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FULL SHOW: Avoiding Small Talk & Selling A Car To Family · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
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  Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest, write.
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  Speaker 3: A picture that with a Kodak.
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  Speaker 1: I better yet all the time Square take a picture of.
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  Speaker 3: Me with a Kodak. Took my life from negative to
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  Speaker 3: a positive. I just wanted her to know that it tonight.
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  Speaker 3: It's enjoy life, not your New York. That's right.
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  Speaker 4: Don't you.
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  Speaker 5: Give me a break.
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  Speaker 4: We might not get Let's do it. Let's do it.
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  Speaker 6: Somebody's seas and the knife because.
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  Speaker 1: Tomorrow wants to do battle with one foot.
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  Speaker 5: Prince said, but tonight I can making my queen and
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  Speaker 5: make love to you. Hear list. It's insane the way
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  Speaker 5: the name.
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  Speaker 6: Growing money, keep throwing, hustle supersided, someone takes coming, keep growing.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta lock up like Lizzy Longing.
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  Speaker 5: Put it on my life, David.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna give your right babys promised to night.
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  Speaker 5: Excuse me, I'm like.
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  Speaker 4: To recollect it, and I said, it's not. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 4: take you home with me if I could.
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  Speaker 5: Save it. I'm gonna make you feel so good.
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  Speaker 4: Nakes, I'm no lo you to night. Give me a preting,
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  Speaker 4: no browing. We might not get tomorrow, do it tonight?
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  Speaker 7: I know it?
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  Speaker 4: And somebody sex and.
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  Speaker 5: Telling for the claus.
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  Speaker 3: If you don't pray, you said on them over world,
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  Speaker 3: take about it because.
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  Speaker 5: If you slip, I'm going on top of your girl
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  Speaker 5: would be mom, but be in a bad baby bab
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  Speaker 5: and it ain't no.
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  Speaker 3: See Chris, my family's from Cuba, but I'm another man.
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  Speaker 3: Record might have been money like seeing Chris coming on
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  Speaker 3: my life.
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  Speaker 4: Man.
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  Speaker 5: I'm mean, you feel right, David.
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  Speaker 3: Can't you promise tomorrow? But that's promised tonight And I'm
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  Speaker 3: more than I should.
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  Speaker 5: I might take you home with me if I could.
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  Speaker 4: Say, I don't make you feel so good?
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  Speaker 3: Do you.
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  Speaker 4: Give me pre big? We might not get the mother
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  Speaker 4: to do it. Don't do it? Somebody sex tell.
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  Speaker 5: Strange strain, strain.
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  Speaker 4: Not rain.
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  Speaker 3: Two point seven kids. Now you were talking about your husband, Michael.
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  Speaker 3: He's in a band, a couple of tours over the summer.
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  Speaker 8: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: They actually just did the Whiskey a go go last Friday,
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  Speaker 2: which happened to be the day after Justin Bieber.
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  Speaker 9: Did a surprise show there at the Whiskey.
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  Speaker 3: He used the same dressing Justine, literally the.
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  Speaker 9: Same stage, all that which I thought was the kind of.
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  Speaker 3: Like following in the footsteps of Justin Bieber. Michael, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: how cool is that? Always got another hobby.
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, here's the thing. So I'm being very supportive
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  Speaker 2: right with this band. I think I'm being a really
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  Speaker 2: good wife.
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  Speaker 3: And and we're mentioning them on the radio. Bird look
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  Speaker 3: them up, echo bird. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So Michael has recently started to golf and this is
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  Speaker 2: and it's funny. It almost like I took pride, you know,
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  Speaker 2: when I talked to like my friends and like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my husband golf's all time. He's always gone. I'm always
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  Speaker 2: like so prideful that like Michael doesn't golf. And I
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  Speaker 2: was like, oh, Michael's home every weekend, Like when are
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  Speaker 2: you talking with me?
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  Speaker 4: All of that.
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  Speaker 2: So he went golfing on Sunday with some of the
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  Speaker 2: other dads in the second grade, like the second grade dads,
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  Speaker 2: and uh, I didn't realize how long he would be gone.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why people play golf.
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  Speaker 9: I thought maybe four hours maybe, but it wasn't even that.
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  Speaker 3: It was like the prep.
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  Speaker 2: He got picked up at eleven thirty by one of
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  Speaker 2: the dads and he was already mentally gone since like
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  Speaker 2: nine am.
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  Speaker 9: Like because he was like looking for his golf things
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  Speaker 9: and like looking for it's like I have to work out.
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  Speaker 3: He was like like lifting weights.
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  Speaker 4: He was lifting weights.
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  Speaker 2: He was like lifting weights in the garage like stretch
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  Speaker 2: him because he doesn't play golfing. He wanted to warm up,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like I didn't want to pull a muscle.
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  Speaker 2: So he was literally gone from ten in the morning
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  Speaker 2: until seven o'clock at night the whole Sunday.
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  Speaker 3: So it's going to start like this, It's going to
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  Speaker 3: turn into weekend buddy golf getaway trips. I'm just warning.
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  Speaker 2: I know it is because I have girlfriends that they
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  Speaker 2: have husbands who do these weekend trips.
