know what?
• 40:26
  SPEAKER_02: Bye, bitch follow.
• 40:27
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I thought.
• 40:28
  SPEAKER_02: I was like, good, like go away.
• 40:30
  SPEAKER_02: Like Captain Sandy was like, three days, you let him sleep in g sheets for three days.
• 40:36
  SPEAKER_02: Like, every day is an extra like 10 points off for Gryffindor.
• 40:41
  SPEAKER_00: Literally, like the more they talked about it on the boat, the more I was like grossed out by Luca as a human being.
• 40:48
  SPEAKER_02: So terrible, so disgusting.
• 40:50
  SPEAKER_02: But you know, any hotness that he had has evaporated.
• 40:54
  SPEAKER_02: 100%.
• 40:55
  SPEAKER_02: And like I honestly didn't think he was that hot to begin with.
• 40:59
  SPEAKER_02: Shockingly.
• 41:01
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, he's kind of your type.
• 41:03
  SPEAKER_02: I know he really is.
• 41:04
  SPEAKER_02: We had uh a brush with death.
• 41:07
  SPEAKER_02: Cooper ate a peanut.
• 41:08
  SPEAKER_02: Pork sweet Cooper.
• 41:10
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, so nice about it.
• 41:13
  SPEAKER_02: He's like trying to comfort Joy.
• 41:14
  SPEAKER_02: He's like, Don't worry about it, don't worry about it.
• 41:16
  SPEAKER_02: Oh well, this is my thing with people with life-threatening allergies.
• 41:21
  SPEAKER_02: Where's your epi pen?
• 41:22
  SPEAKER_01: I know he said he carried one, except I forget what he said exactly, but it wasn't with him on the boat.
• 41:29
  SPEAKER_02: And he's well, he said, I usually carry an epi pen, but in this case I just took two Benadryl and right, and I that my father-in-law's like has a seafood allergy, and we go out to eat, and I'm like, Where is your epi pen?
• 41:41
  SPEAKER_02: He's like, It's a home in a drawer, and it's like, what do these people have?
• 41:44
  SPEAKER_00: A death wish, yeah.
• 41:46
  SPEAKER_00: But he was my sister-in-law, my sister-in-law has a deathly nut allergy.
• 41:50
  SPEAKER_00: Where's her epi pen?
• 41:52
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because you never know when you might accidentally encounter.
• 41:55
  SPEAKER_02: It's crazy to me.
• 41:58
  SPEAKER_02: But what did you think about this matchmaker and this woman and these men?
• 42:03
  SPEAKER_01: God, the whole thing seemed just horrific.
• 42:06
  SPEAKER_01: All those men seem terrible, and she seems terrible, and every everybody involved is equally terrible.
• 42:11
  SPEAKER_01: I was like the dog's terrible, yeah.
• 42:14
  SPEAKER_02: Like none of these men want this woman, they're just like here for the yacht.
• 42:20
  SPEAKER_02: Why do you think that one guy was barfing?
• 42:23
  SPEAKER_02: I have no idea.
• 42:24
  SPEAKER_02: A hangover.
• 42:25
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 42:26
  SPEAKER_02: Was he?
• 42:27
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I I because it's kind of like late in the day to still be that hungover that you're barfing.
• 42:31
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but when you get jostled by a horse ride and a car ride, he didn't even ride the horse because he was barfing.
• 42:38
  SPEAKER_02: I hope he felt better.
• 42:40
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I was it was very confusing to me.
• 42:42
  SPEAKER_02: I hope it wasn't Joy's food.
• 42:45
  SPEAKER_02: If it was, everybody would have been barfing.
• 42:47
  SPEAKER_02: That's true.
• 42:48
  SPEAKER_02: And how dare they critique her food so much?
• 42:50
  SPEAKER_02: Who do they think they are?
• 42:51
  SPEAKER_02: I know on her on French night.
• 42:54
  SPEAKER_02: They can get fucked.
• 42:56
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, don't ever come for our sweet joy.
• 42:58
  SPEAKER_02: You can come for all you want.
• 43:02
  SPEAKER_02: Not Joy.
• 43:04
  SPEAKER_02: Elsewhere, over on the valley, I made a startling realization about myself.
• 43:10
  SPEAKER_02: Oh boy.
• 43:12
  SPEAKER_02: So Nia often says, Daniel, Daniel, Daniel.
• 43:16
  SPEAKER_02: Everyone else calls him Danny, but she calls him Daniel, particularly.
• 43:20
  SPEAKER_02: I think you know where I'm going with this.
• 43:22
  SPEAKER_02: Particularly when she's annoyed, she wants him to do something, stop something, etc.
• 43:29
  SPEAKER_02: My boyfriend is Mike, but often when I'm annoyed, or I want his attention, or I want him to do something for me, it's Michael, Michael, Michael, Michael.
• 43:45
  SPEAKER_02: And I feel like I gotta stop it.
