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A CHASTITY, SPEAKING IN TONGUES AND DOMINATION WRESTLING! · CALL ME MISTRESS

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Call me mistress. Mistress Mia controls the
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narrative solo obey. OK Hi, welcome to the latest
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episode of Call me a mistress. I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia,
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and I've got with me the one, the only D Rock.
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Hey. Hey, so D Rock, You host the
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wonderful podcast, the After Hour Sessions podcast.
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Oh, thank you. Thank you.
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Yes, yes, I got a lot of good positive feedback from that
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coming on here. Yeah, how can you blame people
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for enjoying it so much? It's, it was, it's awesome.
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That's I'm not surprised because I know like the reach that you
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have and you're a legend. So that part is like I get, but
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then it's still just like really you you're listening to me or
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you're reaching out to me like are you?
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Do you get the wrong? You meant you meant Barbie.
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You didn't mean me, right? You got confused.
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No. You know, my good friend
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Charles, he always listens to the show, and he's like, yeah,
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you know, you should, you should contact D Rock because the two
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of you had such great banter. He seems like such a cool guy.
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And I'm like, yeah, I was going to have him back on it anyway.
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Oh, OK. Thank you, Charles.
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I appreciate that. Yeah, he liked it.
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He, he likes to critique and I always love, you know, his
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feedback, you know, our numbers always grow.
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And like I said, I'm in 194 countries.
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And I just feel like when you have a good repertoire with
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someone and you know, we have the same background and I, I
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just think that, you know, why not?
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Why not talk and, you know, enjoy each other's company and
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just go from there? Yeah, absolutely.
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Now, you know, you were talking earlier before we started
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recording and I think it's so commendable on what you do.
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And I think I, it's true. I think it's really important.
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You know, you, you host these podcasts, you're doing these
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these things out of pure enjoyment, but then your, your
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actual work is working with people with drug and alcohol
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addiction and you're helping them in therapy.
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Yeah, yeah, I've done doing, been doing that and also helping
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to rehouse the homeless. So it's kind of like a like,
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yeah, a combo. Yeah, yeah.
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So we, we do a little bit of everything where I'm at now,
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even though it started off as like a branch of like housing,
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especially when I got hired in 2020 and, you know, outside of
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like healthcare, the number two thing in the country was
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housing. Yeah.
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And so like, it was like, OK, wow.
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But then you're dealing with the addiction, you're dealing with
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mental health. And I, I worked at, I came from
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a treatment center right before I got this job.
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So then I'm like, no, you, you're doing all, all kinds of
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stuff here. It's it's mental health, it's
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addiction, it's the homelessness, it's, it's
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everything combined. So yeah, that's it's, I've been
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coming up on 5 1/2 years at this particular job, but 15 years in
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this kind of field, in this social work therapist field.
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Awesome. When I am when I finished high
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school that I, I finished it early.
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I went into college and my siblings, they wanted to open
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assisted living and you know, our passions always been mental
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health and the States, you know, here in the states, they really
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don't accommodate mental health on the level they should.
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And and that's really the sadder part of everything.
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So I know it's difficult, you know, for what you do.
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No, no, it is. It's difficult and it's, it's
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difficult from the outside. And I kind of expected that
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going in. But I'll be honest, the part
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that was shocking and I still have to watch it is the
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difficulties from the inside, from people, whether it's in
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your own company or in a partnering company or the, you
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know, state official, county officials who their job is,
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They're the commissioner of, you know, mental health or all these
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different things. And the things that they'll
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fight against or they'll say, or, you know, a lot of times
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it'll be we're going to change this whole thing up.
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And now they're not putting feet to the pavement.
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They're not out on the street. They're in an office somewhere.
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And I'm not knocking them, but then they don't talk to us.
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And then we're we have all these complaints and then they're just
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like, oh, just just do it. And then of course, what we said
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comes true and it's a disaster. And then a month or two later,
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let's have a meeting and let's powwow.
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What can we do differently? I'm like, why don't you do that
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before? Like now we, we, you got clients
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upset, their families upset, we're upset.
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And all you had to do was communicate.
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And it's, it comes out something that simple, just communicate.
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But it's just like, it's like sometimes people are like, and I
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used to do this, I did this years ago.
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And I'm like, Are you sure you did?
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Because you're saying stuff that makes me think you have no idea
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what you're talking about. So it like that stuff, stuff
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that really gets you a lot of time, at least me.
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It's like the outside stuff I would kind of prepared for, but
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the people on the inside doing crazy stuff, it's like, oh boy,
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isn't. That crazy.
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Yeah, I went and so we did assisted living facilities for
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years and then I went on my own much later and I had a homeless
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shelter and I, I help people get their benefits and, and help
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them get, you know, mental health treatment.
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And so, I mean, we're right there in the same boat.
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I've been there, done that. Yeah, I commend you.
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That's awesome. Yeah, that's awesome.
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It's it's it's I'm grateful for it.
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And it's a lot of lessons learned that I didn't even
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expect to learn going into this. And I, I hopefully I live those
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less. I try to act.
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But even we, like you said, we were talking before and I've
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been lucky enough where friends of mine, their kids are going to
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college or, you know, I at these jobs, I've had interns, I get to
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know them. They're in college.
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They were young and they got that, you know, fresh face and
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I'm going to save the world. And I'm like, you know, and then
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they'll come to me, Jeremy and I'll talk to him.
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Hey, if you need anything, let me know.
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And then they're like, well, how do you what what's advice for
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me? And then I look at them and my
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mind's going, how do I keep it real but not crush their souls?
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Like, how do I balance this? So then I go, well, all right.
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And I'm like, well, let me tell you something.
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You're ready to hit home run. I use like sports analogies.
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You think you're going to hit a home run, right?
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That's what you want to do. And they're like, yeah.
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And I go, that's that rarely happens.
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I'm like you, you just, you want, you want to just get on
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base like, and I'm like, but it does mean you're not helping
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people. So a lot of times what you see
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in the movies or a documentary or a book is like that story of
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like they got in there and they change someone's life.
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I go, I'm not saying that that can't happen.
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And they, they're like, but and it's like, you can't just go in
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there. I'm going to fix every part of
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your life and boom, you're not the miracle worker.
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You're part of a system. You're one person, you know, I'm
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like, look, I look at your own lives, look at my life.
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I, there's so much fixing in my life.
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So if I could fix someone's life, I'd start with me.
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Like, you know what I mean? I'm going to start there first
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because I need a lot of fixing. But it's like sometimes that
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person went through something traumatic and awful and all you
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can do is listen, but you are helping.
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And I'm like, so you think like, what did I do today?
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But that person maybe broke down and cried to you and what
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they're going through, you have no answer for.
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You can't turn back time. You can't bring their loved one
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back who passed away or you can't bring back the the trauma
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from their childhood and fix. If you could, you would, but you
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can't. And a lot of times you have to
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sit there and you listen and that's helping.
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That's being there. But we think about like I just
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swooped in and did all these things that can come if you
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stick around long enough. That can happen in times, but
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I'm like, you have to rearrange your mindset here and like just
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showing up is a big deal. Yeah, I, you know, I, I always
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think about, like I said, I, I had my very good friend and he
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told me that BDSM helped him so much get through recovery
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himself. And I see so many people that
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come to me and they suffer with addiction, even the BDSM
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lifestyle. And then they, they correlate
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sex, BDSM and drugs together. Or they live in a highly
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dysfunctional relationship and they really need BDSM.
