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How to Declutter and Organize Your Home Without Getting Overwhelmed with Meaghan Kessman Home Organizer · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  Even
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  post
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  fire
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  of
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  losing
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  every
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  single
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  thing
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  I
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  own.
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  I
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  get
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  rid
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  of
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  one
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  bag
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  of
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  stuff
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  a
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  week.
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  Do
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  you
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  really?
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  What
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  is
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  in
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  that
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  bag?
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  Is
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  it
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  clothes?
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  Is
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  it,
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  I
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  mean,
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  literally
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  anything?
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  I
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  mean,
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  I
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  think
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  most
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  people
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  in
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  a
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  marriage
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  are
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  two
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  different
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  organizational
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  types.
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  My
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  husband
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  and
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  I
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  are
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  completely
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  different.
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  I'll
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  give
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  you
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  an
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  example.
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  My
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  husband
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  is
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  really
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  good,
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  but
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  I'm
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  the
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  opposite.
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  I
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  like
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  to
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  procrastinate
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  and
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  wait.
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  You
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  don't
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  have
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  to
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  wait
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  until
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  you
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  have
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  a
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  whole
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  weekend
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  to
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  do
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  all
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  of
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  it.
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  You
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  don't
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  like
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  something
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  and
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  you
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  pull
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  something
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  off
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  the
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  hanger
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  and
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  you're
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  like,
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  oh,
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  I
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  wear
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  this.
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  Well,
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  guess
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  what?
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  If
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  you
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  wear
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  it
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  today,
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  you
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  probably
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  wear
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  it
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  next
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  week.
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  Chuck
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  it.
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  Then
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  you
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  implement
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  the
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  systems
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  to
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  kind
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  of
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  keep
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  everything
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  organized.
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  The
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  decisions
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  you're
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  making
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  at
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  hour
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  eight
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  are
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  not
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  as
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  good
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  as
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  the
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  ones
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  you
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  were
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  making
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  in
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  the
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  first
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  hour
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  because
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  you're
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  tired
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  and
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  you
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  want
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  it
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  to
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  be
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  over
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  with,
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  which
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  is
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  when
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  people
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  are
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  like,
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  throw
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  it
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  all
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  away.
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  And
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  you
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  have
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  the
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  regret
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  of
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  throwing
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  it
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  all
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  away.
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  Trying
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  to
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  help
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  our
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  parents
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  downsize
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  and
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  they
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  have
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  collected
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  things
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  and
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  they
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  throw
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  things
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  away.
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  Enjoy
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  some
• 1:03
  of
• 1:03
  the
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  memories,
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  like
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  look
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  through
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  some
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  of
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  your
• 1:05
  old
• 1:05
  stuff
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  and
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  have
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  a
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  good
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  time
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  with
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  it.
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  If
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  everything's
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  special,
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  nothing's
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  special.
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  So
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  you
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  do
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  have
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  to,
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  like,
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  make
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  those
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  special
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  pieces
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  and
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  keep
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  them
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  and
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  then
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  let
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  the
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  rest
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  go.
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  Today's
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  guest
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  understands
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  something
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  most
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  people
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  miss.
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  Clutter
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  isn't
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  really
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  about
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  mess.
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  It's
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  about
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  decisions,
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  energy,
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  and
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  overwhelm.
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  Megan
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  Kessman
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  is
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  a
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  home
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  organization
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  expert
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  and
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  the
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  founder
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  of
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  Megan
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  Kessman
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  Home.
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  She
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  helps
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  people
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  create
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  systems
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  that
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  actually
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  support
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  how
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  they
• 1:38
  live,
• 1:39
  not
• 1:39
  how
• 1:39
  they
• 1:39
  wish
• 1:40
  they
• 1:40
  lived.
• 1:41
  Her
• 1:41
  work
• 1:42
  is
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  especially
• 1:42
  powerful
• 1:43
  for
• 1:43
  women
• 1:43
  in
• 1:43
  midlife,
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  when
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  life
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  feels
• 1:45
  fuller,
• 1:46
  faster,
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  and
• 1:46
  more
• 1:47
  layered.
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  And
• 1:48
  the
• 1:48
  desire
• 1:48
  for
• 1:48
  calm
• 1:49
  at
• 1:49
  home
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  isn't
• 1:50
  about
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  aesthetics,
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  it's
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  about
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  sanity.
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  In
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  this
• 1:53
  conversation,
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  we
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  talk
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  about
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  why
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  clutter
• 1:55
  builds
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  up,
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  why
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  organization
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  feels
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  emotionally
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  loaded,
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  and
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  how
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  creating
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  simple
• 2:00
  systems
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  can
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  genuinely
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  change
• 2:02
  how
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  you
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  feel
• 2:03
  day
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  to
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  day.
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  Before
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  we
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  jump
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  in,
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  if
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  you're
• 2:06
  listening
• 2:06
  on
• 2:07
  your
• 2:07
  favorite
• 2:07
  podcast
• 2:08
  app,
• 2:08
  take
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  a
• 2:09
  moment
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  to
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  follow
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  the
• 2:10
  show,
• 2:10
  rate
• 2:11
  it,
• 2:11
  and
• 2:11
  leave
• 2:11
  a
• 2:11
  quick
• 2:12
  review.
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  It
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  makes
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  a
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  real
• 2:13
  difference
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  and
• 2:14
  helps
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  more
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  women
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  find
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  the
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  iconic
• 2:16
  midlife.
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  And
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  if
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  you're
• 2:18
  watching
• 2:18
  on
• 2:18
  YouTube,
• 2:19
  be
• 2:19
  sure
• 2:19
  to
• 2:20
  subscribe
• 2:20
  like
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  this
• 2:21
  episode
• 2:21
  and
• 2:22
  drop
• 2:22
  a
• 2:22
  comment.
• 2:23
  I
• 2:23
  read
• 2:23
  them
• 2:23
  and
• 2:24
  they
• 2:24
  really
• 2:24
  help
• 2:25
  the
• 2:25
  channel
• 2:25
  grow.
• 2:26
  Let's
• 2:26
  get
• 2:27
  into
• 2:27
  it.
• 2:28
  Welcome
• 2:28
  to
• 2:28
  the
• 2:29
  iconic
• 2:29
  Midlife
• 2:30
  Megan,
• 2:30
  how
• 2:30
  are
• 2:30
  you
• 2:31
  doing
• 2:31
  today?
• 2:32
  Thank
• 2:32
  you
• 2:33
  so
• 2:33
  much
• 2:33
  for
• 2:33
  having
• 2:33
  me,
• 2:34
  Roxy.
• 2:34
  I'm
• 2:35
  great.
• 2:35
  How
• 2:35
  are
• 2:35
  you?
• 2:36
  I'm
• 2:36
  doing
• 2:36
  good.
• 2:37
  I'm
• 2:37
  doing
• 2:37
  good.
• 2:37
  It's
• 2:38
  been
• 2:38
  a
• 2:38
  minute
• 2:39
  since
• 2:40
  I've
• 2:40
  seen
• 2:40
  you,
• 2:40
  so
• 2:41
  I'm
• 2:41
  excited
• 2:41
  that
• 2:41
  we're
• 2:41
  chatting
• 2:42
  today.
• 2:43
  Me
• 2:43
  too.
• 2:44
  So
• 2:45
  good.
• 2:45
  How's
• 2:46
  life
• 2:46
  been
• 2:46
  in
• 2:46
  the
• 2:47
  last
• 2:47
  gosh
• 2:49
  year?
• 2:49
  I
• 2:49
  know
• 2:50
  it's
• 2:50
  been
• 2:50
  a
• 2:50
  little
• 2:50
  crazy
• 2:50
  for
• 2:51
  you
• 2:51
  after
• 2:51
  the
• 2:51
  Palisades,
• 2:52
  Right.
• 2:53
  We
• 2:54
  lost
• 2:54
  our
• 2:54
  house
• 2:54
  in
• 2:55
  the
• 2:55
  fire,
• 2:55
  so
• 2:56
  it's
• 2:56
  been
• 2:56
  a
• 2:57
  crazy
• 2:57
  year,
• 2:58
  but
• 2:58
  we're
• 2:59
  getting
• 2:59
  through
• 2:59
  it,
• 2:59
  and
• 3:01
  we're
• 3:01
  about
• 3:01
  to
• 3:01
  start
• 3:02
  rebuilding,
• 3:02
  and
• 3:03
  so
• 3:03
  everything's
• 3:03
  going
• 3:04
  really
• 3:04
  well,
• 3:04
  all
• 3:04
  things
• 3:05
  considered.
• 3:06
  Okay,
• 3:06
  good,
• 3:07
  good,
• 3:07
  good.
• 3:07
  I'm
• 3:08
  glad
• 3:08
  you
• 3:08
  guys
• 3:08
  are
• 3:09
  opening
• 3:09
  a
• 3:09
  new
• 3:10
  chapter
• 3:10
  now,
• 3:10
  hopefully
• 3:11
  for
• 3:11
  the
• 3:11
  better.
• 3:12
  Yes,
• 3:13
  I
• 3:13
  did,
• 3:13
  like,
• 3:13
  a
• 3:13
  deep
• 3:14
  dive
• 3:14
  into
• 3:14
  your
• 3:14
  Instagram
• 3:15
  Megan
• 3:16
  Kessman
• 3:16
  home,
• 3:17
  which
• 3:17
  I'm,
• 3:17
  like,
• 3:17
  obsessed
• 3:18
  with,
• 3:18
  because
• 3:18
  I
• 3:19
  love.
• 3:19
  Even
• 3:19
  though
• 3:20
  I
• 3:20
  am
• 3:20
  tr.
• 3:20
  Traditionally
• 3:21
  not
• 3:21
  a
• 3:21
  super
• 3:22
  organized
• 3:22
  person,
• 3:23
  I
• 3:23
  love
• 3:23
  to
• 3:24
  look
• 3:24
  at
• 3:24
  people
• 3:25
  who
• 3:25
  are,
• 3:25
  like,
• 3:26
  their
• 3:26
  social
• 3:26
  media.
• 3:27
  It,
• 3:27
  like,
• 3:28
  brings
• 3:28
  me
• 3:29
  joy
• 3:29
  because
• 3:30
  I
• 3:30
  get
• 3:30
  so
• 3:30
  anxious
• 3:31
  when
• 3:31
  I
• 3:32
  am
• 3:32
  not
• 3:33
  organized,
• 3:33
  you
• 3:33
  know,
• 3:34
  which
• 3:34
  is,
• 3:34
  like,
• 3:34
  literally
• 3:35
  always
• 3:35
  the
• 3:35
  case.
• 3:36
  So,
• 3:37
  yeah,
• 3:37
  I
• 3:37
  was
• 3:37
  looking
• 3:37
  at
• 3:37
  some
• 3:37
  of
• 3:38
  the
• 3:38
  spaces
• 3:38
  and
• 3:38
  everything
• 3:39
  and
• 3:39
  how
• 3:39
  clean
• 3:40
  and
• 3:40
  fresh
• 3:41
  and
• 3:42
  amazing,
• 3:43
  you
• 3:43
  know,
• 3:43
  the
• 3:44
  places
• 3:44
  are
• 3:44
  that
• 3:44
  you've
• 3:45
  been
• 3:45
  putting
• 3:45
  up.
• 3:46
  So
• 3:46
  congratulations
• 3:47
  on
• 3:47
  that.
• 3:47
  But
• 3:48
  it's
• 3:48
  interesting
• 3:48
  because
• 3:49
  you
• 3:49
  also
• 3:50
  have
• 3:50
  this
• 3:50
  other
• 3:51
  side,
• 3:51
  like,
• 3:51
  you
• 3:52
  were
• 3:52
  in
• 3:53
  the
• 3:53
  corporate
• 3:54
  world
• 3:54
  for
• 3:54
  a
• 3:55
  long
• 3:55
  time,
• 3:56
  you
• 3:56
  know,
• 3:57
  and
• 3:57
  did
• 3:57
  this,
• 3:57
  like,
• 3:58
  pivot
• 3:58
  and
• 3:59
  change.
• 3:59
  So
• 3:59
  let.
• 4:00
  Let's
• 4:00
  talk
• 4:00
  about
• 4:00
  that
• 4:01
  a
• 4:01
  little
• 4:01
  bit,
• 4:01
  because
• 4:01
  you
• 4:02
  did
• 4:02
  that
• 4:02
  in
• 4:02
  midlife,
• 4:03
  which
• 4:03
  is
• 4:04
  amazing.
• 4:05
  So,
• 4:05
  like,
• 4:05
  what
• 4:06
  kind
• 4:06
  of
• 4:07
  led
• 4:07
  to
• 4:08
  the
• 4:08
  changing.
• 4:09
  Let's
• 4:09
  give
• 4:09
  people
• 4:10
  a
• 4:10
  little
• 4:10
  background,
• 4:10
  too,
• 4:11
  as
• 4:11
  to
• 4:11
  what
• 4:11
  you
• 4:11
  were
• 4:11
  doing
• 4:12
  before,
• 4:12
  because
• 4:12
  that
• 4:13
  was
• 4:13
  like
• 4:13
  a
• 4:14
  whole
• 4:14
  other
• 4:15
  amazing
• 4:16
  part
• 4:16
  of
• 4:16
  your
• 4:17
  life,
• 4:17
  you
• 4:17
  know?
• 4:18
  Yes,
• 4:18
  it
• 4:18
  was
• 4:19
  a
• 4:19
  whole
• 4:19
  different
• 4:20
  life.
• 4:20
  I
• 4:20
  feel
• 4:20
  like
• 4:21
  I
• 4:22
  was
• 4:22
  in
• 4:22
  Digital
• 4:23
  Media
• 4:23
  for
• 4:24
  20
• 4:24
  years
• 4:25
  prior
• 4:25
  to
• 4:25
  this.
• 4:27
  I
• 4:27
  worked
• 4:27
  the
• 4:28
  majority
• 4:28
  of
• 4:28
  my
• 4:28
  career
• 4:29
  at
• 4:29
  Pandora,
• 4:30
  the
• 4:30
  streaming
• 4:31
  music
• 4:32
  site,
• 4:33
  and
• 4:34
  was
• 4:34
  one
• 4:34
  of
• 4:34
  their
• 4:34
  early
• 4:35
  employees,
• 4:36
  watched
• 4:36
  them
• 4:36
  grow,
• 4:37
  was
• 4:37
  with
• 4:37
  them
• 4:37
  for
• 4:38
  almost
• 4:38
  13
• 4:38
  years.
• 4:39
  And
• 4:40
  as
• 4:40
  the
• 4:40
  kids
• 4:40
  got
• 4:40
  older,
• 4:41
  I
• 4:41
  had
• 4:41
  my
• 4:41
  kids
• 4:42
  there,
• 4:42
  and
• 4:43
  as
• 4:43
  they
• 4:43
  got
• 4:44
  older,
• 4:44
  I
• 4:44
  just
• 4:45
  noticed
• 4:46
  that
• 4:46
  I
• 4:46
  needed
• 4:46
  to
• 4:46
  be
• 4:47
  around
• 4:47
  more
• 4:47
  than
• 4:48
  I
• 4:48
  needed
• 4:48
  to
• 4:48
  be
• 4:48
  when
• 4:49
  they
• 4:49
  were
• 4:49
  babies.
• 4:50
  And
• 4:51
  so
• 4:51
  I
• 4:51
  started
• 4:51
  to
• 4:52
  feel
• 4:52
  like
• 4:52
  I
• 4:52
  need
• 4:52
  to
• 4:53
  have
• 4:53
  a
• 4:53
  job
• 4:53
  that's
• 4:54
  a
• 4:54
  little
• 4:54
  bit
• 4:54
  more
• 4:56
  flexible
• 4:56
  and
• 4:57
  that
• 4:57
  I
• 4:57
  can
• 4:57
  be
• 4:57
  around
• 4:58
  for
• 4:58
  them
• 4:58
  and
• 4:58
  pick
• 4:59
  them
• 4:59
  up
• 4:59
  from
• 4:59
  school
• 4:59
  and
• 5:00
  do
• 5:00
  a
• 5:00
  lot
• 5:00
  of
• 5:00
  different
• 5:00
  things.
• 5:01
  But
• 5:02
  at
• 5:02
  the
• 5:02
  same
• 5:02
  time,
• 5:03
  we
• 5:03
  ended
• 5:03
  up
• 5:04
  moving
• 5:04
  to
• 5:04
  London
• 5:05
  for
• 5:05
  three
• 5:05
  years
• 5:06
  for
• 5:06
  my
• 5:06
  husband's
• 5:07
  job.
• 5:08
  So
• 5:08
  I
• 5:08
  didn't
• 5:08
  work
• 5:09
  in
• 5:09
  London
• 5:09
  at
• 5:10
  all,
• 5:10
  which
• 5:10
  was
• 5:10
  a
• 5:10
  fun
• 5:11
  Little
• 5:11
  three
• 5:12
  year
• 5:12
  vacation
• 5:13
  for
• 5:13
  me.
• 5:14
  But
• 5:14
  when
• 5:14
  we
• 5:14
  got
• 5:15
  back,
• 5:15
  I,
• 5:16
  I,
• 5:17
  when
• 5:17
  we
• 5:17
  got
• 5:17
  back,
• 5:17
  I
• 5:18
  knew
• 5:18
  I
• 5:18
  wanted
• 5:18
  to
• 5:18
  work.
• 5:19
  Like,
• 5:19
  I
• 5:19
  missed
• 5:19
  working.
• 5:20
  Um,
• 5:21
  I
• 5:21
  tried
• 5:22
  to
• 5:22
  get
• 5:22
  more
• 5:23
  into
• 5:24
  like
• 5:24
  traditional
• 5:25
  companies
• 5:25
  again.
• 5:26
  I
• 5:26
  started
• 5:26
  to
• 5:26
  put
• 5:27
  feelers
• 5:27
  out
• 5:28
  and
• 5:28
  as
• 5:28
  it
• 5:28
  turns
• 5:29
  out,
• 5:29
  being
• 5:29
  out
• 5:30
  of
• 5:30
  the
• 5:30
  workforce
• 5:30
  for
• 5:31
  four
• 5:31
  to
• 5:31
  five
• 5:31
  years,
• 5:32
  it,
• 5:32
  it's
• 5:33
  hard
• 5:33
  to
• 5:33
  get
• 5:33
  back
• 5:33
  in.
• 5:34
  Um,
• 5:35
  and
• 5:35
  so
• 5:35
  things
• 5:36
  were,
• 5:37
  were
• 5:37
  going
• 5:37
  fine,
• 5:38
  but
• 5:38
  I
• 5:38
  was
• 5:38
  like,
• 5:38
  is
• 5:38
  this
• 5:38
  what
• 5:39
  I
• 5:39
  really
• 5:39
  want?
• 5:40
  And
• 5:40
  so
• 5:40
  what
• 5:40
  I
• 5:40
  decided
• 5:41
  to
• 5:41
  do
• 5:41
  was
• 5:41
  really
• 5:42
  sit
• 5:43
  and
• 5:43
  think.
• 5:43
  What
• 5:43
  do
• 5:44
  I
• 5:44
  really
• 5:44
  love
• 5:44
  to
• 5:45
  do?
• 5:45
  And
• 5:45
  I've
• 5:45
  always
• 5:46
  loved
• 5:46
  to
• 5:46
  organize.
• 5:47
  It
• 5:47
  was
• 5:48
  even
• 5:48
  in,
• 5:49
  you
• 5:49
  know,
• 5:49
  digital
• 5:50
  media.
• 5:51
  I
• 5:51
  was
• 5:51
  using
• 5:51
  organization
• 5:53
  to
• 5:54
  really
• 5:54
  further
• 5:55
  my
• 5:55
  career.
• 5:56
  And
• 5:57
  so
• 5:57
  I
• 5:57
  thought,
• 5:57
  you
• 5:57
  know
• 5:58
  what,
• 5:58
  what
• 5:58
  if
• 5:58
  I
• 5:58
  tried
• 5:59
  to
• 6:00
  organize
• 6:01
  for
• 6:01
  other
• 6:01
  people?
• 6:01
  I
• 6:01
  organized
• 6:02
  for
• 6:02
  myself.
• 6:02
  I
• 6:03
  have
• 6:03
  since
• 6:03
  I
• 6:03
  was
• 6:03
  a
• 6:04
  child
• 6:04
  and
• 6:05
  people
• 6:05
  had
• 6:06
  asked
• 6:06
  me
• 6:06
  over
• 6:06
  the
• 6:07
  years
• 6:07
  if
• 6:07
  I
• 6:07
  would
• 6:07
  ever
• 6:08
  organize
• 6:08
  for
• 6:08
  them
• 6:09
  and
• 6:09
  I
• 6:09
  was
• 6:09
  always
• 6:09
  like,
• 6:09
  no,
• 6:10
  no,
• 6:10
  no.
• 6:10
  And
• 6:11
  I
• 6:11
  thought,
• 6:11
  you
• 6:11
  know
• 6:11
  what,
• 6:11
  I'm
• 6:11
  going
• 6:12
  to
• 6:12
  try
• 6:13
  taking
• 6:13
  on
• 6:13
  a
• 6:14
  few
• 6:14
  trial
• 6:14
  clients.
• 6:15
  So
• 6:15
  I
• 6:15
  called
• 6:16
  a
• 6:16
  few
• 6:16
  friends
• 6:16
  and
• 6:17
  said,
• 6:17
  can
• 6:17
  I
• 6:18
  come
• 6:18
  organize
• 6:19
  for
• 6:19
  you
• 6:19
  for
• 6:20
  free?
• 6:20
  I'll
• 6:21
  do
• 6:21
  a
• 6:21
  space
• 6:22
  and
• 6:22
  see
• 6:22
  how
• 6:22
  you
• 6:22
  like
• 6:23
  it
• 6:23
  and
• 6:23
  let
• 6:23
  me
• 6:23
  see
• 6:23
  how
• 6:24
  I
• 6:24
  feel
• 6:24
  and
• 6:24
  then
• 6:25
  we'll
• 6:25
  go
• 6:25
  from
• 6:25
  there.
• 6:26
  And
• 6:26
  so
• 6:26
  I
• 6:26
  did
• 6:27
  a
• 6:27
  few
• 6:28
  spaces.
• 6:28
  I
• 6:29
  actually
• 6:29
  really
• 6:29
  loved
• 6:30
  it
• 6:31
  and
• 6:31
  then
• 6:31
  just
• 6:32
  decided
• 6:32
  to
• 6:33
  jump.
• 6:33
  And
• 6:34
  so
• 6:34
  I
• 6:36
  jumped
• 6:36
  and
• 6:36
  sent
• 6:37
  an
• 6:37
  email
• 6:37
  to
• 6:38
  all
• 6:38
  my
• 6:38
  contacts
• 6:39
  saying,
• 6:39
  this
• 6:39
  is
• 6:39
  what
• 6:39
  I'm
• 6:40
  doing.
• 6:40
  I,
• 6:40
  I'm
• 6:41
  available,
• 6:41
  this
• 6:41
  is
• 6:41
  my
• 6:42
  rate.
• 6:42
  Here's
• 6:42
  what
• 6:43
  you
• 6:43
  know,
• 6:43
  I'm
• 6:43
  up
• 6:43
  to.
• 6:44
  Here's
• 6:44
  some,
• 6:44
  here's
• 6:45
  a
• 6:45
  sample
• 6:45
  of
• 6:45
  what
• 6:45
  I've
• 6:46
  done
• 6:46
  in
• 6:46
  the
• 6:46
  past
• 6:47
  and
• 6:47
  let's
• 6:47
  see
• 6:48
  how
• 6:48
  this
• 6:48
  goes.
• 6:48
  And
• 6:49
  people
• 6:49
  started
• 6:49
  reaching
• 6:50
  out
• 6:50
  and
• 6:50
  word
• 6:51
  of
• 6:51
  mouth
• 6:51
  and
• 6:52
  now
• 6:52
  it's
• 6:52
  grown
• 6:53
  into
• 6:53
  its
• 6:53
  own
• 6:54
  business
• 6:54
  which
• 6:54
  has
• 6:55
  been
• 6:55
  really
• 6:55
  fun
• 6:56
  and
• 6:56
  I'm
• 6:56
  using
• 6:57
  what
• 6:57
  comes
• 6:58
  naturally
• 6:58
  to
• 6:58
  me,
• 6:59
  which
• 6:59
  is
• 7:00
  so
• 7:00
  exciting.
• 7:01
  Yeah.
• 7:02
  Now
• 7:02
  because
• 7:02
  you've
• 7:02
  been
• 7:03
  on
• 7:03
  both
• 7:03
  sides
• 7:03
  of
• 7:03
  it
• 7:04
  as
• 7:04
  like
• 7:04
  an
• 7:04
  entrepreneur
• 7:05
  but
• 7:06
  also
• 7:06
  working
• 7:06
  for
• 7:07
  somebody
• 7:07
  previously.
• 7:08
  I
• 7:08
  mean,
• 7:09
  do
• 7:09
  you
• 7:09
  feel
• 7:09
  like,
• 7:09
  do
• 7:10
  you,
• 7:10
  do
• 7:10
  you
• 7:10
  love
• 7:11
  this
• 7:11
  part
• 7:11
  of
• 7:11
  it
• 7:12
  so
• 7:12
  much
• 7:12
  more
• 7:12
  now
• 7:13
  being
• 7:13
  your
• 7:13
  own
• 7:14
  sort
• 7:14
  of
• 7:14
  boss
• 7:15
  and
• 7:15
  business
• 7:15
  person?
• 7:16
  Like,
• 7:16
  are
• 7:17
  you
• 7:17
  really
• 7:17
  loving
• 7:17
  it?
• 7:18
  I
• 7:19
  do
• 7:19
  really
• 7:19
  love
• 7:19
  it.
• 7:20
  I
• 7:20
  miss,
• 7:20
  I
• 7:21
  loved
• 7:21
  my
• 7:21
  co
• 7:21
  workers
• 7:22
  at
• 7:22
  Pandora.
• 7:22
  I'm
• 7:23
  still
• 7:23
  so
• 7:23
  close
• 7:23
  to
• 7:24
  so
• 7:24
  many
• 7:24
  of
• 7:24
  them.
• 7:24
  So
• 7:25
  I
• 7:25
  miss
• 7:25
  going
• 7:26
  into
• 7:26
  the
• 7:26
  office
• 7:26
  and
• 7:27
  seeing
• 7:27
  everyone,
• 7:28
  but
• 7:28
  I
• 7:28
  still
• 7:28
  keep
• 7:28
  in
• 7:29
  touch.
• 7:29
  But
• 7:29
  I
• 7:30
  really
• 7:30
  like
• 7:31
  being
• 7:31
  able
• 7:32
  to
• 7:32
  design
• 7:32
  my
• 7:33
  own,
• 7:34
  my
• 7:34
  own
• 7:34
  schedule.
• 7:35
  Like
• 7:35
  I
• 7:35
  plot
• 7:36
  any
• 7:36
  clients,
• 7:37
  how,
• 7:37
  when
• 7:37
  I
• 7:37
  can
• 7:38
  take
• 7:38
  them.
• 7:38
  I'm,
• 7:39
  you
• 7:39
  know,
• 7:39
  I
• 7:39
  was
• 7:39
  at
• 7:40
  my
• 7:40
  daughter's
• 7:40
  school
• 7:41
  this
• 7:41
  morning.
• 7:41
  I
• 7:41
  do
• 7:42
  this,
• 7:42
  I've
• 7:42
  got
• 7:42
  a
• 7:42
  client
• 7:43
  this
• 7:43
  Afternoon
• 7:43
  so
• 7:44
  I
• 7:44
  can
• 7:44
  plug
• 7:45
  and
• 7:45
  play
• 7:45
  in
• 7:46
  a
• 7:46
  way
• 7:46
  that
• 7:46
  I
• 7:46
  could
• 7:47
  never
• 7:47
  when
• 7:47
  I
• 7:47
  had
• 7:47
  a
• 7:48
  boss.
• 7:49
  And
• 7:49
  then
• 7:49
  I
• 7:49
  thought
• 7:50
  when
• 7:50
  I
• 7:50
  was
• 7:51
  first
• 7:51
  building
• 7:51
  this
• 7:52
  that
• 7:52
  I
• 7:52
  really
• 7:52
  wanted
• 7:52
  to
• 7:53
  have
• 7:53
  a
• 7:53
  team
• 7:54
  around
• 7:54
  me.
• 7:54
  And
• 7:55
  what
• 7:55
  I've
• 7:55
  discovered
• 7:56
  over
• 7:56
  the
• 7:56
  last.
• 7:57
  It's
• 7:57
  been
• 7:57
  two
• 7:57
  and
• 7:57
  a
• 7:57
  half
• 7:58
  years
• 7:58
  since
• 7:58
  I
• 7:58
  started
• 7:58
  this
• 7:59
  is
• 7:59
  that
• 8:00
  I
• 8:00
  really
• 8:00
  just
• 8:01
  like
• 8:01
  working
• 8:01
  by
• 8:02
  myself.
• 8:02
  And
• 8:03
  so
• 8:03
  I
• 8:03
  don't
• 8:04
  bring
• 8:04
  in
• 8:04
  assistance
• 8:05
  to
• 8:05
  my
• 8:05
  jobs.
• 8:06
  I
• 8:06
  work
• 8:07
  one
• 8:07
  on
• 8:07
  one
• 8:07
  with
• 8:08
  clients.
• 8:08
  I
• 8:09
  just
• 8:10
  focus
• 8:10
  on
• 8:10
  them,
• 8:10
  and
• 8:11
  they
• 8:11
  work
• 8:12
  with
• 8:12
  me
• 8:12
  really
• 8:12
  closely
• 8:13
  on
• 8:13
  editing
• 8:14
  what
• 8:14
  they
• 8:14
  have.
• 8:15
  And
• 8:15
  I
• 8:15
  found
• 8:16
  that
• 8:16
  organizing
• 8:17
  someone's
• 8:17
  space
• 8:17
  is
• 8:18
  so
• 8:19
  intimate,
• 8:19
  right?
• 8:20
  You're
• 8:20
  in
• 8:20
  people
• 8:21
  stuff.
• 8:22
  It's.
• 8:23
  It's
• 8:23
  very,
• 8:23
  you
• 8:24
  know,
• 8:24
  people
• 8:24
  want
• 8:24
  a
• 8:24
  private
• 8:25
  experience.
• 8:25
  And
• 8:26
  so
• 8:26
  what
• 8:26
  I
• 8:26
  found
• 8:26
  that
• 8:26
  if
• 8:27
  it's
• 8:27
  just
• 8:27
  one
• 8:27
  on
• 8:28
  one
• 8:28
  with
• 8:28
  me
• 8:28
  and
• 8:28
  the
• 8:29
  client
• 8:29
  going
• 8:30
  through
• 8:30
  their
• 8:30
  stuff
• 8:30
  and
• 8:30
  making
• 8:31
  decisions
• 8:31
  on
• 8:31
  what
• 8:32
  they're
• 8:32
  keeping
• 8:32
  and
• 8:32
  what
• 8:33
  they're
• 8:33
  giving
• 8:33
  away,
• 8:34
  it's
• 8:34
  been.
• 8:35
  It's
• 8:36
  great.
• 8:36
  And
• 8:36
  that
• 8:36
  also
• 8:37
  leaves
• 8:37
  me
• 8:38
  the
• 8:38
  ability
• 8:38
  to
• 8:39
  be
• 8:39
  very
• 8:39
  flexible
• 8:40
  with
• 8:40
  my
• 8:40
  time
• 8:40
  because
• 8:41
  I'm
• 8:41
  not
• 8:42
  trying
• 8:42
  to
• 8:42
  coordinate
• 8:43
  assistance
• 8:43
  or
• 8:44
  other
• 8:44
  people
• 8:44
  that
• 8:44
  I'm
• 8:45
  working
• 8:45
  with.
• 8:45
  It's
• 8:45
  just
• 8:45
  me.
• 8:46
  And
• 8:46
  so
• 8:47
  I
• 8:47
  didn't
• 8:47
  think
• 8:47
  that's
• 8:48
  what
• 8:48
  I
• 8:48
  was
• 8:48
  going
• 8:48
  to
• 8:49
  want
• 8:49
  originally.
• 8:50
  And
• 8:50
  so
• 8:51
  that's
• 8:51
  what
• 8:51
  I've
• 8:51
  decided
• 8:52
  as
• 8:52
  I've
• 8:52
  moved
• 8:53
  along
• 8:53
  with
• 8:53
  this
• 8:53
  business
• 8:54
  that
• 8:55
  I
• 8:55
  really
• 8:55
  actually
• 8:56
  like
• 8:56
  working
• 8:57
  just
• 8:57
  on
• 8:58
  my
• 8:58
  own.
• 8:59
  So.
• 8:59
  You
• 9:00
  know,
• 9:00
  that's
• 9:00
  an
• 9:00
  interesting
• 9:01
  point
• 9:01
  you
• 9:01
  brought
• 9:01
  up
• 9:01
  about
• 9:02
  going
• 9:02
  into
• 9:02
  people's
• 9:03
  intimate
• 9:03
  spaces.
• 9:04
  You
• 9:04
  know,
• 9:04
  because
• 9:04
  you
• 9:04
  often
• 9:05
  encounter,
• 9:06
  you
• 9:06
  know,
• 9:07
  like,
• 9:07
  I'm
• 9:08
  sure,
• 9:08
  many
• 9:08
  different
• 9:08
  things,
• 9:09
  but
• 9:09
  clutter
• 9:10
  being
• 9:10
  one
• 9:10
  of
• 9:10
  them.
• 9:10
  Right.
• 9:12
  So
• 9:12
  when
• 9:12
  you're
• 9:13
  going
• 9:13
  into
• 9:13
  a
• 9:13
  client
• 9:14
  space
• 9:14
  and
• 9:15
  you're
• 9:15
  seeing
• 9:15
  clutter,
• 9:16
  what
• 9:17
  do
• 9:17
  you
• 9:17
  think
• 9:18
  that
• 9:19
  is?
• 9:19
  Not
• 9:19
  just,
• 9:20
  you
• 9:20
  know,
• 9:21
  the
• 9:22
  items
• 9:22
  that
• 9:22
  are,
• 9:23
  you
• 9:23
  know,
• 9:23
  around,
• 9:24
  but
• 9:24
  what
• 9:25
  do
• 9:25
  you
• 9:25
  think
• 9:25
  that
• 9:25
  that
• 9:26
  is
• 9:26
  actually
• 9:26
  about?
• 9:27
  Like,
• 9:27
  why
• 9:27
  are
• 9:27
  people
• 9:28
  holding
• 9:28
  on
• 9:28
  to
• 9:29
  things?
• 9:30
  I
• 9:30
  think
• 9:30
  I
• 9:30
  read
• 9:31
  somewhere
• 9:31
  that
• 9:31
  clutter
• 9:32
  is
• 9:32
  unmade
• 9:32
  decisions,
• 9:33
  and
• 9:34
  I
• 9:34
  think
• 9:34
  that
• 9:34
  that
• 9:35
  is
• 9:35
  what
• 9:36
  it
• 9:36
  is.
• 9:36
  People
• 9:38
  have
• 9:39
  so
• 9:39
  many
• 9:39
  decisions
• 9:40
  to
• 9:40
  make
• 9:40
  every
• 9:40
  single
• 9:41
  day,
• 9:41
  and
• 9:42
  I
• 9:42
  feel
• 9:42
  like
• 9:43
  there's
• 9:44
  just
• 9:44
  a
• 9:44
  pileup
• 9:45
  of
• 9:45
  decisions
• 9:46
  that
• 9:46
  are
• 9:46
  being
• 9:47
  that
• 9:47
  need
• 9:47
  to
• 9:47
  be
• 9:47
  made,
• 9:48
  and
• 9:48
  people
• 9:48
  put
• 9:49
  it
• 9:49
  off
• 9:49
  because
• 9:49
  they're
• 9:50
  tired
• 9:50
  of
• 9:50
  making
• 9:51
  decisions.
• 9:51
  There's
• 9:52
  so
• 9:52
  much
• 9:52
  coming
• 9:52
  at
• 9:53
  us
• 9:53
  at
• 9:53
  all
• 9:53
  times.
• 9:54
  And
• 9:54
  I
• 9:55
  think,
• 9:55
  you
• 9:56
  know,
• 9:56
  people
• 9:56
  are
• 9:57
  purchasing
• 9:57
  things
• 9:58
  because
• 9:58
  they
• 9:58
  think
• 9:58
  it's
• 9:59
  going
• 9:59
  to
• 9:59
  help
• 9:59
  them
• 9:59
  down
• 9:59
  the
• 10:00
  road,
• 10:00
  but
• 10:00
  all
• 10:00
  of
• 10:00
  the
• 10:01
  excess
• 10:01
  that's
• 10:02
  coming
• 10:02
  in
• 10:03
  just
• 10:04
  leaves
• 10:04
  them
• 10:05
  so
• 10:05
  overwhelmed.
• 10:06
  Um,
• 10:06
  and
• 10:07
  then
• 10:07
  it
• 10:07
  becomes
• 10:07
  so
• 10:08
  overwhelming
• 10:08
  that
• 10:09
  it
• 10:09
  becomes.
• 10:10
  People
• 10:10
  feel
• 10:10
  a
• 10:11
  lot
• 10:11
  of
• 10:11
  shame
• 10:11
  with
• 10:12
  their
• 10:12
  clutter,
• 10:12
  which
• 10:13
  makes
• 10:13
  me
• 10:14
  sad
• 10:14
  every
• 10:14
  time
• 10:14
  I
• 10:15
  go
• 10:15
  into
• 10:15
  a
• 10:15
  client's
• 10:15
  house.
• 10:15
  They're
• 10:16
  like,
• 10:16
  I'm
• 10:16
  so
• 10:16
  embarrassed.
• 10:17
  And
• 10:17
  I'm
• 10:17
  like,
• 10:17
  don't
• 10:17
  be
• 10:18
  embarrassed.
• 10:18
  Like,
• 10:18
  this
• 10:19
  is,
• 10:19
  this
• 10:19
  is
• 10:20
  normal.
• 10:20
  People
• 10:20
  have
• 10:21
  clutter.
• 10:21
  Um,
• 10:23
  but
• 10:23
  I
• 10:23
  do
• 10:23
  think
• 10:24
  that
• 10:24
  it's
• 10:24
  just.
• 10:25
  Everything's
• 10:26
  so
• 10:26
  easy
• 10:26
  to
• 10:26
  buy
• 10:26
  these
• 10:27
  days.
• 10:27
  Amazon
• 10:28
  you
• 10:28
  can
• 10:28
  get
• 10:29
  in
• 10:29
  two
• 10:29
  seconds.
• 10:31
  And
• 10:31
  people
• 10:31
  just
• 10:32
  accumulate
• 10:34
  and
• 10:34
  I
• 10:34
  think
• 10:34
  with
• 10:35
  the
• 10:35
  promise
• 10:35
  that
• 10:35
  their
• 10:35
  life's
• 10:36
  going
• 10:36
  to
• 10:36
  be
• 10:36
  easier
• 10:36
  or
• 10:37
  this
• 10:37
  is
• 10:37
  going
• 10:37
  to
• 10:37
  make
• 10:37
  them
• 10:38
  feel
• 10:38
  better,
• 10:39
  but
• 10:39
  it
• 10:39
  actually
• 10:39
  ends
• 10:40
  up
• 10:40
  doing
• 10:40
  the
• 10:41
  opposite.
• 10:41
  And
• 10:42
  I
• 10:42
  feel
• 10:42
  like,
• 10:43
  doesn't
• 10:44
  matter
• 10:44
  if
• 10:45
  you
• 10:45
  have
• 10:45
  all
• 10:45
  the
• 10:46
  resources
• 10:46
  in
• 10:46
  the
• 10:47
  world
• 10:47
  or
• 10:47
  you
• 10:47
  have
• 10:48
  very
• 10:48
  little.
