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Would You Ratherthon · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
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  Speaker 2: who talks.
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  Speaker 1: What's up y'all as a girl aj holiday, What's up? Tampam,
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  Speaker 1: y'all is tam bam.
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  Speaker 2: I love y'all so much, y'all came back. I'm so
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  Speaker 2: happy y'all came back to see us and to sit
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  Speaker 2: and chat with your girls.
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  Speaker 3: How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 1: My weekend was extravagant? Is that a word? Extraordinary?
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  Speaker 3: Extraordinary? What you do?
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  Speaker 1: I had a good weekend? So uh the local Charstonians, Uh,
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  Speaker 1: the Princess Diaries. Chris Kalen had a live show this
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  Speaker 1: weekend and she did a very very good job. I
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  Speaker 1: was highly impressed. Exactly her second live show on Drawston.
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  Speaker 1: I bought a ticket to the other one and didn't go.
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  Speaker 1: This morn she actually had me do a segment on
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  Speaker 1: the show and then we got like a proclamation, a
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  Speaker 1: proclamation from the city of Charleston. Oh wow, I want
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  Speaker 1: to I want to read all this right up and
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  Speaker 1: y'all let me know. Okay, go ahead, because the whole
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  Speaker 1: time I'm like, what the fuck they gonna write about
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  Speaker 1: me like, so now I feel like I gotta do
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  Speaker 1: for real some community work. Yeah, let me so it's
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  Speaker 1: the up. It was me and Charlemagne and Cardia Brown.
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  Speaker 1: She she's a chef. Yeah, she's a chef, and she
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  Speaker 1: has a restaurant here in the airport. I haven't ate
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  Speaker 1: it yet. I heard it was fire shit. Every time
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to the airport, child, I'm going fifteen minutes
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  Speaker 1: before I'm sped to be in the line trying to
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  Speaker 1: get on the flight, So I never have time to
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  Speaker 1: sit down and eat. But I have to make time
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  Speaker 1: one day because I don't think she's planning on doing
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  Speaker 1: like a restaurant outside airport anytime soon.
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  Speaker 2: So you and you gotta be traveling from Charleston to
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  Speaker 2: get food from her.
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  Speaker 1: And it be back now because I've seen it. It
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  Speaker 1: be packs and initially I didn't it was black owned. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So she was one of the guests for the live
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  Speaker 1: show in Charlemagne also, and then we had a proclamation
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  Speaker 1: from our hometown.
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  Speaker 3: They're so dope, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Man, So check it out. It says the City of
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  Speaker 1: Charleston recognizes individuals whose contributions strengthen our communities through service
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  Speaker 1: advocacy and cultural education, and so they you know, they
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  Speaker 1: they low read up Charlemagne read up and hers is like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, kind of thick heick on mind though it
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  Speaker 1: ain't thick, but it's good. I was so fucking geeky okay,
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  Speaker 1: says it, says Ashley AJ James, co host of the
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  Speaker 1: nationally recognized We Tak Back podcasts. As a media leader, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you're the media leader whose work amplifies the voices of
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  Speaker 1: African American women and promotes authentic dialogue about mental health, empowerment,
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  Speaker 1: and social awareness. Her advocacy encourages women to embrace self knowledge, okay,
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  Speaker 1: confidence and connection across communities in the Carolinas and beyond
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  Speaker 1: clock that is more so, November twenty five is now
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  Speaker 1: hereby the Community Service and Cultural Awareness Recognition Day.
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  Speaker 2: So you got a day for us in Charleston, yes,
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  Speaker 2: hear me, and as the fucking clap y'all day.
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  Speaker 1: So now I gotta really do my nonprofit work right,
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  Speaker 1: so I can have like a longer because charing lists,
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  Speaker 1: of course, as long as shit right right and.
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  Speaker 2: Not just they gave you the push to do what
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  Speaker 2: you were already planning to do.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely so not to uh to not to not to
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  Speaker 1: try to compete, but so I did establish my five
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  Speaker 1: oh one c three for Mummy's House. Mummy's House, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: it is going to be an alternative to abortion. And
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  Speaker 1: Charleston they used to have places where young girls who
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  Speaker 1: get pregnant can go mm hmm and instead of having
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  Speaker 1: an abortion right, they can still go, have their children,
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  Speaker 1: have their have their kids go to school, still finish
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  Speaker 1: high school. And she's like that those type of places
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  Speaker 1: aren't around anymore. They only push abortion to black women,
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  Speaker 1: and it's not just black women. So what if there
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  Speaker 1: was a place Because there's a there's another place here
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  Speaker 1: called my Sister's House. So it's kind of kind of similar.
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  Speaker 1: But Charleston does not fuck with the homeless in any way.
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  Speaker 1: Everything is going to be like nonprofit like individual companies
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  Speaker 1: and people actually trying to do things. The city does
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  Speaker 1: nothing mm hmm for people in need as far as
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  Speaker 1: I'm concerned. So it's up to is that to the
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  Speaker 1: people man, So yeah, Mummy's House.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's great. Congratulations on that too. I think
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  Speaker 2: that's a great idea. They have a place to go
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  Speaker 2: and like, so this is while they're pregnant and then
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  Speaker 2: right after they're pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was fourteen and pregnant. Well, my mama
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  Speaker 1: put me out of jail. I'm putting me out of jail,
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  Speaker 1: putting me out the house, like unless I had an
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  Speaker 1: abortion that happened to me in real life. So imagine
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  Speaker 1: like you don't have to be faced with those circumstances.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it might be tough, but you have other
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  Speaker 1: options other than not having a kid.
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  Speaker 3: Right, Okay, well I think that's you said.
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  Speaker 1: How does it work? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: The only thing I'm concerned with is like.
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  Speaker 2: Parents saying that their kid like, let's say they want
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  Speaker 2: to their parents not putting them out. They want to leave.
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  Speaker 2: Can they come and stay there under law as a minor?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. And those are the things I got
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  Speaker 1: out of the kings. I guess I gotta work out.