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And a lot of times they still have that crutch of, of drugs.
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But yeah, I it's just so sad to see.
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And it's, it's just sad to see that the endless cycle with,
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with different things that happen.
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Well, yeah, cause a lot of times that's, you know, it, you hear a
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lot of things working in treatment and then you'll go to
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a A or NA meetings and you hear these sayings that a lot of
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times, if you think about it, you've heard in some way before.
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But it, it hits differently and it's like, you know, it's like
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no drugs. Drugs are the answer for a lot
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of people. There's something else there.
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And that's the thing you see a lot of times there's something
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else bothering somebody inside, something traumatic happened or
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they feel empty. And it's like, like that's what
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they they're turning to. And yeah, you know, I'm grateful
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for this world because I, I don't know if I wouldn't have
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turned to that, especially when I finally jumped into this world
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in my early 20s and feeling really low and feeling down and
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not liking the person in the mirror at all and being, you
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know, depressed and suicidal thoughts.
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If I didn't find this world, who knows if I'm, I'm not going to
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sit here and be a hypocrite or be like, I would never have.
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I might have without, you know, this world's therapy, meeting
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good people along the way, like things that help, but it all
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connects. And if you don't have those
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things, you know, people want to judge others, but you can't
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judge anybody if you haven't gone through it.
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And and that's something I tell newer people.
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And some of my coworkers were like, you told me that when I
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started. And I'm like, oh, I did well,
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I'm like, oh, I'm glad. But I'm like when you're talking
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to a person, it goes in life, but in the, in my day job or
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even in this Bo BDSM world, if you haven't gone through it,
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then you say, I'm so sorry. I, I, I can't imagine, I, I
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don't know what you're going through, But that's like, that's
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so much. Don't say I know how you feel,
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man. If you don't know how someone
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feels, yeah, don't, don't, don't That's empty words.
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That's insulting unless you've gone through that.
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And I go, even if you've gone through a similar experience,
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it's still different in other ways anyway.
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But if you don't know, I, I told someone, one of my first clients
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on this job was living in the hotel he had just had.
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He's a double amputee. His wife had passed away about a
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year earlier. I'm not going to sit there and
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go, hey, Andy, I know how you feel, man, because I don't know
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how he feels at all. Yeah, that's what I said.
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I said I, I can't imagine. I don't know how you feel.
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I'm like, so don't, don't say that.
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Don't. Don't throw those words out
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there. It's so true.
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You know, on a more positive note, I will tell you we had a
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gentleman and he came into the dungeon the other day and I
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immediately thought of you because he asked me.
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He'd been here before, but this time he kind of, it's funny
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because they'll tell you one thing and then once you once
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they keep coming back, it's like they further themselves deeper
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down what they really, really want.
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And So what he really wanted was to wrestle.
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And before it was, hey, can I just come in and smell Barbie's
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armpits or can I, you know, and I'm like, yeah, what do you want
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to do with her armpits? He's like, well, I want to like,
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lick her armpits and suck her armpits.
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And I'm like, OK, all right, you know, I'm not going to judge.
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You know, there's pheromones. Go for it.
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And so he came in and he's like, yeah, now do you think she'd
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want to wrestle? And you know, there's this show
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cracks me up. Barbie has a big personality.
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She's blonde, she's broad, She's big.
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And the personality matches the stature.
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She's absolutely fucking hilarious.
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But there was a show called Life in Pieces.
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Oh yeah, do. You remember that?
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Yes. OK, did you ever get to see
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where they had the blonde comedian on there?
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Who was the the roommate? Yes, you saw that.
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I did. I know you talked about, yeah.
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OK, Did you see how she wrestled Matt?
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See. And that's what I think of
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Barbie when I think of her wrestling.
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That's good. OK.
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Yes. Didn't you just love that scene?
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Oh, I I'm going to be honest, missus Mia, I get a kick
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whenever I see mainstream, like pop culture, anything like
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that's going to hook me on to even if I don't really like the
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show and I did like life in pieces, like I did like that
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show, but like, yes, that's going to hook me and let I
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rewatched. I want to say that episode, but
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I'm lying to you. I watched that episode once.
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I watched that scene a bunch of times.
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I just was Fast forward to that and rewind and that.
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So it's like, yeah, I said no, I watched the episode fully one
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time, that scene a bunch of times because I'm like, that's.
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It's. Awesome.
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It's so incredible. It is so incredible.
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And that comedian, I forget her name.
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She's got an unusual name. Yeah, I forget her name too.
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Yeah. But she's so funny.
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She's like how you like that Matt picture.
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Barbie did the same thing. The Oh yeah, the the comedian
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Bridget Everett, she's like a, like a cabaret singer would do
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comedy. She got her show on HBO that I
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like, but she's like a taller, like 6 foot broad, like strong
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woman. And that'd be part of her show
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where she would have people come on stage, she'd lift them and
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pick them up and, and do all kinds and dance with them and
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everything. Like, yeah, she's she's a trip
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Bridget Everett. And I was like, I'm a big fan of
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you. Now I'm like, you got a new fan
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in me. So.
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Silly. Well, you know, Barbie, we were
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moving stuff. One of our last parties and we
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have this big solid spank bench and it's awkward as shit to kind
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of carry because, I mean, it's a good, it's a good 3-4 feet long
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and it, you know, it's one of those those things where it's
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like, OK, two people, yeah, it's just weird to kind of get in and
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out the door. Anyway, my friend Charles, he's
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like probably 145, five foot 75 foot 8.
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He's small guy. And then you hear you have
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Barbie and she's like 59240. She comes in, she just Chucks it
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over her shoulder. She's like, hey Chuck, let me
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get that. And I was like, Oh my God, I
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love her. That's awesome.
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That's awesome. I that, yeah.
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She said. That's a yeah, that's a huge
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turn off for me. Isn't that great?
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So, so hot. But it's like, in a way, I'm not
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like, 'cause I think some guys like that, but then they get
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intimidated by that. And it's not like I'm not like,
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I want to outlift Barbie now. It's like the, you know, it's
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like, no, that's hot. And it's my strength is my
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strength. Your strength's your strength.
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Like it's great. Well, we got to get you down to
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Florida so you can actually try it, you know.
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I, I definitely want to, yes, I definitely want to, absolutely,
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absolutely. Our other friend Abby, she comes
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to the dungeon and she wrestled the same guy and this guy's only
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like he's little. He's like, I would say 5455 and
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maybe 125 like he's little and he's just the nicest guy and
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he's like 4550 years old. But he loves when she wears like
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a like a wife beater shirt and she like suffocated him with her
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armpit and he she's like, lick it, lick it, you know, and then
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she just like nailed him and freaking tried to choke him out
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and and she beat that, you know, just wrestled him to like no
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end. And he's like, I was just going
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to think that she'd let me win at some point is what he told
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me. I said no.
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I said what would be the fun of that, you know?
