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The 4 Stages of a divine feminine awakening (and How to Move Through Each One) · Mindful Success Path

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Amanda Abella: Have you ever wondered why some women seem to attract everything that it is that they want in life, while others seem to constantly be in survival mode?
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Amanda Abella: Well, in this video, I'm gonna be explaining the four stages of divine feminine energy based on my.
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Amanda Abella: 15 years of experience coaching women, not only that, but also healing my own wounded feminine energy where in four months I was able to manifest a provider, protect her husband.
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Amanda Abella: Within a year I was living in different countries, and now we have multiple businesses that bring in money sometimes on autopilot, like this YouTube channel right here.
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Amanda Abella: And it all goes down to the fact that I moved through these four stages.
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Amanda Abella: I am going to be teaching you today once you master these four stages of divine feminine energy, um, and I'm gonna be explaining how it works in every area of your life.
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Amanda Abella: So generally speaking, I'm also gonna talk about how it works in dating and relationships, and I'm gonna talk about how it works with money, everything in your life starts to change.
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Amanda Abella: Hi, my name is Amanda.
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Amanda Abella: Okay.
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Amanda Abella: I need y'all to grab a tea, a coffee, a matcha water, whatever for this one because I get the feeling this one is going to be a bit longer.
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Amanda Abella: 'cause I wanna make sure that we go really deep into these concepts so that you can identify where you might be on this spectrum.
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Amanda Abella: Now, this is a spectrum that I've created over the last few years.
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Amanda Abella: As I mentioned, I've been coaching women for 15 years.
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Amanda Abella: In different areas of their lives.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, I also learned a lot from men and actually got coached by men for a lot of these things and understand their perspective.
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Amanda Abella: So I've taken, um, all of these different things that I've learned throughout the years from my experience and created these four stages of divine feminine energy that women have to move through in order to start.
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Amanda Abella: Quite frankly, getting what it is that they want in their lives and really moving through four stages of consciousness.
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Amanda Abella: Now, I gotta be really honest with you, most women are not gonna be able to handle what I'm going to be talking about today.
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Amanda Abella: Most women are gonna stay stuck in like stage one or stage two, uh, and that's fine.
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Amanda Abella: Some women make it to stage three, but.
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Amanda Abella: It's rare.
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Amanda Abella: So I want you to make a commitment to yourself right now that you're going to commit to learning what these things are.
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Amanda Abella: You're going to commit to becoming a self-aware woman, and you're going to commit to personal responsibility as I start going through these things, and also brutal honesty.
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Amanda Abella: With yourself so you can determine where you are.
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Amanda Abella: Now, the good news is that if you found a video like this or subscribed to this channel, you probably really like personal growth.
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Amanda Abella: So you are in that small percentage of people in the world who are actually going to do something about their lives, and those are the ones who actually get.
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Amanda Abella: The results that it is that they're looking for, they get the money that they wanna make, they get the relationships that they wanna make.
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Amanda Abella: They get the health, they get a good life.
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Amanda Abella: In other words, it doesn't mean that problems don't exist.
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Amanda Abella: Of course they do.
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Amanda Abella: They just handle them in a different way that has more peace and more calm.
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Amanda Abella: So if that's something that you want in your life, you really need to understand these stages and how to move through them.
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Amanda Abella: And every single training I'm creating has to do with moving you.
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Amanda Abella: Through these four stages.
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Amanda Abella: The final thing that I wanna say here.
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Amanda Abella: Is that this actually used to be six stages that I created a few years ago.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, if you were on my business channel or marketing and sales training company, you may have seen me talking about the, feminine CEO and the stages that a feminine CEO must move through in order to build a business that can run without her and makes money a lot more easily.
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Amanda Abella: So that was the foundation for these four stages that I've created right now.
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Amanda Abella: The difference is that with.
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Amanda Abella: These four stages.
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Amanda Abella: Number one, I simplified it.
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Amanda Abella: And number two, um, these are four stages that are based on every single area of your life rather than just running a business.
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Amanda Abella: So let's get into it.
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Amanda Abella: Stage one is the Wounded Maiden.
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Amanda Abella: Now you might hear a lot of archetypal language.
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Amanda Abella: There's a reason for that.
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Amanda Abella: The reason why we use archetypes all throughout the world is because it doesn't matter what culture you're in or where you come from, when you use archetypes, you understand what is going on, and it is universal.
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Amanda Abella: The maiden is one of those, and a wounded Maiden is certainly one of those.
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Amanda Abella: So here are the core characteristics of the wounded.
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Amanda Abella: Maiden, the wounded Maiden is in wounded feminine energy and she has very deep insecurities.
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Amanda Abella: You might notice that she has a tendency for perfectionism and people pleasing.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, she might have this entitlement about her mixed with a victim mentality.
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Amanda Abella: So these are people who go around blaming everybody else.
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Amanda Abella: For their problems and thinking the world owes them something.
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Amanda Abella: That's how that might look.
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Amanda Abella: Where it might be the door match who can never seem to lift herself up.
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Amanda Abella: She is usually always seeking permission and approval from others.
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Amanda Abella: Even when she's yelling that she doesn't, that's usually how, you know, she's yelling about it.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, she has a blame focused mindset, so everything is somebody else's.
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Amanda Abella: Fault.
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Amanda Abella: Okay.
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Amanda Abella: This is very wounded feminine energy.
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Amanda Abella: There's usually also a lot of drama, emotional volatility, um, as a way to get attention a lot of the time.
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Amanda Abella: So you'll notice that women who are in this wounded feminine, they're either in the entitled camp and there's a lot of drama.
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Amanda Abella: So they think the world owes them something because they're constantly a victim of their circumstances.
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Amanda Abella: They're usually the ones banging on tables, yelling about, uh, what it is that's owed to them.
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Amanda Abella: And you'll also notice that there's a lot of drama in their lives.
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Amanda Abella: There's a lot of drama.
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Amanda Abella: Then usually they are the center of the drama if we are being honest.
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Amanda Abella: Um, so you might also notice in this particular stage that she struggles financially and professionally.
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Amanda Abella: The reason why she struggles financially and professionally in this case is because she has still not learned, um, how to cultivate masculine energy or co-opt it really masculine energy within her in order to have discipline, consistency and skills that are needed to take care of herself.
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Amanda Abella: Because before we went get with a man.
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Amanda Abella: Who's going to be taking care of us.
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Amanda Abella: We also need to learn how to take care of ourselves.
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Amanda Abella: Otherwise, we put ourselves in desperate situations and then we lack discernment.
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Amanda Abella: So that's one of the reasons why we want to do that.
