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Might As Well with Von Rhe' · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back. What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
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  Speaker 2: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.
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  Speaker 1: This is your co-host, AJ Holiday. What's up, Tim?
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  Speaker 2: Bam, big Tim.
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  Speaker 1: Big booty Tim.
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  Speaker 3: Bam, bam, bam, bam.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Green eggs and ham. Shut up, bitch. Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: I love y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, AJ.
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  Speaker 3: What's up, girl?
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  Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Ain't nothing. What you do this weekend?
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  Speaker 1: I ain't do shit, girl. Nothing.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gaining weight. I'm gaining weight. That's what I've been
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  Speaker 2: doing this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Eating.
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  Speaker 3: Eating good.
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  Speaker 2: I did fast last week, but I just feel like, man,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck is happening.
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  Speaker 1: Is it the winter?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like, what's happening? I don't know. Yeah, it's the winner.
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  Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, my face started to look like a little box. Like, girl. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you know what to do. You know what to do.
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  Speaker 1: Get back to it. Let me tell y'all what I did.
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  Speaker 1: I had one of my good friends from Benedict. He
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  Speaker 1: actually is like a, I don't even, a physical therapist,
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  Speaker 1: I guess you would call him. He works with Sha'Carri Richardson.
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  Speaker 1: He works with a bunch of NFL players. He works with, like,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of actresses and actors, like, doing body work.
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  Speaker 1: And he came to Charlotte and he did body work
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  Speaker 1: on me for three and a half hours straight. Oh, nice.
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  Speaker 2: Like stretching and stuff like that?
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't even stretching. It was like, well, I guess
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  Speaker 1: kind of, sort of. It was like he was using
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  Speaker 1: like a ultrasound machine, a laser, some tools. So, you know,
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  Speaker 1: that chiropractic thing that goes that little thing like that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called. Uh, and he literally
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  Speaker 1: went in between each rib cage with that thing. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: he just took his whole time and like really like,
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  Speaker 1: just like adjusting my back and my neck. And he
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  Speaker 1: like took, is he a chiropractor? He's a physical therapist
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  Speaker 1: or so. I don't know exactly what he has a
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  Speaker 1: bunch of degrees. So he might exact, he might be
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  Speaker 1: a chiropractor. I don't know what to call him, but baby,
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  Speaker 1: when I tell you like my shit, my neck fluid
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  Speaker 1: and my back is more fluid than it's been in
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  Speaker 1: a long time. I'm sore. I'm still sore from all
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  Speaker 1: the work that he did, but I feel so much better.
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  Speaker 1: Like he took my neck and he was like adjusting it.
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  Speaker 1: He cracked it this way, cracked it that way. And
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  Speaker 1: then he put me in a headlock. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: wait a minute, what this nigga doing? And then he
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  Speaker 1: snatched and I could feel like it just like crack
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  Speaker 1: all the way up my spine.
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  Speaker 3: Goodness.
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  Speaker 1: And I just really needed that. He probably loosened up
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  Speaker 1: a lot of mucus. Maybe that's what, maybe that's why
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  Speaker 1: I feel bad right now. I do feel a little
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  Speaker 1: under the weather. So maybe that has something to do
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  Speaker 1: with it. But, My body feels good. My neck and
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  Speaker 1: my throat game good right now. My vertebrae. Other than that,
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  Speaker 1: that was it.
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  Speaker 3: Shame.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't do much.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 1: It's cold. I did one other thing. Excuse me, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I did one other thing. I went to this new
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  Speaker 1: place here in Charlotte called Spice. And it's African owned.
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  Speaker 1: I want to say Ghanaian. Ghanaian-owned, and they have an
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  Speaker 1: African menu. I know that's a whole continent, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't know exactly what country. I think it's Ghana, but
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  Speaker 1: the food is so good. The vibes is nice. The
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  Speaker 1: ambiance is nice. It's uptown Charlotte. It's a vibe. If
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  Speaker 1: y'all are in Charlotte or you're looking for a place
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  Speaker 1: to go, definitely check out Spice. You like African food?
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  Speaker 1: I do, and I like African men, too.
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  Speaker 2: I mean who doesn't like African men let's be very
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  Speaker 2: clear the food be so spicy though like I don't
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  Speaker 2: I like spicy food but not like African spicy food
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  Speaker 2: like I can't even enjoy the food my mouth burning
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  Speaker 2: too bad no I can't do it man like the
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  Speaker 2: soups and stuff like god damn man my mouth be
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  Speaker 2: burning my.
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  Speaker 1: Nose be running and shit I be eating that I
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  Speaker 1: love it some suya That's good for your digestive system, though.
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  Speaker 1: The spicy. So, yeah, y'all check. But you know what?
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  Speaker 1: They didn't make the food too spicy. They made it
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  Speaker 1: for an American palate, honestly.
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  Speaker 3: So, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Nice. You can handle it. You need to come on
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  Speaker 1: to town. Let's see if we can get some suya
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  Speaker 1: and some niggles. Some suya niggles. This place, I just
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  Speaker 1: saw the cellar. You been there? The cellar. Oh, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's the name of it. Yeah, it's nice. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: want to go there. That's a nice place. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: saw that coming across my timeline.
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  Speaker 3: Underground.
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  Speaker 1: You got to go, you know, down into the cellar.
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  Speaker 1: But it's nice.
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  Speaker 3: It's dark.
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  Speaker 1: Nice little spot. Let's get into stupid internet news.
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  Speaker 2: What happened? Let's do it. Let me get what we
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  Speaker 2: got going on, girl. I did come across Jada Chavez. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: last week, y'all, we had a whole episode on what
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  Speaker 2: exactly is cheating. Okay, what is infidelity? I think we
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  Speaker 2: only think about infidelity when we're talking about marriage, but cheating,
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  Speaker 2: same shit, right? You're in a committed relationship, somebody cheats.
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  Speaker 2: So Jada says she's never cheated in a relationship, but
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  Speaker 2: she has done her dirt during a little breaky break.
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  Speaker 2: Why would it be considered dirt if If you are
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  Speaker 2: no longer in a relationship and y'all are on a break,
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  Speaker 2: why are you calling it dirt?
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  Speaker 1: Because men feel like your pussy's still there even if
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  Speaker 1: y'all on a break. That's why she said it that way.
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  Speaker 2: Period.
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  Speaker 1: But honestly, it ain't dirt. It's doing what the fuck
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  Speaker 1: you want to do because you're not in a relationship.
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  Speaker 1: You're single. Because a man wouldn't call it dirt if
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  Speaker 1: they're on a break.
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  Speaker 3: Nope.
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  Speaker 2: And half the time, the reason why y'all on a
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  Speaker 2: break is because that nigga was cheating. Because he was
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  Speaker 2: already dirty.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: So basically what Jada is saying, every time little baby
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  Speaker 2: cheat on me, we take a break.
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  Speaker 1: And I cheat back. And I finally cheat back. But see,
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  Speaker 1: men don't respect that.
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  Speaker 2: They want you to be at the house crying until
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  Speaker 2: y'all get back in a good space.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so ladies. Don't ever say no shit like that
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  Speaker 1: in public, bitch. I never did no dirt. I despise dirt.
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  Speaker 1: It's disgusting.
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  Speaker 2: And any of my friends that would ever do something
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  Speaker 2: like that to their man, whether they're together.
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  Speaker 1: Today or not, are whores. Lie to these niggas, ladies.
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  Speaker 1: Hardest week of my life.
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  Speaker 2: Like if a grown bitch ain't never told you nothing
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  Speaker 2: before cause the action mama she gonna tell you don't
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  Speaker 2: you tell that man the truth are you stupid.
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  Speaker 1: None of his business if y'all took a break what
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  Speaker 1: happened during that time is nobody's business but your.
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  Speaker 2: Own right unless somebody come back with a break baby
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  Speaker 2: now that's a little different shit gets sketchy that's.
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  Speaker 1: A whole different ball game All right, so let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you this. I was scrolling this weekend, and I
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  Speaker 1: saw that Nick Cannon is putting out a show called
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  Speaker 1: Light Skin vs. Dark Skin, and it's women.
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  Speaker 2: You know what?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I would be upset like I am
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  Speaker 1: about it if it was men. But the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you're putting light skin women against dark skin women is
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  Speaker 1: cringe for me. So apparently this is going to be a.
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  Speaker 1: Chocolate Goddesses versus Caramel Goddesses. A Zeus Network show. It's
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  Speaker 1: giving disgusting. What do you think, AJ?
