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Andrea Lopez On Dating in NYC, Social Media Reality, and Building a Career in Comedy · Cats & Pudding with Jennifer Dilandro

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  Speaker 1: This is the Cats in Footing Podcast, a melting pot
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  Speaker 1: of footing. And now here's Jen.
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  Speaker 3: Good afternoon, everybody, and welcome to this week's episode of
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  Speaker 3: Kats and Pudding. And today, oh my goodness, I have
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  Speaker 3: one of my favorite people.
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  Speaker 4: And you know what, we only just met in.
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  Speaker 3: Real life a couple of weeks ago. We were following
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  Speaker 3: each other and.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I was admiring you.
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  Speaker 3: You were on my my stuff. We just have mutual friends,
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  Speaker 3: and I just love that you're here today, Miss Andrea Lopez.
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  Speaker 3: Here she is.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you for having made and a long time coming.
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  Speaker 5: And it's so funny with social media, you follow people
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  Speaker 5: for a long time, you have a thousand mutual friends
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  Speaker 5: and then we're finally making it happen. So I love
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  Speaker 5: it amazing.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so glad.
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  Speaker 5: I mean too.
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  Speaker 3: And the first time we met in real life, we
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  Speaker 3: went to this wonderful brunch, right, how much fun did
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  Speaker 3: we have? Jen?
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  Speaker 5: What was now? I love when people just tell me
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  Speaker 5: what one word, like, it's gonna be a brunch and
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  Speaker 5: you can go a lot of places with that, right,
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  Speaker 5: But it went way on the other side. Yeah, it
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  Speaker 5: was you guys know the Highln right something?
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  Speaker 3: It was the high On.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, the high Line is an amazing event space. It
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  Speaker 5: was something. And they try out these new brunch things
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  Speaker 5: and everybody buys a ticket. I mean, one moment you're
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  Speaker 5: chewing on a delicious shrimp cocktail. The next moment a
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  Speaker 5: party Robot's coming out and dancing in people's faces. I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: where are we?
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  Speaker 3: And what about the about those great women who are
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  Speaker 3: at the other table, the women in.
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  Speaker 4: Chanelle suits, the ship, Yes, twirking people were getting down
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  Speaker 4: on them.
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  Speaker 5: You want to go, you want to have a fun
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  Speaker 5: brunch Highlands? Great, but yeah, it's it's all these.
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  Speaker 3: People podcast Highland. Seriously, No, we.
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  Speaker 5: And we will talk up those brunches because we could
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  Speaker 5: do an entire podcast episode just about that brunch. But yeah,
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  Speaker 5: there was a fantastic woman in a Chanel suit and
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  Speaker 5: she had her hair all night. She was stunning. But
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  Speaker 5: she was popping. Oh my, she was popping on the
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  Speaker 5: dance floor with that suit.
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  Speaker 3: But she was my hero. She was your hero.
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  Speaker 4: I think she was everybody in theirs hero that day.
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  Speaker 4: She was great.
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  Speaker 5: She made for a great brunch.
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  Speaker 3: And I got my friend to sing by the DJ
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  Speaker 3: for the microphone and he's like one, He's like you singing.
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  Speaker 4: I go, no, I can't for me?
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  Speaker 3: Is it even wanted me to sing like jan Is
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  Speaker 3: Droplin or something, then we'd be all right, But no,
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  Speaker 3: give it to my front made let's sing so good dance.
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  Speaker 3: We had a great That was a great.
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  Speaker 5: Day, a great fun day.
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  Speaker 3: That really was the first first in real life introduction
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  Speaker 3: was at this wonderful brunch, which was great.
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  Speaker 4: So now now we're glued together for life, because.
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  Speaker 5: You know, yeah, yeah, soul sisters for life. Okay, men
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  Speaker 5: were coming. Men were thirsty that day, coming from every direction.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, again, where are we these men?
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  Speaker 4: It was like they unleashed Oh my, God.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, at least we got some we got some some stories.
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  Speaker 3: I had some stories, and we got some nice champagne
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  Speaker 3: out of it, too, nice champagne.
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  Speaker 4: Right, she had a little yeah, and.
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  Speaker 3: To kill the two, I think, and I'm gve a drink.
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  Speaker 3: I was just appreciating the whole thing coming across the table.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, wow, look at this, look at this.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you did very well because they were the bottles
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  Speaker 5: were poorn, they were poor.
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  Speaker 3: And we had we had a good time.
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  Speaker 4: It was a good time.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And uh, you know you from everything. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I just love your impersonations. I think they're so funny.
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  Speaker 3: I think that you are so talented and so beautiful
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  Speaker 3: and just you're just like down to earth. I just
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  Speaker 3: I just love your whole energy, don't.
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  Speaker 4: I mean even like just I never wanted, not meaning you.
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  Speaker 3: In real life, but I could tell you're just such.
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  Speaker 3: You had such a great energy to you. And I go,
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna love this girl. I'm gonna meet her in
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  Speaker 3: real life and I'm gonna love her. You know, my
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  Speaker 3: daughter and your excuse me, my daughter and you are
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  Speaker 3: almost the same age. You're a little bit younger and
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  Speaker 3: my oldest and a little bit older than my middle
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, you're just you know.
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  Speaker 5: I'm right in the then in that stage in life. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: so we we were talking about that a little bit.
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  Speaker 5: It was like, what are your daughter's dating? What's that
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  Speaker 5: look like? I need some some good advice. But yeah,
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  Speaker 5: it's funny. I've been in this like inner circle of
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  Speaker 5: whether it's like Jersey friends or I'm friends with Nicole
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  Speaker 5: peep Us who's the trainer, and every it's everybody's all connected.
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  Speaker 5: It's amazing. But I really have found like a good
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  Speaker 5: community of people and and you're in and you're in that,
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  Speaker 5: I'm sure you're in the group of amazing group.
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  Speaker 3: I love it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, Jersey has been great. I I moved there.
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  Speaker 5: I wasn't in Jersey, but I feel like there is
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  Speaker 5: such a big Jersey Staten Island, you know, everything besides
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  Speaker 5: the city. There are so many people. This is such
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  Speaker 5: a huge place and I'm happy to be here. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I was. I've been kind of all over the place.
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  Speaker 5: I was Brooklyn, then I moved back to d C
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  Speaker 5: where I'm from, moved to Jersey, then I moved to
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  Speaker 5: la for a little bit, and then now I finally
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  Speaker 5: find myself back in in the in the Jersey or.
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  Speaker 4: In the Jersey. How was it growing up with DC?
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  Speaker 4: I love d C.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, do you I do?
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  Speaker 4: I like d C?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do. I enjoy enjoy it.
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  Speaker 5: It's a vibe there definitely is vie. I knew that
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  Speaker 5: I didn't want to end up and kind of raise
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  Speaker 5: a family or start my my professional career there only
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  Speaker 5: because it's so political.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Political, you're doing a lot of uh. I mean, it's
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  Speaker 5: like lawyers, policies, nonprofits. And I always knew that I
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  Speaker 5: wanted to go into radio, TV, something in the media industry.