• 43:48
  SPEAKER_02: I can never do it again.
• 43:49
  SPEAKER_01: I can't believe you just said his name on the pod.
• 43:52
  SPEAKER_02: There's a thousand trillion Michaels in the world.
• 43:55
  SPEAKER_02: That's true.
• 43:58
  SPEAKER_02: So You just did some inward reflecting.
• 44:01
  SPEAKER_00: Although I will say your boyfriend is nowhere near as when she walked in the house and he said daddy shouldn't be on his feet now that mommy's home.
• 44:12
  SPEAKER_01: I think I threw up in my mouth a little bit.
• 44:14
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I think he just meant because he's recovering from his vasectomy, but big whoop.
• 44:19
  SPEAKER_02: It's an outpatient procedure.
• 44:21
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 44:22
  SPEAKER_02: Well, and then she said that like her shoulders were so much lighter when she was away from him.
• 44:28
  SPEAKER_02: Like everybody.
• 44:31
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, this man is insufferable.
• 44:36
  SPEAKER_02: Never have I seen such an insufferable man since Luke from Below Deck or Dr.
• 44:40
  SPEAKER_02: Sean Best from Maths.
• 44:42
  SPEAKER_02: Every second that we watch him, I hate him more.
• 44:45
  SPEAKER_02: And the fact that his eyebrows are so close to his eyes.
• 44:48
  SPEAKER_02: It just makes me even more mad.
• 44:50
  SPEAKER_02: Like that stupid smug ass smile of his where he's like, hate him.
• 44:55
  SPEAKER_00: Hate him.
• 44:55
  SPEAKER_00: He can't.
• 44:56
  SPEAKER_00: That's where the bone sits.
• 44:57
  SPEAKER_00: Like.
• 44:58
  SPEAKER_00: Shit.
• 44:59
  SPEAKER_00: What did you make of Kristen and Luke's therapy?
• 45:03
  SPEAKER_02: Uh you know, I'm glad they're working it out.
• 45:08
  SPEAKER_02: I hope they figure it out.
• 45:09
  SPEAKER_02: What did you make as opposed to part of mom yourself?
• 45:12
  SPEAKER_02: I think even in a therapy session, you need to be delicate with words and phrasing that you choose around your partner.
• 45:22
  SPEAKER_02: Always.
• 45:44
  SPEAKER_02: I think maybe he needs to how could he have supported her better in that?
• 45:50
  SPEAKER_02: How can he be supporting her better now?
• 45:53
  SPEAKER_02: Because he isn't.
• 45:57
  SPEAKER_02: So he needs to fight in one reflection.
• 46:00
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and this might be a very ignorant take from someone who's never had a baby, but I do feel like he thinks he's trying.
• 46:07
  SPEAKER_02: I think he does too.
• 46:08
  SPEAKER_02: And I I don't know how to help him realize he's not trying hard enough.
• 46:12
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I think a therapist will help him.
• 46:14
  SPEAKER_02: I hope so.
• 46:15
  SPEAKER_02: He's having trouble understanding and putting himself in her shoes.
• 46:19
  SPEAKER_00: And it's yeah, because what somebody needs to tell him.
• 46:23
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, I don't know.
• 46:24
  SPEAKER_01: I wasn't a monster like she allegedly was when I was pregnant.
• 46:28
  SPEAKER_02: Was I?
• 46:29
  SPEAKER_03: No, I'm just kidding.
• 46:31
  SPEAKER_02: But I certainly have been in my postpartum phase.
• 46:34
  SPEAKER_00: Like I was telling my therapist this week that pre-pregnancy, I never really got angry very often.
• 46:41
  SPEAKER_00: That's not like an emotion that I often felt.
• 46:44
  SPEAKER_00: And I feel uncontrollable rage a lot now.
• 46:48
  SPEAKER_00: Like it takes very little, and I'm suddenly furious.
• 46:54
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm on, I don't know how to, I don't have the coping skills for that.
• 46:58
  SPEAKER_00: So we're working on that.
• 47:00
  SPEAKER_00: But it's like you can't control that.
• 47:04
  SPEAKER_00: And like she doesn't want to be so for him to say, I hate that version of you, it's like, well, I hate that version of me too.
• 47:12
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't make anything better to know that you feel that way.
• 47:16
  SPEAKER_02: Like you need to just support me through things I can't control.
• 47:20
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I'm getting at.
• 47:21
  SPEAKER_02: Like, it's not her choice to feel that way.
• 47:23
  SPEAKER_02: He's acting like it's something she's done to him, but it's something that's happening to her.
• 47:28
  SPEAKER_02: Like, if imagine, imagine how he feels.
• 47:31
  SPEAKER_02: It probably feels like 20 times worse for her.
• 47:33
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and especially when you reflect on the things that you maybe have said or the way you've reacted and you couldn't control it.
• 47:41
  SPEAKER_02: That's a great way to put it.
