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How To Align Your Manifestations, Navigating Obstacles & What To Do If You Get Discouraged · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Liv, a natural pathic doctor, 70 energy healer, and cost breeder.
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  SPEAKER_00: I help women heal on a physical and emotional level so that they can feel delicious and magnetic.
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  SPEAKER_00: After all, isn't that the whole point?
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  SPEAKER_00: Look, you've done the basic fish wellness stuff, but you're still bloated, tired, and in pain.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's where I come in.
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  SPEAKER_00: In these episodes, we will have an honest conversation without all of the fluffy bullshit.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna walk away with insight, tools, and tips to finally kill your body, mind, and soul.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you are looking to live well, you are in the right place.
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  SPEAKER_00: For ways to work with me, visit keepupwithlib.com and follow me on Instagram at keep up with live for more.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
• 0:45
  SPEAKER_00: Hello, hello everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the podcast.
• 0:52
  SPEAKER_00: I am so excited.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm actually hi Kashi.
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  SPEAKER_00: You wanna come inside?
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  SPEAKER_00: Come in.
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  SPEAKER_00: Come into the closet.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am recording in my closet right now because if you missed it on Instagram, sit.
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  SPEAKER_00: I moved and there is a lot of echo because the furniture isn't quite there, so there's not a lot of obviously things in the room for sound to bounce all off of, and I don't want it to be super echoey.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I am sitting on a box of my clothes in the closet um to try to get a little bit better acoustics for you guys, and I didn't want to miss an episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in typical fashion, Akasha just likes to be near me, so she is in the closet with me for now.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, I'm really excited to be doing these mini sods.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you miss out on Instagram, I'm going to be doing these mini sods kind of like Riff's rants, quick 10-15 minutes.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to watch the timer to give you all the juicy details in a short amount of time that you can listen to in the kitchen, on a walk, um, save it too, because these rants tend to have like activations in them.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so when you save them, you can re-listen to them for when you need these little reminders.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this first one came and I thought it was so powerful and such a good question, especially based on what I have been integrating and really elevating into in all aspects of my life lately.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, like I said, I've moved, um, I'm in a relationship, I've been, you know, have my business been expanding, my friends have been expanding, everything's kind of been growing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the question was, and I'm going to kind of like read the list that um she DM'd me with.
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  SPEAKER_00: So thank you for DMing me this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Manifesting when having intentions and ensuring that it aligns.
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  SPEAKER_00: How do you do the how of putting the actions with intentions, especially dating, and actions to manifest a conscious partner?
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  SPEAKER_00: The tests and obstacles that show up that are hard to decipher, and then it makes it discouraging/slash hard to pursue.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's what we're gonna be chatting about in this little episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's dive in.
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  SPEAKER_00: The number one thing is that your actions and your intentions have to not be necessarily based in logic.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you have to be holding standards higher than logically makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: When we get trapped in the logic, the logic is our brain, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Your brain is like telling you what's possible, it's telling you what you should do or shouldn't do.
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  SPEAKER_00: However, the heart knows, the heart and your gut know in the electromagnetic field of your heart is actually 50 times bigger than your brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: So your heart, your gut, your intuition, whatever like label you want to give it, knows kind of like five, 20 steps ahead of what you're all obviously going to get or what is possible for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so that's what leads the way.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then it's just our head that gets in the way, that then makes us use logic or shoulds or maybe listen to other people's opinions that maybe we shouldn't be listening to, that then cloud our judgment and make us take action that is not aligned.
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  SPEAKER_00: So in order to ensure that everything aligns when you're having your intentions, you need to be taking expansive action and holding standards higher than makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everything that I've done, whether it is a partner, um, the where I live, business, friendships, it's all higher than logically makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have to lead with heart and holding the frequency and staying there.
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  SPEAKER_00: So oftentimes I feel like people get blocked as they're holding it, they're holding it, they're holding it, and then they're like, oh, it's not here yet, and they lose it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And they drop that frequency and they drop that standard because they do not believe, they do not trust, and they go into the vibration of doubt.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like that image, and I'm gonna post this on my story.
