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The Breakfast Club REWIND (Tony Yayo, Woody McClain & Lovell Adams-Gray, Elliott Connie and More) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Your shows more important than any other mainstream media outlet.
• 0:06
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, you then will come here when it DJ
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: NFY and Charlamagne the guy being.
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  Speaker 2: Here next to all of you guys, it's really this.
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  Speaker 3: It's one of my favorite shows to do, just because
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  Speaker 3: you'll always keeping one.
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  Speaker 4: Honey, y'all, keep you real. But what better place than
• 0:24
  Speaker 4: than here.
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  Speaker 5: I think everybody should go on the Breakfast Club and
• 0:28
  Speaker 5: start out and you'll want to.
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  Speaker 2: Shake it up right right, ray yo, Charlomagne, Jamsey, what
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  Speaker 2: up are we live? This is your time to get
• 0:39
  Speaker 2: it off your chest. I got an indoor pool, door pool.
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  Speaker 2: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 6: Get on the phone right now.
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  Speaker 4: He'll tell you what it is we live?
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  Speaker 2: Hello, who is this?
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  Speaker 7: I'm just sad at the older generation expecting that the
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  Speaker 7: younger generation should retire the thing made because I'm at
• 1:02
  Speaker 7: work and I see these guys, you know, working man.
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  Speaker 7: I'm just like, man, I can't be that old when
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  Speaker 7: I retire.
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  Speaker 3: Well you know what they say, Well, somebody told me
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  Speaker 3: back in the day, retirement is not an age, it's
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  Speaker 3: an income. I don't even know if I believe that anymore,
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  Speaker 3: because there's people I know that make mad money, but
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  Speaker 3: they just love what they do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of people love to work.
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  Speaker 8: And then a lot of people, you know, honestly don't
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  Speaker 8: know how to prepare for the future. You also got
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  Speaker 8: to think, you know, this is the generation where we're
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  Speaker 8: starting to learn more about financial freedom. So a lot
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  Speaker 8: of times, you know that the generation before us didn't
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  Speaker 8: actually know how to retire, didn't know how to save
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  Speaker 8: so they can retire.
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  Speaker 2: So some people still have to work.
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  Speaker 8: That's why when you see sometimes when you when you
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  Speaker 8: go into those supermarkets and you go those places and
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  Speaker 8: you see an older person working, you got to give
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  Speaker 8: them patience and and help them out because sometimes they're
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  Speaker 8: there because they have to and they're just trying to,
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  Speaker 8: you know, get by like everybody else.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know what they say when when you
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  Speaker 3: stop moving, you know, you start to die.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, some people don't keep some people want to keep moving.
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  Speaker 7: I guess that's maybe the profession I'm in, right, I'm
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  Speaker 7: an electrician. I'm in a trade out of Vegas right now.
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  Speaker 7: And I mean, these guys just don't want to retire.
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  Speaker 7: They feel like they if they retire, they're gonna die.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean that.
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  Speaker 8: Could be a chance man, And I'll be honest, I'd
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  Speaker 8: rather mess with an older electrician or older mechanic or
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  Speaker 8: older doctor, because a lot of times.
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  Speaker 2: They didn't see everything, they didn't been through it. You
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  Speaker 2: know like that about your president? Well you don't feel like.
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  Speaker 7: I feel like it should be an age captain president,
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  Speaker 7: just like they got time you asked me.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all want to y'all want everything else age, You want
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  Speaker 3: your contact age, your electrician age.
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  Speaker 2: But when it comes to your president, you don't want
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  Speaker 2: know your own president.
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  Speaker 8: You using a mechanic or electrician like they've been through
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  Speaker 8: everything to see what works and what doesn't work. And
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  Speaker 8: a lot of this new generation they rely on AI
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  Speaker 8: or computers to see what's wrong rather than telling me.
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  Speaker 3: But my president he keeps falling. Your president definitely keeps falling.
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  Speaker 3: Tell you the president need a care give it?
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  Speaker 2: Hello? Who says?
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  Speaker 10: What's happy?
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  Speaker 11: Hey?
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  Speaker 2: What's up?
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  Speaker 12: Bro?
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  Speaker 2: Get off your chest?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm just gonna you want to find out about
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  Speaker 10: and put your son right?
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh?
• 3:08
  Speaker 10: Why don't you when you watch Ted Lasso.
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  Speaker 2: Ted Last hilarious, My wife loves Last.
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  Speaker 10: You are not a whole edification on it. Man, You
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  Speaker 10: be good. I just happened to stumble across it, and
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  Speaker 10: it gave me a new love for football, for the
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  Speaker 10: real football.
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  Speaker 2: Are they serious? My wife watches that show. I don't
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  Speaker 2: mean that show.
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  Speaker 4: What's it about.
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  Speaker 10: It's a comedy and it's a comedy, but at the
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  Speaker 10: same time, it gives you. It tells you more like
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  Speaker 10: when you have you're like a novice about soccer. It
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  Speaker 10: gives you more than with the pitches. How they have training,
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  Speaker 10: how we call it practice. They call it training. How
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  Speaker 10: they we called it, they call it Bruce. It's just
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  Speaker 10: little nuanced things that you pick up on just watching
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  Speaker 10: the show. I just happened to stumble across it one
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  Speaker 10: night because I was born, you know, I got hooked.
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  Speaker 8: It's funny you said that because I'm watching my son.
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  Speaker 8: He comes back to the call. He was like yeah,
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  Speaker 8: he was like, yead, training was good today, And I'm
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  Speaker 8: like training, you have practice.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, no, that we trained you.
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  Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying, because my son, My son
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  Speaker 10: went to college on the football scholarship, so I'm used
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  Speaker 10: to be you know, football is just a different dynamic.
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  Speaker 10: But that amlicip football rather well, we would you get
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  Speaker 10: more empaved and more invested in them. And like Charlom said, Yo,
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  Speaker 10: they get.
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  Speaker 8: Bread, bro paid, they get bread, They get bread. They
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  Speaker 8: get injured a lot too. They say they have a
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  Speaker 8: lot of CT problems with them. Head button, the ball
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  Speaker 8: and all that.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this morning? I can hear you now, Good morning, mamma.
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  Speaker 2: Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 8: Good morning, bus driver, he's bus drives envy.
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  Speaker 13: I want my job.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a post the picture. That's right. Yeah. I ran
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  Speaker 2: into you at the airport we were heading to Aruba.
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  Speaker 13: Right.
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  Speaker 2: How you doing man? You're being safe out there. This
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  Speaker 2: is our bus driver from the Bronx.
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  Speaker 7: School to make good morning that you just called.
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  Speaker 2: The sagod morning.
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  Speaker 8: Right you be saying, I see a bus driver got
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  Speaker 8: into an incident with somebody yesterday, so be safe out there.
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  Speaker 13: Every day is something different in the Bronx.
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  Speaker 2: Especially in the Bronx. The Brooks will be safe out Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But did you be the same person screaming BX at
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  Speaker 2: the show.
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  Speaker 8: No, I don't.
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  Speaker 14: I'm trying to duck when I took duck and they say, I'm.
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  Speaker 8: Like yes, yes, but get it off your chest. Eight
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  Speaker 8: hundred and five eight five one oh five one. If
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  Speaker 8: you need to vent hit us up. Now it's the
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  Speaker 8: Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 15: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Wait, this is your time
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  Speaker 15: to get it off your chest. Eight hundred and five
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  Speaker 15: eight five one o five one. We want to hear
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  Speaker 15: from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 8: Hello, this this is actually hey Ashley, good morning.
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  Speaker 10: Where you calling from Columbus?
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  Speaker 2: Columbus? Okay, oh hi, get it off your chest mama.
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  Speaker 16: Okay.
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  Speaker 13: So I'm a stand her mom, but I also have
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  Speaker 13: my business on the site, and I just feel like
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  Speaker 13: my husband is just so it's considered half the time,
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  Speaker 13: like he doesn't understand.
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  Speaker 10: What I really do.
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  Speaker 13: You know you like and a lot of us that
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  Speaker 13: actually did.
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  Speaker 8: You know how you can fix that, Ashley, go away
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  Speaker 8: for a day and let him watch them six kids.
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  Speaker 13: When I go away for a day, my kids they
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  Speaker 13: called me. I told your dad. They'll be like, oh,
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  Speaker 13: he's in the road.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 8: You turn off your phone for one day that and
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  Speaker 8: let him have to deal with feeding them kids, washing
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  Speaker 8: those kids, taking the kids out.
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  Speaker 2: Why are you giving this bad? But that's down because
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  Speaker 2: you turned off her phone for one day, you'd have
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  Speaker 2: a fit. But don't turn off your phone.
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  Speaker 8: Actually, he doesn't appreciate her, so she's saying that she's
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  Speaker 8: a stay at home mom and.
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  Speaker 13: We've been together since high school, like he's the only
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  Speaker 13: man I've ever been with, Like I really give everything,
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  Speaker 13: that all my time to everybody.
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  Speaker 16: Turn my kids.
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  Speaker 2: Off for your and let him have to take care
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  Speaker 2: of the kids.
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  Speaker 8: And I bet you when you come back, he'd be like, baby,
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  Speaker 8: please don't leave, baby, baby bait.
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  Speaker 3: Don't turn your phone off for your husband. Man, because
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  Speaker 3: envy would have a fit if he had turned off
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  Speaker 3: the phone.
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  Speaker 2: For him out. But I was training my wife.
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  Speaker 3: I know how hard it is if six kids, you
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  Speaker 3: still would have a fit if she turned her phone
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  Speaker 3: off for day.
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  Speaker 2: Imagine calling your wife. Imagine how many times we call
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  Speaker 2: our wife a day and we can't get in touch
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  Speaker 2: with every twenty five. He don't respect his wife, so
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  Speaker 2: he cut it out of respect. I agree he did that.
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  Speaker 17: But she's speaking for her and you're speaking for you,
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  Speaker 17: So you respect your wife, But that doesn't speak to
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  Speaker 17: how she feel about what you're present them. So he
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  Speaker 17: could think he's respecting her and she may not feel it.
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  Speaker 13: That's really but I voiced that too, because I do
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  Speaker 13: understand that communication. It's Keith, and I voiced that and
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  Speaker 13: I'll be like, well, I just want this, so I
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  Speaker 13: just want that, and I'll be like okay, like in
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  Speaker 13: the morning, don't wake me up and be like, well
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  Speaker 13: I want And I.
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  Speaker 7: Was like, well, I was up with about six months old.
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  Speaker 13: I will lie somebody like me.
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  Speaker 3: Respect is subjectives though, I was gonna say that to
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  Speaker 3: respect and subjective. So I got to know what her
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  Speaker 3: definition of feeling disrespected.
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  Speaker 2: She just told me, you know what I'm saying, that's.
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  Speaker 13: What I'm subject like. Especially I cared the wedding. I
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  Speaker 13: had five other orders besides the wedding this weekend, and
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  Speaker 13: I was just talk to every hour with the baby,
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  Speaker 13: you know.
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  Speaker 10: And he's also in the weekends, but he didn't.
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  Speaker 13: Get up and help me. But they didn't want to
• 8:06
  Speaker 13: try to wake me up and then get attitude when
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  Speaker 13: I'm like, no, get out my face.
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  Speaker 8: You might just have to wake them up at three
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  Speaker 8: o'clock in the morning, sit on his face and be like,
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  Speaker 8: how does it feel now, that's you might have to
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  Speaker 8: do that.
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  Speaker 7: Good luck, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: That's not disrespectful to men. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: In the morning, poor man, poor woman up with the
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  Speaker 2: baby all night.
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  Speaker 4: I get it.
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  Speaker 2: That's not it might be inconsiderate, but disrespect that we
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  Speaker 2: go and considerate because you love disrespectful to go the
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  Speaker 2: other way. Right, chance something right? So it's like I'm
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  Speaker 2: bringing it to your it's real talking. Hello, who's this
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  Speaker 2: You good? Good?
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  Speaker 18: Good?
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  Speaker 2: Give it off your chest, Mama.
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  Speaker 14: I am really upset my my husband this morning because
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  Speaker 14: I had an accidentable Friday and when he changed up
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  Speaker 14: a car he never carried over rental. So now I'm
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  Speaker 14: having to freaking like get up brother in the morning.
• 9:02
  Speaker 14: He dropped my kids early, and we're going to have
• 9:05
  Speaker 14: to trouble all week because.
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  Speaker 13: Of his idiots.
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  Speaker 2: Like he's just like, damn, I feels like everybody husband
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  Speaker 2: this morning.
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  Speaker 14: How do you like that?
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  Speaker 2: We we can't hear you because you're so upset that
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  Speaker 2: you're yelling.
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  Speaker 8: But all like we can hear is that you're mad
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  Speaker 8: at your husband something about a rental car.
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  Speaker 2: He didn't give it back and now you have to
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  Speaker 2: do it and you want to wilight on his ass.
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  Speaker 2: I thought he said you got.
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  Speaker 14: Well, yeah, no, I got into a car accident on Friday.
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  Speaker 14: It was my fault because I was rushing. But like
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  Speaker 14: when he turns over, like when we changed cards. He
• 9:38
  Speaker 14: never put friends, like, how do you.
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  Speaker 13: Sts on the insurance with I don't know, no one
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  Speaker 13: figure out how to get to work back and forth
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  Speaker 13: and we weren't opposite ways and opposite schedule.
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: Also he got he got the rental and you don't
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  Speaker 2: have one.
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  Speaker 14: You got No, he never put rental on when he changed.
• 9:59
  Speaker 2: Over cars, never put rent on it. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what they.
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  Speaker 18: Do.
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  Speaker 16: You know, when you get into an accident and you
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  Speaker 16: have rental insurance.
