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- 0:02Speaker 1: Madama.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Liam Dan, New Zealand Herald's Business editor at
- 0:09Speaker 2: Large and welcome to this episode of Money Talks. This
- 0:13Speaker 2: is a podcast about money, but we're not going to
- 0:16Speaker 2: tell you how to get rich, and we're not going
- 0:18Speaker 2: to try and pick the next interest rate move. In
- 0:21Speaker 2: this series, I'll be talking to interesting New Zealanders about
- 0:24Speaker 2: how money has shaped their lives and what they've learned
- 0:27Speaker 2: over the years. For today's podcast, I'm joined by singer
- 0:31Speaker 2: songwriter and she had frontman John too Good Cura John.
- 0:35Speaker 2: Welcome to Money.
- 0:36Speaker 1: Talks, Cureda. How are you good.
- 0:37Speaker 2: Thanks, I'm excited to have you here and excited to
- 0:40Speaker 2: hear you're about to go on tour again across the
- 0:44Speaker 2: country and first solo album. Is that right?
- 0:47Speaker 1: It is the first solo album and which is weird
- 0:49Speaker 1: after thirty three years in the industry, But it just
- 0:52Speaker 1: it was circumstance, covid Lockdown's lots of personal family carnage,
- 0:57Speaker 1: lost my mum, lost my brother in law. Yeah, so
- 1:00Speaker 1: I just needed to I needed some gentle music, so
- 1:03Speaker 1: I picked up my accous guitar and started writing. That
- 1:05Speaker 1: was my way through, Like therapy. It was total therapy
- 1:07Speaker 1: and you know what it's like out of pain, you know,
- 1:11Speaker 1: I think some of the best words I've ever done,
- 1:13Speaker 1: because it's like I had to be brutally honest with myself,
- 1:15Speaker 1: you know. And I'm really proud of this record. It's
- 1:19Speaker 1: a beautiful thing. I mean, I made it to sort
- 1:22Speaker 1: of hold me, you know. It was supposed to be
- 1:25Speaker 1: comforting to me, and it seems to. When I play
- 1:28Speaker 1: the stuff live, there's always someone that comes up and says, well,
- 1:31Speaker 1: that happened to me, you know, And yeah.
- 1:33Speaker 2: I mean we've been privileged enough to ends you me
- 1:35Speaker 2: to hear a couple of the songs and advance and
- 1:38Speaker 2: it's pretty heavy stuff like you're talking about, but it
- 1:40Speaker 2: doesn't come across that way musically. It's quite of uplifting.
- 1:44Speaker 1: No, well, it is. It's supposed to be the way through.
- 1:47Speaker 1: It's a way through. It's a way through. I mean,
- 1:48Speaker 1: it's just life, you know. I mean I think, you know,
- 1:51Speaker 1: my mum would prefer to have it that way than
- 1:55Speaker 1: losing her children rather. You know, that's the way of
- 1:58Speaker 1: the world. If you stick around long enough, going to
- 2:00Speaker 1: lose someone that you love, you know, but Noine sort
- 2:03Speaker 1: of prepares you for that. I think in the West,
- 2:04Speaker 1: we sort of we're taught to sort of live like
- 2:08Speaker 1: we're always going to be here, and then we're so
- 2:09Speaker 1: shocked and surprised when someone dies. Yeah, and it's like yeah,
- 2:15Speaker 1: so I think, yeah, it's good to break the stigma
- 2:18Speaker 1: of that. I mean, it's just part of life, you know.
- 2:20Speaker 2: Yeah, well, look, let's let's jump into some of the
- 2:23Speaker 2: money talks questions, and some of that will be family
- 2:25Speaker 2: and growing up and things. You know, if we went
- 2:28Speaker 2: right back, do you what are your first memories of
- 2:30Speaker 2: money in your life, holding it in your hand, that
- 2:33Speaker 2: kind of thing.
- 2:33Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean we were I was basically brought
- 2:36Speaker 1: up by two British immigrants ten pound poems, you know,
- 2:40Speaker 1: both given ten pounds to come and start a new
- 2:42Speaker 1: life on the other side of the planet. Dad was
- 2:45Speaker 1: a cabinetmaker, Mum was a receptionist at State Insurance. We
- 2:50Speaker 1: didn't have much growing up. Yeah, it was Wellington, right, Wellington.
- 2:54Speaker 1: All the people I grew up calling auntie and uncle
- 2:56Speaker 1: were all just the people that were on the boats
- 2:58Speaker 1: with my parents. So I didn't It wasn't until I
- 3:01Speaker 1: was seven and we went back to London to before
- 3:03Speaker 1: I met real blood relatives. Or anything like that. So
- 3:06Speaker 1: it was I suppose an immigrant experience, British immigrant experience.
- 3:10Speaker 1: I didn't realize that we weren't very rich until I
- 3:15Speaker 1: sort of went to high school and started hanging out
- 3:16Speaker 1: with people that had more money than me, and then went, oh, okay, right,
- 3:19Speaker 1: I mean I remember some of the happiest memories from
- 3:23Speaker 1: childhood was like my parents to make it okay for
- 3:27Speaker 1: the kids that we didn't have much. We'd sit around
- 3:30Speaker 1: a gas heater with white bread on a big fork
- 3:33Speaker 1: and toast the toast the bread. You know. It was
- 3:36Speaker 1: like exciting, man, it was like and it was exciting.
- 3:38Speaker 1: It was like, yeah, I get to cook my own food.
- 3:41Speaker 1: But it was just one slice of bread. So yeah,
- 3:43Speaker 1: it didn't really have much going up.
- 3:45Speaker 2: Yeah did you get pocket money?