• 10:50
  The
• 10:50
  stuff
• 10:51
  is
• 10:51
  overwhelming
• 10:52
  and
• 10:52
  it
• 10:53
  just,
• 10:53
  it's
• 10:53
  universal
• 10:54
  and
• 10:55
  it
• 10:55
  ends
• 10:55
  up
• 10:55
  owning
• 10:56
  you
• 10:56
  in
• 10:56
  a
• 10:57
  way
• 10:57
  that
• 10:57
  is
• 10:58
  not
• 10:58
  productive.
• 10:59
  Yes.
• 10:59
  And
• 11:00
  I
• 11:00
  love
• 11:00
  that
• 11:00
  you
• 11:00
  brought
• 11:00
  up
• 11:01
  the
• 11:01
  point
• 11:01
  about
• 11:02
  decision
• 11:02
  overload,
• 11:03
  because
• 11:03
  I
• 11:04
  think
• 11:04
  that
• 11:04
  that
• 11:04
  is
• 11:04
  so
• 11:05
  true,
• 11:05
  especially
• 11:06
  as
• 11:06
  women
• 11:07
  in
• 11:07
  midlife,
• 11:07
  you
• 11:07
  know,
• 11:08
  because
• 11:08
  a
• 11:08
  lot
• 11:09
  of
• 11:09
  us
• 11:09
  are
• 11:09
  business
• 11:10
  owners
• 11:10
  or
• 11:11
  work
• 11:11
  or
• 11:11
  have
• 11:12
  kids
• 11:12
  or
• 11:13
  have
• 11:13
  a
• 11:14
  partner
• 11:14
  or,
• 11:15
  you
• 11:15
  know,
• 11:15
  we're
• 11:15
  just
• 11:16
  making
• 11:16
  decisions
• 11:16
  all
• 11:17
  the
• 11:17
  time.
• 11:18
  And
• 11:18
  it's
• 11:18
  one
• 11:18
  of
• 11:18
  those
• 11:19
  things
• 11:19
  where
• 11:19
  you're
• 11:19
  just
• 11:19
  like,
• 11:20
  I
• 11:20
  cannot
• 11:21
  even
• 11:21
  think,
• 11:21
  like
• 11:22
  anymore
• 11:22
  to
• 11:22
  say
• 11:22
  yes,
• 11:23
  no.
• 11:23
  You
• 11:23
  know,
• 11:24
  make
• 11:24
  a
• 11:24
  decision
• 11:25
  on
• 11:25
  this
• 11:25
  next
• 11:25
  thing,
• 11:26
  you
• 11:26
  know,
• 11:26
  and
• 11:26
  it
• 11:27
  is,
• 11:27
  it's
• 11:27
  easier
• 11:27
  to
• 11:28
  sometimes
• 11:28
  just
• 11:29
  sh
• 11:29
  it
• 11:29
  in
• 11:29
  the
• 11:29
  closet
• 11:30
  and
• 11:30
  not
• 11:30
  think
• 11:31
  about
• 11:31
  it,
• 11:31
  you
• 11:31
  know,
• 11:31
  And
• 11:32
  I'm
• 11:32
  sure
• 11:33
  the
• 11:33
  closet
• 11:34
  is
• 11:34
  probably
• 11:34
  one
• 11:34
  of
• 11:35
  the
• 11:35
  main
• 11:35
  areas
• 11:36
  that
• 11:36
  just
• 11:37
  gets
• 11:38
  people
• 11:39
  all
• 11:39
  the,
• 11:39
  all
• 11:40
  the.
• 11:40
  Right.
• 11:40
  Goes
• 11:41
  in
• 11:41
  the
• 11:41
  closet.
• 11:41
  It's
• 11:41
  true.
• 11:42
  Right?
• 11:42
  It's
• 11:43
  true.
• 11:43
  And
• 11:43
  midlife
• 11:44
  is
• 11:44
  the
• 11:44
  time.
• 11:44
  It's
• 11:45
  like
• 11:45
  my
• 11:45
  kid,
• 11:46
  you
• 11:46
  know,
• 11:46
  I've
• 11:46
  got
• 11:46
  a
• 11:46
  15
• 11:47
  year
• 11:47
  old
• 11:47
  and
• 11:47
  a
• 11:47
  12
• 11:48
  year
• 11:48
  old
• 11:48
  and
• 11:48
  they
• 11:48
  have
• 11:49
  so
• 11:49
  much
• 11:49
  stuff,
• 11:50
  sports,
• 11:51
  school
• 11:51
  stuff.
• 11:52
  Like,
• 11:52
  we
• 11:52
  just
• 11:53
  have
• 11:53
  so
• 11:53
  many
• 11:54
  things
• 11:54
  going
• 11:54
  on.
• 11:55
  All
• 11:55
  of
• 11:55
  us
• 11:55
  do.
• 11:56
  And
• 11:56
  so
• 11:56
  it
• 11:57
  just,
• 11:57
  that's
• 11:58
  the
• 11:58
  time
• 11:58
  to
• 11:58
  start
• 11:59
  pairing
• 11:59
  things
• 12:00
  back
• 12:00
  so
• 12:01
  that
• 12:01
  you
• 12:01
  have
• 12:02
  less
• 12:02
  decisions.
• 12:04
  I
• 12:04
  don't
• 12:05
  know
• 12:05
  about
• 12:05
  you,
• 12:05
  but
• 12:05
  like,
• 12:06
  sometimes
• 12:06
  I
• 12:07
  feel
• 12:07
  like,
• 12:07
  especially
• 12:07
  as
• 12:07
  I've
• 12:08
  gotten
• 12:08
  older,
• 12:09
  I
• 12:09
  feel
• 12:09
  like
• 12:09
  I
• 12:10
  either
• 12:10
  like,
• 12:11
  don't
• 12:11
  want
• 12:11
  to
• 12:12
  think
• 12:12
  about
• 12:12
  it,
• 12:12
  like,
• 12:12
  shove
• 12:12
  it
• 12:13
  in
• 12:13
  the
• 12:13
  closet,
• 12:13
  or
• 12:13
  I
• 12:14
  go
• 12:14
  into
• 12:14
  this
• 12:14
  like
• 12:15
  insane
• 12:15
  cleaning
• 12:16
  frenzy
• 12:16
  where
• 12:16
  I'm
• 12:16
  like,
• 12:17
  throw
• 12:18
  everything
• 12:18
  out.
• 12:19
  I'm
• 12:19
  like,
• 12:19
  throw
• 12:20
  it
• 12:20
  all
• 12:20
  out.
• 12:20
  You
• 12:21
  know,
• 12:21
  And
• 12:21
  I'm
• 12:21
  just
• 12:21
  like,
• 12:21
  ah.
• 12:22
  Like,
• 12:23
  we're
• 12:23
  so,
• 12:23
  so
• 12:23
  fried.
• 12:24
  We're
• 12:25
  so
• 12:25
  fried
• 12:26
  that
• 12:26
  we
• 12:26
  just
• 12:26
  get
• 12:26
  to
• 12:26
  a
• 12:26
  point
• 12:27
  right?
• 12:27
  Where
• 12:27
  it's
• 12:28
  like
• 12:28
  how,
• 12:29
  like
• 12:29
  I
• 12:29
  can't
• 12:29
  even
• 12:29
  look
• 12:30
  at
• 12:30
  it
• 12:30
  anymore,
• 12:30
  you
• 12:31
  know?
• 12:31
  I
• 12:32
  know,
• 12:32
  I
• 12:32
  know.
• 12:32
  So
• 12:33
  what
• 12:33
  I
• 12:33
  tell
• 12:33
  my
• 12:33
  clients
• 12:34
  is,
• 12:35
  and
• 12:35
  I
• 12:35
  think
• 12:35
  this
• 12:36
  is
• 12:36
  one
• 12:36
  of
• 12:36
  the.
• 12:37
  A
• 12:37
  very
• 12:37
  helpful
• 12:38
  thing.
• 12:38
  Keep
• 12:39
  a
• 12:39
  basket
• 12:40
  in
• 12:40
  your
• 12:40
  closet.
• 12:41
  Keep
• 12:41
  one
• 12:41
  in
• 12:42
  the
• 12:42
  hall.
• 12:42
  Closet
• 12:43
  donation
• 12:43
  baskets.
• 12:44
  When
• 12:45
  you
• 12:45
  put
• 12:45
  something
• 12:45
  on
• 12:46
  that
• 12:46
  you
• 12:46
  don't
• 12:46
  like,
• 12:47
  don't
• 12:47
  wait
• 12:47
  to
• 12:48
  give
• 12:48
  it
• 12:48
  away.
• 12:48
  If
• 12:49
  you've
• 12:49
  worn
• 12:49
  an
• 12:49
  outfit
• 12:50
  all
• 12:50
  day,
• 12:50
  you
• 12:50
  don't
• 12:50
  love
• 12:51
  it,
• 12:51
  you
• 12:51
  don't
• 12:51
  feel
• 12:51
  great
• 12:52
  in
• 12:52
  it,
• 12:52
  throw
• 12:52
  it
• 12:52
  in
• 12:53
  the
• 12:53
  basket,
• 12:53
  no
• 12:54
  questions
• 12:54
  asked.
• 12:55
  Then
• 12:55
  I
• 12:55
  decide
• 12:56
  either
• 12:57
  my
• 12:57
  housekeeper,
• 12:58
  I
• 12:58
  leave
• 12:58
  the
• 12:58
  basket
• 12:59
  if
• 12:59
  she
• 12:59
  wants
• 12:59
  to
• 12:59
  take
• 12:59
  anything
• 13:00
  she
• 13:00
  wants
• 13:00
  to
• 13:00
  take,
• 13:01
  if
• 13:01
  I
• 13:01
  want
• 13:01
  to
• 13:01
  sell
• 13:01
  anything
• 13:02
  to
• 13:02
  the
• 13:02
  real
• 13:02
  real.
• 13:03
  If
• 13:03
  I
• 13:03
  want
• 13:03
  to
• 13:03
  take
• 13:03
  it
• 13:04
  to
• 13:04
  my
• 13:04
  local
• 13:04
  thrift
• 13:05
  shop.
• 13:05
  But
• 13:05
  it
• 13:06
  makes
• 13:07
  it
• 13:07
  easier
• 13:08
  just
• 13:08
  to
• 13:09
  put
• 13:09
  it
• 13:09
  right
• 13:09
  in
• 13:09
  the
• 13:09
  basket.
• 13:10
  Like,
• 13:11
  don't
• 13:11
  even
• 13:11
  think
• 13:11
  twice.
• 13:12
  Oh,
• 13:12
  my
• 13:12
  God,
• 13:13
  that's
• 13:13
  such
• 13:13
  a
• 13:13
  good
• 13:13
  point.
• 13:14
  Because
• 13:14
  what
• 13:14
  I'll
• 13:15
  do
• 13:15
  is
• 13:15
  I'll
• 13:15
  take
• 13:15
  it
• 13:15
  off,
• 13:16
  hang
• 13:16
  it
• 13:16
  back
• 13:16
  up
• 13:17
  in
• 13:17
  the
• 13:17
  closet,
• 13:17
  you
• 13:18
  know,
• 13:18
  and
• 13:18
  it
• 13:18
  just
• 13:18
  fits
• 13:18
  in
• 13:19
  there
• 13:19
  until
• 13:20
  the
• 13:20
  next
• 13:20
  time
• 13:20
  I
• 13:21
  come
• 13:21
  across
• 13:21
  it,
• 13:22
  you
• 13:22
  know,
• 13:22
  and
• 13:22
  it's
• 13:22
  like
• 13:23
  it
• 13:24
  just
• 13:24
  accumulates
• 13:25
  and
• 13:25
  things
• 13:25
  in
• 13:25
  the
• 13:25
  closet,
• 13:26
  like,
• 13:26
  I
• 13:26
  know.
• 13:27
  I'm
• 13:27
  sure
• 13:27
  a
• 13:27
  lot
• 13:27
  of
• 13:27
  other
• 13:28
  women
• 13:28
  feel
• 13:28
  this
• 13:28
  way,
• 13:28
  too.
• 13:29
  It's
• 13:29
  like
• 13:29
  you
• 13:30
  go
• 13:30
  through
• 13:30
  your
• 13:30
  closet,
• 13:31
  you
• 13:31
  can't.
• 13:31
  You
• 13:31
  don't
• 13:31
  even
• 13:32
  remember
• 13:32
  half
• 13:33
  the
• 13:33
  stuff
• 13:33
  that's
• 13:33
  in
• 13:33
  there.
• 13:34
  You
• 13:34
  know,
• 13:34
  it's
• 13:34
  like
• 13:35
  some
• 13:35
  things
• 13:35
  still
• 13:35
  have
• 13:36
  price
• 13:36
  tags
• 13:36
  on
• 13:36
  them,
• 13:37
  like,
• 13:37
  never
• 13:37
  been
• 13:38
  worn,
• 13:38
  you
• 13:39
  know,
• 13:39
  or
• 13:39
  shoved
• 13:39
  in
• 13:40
  the
• 13:40
  back.
• 13:40
  So
• 13:41
  is
• 13:41
  that
• 13:41
  like
• 13:42
  a
• 13:42
  good.
• 13:42
  Is
• 13:43
  the
• 13:43
  closet
• 13:43
  a
• 13:43
  good
• 13:44
  place?
• 13:44
  Like
• 13:44
  a
• 13:45
  first
• 13:45
  starting
• 13:45
  place
• 13:46
  point
• 13:46
  to
• 13:46
  when
• 13:47
  you
• 13:47
  want
• 13:47
  to,
• 13:47
  like,
• 13:47
  lighten
• 13:48
  the
• 13:48
  load
• 13:48
  and
• 13:48
  get
• 13:49
  rid
• 13:49
  of
• 13:49
  clutter.
• 13:49
  Is
• 13:49
  that
• 13:50
  like
• 13:50
  an
• 13:50
  ideal
• 13:51
  room
• 13:51
  to
• 13:51
  start
• 13:51
  in?
• 13:52
  Yes.
• 13:53
  I
• 13:53
  think
• 13:53
  the
• 13:54
  closet
• 13:54
  and
• 13:54
  the
• 13:54
  kitchen,
• 13:56
  the
• 13:56
  garage
• 13:57
  is
• 13:57
  usually
• 13:57
  so
• 13:58
  overwhelming.
• 13:58
  I
• 13:59
  say
• 13:59
  leave
• 14:00
  that
• 14:00
  for
• 14:00
  a
• 14:00
  bit
• 14:00
  until
• 14:01
  you
• 14:01
  sort
• 14:01
  of
• 14:02
  get
• 14:03
  the
• 14:03
  hang
• 14:03
  of
• 14:03
  it.
• 14:04
  But
• 14:04
  I
• 14:05
  think
• 14:05
  also
• 14:05
  it's
• 14:06
  like
• 14:06
  you
• 14:07
  really
• 14:07
  don't.
• 14:07
  I
• 14:08
  think
• 14:08
  what
• 14:08
  people,
• 14:09
  like,
• 14:11
  get
• 14:11
  mistaken
• 14:12
  is
• 14:12
  that
• 14:12
  you.
• 14:13
  You
• 14:13
  don't
• 14:13
  have
• 14:14
  to
• 14:14
  wait
• 14:14
  until
• 14:14
  you
• 14:15
  have
• 14:16
  a
• 14:16
  whole
• 14:17
  weekend
• 14:17
  to
• 14:17
  do
• 14:17
  all
• 14:18
  of
• 14:18
  it.
• 14:18
  Like,
• 14:18
  really
• 14:19
  just
• 14:20
  do
• 14:20
  your
• 14:20
  blouses.
• 14:22
  And
• 14:22
  if
• 14:22
  you
• 14:22
  don't
• 14:23
  like
• 14:23
  something
• 14:23
  and
• 14:23
  you
• 14:23
  pull
• 14:24
  something
• 14:24
  off
• 14:24
  the
• 14:24
  hanger
• 14:24
  and
• 14:25
  you're
• 14:25
  like,
• 14:25
  I
• 14:25
  don't
• 14:25
  want
• 14:26
  to
• 14:26
  wear
• 14:26
  this.
• 14:26
  Well,
• 14:27
  guess
• 14:27
  what?
• 14:27
  If
• 14:27
  you
• 14:27
  don't
• 14:27
  want
• 14:27
  to
• 14:27
  wear
• 14:28
  it
• 14:28
  today,
• 14:28
  you
• 14:28
  probably
• 14:28
  don't
• 14:28
  want
• 14:28
  to
• 14:29
  wear
• 14:29
  it
• 14:29
  next
• 14:29
  week.
• 14:30
  Chuck
• 14:30
  it.
• 14:31
  Someone
• 14:32
  else
• 14:32
  will
• 14:32
  love
• 14:32
  it.
• 14:33
  And
• 14:33
  so
• 14:33
  I
• 14:33
  think
• 14:34
  it's
• 14:34
  about
• 14:34
  taking
• 14:35
  those
• 14:35
  little
• 14:36
  mini
• 14:37
  parts
• 14:37
  of
• 14:37
  your
• 14:38
  day
• 14:38
  just
• 14:38
  to
• 14:38
  use
• 14:39
  15
• 14:39
  minutes
• 14:39
  to
• 14:40
  look
• 14:40
  through
• 14:40
  those
• 14:40
  bosses
• 14:41
  and
• 14:41
  then
• 14:41
  stop
• 14:42
  so
• 14:42
  that
• 14:42
  you
• 14:43
  don't
• 14:43
  get
• 14:43
  so
• 14:43
  overwhelmed
• 14:44
  by
• 14:45
  doing
• 14:45
  more.
• 14:46
  And
• 14:46
  then
• 14:46
  you'll
• 14:46
  look
• 14:47
  forward
• 14:47
  to
• 14:47
  it
• 14:47
  because
• 14:48
  you
• 14:48
  have
• 14:48
  15
• 14:48
  minutes.
• 14:49
  You
• 14:49
  know,
• 14:49
  you
• 14:49
  have
• 14:49
  15
• 14:49
  minutes.
• 14:50
  Set
• 14:50
  a
• 14:50
  timer.
• 14:51
  15
• 14:52
  minutes.
• 14:52
  I'm
• 14:52
  going
• 14:52
  to
• 14:53
  just
• 14:53
  declutter
• 14:54
  this
• 14:54
  one
• 14:55
  specific
• 14:55
  area,
• 14:56
  and
• 14:56
  then
• 14:56
  I'm
• 14:56
  going
• 14:56
  to
• 14:56
  stop
• 14:57
  for
• 14:57
  the
• 14:57
  day,
• 14:58
  because
• 14:58
  I
• 14:58
  think
• 14:58
  people
• 14:59
  get
• 14:59
  overwhelmed
• 14:59
  and
• 15:00
  then
• 15:00
  they
• 15:00
  quit.
• 15:00
  And
• 15:00
  then
• 15:01
  it
• 15:01
  gets
• 15:01
  worse
• 15:02
  because
• 15:02
  then
• 15:02
  you're
• 15:02
  like,
• 15:03
  halfway
• 15:03
  through
• 15:03
  a
• 15:03
  clean
• 15:04
  out.
• 15:05
  Nothing's
• 15:05
  worse
• 15:06
  than,
• 15:06
  like,
• 15:06
  halfway
• 15:07
  through
• 15:07
  a
• 15:07
  clean
• 15:07
  out
• 15:08
  and
• 15:08
  then
• 15:08
  quitting
• 15:09
  because
• 15:09
  then
• 15:09
  your
• 15:09
  space
• 15:10
  is
• 15:10
  completely
• 15:10
  disheveled
• 15:12
  and
• 15:12
  you're
• 15:13
  not
• 15:13
  cleaned
• 15:13
  up.
• 15:14
  So
• 15:14
  it's
• 15:14
  sort
• 15:14
  of.
• 15:15
  But
• 15:15
  I
• 15:15
  think
• 15:16
  the
• 15:16
  closet,
• 15:16
  because
• 15:17
  that's
• 15:17
  where
• 15:17
  we
• 15:17
  get
• 15:17
  dressed
• 15:18
  and
• 15:19
  that's
• 15:19
  how
• 15:19
  we
• 15:19
  feel
• 15:19
  about
• 15:20
  ourselves
• 15:20
  when
• 15:21
  we're
• 15:21
  getting
• 15:21
  ready
• 15:22
  and
• 15:22
  how
• 15:22
  we
• 15:22
  feel
• 15:22
  during
• 15:23
  the
• 15:23
  day
• 15:23
  and
• 15:24
  what
• 15:24
  we're
• 15:24
  wearing.
• 15:24
  And
• 15:25
  so
• 15:25
  I
• 15:26
  think
• 15:26
  that
• 15:26
  that's
• 15:26
  a
• 15:26
  really
• 15:27
  good
• 15:27
  place
• 15:27
  to
• 15:27
  start,
• 15:28
  because
• 15:28
  if
• 15:28
  you
• 15:28
  have
• 15:28
  a
• 15:28
  calm
• 15:29
  closet,
• 15:30
  you
• 15:30
  can
• 15:30
  start
• 15:30
  your
• 15:31
  day
• 15:31
  in
• 15:31
  a
• 15:31
  little
• 15:31
  bit
• 15:32
  more
• 15:32
  of
• 15:32
  a
• 15:32
  calm
• 15:33
  environment.
• 15:34
  I
• 15:34
  happen
• 15:34
  to
• 15:35
  be,
• 15:35
  like,
• 15:35
  looking
• 15:35
  up
• 15:36
  and
• 15:36
  seeing
• 15:36
  my
• 15:37
  wall
• 15:37
  right
• 15:37
  now.
• 15:37
  We
• 15:38
  hang
• 15:38
  my
• 15:39
  daughter's
• 15:39
  artwork
• 15:40
  up,
• 15:40
  you
• 15:41
  know,
• 15:41
  and
• 15:42
  that
• 15:42
  is
• 15:42
  another
• 15:43
  place
• 15:43
  where
• 15:43
  I
• 15:44
  cannot.
• 15:44
  I
• 15:44
  like,
• 15:44
  there's
• 15:45
  an
• 15:45
  emotional
• 15:45
  attachment
• 15:46
  to
• 15:46
  that
• 15:46
  stuff.
• 15:46
  Like,
• 15:47
  I
• 15:47
  feel
• 15:47
  like
• 15:47
  I
• 15:48
  cannot
• 15:48
  throw
• 15:48
  out
• 15:48
  a
• 15:48
  single
• 15:49
  piece
• 15:49
  of
• 15:49
  her
• 15:49
  artwork
• 15:50
  because
• 15:50
  she
• 15:51
  made
• 15:51
  it.
• 15:51
  Right?
• 15:52
  So,
• 15:52
  like,
• 15:53
  what.
• 15:53
  What
• 15:53
  would
• 15:54
  you
• 15:54
  say
• 15:54
  for
• 15:54
  something
• 15:54
  that
• 15:55
  has
• 15:55
  such
• 15:55
  a
• 15:55
  high
• 15:56
  emotional
• 15:57
  attachment
• 15:57
  like
• 15:58
  that
• 15:59
  to
• 15:59
  kind
• 15:59
  of
• 15:59
  learn
• 16:00
  how
• 16:00
  to,
• 16:00
  you
• 16:00
  know,
• 16:01
  prioritize
• 16:01
  and
• 16:01
  kind
• 16:01
  of
• 16:02
  thin
• 16:02
  out
• 16:02
  a
• 16:02
  bit?
• 16:04
  I
• 16:04
  think
• 16:04
  there's
• 16:05
  a
• 16:05
  couple
• 16:05
  of
• 16:05
  ways
• 16:06
  you
• 16:06
  can
• 16:06
  do
• 16:06
  it.
• 16:06
  So
• 16:07
  there
• 16:07
  is
• 16:08
  a
• 16:08
  company
• 16:08
  called
• 16:08
  ArtXiv,
• 16:09
  and
• 16:10
  you
• 16:10
  send
• 16:10
  all
• 16:11
  of
• 16:11
  the
• 16:11
  projects
• 16:12
  to
• 16:12
  them.
• 16:13
  They
• 16:13
  take
• 16:13
  digital
• 16:14
  photographs
• 16:15
  and
• 16:15
  put
• 16:15
  it
• 16:15
  in
• 16:15
  a
• 16:15
  beautiful
• 16:16
  book.
• 16:17
  So
• 16:17
  you
• 16:17
  can
• 16:17
  have
• 16:17
  a
• 16:18
  book
• 16:18
  of
• 16:18
  all
• 16:18
  of
• 16:19
  your
• 16:19
  child's
• 16:19
  art,
• 16:19
  and
• 16:20
  then
• 16:20
  you
• 16:20
  don't
• 16:20
  have
• 16:20
  all
• 16:21
  these
• 16:21
  papers
• 16:21
  flying
• 16:22
  around.
• 16:23
  But
• 16:24
  what
• 16:24
  you
• 16:24
  can
• 16:24
  also
• 16:25
  do
• 16:25
  is,
• 16:26
  what
• 16:26
  I
• 16:26
  do
• 16:27
  is
• 16:27
  I
• 16:27
  take
• 16:27
  a
• 16:28
  bin,
• 16:29
  and
• 16:29
  for
• 16:29
  that
• 16:30
  school
• 16:30
  year,
• 16:31
  they
• 16:31
  add
• 16:31
  their
• 16:32
  stuff
• 16:32
  to
• 16:32
  it.
• 16:33
  So
• 16:34
  if
• 16:34
  they
• 16:34
  have
• 16:34
  an
• 16:34
  art
• 16:34
  project
• 16:35
  or
• 16:35
  they
• 16:35
  have
• 16:35
  anything
• 16:36
  that
• 16:36
  they
• 16:36
  want
• 16:36
  to
• 16:36
  save,
• 16:37
  it
• 16:37
  goes
• 16:37
  in
• 16:37
  there.
• 16:38
  And
• 16:38
  then
• 16:39
  at
• 16:39
  the
• 16:39
  end
• 16:39
  of
• 16:39
  the
• 16:39
  school
• 16:40
  year,
• 16:40
  we
• 16:40
  go
• 16:41
  through
• 16:41
  it
• 16:41
  and
• 16:42
  we
• 16:42
  keep
• 16:42
  the
• 16:42
  pieces
• 16:43
  that
• 16:44
  really
• 16:44
  mean
• 16:45
  something.
• 16:45
  And
• 16:46
  I
• 16:46
  think
• 16:46
  once
• 16:46
  you
• 16:46
  have
• 16:46
  a
• 16:47
  little
• 16:47
  bit
• 16:47
  of
• 16:47
  space
• 16:47
  between,
• 16:49
  you
• 16:49
  know,
• 16:49
  not
• 16:50
  just
• 16:50
  deciding
• 16:50
  right
• 16:51
  when
• 16:51
  it
• 16:51
  comes
• 16:51
  home,
• 16:52
  because
• 16:52
  right
• 16:52
  at
• 16:52
  that
• 16:53
  moment,
• 16:53
  it's
• 16:53
  new,
• 16:54
  it's
• 16:54
  something
• 16:54
  they're
• 16:55
  so
• 16:55
  proud
• 16:55
  of.
• 16:55
  But
• 16:56
  by
• 16:56
  the
• 16:56
  end
• 16:56
  of
• 16:56
  the
• 16:56
  year,
• 16:57
  it's
• 16:57
  like,
• 16:57
  okay,
• 16:57
  let's
• 16:58
  pick
• 16:58
  10
• 16:59
  to
• 16:59
  15
• 16:59
  pieces
• 17:00
  out
• 17:00
  of
• 17:00
  here
• 17:00
  to
• 17:01
  save
• 17:01
  in
• 17:01
  your
• 17:01
  keepsake
• 17:02
  box.
• 17:03
  And
• 17:03
  then
• 17:03
  we'll
• 17:03
  start
• 17:03
  over
• 17:04
  next
• 17:04
  year.
• 17:05
  And
• 17:05
  so
• 17:05
  it
• 17:05
  gives
• 17:06
  them
• 17:06
  a
• 17:06
  place
• 17:06
  to
• 17:06
  put
• 17:06
  the.
• 17:07
  Keep
• 17:07
  put
• 17:07
  their
• 17:08
  projects.
• 17:08
  But
• 17:08
  then
• 17:08
  it
• 17:09
  also
• 17:09
  gives
• 17:09
  you
• 17:10
  a
• 17:10
  spot
• 17:10
  at
• 17:10
  the
• 17:11
  end
• 17:11
  of
• 17:11
  the
• 17:11
  year
• 17:11
  to
• 17:12
  say,
• 17:12
  we're
• 17:13
  going
• 17:13
  to
• 17:13
  cull
• 17:13
  this
• 17:13
  down.
• 17:14
  Let's
• 17:15
  pick
• 17:15
  out
• 17:15
  our
• 17:15
  favorite
• 17:16
  pieces,
• 17:17
  and
• 17:17
  then
• 17:17
  we'll
• 17:18
  put
• 17:18
  it
• 17:18
  in
• 17:18
  your
• 17:18
  Special
• 17:18
  box.
• 17:19
  And
• 17:19
  then
• 17:20
  we'll
• 17:20
  be
• 17:20
  ready
• 17:20
  for
• 17:20
  the
• 17:20
  next
• 17:20
  school
• 17:21
  year,
• 17:21
  your
• 17:21
  bins
• 17:21
  empty
• 17:22
  again,
• 17:22
  and
• 17:22
  we'll
• 17:23
  start
• 17:23
  over.
• 17:24
  And
• 17:24
  I
• 17:24
  think
• 17:24
  it
• 17:25
  put.
• 17:25
  It
• 17:25
  gives
• 17:26
  them
• 17:27
  agency
• 17:28
  in
• 17:28
  the
• 17:28
  process,
• 17:28
  and
• 17:29
  it
• 17:29
  makes
• 17:29
  them
• 17:29
  feel
• 17:29
  special.
• 17:30
  And
• 17:31
  it
• 17:31
  also
• 17:32
  eliminates.
• 17:33
  There's
• 17:33
  a
• 17:33
  lot
• 17:33
  of
• 17:33
  things
• 17:33
  that
• 17:34
  have
• 17:34
  one
• 17:34
  crayon
• 17:35
  mark
• 17:35
  on
• 17:35
  that
• 17:36
  you
• 17:36
  can
• 17:36
  be
• 17:36
  like,
• 17:36
  all
• 17:37
  right,
• 17:37
  I
• 17:37
  can
• 17:37
  get
• 17:38
  rid
• 17:38
  of
• 17:38
  this
• 17:38
  totally.
• 17:39
  Like
• 17:39
  the
• 17:39
  restaurant
• 17:40
  menus,
• 17:40
  you
• 17:41
  know,
• 17:41
  the
• 17:41
  kids
• 17:41
  menus.
• 17:42
  Exactly.
• 17:43
  Bring
• 17:43
  home.
• 17:44
  And
• 17:44
  you're
• 17:44
  like,
• 17:44
  oh,
• 17:45
  I
• 17:45
  cannot
• 17:46
  hold
• 17:46
  on
• 17:46
  to
• 17:46
  this.
• 17:48
  But
• 17:48
  it's
• 17:48
  like,
• 17:48
  I
• 17:49
  was.
• 17:49
  I
• 17:49
  was
• 17:50
  just
• 17:50
  saying
• 17:50
  to
• 17:50
  someone,
• 17:51
  like,
• 17:51
  if
• 17:51
  everything's
• 17:52
  special,
• 17:52
  nothing's
• 17:52
  special.
• 17:53
  So
• 17:53
  you
• 17:54
  do
• 17:54
  have
• 17:54
  to,
• 17:55
  like,
• 17:55
  make
• 17:55
  those
• 17:56
  special
• 17:57
  pieces
• 17:58
  and
• 17:58
  keep
• 17:59
  them
• 17:59
  and
• 17:59
  then
• 18:00
  let
• 18:00
  the
• 18:00
  rest
• 18:00
  go.
• 18:01
  So
• 18:01
  how
• 18:02
  do
• 18:02
  we
• 18:02
  reframe
• 18:02
  that
• 18:03
  in
• 18:03
  our
• 18:03
  minds?
• 18:03
  To
• 18:04
  not
• 18:04
  have
• 18:04
  that
• 18:04
  guilt,
• 18:05
  to
• 18:05
  not
• 18:06
  have
• 18:06
  that
• 18:06
  crazy
• 18:07
  emotional
• 18:07
  attachment
• 18:08
  when
• 18:08
  it's,
• 18:08
  like,
• 18:08
  something
• 18:09
  that
• 18:09
  isn't
• 18:09
  that
• 18:10
  significant?
• 18:11
  I
• 18:11
  think.
• 18:12
  I
• 18:13
  think
• 18:13
  we
• 18:13
  tend
• 18:13
  to
• 18:13
  overthink.
• 18:14
  I
• 18:14
  see
• 18:15
  that
• 18:15
  a
• 18:15
  lot.
• 18:15
  People
• 18:16
  sort
• 18:16
  of,
• 18:16
  like,
• 18:16
  get
• 18:17
  in
• 18:17
  their
• 18:17
  heads
• 18:17
  about
• 18:17
  stuff,
• 18:18
  and
• 18:18
  I'm
• 18:18
  like,
• 18:18
  okay,
• 18:19
  it
• 18:19
  has
• 18:19
  a
• 18:19
  crayon
• 18:19
  mark.
• 18:20
  You're
• 18:20
  never
• 18:20
  going
• 18:20
  to
• 18:20
  look
• 18:21
  at
• 18:21
  this
• 18:21
  again.
• 18:21
  Just
• 18:22
  toss
• 18:22
  it
• 18:22
  and
• 18:22
  move
• 18:22
  on.
• 18:23
  So
• 18:24
  I
• 18:24
  do
• 18:24
  think
• 18:24
  that
• 18:25
  we
• 18:25
  have
• 18:25
  to
• 18:26
  get
• 18:26
  out
• 18:26
  of
• 18:26
  our
• 18:26
  heads
• 18:27
  a
• 18:27
  little
• 18:27
  bit
• 18:27
  on
• 18:28
  that
• 18:28
  stuff
• 18:28
  and
• 18:28
  say,
• 18:29
  like,
• 18:29
  okay,
• 18:29
  this
• 18:29
  is
• 18:30
  a
• 18:30
  beautiful
• 18:30
  project.
• 18:31
  I'm
• 18:31
  going
• 18:31
  to
• 18:31
  keep
• 18:32
  this.
• 18:32
  This
• 18:32
  means
• 18:32
  a
• 18:33
  lot
• 18:33
  to
• 18:33
  me.
• 18:34
  I
• 18:34
  also
• 18:34
  feel
• 18:35
  like
• 18:35
  sometimes
• 18:36
  I've
• 18:36
  had.
• 18:37
  Next
• 18:37
  to
• 18:37
  the
• 18:38
  donation
• 18:38
  bin,
• 18:38
  I've
• 18:39
  had
• 18:39
  a
• 18:39
  maybe
• 18:39
  bin,
• 18:40
  and
• 18:40
  then
• 18:41
  sometimes
• 18:41
  I
• 18:41
  put
• 18:42
  stuff
• 18:42
  in
• 18:42
  there.
• 18:42
  It's
• 18:43
  like
• 18:43
  a
• 18:43
  purgatory
• 18:43
  for
• 18:44
  stuff.
• 18:45
  But
• 18:45
  I
• 18:45
  feel
• 18:45
  like
• 18:46
  sometimes
• 18:47
  you,
• 18:47
  like,
• 18:48
  I
• 18:48
  don't
• 18:48
  want
• 18:49
  to
• 18:49
  make
• 18:49
  that
• 18:49
  decision
• 18:49
  right
• 18:50
  then,
• 18:50
  but,
• 18:50
  you
• 18:50
  know,
• 18:51
  it
• 18:51
  probably
• 18:51
  should
• 18:52
  go
• 18:52
  put
• 18:53
  it
• 18:53
  in
• 18:53
  the
• 18:53
  purgatory
• 18:53
  box
• 18:54
  when
• 18:54
  you
• 18:55
  revisit
• 18:55
  it
• 18:56
  every
• 18:56
  time.
• 18:57
  I
• 18:57
  will
• 18:57
  say
• 18:57
  a
• 18:58
  couple
• 18:58
  of
• 18:58
  times
• 18:58
  I've
• 18:58
  pulled
• 18:59
  things
• 18:59
  back
• 18:59
  out
• 18:59
  of
• 19:00
  purgatory,
• 19:00
  but
• 19:01
  for
• 19:01
  the
• 19:01
  most
• 19:01
  part,
• 19:02
  99%
• 19:03
  of
• 19:03
  it
• 19:03
  goes.
• 19:04
  But
• 19:04
  it
• 19:04
  might
• 19:05
  give
• 19:05
  you,
• 19:05
  if
• 19:05
  you
• 19:05
  feel
• 19:06
  like
• 19:06
  you
• 19:06
  hang
• 19:06
  on
• 19:07
  to
• 19:07
  a
• 19:07
  lot,
• 19:07
  to
• 19:07
  put
• 19:08
  it
• 19:08
  in
• 19:08
  a
• 19:08
  bin
• 19:09
  that
• 19:09
  is
• 19:09
  likely
• 19:10
  going
• 19:10
  to
• 19:10
  find
• 19:10
  its
• 19:11
  way
• 19:11
  to
• 19:12
  the
• 19:12
  trash
• 19:12
  can
• 19:12
  at
• 19:12
  some
• 19:13
  point
• 19:13
  or
• 19:13
  a
• 19:13
  donation.
• 19:14
  It
• 19:15
  gives
• 19:15
  you
• 19:15
  a
• 19:15
  little
• 19:15
  bit
• 19:16
  of
• 19:16
  a
• 19:16
  space
• 19:16
  between
• 19:17
  the
• 19:17
  emotion
• 19:18
  of
• 19:18
  it
• 19:18
  and
• 19:19
  the
• 19:19
  reality
• 19:20
  of
• 19:20
  whether
• 19:20
  you
• 19:20
  want
• 19:21
  to
• 19:21
  keep
• 19:21
  it
• 19:21
  or
• 19:21
  not.
• 19:22
  Oh,
• 19:22
  that's
• 19:22
  a
• 19:22
  good
• 19:22
  tactic.
• 19:23
  Yeah.
• 19:23
  To
• 19:24
  kind
• 19:24
  of
• 19:24
  keep
• 19:24
  it
• 19:24
  in
• 19:24
  that
• 19:25
  middle
• 19:26
  place
• 19:26
  until
• 19:26
  you
• 19:27
  fully
• 19:27
  decide.
• 19:28
  Yeah.
• 19:29
  If
• 19:29
  you're
• 19:29
  someone
• 19:29
  that
• 19:29
  really
• 19:30
  hangs
• 19:30
  on
• 19:30
  to
• 19:30
  something,
• 19:31
  I'm
• 19:31
  like,
• 19:32
  get
• 19:32
  rid
• 19:32
  of
• 19:32
  it.
• 19:32
  Get
• 19:32
  rid
• 19:33
  of
• 19:33
  it
• 19:33
  on
• 19:33
  for
• 19:33
  the
• 19:34
  most
• 19:34
  part,
• 19:34
  because
• 19:34
  of
• 19:35
  just
• 19:35
  how
• 19:35
  I
• 19:35
  am.
• 19:36
  But
• 19:36
  I
• 19:36
  think
• 19:36
  if
• 19:37
  you're
• 19:37
  not.
• 19:37
  Put
• 19:37
  it
• 19:37
  in
• 19:38
  a
• 19:38
  maybe
• 19:38
  pile.
• 19:38
  Give
• 19:39
  yourself
• 19:39
  some
• 19:39
  time
• 19:40
  to
• 19:40
  think
• 19:40
  about
• 19:40
  it
• 19:41
  and
• 19:41
  then
• 19:41
  make
• 19:41
  the
• 19:41
  time
• 19:42
  decision.
• 19:43
  But
• 19:43
  it
• 19:43
  also
• 19:44
  gets
• 19:44
  it
• 19:44
  out
• 19:44
  of
• 19:45
  your
• 19:45
  space.
