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Are black women REALLY protected (Brick Edition) · Black Girl Interrupted Podcast

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Black Girl Corrupted. Y'all already know how it's got It's gonna erupting, y'all
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already know how it's got it. L Girl is rusty, all right,
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what's up? What's up? What's up? Y'all? You already know who
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it is. It's your girl. You know your favorite girl from what the
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fivele four? Baby? Oh God, y'all. Happy Wednesday. It is
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hamp Day, y'all. We are just what two days away from the weekend
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of I can't wait. I'm so excited. I'm ready. I'm tired,
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but I'm fortunate. Well, I won't even say unfortunately, because I do
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have my speaking engagement on Friday here in Houston, shining light on domestic violence
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as well as mental health. So I'm really really, really truly excited about
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that. Y'all already know, like I'm really trying to make make big,
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big, big moves went Black Girl Interrupted. So anytime I'm offered or extended
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an opportunity, y'all already know, I'm gonna take advantage of that. Cause,
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Baby, let me tell y'all, Black Girl Interrupted It's gonna be a
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household name and I'm and I'm putting money on that but anyway, y'all,
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I'm just like, not even here we go, y'all, pray for your
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girl, like I'm really trying to get it together. Look, I gotta
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change the colors, y'all. I have been really busy to day, Like
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when I tell you, today has definitely been a day. Life has definitely
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been lifing. But I said, I'm not gonna allow the able to come
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in and take my energies. So y'all already know what I do before I
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even get started. Y'all already know I do my mental health check ins.
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So and guess what, y'all, So I was. I was on point
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today because I do have I'm gonna get back to showing my inspirational videos that
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I do at the start up every show just to encourage somebody, to keep
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someone motivated, because again, you never know what a person is going through.
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You don't know what what what storm a person is standing in the midst
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up, and just letting a person know that you care, that you're thinking
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about them really does help make a difference. So before we even jump into
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tonight's conversation, y'all already know what I do. Don't forget drop in the
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comments. Let me know how you're feeling today. Again, I always do
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my mental health check ins. Y'all know that. But here we go and
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then we're gonna jump into tonight's show. Life is not easy at all.
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There's going to be challenges. You're gonna get beat down. That's the way
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life is. So sort of put a mask on your face and you go
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home and lay in your bed when no one's looking at you, when you
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don't have to impress anybody and you're yourself, and fear comes in. Maybe
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you don't know for sure what's going to be happening in the future, and
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it scares you. Just that fear paralyzes you. And I just want to
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ask you today, do you think you have hope? At some point,
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everything's going to go south on you. Everything's going to go south, and
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you're gonna say, this is it, this is how I end. Now.
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You can either accept that or you can get to work. That's all
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it is. You just begin, you do the math. You solve one
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problem and you solve the next one. And it doesn't matter how you get
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knocked down in life, because that's gonna happen. All that manages that you
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gotta get up. You have to get up. Whatever experience you're having right
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now, it has not come to stay, It has come to pass.
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Sometimes you have to just back up and go within yourself and try and meditate
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and recharge your batteries, go away, clear your head, and then come
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back and look at it from a different battage point. Don't operate while you
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are under the spell or the effect of what's going on. Don't allow your
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emotions to control you. We are emotional, but when you want to begin
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to discipline your emotion, if you don't discipline and contain your emotions, they
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will use you. You don't have to face yourself or motivate yourself to think
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negatively, to be depressed, to beat yourself up over the head, to
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feel loaded with guilt. You don't have to make any effort to do that.
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Your mind is on automatic. It will do that by itself. But
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if you want to begin to oving to your own personal greatness, you've got
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to be willing to go against the tide. You've got to be willing to
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harness your will. I'm saying, in spite of this, I'm in control
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here. I'm not gonna let this get me down. I'm not gonna let
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this destroy me. I'm coming back. Do outs the part. What do
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you want? Man? I want to be down and tell me something.
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I don't know everybody wants it, but the war reality of it is everybody
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don't get it. And the crazy thing is, if you want it,
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you can get it. It's not like somebody you stopping you, holding the
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goods ahead and telling you you can't get it. It's a matter of will.
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It's a matter of hard worm. It's a matter of sacrifice. It's
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a matter of dedication, it's a matter of commitment. The difference is not
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the genetic code, the potential. It's a guy that's willing to get knocked
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down, finally tested on fort you standing again, the burst of bearance to
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see it through, the never say die attitude. We know the battle of
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heead, we know the journey of head's gonna get tough. We know we're
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gonna face ops. We know it's gonna be some discomfort. We know they're
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gonna try to break this. We know they coming forth. We know that's
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gonna happen already. So let's think up in our mind before the battle that
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we're gonna be victorious. Don't cry to give up, cry to keep going.
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Don't cry to quicks. You already in pain, you already hurt,
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get a reward from it at the end of paying a success. You're not
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gonna die because you're feeling a little Hey. You can tell yourself, I
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won't give up. When that depression hits you come out and overhere, you
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tell yourself, I won't give up. There's no guaranteed that to tell somebody
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knock down on their luck they can never come back. Fucking guarantee that you
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can't be that you can't have your tea. You fucking guarantee that you can't
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do what you want to do. No one can do that, No one
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can predict that. You don't know what the possibilities are for your life.
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Because if you're wanting to goes through all the battle you gotta go through to
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get to where you want to get, who's got the right to stop you.
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There's your right to listen to your gun. That ain't nobody's right to
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say no. That do you earn the right to be where you want to
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be, to do what you want to do. All we need to do
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is we look at our dreams as we get way to hit the flying fisted
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poly say that I don't care if you sick. I don't care what you're
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going through. If you're not dad, he ain't through with you yet.
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As long as you're making up, you're still in the game. As long
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as you are off, you can still make it up. As long as
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the rocks your nostrom book, who's stilling the game? You still can't wear
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it? Can I get your one off? Oh goodness, it feels so
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good to start back showing those videos because again, those videos, you don't
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know who you're helping, and in the midst of my storm, those videos
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help to encourage me at the same time. So again, y'all know,
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before I do any show, y'all know, I always do my mental health
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check in because again I need to know how you're feeling. You know,
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there are so many people that suffer in silence, and we fail to even
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check on those people until it's too late, and then it could a shit
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or would So I challenge everyone, take a minute or two minutes out of
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your day, send someone to text, just to let them know that you're
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thinking about them, you love them, Encourage them to have a good day.
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Leave something positive and inspirational because You never know what that would do to
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a person's day. You never know how that would help to encourage the change
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of a mindset of a person that may feel like they're lost and they don't
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have anybody. So I just encourage that, I challenge that as again,
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y'all know, I share my story with you guys. I let you guys
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know what I go through daily. But I will say these last few days
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that have been good for me. You know, last night, and of
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course I really don't just kind of be on TikTok like I used to,
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but last night I've got to interact with some of the most amazing people.
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We had beautiful conversations. Y'all know me, I'm a big cry baby,
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So some of the conversations that we were having last night, it really touched
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me and it allowed me to not only just be transparent, but to help
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someone that may not know what to do. So salute to my new found
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circle of people that I have interacted with on TikTok. So I appreciate y'all.
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I love y'all. God bless y'all. But we've about to jump into
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the night's conversation because I really want to dad this this topic. This has
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been going on. This conversation has been going on three four days now.
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Uh, and I really want to dad this topic, but y'all gotta let
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your girl be great. Every time I tell y'all I'm talking about some y'all
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hitting me, I'd be like, a, you gotta talk about this,
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you gotta talk about this, you gotta talk about this. So going for
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I no longer changing episodes. Whatever episode that I posted, that's what the
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conversation is gonna be up unless you know it's unless it's just something that we
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really really, really really really truly have to talk about. So my sister
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said, paid to us, you know, I do not know how to
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I don't know how to do their fingers. But but hard to you whatever,
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y'all know, I don't know how to do all that. Jules says,
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these last three months are the worst months for me. So but so
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far, by the grace of God, I'm doing okay. And you know
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I know. But like I tell you all the time, sister, you're
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not built to break. God will always take you through the most uncomfortable season
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of your life in order to get you comfortable. But the strength and resilience
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that you have. You're gonna be okay, You're gonna be just fine,
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and you know what's to say. You don't have to thank me for checking
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on you last night, because that's what sisters do. Anytime I feel something
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is off and that goes you know you, I need to reach out.
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I need to know what's going on again. Like I explained to you,
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I know that this time of the year for you, it's difficult, and
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I really feel like, and I explained expresses to someone else. If I
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know what you're going through and I don't reach out to check on you,
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I feel like I have failed you, not only as a friend, but
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as my sister. So I'm coming out of my comfort zone. I'm coming
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out of my cocoon to ensure that I check on everybody that I made sure
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everyone is doing good. So you're more than welcome. I love you,
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and that's exactly why we're in each other's lives. You know we're here for
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purposes, but you're more than welcome, and I'm glad. So I've heard
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your voice. Things will get better for you, I promise you. I
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promise you. It may look dark right now, but it's gonna get better.
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I wholeheartedly believe that. But I love you, though I promised I
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do. I love you with every heart, every every fiber of my being.
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I really truly do. When that goes out to anybody that's in the
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midst of the storm, anyone that has encountered multiple trials and tribulations, just
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know it's not how you start, but it's how you finish. Huh Oh,
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my brother is here. Let me add my brother on to the state
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there. Really brother, really bubble, So you knew that out, So
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you knew that I would wearing red. What you read on the night,
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I really didn't know. I didn't know. I can't hear you. Oh
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shit, cam hm, nope, I'll be back. I don't know if
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it's me. Uh, I don't know. I can't hear you. Brother.
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My brother must have knew it was read tonight. He must have knew
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that we was all read, that we was al read everything. Okay,
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so he's gonna go out and come back in. I told y'all these technical
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difficulties as a mud baby. But you know, if that don't be nobody,
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let me say this that don't be nobody but the devil. They'll be
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trying to step stop the messages that we try to put out in the universe.
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That's who that is. That's nobody but the Devil. That's that's who
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that is. So as we wait for Big Brother Will to come on and
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jump back into the conversation. So I am starting. Let me see,
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okay, let me give puppa back on here. Can hear me? Now?
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I don't know why I can't hear you. Can't you hear me?
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I don't know why I can't hear you. Let's see, let me go
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in here. I don't know why. It's a sorry, let's see.
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I don't know. Like I say, y'all, the Devil is really truly
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busy every time we get on here and we try to deliver some positive information
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to the world, like it just they just do not allow us to be
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great. I promise they don't. So we're waiting on Big Brother Will,
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who is the host of the Black mal podcast. Let me go back in.
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I don't know why I can't hear you. This is crazy. I
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don't know why either. I don't know why I can't hear you. That's
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the Devil, I'm telling I know that's what that is. Anytime we try
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to get on here to deliver some positive information or have beautiful dialogue, positive
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conversations. The devil always tries to step in and interseting. I don't care
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why, m Let me try this way, hold on, let me try
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this. Can you still hear me? I don't know why I can't hear
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you. I just get into counts, big brother Jewels day go out and
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he did that. He went out and came back in. I don't know
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why, old On this is crazy. I don't know why chest On one
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two. Wait, I don't know why I can't hear him. I don't
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Is it something? Are you on mute? Over there? Your computer?
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Is it on mute? Are you on your cell phone? Yep? I
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wonder if that's why. Let's see, I'm gonna try something else. Let
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me see. Can you hear me now? I can hear you one hundred
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percent. We're just gonna do it this way. That's cool anyway, all
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right, y'all me okay, I can hear you real good. It could
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be I don't know why. It's the stream yard. It does one thing
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and then it be is something different. But anyway, but tonight's conversation,
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brother, it's just they can hear you now. They say they can hear
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you. Cool, cool, cool, cool cool. I think that's what
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it is. I just couldn't hear you on my end. But it's cool.
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We're good, all right. So, brother, I'm picking up on
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last night's conversation because I hear there's been some updates with regards to young lady.
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So for those that don't know, so tonight's conversation, we are talking
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about our black women really protected. I got petty. Do you see what
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it says? Brother? All right, y'all, So here we go.
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So was this on SATD? I want to say, so Saturday here in
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Houston, there was a young lady who was allegedly bust across the head with
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a brick for allegedly not giving a man her phone number. This conversation has
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gone on now for the last four days, four days, and these topics,
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these conversations always seemed to pick black women against black men. I'm sick
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of it. I'm gonna speak on it tonight, and I'm dead in a
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conversation because there has been some updates. Because this young lady has raised close
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to forty thousand dollars and go fund me funds. Yea, let me let
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me show y'all the video and then we jump into the conversation because I want
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everyone's input. And by no means do I condone a woman being abused or
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a man being abused. Okay, I just let me put that on the
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full front right now. But this situation has really upset me. I don't
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know what situation has upset me the most. Carlile Russell or right, because
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y'all really don't understand these fictitious stories that y'all are coming up with for views
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and likes, and you're trying to go viral. You're really hindering other black
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men or black women that are really truly in the midst of something. So
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let me go ahead and let's roll the video, and then we're gonna jump
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into tonight's conversation. Here we go. Yes, don't want y'all do.
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I want y'all to be a man. I want y'all to be a man.
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And wagga g something. Y'all gonna let a man any in my face.
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I never did anything of my life hurt anybody. Literally, a vent
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asked me if bybody know that? I said no, and he he picked
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up a brick in front of so many men, and was like, what
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are you gonna do? And I told all these men like you, Donna,
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why this bag got a break all my face? And he's he's wolding
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a brick and all these niggas is watching and nobody does nothing, and he
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hits me in my face and they all just watching and then let that nigga
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get it a corn? How is this okay? This is what y'all doing
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to women? Follow and support road director. You want to go first,
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brother, because I'm just gonna see this. It looks like she has been
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hit. I just don't think she was hit with a brick. I'm just
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gonna be honest with you. I just don't think it was a brick.
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It looked like maybe I don't know you You go ahead, brother, go
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ahead. What what's so like? You said? There's been several stories about
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the woman. The The woman is of a Somalian descent and the community she
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was in with Somalia. Some men have came forward and said they were there
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when it happened, Well, not when it happened. They were there in
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the vicinity and they saw it after they happened. The guys she tried to
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put on blast uh spoke up. They did their own video saying their account
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of would happen, and they said they did do something. They call a
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paramedics and they call the police. So she so first thing, so if
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you get hit by a brick, you get hit by a brick in the
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face, you would have a cut in your face. When she showed herself
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on the scene, there was no blood dripping, there's nothing, There's no
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blood. So that whole brick story, I find it hard to believe,
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being the evidence was not there, uh, based based on something that would
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look like somebody get hit with a with a hard object. You know,
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you have continusions, you have scratch marks, you know, across your face.
