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- 0:16Speaker 1: This is Kevin Sports Very Daily bringing you a London
- 0:18Speaker 1: Marathon special show featuring four local people who have never
- 0:23Speaker 1: run a marathon before their most their first marathon is
- 0:27Speaker 1: in London on Sunday and they're running for a charity.
- 0:36Speaker 1: The Kayla Laugh and ur Sam Will are running for
- 0:38Speaker 1: Alzheimer's Research UK, Phil King is running for the Aspinall
- 0:48Speaker 1: Foundation and Lois Stabley for They Shine. So over the
- 1:05Speaker 1: next two hours, sit back and listen to their stories.
- 1:08Speaker 1: And what better way to start the show than the
- 1:10Speaker 1: London Marathon theme song made every year.
- 1:13Speaker 2: On the telly at the start of the race. So
- 1:46Speaker 2: do you have it?
- 1:47Speaker 1: That's the London Marathon theme and that one actually is
- 1:51Speaker 1: played on the TV and none of the runners really
- 1:54Speaker 1: hear it, although I expect it is pumping around the
- 1:57Speaker 1: Black Heath at the start. So let's crack on and
- 2:01Speaker 1: see what we've got today. Well, now, my first set
- 2:04Speaker 1: of guests came into the studio during the week, but
- 2:07Speaker 1: unfortunately we had a well I had a few technical
- 2:10Speaker 1: issues when editing their interviews out, so you might have
- 2:14Speaker 1: to turn this one up a little bit louder than normal.
- 2:16Speaker 1: So anyway, sit back and have a listen. This is
- 2:20Speaker 1: Kevin Day on radio folks, then bringing you my first
- 2:23Speaker 1: set of guests who will be running on Sunday in
- 2:25Speaker 1: London at the marathon. So let's say hello to Mikayla
- 2:29Speaker 1: Love Hello, and Mikayla how are you hello?
- 2:31Speaker 3: Kevin On Fine, thank you very much, joving.
- 2:32Speaker 1: Us on, thanks for coming in. And I want to
- 2:34Speaker 1: say hello to Mikayla's son Will.
- 2:37Speaker 2: How are you Will?
- 2:38Speaker 4: I'm great, Kevin? How are you?
- 2:39Speaker 2: Yeah? Good and good? So was this your idea? Was
- 2:41Speaker 2: this running marathon? Look?
- 2:43Speaker 5: I think we sort of had a bit of a no,
- 2:45Speaker 5: Will it was your idea? Yeah, it was my idea
- 2:47Speaker 5: very much.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Yeah, did you go along with that straight away? Have
- 2:51Speaker 1: you got a run in history?
- 2:52Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 2:53Speaker 6: I used to run a bit through my twenties, more
- 2:56Speaker 6: in my thirties, a little bit in my forties, and
- 2:58Speaker 6: then lap for about eight years until September when we
- 3:01Speaker 6: had to start.
- 3:02Speaker 3: Training for this.
- 3:03Speaker 1: Okay, so you've gone without running for a long time
- 3:05Speaker 1: and then it was straight into Mariiton training.
- 3:06Speaker 6: I was in my forties then now I'm in my fifties.
- 3:09Speaker 6: It's been difficult.
- 3:11Speaker 3: But yeah we're getting there.
- 3:14Speaker 2: Okay. So I mean, how did you start?
- 3:16Speaker 1: Did you sort of start with a couch to five
- 3:19Speaker 1: K or I did.
- 3:20Speaker 6: I did, So we entered the ballot. We've done it
- 3:24Speaker 6: a few times before, never been successful. And then you said,
- 3:28Speaker 6: come on, why don't we go for a charity place?
- 3:32Speaker 6: So we'll talk about the charity. I'm sure, but it
- 3:35Speaker 6: was a pretty obvious choice for us. So we had
- 3:38Speaker 6: a conversation with a charity and we won the place.
- 3:42Speaker 6: So first of September was when training kicked off. He
- 3:46Speaker 6: realized I was going to have to start at the beginning.
- 3:48Speaker 6: So the charity group, we were involved with a Facebook
- 3:52Speaker 6: group for the charity and they were very helpful advised
- 3:56Speaker 6: starting with couch to five K. So that's what I
- 3:58Speaker 6: did for the first sort of eight weeks.
- 4:00Speaker 2: Right, What's what time were you was this?
- 4:02Speaker 3: When was this first September?
- 4:04Speaker 2: Was it September? Okay?
- 4:06Speaker 1: So a year So it's always been quite a long
- 4:09Speaker 1: journey then, really, isn't it has? Because if you like
- 4:13Speaker 1: established runners that are running, you know, probably start training
- 4:16Speaker 1: in January.
- 4:16Speaker 2: So it was a little bit behind, wasn't.
- 4:18Speaker 3: Yeah, I know it was.
- 4:19Speaker 6: A tall order, but I was determined to do well.
- 4:22Speaker 6: It's the hardest deadline I think I've.
- 4:24Speaker 4: Ever had it.
- 4:24Speaker 1: Yeah right, okay, Well so what about you, what's what's
- 4:27Speaker 1: your sort of sporty background.
- 4:29Speaker 2: Have you got had an interesting sport?
- 4:31Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 4:31Speaker 5: Yeah, So I played a lot of rugby growing up,
- 4:33Speaker 5: so I had a base level line of fitness, really
- 4:37Speaker 5: go to the gym quite often as well. So I
- 4:39Speaker 5: was lucky enough to sort of go into this with
- 4:40Speaker 5: sort of you know, just that like that base level
- 4:44Speaker 5: line of fitness. But this is a completely different football game.
- 4:47Speaker 5: I'm not a runner lover at all really, but I'm
- 4:49Speaker 5: learning to love it. And I think it's important to
- 4:51Speaker 5: have a plan and that's what we've stuck to and
- 4:53Speaker 5: you know, and now we're in this position where hopefully,
- 4:55Speaker 5: on someday we're going to be running.
- 4:57Speaker 2: Did you play rugby locally or was it a universe steals?
- 5:00Speaker 4: Yeah, so I played for Folks and Rugby Club for
- 5:02Speaker 4: about ten years.
