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Episode 39- Don_t Let Your Heart Be Trouble By Things that You Can_t Control_ · You Minding Your Own Business

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Speaker 1: go back to what's what was. You got to be
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Speaker 1: just to go back to rock bottom. Can't can continue
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Speaker 1: to doing that. So our credit is podcast for the
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Speaker 1: purpose of teaching people how to do your best to
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Speaker 1: prevent these things from happening, and how you can prevent
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Speaker 1: the things that can be preventable from happening, and the
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Speaker 1: things that are that you can't really do anything about,
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Speaker 1: you can try your best to do things to prevent
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Speaker 1: them to the best of your ability. So today's topic
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Speaker 1: is don't let your heart be troubled by things you
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Speaker 1: cannot control. But I'm also going to add something to that. Now.
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Speaker 1: The one thing I ought my scripture that was the
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Speaker 1: scripture for yesterday, the scripture for today. It was that
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Speaker 1: was it. It was Psalms twenty seven fourteen Wait for
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Speaker 1: the Lord be strong and take heart and wait for
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Speaker 1: the Lord. Now, the one thing I learned about this
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Speaker 1: particular scripture is that they both go hand in hand.
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Speaker 1: You can't let your heart be troubled by the things
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Speaker 1: you cannot control. The question is what can't we control?
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Speaker 1: What can't we, you know, do anything about. That's the
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Speaker 1: question determining what we can and cannot do anything about.
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Speaker 1: So I decided to play this particular video of what
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Speaker 1: that means as far as Psalms twenty seven fourteen, and
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Speaker 1: then we'll go back to this one when it comes
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Speaker 1: to what does it mean? So let's start with there.
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Speaker 1: What are you waiting for?
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Speaker 3: Are you waiting for a spouse, someone to share your
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Speaker 3: life with, waiting for healing, for your body or relationship
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Speaker 3: to be restored. Maybe you're waiting for that job to
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Speaker 3: call you, or a financial breakthrough, or waiting for a
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Speaker 3: difficult season to finally No matter what you're waiting waiting for.
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Speaker 3: The truth is waiting can be hard of time. But
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Speaker 3: David writes in Psalm twenty seven fourteen are versus the day,
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Speaker 3: and he tells us how we should wait.
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Speaker 1: He says, wait for the Lord. Be strong and let
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Speaker 1: your heart take courage.
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Speaker 3: Wait for the Lord David was writing this while he's
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Speaker 3: in an uncomfortable place. I mean, if you read Psalm
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Speaker 3: twenty seven, it's full of ups and downs. He is
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Speaker 3: talking about enemies, false witnesses, days of trouble, anger, rejection,
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Speaker 3: And yet David tells himself and us.
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Speaker 1: To wait, to hold on to anchor our hope in
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Speaker 1: God's goodness.
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Speaker 3: Why do you think David says wait for the Lord
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Speaker 3: two times? Often in the Bible, when we see a
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Speaker 3: word or a phrase said two or three times at
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Speaker 3: a wrong well, it's to get our attention because what's
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Speaker 3: being said is very important.
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Speaker 1: And I believe that.
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Speaker 3: David is saying I really mean this, and I want
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Speaker 3: you to miss it. It's a way of confirming its
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Speaker 3: certainty that what I'm telling you really works. One way
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Speaker 3: that we can find strength during our waiting season and
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Speaker 3: to let our heart take courage is we can stay
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Speaker 3: rooted in scripture God's word. It keeps us centered. It
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Speaker 3: reminds us of his promises and his faithfulness. So no
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Speaker 3: matter how tired you could come from hoping, God is
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Speaker 3: still good and he is worth the wait, and the
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Speaker 3: Bible assures us that the Lord is good to those
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Speaker 3: who wait for him.
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Speaker 1: So what I all peoplen't understand is when it come
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Speaker 1: down to letting your heart be troubled by things wrong,
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Speaker 1: but yeah, sorry about it. You can't control people. You
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Speaker 1: can't make somebody love you that don't. You can't make
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Speaker 1: somebody hire it is it going to do so? You
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Speaker 1: can't make your parents make amends with the things they've
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Speaker 1: done wrong. You can't change how your family has treated you,
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Speaker 1: how your friends have cheated you. You can't control other
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Speaker 1: people's actions, behavior, choice and decisions. You can't continue to
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Speaker 1: lowing on everybody else's problems and everybody else's financial situation,
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Speaker 1: questions like it's your responsibility, like you're the person that
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Speaker 1: did it. You can't keep putting stuff in your name
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Speaker 1: that you shouldn't put in your name in the first place.