• 19:45
  You
• 19:46
  want
• 19:46
  to
• 19:46
  get
• 19:46
  it
• 19:46
  out
• 19:46
  of
• 19:47
  your
• 19:47
  space
• 19:47
  because
• 19:48
  especially
• 19:49
  with
• 19:49
  clothes,
• 19:49
  like,
• 19:50
  if
• 19:50
  you're
• 19:50
  seeing
• 19:50
  a
• 19:50
  bunch
• 19:51
  of
• 19:51
  stuff
• 19:51
  you
• 19:51
  don't
• 19:51
  like
• 19:52
  or
• 19:52
  you're
• 19:52
  unsure
• 19:53
  of,
• 19:53
  then
• 19:54
  it's
• 19:54
  really
• 19:54
  still
• 19:54
  hard
• 19:55
  to
• 19:55
  get
• 19:55
  dressed.
• 19:55
  It
• 19:56
  doesn't
• 19:56
  give
• 19:56
  you
• 19:56
  more
• 19:56
  options.
• 19:57
  It
• 19:57
  makes
• 19:57
  you
• 19:58
  more
• 19:58
  paralyzed
• 19:59
  by
• 19:59
  the
• 20:00
  number
• 20:00
  of
• 20:00
  options
• 20:01
  that
• 20:01
  you
• 20:01
  have.
• 20:02
  And
• 20:02
  then
• 20:02
  you
• 20:02
  end
• 20:02
  up
• 20:02
  wearing
• 20:03
  the
• 20:03
  same
• 20:03
  thing
• 20:03
  over
• 20:03
  and
• 20:04
  over
• 20:04
  again.
• 20:05
  Let
• 20:05
  me
• 20:05
  ask
• 20:05
  you
• 20:05
  this.
• 20:05
  The
• 20:06
  things
• 20:06
  that
• 20:06
  land
• 20:06
  in
• 20:07
  the
• 20:07
  donation
• 20:08
  bin,
• 20:08
  are
• 20:08
  you
• 20:09
  allowed
• 20:09
  to
• 20:09
  rethink
• 20:10
  them
• 20:10
  and
• 20:10
  take
• 20:10
  them
• 20:11
  back
• 20:11
  out
• 20:11
  again
• 20:11
  or
• 20:11
  once
• 20:11
  they.
• 20:12
  They
• 20:12
  hit
• 20:12
  the
• 20:12
  bin,
• 20:13
  that's
• 20:13
  it?
• 20:14
  No,
• 20:14
  you
• 20:15
  can
• 20:15
  always
• 20:15
  rethink.
• 20:16
  I
• 20:16
  don't
• 20:16
  think
• 20:16
  it's,
• 20:17
  like,
• 20:17
  so
• 20:18
  black
• 20:18
  or
• 20:18
  white.
• 20:18
  I.
• 20:19
  I
• 20:19
  honestly
• 20:20
  pulled
• 20:20
  two
• 20:20
  things
• 20:21
  out
• 20:21
  the
• 20:21
  other
• 20:21
  day.
• 20:21
  I
• 20:22
  was
• 20:22
  like,
• 20:22
  you
• 20:22
  know
• 20:22
  what?
• 20:22
  I
• 20:22
  actually
• 20:23
  think
• 20:23
  I
• 20:23
  could
• 20:23
  use
• 20:23
  these.
• 20:24
  So
• 20:24
  I
• 20:25
  do
• 20:25
  think
• 20:25
  that
• 20:26
  it
• 20:26
  does
• 20:26
  give
• 20:27
  a
• 20:27
  space
• 20:28
  for
• 20:28
  it
• 20:28
  to
• 20:29
  sit
• 20:29
  for
• 20:29
  a
• 20:29
  second.
• 20:30
  So
• 20:30
  you're
• 20:30
  not.
• 20:31
  That's
• 20:31
  also
• 20:31
  the
• 20:32
  good
• 20:32
  thing
• 20:32
  about
• 20:32
  cleaning
• 20:33
  out
• 20:34
  little
• 20:34
  by
• 20:34
  little,
• 20:35
  instead
• 20:35
  of
• 20:35
  doing
• 20:35
  this
• 20:36
  massive
• 20:36
  thing,
• 20:36
  and
• 20:37
  you've
• 20:37
  got
• 20:37
  trash
• 20:37
  bags
• 20:38
  and
• 20:38
  you're
• 20:38
  going
• 20:38
  nuts.
• 20:39
  And
• 20:39
  that's
• 20:39
  when
• 20:40
  things
• 20:40
  can
• 20:40
  kind
• 20:40
  of
• 20:41
  leave
• 20:42
  in
• 20:43
  a
• 20:43
  moment
• 20:43
  of
• 20:44
  sheer.
• 20:44
  Like,
• 20:45
  I
• 20:45
  want
• 20:45
  it
• 20:45
  all
• 20:46
  out
• 20:46
  of
• 20:46
  the
• 20:46
  house.
• 20:46
  And
• 20:46
  all
• 20:46
  of
• 20:47
  a
• 20:47
  sudden
• 20:47
  you're
• 20:47
  like,
• 20:47
  wait,
• 20:48
  what
• 20:48
  did
• 20:48
  I
• 20:48
  do
• 20:48
  with.
• 20:49
  So
• 20:49
  if
• 20:49
  you
• 20:50
  do
• 20:50
  it
• 20:50
  in
• 20:50
  smaller
• 20:51
  chunks
• 20:51
  and
• 20:52
  you
• 20:52
  put
• 20:52
  it
• 20:52
  in
• 20:52
  bins,
• 20:53
  donation,
• 20:55
  maybe
• 20:56
  repair
• 20:57
  is
• 20:57
  a
• 20:57
  good
• 20:57
  bin
• 20:57
  to
• 20:58
  have
• 20:58
  too,
• 20:59
  so
• 20:59
  that
• 20:59
  it's
• 20:59
  like
• 20:59
  a
• 21:00
  pair
• 21:00
  of
• 21:00
  pants
• 21:00
  doesn't
• 21:01
  fit,
• 21:01
  or
• 21:01
  you
• 21:01
  need
• 21:01
  something
• 21:02
  hemmed
• 21:02
  or
• 21:03
  whatever
• 21:03
  it
• 21:03
  may
• 21:04
  be,
• 21:04
  but
• 21:04
  it's
• 21:04
  got
• 21:04
  a
• 21:05
  spot.
• 21:06
  It
• 21:07
  then
• 21:07
  allows
• 21:07
  you
• 21:08
  just
• 21:08
  more
• 21:09
  space
• 21:09
  and
• 21:09
  breathing
• 21:10
  room
• 21:10
  in
• 21:10
  your
• 21:10
  closet
• 21:11
  or
• 21:11
  wherever
• 21:12
  you
• 21:12
  are.
• 21:13
  Yeah,
• 21:13
  I'm
• 21:13
  in
• 21:13
  the
• 21:14
  process
• 21:14
  right
• 21:14
  now
• 21:15
  of
• 21:15
  cleaning
• 21:15
  out
• 21:15
  my
• 21:16
  closet,
• 21:16
  and
• 21:16
  I
• 21:16
  have
• 21:17
  found,
• 21:17
  like,
• 21:17
  you're
• 21:17
  saying
• 21:17
  to
• 21:18
  do
• 21:18
  chunk
• 21:18
  by
• 21:18
  chunk,
• 21:19
  like,
• 21:19
  section
• 21:20
  by
• 21:20
  section.
• 21:20
  Like,
• 21:21
  the
• 21:21
  other
• 21:21
  day,
• 21:21
  like,
• 21:22
  over
• 21:22
  the
• 21:22
  weekend,
• 21:22
  I
• 21:22
  did
• 21:22
  shoes.
• 21:23
  And
• 21:23
  then
• 21:23
  before
• 21:24
  that
• 21:24
  I
• 21:24
  did,
• 21:24
  like,
• 21:24
  handbags.
• 21:25
  And
• 21:25
  then.
• 21:26
  So.
• 21:26
  Because
• 21:27
  if
• 21:27
  I
• 21:27
  don't.
• 21:27
  And
• 21:27
  I
• 21:28
  feel
• 21:28
  like,
• 21:28
  oh,
• 21:28
  my
• 21:28
  God,
• 21:28
  I
• 21:28
  have
• 21:28
  to
• 21:29
  do
• 21:29
  this
• 21:29
  all
• 21:29
  in
• 21:29
  one
• 21:29
  weekend
• 21:30
  and,
• 21:30
  like,
• 21:31
  get
• 21:31
  the
• 21:31
  whole
• 21:31
  closet
• 21:31
  done.
• 21:32
  I
• 21:32
  get,
• 21:32
  like,
• 21:33
  so
• 21:33
  overwhelmed.
• 21:34
  You
• 21:34
  know
• 21:35
  what
• 21:35
  I
• 21:35
  mean?
• 21:35
  And
• 21:35
  you're
• 21:35
  just
• 21:35
  like,
• 21:36
  oh,
• 21:36
  my
• 21:36
  God,
• 21:36
  you
• 21:37
  know,
• 21:37
  there's
• 21:38
  so
• 21:38
  much
• 21:38
  to
• 21:38
  do.
• 21:38
  But
• 21:39
  I.
• 21:39
  I
• 21:39
  totally.
• 21:40
  Yeah,
• 21:41
  that.
• 21:41
  I
• 21:41
  think
• 21:41
  that
• 21:41
  is
• 21:42
  one
• 21:42
  of
• 21:42
  the
• 21:42
  most
• 21:42
  helpful
• 21:43
  things.
• 21:44
  Because
• 21:44
  then
• 21:44
  if
• 21:44
  you
• 21:45
  get,
• 21:45
  like,
• 21:45
  little
• 21:45
  by
• 21:46
  little,
• 21:46
  if
• 21:46
  you
• 21:46
  put,
• 21:47
  like
• 21:47
  the
• 21:47
  closet,
• 21:48
  let's
• 21:48
  say,
• 21:48
  like,
• 21:49
  get
• 21:49
  that
• 21:49
  to
• 21:49
  a
• 21:49
  Good
• 21:49
  working
• 21:50
  order.
• 21:51
  Then
• 21:51
  you
• 21:51
  can
• 21:51
  start
• 21:51
  on
• 21:52
  the
• 21:52
  other
• 21:52
  rooms,
• 21:52
  you
• 21:53
  know,
• 21:53
  and
• 21:53
  then.
• 21:54
  Right.
• 21:54
  It
• 21:55
  becomes
• 21:55
  like
• 21:55
  momentum
• 21:56
  almost.
• 21:57
  It
• 21:57
  does,
• 21:58
  it
• 21:58
  does.
• 21:58
  And
• 21:58
  it
• 21:58
  feels
• 21:59
  rewarding.
• 22:00
  It
• 22:00
  doesn't
• 22:00
  feel.
• 22:01
  What
• 22:01
  you
• 22:01
  don't
• 22:01
  want
• 22:02
  to
• 22:02
  do
• 22:02
  is
• 22:02
  fatigue
• 22:02
  yourself.
• 22:03
  So
• 22:03
  that's
• 22:03
  why
• 22:03
  if
• 22:04
  you
• 22:04
  keep
• 22:04
  it
• 22:04
  in
• 22:04
  the
• 22:05
  smaller
• 22:06
  chunks,
• 22:06
  you'll
• 22:07
  continue
• 22:07
  to
• 22:08
  do
• 22:08
  it.
• 22:08
  But
• 22:09
  also
• 22:09
  if
• 22:10
  you
• 22:11
  do
• 22:11
  an
• 22:11
  all
• 22:12
  day
• 22:12
  edit
• 22:12
  session,
• 22:13
  the
• 22:13
  decisions
• 22:14
  you're
• 22:14
  making
• 22:14
  at
• 22:14
  hour
• 22:15
  eight
• 22:15
  are
• 22:15
  not
• 22:16
  as
• 22:16
  good
• 22:16
  as
• 22:17
  the
• 22:17
  ones
• 22:17
  you
• 22:17
  are
• 22:17
  making
• 22:17
  in
• 22:18
  the
• 22:18
  first
• 22:18
  hour
• 22:19
  because
• 22:19
  you're
• 22:19
  tired
• 22:20
  and
• 22:20
  you
• 22:20
  want
• 22:21
  it
• 22:21
  to
• 22:21
  be
• 22:21
  over
• 22:21
  with,
• 22:22
  which
• 22:22
  is
• 22:22
  when
• 22:22
  people
• 22:22
  are
• 22:23
  like,
• 22:23
  throw
• 22:24
  it
• 22:24
  all
• 22:24
  away.
• 22:24
  And
• 22:25
  you
• 22:25
  don't
• 22:25
  want
• 22:25
  to
• 22:25
  have
• 22:25
  the
• 22:26
  regret
• 22:26
  of
• 22:26
  throwing
• 22:26
  it
• 22:27
  all
• 22:27
  away.
• 22:27
  So
• 22:27
  don't
• 22:28
  get
• 22:28
  yourself
• 22:28
  into
• 22:29
  that
• 22:30
  point
• 22:30
  of
• 22:31
  the
• 22:31
  process.
• 22:32
  Cut
• 22:32
  it
• 22:32
  off
• 22:32
  before
• 22:33
  you
• 22:33
  get
• 22:33
  to
• 22:33
  the
• 22:34
  tired
• 22:34
  portion.
• 22:35
  How
• 22:35
  do
• 22:35
  you
• 22:36
  not
• 22:36
  tire?
• 22:36
  But
• 22:37
  I
• 22:37
  guess
• 22:37
  if
• 22:37
  you're
• 22:37
  working
• 22:37
  on
• 22:38
  other
• 22:38
  people's
• 22:38
  spaces,
• 22:39
  it's
• 22:39
  probably
• 22:40
  different,
• 22:40
  right?
• 22:41
  It's.
• 22:41
  Yeah,
• 22:42
  it's
• 22:42
  definitely
• 22:43
  tiring.
• 22:43
  Especially
• 22:44
  if
• 22:44
  a
• 22:44
  day
• 22:44
  goes
• 22:45
  eight
• 22:45
  to
• 22:45
  ten
• 22:45
  hours.
• 22:46
  I'm
• 22:46
  exhausted.
• 22:47
  So
• 22:47
  I
• 22:47
  do
• 22:48
  not
• 22:48
  work
• 22:48
  every
• 22:49
  day
• 22:49
  of
• 22:49
  the
• 22:49
  week
• 22:50
  on
• 22:50
  site.
• 22:51
  I
• 22:52
  do,
• 22:52
  you
• 22:52
  know,
• 22:53
  but
• 22:53
  there's
• 22:53
  a
• 22:53
  lot
• 22:53
  of
• 22:53
  planning
• 22:54
  that
• 22:54
  goes
• 22:54
  into
• 22:54
  it
• 22:55
  with
• 22:55
  putting
• 22:55
  together
• 22:56
  proposals
• 22:56
  and
• 22:57
  all
• 22:58
  the
• 22:58
  product
• 22:58
  recommendations
• 22:59
  and
• 22:59
  measuring
• 23:00
  and
• 23:00
  I
• 23:00
  do
• 23:00
  all
• 23:01
  of
• 23:01
  that
• 23:01
  beforehand.
• 23:01
  So
• 23:02
  then
• 23:02
  when
• 23:02
  I
• 23:02
  come
• 23:02
  in
• 23:03
  to
• 23:03
  be
• 23:03
  on
• 23:04
  site,
• 23:04
  I've
• 23:04
  got
• 23:04
  all
• 23:05
  of
• 23:05
  the
• 23:06
  products
• 23:06
  with
• 23:06
  me
• 23:07
  and
• 23:07
  they
• 23:07
  all
• 23:07
  fit
• 23:07
  properly
• 23:08
  because
• 23:08
  I've
• 23:08
  done
• 23:09
  the
• 23:09
  measurements
• 23:09
  and
• 23:09
  all
• 23:09
  of
• 23:10
  that.
• 23:10
  So
• 23:10
  that
• 23:10
  actually
• 23:11
  saves
• 23:11
  my
• 23:11
  body
• 23:12
  in
• 23:12
  between
• 23:12
  the
• 23:12
  on
• 23:13
  site
• 23:13
  days
• 23:13
  to
• 23:14
  be
• 23:14
  working
• 23:14
  on
• 23:14
  product
• 23:15
  wrecks
• 23:16
  and
• 23:17
  doing
• 23:17
  different,
• 23:18
  you
• 23:18
  know,
• 23:18
  admin
• 23:19
  tasks.
• 23:20
  Because
• 23:20
  when
• 23:20
  you,
• 23:20
  when
• 23:20
  I
• 23:21
  am
• 23:21
  on
• 23:21
  site,
• 23:22
  you
• 23:22
  know,
• 23:22
  I'm
• 23:22
  there
• 23:23
  eight
• 23:23
  hours
• 23:25
  of
• 23:25
  running
• 23:25
  around
• 23:26
  and
• 23:26
  cleaning
• 23:27
  things
• 23:27
  out.
• 23:27
  You
• 23:27
  do
• 23:28
  need
• 23:28
  a
• 23:28
  break
• 23:28
  after
• 23:29
  that.
• 23:29
  So
• 23:30
  I
• 23:30
  am
• 23:30
  tired
• 23:30
  at
• 23:31
  the
• 23:31
  end
• 23:31
  of
• 23:31
  the
• 23:31
  day,
• 23:31
  but
• 23:32
  a
• 23:32
  good
• 23:32
  bath
• 23:32
  and
• 23:33
  then
• 23:33
  I'm
• 23:33
  back
• 23:33
  on
• 23:34
  my
• 23:34
  feet.
• 23:34
  Yes.
• 23:35
  Maybe
• 23:35
  a
• 23:35
  glass
• 23:35
  of
• 23:35
  wine,
• 23:36
  you
• 23:36
  know.
• 23:36
  You
• 23:37
  know,
• 23:38
  in
• 23:38
  a
• 23:38
  bath
• 23:39
  and
• 23:39
  like
• 23:39
  some
• 23:40
  good
• 23:40
  dinner
• 23:40
  and
• 23:41
  a
• 23:41
  TV
• 23:42
  show
• 23:42
  and.
• 23:42
  And
• 23:42
  I'm
• 23:42
  good
• 23:43
  to
• 23:43
  go.
• 23:43
  Yes,
• 23:44
  absolutely.
• 23:45
  And
• 23:45
  I
• 23:45
  like
• 23:45
  that
• 23:46
  you
• 23:46
  come
• 23:46
  in
• 23:47
  and
• 23:47
  you
• 23:47
  will
• 23:47
  help
• 23:47
  with
• 23:48
  the
• 23:48
  edit
• 23:48
  and
• 23:48
  do
• 23:48
  the
• 23:49
  organization,
• 23:49
  but
• 23:49
  then
• 23:50
  you
• 23:50
  implement
• 23:51
  the
• 23:51
  systems
• 23:52
  to
• 23:52
  kind
• 23:52
  of
• 23:53
  keep
• 23:53
  everything
• 23:54
  organized.
• 23:55
  So
• 23:55
  what
• 23:56
  does
• 23:56
  that
• 23:56
  look
• 23:56
  like?
• 23:57
  Like,
• 23:57
  what
• 23:57
  are
• 23:58
  the
• 23:58
  systems?
• 23:58
  Is
• 23:58
  it
• 23:59
  like
• 23:59
  color
• 23:59
  coding?
• 24:00
  Is
• 24:00
  it
• 24:00
  like
• 24:01
  containers?
• 24:02
  Like
• 24:02
  what,
• 24:02
  what
• 24:03
  kind
• 24:03
  of
• 24:03
  systems
• 24:03
  are
• 24:04
  we
• 24:04
  doing?
• 24:04
  It
• 24:05
  definitely
• 24:05
  depends
• 24:06
  on
• 24:06
  the
• 24:06
  client.
• 24:06
  And
• 24:06
  I've
• 24:07
  found
• 24:07
  that
• 24:07
  like,
• 24:09
  and
• 24:09
  that's
• 24:09
  why
• 24:10
  I
• 24:10
  really
• 24:10
  like
• 24:10
  working
• 24:11
  one
• 24:11
  on
• 24:11
  one
• 24:11
  because
• 24:12
  I
• 24:12
  like
• 24:12
  to
• 24:12
  work
• 24:12
  directly
• 24:13
  with
• 24:13
  the
• 24:13
  client
• 24:14
  and
• 24:14
  really
• 24:14
  understand
• 24:15
  how
• 24:15
  they
• 24:15
  live.
• 24:16
  I
• 24:16
  don't
• 24:16
  want
• 24:16
  to
• 24:17
  be
• 24:17
  there
• 24:17
  just
• 24:17
  to
• 24:17
  Rearrange
• 24:18
  a
• 24:18
  bunch
• 24:18
  of
• 24:18
  things
• 24:18
  and
• 24:19
  then
• 24:19
  make
• 24:19
  it
• 24:19
  look
• 24:19
  pretty
• 24:20
  in
• 24:20
  baskets,
• 24:20
  because
• 24:21
  that
• 24:21
  will
• 24:21
  last
• 24:22
  for
• 24:22
  two
• 24:22
  seconds.
• 24:23
  So
• 24:24
  if
• 24:24
  I'm
• 24:24
  really
• 24:24
  working
• 24:24
  with
• 24:25
  someone,
• 24:25
  I
• 24:25
  learn
• 24:26
  how
• 24:26
  they
• 24:26
  live,
• 24:27
  because
• 24:28
  in
• 24:28
  the
• 24:28
  beginning,
• 24:28
  people
• 24:28
  were
• 24:29
  like,
• 24:29
  well,
• 24:29
  just
• 24:29
  do
• 24:29
  it
• 24:29
  how
• 24:30
  you
• 24:30
  live.
• 24:30
  And
• 24:30
  I'm
• 24:30
  like,
• 24:31
  but
• 24:31
  how
• 24:31
  I
• 24:31
  live
• 24:32
  and
• 24:32
  how
• 24:32
  you
• 24:32
  live
• 24:32
  and
• 24:33
  how
• 24:33
  someone
• 24:33
  else
• 24:33
  lives
• 24:33
  is
• 24:34
  very
• 24:34
  different.
• 24:35
  And
• 24:36
  so
• 24:36
  I
• 24:36
  think
• 24:36
  that,
• 24:38
  you
• 24:38
  know,
• 24:38
  learning
• 24:39
  how
• 24:39
  someone
• 24:39
  lives.
• 24:40
  So
• 24:40
  some
• 24:40
  people
• 24:40
  will
• 24:40
  be
• 24:41
  like,
• 24:41
  I
• 24:41
  want
• 24:41
  all
• 24:42
  canisters,
• 24:42
  and
• 24:42
  I
• 24:43
  will
• 24:43
  definitely
• 24:43
  keep
• 24:43
  it
• 24:44
  up,
• 24:44
  and
• 24:44
  I'll
• 24:44
  refill
• 24:45
  for
• 24:45
  the
• 24:45
  pantry.
• 24:45
  And
• 24:46
  then
• 24:46
  some
• 24:46
  people
• 24:47
  will
• 24:47
  be
• 24:47
  like,
• 24:47
  absolutely
• 24:48
  not.
• 24:48
  I
• 24:48
  don't
• 24:48
  want
• 24:49
  any
• 24:49
  of
• 24:49
  that.
• 24:49
  I
• 24:49
  don't
• 24:49
  want
• 24:50
  a
• 24:50
  lot
• 24:50
  of
• 24:50
  product,
• 24:51
  or,
• 24:51
  I
• 24:51
  have
• 24:51
  these
• 24:52
  baskets.
• 24:52
  Let's
• 24:53
  use
• 24:53
  this.
• 24:53
  So
• 24:53
  every
• 24:54
  project's
• 24:55
  very
• 24:55
  different
• 24:56
  based
• 24:56
  on
• 24:57
  where
• 24:58
  I
• 24:58
  feel
• 24:58
  like
• 24:58
  the
• 24:59
  client
• 24:59
  is
• 24:59
  going
• 24:59
  to
• 25:00
  succeed,
• 25:00
  succeed
• 25:00
  with
• 25:00
  it.
• 25:01
  So
• 25:01
  I'm
• 25:01
  not
• 25:02
  going
• 25:02
  to
• 25:02
  give
• 25:02
  someone
• 25:02
  a
• 25:02
  bunch
• 25:02
  of
• 25:03
  canisters
• 25:03
  to
• 25:03
  refill
• 25:04
  their
• 25:04
  flour
• 25:04
  and
• 25:04
  sugar
• 25:05
  if
• 25:05
  they
• 25:06
  don't
• 25:06
  want
• 25:06
  to
• 25:07
  refill
• 25:08
  their
• 25:08
  flour
• 25:08
  and
• 25:09
  sugar.
• 25:09
  So
• 25:09
  it's
• 25:10
  really
• 25:10
  setting
• 25:11
  them
• 25:11
  up
• 25:11
  for
• 25:11
  success.
• 25:12
  And
• 25:12
  some
• 25:13
  people
• 25:13
  are
• 25:13
  like,
• 25:13
  I
• 25:13
  really
• 25:14
  don't
• 25:14
  care
• 25:14
  if
• 25:14
  my
• 25:14
  hangers
• 25:15
  match.
• 25:15
  And
• 25:15
  yes,
• 25:16
  it's
• 25:16
  prettier
• 25:16
  for
• 25:16
  a
• 25:17
  picture
• 25:17
  if
• 25:17
  their
• 25:17
  hangers
• 25:18
  match,
• 25:18
  but
• 25:18
  if
• 25:18
  they
• 25:18
  don't
• 25:18
  really
• 25:19
  care,
• 25:19
  I'm
• 25:19
  not
• 25:19
  going
• 25:20
  to
• 25:20
  force
• 25:20
  new
• 25:20
  hangers
• 25:21
  on
• 25:21
  them.
• 25:21
  So
• 25:21
  it's.
• 25:22
  It's
• 25:22
  really,
• 25:23
  you
• 25:23
  know,
• 25:23
  how
• 25:24
  what
• 25:25
  they
• 25:25
  feel
• 25:25
  like
• 25:25
  is
• 25:26
  going
• 25:26
  to
• 25:26
  be
• 25:26
  really
• 25:26
  comfortable
• 25:27
  for
• 25:27
  them.
• 25:28
  What
• 25:28
  is,
• 25:28
  like,
• 25:29
  the
• 25:29
  trickiest
• 25:30
  organization
• 25:32
  job
• 25:32
  that
• 25:32
  you've
• 25:33
  done?
• 25:33
  Has
• 25:33
  there
• 25:34
  been
• 25:34
  one
• 25:34
  where
• 25:34
  it's
• 25:34
  like,
• 25:35
  oh,
• 25:35
  my
• 25:36
  God,
• 25:36
  how
• 25:36
  am
• 25:36
  I
• 25:37
  going
• 25:37
  to
• 25:37
  do
• 25:37
  this?
• 25:38
  Yeah,
• 25:39
  there's.
• 25:39
  I
• 25:39
  mean,
• 25:40
  a
• 25:40
  lot
• 25:40
  of
• 25:41
  jobs
• 25:41
  where
• 25:41
  there's
• 25:41
  a
• 25:42
  ton
• 25:42
  of
• 25:42
  stuff.
• 25:42
  There
• 25:43
  is
• 25:43
  always
• 25:43
  a
• 25:44
  moment
• 25:44
  where
• 25:44
  I'm
• 25:44
  like,
• 25:45
  am
• 25:45
  I
• 25:45
  going
• 25:45
  to
• 25:45
  be
• 25:45
  able
• 25:46
  to
• 25:46
  figure
• 25:46
  this
• 25:46
  out?
• 25:47
  Always,
• 25:48
  always,
• 25:48
  always,
• 25:49
  always.
• 25:49
  And
• 25:50
  I
• 25:50
  have
• 25:50
  a
• 25:50
  momentary
• 25:51
  heart
• 25:51
  attack,
• 25:52
  and
• 25:52
  then
• 25:52
  I'm
• 25:53
  like,
• 25:53
  okay,
• 25:54
  no,
• 25:54
  I
• 25:54
  can
• 25:54
  do
• 25:54
  this.
• 25:55
  So
• 25:56
  the
• 25:57
  thing
• 25:57
  is,
• 25:57
  is,
• 25:58
  like,
• 25:59
  it
• 25:59
  can
• 25:59
  always
• 26:00
  be
• 26:00
  broken
• 26:00
  down.
• 26:01
  So
• 26:02
  you
• 26:02
  can.
• 26:03
  The
• 26:03
  process
• 26:03
  is
• 26:04
  always,
• 26:04
  you
• 26:04
  take
• 26:04
  it
• 26:05
  out,
• 26:05
  you
• 26:05
  sort
• 26:06
  it,
• 26:06
  you
• 26:06
  edit,
• 26:07
  you
• 26:07
  recontain
• 26:08
  it,
• 26:08
  and
• 26:08
  then
• 26:09
  you
• 26:09
  put
• 26:09
  it
• 26:09
  away.
• 26:10
  So
• 26:10
  in
• 26:10
  the
• 26:11
  process,
• 26:11
  whenever
• 26:11
  I'm
• 26:12
  overwhelmed,
• 26:12
  I
• 26:12
  think,
• 26:13
  okay,
• 26:13
  well,
• 26:13
  it's
• 26:13
  all
• 26:13
  going
• 26:13
  to
• 26:14
  come
• 26:14
  in,
• 26:14
  out,
• 26:14
  and
• 26:14
  then
• 26:15
  I'm
• 26:15
  going
• 26:15
  to
• 26:15
  sort
• 26:15
  it.
• 26:15
  And
• 26:16
  once
• 26:16
  I
• 26:16
  sort
• 26:16
  it,
• 26:17
  we
• 26:17
  make
• 26:18
  sense
• 26:18
  of
• 26:19
  what
• 26:19
  is
• 26:19
  there.
• 26:21
  And
• 26:21
  so
• 26:21
  in
• 26:22
  that
• 26:22
  process,
• 26:23
  it's
• 26:23
  much
• 26:23
  easier.
• 26:24
  And
• 26:24
  then
• 26:24
  it
• 26:24
  becomes
• 26:25
  like
• 26:25
  a
• 26:25
  jigsaw
• 26:26
  puzzle
• 26:26
  of
• 26:26
  which
• 26:27
  category
• 26:27
  does
• 26:28
  this
• 26:28
  go
• 26:28
  with?
• 26:28
  And
• 26:29
  so
• 26:30
  sometimes
• 26:31
  kitchens
• 26:32
  can
• 26:32
  be
• 26:32
  tricky.
• 26:33
  If
• 26:33
  someone
• 26:33
  has
• 26:33
  a
• 26:34
  ton
• 26:34
  of
• 26:34
  different
• 26:36
  cooking
• 26:36
  tools,
• 26:37
  which
• 26:38
  I
• 26:38
  cook,
• 26:38
  but
• 26:38
  I'm
• 26:39
  not,
• 26:39
  like,
• 26:39
  a
• 26:39
  big
• 26:39
  cook,
• 26:39
  so
• 26:40
  I'm
• 26:40
  constantly,
• 26:41
  like,
• 26:41
  Google
• 26:42
  searching,
• 26:43
  image
• 26:43
  searching
• 26:44
  different
• 26:44
  devices,
• 26:45
  like,
• 26:45
  what
• 26:46
  is
• 26:46
  this?
• 26:48
  So
• 26:48
  that
• 26:48
  I
• 26:49
  know
• 26:49
  which
• 26:50
  category
• 26:50
  it
• 26:50
  goes
• 26:51
  into.
• 26:51
  But,
• 26:51
  yeah,
• 26:52
  every
• 26:52
  job
• 26:52
  has
• 26:53
  its.
• 26:54
  Has
• 26:54
  its
• 26:55
  intricacies
• 26:55
  and
• 26:56
  difficulties,
• 26:57
  and
• 26:57
  they're
• 26:57
  all
• 26:57
  sort
• 26:57
  of
• 26:58
  different.
• 26:59
  But
• 26:59
  I
• 26:59
  do
• 26:59
  always
• 27:00
  have
• 27:00
  a
• 27:00
  moment
• 27:00
  of
• 27:01
  overwhelm,
• 27:01
  and
• 27:01
  then
• 27:01
  it's.
• 27:02
  It's
• 27:03
  always
• 27:03
  fine.
• 27:04
  That's
• 27:04
  good.
• 27:04
  It's
• 27:05
  like,
• 27:05
  probably
• 27:05
  like
• 27:06
  any
• 27:06
  other
• 27:06
  job,
• 27:06
  right?
• 27:07
  There
• 27:07
  are
• 27:07
  moments
• 27:08
  of
• 27:08
  overwhelm,
• 27:08
  and
• 27:08
  you're
• 27:09
  like,
• 27:09
  oh,
• 27:09
  my
• 27:09
  God.
• 27:10
  You're
• 27:10
  like,
• 27:10
  I've
• 27:11
  got
• 27:11
  to
• 27:11
  solve
• 27:11
  a
• 27:11
  problem.
• 27:12
  It's
• 27:12
  really
• 27:12
  like
• 27:13
  just
• 27:13
  solving
• 27:13
  a
• 27:13
  problem
• 27:14
  and
• 27:14
  then
• 27:15
  going
• 27:15
  from
• 27:15
  there.
• 27:16
  So
• 27:16
  totally,
• 27:17
  you
• 27:17
  know,
• 27:18
  going
• 27:18
  back
• 27:18
  to
• 27:18
  the
• 27:18
  kitchen,
• 27:19
  because
• 27:21
  I
• 27:21
  really.
• 27:21
  As
• 27:22
  soon
• 27:22
  as
• 27:22
  you
• 27:22
  said
• 27:22
  that,
• 27:22
  I
• 27:22
  was
• 27:23
  like,
• 27:23
  oh,
• 27:23
  my
• 27:23
  God.
• 27:23
  The
• 27:24
  way
• 27:24
  that
• 27:24
  cups,
• 27:25
  like,
• 27:25
  multiply
• 27:26
  overnight,
• 27:26
  like,
• 27:27
  in
• 27:27
  the
• 27:27
  kitchen.
• 27:28
  And,
• 27:29
  like,
• 27:30
  ideally,
• 27:31
  should
• 27:31
  there
• 27:31
  be,
• 27:31
  like,
• 27:31
  a
• 27:32
  certain
• 27:32
  set,
• 27:32
  like
• 27:33
  a
• 27:33
  certain
• 27:33
  number
• 27:33
  of,
• 27:34
  let's
• 27:34
  say,
• 27:34
  cups,
• 27:35
  plates,
• 27:36
  you
• 27:36
  know,
• 27:37
  silverware,
• 27:37
  things
• 27:37
  that
• 27:38
  we
• 27:38
  should
• 27:38
  have.
• 27:38
  Is
• 27:39
  there,
• 27:39
  like,
• 27:39
  a
• 27:39
  good
• 27:39
  set
• 27:40
  number
• 27:41
  or
• 27:41
  is
• 27:41
  it,
• 27:41
  like,
• 27:41
  just
• 27:42
  dependent
• 27:42
  on,
• 27:43
  you
• 27:43
  know,
• 27:43
  your
• 27:43
  lifestyle?
• 27:44
  I
• 27:44
  mean,
• 27:45
  how
• 27:45
  do
• 27:45
  we
• 27:45
  know
• 27:45
  when
• 27:46
  too
• 27:46
  much
• 27:46
  is
• 27:46
  too
• 27:47
  much?
• 27:47
  I
• 27:48
  think
• 27:48
  if
• 27:48
  you
• 27:48
  have
• 27:49
  the
• 27:49
  space
• 27:49
  and
• 27:49
  you
• 27:50
  have
• 27:50
  a
• 27:50
  collection
• 27:51
  of
• 27:51
  things,
• 27:51
  there
• 27:51
  are
• 27:51
  some
• 27:52
  people
• 27:52
  that
• 27:52
  have
• 27:52
  enormous
• 27:53
  spaces.
• 27:54
  So
• 27:54
  I'm
• 27:54
  like,
• 27:54
  if
• 27:54
  you
• 27:54
  have
• 27:54
  enormous
• 27:55
  spaces
• 27:55
  and
• 27:56
  you
• 27:56
  have
• 27:56
  beautiful
• 27:56
  sets
• 27:57
  of
• 27:58
  china
• 27:58
  and
• 27:58
  dishes
• 27:59
  and
• 27:59
  glassware
• 28:00
  and
• 28:00
  it's
• 28:01
  organized
• 28:01
  and
• 28:01
  you
• 28:02
  know
• 28:02
  where
• 28:02
  to
• 28:02
  go
• 28:02
  for
• 28:03
  each
• 28:03
  set,
• 28:04
  great,
• 28:04
  let's
• 28:04
  keep
• 28:05
  it
• 28:05
  all.
• 28:06
  But
• 28:06
  it
• 28:07
  depends
• 28:07
  if
• 28:07
  it's
• 28:07
  overwhelming
• 28:08
  to
• 28:08
  you.
• 28:09
  And
• 28:09
  I
• 28:09
  have
• 28:09
  to
• 28:09
  say,
• 28:10
  post
• 28:10
  fire,
• 28:10
  my
• 28:11
  husband
• 28:11
  was
• 28:11
  saying
• 28:11
  to
• 28:11
  me
• 28:12
  the
• 28:12
  other
• 28:12
  night,
• 28:12
  because
• 28:12
  we
• 28:12
  moved
• 28:13
  to
• 28:13
  Newport
• 28:13
  temporarily,
• 28:14
  when
• 28:14
  we
• 28:15
  had
• 28:15
  nothing,
• 28:15
  we
• 28:15
  moved
• 28:16
  into
• 28:16
  a
• 28:16
  house
• 28:16
  and
• 28:16
  we
• 28:16
  were
• 28:17
  buying,
• 28:17
  like,
• 28:17
  one
• 28:17
  set
• 28:17
  of
• 28:18
  dishes,
• 28:18
  and,
• 28:18
  like,
• 28:19
  we
• 28:19
  just
• 28:19
  were,
• 28:19
  like,
• 28:20
  rebuying
• 28:20
  everything.
• 28:21
  And
• 28:21
  he
• 28:21
  was
• 28:21
  like,
• 28:21
  God,
• 28:22
  you
• 28:22
  were
• 28:22
  the
• 28:22
  most
• 28:23
  calm
• 28:23
  when
• 28:24
  we
• 28:24
  lived
• 28:25
  in
• 28:25
  that
• 28:25
  tiny
• 28:26
  home
• 28:27
  with
• 28:27
  hardly
• 28:28
  anything.
• 28:28
  And
• 28:28
  I
• 28:29
  was
• 28:29
  like,
• 28:29
  I
• 28:29
  know,
• 28:30
  because
• 28:31
  it
• 28:31
  was.
• 28:31
  We
• 28:32
  had
• 28:32
  one
• 28:32
  set
• 28:32
  of
• 28:32
  dishes
• 28:33
  and
• 28:33
  one
• 28:34
  set
• 28:34
  of
• 28:34
  glasses
• 28:35
  and
• 28:35
  one.
• 28:36
  And
• 28:36
  it
• 28:36
  does.
• 28:36
  There
• 28:37
  is
• 28:37
  a
• 28:37
  sense
• 28:37
  of
• 28:37
  some
• 28:38
  simplicity
• 28:38
  that
• 28:39
  really
• 28:39
  is
• 28:39
  nice,
• 28:40
  but
• 28:40
  that's
• 28:41
  not
• 28:41
  real
• 28:41
  life.
• 28:42
  Once
• 28:42
  you've
• 28:42
  collected
• 28:43
  a
• 28:43
  bunch
• 28:43
  of
• 28:43
  things.
• 28:43
  But
• 28:43
  I
• 28:44
  will
• 28:44
  say
• 28:44
  that
• 28:44
  less,
• 28:45
  I
• 28:45
  think,
• 28:45
  is
• 28:46
  more.
• 28:46
  But
• 28:47
  if
• 28:47
  I'm
• 28:47
  in
• 28:47
  someone's
• 28:47
  home
• 28:48
  and
• 28:48
  they
• 28:48
  have
• 28:48
  all
• 28:48
  these
• 28:48
  beautiful
• 28:49
  things
• 28:49
  and
• 28:49
  we
• 28:50
  can
• 28:50
  organize
• 28:50
  them
• 28:50
  in
• 28:50
  a
• 28:51
  way
• 28:51
  that's
• 28:51
  very
• 28:52
  calming,
• 28:53
  then
• 28:54
  keep
• 28:54
  them
• 28:54
  all.