• 10:06
  Speaker 2: Oh got you on the car, so you gotta pay
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  Speaker 2: for the car that you.
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  Speaker 14: Yeah, and it's like me and it's like we got
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  Speaker 14: to pay for summer like cheap.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you should have gotten your accident.
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  Speaker 10: We both figured out.
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  Speaker 2: I know, you shouldn't have got into an accident. Man,
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  Speaker 2: it was your fault. You said that, but you know what, Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it was my fault.
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  Speaker 14: But however, this is why we have insurance, This is
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  Speaker 14: why we the options on there.
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  Speaker 17: What if somebody would have hit me?
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  Speaker 2: It's not like all. It sound like both of y'all
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  Speaker 2: blaming each other for things that out of y'all control.
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  Speaker 8: And that's why I mean they should have put you
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  Speaker 8: should have put insurance on your car. When people do
• 10:40
  Speaker 8: that because they'd be like, I'm never gonna get accent
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  Speaker 8: why I got paid this extra?
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  Speaker 2: That's what insurance.
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  Speaker 3: And the same way you shouldn't have got into an accident.
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  Speaker 3: He probably should have had insurance. But it's no need
• 10:47
  Speaker 3: for y'all to be pointing the finger at each other.
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  Speaker 14: I understand that. But like now, our kids have to know.
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  Speaker 14: Our kids have to be a yes to go drop
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  Speaker 14: me if at work.
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  Speaker 2: That's not You got to figure it out.
• 10:56
  Speaker 3: So that's life, you know what I'm saying. You got
• 10:58
  Speaker 3: to figure out how to pivot in sometimes in life.
• 10:59
  Speaker 3: So arguing now, yeah, you should go in the bedroom
• 11:03
  Speaker 3: right now, give him something. Lay show just make us.
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  Speaker 10: Crazy, but it's been no'll be good, all right, I
• 11:10
  Speaker 10: have a go with mama.
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  Speaker 2: Lay show.
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  Speaker 5: Don't fix everything, guys, this most of the things. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: fix a lot, fix a lot.
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  Speaker 2: Help us to sleep right, get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 8: Eight hundred and five eighty five, one oh five one.
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  Speaker 8: If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's
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  Speaker 8: the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 19: Morning.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody's Steve J. M. V.
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  Speaker 8: Charlamagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
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  Speaker 8: a special guests in.
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  Speaker 20: The building totally New York just right, tony ya, Yo,
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  Speaker 20: you not has to bring it back right, whatever has
• 11:43
  Speaker 20: to bring Are you feeling brother, feeling good man running
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  Speaker 20: around on y'all show.
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: I feel like you got a second win, yo, Like
• 11:50
  Speaker 2: it's been a second win, third win. Yeah.
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  Speaker 18: I mean, you know, I'll see the way fifty work
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  Speaker 18: and I'm like, yo, when he always be like, yo,
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  Speaker 18: y'all lazy, y'all lazy. And I'm just realizing I thought
• 12:00
  Speaker 18: I was working when I wasn't. So during the COVID
• 12:02
  Speaker 18: it was just like a tough time, Like I'm sitting back,
• 12:04
  Speaker 18: wasn't no tours. I'm like, y' I gotta figure out
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  Speaker 18: other things to do. So I started doing the music
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  Speaker 18: and then I started, you know, messing with Flag lat TV,
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  Speaker 18: and I just started realizing when you put your presence
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  Speaker 18: out there to all these younger generations, the new kids
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  Speaker 18: that really don't know us, they know g Unit or
• 12:21
  Speaker 18: some people do remember, like when I go on tour,
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  Speaker 18: it'd be like, yeah, my father used to play or
• 12:25
  Speaker 18: my moms used to play Gen Unit, so it passed
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  Speaker 18: down to that generation. So I'm going on my own
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  Speaker 18: tours and you know, I'm just making myself valuable man,
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  Speaker 18: putting that work in.
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  Speaker 2: That upset you when you heard fifty day always lazy.
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  Speaker 18: Nah, Not even that motivates because at a point sometimes
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  Speaker 18: you do get lazy. Our careers. We was kind of spoiled.
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  Speaker 18: Think about it. We had fifty where he was doing
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  Speaker 18: everything for us. So as for like when we was
• 12:47
  Speaker 18: coming out, you had the young guns, for instance, I
• 12:49
  Speaker 18: remember Harvan saying, Jay is not gonna do what fifty
• 12:53
  Speaker 18: does for young guns. He was saying it in front
• 12:55
  Speaker 18: of their face. Y'all got fifty like fifty was, you know,
• 12:57
  Speaker 18: help us be in the videos. I can beg for that.
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  Speaker 18: When he dropped, he when he shold eleven million records,
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  Speaker 18: he drove, begged for mercy. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 18: I was in jail, you know, him and Eminem was
• 13:06
  Speaker 18: shotting me out. So I always showed my love to him.
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  Speaker 18: I know how fifty is he you know, y'all the
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  Speaker 18: same sign y'all crazy.
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  Speaker 20: You know.
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  Speaker 2: So it's a all good, you know.
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  Speaker 18: But it just motivated me to work because I see
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  Speaker 18: how he worked.
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: We'll be on tour.
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  Speaker 18: We'll leave tour to go on movie set, go back,
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  Speaker 18: go to the gym, twice a day.
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  Speaker 2: I'm tired, you know.
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: I mean the Free Aale movement was a movement within itself,
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  Speaker 3: Like I don't think we talk about about that, and
• 13:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know why. Randomly, I was thinking the other
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: day about when they shouted you out of there. I
• 13:32
  Speaker 3: think it was the Grand It was Eminem And that's
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: why I always shout out Eminem. You know what I'm saying,
• 13:35
  Speaker 3: Because he didn't have to do that. I was on
• 13:38
  Speaker 3: right because allen Ce seventy three too low.
• 13:40
  Speaker 8: Now this move right here, this hand in front of
• 13:43
  Speaker 8: the face. Where did that move come from? Because you know,
• 13:45
  Speaker 8: of course we've known you doing that for years. Where
• 13:48
  Speaker 8: did that come to?
• 13:48
  Speaker 18: That really came because I was on the run, like
• 13:51
  Speaker 18: I was at that point when we was in the club,
• 13:53
  Speaker 18: I was running like fifty was like yo. He said
• 13:55
  Speaker 18: to me, you know we had this judge, Judge Wong
• 13:57
  Speaker 18: and Queen's everybody knowing no joke, and he was like, Yo,
• 14:00
  Speaker 18: what are you gonna do? You're gonna go to court
• 14:02
  Speaker 18: or go on tour and we're blowing up now mixtapes
• 14:05
  Speaker 18: are crazy, but playing us everywhere, I'm like, yo, I'm running.
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: So when you're John Cena, just I guess jacket.
• 14:14
  Speaker 18: John Cena, he gives you credit, right, John Cena said,
• 14:17
  Speaker 18: his little brother, I believe did it, and his little
• 14:20
  Speaker 18: brother did him to do it, and I guess he
• 14:22
  Speaker 18: did it in the match. And it just got crazy
• 14:25
  Speaker 18: when you see the Reese doing what did you doate?
• 14:27
  Speaker 18: She made it, She took it to a whole other level.
• 14:29
  Speaker 18: She brought it back, had me trending for shelter, She
• 14:32
  Speaker 18: had me trending for you know, the whole week, and
• 14:34
  Speaker 18: then did it before her, right, Yeah. So it was
• 14:38
  Speaker 18: just like I mean, with that situation was crazy because
• 14:40
  Speaker 18: like you said, the black girl did it and it
• 14:41
  Speaker 18: was a problem then when before, Yeah, it was a problem.
• 14:45
  Speaker 18: So I addressed that, you know what I mean. I
• 14:47
  Speaker 18: talked about that too. That's crazy because when we playing
• 14:50
  Speaker 18: ball in the hood, you know, it's competitive.
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: Whatever you do, when you do your call shows, you
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: in competition.
• 14:54
  Speaker 9: That's right.
• 14:55
  Speaker 18: I see you go at people here. Y'all got the
• 14:57
  Speaker 18: best call shows in the world. None of y'all can
• 14:59
  Speaker 18: mess with me. I don't know how you get all
• 15:00
  Speaker 18: these cars.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: You said it, not me, but that.
• 15:03
  Speaker 18: I told fifty he might as well just leave all
• 15:05
  Speaker 18: his cars with you brother.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: You know, Fifth calls me and he'd be like, let
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: me get the call and I'll give him back his call.
• 15:11
  Speaker 8: You know, I usually have his Lambo or his Rolls
• 15:13
  Speaker 8: Royce and he driving for one day and then it sits,
• 15:15
  Speaker 8: and then he loses the key, and then I gotta
• 15:17
  Speaker 8: go get it again.
• 15:20
  Speaker 4: Playing around.
• 15:21
  Speaker 8: I want to go back, right, I know, yeah, you
• 15:23
  Speaker 8: a long time. Where do you think in your career
• 15:26
  Speaker 8: happened where you didn't go to that next level?
• 15:28
  Speaker 18: Right?
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: And I asked Fifty that and he said he thinks
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: it was the picking of the wrong single. What do
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: you what do you think it was interesting?
• 15:35
  Speaker 18: I think it was just a lot of drama within
• 15:37
  Speaker 18: the scope. When I came home, you know what I mean.
• 15:39
  Speaker 18: You had Fifty, he was Curtis, I'm Curtis Inerscope Jackson,
• 15:42
  Speaker 18: you know, and Jimmy ivin. You know, you had Game flipping,
• 15:45
  Speaker 18: and like it was just confusing to me because I
• 15:48
  Speaker 18: was on Game album and then you know, the game
• 15:51
  Speaker 18: thing happened and it was like, Yo, he's on the
• 15:53
  Speaker 18: same label as us, so why did he not just
• 15:56
  Speaker 18: get rid of him? You know, Fifty so more reckless
• 15:58
  Speaker 18: than the moment whatever it was like it was like
• 16:00
  Speaker 18: it was like a war in our own house because
• 16:02
  Speaker 18: you had record, you had the thing, Yes, I.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Had social doctor you don't love me?
• 16:07
  Speaker 18: Had I know you don't love me and pimping right,
• 16:09
  Speaker 18: But you gotta remember I came in the midst of
• 16:12
  Speaker 18: the fifty in the Scope drama con he was I'm
• 16:16
  Speaker 18: my own boss, you know how to you know how?
• 16:19
  Speaker 18: So I think sometimes and at that point we had
• 16:21
  Speaker 18: so many enemies. It was like we wasn't getting a
• 16:23
  Speaker 18: feature or nothing like you wasn't like we came to
• 16:25
  Speaker 18: a point where we never used anybody, like it was
• 16:28
  Speaker 18: just me Banks in fifty. You know, fifty never looked
• 16:31
  Speaker 18: to do features with nobody, so you know how it is.
• 16:34
  Speaker 18: It felt like everybody was against stuffs at that point
• 16:36
  Speaker 18: because nobody really messed with fifty in the industry, like
• 16:38
  Speaker 18: that'll mess with us.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: That's what it was. The crazy story that you was like,
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: we might not make it out of here.
• 16:44
  Speaker 18: I wouldn't say we we were scared, but I could
• 16:46
  Speaker 18: say it was the Vibe Awards when we seen Shooe
• 16:49
  Speaker 18: Knight and earth Gotti and they walked past the trailer.
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: It is what it is.
• 16:53
  Speaker 18: We in New York but we in LA. You know
• 16:55
  Speaker 18: what I'm saying. We New York dudes, We in La.
• 16:57
  Speaker 18: You know what I'm saying. So you see Shook Knight.
• 16:59
  Speaker 18: You always heard about this guy, you know TV magazines,
• 17:02
  Speaker 18: but you know I never had in the club was
• 17:04
  Speaker 18: the first running, but this was the second. So he
• 17:06
  Speaker 18: walks past the trailer with EARV and fifty. Just look
• 17:10
  Speaker 18: at James Cruise. James Cruse, you know, shout to him.
• 17:12
  Speaker 18: He was a little Shames Scrus is always in a situation.
• 17:15
  Speaker 18: Industry guy. He got to run around with fifty bulletpoof vests.
• 17:18
  Speaker 18: You know, Chris Lidy was in the trenches.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: It's crazy.
• 17:20
  Speaker 18: So he just tapped James CRUs and say, yo, go
• 17:22
  Speaker 18: buy twenty knoives, go.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: By twenty knobs.
• 17:25
  Speaker 18: Yeah, just go to the Hallway store. I'm like, that's
• 17:27
  Speaker 18: what we're gonna do. Just seem you know, they might
• 17:30
  Speaker 18: get crazy. It was about twenty to fifteen or or
• 17:33
  Speaker 18: something like that. So James Cruse goes to the Hallway
• 17:35
  Speaker 18: store by twenty knives. He gives the bags fifty, handing
• 17:39
  Speaker 18: them out and then you know when we got there,
• 17:40
  Speaker 18: we had beef with Fat Joe.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: At that point.
• 17:43
  Speaker 18: We doctor Dre's there, so you know that's obviously a
• 17:45
  Speaker 18: beef for shig Knight.
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: Shi Night got like some.
• 17:47
  Speaker 18: Crazy looking Compton looking dudes with him, you know what
• 17:50
  Speaker 18: I'm saying. So it just you felt the energy to
• 17:52
  Speaker 18: where we had our chairs like this. You're watching the show,
• 17:54
  Speaker 18: watch watching the show. We had this like yo, you
• 17:57
  Speaker 18: felt the energy like you felt something was gonna go down.
• 18:00
  Speaker 18: And that's when you know we wasn't taking pictures back then.