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Speaker 1: So I want people to understand that when it comes
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Speaker 1: to the things that you can.
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Speaker 4: Control, that means you, your actions, your behavior, your choices
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Speaker 4: and decisions, how you go about your critical thinking, common
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Speaker 4: sense and common judgment, how you react to it, how
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Speaker 4: you behave to it.
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Speaker 1: You only can control you, but you can't control somebody else.
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Speaker 1: All you can do is what you're supposed to do,
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Speaker 1: and everybody else can only do what they choose to do.
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Speaker 1: But trying to control other people, trying to make them
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Speaker 1: do what you want them to do, it's not gonna
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Speaker 1: work at all. It just doesn't. So even though you
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Speaker 1: want people to do things the way you want them
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Speaker 1: to do, even though you want them to love you,
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Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that that's what they're unfortunately going to do,
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Speaker 1: because they're not. So even though you want them to
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Speaker 1: do certain things that you want them to do, it
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Speaker 1: doesn't mean that they're going to do it. Just because
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Speaker 1: you want somebody to h are you doesn't mean that
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Speaker 1: they're going to. So before I.
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Speaker 5: Get to.
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Speaker 1: This particular I was looking at before all of this.
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Speaker 1: So I just want people to understand that I get it.
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Speaker 1: You know, when it comes to waiting and sitting still
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Speaker 1: and waiting to see how things are gonna turn out,
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Speaker 1: sitting still, being patient, it's hard. I'm not gonna lie
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Speaker 1: to you. I'm not gonna say that it's easy to
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Speaker 1: sit still kill but sometimes you need to sit still.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes you need to just pick up the Bible and
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Speaker 1: read and see what it may say about the fact
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Speaker 1: of waiting. It says that waiting can be hard. Most
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Speaker 1: of us can prefer quick, efficient, and when possible, instant results.
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Speaker 1: But waiting is a part of life. We must wait
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Speaker 1: for this seeds to grow into food, for one season
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Speaker 1: to intandult.
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Speaker 3: Like it or not.
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Speaker 1: Waiting takes patient. We can wait days, years, and even
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Speaker 1: decades for a prayer to be answered, for an overdue apology,
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Speaker 1: jee for the timing to be right, for the dreams
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Speaker 1: to finally come to pass, it to be king, and
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Speaker 1: to wait to be rescued. From his Jimmy, he wrote, wait, pace,
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Speaker 1: lean for the Lord, Be brave and correct and courageous. Yes,
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Speaker 1: wait to pay attention. But waiting patiently for the Lord
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Speaker 1: isn't an excuse to do nothing. We can be pro
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Speaker 1: by staying in communication with him by looking for his
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Speaker 1: fingerprints in ordinary moments, by reading about his stories and
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Speaker 1: his plans in his word, by worshiping him no matter
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Speaker 1: what happens, siding out in our circles, by thanking him
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Speaker 1: for the gifts he already given us. Because a specific
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Speaker 1: door isn't a door for, or a particular opportunity isn't
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Speaker 1: very available at this moment, doesn't mean God is showing
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Speaker 1: you the truth about things that you need to know
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Speaker 1: before you walk away from it, because God wants wants
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Speaker 1: you to walk completely away from it. He doesn't want
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Speaker 1: you to walk halfway away from it. He wants you
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Speaker 1: to work all He wants you to walk all the
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Speaker 1: way away from it, so you don't have to worry
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Speaker 1: about going back to it. So once you walk away
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Speaker 1: from it, don't you to keep going back. God I want,
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Speaker 1: I want you to completely remove yourself from it. So
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Speaker 1: God is going to remove it slowly, and then just
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Speaker 1: understand that it says Noah said, spent a decade building
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Speaker 1: a art to do what he said. Ruth journey to
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Speaker 1: Journey with her mother in law and worked in the
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Speaker 1: grain fields while trusting God after her husband's death. Joseph
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Speaker 1: stayed faithful in prison for several years before he was
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Speaker 1: he is his promotion to second in command in Egypt.