• 28:55
  If
• 28:55
  you
• 28:55
  have
• 28:56
  a
• 28:56
  bunch
• 28:56
  of
• 28:56
  different
• 28:57
  plastic
• 28:58
  cups
• 28:58
  and
• 28:59
  things
• 28:59
  like
• 28:59
  that,
• 28:59
  like,
• 29:00
  I'm
• 29:01
  try
• 29:01
  to
• 29:02
  kind
• 29:02
  of,
• 29:02
  like,
• 29:03
  pick
• 29:03
  your
• 29:03
  favorite
• 29:03
  few
• 29:04
  and
• 29:04
  then
• 29:05
  donate
• 29:05
  the
• 29:06
  rest
• 29:06
  because
• 29:07
  it
• 29:07
  just
• 29:08
  becomes
• 29:08
  so
• 29:08
  much
• 29:09
  clutter
• 29:09
  with
• 29:09
  the
• 29:09
  different
• 29:09
  tops
• 29:10
  and
• 29:10
  all
• 29:10
  the
• 29:10
  different
• 29:11
  things
• 29:11
  and
• 29:11
  the
• 29:11
  straws
• 29:12
  and
• 29:12
  the
• 29:12
  straw
• 29:12
  cleaners,
• 29:13
  like
• 29:14
  it's
• 29:14
  too
• 29:15
  much.
• 29:15
  No
• 29:15
  one
• 29:16
  needs
• 29:16
  30
• 29:17
  water
• 29:17
  bottles
• 29:18
  you're
• 29:18
  not
• 29:18
  gonna
• 29:18
  use,
• 29:19
  you
• 29:19
  know,
• 29:20
  I
• 29:20
  mean,
• 29:20
  think
• 29:21
  about
• 29:21
  it.
• 29:21
  We're
• 29:21
  washing
• 29:21
  em
• 29:21
  right
• 29:22
  after
• 29:22
  we
• 29:22
  use
• 29:22
  them.
• 29:22
  You
• 29:23
  really
• 29:23
  need
• 29:23
  it
• 29:24
  a
• 29:24
  couple
• 29:25
  per
• 29:25
  person
• 29:25
  in
• 29:25
  your
• 29:26
  house.
• 29:27
  So
• 29:27
  for
• 29:27
  like
• 29:28
  to
• 29:28
  go
• 29:28
  water
• 29:28
  bottles
• 29:29
  and
• 29:29
  then
• 29:29
  a
• 29:29
  set
• 29:29
  or
• 29:30
  two
• 29:30
  of
• 29:31
  glassware.
• 29:31
  But
• 29:32
  the
• 29:32
  reality
• 29:32
  is
• 29:32
  people
• 29:33
  over
• 29:33
  a
• 29:34
  lifetime
• 29:34
  collect
• 29:35
  much
• 29:36
  more
• 29:36
  than
• 29:36
  that.
• 29:36
  But
• 29:37
  yes,
• 29:37
  no.
• 29:37
  And
• 29:38
  then
• 29:38
  with
• 29:38
  the
• 29:38
  kids
• 29:39
  too.
• 29:39
  The
• 29:39
  kids
• 29:40
  have
• 29:40
  all
• 29:40
  of
• 29:40
  their
• 29:41
  own
• 29:41
  set
• 29:41
  of
• 29:42
  everything.
• 29:42
  You
• 29:43
  know,
• 29:43
  it's
• 29:43
  like
• 29:43
  everything,
• 29:44
  right?
• 29:44
  It's
• 29:45
  like
• 29:45
  all
• 29:45
  the,
• 29:45
  the
• 29:46
  dishes,
• 29:46
  the
• 29:46
  cups,
• 29:47
  like
• 29:47
  all
• 29:47
  that
• 29:47
  kind
• 29:47
  of
• 29:48
  stuff.
• 29:48
  But
• 29:48
  also
• 29:48
  their
• 29:48
  clothes
• 29:49
  and
• 29:49
  like
• 29:50
  toys.
• 29:50
  Oh
• 29:50
  my
• 29:50
  God.
• 29:51
  Toys.
• 29:51
  Toys
• 29:52
  help.
• 29:57
  Like
• 29:57
  how?
• 29:57
  Big
• 29:58
  baskets.
• 29:58
  Yes.
• 29:59
  How
• 29:59
  do
• 29:59
  we
• 29:59
  do
• 30:00
  the
• 30:00
  toys?
• 30:00
  Like
• 30:01
  what?
• 30:01
  Because
• 30:01
  it's
• 30:02
  like,
• 30:02
  you
• 30:02
  know,
• 30:02
  then
• 30:02
  you
• 30:02
  have
• 30:03
  the,
• 30:03
  the
• 30:03
  child's
• 30:04
  like
• 30:04
  opinion
• 30:04
  and
• 30:05
  they
• 30:05
  don't
• 30:05
  want
• 30:05
  to
• 30:05
  let
• 30:05
  go
• 30:05
  of
• 30:06
  anything,
• 30:06
  you
• 30:06
  know.
• 30:06
  So
• 30:07
  like,
• 30:07
  how
• 30:07
  do
• 30:08
  we
• 30:08
  navigate
• 30:09
  that?
• 30:09
  Especially
• 30:09
  with
• 30:09
  something
• 30:10
  that
• 30:10
  is
• 30:10
  so
• 30:10
  emotionally
• 30:11
  tied
• 30:11
  to
• 30:12
  them,
• 30:12
  you
• 30:13
  know,
• 30:13
  for
• 30:13
  them.
• 30:14
  Yes,
• 30:16
  I
• 30:16
  think
• 30:16
  a
• 30:16
  couple
• 30:17
  things.
• 30:17
  So
• 30:17
  big
• 30:18
  baskets
• 30:18
  with
• 30:18
  tops
• 30:19
  are
• 30:19
  always
• 30:19
  going
• 30:20
  to
• 30:20
  be
• 30:20
  your
• 30:20
  friends
• 30:21
  because
• 30:21
  especially
• 30:21
  if
• 30:22
  they
• 30:22
  have
• 30:22
  in
• 30:23
  the
• 30:23
  stage
• 30:23
  where
• 30:23
  they
• 30:23
  have
• 30:23
  bigger
• 30:24
  toys
• 30:24
  and
• 30:24
  you
• 30:25
  want
• 30:25
  to
• 30:25
  contain
• 30:26
  them
• 30:26
  and
• 30:26
  you
• 30:26
  don't
• 30:26
  want
• 30:26
  to
• 30:27
  look
• 30:27
  at
• 30:27
  them
• 30:27
  like
• 30:28
  big
• 30:28
  bins,
• 30:29
  big
• 30:29
  top,
• 30:30
  you
• 30:30
  don't
• 30:30
  have
• 30:31
  to
• 30:31
  look
• 30:31
  at
• 30:31
  it.
• 30:31
  Don't
• 30:31
  do
• 30:32
  a
• 30:32
  lot
• 30:32
  of
• 30:32
  clear
• 30:32
  containers
• 30:33
  when
• 30:33
  they're
• 30:33
  smaller
• 30:34
  because
• 30:34
  you
• 30:34
  don't
• 30:34
  want
• 30:34
  to
• 30:35
  look
• 30:35
  at
• 30:35
  the
• 30:35
  mess
• 30:35
  that's
• 30:35
  in
• 30:36
  the
• 30:36
  bins.
• 30:36
  And
• 30:36
  you
• 30:37
  also
• 30:37
  want
• 30:37
  to
• 30:37
  enable
• 30:38
  them
• 30:39
  to
• 30:39
  know,
• 30:40
  get
• 30:40
  a
• 30:40
  rattan
• 30:41
  like
• 30:41
  bin
• 30:42
  so
• 30:42
  you're
• 30:42
  not
• 30:42
  seeing
• 30:43
  through
• 30:43
  it.
• 30:43
  But
• 30:43
  also
• 30:44
  like
• 30:45
  sometimes
• 30:45
  I've
• 30:45
  had
• 30:46
  where
• 30:46
  I've
• 30:46
  done
• 30:47
  labels
• 30:47
  for
• 30:48
  playrooms,
• 30:48
  but
• 30:48
  then
• 30:49
  I've
• 30:49
  put
• 30:49
  like
• 30:49
  a
• 30:49
  little
• 30:49
  emoji
• 30:50
  of
• 30:50
  what
• 30:50
  it
• 30:50
  is
• 30:51
  or
• 30:51
  like
• 30:51
  a
• 30:51
  little
• 30:51
  picture
• 30:52
  of
• 30:52
  what
• 30:52
  it
• 30:52
  is
• 30:52
  so
• 30:53
  that
• 30:53
  the
• 30:53
  child
• 30:53
  can
• 30:54
  put
• 30:54
  things
• 30:55
  away.
• 30:55
  They
• 30:55
  know
• 30:56
  how
• 30:56
  to
• 30:56
  sort
• 30:57
  their
• 30:57
  own
• 30:57
  toys.
• 30:58
  So
• 30:58
  like
• 30:58
  this
• 30:58
  is
• 30:58
  where
• 30:58
  the
• 30:59
  Barbies
• 30:59
  go
• 30:59
  and
• 30:59
  this
• 31:00
  is
• 31:00
  where.
• 31:01
  So
• 31:01
  that's
• 31:01
  helpful.
• 31:03
  But
• 31:03
  I
• 31:03
  think
• 31:04
  when
• 31:04
  cleaning
• 31:05
  out,
• 31:05
  I
• 31:06
  mean
• 31:06
  I
• 31:07
  would
• 31:07
  clean
• 31:07
  things
• 31:07
  out
• 31:08
  and
• 31:08
  not
• 31:09
  tell
• 31:09
  the
• 31:09
  kids
• 31:09
  and
• 31:10
  keep
• 31:10
  them
• 31:11
  somewhere
• 31:11
  else.
• 31:12
  And
• 31:12
  then
• 31:12
  if
• 31:12
  they
• 31:12
  asked
• 31:13
  for
• 31:13
  them,
• 31:13
  I
• 31:14
  would
• 31:14
  like,
• 31:15
  you
• 31:15
  know,
• 31:15
  bring
• 31:16
  back
• 31:16
  a
• 31:16
  toy
• 31:17
  from
• 31:18
  Purgatory.
• 31:19
  But
• 31:19
  if
• 31:19
  they
• 31:19
  never
• 31:20
  asked
• 31:20
  about
• 31:20
  it
• 31:20
  again
• 31:21
  and
• 31:21
  it
• 31:21
  had
• 31:21
  been
• 31:21
  a
• 31:21
  couple
• 31:21
  months,
• 31:22
  I
• 31:22
  was
• 31:22
  like,
• 31:22
  well,
• 31:23
  out
• 31:23
  it
• 31:23
  goes.
• 31:24
  So.
• 31:24
  Because
• 31:24
  a
• 31:25
  lot
• 31:25
  of
• 31:25
  kids
• 31:25
  don't
• 31:25
  want
• 31:26
  to
• 31:26
  get
• 31:26
  rid
• 31:26
  of
• 31:26
  it.
• 31:26
  But
• 31:27
  what
• 31:27
  I
• 31:27
  will
• 31:27
  say
• 31:28
  is
• 31:28
  that
• 31:28
  the
• 31:28
  kids
• 31:29
  that
• 31:29
  I've
• 31:29
  worked
• 31:30
  on
• 31:30
  their
• 31:30
  playrooms,
• 31:31
  a
• 31:32
  Sometimes
• 31:32
  it's
• 31:32
  better
• 31:33
  when
• 31:33
  you're
• 31:33
  not
• 31:33
  working
• 31:34
  with.
• 31:34
  Like,
• 31:34
  when
• 31:35
  I'm
• 31:35
  working
• 31:35
  with
• 31:35
  my
• 31:35
  kids
• 31:36
  on
• 31:36
  their
• 31:36
  stuff,
• 31:36
  they're
• 31:36
  like,
• 31:37
  no,
• 31:37
  I
• 31:37
  want
• 31:37
  to
• 31:37
  keep
• 31:37
  that.
• 31:37
  I
• 31:38
  want
• 31:38
  to
• 31:38
  keep
• 31:38
  that.
• 31:38
  When
• 31:38
  I
• 31:39
  work
• 31:39
  with
• 31:39
  other
• 31:39
  kids
• 31:39
  on
• 31:40
  their
• 31:40
  stuff.
• 31:40
  They
• 31:40
  are
• 31:41
  funny.
• 31:41
  They'll
• 31:41
  let
• 31:41
  go
• 31:42
  of
• 31:42
  a
• 31:42
  lot
• 31:42
  more
• 31:42
  when
• 31:43
  they're
• 31:43
  working
• 31:43
  with
• 31:44
  someone
• 31:44
  that
• 31:44
  isn't
• 31:45
  their
• 31:45
  parent.
• 31:47
  But
• 31:47
  also,
• 31:48
  kids
• 31:48
  are
• 31:49
  really
• 31:49
  like
• 31:49
  a
• 31:50
  clean
• 31:50
  playroom.
• 31:50
  It's
• 31:51
  really.
• 31:51
  When
• 31:51
  I've
• 31:52
  done.
• 31:53
  My
• 31:53
  favorite
• 31:53
  videos
• 31:54
  are
• 31:54
  when
• 31:54
  I've
• 31:54
  done
• 31:55
  a
• 31:55
  playroom,
• 31:55
  and
• 31:56
  then
• 31:56
  the
• 31:57
  mom
• 31:57
  does
• 31:57
  a
• 31:57
  surprise,
• 31:58
  like,
• 31:58
  does
• 31:58
  a
• 31:58
  video
• 31:58
  of
• 31:59
  them
• 31:59
  seeing
• 31:59
  their
• 31:59
  new
• 32:00
  space,
• 32:00
  and
• 32:00
  they're
• 32:01
  like.
• 32:02
  And
• 32:02
  so
• 32:02
  kids
• 32:03
  actually
• 32:04
  really
• 32:04
  like
• 32:05
  it
• 32:06
  to
• 32:06
  be
• 32:06
  calm
• 32:07
  and
• 32:07
  not
• 32:08
  have
• 32:08
  so
• 32:08
  many
• 32:09
  decisions
• 32:09
  to
• 32:09
  make,
• 32:10
  too.
• 32:10
  I
• 32:10
  think
• 32:11
  we're
• 32:11
  all
• 32:12
  buying
• 32:12
  our
• 32:12
  kids
• 32:13
  so
• 32:13
  much
• 32:13
  stuff,
• 32:14
  and
• 32:14
  they
• 32:14
  actually
• 32:14
  need
• 32:15
  a
• 32:15
  lot
• 32:15
  less
• 32:16
  stuff.
• 32:16
  And
• 32:16
  then
• 32:16
  they'll
• 32:16
  play
• 32:17
  with
• 32:17
  the
• 32:17
  stuff
• 32:17
  that
• 32:17
  they
• 32:18
  do
• 32:18
  have.
• 32:18
  But
• 32:19
  I
• 32:19
  think
• 32:19
  they
• 32:19
  get
• 32:19
  overwhelmed
• 32:20
  just
• 32:20
  like
• 32:20
  we
• 32:21
  do
• 32:21
  by
• 32:21
  the
• 32:21
  clutter
• 32:22
  or
• 32:22
  by
• 32:22
  too
• 32:23
  many
• 32:23
  decisions.
• 32:23
  What
• 32:24
  do
• 32:24
  I
• 32:24
  play
• 32:24
  with?
• 32:24
  I
• 32:24
  have
• 32:25
  so
• 32:25
  many
• 32:25
  toys.
• 32:26
  And
• 32:26
  so
• 32:27
  to
• 32:27
  limit
• 32:27
  that
• 32:28
  gives
• 32:29
  them
• 32:29
  some
• 32:29
  calm
• 32:30
  and
• 32:30
  to
• 32:30
  give
• 32:30
  them
• 32:31
  some
• 32:31
  agency
• 32:31
  around.
• 32:32
  This
• 32:32
  is
• 32:32
  where
• 32:32
  we
• 32:32
  put
• 32:33
  the
• 32:33
  Barbies,
• 32:33
  and
• 32:33
  this
• 32:33
  is
• 32:33
  where
• 32:34
  we
• 32:34
  put
• 32:34
  the
• 32:34
  Legos.
• 32:34
  And
• 32:35
  this
• 32:35
  is
• 32:35
  when
• 32:36
  you
• 32:36
  clean
• 32:36
  up.
• 32:36
  This
• 32:36
  is
• 32:37
  how
• 32:37
  you
• 32:37
  do
• 32:37
  it.
• 32:37
  And
• 32:38
  it
• 32:38
  does
• 32:38
  help
• 32:39
  them.
• 32:39
  And
• 32:39
  I
• 32:39
  do
• 32:40
  think
• 32:40
  they
• 32:40
  feel
• 32:41
  empowered
• 32:41
  by
• 32:42
  that.
• 32:43
  But
• 32:43
  I
• 32:44
  do
• 32:44
  love
• 32:44
  seeing
• 32:44
  kids
• 32:45
  faces
• 32:45
  when
• 32:45
  they
• 32:45
  have
• 32:46
  a
• 32:46
  redone
• 32:46
  playroom
• 32:47
  because
• 32:47
  they
• 32:48
  really
• 32:48
  like
• 32:48
  the
• 32:48
  order.
• 32:49
  Yeah.
• 32:49
  And
• 32:49
  they
• 32:50
  were.
• 32:50
  Yeah,
• 32:50
  exactly.
• 32:50
  It's,
• 32:51
  like,
• 32:51
  probably
• 32:51
  easier
• 32:51
  for
• 32:52
  them
• 32:52
  to,
• 32:52
  like,
• 32:53
  digest
• 32:53
  and
• 32:53
  take
• 32:54
  it
• 32:54
  all
• 32:54
  in
• 32:54
  and
• 32:54
  be
• 32:55
  able
• 32:55
  to
• 32:55
  say,
• 32:55
  you
• 32:56
  know,
• 32:56
  there's
• 32:56
  my
• 32:57
  stuffed
• 32:57
  toys,
• 32:57
  there's
• 32:58
  my
• 32:58
  Barbies,
• 32:59
  like.
• 32:59
  Right.
• 33:00
  Whatever
• 33:00
  that
• 33:01
  is.
• 33:01
  Exactly,
• 33:02
  exactly,
• 33:03
  exactly.
• 33:04
  You
• 33:05
  know,
• 33:05
  I
• 33:05
  think,
• 33:05
  too,
• 33:06
  a
• 33:07
  lot
• 33:07
  of
• 33:07
  us
• 33:07
  are
• 33:08
  in
• 33:08
  this
• 33:08
  sort
• 33:08
  of
• 33:09
  sandwich
• 33:09
  generation
• 33:10
  where
• 33:10
  we're
• 33:11
  not
• 33:11
  only
• 33:11
  taking
• 33:12
  care
• 33:12
  of
• 33:12
  kids,
• 33:12
  but
• 33:13
  we're
• 33:13
  taking
• 33:13
  care
• 33:13
  of
• 33:13
  our
• 33:13
  elderly
• 33:14
  parents
• 33:14
  as
• 33:14
  they
• 33:15
  get
• 33:15
  older.
• 33:16
  And
• 33:17
  part
• 33:17
  of
• 33:17
  that.
• 33:18
  I
• 33:18
  know
• 33:18
  a
• 33:18
  lot
• 33:19
  of
• 33:19
  people's
• 33:19
  parents
• 33:20
  have
• 33:20
  downsized,
• 33:20
  including
• 33:21
  my
• 33:21
  parents
• 33:22
  last
• 33:22
  or
• 33:23
  two
• 33:23
  years
• 33:23
  ago
• 33:23
  now,
• 33:25
  just,
• 33:25
  you
• 33:25
  know,
• 33:26
  downsized.
• 33:26
  Moved
• 33:27
  to
• 33:27
  a
• 33:27
  smaller
• 33:27
  house,
• 33:28
  but
• 33:28
  they
• 33:29
  had
• 33:29
  lived
• 33:29
  in
• 33:29
  their
• 33:29
  house
• 33:30
  for
• 33:30
  40
• 33:31
  years
• 33:31
  before,
• 33:32
  so
• 33:34
  we
• 33:34
  had
• 33:34
  to
• 33:34
  go
• 33:35
  through.
• 33:35
  I
• 33:36
  can't
• 33:36
  even.
• 33:36
  Like,
• 33:36
  it
• 33:37
  was.
• 33:37
  It
• 33:38
  was
• 33:38
  my
• 33:38
  sister
• 33:39
  and
• 33:39
  I.
• 33:39
  Like,
• 33:40
  we
• 33:40
  went
• 33:40
  through
• 33:42
  all
• 33:42
  of
• 33:42
  these
• 33:42
  things,
• 33:43
  and
• 33:43
  it
• 33:43
  was
• 33:44
  so
• 33:44
  overwhelming
• 33:45
  because
• 33:45
  I
• 33:45
  feel
• 33:46
  like
• 33:46
  as
• 33:46
  people
• 33:47
  get
• 33:47
  even
• 33:47
  older,
• 33:48
  like,
• 33:48
  you
• 33:48
  know,
• 33:49
  our
• 33:49
  parents
• 33:49
  age.
• 33:50
  They
• 33:50
  just
• 33:51
  don't
• 33:51
  want
• 33:51
  to
• 33:51
  throw
• 33:51
  anything
• 33:52
  away.
• 33:52
  Like,
• 33:53
  nothing.
• 33:54
  Nothing.
• 33:54
  So
• 33:55
  I.
• 33:56
  We
• 33:56
  were
• 33:56
  finding
• 33:57
  things
• 33:57
  from,
• 33:57
  like,
• 33:57
  1992
• 33:59
  and,
• 33:59
  like,
• 33:59
  you
• 34:00
  know,
• 34:00
  I
• 34:00
  mean,
• 34:00
  just
• 34:00
  things.
• 34:01
  Receipts
• 34:01
  and,
• 34:02
  like.
• 34:02
  I
• 34:02
  mean,
• 34:03
  papers
• 34:03
  and
• 34:03
  just
• 34:04
  so
• 34:04
  many
• 34:05
  things.
• 34:06
  So,
• 34:07
  like,
• 34:08
  what
• 34:08
  advice
• 34:09
  do
• 34:09
  you
• 34:09
  give
• 34:09
  for,
• 34:10
  for
• 34:10
  us,
• 34:10
  especially
• 34:11
  in
• 34:11
  midlife,
• 34:12
  if
• 34:12
  we're
• 34:12
  trying
• 34:12
  to
• 34:12
  help
• 34:13
  our
• 34:13
  parents
• 34:14
  downsize
• 34:14
  and
• 34:14
  they
• 34:15
  have
• 34:15
  collected
• 34:15
  things
• 34:16
  and
• 34:16
  they
• 34:16
  don't
• 34:16
  want
• 34:16
  to
• 34:17
  throw
• 34:17
  things
• 34:17
  away.
• 34:18
  And,
• 34:18
  you
• 34:18
  know,
• 34:18
  there
• 34:18
  is
• 34:19
  that
• 34:19
  also
• 34:20
  emotional
• 34:20
  component
• 34:21
  with
• 34:21
  them,
• 34:21
  like,
• 34:21
  what
• 34:22
  do
• 34:22
  we
• 34:22
  do?
• 34:23
  It's
• 34:24
  tricky.
• 34:25
  Thankfully,
• 34:26
  my
• 34:26
  mom
• 34:26
  is
• 34:26
  very
• 34:26
  minimalist,
• 34:27
  so
• 34:27
  she
• 34:27
  has
• 34:27
  been
• 34:28
  cleaning
• 34:28
  out
• 34:28
  her
• 34:28
  house.
• 34:29
  So
• 34:29
  I
• 34:29
  don't.
• 34:29
  I
• 34:29
  will
• 34:29
  not
• 34:30
  ever
• 34:30
  have
• 34:30
  to
• 34:30
  deal
• 34:30
  with
• 34:30
  that
• 34:31
  because
• 34:31
  she
• 34:31
  is
• 34:31
  very
• 34:31
  similar
• 34:32
  to
• 34:32
  me.
• 34:32
  That's
• 34:33
  good.
• 34:33
  Grant's.
• 34:34
  Grant's
• 34:34
  parents,
• 34:35
  my
• 34:35
  husband's
• 34:35
  parents
• 34:36
  are
• 34:36
  actually
• 34:36
  in
• 34:36
  the
• 34:37
  process
• 34:37
  of
• 34:37
  downsizing
• 34:38
  and
• 34:39
  there
• 34:39
  is
• 34:39
  so
• 34:39
  much
• 34:40
  stuff.
• 34:41
  And
• 34:41
  so
• 34:41
  I
• 34:41
  think
• 34:41
  it's
• 34:42
  really
• 34:42
  hard
• 34:42
  when
• 34:43
  you're
• 34:43
  going
• 34:43
  from
• 34:43
  a
• 34:43
  really
• 34:44
  big
• 34:44
  house
• 34:44
  to
• 34:44
  a
• 34:45
  smaller
• 34:45
  house
• 34:46
  to
• 34:46
  really
• 34:47
  call
• 34:47
  down
• 34:47
  what
• 34:47
  matters
• 34:48
  to
• 34:48
  you
• 34:48
  and
• 34:48
  what
• 34:48
  you
• 34:49
  want
• 34:49
  to
• 34:49
  hang
• 34:49
  on
• 34:49
  to.
• 34:50
  I'm
• 34:51
  working
• 34:51
  with
• 34:51
  a
• 34:51
  new
• 34:51
  client,
• 34:52
  actually,
• 34:52
  who
• 34:53
  has
• 34:54
  a
• 34:54
  really
• 34:54
  large
• 34:54
  house,
• 34:55
  and
• 34:55
  I
• 34:56
  don't
• 34:56
  think
• 34:56
  she
• 34:56
  actually
• 34:57
  wants
• 34:57
  to
• 34:57
  downsize
• 34:58
  homes,
• 34:58
  but
• 34:58
  she's
• 34:59
  like,
• 34:59
  it's
• 35:00
  too
• 35:00
  much.
• 35:00
  I've
• 35:01
  been.
• 35:01
  I
• 35:01
  have
• 35:02
  just
• 35:02
  too
• 35:02
  much
• 35:02
  stuff.
• 35:03
  So
• 35:03
  I
• 35:04
  do
• 35:04
  think
• 35:04
  that
• 35:04
  the,
• 35:05
  you
• 35:05
  know,
• 35:05
  what
• 35:05
  we've
• 35:05
  decided.
• 35:06
  What
• 35:06
  I've
• 35:06
  decided
• 35:07
  with
• 35:07
  her
• 35:07
  is
• 35:07
  we're
• 35:07
  going
• 35:07
  to
• 35:07
  do
• 35:08
  five
• 35:08
  hour
• 35:08
  sessions
• 35:09
  so
• 35:09
  that
• 35:10
  it
• 35:10
  doesn't
• 35:11
  become
• 35:11
  so
• 35:11
  overwhelming
• 35:12
  and
• 35:13
  we'll
• 35:13
  just
• 35:13
  start.
• 35:13
  We've
• 35:14
  got
• 35:14
  a
• 35:14
  priority
• 35:14
  list
• 35:15
  of
• 35:15
  where
• 35:15
  she
• 35:16
  wants
• 35:16
  to
• 35:16
  start
• 35:16
  and
• 35:16
  how
• 35:17
  she
• 35:17
  wants
• 35:17
  to
• 35:17
  feel
• 35:18
  in
• 35:18
  those
• 35:18
  spaces,
• 35:19
  even
• 35:19
  though
• 35:20
  we're
• 35:20
  not
• 35:20
  moving
• 35:20
  her
• 35:20
  to
• 35:21
  a
• 35:21
  new
• 35:21
  house.
• 35:22
  But
• 35:22
  it's
• 35:23
  really
• 35:23
  those
• 35:23
  chunks
• 35:25
  of
• 35:25
  time
• 35:26
  that
• 35:26
  I
• 35:26
  think
• 35:27
  you
• 35:27
  just
• 35:28
  don't
• 35:28
  want
• 35:28
  to
• 35:28
  overwhelm
• 35:29
  the
• 35:29
  person
• 35:29
  that's
• 35:30
  giving
• 35:30
  things
• 35:31
  up.
• 35:31
  Right.
• 35:32
  Because
• 35:32
  that's.
• 35:32
  It's
• 35:33
  really
• 35:33
  hard
• 35:33
  to
• 35:34
  move
• 35:34
  on.
• 35:34
  And,
• 35:35
  you
• 35:35
  know,
• 35:35
  we're
• 35:36
  all
• 35:36
  going
• 35:36
  through
• 35:36
  it
• 35:36
  as
• 35:36
  we
• 35:37
  go
• 35:37
  through
• 35:37
  midlife.
• 35:37
  We're
• 35:37
  in
• 35:38
  a
• 35:38
  new
• 35:38
  stage
• 35:39
  and
• 35:39
  it's
• 35:39
  hard
• 35:39
  to
• 35:40
  give
• 35:40
  away
• 35:40
  the
• 35:40
  toys
• 35:40
  that
• 35:41
  our
• 35:41
  kids
• 35:42
  played
• 35:42
  with
• 35:42
  and,
• 35:43
  and,
• 35:43
  you
• 35:43
  know,
• 35:44
  move
• 35:44
  on
• 35:44
  to
• 35:44
  this
• 35:45
  new
• 35:45
  stage
• 35:45
  where
• 35:45
  they're
• 35:46
  teenagers.
• 35:46
  And
• 35:47
  then
• 35:47
  you
• 35:47
  think
• 35:47
  about
• 35:48
  our
• 35:48
  parents
• 35:48
  and
• 35:49
  all
• 35:49
  the
• 35:50
  things
• 35:50
  that
• 35:50
  they've
• 35:50
  collected
• 35:51
  and
• 35:51
  maybe
• 35:51
  they
• 35:51
  didn't
• 35:52
  do
• 35:52
  an
• 35:52
  edit
• 35:52
  at
• 35:52
  Midlife,
• 35:53
  so
• 35:54
  they
• 35:54
  have
• 35:54
  all
• 35:54
  of
• 35:54
  our
• 35:54
  kid.
• 35:55
  All
• 35:55
  stuff
• 35:56
  from
• 35:56
  childhood
• 35:57
  too.
• 35:57
  And
• 35:57
  so
• 35:58
  I
• 35:58
  do
• 35:58
  think
• 35:59
  if
• 35:59
  you
• 35:59
  can
• 35:59
  do
• 35:59
  it
• 35:59
  with
• 35:59
  your
• 36:00
  parent,
• 36:00
  to
• 36:00
  kind
• 36:00
  of
• 36:01
  go
• 36:01
  through,
• 36:01
  enjoy
• 36:02
  some
• 36:02
  of
• 36:02
  the
• 36:02
  memories,
• 36:03
  like
• 36:03
  look
• 36:03
  through
• 36:03
  some
• 36:04
  of
• 36:04
  your
• 36:04
  old
• 36:04
  stuff
• 36:05
  and
• 36:05
  have
• 36:05
  a
• 36:05
  good
• 36:05
  time
• 36:06
  with
• 36:06
  it.
• 36:06
  I
• 36:06
  think
• 36:07
  would
• 36:07
  be
• 36:07
  first
• 36:07
  and
• 36:07
  foremost
• 36:08
  because
• 36:08
  there
• 36:09
  are
• 36:09
  so
• 36:09
  many
• 36:09
  magical
• 36:10
  memories
• 36:11
  in
• 36:11
  what
• 36:12
  they've
• 36:12
  collected
• 36:13
  and
• 36:13
  sort
• 36:14
  of,
• 36:15
  you
• 36:15
  know,
• 36:15
  I
• 36:16
  wouldn't
• 36:16
  rush
• 36:16
  through
• 36:16
  it
• 36:17
  is
• 36:17
  what
• 36:17
  I
• 36:17
  guess
• 36:18
  I'm
• 36:18
  trying
• 36:18
  to
• 36:18
  say
• 36:19
  is
• 36:19
  like,
• 36:20
  there's
• 36:20
  so
• 36:21
  many
• 36:21
  Memories
• 36:22
  that
• 36:22
  they
• 36:22
  have.
• 36:22
  And
• 36:22
  so
• 36:23
  to
• 36:23
  honor
• 36:23
  those
• 36:23
  memories
• 36:24
  and
• 36:24
  sit
• 36:24
  with
• 36:25
  them
• 36:25
  and
• 36:25
  have
• 36:25
  them
• 36:25
  tell
• 36:26
  you
• 36:26
  stories
• 36:27
  about
• 36:27
  whatever
• 36:28
  the
• 36:28
  item
• 36:28
  is.
• 36:29
  And
• 36:29
  then,
• 36:30
  you
• 36:30
  know,
• 36:30
  I
• 36:30
  think
• 36:31
  finding
• 36:31
  a
• 36:31
  good
• 36:31
  home
• 36:32
  for
• 36:32
  these
• 36:32
  things,
• 36:33
  not
• 36:33
  making
• 36:33
  them
• 36:34
  feel
• 36:34
  like
• 36:34
  this
• 36:34
  is
• 36:34
  just
• 36:35
  all
• 36:35
  gonna
• 36:35
  go
• 36:35
  in
• 36:35
  the
• 36:35
  garbage.
• 36:36
  It's.
• 36:37
  Who
• 36:38
  can
• 36:38
  we
• 36:38
  give
• 36:38
  this
• 36:38
  to?
• 36:39
  There's
• 36:39
  a
• 36:39
  bunch,
• 36:39
  you
• 36:40
  know,
• 36:40
  grandmom
• 36:41
  has
• 36:41
  all
• 36:41
  these
• 36:42
  beautiful
• 36:43
  clothes
• 36:43
  that
• 36:43
  she
• 36:43
  doesn't
• 36:44
  wear
• 36:44
  anymore.
• 36:44
  And
• 36:45
  so
• 36:45
  we
• 36:45
  were
• 36:45
  talked
• 36:46
  about,
• 36:46
  like,
• 36:46
  do
• 36:47
  you
• 36:47
  give
• 36:47
  it
• 36:47
  to
• 36:47
  some,
• 36:48
  you
• 36:48
  know,
• 36:48
  a
• 36:48
  woman's
• 36:49
  shelter,
• 36:49
  someone
• 36:50
  that
• 36:50
  needs.
• 36:51
  Is
• 36:51
  trying
• 36:51
  to
• 36:51
  find
• 36:52
  a
• 36:52
  job
• 36:52
  or
• 36:52
  wants
• 36:53
  to
• 36:53
  do
• 36:53
  different
• 36:53
  things,
• 36:54
  is
• 36:54
  to
• 36:54
  really
• 36:54
  be
• 36:55
  thoughtful
• 36:55
  around
• 36:56
  where
• 36:56
  you
• 36:56
  give
• 36:56
  the
• 36:57
  things.
• 36:57
  Because
• 36:58
  you
• 36:58
  don't
• 36:58
  want
• 36:58
  to
• 36:58
  take
• 36:58
  someone's
• 36:59
  lifetime
• 37:00
  collection
• 37:00
  and
• 37:01
  just
• 37:01
  kick
• 37:02
  it
• 37:02
  to
• 37:02
  the
• 37:02
  curb.
• 37:02
  You
• 37:03
  want
• 37:03
  to
• 37:03
  deal
• 37:03
  with
• 37:04
  it
• 37:04
  respectfully
• 37:05
  and
• 37:05
  also
• 37:05
  make
• 37:06
  it
• 37:06
  fun.
• 37:07
  Yeah,
• 37:07
  that's
• 37:08
  a
• 37:08
  good
• 37:08
  point.
• 37:08
  Now,
• 37:08
  what
• 37:08
  if
• 37:09
  you're
• 37:10
  getting
• 37:10
  resistance
• 37:11
  from
• 37:11
  your
• 37:11
  parents?
• 37:12
  Like,
• 37:13
  they
• 37:13
  don't
• 37:13
  want
• 37:13
  to
• 37:13
  throw
• 37:14
  it
• 37:14
  away
• 37:14
  or
• 37:14
  they
• 37:15
  don't
• 37:15
  want
• 37:15
  to
• 37:15
  put,
• 37:15
  you
• 37:15
  know,
• 37:16
  find
• 37:16
  a
• 37:16
  new
• 37:16
  home
• 37:16
  for
• 37:17
  something.
• 37:17
  Then
• 37:18
  what
• 37:18
  do
• 37:18
  you
• 37:18
  do?
• 37:19
  I
• 37:19
  mean,
• 37:19
  you
• 37:20
  can't
• 37:21
  really
• 37:21
  force
• 37:22
  someone
• 37:22
  to
• 37:23
  give
• 37:23
  something
• 37:23
  away,
• 37:24
  and
• 37:24
  you
• 37:24
  don't
• 37:24
  want
• 37:25
  someone
• 37:25
  to
• 37:25
  resent
• 37:26
  you
• 37:26
  if
• 37:26
  you're
• 37:26
  taking
• 37:27
  their
• 37:27
  stuff.
• 37:28
  I
• 37:28
  mean,
• 37:28
  I
• 37:28
  think
• 37:29
  when
• 37:29
  it's
• 37:29
  like,
• 37:29
  okay,
• 37:30
  well,
• 37:31
  if
• 37:31
  you're
• 37:32
  not
• 37:32
  going
• 37:32
  to
• 37:32
  give
• 37:32
  this
• 37:32
  stuff
• 37:32
  up,
• 37:33
  like,
• 37:33
  what
• 37:33
  are
• 37:33
  we
• 37:33
  giving
• 37:34
  up?
• 37:34
  We're
• 37:34
  either
• 37:34
  going
• 37:34
  to
• 37:34
  give
• 37:35
  up
• 37:35
  the
• 37:35
  space
• 37:36
  or
• 37:36
  we're
• 37:36
  going
• 37:37
  to
• 37:37
  give
• 37:37
  up
• 37:37
  the
• 37:37
  stuff.
• 37:38
  And
• 37:38
  so
• 37:39
  if
• 37:39
  you're
• 37:39
  moving
• 37:39
  into
• 37:40
  a
• 37:40
  smaller
• 37:40
  house
• 37:40
  than
• 37:41
  you
• 37:41
  previously
• 37:42
  own,
• 37:43
  like.
• 37:43
  Like,
• 37:44
  it's
• 37:44
  a
• 37:45
  math
• 37:45
  problem,
• 37:45
  right?
• 37:46
  Like,
• 37:46
  you
• 37:46
  can't.
• 37:47
  You
• 37:47
  can't
• 37:47
  fill
• 37:48
  the
• 37:48
  same
• 37:48
  amount.
• 37:49
  So
• 37:50
  I
• 37:50
  do
• 37:50
  think
• 37:50
  it's
• 37:51
  rationalizing
• 37:52
  with
• 37:52
  someone
• 37:52
  around,
• 37:53
  like,
• 37:53
  okay,
• 37:54
  well,
• 37:54
  then
• 37:54
  where
• 37:54
  is
• 37:54
  this
• 37:55
  gonna
• 37:55
  go
• 37:55
  in
• 37:56
  the
• 37:56
  new
• 37:56
  space
• 37:56
  that's
• 37:57
  much
• 37:57
  smaller?
• 37:57
  Because
• 37:58
  I'm
• 37:58
  having
• 37:58
  a
• 37:59
  hard
• 37:59
  time
• 37:59
  understanding
• 38:00
  how
• 38:00
  all
• 38:01
  of
• 38:01
  this
• 38:01
  stuff
• 38:02
  is
• 38:02
  gonna
• 38:02
  fit
• 38:02
  in
• 38:02
  this
• 38:03
  smaller
• 38:03
  home.
• 38:05
  And
• 38:05
  I
• 38:05
  think
• 38:06
  that
• 38:06
  that's
• 38:06
  the
• 38:06
  only
• 38:07
  way
• 38:07
  you
• 38:07
  can
• 38:07
  kind
• 38:08
  of
• 38:08
  coach
• 38:08
  someone,
• 38:08
  unless
• 38:09
  you're
• 38:09
  just
• 38:10
  dragging
• 38:10
  their
• 38:10
  stuff
• 38:11
  out,
• 38:11
  which
• 38:11
  I
• 38:11
  don't
• 38:11
  think
• 38:11
  you
• 38:11
  want
• 38:12
  to
• 38:12
  do.
• 38:13
  And
• 38:13
  maybe
• 38:14
  over
• 38:14
  time,
• 38:15
  they
• 38:15
  will
• 38:15
  loosen
• 38:16
  their
• 38:16
  resistance.