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  Speaker 1: Are you still a minor once you have a child
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  Speaker 1: of your own at fifteen? You know, like kinda yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, are you still your mom's responsibility while also
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  Speaker 1: being having like a little person that you were also
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  Speaker 1: responsible for? I don't know, but I know I have
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  Speaker 1: no fucking choice, And you know, listen, I want to
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  Speaker 1: thank my mama from the bottom of my heart. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: because the nigga that I was pregnant for, Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: don't change. Ooh no either not. You're still a fucking
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  Speaker 1: stupid You gotta asked me for change. Like he drove
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  Speaker 1: past my mama's house and then somebody's yelling down the street, Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: come here. Mind, y'all. This is like seventeen years later
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  Speaker 1: plus probably because I was fifteen. I was fifty actually
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  Speaker 1: fifteen at the time, so now I'm like thirty five,
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  Speaker 1: thirty three. I was thirty three actually, never seen him
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  Speaker 1: kind of since that time in my life. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking like I'm a child, right right, So I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm yelling back down the street like you in a car,
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  Speaker 1: you come back, So the car pulls up in front
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  Speaker 1: of my bitch. I almost threw up in my mouth
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  Speaker 1: when I tell y'all, my mama saved my fucking life.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to your mama, Okay, But I tell y'all, my
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  Speaker 1: mama saved my life because guess what if I was
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  Speaker 1: if I had a kid by that Doude today, like
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  Speaker 1: nobody would know who my kid's dad is. I promise
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  Speaker 1: his dad would be dead, Like you know, figuratively speaking, right,
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  Speaker 1: Like she told y'all to tell the nigga yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: when he got out that car. I was so disgusted
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  Speaker 1: with myself. Y'all, he was so fine when I was
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  Speaker 1: a kid, because you don't know no fucking better. This
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  Speaker 1: grown ass man still looking like how he looked back
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  Speaker 1: then as a teenage boy is disgusting. He got paying
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  Speaker 1: stuck let's side, baby mama girl. I like, the fucking
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  Speaker 1: you'll stop, baby mama. He was like, I can't get
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  Speaker 1: your number. I said, no, I have a family plan,
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  Speaker 1: mind you. My nigga just got arrested, him in jail,
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  Speaker 1: Like this is why I'm at my mama house putting
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  Speaker 1: a fucking suitcase at the back of my trunk.
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  Speaker 3: I still got a family, playing.
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  Speaker 1: Got a family, playing nigga no yeah, and trying to
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  Speaker 1: tell me he don't got no kids. I'm like, my
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  Speaker 1: sister saw you, like at the gorehouse for child support. Shit,
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  Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Has plenty kids and you
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  Speaker 1: know this guy was retarded. I don't want to get
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  Speaker 1: on my soapbox about this, but I mean, like actually retarded,
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  Speaker 1: Like I think he come from like a long line
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  Speaker 1: of retarded people and maybe it's not retarded now, it's
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  Speaker 1: more like, you know, maybe he had like some some
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  Speaker 1: zelshal de lais or just bad. Just the full fucking
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  Speaker 1: family was just bad behavioral issues, yes, just bad, just
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  Speaker 1: doing shit and him I stupid, smart as pregnant for
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  Speaker 1: is dumb. We're tired of nigga and in love and
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  Speaker 1: thank you mama.
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  Speaker 3: So let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 2: If you had your business, if a business existed like
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  Speaker 2: the one that you wanted to create, and you went there,
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  Speaker 2: then you.
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  Speaker 3: Know you wouldn't have taken your mama's advice.
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  Speaker 1: No, I would not, right, But as now, as a
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  Speaker 1: woman forty one years old with no children, that decision
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  Speaker 1: wasn't my mom's. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So
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  Speaker 1: that's the one part that people don't talk about during
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  Speaker 1: you know, when it's election season, like all the people
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  Speaker 1: come out, the world works, they pushing all these different
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  Speaker 1: agendas and all this stuff. It's a lot of single
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  Speaker 1: women that are always pushing. Single women with no children
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  Speaker 1: or you know, married and got some step kids, but
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  Speaker 1: they have never had kids themselves. Examples Kamala Harris, Mary J. Blige,
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  Speaker 1: all these people like you see pushing these agendas they
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  Speaker 1: don't have kids her own. I can see it from
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  Speaker 1: both spectrums. I see it from both sides, right, So
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  Speaker 1: nobody tells those young girls, this might be your only
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  Speaker 1: chance to have a kid. I remember some years ago
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  Speaker 1: I was walking in a flea market and this Hispanic
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  Speaker 1: girl walked up on me. She was like, where's your kid?
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  Speaker 1: You were supposed to have your baby. I started crying, like, imagine,
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  Speaker 1: like this is not somebody who wanted money for me,
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  Speaker 1: Like this is just a real profit pulling up on me,
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  Speaker 1: telling me I was supposed to have my baby. Damn,
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  Speaker 1: and what if that's the only kid I might get.
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  Speaker 1: So those are the conversations that older women should be
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  Speaker 1: having with young girls. Because your body is telling you
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  Speaker 1: to reproduce. Ain't nothing you're gonna be able to do
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  Speaker 1: about that. You know, it's gonna be millions of years
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  Speaker 1: until the body says, hey, this is what we're doing.
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  Speaker 1: Now start having a cycle. Like it's really like a
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  Speaker 1: cat dog. Keep them at keep them kids' asses in
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  Speaker 1: the house because they're going to be on the run.
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  Speaker 1: It's nothing you could do but God give guidance. And
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  Speaker 1: my mom was at work all day long. Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: so I hope that helps somebody. If you're pregnant right now,
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  Speaker 1: have your baby, girl'll be all right. I got five
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  Speaker 1: dollars for you, see, and I might hold on, I
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  Speaker 1: might get more. Don't listen, this is nonprofits. Were gonna
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  Speaker 1: get donations, right, so there are organizations out there that
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  Speaker 1: can help you. Like, having an abortion is a sacrifice,
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  Speaker 1: and people may.
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  Speaker 2: Not it's a huge it's a huge sacrifice. And I
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  Speaker 2: think you know people we made light of it. We've
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  Speaker 2: made joke we on this show, We've made jokes about it.
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  Speaker 1: They don't wait it on walk that type of shit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, But essentially, it is a huge sacrifice you make
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  Speaker 2: when you do that.
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  Speaker 1: It's literally a sacrifice though, right A lot of women
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  Speaker 1: have abortions because they sacrifice the baby for their future.
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  Speaker 1: It's an actual sacrifice. And this is why people really
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  Speaker 1: be pushing for the abortion laws, right, because what are
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  Speaker 1: y'all doing with these fetuses? Neil, y'all sacrificed and these
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  Speaker 1: fetuses too, because it may just be like a little
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  Speaker 1: regular little thing. You got black girls working outside the
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  Speaker 1: abortion clinic. That shit ain't cute. You sacrificed something.