- 5:03Speaker 2: Oh did you Yeah?
- 5:04Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 5:04Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, no, I've got I'll keep in contact with
- 5:07Speaker 1: the with the Folks and Rugby Club. Yeah, there's there
- 5:09Speaker 1: are good bunch down there. So Mikhayla, so you started,
- 5:14Speaker 1: you did your five couch to five K. When you
- 5:17Speaker 1: got to five k, did you sort of think Oh
- 5:20Speaker 1: my word, I've got like another eighteen miles to go.
- 5:23Speaker 1: Nineteen miles, yeah, a little bit. When did the reality
- 5:26Speaker 1: you hit you that you've got to run twenty six miles.
- 5:28Speaker 6: Fairly early on, if I'm honest, Yeah, the early days
- 5:33Speaker 6: that through September, middle of October, my dad was My
- 5:38Speaker 6: dad's health was deteriorating quite a lot then. So it's difficult,
- 5:42Speaker 6: and I work full time as well, so it's difficult
- 5:44Speaker 6: to fit everything in. And the breathing. The breathing was
- 5:49Speaker 6: the worst. I'm never going to now, the breathing, And
- 5:51Speaker 6: all of a sudden it just clicked.
- 5:53Speaker 1: Yep.
- 5:53Speaker 6: So from that five k just a run seven eight
- 5:57Speaker 6: miles and that's when breathing sort of really started to
- 6:02Speaker 6: get easier.
- 6:03Speaker 2: Yeah, And from.
- 6:04Speaker 3: There I just pushed it a little bit further each week.
- 6:07Speaker 1: Right, right, do you know what? I think that that
- 6:10Speaker 1: is the hardest part of running. If you want to run,
- 6:13Speaker 1: it's going from zero to you know, to like six
- 6:17Speaker 1: or a ten k once. If you're running ten k's regularly,
- 6:21Speaker 1: then it's not a bad thing, you know, But the
- 6:23Speaker 1: hardest part is going from sort of zero to ten k.
- 6:28Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 6:28Speaker 6: I think once I've got that base level of fitness,
- 6:30Speaker 6: and I've followed the plan. I have followed the plan
- 6:32Speaker 6: I think it was, and took the advice of you know,
- 6:35Speaker 6: the professionals on the group. And really it was a
- 6:38Speaker 6: small medium long run each week, the long run getting
- 6:41Speaker 6: a bit longer each week, with the short and medium
- 6:45Speaker 6: run staying about the same. And that's really how And
- 6:48Speaker 6: then you think, well, I've run thirteen miles today, and
- 6:51Speaker 6: then your brain thinks I's still thirteen.
- 6:54Speaker 2: Yeah, it's only halfway. And that was the journey for you.
- 6:57Speaker 1: Will You obviously had this baseline fitness and probably you know,
- 7:03Speaker 1: obviously a head start on your mum. So what was
- 7:05Speaker 1: your first steps into training for the marathon?
- 7:08Speaker 5: Yeah, so I think that the running game is People
- 7:12Speaker 5: will disagree, but I think it's eighty percent mental, twenty
- 7:14Speaker 5: percent fitness. And I really do believe anybody can run
- 7:17Speaker 5: a marathon. Some days you go out the door and
- 7:20Speaker 5: you can barely run a mile, and some days you
- 7:21Speaker 5: go out and you can run ten miles. And I
- 7:23Speaker 5: think it's that fluctuation and you know, positive and negative
- 7:27Speaker 5: thoughts and but yeah, yeah, it's been mostly positive, but
- 7:31Speaker 5: it's just about you know, keeping that motivation up and
- 7:33Speaker 5: definitely do it with my mum helps.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Yeah, did you this is a tough one. Did you
- 7:38Speaker 1: do your own training and just get together once a
- 7:41Speaker 1: week or how did that work?
- 7:42Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 7:43Speaker 5: So I think we've tried to train together where we can.
- 7:47Speaker 5: My gate and my running pace is slightly different to mums,
- 7:51Speaker 5: but it's it's definitely helpful having somebody there, you know,
- 7:54Speaker 5: sort of with you at the time.
- 7:56Speaker 1: It's quite a lonely job actually, if you're running on
- 7:57Speaker 1: your own. I mean my very first marathon, I ran
- 8:01Speaker 1: up in Yorkshire and because we had some family up
- 8:04Speaker 1: there and so I was combining the weekend away and
- 8:08Speaker 1: there was a point it was a city marathon, but
- 8:12Speaker 1: it wasn't a big one, And there was one point
- 8:14Speaker 1: in the marathon where I looked ahead of me I
- 8:16Speaker 1: couldn't see anybody. Look behind me, I couldn't see anybody.
- 8:20Speaker 1: I thought, oh god, my lost, you know, and then
- 8:23Speaker 1: I saw a sign and I was happy. But I mean,
- 8:28Speaker 1: my other marathon was in Thant that was busy, and
- 8:30Speaker 1: then in my third marathon was London. But the training,
- 8:34Speaker 1: you know, your twenty miler on your own is a
- 8:37Speaker 1: tough one.
- 8:38Speaker 2: Have you done your twenty mile?
- 8:40Speaker 6: It is thee loneliness of the long distance runner, isn't it. Yeah,
- 8:43Speaker 6: I've spent a lot of time running out. I live
- 8:45Speaker 6: in New Romney, so the back roads of the Marsh
- 8:48Speaker 6: had been my friend over.
- 8:49Speaker 3: The last few months.
- 8:50Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 8:50Speaker 3: Yeah, it's always windy.
- 8:51Speaker 6: Yes, Mother's Day we took a long run. Persuaded Will
- 8:54Speaker 6: to come out on a long run with me, and
- 8:56Speaker 6: we were aiming for seventeen miles. Two hours running into
- 8:59Speaker 6: the wind. We threw in the town at fourteen miles
- 9:02Speaker 6: and felt like.
- 9:03Speaker 3: We'd failed, even though we'd run fourteen miles. But yeah, yeah.
- 9:08Speaker 2: Well that's that time of you though.