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It wouldn't just be swollen. Maybe she got punched in it. I
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mean, if somebody get punched in the face right with somebody with much force,
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it could swell your face up like that. So I I've seen people
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get hitting you know, hey, I've seen people get hiting the forehead,
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have a big old night on the forehead. So I don't believe the brick
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thing. I find it hard to believe. And that's just my take on
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it. And I'm and I definitely agree with you. So I spoke with
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a couple of nurses with regards to this situation today, and they pointed out
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some very very very very pertinent things. And again this is by no means
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do I victim blame, but I do hold people accountable for making up fictitious
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stories to go viral for likes and for views, because that seems to be
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the thing to do now. And speaking with these these young ladies, they've
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seen and they've witnessed people come into emergency rooms that have been hit with bricks
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or even two by fours, any type of object outside of a hand or
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a closed fist. And they said, had she been truly hit in the
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face with a brick, the first thing you would notice would be the broken
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blood vessels in the eye. And that could be the way they explained it.
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They said, they could either be depending on where they're hit, it
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could be the whole eye, or it could be the side of the eye,
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or maybe even the bottom of the eye. They said, this woman
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displayed no contusions on her face. They said it looked almost as if maybe
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she was in the club or maybe outside in the parking lot, and she
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got into it with somebody, and maybe somebody called her from from behind and
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it's long with a closed fist, which would cause the swelling like that.
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She would have a fractured jaw, is what they said. She would not
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be able to speak coherently, because they did say pain does not come right
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away, you know, it may take a day or so, it may
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take a couple of hours. And she's and they said by the way she
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recorded, she recorded immediately after this happened. There's no scratches on her face.
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But the new evidence that's been presented is they have surveillance video of her
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being in the club with a ski mask on. Oh okay okay, So
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they don't know if her face was like that prior or was she really truly
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attacked and people were streaming so I couldn't get the footage. Maybe it'll be
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on YouTube maybe tonight. Maybe it smar I don't know, but they have
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video because they did speak with the police officers who did you the surveillance footage
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and did see her same outfit, same necklace, everything where she was in
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with a ski mask on her face the whole entire night. Almost They say
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she is scamming go fund me. No one has confirmed if this young lady
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has received those funds or not. But anyway, that's to what my nurse
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friends were saying. They said, it's not far fetched, but this is
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not believable because the way that she's looking, if you're going you look at
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the other videos, even when she's sitting in the hospital, even when she's
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at home, it looks as if she was hit. Like maybe it's somebody
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came from behind, and they don't feel like it was faced, like somebody
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was facing her. I feel like someone did it from the stock and it
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hit its face and it could have been a man that hit her. So
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though that's the new update with regards to this young lady and this story.
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I wanted to bring this up tonight because again I want to dad this conversation.
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I want to move on to something else because this is really just taken
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over social media and there's real live situations out here that we really need to
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be focused on and not just focusing on this particular one soul. In the
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conversation we had last night, brother, you made beautiful points. The people
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you had on your panel made beautiful points. But what upset me was the
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fact that people were upset because people were questioning the validity of the story.
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Black men have been drowned all up and down social media since this story broke.
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Let me say this to you women, and I'm speaking as a woman,
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that is the domestic violence survivor. Keep your hands to yourself, stop
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jumping in men's faces, and then when you get what you ask for,
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now you're the victim. No, ma'am. No third, this just you
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keep saying Black men don't protect black women. But do you Black women?
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And I'm I'm about to stird of hornestness really worthy of being protect that's the
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question? Are all women worthy to be protected? You can't ask for protection
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and then say you don't want protection or you don't need a man for anything,
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and you're a man, brother, you you. I want to hear
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your your teeth on this because I hear a lot of women. I don't
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need a man. I'm independent, I'm good it up until situations like this
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happened. Now all of a sudden, Black men don't protect women. Black
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men don't protect Black women. And I beg to differ, but I'm gonna
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one second while you when you're talking, I'm gonna pull up her video because
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we're gonna we're gonna use her case. We're gonna use her own words.
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I'm gonna use her own words. I'm gonna pull it up wild wild while
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you're talking. Okay. So I hear so many women, and I hear
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this all the time, and I'm a woman. I don't need a man.
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I could do this on my own, Da dada until you're in trouble.
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And now now all of a sudden, you need a man. After
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you sat up here and you dragged black men. It's almost like black men
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can't win for losing. You either want the protection or you don't. One
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of the points that I brought up last night was a lot of you women
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exaggerated stories. So for the men that were on the panel last night and
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in a lot of the other lives that I was able to view, you
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dropped. Y'all drug these men. You drugged them all the way to help.
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And now that the truth is starting to unravel, now y'all are back.
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No no no, no, no, no no no no. I
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want y'all to keep that same energy y'all had two days ago when you said
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black men don't protect black women, because they do. I've seen black men
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when black women are being a coasted or disrespective. I've seen men step in
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and stay hold on, hold on, hold on, man, hold up,
31:22
man shut out. I've seen that. But I've also seen men pull
31:27
up and end up in the cemetery, or they end up in jail behind
31:33
a woman and whore lies. I found a video, brother, I'm a
31:37
player for you later and what you found? A video in the club.
31:45
No, not in the club, but where a lady said, stop hauling
31:51
your brothers and your cousins to the theme because you feel disrespected. I'm gonna
31:57
play that later on. But what she said was dead on was exactly what
32:02
I was saying last night is women will create circumstances. You will exaggerate,
32:09
you will pulte fund and then when it gets too hot, Now you want
32:13
to call your brother, your cousin, your uncle into a situation that causes
32:20
someone to lose their life when they end up in jail behind something you started.
32:28
Did you find the video? Brother? Okay, so y'all too look,
32:31
pay attention to this because we're gonna elaborate. We're gonna utilize her situation
32:37
for tonight's conversation. Go ahead, brother, you got I'm gonna mute my
32:40
money. Try I hope every black woman is piss a little black woman,
32:45
because we are the unique protectors and the providers. We protect societies, We
32:50
protect communities with our intellectual property, with our lived experiences, with our breast,
32:55
live with our bodies. We're the ones. And it's these men are
33:05
not providers and protectors, not innately because they only protect where they possess.
33:08
But we protect everybody and we provide baby. Okay, So I hope you
33:14
catch a girl tonight because I hope. I don't forget. Before there was
33:22
feminism, it was lesbians who were living in those lives without worried about so
33:31
so she was like she the lesbian listening life where I worry about niggas.
33:35
That's what she said. That was the end of that clip. So the
33:40
thing is, you were you correct? Right? So I'm gonna speak for
33:45
the men, right, all the men I've heard, because I've been listening
33:47
in and our Lives for two days listening to the men, and the men
33:52
are actually they have the same they're echoing the same center. Well most men.
33:58
Now some men come in and like, well you or a coward if
34:00
you don't jump in the way. And I'm gonna speak for the men that
34:04
are there, they are saying, uh, they need to understand what's going
34:07
on before they even you know, before they do that. They can't just
34:12
walk up on the scene and the woman's talking about, oh he did this
34:15
to me, do something about it, right, And these are the level
34:17
head that logical men. If you put yourself in harmless way, if you
34:23
if you actually you put yourself in the way of whatever's going on at the
34:27
scene, and you don't know anything, and somebody gets hurt, uh uh
34:32
terribly, right, somebody gets hurt to the point to where let's say,
34:36
let's not even go to death, right, they get paralyzed, Let's just
34:38
say something like that. Even if they get paralyzed, right, they get
34:42
hurt to the point where they're they're uh, they're they're incapacitated. You know.
34:46
Uh, you're gonna have to like, you're gonna get sued. At
34:51
the very least, you're gonna get sued. At the most, you're gonna
34:53
go to jail. You lose your job, you know. Uh, if
34:58
you have a family, your family losing sources income, they lose you as
35:00
your protective So the men that I've been here and talk and you know,
35:07
it's majority of men are saying that we have to be more skeptical, skeptical
35:16
about who we protect. We have to be able to scrutinize that and figure
35:22
out who's the right situation because our lives are on the line. And like
35:30
the questions that have been coming up is like, uh, what is a
35:34
black man's life worth? Is it worth? Is it worth throwing away?
35:40
So the thing is, if I'm going to protect one woman you and I'm
35:44
about to answer, quit all all women where they're being protected. If I
35:47
want to take one black woman that might be out here, wilding out right,
35:53
and I have a whole family of women that rely on my protection.
35:59
I have, I have, I've uh and I'm gonna put myself in the
36:02
situation. Right, I got two sons, right, I have grandchildren even
36:07
that, I got two baby mamas. But you know one of them,
36:12
you know, we don't talk on it much, Moore, she have issues.
36:15
She come to me to help problem solve. Right. My other one,
36:17
you know, is active co parent in situations. So if I'm no
36:22
longer here, if I'm behind bars, I can't do none of that.
36:25
They're offending for themselves. So it's one person's life worth two women, two
36:31
children that's directly attached to me. My nine eight nine nieces. How many
36:38
of them I can't count. Whatever, it's a bunch of these, all
36:42
the nieces, right that, there's a lot of them, All the nieces
36:45
that I have that rely on me to come through and when something's going on,
36:49
my mother and my two sisters. That's a that's a ton of women
36:54
I have that that's actually alying on me to do something. That's whenever they
36:59
need me, right to show up whenever they need me. That's a ton
37:01
of women. That's a bunch of women. So it is that one woman's
37:04
life worth throwing away. Everybody that's attached to me. And you know,
37:10
most men say no, I mean most men say knowing the women that have
37:14
husbands, right, they've they've had their voices allowed us in this thing saying
37:20
no, I'm not gonna allow my husband do that. I'm not allowing my
37:22
husband do that through. You know, he has to be here for me,
37:24
and I agree with him. Right. She's the one that supports this
37:28
man. She's the one that feeds them that emotional support, give him sex.
37:32
She's the one that put in the work to be the wife and right
37:36
this show, she should have to say so. And if this man throws
37:37
his life where or not, and you know that's what it is. I
37:40
don't think all women are worth being protected. I think she has to act
37:46
accordingly. Right, if she's out there being attack just because just random attacks,
37:52
and a man runs up and sees this a random attack, that's and
37:57
I'm gonna put this is a total This is a situation. I think men
38:00
really work. Right, if he would run up they see a woman about
38:02
to be get granted, right, I don't know, you know this is
38:06
for whatever. I don't want you know, because I don't know if you're
38:08
trying to get monetized something. Gonna say it that way because they they had
38:12
their sense about the R word. But if if he if he runs up
38:16
on a woman that she's about to get uh essay eight or whatever, I
38:22
think men would actually men would actually step up. That's a situation all men
38:27
feel strongly about because they put their mothers in that situation, they put the
38:30
daughters in that situation, and anybody attached them, their sisters, whoever.
38:35
But when it comes to a woman being combative with a man, and they
38:37
might be going back and forth you know, argon, and she in his
38:39
face and whatever. We're gonna sit back and watch the situation to be like,
38:45
yo, if she was scared, she wouldn't be in this man's face.
38:50
So I hear that, brother, because I've seen I've seen women in
38:57
a man's face that's six feet tall and she all, oh yeah, yeah,
39:01
yeah you do. You're antagonizing this man so forever, cause there's gonna
39:10
be an effect. And I definitely agree with you. Men will jump in
39:16
when it's deemed necessary. I've seen men again that have women that have been
39:24
accosted by men, and brothers have stepped in and say, man, hold
39:28
up, and bro, come on, come on, come on, come
39:30
on. Then come on, young head. Hello, you know, pump
39:34
your brakes, man, she's not interesting. Man, lead a lady alone.
39:37
I've seen that. And then I've also seen, like you'll say,
39:44
men that are looking at these women who are oh yeah, he did it
39:47
though, and she pushing a man all in his face and she doing them
39:52
all like that, and then when the man finally reacts, now everybody,
39:58
oh she's the victim. Oh why why don't you step in? She antagonized
40:02
the situation because and I've seen men that have told women, see that man
40:07
alone, get get out the man face like that. I've seen it.
40:13
And if you constantly keep going and going and going and going and going,
40:16
and you're poking and poking and poking, eventually you're gonna get stung. And
40:22
then guess what not this man is going to jail behind the situation that you
40:25
escalated. I'm guilty of doing that, getting in my man faced and oh
40:32
yeah, did it. I'm guilty of that. So if that man would
40:37
have slapped me into the last into last week and two years ago, what
40:43
do I do, especially if he was giving me a warning and say,
40:47
actually, gone on going on, man, going on going on? And
40:51
you have a lot of women run behind these men, and these men have
40:54
told you just go just I'm about to go, I'm about to go on,
40:59
about to go. Woman jumping, you're not going nowhere, and you
41:01
didn't. Now you're ready to call the police because now you feel like now
41:08
he's done something to you. And then you're lying to the police because you're
41:15
telling the police. So he hit me, he did this, and the
41:16
man has never touched you. So now this man is going to jail behind
41:21
the line. This man potentially stands to lose a job behind the line.
41:29
So I'm not upset with the men that were questioning the validity of the story.
41:34
Men wanted to know. And I think that's one of the biggest issues
41:37
with us is we're so quick to jump the gun without having all the facts.
41:44
Carl Russell prime example. People will put it against each other. Oh
41:49
my god, we gotta protect black women. And when you're and then when
41:52
the truth unfolded in front of us, a lot of y'all had the backpack,
41:58
a lot of y'all had skate on back, a lot of y'all had
42:00
to delete those comments, a lot of y'all had to eat those words because
42:07
you found out this girl a lot. So now that it's coming out that
42:10
this young lady has it is potentially lied. Now everybody's backpelling. But y'all
42:19
in drugs coming down through the dirt. And Jules says, I truly believe
42:25
some of these men. She said, I truly believe some of these men
42:29
truly despised women. I won't say all this, but I want you to
42:36
hold on to that because next week's conversation we're gonna be addressed to femicide.
42:42
So we're gonna I'm playing double's advocate next week when it comes to the femicide,
42:46
because we do see a lot of black women that are being a lot
42:50
being unlied by black men. So but in this day and age, I'm
42:57
gonna say what I said last night. You got people out here that are
43:00
doing doing these skits and prints for likes and vius, and people are getting
43:06
hurt. People are getting hurt, So be mindful what you put out on
43:14
social media because you never know how that's gonna come back on you. And
43:20
then for this young lady to sit up here and say I don't need a
43:23
man, lesbians is this? And feminism dad, and and then but now
43:32
you're upset because you say all these niggas your your words, ma'am stood around
43:38
and let this nigga get in the car after he hits you in the face
43:42
with a brick. You can't have it both ways, baby, you can't
43:46
have it both ways. Go ahead, brothers, I'm so so so the
43:55
thing is right. And I made this point on a couple of lives I
44:00
was in yesterday. Women always equate protection are not always mostly equate protection to
44:08
man standing up being physically physical right, jumping in the way of a bullet,
44:14
jumping away of men harming him, right, and yeah, yeah,
44:20
yeah, I mean just uh, this this fairy tale, storybook, TV
44:27
movie version of protection, you know. And to be honest, I've been
44:34
if you want to talk about protecting black women, I've been in a multiple
44:37
situation to where I've had to do things to protect black women. I've been
44:40
in altercations I've been in I've been in to where I had to pull my
44:45
piece and I had to fire my piece before I've done it. But I'm
44:49
going to tell you this, right, that was the younger version of me,
44:52
right, And I'm gonna tell you this, the older verse me says,
44:55
the younger version of me was stupid. He was young, dumb,
44:59
full of com right. That's that's if I was talking like as I tell
45:02
my son, Because I just talk to my son. What was the situation?