• 18:02
  Speaker 18: So I guess he has Dre for the autograph pops
• 18:05
  Speaker 18: on Dre Dra falls, but he alady might get up
• 18:08
  Speaker 18: start popping on him, and it just got crazy. Na
• 18:10
  Speaker 18: I started coming from everywhere, and that's when you know
• 18:12
  Speaker 18: one of the dudes got stabbed.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: So my question is if there was twenty knins, how
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: come only young Buck didn't stab him?
• 18:17
  Speaker 18: No, that dude got stabbed in the chest. Young Buck
• 18:19
  Speaker 18: stabbed him with a fuck. I don't know where that got.
• 18:23
  Speaker 18: I don't know where you.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Just came with the fault. Nobody gave bucket knife. Nah,
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: but no, I don't know what. That's why I was tripping.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: I know I had one.
• 18:32
  Speaker 18: Anybody else did you know what I'm saying? But Buck,
• 18:34
  Speaker 18: matter of fact him and Banks was backstage.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: They was about to.
• 18:37
  Speaker 18: Perform, and he just came with the fuck as soon
• 18:41
  Speaker 18: as they started talking that time, when they started, we
• 18:43
  Speaker 18: went back to the mansion after that happened because the
• 18:46
  Speaker 18: kid got stabbed in the chests. He collapsed everything. The
• 18:48
  Speaker 18: fork wasn't nothing, And we got back to the mansion
• 18:51
  Speaker 18: and it was on the news. It was like attempted murder,
• 18:54
  Speaker 18: young Buck. Young Buck was like, I ain't do that, mate,
• 18:59
  Speaker 18: switch up with that time. That's why be standing out
• 19:04
  Speaker 18: was like, I ain't do that, man, because your buck
• 19:07
  Speaker 18: hit him with the funck. He ain't stabbing him in
• 19:08
  Speaker 18: the chest.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: He kind of ran with the story though, didn't. I mean,
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: you know, come on, man, Rappers man, we got more
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: with Tony Yao. When we come back to Breakfast Club.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Good morning, the Breakfast Club Morning.
• 19:25
  Speaker 8: Everybody's d j Envy Charlamagne the guy. We are the
• 19:28
  Speaker 8: Breakfast Club. Our co host B Scott is here and
• 19:31
  Speaker 8: we're still kicking it with Tony Yao.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Charlamagne.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: What about that stabbing when you talk you mentioned it
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: briefly though, Oh and Sony, yeah, was it a real stabbing.
• 19:39
  Speaker 18: It was a real stabbing. I'm gonna tell you what happened.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 19:43
  Speaker 18: We was in the studio and that was that's Sony, right, Sony.
• 19:46
  Speaker 18: Remember they had the one across the street and they
• 19:48
  Speaker 18: had the big building, the.
• 19:49
  Speaker 8: Big buildings where everybody would say Michael Jackson would take
• 19:52
  Speaker 8: on the rooms, right right.
• 19:53
  Speaker 18: So we walking in and at that time, I think
• 19:57
  Speaker 18: we've seen Wyd Cleft and you know, I think I
• 19:59
  Speaker 18: think was there was Haitian Jack, then Haitian Jack. We
• 20:03
  Speaker 18: see them in the lobby. It's just me and fifty. Yeah,
• 20:07
  Speaker 18: you know back, Yeah, they was all in the lobby
• 20:09
  Speaker 18: with Cleft. We've seen Clef and I think Prizewell was
• 20:13
  Speaker 18: there too or whatever. So you know, we go upstairs,
• 20:16
  Speaker 18: but we're not worried about Fifth. I swear have got
• 20:18
  Speaker 18: fifth got I don't got nothing on me. Fifth got
• 20:20
  Speaker 18: a fourth to fifth, No safety on them. We go upstairs.
• 20:23
  Speaker 18: We got a session. So Clark Kent, his nephew, ended
• 20:26
  Speaker 18: up being a DJ Giz. But Giz was not really
• 20:29
  Speaker 18: a street dude. He was just a cool dude, you know,
• 20:32
  Speaker 18: shout to Clark Kent. He was just like, yo, here, fifty,
• 20:34
  Speaker 18: I got a DJ for you.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Right. So we go in the studio we're supposed to record. Now.
• 20:39
  Speaker 18: The studio is small. It's a small room and it's
• 20:42
  Speaker 18: a small hallway. So in the next room is Tony Poke.
• 20:47
  Speaker 18: They working on beats, and me, fifty and Gears is
• 20:50
  Speaker 18: in the room with the enginet. Forgot what fifty was
• 20:52
  Speaker 18: working on. I guess I'm gonna keep it real. I
• 20:54
  Speaker 18: don't know was sin of Sony. I think in my mind,
• 20:58
  Speaker 18: I think Prizewell said something. I don't know why, like
• 21:01
  Speaker 18: he must, you know we he I think he said something,
• 21:05
  Speaker 18: keep it really. I don't think this true, trust me.
• 21:09
  Speaker 18: That was the information that was you know what I
• 21:11
  Speaker 18: mean that prize Well said something to Jah ruined him.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: So we in the room. You just hear boo boo
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: boo commotion. These dudes come in like it's.
• 21:20
  Speaker 18: A movie, like, yo, what's up now?
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: But they ain't.
• 21:22
  Speaker 18: It's no guns, nothing, it's nothing really. All you see
• 21:25
  Speaker 18: his crutches and like like stuff picked up from the studio.
• 21:28
  Speaker 18: And I guess one of them had like a kitchen knight.
• 21:31
  Speaker 18: So it was was Earth the No, it was Earth Brother.
• 21:34
  Speaker 18: I think it was Black Child at that point, Joe,
• 21:37
  Speaker 18: I think somebody else. But so we started to get
• 21:40
  Speaker 18: it on. Nobody turned off the light while we're getting
• 21:42
  Speaker 18: it on. The light like turned off because you know how,
• 21:45
  Speaker 18: somebody bump into the switch.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: So we fighting.
• 21:47
  Speaker 18: Everything is dark. You don't know what's going on. You
• 21:49
  Speaker 18: just hit melee so or you heard get the gun.
• 21:52
  Speaker 18: You know, Fish bluffed them because the gun was in
• 21:54
  Speaker 18: the other room. That's why I said, Jo ruin. He
• 21:56
  Speaker 18: wouldn't even be it. He would have been gone. Like
• 21:59
  Speaker 18: our career, this would have been totally different if that
• 22:01
  Speaker 18: gun was in that room. And I swear on my
• 22:03
  Speaker 18: dead father, like I'm telling you the truth. The gun
• 22:06
  Speaker 18: was in the other room. I've seen it. I'm saying
• 22:08
  Speaker 18: with my own two hours they come in, we get
• 22:10
  Speaker 18: it on, Boom boo boom, get the gun.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: They run out.
• 22:12
  Speaker 18: Fifty or speak at one of them. I don't know
• 22:14
  Speaker 18: if it was earth brother whoever. I seen him through
• 22:17
  Speaker 18: speaking said get the gun. Once they hurt, get the gun.
• 22:19
  Speaker 18: Everybody started running out. But the gun was in the
• 22:22
  Speaker 18: other room, and that was it. Fifty had a scratch
• 22:24
  Speaker 18: on his back right and I got stabbed in my
• 22:27
  Speaker 18: hands and my finger was like cut right here. So
• 22:29
  Speaker 18: look it looked crazy because it was hanging a little bit.
• 22:32
  Speaker 18: But look, this is all I got that and that
• 22:35
  Speaker 18: that was it.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: You got to think about how blessed y'all are, because
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: think about all the violence y'all escape, because I ain't
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: never even heard about the shooting that happened before the
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: young man got slapped, right.
• 22:44
  Speaker 18: Nah, but it's after that house get yeah, yeah, it's cool.
• 22:47
  Speaker 18: But I always looked at it like this, bro, if
• 22:48
  Speaker 18: I slapped your kid or your kid, what are you
• 22:50
  Speaker 18: gonna You're gonna you got the right, it's all gloves
• 22:54
  Speaker 18: off and it's all good.
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: But then y'all g unit officers got shot up before
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: y'all missed. A lot of bullets, is what I'm saying.
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: I'm a crib like.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: It was a lot of bullet you know. It's crazy.
• 23:03
  Speaker 18: And I always think God, like I always seen my
• 23:05
  Speaker 18: prayers before I left the house, because I remember one
• 23:07
  Speaker 18: day I had a plaque and people won't even believe
• 23:09
  Speaker 18: his story, and a bullet fell out of it and
• 23:11
  Speaker 18: my father found it.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: He was staying with me.
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: At the time.
• 23:14
  Speaker 18: The next day, my mom's crib got shot up, or
• 23:16
  Speaker 18: could have been the same day, like when my mom's
• 23:18
  Speaker 18: crib got shot up. So I mean, you know, God
• 23:20
  Speaker 18: is good, bro, A bullet your plaque a bullet Like
• 23:22
  Speaker 18: I had a fifty cent plaque and it got bullets
• 23:25
  Speaker 18: in it and it's above my door, and my father
• 23:27
  Speaker 18: found it. He's like if somebody shot the house up,
• 23:29
  Speaker 18: And I'm like, nah, that fell.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Off the plaque.
• 23:31
  Speaker 18: And the next day, like my mom's crib got shot up.
• 23:34
  Speaker 18: So you get signs, you know, to be low and
• 23:36
  Speaker 18: you gotta move right because one thing about us is
• 23:38
  Speaker 18: we knew how to move like, all right, cool, if
• 23:40
  Speaker 18: it's hot, cool.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: I'm good.
• 23:42
  Speaker 18: Like when my mom's crib got shot up. I went
• 23:43
  Speaker 18: out there and was looking to do stuff and fifty
• 23:46
  Speaker 18: called me like, yo, bro, you're outside. You got something
• 23:49
  Speaker 18: on you. You're bugging out. Bro use your brain. Bro,
• 23:52
  Speaker 18: it's checks not checkers.
• 23:53
  Speaker 8: That's why I say, you know, it must have been
• 23:55
  Speaker 8: like seven eight years ago to see you in fifty
• 23:59
  Speaker 8: enjoying which'all didn't have before. But I mean because they
• 24:02
  Speaker 8: couldn't go to the clubs and experience the records like
• 24:05
  Speaker 8: y'all should have.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Y'all couldn't go to these events and go to these things.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: And it wasn't because of the rappers.
• 24:09
  Speaker 18: It was mainly because of the hip Hop Police, because
• 24:11
  Speaker 18: there was times where they'd be like, no genune and
• 24:13
  Speaker 18: no dipset in the clubs all the clubs in Manhattan.
• 24:16
  Speaker 18: So hip hop police. You remember Curly Top, He's retired
• 24:18
  Speaker 18: now hip Hop police, they all retired. There's all new
• 24:21
  Speaker 18: ones now for the dudes that will follow TJ and
• 24:24
  Speaker 18: all these dudes in the city and all the young
• 24:26
  Speaker 18: dudes now. But all them dudes are retired. But them
• 24:29
  Speaker 18: dudes used to tell us, yo, you can't come to
• 24:31
  Speaker 18: this club. You know much money we missed out though.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Definitely good to see that, man. Yeah, they could grab
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: it on the Welcome to the culture. Thank you what
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: I've seen you in? You screaming on math? How for
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: what happened with with that?
• 24:43
  Speaker 21: No?
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: How feem is good.
• 24:44
  Speaker 18: I just feel like sometimes like when you go online
• 24:47
  Speaker 18: and just be like it just felt like clickbait, like
• 24:49
  Speaker 18: you asking me can I pick up the phone for
• 24:52
  Speaker 18: banks and fifties around They both my friends. I'm a
• 24:54
  Speaker 18: grown ass, you know, man, what are you talking about?
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: You want to do music? Yeah? I just dropped the
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: mixtape loyal Oh right, well, we appreciate you for joining us.
• 25:02
  Speaker 8: Check out the podcast The Coach to the Coaching podcast
• 25:05
  Speaker 8: is Tony Yao.
• 25:06
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• 25:08
  Speaker 18: You've been up here before, Yeah, but I'm by myself now.
• 25:11
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• 25:32
  Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred five five one five
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: one to join in to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
• 25:40
  Speaker 8: Warning everybody, it's DJ Envy Charlamagne the gud we are
• 25:44
  Speaker 8: the Breakfast Club.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Now if he just joined us. A young lady named
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Lima called this morning. She wanted to know.
• 25:51
  Speaker 8: I don't know if she who she's dealing with, but
• 25:52
  Speaker 8: she wanted to know if you are a liar or Cheatah,
• 25:54
  Speaker 8: Are you born like that or is it learned behavior?
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: To Charlamagne, I don't think you're born a liar. I
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: think that you know. Kids lie, and you see that
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: we all got young kids. You know what I'm saying.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Kids lie simply because they don't want to get in trouble.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: So I think that's a form of self preservation. I
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: think when it comes to infidelity and cheating, that is
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: absolutely positively uh learned behavior one.
• 26:17
  Speaker 10: Hello, who is Vanessa?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Hey, Vanessa, talk to us. Vanessa.
• 26:21
  Speaker 16: Well, I want to say good morning and thank you.
• 26:23
  Speaker 19: That's so much for having inert in the morning and
• 26:27
  Speaker 19: we all listen to you appreciate it.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: That that's Vanessa. Your phone is crazy. You got us
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: on bluetooth for speaker.
• 26:34
  Speaker 16: No, I do not.
• 26:35
  Speaker 13: I have had that.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we could barely hear you. Can you take us
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: off that headset right fast?
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry and thank you Vanessa too. We appreciate you
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: listening and appreciating us.
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  Speaker 16: Ah, good morning.
• 26:46
  Speaker 19: Can y'all hear me?
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Bet ye?
• 26:48
  Speaker 13: Okay.
• 26:49
  Speaker 16: So my thoughts, I think it's a genetic behavioral trade.