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And yeah. Yeah, he's like, yeah, I guess
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you're right. And then Abby said to him, she's
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like, I am never, ever going to tap out.
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That's beautiful. That's beautiful.
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Well, you know, I think this was after we last talked.
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I'm pretty sure 'cause I don't think I told you that I I got to
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meet with a a dominatrix who's 6 foot 9.
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Shit. Yeah, so cool.
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She is so awesome. But I did it on Friday morning,
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went into the city and you know, she was at a Airbnb in like the
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front deck, like I, you know, unless you had like the code or
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whatever, you couldn't get in. So she came down and got me and
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she was in heels. So with those heels, she was
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7/1. Jesus.
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And I'm, I'm, you know, yeah, I'm 59 and a half, 5-10 around
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there. So it was just like I went like
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underneath her boob. And I'm like, this is, it's
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unbelievable. But she was so cool and just so
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fun. But it was like, like our hand,
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I have big hands. So like, her hands are like a
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little bit longer than mine, but she's like, well, you got pretty
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big hands for like, being like 5-10.
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And I'm like, yeah, yeah, I do. And we did like Mercy and the
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fact that like, she did not win. But like, you know, just her
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being a foot taller than me, she went down and I went right down
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to the couch. I was able to like press up and
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like she's like, you're pretty strong.
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I was like, yeah, yeah. But I, I couldn't, I couldn't
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get her. She couldn't get me.
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But I'm like, this is just crazy.
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Like. And she said she was like, I'm
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about 365. So I picked her up off like the,
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I did like a bear hug lift and did like a few, like a few like
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I, I guess you say like squats with her, but I was like, yeah,
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you definitely, definitely the biggest person I've been with.
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But that's. Impressive.
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Yeah, and she was so fun and and really cool.
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We great conversation talked about art talked about, you
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know, it shouldn't matter, but we know how society is so
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dealing being 6/9 for anyone. But then as a woman and now
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getting attention in a positive way and how to deal with
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because, you know, so much of her life getting stared at was
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negative. Usually, you know, you want to
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hide, but now being a dominatrix and like embracing that and just
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talking to her like was that a shift?
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Was that hard to accept the attention in a positive way?
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So it was just really eye opening and I think a lot of
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times people see something and just think like, oh, that's
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whatever, that's cool. Well, I wish I was that, but
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it's like, well, you don't know the whole scope of it because I
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used to think that I love sports.
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I'm like, wish I was 69. I'd be in the NBA making
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millions and all that. But then I'm like, I don't know
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if I would want to be 69. As you get older, you Start
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learning more. It's like sometimes I feel bad
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because I used to do it when I meet somebody, tall guy girl,
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you play sports and it's like that's not all they are.
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There's more to them, but you just start doing that and I'm
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like, I got to stop that. So it it was really cool.
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But 6 foot 9 that's the she is the tallest now I've ever.
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Wow. Session with yeah.
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That is awesome. Yeah, a lot of fun, yeah.
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That is awesome. So do you like the the idea of
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smelling a woman's armpits when you're doing this?
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It's not my go to, but I've done it like I've done.
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I've been asked and I can get into it.
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Just like with feet. It's not my thing, but I have no
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problem doing it and like licking and so like I I have
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done that. That's never what I but I have
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done that. The hottest I was with somebody
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who was about, listen, I'm 5-10. This person was like 6-2 this
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woman. And so she had on heels.
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So then she asked me to do it and I was like, OK, and then she
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like grabbed my balls and was like playing with them while I
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was like doing it. And that was like a big turn on.
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I'm like, that was hot. Like so.
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That's. Awesome.
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Like I've had some fun like in that ways.
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Yeah, I think that is could what you said earlier hits me.
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That's like the fun part, 'cause I, like we said that guy was
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like, he really wanted to do wrestling but didn't act like,
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I'm like, I, I've been guilty of that too, 'cause sometimes
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you're like, I don't know, like, will they say yes?
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And then when you're just in the moment, you kind of just like
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improvise and ask something and it's like, all right, let's,
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yeah, we could try it or we'll do it.
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And it's like, yeah, for real. Like cool, cool.
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So like, I've definitely been there.
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And like, that was like one of those times.
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Sometimes it's cool when that person improvises.
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I'm like, cool, go ahead. Yeah, that's awesome.
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Yeah, Like I said, you know, I've wrestled a few over my over
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my years, but nothing like really hardcore and I, you know,
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it, it's difficult. It's not an easy task to do.
23:56
Oh yeah. Like you said, you either have
23:57
that upper arm strength and leg strength or you don't, or you
24:00
don't have it. Now I've squeezed people with my
24:03
legs and like almost choke them out, you know?
24:07
That's always fun. That's a lot of times what it
24:09
kind of has to be because it is strenuous.
24:12
So a lot of times you I think it's a two way St. here of
24:17
setting it up where, you know, it's not like a legit match and
24:22
it's and it's not like, OK, you got to put me in this jiu Jitsu
24:26
hold. And then from one hold to the
24:28
next hold. It is like, hey, you know, I'm
24:32
not like I don't want to say a dead fish or something like
24:34
that. But like I'm laying there and
24:36
then I would let you like get on top and put me like a scissor
24:39
hold or like, you know, squeeze my head like in between your
24:42
leg, like things like that. So it's not like I'm fighting
24:46
you. And then really it's the most is
24:48
just you're squeezing and it's how fast till I tap or if I will
24:52
tap, you know. So it's like, 'cause especially
24:57
me, I'm getting older too, so that I'm, I feel stuff.
25:00
And you know, I used to do these in my 20s and then I'd be sore
25:04
the next day, but like, OK, that's fine.
25:06
And then I get older and I'm like, well, now I'm, that was
25:09
five days ago. I'm still sore.
25:10
So it's like I have to pivot myself.
25:13
Like, yeah, this is a lot. Absolutely.
25:17
So unusual sessions I've had over the years.
25:22
I've never really been shocked or surprised with things except
25:28
yesterday, and I haven't got to tell anyone about this yet.
25:33
I'm going to tell you because it was kind of like what?
25:37
You know me, I'm not going to judge.
25:40
I'm not going to yuck no one jump, I promise you that.
25:45
But he didn't tell me what his real fetish was.
25:50
Again, people don't realize that, you know, we're the ones
25:55
with the website and when they come to us, you know, we're the
25:58
ones putting ourselves at risk because we don't know what we're
26:01
walking into. And so this gentleman comes in
26:06
and he tells me that he likes bondage.
26:09
That's his thing. I said, OK, great.
26:12
I said, you know, we can do all sorts of types of bondage.
26:15
Whatever you want to do, we can do, you know, the rope.
26:18
We can do chains. I mean, I'm listing all these
26:21
things that we could do. So he comes in and I'm getting
26:25
ready to open the door and he's wearing what looks like a Cookie
26:31
Monster hat that goes here to here and it just shows his eyes,
26:39
but it's like a matted blue Cookie Monster hood and it comes
26:45
all the way down into his clothes.
26:48
And I was like, if you're going to wear a mask to hide your
26:53
identity, just let me know next time so I know what I'm opening
26:59
the door to. Right, right.
27:01
And he's like, well, you know, I didn't think anything of it.
27:07
Of course not. Of course not, no.
