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Gabe's Circle of H*LL · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: I know that this is not real torture. Okay, anybody
• 0:06
  Speaker 1: who's really been tortured would scoff at the thought of this.
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: But what is something that you know isn't actually torture?
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: But for you, it is torturous? Seven oh one two
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: eight zero one eight seven, Angie, When I sadly leave
• 0:22
  Speaker 1: this earth and make my trip down to purgatory, do
• 0:24
  Speaker 1: you know what? Do you know what day I will
• 0:27
  Speaker 1: repeat for all of time? What when I have to
• 0:32
  Speaker 1: go grocery shopping?
• 0:34
  Speaker 2: That's your torture, that's your circle of hell.
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  Speaker 1: I I mean, I'm I think, I think I'd rather
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: run like a half marathon than go grocery shopping on
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  Speaker 1: some days. I mean I always do, and I always
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  Speaker 1: you know, especially my wife nine months pregnant. She's not
• 0:52
  Speaker 1: gonna go grocery shopping by herself. But the culmination of
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  Speaker 1: these past nine months, well honestly past like little over
• 1:00
  Speaker 1: a year, where I have just became the grocery house
• 1:06
  Speaker 1: you know what? Okay, maybe rhymes with which I every
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  Speaker 1: you know, once a week or every other week, I
• 1:12
  Speaker 1: have to go grab these groceries or do the grocery
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: shopping part. Because in Corey's defense, it is just not
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  Speaker 1: busy in the you know, one two o'clock.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, when you get out of work, it makes more
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  Speaker 3: sense for you to pay.
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  Speaker 1: One thousand because A there's no line and then B,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we have the stuff by the time Corey
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  Speaker 1: would get home, so we can make it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But the culmination of the past year of always having
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  Speaker 1: to get these things by myself, and then having to
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  Speaker 1: bring them all in by myself, and then putting them
• 1:44
  Speaker 1: all away by myself, and inevitably they're not in the
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  Speaker 1: right spot. I try. I try my best, but I
• 1:51
  Speaker 1: there are a lot of worst things I would rather
• 1:54
  Speaker 1: do on a daily basis than go grocery shopping once
• 1:57
  Speaker 1: a week.
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  Speaker 3: As a human, you are definitely not someone who I
• 2:00
  Speaker 3: would consider like a complainer. I'm a complainer, You're not
• 2:04
  Speaker 3: a complainer, and so quite literally, the only thing I
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  Speaker 3: ever hear you gripe about in like a real way
• 2:12
  Speaker 3: is the grocery shopping. You set the alarm on your
• 2:15
  Speaker 3: phone sometimes I gotta do a grocery pick up. You
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  Speaker 3: get so upset that I do understand. While it is
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  Speaker 3: a first world problem, it absolutely is torture for you.
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  Speaker 2: And I feel for you because you're so happy, go lucky.
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  Speaker 3: But the second is I gonna hang up the grocery.
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  Speaker 2: You are miserable.
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  Speaker 1: You have heard me complain about this in the studio,
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  Speaker 1: and you know the worst part is it, I will
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  Speaker 1: never not do it because I have gone with Corey
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  Speaker 1: a five point thirty for whatever reason, I couldn't make
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  Speaker 1: the one o'clock or two o'clock. I've gone with her
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  Speaker 1: a five thirty. It right, And you sit there for
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  Speaker 1: forty minutes or before they can bring them out, or
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  Speaker 1: you walk in and you walk around for an hour.
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  Speaker 1: And I definitely don't want to do that. So it's
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  Speaker 1: really kind of a lose lose lose situation.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'd rather take dead last in a marathon
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  Speaker 1: grocery shop the next time.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I hate.
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  Speaker 1: It, So anyway, I'll be reliving that for the foreseeable
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  Speaker 1: future when my life ends. So what about you? Do
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  Speaker 1: you have a something that's not really torture, but it
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  Speaker 1: might as well be.
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  Speaker 3: I feel bad because I've passed the torture onto my children.
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  Speaker 2: So okay, I got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I like that.
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  Speaker 2: I loathe loathe filling up my water bottle.
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  Speaker 3: I hate it on a level that I can't even describe.
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  Speaker 3: And at work, I have to fill my own honor
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  Speaker 3: bottle because God forbid I ask you to do it. No,
• 3:43
  Speaker 3: I have to fill my own water bottle. And fine,
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  Speaker 3: but at the house, I would rather do dishes for
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  Speaker 3: three hours than fill my water bottle, and so I don't.
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  Speaker 3: That is Aiden's chore is to fill my water bottle.
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  Speaker 3: And when I tell you, he also thinks it's torture.
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  Speaker 1: He hates it.
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  Speaker 2: But I give him. We've figured out a system.