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  Speaker 5: So I have tons of family back in DC. I
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  Speaker 5: was just there this past weekend celebrating birthdays. So I
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  Speaker 5: have family there and I can always go back and visit.
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  Speaker 5: But it was an amazing place. I mean, it's so historical,
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  Speaker 5: it has so much history.
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  Speaker 4: It's a beautiful place. I mean, the buildings are beautiful.
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  Speaker 5: The monuments. There's not a lot of tall buildings, so
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  Speaker 5: it's different from New York because they want the monuments
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  Speaker 5: to stand out. So it's a very Parisian kind of layout.
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  Speaker 5: And then you know, we have things like the cherry blossoms,
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  Speaker 5: which are gorgeous yeah, and the water the title basin,
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  Speaker 5: there's a lot of good stuff capital.
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  Speaker 4: I love the I always call it the Forrest Gump.
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  Speaker 5: Uh the title pool. Yeah, it's not really for it's
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  Speaker 5: not really a big scene exam.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, when he when he sees uh Jenny.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I always just saying I have to watch that movie
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  Speaker 5: again because it's such a feel good movie.
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  Speaker 3: It's a great movie. Yeah. That and I watched or
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  Speaker 3: Shank Redemption. Every year I have to always watch.
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  Speaker 5: I gotta watch sh Shank out.
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  Speaker 4: You know what.
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  Speaker 5: My shore Shank time is coming up? You what shaw Shank.
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  Speaker 5: Every year, I gotta watch redamn shit. No, this is
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  Speaker 5: I haven't told her, but after thirty minutes with somebody,
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  Speaker 5: I can usually do somewhat of an impression. That's going
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  Speaker 5: in yours. I'm building the Jennifer archive right now. I
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  Speaker 5: always watch Shank Redemn Shit one. It's my annual watch.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 5: Worst Gump and shaw Shank. Those are the two banks,
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  Speaker 5: two big.
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  Speaker 3: Ones on shore Shank, Andy Shank, that was a great
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  Speaker 3: impression of me. I loved it.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you. And let her read her glasses. Yeah, the
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  Speaker 5: reader is that's going in there too.
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  Speaker 3: My grandmother used to say it that, so now I
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  Speaker 3: say it now to it. It's so funny.
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  Speaker 5: We I'm noticing certain parts of my mom and my
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  Speaker 5: grandmother's are coming through me, and I'm like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: I'm turning into them. And then have people ever said
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  Speaker 5: to you, oh my god, nod me of your grandmother
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  Speaker 5: you are. You're a direct result people say to me
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  Speaker 5: all the time. You know, I don't look like My
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  Speaker 5: mom is blonde and she has pretty olive skin because
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  Speaker 5: she's a little Dominican, but she's mostly German, Swedish Norwegian,
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  Speaker 5: and then my dad is Mexican, so we don't look
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  Speaker 5: alike necessarily. I have certain traits, but I look more
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  Speaker 5: like my dad. So it's so funny when people are like,
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  Speaker 5: oh my god, you sound just like your mom. I'm thinking, really,
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  Speaker 5: I think I think we're so different. But yeah, I
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  Speaker 5: notice certain things that.
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  Speaker 3: I do, but you're not, because there's certain pots of
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  Speaker 3: you oh that areally just her?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah right, you know, oh absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: And I bet she's just so funny that your perception
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  Speaker 3: she probably do you do an impersonation of your mom
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  Speaker 3: and your dad?
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  Speaker 5: It's funny. Oh yeah, definitely, I'll do it. For them.
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  Speaker 5: It's very much like what we do at dinners. You know,
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  Speaker 5: we just like impersonate our families and we make jokes
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  Speaker 5: about our old neighbors and it's all in good fun.
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  Speaker 5: But yeah, my mom, whenever she's on the phone, she's like,
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  Speaker 5: oh my god, Andrea, I have to tell you about
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  Speaker 5: a dream that I just had. She's very spiritual, So
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  Speaker 5: every every day she's like, I just had a dream.
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  Speaker 5: And now now I've been living with them as they
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  Speaker 5: just moved, I'm helping them kind of like move into
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  Speaker 5: the new house. And so every morning she comes with
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  Speaker 5: a revelation. She's like, I was in the shower and
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  Speaker 5: I had a thought yesterday at eleven eleven, I thought
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  Speaker 5: about your aunt who passed, and I had just I
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  Speaker 5: cooked Rice. She has some crazy ass relation thing with Rice.
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  Speaker 5: Some something will like she'll have a vision or some
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  Speaker 5: realization and she has to tell me. She's like, and
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  Speaker 5: you know what that means, that that we we need
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  Speaker 5: to go play the lottery, and we need to play
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  Speaker 5: the numbers of your of your aunt's birthday. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: like the result of whatever she the vision she has,
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  Speaker 5: it's it's hilarious, but I'll do an impression of her
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  Speaker 5: with those type of Andrea, I had a revelation.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, Okay, does she like when you do the impressions?
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  Speaker 3: Does she live?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: She does. I'm very thankful that my I got my
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  Speaker 5: sense of humor from my my family, and when we
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  Speaker 5: all get together, it's all we do is just laugh
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  Speaker 5: and tell old stories. And that's that's a big part
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  Speaker 5: of who I am.
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  Speaker 3: For sure, it's that, but there's not the that, but
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  Speaker 3: that's a big part of and I know that your
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  Speaker 3: Mexican Americans, you know, Italian American that we I think
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  Speaker 3: very similar.
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  Speaker 5: Or similar, you know, totally.
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  Speaker 3: So I feel like you know that it's just you know,
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  Speaker 3: we are multi generational people and we get from our families.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's it's you know, I'm sure you're a
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  Speaker 3: yeah with you right, And I'm sure that that was
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  Speaker 3: a big part of your life, being with your grandparents
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  Speaker 3: totally and then your parents, and you know, it's it's
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  Speaker 3: it's I think it's great, and I think it's important.
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  Speaker 3: And they made they made you who you are. You know,
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  Speaker 3: their influence and it's impacted. I'm sure you'll like absolutely
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  Speaker 3: whoever you grow up with.
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  Speaker 5: You know, if you're if you're blessed enough to have
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  Speaker 5: to grow up with a strong family unit. Yeah, they
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  Speaker 5: they are so much a part of you.
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  Speaker 3: And you have brothers and sisters.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I've got an older brother who I'm very close with.
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  Speaker 5: He's he's actually ten years older than me, so he's
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  Speaker 5: as much as he's at a different stage in his life.
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  Speaker 5: I've looked up to him my entire life. What what
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  Speaker 5: what he's done? Now, we're very different. He's a very analytical,
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  Speaker 5: he's smart, he's got the finance brain, he's got the
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  Speaker 5: math brain. I've always been more creative in the middle
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  Speaker 5: and creative. You're the middle and there's only two of us,
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  Speaker 5: so it's just my brother.
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  Speaker 4: You're the middle younger.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I'm the baby as well.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, but is still kind of because usually the baby
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  Speaker 3: or the middle is always the more creator and fun
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  Speaker 3: Yeah one, because we have to have we have to
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  Speaker 3: draw in the attention.