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  SPEAKER_00: Have you ever seen the meme of like there's two guys and they're mining for like diamonds?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like a cartoon image, and one guy gives up like two seconds before he's gonna hit a diamond, and the other guy like stays there, and it's like you could drop the standard the second before everything else is gonna drop in, the second before the partner's gonna drop in, the second before the business is gonna drop the second the day before anything, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So you need to like hold it and keep keep holding it until the last possible second because we are the only thing bound by time, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Time doesn't actually exist, time is an illusion.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you have an attachment of time and you believe that it hasn't happened yet, it's you then operating in logic.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we have to throw that out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then, um, in terms of like the tests and obstacles, you might get 95%, you might get 98%, you might even get a shitty 20%.
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  SPEAKER_00: And do you say no thank you?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or do you send the meal back nicely?
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, which one do you do?
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  SPEAKER_00: So, like, let's say, like, someone in Starbucks, you know, makes your drink order wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's say I ordered a flat white with almond milk and they give me regular milk.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do I do you send it back?
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you be like, well, this is like thank you, but this is not what I ordered?
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, please, like, please give me my 100%, what I actually ordered, what my order was to the to the universe, to the Starbucks brew store, whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or do you like drink it and be miserable?
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  SPEAKER_00: This is about holding the standards.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is about in order to manifest it, things are gonna show up that are gonna be like, is this your 95%, your 98%, maybe a shitty 20%, to see if you are holding the standards.
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  SPEAKER_00: The universe will get it right eventually, but you have to, this is what I mean, hold the standards higher and longer than what logically makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then that is where the leaps happen, and that's where like things happen rapidly that are not necessarily bound by time, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So when this person asks of like tests and obstacles that are hard to decipher, the tests are not usually hard to decipher, they are hard when they involve your mind or when you doubt yourself or when you don't feel worthy.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're not hard to decipher in the sense where like it will give you an option and you'll know it's a hell no, but you're like, oh, maybe maybe should I take this job?
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  SPEAKER_00: Should I just settle for this person?
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  SPEAKER_00: Should I do this?
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  SPEAKER_00: But that's never hard to decipher because your heart always knows.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's what I really want you to understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not about get out of your head and into your heart, out of your head, into your heart.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've been integrating this so much this year.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think one of my major lessons for 2022 was being getting out of my head and into my heart even deeper on a deeper level.
• 7:14
  SPEAKER_00: Because I just wanted to pop in and let you guys know that life wasn't always this way.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't always have this life.
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  SPEAKER_00: I struggled physically out of fear of being seen, negative self-talk, a scarcity of mindset, you name it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I would look at others and wanted the life that they had.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I knew deep down it was possible.
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  SPEAKER_00: I could feel it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And by the way, if you desire it, then that means it is a sign that it is possible for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: No matter what, I was gonna figure it out and I did.
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  SPEAKER_00: And now I glow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially.
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  SPEAKER_00: And somehow this life almost doesn't feel real, but yet it's exactly as it should be.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, holy shit, but also, of course.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I choose, and you get to have it all the home, the love, the relationships, friendships, job, life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Life truly glows when you allow yourself to receive and you become the embodiment of that woman.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: I choose.
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  SPEAKER_00: I choose over and over again to trust deeper.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is no secret to this, it is about refining your alignment over and over again as you evolve.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't logically make sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's not supposed to.
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  SPEAKER_00: You go beyond what logically makes sense, and that's where miracles happen, and that's where you quantum lead.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your heart knows before your brain does, and that's the world that I play in.
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  SPEAKER_00: We aren't looking for logic, we are looking for magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's what my clients will tell you: that the results don't make sense and that they're magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I tell them is that is the world you get to live in.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is where limitless lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: And on the other side of that deep trust beyond logic is where your heart's desires live.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's when you glow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna be working with the four bodies to integrate this on a cellular level inside glow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Four weeks, four calls, four bodies, a hybrid of healing and activation, plus a telegram group magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you are ready for all of this, then sign up from the link in the description and DM me any questions on Instagram.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am over the moon excited for this, honestly, because we're all meant to glow.