• 26:53
  Speaker 16: I think that when you grow up in a household
• 26:56
  Speaker 16: and somebody in that family goes along with that behavior
• 27:00
  Speaker 16: of cheating and lying, I think it passes down to
• 27:03
  Speaker 16: their kids. With that being said, I could grow up
• 27:07
  Speaker 16: in the house old with my father.
• 27:08
  Speaker 19: She's not my mother, and he brought me along to
• 27:12
  Speaker 19: every female day that he had.
• 27:13
  Speaker 16: Because they had children. And then we somehow said that
• 27:16
  Speaker 16: a night.
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: Damn no.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: So so how you grew up? You got a bunch
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: of step mommies.
• 27:21
  Speaker 16: Yes, I have an oldest sister that nothing about. She's
• 27:27
  Speaker 16: an another country.
• 27:28
  Speaker 19: And keep in Mama, that is Hispanic. That's why I
• 27:31
  Speaker 19: don't saw all his fancy and he just all cheat around.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Damn it. Man, So you don't date his fanic men.
• 27:37
  Speaker 22: I do not.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: That's right, you date black men because black men don't
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: cheat exactly.
• 27:42
  Speaker 16: That's right that Caucasians, but they're most honest, honestly, Jesus.
• 27:48
  Speaker 19: I just think that said with saying that my father,
• 27:52
  Speaker 19: he taught my brother that that's the game of life.
• 27:56
  Speaker 19: You cannot just have one so that you need have
• 27:58
  Speaker 19: the mob.
• 27:59
  Speaker 10: Do not be sending.
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: My daddy told me that when I was young, though,
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: my daddy literally looked me, looked at me and said, oh,
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: you only got one girlfriend. No, as I got older
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: and we got older, he said I was absolutely right
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: to have one woman. But you know, when I was young,
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: he definitely messed me up.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this?
• 28:15
  Speaker 9: This is Brian? How you doing?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Brian? What's going on?
• 28:18
  Speaker 9: So I think that it's the parent's fault and here's why. Okay,
• 28:23
  Speaker 9: we inadvertently teach our kids to lie when they're young
• 28:27
  Speaker 9: and they hear us talking to our significant other.
• 28:31
  Speaker 23: And let's just.
• 28:32
  Speaker 9: Hypothetically, say someone knocks at the door and you see
• 28:36
  Speaker 9: who it is.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: You tell him I'm not here.
• 28:42
  Speaker 8: You're right, you're right, because I remember Jehovah Whitneys used
• 28:45
  Speaker 8: to come knocking on the doors and my parents would
• 28:48
  Speaker 8: be like, tell me that home.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: You right. Well, guess what I was a Jehovah witness.
• 28:52
  Speaker 12: I was.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: I was the person going out on field to the
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: field service every Saturday with my mom and my sister
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: and knocking on those doors.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: U's okay, So all y'all dishonest people.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: Okay, I hope y'all don't make it into heaven because
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: y'all don't be come one in one hundred and.
• 29:08
  Speaker 8: Because even because even when people call, like your mom
• 29:11
  Speaker 8: and daddy be like, tell them I'm sleeping.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: So you're right, exactly exactly. Damn.
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: That's a good point, brother, That is a fantastic Now,
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: that's the perfect point because we all do that.
• 29:23
  Speaker 8: We all do that to our kids or our kids
• 29:24
  Speaker 8: to hear us, but who call it or don't answer
• 29:26
  Speaker 8: the phone.
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: I'm for it all the time.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: That's why I tell my kids. When you do in
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: the doorbell ring or somebody knots, don't go to it.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: You go get an adult, all right. So when you
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: go get that adult, that adult can make the executive decision.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: That's when you tell the adult. Hey telling people I
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: ain't here, right, that's a lie. But but I'm telling
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: that to the adult, not the kids. But they can't
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: hear it, No they don't. That's what you gotta whisper you.
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: You don't got to you know how to use the
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: inside voice, use your inside voice.
• 29:51
  Speaker 8: Or somebody come ask you for money and you say
• 29:52
  Speaker 8: I ain't got it, your kids know you got that's
• 29:54
  Speaker 8: a lot.
• 29:54
  Speaker 11: No, no, no, no, no, no no.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: I tell my kids that. No, it's perfectly okay to say.
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: All right, trust me. My oldest daughter hears those conversations
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: when people calling me.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: She hears though that.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: I tell her straight up, like you can't. You can't
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: just do for everybody, you know, But what's the more
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: other story? I don't know, we heard a bunch of
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: them just now. I didn't lie just now. I don't
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: know I heard a bunch of them, did I personally
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: think that all of this stuff is a learned behavior,
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: you know, because when you're young and you lie as
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: a child, is just self preservation. I don't think you're
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: necessarily you have I don't think you have the attention
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: of I'm lying. You're just trying to save yourself and
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: protect yourself.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Okay, I guess the breakfast slug of morning the Breakfast Club.
• 30:42
  Speaker 8: Everybody is DJ n V Charlamagne the God. We are
• 30:45
  Speaker 8: the Breakfast Club. We got our guest host with us, Yes, indeed,
• 30:48
  Speaker 8: Erica Dutchess, she's here, she's joining us. And we got
• 30:51
  Speaker 8: some special guests in the building.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: How you pronounced it?
• 30:59
  Speaker 10: Is it it?
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: I used to struggle with it too.
• 31:02
  Speaker 8: Yeah, but we got the homie Withdy mclady he's been
• 31:05
  Speaker 8: here before and Lavell Adams great welcome.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: Yes, indeed, that's right. Absolutely, Caden drew from power Book
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: to man y'all.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: It's funny, right because y'all got to be some of
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: the most famous people in black coaches at the moment,
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: you know, think.
• 31:18
  Speaker 5: So it's been love, man, Yeah, it's been loved. People
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: come up to you, smack you in the airport like
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: it's crazy.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: It's cracky, I know anywhere.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: It was in the airport. Lady had a baby, white lady.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: She was like, I love what you're doing. Appreciate it.
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: But it just caught me, you know what I mean,
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: caught me off guard. But yeah, it's been love. That's
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: a lot of love. Yeah, I got that in.
• 31:38
  Speaker 21: I think it's smacked. But the dude stopped me. It
• 31:40
  Speaker 21: was like, bro, I know you right, like you've you've
• 31:42
  Speaker 21: been in Houston. I'm like, listen, I've never been using
• 31:44
  Speaker 21: my life, so I know I've never met before, you know,
• 31:47
  Speaker 21: and like it was it was definitely from the show,
• 31:50
  Speaker 21: but you know it was it was funny, like.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: He started the character you played. Way did he smack?
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: You just tell us it was?
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: It was on my arm?
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: Okay, just making sure the book season three? Actually yeah, yes, yeah, yeah, yes,
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: it's been a next season. So the last two episodes
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: are gonna be crazy and I have not watched them
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: even though they leaked.
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: Appreciate that.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: Okay, how can y'all top with y'all done?
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: I think you know the writers have you know, only
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: gotten better.
• 32:14
  Speaker 21: Brad really cares about the show, the showrunner and really
• 32:17
  Speaker 21: takes care of us and it's invested on making it
• 32:19
  Speaker 21: new and exciting and truthful.
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: I think that you know, you keep it truthful and
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: you know it tops itself, I think.
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: And a whole lot of drama. You know, Twitter loves drama,
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: so I think they've been doing a great job with it.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: And you've been in love the whole damn season. I know, Man,
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: how that go from being a gangster. You're still a gangster,
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: but you're in love now.
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: On the show, being in love is kind of boring
• 32:39
  Speaker 5: to me, is boring. I'm like, man, I'm ready to
• 32:42
  Speaker 5: catch your body. It's crazy, horrible, right, It's a horrible
• 32:46
  Speaker 5: way to think. But that show has definitely altered my
• 32:49
  Speaker 5: mind to think like that.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: It's weird.
• 32:50
  Speaker 4: It's like, man, I love a scene like, man, when
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: do I pop somebody?
• 32:54
  Speaker 8: But I was going to ask, how does that change
• 32:55
  Speaker 8: your character? Because now you're into this, right, you want
• 32:58
  Speaker 8: to pop somebody? So now if somebody says something you
• 33:01
  Speaker 8: think like.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: Are you still in character? Like what you say? Are
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: you still like that? Or do you get out of character?
• 33:06
  Speaker 22: Nah?
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: I get out of character. I get out of character.
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: But it depends if I'm with my family, I'm still
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: in it. A little bit because you know.
• 33:13
  Speaker 5: People don't really respect boundaries. Nah, they and because we're
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: on TV, we're no longer human, you know what I mean.
• 33:18
  Speaker 5: I just feel like everybody treat just like an item.
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: So it's like I'm always like just thinking about those
• 33:23
  Speaker 5: things and making sure my family is straight while I'm outside.
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: But it's always been loved though, and.
• 33:26
  Speaker 8: It has to be different, right because because of the
• 33:29
  Speaker 8: characters that you play, you have like very different demographics.
• 33:32
  Speaker 8: Like you have the young people that might follow this,
• 33:34
  Speaker 8: but then you have the older people that love you
• 33:36
  Speaker 8: and this, So how does that work?
• 33:38
  Speaker 4: No, it's for me.
• 33:39
  Speaker 5: I know, like I've been to like the hoodies of
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: the hoods and people like, yo, that's you me up there,
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: Like I appreciate that, and I'm like, oh, thank you.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: So I always say police tell you that he I
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: relate the character King, that's me.
• 33:56
  Speaker 8: Demographics love you and the younger demographics love you. Revel
• 34:00
  Speaker 8: because the new edition you got your aunties and grandma's
• 34:04
  Speaker 8: that know them for new addition that show a different
• 34:06
  Speaker 8: type of love.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: But then you got homies from the corner that look
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: at him differently.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: So that's interesting, I thought, I thought, because I thought
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: that there was a young demo that watched The Bobby
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: Brown Story New Edition too.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: I feel like that introduced them to a new audience.
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: No, absolutely, for sure. I agree.
• 34:19
  Speaker 5: I agree, yeah, because my kids love it. The kids
• 34:22
  Speaker 5: call me Bobby Brown, you Bobby Bro, and you get
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: tired of that.
• 34:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: I feel like I can't trump Bobby though. No, yes, man,
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: right now, and the culture. I don't know, Bro, but
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I've seen him in the hall. The first thing I
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: thought it was Bobby.
• 34:37
  Speaker 5: I was like, that's what I thought, man, But I
• 34:41
  Speaker 5: mean no, I mean I was just watching the fight
• 34:44
  Speaker 5: and it was just white guy.
• 34:45
  Speaker 4: He was like, Yo, Caine and the OI.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: But he was like, but I'm like, that's crazy, son,
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: Like a little flirt right there, I was. I don't
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: know New York.
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: So nobody really tripped on it.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: It was crazy. Would have.
• 35:03
  Speaker 7: Power.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: One of them shows that the culture really gets involved
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: in meeting that absolute When it's on, everybody tweeting about it,
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: it's like it's like a family gathering and then people
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: talking about what happened, you know, that night on social
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: media afterwards. People care about y'all personal lives, like that's rare.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: Everybody don't get that, you know, I think.
• 35:21
  Speaker 21: It's it's an important thing, you know, to separate the
• 35:24
  Speaker 21: character from the from the from the actor. You know,
• 35:26
  Speaker 21: like we watched like Daniel d Lewis. We don't think
• 35:29
  Speaker 21: like he's you know, built a butcher and you know,
• 35:33
  Speaker 21: what's his name, Daniel Daniel playing View. You know, we
• 35:36
  Speaker 21: just look at him like that's a that's a really
• 35:38
  Speaker 21: dope artist, right. I think, like you playing Bobby Brown,
• 35:41
  Speaker 21: you're playing Kane, like that's a testament to your artistry.
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: I appreciate that, bro.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: But you know, you do a fantastic plan. You do
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: a fantastic job playing Drew. And the crazy part is
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: everybody's like, oh, is he really you know, really gay?
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: And I'm like does it matter? You know what I'm saying, like,
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: what do it matter? If Lavelle was like, what does
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: it matter?
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: I don't think it does matter, you know.
• 36:02
  Speaker 21: I think that, you know, like it's important to separate
• 36:05
  Speaker 21: those things, you know, important to separate the personal from
• 36:08
  Speaker 21: from the work, because I have to be able to
• 36:11
  Speaker 21: play everything as an artist, you know, that's that's our
• 36:14
  Speaker 21: our job is to tell the story and tell it
• 36:16
  Speaker 21: as truthfully as possible, you know, like if I was
• 36:19
  Speaker 21: playing you know your life story right, and you watch
• 36:22
  Speaker 21: it and go like, you're not you're not telling the truth.
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: I'm doing you a disservice paying.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: Some people saying when you see the.
• 36:38
  Speaker 8: Script, was there any doubts like wow, maybe I don't
• 36:40
  Speaker 8: want to play that, or it was like, no, I'm
• 36:42
  Speaker 8: an act and this is what I'm gonna do, regardless.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: Of what people. That's what it was.
• 36:44
  Speaker 9: Man.
• 36:44
  Speaker 21: I'm an actor, you know, and I have to tell
• 36:47
  Speaker 21: the truth. And if I'm not telling the truth as
• 36:48
  Speaker 21: an artist, then get me out and show.
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
• 36:50
  Speaker 21: Like if I'm not going, if I'm not committing one
• 36:53
  Speaker 21: hundred percent, then I don't deserve the part.
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: And that's just how I see it.