27:10
So I'm like, come on in, you know, sit down.
27:13
And, and so he sits down and I'm, I'm thinking, and I said,
27:20
hey, look, you know, this, this is your picture.
27:22
This is Google picture right here.
27:25
So are you trying to hide your identity?
27:28
Because, you know, we're all about anonymity.
27:30
I'm not going to share what you look like with anyone.
27:35
And I said, is it just bondage or you or there's more to this
27:39
than what you're telling me? And he's like, well, I kind of
27:44
like for you to like, feel my hair.
27:50
And I said, well, darling, I can't feel your hair.
27:53
You know, if your hood's covering it.
27:56
It was almost like a Cookie Monster ski mask.
28:00
And like I said, it was old. It was matted.
28:02
And I was like, OK, all right, you.
28:06
Know. Like, what's up with that?
28:10
And so ultimately he tells me that he wants to inescapable
28:16
bondage. I said that's not a problem.
28:19
And he said he wants to keep his hood on.
28:21
I said not a problem. I said just, you know, wear
28:25
whatever you're comfortable wearing.
28:27
And he's like, OK, you know, he kept his T-shirt on.
28:31
He's got his socks on. And it was almost like he was a
28:36
5 year old kid. He kind of went into this, this
28:39
little time zone in his head and he's laying there and he's so
28:44
sweet and innocent. I mean, this man is early 30s.
28:50
And it was something just clicked in his mind and it just
28:55
sent him back into some childhood memory.
28:59
And so he told me that he wanted me to like touch his face and
29:04
rub his hair, his Cookie Monster hair.
29:08
And so I'm doing these things and I'm touching him and he's
29:14
rubbing his shirt up and down, up and down.
29:17
And. I'm like, OK.
29:21
And, and I was like, I'm like, are you wearing a collar?
29:29
And he's like, yeah, I got my collar on.
29:33
It's my dog collar. And I was like, oh, I said, are
29:37
you a little puppy? And I was thinking either he is
29:41
in like a total subspace or he has a little bit of multiple
29:46
personality. Because he went, I'm telling
29:50
you, it was the oddest thing and sweet as could be, but he was
29:55
like a little boy that quick. He's like, yeah, I got my dog
29:59
collar. And he couldn't put his hand up,
30:00
but he kind of like motioned it. He's like, I got my doggy collar
30:04
on and he's like, I want you to pet my fur.
30:07
And I'm like, yeah, pet your fur.
30:09
It's so soft. And I had this, like this rabbit
30:12
fur. And I was like, I'm going to rub
30:14
this rabbit fur on your face because little doggies like
30:17
rabbits. And he's like, I do, mistress, I
30:20
like it a lot. And I said, yes, I'm going to
30:23
rub your face. I said you like it.
30:25
And his hands were cuffed down by his waist, so he was able to
30:29
like, he kept moving his shirt up and down on his penis.
30:33
And I was like, go to town, do whatever you want to do, say it.
30:37
But I was letting him do it. And so it was very interesting.
30:44
So with all this said, afterwards, you know he had a
30:48
little orgasm. OK.
30:51
And he was like, OK, I'm a free puppy now you, you get to
30:56
release me. Take my collar, take my collar.
30:58
You can have it. He's like, I'm a free puppy.
31:02
And I'm like, OK, you're a free puppy, let me take your collar
31:06
off. And I got him united and that
31:08
was it. Sent him on his way and I was
31:10
like what the fuck just happened?
31:13
That's wow. So let me ask you when, because
31:16
you said during it he kind of switched to like a like a?
31:20
Little little boy. Now when the session ends, is he
31:23
back to? No, he was still this little boy
31:28
until he got out of his collar and cuffs.
31:31
He gave me his collar. He's like, you're not my owner
31:35
anymore, I'm free puppy. And I was like, yes, you are.
31:40
You be free in the world and that was it.
31:43
That's so that's a first for you, right?
31:47
First ever I was like what the fuck just happened?
31:51
That's interesting. I'm like, what just happened?
31:54
Yeah, I think he had a little personality disorder.
31:58
I mean, it was, it was telling. It was really strange because it
32:01
was, it was like lights went out. eight-year old little boy,
32:05
maybe 5. I don't even say 8.
32:07
He's probably like 5-6 year old little boy.
32:09
That's how it appeared to me. So when you get someone like
32:13
that, like who like surprises you or you're like, I've never
32:17
seen that before, does that make you more intrigued, like I want
32:21
to see you again just to or did that make you a little more
32:23
hesitant? Well, the simple fact that he
32:30
was, he was very sweet and he went into child mode it that was
32:35
not the intimidating part. It was the fact that he could
32:38
turn that light switch so quickly.
32:41
And you and I both know in this field that with a mental
32:44
psychosis, anything is completely unpredictable.
32:49
And you know, I had this gentleman years ago and he was
32:54
just a wonderful, wonderful patient.
32:57
And my, he was with my family's company for a long time.
33:02
He was a former veteran. He suffered bad head trauma
33:07
after after Vietnam War. He didn't serve through Vietnam.
33:11
He didn't even make it through boot camp.
33:14
And his former troop basically beat the shit out of him and
33:20
caused such head trauma that he was released from the military.
33:25
But he was one of those people that he could turn that light
33:28
switch and it triggered a totally different personality.
33:33
And he would tell me, he would say, the aliens are coming to
33:36
get you and I'm going to kill you.
33:39
And I was like, well, I hate to hear that.
33:43
And, you know, so it's like, I'm trying to go in that, huh?
33:47
So did you have your medicine today?
33:49
Yeah. You know, is that Depakote
33:51
helping? So what's the trick?
33:55
People don't realize it. That's a tricky thing of like
33:59
how do 'cause like you have empathy, you have understanding,
34:04
but you're also like, I'm a person and it's like, I will
34:07
defend myself now. Like, you know, it's like don't,
34:11
don't get it twisted. I'm not going to just sit here
34:13
and take it. Like I'm, I'm like don't, don't,
34:16
don't do it Now. It's like, it's like, but you
34:19
try to be like, I understand, but mom, don't do it.
34:22
Like let's see you. My, my, my method would usually
34:29
be like, oh, you know, that's, that's cool, that's cool.
34:33
But you know, I tell you what, why don't we go get an ice cream
34:38
and we will completely avoid them all together because they
34:42
don't need to hurt me. They what they they're not going
34:44
to be interested in me. You know, he's like, yeah, let's
34:46
go get an ice cream. You go, it's always the last
34:50
resort. That's why I tell people there's
34:52
a difference of when you got people I had to fight.
34:56
No, you didn't have to fight. You did not.
34:58
It's like no, it it becomes if you're coming at me or you're
35:01
doing it like then I I got to fend.
35:03
But other than that, it's like, let's redirect.
35:05
Let's just like you said, let's go get an ice cream.
35:08
Let's come on. You really don't want to do
35:09
this. Let's go over here.
35:11
Let's go, let's go, let's go watch TV.
35:13
Let's go put on. You know what I can tell you?
35:17
I wonder if this did you have a show or like shows?
35:22
There was a common thing that I've had with people in like the
35:25
mental health field, love soap operas and like 1000.
35:33
Percent. I'm totally in agreeance with
35:34
that. Yeah, love.