45:08
It wasn't. What was the situation, Uh, the Jeremy Hood thing,
45:14
that situation in Chicago I had. I had to have a talk to
45:16
my son and I had to tell him his place is not to protect his
45:22
mother. I say, first of all, your mother's not gonna put that
45:23
situation. And I'm not trying to stir that situation back up, but I'm
45:28
just using this for example. I hadn't talked about it. I hadn't talk
45:30
to my son and talked him about that and talked about protection or whatever.
45:34
And he's actually see me action like we've been. We was in the we
45:37
using his axbies and older guy he probably was around my age, got into
45:43
it with a guy behind that was back there cooking, and they had words
45:47
back and forth, back and forth, and then he went out the door.
45:51
And I'm sitting there, ladies, just what men do they put position
45:54
theirself to look like they sit theirselves with the back of the to the back
45:59
of the rest around whatever is. And he watched the doors and watch the
46:01
axes. That's the way I was facing. So I saw what he was
46:05
doing. I saw the whole situation. I saw him leave out, and
46:07
I saw him come back in. So when he comes back in, why
46:08
would I not expect that he's coming back in with something on? And that's
46:13
what I watched him, and I'm like, Okay, his body language.
46:15
I'm looking at the five legs. I'm looking at how he holds his body,
46:19
how he kind of has his arm touched to his body right, he's
46:22
he is a totally different body position. So I'm like, okay. So
46:25
at this point, can I is my son in danger? Can I get
46:29
my son out? We had to go in order to get out, we
46:31
had to go past them, So I'm like, okay, before they have
46:35
popped off, because what people do if they start blasting in someplace you got
46:40
witnesses, what they're gonna start to do. They're gonna look to try to
46:43
get rid of witnesses. They're gonna try to get away with it. So
46:46
before anything happens, I'm like, okay, dude started back arguing with the
46:51
guy and he's tucking at his pants and stuff, arguing with him and getting
46:54
animated. So I walk up behind him, I grab him from behind it.
46:58
I just choked him out and put him a joke code. So I
47:00
did not know that the guy that was in there was with him, and
47:02
he grabbed my arm and I'm like, you're gonna get the fuck off me.
47:05
I'm gonna break his fucking neck. So he just let me go and
47:07
I brought him outside and I'm talking about and say, hey, my son,
47:12
is he got kids here? I will kill you before y'all let you
47:15
hurt these kids. And he kind of his body kind of went loose.
47:17
His body went loose, and then I got him outside. Then I'm talking
47:21
to him like, hey dude, I said, man, we're about the
47:22
same age. I know you got kids. And I'm talking to my mother
47:25
and say, hey, this is a young dude. This young dude,
47:29
don't I mean, he's supposed to pop off. You're not supposed to do
47:31
that. So you know, I said, I'm about to go ahead and
47:34
get your food, bring it to you, so y'all won't have you to
47:36
see each other. And he and I brought him food. He said,
47:38
man, I thank you for that. I'm like, all right, we
47:40
had a little talk. He dapped me off. He went about his Marriedwait.
47:45
So those situation happen. But the thing is, it shouldn't come to
47:50
that point with every situation. It should not cut that point. And I
47:54
think a lot of women in general, and I'm not just talking about sisters.
47:58
I'm talking about women in general. Because women in general know they're protected
48:01
to a certain extent, they want to utilize the's protection. They want to
48:07
utilize because they know it's there, so they don't mind, you know,
48:12
doing all this when there's men around, they don't mind, and they and
48:15
the sister's like she was hurt because nobody did anything right. And you shouldn't
48:22
be in a position where anybody had to do anything. So yeah, yeah,
48:28
I mean a man, it's always gonna have one up on you.
48:30
So if you're gonna be in a world of men, And that's why the
48:34
live I had last night, I was making the analogy of operating systems.
48:37
Right, if you're going to be in the world of men, work equal
48:40
to men, and the operating system of men. Men do not just run
48:45
up on other men. We don't do that. We don't do that as
48:49
a regular because we understand I could get myself hurt because I don't know this
48:54
man and I'm about to be for I don't know him, I don't know
48:58
what he has on them. And people don't fight fair today. So men
49:01
operate with caution, and I'm gonna need the sisters to start operating caution also,
49:07
because you operate with caution, is gonna protect some some black man lives
49:09
that might put theirselves in harm's wait for you, absolutely, And Jules said,
49:14
that's why I said, That's why I said something. She said you
49:16
know some men. Because I have seen stories and this was in Chicago.
49:22
I'm gonna have to try. I'm gonna have to go back. And I
49:24
sprawled past it on TikTok and when I can, I don't know TikTok does
49:29
like some reset because I was trying to find I was trying to send it
49:31
to you, and then when I went back to go, I couldn't find
49:35
it. But I'm gonna have to go back, maybe through my videos and
49:37
Steve, so you could go, You're go in the back and you go
49:39
look up watch videos. There's a yeah, so you could you could check
49:43
out to watch videos. So this young lady was I want to say it
49:45
was Chicago or Detroit, and she was at the bus stop or something like
49:52
that, and this guy approached her. Black girl, you a pretty black
49:55
girl, and this man approached her, and you know, she was like,
50:00
you know, I'm not interested. You know, I have a boyfriend.
50:02
And this guy came back in and pep tr oh wow, and on
50:07
aliged her. So we're not saying that what happened to this young lady was
50:17
justified, because we do know there are some men out here whose elevators don't
50:22
go all the way to the top, and we've seen those stories. We
50:27
see this continuously every day. That's and you know what, I think,
50:30
this is why, let me say the matter of fact, this is why
50:34
I wanted to have this conversation because it's gonna lead me into my conversation my
50:37
two shows for next week when I go into them site. So that's why
50:42
I wanted to have this and did this and move on into something that's really
50:46
more moved forth. But we do know that there are men out here,
50:51
but we also do know that there are women out here that are the aggressives.
50:54
The young lady that was on your panel last night said, I trust
50:59
me more than I do women, and I think I think people in the
51:02
comments were like, what do you mean you and you know, well,
51:06
she's not a young bull. I'm gonna call he a young lady. Know
51:07
she was the og on the panel. She said, I was set up
51:14
by what what did she say? Two or three women? Yes, And
51:17
we see this daily and everybody when everybody heard herself explain, the comments change
51:28
the dynamic change because a lot of women say, man, yeah, even
51:31
a black man said I'm more of afraid. He said, y'all should be
51:37
more of afraid of black women than black men. M and I. And
51:44
you know when they when they really got to explain it, because they really
51:45
threw me a back. I was like, what you scared of black?
51:49
But then it goes back to these stories. You see these these women that
51:57
are on alive and their baby daddies or their or their boyfriends. They're a
52:00
lady that they're still looking for right now, black woman who un alive her
52:04
boyfriend and cut him up. And I want to say that was in Memphis,
52:09
Cenasee. They're still looking for this woman, black woman. But women,
52:16
you have to be mindful about the certain situations you put yourself in,
52:22
because some of us put ourselves in situations that we really could have avoid.
52:29
I see this in the club, I've seen this in restaurants. This woman
52:36
here, and I'm just gonna go in and say it. You are really
52:40
hindering black women by making up these fictitious stories for lights and views because you
52:47
want to go value. I said it last night. Social media has now
52:53
become the devil's playground. Some of you women, y'all want to be masculine
53:01
and stay y'all don't need a man. But when you get your ship pushed
53:06
back. Now you need a man. Keep that same energy you had thirty
53:10
minutes ago when you say you didn't need one, Keep that same energy when
53:15
you said men are no longer providers? Are you serious? Because I'm gonna
53:21
definitely give you a pushback when you say black men are not provides. Some
53:27
of you Black women ain't providers. But y'all gonna be ready to have those
53:30
types of conversations. They don't be ready, brother, So let me say
53:38
this right quick. Just like like most most Black women have a story of
53:44
men that have either essay to them or gave them touch them I wanted,
53:50
you know, and we're gonna call it essay. You know, if they
53:52
touch you and you don't want those advances, that's essay. So we're talking
53:55
about even at that level of essay, right from the simple level of I
53:59
want to touch or unwanted attention to where you feel uncomfortable, to the actual
54:05
acts you know, all that, Just like when majority women have a story,
54:09
black women have a story, majority black men have a story of abuse
54:14
of black women that's been in their lives or a woman that lied on.
54:16
So we're gonna I'm gonna talk about abuse, I'm saying abuse either physically manipulating
54:22
abuse or you know, or character assassination. Majority black men have the same
54:28
story, so it's it's just as it's just as bad on the men's side.
54:31
That's why men are skeptical because we all have these stories to where we
54:35
know it either happened to us personally or we've seen it play out. We
54:38
see people get messed up to you know, whether it be black women or
54:43
white women, because we know historically a white woman as allowing on a black
54:46
man, it'll end his life. You know, his life would be ended.
54:50
So we we're sensitive to that. And that's why black men are so
54:54
so skeptical about believing, believing all women. It comes to certain things.
54:59
They have to basically look before they leap, and they do. You know,
55:04
like I explained, we talked about the football player last night. Who's
55:08
was it the was it the baby, the girlfriend, the wife or whoever.
55:14
The girlfriend got in food and she ended up with what was that her
55:16
brothers or her cousins and they showed up to the house and this man was
55:23
really looking at I want to say he was facing twenty five or thirty years
55:29
in prison. Some years and was acquitted, was found not guilty on reason
55:36
of self defense because this woman they had an altercation. She called her brothers
55:46
pulled up, not even knowing the whole situation, and I believe he pin
55:53
pined at them. Yeah yeah, yeah, at about thirty something shots at
55:58
him. He threw some brothers dance and I think he unlived one of them
56:02
are so I have to go back and just really look at the story,
56:07
but I believe one. I believe one was un alive. What this man
56:14
was protecting himself from a situation that you escually that you started. And I
56:22
think the saddest part when we look at this story and all the countless other
56:24
stories that are similar to this, young lady, black women are not holding
56:30
other black women accountable for this. You have a lot of women at co
56:37
signing this behavior. That girl, get him, get him, girl,
56:44
Yeah, tell him, girl, and now you're going on with your life.
56:51
I had a friend in New Orleans, close friend, loved him dearly,
56:58
who's still got into all the cation with her baby daddy. She called
57:02
her brother and brother brothers did what they typically do, sister call and say
57:07
hey, this this dude, blah blah blah, brothers are coming. Family
57:10
is coming, your brothers, your uncles, your daddy is whatever. They
57:15
coming. He came with his peace and try to run up on the dude,
57:21
and the dude boom boom boom for five bullets in. He didn't even
57:28
go to jail. He was arrested, went to court, tried to dismissed
57:35
on the grounds and self defense because he came to the man's house. So
57:39
now my friend is dead and it's sposter lie. The baby daddy had never
57:45
put his hands on she had tore her shirt, made it look as their
57:52
the baby daddy had us folk and never did. And now my friend is
57:54
laying in the cemetery and it's supposed going on with her life. See.
58:01
And I think if if there would be consequences of women that lie and cause
58:06
the type of situation, it would be like harsh consequences, it would stop
58:09
happening. But I don't think, you know, because it's happened in black
58:15
community. I don't think they care because that's just another brother gone. That's
58:20
what they want anyway. So remember the sister that called her brothers and our
58:28
brothers went in the house. The dude just laid one out. He called
58:31
her brother. Yeah, and they just ran up in the man house and
58:35
he laid one out right there. So it's just like ladies, y'all,
58:38
y'all putting men in danger, y'all put the men in lives in danger,
58:42
and a lot sometimes it's men that you love. Matter of fact, personally,
58:45
my niece ex boyfriend, he was dealing with a girl and and and
58:55
whatever was going on between. He tried to break up, that's what.
58:58
He tried to break up with her, and she must have told her family
59:01
something or whatever. And she came over the house night before and wanted to
59:07
stay there because she didn't want it. She didn't want to break up,
59:07
so she she wanted to stay there. He was like, nah, you
59:10
gotta go in the morning, and the mama came over in the car.
59:15
The uncle and his friends came out another car and uncle ran up, whatever
59:21
said, whatever he said threatened the boy, and he he got a got
59:24
a shotgun and you know, and lay the uncle out. And he's he's
59:29
in jail right now. He is a case going on right now. He
59:31
is a case to where he you know, he has to prove herself innocent.
59:35
But you know, it's it's all because of women can't deal with their
59:39
emotions today. You know, just like men, Just like you have men
59:43
that can't handle rejection, you have women that do the same thing, that
59:46
can't handle their emotions. They can't handle rejection, they can't handle be told
59:49
no. And I think what we need to do and this, and this
59:52
goes for black men and black women. We have to stop acting off of
59:57
emotions because the emotion it is getting us in one or two places, in
1:00:02
a cemetery or in a jail, sine or and maybe not just even that
1:00:09
you're you're you're suffering severe repercussions. You lose everything when you start when you
1:00:15
when you're acting off of emotions. We see this far too often. And
1:00:20
again I've seen this firsthand. Anybody that's watching can attest. We've seen women
1:00:31
jumping in a man's facing. Oh nigga, I'm a good da. We've
1:00:36
seen it. And then you call your home boys. They pulling up.
1:00:44
They haven't even assessed the situation because they're acting off of emotion. And now
1:00:52
you got people locked up. Now you've got people with tags on their toes,
1:00:59
and you haven't even told the whole story. You just told the part
1:01:04
that you knew what would trigger would get the adrenaline going. Yeah, this,
1:01:09
this dude, he did it, because we get we get over that,
1:01:14
we get anxious. Adrenaline is going. We're acting off our emotions because
1:01:22
I need something to happen to this dude right now. That's what we're thinking.
1:01:28
And even at the very least too, it's just that they want to
1:01:31
be supported, so they don't want to feel like they're wrong. So they're
1:01:34
gonna tell you something to spin it so so you can support them. And
1:01:38
that she has consequences. You know, you don't know how people will react.
1:01:43
You know that loves you be like, nah, I don't play about
1:01:45
my sister. I don't play about my niece. I don't play And next
1:01:47
thing, you know, you can't control that shit once it starts. And
1:01:52
Jules, so, Jules says, I pray daily that these women stop tearing
1:01:55
our black men down because it's so disheartening. And she said, amen to
1:02:00
your comment. She said, I truly feel as if she should have been
1:02:05
charged because had it not been for her, this situation would have never taken
1:02:08
place. She said, yes, he did on alive, one of them.
