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- 0:02Speaker 1: On the cross. He sealed my pardon, paid the debt,
- 0:07Speaker 1: and made me free. Isn't it great to be at
- 0:09Speaker 1: a place where someone else pays your debts? And as
- 0:14Speaker 1: a debt you could not and would not have ever
- 0:18Speaker 1: been able to pay for yourself, an eternal debt against
- 0:24Speaker 1: you and me because of our sin. That is what
- 0:30Speaker 1: makes the cross so significant. We don't worship the cross
- 0:36Speaker 1: anymore than we worship the Bible. These are magnificent messages
- 0:43Speaker 1: that tell us of the one to worship the cross,
- 0:47Speaker 1: for the sacrifice was made on our behalf in the
- 0:50Speaker 1: Bible that reveals the truth to us. Whatever was written
- 0:56Speaker 1: in earlier times, writes Paul to the Romans, was written
- 1:00Speaker 1: for our learning. That we threw patients and comfort from
- 1:05Speaker 1: the scriptures might have hope Romans fifteen four. God's word
- 1:12Speaker 1: gives us hope. You'll find in your worship folder and outline.
- 1:17Speaker 1: On the other side of the outline is a chart.
- 1:20Speaker 1: We'll look at both later. Put that at Luke chapter nine.
- 1:25Speaker 1: Please just tuck it there in the margin in the
- 1:28Speaker 1: crease of your bible at Luke nine, and then turned
- 1:32Speaker 1: to John eighteen. John eighteen is a very moving account
- 1:41Speaker 1: of the arrest of Jesus in the garden just after
- 1:47Speaker 1: the Last Supper and just before the torture related to
- 1:54Speaker 1: the cross, followed by, of course, his death as he
- 2:00Speaker 1: hung there for us. John eighteen is just in between
- 2:05Speaker 1: those two segments. In time, may we stand together for
- 2:08Speaker 1: the reading of God's word. When Jesus had spoken these words,
- 2:15Speaker 1: he went forth with his disciples over the ravine of
- 2:18Speaker 1: the Kidron, where there was a garden into which he
- 2:21Speaker 1: himself entered and his disciples. Now Judas also, who was
- 2:26Speaker 1: betraying him, knew the place, for Jesus had often met
- 2:31Speaker 1: there with his disciples Verse four. Jesus, therefore, knowing all
- 2:37Speaker 1: the things that were coming upon him, went forth and
- 2:40Speaker 1: said to them, whom do you seek? They answered him,
- 2:43Speaker 1: Jesus the Nazarene. He said to them, I am he.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Judas also, who was betraying him, was standing with him.
- 2:53Speaker 1: When therefore he said to them, I am he. They
- 2:55Speaker 1: drew back and fell to the ground. Therefore he asked
- 3:00Speaker 1: him whom do you seek, And they said, Jesus the Nazarene.
- 3:06Speaker 1: Jesus answered, I told you that I am he. If
- 3:11Speaker 1: therefore you seek me, let these go their way. That
- 3:17Speaker 1: the word might be fulfilled which he spoke, of those
- 3:20Speaker 1: whom thou hast given me, I lost not one simon. Peter, therefore,
- 3:26Speaker 1: having a sword, drew it and struck the high priest
- 3:31Speaker 1: slave and cut off his right ear. The slave's name
- 3:36Speaker 1: was Malchus. Jesus therefore said to Peter, put the sword
- 3:43Speaker 1: into the sheath the cup which the Father has given me,
- 3:50Speaker 1: Shall I not drink it? Searching question that every disciple
- 3:59Speaker 1: must ask herself or himself, you may be seated. Our
- 4:19Speaker 1: world is in a world of hurt. Days are dark
- 4:23Speaker 1: and places of great importance in the eyes of people.
- 4:31Speaker 1: But there's nothing more significant happening today than what is
- 4:34Speaker 1: happening in this room, where we meet with the one
- 4:37Speaker 1: who has exalted over all, above all, and his plan
- 4:42Speaker 1: is working through all. The great temptation in this hour
- 4:47Speaker 1: is to panic. Believers in Christ have no need to
- 4:54Speaker 1: do such. Nothing is out of control, because whatever happens
- 4:59Speaker 1: to us first through the Father's hand. When we doubt
- 5:04Speaker 1: that sovereign work of God, panic replaces trust. We pray
- 5:10Speaker 1: today so that there might be a renewal and refreshment,
- 5:14Speaker 1: a reminder that our times are in his hand. They're
- 5:20Speaker 1: not in the hands of the United States government. They're
- 5:24Speaker 1: not in the hands of the particular few who make decisions.
- 5:29Speaker 1: Are in the hands of our God. And by the way,
- 5:34Speaker 1: he loves us. Remember say that with me he loves me.
- 5:42Speaker 1: Do it again, he loves me. Father, Thank you for
- 5:46Speaker 1: that divine love that pervades and encompasses and envelops us.
- 5:55Speaker 1: Thank you that it invaded this earth in the person
- 5:59Speaker 1: of your son, and for the first time love was
- 6:04Speaker 1: personified in a perfect model of life. Thank you for
- 6:13Speaker 1: your son's willingness to leave all the glories of heaven
- 6:17Speaker 1: and to set aside temporarily his divine attributes, so that
- 6:23Speaker 1: when they were exercised, they were exercised only in obedience
- 6:27Speaker 1: to your will and plan. May that mark our lives
- 6:33Speaker 1: find in us, Father, that kind of commitment. Hear us,
- 6:38Speaker 1: Lord today when we say, whatever the cup, we will
- 6:42Speaker 1: drink it, whatever the cross, we will bear it.
- 6:49Speaker 2: Whatever your will.
- 6:51Speaker 1: Is, we want to be in it and walk through it.
- 7:00Speaker 1: Regardless of the times in which we live, They're all
- 7:03Speaker 1: in your hands. And thank you for that reassurance me
- 7:09Speaker 1: that comes true clearly today, our Father, is we focus
- 7:12Speaker 1: our attention on the one who took our place at
- 7:17Speaker 1: the most tortuous means of death known to humanity. And
- 7:23Speaker 1: he did it for us because he loved us. And
- 7:30Speaker 1: we love you, Father, and that's why we are giving you.