• 38:17
  So
• 38:18
  it
• 38:18
  might
• 38:18
  also
• 38:18
  be
• 38:19
  something
• 38:19
  if,
• 38:19
  you
• 38:19
  know,
• 38:20
  your
• 38:20
  parents
• 38:20
  are
• 38:21
  going
• 38:21
  to
• 38:21
  be
• 38:22
  more
• 38:22
  resistant
• 38:23
  to
• 38:23
  it.
• 38:23
  It's
• 38:23
  like
• 38:24
  starting
• 38:24
  that
• 38:24
  process
• 38:25
  and
• 38:25
  conversation
• 38:26
  now
• 38:27
  little
• 38:28
  by
• 38:28
  little,
• 38:28
  so
• 38:29
  that
• 38:29
  they
• 38:29
  get
• 38:29
  used
• 38:29
  to
• 38:30
  the
• 38:30
  idea
• 38:30
  of
• 38:31
  having
• 38:31
  to
• 38:31
  give
• 38:31
  up
• 38:32
  their
• 38:32
  stuff.
• 38:33
  That's
• 38:34
  a
• 38:34
  good
• 38:34
  point.
• 38:34
  Start
• 38:34
  early,
• 38:35
  maybe
• 38:35
  even
• 38:36
  start
• 38:36
  the
• 38:36
  process,
• 38:36
  like
• 38:37
  doing
• 38:37
  something
• 38:38
  a
• 38:38
  little
• 38:38
  bit
• 38:38
  here
• 38:38
  and
• 38:39
  there,
• 38:39
  right?
• 38:39
  Like
• 38:40
  maybe
• 38:40
  throwing
• 38:40
  out
• 38:41
  a
• 38:41
  couple
• 38:41
  things
• 38:42
  a
• 38:42
  week
• 38:42
  or
• 38:42
  something
• 38:43
  like
• 38:43
  that,
• 38:43
  Right?
• 38:44
  Yeah.
• 38:44
  Build
• 38:45
  it
• 38:45
  in
• 38:45
  let's
• 38:45
  go
• 38:46
  through
• 38:46
  my
• 38:46
  childhood
• 38:47
  stuff.
• 38:47
  Let's
• 38:48
  go
• 38:48
  through
• 38:48
  the
• 38:48
  stuff
• 38:49
  that
• 38:49
  you
• 38:49
  saved
• 38:49
  from
• 38:49
  my
• 38:50
  childhood.
• 38:50
  Maybe
• 38:50
  I
• 38:50
  can
• 38:51
  take
• 38:51
  some
• 38:51
  of
• 38:51
  that
• 38:51
  stuff
• 38:52
  for
• 38:52
  my
• 38:52
  kids
• 38:52
  or
• 38:53
  I
• 38:53
  would
• 38:53
  love
• 38:53
  to
• 38:54
  review
• 38:54
  that.
• 38:54
  And
• 38:55
  inevitably
• 38:56
  you'll
• 38:56
  find
• 38:56
  tons
• 38:57
  of
• 38:57
  stuff
• 38:57
  that
• 38:57
  is
• 38:58
  easily
• 38:59
  tossable
• 39:00
  and
• 39:00
  things
• 39:00
  will
• 39:00
  start
• 39:01
  to
• 39:01
  flow
• 39:01
  from
• 39:01
  there.
• 39:02
  And
• 39:02
  then
• 39:02
  maybe
• 39:03
  they'll
• 39:03
  realize,
• 39:04
  I
• 39:04
  think
• 39:04
  there's
• 39:04
  also
• 39:05
  such
• 39:05
  a,
• 39:06
  like,
• 39:06
  oh,
• 39:06
  I
• 39:06
  can't
• 39:06
  get
• 39:06
  rid
• 39:07
  of
• 39:07
  that.
• 39:07
  And
• 39:07
  then
• 39:07
  when
• 39:08
  they
• 39:08
  start
• 39:08
  looking
• 39:08
  through
• 39:09
  all
• 39:09
  the
• 39:09
  clutter,
• 39:09
  they're
• 39:09
  going
• 39:10
  to
• 39:10
  be
• 39:10
  like,
• 39:10
  why
• 39:10
  did
• 39:10
  I
• 39:10
  say
• 39:10
  this
• 39:11
  News
• 39:11
  clipping
• 39:12
  from,
• 39:12
  you
• 39:12
  know,
• 39:13
  wherever.
• 39:13
  Let
• 39:14
  it
• 39:14
  go.
• 39:15
  So
• 39:15
  I
• 39:15
  think
• 39:16
  if
• 39:16
  you
• 39:16
  warm
• 39:16
  them
• 39:17
  up
• 39:17
  with.
• 39:18
  And.
• 39:18
  And
• 39:19
  it
• 39:19
  doesn't
• 39:19
  have
• 39:19
  to
• 39:19
  feel.
• 39:20
  It
• 39:20
  shouldn't
• 39:20
  feel
• 39:20
  like
• 39:21
  a
• 39:21
  punishment.
• 39:22
  What
• 39:23
  do
• 39:23
  you
• 39:23
  think
• 39:23
  that
• 39:24
  is
• 39:24
  with,
• 39:24
  like,
• 39:24
  older
• 39:25
  people?
• 39:25
  Like,
• 39:25
  why
• 39:26
  is
• 39:26
  there
• 39:26
  that
• 39:27
  desire
• 39:27
  to
• 39:28
  hold
• 39:28
  on
• 39:28
  to
• 39:28
  things?
• 39:29
  Is
• 39:29
  it
• 39:29
  not
• 39:30
  the
• 39:30
  nostalgia
• 39:31
  of
• 39:31
  it?
• 39:32
  I
• 39:32
  think
• 39:32
  it's
• 39:32
  generational.
• 39:33
  I
• 39:33
  think
• 39:34
  it's.
• 39:34
  I
• 39:35
  think
• 39:35
  it
• 39:35
  depends
• 39:35
  on
• 39:35
  how
• 39:36
  much
• 39:36
  someone
• 39:36
  had
• 39:37
  growing
• 39:37
  up.
• 39:37
  If
• 39:37
  they're
• 39:38
  like,
• 39:38
  holding
• 39:38
  you,
• 39:38
  do
• 39:39
  you
• 39:39
  see
• 39:39
  people
• 39:39
  that
• 39:40
  didn't
• 39:40
  have
• 39:40
  very
• 39:40
  much
• 39:41
  that
• 39:41
  then
• 39:41
  hold
• 39:42
  on
• 39:43
  for
• 39:43
  dear
• 39:43
  life
• 39:44
  to
• 39:44
  whatever
• 39:44
  they
• 39:45
  do
• 39:45
  have?
• 39:46
  I'm
• 39:46
  sure
• 39:46
  it's
• 39:47
  hard.
• 39:47
  I
• 39:47
  mean,
• 39:47
  we
• 39:47
  know
• 39:48
  as
• 39:48
  we're
• 39:48
  getting
• 39:48
  older
• 39:49
  ourselves
• 39:49
  into
• 39:50
  midlife,
• 39:50
  like,
• 39:51
  you're
• 39:51
  starting
• 39:52
  to
• 39:52
  say
• 39:52
  goodbye
• 39:52
  to
• 39:53
  parts
• 39:53
  of
• 39:53
  yourself.
• 39:53
  And
• 39:54
  I
• 39:54
  think,
• 39:54
  you
• 39:55
  know,
• 39:55
  when
• 39:55
  you're
• 39:55
  in
• 39:55
  your
• 39:56
  70s
• 39:56
  and
• 39:56
  80s
• 39:56
  and
• 39:58
  onward,
• 39:58
  it's
• 39:59
  like
• 39:59
  you're
• 39:59
  really
• 40:00
  saying
• 40:00
  goodbye
• 40:01
  to
• 40:01
  a
• 40:01
  life
• 40:01
  that
• 40:01
  you
• 40:02
  led.
• 40:02
  And
• 40:02
  so
• 40:02
  I
• 40:03
  think
• 40:03
  that
• 40:03
  that's
• 40:03
  really
• 40:04
  hard
• 40:04
  to
• 40:04
  start
• 40:05
  letting
• 40:05
  go
• 40:05
  of
• 40:05
  those
• 40:06
  things
• 40:06
  and
• 40:06
  coming
• 40:06
  to
• 40:07
  terms
• 40:07
  with
• 40:07
  the
• 40:07
  fact
• 40:08
  that
• 40:09
  you're
• 40:09
  in
• 40:09
  a
• 40:10
  totally
• 40:10
  different
• 40:10
  life
• 40:11
  stage
• 40:11
  now
• 40:12
  and
• 40:12
  it
• 40:12
  doesn't
• 40:12
  require
• 40:13
  all
• 40:13
  the
• 40:13
  things
• 40:14
  that
• 40:14
  you
• 40:14
  used
• 40:14
  to
• 40:15
  use.
• 40:16
  So
• 40:16
  I,
• 40:17
  I
• 40:17
  think
• 40:17
  it's
• 40:17
  both.
• 40:18
  But
• 40:18
  I
• 40:18
  do
• 40:18
  think
• 40:19
  that,
• 40:19
  you
• 40:19
  know,
• 40:19
  sometimes
• 40:20
  there's
• 40:20
  a
• 40:20
  tendency
• 40:20
  to,
• 40:21
  like,
• 40:21
  hoard
• 40:22
  or
• 40:23
  be
• 40:23
  cheaper
• 40:24
  with
• 40:24
  money
• 40:24
  or.
• 40:25
  I
• 40:25
  think
• 40:25
  it's,
• 40:25
  it.
• 40:26
  It's
• 40:26
  just
• 40:26
  media
• 40:27
  age
• 40:27
  thing.
• 40:28
  But
• 40:28
  it
• 40:29
  does
• 40:29
  feel
• 40:29
  like
• 40:29
  people
• 40:30
  get
• 40:30
  a
• 40:30
  little
• 40:30
  bit
• 40:31
  clingy
• 40:31
  to
• 40:31
  their
• 40:32
  stuff.
• 40:33
  Yeah,
• 40:33
  that's
• 40:33
  an.
• 40:33
  Actually
• 40:34
  an
• 40:34
  interesting
• 40:34
  point
• 40:35
  too,
• 40:35
  about
• 40:35
  saying
• 40:36
  goodbye
• 40:36
  to
• 40:36
  chapters
• 40:37
  of
• 40:37
  your
• 40:37
  life.
• 40:37
  There's
• 40:38
  probably
• 40:38
  like
• 40:38
  a
• 40:39
  sadness
• 40:39
  there.
• 40:40
  You
• 40:40
  know,
• 40:40
  it's
• 40:40
  like
• 40:40
  you're
• 40:41
  letting
• 40:41
  go
• 40:42
  of,
• 40:43
  like,
• 40:43
  childhood
• 40:44
  and
• 40:44
  then,
• 40:45
  you
• 40:45
  know,
• 40:45
  young
• 40:45
  adulthood
• 40:46
  and.
• 40:47
  And
• 40:47
  on
• 40:47
  and
• 40:47
  on.
• 40:48
  Right.
• 40:49
  And
• 40:49
  so
• 40:50
  many
• 40:50
  things
• 40:50
  have
• 40:50
  memories
• 40:51
  and
• 40:52
  all
• 40:52
  of
• 40:52
  the,
• 40:53
  like,
• 40:53
  you
• 40:53
  know,
• 40:54
  times
• 40:54
  with
• 40:54
  your
• 40:54
  kids
• 40:55
  and
• 40:55
  your
• 40:55
  grandkids
• 40:56
  and.
• 40:56
  And
• 40:57
  all
• 40:57
  of
• 40:57
  that.
• 40:57
  So
• 40:57
  I
• 40:58
  think
• 40:58
  it's
• 40:58
  all
• 40:58
  very
• 40:59
  emotional,
• 40:59
  especially
• 41:00
  around
• 41:00
  keepsakes
• 41:01
  and
• 41:02
  things
• 41:02
  that,
• 41:02
  you
• 41:02
  know,
• 41:03
  you
• 41:03
  don't
• 41:03
  really
• 41:03
  need
• 41:03
  to
• 41:03
  hang
• 41:04
  on
• 41:04
  to
• 41:04
  anymore.
• 41:05
  But
• 41:05
  it's
• 41:05
  hard
• 41:05
  to
• 41:05
  say
• 41:06
  goodbye.
• 41:06
  So
• 41:07
  I
• 41:07
  do
• 41:07
  think
• 41:07
  making
• 41:08
  it
• 41:08
  feel
• 41:08
  like
• 41:09
  it's
• 41:09
  not
• 41:09
  like,
• 41:09
  shame
• 41:10
  on
• 41:10
  you
• 41:10
  for
• 41:10
  keeping
• 41:11
  all
• 41:11
  this.
• 41:11
  This
• 41:11
  stuff.
• 41:12
  It's
• 41:12
  like,
• 41:13
  let's
• 41:13
  go
• 41:13
  through
• 41:13
  it.
• 41:14
  You're
• 41:14
  watching.
• 41:14
  Moving
• 41:14
  to
• 41:14
  a
• 41:14
  new
• 41:15
  space.
• 41:15
  I'd
• 41:15
  love
• 41:16
  to
• 41:16
  help
• 41:16
  you.
• 41:17
  I
• 41:17
  love
• 41:18
  to
• 41:18
  start
• 41:18
  with
• 41:18
  my
• 41:18
  stuff
• 41:19
  that
• 41:19
  I
• 41:19
  like,
• 41:19
  all
• 41:20
  the
• 41:20
  boxes
• 41:20
  of
• 41:21
  my
• 41:21
  childhood
• 41:22
  memorabilia.
• 41:22
  Let's
• 41:23
  go
• 41:23
  through
• 41:23
  it
• 41:23
  together.
• 41:24
  Let's
• 41:24
  make
• 41:25
  this
• 41:25
  fun.
• 41:26
  And
• 41:26
  then
• 41:26
  I
• 41:26
  think
• 41:27
  that
• 41:27
  starts
• 41:27
  to
• 41:27
  loosen
• 41:28
  their
• 41:29
  resistance.
• 41:30
  So
• 41:30
  what
• 41:30
  is
• 41:31
  the
• 41:31
  filter
• 41:32
  about?
• 41:32
  Like,
• 41:32
  things
• 41:33
  to
• 41:33
  keep,
• 41:34
  things
• 41:34
  to
• 41:34
  donate,
• 41:35
  maybe
• 41:35
  things
• 41:35
  to
• 41:35
  toss?
• 41:36
  Like,
• 41:36
  what
• 41:37
  is
• 41:37
  that
• 41:37
  process?
• 41:37
  Is
• 41:38
  it
• 41:38
  like,
• 41:38
  are
• 41:39
  you
• 41:39
  keeping
• 41:39
  things
• 41:39
  that
• 41:40
  make
• 41:40
  you
• 41:40
  happy?
• 41:41
  Or
• 41:41
  is
• 41:41
  it.
• 41:42
  Are
• 41:42
  there
• 41:42
  questions
• 41:43
  that
• 41:43
  we
• 41:43
  should
• 41:43
  be
• 41:43
  asking
• 41:44
  as
• 41:44
  we're
• 41:44
  organizing?
• 41:45
  Like,
• 41:45
  what
• 41:46
  does
• 41:46
  that
• 41:46
  look
• 41:46
  like?
• 41:47
  It
• 41:47
  really
• 41:48
  depends
• 41:48
  on
• 41:49
  what
• 41:49
  the
• 41:49
  stuff
• 41:50
  is.
• 41:50
  I
• 41:50
  mean,
• 41:50
  there's
• 41:51
  some
• 41:51
  things.
• 41:52
  I
• 41:52
  was
• 41:52
  just
• 41:52
  with
• 41:53
  someone
• 41:53
  that
• 41:53
  had,
• 41:53
  like,
• 41:54
  tax
• 41:54
  returns
• 41:55
  for
• 41:55
  the
• 41:55
  last,
• 41:55
  like,
• 41:57
  40
• 41:57
  years,
• 41:57
  and
• 41:57
  she.
• 41:59
  She
• 42:00
  was
• 42:00
  like,
• 42:00
  I
• 42:00
  know
• 42:00
  I
• 42:00
  don't
• 42:00
  need
• 42:01
  these,
• 42:01
  but
• 42:02
  it
• 42:02
  makes
• 42:03
  me
• 42:03
  feel
• 42:03
  good.
• 42:03
  And
• 42:04
  I
• 42:04
  was
• 42:04
  like,
• 42:04
  okay,
• 42:05
  well,
• 42:06
  if
• 42:06
  it
• 42:06
  makes
• 42:07
  you
• 42:07
  feel
• 42:07
  more
• 42:07
  comfortable,
• 42:08
  let's
• 42:09
  keep
• 42:09
  them,
• 42:09
  because
• 42:09
  you've
• 42:10
  got
• 42:10
  the
• 42:10
  space
• 42:10
  where
• 42:10
  we'll
• 42:11
  just
• 42:11
  organize
• 42:11
  them
• 42:11
  here.
• 42:12
  So
• 42:12
  I
• 42:13
  do
• 42:13
  feel
• 42:13
  like
• 42:13
  if
• 42:13
  you've
• 42:14
  got
• 42:14
  the
• 42:14
  space
• 42:14
  and
• 42:15
  it
• 42:15
  really
• 42:15
  makes
• 42:16
  you
• 42:16
  feel
• 42:16
  good
• 42:16
  to
• 42:17
  have
• 42:17
  a
• 42:17
  copy
• 42:17
  of
• 42:17
  your
• 42:18
  tax
• 42:18
  returns,
• 42:19
  great.
• 42:19
  But
• 42:20
  I
• 42:20
  think
• 42:20
  that
• 42:20
  as
• 42:21
  you
• 42:21
  start
• 42:21
  to
• 42:21
  move
• 42:22
  along,
• 42:22
  it's
• 42:22
  just
• 42:23
  being
• 42:23
  more
• 42:23
  honest
• 42:24
  with
• 42:24
  yourself
• 42:24
  around
• 42:24
  what
• 42:25
  you're
• 42:25
  actually
• 42:25
  going
• 42:25
  to
• 42:25
  use
• 42:26
  and
• 42:26
  what
• 42:26
  you're
• 42:26
  not.
• 42:27
  I
• 42:27
  mean,
• 42:27
  there's
• 42:27
  important
• 42:28
  documents,
• 42:28
  of
• 42:28
  course,
• 42:29
  to
• 42:29
  keep.
• 42:29
  There's.
• 42:30
  There's
• 42:30
  photo
• 42:31
  albums
• 42:31
  and
• 42:31
  keepsakes
• 42:32
  and
• 42:32
  all
• 42:32
  of
• 42:32
  those
• 42:33
  things.
• 42:33
  But
• 42:34
  I
• 42:34
  think
• 42:35
  you
• 42:35
  know,
• 42:35
  what
• 42:36
  you're
• 42:36
  using,
• 42:36
  what
• 42:36
  you're
• 42:37
  not
• 42:37
  using,
• 42:37
  and
• 42:38
  then,
• 42:39
  you
• 42:39
  know.
• 42:39
  But
• 42:40
  it
• 42:40
  really
• 42:40
  depends
• 42:40
  on
• 42:41
  what
• 42:41
  it
• 42:41
  is.
• 42:42
  But
• 42:42
  there's
• 42:42
  some
• 42:43
  things
• 42:43
  that
• 42:43
  is
• 42:43
  like
• 42:43
  this
• 42:43
  little
• 42:44
  doll
• 42:44
  that
• 42:44
  I
• 42:44
  loved,
• 42:45
  but
• 42:45
  it's
• 42:46
  ugly
• 42:46
  now,
• 42:46
  and.
• 42:47
  And
• 42:47
  I'm
• 42:47
  like,
• 42:47
  keep
• 42:47
  it
• 42:48
  then.
• 42:48
  Like,
• 42:48
  don't.
• 42:49
  It
• 42:49
  shouldn't
• 42:50
  be
• 42:50
  a
• 42:50
  punitive
• 42:51
  exercise.
• 42:51
  It's
• 42:52
  really
• 42:52
  about
• 42:52
  trying
• 42:53
  to
• 42:53
  make
• 42:53
  you
• 42:54
  feel
• 42:54
  more
• 42:54
  calm
• 42:55
  and
• 42:55
  centered
• 42:55
  in
• 42:56
  your
• 42:56
  space
• 42:56
  and
• 42:56
  not
• 42:57
  overwhelmed
• 42:58
  or
• 42:58
  having
• 42:59
  any
• 42:59
  shame
• 42:59
  around
• 43:00
  the
• 43:01
  piles.
• 43:01
  So
• 43:02
  it's.
• 43:02
  It's
• 43:02
  really
• 43:03
  just
• 43:03
  trying
• 43:03
  to
• 43:03
  free
• 43:03
  up
• 43:04
  decisions
• 43:04
  for
• 43:05
  yourself.
• 43:05
  And
• 43:05
  if
• 43:05
  you
• 43:06
  look
• 43:06
  at
• 43:06
  it
• 43:06
  through
• 43:06
  that
• 43:06
  lens,
• 43:08
  it,
• 43:08
  I
• 43:08
  think,
• 43:08
  feels
• 43:09
  better.
• 43:09
  But
• 43:09
  there's
• 43:10
  no
• 43:10
  real
• 43:10
  set
• 43:12
  beyond
• 43:12
  keeping
• 43:13
  the
• 43:13
  obvious.
• 43:13
  There's
• 43:14
  no
• 43:14
  real
• 43:15
  set,
• 43:16
  like,
• 43:16
  rules
• 43:17
  around
• 43:17
  what
• 43:17
  you
• 43:18
  keep
• 43:18
  and
• 43:18
  what
• 43:18
  you
• 43:18
  don't.
• 43:19
  Okay,
• 43:19
  and
• 43:20
  what
• 43:20
  about
• 43:20
  for
• 43:20
  people
• 43:21
  who
• 43:21
  are
• 43:21
  really
• 43:22
  organized,
• 43:22
  right?
• 43:22
  Maybe
• 43:23
  they
• 43:23
  have,
• 43:23
  you
• 43:24
  know,
• 43:24
  things
• 43:25
  down
• 43:25
  pat,
• 43:25
  like
• 43:26
  in
• 43:26
  their
• 43:26
  space
• 43:26
  and
• 43:27
  their
• 43:27
  houses
• 43:27
  and
• 43:28
  their
• 43:28
  offices.
• 43:29
  What
• 43:29
  kind
• 43:29
  of
• 43:29
  mistakes
• 43:30
  are
• 43:30
  you
• 43:30
  seeing
• 43:30
  them
• 43:30
  make?
• 43:31
  Are
• 43:31
  there
• 43:31
  organizational
• 43:32
  mistakes
• 43:33
  that
• 43:33
  even
• 43:33
  with
• 43:33
  the
• 43:34
  most
• 43:34
  organized
• 43:35
  of
• 43:35
  people
• 43:35
  that
• 43:35
  you
• 43:36
  see,
• 43:36
  as
• 43:37
  you
• 43:37
  know,
• 43:37
  could
• 43:37
  be
• 43:38
  wrong?
• 43:40
  I
• 43:40
  see
• 43:41
  that
• 43:41
  people
• 43:41
  don't
• 43:42
  keep,
• 43:42
  like,
• 43:42
  with
• 43:42
  like,
• 43:43
  enough
• 43:43
  so
• 43:44
  they'll
• 43:44
  keep,
• 43:45
  like,
• 43:45
  some
• 43:45
  things,
• 43:46
  some
• 43:46
  things
• 43:46
  of
• 43:47
  that
• 43:47
  collection
• 43:47
  here
• 43:48
  and
• 43:48
  some
• 43:48
  over
• 43:48
  here
• 43:49
  and
• 43:49
  some
• 43:49
  over
• 43:49
  here.
• 43:50
  And
• 43:50
  so
• 43:51
  really
• 43:51
  keeping
• 43:52
  things
• 43:52
  in
• 43:52
  one
• 43:53
  spot,
• 43:53
  so
• 43:54
  one
• 43:54
  category
• 43:54
  in
• 43:55
  one
• 43:55
  spot
• 43:56
  so
• 43:56
  that
• 43:56
  you're
• 43:56
  not
• 43:56
  going
• 43:57
  different
• 43:57
  directions.
• 43:58
  So
• 43:58
  I
• 43:58
  feel
• 43:58
  like
• 43:58
  a
• 43:59
  lot
• 43:59
  of
• 43:59
  times
• 43:59
  I
• 43:59
  see
• 43:59
  a
• 44:00
  layout
• 44:02
  problem
• 44:03
  where
• 44:03
  it's
• 44:03
  like
• 44:04
  they're
• 44:04
  going
• 44:04
  here
• 44:04
  for
• 44:05
  one
• 44:05
  thing
• 44:05
  and
• 44:05
  here
• 44:06
  for
• 44:06
  another,
• 44:06
  but
• 44:07
  they're
• 44:07
  all
• 44:07
  sort
• 44:07
  of
• 44:07
  related.
• 44:08
  So
• 44:08
  I'm
• 44:08
  like,
• 44:08
  why
• 44:09
  don't
• 44:09
  we
• 44:09
  put
• 44:09
  all
• 44:09
  of
• 44:10
  this
• 44:11
  together
• 44:11
  in
• 44:12
  one
• 44:12
  spot
• 44:12
  so
• 44:12
  you're
• 44:13
  only
• 44:13
  going
• 44:13
  to
• 44:13
  one
• 44:14
  spot.
• 44:15
  I
• 44:15
  see
• 44:15
  kitchen
• 44:16
  layout
• 44:18
  things
• 44:18
  that
• 44:18
  I'm
• 44:18
  like,
• 44:19
  okay,
• 44:19
  why
• 44:20
  are
• 44:20
  your
• 44:20
  dishes
• 44:21
  so
• 44:21
  far
• 44:21
  away
• 44:21
  from
• 44:21
  your
• 44:22
  dishwasher?
• 44:22
  Like,
• 44:23
  your
• 44:23
  cutlery
• 44:23
  drawer
• 44:24
  should
• 44:24
  be
• 44:24
  close
• 44:24
  to
• 44:24
  your
• 44:24
  dishwasher.
• 44:25
  So
• 44:25
  when
• 44:25
  you're
• 44:25
  putting
• 44:26
  things
• 44:26
  in
• 44:26
  away,
• 44:27
  you
• 44:27
  want
• 44:27
  to
• 44:28
  kind
• 44:28
  of
• 44:28
  minimize
• 44:29
  the
• 44:29
  amount
• 44:30
  of
• 44:30
  back
• 44:30
  and
• 44:31
  forth
• 44:31
  that
• 44:31
  you're
• 44:32
  doing
• 44:32
  in
• 44:32
  your
• 44:33
  house
• 44:33
  to
• 44:33
  sort
• 44:33
  of
• 44:33
  conserve
• 44:34
  energy
• 44:34
  and
• 44:34
  make
• 44:35
  a
• 44:35
  really
• 44:35
  smart
• 44:36
  user
• 44:36
  flow
• 44:37
  of
• 44:37
  your
• 44:37
  house.
• 44:38
  So
• 44:38
  that's
• 44:38
  what
• 44:38
  I
• 44:39
  feel
• 44:39
  like.
• 44:39
  People
• 44:39
  are
• 44:39
  organized,
• 44:40
  but
• 44:40
  they're
• 44:40
  not
• 44:40
  really
• 44:41
  thinking
• 44:41
  about
• 44:42
  the
• 44:42
  flow
• 44:43
  and
• 44:43
  where
• 44:43
  things
• 44:44
  should
• 44:44
  be
• 44:44
  grouped.
• 44:45
  They
• 44:46
  can
• 44:46
  be
• 44:46
  really.
• 44:47
  Every
• 44:47
  door
• 44:47
  can
• 44:48
  be
• 44:48
  really
• 44:48
  organized,
• 44:48
  but
• 44:49
  if
• 44:49
  it
• 44:49
  doesn't
• 44:49
  really
• 44:49
  make
• 44:50
  sense
• 44:50
  with
• 44:50
  how
• 44:51
  they
• 44:51
  live,
• 44:51
  then
• 44:51
  that's.
• 44:52
  That's
• 44:52
  where
• 44:52
  I
• 44:53
  feel
• 44:53
  like
• 44:53
  I'll
• 44:54
  come
• 44:54
  in
• 44:54
  and
• 44:54
  make
• 44:54
  adjustments
• 44:55
  around
• 44:56
  flow.
• 44:57
  Okay,
• 44:58
  so
• 44:58
  when
• 44:58
  you're
• 44:58
  saying
• 44:58
  like,
• 44:59
  with,
• 44:59
  like,
• 45:00
  are
• 45:00
  you
• 45:01
  meaning,
• 45:01
  like,
• 45:01
  categories
• 45:02
  of
• 45:02
  items,
• 45:02
  are
• 45:03
  you
• 45:03
  meaning
• 45:03
  color
• 45:03
  coding,
• 45:04
  are
• 45:05
  you
• 45:05
  meaning,
• 45:05
  you
• 45:06
  know,
• 45:06
  like,
• 45:06
  what.
• 45:06
  What
• 45:06
  is.
• 45:07
  What
• 45:07
  does
• 45:07
  like
• 45:07
  would
• 45:07
  like
• 45:08
  mean
• 45:08
  like
• 45:09
  with
• 45:09
  like?
• 45:09
  So
• 45:10
  if
• 45:10
  you're
• 45:10
  going
• 45:10
  to
• 45:10
  have
• 45:10
  some
• 45:11
  kitchen
• 45:11
  tools,
• 45:12
  like,
• 45:12
  in
• 45:12
  one
• 45:12
  drawer,
• 45:13
  and
• 45:13
  then
• 45:13
  you're
• 45:13
  going
• 45:13
  to
• 45:13
  have
• 45:13
  kitchen
• 45:14
  tools
• 45:14
  on
• 45:14
  the
• 45:14
  other
• 45:15
  side.
• 45:15
  Like,
• 45:15
  kitchen
• 45:16
  tools
• 45:16
  need
• 45:16
  one
• 45:17
  big
• 45:17
  drawer
• 45:17
  with
• 45:18
  dividers
• 45:18
  that,
• 45:18
  like,
• 45:19
  all
• 45:19
  of
• 45:19
  your
• 45:19
  kitchen
• 45:20
  tools
• 45:20
  live
• 45:21
  together.
• 45:22
  Like,
• 45:22
  you
• 45:22
  want
• 45:23
  to
• 45:23
  make
• 45:23
  a
• 45:23
  prep
• 45:23
  area.
• 45:24
  You
• 45:24
  want
• 45:24
  to
• 45:24
  make.
• 45:24
  You
• 45:24
  don't
• 45:25
  want
• 45:25
  to
• 45:25
  have
• 45:25
  things
• 45:25
  that
• 45:26
  are,
• 45:26
  oh,
• 45:27
  you
• 45:27
  know,
• 45:27
  you've
• 45:27
  got
• 45:28
  your
• 45:28
  cheese
• 45:28
  grater
• 45:29
  on
• 45:29
  this
• 45:29
  side,
• 45:29
  and
• 45:29
  you've
• 45:30
  got
• 45:30
  your
• 45:30
  knives
• 45:30
  and
• 45:31
  you've
• 45:31
  got
• 45:31
  your
• 45:32
  salad
• 45:32
  spinner,
• 45:33
  and,
• 45:33
  like,
• 45:33
  things
• 45:33
  are
• 45:33
  different
• 45:34
  directions.
• 45:34
  You
• 45:35
  want
• 45:35
  it.
• 45:35
  Like,
• 45:35
  if
• 45:36
  you're
• 45:36
  prepping
• 45:36
  food
• 45:37
  and
• 45:37
  you've
• 45:37
  got
• 45:37
  an
• 45:37
  island,
• 45:38
  you
• 45:38
  want
• 45:38
  it
• 45:38
  right
• 45:39
  there
• 45:39
  so
• 45:39
  that
• 45:39
  you're
• 45:39
  prepping.
• 45:40
  Like,
• 45:41
  just
• 45:41
  making
• 45:42
  zones
• 45:42
  in
• 45:43
  your
• 45:43
  home
• 45:43
  is
• 45:44
  very
• 45:44
  effective.
• 45:45
  So
• 45:45
  it's
• 45:46
  less
• 45:46
  like,
• 45:46
  I
• 45:47
  like
• 45:47
  color
• 45:47
  coding
• 45:48
  for
• 45:48
  my
• 45:48
  clothes.
• 45:49
  But
• 45:49
  I
• 45:49
  would
• 45:49
  say
• 45:50
  that
• 45:50
  making
• 45:50
  zones
• 45:51
  in
• 45:51
  your
• 45:51
  home
• 45:52
  so
• 45:52
  when
• 45:52
  I
• 45:52
  go
• 45:52
  into
• 45:53
  like
• 45:53
  a
• 45:53
  new
• 45:54
  home,
• 45:54
  I
• 45:55
  say,
• 45:55
  okay,
• 45:55
  so
• 45:56
  how
• 45:56
  do
• 45:56
  you
• 45:56
  cook?
• 45:57
  Like,
• 45:57
  is
• 45:57
  this.
• 45:58
  Where
• 45:58
  do
• 45:58
  you
• 45:58
  prep
• 45:58
  to
• 45:59
  use
• 45:59
  the
• 45:59
  island
• 45:59
  or
• 46:00
  do
• 46:00
  you
• 46:00
  use
• 46:00
  the
• 46:00
  other
• 46:00
  side?
• 46:01
  Which
• 46:01
  sink?
• 46:01
  Do
• 46:01
  you.
• 46:02
  It's
• 46:02
  like
• 46:02
  thinking
• 46:03
  through
• 46:03
  where
• 46:03
  your
• 46:04
  zones
• 46:04
  are
• 46:05
  so
• 46:05
  that
• 46:05
  you
• 46:07
  put
• 46:07
  together
• 46:08
  a
• 46:08
  flow
• 46:09
  that
• 46:09
  makes
• 46:09
  more
• 46:10
  sense
• 46:10
  so
• 46:10
  that
• 46:10
  you're
• 46:11
  not
• 46:11
  doing
• 46:11
  back
• 46:12
  and
• 46:12
  forth.
• 46:12
  So
• 46:13
  I
• 46:13
  would
• 46:13
  think,
• 46:14
  like
• 46:14
  with
• 46:14
  like
• 46:16
  kitchen
• 46:17
  stuff
• 46:17
  is
• 46:17
  the.
• 46:17
  The
• 46:18
  easiest
• 46:18
  part.
• 46:19
  Like
• 46:19
  glass
• 46:20
  with
• 46:20
  glasses.
• 46:20
  Like,
• 46:20
  don't
• 46:21
  have
• 46:21
  different
• 46:21
  collections
• 46:22
  all
• 46:22
  over.
• 46:22
  Like,
• 46:22
  all
• 46:22
  your
• 46:23
  glasses
• 46:23
  go
• 46:23
  in
• 46:23
  one
• 46:24
  area,
• 46:24
  all
• 46:24
  your
• 46:24
  plates
• 46:25
  go
• 46:25
  in
• 46:25
  one
• 46:25
  area.
• 46:25
  Like,
• 46:26
  keep
• 46:26
  all
• 46:27
  your
• 46:27
  napkins
• 46:27
  together.
• 46:28
  Don't
• 46:28
  have
• 46:28
  things
• 46:28
  spread
• 46:29
  out
• 46:29
  because
• 46:29
  then
• 46:30
  you
• 46:30
  forget
• 46:30
  about
• 46:31
  where
• 46:31
  things
• 46:31
  are.
• 46:32
  So
• 46:32
  if
• 46:32
  everything's
• 46:32
  in
• 46:33
  one
• 46:33
  area,
• 46:34
  you
• 46:34
  go
• 46:34
  to
• 46:34
  that
• 46:34
  area
• 46:35
  for
• 46:35
  napkins.
• 46:35
  Whether
• 46:36
  you're
• 46:36
  getting
• 46:36
  an
• 46:36
  everyday
• 46:37
  napkin
• 46:37
  or
• 46:38
  your
• 46:38
  beautiful
• 46:39
  linen
• 46:39
  napkins
• 46:40
  that
• 46:40
  you
• 46:40
  use
• 46:41
  when
• 46:41
  people
• 46:41
  are
• 46:41
  coming
• 46:42
  over.
• 46:42
  So
• 46:42
  the
• 46:43
  things
• 46:43
  are
• 46:43
  just
• 46:43
  aren't
• 46:44
  so
• 46:44
  spread.
• 46:45
  And
• 46:45
  zones
• 46:46
  really
• 46:46
  translate
• 46:47
  to
• 46:47
  any
• 46:47
  room
• 46:47
  of
• 46:47
  the
• 46:48
  house.
• 46:48
  I
• 46:48
  mean,
• 46:49
  yeah,
• 46:49
  right.
• 46:49
  Zones
• 46:50
  can
• 46:50
  be
• 46:50
  in
• 46:51
  your
• 46:51
  living
• 46:51
  room.
• 46:52
  Like,
• 46:52
  it
• 46:52
  can
• 46:52
  be
• 46:52
  in
• 46:53
  your
• 46:53
  kitchen,
• 46:53
  it
• 46:53
  can
• 46:53
  be
• 46:54
  your
• 46:54
  closet.
• 46:54
  What
• 46:55
  does
• 46:55
  like
• 46:55
  a
• 46:55
  living
• 46:55
  room?
• 46:56
  Because
• 46:56
  we
• 46:56
  spend
• 46:56
  so
• 46:57
  much
• 46:57
  time
• 46:57
  in
• 46:57
  our
• 46:57
  living
• 46:58
  rooms.
• 46:58
  What
• 46:58
  does
• 46:59
  a
• 46:59
  living
• 46:59
  room,
• 46:59
  like
• 47:00
  organized
• 47:00
  by
• 47:01
  zone
• 47:01
  look
• 47:02
  like?
• 47:02
  I
• 47:03
  mean,
• 47:03
  in
• 47:03
  a
• 47:03
  living
• 47:03
  room,
• 47:04
  I
• 47:04
  think
• 47:04
  you
• 47:04
  should,
• 47:05
  you
• 47:05
  know,
• 47:05
  you're
• 47:05
  going
• 47:05
  to
• 47:05
  have
• 47:05
  obviously
• 47:06
  your
• 47:06
  furniture
• 47:07
  and
• 47:07
  your
• 47:07
  TV
• 47:07
  and
• 47:07
  maybe
• 47:08
  a
• 47:08
  bathroom
• 47:08
  basket
• 47:08
  for
• 47:09
  blankets.
• 47:10
  I
• 47:10
  have
• 47:11
  always,
• 47:11
  like
• 47:11
  our
• 47:12
  games
• 47:12
  in
• 47:12
  there.
• 47:13
  So,
• 47:13
  like
• 47:13
  board
• 47:13
  games
• 47:14
  are
• 47:14
  in
• 47:14
  there.
• 47:16
  I
• 47:16
  try
• 47:16
  to
• 47:17
  keep
• 47:17
  a
• 47:17
  living
• 47:17
  room
• 47:18
  free,
• 47:18
  like
• 47:18
  the
• 47:19
  books,
• 47:19
  of
• 47:19
  course.
• 47:20
  And
• 47:20
  I
• 47:20
  like
• 47:20
  to
• 47:21
  group
• 47:21
  books
• 47:21
  by
• 47:22
  color
• 47:22
  just
• 47:22
  because
• 47:22
  I
• 47:23
  think
• 47:23
  it's
• 47:23
  a
• 47:23
  little
• 47:23
  bit
• 47:23
  more
• 47:23
  calming
• 47:24
  on
• 47:24
  the
• 47:24
  eye
• 47:25
  than
• 47:25
  having
• 47:25
  all
• 47:26
  these
• 47:26
  different
• 47:26
  books
• 47:27
  everywhere.
• 47:27
  So
• 47:29
  I
• 47:29
  try
• 47:30
  to
• 47:30
  keep
• 47:30
  things
• 47:31
  to
• 47:31
  a
• 47:31
  minimum
• 47:32
  in
• 47:32
  a
• 47:32
  living
• 47:32
  room
• 47:32
  so
• 47:33
  that
• 47:33
  you
• 47:33
  don't.