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  SPEAKER_00: If it's available to me, it is available to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it is my mission to lead more good-hearted women in this so that they get the life of their dreams.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I will see you inside glow.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's only going to be hard to decipher if you use your logic, which we're not using.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't play in logic, we play in miracles.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you want magic and miracles, you have to play in the realm of magic and miracles.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everything that I've had in my life, every quantum leap, every big thing, has not logically made sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: It does not logically make sense to have this house.
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  SPEAKER_00: It does not logically make sense to like, you know, leap to loom after two weeks when I have that place for a month, but the vibe wasn't there and like I was feeling shitty, so I left.
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  SPEAKER_00: Even though people were like, well, but you paid for it, it doesn't matter.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I can't stay there.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't logically make sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: It may not logically make sense for me to move into this house while I still have the other one, but I know that it was going to be better for how I feel to be here, and luckily like I'm with someone, right?
• 10:14
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm not on my own, but I know because I trust myself, right?
• 10:19
  SPEAKER_00: So it's only discouraging when we're thinking about the tests and obstacles that make it hard to decipher and then makes it discouraging or hard to pursue.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's only discouraging if you have attachment, and usually the attachment is to time.
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  SPEAKER_00: However, those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait and wait without anxiety.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's from A Course in Miracles.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_00: That's not that's not my quote.
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  SPEAKER_00: But this is major because you only it only makes it discouraging if you doubt yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: It only makes it discouraging or hard if you believe that maybe you shouldn't have that standard or that it's not gonna happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what or who made you believe it's not gonna happen?
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  SPEAKER_00: Was it a friend or family member who said, you know, I don't know, just get a regular job.
• 11:00
  SPEAKER_00: You think people my mom believed in like I know my mom said she listens to my podcast, but so sorry, mom, if you're listening to this, believe that what I was doing, no.
• 11:10
  SPEAKER_00: She doubted me when I left my like long-term relationship.
• 11:12
  SPEAKER_00: She's like, How are you gonna make it on your own?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, I'm gonna do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter.
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  SPEAKER_00: Cause I ha I trust myself like so, so deeply.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I hold the standard and I keep keep holding even when it doesn't make sense, even when it feels like it's not working.
• 11:26
  SPEAKER_00: So when we're this person was asking about dating, but you can use this about dating, career, um, the house you want, I don't know, the money you want to make, anything holding the standard and being unwavering no matter what.
• 11:42
  SPEAKER_00: And it does make it harder.
• 11:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna say it does make it harder to pursue, but that's where deep self-trust comes in, and then it gets easier because the more you trust yourself, let's say you trust yourself and then something drops in that's really good, it then gives you the validation and the proof that you can trust, and then it's easier and it's gonna get less harder to pursue.
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_00: However, if you never give yourself the chance to trust and you never give this space or room for miracles, well, then you're gonna hold on to it so much more, it's gonna feel even more discouraging.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the fact is that it's only you who haven't given it the room.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's only you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you feel like a naked baby, right?
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_00: When we're going up and you know, saying no to that let's say latte that's made with, you know, regular milk, um, like cow milk instead of almond.
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_00: You might feel like, well, I don't know if another latte is gonna come along.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if another job, another person, another this.
• 12:42
  SPEAKER_00: But if you have the desire for someone or something that had all of these things, if the desire is there, it's because it's possible for you, it's because it's out there for you, right?
• 12:52
  SPEAKER_00: So you have to detach and be like, no, like I want my latte made with almond milk, and that's it.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_00: And you hold and you hold and you hold the frequency longer than logically makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: Even when it feels vulnerable, and even when it feels like you're like a naked baby baby or a turtle out of its shell, you have to keep holding and keep trusting and going.