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  Speaker 3: Black girls tworking outside the abortion clinic.
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  Speaker 1: It was this girl I was following on Instagram until
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  Speaker 1: I saw her tworking outside of the abortion clinic. She
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  Speaker 1: literally like had cameras and stuff in there. She had
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  Speaker 1: the procedure and then she was working outside. She's big
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  Speaker 1: on social media too, and I thought she was funny,
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  Speaker 1: super raunchy, nasty, but you know, I can stomach all
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  Speaker 1: that shit. But when she did a girl.
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  Speaker 3: That's too much. What did I do this weekend?
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  Speaker 1: I'm oh, sorry, y'all?
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  Speaker 3: What did I do this weekend?
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  Speaker 2: I won? I engorged myself with food from Thanksgiving Thursday
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  Speaker 2: Friday Saturday.
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  Speaker 3: I quit after Saturday.
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  Speaker 2: I could not eat no more of that shit and
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  Speaker 2: then and just kicked it with family.
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  Speaker 3: Then on Sunday, I made soup.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, my weekend was like just very I don't
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  Speaker 2: think I did my hair all weekend.
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  Speaker 3: I showered and brushed my weekend and that was about it.
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  Speaker 1: Yep. That's most of my weekends, yep.
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  Speaker 3: But it was nice. I needed that.
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  Speaker 2: And then last night, I it was like raining, it
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  Speaker 2: was icy, and I went to my little yeah yeah
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  Speaker 2: house to cut off, and he convinced me to watch
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  Speaker 2: The Conjuring four with him, and we were watching that shit,
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  Speaker 2: and at one of the scariest moments, like this thing
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  Speaker 2: came through a mirror and I jumped right in horror
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  Speaker 2: because it was scary. And then all the power went
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  Speaker 2: out in the house. Baby, you tall watching the Conjuring four?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I watched that recon you know, that spaced
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  Speaker 1: off true story that goes that husband and wife are real.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and that's why I was. I almost do doo
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  Speaker 2: doo on that man couch, y'all. I was so scared,
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  Speaker 2: shit my pants. The power went out and all you
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  Speaker 2: hear is rain and wind and pitch black. I can't
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  Speaker 2: even I don't even know what happens at the end.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care what happens at the end. That was
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  Speaker 2: enough for me. I ain't never had that happen. It
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  Speaker 2: was like the power went out right at the exact
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  Speaker 2: moment after the huge scare, Like it was like almost
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  Speaker 2: on cue.
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  Speaker 1: That's not about to say that it's not that scary,
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  Speaker 1: but they have some scary parts like shit jumping out
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  Speaker 1: and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 3: It'n't imagine like the shock factor.
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  Speaker 2: The something is so quiet and then something you know,
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  Speaker 2: you know how they're doing scary movies.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that took me out of the game, and he
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  Speaker 3: was talking about just go to sleep. How I'm sitting
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  Speaker 3: here with my phone to do that. That's here with my.
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  Speaker 1: Lad You look the flashlight on my phone. Fun are
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  Speaker 1: you talking about, y'all? I used to be so scared
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  Speaker 1: of the dark, y'all. And it wasn't until I conquered,
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  Speaker 1: like the fear of dying. I sleep so like I
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  Speaker 1: be sleeping on my back. I used to be scared
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  Speaker 1: to sleep my back because they felt like laying in
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  Speaker 1: the coffin stupid shit like that. Now I realized that
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  Speaker 1: sleeping in your back is actually the best position.
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  Speaker 3: It is.
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  Speaker 2: I start on my back, but I always end up
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  Speaker 2: on my stomach with my arms up like this.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I'd be on my back like this, my arm
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  Speaker 1: be like this is like that, especially when you got
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  Speaker 1: a dip in your back.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you what I don't like when, like
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  Speaker 2: when you're getting your lashes done or anything done where
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  Speaker 2: you have to lay like you're laid back. I always
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  Speaker 2: put my hands in my lap, you know, across each other,
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  Speaker 2: and then I snatch them back because it just looks
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  Speaker 2: like how they have you in the casket. But that's
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  Speaker 2: like the most comfortable place to rest your hands.
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  Speaker 1: I'd be right there, child, because I'm not afraid to die.
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  Speaker 1: But boy, I used to be scared of the dark. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if I see some shit, I'd be like, hey, tomorrow,
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  Speaker 1: not tonight, my nigga, you get out my room, don't
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  Speaker 1: touch me. Can shit be around?
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  Speaker 3: Man, Let's get in the sands.
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  Speaker 1: We got going on. I updated Instagram recently. Now is
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  Speaker 1: like different, My shit is someplace else.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah. I try to stay away from the updates
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  Speaker 3: as long as possible.
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  Speaker 1: So y'all remember a couple of months ago, shit, damn it.
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  Speaker 1: Nine months ago at this point, Nikki baby, right, she
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  Speaker 1: was pregnant, and she was having a back and forth
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  Speaker 1: with another woman that her baby daddy, Jamal Ball is
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  Speaker 1: that his name? One of them balls, one of them
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  Speaker 1: balls left her for this other woman right while she
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  Speaker 1: was pregnant. Now, this woman has pinned a heartfelt message online,
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  Speaker 1: a lengthy transparency post, they're calling it, depicting what she's
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  Speaker 1: going through right now, right, So this is that me
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  Speaker 1: through essentially. Yeah, And you know, when I did Chris's
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  Speaker 1: show this weekend, one of the questions she asked me
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  Speaker 1: is what is one of the biggest lie, women tell
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  Speaker 1: themselves in relationships. And I literally said, women lie and
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  Speaker 1: tell themselves that they're better than the next woman.
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  Speaker 3: They're bigger than the program.
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  Speaker 1: You're not never bigger in the program. And that man
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  Speaker 1: choices have nothing to do with you. So if you
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  Speaker 1: think you're better than him, and you think you're better
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  Speaker 1: than her, let that man go be with his type
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  Speaker 1: while you're comparing yourself to them. I got a homegirl
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  Speaker 1: who do that. She's always saying how her ass fatten
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  Speaker 1: and she cuted it, and not like none of that
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  Speaker 1: shit fucking matters because he's still playing in your face
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  Speaker 1: with a bird. Obviously that's his type and he's happy
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  Speaker 1: to have access to you. So really, what you're saying
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  Speaker 1: is you're also a bird, right, get out that coop?