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  Speaker 2: So they're saying the network has since removed the flyer
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  Speaker 2: because the original one said bad versus wild Las Vegas.
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  Speaker 2: Light skin versus dark skin. That's what that flyer originally said.
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  Speaker 2: So now he trying to spice it up and make
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  Speaker 2: it nice. Nah, fuck you, Nick Cannon. Let's be clear.
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  Speaker 2: This is disgusting. I feel like he's been put in
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  Speaker 2: a position at this point to play on all the
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  Speaker 2: negative stereotypes and all the different things that just hold
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  Speaker 2: the black community back. He's just playing into them. He's
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  Speaker 2: allowing these people to play in our fucking faces. These women,
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  Speaker 2: it's the fucking inmates running the prison, man. Why would
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  Speaker 2: y'all even participate.
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  Speaker 1: In some shit like this? Why would you sign up
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  Speaker 1: for that? As much as.
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  Speaker 2: As much as Sukihana be on the internet, anytime somebody
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  Speaker 2: say something, she automatically assuming somebody got a problem with
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  Speaker 2: her skin tone.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's not cool. I don't think it's a good idea.
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  Speaker 1: It's whack. It's very whack. It's whack as hell.
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  Speaker 2: The thing is that because of the internet, white people
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  Speaker 2: don't need to know us no more. They get these
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  Speaker 2: small little tidbits of bullshit. And they create their whole
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  Speaker 2: like thought around who black people are because of TV
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  Speaker 2: and social media.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's divisive as fuck. Honestly, you don't see any
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  Speaker 1: like Irish against, I don't even like no different. Is
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  Speaker 1: there a different hues of white pale against tan white? Absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Italians don't consider themselves white.
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  Speaker 2: Every week we lump all of them in a group,
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  Speaker 2: but Italians don't consider themselves white.
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  Speaker 1: You have darker skinned Indians.
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  Speaker 2: So like that they have, like they try to act
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  Speaker 2: like it's only happening amongst black people where you got
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  Speaker 2: the light skin and dark skin thing, but it happens
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  Speaker 2: amongst many races, even Chinese.
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  Speaker 1: But you wouldn't see a show with white people pale
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  Speaker 1: against tan. Like that's stupid. Absolutely dumb. So why are
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  Speaker 1: y'all doing that black people? Because there's already an issue
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  Speaker 1: in our community when it comes to colorism. So you're
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  Speaker 1: just playing on that. And that's just stupid. booed a
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  Speaker 1: Nick Cannon.
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  Speaker 2: For that yeah I feel like I don't like canceling
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  Speaker 2: people but this to me is grounds for cancellation him
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  Speaker 2: and these two groups of women like I just don't
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  Speaker 2: want to see them bitches no more I'm sick of them.
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  Speaker 1: I just uh I don't want to cancel him for
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  Speaker 1: it because, I mean, the show wasn't released, but he
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  Speaker 1: need to sit his ass down.
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  Speaker 2: But y'all even think it's cool to put a flyer
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  Speaker 2: out there that looks like that.
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  Speaker 1: Like, what's up, man? What are we doing? What are
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  Speaker 1: we doing in 2024? Because this year is over.
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  Speaker 2: What are we doing?
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  Speaker 1: But, I mean, this is kind of stuff that Zeus
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  Speaker 1: Network puts out, you know? This is right in line
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  Speaker 1: with the quality of their content, so.
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  Speaker 2: And I know in January of this year, for New Year's,
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  Speaker 2: I did ask to leave Zeus Network in 2022.
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  Speaker 1: Like, what happened? Why wasn't my wish granted? Because Zeus
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  Speaker 1: Network is thriving on trash TV.
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  Speaker 3: That's why.
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  Speaker 1: So, good luck with that. They're here to stay, it
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  Speaker 1: looks like. We need to get on TV, bitch. That's
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  Speaker 1: what needs to happen. They need to see us. Soon come, friends.
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  Speaker 1: Soon come. Soon come.
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  Speaker 3: Soon come.
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  Speaker 1: Soon come. Excellent, excellent.
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  Speaker 2: Girl, Lala. Lala sound like she want to get a
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  Speaker 2: podcast together, girl. She had a room full of women
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  Speaker 2: in the back asking the question whether or not it's
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  Speaker 2: okay to have sex on the first date.
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  Speaker 1: We definitely need to have a conversation about that. And
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  Speaker 1: we will. Y'all popping y'all pussy for a real nigga
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  Speaker 1: or what? We're going to talk about it when we
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  Speaker 1: get it. Hell with it. All right, y'all.
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: We back. We got a guest on We Talk Back
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  Speaker 2: this week. We have the host of Set the Record
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  Speaker 2: Straight podcast, Mr.
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  Speaker 1: Big Dick Bandit. The Big Dick Bandit.
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  Speaker 3: That's what he said, y'all. I thought you were going
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  Speaker 3: to go out.
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  Speaker 3: Check the OnlyFans out, man.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Y'all, we got Vaughn Ray.
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  Speaker 1: You got an OnlyFan?
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  Speaker 3: Nah, I'm just bullshitting. I retired from that. Come on.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't never paying to see no dick.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I do know.
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  Speaker 3: You'd be surprised who would, though. I done had a
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  Speaker 3: few celebrities pay when I was doing my thing on there.
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  Speaker 1: Really? What you was doing?
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  Speaker 3: Whatever they wanted me to do.
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: Oh, so OnlyFans, you can.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a customization.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: Wow, I didn't know that. I'm trying to find his
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  Speaker 1: website right quick.
• 12:36
  Speaker 2: Because earlier this week, my homeboy sent me a little
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  Speaker 2: side website for OnlyFans. people basically post people's OnlyFans shit
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: on this free website. So is Natalie Nunn. I'm like, nigga,
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  Speaker 2: I do not want to see that bitch naked, okay?
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: SpongeBob SquarePants. I'm cool.
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  Speaker 3: I heard about that. It's like, you get to see
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  Speaker 3: all that shit for free.
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  Speaker 2: So it led me to believe that that fucking baddie
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  Speaker 2: shit ain't nothing but a bunch of bitches selling pussy
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  Speaker 2: on TV and the internet.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: Natalie Nunn actually looks good as of lately.
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  Speaker 3: Have y'all seen her? The tranny chair?
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  Speaker 1: Nelly Nush.
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  Speaker 3: No, she's just not. Oh, that's not nice. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: being mean.
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  Speaker 1: She has lost a lot of weight, and she has
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  Speaker 1: been looking nice lately.
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  Speaker 3: That was the biggest feel of Chris Brown's career, dating
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  Speaker 3: her at one point and letting her get all that stuff.
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  Speaker 3: That's how she got on, by dating him. She put
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  Speaker 3: it out in the media for a little while. That
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  Speaker 3: was years ago. I never knew that.
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  Speaker 1: Wasn't she on Bad Girls Club? Was that after or before?
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  Speaker 3: I think that was in the mix or after. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 2: She definitely got them girls eating her coochie on OnlyFans.
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  Speaker 3: She do. Her body does not look bad.
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  Speaker 1: Her body does look nice. She doesn't look bad at all.
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  Speaker 1: She got a nice body. I'm here for it.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all, so tell us a little bit about Set to
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  Speaker 2: Request Straight. I don't want to just get straight into
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  Speaker 2: our topic. I want our listeners to also know who
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  Speaker 2: Von Ray is and what you got going on.
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  Speaker 3: Man, well, Set the Record Straight is like an uncensored show.
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  Speaker 3: We have so many broad topics we talk about. We
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  Speaker 3: talk about relationships, sexuality, gay, straight. It's a bunch of
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: different topics. We talk about sexual assault. It's like anything
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: under the world. When I came up with this podcast,
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  Speaker 3: I was recovering from being shot. And it was just
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  Speaker 3: an idea I had. And for some reason, I just
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  Speaker 3: Fully executed when I had the opportunity and when I
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: was recovering and it's been going up since then. That's,
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  Speaker 3: that's really what it is. It's like effortless at this point.
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  Speaker 3: Cause it's just a passion of mine. I self-taught myself. I, um,
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  Speaker 3: wrote an ebook as well. The secrets to a successful
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: podcast that's available. Um, And it really was no secrets.
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  Speaker 3: It was just my journey on how I taught myself
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  Speaker 3: how to do this and being able to get traction
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  Speaker 3: by myself. I didn't have no help. I just was
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  Speaker 3: able to reach out to the people I know as
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  Speaker 3: far as guests and just put my bullshit out. You
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  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying? Some people agree, some people don't,
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  Speaker 3: you know?