- 9:10Speaker 1: A lot of runners, as I say, established runners might
- 9:13Speaker 1: start training in January. They've run through the cold weather
- 9:16Speaker 1: and all of a sudden it starts getting warmer, and
- 9:19Speaker 1: you just hope that it's.
- 9:20Speaker 2: Not too warm on marathon day, don't you?
- 9:22Speaker 3: Please?
- 9:23Speaker 6: Everybody keep fingers crossed and pray for all the runners
- 9:25Speaker 6: that it's not.
- 9:26Speaker 1: Like you say, you won't be on your own, It'll
- 9:27Speaker 1: be about fifty thousand other people that are in the
- 9:29Speaker 1: same position.
- 9:31Speaker 2: And what about you, Will? Did where'd you live?
- 9:34Speaker 4: Yeah? So I live more local here in Folkston.
- 9:36Speaker 2: So where where do you do your training or where
- 9:38Speaker 2: did you?
- 9:40Speaker 4: So? I live over in the barracks and I.
- 9:42Speaker 2: Run from over there.
- 9:44Speaker 5: Yeah, and then get the down towards the lees and
- 9:46Speaker 5: you know, sometimes if I time it right, I'll sort
- 9:48Speaker 5: of tag along with the rest of the park run.
- 9:51Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 9:51Speaker 5: I try and keep it as flat as possible because
- 9:53Speaker 5: there are some obviously hilly areas over here.
- 9:55Speaker 4: Really.
- 9:55Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you're right, And so are you looking forward
- 9:59Speaker 1: to the big day?
- 10:00Speaker 2: Are you dreading it?
- 10:01Speaker 5: One hundred percent? I think it's it's widely known as
- 10:04Speaker 5: sort of victory lap. You've worked really hard to get
- 10:06Speaker 5: to that point, so once you actually get to the day,
- 10:09Speaker 5: you know, it's it's it's easy to actually get in
- 10:12Speaker 5: the zone, I believe.
- 10:13Speaker 1: Yeah, And would you say that obviously you both taking
- 10:18Speaker 1: this seriously because you can't take take a marathon, you know,
- 10:22Speaker 1: with contempt it as you have to make lifestyle changes,
- 10:26Speaker 1: like you diet and watch what you eat, and you know, yeah,
- 10:29Speaker 1: recovery and jails and things like that.
- 10:31Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 10:32Speaker 4: Education, it's it's all a bit new to us, really.
- 10:36Speaker 5: I was obviously had a little bit of knowledge around
- 10:38Speaker 5: gym and dietary requirements, et cetera. But this is completely different,
- 10:41Speaker 5: you know, eating so many more carbs and the gels,
- 10:45Speaker 5: the jails are whole different ballgame.
- 10:48Speaker 4: But it's just it's it's.
- 10:50Speaker 5: Mostly just about fueling yourself properly and keeping that tank
- 10:54Speaker 5: fueled up already, rather than obviously fueling yourself from nothing.
- 10:58Speaker 2: That's right.
- 10:58Speaker 1: And it's a recovery as well, isn't it. I mean,
- 11:00Speaker 1: you don't want to go out and start running. I'll
- 11:03Speaker 1: tell you what. Have you had any injuries? This is
- 11:04Speaker 1: a classic one for marathon runners.
- 11:07Speaker 5: Yeah. So the most common one that people get is
- 11:09Speaker 5: the IT band And I've definitely got a really tight
- 11:11Speaker 5: IT band at the minute, and my hips are screaming
- 11:13Speaker 5: at me. And even when you take a week off,
- 11:14Speaker 5: your legs are still screaming at you.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Well, I think the difference is that on
- 11:18Speaker 1: the day that is totally different. You forget all that
- 11:21Speaker 1: and as you say, the mental approach kicks in and
- 11:26Speaker 1: no matter if you're brobably screaming at you, You're going
- 11:28Speaker 1: to get it done, aren't you?
- 11:29Speaker 4: One hundred percent?
- 11:30Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 11:30Speaker 2: Yeah, so, Makalaila, have you had any injuries?
- 11:32Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 11:32Speaker 6: I've approached the whole thing like a project really in
- 11:36Speaker 6: terms of nutrition, always got a sore lower back, so
- 11:43Speaker 6: I've made quite good friends with the osteopath.
- 11:45Speaker 3: I've been having weekly sports massages. I eat, I eat
- 11:50Speaker 3: quite well anyway.
- 11:52Speaker 6: I don't drink very much anymore, definitely don't smoke. So
- 11:58Speaker 6: taken more protein probably, Yeah, so fueling up. As Will
- 12:03Speaker 6: says before runs, we're eating some protein.
- 12:06Speaker 3: They think.
- 12:07Speaker 6: I understand women need some protein within thirty minutes of
- 12:11Speaker 6: finishing a run. So I've been trying to do that, right,
- 12:13Speaker 6: Like blug of chocolate milk when I finish a run,
- 12:16Speaker 6: and then some beans and cheese and toast or whatever.
- 12:19Speaker 6: And I've taken it really steady, so no injuries as such,
- 12:24Speaker 6: apart from you know, getting on top of the lower
- 12:26Speaker 6: back issue. Yeah, but I think I'm fifty four, I'm
- 12:30Speaker 6: flat footed and I'm hyper mobile, so I've had to
- 12:34Speaker 6: take this really steady, right.
- 12:36Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we're going to take a little music break
- 12:38Speaker 1: now and we're going to play a song that's You've
- 12:42Speaker 1: chosen this song, Will, Is this any special reason for
- 12:45Speaker 1: this song?
- 12:45Speaker 5: Not really, It's just one of the songs that comes
- 12:47Speaker 5: up on my marathon playlist when I'm jogging around.
- 12:50Speaker 4: It's just quite positive.
- 12:51Speaker 2: And learn some music then do you Yeah, yeah, try
- 12:54Speaker 2: to right, yeah.
- 12:55Speaker 1: Well, sit back and listen to this one. This one
- 12:57Speaker 1: is to get your dancing. This is Billy Idol and
- 12:59Speaker 1: dancing with myself.
- 13:19Speaker 2: So there you go.