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  Speaker 1: Okay if it ain't for you, Okay. So her name
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  Speaker 1: is Rashida Nicole. So she apologies a nikki baby after
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  Speaker 1: admitting she's now dealing with the same issues she once
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  Speaker 1: mocked her for. So, I don't know why we always
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  Speaker 1: think we're gonna get a better treatment from these dudes.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not even fucking with you. If I see you
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  Speaker 1: just straight straight up blatantly disrespected another woman.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: Because doing pregnant when she got with his pregnant.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she was pregnant. So this girl is not married
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: to him, right? Do we want to read the whole post? No? Okay, anyway,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: so I'll read it in my own time. You realize,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: but I wanted to. You want to read it if
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: you want to read for practice? No this this this
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: just a caption, but it says she posted a transient
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: transparency post revealing she's going through a divorce and has
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: spent most of her pregnancy alone. She says her child's
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: father missed every milestone, pressured her into changing her daughter's
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: name at five and a half months because it was
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: too close to another woman's name eight and a half
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: eight and a half months. See, I might be a
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: little dyslexic, because how the fuck did I just read
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: that five point eight? Anyway, my brain be moving faster
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: than my damn smiled something something happening anyway and continue
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: lying throughout their relationship. Read it. Rashida says she she
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: chose not to have him in a delivery room after
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: months of emotional pain and absence. She also publicly apologized
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: to Nikki Miss Nikki Baby, admitting she's now experiencing the
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: same issues and once that she once mocked her for,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: where she just says she's not angry, just exhausted and
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: is stepping into this new chapter stronger, healing and focused
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: on creating a positive future for her child. That's unfortunate.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: I mean, this is a whole book with the same story,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: very old. Yeah, so there, I'm you know, I hate
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: that she's experiencing that. I hate when any woman becomes
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: a single mother, you know, especially when she wants to
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: have the partner there.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: You know, that's sad, But I mean kind of had
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: it coming.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and she I guess he took it a step
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: for further at least married her, So that probably made
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: her feel even more like she had grown up on
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: the next woman child. Please, that just don't mean nothing.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: It don't mean nothing. It's just so many single women
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: out here with children, right, a lot of them. So
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: just because he gave you a little promise, ring a lie, ring,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: don't mean nothing. Yeah, got a damn thing. Y'all choose
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: different self awareness. That's where it starts, because niggas cannot
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: play with you when you know who you are.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: So I saw him the Jasmine brand Funky don Neva
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: claims Tamar b Braxton and Inn DC's Harris have been
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: sneaking around a legend witnessing them making out, and he
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna read all this shit, but he definitely
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: read Tamar down and was like, and I was uncomfortable
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: and I didn't want to come in that house because
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: you in Men DC's was kissing before y'all went in,
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: and I thought y'all wanted some privacy, So that's why
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: I didn't come. And he was just like really laying
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: all the tea down, and I kind of don't like that,
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: just because now what Tamar and Men DC's were doing allegedly,
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: that's not okay because he's married, and I'm sure she
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: knows Yan you know, maybe not well, but she knows
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: exactly who Yandy is.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: But if he was just in her video here he
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: was he was speatured in her music.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: Video video or and we don't know what relationship Men
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: DC's and Yandy have. Maybe they have like an open
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: shit I don't know. But what I don't like is
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: it seems like Funky Dineva. It's someone Tamar trust or
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: they were at least friends at some point and I
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: just don't like, if we fall out, that's fine, But
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: hearing all my dirty laundry out for the public, that's
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: fucked up.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: I just feel like that's nasty. I was just saying
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: that shit this weekend. I have a hard time losing friends.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: You know. Part of it is is because like you know,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: it's like a death kind of right, even the loss
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: of this person, especially when the shit like I'm talking
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: about like homegirls, like when shit is like over over, right.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: But the part that fucks me at the most I
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: really want a bitch to disappear is that you know
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: all my secrets and you're just out here in the
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: world with my shit to do this type of shit.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: When a bitch really get on you know what I'm saying, Like,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I don't like friends because you're not a friend. You
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: don't need enemies if you got friends like this.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: Right ready, you know, really need to air your dirty
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: laundry and not.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: No, I definitely talk shit to mutual friends about a
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: friend I'm no longer friends with, but like to I
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: would never like go to the public.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: Right and how we talk back and be like and
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: so and so you.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Did this if exactly, if anything were gonna be on
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: here doing it to each other in front of y'all. Right,
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: ain't no motherfucking behind the back, wouldn't.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: But you still wouldn't even know that we talk about
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: each other though. That's the thing, y'all would never know,
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: just being hurt.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: E never no video. Look, y'all know we doing right now.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: If ain't no video, we'd be doing like this.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Like y'all should give it me like I like we
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: a bitch, Like I know what you did last summer
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: face right.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not a good friend, and I'll be honest, man,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I have a few guys guy friends who are gay
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: two okay, and we don't hang out that often or whatever,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: but these I consider them good friends. I love them.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: But this is why I don't just hang out with
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: a bunch of punks, Okay. I feel like they're an
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: extra caddy like this. This is not the first time
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: this dude and somebody else's best friend gay best friend
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: was just out in the ass on the internet recently,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: like they do this, they me having all the tea, right,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: That is not man, Listen, you gotta be careful with
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: the women and the men. I don't know why, y'all
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: thought it's gonna be different. Men actually talk more shit
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: than women, and now you got a man with more
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: feminine energy than an actual man. Oh honey, it's about
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: to be a whole ship show. I don't know what
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: you thought.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: But Tamar I have you know, I like Tamar sometimes,
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: but oftentimes she'd be giving mean girl energy too, so
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: it seems like they would be friends.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, when she was all.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: On there like big bad Cadillac, big bad Cadillac, I
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: just thought that was Cadillac.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: One of her co hosts, friend of view, the black
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: what's her name.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Ronnie Love, Lonnie Love, she was kind of her big back,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: big big black Cadillac.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: Big bat or big bat cadillact.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's mean. That was so mean, So I just
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: he jokes for her.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not my favorite when they come to ship
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: like that. So I can see how they could be friends,
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: you know. But I mean, I can't wait to hear
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: her response to this or what you got?
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: She don't say shit?
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it just blow over.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: We're in a sleepy to just stop addressing ship.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: Do we really care?