35:36
And that was like, and I, my mom used to I was not a fan of soap
35:40
operas like like the General Hospital Days of Our Lives.
35:44
But you talk about kid in the candy store and it's like, I got
35:48
to get home first thing is a a snack and General Hospital.
35:53
And I'm like, yeah, General Hospital.
35:56
I'm like, but I'm like, OK, and let's watch it.
35:59
And then you're trying to connect.
36:01
So you sit down and then I'm like, oh, OK, is Luke is still
36:06
here? What's Luke doing?
36:07
And oh, OK now. Dean Rock, You know those actors
36:11
a little bit too much. Oh good, Barbara.
36:15
Enjoy them. My mom would have little parties
36:18
because she's a teacher. Was it, you know, she's retired
36:20
now, so in the summertime, that's supposed to be my time.
36:25
No, no, no. She's inviting teacher friends
36:28
over. They're ordering Chinese and
36:29
they're just marathon and all these soap operas and that, that
36:35
Young and the Restless theme song that gave me nightmares.
36:38
I used to hate hearing that. I used to hate that.
36:44
I'm like, turn it off, turn it off.
36:47
And that was an automatic if I was down there.
36:49
Oh, hi, wow. Hey missus.
36:51
So and so I hear that doom, doom.
36:53
I got to go. I was like, Nope, Nope, you lost
36:56
me with that. Nope.
36:58
Nope. Oh, that's too funny.
37:01
That's too funny. Your mom sounds like a cool
37:03
lady. Yeah, she she, she's a we'll
37:07
see. She'll be 73 in October.
37:11
And was a teacher for in Philadelphia School District,
37:16
special Ed teacher for five years.
37:19
Yeah, yeah. Wow.
37:21
But when she came she because from South Carolina and then
37:25
married my dad's from Philly and so met my dad in college and
37:28
they got married. She came up here when she was a
37:31
sub, but one of her students was this guy.
37:36
You probably haven't heard of him, but named Will Smith.
37:40
Oh yeah. Yeah.
37:42
And I'm like, you taught Will? She's like, yeah, I taught for
37:44
like she filled in for like a year and taught Will Smith.
37:47
And I'm like, that's crazy. Like that's really cool.
37:51
But yeah, she she taught Will Smith.
37:54
Well, he was raised in Philly, so.
37:56
Yeah, that's right. So that's why I'm like, that's
37:58
that's pretty cool. That's pretty cool.
38:01
I'm like, all right. So I always had a connection
38:03
with like Will Smith. I'm like, yeah, I'm I've taught
38:05
you. So always funny.
38:07
You're funny. That's cool.
38:09
That's cool. And teachers make such an impact
38:12
in children's lives, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah, she was, she
38:18
was a, she was a good, she was a really good teacher.
38:21
A great. Teacher, honestly, yeah, she,
38:23
she brought that old school southern ways up here.
38:27
Yeah, it was unorthodox, but it, it, it, you know, a lot of her
38:31
students still will call. She's been retired since 2013
38:37
and a lot of her students will still call her and reach out to
38:41
her. And, and I've seen some of her
38:43
students out at different places and they still are asking about
38:47
her to this day. So it's really, it's really
38:49
cool. I'm proud of her for that,
38:51
really proud. But yeah, no, it's, it's, it's
38:55
fascinating. Like it I, I, I go back to just
39:03
to different sessions and different things that are
39:05
happening in them and the stories of just like, you know,
39:11
you go into it one way and it's that kind of like that.
39:16
I don't want to say self deprecating, but you're just
39:18
like, hey, I'm just D rock. I'm who am I?
39:21
So it makes you kind of like loose and like I'm just going to
39:25
have fun with it and it works right.
39:29
But then it works too well where then it's happened a few times.
39:34
Then the session wrestler or dominatrix, we're getting real
39:39
and they're turned on for real. And then I'm like, wait, man,
39:41
what's going on here? Like, and they're like, oh, wow.
39:45
And then I'm just like, how what?
39:48
Like it's like, didn't I have like boxers on?
39:52
And you just took them off now? And like woof, like I'm like,
39:56
where where did that happen? And then it's just like, it, it
39:59
happens. And then I'm just like I was
40:02
not. I, I what me, like, I was not
40:07
expecting this. I'm like, you're doing this with
40:09
me. But yeah, it, it, it's happened
40:12
not all the time, but a few times where I'm like, wait a
40:15
minute here, is this real life? Like, is this really happening?
40:19
But it, it, it happens sometimes and it's like, OK, so that whole
40:24
improvising thing, like be careful what you wish for,
40:27
'cause sometimes it, hey, things pop off.
40:33
The crazy lives we live. Oh, wild, wild, wild.
40:37
Yeah. The the first time it was a
40:41
person I had session with before.
40:45
And when I saw this person the first time, it was early in my
40:48
session career. And she was like, oh, you look
40:51
great. I go thanks, you too.
40:53
And, you know, have a session scheduled.
40:55
And one of the options was like, you know, mixed wrestling
41:00
domination. And it was like tease and
41:03
denial. And so I put that in the e-mail.
41:07
So then she responded back when I saw her was like, oh, you want
41:12
to tease and denial? I was like, yeah, that's cool.
41:14
And she's like, OK, And as soon as we get ready to go on the bed
41:17
to start, she goes and you can do that to me too.
41:20
So I said, oh, OK. I'm still so naive.
41:23
I'm not thinking anything of it. I'm just like, sure, you know, I
41:28
can. So I watched her video, so I
41:31
knew certain things. And in her videos, you can
41:36
always in like a bikini or something like that or a thong
41:38
bikini. And if you yanked on like the
41:41
back of it, like where, you know, her ass is, that would
41:44
like turn her on. So while we're like doing the
41:48
session, I'm just doing that. But I'm not think I'm just
41:50
having fun 'cause I'm like, that's the only way I know how
41:53
to tease and deny. Like I've seen those videos.
41:56
So she was like, oh wow, you're so confident.
41:59
And I was like, Oh yeah, I am, you know, yeah.
42:02
But deep down I'm just like, I don't know what I'm doing.
42:04
I'm just having a good time. And it's just me.
42:07
We're like 1/2 hour into the session and all of a sudden
42:12
she's on top of me. And then my basketball shorts
42:17
takes them off and I'm like, whatever, my boxers.
42:22
And then I'm like, what's happening here?
42:26
I'm like, what's going on? And then she's just stroking.
42:28
And then I and then I'm like, and I'm like, is this real life?
42:34
Like it's one of those things I'm like, I'm like, did I ask
42:38
for this in the e-mail that I forget about?
42:40
I'm like, I don't this isn't is one of those things like this
42:43
isn't part of the script. Like I don't you, you're you're
42:46
this is going off script here. I don't know what I'm doing.
42:49
So I was like, oh, and she was like, oh, this is nice.
42:51
And I go now. Before I was telling you, I was
42:54
like, oh, yeah, yeah. Then my voice went to yeah,
42:58
yeah, it is, it is. And she's like, oh, you're not
43:01
so confident now. And I was like, you know, I'm
43:04
good, I'm good. And then she like, is like,
43:10
what's your limit? And I said, you know, whichever
43:14
way the wind blows, just however it goes, I didn't know what I
43:18
was doing. She's like, no, what's your
43:21
limit? And I go, whatever you want it
43:23
to be, you know, it's just I'm here to please.