- 7:34Speaker 3: Our gifts in Jesus' name. Everyone said, Amen.
- 7:43Speaker 1: When God wants to do an impossible task, he takes
- 7:46Speaker 1: an impossible person and crushes him. You've heard me give
- 7:53Speaker 1: you that quotation before. It isn't original with me. It
- 7:58Speaker 1: has come from the teaching of the late doctor Alan Redpath.
- 8:03Speaker 1: When I was a first year student at Dallas Seminary.
- 8:05Speaker 1: Doctor Redpath came from Moody Memorial Church to bring a
- 8:10Speaker 1: lectureship at our school. I was first year there in
- 8:15Speaker 1: nineteen fifty nine, almost fifty years ago. I'd forgotten much
- 8:20Speaker 1: of what doctor Redpath taught, but a few lines like
- 8:24Speaker 1: that one I will never forget. Let me repeat it.
- 8:28Speaker 1: When God wants to do an impossible task, he takes
- 8:31Speaker 1: an impossible person and crushes him. Now, at first, that
- 8:36Speaker 1: sounds brutal, if not altogether cruel, until you understand that
- 8:42Speaker 1: becoming like Christ is a very painful process. In fact,
- 8:48Speaker 1: it takes a long time for many people to get
- 8:52Speaker 1: really serious about their walk with Christ. And that lengthy
- 8:56Speaker 1: period of time is marked by crushing experiences, which brings
- 9:03Speaker 1: me to another line that doctor Redpath gave. The conversion
- 9:08Speaker 1: of a soul is the miracle of a moment, but
- 9:11Speaker 1: the making of a saint is the task of a lifetime.
- 9:16Speaker 1: Think about that. Now, understand the word saint is used
- 9:23Speaker 1: in the broad sense, not in the sense of a
- 9:26Speaker 1: figure that stands in the wall there that is made
- 9:29Speaker 1: out of stone, or someone who's called a saint.
- 9:32Speaker 2: We're talking about a disciple of Jesus.
- 9:36Speaker 1: Coming to No Christ is in a point of time,
- 9:39Speaker 1: a decision made for the Savior. Where we receive the
- 9:43Speaker 1: gift of eternal life by faith, because of God's grace,
- 9:48Speaker 1: and we come to Christ alone, by faith alone. That's
- 9:51Speaker 1: called conversion. It's the miracle of a moment. However, the
- 9:56Speaker 1: process of becoming disciples is a journey, as Redpath calls it,
- 10:03Speaker 1: it's the task of a lifetime. Turn if you will
- 10:07Speaker 1: to Luke chapter nine in your Bibles, and as you do,
- 10:11Speaker 1: open your outline to the opposite side, would you just
- 10:16Speaker 1: turn it on the reverse side. Sometimes there's a chart
- 10:19Speaker 1: that helps us see something a little more clearly. And
- 10:22Speaker 1: I hope this simple horizontal chart will do that for you.
- 10:26Speaker 1: Start at the far left and work your way to
- 10:28Speaker 1: the right. On the left you will see an example
- 10:32Speaker 1: or illustrations of words used in the scriptures regarding those
- 10:37Speaker 1: who do not know Jesus Christ. We are called in
- 10:40Speaker 1: Romans two to one people without excuse. We are or
- 10:45Speaker 1: we were enemies. Romans five ten tells us we were
- 10:49Speaker 1: dead in trespasses and sins, says the first verse of
- 10:52Speaker 1: Ephesians two. Furthermore, we are told he who does not
- 10:57Speaker 1: have the sun does not have the life section out
- 11:00Speaker 1: of First John, chapter five. All of this describes those
- 11:05Speaker 1: who do not know the Savior. And we were all
- 11:07Speaker 1: in that situation at one time in our existence. We
- 11:10Speaker 1: were what the scripture calls lost, unsaved, without hope, without
- 11:18Speaker 1: a future with God. We were away from God. And
- 11:22Speaker 1: then you will notice my grace through faith. And that
- 11:25Speaker 1: is all set forth in the New Testament. We come
- 11:29Speaker 1: through the Cross of Christ Romans five to eight, where
- 11:31Speaker 1: God proves his love to us, and that while we
- 11:34Speaker 1: were yet sinners, Christ died for us. So we come
- 11:38Speaker 1: through the cross to faith in Christ. Notice that is
- 11:42Speaker 1: called in today's terms, conversion. That's called being born anew
- 11:49Speaker 1: or born from above conversion. This is the miracle of
- 11:54Speaker 1: a moment. Now, notice the arrow takes you into the
- 11:57Speaker 1: circle that is on your right here, and it's a
- 12:00Speaker 1: large circle where we enter into the family of God.
- 12:04Speaker 1: We become believers in Christ. That is, in a moment
- 12:08Speaker 1: of time, we trust in Jesus and we become believers
- 12:12Speaker 1: in Christ. Notice around that circle are words describing that
- 12:16Speaker 1: event or that experience, that decision. We are delivered from darkness,
- 12:23Speaker 1: we are protected by God's power, We are sealed in Christ.
- 12:27Speaker 1: We become children of God. And on and on. That
- 12:29Speaker 1: list could go around that major circle. Let me say
- 12:33Speaker 1: to all of you who know Christ, you are in
- 12:36Speaker 1: that circle. You may not feel like it some days,
- 12:39Speaker 1: and truth be told, we may not act like it
- 12:43Speaker 1: some days. But we are in Christ. And because of that,
- 12:47Speaker 1: we are in the family of God. And that is
- 12:50Speaker 1: a sealed and secure position to be. You will never
- 12:54Speaker 1: be out of Christ once you have been accepted into
- 12:58Speaker 1: the family, just as you will never have someone else's
- 13:01Speaker 1: family blood flowing through your system having been born into
- 13:06Speaker 1: your family. No matter how you act, no matter how
- 13:09Speaker 1: you feel, you will always bear the nature, the blood
- 13:13Speaker 1: of your family heritage. The same in Christ. We are believers.