• 47:42
  SPEAKER_02: Something that's happening to her, not something she's doing.
• 47:45
  SPEAKER_02: It is.
• 47:46
  SPEAKER_02: And shout out to your husband for handling it so well.
• 47:50
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, he doesn't always like this has been a big learning process for both of us because this is a version of me that he's never seen that and probably isn't his favorite, obviously.
• 48:01
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and you guys have had to like communicate and you do a great job.
• 48:05
  SPEAKER_01: Definitely, but like you know, it just it's I you know, it just becomes really apparent why having babies just can't if your marriage isn't solid, it's done.
• 48:18
  SPEAKER_02: I was lucky enough to get a front row seat to one of your guys' like talking out sessions.
• 48:23
  SPEAKER_02: I was like sitting on the couch and you guys were like, you know, going over like a a fight that you had had that day or something you disagreed on, and you were here.
• 48:33
  SPEAKER_02: I wouldn't even call it a fight, that was a disagreement.
• 48:35
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, a disagreement.
• 48:36
  SPEAKER_02: And you guys were like saying your piece, hearing each other out.
• 48:39
  SPEAKER_02: You know, you weren't even bothered when I was interjecting my opinion in there because of course, how can I not?
• 48:46
  SPEAKER_02: And like I told you then I was at times I was sitting there like, should I like leave?
• 48:49
  SPEAKER_02: Like, should I be a part of this?
• 48:51
  SPEAKER_02: And then I was like, I'm gonna be a part of it.
• 48:53
  SPEAKER_02: We'll see how this shakes out, yeah.
• 48:55
  SPEAKER_02: And you guys just like let me interject, knowing this bitch who just never had a baby in her life.
• 49:02
  SPEAKER_02: Well, neither have we.
• 49:04
  SPEAKER_02: That's true.
• 49:05
  SPEAKER_02: It was just, and then you guys were just so happy about it, and I just applaud you both.
• 49:09
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
• 49:10
  SPEAKER_00: I do really think we have really good communication skills.
• 49:15
  SPEAKER_02: I like to think I had a little something to do with it that that particular night.
• 49:19
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, the thing about both of us is we really value other people's just in like life, like curious about other people's opinions on things, especially when we don't know what we're doing, which we don't.
• 49:34
  SPEAKER_02: So I I'm not gonna be the one, but I guess I just felt like I've observed enough.
• 49:40
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like as we talk through a scenario, it's like, well, you know, what do you think?
• 49:43
  SPEAKER_02: You've been here witnessing this, you witnessed the whatever happened that day.
• 49:46
  SPEAKER_02: It's like, what was your take?
• 49:48
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I'm just glad we have such a close relationship.
• 49:51
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like a lot of people would be like, This is an AV conversation, see your way out.
• 49:55
  SPEAKER_02: And that's I was telling myself I needed to see myself out, but the other half of me was like, I'm in it now.
• 50:01
  SPEAKER_02: Listen, since then, like we have had this past week, we did have like an actual fight, maybe like our first real fight.
• 50:08
  SPEAKER_02: What was it about?
• 50:10
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, nothing, honestly, nothing.
• 50:13
  SPEAKER_02: It's the it's the postpartum rage.
• 50:15
  SPEAKER_00: It just took over me one day.
• 50:17
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I think I asked that my husband to like watch the baby while I went to take a shower.
• 50:24
  SPEAKER_01: He was but he was working, and I just assumed the baby can sit on the floor while I go take a shower.
• 50:31
  SPEAKER_02: And he said something like, You should take him with you, like I have to go to the bathroom, blah blah blah.
• 50:35
  SPEAKER_00: For like nothing, so reasonable.
• 50:38
  SPEAKER_00: I have him with me in the bathroom while I take a shower every day, but for some reason that day I just was I just lost it.
• 50:46
  SPEAKER_00: I was like, fine, I won't ask for your help for anything ever again.
• 50:49
  SPEAKER_00: You don't need to come to any of his appointments, like I just like snapped.
• 50:54
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I I don't blame you for one second.
• 50:59
  SPEAKER_02: I don't love it, it doesn't feel great, but it's probably easy to feel like you're doing everything, yeah.
• 51:05
  SPEAKER_02: It is, but it it's you know, but I'm not.
• 51:08
  SPEAKER_02: No, I know you're not.
• 51:09
  SPEAKER_02: We both know you're not, but it's probably easy to feel as such, yeah.
• 51:13
  SPEAKER_02: So I mean, all of this to say, like, Luke needs to do a little more reflection on what this is like for her because he's just really focusing on him how this is hard for him, yeah.
• 51:26
  SPEAKER_00: And men truly, and women who haven't had babies have no idea.
• 51:32
  SPEAKER_02: And I feel and I feel like he's he said during the therapy session, like, but what about me?
• 51:38
  SPEAKER_02: Look at what about like he's trying, he thinks that Kristen's only focusing on her, which she is, but like honestly, it's about her right now.
