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How to Find Your Life Purpose (and Not Give Up on Yourself) · Conscious Mastery: The Science and Spirituality of Creating Your Next Level in Life

• 0:17
  SPEAKER_00: Hi, welcome back to Conscious Mastery.
• 0:20
  SPEAKER_00: I am your host, Crystal Ward, intuitive life coach and energy healer.
• 0:25
  SPEAKER_00: Today we are gonna talk about something that is on my mind after running a financial flow webinar today.
• 0:34
  SPEAKER_00: It is it is the idea of our purpose.
• 0:38
  SPEAKER_00: I've been in the coaching industry for seven years now, and I have seen a lot of people give up on not just their dreams but their purpose.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like at a certain point, it's not about the desire to have money or the desire to have a nice business where you can enjoy a luxury lifestyle, but at the core of it, the driver of it is being connected to your purpose.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anybody who has ever trained or offered services as a life coach or therapist or healer, but I'm really talking about people who have our own businesses.
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  SPEAKER_00: That the core of it is the desire to help people change their lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we are all, every single person, whether you've been a coach or are a healer or have a business, we are all uniquely designed to do something that the world has never seen before.
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  SPEAKER_00: All all billions of us, all billions of us.
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_00: And but we don't hear that in school.
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  SPEAKER_00: I remember in it was like second or third grade, we took this career test on the computer.
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  SPEAKER_00: Computers were pretty new at that point.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if you guys remember NeoPets, but I would play Neopets in in class after doing these kinds of things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um and I got that I would be a good trash pickup driver or a fucking clown.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what questions that thing asked, but I am neither a clown.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I clown around sometimes.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do like to make a joke here or there, and I'm pretty sarcastic a lot of the times, but um trash pickup driver.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_00: I actually maybe that thing was on to something because I do love driving and I love racing, and I kind of have this desire to be a race car driver, but I'm way too claustrophobic to ever really um explore that as an actual hobby in life.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_00: Yet maybe I can do some healing on that.
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  SPEAKER_00: But so we are conditioned to think from an early age, like what they people ask, what do you want to be when you grow up?
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  SPEAKER_00: Firefighter, astronaut, you know, the classic things that little kids want to do.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's really cool because that question does kind of help instill this idea that you can be whatever you want to be, but it's not taken to the degree of like, what do you what do you want to create in the world?
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  SPEAKER_00: And I know as a child it would be very hard to conceptualize an idea of like what do you want to create in the world that's never been done, but as we get older, we're not we're still not thinking in that in that way.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what I have learned is that we all do have we have innate skill sets, and uh for example, my top two skill sets, soul skill sets, are intuition, mastery, and energy healing.
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  SPEAKER_00: But we all have like, I don't know, 12 or so, I think is the number, maybe even more.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those are the only ones I've had intuitively checked for me, though.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with those skill sets and the other skill sets that I am designed with, I am supposed to create something with those that the world has never seen.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, from my point right now, I am 35 years old.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do not know what that's gonna be, but I do know that I am at least taking the steps to get there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Rewind seven years ago when I started taking classes to be a life coach, I had no idea that intuition and energy healing.
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  SPEAKER_00: I kind of had an inkling that energy healing would be something spiritual too, but I didn't actually know that I was designed to do something unique.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what I did know is that I had a desire in my heart to help people.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I took steps to do that, and then lo and behold, years later, I find out that, oh wow, we we are all designed to do something unique.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm glad that I'm on the right path.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's not to say that, you know, if you have a job where you don't feel connected to your purpose there, that you're not on the right path.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because every job we've ever had, all of our experiences and circumstances and challenges in life and obstacles, they we it is actually our higher selves directing us to those situations because our higher self knows what we need to do in order to what we need to overcome, what we need to learn, what we need to the skills we need to use in our life in order to get where we need to go to create this new thing in the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: And obviously, not you know, not everyone is creating something new for the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a lot of limiting program out there, and you know, get a job, get a degree, go work for someone else and have security and stability in life.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's that's a that's a big theme for a lot of people.
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  SPEAKER_00: But there are a lot of us, and if you're listening to this, this is probably you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have something, you have this ambition in your heart to do something big in your life, and it highly likely does involve having a business.