1:02:14
And and and I'm with you because just like you have women that lie
1:02:20
about being great. Look at Brian Blank, Brian Ba went to jail for
1:02:30
a lot lost. His home life has never been the same since he's been
1:02:38
home. And the woman finally admitted that it was a lot because this man
1:02:44
rejected her. Now they had been intimate or she wanted a relationship and he
1:02:52
he didn't want that. He just you know, that was what they call
1:02:57
him, my my little Yeah, that's that's the but he didn't want and
1:03:01
she wanted that, so her feelings weren't hurt. So she went and co
1:03:07
coloct with this story and said that this this man graped her and he didn't.
1:03:14
You have a lot of men that are sitting in prison right now behind
1:03:20
a lie. Why do we keep And I'm about to get so emotional because
1:03:25
I love Black men and y'all are so needed in this world. But you
1:03:36
have a lot of Bible brothers that are sitting in jail cells behind the line,
1:03:44
and you refuse to come and tell the truth. I remember I was
1:03:49
in I was in a club here in Houston. Girl got into it with
1:03:52
a dude. Dude wasn't even messing with her, like I think he like,
1:03:59
you know, it's like trying to lert what or whatever. She's like,
1:04:00
I ain't inter rested or whatever. So the dude went on his little
1:04:05
way and went having, you know, a little good time. Was sitting
1:04:09
down at the bar chilling. She's antagonizing this man. Now he wants to
1:04:13
talk to you. You've already turned them down, but you just keep sashing
1:04:18
you sitting by him, You're brushing up against them and stuff like that.
1:04:23
So when the man like he just kind of you know, like you know,
1:04:27
kind of nudged her. He didn't push it, he didn't do One
1:04:30
of them was like man, you know, almost like man, give me
1:04:32
my space. So fast forward. Let me go through the fast forward.
1:04:40
That boy ended up getting stabbed in the club. In the next he was
1:04:43
stabbed in the next in the club because she went and told the guys that
1:04:48
she was in the club with that this dude. I told him I ain't
1:04:54
want to talk to him, and I'm trying to order me a drink at
1:04:57
the bar and he just keep touching on me. Never touched her, and
1:05:01
was stabbed in the neck. Now I don't know if he if he passed
1:05:06
away, because baby I left at that point, I was like, yep,
1:05:09
it's let me get on the time to go, let me go for
1:05:14
bullets start flying, because you already know when one person they could call him
1:05:18
the crew and yelling. So I don't know if the boy lived, if
1:05:23
you don't, but I saw him stabbed in the neck. I saw it.
1:05:30
And you're like, you're like, I've seen dudes laid out in the
1:05:36
parking lot of clubs covered in sheets because you women lie. And now that
1:05:47
social media is popular, now y'all are doing anything for lights and views,
1:05:53
and y'all don't care who you're hurt in the process of this young lady right
1:05:59
here, that forty thousand dollars that you all have raised that could have went
1:06:04
towards it's a young woman here who was arrested for sleeping in her car with
1:06:10
her baby. I heard of that. I heard they took the baby,
1:06:13
and I'm a child crew and stuff. Yes, yeah, And the place
1:06:19
that impounded her car of a woman followed her story and paid to help this
1:06:26
young lady get her car out of the impound and help her get her child
1:06:29
back. It's pivotal things that we could be exerting our energy into instead of
1:06:35
these fictitious stories. I'm so sick of youth social media people that would do
1:06:41
any and everything to go viight for what for lights and for views. That
1:06:46
is a sickness. That is an illness. And y'all really need to lay
1:06:49
across somebody couch and get on somebody's medication because y'all really need some mental health
1:06:56
because this is a sickness. I saw a boy on he goes around pranking
1:07:01
people, and he was in the airport and and prank this white man and
1:07:05
said, this white man stole his luggage. And if I'm not mistake,
1:07:09
I believe the white man got arrested. But y'all stop playing with people.
1:07:17
Y'all need to be mindful with what you'll put out in the universe. Baby,
1:07:20
because karma does not have the expiration date. Karma does not forget an
1:07:25
address. So any ladies that feel the same way that as this young lady
1:07:30
that say, oh, men aren't providers, Men don't do this is feminism
1:07:35
and women we don't need. Then, don't ask for protection when you get
1:07:39
into a situation, when you get when you when you get your head kicked
1:07:43
into the wall, don't call the police. Now, let's wait that part
1:07:47
up. We need our men here. We do need them for protection the
1:07:58
same way black men need us. Black meant to protect them. That's what
1:08:04
we need, ladies. So in all this so feminism and oh I don't
1:08:09
need a man. That's generational bullshit that your mommy and you're ain'ting them taught
1:08:13
you don't depend on no man. Learn how to stand on your own com
1:08:16
feet. But then when you're in a situation now you need a man's protection,
1:08:26
keep that, keep that same energy, and I'm gonna hold you ladies
1:08:28
accountable for that. I'm gonna hold your ladies accountable for that because right here
1:08:33
we see a black man right here that was staying ten toes down for the
1:08:39
women that are worthy to be protective because some of you women act you carry
1:08:43
yourself like you're not worthy to be protective. Again, y'all want to be
1:08:46
the man and a woman in situations you gotta put aside. It's you know,
1:08:56
like jus say, it's very disheartened that you black men are are being
1:09:01
raped through the coals. And I'm not saying it ain't no bad black men,
1:09:06
because it is, just like it's some bad black women out here.
1:09:13
But y'all refused to hold those women accountable. Y'all co sign for this bullshit.
1:09:19
Y'all advocate for this, y'all in the background, raw rock with your
1:09:23
pine pins. One of the most beautiful comments that I saw was a man
1:09:33
saying, if I get a phone call about something popping off, he say
1:09:42
male or female? He say, I'm gonna first trying to de escalate the
1:09:45
situation before I even get there. That's a smart logical person. But this
1:09:58
this new generation, they ready to pop off on anything. Brother. They
1:10:04
don't care, They don't assess the situation. Oh Stones, my homies called
1:10:10
me. I'm I'm on the way. Y'all are fighting so hard to be
1:10:15
ride or dies that y'all ending up on the dying poort. You gotta be
1:10:26
mindful with who you're riding and dying for. Is it worth? You're losing
1:10:32
everything one decision. One decision can affect your life and everyone else around you.
1:10:42
And a lot of people don't think that way. Bro. If you
1:10:45
would have called me and say, hey, sis, man, my baby
1:10:47
and mama, brother would happened? Brother, Because the first time I'm saying,
1:10:54
brother, what what did you say to her? What'd you say?
1:10:56
What'd you do? What did you do. Would you tell that one?
1:11:00
Because what I'm not doing, I'm not I'm at a I'm at a swing.
1:11:03
The White brother, me and you both were at spaces of our lives.
1:11:06
We have grown children, you have grand babies. We stand to lose
1:11:12
a lot. See this, this this younger generation. They have no cares
1:11:17
and no worries in the world, but we stand to lose everything that we've
1:11:24
worked so hard to build. And I'm not gonna allow one decision to change
1:11:32
that for me, and this young lady has done just that. This one
1:11:38
decision, this this this fictitious story. If something really truly happens to you,
1:11:45
nobody's gonna come now, saying with Carlile Russell, something really truly happens
1:11:57
to you, they're not coming. They're not coming to you. They're not
1:12:04
coming to you. But let me show this video real quick, brother,
1:12:10
and then I want to make into the conversation because you're gonna be like WHOA.
1:12:15
A lot of y'all women are gonna be upset. And that's fine,
1:12:19
y'all know I don't care. But this is what accountability looks like. Stop
1:12:25
calling your brothers and your cousins for every little argument because you women sit on
1:12:29
social media, you sit around or everybody kill everybody, but you never tell
1:12:32
the truth that it's been a thousand shootings and homicides trickle back down and you're
1:12:36
running your fucking mouth, or you're calling somebody and exaggerating because you feel disrespected.
1:12:41
Stop calling people. You can argue with somebody on the block that said
1:12:45
leave it there, you call your brother. And now these niggas going through
1:12:46
it the whole summer and then somebody's child died about it. That's your fault.
1:12:51
That's your fault. You can't sit back and say it's not your fault
1:12:54
because they went to four. You shouldn't have called them. I shared that
1:13:01
video with somebody, and I've been called a woman hater. Now, y'all,
1:13:08
let me let me say this. I've been called a woman hater.
1:13:12
They don't understand. Someone send me a message, y'all. I'm not gonna
1:13:15
say their name because eventually I'm gonna expose you on social media. But you
1:13:19
know what, I'm not gonna even do that because you're not even worthy of
1:13:21
it. But I was called a woman hater. I was told I should
1:13:25
lick pussy instead because they say I bash women. So much. Let me
1:13:35
say this, why would I bash another woman that looks like me? That's
1:13:42
first and foremost Number two, the same strife you deal with I've dealt with
1:13:54
Number three. A lot of you women are afraid of accountability because the victimization
1:13:58
gets you attention. So because I'm holding you black women accountable, I'm a
1:14:03
woman hater. Absolutely not. You're just scared to look in the mirror.
1:14:11
That video is a I don't even think it's a number percent true, a
1:14:18
milkstillion percent true. And that's not even a number because Llian, that's the
1:14:24
that's made up. But you see what she said. Let me run that
1:14:31
back one more time for the people in the back that didn't hit this.
1:14:34
I need to run this back because I feel like some of you ladies in
1:14:39
their back didn't hit this. Let me run this back one one more time,
1:14:43
Just just one more time. I gotta run it back. Stop calling
1:14:46
your brothers and your cousins for every little argument because you women sit on social
1:14:50
media, you sit around or everybody kill everybody, but you never tell the
1:14:54
truth that it's been a thousand shootings and homicides trickle back down and you're running
1:14:58
your fucking mouth, or you calling somebody exaggerating because you feel disrespected. Stop
1:15:02
calling people. You can argue with somebody on the block that said leave it
1:15:05
there, you call your brother, Nady's niggas going through it the whole summer,
1:15:10
and then somebody's child die about it. That's your fault. That's your
1:15:13
fault. You can't sit back and say it's not your fault because they went
1:15:15
too far. You shouldn't have called them. I just want to touch on
1:15:23
what she said when she said, you call somebody. Now they're going through
1:15:28
they're going back and forth the whole summer. It doesn't end because it starts
1:15:34
with your life. This person pulls up and un alive this person. So
1:15:41
guess what. Now this person wants revenge. So now the person that you
1:15:46
want alive, there are people pull up on the people that aren't alive the
1:15:49
person, and it just it's like a never ending sight. It's like a
1:15:55
hamster wheel. It just goes and goes and goes and goals until everybody's on
1:16:01
the line. Oh hey, diplomat, he said, y'all have call lines
1:16:14
open. No, I need to diplomat, message me, send me a
1:16:18
message because I need to know how to how to set it, how to
1:16:23
set it up. I try to do that before, and I don't know.
1:16:25
It just didn't work. But diplomat, put your drop your talents,
1:16:30
let me give you. Let me get the number I could. Uh,
1:16:33
let me show you. Do I have it on this? Tell them if
1:16:38
you can send him the link, if you can't afford him the link,
1:16:41
and tell them to come on and I can add them all. Give me
1:16:47
this number I don't have. Hold no, I was gonna give I was
1:16:53
gonna give you a number. I was gonna give you a number to put
1:16:55
on there so they could call in. You want to call it? Okay,
1:16:58
I'm ready, hold on me posting. Okay, what's the number?
1:17:02
Four seven zero nine oh six six nine nine six. Let me post this
1:17:14
up here and he drops off. Big Brother come back. I don't know
1:17:24
if I did I do something. I know I didn't knock him off.
1:17:26
I think he knocked off on his own. I'm waiting on Big Brother to
1:17:31
come back, but listening like what that young ladys said, Okay, here
1:17:39
we go, here we go. Did I kick you off? No?
1:17:44
That was me. I was I was messing around my phone, trying to
1:17:46
trying to look at the numbers. But that's the number. You can call
1:17:49
that number right there, anybody that wants to call in and put an input.
1:17:55
There's the number right there. Okay, cool, thank your honey,
1:18:02
he said. Cool, he said, Okay, I'm gonna listen some more
1:18:04
so I can add context. I appreciate you. Thank you for pulling up,
1:18:08
honey. So, going back to the video that I just showed,
1:18:13
the clip that I just showed, what she said it made school much sense
1:18:16
because that's the first thing we do the moment it gets hot. Oh,
1:18:23
I'm calling my brother. I'm getting on the phone. I'm calling my brother.
1:18:26
Oh yeah, broh, pull up this dude. Blah blah blah blah
1:18:29
blah blah blah, your brother, pull up, your cousin's, pull up,
1:18:32
whoever you're calling. They pull up, haven't even assessed the situation,
1:18:39
and now somebody's hurt, because again, a lot of people pull up to
1:18:44
situations off of emotions. They're not even no one's even thinking rational anymore.
1:18:53
And you're leaving a lot of blood and in the in the path of this.
1:19:00
But do I feel like black women are really protected? I believe we
1:19:04
all, But then you have this this percentage of women that well, I
1:19:10
don't need a man. Nope, I'm I'm misindependent until you're missindependent assers in
1:19:17
a situation and now you feel like, well I'm not being protected. You
1:19:23
can't have it both ways. And the crazy thing about this is that majority
1:19:28
of those women that you're speaking of right now that it's misindependent don't need a
1:19:31
man, or the same ones screaming that men are aren't protected. It's the
1:19:36
same ones. And I see it like in hosting these lives on on TikTok
1:19:43
and stuff and talking these women or even being part of lives. I sit
1:19:45
there and I watch the comments, and I watch with women saying while they
1:19:48
hear other women talking right here, mental and you can just see that you
1:19:54
have a disdain for men. So while ship men even acknowledge you. Right,
1:20:02
And a sister said this, I can't remember it was, it was
1:20:05
the last week before last. She was like, if it wasn't for you
1:20:12
looking good that men wanted to get with you, or you having a body
1:20:15
or whatever, or even you having a vagina, most men wouldn't deal with
1:20:19
you. Most men want to deal with if it wasn't for that, because
1:20:24
you're not You're not worth anything. A lot of y'all don't have any substance
1:20:27
to you. So I'm gonna fault brothers for like, we we have brothers
1:20:34
that support these sisters. You know, they give these sisters validation. They
1:20:38
give these sisters attention when they know they damn they're wrong, just because they
1:20:42
look good, you know, just because they're dressed provocatively and you know they're
1:20:49
showing something because they think they're gonna get something. And based on that,
1:20:53
they could they basically when you say rapping man around their finger, right,
1:20:58
they know they could do that. You know. It's that pretty privilege,
1:21:00
you know, we talk about sometimes pretty privilege. So Jules says some not
1:21:08
not all, but some women like to play the victim when they were the
1:21:11
aggressor. She said, you could be bold or is it can't or can?