• 51:44
  SPEAKER_02: She's not focusing on her, she's focusing on her baby, yeah, and and therefore the unit as a as a trio.
• 51:52
  SPEAKER_02: Here's a perfect example of the difference.
• 51:55
  SPEAKER_00: We had because I had this conversation with my husband weeks ago.
• 51:59
  SPEAKER_00: I said, I have to do laundry every day.
• 52:01
  SPEAKER_00: And he goes, I don't know how you have to do laundry every day.
• 52:03
  SPEAKER_00: I produce so little.
• 52:04
  SPEAKER_00: I I would need to do it maybe like once a week.
• 52:06
  SPEAKER_00: And I said, There it is.
• 52:09
  SPEAKER_00: You produce so little, but there isn't just your laundry in the house.
• 52:13
  SPEAKER_00: There's your laundry, there's mine, and now there's the baby's.
• 52:16
  SPEAKER_00: I think of doing the collective's laundry.
• 52:19
  SPEAKER_00: You think about the laundry you produce.
• 52:21
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so that's what Kristen's focusing on the collective, and Luke is focusing on himself.
• 52:26
  SPEAKER_02: Very true.
• 52:27
  SPEAKER_00: That is the problem.
• 52:29
  SPEAKER_02: Stamp it, handle it.
• 52:31
  SPEAKER_02: I solved it.
• 52:32
  SPEAKER_02: Um, but the baby has a lot of clothes and a lot of barb cloth, so I really I still don't understand why you need to do laundry every day.
• 52:40
  SPEAKER_02: I do it like every other day now.
• 52:41
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, what a relief.
• 52:43
  SPEAKER_02: That must be yeah.
• 52:44
  SPEAKER_02: What did you think of the Jesse Michelle divorce scene?
• 52:48
  SPEAKER_02: It was sweet.
• 52:49
  SPEAKER_02: I hope that they can move forward, friends, and be good co-parents.
• 52:55
  SPEAKER_02: I thought it was so sad.
• 52:56
  SPEAKER_02: It made me really emotional when he was talking about how he kept like every card that they that was really emotional, each other so that their daughter can see like that she was born out of like a really deep love.
• 53:06
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm sure it's like really hard to say goodbye to something that had such good parts, and it's like hard to believe that you know that you're you're never getting that back, and it's just sad, it's just sad when love dies.
• 53:21
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it is.
• 53:22
  SPEAKER_02: I did think it was funny when they did like a flashback of them having fun together and like happier days.
• 53:28
  SPEAKER_02: The montage didn't really land because they came onto the show about to divorce.
• 53:34
  SPEAKER_02: It's a bad, bad place, so like any time where he's like hugging her, she was like annoyed by it, you know.
• 53:40
  SPEAKER_02: So that's kind of funny.
• 53:43
  SPEAKER_02: We need like video clips from Pre the Valley, I think.
• 53:46
  SPEAKER_02: Elsewhere they go to Chili's and Zach immediately gets diarrhea.
• 53:54
  SPEAKER_02: I don't even remember the last time I've been to a chilies.
• 53:58
  SPEAKER_02: I went just a couple years ago.
• 53:59
  SPEAKER_02: It was great.
• 54:00
  SPEAKER_02: You went last summer, wasn't it?
• 54:01
  SPEAKER_02: Last summer?
• 54:02
  SPEAKER_02: Last summer, yeah.
• 54:02
  SPEAKER_02: I loved it.
• 54:03
  SPEAKER_02: I I famously do not like chilies, but I thought they really improved.
• 54:09
  SPEAKER_01: Does chilies have an awesome blossom, or is that just something they said on the office?
• 54:15
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 54:17
  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna Google it.
• 54:20
  SPEAKER_02: The Chili's Awesome Blossom was a fit was a famous deep-fried battered onion appetizer served with Buffalo Ranch or horseradish dipping sauce that was discontinued in 2008 due to high calorie and fat content.
• 54:34
  SPEAKER_02: Really?
• 54:35
  SPEAKER_02: Really?
• 54:38
  SPEAKER_00: I want to eat that.
• 54:41
  SPEAKER_00: I would eat that.
• 54:43
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe you can get a knock-off recipe.
• 54:46
  SPEAKER_02: You'd have to find a deep fryer.
• 54:49
  SPEAKER_02: I might have jalapeno poppers in the freezer.
• 54:55
  SPEAKER_02: Sorry, I just it made me think of it, and now I kind of because you know, chili is like that's the kind of food I would get at the chilies.
• 55:01
  SPEAKER_02: It's like an onion ring, a deep fried something, a jalapeno popper.
• 55:06
  SPEAKER_02: Like that's what I'm here for.
• 55:07
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 55:08
  SPEAKER_02: One more quick note I did watch Watch What Happens live, and Kristen said that after she watched Danny's behavior, she could not condone it.