• 36:57
  Speaker 21: Like, you know what, regardless of whatever it is, whatever
• 37:00
  Speaker 21: role it is, it's like if you're putting in the work,
• 37:03
  Speaker 21: investigating in yourself and trying to tell the truth, and
• 37:05
  Speaker 21: you know you deserve to be on that platform and
• 37:07
  Speaker 21: tell that story.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: It's an interesting social experiment though whenever there's a love
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: making scene between a man and a woman, nobody cares,
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: but we see it pop up on Power or one
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: of those other shows.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: Everybody's up in arms. Ah, man, I can't watch this. Man.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm gonna tell starts. If they don't stop
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: doing this, I'm not gonna watch. But I'm like our
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: people will be like, why why do nobody ever asked that?
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: What is men and women?
• 37:28
  Speaker 18: You know?
• 37:29
  Speaker 21: You know, I think you know if you're talking about
• 37:32
  Speaker 21: the first first uh power power Amari Hardwick and Laila
• 37:38
  Speaker 21: Leela look really good together though, you know, like like
• 37:42
  Speaker 21: there's back muscles and everything like that, so I understand, like,
• 37:45
  Speaker 21: you know, the the aesthetic is what we're used to,
• 37:48
  Speaker 21: and we're not used to seeing queer love making on,
• 37:50
  Speaker 21: especially on a mainstream.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Show like this, and but it's real life and it happens.
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: It's real life and it happens. And I think my
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: biggest thing was like I haven't gotten the back yet,
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: like my heart was back. I haven't gotten that.
• 38:01
  Speaker 21: Like physical physical like strength because you know what I mean,
• 38:04
  Speaker 21: Like I just turned thirty one, so I'm like I
• 38:06
  Speaker 21: still got to like get my man meat on.
• 38:08
  Speaker 20: But I'm.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Not like that like that you practice.
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: I'm talking about you.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Need your man your man body, you know, and like
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: and so like.
• 38:28
  Speaker 21: That's that's whenever I have those scenes, I'm like, I
• 38:30
  Speaker 21: want to make sure I look as good as possible.
• 38:32
  Speaker 21: I want to make you know what I mean, I
• 38:33
  Speaker 21: want to look good. And that's you know the same
• 38:35
  Speaker 21: thing with Caine, Like you want to make sure he looks.
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: Good, said the bar So. I remember reading the tweets.
• 38:41
  Speaker 5: Somebody was like, Kane looks like a college dropout kid
• 38:44
  Speaker 5: that just play Call of Duty.
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: And I was like, damn, I need to get in
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: the gym. Oh for sure, that's all I think.
• 38:50
  Speaker 5: I hear that in my ears while I'm like, you
• 38:52
  Speaker 5: know what I mean when I'm like running out of energy,
• 38:54
  Speaker 5: I just hear him saying, like college drop out body,
• 38:57
  Speaker 5: I'm going crazy.
• 38:58
  Speaker 8: When we come back, we got more with the how
• 39:00
  Speaker 8: the Brothers from Power. You know Whatdy McClain and level
• 39:03
  Speaker 8: so moves the record club Morning everybody is DJ Envy
• 39:06
  Speaker 8: Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still
• 39:09
  Speaker 8: kicking it with the how to Brothers from Power. You
• 39:11
  Speaker 8: know Whatdy McLain and Lavell Adam's Gray Charlamagne does.
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: Social media bother y'all Like when y'all read comments, does
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: the impact? How y'all approach the roles and everything for.
• 39:21
  Speaker 5: Me personally, not because I come I come from social media,
• 39:23
  Speaker 5: and I just used to say that didn't even really matter.
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: I just said it to get like a reaction.
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: Or some shit. You have people look for your damn
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: old tweets.
• 39:30
  Speaker 5: You're right, But that's where I was at though, Like
• 39:32
  Speaker 5: that's the space I was in. I just wanted to
• 39:34
  Speaker 5: get a reaction. That's what Twitter was for, is like
• 39:36
  Speaker 5: to see how many retweets and how many like you get,
• 39:38
  Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So now I look at it,
• 39:39
  Speaker 5: it's like that's just somebody just trying to get attention.
• 39:42
  Speaker 5: But it don't bother me, thought know.
• 39:43
  Speaker 8: And you gotta be careful, Uh come from the I
• 39:49
  Speaker 8: come from theater a little bit, and and we learned
• 39:52
  Speaker 8: really quickly not to like you can't read everything every night,
• 39:56
  Speaker 8: you know, because it affects your work.
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: So I come from that like where it came.
• 40:00
  Speaker 21: I was like, you know, I'm not reading everything all
• 40:03
  Speaker 21: the time, Like I kind of just post or whatever,
• 40:05
  Speaker 21: and it's go by my business.
• 40:06
  Speaker 12: All right.
• 40:07
  Speaker 8: And we had a Mario up here last year, maybe
• 40:10
  Speaker 8: two years ago, and I asked him with Charlamagne, and
• 40:12
  Speaker 8: I asked him about the character. Was he ever fearful
• 40:14
  Speaker 8: that he was gonna be stuck in that character, right,
• 40:17
  Speaker 8: And you know he was a little upset about it
• 40:19
  Speaker 8: because he said he's an actor. But sometimes people see
• 40:21
  Speaker 8: Omar as ghosts, you know, sometimes they see you as Bobby.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: Do you ever feel full of roles you take to
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: be stuck in that character?
• 40:29
  Speaker 21: No God will provide there it is, I agree, you
• 40:32
  Speaker 21: know what I mean, you know, like it's it's it's
• 40:34
  Speaker 21: a scarcity mindset to think that way, I think, But.
• 40:37
  Speaker 8: It happens to people like you. Look at Steve Le,
• 40:39
  Speaker 8: He's always Steve Verkle. You look at the guy that
• 40:40
  Speaker 8: plays I can't remember the brother's name. He played Chris
• 40:43
  Speaker 8: Rock and everybody hears Chris. He's always looked at that.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: You know, I don't know, you just.
• 40:47
  Speaker 10: Want to go.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: See him as dead little boy. If it's not a
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: blessing that I think it is.
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: You know, it stands the tests of time, and you
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: know we leave that legacy for sure. I think it does,
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: you know, But actors want to.
• 41:07
  Speaker 21: Be transcendent, right and be able to disappear in the roles.
• 41:09
  Speaker 21: And I think a part of that is the onus
• 41:11
  Speaker 21: on the actor to like switch it up a little
• 41:13
  Speaker 21: bit and try something different and never let themselves get
• 41:17
  Speaker 21: hold in one thing.
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: But I think being scared of that brings it on too,
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean.
• 41:21
  Speaker 8: Do you ever feel a way, you know, because you
• 41:23
  Speaker 8: are a theater actor actor, so you've been through the course,
• 41:26
  Speaker 8: you've been through the classes, and then you see somebody
• 41:28
  Speaker 8: that might be, you know, a social media person that
• 41:30
  Speaker 8: gets a roll because they are social media. Does that
• 41:32
  Speaker 8: ever make you feel a way like they didn't get
• 41:34
  Speaker 8: their chops wet, they didn't do the proper training that
• 41:37
  Speaker 8: you've been through.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Does that ever make you feel away?
• 41:41
  Speaker 21: If I'm be honest, absolutely, Whenever I get whenever that
• 41:44
  Speaker 21: comes up for me and I get tight like that,
• 41:45
  Speaker 21: I'm like, well, that's just my ego, Like that's me,
• 41:48
  Speaker 21: you know, that's me because I didn't get that part
• 41:50
  Speaker 21: or I didn't do it, you know what I mean.
• 41:51
  Speaker 21: But like what's for you is meant to be for you, right,
• 41:54
  Speaker 21: you know, So I remind myself of that, and and
• 41:58
  Speaker 21: then you know, goes away. But like and it's it's
• 42:00
  Speaker 21: like acting is always going to change mediums and always
• 42:03
  Speaker 21: going to evolve, And that's the point. If you don't
• 42:04
  Speaker 21: evolve with it, then you're gonna get left behind.
• 42:06
  Speaker 5: About I come from social media, so I slew anybody
• 42:10
  Speaker 5: that comes from social media, you know, I like it.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: Just taking down the question was that the question I
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: was saying social media.
• 42:25
  Speaker 8: Does it ever make you feel the way where it
• 42:26
  Speaker 8: feels like people you know, they always say people skip
• 42:28
  Speaker 8: the line right so that they didn't, you know, take
• 42:31
  Speaker 8: the acting classes and the acting lessons.
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
• 42:33
  Speaker 5: I come from the people that didn't take acting classes
• 42:36
  Speaker 5: that you know, straight from social media.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: Like, so I don't.
• 42:38
  Speaker 4: I don't take it no way. Now, I just took it.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: You got to skip the line.
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: I did skip the line, but then I took it
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: very very seriously.
• 42:45
  Speaker 24: That's what I have because a lot of people, yeah,
• 42:49
  Speaker 24: they're just right, like the comedians, like they can't do
• 42:52
  Speaker 24: the stage. They can do the the social media stuff
• 42:55
  Speaker 24: all day post, but when it comes to that stage,
• 42:58
  Speaker 24: it's totally different. They don't want to get in their room,
• 43:02
  Speaker 24: you know, go to the open mics and stuff that.
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: They don't want to do that. They're too good for that,
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: but you horrible when to come to the stage.
• 43:11
  Speaker 4: He's got somebody personally in there.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: A couple of people.
• 43:16
  Speaker 24: Now, I'm a stand up comedian, so I just see
• 43:19
  Speaker 24: the new wave and it is the new wave.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: But well, somebody like me.
• 43:24
  Speaker 24: And who've been doing it for so long, you start
• 43:27
  Speaker 24: seeing stuff. At first, I was acting like Semi H.
• 43:29
  Speaker 24: Jackson at first, you know what I'm saying, how he
• 43:31
  Speaker 24: was with the people taking the acting gigs. I was like,
• 43:33
  Speaker 24: hold on, now, they ain't even But I had to
• 43:35
  Speaker 24: sit back and get in yo mo and be like, holdo,
• 43:38
  Speaker 24: what God God for me is for me? They passed
• 43:40
  Speaker 24: in my path, you know what I'm saying, So this
• 43:42
  Speaker 24: is my journey. So I got to stay on my
• 43:45
  Speaker 24: own germs blessed and and understand why I'm in my
• 43:48
  Speaker 24: position and be patient, see me, and that's why I'm
• 43:51
  Speaker 24: here today exactly.
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: Ken killing each other over f you man, that's gonna
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: have to be. That's gonna mess up the business in
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: some way shape or from.
• 44:00
  Speaker 10: Damn.
• 44:00
  Speaker 5: I don't even know if I can talk about that.
• 44:02
  Speaker 5: I don't know, though I can see it happening, Okay,
• 44:05
  Speaker 5: I can see it happening. Okay, Okay, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: good suggestion. Yeah yeah. I can't talk with I can't.
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: I won't get in trouble right well, I mean, as
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: you why is Drew not allowed to have love? Seems
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: like you lose every guy that you started off healing.
• 44:21
  Speaker 21: I think it's because it's the reality of the you know,
• 44:24
  Speaker 21: the game where right, And I feel like, you know,
• 44:27
  Speaker 21: with Gordo, you found somebody that you felt like you
• 44:29
  Speaker 21: could you know who could he could see all of
• 44:32
  Speaker 21: him and recognize all of him. But at the same time,
• 44:34
  Speaker 21: it's like it started off with lies, right, like I
• 44:37
  Speaker 21: killed his pops or we killed his pops. So it's
• 44:39
  Speaker 21: like if I can't tell you that truth, then we're
• 44:42
  Speaker 21: already our foundation is shaky anyway, you know. So I think,
• 44:46
  Speaker 21: you know, God willing going forward, Drew will find some love,
• 44:50
  Speaker 21: somebody that you know can resonate with him in that
• 44:52
  Speaker 21: way they justn't have to hide himself from.
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: But until then, to be about your bread man, it.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: Is how's working with Mary?
• 44:59
  Speaker 21: Beautiful man? And Mary's so cool, She's so chill. We
• 45:04
  Speaker 21: have so many moments and memories with Mary, and I
• 45:08
  Speaker 21: think my favorite one is, you know, first day table reading.
• 45:11
  Speaker 21: You know what, It's funny they don't tell actors of
• 45:13
  Speaker 21: this lot. It's always like, you know, like, well, you
• 45:15
  Speaker 21: just get in the space and like, yeah, you know
• 45:16
  Speaker 21: I belong there and I already already been there, so
• 45:19
  Speaker 21: you know I gotta act like and whatever whatever.
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: You know, that tension, shoulder tension comes up, you know
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: what I mean?
• 45:25
  Speaker 21: Like no, Like when I got to the table read,
• 45:28
  Speaker 21: I was like, I've never been here before, and I've
• 45:29
  Speaker 21: never been face to face with Mary J.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: Blige before.
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: You know what she did, She broke the ice with
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: a funny ass story.
• 45:36
  Speaker 9: You know.
• 45:36
  Speaker 21: She she she brought us in as her kids off
• 45:39
  Speaker 21: rip and that to me like taught me, like God
• 45:41
  Speaker 21: will and I get to that place where I can
• 45:43
  Speaker 21: people look at me in that way that I can
• 45:45
  Speaker 21: be like, oh no, I'm chill, like you.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: Know what I mean, because that really helped me out.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: How did she bring your other What was the joke
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: that brought y'all in? He said, Because she said she
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: brought you in her kids.
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: Well, she told us like it was a story.
• 45:54
  Speaker 21: I told her that, like my dad's from Jamaica, right,
• 45:56
  Speaker 21: And she was like, oh, I'm never going to dakea again,
• 45:58
  Speaker 21: Like I'm never bring nobody's Jaica.
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: It's like it's drama and it's just the way that
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: she just related to us.
• 46:04
  Speaker 21: You would think that, like I guess the perspective of
• 46:07
  Speaker 21: someone of that high stature is that like.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: You have to go to them.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: But I felt like she came down and came and
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: gave It's a.