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Amanda Abella: And this archetype is also always waiting for someone else.
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Amanda Abella: To save or rescue her because again, she doesn't take personal responsibility for anything.
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Amanda Abella: It's always somebody else's fault or somebody else's problem, or someone else needs to come fix it for her.
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Amanda Abella: So here are the dating and relationship patterns for the wounded feminine.
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Amanda Abella: This particular archetype tends to attract feminized passive men who lack direction.
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Amanda Abella: She can also attract controlling men who want to fix her.
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Amanda Abella: To put it that way, she attracts emotionally unavailable men who trigger her wounds.
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Amanda Abella: She also attracts men who are wounded themselves and also seeking a rescue, because remember, this is all just a mirror.
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Amanda Abella: When we are in relationships and she will attract players who exploit her insecurities.
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Amanda Abella: She will also attract predators who exploit her.
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Amanda Abella: So this is very important to understand.
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Amanda Abella: The way that she shows up when she is in dating situations is she has desperate energy that repels.
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Amanda Abella: Quality men.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, she gives her power away immediately.
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Amanda Abella: So she has like zero boundaries.
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Amanda Abella: She becomes obsessed after one date.
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Amanda Abella: So a lot of women have this tendency to become obsessed with men and honestly sometimes become obsessed with men.
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Amanda Abella: Where there was literally never anything there, right?
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Amanda Abella: But they've created this fantasy in their minds and they become very obsessed with it.
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Amanda Abella: That's usually a wounded maiden quality when it comes to dating.
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Amanda Abella: She also tolerates poor treatment because she doesn't believe that she deserves any better, or she likes the drama.
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Amanda Abella: And she uses manipulation and drama to get attention.
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Amanda Abella: So, uh, one area where you can really see this is with like Spanish soap operas, if you guys have ever seen them.
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Amanda Abella: Um, I'm in Mexico right now.
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Amanda Abella: Mexico's kind of famous for soap operas and novellas and things like that.
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Amanda Abella: And I am Latina, so I grew up with my grandparents watching them.
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Amanda Abella: You'll see this archetype all over.
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Amanda Abella: The Mexican NOLAs, and I'm sure the Colombian and the Brazilian and all the NOLAs and all the so operas.
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Amanda Abella: You will find an archetype like this.
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Amanda Abella: You will find that horrible, manipulative, dramatic woman who just destroys everybody's life.
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Amanda Abella: Right?
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Amanda Abella: So that will be.
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Amanda Abella: Um, an example and she's in wounded feminine, um, energy.
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Amanda Abella: And again, like it's such a typical trope in the NOLAs that you can find very easily.
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Amanda Abella: Right.
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Amanda Abella: And I'm sure in other, uh, entertainment around the world you can see it.
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Amanda Abella: But I happen to be in Mexico right now, and that happens to be a big deal in Mexico.
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Amanda Abella: And I'm like, oh yeah.
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Amanda Abella: I mean, literally in every single series you will find one of those, and she's usually the villain, uh, by the way.
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Amanda Abella: Or you'll have like the really nice.
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Amanda Abella: Girl who's a doormat, and then they juxtaposition them, uh, against each other really a lot of the time, right?
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Amanda Abella: So if you want a really good example of this, uh, wounded maiden archetype, just, just go find some Nola.
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Amanda Abella: Just, just go find some soap operas from Latin America, right?
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Amanda Abella: She also has no boundaries, uh, or standards and in her relationship dynamics.
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Amanda Abella: She comes off as well.
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Amanda Abella: She doesn't come off.
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Amanda Abella: She is codependent and has unhealthy attachments.
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Amanda Abella: I recently had a comment come in here that said, well, do I, am I, am I to become codependent or independent?
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Amanda Abella: Um, neither you are to become interdependent and.
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Amanda Abella: Um, those of you who are asking that question, this training is gonna help you kind of determine which one is which and where you should be in that dynamic.
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Amanda Abella: So in the Wounded Maiden is constantly and codependent and unhealthy attachments.
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Amanda Abella: She has this constant need for reassurance and validation.
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Amanda Abella: She creates drama to feel alive and important, and she gives everything away hoping that some man is going to choose her.
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Amanda Abella: She attracts men who drain her energy.
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Amanda Abella: Her relationships are usually very volatile or short-lived or on again, off again, on again, off again.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, she's always the victim in relationship stories, always.
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Amanda Abella: She is always the victim.
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Amanda Abella: She takes no responsibility for literally anything.
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Amanda Abella: The communication style is that she goes, uh, she's usually passive, aggress.
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Amanda Abella: When she's hurt, she has emotional outbursts and blames everybody.
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Amanda Abella: She has indirect communications through hints and manipulation.
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Amanda Abella: She takes absolutely everything personally as a personal attack on her, and she cannot handle conflict or criticism of constructively.
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Amanda Abella: And here's some of the red flags that she ignores.
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Amanda Abella: She ignores inconsistent communication from men.
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Amanda Abella: She ignores lack of effort or investment.
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Amanda Abella: She ignores disrespectful treatment.
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Amanda Abella: She ignores emotional unavailability.
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Amanda Abella: She ignores controlling behavior and she ignores financial irresponsibility.
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Amanda Abella: So here's what needs to happen.
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Amanda Abella: And actually before I get into that, let me tell you what she looks like in money, right?
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Amanda Abella: So that's in relationships.
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Amanda Abella: Let's look at money when it comes to money, right?
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Amanda Abella: She has deep scarcity programming and fear-based thinking, meaning the money's always gonna run out.
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Amanda Abella: So there's like a huge focus on money.
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Amanda Abella: She believes that money is scarce and hard to come by.
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Amanda Abella: This is why you'll see women working three jobs and they still don't make enough money.
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Amanda Abella: She views money as something that happens to her, not something that she creates herself.
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Amanda Abella: She is, has oftentimes has a poverty consciousness or she has entitlement without effort.
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Amanda Abella: So it's the women who believe that they, uh, for example, like deserve a man to pay for everything, but she puts like zero effort into anything herself.
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Amanda Abella: Most men don't like that, by the way.
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Amanda Abella: Um, she believes she needs to be rescue.
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Amanda Abella: Financially.
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Amanda Abella: Again, you'll see this in the Nobel lives.
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Amanda Abella: There's, uh, this need to be rescued financially.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, money triggers, shame, fear, or inadequacy.
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Amanda Abella: And she may have beliefs that, you know, money is the root of all evil or rich people, uh, are bad.
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Amanda Abella: Or, uh, some rich man is gonna come save me.
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Amanda Abella: That's another one in which it comes out.
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Amanda Abella: So the earning patterns here are, she struggles to make consistent income on her own.