- 13:18Speaker 1: Now look closer into the circle. There is a smaller group.
- 13:22Speaker 1: And we put that in dotted lines because it is
- 13:26Speaker 1: a process of It is a period of time we
- 13:29Speaker 1: go through as we experience the beginning stages of discipleship,
- 13:36Speaker 1: where we trust deeply in our Savior, where we are
- 13:40Speaker 1: willing to give up our wills for his will, where
- 13:44Speaker 1: we decide that the future is really in God's hands,
- 13:49Speaker 1: not our own. Selfishness is thrown out the window, and
- 13:53Speaker 1: in its place is a Christ's likeness that becomes the
- 13:56Speaker 1: driving force of our lives. Let me add here this
- 14:00Speaker 1: is when the crushing takes place. It isn't crushing to
- 14:04Speaker 1: come to know Christ. It becomes a crushing experience, a
- 14:09Speaker 1: painful journey. As you learn, and I learned, to give
- 14:12Speaker 1: up our wills for the Father's will. It is called
- 14:18Speaker 1: as Jesus put it, taking his cross and following him. Now,
- 14:25Speaker 1: let me give you, if I may, in simple terms,
- 14:27Speaker 1: a definition of being a believer in Christ. A Christian
- 14:31Speaker 1: is a person who is rightly related to God through
- 14:35Speaker 1: faith in Jesus Christ. If you have come by faith
- 14:40Speaker 1: to Jesus Christ, you are a Christian. You have taken
- 14:44Speaker 1: the gift of eternal life. You have become a believer
- 14:48Speaker 1: in Christ, Acts sixteen, verse thirty one. Believe on the
- 14:54Speaker 1: Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved one John
- 14:59Speaker 1: five eleven. God has given us eternal life, and this
- 15:04Speaker 1: life is in his Son. Listen to this. He who
- 15:07Speaker 1: has the Son has the life. He who does not
- 15:10Speaker 1: have the Son does not have the life. So we
- 15:14Speaker 1: enter into this relationship with God through faith in his Son. However,
- 15:18Speaker 1: it doesn't mean we've become automatically a disciple. It doesn't
- 15:23Speaker 1: mean that Christ is lord over every phase of our lives,
- 15:27Speaker 1: or even many phases of our lives. That's the task
- 15:30Speaker 1: of a lifetime. That's a journey that we must take
- 15:34Speaker 1: faithfully and painfully as we grow and mature in Christ.
- 15:40Speaker 1: I rejected the statement Redpath made when I was a
- 15:42Speaker 1: first year student in Dallas Seminary. I'd known very little
- 15:46Speaker 1: of crushing, to be frank about it, I thought that
- 15:50Speaker 1: sounded very brutal, and then came across Tozer's words, It's
- 15:56Speaker 1: doubtful God can use anyone greatly till he's hurt him deeply.
- 16:01Speaker 1: Hu rt not hard until he has hurt him deeply.
- 16:09Speaker 1: None I began to be Christ, and for whatever it's worth,
- 16:13Speaker 1: you could say the same. I'm sure my crushing continues
- 16:16Speaker 1: to go on. The last couple of years of my
- 16:20Speaker 1: life and ministry have been some of the most crushing
- 16:22Speaker 1: of my entire Christian life. I have a friend who's
- 16:27Speaker 1: close to me, and he said, I thought, when you
- 16:29Speaker 1: reach your age, the hard times stop and the good
- 16:32Speaker 1: times enter. I said, well, I haven't gotten there yet,
- 16:35Speaker 1: but I keep hoping. I don't think they ever come,
- 16:37Speaker 1: not on this earth. Why, because being transformed into the
- 16:43Speaker 1: likeness of Christ is a painful journey. Now, what is
- 16:48Speaker 1: becoming a disciple mean? It means becoming a close follower
- 16:53Speaker 1: of Jesus Christ. It's a process. Listen to the process.
- 16:58Speaker 1: When I'd denounce all less or loyalties. I become a
- 17:04Speaker 1: disciple of Christ. When my love for Christ is greater
- 17:08Speaker 1: than my love for my wife and for my children.
- 17:13Speaker 1: I become a disciple of Christ when my goal is
- 17:15Speaker 1: to please Him more than to please my parents or
- 17:19Speaker 1: my parents' best wishes are someone else who has high
- 17:24Speaker 1: expectations of me. It's the transfer of that drive. It
- 17:30Speaker 1: includes the submission of my will to His will. It
- 17:35Speaker 1: involves self denial and unwillingness to pursue my own way
- 17:41Speaker 1: and to go God's way to please him. Now you
- 17:46Speaker 1: have your bible open to Luke nine, I want you
- 17:49Speaker 1: to look in verse twenty two down through. We'll go
- 17:53Speaker 1: down to verse twenty four. I know of no more
- 17:56Speaker 1: clear and concise section of scripture on disciple pullship in
- 18:00Speaker 1: few words than Luke nine twenty two through twenty four.
- 18:05Speaker 1: The son of Man must suffer many things, be rejected
- 18:08Speaker 1: by the elders, and cheap priests and scribes, be killed,
- 18:12Speaker 1: and be raised up on the third day. Look closely,
- 18:17Speaker 1: he was saying to them all. Remember last time we
- 18:20Speaker 1: were together, I said, context matters. Never never pull verses
- 18:26Speaker 1: out of context and make them walk on their own,
- 18:30Speaker 1: so to speak. See them in the context. In the context,
- 18:35Speaker 1: Jesus is with his own followers, So he says to
- 18:40Speaker 1: all of his followers. It's a small man, but he
- 18:44Speaker 1: says to all of them. Verse twenty three. He says
- 18:48Speaker 1: to them all, if anyone wishes to come after me,
- 18:54Speaker 1: He's now introducing discipleship to people who are already believers.
- 19:01Speaker 1: These men believe in him, but they have a long
- 19:04Speaker 1: ways to go in becoming close disciples. So he says,
- 19:10Speaker 1: if anyone wishes to come after me, there are three
- 19:15Speaker 1: count them three requirements. Number one, let him deny himself.