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  Speaker 3: He earns a dollar a day for refilling my water bottle.
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  Speaker 3: At the end of the month, he gets thirty dollars.
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  Speaker 3: At thirty one dollars for filling my water bottle.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's just a job, so at least that, But
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  Speaker 2: it's you couldn't pay me to do it.
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  Speaker 1: What about this water bottle thing and and the ladies.
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  Speaker 1: I don't get it because I feel I'm the water
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  Speaker 1: bottle guy at our house.
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  Speaker 2: Really, yeah, I don't know what it is, but I
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  Speaker 2: hate it. I hate it. Feels like torture.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, my mother, same thing. We're always running to help
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  Speaker 1: ma with the water grab whatever. I don't get it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm torture. I don't know you know what.
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  Speaker 1: Shout out to Aidan though, because Aiden is learning the
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  Speaker 1: value of hard work and waking up every day and
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  Speaker 1: having to go do a job.
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  Speaker 2: You don't like it.
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  Speaker 1: Celebrating life's little victories victory every morning.
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  Speaker 2: We practice creditude on Big ninety eight point seven. If
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  Speaker 2: I could, I would keep this feeling in a basket
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  Speaker 2: joke busted out when it was someone's acting hard. I
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  Speaker 2: just really needed to win, you know, sure your little
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  Speaker 2: victories with us at seven oh one two eight one
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  Speaker 2: eight seven.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Angie, do you have a little victory for
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  Speaker 1: us on this Friday.
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  Speaker 3: I made incredible chorizo burritos for my kiddos yesterday and
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  Speaker 3: they said that I was the goat.
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  Speaker 2: They were great.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, you had a great You had two children call
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  Speaker 1: you the goat.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was something I cooked, Like that's magical. So
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  Speaker 3: I was feeling a real proud of myself. They still
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  Speaker 3: did house an entire pizza from on his sure last night,
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  Speaker 3: because they're not going to turn down pizza. But they
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  Speaker 3: were very satisfied with the burritos, and so for that,
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  Speaker 3: I give myself a pat on the back.
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  Speaker 2: What about you, Gabe, I like that?
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  Speaker 1: Good for you. That's all. You know, you did something right.
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  Speaker 1: My little victory I think just has to be this
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  Speaker 1: upcoming weekend. I got a big family union. Corey side
• 6:01
  Speaker 1: of the family does kind of this camping trip reunion
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  Speaker 1: thing every single year, and we went last year, the
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  Speaker 1: year before. We've been going for years, and this is
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  Speaker 1: literally kind of our one thing, our one little hurrah
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  Speaker 1: this summer because after this we're kind of just on
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  Speaker 1: baby waiting.
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  Speaker 2: Dude.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we you know, don't really have any we know,
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  Speaker 1: if we don't have any plans this summer, I guess
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  Speaker 1: is what I'm saying, other than to take care of
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  Speaker 1: baby ge. So we have kind of our one trip
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  Speaker 1: this weekend, and we're really looking forward to it.
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  Speaker 2: We rented a pop up camper.
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  Speaker 1: My wife nine months pregnant, officially not sleeping in a
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  Speaker 1: ten okay, So we got ourselves a camper to bring
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  Speaker 1: and you know, I picked it up yesterday, brought it
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  Speaker 1: back to the house. All went well, and I'm just
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  Speaker 1: looking forward to it. It should be a lot of fun.
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  Speaker 2: You better post pictures.
• 6:54
  Speaker 1: Today's Variety Big ninety eight point seven. It's Gabe, it's Angie,
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  Speaker 1: and today looks to be pretty nice. We've got sunshine.
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: We've got a high of seventy four. I don't really
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  Speaker 1: know if it gets much better than that to end
• 7:07
  Speaker 1: a work week. And I don't know if you saw
• 7:13
  Speaker 1: this story or came across this story, but it was
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  Speaker 1: just one of those situations where it kind of proves
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  Speaker 1: that that one law where what can go wrong will
• 7:23
  Speaker 1: go wrong. Murph, Yeah, that one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: This this is something that could only happen, honestly, in
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  Speaker 1: like Florida or Louisiana. It is so funny, and I
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  Speaker 1: want you to start thinking right now. Have you ever
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  Speaker 1: been in a situation that was pretty bad and then
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  Speaker 1: you made it worse somehow? Seven oh one two eight
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  Speaker 1: zero one nine eight seven. Now listen to this.
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  Speaker 3: Here.
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  Speaker 1: There was this man in Louisiana who was suspected of
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  Speaker 1: impair driving right off the bat, not great, not very smart.