- 3:47Speaker 1: Yeah? Once, yeah, I think once once we started. Yeah,
- 3:51Speaker 1: we did. Actually, we all took We had a sort
- 3:54Speaker 1: of a chart. You know. I had an older brother
- 3:57Speaker 1: and sister, so you know, someone was drying, someone was washing,
- 4:00Speaker 1: someone was looking after the car, and you know the
- 4:02Speaker 1: lawns and stuff, and yeah, yeah, I used to do
- 4:05Speaker 1: that for sure.
- 4:06Speaker 2: Yeah. One of the things that comes through all the
- 4:08Speaker 2: people I've talked on this podcast is that New Zealand
- 4:10Speaker 2: in those days. You know, there wasn't such a huge disparit.
- 4:13Speaker 2: You know, if you didn't have much money in the family,
- 4:16Speaker 2: the things that people were doing with money, there wasn't
- 4:18Speaker 2: as much going on, was it.
- 4:19Speaker 1: No, not really. I never felt we were lacking anything like.
- 4:23Speaker 1: It was very loving, supportive family life and all my
- 4:27Speaker 1: friends were you know. I went to Island Bay Primary
- 4:30Speaker 1: School in Wellington and everyone was from everywhere, you know,
- 4:34Speaker 1: like and went to a public school. It was great.
- 4:38Speaker 1: I loved it. I love my childhood in Island Bay.
- 4:41Speaker 1: It was fantastic.
- 4:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean at school where it was music a
- 4:44Speaker 2: thing right off the bat.
- 4:46Speaker 1: Music was a thing even back in the family home.
- 4:48Speaker 1: Like my two earliest memories is one was the Lolli
- 4:51Speaker 1: jar because I really liked sugar, my parents' loliger and
- 4:54Speaker 1: then the other one was my parents all in one
- 4:56Speaker 1: record player and had a speaker built into it, and
- 4:59Speaker 1: I used to just watch the Beatles Hard Day's Night
- 5:02Speaker 1: go around and be fascinated by this alchemy of putting
- 5:06Speaker 1: a needle down on a bit of plastic that was
- 5:08Speaker 1: going around and then the south would be generated and
- 5:11Speaker 1: I was like how it was alchemy, and I wanted
- 5:13Speaker 1: to know, how do you do that? What is the
- 5:16Speaker 1: process that they got there?
- 5:18Speaker 2: The Beatles would have been huge, I guess apparance, but
- 5:20Speaker 2: what were the other bands that sort of influenced those
- 5:23Speaker 2: early early.
- 5:24Speaker 1: Okay, so early on I had an older brother and sister.
- 5:27Speaker 1: I think I mentioned I was very lucky to have
- 5:29Speaker 1: that because they'd go out and make all those fashion mistakes,
- 5:32Speaker 1: and some of those were great ideas, you know. So
- 5:35Speaker 1: I think with my brother, he introduced me to things
- 5:37Speaker 1: like the Jam I really liked, you know that that's
- 5:44Speaker 1: entertainment and all that sort of sort of stuff. And
- 5:47Speaker 1: my sister was more punk, so Stiff Little Fingers, Sex Pistols,
- 5:53Speaker 1: Public Image Limited. She told me when I was getting older,
- 5:58Speaker 1: she said, just before I hit high school, she said,
- 6:00Speaker 1: you begin to heavy metal, old disowner. So I think,
- 6:02Speaker 1: because I've got a rebellious spirit, I purposely went out
- 6:05Speaker 1: and found a heavy metal record and got into it.
- 6:07Speaker 1: So yeah, but growing up, I think my first album
- 6:10Speaker 1: that I bought was Bob Marley Legend, which I still
- 6:12Speaker 1: listened to to this day. It's a fantastic record. A
- 6:16Speaker 1: Human League Dare, I think was my second record, so
- 6:19Speaker 1: it's pretty eclectic.
- 6:20Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean there's a classic key we sort of
- 6:24Speaker 2: vibe around music at that age is and I mean
- 6:25Speaker 2: you discover led Zeppelin all that type of stuff totally.
- 6:30Speaker 2: I know that eighties, you know, it was all got
- 6:32Speaker 2: a bit glam for a while and you had to
- 6:35Speaker 2: sort of look back a bit to find the real metal.
- 6:38Speaker 2: I suppose.
- 6:39Speaker 1: Yeah, I think leed Zeppelin was one of those ones
- 6:41Speaker 1: that where they metal. It was hard rock, you know,
- 6:45Speaker 1: but that it was one of those bands that if
- 6:47Speaker 1: you got it, you could go for a deep dive
- 6:51Speaker 1: into that band and all the different phases that they had.
- 6:54Speaker 1: My favorite houses of the whole because it's got like
- 6:57Speaker 1: you know, it's just got every single song on records,
- 7:00Speaker 1: great danced.
- 7:01Speaker 2: Crunge, no quarter, no quarter anyway. I have to catch
- 7:07Speaker 2: myself here and not go too deep and discussing ze Okay,
- 7:10Speaker 2: so you're at school, you know what about Korea was?
- 7:13Speaker 2: You know, like, was music a career option early on?
- 7:17Speaker 1: Originally I was the captain of the Wellington Primary School's
- 7:22Speaker 1: cricket team, So so I was being sort of you know,
- 7:26Speaker 1: conditioned to think that maybe I had a career in cricket.
- 7:30Speaker 2: I agreed that you made representative level.
- 7:32Speaker 1: I was the captain of the team and in my
- 7:35Speaker 1: team was Mark Ellis, you know, Charlie's Juice Gy and
- 7:39Speaker 1: note An All Black and also Danny Himona was my
- 7:43Speaker 1: opening bowler and my best mate. And he ended up
- 7:46Speaker 1: being another musician called damn Native Guy. But we used
- 7:51Speaker 1: to play against. You know, Chris Ken's was the captain
- 7:53Speaker 1: of the canty Boys around you. He never got me out.
- 7:56Speaker 1: I was scared shitless of a no because he was
- 7:58Speaker 1: he was like one of those guys school that was
- 8:00Speaker 1: shaving before everybody else. You know. I was like, there's
- 8:03Speaker 1: no way that that guy's thirteen, but he was apparently
- 8:06Speaker 1: he was frightening.