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Amanda Abella: She's often underemployed or in survival jobs.
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Amanda Abella: She may not work at all, and then depending on others for support.
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Amanda Abella: Um, and that there's a difference between that and like being with a provider husband who says, babe, don't worry about it.
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Amanda Abella: You don't have to work.
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Amanda Abella: There's, there's a difference between the two, right?
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Amanda Abella: Because in one of them, she, she doesn't have the capability to earn in the other one.
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Amanda Abella: Oftentimes women do have a capability to earn and they're just choosing not to because their husband is like, Hey, you know.
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Amanda Abella: I'll take care of stuff.
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Amanda Abella: So there is a difference, right?
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Amanda Abella: One is coming from a place of victimization and the other one is coming from a place of actually having choices and options and then choosing not to.
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Amanda Abella: When she does work, it's often in low paying or unstable positions.
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Amanda Abella: She lacks skills or confidence to command higher pay.
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Amanda Abella: She may self-sabotage opportunities for advancement.
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Amanda Abella: She's often fired or quits jobs due to drama or emotional volatility.
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Amanda Abella: And her spending behaviors look like emotional spending in order to fill internal voids.
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Amanda Abella: It looks like impulse purchases without planning or budgeting.
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Amanda Abella: It looks like overspending on appearance to attract a rescuer.
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Amanda Abella: So oftentimes this is women who are only focused on their looks and develop literally nothing else because they think it's all based on looks.
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Amanda Abella: Again, watching a Mexican novella now.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, where the main character is, literally this, um, her name is Rupe.
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Amanda Abella: If you wanna go, go check it out.
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Amanda Abella: But this is literally the main character and the main villain is all of this.
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Amanda Abella: Um, in addition to that, um, she may use shopping as a therapy or validation.
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Amanda Abella: She's often in debt or living paycheck to pay.
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Amanda Abella: She may steal, manipulate, or use others for money, including your man, right?
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Amanda Abella: If you're not careful, right?
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Amanda Abella: Which again, uh, nobody else, that's literally what happens.
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Amanda Abella: And then she spends money that she doesn't have in order to maintain an image when it comes to financial relationships.
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Amanda Abella: She's.
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Amanda Abella: Affects others to support her, but from a place of entitlement, not from a place of worthiness.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, she may use financial manipulation to control relationships.
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Amanda Abella: She attracts partners who either rescue her or are equally broke and need rescuing themselves.
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Amanda Abella: She creates a lot of financial drama and crisis to get attention.
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Amanda Abella: She often borrows money and doesn't pay it back.
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Amanda Abella: She views wealthy people with resentment and jealousy.
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Amanda Abella: So envy is really big with the wounded maiden archetype, and her money blocks sound like I'm not good with money.
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Amanda Abella: Money doesn't matter.
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Amanda Abella: Someone else should take care of me.
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Amanda Abella: I deserve to be provided for without contributing a damn thing, and rich people are greedy and evil, or I am jealous.
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Amanda Abella: Of rich people.
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Amanda Abella: Again, envy is really, really big.
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Amanda Abella: With the Wounded Maiden here's what needs to happen.
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Amanda Abella: With the Wounded Maiden.
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Amanda Abella: The Wounded Maiden, in order to move on to the next stage.
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Amanda Abella: This is what needs to happen, and unfortunately, most people are going to stay stuck here.
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Amanda Abella: It is what it is.
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Amanda Abella: Most women will stay stuck here until they do the following.
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Amanda Abella: Take radical personal responsibility for your life and your choices and what you're doing and what you're thinking, and what you're believing and how you're acting.
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Amanda Abella: Begin healing core wounds and trauma.
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Amanda Abella: Develop basic self-worth and boundaries and learn to self-soothe, regulate their emotions, start building toward financial independence, and recognize toxic patterns in relationships.
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Amanda Abella: Okay, and again, unfortunately, most women are probably going to stay stuck here until they decide to take radical personal responsibility for their lives.
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Amanda Abella: So stage two on this divine feminine energy journey is the awakening warrior.
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Amanda Abella: Now this is about taking responsibility and building strength, right?
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Amanda Abella: So once you've decided that you are no longer a victim of everything, then you move into stage two.
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Amanda Abella: Now, the core characteristics here are awakening to personal responsibility.
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Amanda Abella: So one day realizing, oh my gosh, the common denominator is me, right?
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Amanda Abella: And waking up to that, developing self-awareness about negative patterns.
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Amanda Abella: Building assertiveness and boundaries.
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Amanda Abella: Um, so she is neither passive, which is a wounded, feminine, uh, energy, and she is also not aggressive or entitled.
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Amanda Abella: Assert is somewhere in the middle embracing masculine energy for structure and discipline.
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Amanda Abella: I've gotten a few emails in the last week from women who are like, I'm so feminine, you know?
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Amanda Abella: I, I am so feminine and elegant.
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Amanda Abella: Um, but I, I lack structure in my life.
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Amanda Abella: I lack discipline.
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Amanda Abella: And that causes a problem.
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Amanda Abella: So if that's you, congratulations.
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Amanda Abella: You are self-aware.
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Amanda Abella: And what you need to do is start embracing masculine energy in your own life.
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Amanda Abella: So you have structure, you have consistency, and you have discipline.
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Amanda Abella: These are not bad things.
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Amanda Abella: These are very good things.
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Amanda Abella: And what happens a lot of time is that women will find this work about divine feminine energy and they'll like, um.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, they will, uh, throw the baby out with the bath water and they will be like, oh, I'm not gonna do anything that's masculine energy.
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Amanda Abella: And you, you can't survive in the world.
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Amanda Abella: You can't life, uh, with that kind of an attitude because the reality is that you need discipline.
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Amanda Abella: You need consistency, you need structure.
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Amanda Abella: You know, imagine if you wanna go make money, but you don't have consistency or discipline.
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Amanda Abella: Imagine if you wanna stay fit and go to the gym, but you don't have consistency or discipline, well then you're not gonna get anywhere, right?
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Amanda Abella: So that's why it's important.
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Amanda Abella: Now at this stage, right?
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Amanda Abella: You're working hard and becoming self-reliant.
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Amanda Abella: You're starting to make money and save yourself.
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Amanda Abella: Okay.
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Amanda Abella: Instead of waiting for other people to save you, you are beginning to become proactive instead of reactive.
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Amanda Abella: So, uh, the wounded feminine is, uh, the wounded.
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Amanda Abella: Maiden is very reactive to everything going on around her.
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Amanda Abella: And she's this person, the Awakening Warrior, is committed to personal growth and change when it comes to dating and relationships.