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  Speaker 1: Step number two, he tried driving to outrun the police,
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  Speaker 1: also not great. Well, then he drove into a swamp. Unfortunately,
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  Speaker 1: the story is crazy. Unfortunately for him, an alligator joined
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  Speaker 1: the pursuit. This man was attacked by an alligator while
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  Speaker 1: running from the police for impaired you know, drunk driving.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, this seems like a cartoon. That's horrible.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like something straight out of the Looney Tunes.
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  Speaker 2: For sure.
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  Speaker 1: The police did end up catching this guy. They actually
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  Speaker 1: used a drone because he was just kind of stuck
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  Speaker 1: in this swamp and they weren't gonna go in there
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  Speaker 1: with alligators or whatever, so they caught him with the
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  Speaker 1: help of a drone. So have you or you know
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  Speaker 1: someone you know ever made a situation that was pretty
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  Speaker 1: bad and you know what, just doubled down and made
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  Speaker 1: it three times worse seven oh one two eight zero
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  Speaker 1: one nine eight seven. A couple of.
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  Speaker 3: Weeks ago, when Mikey and I were in Vegas for
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  Speaker 3: my niece's graduation.
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  Speaker 2: We were running late and this man was.
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  Speaker 3: Speedy and he was going fifty two in a thirty five.
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  Speaker 3: And I do know because I grew up in Vegas.
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  Speaker 3: I know that area of town and it definitely is
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  Speaker 3: a speed trap. But I just wasn't like paying attention.
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  Speaker 3: So we get pulled over and the cop goes, you know,
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  Speaker 3: to the window, and Mikey is thinking, oh, I will
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  Speaker 3: try to get us out of this, and he said, oh, sorry,
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  Speaker 3: we're running late.
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  Speaker 2: We're from out of town, and.
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  Speaker 3: Which is partially true, which is partially true, except for
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  Speaker 3: he said he gives the cop his ID.
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  Speaker 2: Mikey has not changed over his.
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  Speaker 3: ID yet, so he said we're from out of town
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  Speaker 3: in Vegas and gave him a NEV adult license like bro.
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  Speaker 3: That cop just right thought, okay, liar right, And so
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  Speaker 3: sure enough.
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  Speaker 2: We did get a ticket. We didn't get off the hook.
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  Speaker 2: That cop right.
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  Speaker 1: Thought that was a lie, right cause the whole idea
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  Speaker 1: of hey I moved, I just haven't changed my ID. Well,
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  Speaker 1: but you still lived here at one point, Rush, Well,
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  Speaker 1: it just wasn't gonna.
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  Speaker 3: He just accepted the ticket, So we got to figure
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  Speaker 3: that out by August.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he made that.
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  Speaker 1: Worse, Angela, What situation did you make from bad to
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  Speaker 1: just straight up worse?
• 10:09
  Speaker 3: My car started making a weird noise, so I turned
• 10:12
  Speaker 3: the radio up to ignore it, and two weeks later
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  Speaker 3: the mechanic.
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  Speaker 2: Asked, how long has it been making that noise?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: No, you had a horrible car noise. You were jamming
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  Speaker 1: the big ninety eight point seven. You thought, oh, it'll
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  Speaker 1: fix itself, and it ended up not being great. What
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  Speaker 1: about you, Tim What a situation did you make bad
• 10:31
  Speaker 1: to worse?
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: I was cooking dinner and my dishtile, common fire.
• 10:34
  Speaker 3: It took me out my pride, so I threw it
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: and it went in on the stack of newspapers in
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  Speaker 3: my dining room.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, he was to say, the.
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  Speaker 4: Fire got bigger. Luckily I had a fire extinguisher nearby.
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, thankfully everything turned out okay for you. Could you
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  Speaker 1: imagine that though, you're, like, you know, doing the dishes,
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  Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, just a fire starts and
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: you make it worse. I think that might be one
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  Speaker 1: of the scariest things that could ever happen to me.
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  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two, eight zero one seven. Now, Toy
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: Story five is coming out next, I believe, next Friday, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the n nineteenth is the day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Come, we're counting down in my house, that's right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know what's kind of funny. I always laugh whenever
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: they have a new Toy Story movie out and you
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  Speaker 1: have you know, seven, eight six year olds who are
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: all excited to see it, and they don't understand that
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  Speaker 1: millennials have been waiting, been watching and following these stories
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  Speaker 1: for quite literally decades, almost half a century.
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  Speaker 2: Since we were children.
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  Speaker 3: And with Toy Story I always feel like it's every
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  Speaker 3: other one is good, the first one excellent, the second
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  Speaker 3: one trash, third one excellent, fourth one trash, and now
• 11:44
  Speaker 3: the fifth one already looks.