- 13:20Speaker 1: That was Billie idol a dancing with myself and that's
- 13:23Speaker 1: on Will's playlist. It's an interesting point actually because basically
- 13:29Speaker 1: at running races you're not allowed to use headphones unless
- 13:32Speaker 1: they're what they're called bone conducting headphones. So, but music
- 13:36Speaker 1: is very important to a lot of runners. Mikayla, do
- 13:38Speaker 1: you use music at all?
- 13:40Speaker 3: Yeah, I listened to music.
- 13:42Speaker 6: I've been listening to podcasts on long runs. I've listened
- 13:45Speaker 6: to audio books. I'll listen to three or four episodes.
- 13:49Speaker 1: Of anything to take your mind off runing, is it exactly?
- 13:53Speaker 6: I I've listened to quite a fan of the show
- 13:56Speaker 6: Lamies Robs. I've listened to the original cast recording that's
- 13:59Speaker 6: about two and a half hours.
- 14:01Speaker 3: I think.
- 14:03Speaker 6: I'm a fan of a couple of podcasts, so I
- 14:04Speaker 6: download some episodes and just play those out.
- 14:07Speaker 1: Well, I will say that on the on the London
- 14:09Speaker 1: it is totally different. I don't think you're going to
- 14:12Speaker 1: need your music until you really get into the sort
- 14:14Speaker 1: of the zone of about eighteen miles because there is
- 14:17Speaker 1: so much going on, it's so pumped up, and it's
- 14:20Speaker 1: you know, if you haven't say a nice day. You know,
- 14:23Speaker 1: the sights of London and you can look around and
- 14:27Speaker 1: that just takes your mind off. You just your legs
- 14:29Speaker 1: are just going naturally. So let's talk about the actual
- 14:34Speaker 1: day itself. So we'll you'd be traveling up together, you
- 14:37Speaker 1: staying the night before, lots of family coming up.
- 14:39Speaker 2: Tell us about that.
- 14:39Speaker 5: Yeah, so we're going up on the Saturday. We've got
- 14:42Speaker 5: to go to the XL Expo, grab our beer and
- 14:45Speaker 5: the last few bits that we need, and then we'll
- 14:47Speaker 5: be staying on the Sunday night as well. All right, Yeah, yeah,
- 14:50Speaker 5: I've got a few family members coming up as well,
- 14:52Speaker 5: so more than marya kind of thing, and I definitely
- 14:54Speaker 5: think it's going to help.
- 14:55Speaker 4: You know, having that familiar face on the sideline will do.
- 14:57Speaker 1: I can tell you from experience and from speaking to
- 14:59Speaker 1: other runners, you know that just seeing a familiar face
- 15:02Speaker 1: just kind of puts that little spring back in your step.
- 15:04Speaker 2: So make sure that they see you.
- 15:07Speaker 1: And I don't know the charity, we start talking about
- 15:10Speaker 1: the charity now and you're fundraising, so you decided to
- 15:14Speaker 1: go down the charity route, which is a tough call
- 15:17Speaker 1: these days, so especially being as there's two.
- 15:20Speaker 2: Of you, so how much of you had to raise?
- 15:23Speaker 6: So they we were running for Alzheimer's Research UK. They're
- 15:27Speaker 6: the only UK charity solely focused on finding a cure
- 15:30Speaker 6: for dementia, which is the umbrella term for Alzheimer's, vascular
- 15:34Speaker 6: dementia and other types of dementia. And it was a
- 15:38Speaker 6: pretty obvious choice given that my dad had been living
- 15:41Speaker 6: with vascular dementia and Alzheimer's for five years at that point.
- 15:45Speaker 6: So the commitment is to raise three thousand pounds each
- 15:49Speaker 6: right charity so we could work as a team. They
- 15:52Speaker 6: accept team fundraising, so we've got our own just giving pages.
- 15:56Speaker 6: We've also got a team just giving page and we
- 16:00Speaker 6: started sharing that pretty much straight.
- 16:02Speaker 2: Away and how's it going.
- 16:04Speaker 3: Yeah, within.
- 16:07Speaker 6: A month or six weeks or so, we'd raised over
- 16:09Speaker 6: a thousand just through people we know donating, sharing it
- 16:13Speaker 6: on our socials, friends and family. I've got a manager
- 16:19Speaker 6: shop over at the Ashroid outlet. I've got a collecting
- 16:21Speaker 6: tin and a poster in the shop. So people have
- 16:23Speaker 6: been fi and in there. We held a big quiz
- 16:28Speaker 6: night at Folks and Rugby Club last Friday. That was
- 16:32Speaker 6: the tenth of April. Over one hundred people came. I've
- 16:36Speaker 6: yet to count all the coins, but that's just over
- 16:38Speaker 6: sixteen hundred.
- 16:39Speaker 2: Wow, that's good.
- 16:39Speaker 6: Yeah. My sister in law works for a big law firm.
- 16:42Speaker 6: She donated three hundred pounds and they've match funded that,
- 16:45Speaker 6: so that's another six hundred pound. It's surprising how it
- 16:48Speaker 6: mounts out. We think we're about yet to totter up
- 16:52Speaker 6: five three hundred, so we're very close to town.
- 16:55Speaker 1: That is amazing because it really is a tough call.
- 16:59Speaker 1: So let's move on to charity. So Alzheimer's. It was
- 17:03Speaker 1: the Alzheimer's Research UK. Now this is obviously a little
- 17:08Speaker 1: bit close to home. So tell us a little bit
- 17:11Speaker 1: about your dad and what happened and why he chose
- 17:13Speaker 1: his charity.
- 17:14Speaker 6: Yeah, my dad was just the most amazing man, good kind,
- 17:20Speaker 6: He was hard worker, ran his own business for nearly
- 17:24Speaker 6: thirty years, worked six days a week, loved his kids,
- 17:28Speaker 6: loved his grandkids. He was a rotarian for many years,
- 17:32Speaker 6: so really into his charity works he did. He was
- 17:37Speaker 6: on the front of When we Live, We lived in
- 17:39Speaker 6: Bexy Heath for many years. He was on the front
- 17:41Speaker 6: of the local paper. He did a press up a
- 17:43Speaker 6: thon for Demelza Hospice, raised over one thousand pounds himself.