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  Speaker 1: So you ain't going to just slide past getting shot.
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  Speaker 1: Like you mean to say that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Who shot you?
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  Speaker 1: Who shot you? Like, what happened?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, we ain't going to get into all that. But, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I had a real tragedy. I was shot 26 times
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  Speaker 3: last year in 2022, and I was still here to
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  Speaker 3: talk about it. So it's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. You got shot. You took in your body 26 bullets.
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  Speaker 1: Are they shot at you 26 times?
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  Speaker 3: No, I took 26, for sure, for sure. Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: What kind of bullets was there? It must have been
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  Speaker 1: a BB gun.
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  Speaker 3: 26 is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: No, we gods over here, man.
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  Speaker 3: Man, the grace of God. At the time, I was
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  Speaker 3: in the best shape of my life, and I can
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: say that I was in the best shape of my life.
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  Speaker 3: I was working out like a mug. I was lifting weights. And,
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  Speaker 3: you know, when you put your body through that type
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  Speaker 3: of trauma of always working out, I was able to
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  Speaker 3: survive it. You know, I was probably on my last leg, but,
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  Speaker 3: you know, I made it through. Lost a lot of weight,
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  Speaker 3: a lot of time off laying in the bed and recovering,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm here.
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  Speaker 1: Alexa, play Tupac back real quick. Right now. God damn.
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  Speaker 2: We're glad to have you.
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  Speaker 1: Praise the Lord. Praise the Lord, the second coming. Amen. Amen, amen.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we talked about this a little bit during
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  Speaker 2: Stupid Internet News, but I like, you know, y'all know
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: I pass judgment.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: A lot, okay? So, Cardi B.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: And Offset, they've been broken up for a while. She's online,
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: crying in the.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Dark on live.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: And I suggested to Tammy that the reason why they're
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: probably breaking up is because Offset is tired of a
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: twerking wife. Like, he probably sick of seeing that ass
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: on the fucking internet. And I'm like, men like that shit,
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: but do you want to always, like, do you want
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: that to be your wife?
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: So then, you know, we got into.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: The can you turn a hoe into a housewife conversation,
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: and Tammy suggested it for us to get a man
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: on the show, so.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: You got Von Ray. You can't spell housewife without hoe.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Let's be clear.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Okay? So I believe you can spell hoe instead of
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: housewife because a hoe is subjective.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: I don't even... Honestly, before we get Von Ray's opinion,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I don't believe.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I don't believe it was him that left the situation.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I think it was her sick of his shit. Not
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: him sick of hers. I think it might be a
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: combination of things. You know what I'm saying? So you.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: She was popping when they got together. They aren't young.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? He has five kids now.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: They have two together.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: Or three? Two.
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: I can't keep hearing them. They got two together.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: He got a few and she got two with him.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: They were married. Young. I think Cardi is what? 30?
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: I know Offset was like about 32. Young.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: Young, young, young.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Having kids. Got money.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Temptations is crazy. I'm sick
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: of seeing her ass. So maybe that's why I'm a
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: little biased. I don't know.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm going to tell you right now that the
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: men are sick of seeing it. I'm with y'all. The
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: men in Tammy, we're not sick of seeing it. But
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: I can say I do feel like every woman has
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: a whole phase. And potentially a lot of you used
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: to be hoes are now wives but at the same
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: time it's like you can't be a wife and also
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: try to raise kids and be twerking for the internet
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: for every man to see but in Cardi's defense it's
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: like she an entertainer so she gotta do that in
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: some aspects whether she on stage or she ain't gotta
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: do it on Instagram she choose to do that but
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: if she performing on stage they come to see her
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: twerk whether it's men or women so I feel like
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: You can't turn a hoe into a housewife because a
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: lot of y'all used to be hoes. Who's y'all? Y'all too, too.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: First of all, I'm going to be honest with y'all.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: I have not been a hoe in well over a
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: decade and a half.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, so that's what I'm saying.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: Every woman has had a hoe phase. That's what I'm
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: trying to tell you. Y'all been through that stage where
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: y'all was doing stuff that y'all would never do right now.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: But.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: In Cardi's defense, you know who you married?
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: You know who you.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: You married her twerking. It wasn't like she used to
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: twerk and she changed and then y'all got married. No,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: she been the same person the whole time.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: So, maybe I'm going to tell y'all this too. It's like,
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: I really don't even think it got nothing to do
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: with twerking. Like I'm really in Atlanta. So I really,
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: at this point, when we do this podcast, we really
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: journalists at this point, you know what I'm saying? The
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: way podcast has taken over like media, people come to
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: the podcast sector before they listen to CNN to see
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: what the news is on YouTube. So at this point,
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: we like journalists. I hear a lot of shit, and
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: I be trying to tell people that I know, and
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: I be knowing these people. It's like, y'all really got
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: to keep me out them conversations, and I don't want
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: to know y'all business because I might use this shit.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: And it really probably ain't.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Got nothing to do with me. We got content.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: It really ain't got nothing to do with no twerking.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: I guarantee you it's because he always been cheating on her.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Let's be real. It's not about her twerking. I believe
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: Cardi B is a good wife. She ain't never probably
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: made him feel no type of way as far as loyalty.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: He just don't know how to keep it big in
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: his pants. And that's just what it is. Let's be real.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: Y'all know how these rappers are, man.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: That's not just rappers. That's a lot of men. Can
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: we be honest? When you are in your 20s and 30s,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: sometimes into late 30s, it's hard for y'all to just
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Be with one woman.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: I ain't gonna say that. I ain't gonna say that.
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: The right woman can make you settle down. I'm not
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: gonna lie. If a man really love you and he's
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: scared to lose you and he know what he got
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: and you bring value to his life, he'll be scared
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: to mess that up. And if he do cheat, he
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: gonna make sure you don't find out. He going to
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: cheat with somebody that's just low of the barrel, even
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: if she say something.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: This is true, but at the same time, it's a
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: lot of niggas risking everything.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: You feel what I'm saying?
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: For just a piece of pussy on her side. And
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: it don't even be like, it don't even have to
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: be quality pussy. It's someone that's bringing anything to their life.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: It's just some pussy.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: That's why he be cheating on you. He just deal
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: with you.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just something new, something different.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: The right man that know he got a good woman
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: and he's scared to lose her, he will not mess
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: that up. If he do cheat on you, he gonna
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: make sure you don't find out and it's gonna be
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: with somebody that you won't even believe he cheated with.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: She may be the... No, see?
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: See, that's that shit.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: It always be with an ugly girl.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: That's the truth, dog.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Listen, that shit fucks with a woman's self-esteem because it's
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: almost like.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Why are you.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: I'd rather you be fucking with somebody that's comparable as
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: opposed to you fucking with a.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Walrus nah but it don't it don't be you it
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: just be easy and it just be something he can
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: do and if he do get caught it's like it
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: don't niggas be thinking it won't make your confidence down
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: because she ain't really nothing you know she a side
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: chick but a lot of times niggas get disrespectful they
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: get lazy and they really don't care about the girl
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: they really wit like that they just tolerate her whether
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: they got kids together and they just cheat just to
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: do it and they don't care to clean up behind
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: they self you get what I'm saying that's just a
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: nigga that don't really honor.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: What he got why don't they leave.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: Like they say it's cheaper to keep her sometimes he
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: might got kids with her you know he might be
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: married to her got a lot of time invested and
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying y'all damn near leave with
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: half and plus more if a nigga leave that's just
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: how it be it's cheaper to keep some.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Women see this all of this make me want to
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: kill me a nigga right before.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: I know like right now i feel like my fucking
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: blood pressure rising.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: A little bit i'm being honest with y'all that's the
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: wrong you know and i think that's why.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I always say you got to give men something to
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: deal with because men we know we always say this
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: they marry the easygoing women and then they cheat with
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: the bad bitches on the side right if you keep
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: this nigga on his toes.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: I'm not easygoing I'm going to give you problems. I'm
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: going to give you something to deal with.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: No, no, no.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I'm going to give you something to think. That's the
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: wrong way to think.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: That's not true.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: That's not true.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: That's the wrong way to think. What you should do is,
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: let me give you some advice. Do not give him problems.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: No, no, no. Not problems like that, but don't do
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: no shit you don't want me doing.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: But what I'm trying to tell you is, don't give
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: him problems. You be the hoe for your man.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: It don't matter. It doesn't matter. Come on. That shit
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: don't matter.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: You can do, you can pussy pop on a handstand
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: for a man. And it's still going to be some
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: shit you can walk and do because some men just
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: like variety.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: You can lick that nigga butt and he will take
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: that butt right back outside and be up in another
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: bitch face. And somebody else's car.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: My best advice is be a hoe for your man. Talk,
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: treat him like he want, like, Make your man comfortable
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: enough that he could talk to you how he talked
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: to his homeboy and vice versa. You could talk to
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: him how you talk to your girl. Because a lot
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: of women, they be a totally different person when they
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: around their homegirls and their sisters and their cousins and aunties.