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  Speaker 3: And I have friends that play golf. They get out
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  Speaker 3: of the house for four five hours, yes, and they
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  Speaker 3: play golf with strangers that's show up at the golf
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  Speaker 3: course and they get paired up with somebody and they
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  Speaker 3: play because they want to escape life. They don't want
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  Speaker 3: to be doing chores over the weekend.
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  Speaker 9: You have to have like at least four I think,
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  Speaker 9: and so they only have three. So they had a
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  Speaker 9: random person.
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  Speaker 3: You don't have to have four. Maybe sometimes t times,
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  Speaker 3: but whatever, the point is, I see golf respect it,
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  Speaker 3: not good at it. It can't be an excuse to
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  Speaker 3: get out of the house. I know some friends that
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  Speaker 3: golf to get away from having to be home.
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  Speaker 9: But I also want him to make friends with these guys.
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  Speaker 3: Because here, I mean six hours. I know exactly, go
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  Speaker 3: to the gym, lift weights to a fifty minute pilates class.
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  Speaker 3: Six hours.
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  Speaker 9: He basically did that before the golf.
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  Speaker 3: Mark you played golf never ever, ever. But my dad
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  Speaker 3: is one of those guys that plays with strangers just
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  Speaker 3: to get out of the house.
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  Speaker 2: Is it just to get out of the house, or
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  Speaker 2: do you like enjoy the sport? I mean they're in
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  Speaker 2: a car hurt, you're walking, he said, he walked three miles.
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  Speaker 3: People they enjoy it and they're good at it, and
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  Speaker 3: it's a it's a it's a sport and it's a
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  Speaker 3: fast time. But a lot of people know that it's
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  Speaker 3: a five hour excuse to be away.
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  Speaker 9: I played it. I played a nine hole, which is
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  Speaker 9: not a full. I think eighteen is like.
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  Speaker 3: The eighteen is full. I get bored. You can play nine.
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  Speaker 3: I get bored after two. After two, I want to stop.
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  Speaker 9: And okay, you didn't enjoy it. I enjoy the like
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  Speaker 9: it's almost like you're trying to beat your best score.
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  Speaker 3: Every time three. I'm a three hole golfer and out.
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  Speaker 3: If I ever do it three hole or mini golf,
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  Speaker 3: like three mini and them out. Yeah, so we'll see. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: we're dealing with that. But you know what, I'm looking
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  Speaker 3: at this as like like I'm gonna like.
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  Speaker 9: Get to exactly. I'll cash in on this later.
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  Speaker 3: What are you going to do for four hours?
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  Speaker 9: I don't know, but I'll do my girls weekend trips
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  Speaker 9: and all that.
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  Speaker 3: Perfect. I'm in uh coming up next. I got five
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  Speaker 3: hundred bucks and back to school cash.
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  Speaker 9: Hang on, you're on air with Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 10: It's Gabby.
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  Speaker 3: Do you a picture of this, and I'll tell you
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  Speaker 3: this is if you met at six fifty five.
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  Speaker 11: Yes, I you you through the days of the plates
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  Speaker 11: of the cross in summer pet shoes, for the free
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  Speaker 11: fall of being younger, ma'amah, the sound of your bare
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  Speaker 11: footsteps running.
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  Speaker 9: It's been a long time.
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  Speaker 1: Life has ways of breathing those days being high, but
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  Speaker 1: seeing you too much.
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  Speaker 3: I remember I loved you.
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  Speaker 12: Came back when it meadow that I saw you sitting
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  Speaker 12: there in the light of the window where and that
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  Speaker 12: seemed smile.
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  Speaker 1: And it's been a while, but I knew it.
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  Speaker 4: I knew you, I knew it.
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  Speaker 1: I knew you.
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  Speaker 7: I knew you.
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  Speaker 11: Oh you blues like a mood ring change in colors
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  Speaker 11: you did do. There were times we could fight like brothers.
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  Speaker 1: I gos do job around the bendfloor.
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  Speaker 4: What I thought it would be the last time I
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  Speaker 4: saw my friend.
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  Speaker 1: But love has ways of playing things back to.
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  Speaker 4: All you said was high.
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  Speaker 3: And I remember I loved you.
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  Speaker 4: Came back when a bout that.
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  Speaker 12: I saw you sitting there in the side of the window,
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  Speaker 12: wearing that sea spot.
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  Speaker 4: Man, it's been a while, but I knew it.
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  Speaker 9: I knew you, I knew it.
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  Speaker 7: I knew you.
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  Speaker 3: I knew you.
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  Speaker 12: You was crying out when he said he was fine,
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  Speaker 12: wondering if i'd lead it up.
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  Speaker 1: Your family, and you told me, I love you came
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  Speaker 1: back when it mattered.
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  Speaker 11: I saw you standing there in the light of the
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  Speaker 11: window where and that's smile.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a why oh where that's smile? Then it's
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  Speaker 1: been a white man that's smile. There's been a wild
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  Speaker 1: But I knew it, I knew you, I knew it.
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  Speaker 9: Aknewyr Well, that seems fine.
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  Speaker 1: I knew it.
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  Speaker 13: I knew you, I knew it.