- 19:22Speaker 1: Number two, let him take up his cross daily. And
- 19:28Speaker 1: number three he must follow me. Let me go back
- 19:35Speaker 1: to that definition of a disciple, and let me get
- 19:37Speaker 1: even more specific. A disciple is a believer whose commitment
- 19:43Speaker 1: to Christ has grown into a deep desire to obey,
- 19:48Speaker 1: regardless of the consequences, sacrifice or cost. In this case,
- 19:58Speaker 1: three specifics. Let's break them down. Number one, deny herself
- 20:02Speaker 1: or himself. Let him deny himself. The idea is to
- 20:07Speaker 1: say no to what you want as you say yes
- 20:11Speaker 1: to what Christ wants. It's to refuse. To acknowledge is
- 20:16Speaker 1: to disown. If you will, we have the words today
- 20:19Speaker 1: to dethrone self and to enthrone Christ, to make Christ
- 20:26Speaker 1: the ruling passion of our existence. You say that again,
- 20:32Speaker 1: I deny myself when I make Christ the ruling passion
- 20:37Speaker 1: of my existence. I want to hear from him. I
- 20:42Speaker 1: want to spend time with him. I want to learn
- 20:45Speaker 1: what his will is from my life. I want to
- 20:47Speaker 1: say yes to it. I want to go where He
- 20:50Speaker 1: leads me to go. I want to live where He
- 20:52Speaker 1: has guided me to live.
- 20:55Speaker 2: I want to serve in areas where He would have
- 20:58Speaker 2: me serve.
- 20:59Speaker 1: You get the picture. I'm denying what I want, which
- 21:03Speaker 1: I lived with for many years of my life, and
- 21:07Speaker 1: some of you are still there. Your will, to quote
- 21:11Speaker 1: the way my mother used to put it, your will
- 21:13Speaker 1: has never been broken. You've never been Christ and God
- 21:21Speaker 1: hammers away on that will in all kinds of ways
- 21:24Speaker 1: and experiences to teach you the value of denying yourself,
- 21:28Speaker 1: giving up your will for his. You deny, you say
- 21:34Speaker 1: no to what will please you or necessarily bring you comfort.
- 21:40Speaker 1: Here's the second. You must take up your cross daily.
- 21:45Speaker 1: Remember our previous study on the cross, where we learned
- 21:48Speaker 1: that it was it is a symbol of death, including
- 21:52Speaker 1: all the suffering and the pain leading up to it.
- 21:57Speaker 1: The cross, spiritually speak, this word cross represents one's deliberate
- 22:04Speaker 1: decision to abandon his own preferences and plans and to
- 22:11Speaker 1: live with the pain of all that that entails. It
- 22:15Speaker 1: means there will be a number of friends you won't
- 22:17Speaker 1: please any longer. It doesn't mean you work hard to
- 22:21Speaker 1: be obnoxious. It's not like that. It means that you're
- 22:24Speaker 1: following Christ is so firm and sure that you no
- 22:27Speaker 1: longer care that your friend is not being pleased. You're
- 22:34Speaker 1: not trying to be offensive. You're just wanting to be obedient.
- 22:37Speaker 1: Because sometimes our friends don't want what is best for us,
- 22:42Speaker 1: They want what will make them happy. And so when
- 22:46Speaker 1: I take up my cross, I am willing to be
- 22:51Speaker 1: to go back to our word to be crushed. Yeah.
- 22:57Speaker 1: I could just go on and on in this sort
- 22:59Speaker 1: of talk, but I have to pause here and if necessary,
- 23:05Speaker 1: urge you force you to enter into the realm of
- 23:08Speaker 1: your own will. Right now? Are you still stubborn, strong willed?
- 23:15Speaker 1: Are you still determined no matter what, to get your way.
- 23:19Speaker 1: You're not a disciple of Christ. You're pleasing yourself. Furthermore,
- 23:25Speaker 1: you're making others around you miserable who want to be
- 23:28Speaker 1: disciples of Christ. It isn't something to brag about. I've
- 23:33Speaker 1: heard people say, Oh, that's just the way I am.
- 23:35Speaker 1: That's the problem. That's the problem. It's called depravity. And
- 23:42Speaker 1: if we keep living like that, we cause all kinds
- 23:46Speaker 1: of problems for ourselves and others. When Christ said I'm
- 23:52Speaker 1: going to the cross, can you imagine the shock that
- 23:55Speaker 1: those faithful eleven felt at this time? All twelve of
- 23:59Speaker 1: them felt. This is I think one of the turning
- 24:01Speaker 1: points for Judas, because he was a follower from a distance,
- 24:06Speaker 1: thinking someday there'd be a big place for him in
- 24:10Speaker 1: the administration of the kingdom. Suddenly he finds out he's
- 24:14Speaker 1: going to go to a cross. In fact, Peter on
- 24:18Speaker 1: one occasion stood against that thought, and Jesus said to him,
- 24:24Speaker 1: you get behind me, Satan. Send it to one of
- 24:28Speaker 1: the lead disciples. You get behind me, Satan. I am
- 24:34Speaker 1: going to the cross. So we take up our cross.
- 24:41Speaker 1: And please don't overlook that word daily. It's a daily decision.
- 24:51Speaker 1: Trust me, it'll happen tomorrow. You're going to want your way,
- 24:58Speaker 1: and you're going to run up again against his way,
- 25:02Speaker 1: and you'll come again to the moment whether you want
- 25:05Speaker 1: to be one who takes up his cross. And Third
- 25:11Speaker 1: is the word follow me. It means to obey. To
- 25:15Speaker 1: emulate includes all the suffering, all the pain leading up
- 25:21Speaker 1: to that point. Spiritually speaking, that's what it includes. Remember
- 25:24Speaker 1: when you were a kid, you played follow the leader.
- 25:27Speaker 1: The kids play follow the leader anymore. I remember, years ago,
- 25:31Speaker 1: way back, when the Earth's crust was cooling, I was
- 25:33Speaker 1: small and I had a lot of.
- 25:35Speaker 2: Buddies around, and we were one guy would be the leader,
- 25:37Speaker 2: and I.
- 25:38Speaker 1: Mean he would stake us into the most unbelievable he
- 25:41Speaker 1: jump off places.