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: But it's a different dynamic.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: When you get around your man, but like I said,
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: you got to be in a good enough relationship where
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: y'all got that connection for real to where you could
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: be your comfortable self. I be telling a lot of
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: my homeboys and men I know, you don't really know
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: who your wife is for real. She won't even tell
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: you she got smashed by the whole football team and
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: had trains ran on her because you would lose your mind.
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: You've been to beat the girl up and be in
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: domestic violence cases because you done found out she even
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: sniffed a dick. You got to let her comfortable, bro.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: Don't be all up her neck for real because women
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: will shut down and put themselves in a box around
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: their man Just because he be so crazy about she
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: can't do nothing.
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: Nope.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: But you fell in love with her because she was
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: a freak.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: No man can handle knowing that his woman smashed the
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: whole football team. No man wants to hear that. That's
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: actually wild.
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: You never know. I mean, that's not true, though. There's
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: men out here that like to see they, like he did.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: He liked to see his woman get pleased by another man.
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? When you start opening up
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: Pandora's box, you never know what your man going to
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: be comfortable with.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: And that's why you don't open up Pandora's box. If
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: you aren't comfortable about, you know, if you're uncomfortable doing shit,
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: you just doing stuff for your man, You open a
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: Pandora's box, and from experience, it never fucking stops. This
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: nigga going to keep pushing the totem pole. He going
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: to keep pushing the envelope to see how much more
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: he can get up out of your ass.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Next thing you know, he flying big black dicks in
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: to come fuck you.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: I ain't going to lie. You do got to do
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: it for yourself, too. You got to do it. You
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: got to be comfortable with what you're doing. That's when
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: you end up in cases like Diddy, because she wasn't
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: even comfortable. She was just doing it for that nigga.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: That's like Ray.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: J and Princess. You remember she said that? She was like,
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: you know, it just never stopped. She was doing it
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: three times with him, thinking that would stop him from cheating.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: And he just kept wanting to do more and more shit.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: It never stops.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: So, nah, I would not suggest to women to be
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: doing anything just because your man wants to do it.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: If you aren't comfortable with him, that's not already your nature,
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: don't be fucking around because it's never going to be enough.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: It's not going to keep a man.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you got to tell these men. Tell these men
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: to find women that like that. Find the women that
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: want the threesomes. But that's the thing. They don't want
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: to go get one that already isn't a lighter. They
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: want to get one that's a converter.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: So let's talk about.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: That because that's the problem. You got to find a
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: woman that's already into that stuff.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: That's the problem.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Men want to be the ones to coerce people into
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: doing bullshit.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: They don't want you. I had a whole conversation with
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: somebody this morning and I.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: Asked him like, you know, would you marry somebody who
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: was a self-proclaimed hoe?
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Oh no, sorry. This is the other topic. Fucking on
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: the first date. Right?
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: He just said he would not fuck with a, he'll
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: fuck her, right? But if a woman, if he were
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: out with a woman and she was like, pull your
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: dick out. That's like a turn off for him.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: He'll still fuck her, but he won't fuck with her.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: But if he initiated the sex on the first date,
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: it's cool. He might fuck around and wife her. So
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: the man has to feel like he's in control of
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: the situation.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: But it's the truth, though.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: That's just how men are. That's why we can't be
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: honest with men about who we are.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Imagine being like, pull your dick out with a nigga
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: you just met. That's kind of wild. She is too aggressive. Bitch.
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: Hey, but this the thing. This the thing, though. Even
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: with stuff like that, men say, they'll say stuff like,
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: I want a woman that know what she want. You
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: got a woman that saying she know what she want, right?
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: So why you mad if she telling you what she want?
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: She know what she came to this dinner for. She
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: came to eat and get dicked. But y'all want to
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: treat her a certain type of way. This is the
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: thing that get me about niggas, right? When a man
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: see a woman he like, the first thing we think about,
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: we don't care about how you doing. We don't care
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: about how your day been. The first thing that come
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: to my mind is, damn, I want to fuck. Right?
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: But you niggas be mad when she give you the
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: pussy too soon. Like, nigga, is that not what you
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: wanted in this situation?
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: Just be grateful that she giving you the pussy. And
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: I be trying to tell niggas, The way y'all talk
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: about girls giving up pussy too quick, she a hoe
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: for doing this and a hoe for doing that. Y'all
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: really just be talking y'all self out of more pussy
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: because now she going to make you wait even longer.
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: And she know that's your mentality. Because you going to
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: look at her crazy.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I just feel like giving up your pussy too fast
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: is like giving up your infinity stone. Like you just
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: relinquishing your power. Right away when you fuck too quick.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: What the fuck?
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: You are. I feel like men be like.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: What's the quickest you ever gave some pussy up?
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: About 15 minutes. Like, I'm joking.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: But goddamn, did you even get the nigga now? I'm joking.
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: I'm joking.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I've gone out on a date and ended in sex.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Especially in my 20s, but not now. It won't because
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I just need to know a man. Everybody that I'm
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: seeing right now is a potential husband. That's how I feel.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: Fucking right away is just relinquishing my power. Oftentimes, you
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: might fuck somebody really quickly and then find out you
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: don't even like them as a person later. so I
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: just wait at this point yeah but you done waited
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: and now you done fell in love with whack dick
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: like the relationship ain't gonna work if that dick whack
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: so I'm not saying wait 90 days you know wild
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: shit like that whenever it's comfortable cause in between dating
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: y'all should be having conversations right so even if I
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: agree to go on a date with a guy we
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: have had conversation in between time at least now remember
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I told y'all a couple weeks ago I went out
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: with a nigga and he straight up was like just
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: let me know if I got a chance to fuck
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: the night or not and like once I said no
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: the fucking date was over with but we hadn't really
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: had any conversations in between which made it even more
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: wild like you would even ask me about some pussy
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: nigga I don't even know you for real at least
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: when you do go on a first or second date
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: y'all would have had some conversations in between so you
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: might be anticipating a date like y'all might be It's
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: exciting to get new dick. I feel like if you
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: like a guy, even his bad dick is good. You
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: don't feel like that? Until you hate that nigga. That's
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: when it start being bad. But if you really like
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: in tune with him as a person, the sex be
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: good because of who it is, not because of his parts.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's typical when you don't have a
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: connection at all. Then it's just about the dick, you know?
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: That's the first time I ever heard some shit like that.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I was in love with some trash dick. I loved
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: that trash dick down. Loved him down, okay? And a
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: trash dick cheated.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: I heard women have been married for 20 years. Huh?
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: I heard women have been married for 20 years and
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: they still say their husband wack. So that just means
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: you probably ain't really had no good dick for real.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Right. She probably with him since high school. She ain't
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: know what dick's supposed to be. But let me tell y'all,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: them bitches be fucking on vacation now.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: Them bitches who been married since they was 20, they
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: going on them all-girl vacations with they homegirls, they definitely
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: the main ones getting dick down. So she know what
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: good dick is. And it ain't at home, so she
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: can't wait for the next trip.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: Girl, we going to Canterbury in January. We're off with
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: her AKA friends.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: I don't do that.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: Them bitches don't come for us. We just joking. I
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: did not understand why DJ Envy White went out of
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: town for a whole month. I said, boy, she would
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: have next.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: She in a whole other country with somebody.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: No.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: A whole month.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: We is not putting that out there on We Talk.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: This is a holistic retreat.
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: Hey, I know them y'all friends, though. I'm sorry. I'm
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: just being, I'm just doing me. I'm sorry.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know nothing. Listen, whatever people do, they do.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: So if you went out with a woman, y'all had
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: a good time, y'all went to dinner, then y'all went
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: to a bar, music was flowing, y'all drinking, and then
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: it turns into sex, you could potentially make her your girl?
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Or does it fizzle out?