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Amanda Abella: Here's what the changes that we start to see.
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Amanda Abella: She's going to still attract some feminized men, but there will be fewer of them.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, she's might start attracting men who are intimidated by her new strength.
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Amanda Abella: So those of you who are like, I have all this stuff, but the men are intimidated, you might be here.
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Amanda Abella: Or you might be in the next level.
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Amanda Abella: And some men are intimidated, but healthy men are not.
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Amanda Abella: But that's why you're still attracting some feminized men.
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Amanda Abella: You may attract workaholics and ambitious men who are emotionally unavailable.
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Amanda Abella: That was me for a while.
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Amanda Abella: You may attract men who want her to, uh, want you to tone it down.
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Amanda Abella: Uh, and then you'll get some quality men who appreciate, uh, your growth.
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Amanda Abella: But the other thing that sometimes tends to happen here is you will get friend zoned.
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Amanda Abella: Just so you know and you know what?
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Amanda Abella: Not a bad thing while you are working on yourself.
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Amanda Abella: Now, here's how she shows up in dating.
22:24
Amanda Abella: She's more confident, but sometimes overly aggressive.
22:27
Amanda Abella: Uh, she has standards, but she might be too rigid about them.
22:31
Amanda Abella: She can be intimidating to men with her new assertiveness, especially if you're in that in-between stage where you're like, oh, I was attracting all these feminized men before and now I'm moving into this new stage, and now I'm in this weird in-between.
22:44
Amanda Abella: It's kind of normal.
22:45
Amanda Abella: Um, at that stage, um, sometimes she operates in masculine energy during dates.
22:51
Amanda Abella: I've done a lot of videos about this.
22:52
Amanda Abella: She has better boundaries, but she may have put the boundaries up so high that now she's defensive, uh, because she's trying to avoid all the drama that she was having before.
23:03
Amanda Abella: So she may swing in the other direction.
23:05
Amanda Abella: Uh, she is more financially independent and proud of it.
23:08
Amanda Abella: At this stage, and she can start coming across as I don't need anyone.
23:13
Amanda Abella: So this is where we start going overboard with the independent, and that can also cause issues in relationships, also in other areas of your life.
23:22
Amanda Abella: Now when it comes to the relationship dynamics.
23:25
Amanda Abella: It's much healthier than stage one.
23:27
Amanda Abella: Okay.
23:27
Amanda Abella: This, this is a step up from the Wounded Maiden as if we are in Awakening Warrior.
23:33
Amanda Abella: A lot of women who come to me are in this stage, uh, of their lives, or they're in the following stage of their lives, but a lot of you are probably here if you're watching a YouTube channel like this, right?
23:46
Amanda Abella: So in dating.
23:47
Amanda Abella: Um, in relationship dynamics.
23:49
Amanda Abella: Like I said, it's a lot healthier than stage one, but she's still kind of learning that balance.
23:52
Amanda Abella: She's in a, in a little wonky in between space, space, right where she may swing too far in the other direction in order to protect herself from everything she was experiencing in stage one, which again, is a normal way to behave in that type of a situation.
24:07
Amanda Abella: So don't worry about it too much.
24:08
Amanda Abella: Just become self-aware.
24:10
Amanda Abella: Uh, she can attract men who want her to take care of them.
24:14
Amanda Abella: There are men out here who will find women.
24:17
Amanda Abella: Who still have lower self-confidence.
24:19
Amanda Abella: 'cause you do have lower self-confidence here.
24:21
Amanda Abella: You're still a little shaky in that department or with the insecurities and there are men out here who know that and will purposely target you in order for you to take care of them.
24:31
Amanda Abella: There was recently a.
24:32
Amanda Abella: A TikTok that started going viral of a homeless man teaching other homeless men how to target women like this so that they get free room and board for like six months.
24:45
Amanda Abella: So just know that this is out there, right?
24:48
Amanda Abella: Um, and in this stage, if you stay too much here, you kind of make yourself a target, uh, to those types of men.
24:54
Amanda Abella: And that's why I am letting you know about it because, uh, you need to evolve outta this stage in order for that.
25:02
Amanda Abella: Not to happen.
25:03
Amanda Abella: Now the good news is that at this stage right, she is better at leaving, uh, bad situations.
25:09
Amanda Abella: Um, but the, the reality is that she can be controlling as she learns to use her power, and she's still learning how to be vulnerable in healthy.
25:18
Amanda Abella: Right.
25:19
Amanda Abella: So this is about, remember I say that feminine energy, when you wanna emotionally connect with a man, you have to be vulnerable.
25:24
Amanda Abella: But there's healthy and unhealthy ways to do it.
25:26
Amanda Abella: And when we're at this stage, you're still learning kind of like the dance between the healthy and the unhealthy way of doing it.
25:32
Amanda Abella: The communication style, right?
25:34
Amanda Abella: More direct.
25:35
Amanda Abella: So it's great'cause she's not manipulating like she was before, but sometimes harsh.
25:41
Amanda Abella: She's better at expressing needs, but she may be demanding still.
25:45
Amanda Abella: Again, because you're learning that balance, and that's okay, right?
25:48
Amanda Abella: Because we're gonna keep moving forward on this.
25:51
Amanda Abella: Journey.
25:52
Amanda Abella: She can be confrontational when she's triggered.
25:55
Amanda Abella: Uh, she's learning to set boundaries.
25:57
Amanda Abella: And sometimes what happens when you're learning to set boundaries for the first time and you've never set them before, you will go to an extreme in setting the boundaries, right?
26:06
Amanda Abella: So because you're still learning kind of what that balance is and what a healthy boundary is.
26:11
Amanda Abella: And then sometimes she will use a masculine.
26:14
Amanda Abella: Communication style.
26:15
Amanda Abella: Um, now when it comes to money, um, the way that this tends to show up, and we talked about it a little bit already, but when it comes to money, the money mindset is right.
26:26
Amanda Abella: She realizes she must take responsibility for her financial life, which again, is a step up, right?
26:31
Amanda Abella: So we're moving up and she, she sometimes will tend to develop and I'll show them mentality about money.
26:37
Amanda Abella: I definitely had this for a while, like proving people wrong.
26:40
Amanda Abella: Or something like that.
26:41
Amanda Abella: She believes money comes through hard work and struggle.
26:45
Amanda Abella: Okay?
26:45
Amanda Abella: Very important, and most people are here when it comes to money.
26:48
Amanda Abella: Money must come through hard work, struggle.
26:50
Amanda Abella: The sweat of my brow hustle culture.
26:53
Amanda Abella: All that kind of stuff.
26:54
Amanda Abella: Now, she may swing from scarcity, um, to aggressive pursuit of wealth.