- 25:42Speaker 2: I'd say, no, wait, God, then you're out. So I
- 25:45Speaker 2: had to jump off because I'm a follow the leader.
- 25:48Speaker 1: That was back when I was following Klutzes who did
- 25:51Speaker 1: all kinds of crazy things. But you could trust him.
- 25:57Speaker 1: But you can be sure there'll be risk involved. You
- 26:01Speaker 1: can be certain that as your decision to move from
- 26:04Speaker 1: the outer circle to the inner circle and become one
- 26:08Speaker 1: of those close followers. And by the way, the ranks
- 26:10Speaker 1: are still thin, always will be, always will be many
- 26:16Speaker 1: more believers than there are close followers because we don't
- 26:20Speaker 1: want to obey anyone else.
- 26:23Speaker 3: We want our own way.
- 26:28Speaker 1: Gon R. W. Stott writes this, Jesus gave no encouragement
- 26:32Speaker 1: whatever to thoughtless applicants for discipleship. Thousands of men and
- 26:38Speaker 1: women every year are still undertaking to follow Christ without
- 26:42Speaker 1: ever pausing to reflect on the cost of that enterprise.
- 26:48Speaker 1: They have allowed themselves to become somewhat involved, enough to
- 26:53Speaker 1: be respectable, but not enough to be uncomfortable. I'll get specific.
- 27:02Speaker 1: You have a fine career, You are middle age you
- 27:05Speaker 1: and your family. Let's put you in a situation where
- 27:09Speaker 1: you're married, and you've got two or three kiddos, and
- 27:11Speaker 1: you're on your way to another promotion and yet another promotion.
- 27:15Speaker 1: You're moving into the realm of financial security you've thought
- 27:19Speaker 1: about and wanted to have, and your dad and certainly
- 27:22Speaker 1: your father in law wanted you to have. And as
- 27:25Speaker 1: time passed, the future looks brighter. And then you get
- 27:29Speaker 1: serious about spiritual things. I am only imagining this, I
- 27:32Speaker 1: have no one in mind. So listen closely, but relax.
- 27:39Speaker 1: In the process of growing and learning and hurting and discovering,
- 27:42Speaker 1: you realize your place is ministry. You're to be in
- 27:48Speaker 1: vocational Christian service. You're no longer to be in the
- 27:53Speaker 1: realm of those who watch ministry transpire. You realize you
- 27:58Speaker 1: really sense a peace peace that you need to be
- 28:04Speaker 1: returning to school, get further education, go to seminary and
- 28:11Speaker 1: get that graduate degree so that you are then for
- 28:14Speaker 1: the rest of your life equipped to help others grow deeply.
- 28:20Speaker 1: But what does that mean? Do the math. It means
- 28:27Speaker 1: you leave a very secure position. Probably means you move
- 28:30Speaker 1: to another part of the country. It means you live
- 28:33Speaker 1: in a situation that is not the kind of comfort
- 28:37Speaker 1: you have enjoyed before. It means your income is reduced considerably.
- 28:42Speaker 1: It means your partner may have to go to work
- 28:45Speaker 1: to make that happen. It means you will now enter
- 28:48Speaker 1: the ranks of the unfamiliar. You will now be exposed
- 28:53Speaker 1: to information you have never heard before or studied, and
- 29:00Speaker 1: are following Christ. That happened in my life, It's happened
- 29:08Speaker 1: in the lives of a number of people listening right now. Now.
- 29:13Speaker 1: Ideally your partner is with you in that journey. One
- 29:17Speaker 1: of my favorite questions when I meet brand new seminary
- 29:19Speaker 1: students and they come to the church to visit, and
- 29:23Speaker 1: they'll say, Hi, we're first year students, and they always
- 29:25Speaker 1: have that look about them, little bit bewildered. So invariably
- 29:30Speaker 1: we'll look in case this is a man that introduces himself,
- 29:32Speaker 1: I'll look at his wife and I'll say, what do
- 29:35Speaker 1: you think about that? I get some very interesting answers
- 29:39Speaker 1: these days, very interesting. Sometimes it's just like out of
- 29:45Speaker 1: the textbook, Oh, this is the fulfillment of our dream.
- 29:49Speaker 1: Other times I'll hear I'm not so sure, and that
- 29:53Speaker 1: makes for a very difficult process. Of years. Maybe the
- 29:59Speaker 1: man acted too quickly in his decision, and perhaps wisdom
- 30:02Speaker 1: would say, let's spend some time working this through with
- 30:06Speaker 1: your wife so that she's on board with you. Having
- 30:13Speaker 1: partners where one is a disciple and one is not
- 30:15Speaker 1: is a pretty difficult way to live. Pretty difficult. That's
- 30:20Speaker 1: just one application that comes to mind. You see, God
- 30:25Speaker 1: specializes in this sort of thing, as he brings us
- 30:29Speaker 1: from the ranks of general believers, those who know Christ.
- 30:34Speaker 1: When they die, we're going to go to Heaven. We're
- 30:37Speaker 1: sure of that. We know Sunday comes. We want to
- 30:40Speaker 1: be a part of the worship service. We understand that.
- 30:46Speaker 1: But just don't let it get in my way. When
- 30:50Speaker 1: you become a disciple, it gets in your way. Suddenly
- 30:57Speaker 1: you move from the ranks of the complacent to the committed.
- 31:06Speaker 1: Turn to John chapter eighteen. Will you do that? John eighteen?
- 31:13Speaker 1: Just a few thoughts here, and we're on our way.
- 31:17Speaker 1: Remember the context. Remember the context. The Last Supper is
- 31:25Speaker 1: over all. The teaching in the upper room has passed.
- 31:30Speaker 1: The prayer on the way to geth Semone has been
- 31:33Speaker 1: asked by Jesus to the Father. He has not yet
- 31:38Speaker 1: been arrested, but he's gone through the pain of geth semone.