• 47:33
  You
• 47:34
  can
• 47:34
  lay
• 47:34
  on
• 47:34
  the
• 47:34
  couch
• 47:35
  and
• 47:35
  feel
• 47:35
  really
• 47:36
  calm.
• 47:37
  If
• 47:37
  you've
• 47:37
  got
• 47:37
  young
• 47:37
  kids,
• 47:38
  I
• 47:38
  think
• 47:38
  it's
• 47:38
  great
• 47:39
  to
• 47:39
  have
• 47:39
  baskets
• 47:40
  again,
• 47:40
  like
• 47:41
  a
• 47:41
  Serena
• 47:41
  Lily
• 47:42
  with
• 47:42
  a
• 47:42
  top
• 47:42
  on.
• 47:43
  It
• 47:43
  is
• 47:43
  great
• 47:44
  because
• 47:44
  then
• 47:45
  it
• 47:45
  doesn't
• 47:45
  have
• 47:45
  to
• 47:46
  be
• 47:46
  perfect
• 47:46
  when
• 47:46
  it's
• 47:46
  put
• 47:47
  in
• 47:47
  the
• 47:47
  basket,
• 47:47
  but
• 47:48
  then
• 47:48
  it's
• 47:48
  got
• 47:48
  a
• 47:48
  top
• 47:49
  you
• 47:49
  don't
• 47:49
  look
• 47:49
  at.
• 47:49
  It
• 47:49
  looks
• 47:50
  nice
• 47:51
  in
• 47:51
  your
• 47:51
  living
• 47:51
  room.
• 47:52
  So
• 47:52
  I
• 47:53
  think
• 47:53
  pairing
• 47:54
  things
• 47:54
  down,
• 47:54
  if
• 47:55
  you've
• 47:55
  got
• 47:55
  a
• 47:55
  bunch
• 47:55
  of
• 47:56
  built
• 47:56
  ins
• 47:57
  again,
• 47:57
  like
• 47:57
  pairing
• 47:58
  the
• 47:58
  books
• 47:58
  down
• 47:58
  or
• 47:59
  doing
• 47:59
  it
• 47:59
  by
• 47:59
  color
• 48:00
  again
• 48:00
  so
• 48:00
  your
• 48:01
  eye
• 48:01
  can
• 48:01
  relax,
• 48:03
  I
• 48:03
  think
• 48:03
  is
• 48:04
  really
• 48:04
  good.
• 48:04
  And
• 48:04
  then
• 48:04
  whatever
• 48:05
  else
• 48:05
  you
• 48:05
  do
• 48:05
  in
• 48:05
  there,
• 48:06
  I
• 48:06
  think
• 48:06
  for
• 48:06
  me
• 48:06
  it's
• 48:07
  board
• 48:07
  games
• 48:08
  sometimes
• 48:08
  I've
• 48:08
  in
• 48:08
  the
• 48:09
  past
• 48:09
  kept
• 48:09
  extra
• 48:10
  decor
• 48:10
  items.
• 48:11
  So
• 48:11
  like,
• 48:13
  you
• 48:13
  know,
• 48:13
  anything
• 48:13
  from
• 48:14
  frames
• 48:14
  to
• 48:14
  candles
• 48:15
  to
• 48:15
  whatever,
• 48:15
  depending
• 48:16
  on
• 48:16
  whatever
• 48:16
  the
• 48:16
  drawer
• 48:17
  or
• 48:17
  Cabinet
• 48:18
  space
• 48:18
  I
• 48:19
  have,
• 48:20
  but
• 48:21
  I
• 48:21
  think
• 48:22
  the,
• 48:23
  the
• 48:23
  less,
• 48:24
  the
• 48:24
  less,
• 48:24
  the
• 48:24
  better
• 48:25
  type
• 48:25
  in
• 48:26
  there
• 48:26
  just
• 48:26
  because
• 48:26
  you
• 48:26
  want
• 48:27
  to
• 48:27
  relax.
• 48:27
  Yes.
• 48:28
  You
• 48:28
  don't
• 48:28
  want
• 48:29
  to
• 48:29
  be
• 48:29
  like
• 48:29
  overloaded
• 48:30
  the
• 48:30
  second
• 48:30
  you
• 48:31
  sat
• 48:31
  down.
• 48:31
  No,
• 48:32
  you
• 48:32
  want
• 48:32
  to
• 48:32
  be
• 48:32
  relaxed
• 48:33
  in
• 48:33
  there.
• 48:33
  So
• 48:34
  try
• 48:34
  to
• 48:34
  get
• 48:34
  things
• 48:34
  out
• 48:35
  of
• 48:35
  there.
• 48:35
  But
• 48:35
  if
• 48:35
  you
• 48:36
  do
• 48:36
  have
• 48:36
  to
• 48:36
  have
• 48:36
  storage
• 48:37
  in
• 48:37
  there,
• 48:38
  try
• 48:38
  to
• 48:38
  have
• 48:38
  it
• 48:38
  contained
• 48:39
  so
• 48:39
  you're
• 48:40
  not
• 48:40
  looking
• 48:40
  at
• 48:40
  it.
• 48:41
  Are
• 48:41
  you
• 48:41
  a
• 48:41
  fan
• 48:42
  of
• 48:42
  these
• 48:42
  furniture
• 48:43
  pieces
• 48:43
  that
• 48:43
  have
• 48:43
  like
• 48:44
  storage
• 48:44
  built
• 48:44
  in,
• 48:44
  like
• 48:45
  these,
• 48:45
  like
• 48:45
  benches
• 48:46
  for
• 48:46
  example,
• 48:46
  that
• 48:46
  go
• 48:47
  up
• 48:47
  and
• 48:47
  you
• 48:47
  can
• 48:47
  like
• 48:48
  put
• 48:48
  things
• 48:48
  in
• 48:48
  there
• 48:49
  or
• 48:49
  you
• 48:50
  know,
• 48:50
  things
• 48:50
  underneath,
• 48:51
  like
• 48:51
  a
• 48:51
  table
• 48:52
  or,
• 48:52
  you
• 48:53
  know,
• 48:53
  are
• 48:53
  you
• 48:53
  a
• 48:53
  fan
• 48:54
  of
• 48:54
  those
• 48:54
  types
• 48:54
  of
• 48:54
  like
• 48:55
  pieces?
• 48:56
  I'm
• 48:56
  not.
• 48:57
  Only
• 48:57
  because
• 48:57
  I
• 48:58
  think
• 48:58
  people
• 48:58
  forget
• 48:59
  and
• 49:00
  then
• 49:00
  stuff
• 49:00
  lives
• 49:01
  in
• 49:01
  there
• 49:01
  for
• 49:01
  eternity
• 49:02
  and
• 49:02
  no
• 49:02
  one
• 49:02
  remembers
• 49:03
  to
• 49:03
  look
• 49:03
  in
• 49:04
  the
• 49:04
  bench
• 49:04
  the
• 49:05
  only
• 49:05
  time.
• 49:06
  I
• 49:06
  think
• 49:06
  it's
• 49:07
  great
• 49:07
  to
• 49:07
  have
• 49:07
  something
• 49:08
  like
• 49:08
  that.
• 49:08
  I
• 49:08
  mean,
• 49:09
  great.
• 49:09
  If
• 49:09
  you
• 49:09
  don't
• 49:09
  have
• 49:10
  a
• 49:10
  lot
• 49:10
  of
• 49:10
  space
• 49:10
  and
• 49:10
  you
• 49:11
  actually
• 49:11
  do
• 49:11
  use
• 49:12
  it,
• 49:12
  then
• 49:12
  awesome.
• 49:13
  But
• 49:13
  what
• 49:13
  I've
• 49:13
  seen
• 49:13
  is
• 49:13
  that
• 49:14
  people
• 49:14
  put
• 49:15
  stuff
• 49:15
  in
• 49:15
  it
• 49:15
  and
• 49:15
  then
• 49:16
  forget
• 49:16
  and
• 49:16
  are
• 49:17
  like,
• 49:17
  oh
• 49:17
  my
• 49:17
  gosh,
• 49:17
  I
• 49:17
  forgot
• 49:18
  I
• 49:18
  had,
• 49:18
  you
• 49:19
  know,
• 49:19
  XYZ
• 49:19
  on
• 49:20
  this
• 49:20
  bench.
• 49:20
  I
• 49:21
  do
• 49:21
  think
• 49:21
  if
• 49:21
  there's
• 49:21
  stuff
• 49:22
  that
• 49:22
  you
• 49:22
  are
• 49:23
  going
• 49:23
  to
• 49:23
  use
• 49:23
  all
• 49:23
  the
• 49:24
  time
• 49:24
  and
• 49:24
  you're
• 49:24
  not
• 49:24
  going
• 49:24
  to
• 49:25
  forget
• 49:25
  that
• 49:25
  you
• 49:25
  have
• 49:25
  it
• 49:26
  in
• 49:26
  the
• 49:26
  bench
• 49:26
  or
• 49:27
  whatever
• 49:27
  the
• 49:27
  piece
• 49:28
  of
• 49:28
  furniture
• 49:28
  may
• 49:28
  be,
• 49:29
  the
• 49:29
  ottoman,
• 49:30
  then
• 49:30
  great.
• 49:30
  But
• 49:31
  if
• 49:31
  it's
• 49:31
  something
• 49:31
  that
• 49:32
  you're
• 49:32
  going
• 49:32
  to
• 49:32
  store
• 49:32
  there,
• 49:33
  you
• 49:33
  would,
• 49:34
  you'll
• 49:34
  never
• 49:34
  see
• 49:34
  it
• 49:35
  again
• 49:35
  because
• 49:35
  you
• 49:35
  put
• 49:35
  it
• 49:36
  in
• 49:36
  there
• 49:36
  and
• 49:36
  then
• 49:36
  you
• 49:36
  forget
• 49:37
  and
• 49:37
  it's
• 49:37
  in
• 49:37
  an
• 49:37
  ottoman
• 49:38
  and
• 49:38
  you
• 49:38
  put
• 49:38
  a
• 49:38
  book
• 49:38
  and
• 49:38
  a
• 49:39
  tray
• 49:39
  on
• 49:39
  top.
• 49:39
  And
• 49:39
  then
• 49:40
  oh
• 49:40
  my
• 49:40
  gosh,
• 49:41
  10
• 49:41
  years
• 49:41
  later
• 49:41
  you're
• 49:42
  like,
• 49:42
  oh,
• 49:42
  I
• 49:42
  had
• 49:43
  no
• 49:43
  idea.
• 49:43
  I
• 49:43
  had.
• 49:44
  Whatever
• 49:44
  it
• 49:45
  is.
• 49:45
  Totally.
• 49:46
  So
• 49:46
  I
• 49:46
  think
• 49:46
  people
• 49:47
  forget.
• 49:47
  So
• 49:48
  it's
• 49:48
  like.
• 49:48
  And
• 49:49
  when
• 49:49
  people
• 49:49
  don't
• 49:49
  have
• 49:50
  a
• 49:50
  lot
• 49:50
  of
• 49:50
  space,
• 49:51
  I'm
• 49:51
  like,
• 49:51
  okay,
• 49:52
  so
• 49:52
  we're
• 49:52
  going
• 49:52
  to
• 49:52
  have
• 49:52
  to
• 49:53
  move
• 49:53
  a
• 49:53
  category
• 49:54
  out
• 49:54
  of
• 49:54
  here.
• 49:55
  Like
• 49:56
  in
• 49:56
  a
• 49:56
  kitchen,
• 49:56
  if
• 49:56
  you
• 49:57
  don't
• 49:57
  have
• 49:57
  enough
• 49:57
  space,
• 49:58
  move
• 49:58
  something
• 49:59
  out
• 50:00
  in
• 50:00
  a
• 50:00
  category.
• 50:01
  So
• 50:01
  maybe
• 50:01
  it's
• 50:02
  your
• 50:02
  something
• 50:03
  you
• 50:03
  use
• 50:03
  once
• 50:03
  a
• 50:03
  year,
• 50:03
  it's
• 50:04
  your
• 50:04
  turkey
• 50:04
  roaster
• 50:04
  that's
• 50:05
  really
• 50:05
  big.
• 50:06
  But
• 50:06
  you're
• 50:06
  not
• 50:07
  going
• 50:07
  to
• 50:07
  forget
• 50:07
  at
• 50:07
  Thanksgiving
• 50:08
  that
• 50:08
  you
• 50:09
  need
• 50:09
  your
• 50:09
  turkey
• 50:09
  roaster.
• 50:10
  So
• 50:10
  move
• 50:10
  that.
• 50:11
  But
• 50:11
  if
• 50:11
  it's
• 50:12
  like
• 50:12
  a
• 50:12
  one
• 50:12
  off
• 50:13
  piece
• 50:13
  that
• 50:13
  you
• 50:14
  don't
• 50:14
  really
• 50:14
  think
• 50:15
  about
• 50:15
  very
• 50:15
  often
• 50:16
  or
• 50:16
  you
• 50:16
  have
• 50:16
  no
• 50:17
  reason
• 50:17
  to
• 50:17
  remember,
• 50:18
  if
• 50:18
  you
• 50:18
  put
• 50:18
  that
• 50:19
  elsewhere,
• 50:19
  you're
• 50:19
  never
• 50:20
  going
• 50:20
  to
• 50:20
  remember
• 50:20
  it.
• 50:21
  So
• 50:21
  really
• 50:22
  only
• 50:22
  moving
• 50:22
  things
• 50:23
  out
• 50:24
  from
• 50:24
  the
• 50:25
  main
• 50:25
  area,
• 50:26
  like
• 50:26
  from
• 50:27
  your
• 50:27
  closet,
• 50:27
  if
• 50:27
  you
• 50:27
  don't
• 50:28
  have
• 50:28
  room
• 50:28
  for
• 50:28
  your
• 50:28
  Ski
• 50:28
  stuff,
• 50:29
  put
• 50:29
  it
• 50:29
  somewhere
• 50:30
  else.
• 50:30
  And
• 50:31
  your
• 50:31
  ski
• 50:31
  stuff,
• 50:31
  you're
• 50:32
  not
• 50:32
  going
• 50:32
  to
• 50:32
  forget.
• 50:32
  The
• 50:32
  next
• 50:32
  time
• 50:33
  you
• 50:33
  ski,
• 50:33
  you'll
• 50:34
  remember
• 50:34
  that
• 50:34
  it's
• 50:34
  there.
• 50:35
  But
• 50:35
  if
• 50:35
  you
• 50:35
  put
• 50:35
  a
• 50:35
  bunch
• 50:36
  of
• 50:36
  dresses
• 50:37
  that
• 50:37
  you
• 50:38
  can't
• 50:38
  fit,
• 50:40
  you
• 50:40
  won't
• 50:41
  go
• 50:41
  look
• 50:41
  for
• 50:41
  it.
• 50:41
  So
• 50:42
  you
• 50:42
  have
• 50:42
  to
• 50:42
  give
• 50:42
  yourself
• 50:43
  a
• 50:43
  reason
• 50:43
  to
• 50:43
  go
• 50:44
  out
• 50:44
  and
• 50:45
  look
• 50:45
  for
• 50:46
  the
• 50:46
  satellite,
• 50:47
  if
• 50:47
  you
• 50:47
  will,
• 50:47
  of
• 50:48
  whatever
• 50:48
  that
• 50:48
  item
• 50:49
  is.
• 50:49
  And
• 50:50
  what
• 50:50
  about.
• 50:50
  Because
• 50:51
  so
• 50:51
  many
• 50:51
  of
• 50:51
  us
• 50:51
  work
• 50:52
  from
• 50:52
  home
• 50:52
  now,
• 50:52
  so
• 50:53
  we
• 50:53
  have
• 50:53
  home
• 50:53
  offices,
• 50:54
  right?
• 50:54
  And
• 50:55
  I
• 50:55
  noticed
• 50:55
  that
• 50:55
  like
• 50:56
  my
• 50:56
  husband
• 50:56
  and
• 50:56
  I
• 50:57
  actually
• 50:57
  we
• 50:57
  both
• 50:57
  work
• 50:58
  from
• 50:58
  home,
• 50:58
  we
• 50:58
  both
• 50:58
  have
• 50:59
  our
• 50:59
  own
• 50:59
  businesses.
• 51:00
  So
• 51:00
  I
• 51:01
  notice
• 51:01
  that
• 51:01
  like,
• 51:01
  we'll
• 51:02
  start
• 51:02
  maybe
• 51:03
  working
• 51:03
  in
• 51:03
  one
• 51:04
  room
• 51:04
  and
• 51:04
  then
• 51:04
  we'll
• 51:05
  kind
• 51:05
  of
• 51:05
  migrate
• 51:05
  to
• 51:05
  another
• 51:06
  room
• 51:06
  and
• 51:06
  take
• 51:06
  some
• 51:07
  papers
• 51:07
  and,
• 51:08
  you
• 51:08
  know,
• 51:08
  the
• 51:08
  computers
• 51:09
  and
• 51:09
  it's
• 51:09
  like
• 51:10
  it
• 51:10
  just
• 51:11
  like
• 51:11
  things
• 51:11
  get
• 51:12
  messy.
• 51:12
  So
• 51:13
  like,
• 51:13
  how
• 51:14
  do
• 51:14
  we
• 51:14
  control
• 51:15
  like
• 51:16
  the,
• 51:17
  the
• 51:17
  things
• 51:17
  from
• 51:18
  getting
• 51:18
  out
• 51:18
  of
• 51:19
  control
• 51:19
  when
• 51:19
  we're
• 51:20
  working
• 51:20
  from
• 51:20
  home?
• 51:21
  I
• 51:21
  think
• 51:21
  it's,
• 51:22
  you
• 51:22
  know,
• 51:22
  we,
• 51:23
  we
• 51:23
  do
• 51:23
  the
• 51:23
  same.
• 51:24
  My
• 51:24
  husband
• 51:24
  works
• 51:24
  from
• 51:25
  home
• 51:25
  as
• 51:25
  well.
• 51:25
  We
• 51:25
  both
• 51:25
  have
• 51:26
  our
• 51:26
  own
• 51:26
  businesses,
• 51:27
  so
• 51:27
  we
• 51:27
  do
• 51:28
  the
• 51:28
  same.
• 51:28
  Right.
• 51:28
  We
• 51:28
  like
• 51:29
  migrate
• 51:29
  to
• 51:29
  different
• 51:29
  spaces.
• 51:30
  Sometimes
• 51:30
  you
• 51:30
  just
• 51:31
  need
• 51:31
  to
• 51:31
  change
• 51:31
  scenery.
• 51:32
  Totally
• 51:33
  makes
• 51:33
  sense.
• 51:34
  I
• 51:34
  think
• 51:35
  at
• 51:35
  the
• 51:35
  end
• 51:35
  of
• 51:35
  the
• 51:36
  day,
• 51:36
  at
• 51:36
  the
• 51:36
  work
• 51:37
  day,
• 51:37
  you
• 51:37
  have
• 51:38
  to
• 51:38
  almost
• 51:38
  feel
• 51:39
  like
• 51:39
  you're
• 51:39
  in
• 51:39
  actual
• 51:40
  office
• 51:40
  and
• 51:41
  you
• 51:41
  need
• 51:41
  to
• 51:41
  tidy
• 51:41
  up
• 51:42
  your
• 51:42
  desk.
• 51:42
  If
• 51:43
  you've
• 51:43
  moved
• 51:43
  papers
• 51:44
  to
• 51:44
  the
• 51:44
  kitchen
• 51:44
  table,
• 51:45
  if
• 51:45
  you've
• 51:45
  moved
• 51:45
  them
• 51:46
  somewhere
• 51:46
  else,
• 51:47
  like
• 51:47
  pick
• 51:48
  that
• 51:48
  stuff
• 51:48
  up,
• 51:48
  get
• 51:49
  yourself
• 51:49
  reset
• 51:50
  in
• 51:50
  your
• 51:51
  office
• 51:51
  like
• 51:52
  you
• 51:52
  would
• 51:52
  if
• 51:52
  you
• 51:53
  were
• 51:53
  at
• 51:53
  a
• 51:54
  bigger
• 51:54
  company.
• 51:55
  Like,
• 51:55
  I
• 51:55
  used
• 51:55
  to
• 51:55
  reset
• 51:56
  my
• 51:56
  desk
• 51:56
  every
• 51:57
  day
• 51:57
  at
• 51:57
  Pandora
• 51:58
  before
• 51:58
  I
• 51:58
  left
• 51:59
  for
• 51:59
  like,
• 52:00
  kind
• 52:00
  of
• 52:00
  get
• 52:00
  myself
• 52:01
  organized
• 52:02
  for
• 52:02
  the
• 52:02
  next
• 52:02
  day.
• 52:02
  And
• 52:03
  I
• 52:03
  think
• 52:03
  that
• 52:03
  that
• 52:03
  is
• 52:04
  something
• 52:04
  that
• 52:05
  is
• 52:05
  very
• 52:05
  helpful
• 52:06
  in
• 52:06
  the
• 52:06
  home
• 52:06
  in
• 52:06
  general
• 52:07
  is
• 52:07
  sort
• 52:07
  of
• 52:08
  reset
• 52:09
  your
• 52:09
  space,
• 52:10
  your
• 52:11
  office
• 52:11
  before
• 52:12
  you
• 52:12
  leave
• 52:12
  it
• 52:13
  at
• 52:13
  night.
• 52:13
  Even
• 52:13
  if
• 52:14
  you're
• 52:14
  in
• 52:14
  the
• 52:14
  home
• 52:15
  and
• 52:15
  you're
• 52:16
  home
• 52:16
  at
• 52:16
  night,
• 52:16
  do
• 52:17
  a
• 52:17
  15
• 52:17
  minute
• 52:18
  sweep
• 52:19
  of
• 52:20
  clutter,
• 52:21
  putting
• 52:21
  dishes
• 52:22
  in
• 52:22
  the
• 52:22
  dishwasher,
• 52:23
  poofing
• 52:24
  a
• 52:24
  pillow.
• 52:25
  Like
• 52:25
  15
• 52:26
  minutes
• 52:26
  of
• 52:27
  just,
• 52:27
  I'm
• 52:27
  gonna
• 52:28
  set
• 52:28
  a
• 52:28
  timer,
• 52:28
  do
• 52:29
  15
• 52:29
  minutes,
• 52:29
  I'm
• 52:30
  gonna
• 52:30
  put
• 52:30
  a
• 52:30
  podcast
• 52:30
  in.
• 52:31
  And
• 52:32
  15
• 52:32
  minutes
• 52:32
  later,
• 52:33
  so
• 52:33
  much
• 52:34
  is
• 52:34
  cleaned
• 52:34
  up
• 52:34
  and
• 52:34
  I
• 52:35
  feel
• 52:35
  better
• 52:36
  going
• 52:36
  to
• 52:36
  bed.
• 52:37
  I
• 52:37
  wake
• 52:37
  up
• 52:38
  to
• 52:38
  a
• 52:38
  house
• 52:38
  that
• 52:38
  has
• 52:39
  been
• 52:39
  reset
• 52:40
  and
• 52:40
  I'm
• 52:41
  ready
• 52:41
  to
• 52:41
  start
• 52:41
  the
• 52:41
  day.
• 52:43
  So
• 52:43
  I
• 52:43
  do
• 52:43
  think
• 52:44
  that
• 52:44
  reset
• 52:45
  is
• 52:45
  really
• 52:45
  necessary.
• 52:46
  And
• 52:46
  I
• 52:46
  think
• 52:46
  that
• 52:47
  the
• 52:47
  blur
• 52:48
  between
• 52:48
  home
• 52:49
  and
• 52:49
  work
• 52:50
  when
• 52:50
  you're
• 52:50
  working
• 52:50
  from
• 52:51
  home
• 52:51
  is
• 52:51
  really
• 52:51
  hard
• 52:52
  because
• 52:53
  you
• 52:53
  can
• 52:53
  leave
• 52:53
  at
• 52:53
  a
• 52:53
  moment's
• 52:54
  notice
• 52:54
  and
• 52:54
  go
• 52:54
  to
• 52:54
  your
• 52:54
  kitchen
• 52:55
  and
• 52:55
  do
• 52:55
  whatever
• 52:55
  you
• 52:56
  want.
• 52:56
  So
• 52:56
  at
• 52:57
  the
• 52:57
  end
• 52:57
  of
• 52:57
  your
• 52:57
  workday
• 52:58
  to
• 52:58
  really
• 52:58
  say,
• 52:59
  I'M
• 52:59
  going
• 52:59
  to
• 52:59
  consciously
• 53:00
  sort
• 53:00
  of
• 53:00
  tidy
• 53:01
  this
• 53:01
  area
• 53:01
  up
• 53:02
  so
• 53:02
  that
• 53:02
  I'm
• 53:02
  ready
• 53:02
  for
• 53:03
  tomorrow.
• 53:04
  Helps
• 53:05
  sort
• 53:05
  of
• 53:05
  corral
• 53:05
  that.
• 53:06
  Yeah,
• 53:06
  and
• 53:07
  that's
• 53:07
  a
• 53:07
  good
• 53:07
  point.
• 53:07
  You
• 53:07
  wake
• 53:08
  up
• 53:08
  and
• 53:08
  you
• 53:08
  have
• 53:08
  a
• 53:09
  fresh
• 53:09
  space,
• 53:09
  you
• 53:10
  know,
• 53:10
  it
• 53:10
  looks
• 53:10
  like.
• 53:11
  Right.
• 53:11
  And
• 53:12
  it
• 53:12
  puts
• 53:12
  you
• 53:12
  in
• 53:12
  a
• 53:13
  good
• 53:13
  head
• 53:13
  space
• 53:13
  for
• 53:14
  the
• 53:14
  work
• 53:14
  day,
• 53:15
  right?
• 53:16
  It
• 53:16
  does,
• 53:16
  yes.
• 53:18
  So
• 53:18
  how
• 53:19
  often
• 53:19
  should
• 53:20
  we
• 53:20
  be
• 53:20
  doing
• 53:21
  a
• 53:21
  home
• 53:21
  edit?
• 53:22
  Like,
• 53:22
  how
• 53:22
  often
• 53:22
  should
• 53:23
  we
• 53:23
  be,
• 53:23
  let's
• 53:23
  say
• 53:23
  like
• 53:24
  cleaning
• 53:24
  out
• 53:24
  our
• 53:25
  closets
• 53:25
  or,
• 53:26
  you
• 53:26
  know,
• 53:26
  cleaning
• 53:26
  out
• 53:27
  the
• 53:27
  kitchen?
• 53:27
  Like,
• 53:28
  should
• 53:28
  we
• 53:28
  be,
• 53:29
  should
• 53:29
  it
• 53:29
  be
• 53:29
  like
• 53:29
  a
• 53:29
  yearly
• 53:30
  thing
• 53:30
  or
• 53:30
  is
• 53:31
  it
• 53:31
  like
• 53:31
  more
• 53:31
  often?
• 53:32
  Like,
• 53:32
  how
• 53:33
  often
• 53:33
  should
• 53:33
  we
• 53:33
  just
• 53:33
  be
• 53:34
  taking
• 53:34
  an
• 53:34
  audit
• 53:34
  and
• 53:35
  like
• 53:35
  really
• 53:35
  thinning
• 53:35
  things
• 53:36
  out?
• 53:36
  I.
• 53:37
  You're
• 53:37
  not
• 53:37
  going
• 53:37
  to
• 53:38
  love
• 53:38
  this
• 53:38
  out
• 53:38
  this
• 53:39
  answer,
• 53:39
  but
• 53:39
  I
• 53:40
  feel
• 53:40
  like
• 53:41
  you
• 53:41
  should
• 53:41
  be
• 53:41
  doing
• 53:41
  it.
• 53:42
  I
• 53:43
  think
• 53:43
  that.
• 53:43
  I
• 53:44
  knew
• 53:44
  you
• 53:44
  were
• 53:44
  going
• 53:44
  to
• 53:44
  say
• 53:44
  that.
• 53:46
  Every
• 53:46
  day.
• 53:47
  Every
• 53:47
  day.
• 53:48
  I
• 53:49
  think
• 53:49
  that
• 53:49
  if
• 53:49
  you
• 53:50
  are
• 53:50
  using
• 53:51
  something
• 53:52
  in
• 53:52
  your
• 53:52
  kitchen
• 53:52
  and
• 53:53
  you're
• 53:53
  like,
• 53:53
  God,
• 53:53
  I've
• 53:54
  always
• 53:54
  hated
• 53:54
  this
• 53:54
  bowl.
• 53:55
  Put
• 53:56
  it
• 53:56
  in
• 53:56
  the
• 53:56
  bed,
• 53:57
  put
• 53:57
  it
• 53:57
  in
• 53:57
  the
• 53:57
  basket,
• 53:58
  get
• 53:58
  rid
• 53:58
  of
• 53:58
  it.
• 53:59
  Like,
• 54:00
  don't
• 54:00
  wait,
• 54:01
  don't
• 54:01
  say,
• 54:01
  I'm
• 54:02
  going
• 54:02
  to
• 54:02
  get
• 54:02
  to
• 54:02
  this
• 54:03
  edit
• 54:03
  down
• 54:03
  the
• 54:03
  road
• 54:04
  because
• 54:04
  once
• 54:04
  you
• 54:05
  do,
• 54:05
  it's
• 54:05
  going
• 54:05
  to
• 54:05
  be
• 54:06
  so
• 54:06
  overwhelming,
• 54:06
  you're
• 54:07
  going
• 54:07
  to
• 54:07
  hate
• 54:07
  yourself.
• 54:08
  So
• 54:08
  if
• 54:08
  you
• 54:08
  are
• 54:08
  in
• 54:09
  the
• 54:09
  kitchen
• 54:09
  and
• 54:09
  you
• 54:09
  are
• 54:09
  like,
• 54:10
  I
• 54:10
  have
• 54:10
  always
• 54:10
  hated
• 54:11
  this
• 54:11
  mug,
• 54:11
  I
• 54:11
  am
• 54:12
  going
• 54:12
  to
• 54:12
  go
• 54:12
  put
• 54:12
  it
• 54:12
  in
• 54:12
  the
• 54:12
  basket.
• 54:13
  Put
• 54:13
  it
• 54:13
  in
• 54:14
  the
• 54:14
  basket.
• 54:14
  I
• 54:14
  have
• 54:15
  a
• 54:15
  basket
• 54:15
  downstairs,
• 54:15
  I
• 54:16
  have
• 54:16
  a
• 54:16
  basket
• 54:16
  upstairs.
• 54:17
  Put
• 54:17
  it
• 54:18
  in
• 54:18
  there.
• 54:18
  I
• 54:19
  get
• 54:19
  rid
• 54:19
  of,
• 54:19
  even
• 54:20
  post
• 54:20
  fire,
• 54:20
  of
• 54:21
  losing
• 54:21
  every
• 54:21
  single
• 54:22
  thing
• 54:22
  I
• 54:22
  own.
• 54:22
  I
• 54:23
  get
• 54:23
  rid
• 54:23
  of
• 54:24
  one
• 54:24
  bag
• 54:24
  of
• 54:25
  stuff
• 54:25
  a
• 54:25
  week.
• 54:26
  Do
• 54:26
  you
• 54:27
  really?
• 54:28
  What,
• 54:28
  what
• 54:29
  is
• 54:29
  in
• 54:29
  that
• 54:29
  bag?
• 54:29
  Is
• 54:29
  it
• 54:30
  clothes?
• 54:30
  I
• 54:30
  mean,
• 54:31
  literally
• 54:31
  anything,
• 54:32
  like,
• 54:32
  something
• 54:33
  could
• 54:33
  cut
• 54:33
  it's
• 54:33
  clothes.
• 54:34
  It's.
• 54:35
  I
• 54:35
  mean,
• 54:35
  something
• 54:36
  someone
• 54:36
  gave
• 54:36
  me
• 54:37
  that
• 54:37
  I'm
• 54:37
  not
• 54:37
  going
• 54:37
  to
• 54:37
  use.
• 54:38
  It's
• 54:38
  a
• 54:38
  book.
• 54:38
  It's
• 54:39
  like
• 54:39
  it
• 54:40
  can
• 54:40
  really.
• 54:40
  It
• 54:41
  just
• 54:41
  depends.
• 54:42
  So
• 54:42
  I
• 54:43
  think
• 54:43
  that
• 54:45
  if
• 54:45
  you're
• 54:45
  doing
• 54:45
  it
• 54:46
  in
• 54:46
  real
• 54:46
  time,
• 54:47
  you
• 54:47
  start
• 54:47
  to
• 54:49
  relieve
• 54:50
  the
• 54:50
  clutter.
• 54:51
  But
• 54:51
  you
• 54:52
  can
• 54:52
  do
• 54:52
  bigger
• 54:53
  edits,
• 54:53
  of
• 54:53
  course.
• 54:53
  And
• 54:54
  what
• 54:54
  I
• 54:54
  do
• 54:54
  with
• 54:54
  my
• 54:55
  kids,
• 54:55
  because
• 54:55
  they
• 54:56
  watch
• 54:56
  me
• 54:56
  scan
• 54:57
  their
• 54:57
  room
• 54:57
  and
• 54:57
  they're
• 54:57
  like,
• 54:58
  oh
• 54:58
  God.
• 54:58
  They're
• 54:59
  like,
• 54:59
  what's
• 54:59
  she
• 54:59
  gonna
• 54:59
  take?
• 55:02
  I'm
• 55:02
  like,
• 55:02
  don't
• 55:03
  stand
• 55:03
  still.
• 55:04
  So
• 55:05
  I
• 55:05
  go
• 55:05
  through
• 55:06
  and
• 55:07
  I'm
• 55:07
  like,
• 55:07
  okay.
• 55:08
  And
• 55:08
  I'll.
• 55:09
  And
• 55:09
  I
• 55:09
  will
• 55:09
  say
• 55:09
  to
• 55:09
  my
• 55:09
  son
• 55:10
  who's
• 55:10
  like,
• 55:10
  oh
• 55:10
  God.
• 55:11
  I'm
• 55:12
  like,
• 55:12
  okay,
• 55:13
  give
• 55:13
  me
• 55:14
  20
• 55:14
  minutes.
• 55:15
  20
• 55:16
  minutes.
• 55:16
  And
• 55:16
  we're
• 55:16
  gonna
• 55:17
  play
• 55:17
  yes,
• 55:17
  no.
• 55:18
  And
• 55:18
  he's
• 55:19
  like,
• 55:20
  okay,
• 55:21
  so
• 55:22
  yes,
• 55:22
  no,
• 55:22
  yes,
• 55:23
  no,
• 55:23
  yes,
• 55:23
  no,
• 55:24
  yes,
• 55:24
  no,
• 55:24
  yes,
• 55:25
  no.
• 55:25
  And
• 55:25
  we
• 55:25
  just
• 55:25
  go
• 55:26
  through
• 55:26
  and
• 55:26
  Then
• 55:26
  I
• 55:26
  just
• 55:27
  take
• 55:27
  the
• 55:27
  stuff.
• 55:27
  I
• 55:27
  don't
• 55:28
  fold
• 55:28
  it
• 55:28
  up.
• 55:28
  I
• 55:29
  don't
• 55:29
  do
• 55:29
  anything.
• 55:29
  I
• 55:29
  try
• 55:30
  to
• 55:30
  get
• 55:30
  out
• 55:30
  of
• 55:30
  his
• 55:30
  space
• 55:31
  as
• 55:31
  fast
• 55:31
  as
• 55:31
  possible.
• 55:32
  I
• 55:32
  take
• 55:32
  all
• 55:33
  of
• 55:33
  it
• 55:33
  still
• 55:33
  on
• 55:33
  the
• 55:33
  hanger
• 55:34
  that
• 55:34
  he
• 55:34
  told
• 55:34
  me
• 55:34
  I
• 55:34
  can
• 55:35
  get
• 55:35
  rid
• 55:35
  of
• 55:36
  and
• 55:36
  I
• 55:36
  just
• 55:36
  take
• 55:36
  it
• 55:36
  out
• 55:37
  to
• 55:37
  the
• 55:37
  hole
• 55:37
  and
• 55:37
  then
• 55:38
  I
• 55:38
  put
• 55:38
  it
• 55:38
  and
• 55:38
  then
• 55:39
  I
• 55:39
  sort
• 55:39
  it.
• 55:40
  But
• 55:40
  like,
• 55:40
  that
• 55:41
  doesn't
• 55:41
  fatigue
• 55:41
  him.
• 55:42
  He
• 55:42
  doesn't.
• 55:42
  He
• 55:42
  can
• 55:43
  just
• 55:43
  sit
• 55:43
  on
• 55:43
  his
• 55:43
  bed
• 55:44
  while
• 55:44
  I
• 55:44
  do
• 55:44
  yes,
• 55:45
  no,
• 55:45
  yes,
• 55:45
  no,
• 55:45
  yes,
• 55:45
  no.
• 55:46
  And
• 55:46
  then
• 55:46
  I
• 55:46
  take
• 55:47
  it
• 55:47
  out.
• 55:47
  So
• 55:48
  I
• 55:48
  think
• 55:48
  when
• 55:49
  people
• 55:49
  overthink
• 55:50
  like
• 55:50
  that,
• 55:50
  I'm
• 55:50
  going
• 55:50
  to
• 55:50
  do
• 55:50
  this
• 55:51
  annual
• 55:51
  edit
• 55:51
  and
• 55:51
  I'm
• 55:52
  going
• 55:52
  to
• 55:52
  do.
• 55:52
  It
• 55:52
  just.
• 55:54
  It
• 55:54
  just
• 55:54
  becomes
• 55:55
  a
• 55:55
  dreaded
• 55:56
  thing.
• 55:56
  Whereas
• 55:57
  if
• 55:58
  you're
• 55:58
  in
• 55:58
  your
• 55:58
  child's
• 55:59
  room
• 55:59
  and
• 55:59
  you
• 55:59
  find
• 56:00
  like,
• 56:00
  you
• 56:01
  know,
• 56:01
  leggings
• 56:01
  from
• 56:02
  when
• 56:02
  they
• 56:02
  were
• 56:02
  three
• 56:02
  years
• 56:02
  old,
• 56:03
  which
• 56:03
  I
• 56:03
  find
• 56:03
  when
• 56:04
  I'm
• 56:04
  going
• 56:04
  clients
• 56:05
  stuff
• 56:05
  a
• 56:05
  lot.
• 56:05
  I'm
• 56:06
  like,
• 56:06
  this
• 56:06
  child
• 56:07
  is
• 56:07
  12
• 56:08
  and
• 56:08
  these
• 56:08
  leggings
• 56:09
  are
• 56:09
  from
• 56:09
  when
• 56:10
  they
• 56:10
  were
• 56:10
  4.
• 56:11
  You
• 56:12
  don't
• 56:12
  need
• 56:12
  to
• 56:12
  ask
• 56:12
  your
• 56:13
  daughter
• 56:13
  or
• 56:13
  your
• 56:13
  son,
• 56:13
  just
• 56:14
  take
• 56:14
  them
• 56:14
  up.
• 56:15
  They
• 56:15
  don't
• 56:15
  even
• 56:16
  care.
• 56:16
  That's.
• 56:17
  That's
• 56:17
  actually
• 56:18
  a
• 56:18
  great
• 56:18
  point
• 56:18
  because
• 56:19
  you're
• 56:19
  right
• 56:19
  that
• 56:19
  their
• 56:19
  clothes,
• 56:20
  like
• 56:20
  their
• 56:20
  kids,
• 56:21
  their
• 56:21
  baby
• 56:21
  clothes,
• 56:22
  like
• 56:22
  baby
• 56:22
  shoes,
• 56:23
  baby
• 56:23
  clothes,
• 56:24
  you
• 56:24
  know,
• 56:24
  it
• 56:24
  just.
• 56:25
  Oh,
• 56:26
  my
• 56:26
  God.
• 56:26
  Yeah.
• 56:27
  You
• 56:27
  just
• 56:27
  have
• 56:27
  to
• 56:27
  literally
• 56:28
  go
• 56:28
  through
• 56:29
  and
• 56:29
  just
• 56:29
  weed
• 56:30
  it
• 56:30
  out.