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  Speaker 5: Right I gotta stand down there somehow, of course, Yes, yes, yes,
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  Speaker 5: but it is funny. I'm sure you come from. Italians
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  Speaker 5: are also very loud and very expressive. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: so I'm grouping myself in. But Latin and Italian culture
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  Speaker 5: is that's very much a part of it, you know,
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  Speaker 5: you have to like express yourself some way. And we
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  Speaker 5: were just having a conversation with our friends. But she
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  Speaker 5: was explaining that, yeah, we're not fighting, we're just drinking
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  Speaker 5: coffee together and talking. We're having a conversation.
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  Speaker 4: My friend came off.
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  Speaker 3: From Pennsylvania with her daughter, and they're like, she was
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  Speaker 3: from the South, she's from Georgia originally, but now Pennsylvania. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and she's like the typical bless your heart and very
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  Speaker 3: like mild man. And they come to my house and
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  Speaker 3: the daughter is watching me and my kids like just
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  Speaker 3: at my at my island, but no talking.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, and she's like, mom, why are they yelling at
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  Speaker 4: each other? Why are they fighting?
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, and I hear it say this to
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  Speaker 3: I still laugh and I got no, honey, I said,
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  Speaker 3: this is just the way we talk. I said, we're
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  Speaker 3: not yelling.
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  Speaker 4: This is just a regular conversation.
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  Speaker 5: But she didn't.
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  Speaker 3: She at far, she was like a little like and
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  Speaker 3: then she loved it, like she loved the whole, like
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  Speaker 3: the dynamic and love like the the flamboyant miss of it,
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  Speaker 3: and oh yeah, you know.
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  Speaker 4: And she was like, what are we going back to
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  Speaker 4: the house.
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  Speaker 3: Mom.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, it's I mean, it's addicting. It's like that you
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  Speaker 5: just see the energy that's there. It's very much. But
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  Speaker 5: it's it's funny where how cultures can kind of be similar,
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  Speaker 5: you know.
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  Speaker 4: Without definitely and that would definitely similar.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: How how did so did your grandparents grow up in
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  Speaker 3: the house with you? Like, did you grow up in
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  Speaker 3: the house with them too?
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I grew up with one of my grandmothers, and
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  Speaker 5: then my other grandmother lived very close, so everybody was
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  Speaker 5: in DC within you know, a neighborhood of each other.
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  Speaker 5: So I was very blessed in that way. But both
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  Speaker 5: my grandmothers were single mothers. They raised their whole families,
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  Speaker 5: so I definitely a sell those the Yes, matriarchal figures
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  Speaker 5: in my life are strong, So I wouldn't say that's
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  Speaker 5: why I've had no successful relationship. But maybe maybe now
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  Speaker 5: that I'm thinking about it.
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  Speaker 4: Why is that?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that could definitely be No, but yeah, I was.
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  Speaker 5: It's interesting, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you were in a relationship for a.
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  Speaker 5: While, yes, yeah, yeah, my whole twenties, actually I was
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  Speaker 5: in relationship. So I had two long term relationships which
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  Speaker 5: were my entire twenties. This is the longest I've been
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  Speaker 5: single since I was twenty one, so in ten years.
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  Speaker 5: I'm thirty one now, and I had a very very
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  Speaker 5: painful breakup in June with somebody I thought I was
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  Speaker 5: going to marry. Yeah, you know, and when things don't
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  Speaker 5: necessarily work out and you're in two different stages in life,
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  Speaker 5: when you think you're on the same stage, we're really not.
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  Speaker 5: That can be Yeah, that can completely break up a relationship.
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  Speaker 3: So but you know what, it's better that you know
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  Speaker 3: now that you weren't ready than if you did get
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  Speaker 3: married and then golf, you know, golf a bit it
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  Speaker 3: doesn't work out right, and then you know, and that's
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  Speaker 3: even worse.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Yes, I think because you're you're in it for longer,
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  Speaker 5: and that's only more painful when it when it does
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  Speaker 5: come to an end. So I mean, I wish him
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  Speaker 5: all the best. And what's funny is that's your best
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  Speaker 5: friend for I don't know, years and years.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, all of a sudden you just lose.
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  Speaker 5: That best friend. So this is the very the biggest
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  Speaker 5: learning curve I've had in my love life for sure.
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  Speaker 5: Was this this last couple of the last like eight months,
• 14:43
  Speaker 5: it's almost been a year. I'm like doing the math
• 14:45
  Speaker 5: now and I'm like, God, so I would say I
• 14:48
  Speaker 5: have learned a lot. But at the same time, you're
• 14:51
  Speaker 5: kind of just like taking it day by day. Yeah,
• 14:53
  Speaker 5: you know, some days are harder than others. But the dating,
• 14:56
  Speaker 5: especially in this area New York, is.
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: Very it's hard.
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: Listen, and I think we were just talking about on
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: the Lab part last podcast. It's so much different for
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: you guys to date now than it was for us.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: Like I might, Like I said, my daughters are in
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: your age group and I and I always feel sorry.
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: I felt sorry for them because I'm like, how are
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: they going to meet somebody like that? Like when I
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: was younger, we met when we went out to.
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: A club, and we went out to a bar normal.
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: Nobody had phones. It was just interactions. You met somebody
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: through somebody else. And because everybody went out and everybody
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: was out, now that was the point. That was it.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: They went out to go find they're so made, or
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: find that girlfriend or that girlfriend for right now, right
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: for whatever reason. Now everybody's stuck to this or to
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: a screen. Yep, it's very hard to you know, transcend
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: that you know that that that situation into a relationship
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: because now you have to really talk to talk to somebody.
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: Is you find it hard to talk to men now
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: in this day and age.
• 16:02
  Speaker 5: A little bit because we talked about people's attention spans,
• 16:07
  Speaker 5: and I'm very conversation like, I love talking to people.
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: So it's always been my goal.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: To be like me, I love to conversation.
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: I love I love small talk. If you talk to me,
• 16:17
  Speaker 5: I just I can't not talk to you. I'll be
• 16:19
  Speaker 5: in a public space and I see somebody, I'm like, oh,
• 16:21
  Speaker 5: I could go talk to them about about this.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: I watch if like you're in a super maaker, I'll
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: just stop to crack up a conversation with somebody.
• 16:27
  Speaker 5: I annoy myself. I'm like, shut ear mouth. You don't
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: have to talk to somebody about their choice in beans.
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: Like I'll be in be picking up milk. I'm like, oh,
• 16:35
  Speaker 5: you're all in milk, same same Like it's.
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: Like, why do you have to say that?
• 16:38
  Speaker 5: Shut up? But so for me, I don't find it
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: that hard to start up a conversation. It's just once
• 16:43
  Speaker 5: you get to that point, you're like, you finally see
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: somebody that's attractive. I struggle with them not having the
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: same level of outgoingness or personality that I'm able to bring.
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: So I'm thinking, oh my god, where am I going
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: to meet people because people's, yeah, people's people's skills have
• 16:57
  Speaker 5: definitely deteriorated. Whether that was from COVID or that was
• 17:00
  Speaker 5: from everybody just relying on the phones.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think COVID did a big number on
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: it totally. For some reason, something switched in people during COVID,
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: and I noticed that, and especially in the kids. My youngest,
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: like was in high school at that time, and it's
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: different completely, And it's different.