27:00
Amanda Abella: Okay.
27:00
Amanda Abella: I definitely went through this too, right?
27:02
Amanda Abella: So, um, one minute you might be like freaking out and then the next minute you're going harder than you've ever gone hard before because you are aggressively pursuing wealth.
27:12
Amanda Abella: A lot of times people will do this because they would think that the money is going to be some form of protection, um, against bad things, and in some ways it is.
27:20
Amanda Abella: So it's, it's not.
27:22
Amanda Abella: Uncommon for people to come to this conclusion, but it's not necessarily a healthy way of relating to money and it will make making money a lot harder for you.
27:30
Amanda Abella: Now, she also views money as security and independence.
27:34
Amanda Abella: Um, and she often has a never again attitude about being broke.
27:39
Amanda Abella: I've been here too, right?
27:40
Amanda Abella: And she begins to see money as a tool.
27:43
Amanda Abella: For freedom.
27:44
Amanda Abella: The earning patterns are that she works extremely hard.
27:47
Amanda Abella: She oftentimes has multiple jobs or long hours.
27:51
Amanda Abella: Uh, sometimes those of you who run businesses get stuck here because you're working like 12 hour days, seven days a week.
27:57
Amanda Abella: That might be another way in which it shows up.
27:59
Amanda Abella: Uh, she may start a business or a side hustle on the side of her job to get an ex escape plan from her job, which is a good thing.
28:06
Amanda Abella: But again, there's like a, a lot of working going on in this stage.
28:10
Amanda Abella: Uh, she focuses on trading time for money.
28:13
Amanda Abella: She's often in masculine energy careers.
28:15
Amanda Abella: So sales, corporate, um, you know, lawyer, doctor.
28:19
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Engineer, that type of stuff, right?
28:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Either very competitive careers or very analytical careers is where you will oftentimes find her.
28:28
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, she builds skills and expertise to command higher pay.
28:32
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She may become a workaholic in order to prove her work, and she's often successful, but it comes at a cost, and usually the cost is her health or her relationships.
28:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, her spending behaviors look like she may be more disciplined with spending than in stage one.
28:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She may swing to extreme frugality or deprivation.
28:51
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She invests in herself normally, education skills, business.
28:55
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She will go all in on all of that.
28:57
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She can be tight with money due to fear of returning to being.
29:01
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She may overspend on status symbols in order to prove success.
29:06
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She is better at budgeting and planning, and she sometimes hoards money due to scarcity fears when it comes to her financial relationships.
29:14
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's fiercely independent, but she may refuse help when it is needed.
29:18
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Okay, so she's going overly into the masculine and overly.
29:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Into the, the independent.
29:24
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She attracts partners who want to support them financially.
29:27
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Like the example I gave of that homeless guy on TikTok, putting other homeless guys on game, right?
29:33
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So be aware of that.
29:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Um, she may use money to control, control or prove her worth in relationships, so she'll, uh, pull the purse strings right in order to maintain control in a relationship.
29:45
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She is often the breadwinner.
29:46
DJI_37_20251016_135101: In relationships when, which can create a relationship in balance, she can be very judgmental of others who aren't as financially driven as her, and she may sacrifice relationships for financial goals.
30:00
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, the money blocks here sound like I have to do everything myself.
30:04
DJI_37_20251016_135101: No one is as good as me.
30:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's another way in which it shows up.
30:07
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Money only comes through hard work and struggle.
30:09
DJI_37_20251016_135101: If I'm not working, I'm not worthy.
30:11
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I can't trust anyone else with money or period.
30:14
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And rest is lazy.
30:16
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right?
30:16
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Rest is something that, um.
30:19
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Only lazy people do.
30:20
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right?
30:21
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So that's, that's another way of looking at it now so we're in stage two.
30:25
DJI_37_20251016_135101: In order to start moving into stage three, here are the growth areas, so at this stage, what's happening with a woman is she's still a little wonky.
30:33
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right.
30:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's, it's almost like she has like her training wheels on and then we're like slowly going through the motions.
30:39
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So she has to learn when to use masculine versus feminine energy.
30:43
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She is still balancing independence with receptivity.
30:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: 'cause again, it's not codependence or independence, right?
30:50
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's interdependence and that's a balance.
30:53
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Um, she can grow in terms of attracting masculine men instead of intimidating them, and she can start developing emotional intelligence alongside her newfound strength.
31:04
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So here's what needs to happen.
31:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She needs to learn the difference between masculine and feminine energy, which if you're watching this YouTube channel, or you've taken our trainings and our programs you're doing, she needs to understand when to lead and when to receive.
31:16
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She needs to develop emotional intelligence and vulnerability.
31:19
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She needs to learn to attract rather than to chase or control, and she needs to learn how to balance independence with openness to partnership.
31:29
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Okay?
31:29
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Again, it is a balance.
31:31
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, a lot of you might hear this and you're gonna be like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
31:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's me.
31:35
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Because that's where a lot of women are these days.
31:38
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Congratulations.
31:39
DJI_37_20251016_135101: You now have self-awareness around that, and what I don't want to happen is you hear this and then suddenly you're like, oh.
31:45
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I'm living life all wrong, right?
31:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Let me just stop doing all of these things.
31:50
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That is definitely not what you wanna do because at this stage, um, although you are in survival, at least you are in a better stage than you were before.
31:59
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And we do not want to regress.
32:01
DJI_37_20251016_135101: What we have to learn here, right, is learn the balance of the masculine and ener feminine energies, and we have to learn to, we have to learn a different set of skills, right?
32:11
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So it's not.
32:12
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Um, throwing away the skills that we have up until this point, particularly the money making ones.
32:17
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's simply learning new skills and one of those skills being emotional intelligence.
32:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: One of those skills being, you know, how do I balance independence with being open to a relationship?
32:28
DJI_37_20251016_135101: These are all skills, um, and also new beliefs and things like that.
32:32
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So don't listen to this and be like, I need to go quit my job.
32:35
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Don't do that.
32:37
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Please don't do that right and realize, uh, that we don't need to be going to extremes like that.
32:42
DJI_37_20251016_135101: The reason why you're so growing to going to extremes in this stage is because.
32:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: You're still getting your, your training wheels or for example, you're getting your, your pilot's wings, uh, to put it that way.
32:54
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So now we move on to stage three, and stage three is what I call the conscious queen.
32:58
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So this is about integrating energies and starting to attract quality into your life.
33:04
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So here are the core characteristics, right, when it comes to your personal energy as the conscious queen.
33:10
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's integrating both masculine and feminine energies.
33:13
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Skillfully.
33:14
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Again, it's not one or the other.