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  Speaker 3: What a two point seven kids up? Ben, Let's go
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  Speaker 3: to Witty or Sarah. How are you Sarah and Whittier
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  Speaker 3: this morning?
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  Speaker 14: Hi?
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  Speaker 15: Good? Thank you?
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  Speaker 7: Good to.
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  Speaker 3: Your cousin wants to buy your car, but you're not
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  Speaker 3: sure you should sell it to your cousin. What's the issue?
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  Speaker 15: Well, it's a cheap. The problem is it's old, so
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  Speaker 15: things tend to go wrong in old cars. And if
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  Speaker 15: she gives me sixteen thousand for it, which is what
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  Speaker 15: it's worth, and then something goes wrong, it's going to
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  Speaker 15: be awkward and she might ask for her money back. Yes,
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  Speaker 15: I mean it could really ruin a relationship, be like
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  Speaker 15: a whole family thing.
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  Speaker 3: So I think you're right. How do you tell her this?
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  Speaker 15: I don't know, Like I kind of wanted to sell
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  Speaker 15: out the car Masks or Carvana and then I don't
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  Speaker 15: have to deal with anything like that.
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  Speaker 3: You know, well, I think it's can't you just say
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  Speaker 3: you have a house rule that you don't do business
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  Speaker 3: with family so that it doesn't ever get awkward?
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  Speaker 9: I mean that right there is going to make it awkward.
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  Speaker 8: No, because it's not just that she really wanted to
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  Speaker 8: buy it, but.
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  Speaker 3: You have a choice. What's worse just saying you've got
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  Speaker 3: this rule that you you know that you always stand by,
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  Speaker 3: or taking the risk and having it get awkward if
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  Speaker 3: the car breaks down after you make the deal. I
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  Speaker 3: think it's better just to be straightforward and say, look,
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  Speaker 3: you don't want it to ever get uncomfortable out of
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  Speaker 3: respect for your relationship as family, and you don't want
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  Speaker 3: to make the deal. Okay, Yeah, it's it's easier that way.
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  Speaker 3: Other way, It's definitely easier that way than the other way.
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  Speaker 2: What can't you sign a contract or something like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: else say the car, but if anything happens, you can't
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  Speaker 2: blame me or be very transparent.
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  Speaker 9: Like if there's anything ever been issues with the car.
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  Speaker 3: This is all the stuff you want to avoid with
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  Speaker 3: family members, all of everything you just said. Yeah, I know,
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  Speaker 3: all right, Sarah, Well anything else we can do, good
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  Speaker 3: luck with the sale, I think yourself, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 3: If anything else, it shows it it's a hot commodity, right,
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  Speaker 3: cousin wants a car, somebody else gonna want the car
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  Speaker 3: free gases.
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  Speaker 9: Next, you're on air with Bryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 12: Explore what side I look that by you.
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  Speaker 4: Bye.
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  Speaker 14: Oh, when you're in tonight, tell me when is the
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  Speaker 14: next time I've went into you?
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  Speaker 1: It's insane.
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  Speaker 4: Bye, I'll wait the same.
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  Speaker 14: Bye, wait at your bedside.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna right next to you. I'm going Wednesday inside.
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  Speaker 9: Well, I'll see you tonight.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me how did the gun like you get into you?
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  Speaker 4: You will be my nas.
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  Speaker 14: I don't know you'll take in life control. Never been
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  Speaker 14: out road before, but I'm not going to your door.
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  Speaker 7: Your nice.
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  Speaker 14: So say the bridge gul you say you will treat
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  Speaker 14: me this way. A little voice out here the same
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  Speaker 14: say I'm going.
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  Speaker 4: I'm true. He's a like you're.
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  Speaker 5: Talking to you.
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  Speaker 14: She's my baby.
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  Speaker 5: You can be my baby. Clem to come to talk.
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  Speaker 1: Upgain me am very gedling.
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  Speaker 16: So I thought, whatever you can't be here with me,
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  Speaker 16: I stop on to my sail is on the plane
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  Speaker 16: first wait away like to stay happens, trying.
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  Speaker 1: To space like it's some mo sweetish going.
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  Speaker 14: Over space time prompending up making a head like boats.
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  Speaker 12: That's my ego, boats to schedule and men are manless.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, ben l ha ha ha, you're talking to your.
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  Speaker 17: Ches.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying continual che I don't say again that comes
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  Speaker 1: off a big bar.
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  Speaker 14: Now, I'm not getting your stars say never made.
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  Speaker 12: A sway girl, you say no one treats made his
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  Speaker 12: way or.
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  Speaker 3: All both I hear the same two point seven kids.
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  Speaker 3: So it's just I don't think it's embarrassing, and I
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  Speaker 3: don't think you should feel bad about being a person
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  Speaker 3: that doesn't like small talk. I'm with you. Small talk
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  Speaker 3: is no, I'm not good at it. I'm good at
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  Speaker 3: I'm good. I'm fine with this, right, I'm fine talking
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  Speaker 3: to you, right, fine talking to strangers one on one.
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  Speaker 3: I'm fine asking questions of you know, uber drivers. I'm
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  Speaker 3: fine talking in front of a million or two million people.
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  Speaker 3: But small talk is not my best strength.
