Latest / Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix / Ladies, THIS is Your Problem!
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- 0:00OK, ladies, I'm giving it to you straight today.
- 0:02I'm going to tell you what your problem is, all right?
- 0:06When it comes to men and dating. I got an e-mail from a woman,
- 0:10young woman last night, and it breaks my heart.
- 0:13And I'm going to share all the info with you in a SEC.
- 0:15Hang on. OK, so her e-mail went like
- 0:18this. I'm going to paraphrase, right?
- 0:20She was like, hey, Gina, you know, watch your tik toks.
- 0:23And you did a video not long ago where you said that if a guy
- 0:26wants to sleep with you right away, it usually means he
- 0:29doesn't see you for long term. She said.
- 0:32I only date men who try to sleep with me right away.
- 0:35I was on a date the other night, she says.
- 0:37And I was literally talking about, you know, just nothing
- 0:41sexual. We were just talking.
- 0:43And in the middle of it, he stopped me and wanted to take my
- 0:46clothes off. Now, I don't know where they
- 0:48were, But anyway, And she said she doesn't wear anything
- 0:51provocative. She doesn't talk product
- 0:53provocatively. They had never sexted, nothing
- 0:56like that. And she goes on to say every
- 0:58single guy, young or old, that I date, they always want to sleep
- 1:02with me right away, you know? And she's like, do you hear this
- 1:05a lot? What's the problem?
- 1:07All right, So let's talk about what the problem is.
- 1:09And this is what happens to so many of you ladies.
- 1:11Not the sexting thing, maybe. Maybe not the sex, but so I
- 1:16think in her case, and I think it's the case of most women, you
- 1:19are not pre qualifying these guys correctly.
- 1:22You are just not, you know, as a matchmaker I've learned how to
- 1:25read between lines and sometimes you guys want to leap to
- 1:29conclusions that aren't there. So either you're not paying
- 1:32attention to the right red flags, and you're paying
- 1:35attention to the wrong red flags that aren't even red flags
- 1:37sometimes. And what it boils down to is you
- 1:40are choosing the wrong men over and over and over and over
- 1:44again. So this is your problem.
- 1:47Why? You get into these situations
- 1:49with these men who don't treat you right or jerk your round, or
- 1:53you date for a while and find out he was a loser.
- 1:55You are not prequalifying right out of the gate, but there are
- 1:58ways to do that. All right, hang on.
- 2:01You have to pay attention to all of the details.
- 2:03OK? This is why I'm so passionate
- 2:06about helping you ladies in my program.
- 2:08And I have to say the ladies that have already started
- 2:10joining gotten all my freebies. I have tons and tons of
- 2:13freebies. One is I put this style guide
- 2:16just for the ladies that are working with me through my 6
- 2:19week program. This isn't about matchmaking
- 2:21ladies, so hold your horses. This is about me leveling you up
- 2:24in everything from what you wear to how you pre qualify to how
- 2:29you don't pre qualify to how you message and raising your
- 2:33standards in every way. So if you want more info about
- 2:36it I created a style guide just for this program 40 pages long.
- 2:41The women are like thank you just this alone.
- 2:43So anyway we're killing it, go over to Instagram, DM me with
- 2:47the word love and get the info. Hope it helps.