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: No, not really, I don't.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: We just gotta talk about shit, Yeah, we gotta five
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: three things to talk about with y'all.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Every Now I care about this one a little bit,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: all right. So Megan's Stallion, her defamation case against Milargo,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: was tossed out at the judge rules Malago is a
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: media defendant and says Megan's team failed to properly notify her.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: So apparently, in the state of Florida, if somebody is
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: a media defendant, there's like some special per se way
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: in which you're supposed to notify that person if they
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: are in the media. You know what I'm saying, because
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: people get ship fucked up all the time in the media,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: right right, And we definitely lived in a world where
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: should believe of believe nothing a year and have what
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: the fuck you see, so you just never know what's what.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: But it says the federal judge. Federal jury found Milargo
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Elizabeth Cooper libel to Megan P. MEGANE. Stallion for intentional
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: infliction of emotional distress and for promoting an unaltered excuse
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: me promoting an altered sexual image of Megan in violation
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: of Florida law. The jury also originally found Cooper libel
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: for defamation per se, but the judge could not enter
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: judgment on that claim because Florid law requires special pre
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: suit notice to media defendants, and Megan is Stallion did
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: not notify did not provide this notice. Since the jury
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: ruled Cooper is considered a media defendant, the defamation per
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: se claim could not move four. So all in all,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: she's gonna be having to pay fifty nine thousand dollars
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: in compensatory and punitive damages. The court would decide any
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: requests for legal fees after appeals or post trial motions
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: a lot. But did you'll see on megazallion she had
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: like a twenty carousel post on her page showing all
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: her cork outfits. It was like suits fly ship bags.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: That many times.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I guess she was preparing for it. But I guess
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: it just I think it only took a day.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Oh, it happened fast.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so it wasn't like drawing out like CARDI B
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: had like what two weeks to put clothes on every
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: day bitches and looking. Yes, so I guess Mega Sallion
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: was trying to get in her CARDI B bag and
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: put that shit on for us. We appreciate it. Yeah, close,
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: close case. I think this case is important, right because
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: it's just like Tasha K and Cardi B. And we
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: are in media, right you just I don't feel like
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: talking shit and lying on a person should come with celebrity,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: like just because this person is a celebrity, like they
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: should not they should not be like you shouldn't expect
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: them to be like okay with you just lying on them,
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: just making out stories and then posting you know, nuds. Yeah,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: like I think the shit with Tasha K car it
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: got Cardi B. When Tasha K was saying Cardi B
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: had her and was kissing her kid, that could easily yeah, like,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: what the fuck is that?
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: Man?
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: That could easily be you know, proven true or false?
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Ugly it's just ugly and a lot of people have
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: that shit both kinds. Okay, let's be very clear. If
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: you have never been tested for you don't know if
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: you got it or not until you get a low
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: outbreaking break.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: I thought you was talking about ugly. How about to
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: say how many kinds or ugly?
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: Is there?
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Shit? About four to eleven times? Because I want to
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: know what picture she posted a Cardi B. What's the
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: altered image because of my big gass foot. That's what
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I meant, Mega Stallion if somebody post a picture on
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: my big long foot and made it longer in the
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: image of me sucking dick, I'm mad.
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: Because your foot long? Are you sucking dick?
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Foot long?
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: Like damn biggest foot?
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I'm mad because why a y'all playing with me?
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair. Like what are we doing today?
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Man? We're gonna do a whole episode of would you Rather?
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Why Not? It's our favorite segment. I like it. I
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: like it. You have guess what deal? Would you rather?
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: So we're gonna do what You're rather? Between us?
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we'll be right back.
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So we are back in today's episode
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Would you Rather a Thorn? With little commentary conversation in between?
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: So I want to start with some like toxic relationship
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: type shit, all right, See, I can get to get
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: to know us. We lie though we do be lying,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: m okay a little bit.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: But I'm not just lying when I lie.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Just know I'm not just lying to you. I'm also
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: lying to myself. Okay, I be believing in my own
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: lies sometimes.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: So there's say it right, all right?
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: So this is the would you Rather? Toxicity? Edition? Okay?
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: For grown women? Let's see, would you rather date a
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: man who post you, who won't post you sorry, who
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: won't post you, or a man who posts everything, including
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: y'all arguments.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: I won't.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be posted, Honestly, I don't want
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: people in my relationship like that. I don't think I
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: want to post each other until our wedding day or
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: something like that. Like we didn't know she had a
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: man till she had done.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Me exactly pop out. Yeah, that's really how it's supposed
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: to be. I think social media we put too much
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: shit on there, And right now I'm trying to figure
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: out what type of niche page I can create because
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: it's still not going to be based off my personal life.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: And I don't let that much shit going on, you
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I just people could find out
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: too much about you just by going on to your
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: Instagram page. And I'm not one of the people who
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: believe in Like even before we talked back, I never
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: had a private page before. Like people be weird in
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: me out who got like two hundred people following them
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: and they got a private page, Like, bitch, what I
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: think your CIA following me? I'm not following you back.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: You know what, I think a good niche for you
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: is like conspiracy theories and like the bunk and stuff.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: I want to do fun shit. Okay, I wanted to
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: make it he shit, it's going that might be a
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: second page, but like I know, i'd be like I
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: could post some really really good ass fucking means bitch
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: and create them, so I might do me like a
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: little fucking mean page. Okay, I got this other page,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: y'all follow this other page. It's called Corporate Job Stripper Bod. Okay,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: and if you listen to this episode, then this is
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: gonna be the only day you know it's me behind
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: that page. Corporate Job Stripper Bod. I've had that page
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: for ten years or some shit.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: It's an IG page. Yep, Corporate Job Stripper Bod. It's crazy,
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: all right.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Would you rather have unlimited money for bills or unlimited
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: money for vacations?
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: I got unlimited money for vacation right now and my
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: doses due, so it's always going to be we live
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: in fucking shit, so wait, unlimited money for well, so
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: which one are you saying? Bills are vacation unlimited money
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: for a vacation?
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm gonna pick that one, I
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: feel like I would pick the unlimited bill money.
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: That way, I can use my money for vacations.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: Now my bills, I don't have nothing to worry about. Ever,
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: My bills are always paid.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: But imagine if you had unlimited vacation money, how luxurious
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: those trips are going to be. Like you got that
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: basic ass rent and shit at the house, but I
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: wouldn't have.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: If I had unlimited money for bills, the bills would
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: be different.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Okay, so the house will probably be looking like a
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: vacation spot. Yes, everything, I get it. I agree.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Every day is now a vacation.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: I agree. Uh okay, So I guess you're gonna do
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: the regular life shit. I'll do the toxic shit all right.