• 46:14
  Speaker 21: Story that was like we all had us laughing, and
• 46:16
  Speaker 21: it was like, well, thanks for sharing that, you know
• 46:18
  Speaker 21: with us, and and really brought us in and so
• 46:21
  Speaker 21: it just just made it so easy, you know, you know,
• 46:23
  Speaker 21: we get to do these scenes and she's so generous
• 46:25
  Speaker 21: as a as a scene partner, and we get to
• 46:28
  Speaker 21: like really go and play with it. Just so many
• 46:30
  Speaker 21: fun ideas and just really cares about Monette and says
• 46:33
  Speaker 21: like listen, man, they is from here.
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: So she's not going to do it like that. She's
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: gonna do it like this, and like being her producer,
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: you know what.
• 46:41
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 46:42
  Speaker 21: When we did the dinner table not super iconic dinner
• 46:46
  Speaker 21: table scene, you know, it was her idea to be
• 46:48
  Speaker 21: like listen, like we gotta get it elevated, right, She said,
• 46:51
  Speaker 21: we have to elevate this thing because she's not going
• 46:53
  Speaker 21: to have her daughter talk to her no type of
• 46:55
  Speaker 21: way and not snatch her across the table and have
• 46:58
  Speaker 21: it beat this big moment, you know, and it came
• 47:01
  Speaker 21: alive because of that.
• 47:02
  Speaker 4: I learned so much as an actor because of that.
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: So what's gonnappen when y'all gotta hate her because eventually
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: y'all gonna find out that she's the one who said
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: Lorenzo up.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know what I mean, you know, like
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: you're gonna have to You're gonna hate it.
• 47:12
  Speaker 5: Then it comes out this weekend we're gonna see, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: that's this week Friday.
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, gonna find out all that stuff.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: But yeah, are you happy Lorenzo days? You know, let's
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: say Poppy no more?
• 47:22
  Speaker 5: I always think I said Poppy like that. I never
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: I never knew how to say it for real, Like
• 47:27
  Speaker 5: I didn't. It didn't roll off my tongue like that,
• 47:29
  Speaker 5: So I kind of eliminated the Poppies out of my vocabulary.
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, did it roll off?
• 47:34
  Speaker 22: Right?
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Yes? You said Poppy said it?
• 47:35
  Speaker 22: Really?
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: I think?
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: I think?
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: Bertil Coloone who plays Lorenzo amazing.
• 47:42
  Speaker 21: I miss him man, sometimes, you know, he's he's a
• 47:45
  Speaker 21: master class too, you know, and I love him being there.
• 47:49
  Speaker 21: He just holds it down in such a grounding energy.
• 47:51
  Speaker 21: So as level I'm like, damn, you know he's gone.
• 47:54
  Speaker 21: But as Drew, I think Drews also like damn he's gone.
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I agree.
• 47:59
  Speaker 8: When we come back, we got more with the Tahia
• 48:01
  Speaker 8: Brothers from Power, you know, Woody McLain and Lavel So
• 48:04
  Speaker 8: don't move.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast Club.
• 48:05
  Speaker 8: Good morning, m Jean Charlamage the guy we are the
• 48:09
  Speaker 8: Breakfast Club is still kicking it with the Tahia Brothers
• 48:11
  Speaker 8: from Power, Willie McClain and level Adams Gray.
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: Now we take this. Yesterday, Erica Dutchess, our co host,
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: was here.
• 48:17
  Speaker 4: Erica, you're married, I'm engaged.
• 48:20
  Speaker 24: You engaged, okay, So how do your fiance feel about
• 48:23
  Speaker 24: your your love scenes and stuff like that.
• 48:25
  Speaker 21: You know, she's she's the same way she comes from,
• 48:28
  Speaker 21: uh you know that that place of like, if you're
• 48:30
  Speaker 21: gonna do it, do it right kind of thing. So
• 48:32
  Speaker 21: she she's a big fan of the show, and she
• 48:34
  Speaker 21: loves watching the show. She has a great heart and
• 48:36
  Speaker 21: a great empathetic capacity. So she watched watches Drew or
• 48:39
  Speaker 21: anybody going through it. She's just like, wow, like this
• 48:42
  Speaker 21: is a every time I watched the show, I'm watching
• 48:44
  Speaker 21: it being like, I know what we did I know
• 48:46
  Speaker 21: what's happening. And she's like, Wow, this show like surprises
• 48:49
  Speaker 21: me every time. It's phenomenal, this is this, and this is.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: It hard to watch it with her, it's any love
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: scene because it's hard to.
• 48:54
  Speaker 21: Watch with it because she's sometimes around her in the
• 48:57
  Speaker 21: table reads and so she's like privy and.
• 49:00
  Speaker 4: Aformation and she's like, oh, so that's what you guys
• 49:02
  Speaker 4: were talking about.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: Oh did you know?
• 49:05
  Speaker 21: And but in terms of like content stuff, and you know,
• 49:08
  Speaker 21: it's not it's not hard watching, you know, because she's
• 49:10
  Speaker 21: also done love scenes.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: And how do you feel you see her doing love season,
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: it's it's take some getting uscles. You got that man
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: meat on his back? She ye.
• 49:30
  Speaker 9: Like that.
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: Jesus. But yeah, but how did that make you feel?
• 49:35
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 49:35
  Speaker 21: She just did this film called Perfect Didiction. It just
• 49:37
  Speaker 21: came out and in it she plays an MM a
• 49:40
  Speaker 21: fighter and trainer and she had to be with these
• 49:43
  Speaker 21: six two six three, you know, getting swollen bees for
• 49:46
  Speaker 21: the role and coming in and you know, she was
• 49:49
  Speaker 21: love interest to both of them. And I'm having to
• 49:52
  Speaker 21: sit there being like it's just fine, It's just fine,
• 49:56
  Speaker 21: you know, you know, but you go back with your chest.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm real.
• 50:00
  Speaker 21: Listen, every time she goes somewhere to work on the job,
• 50:03
  Speaker 21: but she's like, there's a time apart.
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: I'm in the gym.
• 50:06
  Speaker 21: I go crazy in the gym because when you come back,
• 50:08
  Speaker 21: you don't see me looking different than when you left.
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: That's right, you know, ask you do you get flacked
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: from like actual gay actors who feel like that role
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: should go to game actual gay.
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: Like you took my role.
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: That's a good question.
• 50:21
  Speaker 21: No, Yeah, I get a lot of love, a lot
• 50:24
  Speaker 21: of like a lot of support comes from other queer actors,
• 50:29
  Speaker 21: you know, And I get a lot of love because.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I would think that's a ridiculous conversation to have, because
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: if a gay person plays the great persons because they
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: got the ROC, they're a good actor.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: Right, if you get at what you do, you get
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: what you do?
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: Yea, what do you got?
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: Everybody hitting my damn phone? Was kind of excited. I
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: got lie, no what he tagged me on something? People
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: hit me.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: The reason I got excited because I was like, oh
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: it might you know, it might be some brand and
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: what he was like fighting the post what he said
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: he posted I want to do a season for now.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: Watch party in South Carolina.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: But I need to see the god to host it
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: with me, he said, who in South Carolina would pull
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: up and got like twenty six hundred comments, and then
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: people started making actual post about it.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: Like this needs to happen, and I'm like, what we're doing,
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: I'm with it.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: You got to find a place to do it, because
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: you know we used to the house party vie. I mean,
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: what do you party together?
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: He was in the house. Yeah, you can't do it
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: in the house. You can't can't bring all those people
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: to your house.
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: I can't do that.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: You got to figure out where to do it. I
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 51:24
  Speaker 8: And do we charge people, Yes, that's the hard part
• 51:28
  Speaker 8: to charge people because if not, it's got to be
• 51:29
  Speaker 8: limited space. If not, everybody's gonna be there, gonna be
• 51:31
  Speaker 8: too packed. You want limited space. You want people to
• 51:32
  Speaker 8: be able to see.
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so you charge people, but then have like an
• 51:35
  Speaker 4: open bar.
• 51:36
  Speaker 8: I don't have an open bar so they can have
• 51:40
  Speaker 8: a good time and some food. But that way you
• 51:41
  Speaker 8: have sections so people can actually watch. You don't want
• 51:43
  Speaker 8: a two pack where you can't enjoy and scream and
• 51:45
  Speaker 8: yell and all that.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: We can do it at the Museum American museum. You
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: have to bring some TVs in and can if they
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: got it twenty six right, we got a couple of
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: more day we can.
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: We got time though we might you figure it out.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: I have fun there, museum.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: The pay is not really for you.
• 52:04
  Speaker 8: It's more to make sure people are gonna come, because
• 52:06
  Speaker 8: everybody on r ZP I'm coming, and then to be
• 52:08
  Speaker 8: rained like I ain't coming to the ring.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: I mean, but you want people that it's gonna come,
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: enjoy and have a great time. But then once again,
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: that's the testament to how big power is in the coach.
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: I'm telling you show all shows don't get that cultural reverence.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: The way.
• 52:22
  Speaker 5: They let us host post stuff like rappers. I'm like
• 52:24
  Speaker 5: at a host and I'm like, I ain't got no songs.
• 52:26
  Speaker 5: I don't know what you'all want to do, so.
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: I just take pictures. They would give me the mic.
• 52:32
  Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know what y'all want me to say,
• 52:33
  Speaker 4: like I ain't got no no bars or nothing for nobody.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: Does it shows lead? Yes? Okay, I was tight. Is
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: that the true lead?
• 52:40
  Speaker 5: Because they say that it might not be the true shows? Well, no,
• 52:43
  Speaker 5: I think I think it was like some like fake
• 52:45
  Speaker 5: poor quality stuff.
• 52:46
  Speaker 21: I didn't see it, but man, like it's like like
• 52:49
  Speaker 21: a rapper, like you always tight when your and then
• 52:52
  Speaker 21: like who did it?
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: Like it has to be somebody in your camp? Right,
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: And why is it only power shows and.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: Starts with nobody?
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: People just kid that much like other things that we
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: just don't think about, But people care about this.
• 53:04
  Speaker 4: That's I don't know. I don't know.
• 53:06
  Speaker 21: I don't know about it, but like I appreciate the
• 53:08
  Speaker 21: fans who were like stuck it out and like are
• 53:09
  Speaker 21: gonna watch it again, you know and see it because
• 53:12
  Speaker 21: they deserve to be seen in the right way.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: With this love triangle, Tyreek got going on, right, Who
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: would y'all rather see him end up with Fie, Lauren
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: or Diane?
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: Speaking as Abelle, I'd rather see him with Diana really yeah.
• 53:26
  Speaker 5: Speaking yeah, speaking speaking as woody, as woody, as woody
• 53:30
  Speaker 5: Diana as well as really yeah, Drew don't want to
• 53:33
  Speaker 5: treak nowhere around absolutely, you know.
• 53:37
  Speaker 21: But as well like this, they make a good pair.
• 53:40
  Speaker 21: You know, they're both very intelligent, and they both move
• 53:43
  Speaker 21: around the business really well, and they could actually like
• 53:45
  Speaker 21: make a great like if they came together like that,
• 53:48
  Speaker 21: they can make a good, good team, but.
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: Then the brothers might have to kill him.
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I agree.
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: Did you feel bad for Saxop when he got killed?
• 53:57
  Speaker 4: Hell yeah. Shane is so dope man, so in credible.
• 54:00
  Speaker 4: He's the OG. Well, I think he's been there for
• 54:02
  Speaker 4: like nine years.
• 54:03
  Speaker 5: And I think it caught everybody by surprise because I
• 54:06
  Speaker 5: don't read the whole script until we get to the
• 54:08
  Speaker 5: table that's just read kind of my section. So when
• 54:10
  Speaker 5: I heard it for the first time, it definitely was
• 54:12
  Speaker 5: like one of those emotional emotional things.
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: Damn, I don't even think about it. I'm sitting it
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: thinking about it from the character of perspective. The people
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: that's not going to have no work no more.
• 54:20
  Speaker 21: Well no, see, that's the thing, Like Shane is such
• 54:22
  Speaker 21: an amazing actor that he's working, he's working, he's an artist,
• 54:25
  Speaker 21: like he's an artist with him with ambition and with
• 54:28
  Speaker 21: with drive, you know. And that's the one thing like
• 54:30
  Speaker 21: I always say about about actors, about artists specifically, like
• 54:34
  Speaker 21: you don't we can make whatever we want to make
• 54:36
  Speaker 21: whenever we want to make it, like now, depending on
• 54:38
  Speaker 21: how much money you have, and like if you want
• 54:40
  Speaker 21: to get butts and seasests, another thing, but like art
• 54:43
  Speaker 21: is there, you can just make it, you know. And
• 54:46
  Speaker 21: for Shaye, he doesn't have to worry about like lack
• 54:48
  Speaker 21: and you know, but you know he'll always be a
• 54:50
  Speaker 21: thriving artist because he's a beautiful actor.
• 54:52
  Speaker 8: Y'all have a nervous that that you're going to read
• 54:54
  Speaker 8: a script and it's like what else, things like please
• 54:55
  Speaker 8: don't give me on, please don't give don't give me on.
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: Y'all ever feel that way when when y'all pick up
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: a script that was.
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: Me season one, two three, his house right now you're
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: buying like.
• 55:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think for the same like the
• 55:12
  Speaker 5: first season it was like that, but after the first season,
• 55:14
  Speaker 5: whatever makes sense for the character, the character.
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: Gotta go, he gotta go. That's how I felt.
• 55:19
  Speaker 21: Yeah, yeah, I just when they when they you know,
• 55:22
  Speaker 21: when they do decide to if they do decide to
• 55:24
  Speaker 21: do that with Drew, that like it's a it's like iconic,
• 55:27
  Speaker 21: like I.