• 13:11
  SPEAKER_00: Doubt is the worst thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Lack of trust and doubt is what's gonna keep you stuck, it's what's gonna make your actions not align.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, if your intention is charged with a scarcity energy, that's gonna affect all this.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you have to make sure that the action you are taking is not made from scarcity, it's and it's not made from fear, it's made from expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: For example, like moving into a different place, that feels expansive.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um holding the frequency of the type of partner you want to be, that feels expansive, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Versus taking in, you know, maybe you meet someone on an online app and then it doesn't really feel good, but you're scared you're not gonna find anyone else, so you decide to meet up with them anyways, or something like that, right?
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: This is the key in order to manifest whether it's a partner, business, wealth, home, friends, pets, I don't care what it is.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_00: Releasing attachment, deep self-trust, do not use logic, and holding standards higher than logically makes sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's why when my clients work with me, they're like, this doesn't make sense, this is magical.
• 14:18
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, because we don't play in the realm of logically making sense, we don't operate by that, those beliefs.
• 14:25
  SPEAKER_00: X A plus B does not equal C in my world, in the world that we work in when you work with me, right?
• 14:31
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why sometimes from the outside, I think it can look like you know, oh, maybe Liv has this and that, and she goes to Tulum and she goes like then she has this new house and this, but behind the scenes, it is deep self-trust.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_00: It's being willing to let go and remaining detached from what if the house doesn't come or the partner doesn't come and being okay fully and completely while you're okay if it doesn't come, but you also have a deep self-trust that it's going to come.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_00: So it's that perfect balance between I'm okay if it doesn't come, but I also know without a doubt it's going to come.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm holding that standard, which might see counterintuitive, but it's that perfect balance of the two that creates the detachment and then allows um, you know, if you hear quote unquote quantum leaps to happen or miracles to happen.
• 15:21
  SPEAKER_00: Tests are not remember remember that remember that tests are not hard to decipher.
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_00: It's just your head getting in the way.
• 15:29
  SPEAKER_00: You might think that, like, oh, is this a sign?
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_00: If your gut's telling you you shouldn't be with that person, that's a sign.
• 15:34
  SPEAKER_00: If they're telling you to move, you should be moving.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_00: If they're telling you to like rearrange your wardrobe, rearrange your wardrobe.
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_00: If they're telling you to eat zucchini, eat zu freaking zucchini.
• 15:43
  SPEAKER_00: And also know the signs that you're gonna get, or like the test obstacles, it might seem it'll push you out of your comfort zone, but it feels exciting.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_00: It might feel, and if you ever hear like, oh, that's not possible for you, that's just like your mind getting away in the ego, and that means we probably need to to release that.
• 16:04
  SPEAKER_00: So hopefully this episode was useful.
• 16:07
  SPEAKER_00: If you have any questions on this, definitely suit uh suit me.
• 16:10
  SPEAKER_00: That's a weird word.
• 16:11
  SPEAKER_00: Uh send me a DM on Instagram and I'll be happy to point you in the right direction.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_00: Um, I have many more episodes on this that kind of dive deeper, but this is essentially everything that I have been really implementing and really integrating.
• 16:26
  SPEAKER_00: And it might sound simple, but I promise you, this is something that again and again is very hard or can be hard to learn, and something that I've been really implementing, and that's where the shifts happen.
• 16:37
  SPEAKER_00: This is what I help my clients implement because it's really about waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, and then the floodgates open.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_00: It's not about holding the standard for a minute or one date or a week.
• 16:49
  SPEAKER_00: It's over and over and over again.
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_00: Even when I was healing my body, I was like, there's and then everyone told me, Oh, you're just gonna be bloated and tired all the time.
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_00: Like, that's normal, or there's like, you're fine.
• 16:58
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, no, I'm not fine.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_00: And I kept searching for an answer, and I kept holding the standard of like, I'm not gonna feel this way.
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_00: This is not acceptable to me, this is the life I want, and I kept going.
• 17:08
  SPEAKER_00: Keep going, keep going, keep going.
• 17:11
  SPEAKER_00: Alright, guys, I will see you in the next episode.