- 8:07Speaker 2: Do you a bowler a batsman?
- 8:09Speaker 1: I was an all rounder, so yeah, so I was
- 8:11Speaker 1: a good swing bowler and number three batsman. But around
- 8:15Speaker 1: that time I met Tom Lark and the drummer of
- 8:19Speaker 1: Shee Had and he said he played guitar, because I
- 8:24Speaker 1: had had guitar lessons from seven till eleven, and he said,
- 8:28Speaker 1: join my band I want to and gave me a
- 8:30Speaker 1: copy of a Cdc'shigway to Hell and Metallica's Ride the
- 8:33Speaker 1: Lightning and said I want a band. Like this, and
- 8:35Speaker 1: I was like, I've never touched an electric guitar. I
- 8:37Speaker 1: haven't even been in a room with an electric guitar.
- 8:40Speaker 1: And he said it's easy, and so he took me
- 8:41Speaker 1: into Wellington. I went to Wellington High School and we'd
- 8:44Speaker 1: sort of basically once we discovered the music room with
- 8:47Speaker 1: all the band gear, that's where we spent our whole
- 8:49Speaker 1: high school. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. And then my parents were
- 8:52Speaker 1: really disappointed at first because they really wanted me to
- 8:56Speaker 1: be a black camp. But then once they saw me
- 9:00Speaker 1: a music award on Teley next to Coronation Street, they
- 9:03Speaker 1: were and they became the biggest supporters of GHAT.
- 9:06Speaker 2: But there's a few years in between, right, so so
- 9:08Speaker 2: it must have been you know, I guess as parents,
- 9:10Speaker 2: they're probably just worried about about the stability of a
- 9:14Speaker 2: career in music. It can be a tough road.
- 9:17Speaker 1: It is most definitely a tough road. It's not it's
- 9:20Speaker 1: not for the slight of heart. You've got to really
- 9:22Speaker 1: believe in yourself and you've got to really want to
- 9:25Speaker 1: do it.
- 9:26Speaker 2: Said, making that leap between going oh this is great fun,
- 9:29Speaker 2: I'm in a band, and it's a it's a you
- 9:31Speaker 2: know something we're doing for for a laugh and actually
- 9:33Speaker 2: going are we going to try and take.
- 9:35Speaker 1: This yes and go yeah. Well so luckily I met
- 9:38Speaker 1: like minded, ambitious young men at high school that were
- 9:42Speaker 1: willing to take that journey with me. And we're just
- 9:45Speaker 1: as driven, if not more so, than I was. So
- 9:48Speaker 1: I was surrounded by a good team and you need
- 9:51Speaker 1: that because it's a team effort. And we always set
- 9:56Speaker 1: off sites much further afield than just New Zealand. We
- 9:59Speaker 1: were like, how does Metallica sound like it does? How
- 10:02Speaker 1: does you know led Zeppelins sound like they do? We
- 10:05Speaker 1: were never thinking about just the borders of New Zealand.
- 10:08Speaker 1: We're thinking about how does an international how do we
- 10:10Speaker 1: sound like an international band? How do we sound that
- 10:13Speaker 1: huge sound that we love? And so we just went
- 10:16Speaker 1: on a journey to try and find that the answers
- 10:19Speaker 1: to those questions, you know, And basically it comes down
- 10:21Speaker 1: to putting in the hours and rehearsing and playing shows
- 10:26Speaker 1: and never taking no for an answer. Being extremely a
- 10:29Speaker 1: career focused.
- 10:31Speaker 2: But when you say career, I mean that's absolutely focused
- 10:34Speaker 2: on the music, right, But did you think about the
- 10:36Speaker 2: business side much in those days? You know, how you
- 10:38Speaker 2: could make a living.
- 10:40Speaker 1: At first, we knew that it was going to be tough,
- 10:43Speaker 1: you know, we knew that we were going to be
- 10:45Speaker 1: earning practically less than the doll But that day that
- 10:49Speaker 1: we did actually give our jobs away and went, okay,
- 10:52Speaker 1: we've got a record deal. In Jimmy, it might might
- 10:54Speaker 1: not be the best thing, but it's still a record deal.
- 10:57Speaker 1: We were like, we are prepared to eat rubbish and
- 11:00Speaker 1: do what we need to do to get to that point.
- 11:03Speaker 1: And then it was like, you know, you know, ten
- 11:06Speaker 1: years of hard grind, just making enough money to feed
- 11:11Speaker 1: ourselves and travel to America, then travel to Europe, then
- 11:15Speaker 1: to Australia and just going never taking no for an answer,
- 11:19Speaker 1: and then finally publishing companies going yeah, we want what
- 11:23Speaker 1: you've got his big advance because.
- 11:25Speaker 2: It was still fairly traditional, you know, in those days,
- 11:28Speaker 2: it was almost the way it had been for twenty
- 11:30Speaker 2: to thirty years in terms of how bands work. Do
- 11:32Speaker 2: you look at it now, I mean, how does it
- 11:33Speaker 2: compare now? But also when you look at young bands
- 11:37Speaker 2: the way that they're looking at Korea now, it's very different, right.
- 11:40Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really it's different on so many levels. It's
- 11:44Speaker 1: different on the fact even right down to the fundamentals
- 11:47Speaker 1: of like having to learn how to play your instrument.
- 11:51Speaker 1: Nowadays you've got the resource of YouTube, which has got
- 11:55Speaker 1: all the best guitarists in the world. This is how
- 11:58Speaker 1: you play this. We did have that resource. We had
- 12:01Speaker 1: to hunt down the local guitar tutor who might not
- 12:03Speaker 1: be into the music that you like. But that's the
- 12:05Speaker 1: only person I could find. So there's a different skill
- 12:09Speaker 1: set going on. If someone's keen and passionate, they can
- 12:12Speaker 1: become very very good, really young, and you need to
- 12:15Speaker 1: be good young to compete basically, And so there's that.