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Speaker 1: John trusted God's ultimate will for his life, even writing
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Speaker 1: a book of the Bible while sentencing While being sentenced
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Speaker 1: to be exiled on the island of Pence Pammel. So,
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Speaker 1: no matter what you're facing, ask God for patience and
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Speaker 1: trust that He is in control of your future, no
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Speaker 1: matter what uncertain lives below before you. And when you
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Speaker 1: rely on the Lord, you can be someone who waits well.
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Speaker 1: So again this all leads to this topic, don't let
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Speaker 1: the trump let your heart be trouble by the things
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Speaker 1: you can't control, because you can't control everything. You can't
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Speaker 1: control what everybody does, what everybody says. You can't control
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Speaker 1: that at all. The only thing you can do is
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Speaker 1: control yourself. If somebody is trying to get you doing
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Speaker 1: something negative and something you don't feel comfortable with, and
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Speaker 1: say no, no matter what, stand on it. If you
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Speaker 1: saying no, stand on it. If that person can't accept
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Speaker 1: the fact you're saying no, then they need to accept
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Speaker 1: the fact that you're saying no. So you got to
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Speaker 1: trust God and let go of all of the fears
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Speaker 1: and insecurities and doubts that you have. Let it go,
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Speaker 1: because the only way that your heart is not gonna
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Speaker 1: be troubled by the things you can't control is to
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Speaker 1: understand that there will be things that you can't control
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Speaker 1: and the only thing you can do is try your
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Speaker 1: best to either walk away from it, either accept it
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Speaker 1: and leave it be, or continue to fight for it
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Speaker 1: and continue the same result. So when it comes to
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Speaker 1: fighting fears and trusting God, that's where this comes from
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Speaker 1: if you give all your pain and suffering and trauma
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Speaker 1: to God, and you say I'm no longer going to
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Speaker 1: dwell on it. But at the same time, I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: take everything I went through and I'm going and to
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Speaker 1: help others. I'm gonna learn from it, grow from it,
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Speaker 1: evolve from it, and elevate from it. That's what I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna do. So when it comes down to this scripture,
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Speaker 1: sure it says as.
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Speaker 5: In I'm just trying to make sure I'm on the
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Speaker 5: right one. It says, the Lord is.
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Speaker 1: My life and my salvation. Whom I shall fear. The
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Speaker 1: Lord is the strength of my life. Who I shall
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Speaker 1: be afraid. When the wicked, even my enemies and my
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Speaker 1: foes came upon me to eat up my flesh, they
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Speaker 1: stumbled and fell through the host. Should he camp against me,
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Speaker 1: my heart shall not fear, though through war should rise
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Speaker 1: against me. And this will I be confident. One thing
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Speaker 1: I have, The one thing have I desired of the Lord,
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Speaker 1: that I will seek.
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Speaker 6: That I may dwell in house of the Lord all
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Speaker 6: the days of my life, and to behold the beauty
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Speaker 6: of the Lord, and inquire in his temple.
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Speaker 1: For the time of most trouble, he shall hide me
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Speaker 1: in the pavilion, in the secret of his tabernacle. He
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Speaker 1: hides me. He shall set me up on the rocks,
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Speaker 1: up upon and now, sir reads, I'm wrong, up upon
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Speaker 1: the rocks. Okay, I'm right, And now shall my head
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Speaker 1: be lifted above my enemies round about me? Therefore I
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Speaker 1: will offer his tabernacles sacrifice of joy. I will sing, ye,
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Speaker 1: I will sing praise upon the Lord. Here O, Lord,
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Speaker 1: when I cry with my voice, have mercy upon me
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Speaker 1: and answer me. When I said, seek ye my face,
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Speaker 1: my heart said, unto thee thy face, Lord, I will seek.
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Speaker 1: Hide not thy face far from me. Put not thy
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Speaker 1: servants away in anger. Thou hast been my help. Leave
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Speaker 1: me not neither forsake me, Oh God of my salvation.
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Speaker 1: When my father and my mother forsake me, then Lord
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Speaker 1: will take me up. So when it comes comes down
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Speaker 1: to these particular situations, you have your ups, you have
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Speaker 1: your downs. So when it comes down to teaching me
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Speaker 1: the way, it says, te flame path because of my enemies, deliberately,
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Speaker 1: not upon the will of my enemies. For false witness
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Speaker 1: a rising up against me, and such as breathe out cruelty.