• 17:19
  Speaker 5: They're so much more customed to communicating on a screen,
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: so when they get face to face, they don't even
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: know how to keep eye contact.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: It's weird, and they get very weirded out when to
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: have a conversation with you.
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: This is weird.
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: Why are you talking to me? Like why please don't
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: talk to me? Like they have the head down or
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: it's like this, like you know, and I tell my kids,
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: I'm like, guys, lift your head up, like let's sit
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: at the table and talk.
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: You know. It comes down to the parents wanting to
• 17:46
  Speaker 5: instill that.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm listening I'm guilty of being on the
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: phone too. I'm bad, I really am. But lately I
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: try to at night put it down and I have
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: to put it down at a limit because it's like
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: it's too further, too Muchmula one, absolutely, and it's like
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: you have you have to have this human interaction with people,
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: you know. And I felt like so once one point,
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: I was the only humor interaction I was having is
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: on my podcast. Look into my guests at one point,
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: because I'm like, we're always on the phone and always
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: posting videos, doing this, doing that, whether it's for your business,
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: whether it's for you to put you know, to dread,
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: you know, increase your social media. You know, You're always
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: doing something and this is always like you're attached right
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: to this, you know. But I feel bad for you, guys,
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: because it's it's got to be hard.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: It's got to be as hard.
• 18:40
  Speaker 5: And also, people just have so many options. Humans are
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: not supposed to have this many options.
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: You go into a grocery store.
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: It's like fifty tooth paste to choose from. I'm like, guys,
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: i can't even walk into Target anymore because I'm just
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: so overstimulated. I'm like you're just make a decision. I
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: don't know, can I choose between the cottonent toilet paper
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: or like, seriously, I'm like, and somebody just make a decision.
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: We're just every day. I'm just like overloaded with decisions
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: and too many choices. So I think that also people
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: struggle with dating because I as too many options, you
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: know what I mean, it's.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: Way too many options. I'm just I agree with you.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: I think that that, especially with dating, I think that
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: it's I think it's well for guys and girls, even
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: though girls are bad. I think that guys, when they
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: have too much variety, who are they? They don't need
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: to be faithful to somebody?
• 19:29
  Speaker 5: Absolutely not, because they're easy for them.
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: It's too easy for them, right if they have too
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: much variety.
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: And I feel like now girls allow them to get
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: away with so much more Like when I was younger,
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: and I'd be like, go fuck it, like you know
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: what I mean, right, I would that's it. I'm not
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: putting up with the ship, see you later, goodbye. But
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: I feel like girls, as much as we're supposed.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: To be more the femininees and the feminine, I.
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: Think we're still giving this bullshit, which and worse because
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: now you guys are like, oh, okay, well I understand
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: because there's so much more.
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: No, right, you need to still put your foot down.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: No, don't put your foot down.
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: I mean don't don't don't not.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: Put your foot you put that foot down to say, well,
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: it's bullshit.
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: We're so scared though, of like losing that maybe that
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: potential partner, that we're willing to accept so much more bullshit.
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: That's that's the problem. It's like, well, I found this
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: one guy and he kind of fits like all of
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: my most of my criteria, which you know, I take
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: criteria with a grainess lightly, but I'm saying you're like,
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: all right, well he's pretty good compared to I'm like,
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: trust me, it's not that long of a list, like
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: if you're if you're like a pretty nice guy. But
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: I think, yeah, it's there's just we're willing to accept
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: a lot more because it's so much harder to find
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: somebody to kind of relate to on a on a
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: deeper level. Also, people don't have really good values anymore.
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: I don't know, we've just all become so relaxed as
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: a society. We're just accepting whatever because We're scared to
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: be alone. It's scared to be alone in this.
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: World is It's just a lot scary to be alone.
• 21:01
  Speaker 5: It's crazy. So all my friends that are now married,
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: they're at completely different stages in their lives. I look
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: at them, and sometimes I do get really sad because
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: I'm thinking, well, sh shit, what my life is like
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: going real fast past me? And I'm still trying to,
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: you know, make make a name for myself. I am
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: I'm thirty one, is not old by any means, especially
• 21:21
  Speaker 5: in our today's eight today's day and age, people are
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: waiting a lot longer.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: And that's great.
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: So it's I am so happy for my friends that
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: are in that stage of their life. But I am
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: looking at myself like, all right, you know you're like.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: Wait, you know, Matt, but do you know when I'm
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: gonna be honest with you? And I'm gonna say this,
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: and I say this to my kids. My daughter had
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: she was supposed to get married last year and she
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: broke off whole wedding and I said, she she's a
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: little bit old and my oldest she's gonna be thirty four,
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: and she's like, am I gonna find somebody? B blay,
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: I said, I want to tell you this. You could
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: meet somebody tomorrow, and no, you don't have to wait
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: a year for them. If you know somebody after being
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: with them for three six months, three six months, you
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: know that person, you're gonna know if that's the right
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: person for you. Because now you're older and you know
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: what you're looking for, right that's it.
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: You don't have to go through these four years five
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: years of dating.
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: That's it.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: You don't have to do that anymore, because you know what,
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: at this point in your life, you're mature enough to
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: know what you want in your life. Now you're not
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: you're not a kid, you're not you know, you're you're
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: out of college and now you're doing you know, now
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: you're in the real world. So it's a little bit
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: easier to and especially if you move in with somebody
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: right away, then you really know them.
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: That's it.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: That's what you have to do. Move in with them. Yeah,
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: then you know that person seriously. But the people will
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: show you who they are very quickly, and I think,
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: and you know, you'll find them and they'll be quick.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: You don't have to have this long courtship. You might
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: find and you have to be with somebody for six years.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: By the way, if somebody is going to be you
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: gauge you for six years at thirty five years old,
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: then you need to dump them anyway, because that means
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: they're not ready way too long, right, they're taking way
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: too long and they're not ready for commitments. So if
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: they're not ready to say hey after a year was
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: a year? Yeah, yeah, I think I'm like ready to
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: take the next step. Maybe next year then like see
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: you lay to take it easy.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: By yeah, then move on to the next one.
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: That's the way I look at it. So you gotta
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: do it if you don't know by that and that's
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: the secret. And most women don't know that, but I'm
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: telling you the seon Oh you alage don't know that,
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: but that's the secret.
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: Yes, you know it.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: You're gonna know it right away, and that's it. So
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: it'll happen, and it could happen if you could. You
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: can be walking right out of here one day, but
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: today you can meet somebody and bump it to them
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: and it's true. That's it, and it could happen, and
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: it will, it will. You gotta keep yourself open.
• 23:36
  Speaker 5: For it when the time is right, yes, exactly. I
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: mean I have tons of friends. I love their advice.
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: Or I was like, you know what, Julia, when you
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: lease expect day, you're prince Charming. I'm like, Charlotte, I
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: get it, you know, I know what you're trying to say.