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who texts bag fast but lies,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: or text slow and tells the truth.
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: Take me slow. I guess I don't need like I'm not.
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: I don't need no urgent texts unless it's like an emergency.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: You ain't got to because listen, loose.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: The time limit.
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: It depends because with me, like we're doing hair, I
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: can't just stop and text you. I can't be checking
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: my phone every five minutes. So sometimes you might not
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: hear back from me for hours.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: So what is for hours? Right? So what if you
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: text somebody and then hours I'm passed by? You just
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: know he done text you back, and you look at
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: your phone and he ain't respond to this long text?
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Yet?
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: Who died? What happened? Nothing happened, right, Something had to
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: have happened.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: But I'm open to hear what happened before I spass,
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: you know, but it just depends on what kind of
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: work they did, right. You know, you can't assume that
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: someone can just be available because you want to talk
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: in that moment.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Right. I got a homegirl who I'd be like, she'd
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: be telling me should I'd be like, girl relaxed, like
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: because I really don't be putting pressure on people. If
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: a motherfucking never is fond you that that day did? Right?
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: So I'm never like sitting around anticipating a response from somebody,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: even in relationships. You know what I'm saying, Like, set
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: it and forget it. If you don't text back, we
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: really that broke up essentially, Like because what the fuck
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: was you doing? I don't want to hear nothing else? Really,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: you obviously died okay, but she'd be like really, like,
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: do you think that you're called?
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: And now your mind is taking control. Now you've come
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: up with all these different scenarios in your head and you're.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: Trying to control. Right, You cannot control another grown person.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: So what if the person is dead, they can't answer anyway.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: If he's alive and fucking on another bitch, he can't
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: answer anyway. How can you control any of these outcomes?
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: You can't, so relax, so fuck it?
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree. Would you rather wash a sink
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: full of dishes or full five lows of laundry?
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: A sink full of dishes? They hate both?
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: Give me the laundry.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: I fucking this, listen. I spent all my childhood I
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: just was washed, washing dishes, washing like rotate.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: Yes, we did, but it just felt like it was
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: always my parent.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: I felt like that my sister fucked around and had
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: a baby when she was twenty and so living in
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: the house, and my mom told her she don't have
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: to wash dishes no more because she excuse me, how
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: the fuck you get out of the rotation because you
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: got a kid now, so now here I am. And
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: you're also adding bottles and ship to the rotation exactly.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: I'm fourteen, so now and then I'm at the end,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: at the very end, I'm still in the rotation between
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: me and my other sister. Now you're big, guys, You're
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: gonna get the d shit because you you you was
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: fucking and got pregnant. What if I do that? Guess
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: what happened when I did it and ab at the
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: motherfuckering clinic.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: Damn, it's still washing dish.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Why is she already get out the rotation?
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: Wash your dish?
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: Listen washing This a lot of spies and just because
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: of childhood. Well there's more than two, but two specifically
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: that pertains to this. And there's washing dishes and a
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: pack of Ramen noodles.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: Fuck books for them. I ain't so much.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: Ramen noodles as a teen, like a teenager or young
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: college too.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Oh god, you gotta get the good ones from an
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Asian grocery store with all them get an egg and
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: they're on a dry freeze egg.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: I don't want no more that.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: I like real ramen though, like from a Roman restaurant.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: But in that pack for twenty seven cent or how
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: much of it that shit costs, don't get me a.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: You gotta dress it up the noodles.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: Fuck that.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who this is kind of
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who buys gifts instead of apologizing,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: or one who apologizes but keeps doing the same shit.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: It's like it's a gift missing somewhere, right.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: So he buys me gifts, but he don't change the behavior, right,
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: or he and his other one it still don't change
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: the behavior.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Yes, exactly. I sound like it's still a gift missing, right.
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: Just give me the gifts. I out you sorry nigger
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: every time. Then I just take stuff if I have
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: to choose, if I have.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: To choose, right right, crying in at maybox.
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: All right, huh?
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: Would you rather have your knees back from your age
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: twenty or your metabolism from eighteen?
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: I should have been fucked out my whole life going on.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I never had no good knees, metabolism, Ben Sloan's fuck,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: never could do a pull up on the monkey balls
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: and elementary like these are stole my goals in life
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: to twerk, like really twork. How people be on they
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: fucking the ball at their feet. I want to do that,
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: don't look like how y'all's be looking.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: I can't dance no more either. I used to be
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: a dancer, but just somewhere along the line I lost.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: It's the fucking for a long time now. I can
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: help with a dick, but dancing like by myself, No,
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: I can't dance like that.
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: But even on the dick, you ain't gotta do all
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: of that. They do too much on the dance floor.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: The girls who be dance like I can't do it
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: on a dick.
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: Yep, exactly, That's what I think.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: All that's working, be right, Give me back my metabolism.
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: Fucking these I don't need them.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to when was my metabolism. I'm literally like
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: right now, y'all, I am doing it every other day fast,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: trying to reset my metabolism at forty one. Yeah, my
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: metabolism has been slow my whole fucking life, as far
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: as it concerned. I don't even eat that much. I
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: don't eat that much meat. I don't. I mean, I
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: don't eat meat. I think it's sugar, right, I don't, though,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: that's it's just so weird, you know what I'm saying.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: But then I recognize the other day eating now that
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: my partner he had protein, like he had an egg
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: benedict salmon, the salmon egg benedict. And here here I
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: am with a sweet potato pancakes and a biscuit, you
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, the egg on the side and
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: a piece of his salmon. No, I didn't have a biscuit.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: I have Beignet's, That's what it was. So just straight carbs.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: That's my problem. So it is the food selection.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: Mm hm. Would you already know the answer for this one?
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: For you?
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: Would you rather have permanent flawless skin or permanent thick,
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: long healthy hair.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I already got a good skin, bitch, so yes, let
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: me get the permanent long healthy hair right to the tudor. Okay, yeah,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: I always be feeling like if all black women had
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: like long curly hair, niggas win date outside. They race
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: men are so obsessed with hair. Yeah, and they want
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: to be able to rub their fingers through our shit.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: And oftentimes when they cuff the back of our necks
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: to kiss us, there's something back there. Okay, there's something
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: back there stopping them. Maybe a little ripple of some
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: naps or a lace closure stop. Yeah, they just want
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: to be able to fingers to your eeah and they
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: can't let me see would you rather a man who
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: has three baby mamas or a man with no baby mamas?