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Speaker 1: I have I fainted unless I believe to see the
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Speaker 1: goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.
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Speaker 1: Wait on the Lord, be good Kurk, be of good courage,
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Speaker 1: and he shall strengthen thy heart. Wait, I say on
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Speaker 1: the Lord. So pretty much what that means is is
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Speaker 1: you just gotta be patient and wait. Because if you
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Speaker 1: go chasing after something that God didn't tell you to chase,
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Speaker 1: if you hang around people that God didn't tell you
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Speaker 1: to hang around with, if you let people manipulate, bamboozle,
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Speaker 1: lead you, astray, scam, con lie, and lie to you,
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Speaker 1: then that's not because God told to you followed the
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Speaker 1: wrong people that you thought cared about you and all
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Speaker 1: out and all actuality, didn't. You have people that you'll
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Speaker 1: see that make a lot of money. You don't know
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Speaker 1: how they made all this money, and yet they did
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Speaker 1: and you don't know how. And now you're in a
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Speaker 1: situation where you have these people that basically essentially are
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Speaker 1: now broke and you thought they were better. You have
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Speaker 1: people that you think, because they have all this money
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Speaker 1: that the picture is pretty. The external is pretty, doesn't
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Speaker 1: mean that everything's not a mess. So just because something
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Speaker 1: looks good doesn't mean it's good for you. So sometimes
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Speaker 1: you have to trust God's process even though you may
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Speaker 1: not understand it. But the one thing about your self
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Speaker 1: esteeming self work, and self value, that is why it's broken.
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Speaker 1: Because your heart is troubled by things that you can't control,
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Speaker 1: because somebody rejects you. Your heart is troubled because you
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Speaker 1: went through domestic violence. Your heart is trouble because you
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Speaker 1: went through pain and suffering. Your heart is troubled. So
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Speaker 1: being that your heart is troubled because everything you went through,
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Speaker 1: that's why it's gonna be hard to let it go.
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Speaker 1: It's hard to repair it because your heart is hurting
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Speaker 1: by pain that you went through. But if you sit
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Speaker 1: there and you say to yourself, okay, this happened. When
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Speaker 1: I walk away my feelings walk away with it. I'm
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Speaker 1: not going to reciprocate negativity. I'm not gonna answer negativity.
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna worry about negativity. I'm just gonna be positive.
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Speaker 1: And that's it. It's just like this new thing that
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Speaker 1: I just tried that I didn't try before and I
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Speaker 1: had to get used to it, but it works. So
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Speaker 1: it's just like, when can we talk about this particular
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Speaker 1: thing I gotta funded again, and it says fighting fears
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Speaker 1: and trusting God. The list of things to think, worried,
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Speaker 1: debate and debate about can feel endless. Wars, viruses, finances, relationships, politics, religion,
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Speaker 1: job security, natural disasters, the safety and well being of
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Speaker 1: our loved ones. The list can go on forever. But
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Speaker 1: Jesus told his disciples, who also had plenty to fear,
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Speaker 1: death being at the top of the list, do not
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Speaker 1: let your heart be troubled. Trust in God, trust also
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Speaker 1: in me John fourteen one. This statement was very bold,
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Speaker 1: but it is even to not be shaken by life's circumstances.
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Speaker 1: God seemed to think so, because he said those words
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Speaker 1: not so long before he was nailed to a cross.
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Speaker 1: Jesus knew He's the source of true peace, the source
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Speaker 1: of real joy, the source of real freedom. Trusting God
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Speaker 1: does not ensure an easy life, but it means that
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Speaker 1: we know then he walked through life with us. So
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Speaker 1: how do we avoid getting stuck in the cycle of fear?
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Speaker 1: How practical do we keep from getting overwhelmed with anxiety?