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  Speaker 2: And also I need to be prepared for the small talk.
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  Speaker 2: If I know I'm going to a party where I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to see people, meet new people, whatever, I'm prepared
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  Speaker 2: for that, and I'm fine with that. But it's when
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  Speaker 2: like I have twenty minutes at the grocery store to
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  Speaker 2: get what I need to get out and then I
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  Speaker 2: bump into somebody that I don't really know that well,
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  Speaker 2: and then it's just awkward. And that happened to me
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  Speaker 2: the other day at Ralph's. I was there with Michael actually,
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  Speaker 2: and he goes, oh, that's so and So's dad, and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, and I kind of know, and
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  Speaker 2: then like and then we kind of make eye contact.
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  Speaker 2: But then I just belined it down a different aisle
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  Speaker 2: and I left Michael chatting with this guy for like
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  Speaker 2: fifteen minutes because I didn't want to talk.
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  Speaker 3: What would you have talked about? What he talking exactly?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 9: Michael can talk to anybody about anything for hours.
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  Speaker 3: But I just was like on a mission.
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  Speaker 9: I needed to get what I needed to get, and
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  Speaker 9: we needed to go.
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  Speaker 3: I like to I do like to talk sometimes, but
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  Speaker 3: when I don't, I do this whole thing about like
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  Speaker 3: you know, oh my, I just thought I had like
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  Speaker 3: three minutes to get everything done. I stopped. I was
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  Speaker 3: supposed to stop here, but I've got to get everything
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  Speaker 3: in in like three four minutes. I have a call,
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  Speaker 3: I have a call in the car.
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  Speaker 9: So and so you yeah, you give your out already
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  Speaker 9: right when you see them.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: No, I mean generally, I think even with us when
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  Speaker 3: we're on a phone call, like hey guys, I got
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  Speaker 3: two minutes. Yeah, if you have an out, it does help.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm with you, when I go to like a
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  Speaker 3: thing and they say, oh, come over at five thirty,
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  Speaker 3: dinner at six thirty. I don't want to go to
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  Speaker 3: the thing before. I don't like the thing.
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  Speaker 4: I don't mind that.
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  Speaker 3: I do love that.
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  Speaker 9: I love a social setting and like socializing. That's fine
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  Speaker 9: with me. But it's just like when I'm in the
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  Speaker 9: zone in my mission to accomplish stuff no time.
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  Speaker 3: But even socially, like I feel like people think I'm
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  Speaker 3: going to be good at small talk, and when I
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  Speaker 3: let myself and them down, I feel like they're really
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  Speaker 3: surprised by Now you are.
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  Speaker 9: Good at small talk and you're in denial at it.
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  Speaker 9: I know what you're thinking.
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  Speaker 3: It's difficult. I really have to pull anyway. Send Michael
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  Speaker 3: to the store next time I have send him alone.
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  Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest one of two point seven.
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  Speaker 3: It is kiss. A quote of the day coming in
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  Speaker 3: a moment, just to frame up your Friday as we
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  Speaker 3: get into a warm southern California weekend. Uh, Mikayla, check
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  Speaker 3: this out. When's your mom come in to town? What
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  Speaker 3: am I going to meet your mom again?
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  Speaker 9: Around Easter?
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  Speaker 3: So April can't wait?
• 18:41
  Speaker 18: She can't wait either, She excited she's so excited.
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  Speaker 3: What she most excited about.
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  Speaker 18: Meeting you and going to the set of Will of Fortune.
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  Speaker 18: That's all she talks about.
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  Speaker 3: That's right, We're gon We're gonna Vana White's gonna meet her.
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  Speaker 3: It's gonna be a whole thing. I bring up your
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  Speaker 3: mom because dating apps, you're on these things and they
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  Speaker 3: say that if you put a picture of this person up,
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  Speaker 3: you get a kick in traction, and that's your mom.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 9: You know when a guy has a picture with his mom,
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  Speaker 9: it always just kind of like gets me.
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  Speaker 18: I'm like, oh, wow, he must be a really nice guy,
• 19:19
  Speaker 18: and it likes his family.
• 19:21
  Speaker 9: That's not where my head went.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Well, and it gives you an inside look, you know,
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: because usually don't meet the parents until weeks, maybe even months,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: and so now you get to see like a little
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: bit of his past.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: Tanya, I used to not part a word there, and
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about it, Okay, Like was
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: not anatomy that we were Is that what you were
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: thinking about? Oh yeah, I.
• 19:41
  Speaker 9: Thought it was a tongue. Yeah, like you know, like
• 19:46
  Speaker 9: a picture like like their tongue.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Okay, Well, if I had my tongue out on a
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: dating app, that would be creepy. So immediately I guarantee.
• 19:58
  Speaker 9: You did Robbie have his tongue out on his picture.
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: He did not.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: He did not, but I did exactly Well, you got lucky.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: Here's today's quote. Starve distractions and feed focus. That is
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: the best. Like distractions, get forget about. They don't get you,
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: they can't get your way. But feed the focus. Feed
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: the things that are important, feed them. Highlight's number one
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: at music station is Kiss FM. All right, we're going
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: to pay another bill and it is a step closer
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: to bills being paid for a year for that person
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: might be you. Let's get the headlines first, Kiss FM headlines.