33:15
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's not throwing out the baby with the bath water.
33:18
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's about knowing what to, when to use what, right?
33:21
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's strong boundaries, but with a soft open heart.
33:24
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So at this point, you know how to express those boundaries without being defensive.
33:29
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's about financial success through leverage systems rather than just hard work.
33:35
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I could do a gazillion trainings just on that from having spent 15 years.
33:40
DJI_37_20251016_135101: In entrepreneurship, uh, she's confident, but she's not defensive.
33:44
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's self-aware and emotionally intelligent.
33:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She creates value and abundance in her life.
33:51
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She has visionary thinking and practical execution, or she gets people around her who are very good at the practical.
33:58
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Execution.
33:59
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She starts learning that process, um, and she starts cultivating magnetic and attractive energy.
34:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, in dating and relationship, here's what she's going to be experiencing.
34:10
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's going to be attracting high quality masculine men who want to provide.
34:14
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's going to start attracting emotionally available and commitment minded men.
34:18
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's going to be attracting successful men who appreciate her strength and her femininity.
34:24
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's gonna attract men who want to build something together with her, and she's gonna start attracting provider minded men who see her as wife material.
34:33
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Okay, now here's how she shows up in dating and in relationships.
34:37
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She embodies feminine magnetism while my maintaining standards.
34:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So again, it's, I have the standards and I'm strong in the standards, but I'm open.
34:45
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right.
34:46
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's confident without being aggressive, so she's not yelling about what men need to be giving her.
34:52
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She is receptive and appreciative while also staying discerning.
34:56
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Okay.
34:57
DJI_37_20251016_135101: As you move up on these levels, you're gonna learn a lot about discernment and how important it is to be discerning when you are on your feminine energy journey.
35:08
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She uses feminine energy to inspire.
35:11
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Masculine pursuit.
35:13
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She creates space for men to step up and lead.
35:17
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She maintains her own life while still being open to partnership, and she communicates her needs clearly and gracefully.
35:26
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, in relationship dynamics, it looks like attracting healthy, stable relationships.
35:31
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's knowing how to be vulnerable without losing yourself.
35:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's about creating polarity that creates attraction and devotion.
35:38
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She knows how to, she starts knowing how to do this.
35:40
DJI_37_20251016_135101: In stage three, in stage two, she has no idea how to do this because to be honest, that's not even the work of stage two necessarily.
35:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: The work of stage two is to start getting out of the survival mode you were in in stage one.
35:52
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right from there, she inspires men to commit and provide.
35:56
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She balances giving and receiving naturally, and she builds partnerships based on mutual respect and growth.
36:04
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She starts becoming a lot more discerning about who she's giving her time and her energy to.
36:08
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Her communication style.
36:10
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She speaks from feminine energy.
36:11
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She is soft, but clear.
36:13
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Again, not demanding.
36:15
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Not pounding on tables, not fighting, not aggressive.
36:18
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She uses appreciation and encouragement to motivate, uh, which is like magic to men when you do that.
36:26
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She can express her needs without demands or ultimatums.
36:30
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She handles conflict with grace and emotional intelligence, and she creates.
36:35
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Safety for masculine expression.
36:38
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She starts, um, having like dating and relationship mastery.
36:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So she, at this stage, she understands masculine psychology and what inspires commitment.
36:46
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She uses conversation skills that create very deep connection.
36:50
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She knows how to be mysterious without being manipulative and playing games.
36:54
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's a stage one behavior.
36:56
DJI_37_20251016_135101: The manipulation.
36:57
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She maintains standards while being warm and approachable, and she attracts pursuit.
37:03
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Through magnetic feminine energy.
37:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, when it comes to money, this is what it starts to look like when it comes to money.
37:10
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So her money mindset is that she understands money as energy that flows.
37:15
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She believes in abundance and in multiple income streams.
37:18
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She sees money as a tool for impact and contribution.
37:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She balances masculine strategy with feminine flow.
37:25
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So knowing how to have the masculine structure and for example, the creativity.
37:30
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Which is, and the inspiration, which is more of the feminine, she values time freedom over just accumulating money.
37:37
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, she understands the power of leverage and systems.
37:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So this might look like, for example, if you run a business that might look like automations.
37:45
DJI_37_20251016_135101: For example, for those of you who are wondering, uh, money feels good and very natural to receive at this stage.
37:52
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Her earning patterns are, she creates leveraged income through systems, teams and passive streams.
37:57
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So for example, I do this with mindful success path.
38:00
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I make videos, um, then I'm inspired to make, then I combine that with the analytics and what YouTube was telling me to do, which is that masculine strategy.
38:09
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And then you can just.
38:10
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Buy stuff or sign up.
38:12
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, for coaching with me, this is very different from how I used to run businesses when I was still in stage two, when I was still that warrior so that's an, an important, uh, distinction, and I can do more trainings on that.
38:25
DJI_37_20251016_135101: For those of you who are interested in money specifically, she often has multiple revenue sources, she builds businesses that can run without her constant presence.
38:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So again, those automations.
38:36
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She charges premium prices for high value offerings.
38:39
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She works smarter, not harder.
38:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She may have investments, royalties, or recurring revenue.
38:44
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She focuses on.
38:45
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Impact and value creation over just hours worked.
38:50
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, focusing on just hours worked is very like poverty mindset.
38:54
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, wealthy people and people who get money know that it's not about how many hours you work, it's about the value that you actually create for people, and then that's what they're gonna pay you for.
39:02
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, her spending behaviors are, she invests in experiences, so growth and quality of life.
39:08
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She spends money to buy back time, so I think assistance, services, et cetera.
39:13
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She makes decisions based on value, not just price.
39:16
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's generous with others while maintaining boundaries.
39:19
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She invests in her appearance and environment.
39:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She balances saving with enjoying money.
39:25
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She uses money to create more money and in her financial relationships, she attracts partners who are also financially successful, at least on par.
39:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: With her, she can receive financial support without losing independence.
39:38
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She creates win-win financial partnerships.
39:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She may combine resources to build something bigger together.
39:45
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's comfortable with different financial roles in relationships, and she uses money to enhance relationships.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Not control them.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So money blocks being healed look like I don't deserve to be wealthy.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: These are, this is what she's healing At this stage, making money is hard.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I have to choose between money and love.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Very common.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Um, feminine women can't be good with money.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Also very common, and I have to sacrifice everything for success.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: These are the mindsets that you start overcoming when we are at a stage.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Three, when we are the conscious queen.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now what happens is how do we start moving on?