• 55:15
  SPEAKER_02: So at least she opened her eyes.
• 55:19
  SPEAKER_00: All right, okay, good, great.
• 55:22
  SPEAKER_00: Shall we move over?
• 55:23
  SPEAKER_00: Um, do we have any other thoughts?
• 55:26
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that was it for Bravo.
• 55:28
  SPEAKER_02: So, do you have any thoughts on divorce, Castle?
• 55:31
  SPEAKER_02: Can I just say something about the stop watching that?
• 55:35
  SPEAKER_02: Um, I think I'm gonna keep watching, but can I uh just make uh observation about the TLC universe in general?
• 55:45
  SPEAKER_02: The commercials are like mini shows in themselves, like they're just interesting enough to keep me updated in a way that like I feel like I'm on this journey with these people, but I don't have to watch the shows like Bailing Out Loud.
• 55:56
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I feel like I was there for the wedding planning, and then I was there for the wedding, and then now she's moving into a house, or like Jay and Pamela, like you know, they're talking about having kids.
• 56:05
  SPEAKER_02: Will they have kids?
• 56:06
  SPEAKER_02: They went to New York Fashion Week.
• 56:08
  SPEAKER_02: We have little singles, there's so much drama on little singles, and it's like I'm never gonna watch any of these shows, but the commercials I don't fast forward because I'm like, oh, what are the little singles up to this week?
• 56:19
  SPEAKER_02: You know, it's like a little check-in.
• 56:20
  SPEAKER_02: That's funny because I don't get any of the commercials because I watch it on Prime, so I have I have that's very interesting.
• 56:28
  SPEAKER_02: Same with like Sister Wives.
• 56:30
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, you know, like the the 32nd Sister Wives is a journey I'd love to take someday.
• 56:35
  SPEAKER_02: You should take the Plathville journey so we can talk about that.
• 56:39
  SPEAKER_02: I'd love to someday, yeah.
• 56:41
  SPEAKER_02: Because I watched that.
• 56:42
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so sorry, divorce castle.
• 56:44
  SPEAKER_02: Guillermo says he's worried that his kid's gonna get bullied over his mom's butt stuff, and that I thought was a great argument.
• 56:51
  SPEAKER_02: Excellent.
• 56:52
  SPEAKER_02: So my husband was sitting there with me while that happened, that part, and we talked about it, and he found Kara's images on Reddit.
• 57:00
  SPEAKER_00: Um, it's porn, obviously.
• 57:03
  SPEAKER_02: And I actually think they're both valid in wanting to in Kara wanting to continue and Guillermo wanting to not be with someone who does that, they're both in there within their right to do that.
• 57:17
  SPEAKER_00: Unfortunately, it means they can't be together.
• 57:20
  SPEAKER_02: Which I think they know, and I think they've come to that conclusion.
• 57:23
  SPEAKER_02: But I do think that like him putting the wall up while they're sleeping, a physical wall, it goes against the premise of the show.
• 57:29
  SPEAKER_02: Like, if you want to be on the show, you have to buy into the premise of the show, which is trying to work on your relationship.
• 57:36
  SPEAKER_02: At least yeah, and it's also like a little dramatic.
• 57:38
  SPEAKER_02: Like, that's still the mother of your child.
• 57:39
  SPEAKER_02: Calm down.
• 57:40
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, dramatic.
• 57:41
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I so there's that.
• 57:44
  SPEAKER_02: I also think like my husband made a good point.
• 57:48
  SPEAKER_02: OnlyFans, most people don't make that much, like, she's not within the top whatever percentage that's making enough to live off of it.
• 57:57
  SPEAKER_02: There's no way.
• 57:59
  SPEAKER_02: So, why?
• 58:01
  SPEAKER_02: And he also was like, any job, she could have gotten any job, and that's true.
• 58:06
  SPEAKER_02: If she wants to be with Guillermo, she could literally do any job.
• 58:10
  SPEAKER_02: This is like a lot easier.
• 58:12
  SPEAKER_02: You take the pictures on your own time, it takes you like, I don't know, an hour.
• 58:15
  SPEAKER_02: But I don't think she's making enough to make it this worth it.
• 58:18
  SPEAKER_02: She's a TLC person, that's true.
• 58:20
  SPEAKER_02: She's she's famous, but yeah, she does need to like this.
• 58:26
  SPEAKER_02: Is gonna impact her kid.
• 58:28
  SPEAKER_02: I know that's something that I think she should think about.
• 58:30
  SPEAKER_02: Like, you have every right to do what you want to do, but like, do you want your kid to be bullied?
• 58:35
  SPEAKER_00: And honestly, meant to stumble upon the content himself, like horrifying.
• 58:39
  SPEAKER_02: That's traumatizing.
• 58:41
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you they should put him in therapy now to prepare him for what he's about to see.
• 58:46
  SPEAKER_02: The only other nugget that surprised me was that she kinda like was so unfaced sleeping amongst the bugs.