- 12:21Speaker 1: Then there's also direct lines of communication between you and
- 12:24Speaker 1: your audience, which we didn't have, like the Internet, social media,
- 12:28Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I'm not very good with that because
- 12:31Speaker 1: I'm not part of that generation. I'm still of the
- 12:34Speaker 1: generation that I liked my rock stars to be mysterious,
- 12:38Speaker 1: like Prince. You know, I didn't want to know what
- 12:40Speaker 1: Prince was eating for dinner. I wanted to I just
- 12:43Speaker 1: wanted to be him, you know, like because he was
- 12:46Speaker 1: you know, he slept with Apollonia, which was really cool,
- 12:49Speaker 1: you know, and I liked that. I like that mystery,
- 12:52Speaker 1: and I'm quite a private person. So I'm still I
- 12:54Speaker 1: think a little bit like that, which is probably business
- 12:56Speaker 1: wise to my detriment.
- 12:58Speaker 2: I mean, it feels like young kids, you know, that
- 12:59Speaker 2: they're really got a hustle. Now they sell their own
- 13:02Speaker 2: T shirts, they've.
- 13:03Speaker 1: Bought a brand themselves. Basically, they've got to think of
- 13:05Speaker 1: themselves as a brand rather than as a person. And
- 13:08Speaker 1: that's people. There's some kids are so good at it.
- 13:13Speaker 1: But that's just the world that they're we're in, and
- 13:16Speaker 1: and all power to them. But I actually really love
- 13:19Speaker 1: going home after playing a show and being private. Yeah,
- 13:22Speaker 1: I actually really appreciate that.
- 13:24Speaker 2: You know, was there a point when the success started
- 13:33Speaker 2: to come with you thought, gee, there is some money here.
- 13:37Speaker 2: I need to think about this in a sort of
- 13:40Speaker 2: a practical way, you know, that personal finance stuff, in
- 13:43Speaker 2: vesting in a house or.
- 13:44Speaker 1: Absolutely, and I did do that, you know, first big
- 13:46Speaker 1: publishing payout we got. I that was used as deposit
- 13:51Speaker 1: on a house in Brooklyn and Wellington in my first marriage,
- 13:55Speaker 1: and yeah, that got us into the onto the property letter,
- 13:58Speaker 1: you know. And it was like after years of renting
- 14:02Speaker 1: or sleeping on couches, you know pretty much, you know,
- 14:05Speaker 1: And that was from a publishing deal. Yeah, And I mean,
- 14:09Speaker 1: I've got to say, it wasn't until I actually got
- 14:12Speaker 1: out of that first marriage and had to reassess my
- 14:16Speaker 1: whole life that I actually worked out where my income
- 14:19Speaker 1: streams were, where I made money what I didn't even
- 14:23Speaker 1: know what I was earning. Yeah, it must have been.
- 14:25Speaker 2: And you hear there's a lot of bands, it just
- 14:27Speaker 2: must be like a will wind for a while minutes
- 14:30Speaker 2: all on them because you're not late nineties early Okay.
- 14:33Speaker 1: So I was the guy in the band that was
- 14:36Speaker 1: the creative right. I was the guy that was writing
- 14:38Speaker 1: the words, writing the songs, and you know, behaving like
- 14:42Speaker 1: a performing demon on stage, making sure that everyone walked
- 14:46Speaker 1: out of that venue going that was the best rock
- 14:49Speaker 1: and roll band I've seen. That was my That was
- 14:51Speaker 1: the eyes on the prize. I wasn't even looking at
- 14:54Speaker 1: my bank account, you know. I was just going, as
- 14:56Speaker 1: long as people want to see us, I'm happy. And
- 14:59Speaker 1: it wasn't util I grew up and went, right, I've
- 15:02Speaker 1: actually got to pay I've got to pay for things here.
- 15:05Speaker 1: And then actually having my own children kids really focuses you.
- 15:10Speaker 1: It's like, okay, cool. Luckily I've by that point I'd
- 15:15Speaker 1: made enough of a sort of I had enough of
- 15:16Speaker 1: a profile to be able to actually say yes to
- 15:19Speaker 1: things that I found to be I was passionate about,
- 15:23Speaker 1: you know, and I'd never got into a situation I
- 15:25Speaker 1: think where I was going, Well, I'm going to do this,
- 15:28Speaker 1: even though I find it echy, because I just need
- 15:31Speaker 1: to pay the rent, you know, like I've always luckily
- 15:34Speaker 1: gone what okay? Cool? Silo Theater. Want me to do
- 15:37Speaker 1: a Browll theater show. Keen Hodaki want me to do
- 15:42Speaker 1: a radio show where I just play what I was
- 15:45Speaker 1: brought up on. Great. I'm playing a solo show where
- 15:49Speaker 1: I'm playing in front of one hundred and fifty people,
- 15:51Speaker 1: but it's really intimate. But it's also a real thrill
- 15:55Speaker 1: to me to do Great. Next day I'm playing She
- 15:58Speaker 1: Had with ten thousand people in front of me. I'm
- 16:01Speaker 1: very fortunate to have this life and actually be paid
- 16:05Speaker 1: to do it because I'm pretty much doing all these
- 16:07Speaker 1: things that I do free.
- 16:09Speaker 2: In a weird way, it's that, you know, it's making
- 16:12Speaker 2: that passion your job. Yes, yeah, I mean how much?
- 16:16Speaker 2: I mean, I guess you know, it's a question I asked,
- 16:19Speaker 2: I'll ask it, but and it's pretty probably pretty obvious
- 16:21Speaker 2: with an artist or you know, but how much is
- 16:23Speaker 2: money ever a driver your output and what you do.