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: At forty seven and questionable and questionable reasons?
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: Why no baby mamas? Easy? What do you mean? Questionable?
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: He might be gay?
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Well, questionable reasons why. I don't know what those questionable
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: reasons could be, but forty seven, I feel like a
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: forty seven year old man with no kids is just
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: more sketchy than a forty seven forty seven year old
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: woman with no kids. It just got at you.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Why I want three baby mamas when I could have
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: no baby mamas?
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: Right? I agree? This dude I used to date and
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: he was older now. The other day I was like
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: trying to calculate because he sent me some shit on Instagram,
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: like the nigga be talking to himself really, but I
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: was calculating, like this nigga, he gotta be like fifty
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: years old now, and I was talking to him like
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: when I lived in Saint Louis. I was twenty eight
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: at the time when I moved to Saint Louis, and
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: he was like in his late thirties, and I remember
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: I stopped talking to him because he ain't had no kids.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Find as hell. I used to be like, boy, you
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: oh God, like the way his body was just naturally.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: He ain't have no kids, but he ain't had no headboard.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: He had a blow up mattress. He was trying to
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: smash me on the first time. When the nigga got
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: a head boy, he couldn't wait to show me. Girl.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: I said, the standard for these niggas. I did not
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: give him no pussy and that blow up mattress. So
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: the money he got a fucking bed. I was the
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: first to know, Yeah, somebody was allowing that shit. So
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: he wanted to know that. Hey, baby, I got me
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: a shellac, a black shalac cilling size, then some bunks
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: on this.
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: Lay your head up against this.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: But I stopped talking to him because the nigga had
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: He was like hanging out at my house like a
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: couple of days. And I always worked from home. So
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: one day I I think I might have went to
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: the gym. I left somehow. I left the house and
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: left him near and he went and got food without me.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: He had recently got laid off from his job, so
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: I think his money was funny. I could have paid
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: for both of our food. Why the fuck would you
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: wait till leave the house to go get food without me,
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: so you would have to buy me nothing eat.
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: You don't have to pay for my food.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: And I went and tell him why I coles exactly,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: come back to my house and I haven't ate and
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: I've been feeding you in here.
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you selfish, get out.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was laid off at the time. Just have
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: the conversation, grown ass man, this is somebody ten years
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: my senior. Have a conversation. I would have paid for
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: both of our fools. And that's that's not even pride.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: What is that? That's just whack.
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: I I cold turkey him and stop talking to him.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah he was. He sounded like a loser from the beginning.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: These are mechanics now, like he gotta let me stop
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: talking about people in here. Jesus Christ, he got his
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: life together now, but he still doesn't have any kids
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: and he's still not married. Would you one other thing,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna add this in there, that Dick was kind
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: of weak for a late thirty year old, late thirties
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: in the forties. So I'm thinking I wonder if maybe
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: he had like some eaty shit happening around that time,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: so he probably couldn't have kids, not that I'm thinking
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: about it.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: Oh that's very possible.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: I just liked him because he was cool, you know
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But probably was a loser. Let's go
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: and carry on.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: Would you rather have have a job you love that
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: pays average money or a job you tolerate that pays
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: crazy money?
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Story in my life. I mean, you know, I've always
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: uh wanted to be able to make a big living
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: being myself. So that's thus we talk back, right m hm,
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: But bitch, sometimes you still got to do all of
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: the other things. Yeah, I would prefer to make crazy money,
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: hating it, but that's not really how I want to live.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: My money is not everything, not me, hear me? Enough
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: money to be miserable.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I say I take a job that
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: I love to pay average versus a job that I
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: tolerate that pays crazy money, because then you all you
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: have is money, but no peace of mind and no time.
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: Would you rather a man who keeps his phone face
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: down or a man who answers every call even during sex? What?
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: What's that?
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: Put your phone face down? I don't give a fuck,
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: don't answer with me, weird.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: My phone stay faced down for no reason because I
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: got shit. I guess what, My notifications ain't coming up.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so listen to this one. This is dumb.
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: Would you rather work for ten hour days or five
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: six hour days? I would not rather work, bitch, don't
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: ask me no questioning your pets.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: I do not aspire to a life of goddamn labor labor.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: Would you rather date a man who never lies but
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: omits the truth? Yes, I think that's most men, a
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: lot of men. Or a man who lies that's actually
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: me the fuck. Or a man who lies but tells
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: the truth when I caught. Mmm, that's a good one.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: I think I'd rather a person who never lies would
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: amiss the truth to me.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Omitting the truth is lying.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: It's still But I don't want no nigga whoo just
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: always lying to me, and I got to be an
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: investigator all the time. And then once I find out
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: the truth, now he's honest. No, just yes, that's too much.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with somebody about accountability and this.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: I told him we would probably do an episode on
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: it at some point, Right, So I think that I
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: don't have a problem with accountability. The problem I do
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: have with people is them trying to hold other people
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: accountable for shit, right, and you can only hold yourself accountable.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: First of all, I think we talked about this, did
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: we not? M I was saying, how I think that
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: when people don't have the same story, or they don't think,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: they don't have the same perspective, the other person or
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: somebody automatically thinks that person isn't taking accountability because their
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: perspective is different on what transpired. You see what I'm saying,
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: why would I take accountability? Like when I don't agree
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: with what you're saying, how could I take accountabit? And
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: you have some people who know what the fuck the
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: person is saying they are intentionally because I like.
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: They don't know what the fuck going on, but misunderstanding yes.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: To gaslight you essentially right, that's two different things. So
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: how do you take accountability because either is this person
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: doing this intentionally or they just I don't know, you
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: just don't know.
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: You can take accountability for something you don't agree.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: With, right. I think that's when people be like, oh,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: women don't take accountability. We don't agree with how the
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: ship y'all saying the fuck you being we do take
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: accountability for the things that make sense, but the things
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: we don't agree with? How is and the same thing
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: go for men, like, how are they supposed to take
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: accountability for some shit they don't agree with? Now? Some
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: things that they know they lying about because our accident
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: all the time. So you don't know no homeboys like this.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: You experienced the same shit with your homeboys because you
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: don't think that women are growing through this in a
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: relationship with them. And y'all don't date men, So believe
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: us when we say they're different, because they're different, they're
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: not your It's a different relationship. Would you you there's
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: always signs that you're homeboying and shit and you be
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: acting like it ain't happen. Ahead.