• 20:38
  Speaker 9: Yes so.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: A massive warehouse fire broke out in Vernon yesterday afternoon
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: near East forty ninth Street and Hampton Street, destroying the building,
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: and no injuries have been reported. A flattened truck driver
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: a flat bed truck driver was rescued after crashing into
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: a building near Pacific Coast Highway in a Pacific Pacific palisades,
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: leaving the driver trapped for nearly two hours. Orange County
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: lifeguards are on high alert as dangerous waves and strong
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: rip currents continue to create hazardous beach conditions this weekend,
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: and Netflix is being sued for one hundred and five
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: million dollars after a hard drive containing an unreleased Nicholas
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Cage movie was allegedly lost and then later stolen from
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: its Los Angeles offices.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: So, you know, there are things in life that I
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: call thinking the dudes, or thinking with gadgets or making thingies.
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: I didn't know they had names. I just give them
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: that kind of a description. And these are almost like
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: every day life things or every life thing's for sure.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: And I saw this on social media. I no, I
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: don't know if it's because I dropped out of college. Like, Sophia,
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: do you know this stuff? You're in college?
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: No?
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: Do you know the smell after rain, when it rains
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: for the first time in a long time. That smell
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: has a smell name, it does, Oh, Tony, you know that.
• 22:04
  Speaker 9: I don't know the name, but I know that smell
• 22:06
  Speaker 9: very vividly.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: Would you're a student, Sophia, do you know?
• 22:09
  Speaker 18: No, I've never I didn't even know there was a name.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't either, all these years on this planet.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: I just said it smells nice. It's called petrocore.
• 22:17
  Speaker 9: Petro core because that rolls off the tongue.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm never going to use that. I'm never I
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: was gonna say, yeah, it seems clean.
• 22:24
  Speaker 9: What lovely petricore we have this morning?
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: Is that the petri core? Like everyone walk away from
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: me and quit being friends with me. So you know
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: when you order a pizza and there's a little plastic table, oh,
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: a little Barbie table.
• 22:34
  Speaker 9: Yes, use it for barbiees.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: So do we?
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: We?
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: I mean, I mean I would, but I don't. But
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: your it's exactly in the middle of your pizza box.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: It is called it has a name. It is not
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: a Barbie patio table. It's a box tint.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 22:50
  Speaker 9: Do you do you know why they use that?
• 22:52
  Speaker 7: Well?
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, to keep the cardboard from smash in the cheek,
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: to keep the pizza from yea, all right, next, so listen,
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: these are words that are very very could be used
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: almost every day. I had no idea they existed. The
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: day after tomorrow is called overmorrow. I've never said that.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: I've never said that overmorrow. What are you guys doing overmorrow?
• 23:18
  Speaker 9: What I'm going to start using that?
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: Do you make some plans for Overmorrowbody? Somebody to see
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: what they say. I can't send that out to somebody
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: and see if they go, huh, what overmorrow? Now, wine drinkers,
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: how about the little wired cage over the cork on
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: your bottle of wine. It has a name. It's called
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: a graph. I can't even remember these.
• 23:41
  Speaker 9: Names, like a champagne bottle, like that little.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: Cage exactly, the little cage, the thing you twist, the
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: twist and then you poke your eye out. And this
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: one I had no idea. I experienced this every day,
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: even Overmorrow. And the feeling, it's that feeling that it's
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: really hard to get out of bed, like that feeling
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: that you go, oh, you just think it's it's just
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: too early or too tired or too sore. It's called dysnia.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: That has a name, dysania. It sounds dangerous. I don't
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: want to say, you know, it sounds like you need
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: medication for dysania. Does so these are words you will
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: never hear me use. But I had no idea some
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: of these routine things had real specific words. Maybe maybe
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: pick one and see, like if anybody in your circle
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: it looks at you crazy. Over Marrow might be the
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: easiest to remember, right because you can get ready for
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: over mar for the weekend se Crest here, second date,
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: up date, Dear all of us. We met on hinge
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: and realized we had actually met before to party years ago.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: That seems like a good start, right, You already kind
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: of know there was something there. They go on three
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: dates and the last one ended with a sleepover, and
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: now she's not responding, wants this one like it doesn't.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: I don't know. It doesn't take a magician to get
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: to the solution. No, it might not be. Well, well,
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: come on, if you're doing stats, odds are Kevin, good morning,
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: and thanks for coming on with us.
• 25:15
  Speaker 7: Good morning, Thank you guys for having me.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: So Sisney thinks it's because there was a failure on
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: the night. I do actually there might have been a
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: failure on the.
• 25:23
  Speaker 9: Night performance or the performance in general.
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: I would hope not.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: I speaking of that story of admitting your failures, this
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: would be a tough one to admit, right Kevin, for anybody, Yeah,
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: and I would.
• 25:37
  Speaker 7: That's I'm like ninety nine point nine percent sure, there's
• 25:40
  Speaker 7: no way it was like a performance.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: But it could be, like it happens. It's fine, it
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: could be.
• 25:45
  Speaker 7: You're right, and I just will until that's like said
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: to me, that. No, I don't want to think about.