• 58:53
  SPEAKER_02: She went to um she went to Cambodia by herself for six months and lived in a grass.
• 58:58
  SPEAKER_02: She shocked me.
• 58:59
  SPEAKER_02: She and slept on a dirt.
• 59:01
  SPEAKER_02: Like I can't I can't like see this woman, you know.
• 59:05
  SPEAKER_02: I can't reconcile that woman with this woman before me.
• 59:08
  SPEAKER_02: She surprises me often with her tales of her previous life.
• 59:12
  SPEAKER_02: So I think I'm gonna keep watching, even though there are times where I do want to quit.
• 59:17
  SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah, I'll keep watching too, but it's just I never have much to say about it.
• 59:22
  SPEAKER_02: Well, then let's get right over to the main attraction.
• 59:25
  SPEAKER_02: Where do you want to start?
• 59:28
  SPEAKER_02: Um maybe we could start with the Church of Shay.
• 59:32
  SPEAKER_02: Why are these people you don't have to go to the same church?
• 59:35
  SPEAKER_02: Go to a different church.
• 59:36
  SPEAKER_02: Who cares?
• 59:38
  SPEAKER_02: Why is this such a deal?
• 59:39
  SPEAKER_02: You know who Shay needs to be with?
• 59:42
  SPEAKER_02: Kate.
• 59:44
  unknown: Oh my god.
• 59:45
  SPEAKER_02: I think you're right.
• 59:46
  SPEAKER_02: They both want to make out with everyone, they both are religious at the same time.
• 59:51
  SPEAKER_02: Apparently.
• 59:52
  SPEAKER_02: I do think Annabelle's resting bitch face.
• 59:55
  SPEAKER_02: Also, she's Catholic.
• 59:56
  SPEAKER_02: How could this be worse than a Catholic Mass?
• 59:58
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, seriously.
• 59:59
  SPEAKER_02: Well, here's the thing Catholic Mass is 60 minutes on the dot, in and out.
• 1:00:04
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and I think some of these other, you know, flexible churches are those can go indefinitely, especially if you incorporate the concert aspect.
• 1:00:17
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
• 1:00:18
  SPEAKER_02: So I can see if she's used to 60 minutes in and out being like, can we wrap this up?
• 1:00:24
  SPEAKER_02: That's crazy because Catholic Mass to me feels like two hours on the dot.
• 1:00:28
  SPEAKER_02: It's not.
• 1:00:29
  SPEAKER_02: Well, like move slow.
• 1:00:31
  SPEAKER_02: But with the purple lights and the music and stuff, it was giving righteous gemstones a tad, but on a Hondo P.
• 1:00:38
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:00:39
  SPEAKER_02: Anyway, I just think she should control herself, her facial expressions a little better.
• 1:00:43
  SPEAKER_02: She can't.
• 1:00:44
  SPEAKER_02: I think she should just let it fly.
• 1:00:46
  SPEAKER_02: I like it.
• 1:00:47
  SPEAKER_02: Elsewhere we have Brandy, who's actually a hopeless romantic and a big teddy bear.
• 1:00:57
  SPEAKER_02: So now they're best friends.
• 1:00:58
  SPEAKER_02: Part of me wondered, like part of me wondered was this whole st uh Brandy versus Rashit stunt just for the show.
• 1:01:07
  SPEAKER_02: But it's very possible.
• 1:01:09
  SPEAKER_02: But he seemed genuinely shocked when Brandy was taking his side.
• 1:01:14
  SPEAKER_02: How did you feel when they laid out the argument that way?
• 1:01:17
  SPEAKER_02: I thought they were right.
• 1:01:18
  SPEAKER_02: He did give up his whole life.
• 1:01:21
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:01:22
  SPEAKER_02: I think that there can be a prenup, but I do think that the fact that he gave up everything needs to be factored in.
• 1:01:27
  SPEAKER_02: I agree.
• 1:01:29
  SPEAKER_02: Hopefully they come to that conclusion themselves.
• 1:01:31
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:01:33
  SPEAKER_02: Do you have any other thoughts about them?
• 1:01:36
  SPEAKER_01: I just think that this is a budding romance for the ages.
• 1:01:40
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, part of me was like a little bit when Brandon was like, you know, there's too many divorces these days.
• 1:01:46
  SPEAKER_02: I was like, where are we going with this?
• 1:01:48
  SPEAKER_02: Like women shouldn't have rights.
• 1:01:50
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:01:50
  SPEAKER_02: So I was a little worried.
• 1:01:51
  SPEAKER_02: I was like, let's not get too far down that hole because I like you now.
• 1:01:55
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:01:56
  SPEAKER_02: Don't lose us.
• 1:01:56
  SPEAKER_02: He just got us.
• 1:01:57
  SPEAKER_02: And I've honestly liked him the whole time because he handled every every time I thought he might like beat Rasheed's ass, he never did.