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  SPEAKER_00: And having a business isn't just about selling stuff and making money, it is about helping people in your unique way that you want to help people.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, like for and for example, with a job and the skill sets, I've been my part-time job as a restaurant server, and I've been doing that for almost 20 years.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not my life purpose, but I am using a lot of skills in restaurant serving that are going that are being used in my life purpose, and they will be used in whatever that unique thing that I create down the road will be, such as multitasking and multitasking under pressure and prioritizing very quickly and communication, guiding people to have a particular type of experience, all of these things can and will be used in my life as an intuitive energy healer.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's kind of two routes I want to take this.
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  SPEAKER_00: One is that if you feel like you know, time is ticking and you're not connected to your purpose and you might not even know what that is, and you're in your 30s, you might even be in your 40s, you might even be in your 50s.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not too late.
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  SPEAKER_00: That everything up until this point has been getting you ready, and you possibly have something I talked about in the webinar today.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you would like a replay of that, please email me, K-R-Y-S-T-A-L at crystalwar.com, all about opening up financial flow in your life and building wealth.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you might have what I mentioned as a physical bottleneck.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might be making decent money, but feeling like you are just not connected to your purpose.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there could actually be an energetic bottleneck as well, the belief that you are here for a bigger purpose and that you do deserve to tap into that purpose and discover that for yourself, but also maybe looking at the actions that you're taking.
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_00: Are you just going to a job, clocking in, clocking out, going home, and then enjoying the weekend?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or are you taking steps, physical steps, to look into different avenues of life?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, are you looking into possible ways you can volunteer?
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  SPEAKER_00: That's I love recommending that to people who want to maybe discover more of what their purpose is because something that you would volunteer for and give your time freely is very, very, very, very much connected to something that you that is part of your purpose.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, for me, that would look like if I were to volunteer, I love volunteering with animals or helping people who are possibly sick or just need extra care and compassion from other human beings.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's one way to look at it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Another way to find your purpose is or find elements of your purpose is what were you really, what did you enjoy as a child?
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  SPEAKER_00: What were you connected to as a child?
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  SPEAKER_00: And using that inner, you know, because the children, we're we're so we're so connected to our intuitive inner higher self.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, so connect with your inner child a bit.
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  SPEAKER_00: Who who did you used to be?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that's probably part of who you are meant to become as well.
• 10:53
  SPEAKER_00: And then who this episode is really for, this was the inspiration to get on the mic today, was people who are tapped into their purpose a little bit, but and you might even have a business, and you might have had it like me for like seven years, but still not feel like you are where you want to be.
• 11:12
  SPEAKER_00: I see way too many, way too many people giving up on their dreams and their goals and kind of throwing in the towel on the whole life purpose business thing because it's not happening fast enough.
• 11:26
  SPEAKER_00: Like, oh, I tried this thing for a few days, weeks, even maybe a couple months, but it didn't give me the results that I wanted.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_00: So I quit, and then they get a job and they feel like, okay, well, I have this job now, I have a little bit of financial security, stability, and then we just so easily get swept away by the routine of life that we then forget that oh, I had this other purpose as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: We live in a in a culture where things come very, very quickly.
• 11:56
  SPEAKER_00: You can text or call anyone and expect a response immediately.
• 12:01
  SPEAKER_00: We can order a package, and depending where you live and where you order it from, it can be delivered within in two hours, even quicker sometimes.
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_00: And we don't have to wait for letters from like grandma, you know, on a pigeon carrier anymore.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_00: And because of this conditioning, we are now we've now adapted to think that everything in life should be instant, including creating creating a business.
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_00: I was telling somebody on the webinar today that I was like, how you will know if it is your purpose and not just an ego desire.
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_00: She had a really good question about how do I know if it's an ego desire, is you would be willing to do it for free forever.
• 12:43
  SPEAKER_00: You have to be willing, like your purpose is something that you would be okay doing for free.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not because you should be doing it for free.
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  SPEAKER_00: You 100% need to be compensated for your gifts and your skills and your services, but you love it so much that you would be okay doing it for free.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is how you know that is a heart desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is how you know you are here, that is something that your soul is here to do.
• 13:08
  SPEAKER_00: We should never give up.
