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Episode #268 Proofing Behaviors – Why Your Puppy “Forgets” and How to Fix It · The Puppy Training Podcast

• 0:00
  SPEAKER_00: Your puppy sits perfectly in the living room, but outside, it's like you don't even exist.
• 0:05
  SPEAKER_00: Suddenly that reliable sit disappears, your puppy's pulling toward every leaf and sound, and you're left wondering, did they forget everything I taught them?
• 0:13
  SPEAKER_00: If that sounds familiar, this episode is going to make things click in a whole new way.
• 0:18
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the puppy training podcast, the show designed to help you raise a confident, well-behaved puppy using positive practical training methods.
• 0:26
  SPEAKER_00: Each week we'll explore real-life training strategies, break down common puppy challenges, and give you clear, step-by-step guidance you can start using right away.
• 0:34
  SPEAKER_00: Whether you're dealing with potty training, biting, jumping, or just want to build a stronger bond with your pupp as their handler, you're in the right place.
• 0:41
  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to the puppy training podcast.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_00: I'm Amy, and I'm so glad you are here today and that you've found us.
• 0:48
  SPEAKER_00: If you've ever thought, my puppy knows us at home, so why are they acting like they've never heard it before outside?
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: You are absolutely not alone.
• 0:56
  SPEAKER_00: We get asked this question quite often.
• 0:58
  SPEAKER_00: I hear this from puppy parrots.
• 0:59
  SPEAKER_00: I I taught them this, they know this, they should be able to do this, yet they're not following through.
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_00: So today let's dive into something that will completely change how you think about training.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about proofing behaviors, also known as generalization.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now we're going to talk about why your puppy seems to forget everything the moment you leave your living room, and more importantly, how to fix it in a way that feels calm, doable, and even fun.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because here at Baxter and Bella, we like to have fun.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, why does your puppy seem to forget cues outside?
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's start with a little truth that might surprise you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your puppy is not being stubborn.
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  SPEAKER_00: It seems like that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're not even ignoring you.
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_00: And they definitely haven't forgotten their training.
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  SPEAKER_00: What's actually happening is your puppy doesn't yet understand that a behavior applies everywhere.
• 1:48
  SPEAKER_00: Dogs are not very good at generalizing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you teach sit in your kitchen, your puppy may literally think, oh, sit means put my rear end on the floor in this exact spot when you're standing just like that and you're holding your hand with a food reward in it, and nothing exciting is happening.
• 2:05
  SPEAKER_00: So when you go outside, everything changes.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's new smells, new sounds, moving people, dogs, leaves, cats, you name it, different surfaces, higher levels of excitement.
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  SPEAKER_00: To your puppy, it's not the same cue anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a completely new situation.
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  SPEAKER_00: So instead of thinking, oh, my puppy is just blowing me off, or they don't care what I'm saying, I want you to gently reframe that as my puppy is still learning what this means in this environment.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_00: That shift alone can take so much pressure off both of you and alleviate a lot of frustration.
• 2:40
  SPEAKER_00: Proofing is simply the process of helping your puppy learn that a behavior works in different places, around distractions, at uh distances that are changing for longer periods of time.
• 2:52
  SPEAKER_00: We often summarize this as the four Ds.
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  SPEAKER_00: So distance, duration, distraction, and when we put all of those together, I call it the four Ds.
• 3:00
  SPEAKER_00: So here's the key: you don't train all of these at once.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you increase one or you're focused on one, we want to make the others so much easier.
• 3:09
  SPEAKER_00: We are right.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_00: So we if we go up on one, right, the training level goes up, we want to lower the others.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now let's make this really practical.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to give you a few steps to do this without frustration.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_00: So step one is we're going to change just one thing at a time.
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_00: If your puppy nose sit in the living room, try moving to the kitchen or the hallway and then the backyard.
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  SPEAKER_00: Same cue, same tone, same reward.
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_00: At first, it might feel like you've gone backward, and that's okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not starting over.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're just translating the behavior into a new environment.
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  SPEAKER_00: Step two is going to be that we're going to lower our expectations when we get to these new places.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there's a lot of frustration that can creep in.
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  SPEAKER_00: We assume they know this already.
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  SPEAKER_00: They should just be able to do it.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_00: But to your puppy, this is a brand new challenge.
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  SPEAKER_00: So make it easier.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're going to use higher value food rewards, ask for shorter durations.
• 4:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to stay closer to them myself.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to move away.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like maybe I couldn't in my house, maybe I could walk 20 feet away while they were sitting doing a sit-stay, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Outside, I might have to stand right by them and rebuild that sit stay outside.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Think of it like this new environment equals beginner level again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, gradually, this is step three.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're going to add distractions.
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  SPEAKER_00: If my puppy is showing success, we don't want to move too quickly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't go into this phase if your puppy's not ready for it.
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  SPEAKER_00: But we're going to start to add distractions as soon as they're ready.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we want to start small.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe if they're in the sit state, I have a family member walk by.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or maybe I place a toy on the floor.
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  SPEAKER_00: If they can handle that, maybe I bounce a toy on the floor.
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  SPEAKER_00: That would be the next level.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe uh I go to a quiet park instead of a busy one.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to choose a location that my puppy will be able to be successful.
• 4:53
  SPEAKER_00: We talk about setting them up for success.