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: Would you rather fight one horse sized duck or fifty
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: duck sized horses?
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: One horse sized duck or fifty duck sized horse?
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: Wait, fifty little horses or one dance duck.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: I want to fight the big duck.
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: I'm fighting in fifty horses.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: Fifty little horses, fifty little horses. Man, you have better
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: think about the walking day. You be good when it's
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: just one or two of them. But when they start
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: like getting a herd.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: But you think about how ducks act and their wingspin
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: gonna be crazy on the horse sized duck.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Would be shitting on you better, big load.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: But I feel like I kick over them. They're gonna
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: be fast too, though I don't know.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: All right, would you rather date mama's boy or a
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: man who doesn't talk to his mama at all?
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: A mama's boy?
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, why are you gonna talk to your mama?
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's gonna be some trauma associated with that. Typically,
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: men who don't like their mamas don't like you. The
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: man love his mama, they'd be nicer to you. I
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: feel like they treat you better.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: I gotta sing you this post that I saw today
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: and my boyfriend said he sent it. He said he
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: didn't agree with it, and I told her we're gonna
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: discuss it later because it was so profound to me.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: I posted on my story. But I forgot this guy's name.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: He's probably not even alive now, but he was like
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: a speaker from the Seventh from the eighties, nineties or whatever.
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: But he basically was alluding to the fact that some
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: men hate their moms because their mom was a constant. Right,
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: You don't have a reason to hate your daddy because
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: he wasn't around, you hate your mama because she was around.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: You know. It was basically talking about how if men
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: had less sex with women that there would be stronger love.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: You're having sex for women for sport. Yeah, And it's like,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: and I just had this conversation with somebody last night.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: When somebody doesn't need anything from you, you like them
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: more versus somebody who's always asking you for some shit. Right,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: And that is the relationship between men and women. Like
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: men require a lot from us, and when we get
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: burnt out, we get real nasty. So now you experience
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: in this nasty ass spirit after a while, Right, the
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: kid's gonna go through it. This is all the things
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: he was saying. I was like, man, that is so profound. Yeah,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: of course I'm not saying exactly how he was, but
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: that is that's the gist of it.
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: Oh that's a big topic.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: Mm hm. Would you rather have a pause button for
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: life or a rewind button?
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: Oh? Rewind? I don't be regretted, ship, but I do
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: want to go back and like alter some shit, make
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: make a different decision because I do feel like all
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: the decisions you have, all these different decisions you could make, right.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: So this is what quantum jumping is. Quantum jumping is
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: deciding in this reality what you want because that other
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: version of you already exists in another reality.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm jumping Atlanta. When we went to
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: that restaurant, Remember, it felt like we went through like
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: a time war for something. Like we were trying to
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: stop at that restaurant, and it seemed like we passed
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: the same exit twice or three.
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yesh, it was weird. That would That was fucking weird.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: Did we not talk about it while it was happening?
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah? We did.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: We did, Like, how did we get here from there?
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: When it's the same highway?
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: Why did it take us longer from this way? It
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: was some weird shit. And I feel like that about Atlanta,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Like Atlanta is a major energy source as far as
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: we're concerned. I do feel like they be doing some
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: some shit to black people in Atlanta. That's really not
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: a black city. And she really don't run shit, right,
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: you might have jumped in some ship. Let me see.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Damn did I run through you dumb?
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: I think so?
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, God, damn would you rather a man whose
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: ex still wants him or a man nobody has ever wanted? Ever?
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: I don't care about the eggs. She can still want you.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: Right, I cared. I don't want no nigga.
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: Didn't nobody want? Why I want his ass? Right? What
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: is the what?
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: Why nobody else wanted him? If I catch my nigga
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: holing at bitches in the DM and none of them
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: bitches want him, I'm fucking livid. Yeah, I'm embarrassed, right
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: because why my nigga getting curved?
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: Why nobody want you with me? I don't like that.
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: And then on the other hand, like they think they
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: want a woman that's popping at everybody wants, but they
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: really don't, so they end up marrying the safe, safe,
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: fun and then they be trying to cheat with the
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: one that they just marry the whole.
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but they don't want to have kids with the whole.
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: That's the thing.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: Yes, they have kids with coles. You cannot spell housewife
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: without whole, Like we do this. Yeah, Okay, it's going
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: to be a wonderful life. She's going to know exactly
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: how to treat you, okay, because you're gonna end up
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: turning the good girl into a whole anyway, because you're
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: gonna be cheating with holes because holes be winning. You
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: know that song You're gonna make Me be a hole?
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm Jazz and Sullivan, Oh yeah, yeah, that's.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: Essentially what happens to good women get no fucking prize. Yeah,
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: you're gonna make a whole out of me. You don't
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: get no prize for being good and talk them that's
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: not true. Look at your fate, talg them. No, I'm
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: not talking nobody them days over. That's something like that
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: song take Me through that that ship I don't Nigga
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: ain't taking me through shiit no more? Hear me that part.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: I don't like.
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: That's what they were talking about, though. I think it
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: was sexual girl.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: I feel maybe we talked about this last week. I
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: feel like, yeah, I saw this video.
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: Where this grandma. He said, Grandma, what you think this
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: all me?
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: She said, I think it's about like when society and
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: you're going through something, you have to go through it
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: and see it through to the other side, so God
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: will take you through.
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: There and see you through. I said, amen. I like
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: her interpretation. That's what I'm run away from now.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: On.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: But the knigga and a song said, we'll be going twins.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: So you don't even know where you're taking me. But
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: y'all want to be the fucking leader. See that. Listen,
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: he's taking you through there, hell, taking you through hell. Okay,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: and it starts with the dicking down. Okay, avoided that ship?
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: Has y'all missed up? Trust me?
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: I know?
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: What I got for the last last thing?
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: Is this something we can even do?
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: It?
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: Last last about it was fun? I guess. I don't know.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: I ain't got nothing choose wisely, that's all. I have
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: nothing to offer.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all I got. Y'all like this, I'll sick, y'all. Shit, this,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: this is what we're getting today. I need to go
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: get me a goddamn I ain't getting no flu shot.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: I need some herbs spices. See, I'll be healthy as
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: long as I don't go around people. As soon as
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: I go outside a little bit too much. This what happened.
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: It's everybody though.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: I'd rather stay in my house. I never call it
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: call in my house.
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, most people don't.
• 57:09
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