43:26
And then she grabs me by the neck and goes, what's your
43:29
limit? And I go, oh, we can go all the
43:31
way. I didn't know what to say.
43:33
I was just like, this isn't real life.
43:35
This doesn't happen to people like me.
43:37
This happens to like athletes and celebrities.
43:40
This doesn't happen and. She wanted some of that Dick.
43:44
She did and she got on top. And you talk about now I only
43:54
know one language, I know English.
43:56
That night I spoke in tongues when she was riding on me.
44:01
I was, I was doing all that stuff and you talk about a
44:06
splash waterfall. It was, it was everywhere.
44:10
I was like, oh boy, it felt, I don't, I, I want to give myself
44:15
more credit. Like it went like 5.
44:17
It felt so fast though. It was like, I don't know what
44:21
happened. It just, and I had told her
44:24
before we were just talking before the session started.
44:27
I'm like, I'm having trouble. I don't come that easy.
44:32
You know, I'm having trouble. I've been, you know, with some
44:34
people don't come that easy. Well, dad fixed that problem
44:39
that night when she got on top and rode like that.
44:41
It was it was everywhere. I was like, well, you she's
44:45
like, well, I guess that's not a problem.
44:46
I go I guess not like. She hit your button.
44:51
Did she ever? It was.
44:53
I was like, did this happen? Wild, wild.
44:57
That's awesome. Wow.
45:01
Well, I think we need to call it on that note, because that's.
45:04
Great. Kind of matches your big hands
45:09
now there D rock. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
45:11
That's. So cool.
45:15
Yeah, yeah. Oh, man.
45:17
But I, I remember we talked. I'm like, yeah, I have some
45:20
stories here. I do have some.
45:23
So, yeah, yeah. That's awesome.
45:26
What is? So you've already had one
45:28
session since we've we spoke last, so do you have anyone in
45:31
mind for a a session coming up? Have you thought about it?
45:35
So I have, I don't know. So there's someone who she was
45:41
from this area. She lives in Dallas but comes
45:43
back in the summer. She's been on the podcast and
45:46
I've done a few like videos with her.
45:50
Her name is Mistress Smash. So she's a dominatrix and when
45:55
she came, I saw her through another Dom that I interviewed
46:00
and I saw like pictures. I'm like, she looks amazing,
46:02
seems really cool. And when she came on the
46:04
podcast, she was talking about, you know how she loves, she's
46:08
like a nerd and I go me too. And she's a a Trekkie and she's
46:12
like, I always want to do a scene with someone, you know,
46:15
like a Klingon and everything. And I go, I'll do that with you.
46:18
I'll do that with you. And so we'll say five months
46:22
later, she came up to Philly and we did that scene of like, I'm a
46:26
captured Klingon and I wore the mask and all that stuff and all
46:31
that jazz. So it was really, really cool.
46:34
So I think she's coming up in July.
46:36
I want to see her. And then I feel like in May, the
46:41
legendary goddess Severa is coming and she's 6 foot five and
46:46
a legend and I at least want to interview her.
46:49
But I'm thinking I want to do that session too, just to say I
46:51
did it. So those those are just a couple
46:54
I'm looking at. But yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm back in
46:59
the game, baby. I kind of took a little slow
47:01
break. But now this year alone, I've
47:04
had a few, I've even traveled, you know, to Virginia,
47:10
Pittsburgh, like I'm, I'm a road warrior now.
47:13
That's. All you need to have.
47:15
Fun. Yeah, exactly, exactly.
47:17
It's a it's, it's you get caught up and, you know, bills and
47:24
stuff. Like I'm not saying you
47:25
shouldn't pay your bill. Yeah, that's important.
47:27
But then you do look around and it's just like time is flying
47:30
and it's not waiting for anyone. So what?
47:34
And I don't have any. And I kind of realized that too,
47:36
for the podcast. I'm like, you know, I have
47:39
stories from the past, but I've done like a session or two a
47:42
year. I slowed it down and I'm like, I
47:44
need to do more sessions to get more stories in these things.
47:49
Like, you know, I, I keep relying on the past.
47:51
So that was also kind of a little, little bit of the
47:54
motivation for it too. But yeah, it's, it's, it's
47:57
still, I don't know how you feel, but I've learned to curb
48:03
the excitement. So like when I first started
48:05
doing this, when as soon as we like confirm the date, I was
48:08
like countdown to next month when she comes to town.
48:12
I can't wait. And I'm like, how do I?
48:14
I'm just excited. I just want to tell people like,
48:17
guess what? And then but no one gets it.
48:20
And so as you get older, you learn how to like, all right, be
48:22
chill with it. But the day of, I still get that
48:26
like excitement like. Yeah, the butterflies.
48:29
Yeah, like, oh, boy. Like, you know, like, OK, we're
48:33
doing this here. And it's like, yeah.
48:35
And then walking into the hotel room and the the desk clerks,
48:38
they're just like, hey. And I'm like, hey.
48:40
And I'm like, you don't know what I'm about to do.
48:43
Like, I still get that fun with it.
48:45
So it's it's, that's how you know you still love it.
48:48
Oh trust me, I think I'll be doing what I do until I die.
48:53
Yeah, yeah. If I'm 80 years old I will be
48:57
getting my ass in that dungeon and seeing people, that's all
49:01
and making their fantasies become real.
49:05
Yeah, it, yeah, it's it's I can imagine in your role, like it's
49:10
there is there's tough parts to it, but it is like you're just
49:15
you're creating fantasy, you're having fun.
49:17
And it's never especially for we talked about like neuro
49:21
diversion, you know, being ADHD, like yeah, it's never boring.
49:25
No, it's never boring, which is like it's important in a way,
49:30
you know, I mean, it is important like you're always and
49:32
you, yes, story you told, you're still learning and finding
49:36
fascinating new people. Yeah, and experiences all the
49:40
time still. Yeah, I love it.
49:42
I love it. Like I said, he wants to come
49:44
back. I'll see him in a heartbeat.
49:45
Yeah, I really will. I I love it.
49:48
I love helping people. I love seeing new people.
49:52
It was interesting. I did what was called a munch,
49:56
you know, and I turned it into Mia's munch.
49:59
And I did it this past Friday, actually, because we're having
50:05
this big party this coming Friday.
50:08
So I want to do the munch last Friday and then the party this
50:11
coming Friday. And so we met at this really
50:15
cool restaurant downtown and it starts raining.
50:19
And it was just kind of like, this is kind of crappy.
50:22
You know, it's starting to rain. People are getting trying to get
50:26
in. It's just, it was a mess.
50:27
But ultimately, the people that signed up for it, they all came.
50:32
So we had a little more than 30 people there.
50:35
And we were in this big room is called the Grand Hall.
50:39
And so there was other people there, but we had the best time.
50:45
And right before we went in, I was sitting there and, you know,
50:49
people are messaging me and they're like, hey, me, I'm here,
50:52
where do I go? And I said, I'm just waiting in
50:54
my car until the rain calms down until they call us in.