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  Speaker 2: Like it's going to be excellent. So I'm very exciting.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, fifth one will be an absolute banger if the
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  Speaker 1: math maths that's correct. So, in the love of toy
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  Speaker 1: story and just the love of toys, we wanted to
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  Speaker 1: know what is the first toy you were having, whether
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  Speaker 1: maybe you got it for Christmas or you know, any
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  Speaker 1: other holiday, your birthday, something like that, the first toy
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  Speaker 1: you ever remember? Seven oh one two, eight zero one
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  Speaker 1: nine eight seven, Angie, what was your first toy?
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  Speaker 4: Uh?
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  Speaker 3: The one the first one that I remember is from
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  Speaker 3: Christmas when I was three years old and I got
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  Speaker 3: this little, I mean teeny tiny baby doll. And it
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  Speaker 3: was a little bald baby with eyes closed, very much
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  Speaker 3: looked like a new born.
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  Speaker 2: And because my little brother had just.
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  Speaker 3: Been born in July, three days after my birthday, which
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  Speaker 3: I was very mad about at the time. But by
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  Speaker 3: the time Christmas hit and I got this little baby doll,
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  Speaker 3: he reminded me so much of my little brother that
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  Speaker 3: I named him Robert after my brother.
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  Speaker 2: So my very first toy.
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  Speaker 3: That I remember is a little baby well named Robert,
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  Speaker 3: and I.
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  Speaker 2: Still have that thing. I've kept it as an adult, Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Sleep with it or anything, but I've had that baby
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  Speaker 3: doll forever and anytime it was like, oh, we're cleaning
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  Speaker 3: out the shed, we're cleaning out the whatever. Do you
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  Speaker 3: want to get rid of it? Absolutely not. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: getting rid of little baby Robert.
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  Speaker 1: You're just held onto it all these years ago. What
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  Speaker 1: about you? Do you remember the first There are two.
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  Speaker 1: I just can't remember which one I had first. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: but I had this little red plastic like power ranger.
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  Speaker 2: Oh where Yeah, the head would.
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  Speaker 1: Go from where they have the helmet and then you
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  Speaker 1: could like push this button and it would switch to
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  Speaker 1: where it was just the person's regular face.
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  Speaker 2: Right, it was just Jason, yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So it was either that or when I was like
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  Speaker 1: three or four, we woke up on Christmas, I went
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  Speaker 1: downstairs and there was this black and orange bike, this
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  Speaker 1: tiny little bike with training wheels the whole nine yards.
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  Speaker 1: But of course it's December, so I'm like practicing riding
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  Speaker 1: this thing in our basement. We lived in this a
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  Speaker 1: different house at the time, and we had this just big,
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  Speaker 1: like concrete basement.
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  Speaker 2: Basically, oh, okay, so that's not bad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't bad, not enough to really like gig going, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but enough to you know, at least kind of go
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  Speaker 1: around in a circle a little bit. So the first
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  Speaker 1: it was either one of those two things. I still
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  Speaker 1: to this day, remember that bike.
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  Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy?
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  Speaker 4: That?
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  Speaker 3: Then you're going to have a baby really soon here,
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  Speaker 3: and then eventually you'll be able to like ask her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the first toy?
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  Speaker 3: Remember?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yeah, lower the Lord.
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  Speaker 1: We did have this up on fur We do, excuse me,
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  Speaker 1: have this up on Facebook as well. Sarah said, an
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  Speaker 1: ambulance that had buttons and made sounds and the lights
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  Speaker 1: went on.
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  Speaker 2: We shit.
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  Speaker 1: She also added my parents would take out the batteries
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  Speaker 1: and say it was broken because they were tired of
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: listening to it. Jane said either remote control bull He
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: would walk and then stomp and lower his head and smoke.
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  Speaker 1: Came out, what I.
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  Speaker 2: Want this toy? Can I find this on eBay? That
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  Speaker 2: sounds amazing?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, how do I get that? As a thirty five
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  Speaker 1: year old adult, anything with the remote control is cool?
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: Cool?
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  Speaker 1: And then Brian, he said, hot wheels. I'm fifty eight
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  Speaker 1: years old, and I still collect I don't have my
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: original collection, but most people, but most people, Like most people,
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  Speaker 1: I still enjoy collecting these things. Hot wheels. I remember
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: we would make the you know, like every other kid,
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  Speaker 1: the craziest tracks. We'd have them going through like paper
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  Speaker 1: towel rolls and things like that, as like a tunnel man,
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  Speaker 1: what a nice trip down memory lane.
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  Speaker 3: When we were little, we would have hot wheels and
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  Speaker 3: make them be Mario Kart exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And then last, but not least, you gotta have a
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  Speaker 1: stuffed animal in here. We had Page who said a
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: stuffed puppy I named after Barkley, which I mean is
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  Speaker 1: just a horrible.