- 17:47Speaker 6: He was on the front of the local paper. Press
- 17:49Speaker 6: Up Pete they called him, did over a thousand press ups.
- 17:53Speaker 6: The press came took a photo of him, and he
- 17:56Speaker 6: loved all that. He was a beaver leader when we
- 17:58Speaker 6: moved down to limming In. Later most of the family
- 18:01Speaker 6: moved down to Lyminge and we lived there for twenty years.
- 18:04Speaker 6: Really popular with the local children. His name was Puffing.
- 18:07Speaker 6: His the name was Puffing.
- 18:09Speaker 3: Some of my friends grown up sons now still.
- 18:12Speaker 6: Referred him as Puffing. At the funeral, they came along
- 18:15Speaker 6: and paid their respects to Puffin Pete.
- 18:18Speaker 3: He was a good man.
- 18:19Speaker 6: Not long after he retired we started to notice that
- 18:23Speaker 6: there were differences in his behavior. He started to repeat
- 18:27Speaker 6: himself show some confusion. He had a stroke, had an
- 18:33Speaker 6: MRI and that indicated that there had been episodes in
- 18:37Speaker 6: his brain and he was diagnosed with vascular dementia and Alzheimer's,
- 18:41Speaker 6: so mixed dementia and from there it was a five
- 18:46Speaker 6: six year journey.
- 18:48Speaker 2: Into It's terrible, isn't it.
- 18:52Speaker 1: I Mean I've had some experience of what you've been through,
- 18:55Speaker 1: and it's just it's nothing you can do about it.
- 18:57Speaker 1: Just to see you love one kind of deteriorating in
- 19:00Speaker 1: front of your very eyes.
- 19:01Speaker 2: It's really sad, isn't it.
- 19:02Speaker 3: It's terrible.
- 19:04Speaker 6: It's terrible, and it's very, very tough, and so we've
- 19:08Speaker 6: become quite passionate about supporting this charity.
- 19:12Speaker 1: So that was obviously your first choice of if there's
- 19:15Speaker 1: going to be a choice of the charity, had to
- 19:19Speaker 1: be this one straight away, isn't it.
- 19:20Speaker 6: You've got to hope that they will find some way
- 19:23Speaker 6: of beating this for our children, our children's children, future generations.
- 19:28Speaker 3: Yeah, one in two people.
- 19:29Speaker 1: I mean the London Marathon. It just raises billions for charities.
- 19:33Speaker 1: I mean what would these charities do without without the
- 19:37Speaker 1: London Marathon. I mean I've been a sort of advocate
- 19:41Speaker 1: for cancer research for many years and it's just so
- 19:45Speaker 1: much time and effort goes in from people that have
- 19:49Speaker 1: been touched by cancer. And it's not just people that
- 19:52Speaker 1: have you know, survivors. It affects everybody, doesn't it. It just
- 19:55Speaker 1: doesn't affect the person that's actually got the disease, it
- 19:58Speaker 1: affects all the family, and you've all got a club
- 20:02Speaker 1: together and look after each other, and so will was
- 20:05Speaker 1: this pretty tough for you watching your granddad?
- 20:07Speaker 2: Did turi eate?
- 20:08Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely, He's I've always said that he was the
- 20:10Speaker 5: smartest man. I knew he was great at quizzes and
- 20:13Speaker 5: but ironic how we did a quiz last week because
- 20:15Speaker 5: he probably would have won it himself. He was the
- 20:18Speaker 5: fittest man I knew as well. He put me to
- 20:19Speaker 5: shame when even when I was thirteen fourteen years old,
- 20:21Speaker 5: he was still.
- 20:22Speaker 4: Quicker than me.
- 20:23Speaker 5: So yeah, it's definitely close to heart. But I think
- 20:26Speaker 5: as well, not many people know that not everybody's who
- 20:29Speaker 5: is suffering with dementia or Alzheimer's, whatever it may be,
- 20:32Speaker 5: has the same symptoms. It affects people differently as well,
- 20:35Speaker 5: and one in two people are directly affected by it,
- 20:39Speaker 5: whether you know they suffered from themselves or a family
- 20:41Speaker 5: member and so on. But it's very rarely genetic. And
- 20:45Speaker 5: we want to make a difference, you know, in raising
- 20:48Speaker 5: some money for a really good charity because in the future,
- 20:51Speaker 5: I think, you know, like we said, they want to
- 20:53Speaker 5: find a cure, whether that's through blood tests and highlighting
- 20:56Speaker 5: that specific gene that people suffer with dementia. So yeah,
- 21:01Speaker 5: we really want to make a difference.
- 21:02Speaker 2: Right Okay.
- 21:03Speaker 1: And the charity itself have they been supportive for this
- 21:08Speaker 1: London Marathon journey.
- 21:09Speaker 3: Brilliant, the brilliant.
- 21:11Speaker 6: It's there's a community out there. We've met some of them.
- 21:16Speaker 6: They invited us to a training day. We went up
- 21:17Speaker 6: to the Olympic Park in January, listen to speeches, really inspiring.
- 21:23Speaker 6: Lady Sue Strachan who's in her seventies and he's running
- 21:26Speaker 6: the London Marathon this year. She's been living with vascular dementia.
- 21:30Speaker 6: It's twenty fourteen and she's a sort of standard bearer
- 21:34Speaker 6: for the charity. She up and gave a really emotional speech.
- 21:39Speaker 6: Another guy Stuart Lambee who's run countless marathons. There's a
- 21:42Speaker 6: Facebook group they have team coach who's been really helpful,
- 21:47Speaker 6: given out of vice on nutrition and training. People share
- 21:51Speaker 6: their runs on the group, ask for advice tips. It's
- 21:55Speaker 6: just been really lovely to tap into the community.
- 21:57Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, brilliant. Okay, we're heading up towards the big day.