50:58
And so I said, well, you want to come into our car?
51:02
I said, because I got Abby in the back seat with me and she
51:04
loved to molest you. He's like, I'll be there in a
51:08
second. So, so we're playing with this
51:12
guy we never met. He's coming to the the party.
51:15
He's he just came to the munch. We're playing with him in the
51:18
back seat. We're, you know, cutting up and
51:21
just having a good old time. Abby's breaking out dildos out
51:24
of her purse, shoving them down the guy's throat and putting,
51:28
putting a little handcuffs on him.
51:30
And then we go in the restaurant and they're sitting next to me.
51:35
Abby sticks a dildo and her pussy.
51:38
We've got she's she's basically molesting men on side by side,
51:44
playing with their Dicks under the table and all these things
51:50
of just craziness. But I ended up meeting this one
51:53
guy and he's from your neck of the woods.
51:57
He's from Connecticut. And and we start talking but
52:02
anyway so so we meet and we're talking and I just kind of get
52:08
sub vibes from him but that's not what is really saying on his
52:14
Fetlife account. And next thing you know like 2
52:17
days later he sends me this text message because we've been
52:20
talking back and forth super nice guy.
52:23
And he he messages me and he sends me a link that is his
52:30
electronic lock on his chastity device.
52:33
Electronic. Yes.
52:35
And it's yeah, it, it controls the the code for his chastity
52:41
device. And he says, you know, I have
52:44
never done this and I haven't, I haven't really gone down this
52:48
this path. He's like, but once I met you, I
52:51
really wanted to do this and and he's like, wow, you accept it.
52:55
I'm like, fuck yes. If I can control some man's Dick
53:00
locked up, give me that app all day long.
53:04
That is awesome. Isn't that awesome?
53:06
And I. Just keep adding time to it.
53:11
That is the, that's the, that's on top of the bucket list.
53:14
I haven't tried yet, but I've been, I've asked people, Yeah.
53:17
And they, they didn't. It's, you know, it's kind of my
53:20
fault a little bit because it's been kind of, hey, like what
53:24
we've been talking about. I think one time I did put it in
53:28
the e-mail, but the person didn't have the right one.
53:31
But I've kind of asked a few people like in the moment, like,
53:34
you know, 'cause they'll reiterate or try to go over
53:37
again and what you like and I'm like, I'll do that too.
53:39
And they haven't had the right, but I just want to know what
53:43
that feels like, you know, so bad, like that's so.
53:47
Get a chastity device, I'll send you the link, OK, and you let me
53:51
know you send me the link and I'll I'll control it that.
53:55
'D be awesome. That'd be awesome.
53:57
OK, I so this might be weird to ask what what like have.
54:03
Has anyone told you what the sensation feels like?
54:05
Like what it feels like to be in chastity.
54:09
Well, here's the thing. Sometimes they complain that
54:13
it's uncomfortable to sleep in. It really depends on and you
54:17
know, how you Dick hangs and how compacted it is and it's it's
54:24
getting that right fit. So usually the Holy Trainer is a
54:26
plastic chastity and they say that it's the most comfortable
54:32
and then it comes in different sizes.
54:34
Now the metal ones are always heavier.
54:37
So then they just kind of hold it and then, you know, it kind
54:40
of drops a little bit. The biggest thing though, is
54:44
finding one that's inescapable because sometimes if you're
54:48
completely soft, you can just pull out the head and and the
54:52
actual shaft and then you can just eventually work it, you
54:55
know, to come down off your testicles.
54:59
But Amazon has two different chastities. 1 is a remote
55:03
control that it's like a little box almost around your Dick and
55:10
it's it. To me it looks like a hard
55:12
plastic. I haven't ordered it.
55:13
I'm going to be ordering it soon though for my Sissy, but it can
55:19
only be unlocked through the app that I control.
55:22
Oh wow. Yeah.
55:24
Then there's another one and it's more, it looks like
55:28
something out of Terminator. OK, it's, it's kind of like a
55:34
fancy car on your Dick. It looks really interesting.
55:39
I'm going to send you the link to that.
55:41
It will send vibrations and shocks and yeah, it's pretty
55:47
interesting. So, you know, I've had Subs that
55:53
have worn them like my Sissy, I had one and he, he just couldn't
55:58
do it after five days and he broke the, he broke the, the,
56:02
the cock ring on it. And you know, they send you
56:06
multiple cock rings. It was plastic.
56:09
It's not a big deal. But then, you know, we were, you
56:12
know, an hour apart and he just, you know, he's young, he's
56:17
pulled out. But then I've, I've dealt with
56:19
other Subs and they've lasted, you know, 2-3 weeks.
56:23
So I think the older you get, the, the more patience you have
56:28
for it, the more you, you know, you can prolong yourself.
56:33
But what I always do is if I have a sub that comes in with
56:38
their chastity, I'll take my massage wand and you can, you
56:44
can hit it just in that right spot.
56:47
And yes, their Dick will get hard.
56:49
But yes, they could achieve an orgasm that way.
56:52
So how hard is it to get like your Dick hard in those things?
56:56
Not difficult at all. OK, OK.
56:59
The only thing it does, it prevents it from growing and
57:03
getting as extensive as it would.
57:06
Without the cage. That the depression is what gets
57:09
it for them, you know, because then it has those little vents
57:14
on the side of most of those cages and it's like the skin
57:17
comes out because, you know, it's just a sleeve.
57:20
So it can be very uncomfortable. So is that the fun part for you
57:24
when you see someone getting like aroused in it?
57:28
The fun part for me is to watch them drip and to have that
57:33
control and say, yeah, no, I think you need to wear I'm going
57:37
to keep the key and I'll see you later.
57:40
And he'll, you know, like my Sissy.
57:42
Please, please, no, mistress, please.
57:44
I'll do anything. Let me let me take the key just
57:46
in case. And I'm like, you can't be
57:48
trusted. You just can't be.
57:50
I'm sorry. And I told him recently, I'm
57:52
like, yeah, I found the perfect cage for you.
57:56
It's inescapable. Wow, that's awesome, isn't that?
58:01
Awesome. That's so cool, I love that.
58:03
But you know, chastities are fairly, fairly inexpensive now.
58:08
And so try it like a holy trainer and you can you can buy
58:12
them in different sizes based on your size.
58:14
And like I said, you know, you spend 20 bucks on it, try it and
58:18
see if you like it. But like I said, I use the, the,
58:21
the sex wand on it and it's amazing.
58:25
And then there's a lot of different people that actually
58:27
just like to wear a butt plug at the same time, you know, so it's
58:30
pressing against their prostate. So you know, you just have to
58:34
try it out and see what's what suits.
58:37
You that's interesting that prostate I I met a Dom once and
58:45
I just saw that as an option and I'm like prostate, prostate
58:49
milking. I'm like, OK, so I'm like, I do
58:52
that out there. I was like, I'll you know, I'll
58:54
try that. I'm like, yeah, I'll see.
58:58
I did not do enough research. You did not do no.
59:02
Because I I, you know, did it. I was bonded up on the table.
59:06
Yeah. And boy, oh boy, it was the pain
59:10
I felt and it was like they seen like like pregnant ladies, the
59:15
whole like Lamaze breathing. That's what she kept saying just
59:17
breathe. And that's why I was like, you
59:22
know, I was like, this is a lot here.