• 55:27
  Speaker 4: Want to cat to kill you or I don't know
• 55:30
  Speaker 4: about that. That's heartbreaking, but I got you.
• 55:33
  Speaker 21: I always want to be like I said, I don't
• 55:35
  Speaker 21: want to be the black Shawn Bean and like dying
• 55:37
  Speaker 21: on it. So if it's going to happen like it
• 55:40
  Speaker 21: needs to be happening, like you know some like dope
• 55:42
  Speaker 21: slow motion kind of like you know, something dope, something dope.
• 55:45
  Speaker 21: But I won't speak that out, you know, season six
• 55:47
  Speaker 21: seven eight, And is that a real.
• 55:48
  Speaker 3: Beef between the Power Team and the b MF actors?
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: Like is that real that some social media is between Uh?
• 55:55
  Speaker 4: I don't think so. I might be that might be
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: Twitter fingers. Yeah, I hope so, because like we you know,
• 56:01
  Speaker 4: we're all black and we're all getting it.
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: I love that.
• 56:02
  Speaker 4: I'd love to see that.
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: So I think that's what it is, y'all participating that
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: though you usually do that play too Rikan meet.
• 56:09
  Speaker 10: What am I do?
• 56:11
  Speaker 4: I don't participate.
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: Be doing it.
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: I'll be in the gym. I got time for that.
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: My business, he said back to this party is playing
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: in South Carolina. See him? You know what you will be?
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: You want to do it from? Yeah, just don't say
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: that because now we got to plan it. I don't
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: want to let people down.
• 56:29
  Speaker 4: No, I'm serious, I'm serious.
• 56:30
  Speaker 5: I know this is Hollywood. Yeah, hit me up, let's
• 56:33
  Speaker 5: do this. But I'm like serious, I'm looking at you
• 56:35
  Speaker 5: in the eyes.
• 56:36
  Speaker 4: We're gonna do this.
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: O lord, Now I got to commit to Yeah.
• 56:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, so we're taking it there.
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: We appreciate you brothers for joining us.
• 56:43
  Speaker 8: May twenty six is the day, and thank you guys
• 56:46
  Speaker 8: for stopping through.
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: You know, you guys are always invited.
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: Both episodes coming out the were going to make twenty six.
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: I was one and then the next this week one,
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: this weekend, one this weekend in the finalite nex. Yeah right,
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: so that's.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: Willy McCain, Lavell Adams. Great. Appreciate you brothers. It's the
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: breakfast well, good morning. Damn that he hogged. It's time
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: the donkey to day. I ain't trying to be donky
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: today no more.
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: They should be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: not making these people do these.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: Things called Donkey of the day. And it really caught
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: me off guard.
• 57:18
  Speaker 24: Damn solam Man, who got the donkey out of the
• 57:21
  Speaker 24: day today?
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: Wow, that's hilarious.
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: Donkey today goes to a man with seven kids and
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: seven baby mamas.
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: Now I try not to pay attention to these people.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: I see these people telling these outlander stories on YouTube
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: and TikTok because nowadays folks is saying and doing anything
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: to get some attention and being that we live in
• 57:41
  Speaker 3: a world where nobody cares about the truth. If the
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: lie is more entertaining, folks just be getting online telling
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: these Ourlandis stories just to get some clicks and subscribers. No,
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: I don't know if this story is real, but the
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: idea is. And that's what I like to discuss and
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: critique the idea, Okay, the idea that digital d heads
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: like this young man put on the FBI's internet. Now,
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: as I told you, this man got seven kids and
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: seven baby mamas, but he don't take care none of them.
• 58:06
  Speaker 4: Okay, not a one.
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: Why because he said he told those young ladies from
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: the beginning that he don't want them. Now, let's go
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: to the FBI's main source for exhibit a's YouTube to
• 58:16
  Speaker 3: hear this young man speaker.
• 58:18
  Speaker 6: Now, for the past few days, I've been going live,
• 58:20
  Speaker 6: telling my stories, speaking my truth, and a lot of
• 58:22
  Speaker 6: women having an issue calling me a dead beat because
• 58:25
  Speaker 6: I tell them I was being irresponsible yet not wearing protection.
• 58:29
  Speaker 6: But I always tell these women that I got pregnant,
• 58:33
  Speaker 6: that I do not want to be a father to
• 58:35
  Speaker 6: these children, and I offer to pay for the abortion.
• 58:39
  Speaker 6: Majority of times they'll either take the abortion or they'll
• 58:42
  Speaker 6: take a plan beat. But only these seven have kept
• 58:46
  Speaker 6: these children. But the crazy thing about it is they
• 58:49
  Speaker 6: want me to be responsible for some children. I told
• 58:52
  Speaker 6: them I did not want so for some years now,
• 58:56
  Speaker 6: some of them been trying to get in contact with me.
• 58:58
  Speaker 6: ACCESS denied, I don't really know why you're trying to
• 59:01
  Speaker 6: get in contact with me. I then told you I
• 59:03
  Speaker 6: did not want them kids. We both was irresponsible about
• 59:07
  Speaker 6: the decisions we made that night. Yeah, I could have
• 59:10
  Speaker 6: pulled out, but I didn't, and I ain't care.
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: To pull out because I'm not the one.
• 59:14
  Speaker 6: They're gonna have to carry a baby for nine months Jesus,
• 59:17
  Speaker 6: just the woman. In my opinion, women should be more
• 59:20
  Speaker 6: careful on who they sleep with.
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: True, Portia, you just said earlier that women need to
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: watch you they sleep with. I mean, damn, how savage
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: this man is. I mean, okay, let's just let's be real.
• 59:39
  Speaker 22: He's not the first man to tell somebody to take
• 59:41
  Speaker 22: a plan B. He not the first man to say
• 59:43
  Speaker 22: he don't want a child. So at the end of
• 59:45
  Speaker 22: the day, that's why we got child support. You still
• 59:47
  Speaker 22: got to pay for this child. He need to be
• 59:49
  Speaker 22: telling this story in jail, right around the lunch table. Jesus,
• 59:53
  Speaker 22: yes he does, because just because you decided to say
• 59:55
  Speaker 22: you don't want to pay for the child on mean
• 59:57
  Speaker 22: that you shouldn't have to.
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: I feel that proper puem who management is essential for
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 3: a healthier life. I feel this man is out here
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: passing along sexually transmitted demons, okay, to whoever wants them.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: And yes, this man is a demon, and they should
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: change that purple smiling face of Moji with horns to
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: his face because this is true demon time. And I
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: really wish this young man would have made this video
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: after baby Mama number one, because if he would have
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: made this video after baby Mama number one, then he
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: would have never gotten the seven baby mamas. And if
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: he did, then every single one of them deserved the
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: baby father they got because when the dad tells.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: You who they are, believe them. And it does amaze
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: me that this.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: Young man is putting the responsibility not to get pregnant
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: solely on the woman.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, can I hear more of this guy? Another thing
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: is these just jump offs.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 6: He's a type of woman that I ain't even had
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 6: to do nothing for the bad minimum, but they gave
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 6: me access to their body.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: I ain't think I.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 6: Want to be a father to a child for one
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 6: of them. I don't even have no type of love
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 6: for these women. How do they expect me to love
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 6: these children? I can offer to a pay for abortion,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 6: but at what point can I force a woman to
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 6: go get an abortion? I cannot a woman say my body,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 6: my choice, but I say it's my life, my choice.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: Before this black man that.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 22: He was gonna say, she say her body, her baby,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 22: because that's how he.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: Feels he's done.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 3: I wish you could have saw your face when he said,
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 3: these girls give me their body for the bad minimum?
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 20: Like?
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 12: What?
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 21: What?
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 22: This guy's disgusting?
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 12: Like?
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: One thing I can say about Nick Cannon. This man
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: happens we are the subject of multiple babies, and.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 22: We got to bring him up diag like y'all didn't
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 22: think the story was his name at first. Anyway, at
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 22: least he take care of his kids. He actually wants
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 22: to populate. I don't know if this man went to school.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 22: Does he know what biology is? When you put the
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 22: vagina and the penis together, they could make a baby.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 22: That's how it works.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: You know what I wish.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: I wish that along with these babies that he didn't want,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: he would have got an STD he didn't want. You know,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: that is very true. But I feel like if he
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: was getting multiple le SDDS, he wouldn't be moving like this.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 3: And if the things brothers and sisters don't understand. When
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: y'all out here, you know, raw dog and randoms, okay,
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: doing the DNA dance with any and everybody, you're absolutely
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 3: increasing your chances of catching GHANISIP for her pages, okay,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: ganiscept for her page is what irresponsible brothers should get.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 3: And I wish it was one way. Ghana her p age, okay,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: because you know, I don't want I don't want the
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: woman to get it.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: Because there's one thing.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: If he was telling these women his intentions before he
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: slept with them, but he's not. He's telling them after
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 3: the fact, after they have been manipulated to sleep with him,
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: I don't respect it because you're not giving these women
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: that's what the fact though.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: Oh he didn't know.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: I thought he said.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 9: No.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 22: He said, listen, I'm gonna have sex with you, and
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 22: if you get pregnant, I.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: Don't want it. I thought he said I would respect
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: it if he did it before.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 22: Okay, I'm just saying, man, No, he actually said he'd
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 22: tell you after you need to take a plan B
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 22: oh after he done.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: But either way, he doesn't manipulate. When you feel that drip.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: When you feel that drip, you know what's gonna go down.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 4: Me to go take a plan B.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: Biggest man with.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: Seven baby seven baby mamas and seven kids as the
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 3: big as he.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: Are the Breakfast Club Morning.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 8: Everybody's dj n V charlamagea God. We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 8: We got our co hosts with us, Jason Leaps right
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 8: of course from Hollywood and Locked and a host of
• 1:03:38
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• 1:03:40
  Speaker 8: this morning. He has a new book, The Solution Focused Diamond.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 8: Elliott Khannie, what's up?
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: Welcome?
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 7: Tells who you are?
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: Man, tell me who you are.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 12: What you do.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 11: My name is Elliot Connie. I am a psychotherapist. I
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 11: host a podcast. I do lots of things hoping to
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 11: inspire people to be better versions of themselves.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: I just got a cup questions, So where did you
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: start and why did you want to be a therapist.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 11: I had a real, real tough childhood man, and I
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 11: grew up anxious and depressed and suicidal and struggling. I
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 11: didn't know how I was going to pull myself out
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 11: of it. And I realized that hope is this like
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 11: really powerful thing. And I felt like if I could
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 11: figure out how to get myself out of that situation,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 11: I wanted to help other people get out of that situation.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 11: And I learned very quickly that when your pain has
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 11: a purpose, it doesn't hurt.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: We'll playing it. That seed in your head at such
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: a young age to know that that that's what you
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: wanted to.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 11: Do God, Man, I don't know.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 4: I can't.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: I can't tell you. I really think God touched my life,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: to be honest with you, So so when you decided
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: to go for school, you said, a tough childhood.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 4: What was tough about your child?
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 11: And man, my dad, my father was a very very
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 11: aggressive man and took out his aggression on his kids
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 11: too often.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 4: Military.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: No, he's just aggressive, you know what.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 11: And to be kind to him, it means a black
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 11: man from a difficult place grew up in Chicago, and
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 11: I don't think he had the skills to raise a
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 11: family in a loving, caring way.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 3: Do you think that's what made you move they're wanting
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: to be in the mental health feel because you like,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: there's something wrong here and I want to figure it out.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 11: No, you know what, I think it was the opposite.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 11: I think it was there's something right here. I want
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 11: to figure it out because after going through all of that,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 11: I found myself in college and I'm like, how come
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 11: some people go through this stuff and ended up on
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 11: drugs and doing crazy things? And how did I land
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 11: in college? And I wanted to share that. I wanted
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 11: to like, you can do things with your life. And
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 11: because it wasn't what was wrong, it was what was right.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 11: I just figured how did I end up here? And
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 11: I don't think I'm special, And if I'm not special,
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 11: I just need to tell people the secret. I just
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 11: need to let people know what the secret is.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: When did you start having those conversations? If you even
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: did with your dad?
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 11: No, man, So my dad we had a violent interact,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 11: and we had violent actions throughout my life. When I
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 11: was nineteen was the last one and I called them
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 11: and I said, man, like, I can't have this anymore.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 11: I need you to follow three rules. If you can
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 11: follow these three rules, I can get past everything else.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: So you called your dad.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 8: Same when it raised your dad, you just said was
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 8: aggressive and said, Dad, you need to follow these three rules.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 4: Three rules.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 11: You can't yell at me, you can't hit me, and
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 11: you can't curse me. If you can do those three things,
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 11: I'll figure out the rest. And he said f you,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 11: and he hung up the phone. I was like, I
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 11: bet now, well, we've spoken a couple of times, like
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 11: he was at my younger brother's graduation. I interacted with him,
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 11: and he's tried to call me here or there, but no,
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 11: no meaningful conversation.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 23: I feel like in the black community, a lot of
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 23: us are taught you never speak back to your parents
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 23: or never you set boundaries with him.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 4: Do you think that's appropriate for people to do?
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 23: First of all, because I think we're told you respect
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 23: your parents no matter what they say, whatever they want,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 23: they could do whatever they want.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I think that I don't agree with that.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 11: Yeah, well, I one hundred percent was raised that way,
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 11: like you respect your parents, doesn't matter what you do.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 11: But I was in such a bad place. I was like,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 11: I'm pretty sure that I'm not supposed to die behind
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 11: that rule. Like I'm pretty sure I'm not supposed to
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 11: suicide out of here just because I'm not supposed to
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  Speaker 11: talk back to my father.
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  Speaker 4: So I got back.