- 22:03Speaker 1: I mean how are you feeling, Okaya, Are you just
- 22:05Speaker 1: want to get it over with or you really really
- 22:07Speaker 1: want to look forward to it and enjoy it every
- 22:09Speaker 1: single minute.
- 22:09Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I.
- 22:10Speaker 6: Grew up in Southeast London. We went to watch the
- 22:13Speaker 6: very first marathon, and we went every year to watch
- 22:15Speaker 6: it and it was such a big event and it
- 22:17Speaker 6: still is. It's to be a part of it. I
- 22:19Speaker 6: always you stand and think, I wish I could do that,
- 22:22Speaker 6: and I am ye moment really, I'm secretly petrified, but
- 22:26Speaker 6: I'm just hoping on the day it all come together.
- 22:28Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure it will.
- 22:29Speaker 1: I think the hardest thing would probably be the first
- 22:31Speaker 1: couple of miles when you're like, you know, you're buzzing,
- 22:34Speaker 1: and then you settle down and get the job done.
- 22:37Speaker 1: This is a tough one as you've got kind of
- 22:39Speaker 1: a different age group. But will you be running together
- 22:41Speaker 1: or you're going to do your own thing and and
- 22:45Speaker 1: your mum can wait for you at the finish line.
- 22:47Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 22:47Speaker 5: We quickly found out when we did our long runner
- 22:49Speaker 5: Mother's Day that I don't believe it's possible for me
- 22:52Speaker 5: to run at the same place as mum, But Mum's
- 22:54Speaker 5: a trooper. Mum will just keep plodding along for hours
- 22:56Speaker 5: and end. I'm a little bit different and you know,
- 22:59Speaker 5: my strides are a little bit long, but yeah, I'll
- 23:02Speaker 5: be there hopefully waiting at the finish line for you.
- 23:05Speaker 3: Right, We're going off at different times in different.
- 23:07Speaker 2: Waves, are you I was going to there was one
- 23:09Speaker 2: of the questions there.
- 23:10Speaker 1: So basically you say goodbye when you go through the
- 23:13Speaker 1: first gate and then you're head off in different directions.
- 23:16Speaker 4: Right, it's a battle against ourselves from then on.
- 23:18Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we make friends along the route.
- 23:21Speaker 2: You will do. Yeah, I'm sure you will. Okay, so
- 23:24Speaker 2: we are.
- 23:25Speaker 1: We've been chatting away now for ages. It seems we're
- 23:29Speaker 1: slowly running out of time, so it's kind of a
- 23:31Speaker 1: time to wind it up now. But we mustn't forget
- 23:35Speaker 1: people that have supported you. Apart from all your fundraisers.
- 23:39Speaker 1: I mean, over to you first, Michayla. What about some
- 23:43Speaker 1: helloes and some thank you.
- 23:45Speaker 6: I'd like to say thank you, a big thank you
- 23:48Speaker 6: to Ellis, my sports therapist.
- 23:50Speaker 2: We know Eli, Yeah, we know.
- 23:51Speaker 6: Ellis has come to me weekly over the last few months,
- 23:55Speaker 6: kept me going.
- 23:57Speaker 3: Thank my mum.
- 23:58Speaker 6: She has a lot of hard year helping we club
- 24:03Speaker 6: together to care for dad. It's been hard on her
- 24:06Speaker 6: support through this. She's put a fair few quid into
- 24:10Speaker 6: our pot. Yeah, my daughter who's taken up slack on the.
- 24:13Speaker 3: Dog walks so I can go out and have time
- 24:15Speaker 3: to run.
- 24:17Speaker 6: My wonderful friends Anna, Julie, Beth and Heidi, my work
- 24:23Speaker 6: colleagues who've put up with me banging on about this
- 24:25Speaker 6: marathon for the last six months.
- 24:27Speaker 1: And yeah, just there's better to be someone you've forgotten
- 24:31Speaker 1: and you'll be in trouble. But no, that's like a
- 24:33Speaker 1: good role with Horner. What about you, Will, who's been
- 24:36Speaker 1: you a running boar at home? Or you know anyone
- 24:38Speaker 1: you want to thank for putting.
- 24:39Speaker 2: Up with you.
- 24:41Speaker 5: Definitely my dad. My dad's you know, put up with
- 24:43Speaker 5: all I can playing over the past few months.
- 24:45Speaker 4: He's put me dinner.
- 24:46Speaker 5: He's made sure that, you know, my recovery is as
- 24:49Speaker 5: best as possible really. But also a massive thank you
- 24:51Speaker 5: to everybody that came to our charity fund raising quiz
- 24:54Speaker 5: last week. We raised an exceptional, exceptional amount of money
- 24:57Speaker 5: and it was so nice to have all of our
- 24:58Speaker 5: friends and family in the same place at the same time.
- 25:01Speaker 5: And you know, finally, a massive thank you to mon
- 25:03Speaker 5: because I wouldn't be doing this without you, and you
- 25:06Speaker 5: know I wouldn't rather be doing it with anybody else
- 25:08Speaker 5: other than yourself.
- 25:09Speaker 2: So brilliant. Yeah, excellent.
- 25:11Speaker 1: I'll say you the first thing that happens when you
- 25:12Speaker 1: cross the line off to your first marathon, as you say,
- 25:14Speaker 1: I'll never again, never doing another one. But once you
- 25:16Speaker 1: get over the initial shot, you think, you know what
- 25:18Speaker 1: am I just say? If I'll compete that time?
- 25:20Speaker 2: You know, so be prepared for that. Okay.
- 25:23Speaker 1: So we want to finish up now with a couple
- 25:26Speaker 1: of things. I want, Mikayla, if you could tell us
- 25:29Speaker 1: you're just giving page because if there's anybody out there
- 25:31Speaker 1: listening and you don't know these two people, but you've
- 25:35Speaker 1: been touched by Alzheimer's and you're realizing that just how
- 25:38Speaker 1: brave they are. They've never run a marathon before. The
- 25:41Speaker 1: first marathon is the London and they're raising money for
- 25:44Speaker 1: this special charity, Alzheimer's Research UK. So if you want
- 25:47Speaker 1: to donate, how can they donate Michayla.