59:24
And I'm like, I so that was a one time thing for me.
59:27
I was like, OK, that was that one hurt.
59:31
That one hurt, but I I could say I tried it.
59:33
I was open. The biggest thing, the biggest
59:37
thing is most men don't understand this right.
59:40
So you have the prostate and it goes in about two inches and
59:44
it's up. You know it's right behind your
59:46
scrotum, right? And so if you haven't had an
59:49
orgasm and say 4 days, you're going to feel this little
59:54
walnut. And the longer you go without
59:57
having an orgasm, the bigger it gets and the more wrinkles it
1:00:01
gets on it and the harder it gets right?
1:00:05
And so when you have an orgasm, what happens is it goes away and
1:00:09
all you feel is this little divot.
1:00:12
So if you're rubbing that little divot, it's just extra sensation
1:00:18
and you know, and can feel amazing.
1:00:21
But the biggest thing is do an enema.
1:00:23
If if a man comes in, you know, do an enema before you do any
1:00:27
type of anal play. That way it's, it's not going to
1:00:29
get anything, you know you're going to be completely cleaned
1:00:33
out and it's you're not going to run into any issues.
1:00:37
Gotcha. OK, that's interesting.
1:00:40
Yeah. That's really interesting.
1:00:42
Let's see, I I'm you're giving me all this knowledge here.
1:00:45
Yeah, I'm just trying to help you out.
1:00:47
Yes, yes, I love it. There's a lady, there's a
1:00:51
dominatrix. Look her up.
1:00:52
She's awesome. She was on Conan O'Brien.
1:00:55
Her name is Lady Velvet Steel. She's out of based out of
1:00:57
Berlin. OK, she has a podcast too, but
1:01:00
she's so funny. You know?
1:01:03
Conan O'Brien is just a cute little ginger white guy.
1:01:07
Hilarious. Right.
1:01:08
Love Conan. Yeah.
1:01:08
Conan, you're right. So he goes in and he's looking
1:01:12
at all of her boxes and he sees this.
1:01:15
Oh my God, I'm telling you, I've got this 24 LB Chihuahua pug.
1:01:22
And she wants to. She wants to pull on my mic cord
1:01:27
until I rub her and scratch. Her.
1:01:30
She is the cutest thing of all time though.
1:01:31
She is adorable, she is wonderful, and I love her so
1:01:35
much. But so Lady Velvet Steel, she's
1:01:39
standing there in her storage room with Conan O'Brien, and
1:01:43
he's reading off all these boxes.
1:01:44
He's like, oh, extreme anal. What's that all about?
1:01:48
And she says with your ass not your shit.
1:01:54
And she is fucking hilarious. You got to watch it, it's on
1:01:57
YouTube. OK, Yeah, I watched it.
1:01:59
That's awesome. Yeah, that's so great.
1:02:02
But yeah, I tell guys all the time, if you want to do anal
1:02:05
play on yourself or anywhere else, just do an enema first and
1:02:10
that way you won't have anything in the way of your prostate or
1:02:14
anything. It'll be clean and perfect.
1:02:16
OK. OK.
1:02:18
That's good to know. That's yeah, that's good to know
1:02:21
because. Because you might like it.
1:02:24
You mean that's right? Right, a little little butt
1:02:26
plug. Little butt plugs can feel
1:02:29
amazing. D rock's like.
1:02:33
I'm going to take your word for it, Mistress.
1:02:36
No, I'm, I'm, I think more because if I have a part like
1:02:40
that's my concern. Why, like I still want to
1:02:43
because if someone, if I have a partner who's really, and I've
1:02:46
talked to people like, you know, kind of dating but never got
1:02:53
serious, but who are into that. And I don't want to be someone
1:02:57
who's like, no, no, no, no, totally.
1:03:00
Like we all have boundaries. But like, it's not like I just
1:03:04
don't know it really well, but it's I'm not like no to it.
1:03:08
So I kind of want to at least be OK in it, you know, And if you
1:03:13
said I could grow to really like it too, but that that's kind of
1:03:17
where I think about those things sometimes.
1:03:20
Yeah. Like, you know, those things
1:03:22
that are in the middle. There's like the stuff you love.
1:03:24
There's the stuff that's a no. But then there's those middle
1:03:28
things. And if you meet someone who they
1:03:30
love, what's your middle? It's like, well, you know, how
1:03:34
do you be a fair, fair partner? Yeah, just to give it a whirl.
1:03:39
Right, right. So I'm, I'm definitely taking
1:03:42
taking notes and we'll we'll try all these things.
1:03:45
Yeah. Maybe that'll be our next
1:03:46
episode. I can give you a report.
1:03:48
I'll tell you, you know, I use an expandable butt plug on my
1:03:52
GIMP, OK? And the plug goes in and it's
1:03:56
like this, you know, the size of a little cone, and you pump it
1:03:59
up like a blood pressure cuff and it expands.
1:04:05
And so when we're doing a scene together, I'm doing breath play
1:04:08
and I'm doing other things. And I'll say, you know, you
1:04:10
remember that time, you know, when you talk back to me, here's
1:04:15
2 pumps, pump, pump, you know? Oh my goodness.
1:04:21
So yeah, fun times. Awesome, this is awesome.
1:04:27
But I'm going to send you some links and you'll be like, hi
1:04:30
Mistress man. The, the links you send are
1:04:33
always great. So like, please do, please do.
1:04:35
You got my number now. So text away, e-mail, whatever.
1:04:39
You got it. Yeah, 'cause I, I, your, your
1:04:42
word is golden. So I'm I'm going to listen.
1:04:45
I don't know about that, but. I'm a listen, trust me.
1:04:47
No, you, you got the I'm a listen 'cause.
1:04:50
Don't. 'Cause you know you're really
1:04:53
good at like you know how to give the variety of answers, if
1:04:58
that makes sense. Where I.
1:05:00
Try. Yeah, you're not like, well,
1:05:02
just do this. You're like, well, for some
1:05:04
people, you may want to do this. For some people might be.
1:05:07
And I like when people do that because it's like, OK, you're
1:05:09
getting the. And even let's say I go for one
1:05:12
of my that's not for me. Oh, OK, mistress me it come
1:05:15
about this. Maybe this is the one that's for
1:05:17
me where sometimes you meet people who are like, just do it
1:05:20
this way. And then you do it and you're
1:05:22
like this, this does not work. And then you're like, I don't
1:05:24
ever want to do this again. But it's like, no, you just
1:05:27
there's other ways to do stuff. Absolutely, absolutely.
1:05:32
Just give it a whirl. Oh boy.
1:05:37
Well, I will. I will I.
1:05:40
Will all right, we're going to have to do this again next month
1:05:42
sometime. Oh, anytime you know, I I love
1:05:45
this. So you just you send, just send
1:05:48
the word and I'm down. All right.
1:05:50
Well, I'm going to do a closing. So thank you again for coming on
1:05:53
the show. I always appreciate it.
1:05:55
No, no, thank you. Thank you.
1:05:57
All right, so until then, this has been the latest episode of
1:06:01
Call Me Mistress.