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  Speaker 2: This is am I the problem?
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  Speaker 4: It's me?
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  Speaker 1: Hi the problem? It's me.
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  Speaker 2: We'll hear one side of the story, and with your
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  Speaker 2: help we decide if it's right or if maybe you're
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  Speaker 2: the problem. That's right, I am the problem on Big
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  Speaker 2: ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 1: So I've been reading and following your am I the
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  Speaker 1: problem every day for months now. Well I'm reaching out
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  Speaker 1: to see if you can ask the Big ninety eight
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  Speaker 1: point seven audience if I'm the issue or am I
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  Speaker 1: the problem? Today? Comes from Ryan and we switched it up.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and read this one here today. Angie.
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  Speaker 2: You know why because you saw the DM first.
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  Speaker 1: That's exactly right, Ryan said, I've had friends that we
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: have done so much stuff together. We go golf, fishing, drinking,
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: just hanging out. Sounds very due, very bro Yeah, all right,
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: but for well over a month, I feel like I'm
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: the one being left out, not even so much as
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: a text to ask if I to ask if I
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: want to. I'm at the point where I'm just about
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: ready to cut ties all together. They'll send texts and
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: picks in a group chat that's between all of us.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: I'll ask where my invite was, and I get absolutely
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: nothing back. Am I the problem? If I just say
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of done and cut ties with all of them?
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: It is crazy work to me for these people to
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: send pictures in the group chat of things he wasn't
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: invited to, and then when he flat out asks where
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: was my invite, they don't answer.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: Those are bad friends. You should cut them off?
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean should cut them off. It definitely sounds
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: like you, Ryan would potentially be better off without them.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: One of the caveats of am I the problem? And
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: we actually have it in the intro is where you
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: tell us your side of the story. Yeah, in classic
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Gabe glitten fashion, who will not try to make anyone
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: that upset with him, I will say I would like
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: to hear a follow up from the friends. What happened?
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Were you invited to something Ryan that you said you'd
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: go to and you just know showed? Did someone try it?
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: I shouldn't stop them from ever inviting him if he'd
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: no showed one time.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Well, I'm just saying, is there, like, uh, what's the
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: deal here? Is there something of repetition? What am I saying?
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Either way, it doesn't matter. Is it a habit of
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: maybe you don't text back either? Is this super one way?
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: Is it more? You know, if they sent us an email,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: would there be something you did the last time you
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: hung out? Because I have hung out with buddies before.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm gonna take a break from
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: you for like a month. I love you and I
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: will respond to you, but like, we don't.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: Know, but they're not even responding to him.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: Okay, So if you're in a friend group with a
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: guy named Ryan and you know that you are not
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: texting back and you're not inviting him.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: We invite you to write to us.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: If you go on the Big ninety eight point seven
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: website Big nine eight seven dot com on airtab, there's
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: a submission page for am I the problem which is
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: where we get these from? But sometimes we get them
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: in dms, on Facebook, wherever you want to send it. Now,
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: if you are part of that group and you want
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: us to hear your side of the story, please let
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: us know. But from where I'm standing, Ryan, they're just
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: not good friends to you, So cut them off and
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: make new ones.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: I know it's hard to make friends as an adult,
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: but like.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Here would be a prime example. Okay, I have a
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: friend who once upon a time, he was kind of
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: a newish friend. I would say, but we've been hanging
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: out for a chunk of time, a couple months or so,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: and you know, he liked to golf, and there was
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: a time where I was like, oh, do you want
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: to go golfing on Saturday? And he said, yeah, sure,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: let's go. And so I get to the golf course
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: and the old tea time is ticking away here and
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: I finally called him. I was like, hey, are you coming?
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: And this guy said, I'm sorry, I'm just really like
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: too hungover. I'm not I can't play today.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: And he didn't contact you before.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: He did not, so not only A did I have
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: to make the phone call, but B to not come out.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: At that point, I was like, oh, well that's cool,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Like I'll I quite literally have never asked him to
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: golf again, not once. Maybe that's I hold a grudge.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm just saying things like that
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: do happen.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, Well, Ryan, if you want to follow up with us,
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: can you think of this is a.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: Thing of self accountability, right?
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: Is there anything that you can think of that may
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: have spurred this in your group chat? I just still
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: think it's crazy to send pictures in the group chat
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: of you guys doing stuff having not invited, like when
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: I'm excluding people, which doesn't happen all the time, but
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: when I'm excluding people, I feel like we're very careful about, like, well,
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: don't post yet, or don't send it in this group chat.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Because you make it a chat.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Yes, right, these.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Are bold I think ex friends that Ryan has what
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: do you think? Seven oh one two eight zero one
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: nine eight seven. We also have this up on the
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page what should Ryan
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: do in this situation?