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean it's I'm in this new phase
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: of just uh, just focusing on whatever you want to do. Yeah,
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: And I mean I'm very family oriented. It's a lot
• 24:00
  Speaker 5: of putting my family first, putting my career first, putting
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: all my goals and ambitions first, and then and then
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: some somewhere along the line somebody will find Yeah, absolutely,
• 24:10
  Speaker 5: you know, send a long.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: Time to get there though, But but that's but you
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: know what you think about how hard is for women though, Like,
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: women have it so much harder than men. We have
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: to go to college, get figure a Korea, have a baby,
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: get married, have a baby, or have a baby, get
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: married this day and age doesn't even matter anything. That's
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: just what doesn't matter what comes first to chick under
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: the egg. But well we have to do that and
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: a ten, ten to twelve year period. Men they don't
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: have to do that.
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: Shit, They are not really as concerned as we are now.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: We're more concerned because we have a shelf life unfortunate
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: and we still do as much as good as we
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: still look. Yeah, let's be honest. Nobody wants to date
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: a cat when they could get a kitten.
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: That's true.
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: That's I'm sorry, but that's the way it is.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: I am sorry.
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: I haven't heard that one. I like that.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: It's true. They don't want to cat, they want to
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: get and that's the truth. So we have it so
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: much harder.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: Than they doing.
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: Men, you know, definitely.
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: Can well date.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know if it's as shrowned upon
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: as as I mean. I know I would never date
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: anybody younger than me, that much younger me, because I
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: would feel very creepy dating somebody in my kid's age,
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: because I would feel like a pedophile.
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: But men, you know, date women or none of them
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: all the time.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but they can still have babies in their forties
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: and fifties, and that's okay. We first of all, we're tired.
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: I don't want I wouldn't want to have a baby
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: when I'm not as clothes. Yeah, if I ever got pregnant.
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: Now I see these women like, oh my god, I
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: just got pregnant at fifty, I go, lady, get the
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: fuck out of here, hired.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: Oh my, I'm just dying.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: I want to be a grandmother now. If I ever
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: got I would just jump right off the building with
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: headfirst into the into the cements.
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: If I got pregnant this age, you know, because we
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: were meant to have baby. Is that to.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Past a certain age? I think, yeah, you know, mid thirties,
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: going into your forties, okay, but when you start getting
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: into the lad so you do have there is a
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: time frame that you want just because your body's tired.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, that's all your body's letting you know.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: But you know, like hey babe, I have to carry
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: this thing around for nine months, like I need that.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: So but you just still you still got a tin
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: year gap, twelve years. You got time, so you still
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: could do it. So it there's not that much too
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: much pressure. But women do have it harder than men,
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: and we still do. And that's and that's where the
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: where it comes in and meeting them.
• 26:38
  Speaker 5: It's priced to being a woman, the price of me.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: But I'd rather be a woman any much more than
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: I would rather be a man.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: Sorry, I would.
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: I think I have a smart species.
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: Oh we are. Of course, men love to think they're
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: in control, but it's like, well, you came from us, so.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: That is true.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: And you know what every behind every strong man is
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: their strong women, true and they need that strong woman
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: behind them.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: To be successful, which is very true.
• 27:03
  Speaker 5: Also very true.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: But I love that you're traditional for your age because
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: do you find that too? Do you fly? Could?
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: Do you find that women are different now like in
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: your age group? I do?
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: I think I think in cities. It also depends on
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: where you live. So a lot of women that live
• 27:21
  Speaker 5: in larger cities, they have a different viewpoint. They definitely
• 27:25
  Speaker 5: want their very career oriented and that makes sense. You
• 27:28
  Speaker 5: came to a big city to excel and do what
• 27:30
  Speaker 5: you want to do. So I have family lives in Texas,
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: and it's so funny everybody's in a different stage, like twenties,
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: you get married, you have babies by you have all
• 27:37
  Speaker 5: your kids by twenty five. Yeah, so I think it
• 27:40
  Speaker 5: really it's location based. It depends on where you live.
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: But yeah, I still think I'm very traditional in that
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: sort of sense. I grew up both my parents worked,
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: but my mom always prioritized like being a mom she
• 27:52
  Speaker 5: wanted to be home for the kids. She had a
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: daycare in our home so she could be home and
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: raising my brother and myself also working full time. I
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: love that she made it work. Yeah, there's always kids around.
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: So that's you know what. But but that's what I
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: love about being a woman, Because I say, I don't
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: want to be a man and I have to work
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: one hundred hours a week because I have to. I
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: want to do it because I want to do it,
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: not because I have to.
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: I would pressure.
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: Yes, I want to do it, and I right now
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: I have my business and I love it, but I
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: don't want to be that that I want to be.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: My kids will come first, and I still want to
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: be treated like a lady.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: I still want my door open for me.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: I want to be put on a pedestal, and I
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: don't think that there's anything wrong with that. People like
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: am You're not a fam No, I am a feminist
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: because people they we should be put on a pedestal
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: and men, men should worship us. I'm sorry, but they should.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: I should worship us. We should open the door for us.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: They should be clownedro and in the bronx, tell and
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: make sure that they flipped the button up and open
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: that door for us to get in, because that is
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: that just shows this sign of a character for a man.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: To know that a woman should be elevated. That there's
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: nothing wrong with that.
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: That Yeah, yeah, chivalry is not dead. There are still
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: men that do open doors for you.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: I do, and I still see that, and I love
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: it even when it guy. Sometimes when kids call me ma'am,
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: I want to get mad and punch him in the face.
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: But call me ma'am. But I'm like, okay, it's all right.
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: There's still being respectful, so I can't get mad like
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: society wants me to get mad at them, because why
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: are you calling me ma'am? I'm no, no, but you
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: know what, there's this a sat of respect that they're
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: calling me that. It's okay, I'm old enough to be
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: a man. I need respect that open the fucking door
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: for me.
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: If the man comes and be opening the door, I'll
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: take it.
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: I'll take it that.
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: If you want to call me ma'am, that's all right,
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: you know yea. What have you been doing as far
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: as your I mean, your social media is great? You know.
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: I love your own personating you.
• 29:52
  Speaker 5: Thank you? Yes more so now I'm developing vertical series.
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: So the new thing I think that, I mean, it
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: always gonna be comedy. I'm still auditioning whether that's roles.
• 30:03
  Speaker 5: I actually am in a new movie. It's coming out
• 30:05
  Speaker 5: in select theaters. It's called Influenced. It's written and also
• 30:08
  Speaker 5: stars Jill Kargman and I play plates instructors. So it's
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: coming out two months I think. But but yeah, so
• 30:16
  Speaker 5: that was really fun to do, and I'm hoping that
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: leads to more roles, whether that's small or large. But
• 30:23
  Speaker 5: I'm auditioning for a lot of comedy roles, but then
• 30:25
  Speaker 5: also I'm interested in a little bit more serious roles.