• 1:02:04
  SPEAKER_00: That's true.
• 1:02:06
  SPEAKER_02: Like, if he had beat Rashid's ass in any of those times, I would have been like, Yeah, that's valid.
• 1:02:11
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, that's fair.
• 1:02:12
  SPEAKER_02: Stay and get your ass beat, or you can stay and get your ass beat.
• 1:02:20
  SPEAKER_02: What about Marissa and Edward?
• 1:02:22
  SPEAKER_02: I would just like to say he came out wearing beige on beige and she made him change into a black top.
• 1:02:28
  SPEAKER_02: And I liked the beige on beige.
• 1:02:30
  SPEAKER_02: I thought it was way more unexpected and original and giving off cool vibes.
• 1:02:39
  SPEAKER_01: The way that I hate this woman, the way she is so she's the worst woman on this, she's the worst person on this whole season.
• 1:02:47
  SPEAKER_02: Why do you want to marry someone if you think they have the intellect of a toddler?
• 1:02:51
  SPEAKER_00: Why do you want to marry someone that you're embarrassed of?
• 1:02:53
  SPEAKER_00: She's embarrassed of him.
• 1:02:55
  SPEAKER_02: She is.
• 1:02:56
  SPEAKER_02: Why can't you talk about baseball?
• 1:02:58
  SPEAKER_02: He's what is her problem?
• 1:03:00
  SPEAKER_00: She's like, I've never seen him blacked out, but I don't want him to get blacked out at this party.
• 1:03:04
  SPEAKER_00: Did you clock when she said, I just don't know if he's the kind of person that can bring to a black tie affair or a rodeo?
• 1:03:10
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, what was that?
• 1:03:11
  SPEAKER_02: What kind of person can you bring to a rodeo?
• 1:03:13
  SPEAKER_02: Also, are you going to rodeos in Connecticut?
• 1:03:16
  SPEAKER_02: Pennsylvania.
• 1:03:17
  SPEAKER_02: But also, not really.
• 1:03:19
  SPEAKER_02: That yeah, she every time she tries to redeem herself, she just goes right back.
• 1:03:25
  SPEAKER_02: She can't.
• 1:03:26
  SPEAKER_02: She just the she says the worst thing that she hates this guy, and she fully admitted we are in this relationship because the sex is great, and he we there's we don't talk.
• 1:03:39
  SPEAKER_02: So that's not that does not a marriage make.
• 1:03:43
  SPEAKER_02: No, and she is the real idiot.
• 1:03:45
  SPEAKER_02: For he's so nice, and he was perfectly wonderful speaking to those people, like asking them what they do, and he just common thing.
• 1:03:54
  SPEAKER_02: Like baseball is something that a lot of people can talk about, like that's super personable, like what mingling is you find a common thread.
• 1:04:01
  SPEAKER_02: I hate her, I hate her.
• 1:04:03
  SPEAKER_02: Me too.
• 1:04:04
  SPEAKER_02: All right, we gotta we gotta speed up.
• 1:04:07
  SPEAKER_02: I uh I don't know if I can because Katie and Josh, I mean, we meet her parents, like what is that?
• 1:04:17
  SPEAKER_02: What what was well they hate her, they hate their daughter and they hate her guts.
• 1:04:24
  SPEAKER_02: She, but she is in fact insufferable.
• 1:04:26
  SPEAKER_02: I there's some serious mental shit happening with her because when her mom said, you know, you're drinking, you're gonna hurt someone someday, and her first instinct is to go, like murder, yeah, something's not right upstairs.
• 1:04:39
  SPEAKER_02: And her mom also said that she has a lot of voices.
• 1:04:43
  SPEAKER_02: She did say that.
• 1:04:44
  SPEAKER_02: I clocked that, and I'm like, that ain't no cd.
• 1:04:46
  SPEAKER_02: That's something that's a different mental illness.
• 1:04:48
  SPEAKER_02: It rhymes with Fritzophrenia.
• 1:04:52
  SPEAKER_02: And she when she said like murder, it was like she was genuinely asking, like, yeah, one day I'll murder someone.
• 1:04:59
  SPEAKER_02: Which she could if she drives, but and her mom is like they they they they basically just say she's like annoying.
• 1:05:07
  SPEAKER_02: They're like to have around for two days.
• 1:05:10
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, then we wanted to get out.
• 1:05:12
  SPEAKER_02: This is so much more serious than that.
• 1:05:14
  SPEAKER_02: Why don't you get get her help?
• 1:05:15
  SPEAKER_02: But also they said she's very bossy as a child.
• 1:05:18
  SPEAKER_02: The mom has her own issues, though.
• 1:05:19
  SPEAKER_02: Something ain't right with that mommy there.
• 1:05:21
  SPEAKER_02: Well, we'll get more info info on that next week when the religion of it all comes out.
• 1:05:26
  SPEAKER_02: But like, I have a feeling that this they if maybe they'd intervened earlier in childhood, we could have helped some of this potentially.