- 16:27Speaker 1: It's not, it's not a driver. I think it's it's
- 16:31Speaker 1: about learning how to value yourself. It's really important to
- 16:34Speaker 1: value yourself properly, you know, Like I think I used
- 16:37Speaker 1: to be such a people pleaser when I was younger.
- 16:39Speaker 1: It was like I'd undervalue myself. You know, someone wanted
- 16:42Speaker 1: me to do something, I'd be like, oh, I don't
- 16:44Speaker 1: want to offend them, so I'll just I'll short change myself.
- 16:49Speaker 1: Then it was like I met my wife. She's like,
- 16:51Speaker 1: what the hell, man, you're Johnny fucking too good. You
- 16:54Speaker 1: should be asking for this. And it was like, okay,
- 16:56Speaker 1: I'll ask for it. And then it was like yes,
- 16:58Speaker 1: sweet airs, okay, cool, let's go, you know. And then
- 17:00Speaker 1: I realized, okay, right, You've got a value what you do,
- 17:03Speaker 1: and then when you turn up to do it, you
- 17:05Speaker 1: nail the shit out of it, you know. You I
- 17:08Speaker 1: never do anything half fast, whether it's doing voiceovers for ads,
- 17:11Speaker 1: whether it's doing anything, I'm always one hundred percent on
- 17:15Speaker 1: and giving it my best shot. That's it.
- 17:17Speaker 2: I mean, other jobs, you know, I guess you can
- 17:19Speaker 2: structure a career once you're a certain level where you
- 17:21Speaker 2: can do jobs at a commercial and you just do
- 17:23Speaker 2: it because it's going to fund doing something that's completely noncommercial.
- 17:27Speaker 1: Sure, but even say doing voiceovers, I'm only doing voiceovers
- 17:30Speaker 1: for ads for things that I actually have trying to.
- 17:32Speaker 2: Think of what I've what I've heard you and I
- 17:34Speaker 2: can't remember.
- 17:36Speaker 1: But you know, like, I mean, honestly, like I am
- 17:38Speaker 1: in a very privileged position of saying being able to
- 17:41Speaker 1: say no to things that I don't feel and saying
- 17:44Speaker 1: yes to things that I do, you know, And I
- 17:47Speaker 1: know that that's not the case for everybody. And I
- 17:49Speaker 1: and I'm thankful every day I wake up.
- 17:52Speaker 2: And also I guess, I mean, I guess I need
- 17:54Speaker 2: to ask. She had still a loose concept. You can
- 17:57Speaker 2: see she had come back and have another two.
- 18:00Speaker 1: Absolutely, and it's like we've all got our own things.
- 18:02Speaker 1: So Tom not at all. Tom Tomking the drummer, you know,
- 18:07Speaker 1: founding member with me. He manages other bands. He was
- 18:10Speaker 1: always passionate about the business. That was something that I
- 18:14Speaker 1: was so glad I had him around me because he
- 18:18Speaker 1: actually thrilled at the business, whereas I found it a
- 18:21Speaker 1: little bit as a sensitive sort of creative I need
- 18:25Speaker 1: to be protected from it a little bit. I'm a
- 18:27Speaker 1: bit better now. I can actually I can interface with
- 18:30Speaker 1: the business world a lot easier than when I was younger.
- 18:34Speaker 1: But but having that, you know, passionate guy that was
- 18:37Speaker 1: passionate about that side of things around me, it was
- 18:40Speaker 1: a godsend, you know, and so he's made a living
- 18:42Speaker 1: out of that. But we all you know, I think
- 18:46Speaker 1: Phil is he the guitarist, he does he tour managers
- 18:52Speaker 1: bands because he loves touring, and he knows all the
- 18:56Speaker 1: absolutely and but when we come together, we still nail it,
- 19:00Speaker 1: you know, we nail it. And we know that we've
- 19:03Speaker 1: got a name of being a great live act, and
- 19:06Speaker 1: so we can never you know, disappoint people and not
- 19:08Speaker 1: disappoint ourselves, you know, so we always take it very
- 19:11Speaker 1: seriously when we're together.
- 19:13Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm jumping around to it here. But
- 19:14Speaker 2: one of the things I wanted to ask is, you know,
- 19:16Speaker 2: you were very metal at the start, right, and then
- 19:18Speaker 2: of course it evolves and changes, and it's sort of
- 19:21Speaker 2: sometimes some ways. That's a bit of an analogy for
- 19:24Speaker 2: how life can be, especially if you're from a sort
- 19:26Speaker 2: of working class background. I'm sort of similar sort of boat.
- 19:29Speaker 2: Was there a point at which you remember just going,
- 19:32Speaker 2: I'm gonna not be constrained by that, you know, like
- 19:35Speaker 2: there's there's sometimes it can be a little bit suffocating.
- 19:38Speaker 1: If yeah, without a doubt, I mean, I think SHEE
- 19:40Speaker 1: Hard wouldn't be a thing if we just made the
- 19:43Speaker 1: same record over and over again.
- 19:44Speaker 2: And there's a lot of people who'd like to see
- 19:46Speaker 2: how you make kills your.
- 19:47Speaker 1: As absolutely and you know what it's like if we
- 19:50Speaker 1: if we stuck to that, we would have got bored.
- 19:54Speaker 1: Our shows would have it would have been law of
- 19:55Speaker 1: diminishing returns. We wouldn't have been passionate about it. We
- 19:58Speaker 1: needed to push ourselves. I think artists, and I should
- 20:02Speaker 1: imagine people who've creative in the business industry need to
- 20:05Speaker 1: push themselves and step out of their comfort zone so
- 20:09Speaker 1: they can even get bigger than what they were. You know,
- 20:12Speaker 1: it's so important to keep pushing yourself otherwise you become
- 20:17Speaker 1: complacent and you start phoning it in. As soon as
- 20:21Speaker 1: you start phoning in art or rock and roll, people
- 20:24Speaker 1: can feel it. You can feel it. I've got to
- 20:27Speaker 1: feel it, you know, Like, so how do I feel it?