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: I would love to do a little CSI, a little
• 30:30
  Speaker 5: Law and Order. I mean, those are always the fun
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: to go into because that's a classic. I mean. But yes,
• 30:36
  Speaker 5: like I said, I'm writing more vertical series and developing
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: series for brands, and I think brands are kind of
• 30:42
  Speaker 5: getting into the more scripted space, so that's always been
• 30:45
  Speaker 5: my goal. I started with Comedy Central working on digital sketches,
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: and so I'm using that and taking it over to
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: the brand side. Because I do a lot of I
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: work with a lot of brands. You know, you do
• 30:53
  Speaker 5: a lot of influencer that pays the bills, and that's
• 30:57
  Speaker 5: really fun. And so I've been able to kind of
• 30:58
  Speaker 5: combine all my worlds and that's now what I'm working on.
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: I love that. Do you take acting classes too? Well?
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: Actually it's funny. I was in acting classes for a
• 31:06
  Speaker 5: little bit and now I'm on a pause. But but
• 31:10
  Speaker 5: you have to continue your craft at all times, like
• 31:12
  Speaker 5: whenever you're I mean Denzel Washington, he's like famous for
• 31:16
  Speaker 5: still taking acting classes yourself.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: I listened Katherine, my friend Katherine, she's in the Active
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: studio every day. I got. I got a very look.
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: I got to go into go to the Active studio.
• 31:27
  Speaker 5: How is that?
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: It was an experience? It was pretty cool.
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: I'm going to take a workshop. I do take acting classes.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: I do take him now, I do him once a week,
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: Zoom with an acting coach, which is really good. Dennis White,
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: he's awesome. He's been in Annis. Shout out to shout
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: out to Dennis.
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna get in there with him.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: He's really good. He's been in a lot of he's
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: been in a lot of movies, a lot of scripted series.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: And now I'm going to take a workshop in the
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: summer time. So I'm excited. You know what is I
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: think the workshops are because I mean, obviously I work
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: full time because I have a business. So when you
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: do acting classes, you got to be there. Sometimes there
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: are twelve hours a day every day. I can't.
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: I mean, I have to pay the bills. If I
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: was somebody's gotta keep the lights on.
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: If I was twenty years old and I was still
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: living home my parents, I could do that. Or if
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: I was independently wealthy and you know, do it for fun,
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: I can just go do it for fun every day.
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: But unfortunately I fall in between those two. Yep, so
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: you still have to work. But now I'm gonna start. Yeah,
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna do a six week course in the summer
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: time and do it. I think it's like six hours
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: a day, so I'm gonna I'm gonna do it. But
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: they said you could do it anytime during the day,
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: so I could still work and then go either go
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: at night or go in the morning. So if I
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: have to go to see patients to pay the bills,
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: then I could do that. But yeah, I mean I
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: think it's important, you know, I think for actors Oh.
• 32:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you got It's it's a skill. It's like
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: a muscle. You just have to keep on working to
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: do it.
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: You have to.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: I really do believe in some kind of training, because
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: you really have to know how to throw. You have
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: to to to you know, to you know, do a line,
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: and to understand the concept. You know, some people could
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: naturally act, but not really. I think you have to
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: develop the craft.
• 33:11
  Speaker 5: I mean, there's something, there's some talent that will just
• 33:15
  Speaker 5: be transcending from all you know, the Leonardo DiCaprio's, the
• 33:19
  Speaker 5: brad Pits, the Denzels, those are they're born with something.
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: But but yeah, it is it is a skill that
• 33:25
  Speaker 5: can be worked over time. For sure. I've always felt
• 33:27
  Speaker 5: that I was born with the gift of doing reading
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: somebody's body language and like picking it up and I
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: can impersonate them. Yeah, but that's all also a skill
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: that you really have to work at too. It's not
• 33:39
  Speaker 5: just you know, I think you can be born with
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: certain skills that can help you become like a tremendous actor.
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: But then there's also the skills that are told are
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: completely learned and they're worked on over years and years
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: and years.
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: Did you ever go to like a comedic class or
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: anything like that.
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: Did you have a I never did. It was more
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: like workshops, impressions. I was only a hobby for mine.
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: It was a passion. I loved to impersonate my friends,
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: my teachers, old you know, grandparents. And then it wasn't
• 34:09
  Speaker 5: until in twenty nineteen I had made an Instagram for
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: it and I was discovered by a casting director for
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: this like comedy show. That's how I got representation was
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: from that whole experience. But until then it wasn't. I
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: wasn't taking it seriously like a like an actual skill
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: that I could live off of. I was like, there's
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: no way I would take this anywhere. But so yeah,
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: So now now it's my goal that I have a
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: little bit more. I'm single, Now I have a lit
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: I can give my attention to a lot of things
• 34:35
  Speaker 5: that I've always wanted to and I think, yeah, I
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: would love to take more actually comedy classes where I
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: could like hone in on that skill, whether that's stand up.
• 34:44
  Speaker 5: I mean, stand up is just an amazing skill to have,
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: just public speaking, being more confident, those are all things
• 34:50
  Speaker 5: you learn and taking a stand up class, I.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, I mean, you would be a great comedian.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Do you want to do you want to be a
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: stand up? Would you do stand up?
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: You know I used to do stand up. I I started
• 35:00
  Speaker 5: when I was seventeen in high school. I remember there
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: was this little club near my house and my parents
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: would take me after school and I would and I
• 35:05
  Speaker 5: would do stand up. My mom said, this is this
• 35:07
  Speaker 5: is what you're gonna do. We've decided. And you know,
• 35:10
  Speaker 5: as time went on, I think in my early twenties,
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: I started to get really really nervous and I didn't
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: love it anymore.
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: So I definitely would go back to it.
• 35:17
  Speaker 5: And but I don't know if I'm I'm not up
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: for the extremely taxing life that goes with touring.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: And when you say it's extremely it's very very hard
• 35:26
  Speaker 5: and you have to have.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: And it's very it is a lot of it's very competitive.
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: Extremely competitive, and you have to be willing to put
• 35:33
  Speaker 5: years into it to it. I mean the Nikki Glazers.
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: I mean, I can name a thousand comedians that I'm
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: absolutely in love with. But you know, Nicki Glazer didn't
• 35:40
  Speaker 5: get the well deserved fame that she that she has
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: now and years into the industry, you know what I mean.
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: Twenty twenty years and now she's getting the recognition that honestly,
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: I feel like she always should have had within like
• 35:51
  Speaker 5: five years of working. But now she's doing the huge
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: she's booking the huge roles and the hosting the award shows,
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: which is incredible, as she should.
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: But it took years.
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it really did take painstaking. You have to be
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: married to that, I think. And so I'm willing. I
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: want to work in comedy, but I don't know if
• 36:08
  Speaker 5: that means writing comedy or start, you know, acting, But
• 36:12
  Speaker 5: the stand up I think I've given up on that.
• 36:15
  Speaker 5: That like touring dream.
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's part of the comedy. You have to
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: do the touring.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: You get up there. It's like you can't jump this
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: turnstyle with that, ya, you have to do that. You
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: have to put the bones in. And comics. I'm around
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: a lot of comics and they'll say, oh, well, hasn't
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: been in the clubs this law why are they doing
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: Because there's been a lot of also social media people
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: who are out doing comedy shows yep, that were never comedians,
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: and they're getting the real comics to saying, oh, why
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: are they doing this? But if you think about it,
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: they get the people that are their fans on social
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: media to come see them. Yes, so that's why they
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: that's why they're able to do that. But now if
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: they were really out there doing comedy, are their comedy
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: show was really that funny to.