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Situation the problem?
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: And Melita said, I've left a friend of eleven years
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: because she would not reach out. I was the only
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: person who ever reached out. I would say something. Sometimes
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: people just don't know how to cut off old friends
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: and keep dragging them on. Ryan, save yourself the stress
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: and find people that want to be direct. Am I?
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: The problem today is about Ryan. He has a group
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: of buddies, a group of friends, and they appear to
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: be kind of phasing him out of the friend group.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: At the very least, they're ghost in him.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and he will last month.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he wants to know if, like he said,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: he just cut all ties or is he the problem? Now?
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I will say that in and of itself is not
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: a ton of information to go off, but part of
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: am I the problem? We say, you tell us your
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: side of the story. Yeah, that's half the half the
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: battle here this morning. So when we go off of
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: what Ryan has told us, it doeser that these buddies
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: aren't really great buddies.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: Yolanda said he could put on his big boy pants
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: and have an actual conversation with the guys that's just
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: not enough info here to tell who the problem is. Okay,
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: but like they're not answering him because he's literally flat
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: out asked, where is my invite?
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: In the group chat?
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: I'm if I had to guess if they're not answering
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: in the group chat via text, I don't know that
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: they're going to answer his phone call, So then, yeah,
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: where does he go from there?
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: I think you just cut him all off.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Well, something we suffer from here in the Midwest, Angie
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: is confrontation, especially with people we like, people we don't
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: like a little bit easier to be a little confrontational
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: with people we supposedly are friends with. It's tough. I mean,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: in the group chat, Ryan, you could just, I don't know,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: take a big, giant, deep breath, get some gumption is
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: the word I'll use. Okay, hey, do you guys not
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: like me? But we're not really direct here in the Midwest.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like him saying like where was my invite?
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Is pretty direct?
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: But maybe that's the cake maybe you need. I'm not
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: from the Midwest. Now I'm learning maybe he's gonna be
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: even more direct than say.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Hey, do you not like me?
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Where was my invite is like the tiptoe around like, yeah,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I'm upset what happened? Instead of just saying you know what,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: that kind of I feel bad. You guys did invite me.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: What the heck happened?
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: You know?
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Where's my invite? Is like the quick one sentence. All right,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: let me dip my toe into the water of I'm annoyed,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: but I don't want to make anyone.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: Mad, you know what, because that could be taken You're
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: right kind of like not seriously or like joky, like
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: where was my invite?
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, deal. I have a buddy named Saysar, right,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: and I've talked about His name is Ian, but we
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: call him Saysar.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: I've talked about Saysar a lot. I was in his wedding.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I love this man to death. He is the funniest Texter,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: but he'll do things like that. If let's say, a
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: buddy of mine he doesn't know, is getting married, right,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: and I'll post a picture, He'll go in the comments
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: and be like, where was my invite?
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's joking, be considered jokey. Yeah, okay, So
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: maybe Yolanda is right, like you have to be so
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: explicit in the text group saying exactly why you're upset,
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: or maybe they have listened to Big ninety eight point
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: seven this morning and they're like, is.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: This am I the problem about us?
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: Is this?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Ur Ryan? We did also have Nick. Nick said not
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: the problem. There's clearly an issue here on their part
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: and they can't be adults and have the conversation with you.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I need more bros. Hit me up. I'm down to
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: chill with you. Oh, so there you go. Ryan, We
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: could I don't know if the word hook you up
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: is the right word, but we could introduce you to
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: potentially Nick a new buddy.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: That's so fun.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: And at the end of the day, I will say this,
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: you shouldn't have to beg anybody to be your friend.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: No, God, No, yeah, absolutely not. Seven oh one two
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: eight zero one nine eight seven two things here We
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: have played quite a bit of match making a Big
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: ninety eight point seven this week, but a you know,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: is there any advice you could give to Ryan or
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: b Hey, are you you know a dude who just
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: wants a bro? You know, just guys doing dude stuff.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: This is so adorable to me.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Angie and I. If we were to get a life
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: grade we probably would get a big fat f We
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: are a bunch of failures this morning, because we have
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: realized there are some very basic human things that we
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: simply cannot do. No, and what do I always say, Angie,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: misery loves misery. I don't like the saying misery loves company.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Have you ever been down in the dumps and you're
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: hanging out with someone whose life is just going great?
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: It sucks?
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: No, but this company is like, you want to be
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: in company of other misery.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: That's right, bulls Misery loves misery.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well we'll simplify it down to that.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: That's fine, Angie. One of us cannot swim, one of
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: us cannot whistle. I will go ahead and admit right
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: here on Big ninety eight point seven, if there was
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: a whistling competition and all you had to do was
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: produce some kind of noise and you would receive fifty
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: million dollars, well, I'll just continue living my life because
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I cannot do it. I can't whistle at all.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: I go that is so fun.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: It was like blow air, like hold on, let me
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: let me what the whistle?