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: Nah, if the connection is there, it's nothing else. No
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: love lost. I feel like, honestly, in my past, if
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: somebody gave it to me too soon, I'm such an
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: arrogant-ass nigga. I'd be like, nah, it's me. She really
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: ain't like that. She just wanted to give it to
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: me like that. You feel me? And I don't make
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: myself believe that because I don't want to judge her.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? That's just what it is.
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: And in my mind, too, you got about two weeks
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: to give it to me before I give up.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Two weeks, that's it? Goddamn.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: Damn. Because then my ego is going to be shot.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: I'll be like, damn, how many niggas she probably fucked
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: on the first day, first week, and she ain't give
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: me weight longer than two. So then I'm really like, damn,
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: you giving them niggas more than what you giving me.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: That's not crazy at all.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: Is that bad?
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: Or is that just me?
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Yes, what if you meet a woman who's got a
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: vow with God, like, Lord, I'm waiting for my husband,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: and I really want to make something real happen, and
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get to know everybody and be intentional,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: and then you only give the little bit you got,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: about 48 more hours to give me this pussy, and
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: then I'm out.
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: I'm going to be honest with you. Be intentional... On
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: this dick, too. I'm with all that God stuff, too.
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: But be real intentional. Don't make me wait. You ain't
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: make them other niggas wait.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: How you know?
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: You don't know what she did.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying. You trying to take the pussy off
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: the market and you 32. Girl, stop. Them niggas that
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: been in the past ain't finna have nothing over my head.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: That's just me, though. I feel like anything a woman
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: has given a man, you got to give me times 10. Like,
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. That's just how... If I'm going to take
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: you serious, like, if you fucked him on the first week,
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: you got about three days. If you gave him one.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: How would you even know? How would you even know that?
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: There's no, like... They're not walking around with whole.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: Let me check your whole text.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Let me get that dick fact.
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: Right. I ask those questions. I'm a very open-minded person.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: I'm going to ask those questions. How many men you
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: been with? How many times y'all did this? How long
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: you made him wait? I'm going to ask those type
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: of questions. It may be a little manipulation plot to
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: where I'm just trying to get the information to use
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: it for my own gain. Period.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: I'm lying.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Everybody's lying.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Look, y'all, you know I suggest lying on We Talk Back. Listen, ladies,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: don't tell these niggas the truth about shit, bitch. Your
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: baby daddy ain't in your life, ain't in your kid's life.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: That nigga is dead, bitch. Do not tell that man.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Do not tell this new man that your baby daddy
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: just a fuck-ass nigga because you just out here letting
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: bum-ass niggas come at you.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: So just tell him that nigga's dead. He in the
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Air Force.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: Don't tell me he dead. Or tell him he in jail.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: Don't say he dead. That's even worse. And the new
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: boyfriend get beat up by the baby daddy. Don't say
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: he dead.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: If he's not in the child's life at all.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: It's a zombie at the door, baby. This nigga is
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: the walking dead.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: Oh, my God. He just popped up, like, out of
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: the grave. That ain't even going to make sense. Y'all
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: don't think y'all lies through.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: That ain't me. That's my twin.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: Y'all remember that?
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, cheaters. That ain't me. That's my twin.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: Boy, that's not a good lie. Women, do not listen
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: to that at all, please.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: No, I'm with you on that, Brian. Do not say that.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Just tell the truth. I'm a firm believer in telling
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: the truth on that one. That lie is going to
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: come back to haunt you. That lie is going to
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: come back to haunt you. Them kids ain't going nowhere.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: That man going to eventually decide he might want to
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: be a good dad one day. And now here go
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: this nigga like, I thought he was dead.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: I thought you was dead. I'm over here being stepdaddy
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: of the year. I'm over here buying sneakers and PS5.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: But a widow is better than a baby mama. A
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: widow is better than a baby mama. That's all I'm saying.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Perception is key. Tammy, you ever fucked on the first night?
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: You ever fucked on the first night, Tammy?
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: You just gonna ask me that in front of everybody?
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: And then you know the nigga in the house that
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: she just got done arguing with? Ain't nobody here.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: That was DoorDash, baby. That was making too much noise.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, get out. Drop the shit off and go.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: Have I ever had sex on the first night? Yeah,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I did. Like I said, in my 20s. I definitely
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: popped my pussy for a real nigga back then. But
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: now I won't. I don't care how much fun we having.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not giving you no coochie right away. Besides, I
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: don't want your penis that quick either because I might
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: get bored real quick. Like, oh, that was fun.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: Go.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: You know, so I just want to wait. I just
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: want to feel everything out. Slow and steady. I don't
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: want no instant dick.
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: And it's important to make men wait, man. Sometimes niggas
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: will talk themselves out the pussy. Make them wait long
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: enough and you realize why you ain't gave him the
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: pussy yet. This is for the young girls. Okay, so we,
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: you know, live vicariously through us. We pop that pussy
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: young and now you know why it's more important to wait.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: So this clown can show up. Because you meeting this
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: nigga representative until he get that pussy.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: For sure. Nigga turn into a.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: Whole monster next day. Let me tell you.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: A good way to get some pussy from me is
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: tell some jokes. You would laugh at me if I
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: laughed right out of my drawers.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: Laugh the drawers off.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like. But not right away.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: And these girls, I'm from South Carolina for real. Born
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: and raised in Columbia, South Carolina. I know these type
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: of women. Like, I know how to finesse in South Carolina.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: And girls at Benedict, Uh-uh, don't do that. What?
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: Pull up in the box Chevy with the 26s on it,
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: and it's done. So I already know what's going on.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I definitely had a nigga.
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: I used to run in the streets back in the day.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: I definitely had a nigga with a Crown Vic and
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: 26 inches, okay? Come on, come on.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: And you know what song was that at the time?
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: I'ma call you my shorty. Girl, you could not tell
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: me I wasn't as big a shorty.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Where he at now?
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: Come on, man.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: Where he at? Still in Columbia, bitch. Still with the
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: baby mama. That's who the fuck I was talking to
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: this morning.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: Talk about he didn't want no bitch.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: Ask him to pull that dick out. All right. So,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Von Ray, do you have any advice for for the
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: ladies with their box in dating?
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: Yes. Make sure it's clean. It smells good. It's always
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: good to use no scented soap.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: No, nigga. We don't want that advice. Miss me with that.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: Do you not want my advice or not? Hold on.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: Actually, men need to stop using scented soap on their
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: dicks because they're the ones who are causing women to
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: get all type of coochie issues.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: We don't need no hygiene advice from your ass.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: I'm talking about.
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: You asked for my advice. You can't judge on what
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you. You just got to receive it.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: No, I'm not receiving that shit.
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: It's crazy when a hit dog holler.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. What you trying to say?
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: My coochie state?
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: I know you ain't saying that.
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: When somebody gets to talk about hygiene, you say.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: Hold up, you don't want that. We know how to
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: take care of our bodies.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying is advice for women sharing their body
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: with men.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: Vine, right? Share it who you want to share with.
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: You should have been more specific because I was going
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: to get to all of that and I was going
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: to round it out. But share it who you want
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: to share it with. If you want to be outside,
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: be outside. If you want to be inside, be inside.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: But when you're inside, know it's lonely in there. It
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: get real lonely and cold.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: I be inside, outside. I be outside, inside.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: One foot out, one foot in, one foot out. But
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: I just feel like it's no such thing as a whole.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: I feel like you can't judge somebody people gonna be
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: the way they are sooner or later she gonna be
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: somebody's husband and the hoes get whiter quicker that's all
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: I got to say cause they know how to be
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: a hoe for they man hoes be cooking too.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: That too y'all I don't know about this advice this
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: time y'all.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: I'm just being real I'm just being real man.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: Do with it what you will ladies You know, I
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: don't give advice to be a hoe, but Von Ray
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: says be a hoe for your man.
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: I didn't say that. I didn't say that. I said
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: be a hoe for your man. I feel like we're
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: in a new age where people, men and women, we
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: have to be sexually liberated, man. We got to understand
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: what we like, what we want, and how we want it.
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: And when you get to that point, you will enjoy
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: sex a lot better. You enjoy your life a lot better.
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: You won't feel in a box. And you can do
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: what you want to do and not feel like you
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: ain't being judged.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: There's consequences, though, to doing what you want to do.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: There's illegitimate children.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: That's not true.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: There's STDs. There's all type of shit. All kind of diseases.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: And if you want a man... What I want Vaughn
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: to say is if you want a man to take
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: you serious for real, you can't pop that... Listen, as
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: much as you want to pop that pussy on the
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: first night, you got to have some self-control.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: A little bit, ladies.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: At least to the second or third date. That's not true, though.