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: All right, So in your mind, what could have gone wrong?
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: You guys knew each other, you had to pass you
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: met on hinge, that's a good sign. You go on
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: three dates, that's a great sign. We have this sleepover
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: and it's over. What happened in your mind?
• 26:03
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: No's I'm trying to figure it out. I have everything
• 26:07
  Speaker 7: that I can imagine about. It was perfect a night
• 26:10
  Speaker 7: of honestly on schedule. It's like three days. It didn't
• 26:13
  Speaker 7: feel too soon. Didn't feel like it was perfect, I
• 26:16
  Speaker 7: will say immediately the next morning, her demeanor was just different.
• 26:19
  Speaker 7: So I'm trying to figure out, like what does she like?
• 26:21
  Speaker 7: Didn't X call her when I was asleep? Did I
• 26:24
  Speaker 7: pass gas? Did I just snored? It like she didn't
• 26:26
  Speaker 7: sleep at all? Like what happened when I went to
• 26:29
  Speaker 7: sleep and woke up? That changed her demeanor because from
• 26:32
  Speaker 7: what I remember, it was great, like I expected a
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: fourth Okay, all right, well I'm.
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: Clear on this and she's agreed. I believe. Here the
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: back room is telling me she's agreed to come on
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: with us, So stand by, will get Liz is her
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: name on the phone next to kiss you know when
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: something is a little off, like you get rejected or
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: someone blows you off. I talk to myself. Do you
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: talk to yourself to try and figure out, like why
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: why did this happen? What does she not like about me?
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: Like I have an inner dialogue about it?
• 26:58
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I think we all do InterVoice.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: So Kevin has that and he wants us to actually
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: find out for him. He knew this woman named Liz
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: from back in the day. They had actually met at
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: a party. Now cut to today these you know currently
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: they met on Hinge, They went out for three dates,
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: they had a sleepover, and after that sleepover, sheet cut
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: it off. He doesn't know why. He thinks maybe he
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: did something, he snored or something else. We're not quite
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: sure either, but Kevin, Liz has agreed to come on
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: and tell us. So hold tight, don't say anything. We're
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: just gonna ask her next.
• 27:32
  Speaker 10: All right, tells you that.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. Hey, Liz, it's Ryan Seacrest, Sisannitanya, everybody.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: How are you good? How are you good? You're on
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: the air with us. Okay, so we know you went
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: out with a guy named Kevin. You you knew him
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: from the past, and you met on Hinge and went
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: out three dates. Why did you decide not to go
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: on a fourth date with Kevin?
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 27:56
  Speaker 10: Oh good, okay, well, you know dating is not easy,
• 27:59
  Speaker 10: but that's a run for another day. What about him?
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: Actually, what about him? No, that's what I'm saying. Why
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: why three dates and not a fourth?
• 28:08
  Speaker 9: Yeah, something happened.
• 28:09
  Speaker 10: Oh, I mean it's I feel like he's not a
• 28:13
  Speaker 10: bad guy. But you know what, I feel like parents
• 28:16
  Speaker 10: are not raising young man probably.
• 28:18
  Speaker 9: Actually, Oh, tell me more.
• 28:20
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean he was a nice guy. We had
• 28:23
  Speaker 10: some dates, we stayed he stayed over. So the next
• 28:26
  Speaker 10: morning I get up to make us breakfast and he
• 28:30
  Speaker 10: lays in bed. He comes to breakfast, he eats everything
• 28:33
  Speaker 10: in like thirty seconds, and then he sits on the
• 28:36
  Speaker 10: couch scrolls while I'm doing everything cleaning up. And he
• 28:41
  Speaker 10: didn't offer any help, you know, And he.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: Saw a different kind of guy after the night. Yeah, yeah, okay, So.
• 28:48
  Speaker 10: I was thinking we could now go for a walk
• 28:51
  Speaker 10: or something, But after seeing all of that, I was done.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, list Kevin is on the line hearing this. Kevin,
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: you were you had all of this charisma going in
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: and then after the night, you didn't things change. Do
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: you understand what she's telling you?
• 29:08
  Speaker 7: I ashamed. I'm ashamed.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 29:13
  Speaker 7: Now. You're right about that. Honestly, She's on thousand percent right,
• 29:16
  Speaker 7: and I really feel embarrassing it. That was really rude.
• 29:20
  Speaker 7: I didn't think about all of those actions kind of
• 29:24
  Speaker 7: what it came across.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Like, So, Lizen, now that you hear him say that,
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: is there a shot that you'd want to see him again?
• 29:31
  Speaker 14: No?
• 29:31
  Speaker 8: No, I don't think so.
• 29:33
  Speaker 7: Wow.
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: All right, Well, well, thank you very much everyone.
• 29:37
  Speaker 7: Sorry for that. I didn't I didn't realize that. I'm sorry.