1:21:16
I think she means can't You can't be bold, but maybe I know
1:21:23
you you can't. You actually can be because at some point there's a clear
1:21:27
line, to some point, you could be the aggressor and then she turned
1:21:29
bad and you can't. You can't control how people react to you. And
1:21:33
this case is probably a perfect example of that. We don't have all the
1:21:36
facts, but It's probably a perfect example of you can't control how people will
1:21:40
return fire. You know, if if, if you, if you disrespect
1:21:45
somebody, if you put your hands on somebody, if you if you do
1:21:47
some shit to somebody, you can't control. You can't control it. You
1:21:53
hit him when a fist, they might come back with a chair or a
1:21:58
gun, yeah, or organ or a night we don't know. And from
1:22:02
what they was seeing, the young lady had been kind of like antagonized the
1:22:09
men all night long. They said, she she's knowing him for doing this,
1:22:17
so she slapped. From what I heard, she slapped them hand before
1:22:24
or had done then some multiple man or whatever. I've seen two videos where
1:22:29
she didn't. They claim it was a skin. I'm gonna question maybe one
1:22:34
could be maybe a play thing. But the one where she was out where
1:22:36
the man was standing up and he was out amongst people, and it looked
1:22:40
like like this Burber Street situation. It was out where a bunch of people's
1:22:45
around and it was some white people. And she did as she walked off
1:22:47
and she started like twerking or whatever. Uh, it didn't look like he
1:22:54
was prepared for They didn't look like he you know, like he knew that
1:22:56
was coming or whatever. You know, she was go ahead, brother,
1:23:00
No, I said, she was finging the face and stuff, and then
1:23:02
she slapped the man and walked off. And that's what I mean when I
1:23:05
say it's the things that people do for likes and views. Like I was
1:23:14
telling you last night about the young man that was on a lot. He
1:23:17
was I guess some type of Facebook comedian or Instagram meeting whatever he was,
1:23:23
but he was poking at somebody and talking shit about roll up, man,
1:23:29
roll up, there, come out, roll up. And the dude was
1:23:30
sitting outside on the phone. He was lying. And the dude pulled up
1:23:34
and on a lot and and killed him a lot. And you can hit
1:23:41
him dun shots in the background, m because once they started, the phone
1:23:46
dropped. But that's what I mean when I say, y'all have to be
1:23:51
mindful with the things that you do for likes and views because not everybody's let
1:23:58
me find up mentally stable. Let me say that, not everybody's mentally stable.
1:24:03
You can't play with everybody like that. You don't know what type of
1:24:08
data this person has had. You don't know. That's like, brother,
1:24:12
if I come to you and I, oh, brother, did, and
1:24:14
I'm doing it. I don't I told you because I can't blame to you
1:24:16
like that, but I don't. I might have caught you on the wrong
1:24:20
day. And one thing we gotta understand too is social media amps up a
1:24:26
lot of shit because people know they're being publicly shamed in front of possibly millions
1:24:30
of people. If shit go viral, you're talking about millions of people.
1:24:33
Now you're looking like a total ass out here, looking stupid as hell,
1:24:38
and you know, damn people are gonna be clowning me everywhere I go.
1:24:41
Now my face is its synonymous with a clown. Basically, everybody's laughing at
1:24:45
me, and that amps up the situation where people like, nah, you
1:24:48
ain't gonna be playing with me like that, and they're willing to do shit,
1:24:53
and that's you know, that's a thing. I want to try to
1:24:56
pull up this video real quick. Let me see if I could go to
1:24:59
it. It's the bit you sent me, but I just kind of want
1:25:01
to play a couple of clips from it. Let me see if I'm able
1:25:06
to. I don't know if I'm able to present it, but it's it's
1:25:13
y'all, follow this young lady. It's called the crimson cure, and she's
1:25:16
full home, and it was why men won't protect random women? And she
1:25:23
talks about this, and she basically is the head. She called the girl
1:25:27
a pumpkinhead. That's what she called And she said, let me see,
1:25:33
let me see if I could present it. Let me let me see if
1:25:36
it'll let me let me see if I could share the screen. Let me
1:25:45
see if it'll let me do it? Can you see? Hold on?
1:25:55
Ye okay, here we go do full screen. The first reason is the
1:26:04
one I already gained. Can you see it? A half of sport,
1:26:09
no context, the story with no context, just her crime with a pumping
1:26:15
head. And she's a victim, and she was an innocent victim. Not
1:26:23
only was she a victim, she was an innocent victim. This is this
1:26:27
is what we are led to believe. And also not only is she an
1:26:30
innocent victim, but the men around her, the black men, and now
1:26:34
now this is key, the black men around her did not protect her.
1:26:42
Now see, I got a problem with all of that. But before we
1:26:46
get into my problems with that, I'm gonna read these supertats and then I'm
1:26:51
going to show y'all a series of Instagram videos that paint this picture better than
1:26:58
our can in words. It paints faster than I can paint in words,
1:27:03
because we're gonna need the whole picture so that what the rest of what I
1:27:10
say will make sense to you. Okay, so the first things first,
1:27:15
let's get to acknowledge the super chats. Thank you death before dishonor stay for
1:27:20
the raisins in the potato salad. Okay, thank you Stanley for y'all super
1:27:31
sticker. I appreciate you. Thank you Tokyo traveling ser so he hear like
1:27:34
mister and the color purple? Hey, will you do right? You understand
1:27:40
me? Thank you devines that she claimed me musclemtorquing on her, I GC.
1:27:45
I already know this because she's somaling. She doesn't get over here and
1:27:54
clown. See had you had you been outside in the daytime with your h
1:27:58
j abbon you're with the got caught up ooops up side your head, I
1:28:01
said, ooops up, sad head when they got caught with a brick.
1:28:06
I have moved around in Chicago for my whole life. I just got to
1:28:12
New York a couple of months ago. I have moved around in Chicago,
1:28:15
the same city that Carlicia Hood had her son delete a black man for fighting
1:28:21
on her for forty five years. And I guarantee you I have never been
1:28:29
in the city. This is Shiraq. I grew up in the hood hood.
1:28:33
I didn't grow up in no suburb. I didn't grow up in Oak
1:28:36
Park. I was. I was on the West Side, in the Austin
1:28:41
area. Do you understand me. If you're from Chicago, you know exactly
1:28:45
what I'm talking about. I was in the Austin area in the six H
1:28:51
six four four. Okay, the six H six four four. If you're
1:28:58
from Chicago, you understand both folk m and I never got randomly attacked or
1:29:11
swan on by no man. And this is the hood I'm talking about.
1:29:15
This is the place where do you get cut cut quick for looking the wrong
1:29:19
way. And I've been on sixty thirty King Drive, that's old block,
1:29:32
all in the wild Huntings when I had to go. Maywood is a suburban.
1:29:38
It ain't no better all right, from the south side to the west
1:29:47
side. And I have never encountered a situation one to one where a man
1:29:55
just attacked me because of the way you're moving. That's why you're getting tacked.
1:30:03
Let me get to the rest of these super chats. Thank you,
1:30:06
take keys, I love your content. Outlook, this woman is Somalian woman
1:30:10
and the man was also Somalian. African men don't play no games with disrespect.
1:30:14
They do not. Thank you, Miss thirty nine Dina for your contribution,
1:30:17
sweetheart. Thank you, Finny and said tip job, thank you,
1:30:20
I appreciate it, and thank you. Mobile man said she was an active
1:30:23
participant in Miss Andrew and feminist rhetoric, yet once she was attacked, she
1:30:27
want to help from the same men that she admittedly hated. Makes no sense.
1:30:34
Okay, now let's get to these videos. It's a it's a few.
1:30:47
Some of them are gonna be repetitive, but I need to give you
1:30:53
this outlook. Thank you, Miss Beschua hasty. How you're doing, sweetheart.
1:31:01
Let's let's let's let's get to it here. Now, let's see this.
1:31:12
This is this is one. This is this is one. This is
1:31:23
for You're a white man and I'm a black woman. I have let's provisit
1:31:27
you. Thank you for all the rappers and public figures in general who said
1:31:36
that Sukiana and other women who rap about their body's father. They are just
1:31:40
gonna be touched because they bring it on to themselves. Just know that when
1:31:44
you're talking about your money and how much trick a trick, it will be
1:31:47
touched. It will be touched. And I'm gonna scare tonight. Let's stop
1:32:00
Happy Pride. I hope every black woman is kissing a little black woman because
1:32:04
we are the innate protectors and the providers. We protect societies. We protect
1:32:10
communities with our intellectual property, with our lived experience. Now we're gonna go
1:32:18
back. We're gonna go back, Happy Pride. I hope every black woman
1:32:26
is kissing another black woman because we are the innate protectors and the providers.
1:32:30
We protect societies. We protect communities with our intellectual property, with our lived
1:32:36
experiences, with our breast meal, with our bodies. We're the ones and
1:32:42
the two. It's not even another yo. This man just hit me in
1:32:46
my face with a breaking All these black men just watch. They don't give
1:32:50
a Yeah, it does matter. It hit me a wucking wood rather a
1:32:57
rock, and it hit me in my fucking face, and I want to
1:32:59
give up my number. Oh y'all, just fucking watch what Happy Pride I
1:33:03
ever done to anybody in my life to deserve this. I never did anything
1:33:12
in my life to hurt anybody. Literally, a man asked me for my
1:33:17
number. I said nope, And he picked up a brick in front of
1:33:23
so many men and was like, what are you gonna do? And I
1:33:27
told all these men like, yo, why this man got a brick all
1:33:30
my face and he's he's holding a brick and all these things is watching and
1:33:36
nobody does nothing, and he hits me in my face and they're all just
1:33:41
watching and then let that they can get it a call? How is this?
1:33:45
Okay? This is what y'all doing to women I ever done? But
1:33:59
wait, there's more. Okay, So we're just just an example. But
1:34:09
I'm really talking to like sis women because like it's giving y'all real jealous,
1:34:15
Like y'all real jealous because they can will and have pool, yo, ninja.
1:34:24
All the trans girls ever did was teach y'all how to wear makeup because
1:34:27
he has to make up you wear today is trans makeup. They teach y'all
1:34:30
how to do y'all hair. They got y'all hair together, and like,
1:34:33
what do y'all think those bbyl bodies are? Because the legs hit sets.
1:34:39
But I'm really talking to like, but wait, there's more because this video
1:34:50
here is of one of the men that were there. Let's listen to what
1:34:56
he had to say. I was one of the guys who was there that
1:35:00
did not help her when she was getting hit with a breaker, right.
1:35:03
I feel like people need to know the whole story before they start commenting and
1:35:09
saying things they don't understand or they don't know if you guys don't even remember
1:35:13
who you gots are trying to defend or you gots trying to speak up for
1:35:15
it. This is the same woman that was going around smacking white people in
1:35:19
the streets and count guy hit her. Why would I both defend somebody that
1:35:28
actually looking for trouble? This woman, she is literally a trouble maker.
1:35:33
Everybody that knows her in our community. No, she's a trouble maker.
1:35:38
I'm not gonna risk my life over somebody that's actually out there looking for trouble.
1:35:43
If you're going on social media outline, you're going to see some of
1:35:45
her antique videos tuning people looking for a reaction. What she get what she'd
1:35:50
been looking for? And you gotta yelling her the attention that she was actually
1:35:55
speaking for it. I don't regret not standing up for her. If you
1:35:59
look, that's all the videos I was there. I don't regret nothing once
1:36:03
up and I don't regret standing up her. I'm not saying she deserved it.
1:36:08
I'm not saying that any man have a right to hit a woman,
1:36:11
especially with a break. Nobody deserved that. By the end of the day,
1:36:15
there's more to the story. She's not as anocent as she's trying to
1:36:17
portray herself to be. She wants attention. She's an attention to her woman.
1:36:23
She tried to go viral, and you guys stop giving her what she
1:36:26
wanted. Yes, she get Yes, she didn't get hit by a breaking
1:36:29
Yes I saw Yes. I wasn't standing by doing nothing. And if that
1:36:33
shit happened again in the same circumstances, I will watch. Because she's not
1:36:38
as annocent that she portrays herself to be. She was talenting the guy,
1:36:42
she was calling him off type her name. She was degrading him to a
1:36:45
point where he resolved and picking up a breaking hitting him. I don't condone
1:36:48
that typeout behavior. But once again, she's not as innocent I should portrays
1:36:54
herself to be. I literally like, I remember why old back, she's
1:36:57
posting videos going around in public literally matchew old white people in the face for
1:37:02
what And now you getting hit by a friend and I want to cry Wolf,
1:37:06
I don't care. You want to trouble, you got trouble. I'll
1:37:10
stop buy and watch don't oh man, that the whole situation got me up.
1:37:14
I was one of the guys. Okay, So I wanted I wanted
1:37:24
to show that. I wanted to get that. Let me stop this video,
1:37:32
okay, all right. So I wanted to show that because that we've
1:37:36
had we have new people that are tuning in diplomat. Yes, baby,
1:37:41
yeah they are. He said, Ay, the Prince think you? I
1:37:45
know, right, shout out to Blackmail for introducing me to the Prince think
1:37:48
you? Or because baby, let me tell you, I watched a couple
1:37:53
of her videos today. Yeah, she's definitely gonna get a sub subscribe for
1:37:58
me. Sisters, Yeah, yes, sir, yes sir. Yeah.
1:38:04
But so so that guy, that guy that you just did, that was
1:38:08
a guy in my live last night that was we'll talk, We'll talk,
1:38:12
Yeah, we'll talk. Yeah. I like what he said because what he
1:38:16
said made a thousand percent since because I tried to get him on, but
1:38:23
he said he was getting death threats and stuff, so he you know,
1:38:26
he didn't want to do it. I hate I tell him I get it,
1:38:30
Tell him I I totally get it. But I really for the new
1:38:34
people y'all. Again, y'all, welcome to Black Girl Interrupt their podcast.
1:38:39
My name is Ashley. I'm the founder of b b G I and oh
1:38:42
I can't never get my fingers together, and I got my brother on with
1:38:45
me tonight. That is the host of the Blackmail podcast. If you guys
1:38:48
are on TikTok, please go follow him under the same name. I am
1:38:54
fighting and tusting him with him to get his Blackmail podcasting real. But I'm
1:39:01
really pushing him to get back into the podcast podcast atmosphere environment because the black
1:39:09
Mail podcast he talks about phenomenal things. So give him a follow, a
1:39:15
comment, a like, share, whatever it is, show my brother some
1:39:17
love. But I wanted, you know, to the new people that are
1:39:21
tuning in, I wanted to give y'all the back story on this young lead.
1:39:28
See I couldn't, like, I couldn't get the individual clips because everybody's
1:39:32
just been kind of streaming it live in the videos. So I went back
1:39:35
to the Prinson's tour shout out to her, Miss the Crimson Cure, go
1:39:40
give her a sub She's her content is amazing and this episode is her episode.
1:39:46
It's about an hour and a half where she really talks about this and
1:39:49
she really goes into great detail where basically she says, where is feminism getting
1:39:55
you? Now? Basically is what she's saying. You know, you keep
1:39:59
saying you don't want a man, you don't need a man. All lesbians
1:40:02
sada die. But now you're mad because no man stepped in to protect you.