- 20:29Speaker 1: By taking a path that I've never walked down before.
- 20:33Speaker 1: And you know Fish album. Yes, we went from selling
- 20:36Speaker 1: two nights out at the Auckland Town Hall to down
- 20:39Speaker 1: to half of Auckland Town Hall in the space of
- 20:43Speaker 1: release a bad album. But now what twenty years later,
- 20:46Speaker 1: the first song on that record is a New Zealand
- 20:49Speaker 1: rock standard home Again.
- 20:50Speaker 2: You know, it kind of defines how we remember day
- 20:53Speaker 2: I stood out to.
- 20:53Speaker 1: Deal it lately. But at the time our fans were
- 20:56Speaker 1: really unhappy with us doing that. Yeah, it was too
- 20:59Speaker 1: poppy for this tipop, but we needed to do that
- 21:02Speaker 1: because that's what we were feeling in our hearts. That's
- 21:05Speaker 1: the song we wanted to write.
- 21:06Speaker 2: In hindsight, when you look back, it was still pretty solid.
- 21:08Speaker 1: Rock rock and roll, yeah, But at the time, after
- 21:10Speaker 1: going coming from Kiljoy, people were like, what is this pop? Yeah,
- 21:14Speaker 1: I'm not into this, you know, like and it took us,
- 21:17Speaker 1: you know, two years to get back onto you know,
- 21:20Speaker 1: doing the numbers that we were doing before and then
- 21:24Speaker 1: but it broadened and it changed, you know, all of
- 21:27Speaker 1: a sudden. It went from a sort of ninety ninety
- 21:31Speaker 1: sort of ten split between mostly boys and girls to
- 21:34Speaker 1: fifty to fifty almost because we changed and all of
- 21:38Speaker 1: a sudden, the boys started behaving better, less fine, the
- 21:41Speaker 1: kids better to look at, and it was great. I
- 21:44Speaker 1: loved her, you know, do you remember.
- 21:45Speaker 2: I mean around that time of that she had and
- 21:48Speaker 2: the Fish album that blew up, right, and suddenly you're
- 21:51Speaker 2: dealing with fame in a pretty small place. It did
- 21:54Speaker 2: it change things for you? I mean, and it's weird
- 21:57Speaker 2: as your fame without wealth often means that you're sort.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Of Yeah, I think I think people people sort of
- 22:03Speaker 1: take for you know, they forget, yes, okay, Johnny's a
- 22:06Speaker 1: rock star, but he's a New Zealand rock star. It's
- 22:08Speaker 1: it's a scale thing, you know, like.
- 22:10Speaker 2: It was still going to.
- 22:12Speaker 1: I Amn, okay money, you know, like I am not
- 22:15Speaker 1: complaining at all, but it's not like being being golden
- 22:19Speaker 1: or platinum in New Zealand. It's not like selling platinum
- 22:22Speaker 1: in America or Germany or stuff like that. So so
- 22:25Speaker 1: there's got to be some reality to this, to that.
- 22:28Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, my job satisfaction is extremely high
- 22:31Speaker 1: and we're doing great, you know, like, so I've got
- 22:34Speaker 1: no complaints at all. You know, I find the fame
- 22:36Speaker 1: thing a little bit weird still, But at the same time,
- 22:40Speaker 1: if someone comes up to me and says, hey, man,
- 22:43Speaker 1: I saw you when I was at Union Hamilton and
- 22:46Speaker 1: that show just blew my mind. It was like, well,
- 22:48Speaker 1: I always give people the time of day because it's like,
- 22:50Speaker 1: that's great, what a great thing, what a great thing
- 22:53Speaker 1: that happened.
- 22:54Speaker 2: I mean, well, it's a weird position you're in. I
- 22:56Speaker 2: get it a little bit with older white men who
- 22:59Speaker 2: reason business. But for you, this is why I'm nervous
- 23:03Speaker 2: intering you where I wouldn't be, whether a Reserve bank
- 23:04Speaker 2: governor or something. It's because because you it feels like
- 23:08Speaker 2: I feel like I sort of know you because your
- 23:09Speaker 2: voice saw you know, and you said some of those lines.
- 23:13Speaker 2: You know, it's not the it's not the clocks back
- 23:15Speaker 2: for winter. It's the day of tiny try sticks in my.
- 23:19Speaker 1: Hair like that line. And I'm pretty pretty proud of
- 23:21Speaker 1: that one. Yeah, I don't know, it's it's yeah, I'm
- 23:25Speaker 1: always the thing is for me. I always go at
- 23:27Speaker 1: it like I just happen to have a job that
- 23:30Speaker 1: I love. But all it is is just a job
- 23:32Speaker 1: at the end of the day, and it's a really
- 23:34Speaker 1: great job that I love and I'm very fortunate, but
- 23:36Speaker 1: it's no more important than the guy that drives the
- 23:39Speaker 1: bus that gets me to the gig. It's just the same.
- 23:42Speaker 1: I was brought up by working class parents, so I've
- 23:45Speaker 1: always I always bat for the underdog, you know, like
- 23:47Speaker 1: and so I. And also because we were the same
- 23:51Speaker 1: four guys from when we're seventeen years at school. We've
- 23:54Speaker 1: seen each other's worst haircuts, We've seen each other's worst clothes,
- 23:57Speaker 1: fashion choices. So there's no we can't. Don't fool each
- 24:00Speaker 1: other about. We're bigger than what we actually are. We
- 24:03Speaker 1: are who we are. Everyone's egos are kept in check.
- 24:07Speaker 1: And also we're Kiwis, so our egos are naturally kicked
- 24:10Speaker 1: in checks because we're Kiwi's. You know, it's not cool
- 24:14Speaker 1: to be a rock star, you know, like, well, it's
- 24:17Speaker 1: not cool to flaunt.
- 24:18Speaker 2: It's quite a balancing act.