• 29:41
  Speaker 10: It's okay, but you know what, like, all I can
• 29:44
  Speaker 10: think about a relationship with you will be sleeping in
• 29:49
  Speaker 10: playing video games on the couch while I'm doing everything
• 29:52
  Speaker 10: now I mean, and also, you left the total seat up.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: So this is a good lesson for all of us, aful,
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: but good lesson for everybody listening right now. Thank you both.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: Wait hold, hold, has anyone ever made you breakfast the
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: night off or the morning after? Yeah? Yeah, yeah? On
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: air with Ryan Seacrest. Now, Tani, can we just go
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: here for a second, Let's stop what we're gonna do.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: But you do it, I think in a good way.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: You do try and match make like you look for
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: people in your life, and you run across a lot
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: of people and you chat with everybody, so you get
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: to know everyone, even strangers, And every once in a
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: while you say to yourself, Oh, eureka, I think I've
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: found the match for you. I think I know someone
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: who's good for you. In this case, it's your doctor.
• 30:49
  Speaker 9: Yes, it is my doctor.
• 30:52
  Speaker 17: And it is not a best friend of mine. I'd
• 30:55
  Speaker 17: say she's a good friend of mine, But I just
• 31:00
  Speaker 17: don't know if it's a bad thing because it's my doctor.
• 31:03
  Speaker 17: Like I don't hang out with him, like you know
• 31:06
  Speaker 17: what I mean, Like I don't. I'm not hanging with him.
• 31:09
  Speaker 17: I don't know how to if I suggest it, What
• 31:12
  Speaker 17: if it goes bad and then he's my doctor?
• 31:16
  Speaker 18: I just I'm not sure.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: What kind of doctor is it?
• 31:21
  Speaker 9: He is a spine doctor.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: Spine doctor? Friend?
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Is it?
• 31:29
  Speaker 9: She's a good friend of mine? What do you mean
• 31:32
  Speaker 9: what kind of friend?
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: I'm just wondering how close she is.
• 31:34
  Speaker 17: She's not in my like my my my inner circle
• 31:37
  Speaker 17: of best friends, but she's on the circle right outside
• 31:40
  Speaker 17: of it, Okay.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: And is our spine doctor's fun.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: He's so cool like he is just a cool guy,
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: So it could be a good match. I feel like
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: you could have a good personality and he could vibes.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: He's literally just like so cool.
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: What's the downside if it's like weird?
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: I just don't want.
• 32:02
  Speaker 17: I don't want any sort of weirdness when I'm going
• 32:05
  Speaker 17: to any sort of doctor or somebody in adults.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think they are adults. Is a doctor
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: and he shouldn't be talking about it anyway. Look, it
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: is a very very cool thing to be somebody that
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: wants to connect other people because you just it's a
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: good trait. But there's more downside for you than there
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: is upside for them, because if and when it does
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: go wrong, you're gonna feel bad. You're going to be
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: in the middle of it. Odds are won't work out.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: So odds are I could, though.
• 32:35
  Speaker 9: They're both really.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: I would just if it were me and a doctor
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: of mine, I would stay out of it.
• 32:43
  Speaker 9: Did they ask you to set them up? No, then
• 32:45
  Speaker 9: I'd stay out of it. Well, then that's out of it.
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: Out of it.
• 32:50
  Speaker 18: It's so cool.
• 32:51
  Speaker 9: I'm like, I have to I have he has a girlfriend.
• 32:55
  Speaker 12: I don't.
• 32:56
  Speaker 18: I don't know.
• 32:57
  Speaker 9: Actually I haven't asked.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: This is you know in life. I've learned this in life,
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: stay out of Most people like the more you go
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: through life. But she got to start. The more you
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: go through life, the more you should stop getting involved
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: with other people's business. It's just gonna be better off
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: for you. I like the idea and spirit, I would
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: not go for it. Keep us posted. How's your back?
• 33:23
  Speaker 18: Great?
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: Come the next back to school? Cash Kiss FM. It's
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: always interesting to check in with everybody here because everybody's
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: got a different life, different moving parts, different lifestyle, different lives.
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: Sophia is an intern. She's been interning here for it
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: feels like years. Now. Did your hair blue it is?
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Did you smurf? What would you smurf it up for?
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: I did?
• 33:48
  Speaker 18: I'm in my smurfet era right now.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: Attention for skeletor wow is just to get his attention.
• 33:58
  Speaker 18: The blue will make a mask, but I don't know.
• 34:00
  Speaker 18: I just want to switch it up. I'm twenty one now,
• 34:02
  Speaker 18: so I'm like, I might as well do something fun.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good step, all right, So tell me
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: about your roommate. I lived with three people, five people.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: I mean, I did this half my life. So what's
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: the problem now, what's the problem with your roommate.
• 34:18
  Speaker 13: Well, I'm here every morning with you guys on the show,
• 34:21
  Speaker 13: and by the time I get home, it's like eleven
• 34:23
  Speaker 13: or twelve. All I want to do is just make
• 34:26
  Speaker 13: myself some lunch by myself, have my headphones in, have
• 34:30
  Speaker 13: the kitchen space to myself right before I go to class,
• 34:33
  Speaker 13: like clockwork. When I get home, my roommate comes out
• 34:37
  Speaker 13: of her room with her little snugly robe and her
• 34:39
  Speaker 13: pjs and her slippers and starts taking out all the
• 34:42
  Speaker 13: pots and pants, cooking herself lunch, like making a drink
• 34:46
  Speaker 13: or something I don't.