1:40:11
But you didn't need the protection. And that's why I said, you
1:40:15
have to be mindful of what you put out in the universe because you never
1:40:17
know when that's gonna come back and bite you in the butt. You just
1:40:20
do not know. You never know, You do not know. And I'm
1:40:28
with I'm with the young man. I don't condone men hitting women. I
1:40:33
do not. I don't condone violence from men to women, women to men.
1:40:39
I don't condone it at all. But I will say, you're go
1:40:44
looking for trouble, You're gonna get exactly what you ask for. You keep
1:40:45
knocking on. You keep knocking on people's doors, somebody's gonna answer. Go
1:40:51
ahead, brother, because you look like you like you guys something to go
1:40:55
ahead. So so earlier I was in alive, black Guru, I don't
1:40:59
know if you know black I did. I jumped in for a moment,
1:41:01
then all come in and I couldn't heard. I was like, yeah,
1:41:05
let me just get out of here because I couldn't even just enjoy the conversation.
1:41:09
But go ahead. So so the sister on that she was of African
1:41:13
descent. She said she's from Ivory Coast and she's been in America for I
1:41:17
think she said almost twenty years. It was not mistaken about twenty years.
1:41:21
Anyway. She brought up another point that I didn't think about, but she
1:41:28
was saying that she's so like she's pissed off of that woman because what she
1:41:32
did, she utilized the divide that the black community has in order to profit
1:41:40
off of. And the whole thing I was, I was like, okay,
1:41:43
And she was saying it from being a you know, a born in
1:41:45
a foreign country. She was like, you know, being from foreign country,
1:41:47
my parents or whatever, you know, we kind of amongst ourselves.
1:41:51
The people that I communicate with. That's from where I'm from. You know,
1:41:56
if we're not gonna do any goods for the community, the black community,
1:41:59
because we could say ourself to be black, we're just not gonna.
1:42:02
I mean, we're not gonna. We're not gonna add to what the black
1:42:05
community already has because they're aware of what goes on between in the black community,
1:42:09
right, They're aware of what goes on America to the black people,
1:42:12
the people who are descendants of slavery, so they don't want to add to
1:42:15
it. And she was able to do that, she said, because she
1:42:18
already knows how black men, black American men of view already, so it
1:42:24
was easy to do. It's like the easy targets. I didn't catch that.
1:42:27
I didn't get to hear everything she said, but I know exactly who
1:42:31
you're talking about. I was like, damn, I had a call from
1:42:34
and I was like, am I want to hear the rest of this?
1:42:36
Because she went on she said that she she she expressed that this young lady
1:42:46
makes it. What does she say? I can't quote verbatim, but she
1:42:51
said something like they already view us that come from these other countries over here
1:42:57
to the States in a negative connotation. Soul. What this young make basically
1:43:02
is what she said, what I caught before I had to come out of
1:43:05
the live was that you're contributing to what the slave master wants you to do.
1:43:12
Anyway you're doing you're you're doing it. It's almost like you're putting your
1:43:15
two cents in the piggy bank of the vision when it when it comes to
1:43:21
us over here in the state. But go ahead, bro, I didn't
1:43:24
mean to cut you off going no, no, no, And that's basically
1:43:27
what us she was kind of she took it from that aspect to say that,
1:43:30
you know, it was easy to do that, and she didn't.
1:43:32
She wasn't specifically to say no, the men that did this the minute did
1:43:35
that was in my community. She didn't do that. She said black men,
1:43:40
and you know, and she was able to do that and garner attention
1:43:45
that she needed and also the money because I mean, she gotta go fund
1:43:49
me and that's almost forty thousand, right, And she was able to do
1:43:53
that by shipping on black men. And because it's it's it's the we're the
1:43:57
usual suspects basically, you know, y'all that, yeah, we're to follow
1:44:00
that, and that's what I said last night. You know, I'm not
1:44:05
going to stand by and contribute to conversations where black women are downing black men
1:44:15
or you're down in black women, because you're doing exactly what the white man
1:44:19
wants you to do. You're doing exactly what the slave manster wants you to
1:44:23
do. You're contributing to the division amongst us. No matter how much we
1:44:28
try to unify, there's always gonna be that one person that's gonna continue to
1:44:32
keep driving the wedge amongst black men and black women. And I'm not gonna
1:44:36
stand by and send in conversations and contribute to that. That's why I've really
1:44:43
kind of backed away from social media because of this, because that seems to
1:44:48
be the norm every time I get on social media is all the black man
1:44:54
is the black man, and all you black women this and black women that
1:44:57
you're doing. And then you do this amongst the people that don't look like
1:45:00
us, and then you allow them to contribute to the conversation and they have
1:45:05
no parts of the conversation because you don't understand what it's like to live in
1:45:09
the life of a black woman, or you don't understand what it's like to
1:45:12
live in the life of a black man. So, you know, and
1:45:15
I didn't want to say anything about the young lady that was on your panel
1:45:17
last night, because I think she's very sweet, but she really just didn't
1:45:24
contribute to the conversation because you don't know what it's like to live in the
1:45:29
life of a black woman. You don't know what it's like to live in
1:45:30
the life of a black man. Yes, of course she's a brown person,
1:45:35
but you know, and I love it. I think she's sweetest,
1:45:40
pot I can't wait to talk to her. I think she's an awesome,
1:45:43
amazing person. But at the end of the day, I can't sit by
1:45:47
and I hold my black women accountable when they're wrong, and in this situation,
1:45:54
I have to hold this young lady accountable because we are already Black women
1:45:59
were already appreciated and the most disrespected. So for you to continue to you're
1:46:05
adding fuel to the fire. You're making us really look ignorant with these with
1:46:11
these videos that you're trying to do for lights and views, and you're doing
1:46:15
it at the demands of black men and black women. I don't like that.
1:46:19
I don't like that. So this lady really has me upset. And
1:46:24
I'm speaking from a black woman's point of view, and I'm also speaking as
1:46:28
a domestic violence somebody because we're already being un alive at alarming rates, our
1:46:38
black brothers are being unalive at alarming rates, and you just added more kerosene
1:46:45
to the fire with this fictitious story of a situation that you created. And
1:46:51
by no means this is not victim blame me, because I don't victim blame,
1:46:56
but in this situation, I'm gonna hold you accountable because this is a
1:47:00
fictitious story that you could potentially get somebody hurt over relied because you're not telling
1:47:10
the whole truth you do this, and that's what I said. There was
1:47:15
a bit I'm telling there's surveillance footage. I'm gonna have to try to go
1:47:18
back and find it. The guy flows, I think it's his name,
1:47:23
the guy that Go, he's real big on TikTok too, But he was
1:47:28
on a live and I jumped in for a little while before before my show
1:47:30
started, and that's why I saw this surveillance footage. Someone was streaming the
1:47:36
footage where they said she was and she had been taunting people all night long.
1:47:42
She came in the club. She had a she had a a mask
1:47:45
stone uh that where you could only see her eyes and I guess you could
1:47:49
consider it a ski mask. But like the mask that Beyonce was wearing in
1:47:55
times where just her eyes are short, she had on something like that.
1:47:58
Matter of fact, I'm gonna see if I can find a picture Taraji where
1:48:00
Taragi was dressed up, was dressed up and she had on this little mask
1:48:08
with her eyes were just her eyes were opening her mouth and like this part
1:48:12
was covered and this was all you can see. The young lady had an
1:48:14
ask on like that in the club that night. And this is the turbaillance
1:48:17
footage footage from the club. So this is not something that someone has pieced
1:48:20
and put together. This was actual footage from the people that run the club
1:48:27
that she was at that night that we're showing this, and they said,
1:48:30
she comes in, this is what she does. She's known for this.
1:48:34
M So you keep knocking on somebody's door, somebody's gonna answer. Somebody's gonna
1:48:44
answer, Diplomat says, pulled up. He says, every time I joined
1:48:48
TikTok Live, they don't want to hear the contrary. You wanna know why
1:48:51
didn't go ahead? Brother, go ahead? No, I was saying a
1:48:56
lot of a lot of people don't because you got triggered winning. I'm step
1:48:58
away for a second again, my court, my phone about to die.
1:49:02
You're good, You're good, But they don't want to hear it. Diplomat,
1:49:06
I'm gonna leave your comment up for just a moment. They don't want
1:49:10
to hear that because that's too much like right, because no one's in the
1:49:14
business of holding people accountable for their actions. That's the problem these dates is
1:49:19
I'm gonna hold this woman account because she's really making it difficult for women that
1:49:28
are really truly victims of being victims of assault, not by their own doing,
1:49:34
if that's if I said that correct, but she's she provoked this.
1:49:41
You go and you're antagonize somebody, you're bothering somebody, Diplomat, I'm gonna
1:49:45
use you as an example. That's like if we're hanging out and I'm doing
1:49:50
the most while we're out, Okay, I'm doing the most, and you've
1:49:56
already told me, Ashley, calmed down, chill out, calm down,
1:50:00
you're doing too much. And if I'm still doing the ra RA and something
1:50:05
happens to me, I'm not expecting you to come and save me, because
1:50:10
you know what, you gave me a warning shot already. That's like me
1:50:15
and you a big brother. If you have told me, Ashley, I
1:50:19
need you to chill out. You don't need nothing else to drink. You
1:50:21
know, I'm just gonna say I've been Let's let's just say I've been drinking.
1:50:25
And you say, Ashley, you know how you get when you had
1:50:27
you had too many drinks. You know we've been out before, we've hung
1:50:30
out. You need you need to chill out. And if you've given me
1:50:35
that warning shot, you've already fired this rubber bullet at me and you'll said,
1:50:40
Ashley, you need to chill out. And if I'm still doing the
1:50:45
extra and the ra RA, I'm not going to look to you to save
1:50:50
me because you have already told me you need to chill out. You're doing
1:50:56
too much. Also, I've already protect I've already attempted to protect you.
1:51:02
There you go, and you threw that protection away. There we go,
1:51:11
There we go, bingo. That's exactly my point, because I disregarded your
1:51:21
show. The protection I pretty much based I've basically told you f you in
1:51:32
your protection. That's that's basically what I've said to you. So now I'm
1:51:38
in a situation and now I'm begging you to help me, but you've already
1:51:45
tried to help me. So who am I really gonna be mad at me
1:51:46
or you? You're on mute? Okay, so diplomat and diplomat Okay,
1:52:14
all right, you brokaw, I appreciate that. I'm going to show oh
1:52:27
man, so I am a YouTube dad. I want a lot of videos
1:52:34
in dogenal and even hear me. Okay, he dropped out, but he's
1:52:46
coming back in. But that's you know, like I say, my my
1:52:54
thing is a lot of people don't want to be held account for their actions.
1:53:00
If a person has already told you you're doing too much, you need
1:53:02
to relax, that's that's their one. That's that's you know, like big
1:53:08
brother Wilson, that's there, that's their shield of protection. That's their shield.
1:53:15
So we can just regard. Yeah, I can hear you. So
1:53:17
if you disregard that shield of protection, you're on your own. Stop looking
1:53:25
for someone to save you from a situation that you create. What's see the
1:53:30
reason that a lot of people are, oh my gosh, y'all are just
1:53:35
bash y'all are victim blaming is because you're not trying to hold this woman accountable
1:53:39
for this fictitious story that she has brought that she is. This is a
1:53:43
fictitious story. No one's denying the fact that she got hit in the face
1:53:46
with a brick, but the circumstances surrounding was fictitious. Go ahead, brother,
1:53:55
make sure you can start talking to see if she can hear him.
1:53:58
Brother, very yeah, she said, you're good, good, all right.
1:54:04
I'd like to prevent the people with a person, so what I would
1:54:11
prevent to them and when they got into a problem with those situations tend to
1:54:24
be the most dangerous situations like a love more but if you get involved kind
1:54:30
of so a lot of people do back off and only protect their loved ones,
1:54:36
their family, which makes a lot more than protect everybody and as facts,
1:54:47
because the thing is, if you ever talked to any police officers,
1:54:50
they'll tell you a DV situation is the most volatile situation. They really don't
1:54:57
like to eat go into those situations because they don't don't know what they're gonna
1:55:00
end up getting. What's gonna end up happening with that because the tempers are
1:55:04
already high. You know, we've got two people that are already going against
1:55:06
each other. They've been uh adding each other probably all day, and there's
1:55:12
there's a whole cycle of abuse sometimes. So yeah, we're not equipped as
1:55:16
as men. We're not equipped to deal with those situations. We're not cops,
1:55:20
we're not psychiatrists or anything like that. So they're asking us do something
1:55:25
that's that's that the professionals don't even want to do really right exactly. And
1:55:30
I can understand it your brother out there, that a lot of them beyond
1:55:45
m there's a lot more information for video man perfect. I think what we
1:56:06
need to do independencely blame the people that what they give. If somebody doesn't,
1:56:15
Dad cannot blame the people for that more perfect fact. He is preaching
1:56:27
facts because when you encounter these domestic violence situations, a lot of times people
1:56:34
have a history of this and police have been have come to the residents multiple
1:56:41
times, they you know, have told him separate. They end up getting
1:56:44
back together. So police at that point are like, why do we why
1:56:48
do you keep calling us if you're just gonna keep going back. Yeah,
1:56:54
yeah, I'd like to play up. I got that like a lot of
1:57:00
you. I'm probably every fight video, every thomaside vio, a lot of
1:57:06
actually uh still carried. But there was an occasion where the girlfriend of the
1:57:19
guy called their brother because people right, So of course the brother knows us
1:57:29
and the guy when they're fighting, so going the fight the guy brother.
1:57:38
The worst part about the story is even though the guys are bills day with
1:57:43
the guy after the brother had passed, but so it's like you're putting people
1:57:49
in the decision where they have to be involved in. You're still going back
1:57:56
to the guy and it's like it's like that type of s that type of
1:58:00
thing being especially come doing anything sometimes with your own family. Sometimes I just
1:58:11
about being blood like that people you have a really crazy because of that goes
1:58:15
out does all kind of crazy. You can't put yourself in the that.
1:58:19
I also have a power I have does somebody to live mh ok. I'm
1:58:31
and I'm agreeing with him because it's it's like you don't value that person's life.