• 37:03
  Speaker 5: To the point where they should be having those huge audiences?
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: Right? Yeah, to the point you know, it's you know,
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: are they or are they just they just giving themselves
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: to just a specific audience. Yeah, what it.
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: Is they have to prove themselves and there's ways ways
• 37:14
  Speaker 5: of doing that, you know, just continuing repetition and doing
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: the shows. But my goal has always been a one
• 37:20
  Speaker 5: woman show where I'm able to do my my voices,
• 37:23
  Speaker 5: do my original characters, do a little bit of stand up,
• 37:26
  Speaker 5: because that's from my past. So, uh, I think that
• 37:29
  Speaker 5: that would be like my my goal that I'm working
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: on to do a one I think it'd definitely. It
• 37:35
  Speaker 5: mixes a lot of stuff. It's more of like a
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: theatrical one woman show where you have a bunch of
• 37:39
  Speaker 5: stuff that compiles all of my previous I've had my
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: hands in a lot of different things in the media industry,
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: news reporting, radio, podcasting, voice over work, you name it.
• 37:49
  Speaker 5: So I think this would be like the culmination of
• 37:50
  Speaker 5: all that put together, like the The Andre Lopez Show,
• 37:53
  Speaker 5: and then it's just me with a thousand wigs coming
• 37:54
  Speaker 5: out and doing different things on your own exactly exactly,
• 37:59
  Speaker 5: so that in the works that's always been you know,
• 38:01
  Speaker 5: I've written parts of it, but I got to put
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: it together, and I think, yeah, that's that's.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: That's that's going to be the end the goal. Yes,
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: that's what you want to do. Yes, I think that
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: that would be great.
• 38:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I would have so much fun with that. And
• 38:14
  Speaker 5: I've just never taken the time. I mean, you really
• 38:15
  Speaker 5: have to. You have to want that has to be
• 38:18
  Speaker 5: like the one goal that you work on. So because
• 38:20
  Speaker 5: I've have my head in so many different places, but
• 38:23
  Speaker 5: for sure, in the next like three years, that's my goal.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: That's your goal is just thought that and execute that.
• 38:28
  Speaker 5: And see it through. Yes, yeah, and you will.
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: You aren't ready now, now you'll be ready.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: You got to do it when you're ready, because if
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: you don't do it before you're ready, it's not going
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: to work. It won't worry and then you're not going
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: to be happy doing it. You want to do it
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: when you're ready and you want to do it, because
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: then it'll succeed. Because if you're not jack of all trades,
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: master of none, right, yes, yes, not saying that you're
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: not brilliant and everything you do very but if you
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: if you don't, if you have hands in so many
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: different things, something is.
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: Gonna fall short.
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: Right whereas you just focused on that one thing that's
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: going to propel you into where you want to be,
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: you know, So you know that's that's that's I mean
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: now in my life as I'm older now, so now
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: my business is kind of my business is there, it's successful,
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: So now I can do other things where I can
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: focus on something else that I enjoy enjoy doing.
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: Is it going to be?
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: I don't know where it's gonna take me right now,
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: but you know, at this point, I don't care where
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: it takes me. If it's making me happy doing it.
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: I'm happy because I'm I'm you know, I'm a lot
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: older than you. So I'm just doing it. That's because
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: it's going to make me have fun. I enjoy doing it,
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: you know, And you guys do that's what you have
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: to do too, that you get to that that situation
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: in your life. The time of your life when you're
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: ready to focus on that one thing and you'll do it,
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: and you will and that's exciting. What about are you
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: still doing the podcast?
• 39:56
  Speaker 5: Yes, we took We took a little bit of a
• 39:57
  Speaker 5: summer break and now we're kind of repurposing it. So
• 40:01
  Speaker 5: it's Big Wigs podcast with my co host, Anna Royceman.
• 40:03
  Speaker 5: She does a lot of stand up. She's incredible. She's
• 40:07
  Speaker 5: also a woman of many things, and so yeah, we've
• 40:12
  Speaker 5: been doing the podcast for a while now. It's really fun.
• 40:13
  Speaker 5: We utilize our voices, so it's it's a lot of characters.
• 40:16
  Speaker 5: Whenever we have she does impressions as well. So whenever
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: we have a character that's in the news for whatever reason,
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: we play it out. Yeah, and that's been so fun.
• 40:23
  Speaker 5: She does Chris Jenner, I do Courtney Kardashian, she does
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: Fran Dresher. I do Jennifer Coolidge. So we have a
• 40:28
  Speaker 5: lot of characters that kind of mesh together, and it's
• 40:30
  Speaker 5: really fun to put them in the same room together.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: Who's your favorite character?
• 40:35
  Speaker 5: Did I impersonate?
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 40:37
  Speaker 5: It changes, But recently I've had so much fun doing
• 40:40
  Speaker 5: Teresa Judice and that's because a lot of people you
• 40:43
  Speaker 5: know in Jersey, they they know it so well. Yeah,
• 40:46
  Speaker 5: and so it's been really fun. But you know, from
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: the reality TV world, I would say her and then
• 40:53
  Speaker 5: Sophia Bergara for a long time. I have a lot
• 40:55
  Speaker 5: of fun with her too, because she's all over the place. Yeah,
• 40:57
  Speaker 5: she's doing a GT I know, you're everywhere. She has
• 41:01
  Speaker 5: an Banada line with her son, and she has fancy Walmart.
• 41:07
  Speaker 5: I mean, I mean, I do it all. I love
• 41:10
  Speaker 5: her because god dammage, she will do it all. She's
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: got sponsorships out of the butt.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she is amazing.
• 41:16
  Speaker 5: It's such a star.
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: She her Nicole Kidman and Jamie Lee.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: Karn It's all over the place, superstars, the three of
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: them the last four to three years. Yeah, that's you
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: see the three of them definitely everywhere then everything, yeah,
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: well and and everywhere. It's so funny. And I love
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: Sophia's and she's beautiful, and she's ever since she was.
• 41:39
  Speaker 5: On a Family Oh my god, so good, so good, great.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: Great fucking show. Yeah.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: I mean Al from from Married with Children was her
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: husband on this show.
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: I mean, now, Bundy, that was my generation that they
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: couldn't have a show like that today because it when
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: it's too many people.
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: Definitely not, definitely not, but hon Ourn Family was kind
• 42:00
  Speaker 5: of like that new family dynamic comedy drama type of show, sitcom.
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: Love that so good?
• 42:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that would be that'd be great. Talk
• 42:10
  Speaker 5: about a dream a dream job would be landing one
• 42:12
  Speaker 5: of those things that like goes from seasons and seasons.
• 42:14
  Speaker 5: And you developed such a character from that show.
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, Like I could see you being on
• 42:19
  Speaker 4: a show like that.
• 42:20
  Speaker 5: Oh my god, yes, thank you, I could.
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: I could see you being on something like that.