• 56:31
  And
• 56:31
  I
• 56:32
  like
• 56:32
  what
• 56:32
  you're
• 56:32
  saying
• 56:33
  about
• 56:33
  getting
• 56:33
  the
• 56:33
  kids
• 56:34
  involved,
• 56:34
  because
• 56:34
  I
• 56:35
  do
• 56:35
  think
• 56:35
  that
• 56:35
  that's
• 56:35
  also
• 56:36
  important,
• 56:36
  right?
• 56:37
  To
• 56:37
  kind
• 56:37
  of
• 56:38
  when.
• 56:38
  I
• 56:38
  mean,
• 56:38
  when
• 56:38
  it's
• 56:39
  something
• 56:39
  like
• 56:39
  that,
• 56:39
  like
• 56:39
  you're
• 56:40
  saying
• 56:40
  like
• 56:40
  the.
• 56:40
  The
• 56:40
  baby
• 56:41
  clothes
• 56:41
  and
• 56:41
  you
• 56:41
  can
• 56:42
  do
• 56:42
  that
• 56:42
  on
• 56:42
  your
• 56:42
  own,
• 56:43
  but
• 56:43
  just
• 56:43
  to
• 56:44
  instill
• 56:44
  in
• 56:44
  them,
• 56:45
  like
• 56:45
  a
• 56:45
  sense
• 56:46
  of
• 56:46
  organization
• 56:46
  and
• 56:47
  to
• 56:47
  take
• 56:47
  pride
• 56:47
  in
• 56:48
  their
• 56:48
  things.
• 56:48
  Like,
• 56:49
  what
• 56:49
  are
• 56:49
  some
• 56:49
  good
• 56:50
  tips
• 56:50
  for
• 56:50
  that
• 56:50
  to
• 56:50
  get
• 56:51
  them
• 56:51
  excited
• 56:52
  about
• 56:52
  being
• 56:53
  organized.
• 56:53
  Like,
• 56:53
  how
• 56:54
  do
• 56:54
  we
• 56:54
  get
• 56:54
  them
• 56:54
  involved?
• 56:55
  Depends
• 56:56
  on
• 56:56
  the
• 56:56
  kid.
• 56:56
  I
• 56:57
  know
• 56:57
  some
• 56:58
  kids
• 56:58
  that
• 56:58
  are
• 56:58
  very
• 56:58
  into
• 56:59
  it.
• 56:59
  My
• 56:59
  daughter
• 56:59
  kind
• 57:00
  of
• 57:00
  gets.
• 57:00
  Goes
• 57:01
  and
• 57:01
  fits
• 57:01
  and
• 57:01
  starts.
• 57:02
  She
• 57:02
  gets
• 57:03
  more
• 57:03
  motivated
• 57:04
  around
• 57:05
  her
• 57:05
  birthday
• 57:05
  and
• 57:06
  Christmas
• 57:06
  when
• 57:06
  I'm
• 57:07
  like,
• 57:07
  well,
• 57:07
  you
• 57:08
  need
• 57:08
  to
• 57:08
  clean
• 57:08
  out
• 57:08
  to
• 57:09
  make
• 57:09
  room
• 57:09
  for
• 57:09
  new
• 57:10
  things.
• 57:11
  Then
• 57:11
  she'll
• 57:11
  get
• 57:12
  motivated.
• 57:13
  So
• 57:13
  that
• 57:13
  is
• 57:13
  a
• 57:14
  helper
• 57:14
  of
• 57:14
  like
• 57:14
  the
• 57:15
  one
• 57:15
  in,
• 57:15
  one
• 57:15
  out
• 57:16
  or
• 57:17
  we're
• 57:17
  coming
• 57:17
  up
• 57:17
  on
• 57:17
  a
• 57:18
  big
• 57:18
  holiday,
• 57:19
  let's
• 57:19
  get
• 57:19
  this
• 57:20
  cleared
• 57:20
  out.
• 57:22
  I
• 57:22
  do
• 57:22
  think
• 57:23
  making
• 57:23
  it
• 57:23
  manageable
• 57:24
  and
• 57:24
  not
• 57:24
  making
• 57:25
  it
• 57:25
  so.
• 57:25
  So
• 57:25
  taxing
• 57:26
  on
• 57:26
  them
• 57:26
  because
• 57:27
  most
• 57:27
  of
• 57:27
  the
• 57:27
  time
• 57:27
  they're
• 57:28
  not
• 57:28
  going
• 57:28
  to
• 57:28
  want
• 57:28
  to
• 57:28
  do
• 57:28
  it.
• 57:29
  So
• 57:29
  I
• 57:29
  think
• 57:29
  if
• 57:30
  you
• 57:30
  can
• 57:30
  say,
• 57:31
  like,
• 57:31
  I'm
• 57:31
  going
• 57:31
  to
• 57:31
  make
• 57:32
  this
• 57:32
  really
• 57:32
  easy
• 57:32
  on
• 57:33
  you,
• 57:33
  you
• 57:33
  can
• 57:33
  sit
• 57:33
  in
• 57:34
  your
• 57:34
  bed,
• 57:34
  we're
• 57:34
  going
• 57:35
  to
• 57:35
  Go
• 57:35
  through
• 57:35
  this
• 57:35
  and
• 57:35
  then
• 57:36
  look
• 57:36
  at
• 57:36
  how
• 57:36
  nice
• 57:36
  this
• 57:37
  is.
• 57:37
  And
• 57:37
  I,
• 57:38
  it's
• 57:39
  crazy.
• 57:39
  They
• 57:39
  do
• 57:40
  actually
• 57:40
  really
• 57:40
  like
• 57:40
  it.
• 57:41
  Even
• 57:41
  my
• 57:41
  son,
• 57:41
  who
• 57:42
  dreads
• 57:42
  it
• 57:42
  when
• 57:42
  I
• 57:43
  do
• 57:43
  the
• 57:43
  scan
• 57:44
  of
• 57:44
  the
• 57:44
  room.
• 57:44
  I
• 57:45
  always
• 57:45
  like
• 57:45
  go
• 57:46
  in
• 57:46
  his
• 57:46
  room
• 57:46
  and
• 57:46
  tidy
• 57:47
  up
• 57:47
  and
• 57:47
  he'll
• 57:47
  be.
• 57:48
  And
• 57:48
  when
• 57:48
  I
• 57:48
  don't
• 57:49
  now
• 57:49
  he's
• 57:50
  like,
• 57:51
  were
• 57:51
  you
• 57:51
  at
• 57:51
  a
• 57:51
  client's
• 57:52
  today?
• 57:52
  Like,
• 57:52
  if
• 57:53
  I
• 57:53
  haven't
• 57:54
  been
• 57:54
  in
• 57:54
  this
• 57:54
  room,
• 57:55
  because
• 57:55
  he
• 57:56
  really
• 57:56
  likes
• 57:56
  that,
• 57:56
  I
• 57:57
  like
• 57:57
  go
• 57:58
  in
• 57:58
  and
• 57:58
  like,
• 57:58
  you
• 57:59
  know,
• 57:59
  make
• 57:59
  it
• 57:59
  nice
• 58:00
  for
• 58:00
  him
• 58:00
  because
• 58:00
  they
• 58:01
  want
• 58:01
  to
• 58:01
  be
• 58:01
  in
• 58:01
  a
• 58:01
  nice
• 58:01
  space.
• 58:02
  So
• 58:02
  he's,
• 58:03
  you
• 58:04
  know,
• 58:05
  it's
• 58:05
  hard
• 58:05
  because
• 58:06
  they
• 58:06
  don't.
• 58:07
  Most
• 58:07
  of
• 58:07
  the
• 58:07
  kids
• 58:07
  don't
• 58:08
  want
• 58:08
  to
• 58:08
  be
• 58:08
  involved.
• 58:08
  Some
• 58:09
  do.
• 58:09
  Some
• 58:10
  really
• 58:10
  do.
• 58:10
  And
• 58:10
  if
• 58:10
  you
• 58:10
  have
• 58:11
  that
• 58:11
  kid,
• 58:11
  God
• 58:12
  bless
• 58:12
  you.
• 58:13
  I
• 58:13
  don't
• 58:13
  have
• 58:14
  kids.
• 58:14
  They
• 58:14
  like
• 58:15
  their
• 58:15
  nice,
• 58:15
  they
• 58:16
  like
• 58:16
  their
• 58:16
  spaces
• 58:17
  nice.
• 58:17
  But
• 58:17
  they
• 58:17
  aren't
• 58:18
  like,
• 58:18
  like,
• 58:18
  let's
• 58:19
  clean
• 58:19
  out.
• 58:19
  Like
• 58:19
  I
• 58:20
  was
• 58:20
  as
• 58:20
  a
• 58:20
  child,
• 58:20
  I
• 58:21
  was
• 58:21
  cleaning
• 58:21
  out
• 58:22
  all
• 58:22
  the
• 58:22
  time,
• 58:23
  self
• 58:23
  motivated.
• 58:24
  I
• 58:25
  couldn't
• 58:25
  be
• 58:25
  sent
• 58:26
  to
• 58:26
  my
• 58:26
  room
• 58:27
  because
• 58:27
  I
• 58:27
  would
• 58:28
  rearrange
• 58:28
  and
• 58:29
  edit.
• 58:30
  So
• 58:30
  like,
• 58:31
  I
• 58:31
  love
• 58:31
  to
• 58:32
  get
• 58:32
  rid
• 58:32
  of
• 58:32
  things.
• 58:33
  Yes.
• 58:33
  It
• 58:33
  like
• 58:34
  gives
• 58:34
  you
• 58:34
  a
• 58:34
  sense
• 58:34
  of
• 58:34
  peace
• 58:35
  probably,
• 58:35
  right?
• 58:36
  It
• 58:37
  gives
• 58:37
  me
• 58:37
  a
• 58:37
  high.
• 58:38
  I'm
• 58:38
  like,
• 58:39
  oh,
• 58:39
  it's
• 58:39
  like
• 58:40
  clear,
• 58:40
  less
• 58:41
  overwhelm.
• 58:42
  Who.
• 58:43
  It's
• 58:43
  a
• 58:43
  real,
• 58:44
  it's
• 58:44
  a
• 58:44
  real
• 58:45
  drug
• 58:45
  for
• 58:45
  me.
• 58:46
  So
• 58:46
  I'm
• 58:46
  like,
• 58:47
  what
• 58:47
  else
• 58:47
  can
• 58:47
  you
• 58:48
  get
• 58:48
  rid
• 58:48
  of?
• 58:49
  Most
• 58:49
  people
• 58:50
  don't
• 58:50
  feel
• 58:50
  that
• 58:50
  way.
• 58:51
  So
• 58:52
  you
• 58:53
  kind
• 58:53
  of
• 58:53
  have
• 58:53
  to
• 58:53
  coax
• 58:54
  kids
• 58:54
  into
• 58:54
  that
• 58:54
  if
• 58:55
  they
• 58:55
  don't
• 58:55
  feel
• 58:55
  that
• 58:55
  way.
• 58:56
  And
• 58:56
  what
• 58:57
  if
• 58:57
  our
• 58:57
  partners
• 58:57
  are
• 58:58
  different
• 58:58
  in
• 58:58
  their
• 58:59
  organizational
• 59:00
  skills,
• 59:00
  right?
• 59:00
  Like,
• 59:01
  what
• 59:01
  if
• 59:01
  it's
• 59:01
  like
• 59:01
  a
• 59:01
  husband
• 59:02
  and
• 59:02
  wife
• 59:02
  and
• 59:02
  like
• 59:03
  one
• 59:03
  super
• 59:04
  organized
• 59:04
  and
• 59:04
  the
• 59:04
  other
• 59:05
  one's
• 59:05
  messy.
• 59:05
  Like,
• 59:06
  I'll
• 59:06
  give
• 59:06
  you
• 59:06
  an
• 59:06
  example.
• 59:07
  In
• 59:07
  our
• 59:08
  house,
• 59:09
  my
• 59:09
  husband
• 59:09
  is
• 59:10
  really
• 59:10
  good
• 59:10
  about
• 59:11
  thinning
• 59:11
  out
• 59:12
  his
• 59:12
  closet
• 59:12
  all
• 59:12
  the
• 59:12
  time.
• 59:12
  Like
• 59:13
  he'll
• 59:13
  take
• 59:13
  two
• 59:13
  or
• 59:13
  three
• 59:13
  shirts
• 59:14
  out,
• 59:14
  take
• 59:15
  him
• 59:15
  to
• 59:15
  Goodwill
• 59:16
  or
• 59:16
  you
• 59:16
  know,
• 59:16
  put
• 59:17
  him
• 59:17
  in
• 59:17
  like
• 59:17
  a
• 59:17
  thing
• 59:18
  for
• 59:18
  like
• 59:18
  the
• 59:18
  real
• 59:19
  real
• 59:19
  or
• 59:19
  what,
• 59:19
  Whatever
• 59:20
  it
• 59:20
  is,
• 59:20
  he
• 59:21
  will
• 59:21
  do
• 59:21
  that.
• 59:21
  But
• 59:21
  I'm
• 59:22
  the
• 59:22
  opposite.
• 59:22
  I
• 59:22
  like
• 59:23
  to
• 59:23
  procrastinate
• 59:23
  and
• 59:24
  wait
• 59:24
  and
• 59:24
  like
• 59:25
  wait
• 59:25
  till
• 59:25
  that
• 59:25
  one
• 59:25
  big
• 59:26
  edit
• 59:26
  where
• 59:26
  I
• 59:26
  get
• 59:27
  so
• 59:27
  overwhelmed.
• 59:28
  It's
• 59:28
  like,
• 59:29
  so
• 59:29
  what
• 59:29
  if
• 59:30
  what
• 59:30
  exactly.
• 59:31
  And
• 59:31
  I'm
• 59:31
  like,
• 59:31
  oh
• 59:32
  my
• 59:32
  God,
• 59:32
  I
• 59:32
  can't.
• 59:34
  So
• 59:34
  what
• 59:34
  do
• 59:34
  we
• 59:35
  do
• 59:35
  when
• 59:35
  it's
• 59:35
  like
• 59:35
  our
• 59:36
  partners
• 59:36
  and
• 59:36
  we're
• 59:37
  like
• 59:37
  two
• 59:37
  totally
• 59:38
  different,
• 59:38
  like
• 59:38
  organizations,
• 59:39
  organizational
• 59:39
  types.
• 59:41
  I
• 59:41
  mean,
• 59:41
  I
• 59:41
  think
• 59:42
  most
• 59:42
  people
• 59:43
  in
• 59:43
  a
• 59:43
  marriage
• 59:43
  are
• 59:44
  two
• 59:44
  different
• 59:44
  organizational
• 59:45
  types.
• 59:45
  My
• 59:45
  husband
• 59:46
  and
• 59:46
  I
• 59:46
  are
• 59:46
  completely
• 59:47
  different
• 59:48
  and
• 59:49
  I
• 59:49
  like
• 59:49
  it
• 59:50
  obviously
• 59:51
  very
• 59:51
  organized.
• 59:53
  So
• 59:53
  I.
• 59:53
  Because
• 59:54
  it's
• 59:54
  me
• 59:54
  who
• 59:55
  wants
• 59:55
  it
• 59:55
  to
• 59:55
  be
• 59:55
  like,
• 59:56
  that
• 59:56
  I
• 59:56
  really
• 59:57
  am
• 59:58
  the
• 59:58
  one
• 59:58
  that
• 59:58
  takes
• 59:59
  that
• 59:59
  on
• 59:59
  to
• 59:59
  keep
• 1:00:00
  things
• 1:00:00
  really
• 1:00:00
  organized,
• 1:00:01
  because
• 1:00:01
  it
• 1:00:01
  matters
• 1:00:02
  to
• 1:00:02
  me.
• 1:00:02
  It
• 1:00:02
  doesn't
• 1:00:03
  matter
• 1:00:03
  to
• 1:00:03
  him.
• 1:00:05
  I
• 1:00:05
  try
• 1:00:05
  to
• 1:00:06
  separate
• 1:00:06
  our
• 1:00:06
  spaces
• 1:00:07
  as
• 1:00:07
  much
• 1:00:07
  as
• 1:00:07
  I
• 1:00:07
  can
• 1:00:08
  so
• 1:00:08
  that
• 1:00:08
  we
• 1:00:08
  each
• 1:00:09
  have,
• 1:00:10
  like,
• 1:00:11
  we
• 1:00:11
  each
• 1:00:11
  have
• 1:00:12
  a
• 1:00:12
  closet
• 1:00:12
  that's
• 1:00:13
  our
• 1:00:13
  own,
• 1:00:13
  so
• 1:00:13
  we're
• 1:00:14
  not
• 1:00:14
  in
• 1:00:14
  each
• 1:00:14
  other's
• 1:00:14
  spaces.
• 1:00:15
  That
• 1:00:15
  way
• 1:00:15
  we
• 1:00:15
  don't
• 1:00:16
  share
• 1:00:16
  an
• 1:00:16
  office,
• 1:00:16
  so
• 1:00:17
  we
• 1:00:17
  don't
• 1:00:17
  cross
• 1:00:17
  that
• 1:00:18
  way.
• 1:00:19
  I
• 1:00:19
  just
• 1:00:19
  went
• 1:00:20
  into
• 1:00:20
  his
• 1:00:20
  office
• 1:00:20
  and
• 1:00:20
  was
• 1:00:21
  like,
• 1:00:23
  how
• 1:00:24
  are
• 1:00:24
  you
• 1:00:24
  living
• 1:00:24
  like
• 1:00:25
  this?
• 1:00:25
  I
• 1:00:26
  will
• 1:00:26
  take
• 1:00:26
  care
• 1:00:26
  of
• 1:00:26
  it.
• 1:00:26
  This
• 1:00:26
  weekend
• 1:00:29
  I
• 1:00:29
  was.
• 1:00:29
  I
• 1:00:30
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• 1:00:30
  a
• 1:00:30
  scan
• 1:00:30
  of,
• 1:00:30
  like,
• 1:00:31
  oh,
• 1:00:31
  boy.
• 1:00:32
  So
• 1:00:33
  it
• 1:00:34
  happens.
• 1:00:34
  But
• 1:00:34
  it's
• 1:00:35
  like,
• 1:00:35
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• 1:00:35
  of
• 1:00:35
  it,
• 1:00:36
  he's
• 1:00:36
  like,
• 1:00:36
  I
• 1:00:36
  need
• 1:00:36
  to
• 1:00:37
  be
• 1:00:37
  able
• 1:00:37
  to
• 1:00:37
  be
• 1:00:37
  me,
• 1:00:38
  too.
• 1:00:38
  And,
• 1:00:38
  like,
• 1:00:39
  not
• 1:00:39
  feel
• 1:00:39
  like
• 1:00:39
  everything
• 1:00:40
  has
• 1:00:40
  to
• 1:00:40
  be
• 1:00:40
  perfect.
• 1:00:41
  So
• 1:00:42
  I
• 1:00:43
  have
• 1:00:43
  to
• 1:00:43
  also
• 1:00:44
  honor
• 1:00:44
  that.
• 1:00:44
  He
• 1:00:45
  doesn't
• 1:00:45
  want
• 1:00:45
  it
• 1:00:45
  to
• 1:00:45
  be
• 1:00:47
  psychotic.
• 1:00:47
  Like,
• 1:00:48
  I
• 1:00:48
  want
• 1:00:48
  it
• 1:00:48
  to
• 1:00:48
  be.
• 1:00:48
  So
• 1:00:49
  I
• 1:00:49
  own
• 1:00:50
  this.
• 1:00:50
  The
• 1:00:50
  main
• 1:00:51
  spaces
• 1:00:51
  of
• 1:00:51
  keeping
• 1:00:52
  them
• 1:00:52
  tidy.
• 1:00:52
  And
• 1:00:53
  I
• 1:00:53
  take
• 1:00:53
  that
• 1:00:54
  on
• 1:00:54
  myself
• 1:00:54
  because
• 1:00:55
  I
• 1:00:55
  know
• 1:00:55
  I
• 1:00:55
  want
• 1:00:55
  it
• 1:00:55
  cleaner
• 1:00:56
  than
• 1:00:56
  the
• 1:00:56
  average
• 1:00:57
  person.
• 1:00:58
  But
• 1:00:59
  he's
• 1:00:59
  adapted
• 1:01:00
  to
• 1:01:00
  me,
• 1:01:00
  and,
• 1:01:00
  like,
• 1:01:00
  has
• 1:01:01
  figured
• 1:01:01
  out
• 1:01:02
  ways
• 1:01:02
  in
• 1:01:02
  which
• 1:01:03
  he
• 1:01:03
  can
• 1:01:03
  come
• 1:01:04
  more
• 1:01:04
  to
• 1:01:04
  the
• 1:01:04
  middle.
• 1:01:05
  And
• 1:01:05
  then
• 1:01:05
  I've
• 1:01:05
  tried
• 1:01:06
  to
• 1:01:06
  become
• 1:01:06
  more
• 1:01:07
  accepting
• 1:01:07
  of
• 1:01:08
  clutter
• 1:01:08
  in
• 1:01:08
  his
• 1:01:09
  personal
• 1:01:09
  areas.
• 1:01:11
  So
• 1:01:12
  it.
• 1:01:12
  Because
• 1:01:12
  it's
• 1:01:12
  really
• 1:01:13
  hard.
• 1:01:13
  And
• 1:01:13
  most
• 1:01:13
  of
• 1:01:14
  the
• 1:01:14
  time,
• 1:01:15
  two
• 1:01:15
  people
• 1:01:15
  in
• 1:01:16
  a
• 1:01:16
  marriage
• 1:01:16
  or
• 1:01:17
  a
• 1:01:17
  partnership
• 1:01:17
  are
• 1:01:18
  not
• 1:01:18
  the
• 1:01:18
  same.
• 1:01:18
  They're
• 1:01:19
  usually
• 1:01:19
  totally
• 1:01:20
  different.
• 1:01:21
  And
• 1:01:21
  so
• 1:01:22
  when
• 1:01:22
  we
• 1:01:22
  are
• 1:01:23
  rebuilding
• 1:01:23
  our
• 1:01:23
  home,
• 1:01:24
  our
• 1:01:24
  contractor
• 1:01:25
  kept
• 1:01:25
  being
• 1:01:25
  like,
• 1:01:25
  no,
• 1:01:25
  we
• 1:01:26
  need
• 1:01:26
  one
• 1:01:26
  big
• 1:01:26
  closet.
• 1:01:27
  I'm
• 1:01:27
  like,
• 1:01:28
  I.
• 1:01:28
  We
• 1:01:29
  have
• 1:01:29
  to
• 1:01:30
  have
• 1:01:30
  our
• 1:01:30
  own
• 1:01:31
  closet.
• 1:01:31
  Like,
• 1:01:32
  and
• 1:01:32
  even
• 1:01:32
  when
• 1:01:33
  we
• 1:01:33
  had
• 1:01:33
  in
• 1:01:34
  the
• 1:01:34
  old
• 1:01:34
  house,
• 1:01:34
  like,
• 1:01:35
  he
• 1:01:35
  moved
• 1:01:36
  his
• 1:01:36
  closet
• 1:01:36
  into
• 1:01:36
  his
• 1:01:37
  office
• 1:01:37
  because
• 1:01:37
  I
• 1:01:38
  was
• 1:01:38
  like,
• 1:01:38
  we
• 1:01:38
  need
• 1:01:38
  our
• 1:01:39
  own
• 1:01:39
  spaces.
• 1:01:39
  And
• 1:01:40
  you
• 1:01:40
  can
• 1:01:40
  be
• 1:01:40
  you
• 1:01:41
  and
• 1:01:41
  I
• 1:01:41
  can
• 1:01:41
  be
• 1:01:42
  me.
• 1:01:42
  So
• 1:01:43
  I
• 1:01:43
  think
• 1:01:43
  it's
• 1:01:43
  not
• 1:01:43
  about
• 1:01:44
  trying
• 1:01:44
  to
• 1:01:44
  change
• 1:01:44
  the
• 1:01:45
  other
• 1:01:45
  one,
• 1:01:45
  but
• 1:01:45
  if
• 1:01:46
  you
• 1:01:46
  have
• 1:01:46
  the
• 1:01:47
  space
• 1:01:47
  or
• 1:01:48
  a
• 1:01:48
  way
• 1:01:48
  to
• 1:01:48
  separate
• 1:01:49
  things
• 1:01:49
  a
• 1:01:49
  little
• 1:01:50
  bit,
• 1:01:50
  that
• 1:01:51
  helps.
• 1:01:52
  Yeah,
• 1:01:52
  no,
• 1:01:52
  that's
• 1:01:53
  a
• 1:01:53
  good
• 1:01:53
  point.
• 1:01:53
  You're
• 1:01:53
  like,
• 1:01:54
  let
• 1:01:54
  them
• 1:01:54
  be,
• 1:01:54
  but
• 1:01:54
  let
• 1:01:55
  them
• 1:01:55
  be
• 1:01:55
  in
• 1:01:55
  their
• 1:01:55
  own
• 1:01:56
  space.
• 1:01:57
  Yes,
• 1:01:57
  yes.
• 1:01:58
  Just
• 1:01:58
  don't
• 1:01:58
  be
• 1:01:59
  like
• 1:01:59
  that
• 1:01:59
  in
• 1:02:00
  my
• 1:02:00
  closet,
• 1:02:00
  because
• 1:02:00
  I
• 1:02:01
  will.
• 1:02:03
  So
• 1:02:04
  what
• 1:02:04
  for
• 1:02:04
  the
• 1:02:05
  women
• 1:02:05
  and
• 1:02:06
  men
• 1:02:06
  who
• 1:02:06
  are
• 1:02:06
  listening
• 1:02:07
  out
• 1:02:07
  there
• 1:02:07
  today
• 1:02:08
  or
• 1:02:08
  watching
• 1:02:08
  us,
• 1:02:09
  what
• 1:02:09
  are
• 1:02:10
  three
• 1:02:10
  organizational
• 1:02:11
  tips
• 1:02:12
  that
• 1:02:12
  you
• 1:02:12
  can
• 1:02:12
  give
• 1:02:12
  them
• 1:02:12
  that
• 1:02:12
  they
• 1:02:13
  could
• 1:02:13
  implement,
• 1:02:13
  like,
• 1:02:14
  today?
• 1:02:14
  Like,
• 1:02:15
  they
• 1:02:15
  can
• 1:02:15
  do
• 1:02:16
  these
• 1:02:16
  three
• 1:02:16
  things,
• 1:02:16
  and
• 1:02:17
  it
• 1:02:17
  will
• 1:02:17
  give
• 1:02:17
  them,
• 1:02:17
  like,
• 1:02:18
  maybe
• 1:02:18
  a
• 1:02:18
  sense
• 1:02:18
  of
• 1:02:18
  peace,
• 1:02:19
  sense
• 1:02:19
  of
• 1:02:20
  organization.
• 1:02:20
  Like,
• 1:02:21
  what
• 1:02:21
  can
• 1:02:21
  they
• 1:02:21
  do
• 1:02:22
  today?
• 1:02:22
  There's
• 1:02:23
  a
• 1:02:23
  couple
• 1:02:23
  things.
• 1:02:23
  So
• 1:02:24
  the
• 1:02:24
  donation
• 1:02:24
  bin.
• 1:02:25
  Start
• 1:02:26
  that
• 1:02:26
  today.
• 1:02:27
  That's
• 1:02:27
  very
• 1:02:28
  easy
• 1:02:28
  to
• 1:02:29
  put
• 1:02:29
  a
• 1:02:29
  basket
• 1:02:30
  out
• 1:02:30
  and
• 1:02:30
  start
• 1:02:31
  doing
• 1:02:31
  that.
• 1:02:31
  That's
• 1:02:32
  my
• 1:02:32
  number
• 1:02:32
  one
• 1:02:32
  thing.
• 1:02:33
  The
• 1:02:33
  reset,
• 1:02:34
  like
• 1:02:34
  I
• 1:02:34
  said,
• 1:02:35
  is
• 1:02:35
  another
• 1:02:35
  one.
• 1:02:36
  The
• 1:02:36
  third
• 1:02:37
  one
• 1:02:37
  the
• 1:02:38
  reset
• 1:02:38
  of
• 1:02:38
  like
• 1:02:38
  the
• 1:02:39
  15
• 1:02:39
  minute
• 1:02:39
  reset
• 1:02:40
  before
• 1:02:40
  you
• 1:02:40
  go
• 1:02:40
  to
• 1:02:40
  bed.
• 1:02:41
  And
• 1:02:41
  I
• 1:02:41
  also
• 1:02:41
  do
• 1:02:42
  a
• 1:02:42
  15
• 1:02:42
  minute
• 1:02:42
  reset
• 1:02:43
  when
• 1:02:43
  I
• 1:02:43
  wake
• 1:02:43
  up.
• 1:02:44
  So
• 1:02:44
  when
• 1:02:44
  I
• 1:02:44
  wake
• 1:02:44
  up,
• 1:02:44
  I
• 1:02:44
  turn
• 1:02:45
  some
• 1:02:45
  lights
• 1:02:45
  on.
• 1:02:46
  Like,
• 1:02:46
  you
• 1:02:47
  know,
• 1:02:47
  I
• 1:02:47
  turn
• 1:02:47
  a
• 1:02:47
  few
• 1:02:47
  lamps
• 1:02:48
  on,
• 1:02:48
  I
• 1:02:48
  might
• 1:02:49
  light
• 1:02:49
  a
• 1:02:49
  candle.
• 1:02:49
  I
• 1:02:49
  kind
• 1:02:50
  of
• 1:02:50
  like
• 1:02:50
  get
• 1:02:50
  the
• 1:02:50
  space
• 1:02:51
  set
• 1:02:51
  for
• 1:02:51
  the
• 1:02:51
  day
• 1:02:52
  and
• 1:02:52
  it
• 1:02:52
  gives
• 1:02:52
  me
• 1:02:53
  a
• 1:02:53
  sense
• 1:02:53
  of
• 1:02:53
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• 1:02:54
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• 1:02:54
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• 1:02:55
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• 1:02:55
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• 1:02:56
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• 1:02:56
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• 1:02:56
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• 1:02:56
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• 1:02:57
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• 1:02:57
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• 1:02:57
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• 1:02:57
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• 1:02:58
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• 1:02:58
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• 1:02:58
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• 1:02:59
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• 1:02:59
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• 1:02:59
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• 1:02:59
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• 1:03:00
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• 1:03:00
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• 1:03:01
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• 1:03:01
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• 1:03:01
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:03
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• 1:03:03
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• 1:03:03
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• 1:03:03
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• 1:03:03
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• 1:03:04
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• 1:03:04
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• 1:03:04
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• 1:03:04
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• 1:03:05
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• 1:03:05
  So
• 1:03:06
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• 1:03:06
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• 1:03:06
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• 1:03:06
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• 1:03:07
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• 1:03:07
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• 1:03:07
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• 1:03:07
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• 1:03:08
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• 1:03:08
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• 1:03:08
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• 1:03:09
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• 1:03:09
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• 1:03:09
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• 1:03:09
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• 1:03:10
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• 1:03:11
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• 1:03:11
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• 1:03:11
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• 1:03:11
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• 1:03:12
  It's
• 1:03:13
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• 1:03:13
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:15
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• 1:03:15
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• 1:03:15
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• 1:03:16
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• 1:03:16
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• 1:03:16
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• 1:03:16
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• 1:03:17
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• 1:03:17
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• 1:03:17
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• 1:03:17
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• 1:03:18
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• 1:03:18
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• 1:03:19
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• 1:03:19
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• 1:03:19
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• 1:03:19
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• 1:03:20
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• 1:03:20
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• 1:03:21
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• 1:03:21
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• 1:03:21
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• 1:03:21
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• 1:03:22
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• 1:03:22
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• 1:03:23
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• 1:03:23
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• 1:03:23
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• 1:03:24
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• 1:03:24
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• 1:03:24
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• 1:03:25
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• 1:03:25
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• 1:03:25
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• 1:03:27
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• 1:03:28
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• 1:03:29
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• 1:03:29
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• 1:03:29
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• 1:03:29
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• 1:03:30
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• 1:03:30
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• 1:03:30
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• 1:03:31
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• 1:03:31
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• 1:03:32
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• 1:03:32
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• 1:03:32
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• 1:03:32
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• 1:03:32
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• 1:03:33
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• 1:03:33
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• 1:03:33
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• 1:03:34
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• 1:03:35
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• 1:03:35
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• 1:03:35
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• 1:03:35
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• 1:03:36
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• 1:03:36
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• 1:03:36
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• 1:03:36
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• 1:03:37
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• 1:03:37
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• 1:03:37
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• 1:03:38
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• 1:03:38
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• 1:03:38
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• 1:03:38
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• 1:03:39
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• 1:03:39
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• 1:03:39
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• 1:03:40
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• 1:03:40
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• 1:03:41
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• 1:03:41
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• 1:03:41
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• 1:03:42
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• 1:03:42
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• 1:03:42
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• 1:03:42
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• 1:03:44
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• 1:03:44
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• 1:03:44
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• 1:03:45
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• 1:03:45
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• 1:03:46
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• 1:03:47
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• 1:03:48
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• 1:03:48
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• 1:03:49
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• 1:03:49
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• 1:03:49
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• 1:03:50
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• 1:03:50
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• 1:03:50
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• 1:03:51
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• 1:03:51
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• 1:03:51
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• 1:03:54
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• 1:03:54
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• 1:03:55
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• 1:03:55
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• 1:03:56
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• 1:03:56
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• 1:03:56
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• 1:03:57
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• 1:03:57
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• 1:03:58
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• 1:03:58
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• 1:03:59
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• 1:04:00
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• 1:04:02
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• 1:04:02
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• 1:04:03
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• 1:04:05
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• 1:04:06
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:09
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• 1:04:10
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• 1:04:10
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• 1:04:12
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• 1:04:12
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• 1:04:13
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• 1:04:13
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• 1:04:13
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• 1:04:13
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• 1:04:15
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• 1:04:15
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• 1:04:15
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• 1:04:15
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• 1:04:16
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• 1:04:17
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• 1:04:18
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• 1:04:18
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• 1:04:19
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• 1:04:19
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• 1:04:19
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• 1:04:22
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• 1:04:23
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• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:25
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• 1:04:25
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• 1:04:26
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• 1:04:26
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• 1:04:28
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• 1:04:28
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• 1:04:28
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• 1:04:28
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• 1:04:29
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• 1:04:29
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• 1:04:30
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• 1:04:32
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• 1:04:32
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• 1:04:33
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• 1:04:34
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• 1:04:35
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• 1:04:36
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• 1:04:36
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• 1:04:36
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• 1:04:36
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• 1:04:37
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• 1:04:37
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• 1:04:38
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• 1:04:38
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• 1:04:39
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• 1:04:39
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• 1:04:39
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• 1:04:40
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• 1:04:40
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• 1:04:40
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• 1:04:40
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• 1:04:41
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• 1:04:42
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• 1:04:42
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• 1:04:43
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• 1:04:43
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• 1:04:44
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• 1:04:44
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• 1:04:44
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• 1:04:45
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• 1:04:45
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• 1:04:46
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• 1:04:46
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• 1:04:47
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:48
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• 1:04:49
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• 1:04:50
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• 1:04:50
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:51
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:52
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:53
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• 1:04:54
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• 1:04:54
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• 1:04:55
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• 1:04:56
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• 1:04:56
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• 1:04:56
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• 1:04:57
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• 1:04:57
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• 1:04:58
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• 1:04:59
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• 1:04:59
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• 1:04:59
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• 1:04:59
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• 1:04:59
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• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:00
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• 1:05:01
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• 1:05:01
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• 1:05:01
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• 1:05:02
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• 1:05:03
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• 1:05:03
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• 1:05:03
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• 1:05:03
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• 1:05:04
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• 1:05:04
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• 1:05:06
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• 1:05:06
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• 1:05:07
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• 1:05:07
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• 1:05:07
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• 1:05:08
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• 1:05:08
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• 1:05:08
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• 1:05:09
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• 1:05:09
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• 1:05:10
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• 1:05:10
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• 1:05:11
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• 1:05:12
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• 1:05:12
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• 1:05:12
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• 1:05:13
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• 1:05:13
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• 1:05:13
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• 1:05:14
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• 1:05:14
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• 1:05:14
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• 1:05:14
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• 1:05:15
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• 1:05:15
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• 1:05:15
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• 1:05:16
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• 1:05:16
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• 1:05:17
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• 1:05:17
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• 1:05:17
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• 1:05:17
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• 1:05:17
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:20
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• 1:05:21
  And
• 1:05:21
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• 1:05:21
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• 1:05:22
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• 1:05:22
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• 1:05:22
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• 1:05:22
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• 1:05:22
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• 1:05:23
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• 1:05:23
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• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:25
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• 1:05:26
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• 1:05:26
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• 1:05:26
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• 1:05:27
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• 1:05:27
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• 1:05:27
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• 1:05:27
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• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:28
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• 1:05:29
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• 1:05:29
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• 1:05:29
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• 1:05:30
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• 1:05:30
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• 1:05:31
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• 1:05:32
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• 1:05:32
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• 1:05:32
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• 1:05:33
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• 1:05:33
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• 1:05:34
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• 1:05:34
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• 1:05:35
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• 1:05:35
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• 1:05:36
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• 1:05:36
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• 1:05:36
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• 1:05:37
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• 1:05:38
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• 1:05:38
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• 1:05:38
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• 1:05:39
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• 1:05:39
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• 1:05:39
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• 1:05:40
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• 1:05:41
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• 1:05:41
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• 1:05:42
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• 1:05:42
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• 1:05:42
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• 1:05:43
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• 1:05:44
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• 1:05:44
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• 1:05:44
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• 1:05:44
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• 1:05:44
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• 1:05:45
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• 1:05:45
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• 1:05:46
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• 1:05:46
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• 1:05:46
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• 1:05:47
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• 1:05:47
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• 1:05:47
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• 1:05:48
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• 1:05:48
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• 1:05:48
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• 1:05:48
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• 1:05:49
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• 1:05:50
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• 1:05:50
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• 1:05:51
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• 1:05:51
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• 1:05:51
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• 1:05:52
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• 1:05:52
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• 1:05:52
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• 1:05:53
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• 1:05:53
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• 1:05:54
  We
• 1:05:54
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• 1:05:54
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• 1:05:55
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• 1:05:55
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• 1:05:55
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• 1:05:56
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• 1:05:56
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• 1:05:57
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• 1:05:57
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• 1:05:57
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• 1:05:58
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• 1:05:58
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• 1:05:59
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• 1:05:59
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• 1:05:59
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• 1:05:59
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• 1:05:59
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• 1:06:00
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• 1:06:00
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• 1:06:00
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• 1:06:01
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• 1:06:01
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• 1:06:02
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• 1:06:03
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• 1:06:03
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• 1:06:04
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• 1:06:04
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• 1:06:05
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• 1:06:06
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• 1:06:06
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• 1:06:06
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• 1:06:07
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• 1:06:08
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• 1:06:08
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• 1:06:09
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• 1:06:09
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• 1:06:10
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• 1:06:10
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• 1:06:10
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• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:11
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• 1:06:12
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• 1:06:13
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• 1:06:14
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• 1:06:14
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• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:15
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• 1:06:17
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• 1:06:18
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• 1:06:18
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:20
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• 1:06:20
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• 1:06:20
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• 1:06:21
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• 1:06:21
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• 1:06:21
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• 1:06:22
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• 1:06:22
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• 1:06:22
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• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:24
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• 1:06:24
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• 1:06:24
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• 1:06:26
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• 1:06:27
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• 1:06:27
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• 1:06:28
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• 1:06:28
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• 1:06:29
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• 1:06:29
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• 1:06:29
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• 1:06:30
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• 1:06:30
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• 1:06:31
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• 1:06:31
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• 1:06:32
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• 1:06:32
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• 1:06:32
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• 1:06:32
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• 1:06:33
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• 1:06:33
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• 1:06:33
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• 1:06:34
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• 1:06:34
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• 1:06:36
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• 1:06:36
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• 1:06:36
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• 1:06:36
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• 1:06:37
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• 1:06:38
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• 1:06:38
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• 1:06:42
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• 1:06:43
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• 1:06:44
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• 1:06:45
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• 1:06:45
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• 1:06:45
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• 1:06:45
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• 1:06:46
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• 1:06:47
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• 1:06:47
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• 1:06:48
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• 1:06:51
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• 1:06:53
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• 1:06:53
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• 1:06:53
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• 1:06:54
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• 1:06:54
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• 1:06:56
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• 1:06:56
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• 1:06:56
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• 1:06:57
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• 1:06:58
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• 1:06:58
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• 1:06:59
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• 1:06:59
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• 1:07:00
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• 1:07:00
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• 1:07:05
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• 1:07:07
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• 1:07:09
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• 1:07:10
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• 1:07:11
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• 1:07:11
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• 1:07:12
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• 1:07:13
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• 1:07:26
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• 1:07:29
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• 1:07:30
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• 1:07:30
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• 1:07:31
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• 1:07:33
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• 1:07:33
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• 1:07:47
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• 1:07:52
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• 1:07:58
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• 1:08:06
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• 1:08:18
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• 1:08:25
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• 1:08:25
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• 1:08:25
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• 1:08:26
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• 1:08:27
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• 1:08:27
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• 1:08:27
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• 1:08:28
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• 1:08:28
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• 1:08:28
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• 1:08:28
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• 1:08:31
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• 1:08:33
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• 1:08:34
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• 1:08:35
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• 1:08:36
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• 1:08:37
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• 1:08:37
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• 1:08:37
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• 1:08:38
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• 1:08:39
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• 1:08:46
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• 1:08:47
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• 1:08:47
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• 1:08:48
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• 1:08:48
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• 1:08:49
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• 1:08:49
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• 1:08:50
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• 1:08:51
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• 1:08:53
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• 1:08:56
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• 1:08:56
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• 1:08:56
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• 1:08:57
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• 1:08:57
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• 1:08:57
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• 1:08:57
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• 1:08:58
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• 1:08:58
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• 1:08:59
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• 1:08:59
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• 1:09:00
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• 1:09:01
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• 1:09:01
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• 1:09:02
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• 1:09:02
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• 1:09:02
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• 1:09:02
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• 1:09:03
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• 1:09:03
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• 1:09:04
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• 1:09:04
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• 1:09:04
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• 1:09:05
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• 1:09:05
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• 1:09:06
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• 1:09:06
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• 1:09:06
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• 1:09:06
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• 1:09:07
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• 1:09:07
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• 1:09:08
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• 1:09:09
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• 1:09:09
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• 1:09:12
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• 1:09:12
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• 1:09:12
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• 1:09:12
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• 1:09:13
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• 1:09:13
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• 1:09:14
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• 1:09:14
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• 1:09:14
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• 1:09:19
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• 1:09:20
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• 1:09:20
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• 1:09:21
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• 1:09:22
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• 1:09:23
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• 1:09:23
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• 1:09:24
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• 1:09:24
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• 1:09:24
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• 1:09:25
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• 1:09:25
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• 1:09:25
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• 1:09:25
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• 1:09:25
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• 1:09:26
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• 1:09:26
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• 1:09:27
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• 1:09:27
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• 1:09:27
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• 1:09:27
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• 1:09:28
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• 1:09:28
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• 1:09:28
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• 1:09:28
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• 1:09:28
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• 1:09:29
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• 1:09:29
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• 1:09:31
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• 1:09:32
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• 1:09:33
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• 1:09:34
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• 1:09:34
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• 1:09:35
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• 1:09:35
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• 1:09:35
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• 1:09:37
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• 1:09:38
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• 1:09:38
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• 1:09:39
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• 1:09:39
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• 1:09:39
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• 1:09:40
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• 1:09:41
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• 1:09:41
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• 1:13:26
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• 1:13:38
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• 1:13:43
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• 1:13:43
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• 1:13:47
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• 1:13:49
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• 1:13:55
  of,
• 1:13:56
  you
• 1:13:56
  know,
• 1:13:57
  buy
• 1:13:57
  because
• 1:13:57
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• 1:13:58
  comparing
• 1:13:58
  ourselves
• 1:13:59
  to
• 1:13:59
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• 1:13:59
  people
• 1:13:59
  and
• 1:14:00
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• 1:14:00
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• 1:14:01
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• 1:14:01
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• 1:14:01
  have
• 1:14:01
  more
• 1:14:02
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• 1:14:02
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• 1:14:02
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• 1:14:02
  more
• 1:14:03
  and
• 1:14:03
  more.