- 25:50Speaker 3: They can find us on just Giving. Where will Michayla laugh?
- 25:53Speaker 6: Michayla hasn't got any in it, so will and Michayla,
- 25:56Speaker 6: M I C h A L A laugh is LU
- 25:59Speaker 6: double F search for us.
- 26:00Speaker 3: I'm just giving.
- 26:01Speaker 6: You'll find our team page. Yeah, any support gratefully and
- 26:06Speaker 6: received part felt.
- 26:07Speaker 1: Thanks right, well, I'll put that link up on my page.
- 26:11Speaker 1: And I just hope that you have a fantastic day.
- 26:15Speaker 1: I want to thank you both for coming in and
- 26:16Speaker 1: thank you will and thank you. I think you've been
- 26:19Speaker 1: so supportive of your family, especially your mum. And what
- 26:22Speaker 1: a stupid idea running America And honestly, who.
- 26:24Speaker 2: Ever thought of that?
- 26:25Speaker 4: Afterwards?
- 26:26Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's great. Okay.
- 26:29Speaker 1: Now, Mikayla, this is a special song, and so I
- 26:32Speaker 1: want you to tell me a little bit about the
- 26:34Speaker 1: special song which we're going to play to finish off
- 26:36Speaker 1: the interview.
- 26:37Speaker 6: It's a plan in my dad's funeral late November. His
- 26:41Speaker 6: funeral was on the eighth of December last year. Thinking
- 26:43Speaker 6: about the music, it's a tough one.
- 26:45Speaker 2: You know.
- 26:45Speaker 6: You reflect on the life and think of memories and
- 26:48Speaker 6: hark back to our happier times when we were kids
- 26:51Speaker 6: in the seventies and eighties. We used to go to
- 26:55Speaker 6: quite a lot of school discos. That was our parents entertainment.
- 26:57Speaker 6: You know, you take along your own food and drink
- 26:59Speaker 6: and about in the school hall. They always used to
- 27:02Speaker 6: play this song towards the end of the night and
- 27:03Speaker 6: my dad would be straight up there Strautney's moves on
- 27:07Speaker 6: the dance floor to this song. And this is the
- 27:10Speaker 6: song that we played to sort of see Dad out.
- 27:12Speaker 6: If you like it his funeral, he loved it.
- 27:16Speaker 1: Hi hold silver lining. Well we're going to round off
- 27:19Speaker 1: the show. Massive thank you to Will and MICHAELA for
- 27:21Speaker 1: coming in. I'll be up there on the twenty sixth
- 27:24Speaker 1: of April at the Cutty Sock and I'll be looking
- 27:27Speaker 1: at for those orange tops. So what better way to
- 27:30Speaker 1: finish the show than Hi host silver lining and Jeff
- 27:33Speaker 1: Beck you're everywhere and nowhere baby, that's where you're at.
- 27:56Speaker 3: Go down and Bubby her side.
- 28:12Speaker 2: So high host silver lining for Will and Mikayla.
- 28:16Speaker 1: And Peter of course, and what a great song anyway,
- 28:19Speaker 1: what a lovely, lovely interview that was. As I said before,
- 28:24Speaker 1: Mikayla and Will came in during the week and they
- 28:27Speaker 1: couldn't make it today. And it was so nice to
- 28:30Speaker 1: see a mother and son jill in for one common
- 28:33Speaker 1: cause and how brave are they to run the London
- 28:37Speaker 1: Marathon together.
- 28:38Speaker 2: Well, they won't quite be together.
- 28:40Speaker 1: They would be together right up till the first gate
- 28:42Speaker 1: and then they're on their own. But that's what the
- 28:44Speaker 1: marathon's all about, isn't it. And Mickayla made a great quote.
- 28:48Speaker 1: She said, Oh, I'll probably make friends along the way,
- 28:51Speaker 1: which is what you do, you do. I've been up
- 28:53Speaker 1: in London and you know that people are chatting and
- 28:56Speaker 1: they've all got the same goal to get across that line.
- 29:00Speaker 1: Never met each other. You might make friends for life,
- 29:03Speaker 1: but have a brilliant day and I shall certainly be
- 29:06Speaker 1: looking out for you.
- 29:07Speaker 2: Okay.
- 29:08Speaker 1: So this is Kevin Day on the Radio Folks and
- 29:10Speaker 1: doing the two hour Marathon special. So it's going to
- 29:13Speaker 1: be the songs are going to be a little bit
- 29:15Speaker 1: run orientated, and I've dug.
- 29:18Speaker 2: Them all out.
- 29:19Speaker 1: You've heard them all before, but they've got to be played.
- 29:21Speaker 1: And I just absolutely love this one. This is Linda's
- 29:24Speaker 1: fun and this is what Mikayla and will be doing.
- 29:27Speaker 1: They'd be run for home.
- 29:41Speaker 2: So running with a night there lied or Richie another
- 29:44Speaker 2: running song.
- 29:46Speaker 1: So yeah, this is Kevin Daily and this is the
- 29:48Speaker 1: first hour of the Radio Folks in two hour Marathon
- 29:51Speaker 1: Special and we've got a couple of guests coming on
- 29:53Speaker 1: in the next hour.
- 29:54Speaker 2: We've got Leis Staveley and Phil King.
- 29:57Speaker 1: I won't do too much about it now because you
- 30:00Speaker 1: know we've just got a well you got a wait.
- 30:02Speaker 1: I want you to stay tuned in and just stay
- 30:06Speaker 1: with us now, Okay. So what I'm going to do
- 30:08Speaker 1: now is I'm going to just run through some of
- 30:12Speaker 1: the members of folkst And Running Club that are actually
- 30:14Speaker 1: going up to London. And now I'll be on the coach.
- 30:18Speaker 1: Who's the coach running from Folkston to the London Marathon
- 30:22Speaker 1: on Sunday And I'll be on it and we are
- 30:26Speaker 1: going to meet well hopefully you meet the runners at
- 30:28Speaker 1: the cut he sock. So anyway, a little roll of honor.