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Speaker 1: Can we take our thoughts captive and make them obedient
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Speaker 1: to Christ? Can prioritize his wisdom? By reading, studying, and
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Speaker 1: praying scripture. Can we take our honor, thoughts and questions
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Speaker 1: to a true, trusted friend. Can we listen to music
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Speaker 1: that leads us to worship as we go about our
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Speaker 1: day without a doubt. There would be troubling situations that
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Speaker 1: come up, But because we know and trust who's in charge,
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Speaker 1: we don't have to be troubled by those events now. Also,
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Speaker 1: it says, so what is evaluating elevating your fears in
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Speaker 1: your life today? How are you willing to replace it
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Speaker 1: with practices that draw you closer to God's presence? Spend
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Speaker 1: some time today determining what steps you'll take the turn
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Speaker 1: you're trusting God more constantly. So you have to let
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Speaker 1: go of the things that are troubling you. You got
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Speaker 1: to let God do his work. If you want God
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Speaker 1: to heal you, if you want God to give you
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Speaker 1: what you're asking for, you also got to do the work.
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Speaker 1: God got to see, Okay, you're doing the work. God
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Speaker 1: got to see, okay, you're creating all these things. God
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Speaker 1: got to see your doing the work. So I had
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Speaker 1: to I had to sit down tonight and go on
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Speaker 1: as all the courses that I bought that I have
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Speaker 1: to create. I've got to do logos for all of them.
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Speaker 1: Then I just came up with a name that is
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Speaker 1: perfect for my coaching. But that's what I had to do. Now,
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Speaker 1: if I go to let's sit, let me go back.
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Speaker 1: If I go back to the prayer for today, if
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Speaker 1: it let me the prayer of the day is Psalms
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Speaker 1: twenty seven to fourteen, wait for the Lord, Be strong
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Speaker 1: and take heart and wait for the Lord. That's something
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Speaker 1: that's important. But let's go back to that other scripture
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Speaker 1: because this actual podcast I was supposed to do yesterday
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Speaker 1: and I did not do it yesterday. So I'm going
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Speaker 1: to go back and find John fourteen one. Let's see it.
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Speaker 1: Last time, I had a little bit of a hard
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Speaker 1: time trying to find it, so John fourteen ninety six.
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Speaker 1: So while I'm looking for it, I'm just gonna say this,
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Speaker 1: the journey is not easy. And I will also say
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Speaker 1: that being troubled, being upset, being angry, it's not easy.
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and lie and say there
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Speaker 1: are not times I don't be wanting to cuss people out.
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Speaker 1: There are times I just be wanting to go off
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Speaker 1: on people saying stuff, and then I have to say
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Speaker 1: to myself, it is not worth me doing that, because
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Speaker 1: if I cuss them out, I'm gonna be just as bad,
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Speaker 1: if not worse, because I'm sitting here arguing with people
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Speaker 1: that I shouldn't even be arguing with in the first place.
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Speaker 1: So it ain't worth it. It ain't worth me arguing
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Speaker 1: with people that ain't even worth my time, that's not
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Speaker 1: even worth my energy, that ain't worth.
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Speaker 5: None of that.
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Speaker 1: So I just choose not to do it because it
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Speaker 1: ain't worth it. Why am I sitting up here explaining
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Speaker 1: myself to a negative person that's gonna constantly keep doing
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Speaker 1: the negativity that they're doing. So right now, I'm on
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Speaker 1: John fourteen one two four, and it says, a house
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Speaker 1: of many mansions, let not your heart be troubled. Ye
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Speaker 1: believes in God, believe also in me. In my father's
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Speaker 1: house are many mansions. If it were not so, I
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Speaker 1: would not have told. I would have told you I go,
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Speaker 1: and I go to prepare a place for you. And
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Speaker 1: if I go to prepare a place for you, I
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Speaker 1: will come again and receive you. Unto myself. That where
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Speaker 1: I am, ye will also be also, and whither I
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Speaker 1: will know, I will go sometimes this Bible is so
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Speaker 1: hard to write, it says, and whether I go, ye know.
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Speaker 1: And the way you know. So when it comes to
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Speaker 1: the situation is if you follow God or follow Jesus.
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Speaker 1: We follow Jesus because Jesus was a human form of God.
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Speaker 1: We followed Jesus to God. At the end of the days.
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Speaker 1: If we follow Jesus, Jesus gonna lives to God. If
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Speaker 1: Jesus says, let go, didn't let go. Let me tell
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Speaker 1: your real story where I go. Twenty seventeen. I got really, really,
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Speaker 1: really sick right before i was supposed to go outown.