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: Just gotta keep it moving, keep it moving, keep it moving,
• 42:27
  Speaker 5: just when you think. I mean, this industry is full
• 42:29
  Speaker 5: of ups and downs, but even in your lowest moments,
• 42:31
  Speaker 5: you just have to keep reminding yourself. You're gonna get
• 42:33
  Speaker 5: that call soon. There's gonna be a new opportunity. You
• 42:36
  Speaker 5: never know what's gonna happen. You never know who you're
• 42:38
  Speaker 5: gonna meet that leads you to somewhere else. It's just
• 42:40
  Speaker 5: all about the connections and just continuing, continuing, continuation. How
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: many times I've had to have that pep talk in myself,
• 42:47
  Speaker 5: Oh my god.
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: Well, you know what, and you're still young, so you
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: have you have time, you still have your life ahead
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: of you.
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: Where you do you have a you have a.
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: Lot more ahead than you have behind. I have behind
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: that I have a head. So I'm gonna do.
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: You got a lot more ahead.
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: So I'm gonna be like stories.
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: I got stories for sure, I should have. I should
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: just do a storytelling show because that I could tell. Yeah,
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: and my and my accent and the way I am,
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: it would be.
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: I have great stories.
• 43:19
  Speaker 5: Put it in stories.
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: That's what I wanted.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna do it one day when I
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: have time to sit down and actually think about it
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: and do it. I'll do that one day. Yeah, maybe
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: like and let me produce it. Yeah, I would love well,
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: you know what.
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: Because you'll be the You'll be the big week on TV.
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna make up Andrea. You gotta come over.
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: I got my readers list, and you gotta help me
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: out with the script.
• 43:41
  Speaker 5: All right, put on Shawshank Redemption. I'll be right over
• 43:44
  Speaker 5: with the cabinet. That's all you need to say.
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: That's it, and you'll be right in.
• 43:51
  Speaker 5: I'm right over. I'm driving over in the lamb Bo.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: Hold on, I'll make the Swiss. Don't worry about it.
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: I got you, I got the meat balls. All right.
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: Now you say saucer gravy, I always have to ask,
• 44:02
  Speaker 5: all right, okay, all right, my bravy is brown.
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: My Philly gravy is brown.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: Whoever says gravy it is when I think of gravy,
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: anything of brown that is not sauce.
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: Sauce is red.
• 44:16
  Speaker 5: Nothing. You want to get an Italian moving around and
• 44:20
  Speaker 5: saying you want you want to get their personality out.
• 44:22
  Speaker 5: That's all the question you.
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: Have to ask that because my Philly Italians, because it
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: pisses people.
• 44:26
  Speaker 5: Gravy oh yeah, gets their panties up in a bunch,
• 44:28
  Speaker 5: gets riled up.
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: Forget about its Yeah, forget about it.
• 44:32
  Speaker 5: Forget about it like you get you want to get
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: them all ruffled, hot and bothered. Yeah, that's about saucer gravy.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: Listen. It has been at the hot topic on the
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: internet over the last six years with the explosion of
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: all the Italian culture, and forget about it, it's been crazy.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, you like you said, you want to
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: get people in an uproar talk about sauce and gravy.
• 44:54
  Speaker 5: True, it's so true.
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: But I'm gonna make it sauce, not gravy unless I'm
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: make it roast beef. Then you'll have gravy and you
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: have brave.
• 45:00
  Speaker 5: It's great as down.
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: I don't forget it.
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: We'll never forget it. After I said that, you like
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: it rown because Jed said it. Jed D told me
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: it's fucking brown. So you can't have gravy.
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: It's swatz, it's instead.
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so tell everybody where they can find you, Andrea.
• 45:20
  Speaker 5: Plant, Andrea Lopez Comedy. It's on Instagram. You know, I
• 45:23
  Speaker 5: don't even know this season takes off anymore, but you
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: know you can find me there. And my website is
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: Andre Lopez Comedy dot com. And uh, any new updates
• 45:30
  Speaker 5: will be on Instagram. I think you can always check
• 45:32
  Speaker 5: on that.
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: Yes, I'm so happy that you came here today. Thank you.
• 45:37
  Speaker 5: She's my newest impression. So get ready to get ready
• 45:40
  Speaker 5: to see get in for the land ro.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: You know it's so funny.
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: Is Rosella does this Rosella?
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: You know? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, she impersonates me so much.
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: She's like, whenever I tell people to come over, I
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: go come over.
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: She would come over, tell them to come over.
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: She impersonates to you all the time, I'm like and
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: everybody on social.
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: Media now, but they know it's me.
• 46:03
  Speaker 5: They know me.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: And now I have to go on food tours with
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: her because I went on a food tour with her,
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: and because she posted my my whole debauchery of a
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: food tour with her.
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: Falling, you know, eating spleen that I didn't know what
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: it was.
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: Like, and she you eating spleen should mean, explain recorded
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: the whole thing.
• 46:23
  Speaker 4: They're like, Jen, if I'm.
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: Coming on tour with you, on a food tour with you,
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: she has to come yep, So now I have to come.
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: A's like the mascot of the food tour. Now mask
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: So I'm the mascot of the food tour. So now
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: you're like present president. So now I could be the
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: mascot of your of your show one of these days.
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: But I'm gonna still tell you to come over and
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: write the script with me.
• 46:44
  Speaker 5: I'm there, I'm there. I'm always the down friends like
• 46:48
  Speaker 5: people are like, what kind of friend are you? I'm like,
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: you could ask me to go bowling, or you could
• 46:51
  Speaker 5: ask me to go go get a spirits. You could
• 46:53
  Speaker 5: ask me, you know, I'll go pray by your grandmother's side, like,
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: I'm literally down to do everything.
• 46:59
  Speaker 4: I love that about me.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: Up, You're like like my spirit animal Jack, but you're
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: going to be the master of them all.
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: Love you so much.
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I love you, I really do.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: Well.
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: Thank you so much for being on today.
• 47:10
  Speaker 5: Thank you.
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: And it was so nice for you being my co
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: host too.
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: So watch the episodes of how as my co host
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: of Mitch Andrew Lopez as my co host, which was
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: exciting too.
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: And I hope to have you back again.
• 47:22
  Speaker 5: Absolutely gonna come out now. I got lost. I went
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: to the wrong the wrong location because I think that
• 47:28
  Speaker 5: Google Maps. I don't know what year that was from,
• 47:29
  Speaker 5: probably nineteen nineteen.
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: Ninety two, because because it hasn't been in that building
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: a long time.
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: I showed him completely wrong building. The security guy at
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: the front was like, yeah, nobody's asked for that in years.
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: I'm like, it's not on four seventeen. He's like nope.
• 47:43
  Speaker 4: Like, I think we've gotta change that with Google. We
• 47:46
  Speaker 4: have I have a boat to pick with you.
• 47:48
  Speaker 5: Now I know the correct location. I will be here.
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: I love you. Okay, Well you'll get it at least
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: at least now you know where to go well. Thank
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: you again for coming, and everybody, thank you again for
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: tuning in, and please hit that subscribe button on YouTube,
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: Apple or Spotify or else.
• 48:01
  Speaker 4: I'm coming to get you, or I won't ask you
• 48:03
  Speaker 4: to come over.
• 48:08
  Speaker 5: Oh my god,