- 30:31Speaker 1: First of all, Folks and Running Club runners. These are
- 30:33Speaker 1: the ones that are running. Some of them are very
- 30:35Speaker 1: well established runners, some perhaps just only done one or
- 30:39Speaker 1: two marathons. So here we go, Nick Steele, Paul Bartlett,
- 30:43Speaker 1: Torbyn Jesson, James Springett, Catherine O'Connor now Catherine very brave lady.
- 30:48Speaker 1: Last weekend she run the Manchester Marathon and she's doing
- 30:52Speaker 1: another marathon this weekend. How good is that. Well, let's
- 30:56Speaker 1: see after she's done it. Anyway, good luck to you, Catherine,
- 30:59Speaker 1: Vicky scot. Now we've got Greg Dixon. He's running the
- 31:03Speaker 1: London for the Aspinall Foundation, as is his friend and
- 31:08Speaker 1: running buddy Ron Bell. Now, I was the quiz master
- 31:12Speaker 1: at two quizzes for these guys to help them make
- 31:15Speaker 1: some money, and they're doing very well. Ron Bell texts
- 31:18Speaker 1: me this morning and he said, I'll give us a mention, keV.
- 31:20Speaker 1: He said, it's my first marathon since twenty fourteen. He's
- 31:25Speaker 1: done a lot of half marathons, but I think he's
- 31:27Speaker 1: feeling a little bit. The old nerves are going jangling
- 31:31Speaker 1: a little bit. So good luck to Greg and Ron,
- 31:33Speaker 1: Rebecca Stevenson, Julianne, Sophie O'Callahan. Now interesting, Sophie o'callen is
- 31:39Speaker 1: running London on Sunday. Yeah, her husband Ja Jace O'Callahan,
- 31:44Speaker 1: He run Brighton just a couple of weeks ago. Ivanna
- 31:46Speaker 1: and Rob.
- 31:47Speaker 2: Collier and Harry Wall.
- 31:49Speaker 1: Now now some of the other people that are actually
- 31:52Speaker 1: doing there for marathon for charity is Chloe westthead she's
- 31:56Speaker 1: running for Mary Currie, Laura and Annie Laura are running
- 32:02Speaker 1: for the Cardycock Foundation, which is just off the A
- 32:05Speaker 1: twenty as you go up to Ashford.
- 32:07Speaker 2: Dan Kelly now then was a guest of My show.
- 32:09Speaker 1: He ticked all the boxes last year, but he's brave
- 32:12Speaker 1: enough to go back and he's doing his second London Marathon,
- 32:16Speaker 1: so good up to you. Then is running for a
- 32:19Speaker 1: Royal British Legion. Now a friend of mine, Pete Roster,
- 32:22Speaker 1: he's doing a thing called Virtual and My Ways. You're
- 32:26Speaker 1: basically supposed to do the London Marathon virtually. It's on
- 32:31Speaker 1: your own doorstep if you like, you can choose your
- 32:33Speaker 1: own route, you can choose your own time. But Pete
- 32:36Speaker 1: is running the Virtual and My Way of London Marathon
- 32:39Speaker 1: on Sunday. And for the moment, last one is Mick McCauley.
- 32:44Speaker 1: Now Mick McCauley is running for SAPPHAH. Now SAPPA stands
- 32:48Speaker 1: for Soldiers, Sailors and Emmon Emmon's Families Association. Now this
- 32:53Speaker 1: is a this is I've known Mick a long time.
- 32:56Speaker 1: He came on the show once years ago with a
- 32:59Speaker 1: bunch of so he's taking it on again. But he
- 33:04Speaker 1: suffered a collapsed lung and feared a serious diagnosis in
- 33:09Speaker 1: preparing for this race. So it's knocked him back a bit,
- 33:12Speaker 1: but he really really is hoping to raise a massive
- 33:16Speaker 1: six thousand pounds, So how good is that?
- 33:19Speaker 4: Now?
- 33:19Speaker 1: Mick works up at lim Castle and I must catch
- 33:22Speaker 1: up with him sometime. I often bump into him on Facebook,
- 33:26Speaker 1: as you do. But make all the best and just
- 33:29Speaker 1: take it easy and look out for us at the cuts.
- 33:33Speaker 2: His suck.
- 33:34Speaker 1: Okay, Now, all you people out there that are running
- 33:36Speaker 1: the Londons and Marathon are heroes. So what about a
- 33:39Speaker 1: great song from m People search for a hero.
- 34:07Speaker 2: There we go and.
- 34:08Speaker 1: People search for yourself, search for the heroes?
- 34:12Speaker 2: Should I say?
- 34:13Speaker 1: But you're going to be all going to be a
- 34:16Speaker 1: hero when you cross that line, because that's what we're
- 34:20Speaker 1: all about.
- 34:20Speaker 2: Today.
- 34:20Speaker 1: This is Kevin Day on Radio Focus and bringing you
- 34:23Speaker 1: and we've slowly coming to the end of our first
- 34:25Speaker 1: hour of the two hour London Marathon Special.
- 34:28Speaker 2: And we've got waiting in the wings.
- 34:29Speaker 1: We've got our two gifts, We've got Phil King and
- 34:32Speaker 1: Lois Bennett. Sorry I did call us Davey, but I've
- 34:35Speaker 1: been told if already that's a good starting here. Yeah,
- 34:39Speaker 1: these people get married and don't change email addresses and
- 34:42Speaker 1: things like that on a loads of them. But let's
- 34:45Speaker 1: get it right. This is Lois Bennett coming in and
- 34:47Speaker 1: I do know the family. Actually, Oliver's been in before
- 34:51Speaker 1: and Lois's mum and dad one year came up to
- 34:53Speaker 1: the London Marathon with us. So yeah, running in the family,
- 34:57Speaker 1: isn't it all? I can play that in the next hour, right,
- 35:00Speaker 1: So what we're going to do now, We're going to
- 35:02Speaker 1: play out and drift out until the next hour. But
- 35:04Speaker 1: this is a classic song now forever I'm at an event,
- 35:08Speaker 1: I love playing this because it does get people pumping.
- 35:11Speaker 1: This is run to you and Brian Adams and we'll
- 35:15Speaker 1: see you later.