1:58:41
It's almost and it's like you feel and I see this and I'm gonna
1:58:46
be honest with you. We as black women. We take y'all black men
1:58:50
for branded. We feel like y'all are indispensable to us. We don't value
1:58:56
y'all, and some of y'all don't value us. But I want to love
1:59:02
the ones that do value and appreciate and think logical in these situations. I
1:59:10
think the most disheartening diplomat about this situation all the black women that are still
1:59:18
not holding this woman accountable, even though the truth is coming out, They're
1:59:25
still on live bashing black men. Oh, this is what y'all do,
1:59:30
and this, and you wonder why we don't mess with black men. We're
1:59:32
going over to white men. So you're going over to the oppressor, as
1:59:35
if that's any better. But that's a whole other conversation. But but I'll
1:59:41
run down that rabbit hole on another episode. But you act like white men
1:59:46
are not unliving us, So go ahead, go ahead, baby. What
1:59:57
It's almost like, it's like you gotta want to do others for the racist
2:00:03
aspect of everything. But some people, even with the the whole situation of
2:00:11
the guy of women that was getting jumped by the white people or whatever,
2:00:18
there were a lot of guys that we was like, well, why did
2:00:21
all those people. Those people people like, how will you not see what
2:00:27
happens? Like people will lately be ignorant. So that group of people,
2:00:34
you know what I mean. So now it's like if there's no saving those
2:00:41
people, I think what we need to do find the mist of people that
2:00:44
active and maybe find a touple of the people that need have that are petering
2:00:49
on the mean, ghet them to gradocated to us. I think we can
2:00:54
only say the people that are you said this, but it's literally yea even
2:01:02
no liege, only emotionals, and they're moving off of black women's power.
2:01:10
Are believe all women. We have to get to get more information, Like
2:01:18
it's like going to court. You're getting the stated someone guilty before they get
2:01:24
the court proved they're innything you're gonna be. So I think the only thing
2:01:30
we could do is people that want to be saved. You could tell one
2:01:34
again one I agree. I'm with him, you know again, I'm I'm
2:01:45
not upset at the black men that questioned the validity of the story because there
2:01:50
were some black men that said, well, we're just gonna wait and and
2:01:54
and you know, get some more information before we're rushed to you know,
2:01:57
before we rushed to make judgments. But it's like now it's coming out.
2:02:04
A lot of people are bad paneling, a lot of people are still old
2:02:09
woman, hear me raw. You know this, This quot her accountable for
2:02:13
this fictitious story that she came up with for why she was hit. She
2:02:17
didn't deserve it. I'm not saying that by no means, but I need
2:02:21
you women to hold this woman accountable. Stop being her cheerleader. Stop advocating
2:02:29
for the foolery because this is what y'all seem to do because y'all want us
2:02:33
black women to stick together. I'm gonna stick with what's the right. Let
2:02:39
me say that I'm gonna go with and I'm gonna stick with what's right.
2:02:43
Black, white, purple green, indifferent. I'm for the truth and not
2:02:48
a lot because I'm gonna I'm gonna leave one second. But it's just to
2:03:00
show what happens before you get all the information. And I died to be
2:03:05
helped with the problem back to help evolves because like you said earlier than it's
2:03:10
the biggest worry is the bry wolfings. You don't need her to over exaggerating
2:03:19
this dea when there are really people out there touting that need help us.
2:03:23
Now, if they hear a black woman's cry about situation, people are not
2:03:29
gonna believe it. People gonna here you go again the story. You have
2:03:32
to get the whole story first, real and mean. Maybe it's just the
2:03:35
thing that if we get the stories and then act first before we get that
2:03:40
for a conclusion by hearing the first story for the number. So I'm gonna
2:03:45
give you guys to think. And the shows where a guy is advocates for
2:03:49
her before he used to get in. I appreciated the brother, I appreciate
2:03:56
you coming through peace. Thank you. But he diplomat salute to you,
2:04:01
brother, because he said exactly what we talk about. Because we're always quick
2:04:12
to jump to pull the trigger before we even though we're talking, we're aiming
2:04:17
at now that all this is coming, all this is starting to unfold.
2:04:24
Now you're seeing these lives on TikTok where people are black pellet. The same
2:04:27
people that were like, oh yeah, y'all black being y'all just hate black
2:04:30
women. But I'm some of'em are backpedaling. Some of them are like,
2:04:34
she wrong for that, she never should have did that, She should
2:04:40
y'all should have waited. That's why I waited to jump on a live I
2:04:45
waited to partake in conversations because there's always too there's there's always gonna be more
2:04:49
to a story. And once I started to see all this stuff unfold,
2:04:55
I was like, m any way, with the carline situation, I told
2:05:01
y'all that that girl was lying, I had people ready to tussle with me.
2:05:05
And then because I said the girl was lying, well you just how
2:05:12
are you gonna tell me that? I don't know? And I lost the
2:05:16
niece who was Missy that got no media college. So I'm the last person
2:05:28
for anybody to sit and say that I hate black women, that I bashed
2:05:32
black women. No, I just hold you accountable. And you don't like
2:05:35
that because I'm making you look in the mirror and on these rainstorms that you
2:05:43
created. And now you're mad because you can't get an umbrella. That's your
2:05:47
problem. You need to fix that. You ladies need to stop. We
2:05:53
as ladies, as black women, we need to start conducting ourselves like women.
2:05:59
We need to start with this right right, Oh, I don't need
2:06:01
a man. All this bull And then when you're in a situation now you
2:06:06
need to call this man. Y'all can't have both sides of the coin.
2:06:12
You can either have heads or tails. Baby, you can't have bull It
2:06:15
don't work that weight. It does not work that weight. It absolutely does
2:06:24
not work that weight. And it's disheartening and it's sickening to me. And
2:06:30
like Diplomat state, there are real true victims out here that any time something
2:06:39
happens with us, they're going to question everything. Now we're gonna be questioned
2:06:45
everything. We're gonna be he said, Have we ever tried going live on
2:06:49
TikTok? Yeah? We we were live last night. I don't know,
2:06:55
brother, are we gonna move it? Are we gonna move this over to
2:06:57
TikTok tonight or what we're doing it? Look, because I was up and
2:07:05
and know I had to get up. I get up early because I get
2:07:09
my meditation on and everything. Diplomat follow me on TikTok. I'm under the
2:07:15
same name. I want to pull you into some uh some other conversations that
2:07:19
I'm gonna bring the TikTok. I want to pull you into some conversation.
2:07:24
Follow me, and I'm gonna follow you back. I promise you, oh,
2:07:27
because I want to pull you in. I want to I'm trying.
2:07:30
I want to put a male panel together. Let's let's bring this, this
2:07:33
this part to a close because I want to jump on something else really quickly.
2:07:38
Uh So, brother, we're gonna We're gonna dead this conversation. Yes,
2:07:45
I'm under the same name black Girl interrupted, I'm under the same name
2:07:47
on TikTok Oh. I'm gonna end this segment because I just want to go
2:07:55
into something else real quick, and we're gonna end the live. But I'm
2:07:59
gonna say this to you women. Women, keep your hands to yourself,
2:08:03
Start conducting yourself like women, and stop acting like animals out here in the
2:08:07
streets. Stop provoking situations and knocking on people's doors and not expecting an answer.
2:08:15
By no means do I victims shame because again I'm a survive. I'm
2:08:20
no longer a victim. I'm a survival. Okay. Victimization gets y'all attention,
2:08:24
and that's what a lot of you women are out here searching for,
2:08:28
is attention. You need to heal yourself because that's the real, true sickness
2:08:35
of the things that women out here do for lights and views, and you
2:08:39
don't care who you heard along the way you don't care whose lights you destroy,
2:08:45
as long as you win, as long as you come out victorious,
2:08:48
as long as you come out unscathed. I want y'all to stop doing it.
2:08:54
I want y'all to stop contributing to the division amongst black men and black
2:08:58
women, because were stronger when we're together. Y'all thought how beautifully we looked
2:09:03
August the fifth, twenty twenty three, in Montgomery, Alabama. I really
2:09:07
want us to get on the same page. If we can collaborate on rap
2:09:11
songs and tube in movies, let's start collaborating and move together in real life
2:09:20
because we're stronger in numbers. Do you realize we would be unstoppable if we
2:09:26
could be on one page. But unfortunately, there's some leeches out here that
2:09:33
still want to live under the white man's thumb and keep us dividing. I
2:09:37
advise you to seek some type of mental health. I advise you to get
2:09:39
some type of therapy. I advise you to get some type of medication,
2:09:43
because I'm stick of but one thing this black woman is gonna do. I'm
2:09:48
always stand on the front line for my black man, and I'm gonna stand
2:09:52
on the front line for my black woman. I'm gonna hold both of y'all
2:09:54
accountable, Black man and black wom. I'nna hold y'all accountable, but just
2:09:58
not that. I'm a do it with love, baby. I'm not gonna
2:10:01
do it to tell you down. I'm not gonna do it to make you
2:10:03
feel less than. I'm gonna chastise you with love and trust and believed.
2:10:09
I'm not gonna do it in front of the tap Rktalapan. That's one thing
2:10:13
I'm not gonna do because I'm not gonna keep contributing to the slave master of
2:10:18
mentality. And I'm gonna end it on that one. So what I wanna
2:10:22
do, brother, is I really want to put a panel to because I
2:10:26
really want to get some beautiful I really want to get all my beautiful black
2:10:30
men together because Mental Health Awareness Month, even though it's already passed, I
2:10:37
believe Suicide Awareness Month is coming okay, And I want just a space with
2:10:45
black men. I want to be the only black woman in there. I
2:10:50
don't want any black women on this panel. I want black men. I
2:10:54
just want to moderate. Well, you can do it. You can do
2:10:58
it on my space, and I just let you have the palm because the
2:11:03
mental they're following me, so they'll come. They'll come cool because I need
2:11:09
to let my black men know I love you, even when the world does
2:11:18
not. I want to let y'all know that y'all are worthy, y'all are
2:11:24
appreciated, even and I'm gonna get on y'all when y'all are wrong. But
2:11:31
I need a space. I gotta get my black men together. I have
2:11:37
to. I need to love on y'all. I really, truly do.
2:11:39
I need to love on y'all. I need to hug y'all. I need
2:11:43
to let y'all know that I got y'all because some of y'all Black men don't
2:11:46
hear things y'all do not y'all are always portraying negative connotations. Black men are
2:11:54
suffering in silence when it comes to depression, when it comes to mental illness,
2:11:58
when it comes to suicide, black men suffer alone. There's multiple resources
2:12:03
for black women, but never any for black men, and I need to
2:12:07
be the change for that. I need to bring about the change for black
2:12:13
men. You let me know, brother, when you're ready to do this.
2:12:18
But I'm ready because I'm tired of the negative connotation. They never show
2:12:24
y'all and black. They never show black men in positive lights. We always
2:12:31
see the band. I'm ready to show the good. I'm ready to show
2:12:35
the good. And I don't want no black women on the stage because I
2:12:41
do not want some of these toxic black women to come and piss on our
2:12:46
parade because some of y'all are sick and really truly needs some help. Because
2:12:54
I need some of you black women to take accountability for the reasons some of
2:12:58
our black men are the way that they are. Okay, and don't forget
2:13:01
black women. I'm hey, We're gonna hold the black men accountable to But
2:13:03
right now I need to point to my black men, and that's what I'm
2:13:07
going to do. I'm going to pour into my black men. Y'all need
2:13:11
it right now. Y'all definitely need it, Tyree Nickels travelers coming up the
2:13:18
trial in the attempted murder of Ralph Yarrow that is coming very soon. Uh,
2:13:24
It's a lot of things that are coming. Again. Suicide is the
2:13:31
third cause of death amongst black men. But I want to hold a space,
2:13:37
a safe space, okay, for my black men to have their healing
2:13:45
moment. And I'm not going to let a pistol, asshit toxic woman come
2:13:50
and interjecting that I'm putting it out there right now. I'm letting you know.
2:13:54
So we're gonna put that together diplomat. Uh big brother, will he
2:14:01
said, cool, he said, he's looking me up right now. Uh
2:14:07
success. This is definitely conversations that need to be have with the open mind
2:14:11
for men and women. It's time we hold each other accountable for all fucked
2:14:13
up actions. It's time for some hard truths in diplomat. I'm gonna I'm
2:14:20
gonna, I'm gonna add you. I'm gonna follow you back, I promise.
2:14:24
And he said, there's nothing wrong with holding each other accountable, and
2:14:28
we're gonna do it in the safest space. No disrespect. I'm gonna let
2:14:33
I'm gonna let it be no no disrespect. Will be tolerating any disrespect you're
2:14:37
out there, period, because because we're we're we're tired. We're not doing
2:14:43
this anymore. For the for the college flower coming, we're not doing this
2:14:46
anymore. Because they love to sit in our spaces and love to watch us
2:14:50
uptake each other. Now we're not doing it. We're not doing it.
2:14:52
We're not doing it. So I want to do that real soon, maybe
2:14:56
in the next week. I have my my show, uh Friday, so
2:15:03
any day next week, I'm ready to put it together. Let's let's let's
2:15:07
get some men together, find out what their schedules are, when they're available,
2:15:09
and let's make it happen. We may want to start it early,
2:15:13
uh because I think this might run for a long time. But I want
2:15:16
to do that because, like I said, I believe Suicide Awareness Month is
2:15:20
coming uh soon. But I really want to have that conversation I do.
2:15:26
All right, I'll get it together and yeah, I just I'll put a
2:15:31
video out, you know, just asking me in about their mental health and
2:15:35
see who replies and what replies. I'll hit them up and you know,
2:15:37
tell them that you absolutely let's do it. And it's gonna be a safe
2:15:43
space. Of course. You know, we're are gonna have rules. You
2:15:46
know, we have to be mindful with the things we say, because we
2:15:48
don't want TikTok to kick us. Even though they let the unseasoned Chicken section
2:15:56
say whatever they want and run rampant on TikTok, they let them do whatever
2:15:58
they want. But I really want us to have a beautiful space, even
2:16:03
if we have to do it on a Saturday, when you know, when
2:16:05
we have a little more time, because I think through the week it's a
2:16:07
little difficult for everybody because you know, we have to get up in the
2:16:09
morning to go to work. So I would love to do it on a
2:16:11
Saturday. I would love to do it. Maybe a Friday, maybe a
2:16:15
Saturday. I would love to do that. Oh but let's let's let's let's
2:16:20
make that happen. Let's let's get just black men only. I don't want
2:16:24
no women. I don't want to ask you women not check, not check,
2:16:28
and that's the job ladies. But but I really, truly do I
2:16:31
want just the fellas. I really do, because I don't see it enough.
2:16:35
I don't see it enough. All when I do see black men,
2:16:39
they're they're they're attacking each other. I want us to be I want us
2:16:41
to be the change that the world sees. And we can only do it
2:16:46
on one one space at a time. So if we that's that's what I
2:16:50
want to do, and I would would love to do it in your space.
2:16:54
I would be honored to do it in a black mail space. Hopefully
2:17:00
that will convince you to come back. And I say that whole hearted.
2:17:05
I say that with with with tears. I really want to I really truly
2:17:13
want to see you come back in this space. I do because you were
2:17:18
helping a lot of people. You don't know what, but you were.