30:39
Speaker 1: I'm one of my best friends, and I got really sick,
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Speaker 1: and I went to my doctor and they gave me
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Speaker 1: the wrong medication. And I, when I tell you, I
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Speaker 1: thought I was going to die. I thought I was
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Speaker 1: going to die. And I'm up here fighting taking medications,
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Speaker 1: trying to get through this. Right to the medication, Bendrill
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Speaker 1: didn't have none, and I'm like, oh my God, I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna die. I said, Lord, I'm trying to stay here.
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Speaker 1: I got my child. I got so much to live for.
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Speaker 1: God said, go to sleep, just go to sleep. I
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Speaker 1: got you. I'm sitting here watching angels and the dev
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Speaker 1: of the devil fighting and everybody fighting and all this
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Speaker 1: other stuff and demons fighting, and finally, after struggling, after fighting,
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Speaker 1: I finally just went to sleep. And guess what, I'm
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Speaker 1: still here talking to you. Every time I feel like
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Speaker 1: I'm in that place, God says, go to sleep. I
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Speaker 1: got you. God says, just lay down, I got you,
31:45
Speaker 1: And I'm still here. So again, as long as you
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Speaker 1: are doing the work to show God that you really
31:53
Speaker 1: are trying to get through whatever it is that you're
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Speaker 1: trying to get through, God will be there. As long
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Speaker 1: as you learning, growing, evolving while you are going through
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Speaker 1: this journey, then everything will be okay because when you
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Speaker 1: come out of it, the whole point of sitting still
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Speaker 1: and learning and growing and evolving is for you to
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Speaker 1: be able to come through this situation and being able
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Speaker 1: to go through whatever it is that you're meant to do.
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Speaker 1: So I want people to understand that these journeys are
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Speaker 1: not easy, and they are not but at the end
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Speaker 1: of the day, it is worth it to know that
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Speaker 1: you have gotten through this situation, that you have made
32:58
Speaker 1: it through the worst of times, just like I have
33:03
Speaker 1: some people that's gonna be coming on my podcast in
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Speaker 1: the next two weeks. One person that will be on
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Speaker 1: my podcast. Let me go back and find her name.
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Speaker 1: Let me find her. I gotta make sure I schedule ese.
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Speaker 1: Her name is Nai Crosby and this podcast is going
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Speaker 1: to be about her son being alive due to police brutality.
33:43
Speaker 1: And this is gonna be on my aflcant Melanie Queen's podcast.
33:47
Speaker 1: I'm also gonna let TikTok here it as well. It's
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Speaker 1: a real, real It's gonna be a real conversation because
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Speaker 1: we're talking about grief. We're talking about an innocent child
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Speaker 1: trying to stop a fight and lose his life by
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Speaker 1: the police instead of the people that we're fighting. The
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Speaker 1: sad part about it is is that they're not going
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Speaker 1: to be charged for it. Her story is very powerful.
34:22
Speaker 1: Her story is something I really want people to hear
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Speaker 1: and I'm really looking forward to doing it. So I'm
34:29
Speaker 1: going to be doing this podcast on the twenty fifth
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Speaker 1: at three point thirty. So I can't wait to do it.
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Speaker 1: I can't wait for you guys to hear it on
34:41
Speaker 1: that podcast. I might put it on all my podcasts,
34:45
Speaker 1: so y'all hear it, but I haven't decided yet, But
34:47
Speaker 1: I really think it's going to be a very very
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Speaker 1: good podcast. I think before we do it, I'm probably
34:52
Speaker 1: gonna do something about police brutality on one of my
34:55
Speaker 1: podcasts and about grief as far as you know, all
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Speaker 1: these black men and dying, not only that, everything that's
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Speaker 1: going on with ISIS and everything like that, and how
35:05
Speaker 1: that's impacting and affecting people as well as they're healing
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Speaker 1: recovery as well. So I'm really looking forward to doing
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Speaker 1: this podcast. But in conclusion to all of this, I
35:17
Speaker 1: would say that if you continue to go down the
35:22
Speaker 1: same roads, if you don't elevate, you don't evolve, you
35:25
Speaker 1: don't grow, and you don't mature into a better person.
35:29
Speaker 1: If you don't learn to look at everything you've been
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Speaker 1: through to learn from it, to grow from it, for me,
35:36
Speaker 1: evolve from it and become the best version of yourself
35:40
Speaker 1: from it, you will continue to go through it. If
35:43
Speaker 1: you keep dealing with the same spirits as far as
35:47
Speaker 1: type of people, then you're gonna still have the same issue.