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: I can't do? That's wow? Yeah, No, that's best making
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: showing a yeah, no, it's not good.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not good at all, which means that the
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: one of us who can't swim is me. I cannot swim,
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: never did like swimming lessons or air No, I didn't.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: And the crazy thing is, I'm thirty eight.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: How have I gone this long without learning how to swim?
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: My ex like one of the last things my ex
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: and I ever did together, even though we had just split,
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: as we went to Universal with the kids and we
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: stayed at a hotel that had a pool, and he
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: was like, let me, as a last parting gift, try
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: to teach you how to swim, and so on some
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: level like I know the mechanics, but if I had to,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: like swim to save my life, bruh, I'm dead. I
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: can't tread water and I can't float. I can doggy
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: paddle if I push myself off of something, and I
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: can make it a short distance from point A to
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: point B. But safe to say, if I'm like out
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: on the lake or something, your girl needs a life
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: jacket or she did the second she falls in the
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: water a life jacket or like a dock or I
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: didn't Yeah, I mean, actually don't even let me get
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: the water.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: You know what. A lot of pools in the FM
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: area here in West Fargo, of course, have opened up.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: Maybe you know you did learn how to do a
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: roquette dance once upon a time. Maybe someone will reach
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: out and teach you how to swim.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: You know, embarrassing. That would look for me.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: As embarrassing as it did when I was trying to
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: learn how to dance. I stay in the shallow end,
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: is what I do. Is I stay in the shadower
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: I can touch. Yeah, where I can touch, which is
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: like five feet? No, No, that's like over my head,
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: say on five one, homie, I have to be in
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: like four feet to feel comfortable.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: My kids, however, the older one he can swim, and
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: I think Liam he can swim, not even like on purpose.
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: He just kind of like figured it out. And I'm
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: over here like they'd have to save my life. That's
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: really sad.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Yolanda says, dude, I cannot burp, seriously, it's so annoying
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: and painful. Sometimes instead my throat just kind of makes
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: this growling sound. She also added she'll walk around and
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: maybe be a little gassy in a different parts instead
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: of burping, but we'll keep it, you know, somewhat classy.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: Point also just chimed in, I love when when you
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: live text it feeds our soul. She also just added
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: swimming is overrated anyway. Floating is where it's at. But
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: the blood to us there is I can't flow.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: I so like, thank you, Yolanda. Misery loves other misery
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: fall asleep in less than a minute. Who can do that?
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: I can do that? But I also but you know me,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: I stay up way too late. I wake up super early.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: So well, I'm one of those of the second you know,
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I get horizontal. Yeah it's over. We also had We
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: also had Wow. We also had Julie, who said I
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: used to be able to snap my fingers but can't anymore.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: And I'm not the greatest at whistling either.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: I didn't know that snapping was a skill that could
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: leave you.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: I thought that was like riding a bike.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't. I would also add I'm probably not
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: the greatest snapper of all time. I do it very weird.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: You know how you have your thumb on your middle finger,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: that's why you do it right, And then what do
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: you have your pointer finger just up in the air.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: See, I almost make like an AOK sign and sign language.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: And then I bend my thumb over my pointer finger.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: The way your and this to me, that's not a snap.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: What are you doing, sir? You can't snap, you can't listen.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: It's just not great. And it's really funny because Victoria
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: she can't whistle and Robbie can't snap his fingers due
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: did we not learn this in school? Where do you
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: learn to snap? Grandpa? Who teaches you?
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: Know?
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Grandpa teaches you how to pull a finger?
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: That's right. There's a TikTok expert. Ah.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: You gotta love those TikTok experts.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: That's right. And she will be one until I am
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: proven otherwise, I guess. And you might be that proof today, Angie.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: If you could do me a favor like Norman did
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: you just what is happening to you?
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: Just crack?
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: That's right. If you could do me a favor, and
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: I play the role of all women, yes, this morning
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: on Big ninety eight point seven, that would be great.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: If you are a lady and you're hanging out with
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: us this morning, I want you to take a listen
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: to these and let me know if this woman is
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: onto something. If you are a guy, you might discover
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: you're more attractive to ladies than you originally thought. Kaylee, Okay,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: she has four of these. Let's drop the first one.
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: These are signs that you're way more attractive to women
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: than you think you are.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: One.
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: Women get awkward around you. Nervous, laughter, talking fast, fidgeting,
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: all signs that you make her nervous because she's attracted.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: What do you think about that? Is that true? Angie?