2:17:24
Well. I still do it. I just don't do as much. I
2:17:26
just I just moved it over to TikTok. So the thing is that while
2:17:30
I'm doing something Tiktide, It'll give me content. It will save to bring
2:17:33
it over there. Even when I decide to do it, you know,
2:17:35
I just I'll have more content with more interactional people because see, I can
2:17:41
have more interactions versus on the side of YouTube, even if you yeah,
2:17:46
even if your stream the conversation from you know, just I just would love
2:17:52
to see that come back. I just I don't see it enough, and
2:17:56
I'm ready to see it. I'm ready to see my Keen sit at a
2:18:00
table and have healthy dialogue and conversation. I'm just ready for that, and
2:18:05
I really want us to be the change for that. I really do.
2:18:13
I'm not gonna get emotional. I promised, I'm mad just for you.
2:18:18
I put something together shit next month or the end of this month or whatever,
2:18:24
just to just to kind of whatever because I I when I tried to
2:18:28
do that adhd out with my sister. You know, I had to go
2:18:31
through passwords. I had to try to we had to try to figure out
2:18:33
because a lot of my stuff was locked out, and I'm like, yeah,
2:18:37
I'm gonna have to figure that out to see what I can in access.
2:18:39
So and I might end up having how to do a whole new thing
2:18:41
because I have to say that that might be what you're gonna have to do.
2:18:46
You may just happen just start from scratch and just rebuild. But yeah,
2:18:52
I saw your live and I was like, why my notification didn't pop
2:18:54
up? But it's it's cool. I went back and I watched it,
2:18:58
so it doesn't matter always. But on another note, as we bring Black
2:19:05
Girl Interrupted podcast to a close, I do want to let y'all know Black
2:19:09
Girl Interrupted will now only be streaming on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. I am actually
2:19:16
coming away from streaming on Facebook where I will totally be moving over to YouTube.
2:19:22
That will probably be sometime next month because I do I'm still working on
2:19:28
a release date for the Black Carpet Experience. I have a couple of people
2:19:33
lined up that are ready to be interviewed and I can't wait. I'm so
2:19:35
excited. So I will keep y'all posted. But as of right now,
2:19:41
I will still stream to YouTube as well as the Facebook, but eventually I'm
2:19:46
going to totally move all the way over to YouTube. Facebook does just a
2:19:50
little too much censoring YouTube does as well, but I may just eventually move
2:19:54
everything over to TikTok. We'll see. But next Tuesday again, Black Girl
2:20:01
Interrupted will now be going live on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, still the same time,
2:20:05
but just different days because football season has started, and y'all know I
2:20:09
have today, Thursdays Sundays. Yeah, I can't be with y'all. I
2:20:18
gotta be watching some football. I don't care if the sames for playing and
2:20:20
that I got to be tuned. Then there's somebody football on Thursday nights.
2:20:22
But I still will be Tuesdays and Wednesdays eight thirty pm Central Time, nine
2:20:26
thirty pm Eastern Time. You could catch me. I'm on all streaming platforms.
2:20:31
I am actually now streaming to Israel. I was like, what,
2:20:35
okay, Black Girl Interrupted, you need for moves Girl? Next week,
2:20:41
next Tuesday, next Wednesday, I will be talking about femic side. This
2:20:45
will like a continuation, but I'm rolling into the femicide again. We are
2:20:50
seeing black women being unlived at alarming rates at the hands of their boyfriends and
2:20:56
husbands, so I do want to talk about that as well. I will
2:21:01
start doing my power hours. My in power hours is what I'm gonna start
2:21:03
falling, and I will start doing that where I may just jump on for
2:21:07
a few moments. But next Tuesday, next Wednesday, it will be a
2:21:11
part one and a part two where I will be addressing femist side. And
2:21:18
the website is down. We actually had to move to a whole nother platform
2:21:22
for the website, so we're in the I'm in the process of getting my
2:21:26
website rebuilt professionally because the current platform I was on was just doing a tabot
2:21:33
too much and there were certain things we could put on there in certain things
2:21:35
we couldn't. So I've moved over to a whole new platform. So I'm
2:21:39
hoping to have the website up and running by the end of the month.
2:21:45
But yeah, but next Tuesday, next Wednesday, Part one and part two
2:21:48
will be addressing femist side. I will be letting y'all know when we will
2:21:52
be hosting the space on TikTok again only black men. I don't want black
2:21:56
women on this panel because this is gonna be as dedicated specifically for the mail
2:22:03
for black men. That's it can get some information absolutely, So on that
2:22:09
note, do you have anything you want to say before I bring it to
2:22:11
a close. Oh yeah, Oh I'm sorry. Brother. If y'all are
2:22:16
in Houston, don't forget. I will be at Club Exhale. Uh,
2:22:22
let me go back and find let me pose the flyer real quick that I
2:22:26
podcast. Here we go, let me make it a little bigger. All
2:22:31
right, here we go. So this Friday, if you are in the
2:22:35
Houston area, y'all pull up to its Club Exhale. I will actually be
2:22:41
a guest speaker. I'm actually one of the special guests. I will be.
2:22:46
This is the community celebration. Lady B actually got a proclamation today in
2:22:50
Houston, and she's helping me so I can work to get my proclamation here
2:22:56
in Houston for black girl interrupted. But again, if you are in the
2:22:58
hu An area, I don't know if you could really see the address,
2:23:01
but the address is one three seven one one West Timer Road here in Houston,
2:23:05
Texas. From seven to nine. It will be a kids friendly event
2:23:09
from seven to nine, and then after nine o'clock it will be adults only
2:23:15
that will be artists performing. It'll be different vendors there. Very excited for
2:23:20
this. This is a major thing for the Black Girl Interrupted podcast. Again,
2:23:24
I told y'all these last four months of very personal and I'm all about
2:23:28
bringing about changing making Black Girl Interrupted a the forefront. So again, y'all
2:23:33
come support your girl. Let's push this event because we're really trying to shoot
2:23:37
and do this again next year and hopefully next year I will be receiving my
2:23:41
proclamation here in Houston. So again, if you're in the Houston, y'all
2:23:45
come out support your girl. All of is appreciated. On another note,
2:23:52
I want to say thank y'all. I love y'all so much for always pulling
2:23:54
up and showing your girls some love. Thank y'all for the beautiful interactions that
2:23:58
we have each and every episode. I'm deeply humbled by all the people that
2:24:03
come and show up and give me foo love. And I'm gonna let Big
2:24:07
Brother will close it out. I'm just gonna say I'm grief. I'm gonna
2:24:13
be brief, but it's okay. Right, we were talking about the sisters,
2:24:18
how they are backpelling out, and it's okay. It's okay to be
2:24:22
wrong in a situation because it's it's one of the things that hit your emotions,
2:24:28
you know it. It touches you in a certain way. And it's
2:24:33
okay that you're human, you're supposed to feel something. But the problem I
2:24:37
think a lot of men are having, and it would being so much to
2:24:41
a lot of men, is that when we find out the truth to these
2:24:43
situations that you just don't just be quiet. You know, you just gonna
2:24:48
be quiet and just okay, let me wait for the next thing to go
2:24:50
along. No, address the situation. You know what we were wrong about
2:24:54
black man. We're wrong about this situation, and you know we won't.
2:25:01
Yeah, that goes a long way. Just apologizing by just down in black
2:25:07
men as a whole, as a whole, gender, as as as a
2:25:13
whole, just black men as a whole. Just just apologize for that.
2:25:15
You know what, we need to start really looking at black men, uh,
2:25:20
case by case basis as an individual, because women hate whomen, look
2:25:24
at them as a whole. Right, Black y'all hate y'all hate when we
2:25:28
look at y'all's monoliths. So if y'all would try to do that to black
2:25:33
men, like not use use every situation as a reason to look at men
2:25:37
as a monolith and just say, Okay, well this black man is the
2:25:41
problem and men like him as the problem. That would be awesome. And
2:25:45
I think a lot of black men would stop doing what they're doing as far
2:25:48
as on the verbal attack online, you know it would. It would further
2:25:54
things as far as bridging our gap and bridging to divide that we have in
2:25:56
our community. And I and I and I, even though I do a
2:26:01
lot of stuff like I like the poke and stuff on my content, I'll
2:26:05
show stuff because I try to because the way the way they leview black men,
2:26:09
like everything they do with black men is pointing towards the negative. So
2:26:15
it puts me on a defense where I have to say, Okay, look
2:26:18
here's the other side of the coin. You always showing inside of coin,
2:26:20
Here's other side of the coin. We Yeah, we see black men doing
2:26:24
it, We hit it all day long, but look, we got black
2:26:26
women doing the same stuff. We got black We got black women. So
2:26:31
as as we have less and less women trying to do this stuff. I
2:26:37
think you'll start to see men start to really come to the table and be
2:26:41
like, you know what, Yeah, we don't feel attack no more.
2:26:46
So we're not gonna put our walls up, We're not gonna go on defense,
2:26:50
We're not gonna go and attack. So it's it's been ladies, if
2:26:56
if if ladies don't know, it's been fifty something years that black men have
2:27:01
been under attack in our community as far as immediate in our in our community,
2:27:07
if you want to talk about all over immediate, we've been in under
2:27:11
tack since nineteen fifteen with Birth of the Nation film that was showed in the
2:27:15
White House. So it's been a long time that black men have been like
2:27:18
feeling like everywhere we look, we're nice. Yeah, we can screwed up
2:27:26
everywhere we look like you cannot escape that shit. And that's that's a heavy
2:27:30
weight to carry when you go out into the world and you you see people
2:27:35
look at you certainly, or you go play as somebody and women start locking
2:27:41
indoors and ship and you know, hurts and yeah, yeah, or you
2:27:45
know, it's it's a heavy weight to carry when you know you're not that
2:27:48
type of black man or you're judged based off of the actions of someone else
2:27:54
that they may have on TV or maybe someone else that they've encountered, and
2:27:58
we see that far too often. And I'm with you, you know it.
2:28:01
It all comes down to a conversation where we're able to sit down and
2:28:07
we as black women, we don't never like to apologize because we don't feel
2:28:09
like wherever wrong, And that's an issue. That's an issue to me.
2:28:18
But if you don't have anything to say, brother, uh, we love
2:28:24
y'all, big brother. It's always a pleasure when I when I told Big
2:28:28
Daddy you were coming on the show, he was like, where have you
2:28:31
been? Like, that's the first thing he said was where you've been?
2:28:33
I was like, I would let him know. I will. I will
2:28:39
tell him because he was really looking forward to your podcast. He was,
2:28:45
well, shout out the brother. I'm won't try to get better about that.
2:28:48
I just have to. I think it's a lot of work I'm doing
2:28:52
on TikTok and I'm reaching a lot of men. So that's I like to
2:28:58
go do things where my energy has the most effect. You know, it's
2:29:01
and that's what it is. Just like I get I get a ton of
2:29:07
damn. First of all, I get a ton of damn d ms from
2:29:09
guys. It's like it's overwhelming kind of because I never I didn't suspect that
2:29:16
I was gonna get this kind of reception when I went over there. And
2:29:18
you know, you know how I got to hit how I got the TikTok?
2:29:22
Right? You did? Do you know how I got the TikTok?
2:29:24
Like? Who who convinced me? It was one of my one of my
2:29:30
one of my followers, hiding Chick from Canada. She was a feminist and
2:29:35
we we went back and forth a while with this whole because she was trying
2:29:39
to prove feminist and this, and I was telling the whole history of feminist
2:29:43
in the black community. And we had a whole, like a week long
2:29:46
DM conversation to where she was like one day she said, I get it
2:29:52
now, She said, you go over to TikTok because people are talking about
2:29:56
stuff like that on TikTok And I never really got it until you told,
2:30:00
until you made me see it, And I think you'll do well over there.
2:30:03
So I'm like, tikt ask for kids. And then she sent me
2:30:05
a link I'm looking at I've gotten and I sit there listening a lot.
2:30:09
I'm like, oh shit, I need to be over here. And that's
2:30:11
how so you know, it's like I'm proud of you when whenever I see
2:30:16
you live, I always try to jump in, you know, even if
2:30:20
it's late at night. You know, I'll be in the bed and let
2:30:22
me go in here and see what the end that's talking about. But I
2:30:24
always I always come in to support and show love because it's it's always reciprocated
2:30:30
with you. And I think I may start doing a little more over there
2:30:35
on TikTok because I've been pushed there like girl over there, you know,
2:30:41
and but I'm just like, you know, I don't know, but I
2:30:45
watch you, so I may take keys to that and may maybe it starts
2:30:48
streaming. Uh maybe when I'm doing one of my episodes, maybe go have
2:30:52
TikTok going at the same time and just kind of and see how I just
2:30:56
go from there. But I'm I'm a woman hater, as as people have
2:31:01
told me. I'm a woman hater and I should look pussy and stay.
2:31:07
That's what I was told in my DM. I was like, okay,
2:31:09
thanks, Hey, I got my first I'm not gonna say it's a death
2:31:16
threat, but it was like, you need to go somewhere, and just
2:31:20
you know, it wasn't native threat. Men. They're just telling me kind
2:31:22
of politely, I need to go somewhere and not not be breathing the more
2:31:28
some kind of way, you know. So I'm like, I might be
2:31:31
doing something right and you are. They always say, uh, the higher
2:31:35
you go, the higher you elevate. The heart of the devil fights to
2:31:39
attack the heart. The heart of the attack is from the devil. So
2:31:43
anybody that feels that that you're not, I think you do. You have
2:31:48
beautiful conversations. I come in and I learn a lot from you. So
2:31:50
I thank you for educating me, for learning, make me look for learning
2:31:54
me something, because you've really changed my perspective and way of thinking on a
2:31:58
lot of situations. So my view is different now because now I'm looking at
2:32:05
it from both sides of the point instead of just one. So thank you
2:32:11
for learning your girls and what they say you're learning. Miss something you're learning,
2:32:15
miss something you learn, miss something. But we love you guys.
2:32:20
Uh. I gotta talk to my brother offline, but I hope everyone has
2:32:24
a beautiful week. Oh yes, football starts tomorrow. Yeah, I think
2:32:30
it's who is it the Giants and the Steelers. I think tomorrow night or
2:32:33
something like that. But anyway, we play someday. No one cares about
2:32:35
anyone but the things. But anyway, uh, football starts tomorrow night.
2:32:41
So I hope everyone has a great rest of the week. Y'all, stay
2:32:46
safe. I will see y'all Tuesday night. Don't forget the mask s up
2:32:50
because baby, the COVID cases is on the rise. Wash your hands,
2:32:54
wash your ass, and baby, y'all stay the hell away from me because
2:32:56
I do not want strand thirty two eighty five. I don't want that,
2:33:01
y'all. Y'all, stay over stay way over that. With that, stay
2:33:05
stay over that, with which, with your with your nastiness, but in
2:33:09
but really though, But I love you guys. God bless y'all. Again.
2:33:11
I will see y'all Tuesday night, eight thirty pm Central Time, nine
2:33:13
thirty Eastern time. Again, don't forget to follow Black Girl Interrupted. I'm
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2:33:28
on that note, I love y'all and I will see y'all Tuesday. And
2:33:30
don't forget who that bee out of Hill