35:50
Speaker 1: Sometimes it can even be environment that can be a problem.
35:53
Speaker 1: Sometimes it can be the environment. If you let people
35:57
Speaker 1: break your self esteem, self work, and self value, your
36:00
Speaker 1: self respect, and you believe in yourself and your confidence,
36:05
Speaker 1: then it's gonna be easy for people to break you
36:08
Speaker 1: when you keep lowering yourself trying to build people that
36:11
Speaker 1: when you build them, they're gonna end up with somebody else.
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Speaker 1: It is never a good look when you are trying
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Speaker 1: to be the best version of yourself and you've got
36:22
Speaker 1: people tearing you down every chance that they get. Is
36:26
Speaker 1: never really a good look either. So what I will
36:30
Speaker 1: say is we all have our ups and downs, we
36:35
Speaker 1: all have our battles that we have to face, but
36:38
Speaker 1: it's not about how we fall, it's about how we rise.
36:42
Speaker 1: The reason why a lot of negative people have don't
36:47
Speaker 1: never go through consequences because in karma at the moment,
36:51
Speaker 1: is because they always have somebody that they can put
36:54
Speaker 1: in front of them like a shield, somebody that is
36:57
Speaker 1: going to be captain, say, with hope that's gonna be
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Speaker 1: and save them, and they're willing to step into that
37:04
Speaker 1: front of them to take that bullet. So as long
37:07
Speaker 1: as somebody's gonna be there every time they fall to
37:10
Speaker 1: where they never have to stay down and somebody's gonna
37:13
Speaker 1: help them get back on their feet, negative people will
37:15
Speaker 1: never have to deal with their consequences, repercussion, the karma,
37:22
Speaker 1: they will never have to deal with it, unfortunately, So
37:26
Speaker 1: the only thing they'll do is they'll keep doing the
37:28
Speaker 1: same thing. They'll keep hurting people over and over and
37:30
Speaker 1: over again until no, until there is no one else
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Speaker 1: that'll help them, until they alienated so many people to
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Speaker 1: the point that nobody wants to hurt to help them,
37:40
Speaker 1: and then they deal with their consequence and repercussions. But
37:43
Speaker 1: when those consequences and repercussions finally hit, whoever is around them,
37:48
Speaker 1: when they finally get what's coming to them, when it
37:51
Speaker 1: finally catches up with them, it's gonna also go through
37:55
Speaker 1: it as well. So you don't want to be the
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Speaker 1: person that is gonna be the person that's gonna go
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Speaker 1: down with that person. You're not trying to be the
38:03
Speaker 1: only person that's gonna end up in a bad situation.
38:06
Speaker 1: You do not want that, Absolutely, you don't. You don't
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Speaker 1: want to be the person that ends up falling along
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Speaker 1: with that other person. Nope, you don't want that. So again,
38:18
Speaker 1: how you feel about yourself when you think about yourself,
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Speaker 1: should be what's important, not what everybody else thinks. And
38:25
Speaker 1: just because you don't phy society standards does not mean
38:28
Speaker 1: that you're not deserving, that you're not worthy. Just because
38:31
Speaker 1: you're in society's standards. When it comes to beautiful does
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Speaker 1: not mean that you're not beautiful. At the end of
38:37
Speaker 1: the day, there's different types of beauty. So at the
38:39
Speaker 1: end of the day, stop letting your heart be troubled
38:42
Speaker 1: by people and situations and things you can't control. And
38:48
Speaker 1: what I mean by that is the things you want
38:51
Speaker 1: that you can't have. If it was really meant for
38:55
Speaker 1: you to have it, you would have it. You wouldn't
38:58
Speaker 1: have to go through all these hoops and bounds to
39:01
Speaker 1: get it. It would just be handed to you. It
39:04
Speaker 1: would just be given to you. And that is it.
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39:45
Speaker 1: as long as you stay in rock bottom, you will
39:47
Speaker 1: continue to stay there. But there should be a time
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Speaker 1: where you should be so used to hitting rock bottom
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Speaker 1: you now don't even want to go down a no more.
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Speaker 1: So with that being said, I will see guys next
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