- 31:43Speaker 1: Let the cup pass from me. If it's possible, Lord,
- 31:47Speaker 1: let it be another way. It's obvious that it was
- 31:51Speaker 1: the Father's plan for him to be Christ, and so Jesus,
- 31:57Speaker 1: having spoken these words, went forth with his disciple over
- 32:00Speaker 1: the ravine. Judas, who was betraying him, knew the place
- 32:04Speaker 1: where they went, that had often been there. Judas was
- 32:07Speaker 1: now with the Roman cohort and the officers who came
- 32:10Speaker 1: with lanterns and torches and weapons verse three. All of
- 32:14Speaker 1: this is a threatening setting. To the surprise of the
- 32:19Speaker 1: mob who came to arrest him, there was no fight.
- 32:23Speaker 1: You know what, Let me use the words I've been using,
- 32:27Speaker 1: because they met up with the Ultimate Disciple. They were
- 32:33Speaker 1: just they didn't know it, but they were emissaries carrying
- 32:36Speaker 1: out the Father's will. So they come ready for a fight,
- 32:40Speaker 1: ready to chase him. That's why they brought the torches.
- 32:44Speaker 1: And he says to them in verse four, of whom
- 32:46Speaker 1: do you seek? Don't you love it? Ever had a
- 32:50Speaker 1: thief in your home and you walk up on him?
- 32:52Speaker 1: He says, Hey, who are you looking for? It's me?
- 32:56Speaker 1: Caught me, except in this case he's no thief, the
- 33:00Speaker 1: only perfect man who ever lived. But they want to
- 33:02Speaker 1: kill him, which they don't know it's the Father's plan.
- 33:05Speaker 1: It's all jumbled up in their mind. They just think
- 33:08Speaker 1: he's he's a phony, he's a fraud. They're going to
- 33:12Speaker 1: put an end to it. But he's doing the Father's will.
- 33:16Speaker 1: So he says, who are you looking for? And they said,
- 33:18Speaker 1: Jesus a Nazarene. He said, that's me. I'm he and
- 33:24Speaker 1: it blows them away. In fact, the scripture reads so carefully,
- 33:29Speaker 1: they drew back and fell to the ground, you know,
- 33:33Speaker 1: I mean they were down and out. I couldn't believe it.
- 33:36Speaker 1: And so he helps them back up again. Now, who
- 33:39Speaker 1: again are you seeking? Jesus a Nazarene told you that
- 33:42Speaker 1: I'm the one. Why don't you let these others go?
- 33:45Speaker 1: Because you really want me? And he of course did
- 33:49Speaker 1: that so the word would be fulfilled. Now look at Simon. Peter,
- 33:52Speaker 1: who is not yet a real deep disciple, pulls out
- 33:58Speaker 1: a sword.
- 34:00Speaker 3: It's a little sword.
- 34:05Speaker 1: You let me get him. Well, some ear drops off,
- 34:08Speaker 1: and Jesus has been working with Peter for years to
- 34:15Speaker 1: keep the sword in the sheath. Don't take the sword
- 34:20Speaker 1: out Peter Peter. But see, that's what we do, that's
- 34:26Speaker 1: our nature. It's like you know me. The story is
- 34:29Speaker 1: about the traffic. Traffic's heavy. You're on the tollway. Somebody
- 34:33Speaker 1: wants in. Are you kidding? I was here before you were.
- 34:39Speaker 1: Well you think you think, you think you own this road. No,
- 34:43Speaker 1: there's no way. And he puts this little bumper up
- 34:46Speaker 1: in front. You go with, okay, as soon as you
- 34:52Speaker 1: get a chance, you get a run in front of him.
- 34:54Speaker 2: Why because you're depraved, You're.
- 34:56Speaker 1: A rotten center and you want you want your lane.
- 35:01Speaker 1: I mean, after all, you owned a road. That's your spot.
- 35:05Speaker 1: Ever thought about that that goes on in the traffic.
- 35:07Speaker 1: I mean a comedian could go crazy with it. One
- 35:09Speaker 1: little space, no way, man, that's my space. I'm leable
- 35:14Speaker 1: to be late. How late maybe he split second, I
- 35:18Speaker 1: don't know. We spend most of our life taking our
- 35:23Speaker 1: sword out of its sheath and slugging somebody with it.
- 35:28Speaker 1: Had a man say to me following the first service today,
- 35:31Speaker 1: for the first time and as long as I can remember,
- 35:33Speaker 1: I'm putting the sword in the sheath, and he cried.
- 35:41Speaker 1: He described his life very briefly, just succinctly, as he
- 35:44Speaker 1: described a self willed life. I'm tired of cutting off ears.
- 35:52Speaker 1: Look at Jesus' words. Put the sword in the sheep,
- 35:57Speaker 1: the cup and the sheath, the cup which the Au
- 36:00Speaker 1: has given me. Shall I not drink it? The cup
- 36:09Speaker 1: the Father's will. It means one thing to one person,
- 36:14Speaker 1: something all together different to someone else. For me, it
- 36:17Speaker 1: meant where I wound up doing what I'm doing. For you,
- 36:20Speaker 1: it means something altogether different, you know what. All the
- 36:25Speaker 1: way through our ministry lives, Cynthia and I have had
- 36:27Speaker 1: people telling us, as we were getting ready to make
- 36:30Speaker 1: a move to go somewhere else, that we shouldn't be
- 36:32Speaker 1: doing it. People are just loaded with misinformation, and they
- 36:36Speaker 1: can be so logical. I remember when we were leaving
- 36:40Speaker 1: Irving to move to California, California. I mean, are you
- 36:46Speaker 1: ready for that? There are no good families in California.
- 36:50Speaker 1: There are no deep roots in California. In fact, the
- 36:53Speaker 1: last words we heard the lady put our elbows on
- 36:56Speaker 1: the window beside my wife as we're getting ready to
- 36:59Speaker 1: back out of our driveway, and she said, you know,
- 37:01Speaker 1: the Lord gets blamed for a lot of stuff he
- 37:03Speaker 1: has nothing to do with. How's that for a farewell,
- 37:07Speaker 1: have a great ministry. And we got there and we
- 37:12Speaker 1: didn't plan it. I went kicking and screaming, that's exactly
- 37:18Speaker 1: where we ought to have been for as long as
- 37:21Speaker 1: we should have been there. In fact, we were there
- 37:22Speaker 1: so long. I was a part of the woodwork. This
- 37:25Speaker 1: is great, this is wonderful, this is easy.