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  Speaker 8: I got to a place where it was like, I
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  Speaker 8: gotta set this boundary or else. I wonder if it's
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  Speaker 8: it's the term rules for an adult, you know what
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  Speaker 8: I mean, because as an adult, as in a you know,
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  Speaker 8: you set the rules now when you're child, because no
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  Speaker 8: matter how old you are, you still he still looks
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  Speaker 8: at you. I'm sure if as his child growing sure
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  Speaker 8: not is the setting of rules. I think that's an
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  Speaker 8: interesting point, Like if I said something other than rules.
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  Speaker 8: But I think to your point, but if you if
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  Speaker 8: you look at your child, you wouldn't take anywhere boundary
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  Speaker 8: rule requests. It wouldn't really matter.
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  Speaker 11: Like I was raised in that you know, nineteen eighties,
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  Speaker 11: nineteen nineties, where black child is to be seen and
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  Speaker 11: not heard and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 4: I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it would have mattered. But I also
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 2: agree with you.
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  Speaker 11: I think part of the issue in today's world is
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  Speaker 11: not respecting authority. I'm talking about not respecting abusers. I'm
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 11: talking about not allowing abusers to have free rein to
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 11: your life. I do think we have to learn to
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 11: respect authority. I think there's a lot of reasons contributing
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 11: to why kids don't do that.
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  Speaker 2: You you you told me the other day that you
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  Speaker 2: feel like kids should disrespect their parents.
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  Speaker 4: I think parents should expect.
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  Speaker 11: In the context of our conversation, you mean, go ahead, Jason,
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  Speaker 11: let me let me put that in context. My mother
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  Speaker 11: would say, Elle, go do the dishes, and I would
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 11: be like, why didn't you ask one of them? And
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 11: that would get me popped. You know, that would get you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, But if you're teaching your child to be confident,
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  Speaker 11: to be strong, to value their voice, they should ask
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  Speaker 11: those kinds of questions and it allows you to parent them.
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  Speaker 11: But we shouldn't translate that as disrespect. They're just practicing.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 11: That's not disrespect.
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  Speaker 2: They're practicing. But that was in our era d disrespect.
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  Speaker 2: I would never think to talk back.
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  Speaker 3: I would never even think to talk to my parents
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  Speaker 3: the way my kids talk to me, as at least said,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 3: it's not disrespect, it's just them being like asking valid questions.
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  Speaker 8: I don't agree with you with that, La, because, and
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  Speaker 8: this is going to sound crazy, here we go. I
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  Speaker 8: got six kids, So if I tell one of my
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 8: kids to do something, I expect it to be done.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not going to do it with something that's going
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 8: to be detrimental to their health, something that's going to
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  Speaker 8: hurt them. It's part of what everybody needs to do
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 8: to be in this household.
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  Speaker 2: I agree with the meaning.
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  Speaker 8: If if dad's shures or dad's way is to make
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 8: the money, pay the bills, do this, that and the other,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 8: and I ask you to shovel the snow, don't ask
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  Speaker 8: me why, don't say, well, why didn't you ask this?
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  Speaker 22: This?
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  Speaker 2: This? You know, sibling, why did you ask this one? No,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: because I asked you to do it, but you could
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 2: explain it to them just the way you explained it.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: Just listen. You shouldn't have to.
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  Speaker 23: This is a rule that applies to everything, because it's
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 23: one thing. If a kid says, hey, you know, I
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 23: want to try some finnol, well no, don't do fenn on.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 23: Let me explain you why so you invite them to
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 23: a conversation about it, versus I expect these things to
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 23: be done as your parents, So go do them. Yes,
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  Speaker 23: I mean because when you start inviting the kid into
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 23: I mean I don't have kids clearly yet, but when
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  Speaker 23: you have this perceived negotiation of what you expect as
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 23: a parent. Then you invite them into a different type
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 23: of relationship.
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  Speaker 11: For sure, and not all things and negotiations. I just
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 11: think we need to have more conversations. If my child said,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 11: don't want to try fentanyl, it is perfectly okay to
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 11: say no, and let me sit you down and we're
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 11: going to converse as to why. Like, conversation is powerful.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 11: Look at what you guys have done with conversation.
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  Speaker 8: All right, we got more with Elliott Connie. When we
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 8: come back, don't move. It's to Breakfast Club, Good Morning Wanting.
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  Speaker 8: Everybody is dj NV, Charlomagne the guy. We are the
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 8: breakfast Club. We have Jason Lee our co hosts here.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 8: We're still kicking it with Elliott Khannie. He has a
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  Speaker 8: new book out, and of course he's a therapist.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: Charlomagne.
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  Speaker 3: We always have these conversations about culturally competent therapist. And
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 3: one of the reasons I like talking to you is
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 3: because I don't have to explain a Twitter beef.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 3: I don't have to explain what somebody said about me
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 3: on a blog. You see it, you know it already,
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 3: like you know other therapists I've had, You've had to
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 3: explain that to them. That takes a lot of time
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 3: out of a session. Yeah, but that goes back to representation.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 3: I hope all of you guys take that very very
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 3: especially you, Like there are people watching you that you're
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 3: never gonna meet, never gonna see in twenty years from now.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 3: They're still alive, Like forget. They may be walking in
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 3: your footsteps and have their own media company, but they're
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 3: still alive because representation matters. And there's a frustration. I
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 3: was talking to somebody about this this weekend. There's a
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: frustration associated with being black because we have to explain
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 3: things to people. And I was telling on somebody the
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: other day this and I was furious, I'm tired of
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 3: explaining this. But I was talking to this person about
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 3: racial trauma. And this is a this is a clinician.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 11: This is a professional clinician at a professional clinician event,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 11: and somebody gave a lecture about racial trauma. And this
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 11: person came up to me and said, what do you
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 11: think of the election? I said, I I thought it
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 11: was good. That person explained a lot of things that
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 11: y'all need to hear. And she said, well, i'd liked
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 11: it too, but I was really frustrated because he said
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 11: that black people and particularly men, experienced trauma every day.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 4: That can't be true.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: He said, it's absolutely true.
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  Speaker 11: Eh, I don't know a black person, particularly black men,
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  Speaker 11: that don't experience trauma every day.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: And she said, how could that be? I said, let
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: me explain it to you.
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  Speaker 11: If I locked you in your bedroom and I took
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 11: the most venomous snake and I threw it in the
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 11: bedroom with you, and I locked that door and I
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 11: close it, I don't let you out for a week.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 11: You didn't just experience trauma on the days you got bit.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 11: You experienced trauma every second of every day because you
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 11: knew there was a venomous snake around.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 4: And she was like, oh, I get it now.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 11: I'm tired of explaining that to y'all. I don't want
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 11: to explain blackness twenty four hours of my day, and
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 11: I want to explain to everybody what we mean. There's
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 11: a context for living this life that you and I
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 11: just get. And I think we need more black therapists.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 11: A lot of people go to therapists and first time
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 11: they go, they don't have a favorable time and they
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 11: feel like that, yeah, and they feel like because of that,
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 11: they don't want to go back. I just want to
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 11: talk about that people are looking for therapists because sometimes
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 11: you find the wrong person, it's not the right fit,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 11: and people are scared to, you know, to go back.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 11: I tell people all the time, like, you don't go
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 11: to you know, a restaurant and have a bad experience
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 11: and then just boycott food, right, You don't do that,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 11: You find another restaurant, right. And I think I think
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 11: we need to recognize therapy is the same. If I
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 11: go to see a therapist and it doesn't work, doesn't
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 11: mean therapy didn't work, just mean that's particular therapists didn't work.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 11: And we need to be just as variant in our
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 11: attempts to find a good therapist as we are in
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 11: our attempts to find good food.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 3: I want to ask too, like, you know, we've seen
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: so many people discussing mental health nowadays. Number one, do
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 3: you think it has been a rise of black people
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 3: going to therapy? And what do you think folks still
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 3: get wrong about mental health?
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  Speaker 11: So to answer the first question, yeah, I think we
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 11: do have more black people going to therapy, it's it's
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 11: the time Woods effect, right, Like we're all old enough
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 11: to remember when Tiger Woods took over golf, Black people
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 11: started going to play golf and they weren't playing golf
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 11: before that. Serena Williams and Venus Williams similar thing, like
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 11: young black girls go to tennis courts to play tennis
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 11: because representation matters. So the fact that you guys, probably
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 11: more than any other platform in the world, platforms talk
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 11: about black mental health. More Black people are going to
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 11: therapy because they heard Charlemagne suggested someone. They heard it,
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 11: so now they're like, man, maybe I can go do this.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 11: And it's the exact same thing that happened in tennis.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 11: It's the exact same thing that happens in golf. And
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 11: what I think we get wrong more than anything else,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 11: is we think the therapist is supposed to solve our problems,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 11: and that's actually not true. Like life is a turbulent flight.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 11: The therapist is supposed to make you a better pilot.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 11: I just got one last question. I know, I know,
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 11: we're wrapping up.
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  Speaker 8: Charlemagne always talks about being anxious, and people always talk
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 8: about anxiety, But I don't look at anxiety as a
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 8: bad thing, it's how you control it, right. I have
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 8: six kids, Charlamagne has four. When they go out until
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 8: even to this day, when I go out as a
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 8: grown ass man, my mom and dad still have anxiety
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 8: about me going out because they're scared, right, But they're
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 8: not scared to a point where they're you know, listening right, right,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 8: But it's not to the point where they're.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: Calling me at six in the morning, yeah are you doing?
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: But they're ani same thing with my kids. That's never
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: gonna change.
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  Speaker 11: No, that's healthy anxious, Like anxiety is like everything else,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 11: is a degree of healthiness to it. And then some
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 11: people go way beyond the spectrum to where and think
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 11: about it in this term, when something is interrupting your
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 11: ability to live a normal daily life, that's when it
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 11: becomes a problem. So that anxiety like my daughter's at NYU.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 11: She just called me and told me she's going to
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 11: a party. I'm gonna have a hard time relaxing tonight
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 11: because I'm something could happen, Like that's that's normal. But
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 11: if you have anxiety where like my daughter's at n
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 11: YU and I can't eat, I can't sleep, like that's
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 11: that's the problem. And I think we have to learn
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 11: how to manage that and learn how to manage.
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  Speaker 5: People hear anxiety. They're automatically thing negative, right, they always
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 5: think bad. There is healthy anxiety, like you love that
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 5: daughter or all your children that not in phecifically because
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 5: we're talking about you don't want anything bad to happen
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 5: to her. So when she tells you, I've done this
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 5: thing that puts me at risk, even mild risk, I'm
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 5: gonna be worried about that. The only things that will
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 5: happen are things that God intended for you to experience.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 5: And so you can't have faith and anxiety because anxiety
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 5: is fear based. So if I believe very strongly like
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 5: God's got me, that means if I'm going through something hard,
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 5: I'm going through that hard thing for a reason. So
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 5: there's no reason to I just have to trust everything.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 5: And that's what I would say with the end by
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 5: saying like, if you can figure out a way to
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 5: trust every experience, you're going through all of these things
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 5: for a reason, and be grateful for everything, like everything
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 5: you are untouchable emotionally, like you are just an indestructible force.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 5: When you're just grateful for everything.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 11: Not just grateful for the good things, not just grateful
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 11: for the profound thing, but I mean like grateful for
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 11: all of it.
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  Speaker 8: Life is different, all right, Well, Elliot Connie, ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 8: we appreciate what you're doing with man.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, can they find you?
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 11: You can find me on social media at Elliott Speaks
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 11: on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Elliot spelled two l's, two t's,
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 11: and you can go to my website Elliott Coonnie dot
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 11: com and that's where you can find all my stuff.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Well, it's the Breakfast Club, Elliott Connie, Ladies
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 2: and gentlemen. The Breakfast Club is the breakfast Club. Good
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: morning that we are out for the next seven days.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 3: Yes, we're out, but you know, I want to salute
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 3: somebody who will be holding us down in this building.
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  Speaker 2: My man, Chris, if you ever come to the front
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  Speaker 2: desk man, the pleasant brother you know with the nice beard,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: you know, Chris b X. Why are you looking at
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 2: me like that?
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  Speaker 9: What Chris?
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  Speaker 12: I was just gonna get shout out to my boss daughter.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 12: Can't do yes, what else you would say? It's just
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 12: your boss daughter, you say, boss name. Got me a
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 12: nice bottle of Moet for my birthday. It was from
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 12: the whole building. But uh, saluthor, saluthor her for that.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: That was nice. Definitely. And to my baby, I love
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 2: you know who you are. I can't tell her who
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: she is. You can't say a little jealous? Are I know?
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  Speaker 4: I'm so nervous.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 2: Y'all's been the fourth together, Chris, you and your baby, Yeah,
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 2: for sure, sure, definitely that's what say. You gonna marry him?
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, Jesus.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 5: Chris.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: Thank you, Chris Man, but thank you for holding us down.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 2: We appreciate you, probably do.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 3: We appreciate you, and the whole team at the front
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 3: desk absolutely appreciate that's right.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Chris. All right now, Charlamagne, what's
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: your positive note?
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 3: I had a great therapy session yesterday and I told
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 3: you all some things that we talked about in therapy earlier,
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 3: just about operating from a position of joy, right people.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 3: You know, nothing makes people more jealous and envious to
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 3: you than seeing you happy. But there's another thing I
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 3: learned in therapy, and that's it's actually a quote from
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 3: Wayne and I love this quote because too many people
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 3: don't know where to go because they're too focusing on what.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 3: They're too busy focusing on what was so. Wayne Gretsky
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 3: once had a quote where he said, I skate to
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 3: where the puck is going to be, not where it
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 3: has been.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: I skate to where the puck is going to be,
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: not where it has been. Y'all have a great day.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: Breakfast club. Is y'alla finish or y'all done.