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: That's not true.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: It's a shot in the dark. It's a shot in
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: the dark with men. Because the minute a man comes,
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: he comes to his senses. Testosterone is down now. He
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: might look at you and not fucking like you no more.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: You could have gave him the best pussy ever. Like
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: you thought anyway.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: Maybe the pussy don't even match. And this man is
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: totally different the next day with you. You risk that.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you, I like this. a lot
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: of women think pussy is good and it don't be
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: that I'ma be honest with you whether you think your
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: pussy good whatever it is if he gonna rock with
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: you he gonna rock with you whether you get it
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: on the third month or the first night or 90
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: days or if you make it wait a year.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: You won't know that on day one it's always a
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: risk but.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: You gonna be out here fucking 30 niggas 40 niggas
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: trying to figure that out that's what I'm saying so.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: But you don't have to do that. But what I'm
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: saying is if you make me wait 90 days, I
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: may go to the 90 days. But at that point,
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: I'm so aggravated with you. I'm going to fucking still
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: leave your ass for making me wait that long.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: We was talking about that.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: You got to understand. I know.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: We said that. There's some resentment. Like women, we are
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: damned if we do or damned if we don't.
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: At that point, it's a whole hate fuck. Like, you
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: ever took a girl, a man ever took you back
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: and he really was just hate fucking you because he
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: really don't fuck with you like that no more, but
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: he took you back just to hit and then diss
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: you out again? Like, don't make a nigga wait, wait
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: that long. Like, if he gonna fuck with you on
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: the first night of 90 days, that mean he just
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: fuck with you. You a nice girl. He see potential
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: in you. The sex shit matter.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: That hate fuck is crazy.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: That shit is wild.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I've never heard that term before and it just really....
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: So you telling me you never broke up with a
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: dude or did a dude wrong or y'all was mad
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: at each other. Y'all broke up for a long period
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: of time. He saw you outside on Instagram or Facebook
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: popping your shit with another nigga. Then that didn't work out.
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: Then you try to double back because you see the
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: grass ain't green on the other side. Then he just
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: smashed and really still don't want to fuck with you
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: no more. That's called a hateful.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: No, I ain't never had no shit like that happen.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: That is crazy. He be hate dead playing.
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: With me like that. Yeah, he gonna do just enough
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: to smash and he gonna put you right back outside.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Ladies, that's why I said keep your vagina to yourself
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: as long as you can. They don't know how to
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: treat you. A hate fuck is wild. There's even a
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: term for that.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: That's that nigga term. I don't think niggas calling it
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: a hate fuck. They just smash and dash for sure though.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: But a hate fuck is... Do you really hate the
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: bitch that bad?
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: You want to make her feel like shit?
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: You don't really hate her. It's just like some women
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: think they can Like, when women go and see it,
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: they think the grass green all over the side. They
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: think they can come back in and think they're going
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: to have the same position as when they left. That's
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: what that really means. Like, oh, you went outside, saw
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: that these niggas really ain't shit, and I'm really the
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: nigga for you, and you think you're going to come
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: back in the same position? Hell nah. We're going to
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: send you right back outside after we get done, and
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: then you be on about your way. That's how niggas
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: is for real. I'm just being honest.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: That's why I got a gun. I ain't playing with
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: y'all no more. Don't play with me like that.
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: But, nah, man, that first day, second day, first week,
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: third week, man, that shit don't matter. He like you.
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: He don't like you whether you give it to him whenever.
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: It don't matter. And if it's good, like you think
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: it's good, he don't recognize that. And he don't see
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: all the other attributes you bring to the table as well.
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: That's why I say... In this new age, people have
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: to be sexually liberated. They have to embrace who they are,
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: embrace what it is. You're going to make some mistakes
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: along the line. You're going to make a lot of
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: mistakes with niggas that you shouldn't have probably gave it to.
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: But you made all those mistakes to understand what not
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: to do and what to do in the next go around.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: And when you really find the guy you like.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: From my experience, what keeps a man around, the same
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: way women cherish their vagina and their bodies, I mean, men.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: Cherish their wallets in the same way.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: So in order to keep a man around, he has
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: to have made some type of investment in you.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: Amen. That's honestly what it is, right?
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: So that's why, no, I'm not going to Olive Garden.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? The man has to feel
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: like he has to get a return on that investment
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: at some point. So he's not going to be as
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: quick to leave you. Ask for money on the first date, ladies. No,
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: don't do that either.
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: You're asking for pussy.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: So let's go ahead and make the shit awkward on
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: both ends.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: If a man comes at you like.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: That, ask for money. But then that's prostitution.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: It's not prostitution.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: How is that prostitution? If you asking for money in
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: exchange for your body, it's prostitution.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, how about you just pull up the phone and
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: go to those red bottoms you've been wanting, some boot
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: you've been wanting, and show him and see what happens.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: Maybe he'll give you his debit card and let you
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: go ahead and order.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Okay? Maybe if you don't want cash and palm.
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: AJ, that mindset is why women got this list out,
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: and they say they won't go to Ruby Tuesdays, they
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: won't go to Olive Garden, and then wonder why a
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: nigga want to fuck after he take you to the
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: steakhouse and spend $ 300, $ 400, and he won't pussy that night.
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: No, I'm going to tell you why, because men want
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: whole prostitute-type behavior out of regular women.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: Instead of going to spend.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: $ 300 on a bitch.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Who literally sells pussy. Y'all rather try.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: To finesse regular women out of pussy and then treat
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: them some type of way if they do happen to
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: like you enough to.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: Give you the pussy.
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: That's the problem. Go ahead and paint up front with
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: some pussy as opposed to trying to finesse regular women
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: and have them doing prostitute shit.
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: I'm going to be honest. Paying $ 300 for a dinner
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: is not finessing pussy. If I'm paying $ 300 for a dinner,
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: I'm not finessing you for no pussy. You should want
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: to give me that. How?
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: We eat $ 300 worth of food with our homegirls.
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: That's not a flex. It's not. If you pay for a.
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: Dinner that's $ 300, I should want to have sex with you?
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: It's crazy.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: What I'm saying, if you're just meeting a guy, you
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: should not expect him to take you to the most
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: extravagant restaurant if y'all just trying to get to know
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: each other. Because then it's like, what are we really
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: here for? Are we here to run up my walkie-talkie?
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: The nigga who asked me to fuck took me to
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: Cheesecake Factory. I am a woman who likes the Cheesecake Factory.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: I even suggested it. But the nerve of you to think,
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: I go to Cheesecake Factory multiple times a week and
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: sit at the bar during happy hours. I love the
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Mai Tai.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: And crab wontons.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: But you asking me about some pussy after you take
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: me to Cheesecake Factory is fucking wild to me.
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he out of pocket for that. But he ain't
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: spending $ 300 at the Cheesecake Factory. We talking about the place.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: It don't matter where these niggas spending the money at.
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: They still trying to fuck.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: They still trying to fuck no matter where they spending
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: the money at. They still think you supposed to pay
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: for dinner and pussy.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: You can't put a monetary value on my body. I
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: feel like, when I talk to men, I tell them,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: make me feel special. Make me feel special. It does
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: not have a dollar amount on it. When you think
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: of it that way, it becomes too transactional. I don't
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: like it like that. like just make me feel special
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: and if you go out your way to make me
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: feel special then eventually you will get some eventually and
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: that's that's the bottom line once you start talking about
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: oh I spent this much or I spent this little
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: it's just too prostituting.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: Prostituting women made it that way though women women made.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: It that way to their men I don't think so.
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, women made it that way to where men, all
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: we're thinking is about money because all y'all care about
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: is what a nigga spend, where he taking you. Before,
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: people used to have dates walking through the park just
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: to get to know each other. Now, we got to
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: do the most to even get you to like us
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: for us to be a potential.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's not true. That's not true.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: This is why men should go on dates with women
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: who actually are showing interest in them. The problem is
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: a lot of men who have a couple dollars, they
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: might go on five different dates because they're going to
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: eat anyway. So you got five different women you taking out.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: It gets expensive to date.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: Why don't you date people who actually like you and
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: stop dating for the end goal to be pussy? Date
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: women who actually just already want to give you the
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: pussy because they like who you are. You add in money,
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: for instance, swag, because you don't have any. You can't
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: get the pussy without the bag.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: So now that's a whole nother topic of discussion. And
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: then another thing.