- 37:28Speaker 2: And once the Lord heard the word easy, the cup,
- 37:33Speaker 2: he's good with cups.
- 37:34Speaker 1: It just the right moment. So I got a call
- 37:36Speaker 1: from Dallas Seminary, thinking, there's no way, are you kidding?
- 37:41Speaker 1: I've been out here so long, man, they're going to
- 37:43Speaker 1: name a street after me one of these days. Easy.
- 37:48Speaker 1: I don't want you to be easy. I want you
- 37:50Speaker 1: to be where I want you to be. I mean
- 37:53Speaker 1: back to Dallas. They know me there, but I want
- 37:58Speaker 1: to go back to Dallas. You check the weather lately, Lord,
- 38:03Speaker 1: So I had people there say, wow on Earth are
- 38:05Speaker 1: you going to live? Really? Tell us what's the real reason?
- 38:10Speaker 3: Tell us?
- 38:11Speaker 1: Yeah, people do that too, till like there's somebody with
- 38:14Speaker 1: a gun over here to tell me he's getting ready
- 38:16Speaker 1: to shoot you. Why are you going to be That's
- 38:20Speaker 1: part of doing the Father's will. So I get here
- 38:23Speaker 1: and it begins to come clear, come clear, easy, never once.
- 38:29Speaker 1: I don't think there's been an easy day, right.
- 38:33Speaker 3: Absolutely.
- 38:35Speaker 1: People see this and they see the growth and they think, boy, Chuck,
- 38:38Speaker 1: you must be so proud. Are you kidding? I am shocked.
- 38:44Speaker 1: I am surprised. I don't worry about empty seats. I'm
- 38:48Speaker 1: amazed there are filled seats. Why is this isn't about me?
- 38:55Speaker 1: You just happen to be witnessing a cup being drunk.
- 39:02Speaker 1: You're seeing a disciple live his life. Forgive the personal reference.
- 39:07Speaker 1: It's not meant out of pride. I guarantee you it's not.
- 39:11Speaker 1: If you could know the whole story. You know what
- 39:13Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. I am in the place of
- 39:17Speaker 1: his appointment to do what he wishes. And I've learned
- 39:22Speaker 1: the hard way that if I fight it, I.
- 39:23Speaker 3: Lose, and I should.
- 39:28Speaker 1: But this is again about me. It's about you, you
- 39:30Speaker 1: who are fighting it. This message is about drinking the
- 39:36Speaker 1: cup the Father has given you. So I got four
- 39:40Speaker 1: statements I want you to write down. Okay, get your
- 39:42Speaker 1: pen ready, all of you who want to keep your
- 39:45Speaker 1: sword in the sheath. Take them in very carefully, write
- 39:51Speaker 1: them down, put them where you'll read them later. You'll
- 39:53Speaker 1: need them. For every disciple, there is a purpose to
- 39:58Speaker 1: be fulfilled. For every disciple, there is a purpose to
- 40:04Speaker 1: be fulfilled. That's why he invites you to be a
- 40:07Speaker 1: disciple until then you fight the purpose. When you've broken
- 40:14Speaker 1: through and you decide, I disclaim all lesser loyalties. I'm
- 40:19Speaker 1: not gonna do what my neighbors think I ought to do.
- 40:21Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do what my church members are confident
- 40:24Speaker 1: I ought to do. I'm not gonna do necessarily what
- 40:27Speaker 1: my wife is thinking is the best thing to do.
- 40:29Speaker 1: I'm counseling, I'm listening to her, but I gotta do
- 40:32Speaker 1: what I believe the Father would have me do. That's
- 40:35Speaker 1: a lonely place to be. Why there's a purpose there.
- 40:39Speaker 1: There's a purpose. And when you've got a mate in
- 40:42Speaker 1: life that sees that she or he doesn't resist it,
- 40:48Speaker 1: there's a god given mission. There's a divine plan, there's
- 40:51Speaker 1: a mandate, there's a heaven sent assignment. Horatio Bonar put
- 40:58Speaker 1: it this way, I dare not choose my lot. I
- 41:02Speaker 1: would not if I might choose Thou for me, my God.
- 41:06Speaker 1: So shall I walk aright? Take now my cup and
- 41:11Speaker 1: it with joy or sorrow? Fill is best to thee
- 41:14Speaker 1: may seem choose now my good or ill, not mine,
- 41:19Speaker 1: not mine the choice in things both great or small.
- 41:23Speaker 1: Be thou my guide, my strength, my wisdom, my all.
- 41:30Speaker 1: Be that Lord, let your purpose be fulfilled. Second, with
- 41:35Speaker 1: every purpose, there is a cup to be drunk. It
- 41:42Speaker 1: will be a challenging obstacle. It will be a hindrance
- 41:47Speaker 1: along the way. It could be a personal foreign you
- 41:49Speaker 1: have to endure. It could be misunderstanding from others. It
- 41:54Speaker 1: will require an attitude of acceptance. And with every purpose,
- 41:58Speaker 1: there's a cup to be drunk. And that cup will
- 42:02Speaker 1: taste bitter to you.
- 42:04Speaker 3: It'll taste bitter.
- 42:08Speaker 1: At the time. It'll be bitter. I'm not saying when
- 42:16Speaker 1: you step into his will from then on it's a
- 42:18Speaker 1: downhill slide. I'm saying, when you step into his will,
- 42:21Speaker 1: that's when the meaning of the cross takes new dimensions.
- 42:28Speaker 1: At seminary, we lose a baby. We lose a baby
- 42:35Speaker 1: of all things. We have a miscarriage. We wanted that baby.
- 42:43Speaker 1: The loss of the baby was a journey that I
- 42:47Speaker 1: have never shared with anyone. It's too personal. Five months
- 42:53Speaker 1: a long, that little cord wrapped around her neck, stillborn,
- 43:04Speaker 1: there's a cup to be drunk. I could have said,
- 43:06Speaker 1: why on the earth am I? Here? Is this the
- 43:08Speaker 1: thanks I get for obeying? No, it's not like that.