• 1:05:34
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, she clearly needs help.
• 1:05:35
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, and now at this point, it's like, are we culpable for like watching and it's definitely a thought that I have.
• 1:05:42
  SPEAKER_02: She's not well.
• 1:05:43
  SPEAKER_02: Like, she's um what did you think?
• 1:05:45
  SPEAKER_02: This is like a classic couple argument.
• 1:05:47
  SPEAKER_02: What time do we get to the airport?
• 1:05:49
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, that was um, whatever.
• 1:05:51
  SPEAKER_02: And they seem to make up.
• 1:05:52
  SPEAKER_02: I think you need to when I think when you find yourself in that position, you need to just compromise in the middle somewhere.
• 1:05:57
  SPEAKER_02: Like, if you want to get there an hour early and he wants to get there two hours early, like subtract 15 minutes on each end.
• 1:06:03
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 1:06:03
  SPEAKER_02: I was honestly surprised that they had such a normal couple argument.
• 1:06:07
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, she's so not normal, not that any of us are.
• 1:06:12
  SPEAKER_02: So, do we have anybody else besides Debbie?
• 1:06:14
  SPEAKER_02: Somebody who I no, I think just Debbie and Mito, but I think Debbie is just as unwell as Katie.
• 1:06:19
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, 100%.
• 1:06:20
  SPEAKER_00: Why does she want to marry this man?
• 1:06:21
  SPEAKER_00: He clearly hates you.
• 1:06:23
  SPEAKER_02: She has decided that avoidance is the best medicine for this situation, and the mood has improved greatly.
• 1:06:29
  SPEAKER_02: So, my other question though is like he keeps saying he doesn't want to marry her, he keeps putting it off, not wanting to talk about it.
• 1:06:38
  SPEAKER_02: What does he think if they don't get married is gonna happen when his visa expires?
• 1:06:43
  SPEAKER_02: Like, doesn't he realize he actually has to marry her?
• 1:06:46
  SPEAKER_02: Well, he's mentally unwell, also.
• 1:06:48
  SPEAKER_02: And I guess we could say that, but I'm seeing like like this man is the his delusions are so extreme.
• 1:06:55
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know if I've said this to you before, but I'm fairly positive that when her thing said New Orleans LA for Louisiana, he thought that was Los Angeles.
• 1:07:05
  SPEAKER_02: You have to be right.
• 1:07:07
  SPEAKER_02: I know, but like he genuinely thinks he can be an actor and a star.
• 1:07:12
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he does.
• 1:07:13
  SPEAKER_02: And for her, it's like this man told you exactly who he was.
• 1:07:17
  SPEAKER_02: He he tells you over and over again.
• 1:07:19
  SPEAKER_00: She's she said something like, I'm starting to think that he cares more about his acting than getting married.
• 1:07:23
  SPEAKER_02: You're starting to think that.
• 1:07:25
  SPEAKER_02: And I feel like she's using the the acting thing as like a like, well, I don't want to do the acting classes until you tell me that you're serious about being here.
• 1:07:36
  SPEAKER_00: It's so crazy.
• 1:07:37
  SPEAKER_02: Like it's like the power, she's like using her power.
• 1:07:40
  SPEAKER_02: And you is that the relationship you want?
• 1:07:42
  SPEAKER_02: She needs to get some self-respect.
• 1:07:44
  SPEAKER_02: Anyway, great speed round.
• 1:07:47
  SPEAKER_02: I know we did great.
• 1:07:48
  SPEAKER_02: What are you gonna do for with the rest of your day?
• 1:07:51
  SPEAKER_02: I'm going to the beach.
• 1:07:52
  SPEAKER_00: It's California after all.
• 1:07:54
  SPEAKER_00: Beach, each, let's go get away.
• 1:07:56
  SPEAKER_00: Thing, say, one, thing, thing.
• 1:07:59
  SPEAKER_00: What are you saying?
• 1:08:01
  SPEAKER_00: Tonight we're going to an in-the-park screening of my favorite, one of my favorite movies, Best and Show.
• 1:08:09
  SPEAKER_02: Amazing.
• 1:08:10
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, my husband's parents are gonna come babysit.
• 1:08:12
  SPEAKER_00: So we're gonna go to a fancy dinner beforehand, and then we're gonna walk over to the park and watch Best and Show.
• 1:08:20
  SPEAKER_02: How sweet is that! I'm so excited for you.
• 1:08:23
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be great.
• 1:08:24
  SPEAKER_02: Well, then everyone, I'm sure this will drop on Monday.
• 1:08:27
  SPEAKER_02: So have a great week.
• 1:08:28
  SPEAKER_02: Thanks for rotting with us.
• 1:08:29
  SPEAKER_01: Thanks for rotting.
• 1:08:30
  unknown: All right.
• 1:08:31
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I'm gonna go eat some jalapeno poppers now.