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  SPEAKER_00: How my teacher describes this is grains of sand on a justice scale.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you were looking at a scale, and you every every new action you take in your business or on your path of your dreams and your soul career, everything you're doing is adding a grain of sand.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you have to add so many grains of sand until you really see the movement you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, you know, we've got to really, we've got to stop expecting ourselves to have created everything we wanted overnight or in a year or even in five years.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I've been doing this for seven years, and I am finally at a point where people pay me every week for my services.
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  SPEAKER_00: That could be one client, that could be four clients.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think I've had maybe up to five paid sessions in one week, and I'm not afraid to admit that that I'm I am still at a point where I am, I have to have a part-time restaurant job, one for the flexibility, and I'm a single mom, so I don't work there the weeks that I have my daughter.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a really awesome situation, and I'm glad that I'm in that industry.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_00: But, you know, I don't want to be working at restaurants forever because the more I'm working at restaurants, the less time I have to work on my business and the less time I have to serve other people.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I am not giving up on myself because I know my dreams, they're bigger than I am.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're bigger than I can conceptualize right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't even know, you know, my end state.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know how much money I'm gonna be making per year in the long run.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know how many people I'm gonna be helping, but I know that this is what I'm supposed to be doing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm not gonna give up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, and so I don't want you to give up.
• 14:47
  SPEAKER_00: That's my whole point here is that just keep keep going.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_00: Just keep adding new things to what you do, build a community, do webinars like I do.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_00: Some of them have 11 people, some of them I've had as low as two people.
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  SPEAKER_00: This one had four people.
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  SPEAKER_00: You just put put in, do the motions, do the work, put in the effort, and keep pivoting.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, I've had I've had a launch or two where nobody signed up.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm in a launch right now for a money course, a paid money course, three-day training in November, um, called More Money Method, where I have, I think I have four people right now who have paid to be in that.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_00: It's in November, so I have a lot of time to launch, but I'm not, I can't, you know, if I look at my past results like, oh, you've had failed launches in the past, no one's gonna buy this.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_00: If that was my mentality, one, I probably never would have launched this, and two, my the energy, I would have an energetic bottleneck of not believing in the in myself enough to believe in the offer enough to then have people sign up.
• 15:50
  SPEAKER_00: But I fully believe in the offer, I'm fully rooted to my ability to serve people, and therefore people are buying it.
• 15:56
  SPEAKER_00: So you've got to be so rooted to you know, the connection you have with yourself and the connection you have with your service and your why, and that is gonna keep you going.
• 16:08
  SPEAKER_00: And if you were the person who was the person I mentioned who might be, you know, a few or more decades into your life and you're like, wow, I I think there's something more, don't give up on that.
• 16:20
  SPEAKER_00: Follow that, follow that nudge, follow that inner, you know, that inner spark you have to create something more in your life because you were designed to, you, you were designed to show up, like to have certain skill sets, to express a certain way in your life, and to show up offering something that is unique to you and you deserve, you really deserve to to have a life where you get to live that and share that with the world.
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_00: Email me again, crystal K R Y S T A L at CrystalWard W A R D dot com.
• 16:56
  SPEAKER_00: I can share more details about more money method if you are interested in a wealth building program that is in November, where we basically are amplifying your wealth broadcast system, the information in your energy that is sends a script to the world.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_00: And it when you have wealth written in that script, you sign more clients, you receive what I'm calling money miracles.
• 17:16
  SPEAKER_00: I've had some really cool money things happen just because I have prioritized my finances in a very particular way that expands my wealth aura, essentially.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: It is a it's a spiritual program backed with practical action steps and tools and sustainable ways to w build your wealth in front of you.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_00: So I used to be I'm a server, right?
• 17:39
  SPEAKER_00: I and a business owner.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_00: How am I gonna retire?
• 17:41
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have a retirement fund, I don't have a 401k.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_00: This has completely taken away any anxiety I have for my wealth in the future, which is not only benefits me but my family as well.
• 17:52
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, you guys, you have a purpose, you have you have a mission on this planet, and my favorite, favorite thing is helping people connect to that and remember why they're here.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_00: And if you are here right now, I guarantee you're supposed to do big things in this lifetime.