- 43:11Speaker 1: It doesn't work like that. It's not your will is
- 43:14Speaker 1: his will. Third, in every cup, there is pain to
- 43:22Speaker 1: accept and endure. In every cup, there is pain to
- 43:28Speaker 1: accept and endure. There's discomfort. There are the hurts, there
- 43:34Speaker 1: are the interferences. There is the affliction that disappointment, sometimes disease,
- 43:39Speaker 1: sometimes delay. I love v Raymond Edmund's Little Book On
- 43:45Speaker 1: where he mentions delay, the pain of delayed accomplishments part
- 43:51Speaker 1: of the cup, part of the pain. We like instant gratification,
- 43:57Speaker 1: like instant results, Disciples, there's nothing instant In every cup.
- 44:05Speaker 1: There's pain to accept it. Through every pain, there's victory
- 44:10Speaker 1: to claim. Through every pain, there's victory to claim. I
- 44:22Speaker 1: close with the writings and life of George Matheson, Please listen. M.
- 44:28Speaker 1: A thh E. S O N wrote the hymn O
- 44:31Speaker 1: Love that Will Not Let Me Go. Almost blind by
- 44:35Speaker 1: the time he finished school, completely blind by the time
- 44:39Speaker 1: he entered ministry, and for forty years he ministered totally blind.
- 44:44Speaker 1: George Matheson he attracted overflowing crowds who came to hear
- 44:50Speaker 1: him preach, and especially to hear him pray. For forty years,
- 44:56Speaker 1: other fellow ministers were afraid to hear his sermons because,
- 45:00Speaker 1: as they put it, they are so great we are
- 45:03Speaker 1: tempted to plagiarism. George Matheson Blind not only a preacher
- 45:11Speaker 1: and a man of prayer, but a writer a song
- 45:17Speaker 1: in his wonderful work, thoughts for life's journey. My soul
- 45:21Speaker 1: reject not the place of thy prostration. It has ever
- 45:26Speaker 1: been the robing room of royalty, a beautiful wording, robing
- 45:32Speaker 1: room of royalty. Ask the great ones of the past
- 45:37Speaker 1: what has been the spot of their prosperity? They will
- 45:39Speaker 1: say it was the cold ground on which I once
- 45:43Speaker 1: was lying. Ask Abraham, he will point you to the
- 45:47Speaker 1: sacrifice on Mariah. Ask Joseph, he will direct you to
- 45:51Speaker 1: his dungeon in Egypt. Ask Moses, he will date his
- 45:55Speaker 1: fortune from his danger in the Nile. Ask Ruth, she
- 46:00Speaker 1: will bid you build her monument in the field of
- 46:02Speaker 1: her toil. Ask David, he will tell you that his
- 46:06Speaker 1: songs came in the night. Ask Job he will remind
- 46:11Speaker 1: you that God answered him out of the whirlwind of loss.
- 46:17Speaker 1: Ask Paul, he will attribute his inspiration to the light
- 46:21Speaker 1: that struck him blind. Ask one more, the son of man,
- 46:28Speaker 1: He will answer. From the cold ground on which I
- 46:31Speaker 1: was lying, getsemone ground, I receive my scepter. There. This
- 46:42Speaker 1: is called the fellowship of His sufferings, and there's everything
- 46:48Speaker 1: within us to resist it. Accept the cup. That's the model.
- 47:03Speaker 1: That's why the cross continues to be that symbol for us.
- 47:08Speaker 3: About with me, will you please?
- 47:12Speaker 1: I know that today I've been speaking to a few
- 47:14Speaker 1: impossible people. I know because I once was. I don't
- 47:22Speaker 1: know how many times my mother would say to me, son,
- 47:25Speaker 1: you are impossible. I don't know how many times my
- 47:29Speaker 1: wife said to me early in marriage, you are impossible.
- 47:35Speaker 1: The shame of it all is how many times God
- 47:38Speaker 1: said to me, you think you're impossible.
- 47:45Speaker 3: That I have a cup for you.
- 47:50Speaker 1: I don't know what your cup is. It may be
- 47:52Speaker 1: physical affliction, maybe a loss of a dream, maybe a
- 47:56Speaker 1: broken romance, maybe a life of loneliness, feeling forgotten and obscure,
- 48:03Speaker 1: and maybe physical pain, maybe a mental breakdown, some heart
- 48:13Speaker 1: breaking something that God would use to deepen your commitment
- 48:24Speaker 1: to him. If you've never met the Savior. Now's the time.
- 48:29Speaker 1: If you have played around with your faith, now's the
- 48:32Speaker 1: time to move into the inner circle playground.
- 48:38Speaker 3: Days are over.
- 48:42Speaker 1: Lord. I pray that you'll use much of this in
- 48:46Speaker 1: a deep and abiding and significant way in all our lives.
- 48:52Speaker 1: Forgive us our father for resisting the cup, for running
- 48:57Speaker 1: from the cross, for pursue doing what we wanted and
- 49:05Speaker 1: missing altogether what it was you wanted, and then having
- 49:10Speaker 1: stopped us in our tracks. I pray that you will
- 49:12Speaker 1: give us sensitive spirits to hear what you're saying, and
- 49:17Speaker 1: an open willingness to do where you're leading, to go there,
- 49:24Speaker 1: to do it, and to rejoice in the victory of it. Now, Lord,
- 49:33Speaker 1: dismiss us in this solemn moment, with the realization that
- 49:36Speaker 1: you are the one in charge, and if we've learned
- 49:40Speaker 1: nothing else, enable us to learn that.
- 49:45Speaker 3: From this message. In the name of our submissive, matchless master,
- 49:53Speaker 3: we pray everyone said.
- 49:57Speaker 1: Amen.
- 50:01Speaker 4: The preceding message, The Cup that He Drank, was copyrighted
- 50:05Speaker 4: in two thousand eight, and the sound recording was copyrighted
- 50:08Speaker 4: in two thousand nine by Charles R. Swindall, Inc. All
- 50:11Speaker 4: rights are reserved worldwide.