• 1:14:03
  It
• 1:14:03
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• 1:14:04
  means
• 1:14:04
  nothing
• 1:14:05
  at
• 1:14:05
  the
• 1:14:05
  end
• 1:14:05
  of
• 1:14:05
  the
• 1:14:06
  day.
• 1:14:07
  So
• 1:14:08
  I
• 1:14:08
  think
• 1:14:08
  that
• 1:14:08
  that's
• 1:14:09
  what
• 1:14:09
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• 1:14:10
  learned
• 1:14:10
  is
• 1:14:10
  important
• 1:14:11
  is
• 1:14:11
  just
• 1:14:12
  family
• 1:14:12
  and
• 1:14:12
  people
• 1:14:13
  and
• 1:14:13
  the
• 1:14:13
  connections
• 1:14:14
  to
• 1:14:14
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• 1:14:14
  and
• 1:14:15
  family
• 1:14:15
  is
• 1:14:15
  the
• 1:14:16
  most
• 1:14:16
  important
• 1:14:17
  part.
• 1:14:17
  Yeah,
• 1:14:18
  that,
• 1:14:18
  that,
• 1:14:18
  that
• 1:14:18
  was
• 1:14:19
  such
• 1:14:19
  an
• 1:14:19
  eye
• 1:14:19
  opener.
• 1:14:20
  The
• 1:14:20
  fire,
• 1:14:20
  I
• 1:14:21
  mean,
• 1:14:21
  like
• 1:14:22
  really
• 1:14:23
  talk
• 1:14:23
  about
• 1:14:23
  reprioritizing,
• 1:14:24
  right?
• 1:14:25
  I
• 1:14:25
  mean
• 1:14:25
  it
• 1:14:25
  just,
• 1:14:26
  it
• 1:14:26
  makes
• 1:14:27
  you
• 1:14:27
  take
• 1:14:27
  inventory
• 1:14:28
  of
• 1:14:28
  everything
• 1:14:28
  in
• 1:14:29
  your
• 1:14:29
  life.
• 1:14:29
  Everything,
• 1:14:30
  everything,
• 1:14:31
  everything.
• 1:14:32
  And
• 1:14:32
  then
• 1:14:34
  how
• 1:14:34
  are
• 1:14:34
  you
• 1:14:35
  living
• 1:14:35
  iconically
• 1:14:36
  right
• 1:14:36
  now?
• 1:14:38
  Oh,
• 1:14:39
  can
• 1:14:39
  you
• 1:14:39
  give
• 1:14:39
  me
• 1:14:39
  more
• 1:14:40
  definition
• 1:14:41
  to
• 1:14:41
  me?
• 1:14:41
  Okay.
• 1:14:42
  So
• 1:14:42
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• 1:14:42
  example,
• 1:14:43
  for
• 1:14:43
  me,
• 1:14:43
  when
• 1:14:44
  I
• 1:14:44
  think
• 1:14:44
  of
• 1:14:44
  like
• 1:14:45
  how
• 1:14:45
  living
• 1:14:46
  what
• 1:14:46
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• 1:14:46
  iconically
• 1:14:47
  looks
• 1:14:47
  like,
• 1:14:48
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• 1:14:48
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• 1:14:49
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• 1:14:49
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• 1:14:49
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• 1:14:49
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• 1:14:49
  true
• 1:14:50
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• 1:14:51
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• 1:14:51
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• 1:14:52
  So
• 1:14:53
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• 1:14:53
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• 1:14:53
  to
• 1:14:54
  me
• 1:14:54
  is
• 1:14:54
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• 1:14:54
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• 1:14:55
  I
• 1:14:55
  know
• 1:14:55
  to
• 1:14:55
  other
• 1:14:55
  people
• 1:14:55
  it
• 1:14:56
  might.
• 1:14:56
  Be
• 1:14:56
  different,
• 1:14:57
  but
• 1:14:57
  I
• 1:14:57
  think
• 1:14:58
  my
• 1:14:58
  business
• 1:14:58
  has
• 1:14:59
  been
• 1:15:00
  that
• 1:15:00
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• 1:15:00
  I've
• 1:15:01
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• 1:15:01
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• 1:15:02
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• 1:15:03
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• 1:15:03
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• 1:15:04
  me
• 1:15:04
  me,
• 1:15:04
  which
• 1:15:04
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• 1:15:05
  I've
• 1:15:05
  always
• 1:15:05
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• 1:15:05
  this
• 1:15:06
  very
• 1:15:06
  organized
• 1:15:06
  person
• 1:15:07
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• 1:15:07
  thinking
• 1:15:07
  about
• 1:15:08
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• 1:15:08
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• 1:15:09
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• 1:15:09
  things
• 1:15:09
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• 1:15:10
  and
• 1:15:11
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• 1:15:11
  calm
• 1:15:12
  And
• 1:15:12
  I
• 1:15:13
  think
• 1:15:13
  part
• 1:15:13
  of
• 1:15:13
  me
• 1:15:14
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• 1:15:14
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• 1:15:14
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• 1:15:14
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• 1:15:14
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• 1:15:15
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• 1:15:15
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• 1:15:16
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• 1:15:16
  I
• 1:15:16
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• 1:15:16
  because
• 1:15:17
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• 1:15:17
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• 1:15:17
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• 1:15:17
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• 1:15:18
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• 1:15:18
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• 1:15:18
  And
• 1:15:19
  now
• 1:15:19
  I'm
• 1:15:19
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• 1:15:19
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• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:20
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• 1:15:21
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• 1:15:21
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• 1:15:22
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• 1:15:22
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• 1:15:23
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• 1:15:23
  love
• 1:15:24
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• 1:15:24
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• 1:15:25
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• 1:15:25
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• 1:15:25
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• 1:15:25
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• 1:15:26
  It
• 1:15:26
  makes
• 1:15:26
  me
• 1:15:27
  feel
• 1:15:27
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• 1:15:27
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• 1:15:28
  And
• 1:15:29
  I
• 1:15:29
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• 1:15:30
  like,
• 1:15:30
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• 1:15:31
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• 1:15:31
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• 1:15:31
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• 1:15:31
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• 1:15:32
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• 1:15:32
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• 1:15:32
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• 1:15:32
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• 1:15:32
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• 1:15:33
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• 1:15:33
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• 1:15:33
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• 1:15:33
  is
• 1:15:33
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• 1:15:34
  I
• 1:15:34
  want
• 1:15:34
  to
• 1:15:34
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• 1:15:35
  in
• 1:15:35
  my
• 1:15:36
  life.
• 1:15:36
  And
• 1:15:36
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• 1:15:37
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• 1:15:37
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• 1:15:37
  down
• 1:15:38
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• 1:15:38
  get
• 1:15:38
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• 1:15:39
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• 1:15:40
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• 1:15:41
  I
• 1:15:41
  want
• 1:15:42
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• 1:15:42
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• 1:15:42
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• 1:15:43
  feel
• 1:15:43
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• 1:15:43
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• 1:15:43
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• 1:15:43
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• 1:15:44
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• 1:15:44
  right
• 1:15:44
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• 1:15:45
  And
• 1:15:45
  I've
• 1:15:45
  been
• 1:15:45
  really,
• 1:15:46
  actually
• 1:15:46
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• 1:15:47
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• 1:15:47
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• 1:15:47
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• 1:15:47
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• 1:15:48
  thinking
• 1:15:48
  about
• 1:15:48
  that.
• 1:15:48
  Like,
• 1:15:48
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• 1:15:49
  do
• 1:15:49
  I
• 1:15:49
  want,
• 1:15:49
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• 1:15:49
  want
• 1:15:50
  my
• 1:15:50
  days
• 1:15:50
  to
• 1:15:50
  look
• 1:15:50
  like,
• 1:15:51
  because
• 1:15:51
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• 1:15:51
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• 1:15:51
  just
• 1:15:51
  tick
• 1:15:52
  by
• 1:15:52
  so
• 1:15:53
  fast.
• 1:15:53
  Like,
• 1:15:54
  what
• 1:15:54
  brings
• 1:15:55
  me
• 1:15:55
  happiness
• 1:15:56
  and
• 1:15:56
  brings
• 1:15:56
  me
• 1:15:56
  calm?
• 1:15:57
  So
• 1:15:58
  I
• 1:15:58
  think
• 1:15:58
  right
• 1:15:58
  now
• 1:15:59
  and
• 1:15:59
  just,
• 1:16:00
  you
• 1:16:01
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• 1:16:01
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• 1:16:01
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• 1:16:01
  I
• 1:16:02
  love.
• 1:16:03
  Yeah,
• 1:16:03
  no,
• 1:16:03
  I
• 1:16:03
  think
• 1:16:04
  that's
• 1:16:04
  great.
• 1:16:04
  And
• 1:16:04
  you've,
• 1:16:05
  you
• 1:16:05
  know,
• 1:16:05
  you.
• 1:16:05
  You
• 1:16:06
  took
• 1:16:06
  a
• 1:16:06
  chance,
• 1:16:06
  right?
• 1:16:07
  You
• 1:16:07
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• 1:16:08
  you
• 1:16:08
  know,
• 1:16:09
  kind
• 1:16:09
  of
• 1:16:09
  the
• 1:16:09
  corporate
• 1:16:10
  world
• 1:16:10
  and
• 1:16:10
  you
• 1:16:10
  started
• 1:16:11
  this
• 1:16:11
  and
• 1:16:11
  it's
• 1:16:12
  been
• 1:16:12
  so
• 1:16:12
  wonderful
• 1:16:13
  and
• 1:16:13
  amazing
• 1:16:13
  and
• 1:16:13
  you've
• 1:16:14
  really
• 1:16:14
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• 1:16:15
  off
• 1:16:15
  with
• 1:16:15
  it,
• 1:16:15
  which
• 1:16:15
  is
• 1:16:16
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• 1:16:16
  an
• 1:16:17
  accomplishment.
• 1:16:18
  What
• 1:16:18
  would
• 1:16:19
  you
• 1:16:19
  say
• 1:16:19
  to,
• 1:16:19
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• 1:16:20
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• 1:16:20
  a
• 1:16:20
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• 1:16:20
  woman
• 1:16:20
  at
• 1:16:21
  home
• 1:16:21
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• 1:16:21
  might
• 1:16:21
  be
• 1:16:21
  listening
• 1:16:22
  that's
• 1:16:22
  like,
• 1:16:22
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• 1:16:23
  I
• 1:16:23
  have
• 1:16:23
  an
• 1:16:23
  idea
• 1:16:23
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• 1:16:23
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• 1:16:24
  but,
• 1:16:24
  like,
• 1:16:25
  I'm
• 1:16:25
  either
• 1:16:25
  afraid
• 1:16:26
  or
• 1:16:26
  I
• 1:16:26
  don't
• 1:16:26
  want
• 1:16:27
  to
• 1:16:27
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• 1:16:27
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• 1:16:27
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• 1:16:27
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• 1:16:28
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• 1:16:28
  like,
• 1:16:28
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• 1:16:29
  back
• 1:16:29
  by
• 1:16:29
  something.
• 1:16:30
  What
• 1:16:31
  would
• 1:16:31
  you
• 1:16:31
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• 1:16:31
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• 1:16:31
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• 1:16:32
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• 1:16:32
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• 1:16:32
  of,
• 1:16:33
  you
• 1:16:33
  know,
• 1:16:33
  get
• 1:16:34
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• 1:16:35
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• 1:16:35
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• 1:16:35
  say
• 1:16:35
  just
• 1:16:36
  do
• 1:16:36
  it.
• 1:16:36
  Like,
• 1:16:36
  jump.
• 1:16:37
  There
• 1:16:37
  are
• 1:16:38
  so
• 1:16:38
  many
• 1:16:38
  times
• 1:16:39
  in
• 1:16:39
  my
• 1:16:39
  life
• 1:16:39
  that
• 1:16:40
  I
• 1:16:40
  have
• 1:16:40
  been
• 1:16:41
  really
• 1:16:41
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• 1:16:43
  like,
• 1:16:43
  a
• 1:16:43
  lot.
• 1:16:43
  And
• 1:16:43
  I'm
• 1:16:44
  just
• 1:16:44
  like,
• 1:16:44
  just
• 1:16:45
  jump.
• 1:16:46
  And
• 1:16:47
  that's
• 1:16:47
  sometimes
• 1:16:48
  all
• 1:16:48
  you
• 1:16:48
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• 1:16:49
  Like,
• 1:16:49
  just
• 1:16:50
  do
• 1:16:50
  what?
• 1:16:51
  Do
• 1:16:51
  the
• 1:16:52
  thing,
• 1:16:52
  right?
• 1:16:52
  Like,
• 1:16:53
  if
• 1:16:53
  you
• 1:16:54
  really
• 1:16:54
  want
• 1:16:54
  to
• 1:16:55
  create
• 1:16:55
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• 1:16:55
  and
• 1:16:56
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• 1:16:56
  it
• 1:16:56
  on
• 1:16:56
  Etsy,
• 1:16:57
  just
• 1:16:57
  make
• 1:16:57
  one
• 1:16:57
  and
• 1:16:58
  start
• 1:16:58
  a
• 1:16:58
  store
• 1:16:58
  and
• 1:16:59
  sell
• 1:16:59
  just
• 1:16:59
  one.
• 1:17:00
  Like,
• 1:17:00
  it
• 1:17:00
  was
• 1:17:01
  really
• 1:17:01
  just.
• 1:17:01
  And
• 1:17:02
  there
• 1:17:02
  were
• 1:17:03
  moments
• 1:17:03
  in
• 1:17:03
  the
• 1:17:03
  beginning
• 1:17:04
  of
• 1:17:04
  starting
• 1:17:04
  this,
• 1:17:04
  I
• 1:17:05
  was
• 1:17:05
  like,
• 1:17:05
  what
• 1:17:05
  if
• 1:17:05
  I
• 1:17:05
  get
• 1:17:06
  no
• 1:17:06
  clients?
• 1:17:07
  Like,
• 1:17:07
  what
• 1:17:07
  if.
• 1:17:08
  Especially
• 1:17:08
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• 1:17:08
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• 1:17:09
  employed,
• 1:17:09
  employed,
• 1:17:09
  your
• 1:17:10
  job
• 1:17:10
  to
• 1:17:10
  job.
• 1:17:11
  And
• 1:17:12
  in
• 1:17:12
  the
• 1:17:12
  beginning
• 1:17:12
  I
• 1:17:13
  was
• 1:17:13
  like,
• 1:17:13
  oh.
• 1:17:14
  Like,
• 1:17:14
  what
• 1:17:15
  if
• 1:17:15
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• 1:17:15
  one
• 1:17:15
  reaches
• 1:17:16
  out?
• 1:17:16
  Like,
• 1:17:16
  I
• 1:17:16
  don't.
• 1:17:17
  I
• 1:17:17
  never
• 1:17:17
  bug
• 1:17:17
  people.
• 1:17:18
  I
• 1:17:18
  ask
• 1:17:18
  them
• 1:17:18
  to,
• 1:17:18
  you
• 1:17:19
  know,
• 1:17:19
  hire
• 1:17:19
  me.
• 1:17:19
  So,
• 1:17:20
  like,
• 1:17:20
  I'm.
• 1:17:21
  It's
• 1:17:21
  all
• 1:17:21
  word
• 1:17:21
  of
• 1:17:21
  mouth
• 1:17:22
  and
• 1:17:22
  so.
• 1:17:22
  But
• 1:17:22
  I
• 1:17:23
  do
• 1:17:23
  think
• 1:17:23
  if
• 1:17:23
  you
• 1:17:23
  just
• 1:17:24
  put
• 1:17:24
  one
• 1:17:24
  foot
• 1:17:24
  in
• 1:17:24
  front
• 1:17:25
  of
• 1:17:25
  the
• 1:17:25
  other
• 1:17:25
  and
• 1:17:26
  creating
• 1:17:27
  the
• 1:17:27
  energy
• 1:17:27
  of,
• 1:17:28
  like,
• 1:17:28
  creating
• 1:17:29
  what
• 1:17:29
  you
• 1:17:29
  want
• 1:17:29
  to
• 1:17:30
  build,
• 1:17:31
  that
• 1:17:31
  energy
• 1:17:32
  I
• 1:17:32
  think
• 1:17:32
  is
• 1:17:32
  really
• 1:17:34
  goes
• 1:17:34
  out
• 1:17:34
  into
• 1:17:34
  the
• 1:17:34
  universe
• 1:17:35
  and
• 1:17:35
  starts
• 1:17:36
  it
• 1:17:36
  for
• 1:17:36
  you.
• 1:17:37
  So
• 1:17:37
  I
• 1:17:37
  think
• 1:17:37
  it's
• 1:17:37
  just,
• 1:17:38
  just
• 1:17:39
  doing
• 1:17:39
  it,
• 1:17:40
  even
• 1:17:40
  if
• 1:17:40
  it
• 1:17:41
  doesn't
• 1:17:41
  look
• 1:17:41
  perfect
• 1:17:43
  and
• 1:17:43
  you'll
• 1:17:43
  learn
• 1:17:44
  as
• 1:17:44
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• 1:17:45
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• 1:17:45
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• 1:17:45
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• 1:17:46
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• 1:17:47
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• 1:17:47
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• 1:17:47
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• 1:17:50
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• 1:17:50
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• 1:17:51
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• 1:17:51
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• 1:17:51
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• 1:17:52
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• 1:17:52
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• 1:17:53
  So,
• 1:17:54
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• 1:17:54
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• 1:17:54
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• 1:17:55
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• 1:17:55
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• 1:17:56
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• 1:17:57
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• 1:17:57
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• 1:17:58
  You
• 1:17:58
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• 1:17:58
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• 1:17:59
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• 1:18:00
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• 1:18:00
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• 1:18:00
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• 1:18:00
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• 1:18:01
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• 1:18:01
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• 1:18:01
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• 1:18:01
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• 1:18:01
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• 1:18:01
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• 1:18:02
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• 1:18:02
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• 1:18:02
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• 1:18:03
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• 1:18:03
  But
• 1:18:04
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• 1:18:04
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• 1:18:05
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• 1:18:06
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• 1:18:06
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• 1:18:06
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• 1:18:07
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• 1:18:07
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• 1:18:07
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• 1:18:07
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• 1:18:09
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• 1:18:09
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• 1:18:09
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• 1:18:09
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• 1:18:10
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• 1:18:10
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• 1:18:10
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• 1:18:11
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• 1:18:12
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• 1:18:12
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• 1:18:13
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• 1:18:13
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• 1:18:14
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• 1:18:14
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• 1:18:14
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• 1:18:14
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• 1:18:14
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• 1:18:14
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• 1:18:15
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• 1:18:15
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• 1:18:15
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• 1:18:15
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• 1:18:15
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• 1:18:15
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• 1:18:16
  And
• 1:18:16
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• 1:18:16
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• 1:18:16
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• 1:18:17
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• 1:18:17
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• 1:18:17
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• 1:18:18
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• 1:18:18
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• 1:18:18
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• 1:18:18
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• 1:18:18
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• 1:18:19
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• 1:18:19
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• 1:18:20
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• 1:18:21
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• 1:18:21
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• 1:18:21
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• 1:18:22
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• 1:18:22
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• 1:18:22
  I
• 1:18:22
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• 1:18:22
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• 1:18:22
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• 1:18:23
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• 1:18:23
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• 1:18:23
  And
• 1:18:24
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• 1:18:24
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• 1:18:24
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• 1:18:24
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• 1:18:25
  What
• 1:18:25
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• 1:18:25
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• 1:18:25
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• 1:18:25
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• 1:18:26
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• 1:18:26
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• 1:18:26
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• 1:18:26
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• 1:18:27
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• 1:18:27
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• 1:18:27
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• 1:18:28
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• 1:18:28
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• 1:18:29
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• 1:18:29
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• 1:18:29
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• 1:18:30
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• 1:18:30
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• 1:18:30
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• 1:18:30
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• 1:18:31
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• 1:18:31
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• 1:18:32
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• 1:18:32
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• 1:18:33
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• 1:18:33
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• 1:18:33
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• 1:18:34
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• 1:18:34
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• 1:18:35
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• 1:18:36
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• 1:18:37
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• 1:18:37
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• 1:18:37
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• 1:18:38
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• 1:18:38
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• 1:18:39
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• 1:18:39
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• 1:18:39
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• 1:18:39
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• 1:18:40
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• 1:18:40
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• 1:18:40
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• 1:18:41
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• 1:18:41
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• 1:18:41
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• 1:18:41
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• 1:18:42
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• 1:18:42
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• 1:18:42
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• 1:18:43
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• 1:18:43
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• 1:18:43
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• 1:18:44
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• 1:18:44
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• 1:18:45
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• 1:18:46
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• 1:18:46
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• 1:18:47
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• 1:18:47
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• 1:18:48
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• 1:18:48
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• 1:18:48
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• 1:18:49
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• 1:18:49
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• 1:18:50
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• 1:18:50
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• 1:18:51
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• 1:18:51
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• 1:18:51
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• 1:18:51
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• 1:18:52
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• 1:18:52
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• 1:18:52
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• 1:18:52
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• 1:18:52
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• 1:18:53
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• 1:18:53
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• 1:18:54
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• 1:18:54
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• 1:18:54
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• 1:18:54
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• 1:18:54
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:55
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• 1:18:56
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• 1:18:56
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• 1:18:56
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• 1:18:56
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• 1:18:56
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• 1:18:58
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• 1:18:58
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• 1:18:58
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• 1:18:58
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• 1:18:58
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• 1:18:59
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• 1:18:59
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• 1:18:59
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• 1:19:00
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• 1:19:00
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• 1:19:01
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• 1:19:01
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• 1:19:01
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• 1:19:01
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• 1:19:02
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• 1:19:02
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• 1:19:04
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• 1:19:04
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• 1:19:04
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• 1:19:05
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• 1:19:05
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• 1:19:05
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• 1:19:05
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• 1:19:06
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• 1:19:06
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• 1:19:06
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• 1:19:06
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• 1:19:07
  What
• 1:19:07
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• 1:19:07
  my
• 1:19:07
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• 1:19:07
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• 1:19:08
  like?
• 1:19:08
  What
• 1:19:08
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• 1:19:08
  my
• 1:19:09
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• 1:19:09
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• 1:19:09
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• 1:19:10
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• 1:19:10
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• 1:19:10
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• 1:19:10
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• 1:19:11
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• 1:19:11
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• 1:19:12
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• 1:19:12
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• 1:19:12
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• 1:19:12
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• 1:19:13
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• 1:19:13
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• 1:19:14
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• 1:19:14
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• 1:19:14
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• 1:19:15
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• 1:19:15
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• 1:19:15
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• 1:19:15
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• 1:19:16
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• 1:19:16
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• 1:19:16
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• 1:19:16
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• 1:19:16
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• 1:19:17
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• 1:19:17
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• 1:19:17
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• 1:19:17
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• 1:19:18
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• 1:19:18
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• 1:19:18
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• 1:19:18
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• 1:19:19
  Like,
• 1:19:19
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• 1:19:19
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• 1:19:20
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• 1:19:20
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• 1:19:20
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• 1:19:21
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• 1:19:21
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• 1:19:21
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• 1:19:21
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• 1:19:22
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• 1:19:22
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• 1:19:23
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• 1:19:23
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• 1:19:23
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• 1:19:23
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• 1:19:24
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• 1:19:24
  Get
• 1:19:25
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• 1:19:25
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• 1:19:25
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• 1:19:25
  That
• 1:19:26
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• 1:19:26
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• 1:19:26
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• 1:19:26
  Well,
• 1:19:27
  Megan,
• 1:19:28
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• 1:19:28
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• 1:19:29
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• 1:19:30
  What
• 1:19:30
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• 1:19:31
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• 1:19:31
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• 1:19:31
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• 1:19:32
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• 1:19:32
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• 1:19:32
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• 1:19:32
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• 1:19:33
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• 1:19:33
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• 1:19:34
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• 1:19:34
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• 1:19:34
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• 1:19:34
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• 1:19:35
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• 1:19:35
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• 1:19:35
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• 1:19:36
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• 1:19:37
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• 1:19:38
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• 1:19:38
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• 1:19:38
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• 1:19:38
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• 1:19:38
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• 1:19:39
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• 1:19:39
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• 1:19:39
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• 1:19:40
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• 1:19:40
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• 1:19:40
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• 1:19:41
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• 1:19:43
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• 1:19:44
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• 1:19:45
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• 1:19:48
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• 1:19:48
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• 1:19:48
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• 1:19:48
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• 1:19:48
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• 1:19:49
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• 1:19:49
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• 1:19:49
  Put
• 1:19:50
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• 1:19:50
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• 1:19:50
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• 1:19:51
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• 1:19:51
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• 1:19:52
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• 1:19:53
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• 1:19:53
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• 1:19:53
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• 1:19:53
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• 1:19:54
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• 1:19:54
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• 1:19:54
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• 1:19:55
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• 1:19:55
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• 1:19:55
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• 1:19:55
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• 1:19:56
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• 1:19:56
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• 1:19:57
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• 1:19:57
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• 1:19:57
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• 1:19:59
  Oh,
• 1:20:00
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• 1:20:01
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• 1:20:02
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• 1:20:02
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• 1:20:03
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• 1:20:03
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• 1:20:03
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• 1:20:04
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• 1:20:04
  Right?
• 1:20:04
  If
• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:05
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• 1:20:06
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• 1:20:07
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• 1:20:07
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• 1:20:08
  Invite
• 1:20:08
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• 1:20:08
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• 1:20:08
  You
• 1:20:09
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• 1:20:09
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• 1:20:09
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• 1:20:09
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• 1:20:09
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• 1:20:09
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• 1:20:10
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• 1:20:10
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• 1:20:10
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• 1:20:10
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• 1:20:11
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• 1:20:11
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• 1:20:12
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• 1:20:12
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• 1:20:12
  It's
• 1:20:13
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• 1:20:13
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• 1:20:13
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• 1:20:13
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• 1:20:13
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• 1:20:13
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• 1:20:14
  It
• 1:20:14
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• 1:20:14
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• 1:20:15
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• 1:20:15
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• 1:20:15
  Sex
• 1:20:16
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• 1:20:16
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• 1:20:16
  City,
• 1:20:17
  right?
• 1:20:17
  Like
• 1:20:18
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• 1:20:18
  the
• 1:20:18
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• 1:20:18
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• 1:20:18
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• 1:20:19
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• 1:20:19
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• 1:20:19
  Yes.
• 1:20:20
  Yes.
• 1:20:20
  You
• 1:20:21
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• 1:20:21
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• 1:20:21
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• 1:20:21
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• 1:20:21
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• 1:20:21
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• 1:20:22
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• 1:20:22
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• 1:20:22
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• 1:20:22
  It's
• 1:20:23
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• 1:20:23
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• 1:20:23
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• 1:20:24
  Oh,
• 1:20:24
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• 1:20:24
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• 1:20:25
  so
• 1:20:25
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• 1:20:25
  I
• 1:20:25
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• 1:20:26
  That's
• 1:20:26
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• 1:20:26
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• 1:20:26
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• 1:20:27
  That's
• 1:20:27
  a
• 1:20:27
  great
• 1:20:27
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• 1:20:28
  The
• 1:20:29
  best
• 1:20:29
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• 1:20:29
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• 1:20:29
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• 1:20:30
  Yes,
• 1:20:30
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• 1:20:30
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• 1:20:31
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• 1:20:31
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• 1:20:31
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• 1:20:31
  Hashtag.
• 1:20:36
  So
• 1:20:36
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• 1:20:36
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• 1:20:37
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• 1:20:37
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• 1:20:38
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• 1:20:38
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• 1:20:38
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• 1:20:38
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• 1:20:39
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• 1:20:39
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• 1:20:39
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• 1:20:39
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• 1:20:40
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• 1:20:40
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• 1:20:40
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• 1:20:40
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• 1:20:40
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• 1:20:41
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• 1:20:41
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• 1:20:41
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• 1:20:41
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• 1:20:42
  So
• 1:20:42
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• 1:20:42
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• 1:20:43
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• 1:20:43
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• 1:20:43
  at
• 1:20:43
  Negan.
• 1:20:44
  Kessman.com
• 1:20:45
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• 1:20:46
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• 1:20:46
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• 1:20:46
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• 1:20:46
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• 1:20:47
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• 1:20:47
  an
• 1:20:47
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• 1:20:47
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• 1:20:48
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• 1:20:48
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• 1:20:49
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• 1:20:49
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• 1:20:49
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• 1:20:49
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• 1:20:49
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• 1:20:50
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• 1:20:50
  My
• 1:20:51
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• 1:20:51
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• 1:20:51
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• 1:20:51
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• 1:20:51
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• 1:20:52
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• 1:20:52
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• 1:20:54
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• 1:20:55
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• 1:20:55
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• 1:20:56
  Megan
• 1:20:56
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• 1:20:57
  And
• 1:20:57
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• 1:20:57
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• 1:20:58
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• 1:20:58
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• 1:21:02
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• 1:21:02
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• 1:21:03
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• 1:21:03
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• 1:21:03
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• 1:21:03
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• 1:21:05
  Yes.
• 1:21:06
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• 1:21:07
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• 1:21:07
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• 1:21:07
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• 1:21:08
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• 1:21:08
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• 1:21:09
  Oh,
• 1:21:09
  thank
• 1:21:09
  you.
• 1:21:10
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• 1:21:10
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• 1:21:10
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• 1:21:10
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• 1:21:11
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• 1:21:12
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• 1:21:12
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• 1:21:13
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• 1:21:13
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• 1:21:13
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• 1:21:14
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• 1:21:14
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• 1:21:14
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• 1:21:14
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• 1:21:15
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• 1:21:15
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• 1:21:15
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• 1:21:15
  everybody
• 1:21:16
  listening
• 1:21:16
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• 1:21:17
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• 1:21:17
  Don't
• 1:21:17
  forget
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  to
• 1:21:18
  come
• 1:21:18
  back
• 1:21:18
  on
• 1:21:18
  Thursday
• 1:21:19
  because
• 1:21:19
  Megan
• 1:21:20
  and
• 1:21:20
  I
• 1:21:20
  are
• 1:21:20
  gonna
• 1:21:20
  have
• 1:21:21
  a
• 1:21:21
  very
• 1:21:21
  fun
• 1:21:21
  game
• 1:21:22
  episode,
• 1:21:23
  Quick
• 1:21:23
  fire.
• 1:21:24
  She's
• 1:21:24
  gonna
• 1:21:25
  be
• 1:21:25
  answering
• 1:21:25
  some
• 1:21:25
  fun
• 1:21:26
  questions,
• 1:21:27
  so
• 1:21:27
  you
• 1:21:27
  don't
• 1:21:27
  wanna
• 1:21:28
  miss
• 1:21:28
  it.
• 1:21:28
  And
• 1:21:28
  if
• 1:21:28
  this
• 1:21:29
  episode
• 1:21:29
  resonated,
• 1:21:30
  be
• 1:21:30
  sure
• 1:21:31
  to
• 1:21:31
  rate,
• 1:21:32
  comment
• 1:21:32
  and
• 1:21:33
  follow
• 1:21:33
  wherever
• 1:21:34
  you
• 1:21:34
  listen
• 1:21:34
  to
• 1:21:34
  your
• 1:21:34
  podcasts
• 1:21:35
  or
• 1:21:35
  on
• 1:21:35
  YouTube.
• 1:21:36
  Subscribe
• 1:21:37
  so
• 1:21:37
  more
• 1:21:38
  fun
• 1:21:38
  people
• 1:21:39
  can
• 1:21:39
  find
• 1:21:39
  this
• 1:21:40
  episode
• 1:21:40
  and
• 1:21:40
  find
• 1:21:41
  the
• 1:21:41
  show.
• 1:21:41
  And
• 1:21:42
  I
• 1:21:42
  thank
• 1:21:42
  you
• 1:21:42
  so
• 1:21:43
  much,
• 1:21:43
  everyone
• 1:21:43
  for
• 1:21:43
  listening
• 1:21:44
  and
• 1:21:44
  watching.
• 1:21:45
  Love
• 1:21:45
  you
• 1:21:46
  guys
• 1:21:46
  and
• 1:21:47
  thank
• 1:21:47
  you,
• 1:21:47
  Megan.
• 1:21:48
  Thank
• 1:21:49
  you
• 1:21:49
  again.
• 1:21:49
  It
• 1:21:49
  was
• 1:21:49
  an
• 1:21:49
  honor.
• 1:21:51
  This
• 1:21:51
  conversation
• 1:21:52
  is
• 1:21:52
  such
• 1:21:52
  a
• 1:21:52
  reminder
• 1:21:53
  that
• 1:21:53
  organization
• 1:21:54
  isn't
• 1:21:54
  about
• 1:21:54
  perfection.
• 1:21:55
  It's
• 1:21:56
  about
• 1:21:56
  making
• 1:21:56
  life
• 1:21:57
  easier
• 1:21:57
  on
• 1:21:57
  yourself.
• 1:21:58
  Midlife
• 1:21:59
  is
• 1:21:59
  busy,
• 1:22:00
  it's
• 1:22:00
  full,
• 1:22:01
  and
• 1:22:01
  your
• 1:22:01
  home
• 1:22:01
  shouldn't
• 1:22:02
  feel
• 1:22:02
  feel
• 1:22:02
  like
• 1:22:02
  another
• 1:22:03
  thing
• 1:22:03
  you're
• 1:22:03
  failing
• 1:22:03
  at.
• 1:22:04
  If
• 1:22:04
  you're
• 1:22:05
  listening
• 1:22:05
  on
• 1:22:05
  your
• 1:22:05
  favorite
• 1:22:06
  podcast
• 1:22:06
  app,
• 1:22:07
  please
• 1:22:07
  follow
• 1:22:07
  the
• 1:22:08
  iconic
• 1:22:08
  midlife,
• 1:22:09
  rate
• 1:22:09
  the
• 1:22:09
  show
• 1:22:10
  and
• 1:22:10
  leave
• 1:22:10
  a
• 1:22:11
  review.
• 1:22:11
  And
• 1:22:12
  if
• 1:22:12
  you
• 1:22:12
  know
• 1:22:12
  someone
• 1:22:12
  who
• 1:22:13
  could
• 1:22:13
  use
• 1:22:13
  a
• 1:22:13
  little
• 1:22:13
  more
• 1:22:14
  calm
• 1:22:14
  and
• 1:22:14
  a
• 1:22:14
  little
• 1:22:15
  less
• 1:22:15
  chaos,
• 1:22:16
  share
• 1:22:16
  this
• 1:22:16
  episode
• 1:22:17
  with
• 1:22:17
  her.
• 1:22:18
  And
• 1:22:18
  if
• 1:22:18
  you're
• 1:22:18
  watching
• 1:22:18
  on
• 1:22:19
  YouTube,
• 1:22:20
  subscribe
• 1:22:20
  to
• 1:22:20
  the
• 1:22:20
  channel
• 1:22:21
  like
• 1:22:21
  the
• 1:22:21
  episode
• 1:22:22
  and
• 1:22:22
  tell
• 1:22:23
  me
• 1:22:23
  in
• 1:22:23
  the
• 1:22:23
  comments
• 1:22:24
  what
• 1:22:24
  resonated
• 1:22:25
  most.
• 1:22:25
  I'd
• 1:22:26
  love
• 1:22:26
  to
• 1:22:26
  hear
• 1:22:26
  from
• 1:22:27
  you,
• 1:22:27
  because
• 1:22:28
  this
• 1:22:28
  chapter
• 1:22:28
  isn't
• 1:22:29
  about
• 1:22:29
  doing
• 1:22:29
  more,
• 1:22:30
  it's
• 1:22:31
  about
• 1:22:31
  supporting
• 1:22:32
  yourself
• 1:22:32
  better,
• 1:22:33
  and
• 1:22:34
  that's
• 1:22:34
  iconic.