- 24:21Speaker 1: It's got to be the humble man. And I'm good
- 24:23Speaker 1: with that, you know, Like it's it's like I said,
- 24:25Speaker 1: it's it's a cool job, but it's no more important
- 24:27Speaker 1: than any other job, you know.
- 24:28Speaker 2: Sure a bit of crack into some of our our
- 24:37Speaker 2: quip fire money sure questions. So one of them is,
- 24:41Speaker 2: what's the poorest you've ever been.
- 24:43Speaker 1: I'd say borrowing money off the support Act when We're
- 24:48Speaker 1: in New York on a bus and going I need
- 24:52Speaker 1: to borrow two bucks just so that I can eat
- 24:54Speaker 1: a piece of pizza and borrowing money off off the support.
- 24:58Speaker 2: So what era would that have been?
- 24:59Speaker 1: Wou and kill Joy?
- 25:01Speaker 2: Yeah, so really just really getting up there.
- 25:03Speaker 1: You're just like playing in front of nobody in Southern
- 25:07Speaker 1: States of America and then in New York and but
- 25:10Speaker 1: just just living it, you know, just having to do it. Yeah.
- 25:13Speaker 2: And then when you finally got some money together, what
- 25:15Speaker 2: would be one of the most indulgent purchases you've ever made?
- 25:18Speaker 2: Or or where do you like to We would.
- 25:20Speaker 1: Just I think buying a house in Thomachi, Makoto nowadays
- 25:24Speaker 1: is pretty indulgent. And we've managed to do that. So
- 25:29Speaker 1: I'm really proud. We saved hard for fifteen years to
- 25:32Speaker 1: do that, and I'm really proud of me and my
- 25:35Speaker 1: wife because it's not easy, and I absolutely feel for
- 25:39Speaker 1: anybody who's doing it tough, you know, and because we're
- 25:44Speaker 1: not leaving it living in very easy times financially.
- 25:46Speaker 2: Sure, do you do you buy a lotto tickets? And
- 25:50Speaker 2: do you still imagine winning lotto and if so, you know,
- 25:52Speaker 2: how much do you imagine winning?
- 25:54Speaker 1: Well, part of my story is that I converted to
- 25:56Speaker 1: Islam so we can't gamble, and so I sort of,
- 26:00Speaker 1: you know, when whenever we need to, you know, me
- 26:03Speaker 1: and the family need some money, we sort of have
- 26:04Speaker 1: a joke about, oh when we win the halal lot
- 26:06Speaker 1: oflling it, But it's like we don't. We don't gamble.
- 26:11Speaker 1: I never gambled though, I mean, I think apart from
- 26:13Speaker 1: if we ever went to Vegas, I'd give myself two
- 26:16Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks a second of blackjack table and
- 26:19Speaker 1: I wouldn't I set a rule. If I lose that money,
- 26:23Speaker 1: I'm out. You know, I never lost. I always walked
- 26:26Speaker 1: out up, you know. But yeah, I don't know. I
- 26:30Speaker 1: think it was from being a struggling artist for so
- 26:32Speaker 1: many years that whatever money I held had I held
- 26:36Speaker 1: on tight to. But then meeting my wife, who is
- 26:41Speaker 1: the daughter of a UN diplomat. He's actually head economists,
- 26:45Speaker 1: he was a head economist at the Islamic Bank of
- 26:47Speaker 1: Saudi Arabia.
- 26:47Speaker 2: When her so she knows how to organize the money.
- 26:51Speaker 1: No she doesn't. Oh, well no not at all, because
- 26:54Speaker 1: he did pretty much everything for everybody. Yeah, and so
- 26:58Speaker 1: we've had to learn together and and you know what,
- 27:01Speaker 1: I think we're doing a great job considering neither of
- 27:03Speaker 1: us sort of were from that world, even though her
- 27:06Speaker 1: dad was. But he's now the advisor to the Kuwaiti
- 27:10Speaker 1: agricultur Cultural Ministry trying to divest from fossil fuels at
- 27:14Speaker 1: the moment, So that's his job. That's a big job.
- 27:18Speaker 1: So yeah, so it's pretty interesting marrying into that family
- 27:21Speaker 1: because yeah, I think I was a bit of an
- 27:23Speaker 1: outside context problem when when my when my wife turned
- 27:26Speaker 1: up with a rock and roll star from New Zealand.
- 27:28Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's quite a shift. Does the Islamic thing?
- 27:32Speaker 2: Does it change the way you look at money?
- 27:34Speaker 1: Absolutely, because we think of money as everything's a gift
- 27:38Speaker 1: from a loah, everything's a gift from the universe, if
- 27:41Speaker 1: you want to put it that way. And when you die,
- 27:44Speaker 1: you're going to be asked, what did you do what
- 27:47Speaker 1: I gave What did you do with what I gave you?
- 27:49Speaker 1: So the idea is to pass that money on. When
- 27:52Speaker 1: I first met Dana, I was a staunch humanist atheist
- 27:56Speaker 1: that was like I was. I was like, talked a
- 27:59Speaker 1: good game about being generous, being kind. But because I
- 28:01Speaker 1: was a struggling artist, I held on tightly to any
- 28:03Speaker 1: money I ever got because I didn't have any faith
- 28:06Speaker 1: that I would ever get paid again, because I didn't
- 28:08Speaker 1: know if I would. But she would literally give her
- 28:11Speaker 1: last ten dollars to the person on the street who
- 28:13Speaker 1: needed it because it wasn't hers anyway, and she was
- 28:16Speaker 1: going to be asked that question when she dies. Wow.
- 28:18Speaker 1: So it's and you know what, without fail by the
- 28:21Speaker 1: end of the day she was getting comped inn or
- 28:23Speaker 1: at some restaurant or some one to give it back.