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So at this stage, when you're on the conscious Queen, you've already begun to master certain things.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So at this stage, you've already begun to master the five pillars of feminine magnetism.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's receptivity, radiance, appreciation, playfulness, and mystery.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: And for those of you who wanna go deeper into that, make sure to check out the Feminine Magnetism Mastery Program because it goes into these five pillars.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She understands energy switching between masculine and feminine energy as needed.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's, she's mastering this at this point.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's attracting commitment through inspiration, not pressure, uh, because she's also attracting a higher quality man at this point.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's creating relationships where she's cherished and provided for, and she's building wealth through systems and feminine flow rather than just.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Hustle.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Okay, so now we get to stage four, and stage four is the magnetic empress.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I love the archetype of the empress.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I know everybody loves to use queen.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I'm more of an empress girl.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I'm like queen of all queens.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Let's go.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So at at this stage we're talking about effortless magnetism and abundant love and resources.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Okay, so here are the core characteristics, her personal energy.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Looks like effortless magnetism and natural charisma.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's not something you have to work at.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's just naturally in you.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: There's a perfect integration of masculine structure with feminine flow.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She has an abundance mindset in all areas of her life, and she's good at receiving it.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's a visionary leader who.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Inspires others.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Money flows easily through aligned systems, team support, things like that.
41:55
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's deeply connected to her intuition and her inner wisdom, and she follows it.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She is surrendered to some sort of a higher power.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Usually she radiates confidence, joy, and inner peace, and she's a natural mentor and guide for other women.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, when it comes to dating and relationships, the men that she attracts tend to be healthy men who are emotionally intelligent and ready for partnership.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Successful men who want to build empires together.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Provider men who see her as their queen and inspiration as their muse is another way of putting it.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Men who are excited to commit and create a legacy with her high value men who pursue her consistently and with devotion, and here's how she shows up in dating and relationships.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's naturally magnetic without any effort or strategy.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She embodies the energy of a queen that men want to serve and protect.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She creates instant attraction through her presence alone.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She inspires men to be their best selves.
42:55
DJI_37_20251016_135101: There's a difference between teaching a man and inspiring a man.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, women who are in stage two, for example, uh, where you're still in that warrior energy.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: A lot of you get caught up in teaching a man.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: What you need to learn how to do is inspire a man, because that's what the magnetic empress knows what, what to do, and that's what actually lands in the brain of a man for him to start.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Doing better as well.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Based on his psychology, she effortlessly maintains mystery and allure.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She receives masculine energy gracefully and appreciatively.
43:28
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She commands respect through her energy, not just her words.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: In relationship dynamics, it looks like she creates relationships where she's worshiped and adored.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She inspires deep devotion and commitment.
43:40
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Naturally.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's not something she has to force, it just happens.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, a lot of times you'll hear, uh, people who get into relationships saying, yeah, it was just so natural it just happened.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I remember when I first met my husband, uh, there was someone in my life who was like, okay, well.
43:55
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Who's texting who and who's playing the game and who's doing what, and like, neither of us.
43:59
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right?
44:01
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So it's just like a natural progression, um, that happened.
44:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right.
44:06
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So that's, that's kind of what it means by that.
44:08
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She also attracts partners with men to build something greater than themselves.
44:13
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I've oftentimes said like couples who have like businesses together or some sort of a big goal together, they actually have lower divorce rates than most people because there's something bigger than them that they are working toward.
44:25
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She maintains her individual power while creating very deep intimacy.
44:29
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She generates polarity that keeps the passion alive long-term.
44:33
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She builds relationships that are both passionate and peaceful.
44:36
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Relationships are not supposed to be dramatic.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: They're actually quite peaceful.
44:40
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, her communication style is that she speaks with authority of a queen, but the warmth of a goddess.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She uses feminine influence to create win-win outcomes.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She knows how to communicate and influence her environment, and especially the men around her because you have to communicate with men in a specific way in order for it to land in their brains.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: In a way where they are inspired to do better rather than you trying to control them and command them to do better.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Controlling and commanding does not work on healthy men, but inspiration does.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, she also communicates desires through energy and inspiration.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She handles any situation with grace and wisdom, or at least most of them'cause no one's perfect.
45:21
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She creates safety for deep masculine expression and vulnerability.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Oftentimes, uh, this is when you will hear guys saying things like, she's my peace.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Like I come home and she's my piece.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's what they're referring to now when it, in this stage, she has relationship mastery.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So men propose and commit quickly because they recognize her rare value.
45:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: This is rare for a woman to know how to do and this day and age and when men spot it, especially men who've dated a lot of women.
45:49
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Um, my husband dated a lot of women before he got to me, and as soon as he saw me, he's like, she's the one.
45:55
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And that's when, uh, you hear men saying things like that.
45:57
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Like, she's the one I knew right away.
45:59
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I knew before we were dating.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I knew within a few weeks I knew when I first met her.
46:04
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's what's going on there.
46:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, she also inspires masculine devotion through her feminine essence.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She builds partnerships that enhance both people's lives exponentially.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, she attracts men who want to build legacies and dynasties.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: With her, right?
46:20
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's not about basic stuff.
46:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's like what's the legacy here?
46:23
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And the life mastery here is that she has system structures and support that create a lot of freedom for her.
46:29
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Money flows through a lot of aligned action and feminine magnetism.
46:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: You can ask my husband, I will have an idea for making money in the next day.
46:37
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's making money, right?
46:38
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's how that shows up.
46:40
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, she leads through inspiration.
46:42
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Rather than force.
46:44
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And she creates abundance that benefits everybody around her.
46:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And she lives in a flow state while maintaining, uh, practical success.
46:51
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, when it comes to money, here's what it looks like when it comes to money.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: At this stage, when you're the magnetic emperors, your relationship with money is effortless abundance.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So the money mindset is, money flows to me naturally and effortlessly.
47:07
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She deeply believes in infinite abundance for everyone.
47:11
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She views money as a natural result of being in alignment.
47:14
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So, for example, I know that when, um, I'm more in alignment with my purpose, I make money.
47:20
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I know when I'm more in alignment with joy.
47:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I make money.
47:23
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I know that when I'm more in alignment with what Spirit is telling me to do, I make money.
47:27
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She uses money as a force for good and transformation.
47:32
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's completely comfortable with wealth and luxury.
47:35
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, this is where sometimes people start feeling uncomfortable and they have to work on their ability to receive more and more and more.
47:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She sees money as spiritual and energetic, not just practical.
47:45
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She believes that her presence and energy automatically create value and the earning patterns here are money comes through multiple channels with minimal effort.
47:54
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She often earns through her influence, her wisdom and her energy.
47:58
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She may have passive income that exceeds active income.
48:02
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She creates wealth through inspiration and vision.
48:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She often becomes an investor or wealth creator.
48:07
DJI_37_20251016_135101: For others, money flows through her natural magnetism and value, and she builds legacy wealth that impacts generations.
48:16
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, her spending behaviors may look like, um, spending from abundance consciousness, not fear or scarcity, investing in beauty, luxury and experiences that inspire her.
48:26
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She could be a generous philanthropist and supporter of causes.
48:29
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She can create beautiful environments that reflect her inner abundance.
48:33
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She spends money to amplify her impact and her influence.
48:37
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She never worries about money because it flows consistently either through her provider, husband, or the systems that they've set up, or it can come in so many different ways.
48:46
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I'm in this stage now where there's money coming into this household in so many different ways that it's kind of mind blowing.
48:52
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Um.
48:53
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She uses money to create more beauty and abundance in the world.
48:56
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And with her financial relationships, she attracts partners who wanna build empires together.
49:01
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Again, it's that legacy money enhances rather than complicates relationships.
49:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She's often becomes the inspiration for others' financial success.
49:09
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So there's this interesting thing that happens with men, um, that they could already be successful by the time that they meet their wives, but when they meet their wives and she's in feminine energy, they're, they're gonna make a lot.
49:20
DJI_37_20251016_135101: More money like they could have already provided for her.
49:24
DJI_37_20251016_135101: But her inspiration is what makes this man go from, I've seen this happen with like millionaire to billionaire, for example, or making, he's making six figures and now he makes seven, right?
49:34
DJI_37_20251016_135101: It's because he, he got with the right woman, right?
49:37
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She multiplied it and she inspired him, uh, to do better.
49:42
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And oftentimes we will see that with men.
49:44
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And that's why, for example, high achieving and successful men.
49:47
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Oftentimes will credit their wives for their success.
49:50
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's what that is.
49:51
DJI_37_20251016_135101: They're, they are in their magnetic emperors where they know how to inspire a man to go make more money.
49:56
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She creates financial abundance that benefits everyone around her, and she may be supported by partners who see her value beyond money.
50:04
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Of course, she's attracting provider men.
50:06
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She builds generational wealth and legacy with her partner.
50:09
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now, the money mastery here sounds like money is a natural expression of my energy and value.
50:14
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I create wealth through alignment, not struggle.
50:16
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I inspire others to step into their own abundance.
50:19
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I use money as a tool for massive positive impact.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I'm completely free from money, fears, and limitations, and I embody the truth that feminine energy can create infinite wealth.
50:31
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now let's go into the other areas of her life that she has mastered.
50:36
DJI_37_20251016_135101: 'cause the truth is that at this point you're embodying a lot of things, right?
50:41
DJI_37_20251016_135101: At this point, a woman is embodying complete feminine magnetism that attracts everything she desires, she's a perfect balance of strength and softness.
50:50
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Oftentimes, it looks like grace, like when a woman is graceful, or graceful under pressure.
50:55
DJI_37_20251016_135101: That's oftentimes what that looks like when you hear that she has natural leadership through feminine influence.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: She has an abundance consciousness and love, money, and life.
51:05
DJI_37_20251016_135101: She has a deep inner knowing and unshakeable confidence, the ability to inspire transformation in others, and a life that serves as an example of what is possible.
51:15
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Okay, now I wanna be clear about something.
51:17
DJI_37_20251016_135101: The first thing I want you to do is make it clear on where you are in this assessment.
51:22
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And my husband's gonna have to make a quiz out of this, right?
51:27
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Or he is gonna have to help me, uh, make a quiz out of this to help you guys.
51:31
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Even more.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: But based on this, I want you to assess where you are and then leave it in the common section.
51:37
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Where are you?
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Because when you have this self-awareness, then you know what steps you need to take next.
51:43
DJI_37_20251016_135101: The other thing I wanna make sure you guys know is that.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Sometimes you're moving through these different stages, and then depending on what area of life you're in, you might be, for example, in your relationships, you might be like, I got it.
51:54
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I'm the emper.
51:55
DJI_37_20251016_135101: I got a provider, man.
51:56
DJI_37_20251016_135101: But then when it comes to money, you might be like at a stage two, right?
52:00
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Or maybe even a stage one.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So sometimes, depending on the different area of your life, you might be in a different stage.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: And the next thing that I wanna let you know is that sometimes you're moving between the stages.
52:11
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right.
52:11
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So for example, there are moments when I'm definitely the magnetic emperor, but I might slip back a little bit depending on what is going on.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: That would be an example.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Or for example, if you're moving from, you know, being the warrior to being the conscious queen, then there's, so there's, you know, there's moments of like, oh, you know, and being uncomfortable and that's completely normal'cause you're kind of going back and forth, uh, while you're getting your, your training wheels, while you're getting your pilot's wings, um, and things like that.
52:40
DJI_37_20251016_135101: So all of those things are completely normal and there's never a point where we reach total perfection with any of this, just so you know, which then it leads.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: To the spiritual understanding that everything's a learning lesson, right?
52:53
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Everything is a lesson to help us in our own evolution and our consciousness.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So I hope this helped you guys determine where you are on this journey, particularly when it comes to relationships and money and just kind of life in general because those are the things I get asked about the most.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: If you're interested in private coaching with me, this is what we're doing is we're moving through these stages.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: We get very clear on where you're at specifically, and we create a game plan in order to start moving on to the next.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Stage, uh, I'm going to venture to say most of you are probably a stage two.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Those are the ones who are naturally attracted, uh, to my work.
53:31
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, some of you might be a little bit in stage one when it comes to money.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Most of you're probably in stage two.
53:36
DJI_37_20251016_135101: Maybe there's a few of you who've moved into stage three.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Either way, even if you're at stage two because you watch this YouTube channel, that is something worth celebrating because most women don't even get there.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Most of the world doesn't even get there.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So if you're like, I'm stage two oh, wm, wm, celebrate it.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Because I'm telling you, most people don't even get outta stage one.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Right?
53:57
DJI_37_20251016_135101: And now you have awareness and you're like, okay, I know what I have to do moving forward in order for me to start getting what it is that I actually.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Desire, whether it's a provider man, whether it's more money, whether it's a committed partnership, whether it's just more peace of mind, you know, and more freedom.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Now you know where you are at.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: So let me know in the comments below.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Uh, you can find all the courses that we have available on these different subjects@mindfulsuccesspath.com slash courses.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: I'll also put a QR code here for you guys, um, and, and you just kind of pick and choose depending on what it is that you need to work on at this very moment.
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DJI_37_20251016_135101: Thank you so much for giving me your time today, and I will catch you on the next one.