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: I can agree with that.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Men don't want to be creative no more. They just
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: want to take you to a restaurant. Use your brain.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Taking a girl on a picnic and actually planning a
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: picnic and making it nice and cute. A woman would
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: love that. I would love that. Would you not, AJ? Yes, absolutely. Absolutely.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Men don't try. There's no effort. We just going to
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: go to this restaurant. Bitch, I spent $ 300 on that steak. Like,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: now I owe you pussy. It's crazy. Here go the
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: money back, sir. Right. Because I come here and eat
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: here by myself.
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: So.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: I ain't got.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think.
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: Y'all just got to take that tape. A lot of
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: men don't have it to where they can take you
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: to these expensive, extravagant restaurants like that. You got to
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: be understanding, like, women are winning more in the money
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: aspect of life right now. A lot of black women
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: and women, period. Y'all are winning in having money and
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: having successful businesses and being more successful than black men
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: and men, period. So it's like the average guy that
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: you or regular women may run into, because they are
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: going to meet a woman that probably got more than them.
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: The girls that we see on Instagram and all that,
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: they probably already chasing after ballplayers and all these other guys.
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: that they not even making a time for a regular guy.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: Know your holler level. Know your holler level.
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: Because there's regular women out here who's okay with the
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: places you like to frequent and the places you can afford, right?
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: But men are way more shallow than women. Men won't
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: attend when there are two. Y'all want to talk about
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: numbers and rating women. Men literally are way more shallow.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: You do not see.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: fine ass dudes with basic bitches okay you always catch
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: the basic nigga with a fine ass woman right cause
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: he got the money so it's just the exchange right
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: if you cannot stop going after women you can't afford
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: and then trying to make them come down to where
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: you are that's fucked up you wouldn't want that for
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: your daughter your daughter can't bring that nigga to your
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: house let's be very clear.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: That you gotta give her money and take.
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: Him out I'm trying to impress her He always trying
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: to impress this chick that he know way out his league.
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: Yes, leave her alone.
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: I can get with that.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: And stop trying to make the women feel like we
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: doing too much. Leave her alone. I don't agree with
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: that all the way. Because a man can have potential
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: and grow into something amazing, right? He can meet her
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: at one place. As long as he got a plan
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: and he got something that he can build, I don't
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: see nothing wrong with reaching for the prize which a
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: woman had a plan.
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: Every man I've ever been with had a fucking plan.
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: I am talking about the high maintenance women that these
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: men are on the internet Complaining about. Why are you
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: complaining about them when there's a lot of regular ass women, right,
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: who are more on your level that you can go
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: and build with? But y'all are complaining about the women.
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: You want them to bring the standards down so you
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: can have more access to pussy. That is not how
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: that works.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: And I also feel like the men that's speaking is
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: really the men that was cornballs growing up and now
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: they got money and now they got a voice. Mm-hmm.
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: So it's like, yeah, they got a voice and like
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: you said, a mic, but growing up, they was corny. They,
• 53:45
  Speaker 3: they worked so hard to be somebody. So now that
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: they got it, they thinking data is when it's really
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: not that like for real, for real. Like, and I,
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: and I get what you're saying. They chasing something that
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: they really are still out. They leave. Cause when, when
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: a girl, pull up with you at the dinner with
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: the homegirls, and they looking for you to pay, and
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: all of them girls looking like, man, this nigga ugly
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: as hell, but he got the bag. I get it,
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: because I see it all the time. I've never been
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: no tricking dude. I've never paid for no homegirls. I've
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: never done that. I'm not that. Like, I done been
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: places where if y'all thinking I paid, I had already
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: paid for me and who the chick I'm with. And
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: by the time y'all tab come, y'all looking at me like, no,
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: he got it. No, we already paid, baby. I ain't
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: know what y'all got going on over there. I ain't
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: know that. Matter of fact, I'll pay and be like, hey,
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: let's go, baby. We ride. Let's get it. So by
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: the time that he... They figure out what they got
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: going on. I'm not no tricky dude. I'm not doing that.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: And please believe she done pre-warned her homegirls. Look, that
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: nigga ain't with that shit.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: He's not with the people.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: Y'all bitches got y'all fucking money. We know who gonna
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: pay for what. We know which niggas who coming to
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: pay for all the shit.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: Right. And who ain't. Girl, bring money.
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: I tell you, I'm the nigga that if I ever pay,
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: I'm looking for everybody. I want something from everybody.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: I'm leaving here with something. I'm leaving here with something.
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: Give me a kiss. Give me a hug. I need something.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: I'm smacking everybody's ass on the way out the door.
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: Bop. Bop.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: Bop.
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: I need something. I need something.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: Shit.
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: Who fucking the name?
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: Who fucking the name? That's how he at the damn
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: door of the restaurant. Shame. For real.
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: Did I buy you two drinks? Uh-uh. Where you going?
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: You riding with us? I'm not that nigga.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: And that just comes from my core. Like, I never
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: grew up having problems getting women. I never was the
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: guy that wasn't cool. So it's like I see the
• 55:48
  Speaker 3: difference when I say this on my podcast a lot. Like,
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: me and some niggas are not the same. Like, even
• 55:54
  Speaker 3: though this industry thrives with a lot of people that
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: probably wasn't, they grew up a different way and probably
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: picked on, probably had a hard time getting girls, didn't
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: have many friends, and now they somebody, it be like, bruh,
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: the way you think and I think is different. Like,
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: it's totally different. A lot of these niggas be pussy
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: hungry at this point in their life because they just
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: not coming into something.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: They just now getting pussy.
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I chill. I don't need all that.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: If I already said, man, I been getting pussy, baby,
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: don't play with me. We gonna find out.
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: Y'all, we're going to find out right after this break.
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: We're going to get a simp story out of Von
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: Ray when we come back.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: Stay tuned. The big dick bandit, y'all. Simp story coming
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: right up.
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: Boy, there's no real easy way to say this, but look,
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: you're a simp.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: Alright, man, listen. So, you know, you've probably listened to
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: this show, okay?
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: Hopefully.
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: We have a segment on the show called Dumb bitch stories.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: All serious for the guys. I know you just pimp.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: Tell us about a time you got played, though. Never
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: got played by no woman. You know what I mean, boy.
• 57:09
  Speaker 3: No, for sure. I done got played by plenty of women.
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: Y'all might know who I'm talking about when I say this, right?
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: So I was dating this chick, right? And This was
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: the first time I never really thought women had the
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: capability of starting an argument just so y'all could break up.
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: And then you catch her out. She on front row
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: seats with a rapper. And I'm like, we on Instagram vibing,
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: all of that at this time. Everybody noticed my girl.
• 57:44
  Speaker 3: People DMing me, such and such at the game, such
• 57:47
  Speaker 3: and such. And I'm like, and I'm blowing her phone up.
• 57:51
  Speaker 3: ain't answering, going straight to voicemail. I'm like, god damn,
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: she started, she did all of that so I could say,
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: you know what, I ain't gonna fuck with you no more.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: Fuck it.
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: But me, being in my ego, I'm thinking like, you know,
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: she gonna call me tomorrow, we gonna be good. Man,
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: this girl did all that just to go to a
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: game with a rapper. Blew my mind. I said, yeah, when?
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: She called the next day after she got smashed and
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: tried to come back.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: Did you?
• 58:16
  Speaker 3: Because he smashed and then he was like, yeah, I'm
• 58:18
  Speaker 3: going back to L.A. So, you know, we had fun, da-da-da-da.
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: Nigga went on his way. She tried to come back.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: And did you hate fuck her?
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: Come on. I already told you the game. Of course.
• 58:31
  Speaker 3: Sent her on her way after that. See, that's where.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: The hate fuck derived. That was your villain origin story
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: right there.
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: I understand.
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: I invented that then because I've Because it was such
• 58:44
  Speaker 3: a good timeline. It was like, she went to the game.
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: She got smashed. The next day, she tried to come back.
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: Then I smashed. Then I sent her on her way.
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: Then she felt horrible. Like, I'm making so many bad decisions.
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: This is crazy. I'm like, yeah. Yeah, man. Yeah, this
• 58:56
  Speaker 3: ain't on her way.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: That's definitely pussy mismanagement.
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: You fuck two niggas in a week and end up
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: with no niggas? That math ain't nothing, baby. And just
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: some tickets to the game?
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: That math ain't nothing.
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: That math is not nothing. You got another one?
• 59:10
  Speaker 3: And that's why I say it'd be so diabolical when women,
• 59:14
  Speaker 3: when y'all be ready to do something because y'all think
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: the grass green on the other side, y'all be planning
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: your whole life with this new nigga. Y'all be like, oh,
• 59:20
  Speaker 3: this is going to be my man. We're going to
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: take trips. He got money. We're going to be doing this, that.