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: I find that The only time that I get like
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: nervous and awkward whatever is if I think the guy
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: I'm talking to is a nervous, awkward person, Like I
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: match that energy.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: If I'm into you, then maybe that's just a meeting.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty bold about it for sure.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, here's the second one.
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: Two. It feels like people are always watching you. It's
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: not your imagination. People naturally look longer at someone they
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: find attractive.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Have you ever caught yourself staring off into the distance
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: and you realize you were just staring at Fabio and
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: didn't know OBV.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I, yes, I agree with this. I remember
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: even going.
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: Back as far as eighth grade that I would catch
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: myself looking across the science table at Brad Wozick, and
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: then he would like catch me looking at him, and
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: I'd divert my eyes and it was like, dang it.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: Angie, But yeah, if I'm staring it because I'm into you.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: Number three three, people ask for your advice. People only
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: ask for advice from others that they admire or aspire
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  Speaker 4: to be.
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  Speaker 1: Do you ask for advice from someone you are into?
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  Speaker 2: Burrah?
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  Speaker 3: If I'm asking a man for advice, then that man
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  Speaker 3: should know that I really must respect him and adore him,
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  Speaker 3: because I wowing a man for any man.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Well, right now I've kind of suddenly noticed I'm zero
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  Speaker 1: for three.
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  Speaker 2: Here's number four and number four. You're generally liked by
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  Speaker 2: other people.
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  Speaker 4: This is called the halo effect, and it's that attractive
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  Speaker 4: people are often perceived as having other positive qualities like kindness, intelligence, trustworthiness,
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  Speaker 4: which naturally makes you more likable to others.
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  Speaker 2: Gabe, you're one for four.
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  Speaker 1: You know what it is? The little victories in life.
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  Speaker 1: This could have been at six' ten when we got
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  Speaker 1: the show. Started, Ladies if you heard four of, those
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  Speaker 1: if you just heard those. Four let us know which
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  Speaker 1: ones do you agree? With maybe which ones do you
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  Speaker 1: not necessarily agree. With i'm kind of with you on
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  Speaker 1: the first. One if she's, awkward, shy, nervous maybe she's
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  Speaker 1: just an, awkward, shy nervous human as opposed to she's
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  Speaker 1: really into. You but if you're a guy and you
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  Speaker 1: notice some of those, things that could be good news
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  Speaker 1: for you today as. Well so seven oh one, two
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  Speaker 1: eight zero one nine eight, seven let us know what
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  Speaker 1: you think this.
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  Speaker 3: Morning but, fellas don't flatter yourself too hard and then
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  Speaker 3: like go to the extreme and ruin.
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  Speaker 1: It, OKAY i.
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  Speaker 2: Need some good starting off the day with something. Good
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  Speaker 2: this Is gabe's good news On big ninety eight point.
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  Speaker 1: SEVEN a new resources. Open it is opening its doors
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  Speaker 1: to help local kids and families here In Fargo. Valley
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  Speaker 1: Christian counseling And wellness has officially opened The Hulbert Children's,
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  Speaker 1: center a brand new therapy center designed specifically for. Children
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  Speaker 1: the center offers, counseling occupational, therapy play therapy, spaces and
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  Speaker 1: even a simulated apartment where kids can practice everyday life
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  Speaker 1: skills in a safe. Environment it was built with one
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  Speaker 1: big goal in, mind helping children get the support they need,
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  Speaker 1: sooner and reducing wait times for families seeking care at
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  Speaker 1: a time when more families are looking for mental health
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  Speaker 1: and developmental. Services it's really great to see right here
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  Speaker 1: in our community someone is investing in a place focused on,
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  Speaker 1: healing growth and hope for the next. Generation and IF i,
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  Speaker 1: know you, know growing up being a kid is. Hard
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  Speaker 1: it is tough when you're going through something you can't
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  Speaker 1: really explain. It you, know you try to explain it
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  Speaker 1: to mom and. Dad they have their own. Problems i'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying you don't pay attention to your kids, well
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  Speaker 1: but it makes a big world to a little.
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  Speaker 2: Kid true what they say that it takes a.
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  Speaker 3: Village so the more resources that parents have to help
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  Speaker 3: support kids in their, DEVELOPMENT i think that's.
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  Speaker 1: Amazing, yeah especially if you've tried things and you can't
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  Speaker 1: find any. Answers to have a resource that you can
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  Speaker 1: use as something for you and your, FAMILY i think is.
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  Speaker 1: Wonderful and if you have not heard my favorite, quote
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  Speaker 1: it's a good. One broken. Crans they still color and
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  Speaker 1: the world is full of nice. People if you can't find,
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  Speaker 1: one you got to be. One