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: Even know, a drink, like a like a juice drink.
• 34:52
  Speaker 13: Okay, yeah, this is a little early, but I'm just
• 34:55
  Speaker 13: and I don't know how to tell her, like get
• 34:57
  Speaker 13: out of my way, like just one day.
• 34:59
  Speaker 18: I want to have this kitchen to myself to relax.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, let me tell you how you do that,
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: because I wanted that too. I had to take on
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: four jobs at once. And once you do, you can
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: then say to yourself and your roommate, I need to
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: move out to have my own space and my own
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: kitchen and my own apartment at this moment, at this
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: stage in your life. These are things you have to
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: deal with. It's just what roommates do. I mean, roommates
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: do weird gross things.
• 35:30
  Speaker 9: You got to create a schedule.
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just part of be like it is what
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: it is. At this point, you're sharing and that's what
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: you deal with. You know, you're going to have to
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: deal with her clanking in the morning with their little
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: my little kitty robe or whatever she wears. It happens,
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: it happens, I know.
• 35:52
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: This reminds me when I was first starting to date Michael.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: He would have to come up from San Diego. We
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: did long distance for two years. And on the days
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: where he would come, for whatever reason, Taja would want
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  Speaker 2: to cook like shrimp in the kitchen and the whole
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  Speaker 2: like hallway of the apartment would stink up and pative.
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  Speaker 9: But that's the thing, and it was just like shrimp,
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  Speaker 9: shrimps got to be exactly.
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  Speaker 3: You got to get approve of first stuff.
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  Speaker 9: But I told her I did. I had a conversation
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  Speaker 9: with her. I was like, hey, Michael's coming over her,
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  Speaker 9: can you just not like cook fish? Like the house
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  Speaker 9: doesn't smell like fish.
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  Speaker 3: I mean named Louis and Louie. He didn't work.
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  Speaker 7: I worked.
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  Speaker 3: I come on from work. That guy was sitting there
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  Speaker 3: in basketball shorts, no shirt. This is not a Louie.
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  Speaker 3: You wanted to see a no shirt on the black
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  Speaker 3: leather couch. And he would just sit there and he
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: would eat cold canned Campbell's soup, not even heated, wow
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  Speaker 3: out of the can, and he would leave the cans
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  Speaker 3: on the coffee table, and then he would burp and
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: he would do things that like it made me for sure,
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: not like guys for by a year because he But
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  Speaker 3: this is part of rooming. It's actually it actually motivates
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  Speaker 3: you to do to get a job.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, no, wonder you had four jobs. You're like, I
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  Speaker 9: gotta get out of here.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta get out of this guy eating creama mushroom
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  Speaker 3: and leaving it on the table cold. So we have
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  Speaker 3: no solution. But if you want to get to two
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  Speaker 3: or three jobs, I advocate. She was going on a
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  Speaker 3: first date and the guy changed it at the last
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  Speaker 3: minute because his ex was at the restaurant they're supposed
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: to go to, And she's wondering, is that a red flag? Anna?
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  Speaker 4: Good morning?
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  Speaker 3: Why why do you think this could be a red flag. Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: So basically, I just I was on my way to
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  Speaker 8: a date and he let me know, like as I'm
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  Speaker 8: walking into the restaurant that we had to change locations
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  Speaker 8: and because there, Yeah, exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Why is that a bat on him?
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  Speaker 10: Well?
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  Speaker 8: I don't know, Like maybe I'm overthinking it, but is
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  Speaker 8: it a red flag? Like does he why can't he
• 38:05
  Speaker 8: get along with his X or like why can't he
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  Speaker 8: be in the same room with her?
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  Speaker 10: Is he not over her?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: I think it's distracting. I mean, look, I I have fun,
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: very fun feeling what's the word not feeling anything?
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  Speaker 9: What feelings anything?
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  Speaker 3: But a great, good relationship with my ex and I
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  Speaker 3: still wouldn't want to like be in the same room
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  Speaker 3: when they were with somebody else.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just distracting. It's distracting. It's actually not fair
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  Speaker 3: to you or to the ex and it's distracting. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: So I don't think it's a red flag. I really don't.
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  Speaker 3: You got to give this guy a shot. He's probably
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  Speaker 3: just trying to make it comfortable for you. Wouldn't you
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: find it uncomfortable his exes in the restaurant?
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  Speaker 8: I mean yeah, but like I don't if it was me, like,
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  Speaker 8: I would want people to see me like happy, like
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  Speaker 8: starting with somebody else maybe.
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  Speaker 3: Means that's a game. Yeah, okay, I'm gonna agree.
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  Speaker 4: With me on this.
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  Speaker 1: How did you.
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  Speaker 3: How easy is that?
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  Speaker 9: How did you find out it was his exit? He
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  Speaker 9: tell you specifically?
• 39:12
  Speaker 8: Yeah he did.
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  Speaker 9: Then that's a green flag too, because then he could
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  Speaker 9: have lied about it. He could have just not even
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  Speaker 9: told you.
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  Speaker 3: Get this guy in the calendar. Yeah, get him in
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: the calendar again.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, okay, I will makes sense right, No.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: Red, no red, green, green green green green grass ahead
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• 39:39
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