• 59:24
  Speaker 3: Y'all be planning your whole life with a new nigga.
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: So y'all are trying to say oh this ain't working
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: out we ain't got this going on don't even know
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: like niggas still out here running games he said just
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: enough to get you to do this this and this
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: and wasn't that gonna come about.
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: Nah before that nigga even came about she was already
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: wanting to leave your ass honestly well I'm just speaking
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: for myself you can't get me off a man unless
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: I'm ready to get off of him period okay and
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: usually if I entertain somebody else I've been looking for
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: your replacement yeah the mind lead first with women then
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: the pussy.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: I agree with that.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: You might be right.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: Were you being faithful to this woman? Hell no.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: At the time?
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: That one month?
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: I'm going to be honest. That probably was my karma, man.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? That's why I say anytime
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: something like that happened to me, it's probably not what
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: I did in the moment. It's probably something I did
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 3: in the past to somebody else. You feel what I'm saying?
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: It be karma.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: Just be karma, man. I didn't even call the girl...
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  Speaker 3: I done caught a girl in the act with one
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  Speaker 3: of my partners, and I couldn't do nothing but just
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  Speaker 3: go in the room, put my head in the pillow,
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: and cry. What? That's all I could do.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's sad.
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  Speaker 3: So hurt. It was college days.
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  Speaker 1: That was your girl, though?
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  Speaker 3: I thought it was. Shit, I thought I was in love.
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  Speaker 3: That was straight out of high school. You think you
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  Speaker 3: so in love with somebody, this the first time you
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  Speaker 3: outside of your company was on with your parents, and
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  Speaker 3: you done met the baddest chick on campus, and you
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  Speaker 3: just like, man, I... man, I love this girl. You
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  Speaker 3: think you can marry her and be with her for
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  Speaker 3: the rest of your life, man? Came in our little apartment, man,
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  Speaker 3: heard some hollering. I'm like, oh yeah, he up there
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  Speaker 3: doing his thing. I walked in the room. I said,
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  Speaker 3: could we share the room? You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: You in college. I said, hold up. I done flipped
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  Speaker 3: the lights on. I'm over there flipping over dresses and
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  Speaker 3: lamps and all type of shit about to try to fight.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's your home.
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  Speaker 3: That was your homeboy.
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  Speaker 1: He knew that was your girl. He didn't care.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he knew, but this is the thing. Back then,
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  Speaker 3: you know, when you homies, like, you're just like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: she going, she going. You can't be mad at me.
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  Speaker 3: And I wasn't mad at him. I was just hurt.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 1: Damn, that's how y'all operate. That's how men operate. If
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: she going, she going.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that South Carolina shit.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: No, that's the biggest around the world. Your homeboy tried me.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 3: I'm going to stop talking to your ass.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because what are you saying about me then? Right,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: to make him feel like that's okay.
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  Speaker 3: So y'all gonna sit here and act like y'all ain't
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 3: never smashed somebody's homeboy before.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: I didn't know they was friends, okay? Exactly.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 3: So stop. Let's keep it real on this podcast today.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: Y'all may do all that other bullshit with everybody else,
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 3: but let's be real.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: Y'all didn't smash somebody's homeboy. Not knowing they were homeboys.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: Hell no.
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  Speaker 2: And half the time, niggas always trying to call somebody
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: their homeboy once they find out you fucking with that person. Like, nigga,
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: what's his mama name? What's his new phone number? You
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: don't even know this nigga no more. This is not
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: your friend. You're just saying that to try to make
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: me feel.
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  Speaker 3: Like a fucked up person. This ain't your cousin. It's
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: a different level of what men say friends is and
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: how y'all women think friends is. I may know the nigga,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: and every time we see each other, it's like, what's up,
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: my nigga? That's considered friends to us. Y'all think y'all
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: gotta be friends with y'all hanging out and going out
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: every day, but that's what I'm saying.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: Men think about it differently.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: Y'all think about it differently when it comes to women.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: Y'all don't think about this nigga no other time. And
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: so he fucking on something that you had.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 3: Right. That's crazy.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 3: But what about you, Tammy? Who homeboy you done smashed?
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: I did. I did.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 2: Well, let me. Listen.
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  Speaker 1: This was at Benedict. This was at Benedict. And they
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: wasn't homeboys. I was dealing with one of them. And
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: then I dealt with the other one. And then they
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: became friends. I walked in Denny's. They were sitting at
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: a table together. I was like, oh, I ain't even
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: hungry no more. Oh, my God.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: They was comparing your pussy with each other. They was like, yeah,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: I hear you like this.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: I'm sure they did. I'm sure they did. We was young.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: I'm sure they did compare. And they was like, I
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: want that back. Both of them was probably like that.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 3: I'm sure. I am. That's crazy.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: But that wasn't friends when it happened. Neither one of
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: them were friends when I was dealing with either one
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: of them. Honestly, they became friends later in life. And
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: that's just a bad look for me.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 3: You ain't smash both of them after that? No. No.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 3: It was over. You just cut them both off?
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: We were in college. It was young. It didn't have
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: any substance. It was just, you know. What about you, AJ?
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 4: AJ?
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  Speaker 2: No, that's why I said cousins, because my my ex
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: swears up and down. First of all, I knew his
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: cousin way 10 years prior to knowing him.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: And when I met him, I was asking my ex,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: the cousin, if he knew this guy.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: Because I'm trying to get this scoop on him.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: I'm far moved. We not fucking, we ain't have sex
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: in years. I met this new guy.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: I'm asking the old nigga, like, like we friends like that.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: I'm asking him about this nigga.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: So the old nigga knew the whole time that I'm
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: with this person now. Right.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: This nigga goes to my motherfucking Facebook page back to 2009.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: I didn't meet this motherfucker until 2016. Why the hell
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: you in my shit? All the way back to 2009.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: And he saw like, uh, uh, this bitch was stalking
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: me on the, on Facebook. about the other nigga. Like
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 2: she was stalking me at the time. So he saw
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: like the arguments between me and the girl, what led him,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: you know, to know that.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: I was fucking my cousin.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, nigga, that is not your cousin. What
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: is his mama name? What's his siblings name? You don't
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: even know that nigga like that no more.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: So I don't consider, no.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: I ain't never fucked nobody's homeboy.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: Them niggas is not blood.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: And furthermore, That family done fucked on both sides multiple times.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: Everybody related on both sides of the family anyway.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: Look, Charleston, Columbia is small. What can you do?
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: My bad. Nigga, I didn't know you existed until now.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 3: Sorry. You right about that. Columbia is small. You from
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: Columbia town? Mm-hmm.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Born and raised.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 3: What high school you went to?
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: AC Florida.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to just bring it out.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Oh, sorry to hear that.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: That's crazy. Alright, y'all.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: Look, if you're fucking on a first date, wrap it up.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: Have fun. Keep your regrets to a minimum. Fire these
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: niggas when they ain't acting right. Okay, and the men.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: Fire the bitches. Whatever y'all want to do. Just be safe.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: You don't want to get 40 years old and be
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: trying to subtract dicks.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: This one don't count. If I didn't come, it don't count.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: You don't want to be having to do these things, right?
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: So have some discernment with your pussy. That's all I
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: got to say. You got some advice for these women
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 2: and these young men, Tam?
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, don't listen to nothing Von said on this show, y'all.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: Don't listen to none of that shit. That is my advice.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: We're glad y'all listened to all of this, but just
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: let it go, okay? As soon as it's over, just
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: let that shit go, okay?
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 3: Listen, fly like a bird. Be sexually liberated. Love yourself.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 3: Respect yourself. And just do what you want to do, ladies.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to judge you. A man shouldn't judge
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 3: you if you want to give it up or however
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 3: you want to give it up. I feel like nobody
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 3: should be judged. That's all I'm saying. But y'all follow me, man.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 3: I'm set to record straight podcasts on all platforms. Yes.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: You were a great guest. This was fun.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: Listen, if you enjoy this content, okay oh bitch uh
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: tammy we got live uh um.
• 1:07:48
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• 1:07:50
  Speaker 4: Oh we live okay yeah y'all go buy the website
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• 1:07:58
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• 1:08:03
  Speaker 4: y'all thank y'all for tuning in much gratitude this.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 2: Is your co-host aj holiday kick it tam.
• 1:08:10
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• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: I love y'all. Remember, speak now and never hold your peace.