- 28:27Speaker 1: It just comes back, and it's just going with the
- 28:29Speaker 1: flow of the universe. You know. Yeah, that's my attitude
- 28:32Speaker 1: towards money. It's like you give to people that are
- 28:34Speaker 1: in need. And also if you look at people rather
- 28:37Speaker 1: than in the West, where we're taught to look at
- 28:39Speaker 1: people who have more than us and always be on
- 28:42Speaker 1: the search for better car, better house, better neighborhood, better school,
- 28:46Speaker 1: you always got to be miserable. If you look the
- 28:48Speaker 1: other way and go, who is who needs something here?
- 28:51Speaker 1: Who is less than me? And you help them out,
- 28:53Speaker 1: you sleep like a baby because they're manifestations of us. Anyway,
- 28:57Speaker 1: you know, So that's how I look at it.
- 28:59Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely brilliant and a really interesting transformation for a
- 29:02Speaker 2: kid from for sure.
- 29:04Speaker 1: For sure.
- 29:05Speaker 2: A bit of a lighter question, I guess. But because
- 29:07Speaker 2: it's money talks, I always like, especially you know anyone
- 29:10Speaker 2: musical do you have a favorite song about money? So
- 29:13Speaker 2: a song with the money lyric.
- 29:15Speaker 1: It's money for Nothing, mate.
- 29:17Speaker 2: I always saying that's great until he starts singing the
- 29:20Speaker 2: riff's amazings are awesome.
- 29:21Speaker 1: No. I actually had to do it and the come
- 29:23Speaker 1: together di Strates, and I was like, do you really
- 29:26Speaker 1: have to give me that gig and that song because
- 29:28Speaker 1: I like Diastrates? But well, my favorite tunnel of love
- 29:32Speaker 1: in Romeo and Juliet. But but then getting inside it
- 29:36Speaker 1: and actually performing it live, it's a pretty rock and tune. Yeah,
- 29:41Speaker 1: there's a there's a live version from nearby Worth with
- 29:45Speaker 1: Eric Clapton playing the other guitar, and it's.
- 29:47Speaker 2: Pretty cock It's amazing and and actually kind of interesting lyrics.
- 29:51Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, cool.
- 29:52Speaker 2: We better wrap this up shortly because I know you've
- 29:55Speaker 2: got to get downstairs and play some songs. But a
- 29:58Speaker 2: big one we ask is as if you we were
- 30:00Speaker 2: Prime Minister of the day if we could magically make
- 30:02Speaker 2: you Prime Minister for the Shay Is there something you
- 30:04Speaker 2: would like most like to change in New Zealand to
- 30:07Speaker 2: try and I guess deal with social inequality or deal
- 30:11Speaker 2: with some of the big issues out there. It's a
- 30:13Speaker 2: huge question.
- 30:14Speaker 1: I know it's a it's a big question. I think
- 30:19Speaker 1: our society undervalues teachers, it undervalues people in service industry,
- 30:24Speaker 1: it undervalues people who work in hospitals and health I
- 30:29Speaker 1: would try and even up what they get paid. I
- 30:32Speaker 1: think we on a whole, we tend to financially, we
- 30:38Speaker 1: tend to reward ruthlessness rather than a charity and generosity.
- 30:43Speaker 1: So I would turn that on its head. What are
- 30:47Speaker 1: the policies that make that happen? Who knows. I've had
- 30:50Speaker 1: conversations where people go, oh, you should be into politics.
- 30:52Speaker 1: It's like, no, man, what's great about being an artist
- 30:55Speaker 1: is you get to sit outside and you and you're
- 30:58Speaker 1: not you know, I can say things without having to.
- 31:00Speaker 1: Is this going to piss off someone from my team?
- 31:02Speaker 1: You know? And I do understand you need to be
- 31:04Speaker 1: a team when you're working in party politics. But I
- 31:07Speaker 1: think I like the freedom afforded me by being an
- 31:11Speaker 1: artist because our plays a role in culture and society
- 31:15Speaker 1: because we get to sort of sit outside and go
- 31:17Speaker 1: Actually that's not fair and that's not right, you know so,
- 31:20Speaker 1: but we don't have to have the argument with you know.
- 31:23Speaker 1: So it's an interesting thing. What would I change? Yeah,
- 31:26Speaker 1: I think yeah, valuing, valuing our teachers and our people
- 31:30Speaker 1: in health. I think that would be good. First up,
- 31:34Speaker 1: making sure that we honor the Treaty of w Tongue
- 31:36Speaker 1: as well, because it is a joint thing. It's it's
- 31:39Speaker 1: for it's not just for Maori, it's for Puckyhart as well.
- 31:42Speaker 1: I think that would be great. And being really honest
- 31:45Speaker 1: about our history. That would be very important to me.
- 31:48Speaker 1: Yeah sure.
- 31:49Speaker 2: Now hey, look that's brilliant, John. I know we're go
- 31:51Speaker 2: to let you go. Can I just just just firstly,
- 31:53Speaker 2: good well, lastly, good luck with this tour and the
- 31:56Speaker 2: and the album. Right, so, Last of the Lonely Gods
- 32:00Speaker 2: early October October eleventh, October eleventh, is that when the
- 32:03Speaker 2: album comes out.
- 32:04Speaker 1: It's when the album comes out now, when you hit
- 32:06Speaker 1: the road. Yeah much. Yeah, it's the best record I
- 32:09Speaker 1: think I've made for ages. So it's good.
- 32:11Speaker 2: Well, that is great, Thanks for being here and good
- 32:14Speaker 2: luck with it all. Cheers, John, Thank you thanks for
- 32:16Speaker 2: listening to this episode of Money Talks. If you want
- 32:19Speaker 2: to get in touch, drop me a line at Liam
- 32:22Speaker 2: dot Dan at inzme dot co dot nz and you
- 32:26Speaker 2: can read more from me at inzidherld dot co dot nz.
- 32:30Speaker 2: Thanks to my producer Ethan Sills and sound engineer Liam McDonald.
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