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  SPEAKER_00: The training progresses much faster that way.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then we'll slowly build up.
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  SPEAKER_00: We'll add more movement, more people, more noise, more excitement, but little by little, step by step, just as our puppy is being able to handle it.
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  SPEAKER_00: If I push forward too much and my puppy can't handle it, that's my signal to know I push too far too fast.
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  SPEAKER_00: We need to back up in the process and go back and make it easier for them to win.
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  SPEAKER_00: If our puppy can't respond to a cue again, that distraction is too big.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not failure.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's just your puppy's feedback.
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  SPEAKER_00: Step four is we're going to work through these Ds thoughtfully.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say you're practicing a down.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you increase duration, how long they hold the down, then we want to stand right next to them and we want distractions to be very low.
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  SPEAKER_00: If we're going to work on distance today, uh where I'm taking a step back or away from my dog, then I want to shorten the duration.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not expecting them to hold that position for very long.
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  SPEAKER_00: If we are increasing distractions, then I want my distance to them to be close and my duration to be brief.
• 6:02
  SPEAKER_00: So this balance is what keeps our puppy successful.
• 6:05
  SPEAKER_00: It's what's going to allow them to find success, and that's going to build reliability.
• 6:11
  SPEAKER_00: And then once we have one of the Ds for that certain behavior, each behavior is going to have its own set of Ds and you're going to have to work through them each on their own.
• 6:20
  SPEAKER_00: So with this down, we're working on duration, distance, and distractions.
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  SPEAKER_00: When the duration is good, we can start to add the distance and the duration together.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is where that difficulty comes in, as we start to mix two of them.
• 6:31
  SPEAKER_00: And then eventually we can mix three of them together.
• 6:35
  SPEAKER_00: This makes training fun, you guys, because you get to really tailor the training session to you and your puppy.
• 6:41
  SPEAKER_00: You get to make the training session work for both of you.
• 6:45
  SPEAKER_00: And you get to be creative in that.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's kind of fun.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, a gentle reminder about progress.
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  SPEAKER_00: This takes time.
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  SPEAKER_00: This doesn't happen in one session.
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  SPEAKER_00: This doesn't happen in a week.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is going to happen over several weeks of work.
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  SPEAKER_00: So um just recognize that and allow that.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_00: It's okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: And honestly, it's where the real training happens.
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  SPEAKER_00: So anyone can teach a puppy to sit in a quiet room.
• 7:07
  SPEAKER_00: But teaching them to respond to a cue when another dog walks by, that's advanced level life skills.
• 7:12
  SPEAKER_00: And that's what we're going to need because we live in real life out of our houses, right?
• 7:16
  SPEAKER_00: So if you're feeling stuck, I want you to remember you're not behind.
• 7:20
  SPEAKER_00: You're just in the proofing phase.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your dog's not stubborn and they're not trying to ignore you.
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  SPEAKER_00: They just don't recognize that the cues mean the same thing in your quiet home as they do at a public park.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, one of my favorite ways to approach proofing is to treat it like a game.
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  SPEAKER_00: Instead of testing your puppy, do they know this or not?
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  SPEAKER_00: Think, let's see if we can make this just a tiny bit harder and help you win.
• 7:43
  SPEAKER_00: So celebrate the small wins.
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  SPEAKER_00: One successful sit outside, yes, great.
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  SPEAKER_00: One moment of focus in a new place?
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_00: Awesome.
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  SPEAKER_00: One second longer than yesterday in a sit stay or a downstay, amazing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those moments are going to add up faster than you think.
• 7:58
  SPEAKER_00: If you take one thing away from today's episode, let it be this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your puppy isn't failing.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're learning context.
• 8:04
  SPEAKER_00: And your job is not to demand perfection.
• 8:08
  SPEAKER_00: These are not robots that we're working with.
• 8:10
  SPEAKER_00: These are living, breathing dogs.
• 8:12
  SPEAKER_00: We love them.
• 8:12
  SPEAKER_00: We love their personalities.
• 8:14
  SPEAKER_00: We love all of the funny things they have about them because that's what makes them endearing to us, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So our job is to guide them step by step into understanding that their skills apply everywhere.
• 8:27
  SPEAKER_00: You've got this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I promise you can do this.
• 8:29
  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for listening today, you guys.
• 8:31
  SPEAKER_00: If you need more help with this, this is what we teach you inside of our Baxter Umbella training program.
• 8:36
  SPEAKER_00: So go to my website, BaxterMbella.com.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_00: We have do-it-yourself step-by-step lessons.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_00: We have short little two to three minute video clips you can watch.
• 8:44
  SPEAKER_00: We have longer, full-length classes, all available on demand.
• 8:48
  SPEAKER_00: They're all recorded.
• 8:49
  SPEAKER_00: You can attend them on our live rotation or you can view right now today if you need help with puppy biting, loose leash walking, reactivity, resource guarding, jumping, you name it.
• 8:59
  SPEAKER_00: We have a class on it, and we would love to help you inside of our program.
• 9:03
  SPEAKER_00: So happy training, you guys.
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_00: Have a great week, and we'll talk to you next time.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for tuning in today.
• 9:09
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• 9:12
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• 9:17
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• 9:22
  SPEAKER_00: Until next time, happy training.