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Rabbi Moshe Haber Path of the Just: Your Unique Path 6.18.26 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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  And who does this purpose? How are you?
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  So next Thursday in deal though starting tomorrow.
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  So it says that the whole book Messiah Shaheen has got 26
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  shops. There's many, many steps of
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  growth. And yet the overall theme that
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  he brings out is that is that although I gave you the steps
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  that every person should take the greatness I want you to know
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  that every person is different and that means your climb will
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  not look exactly like my climb and that's perfectly fine.
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  The reason that one climb your development to grow and become a
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  better person. Your end, your end result will
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  not a perfect version of yourself is not going to look
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  like a perfect version of myself because they God put us all in
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  different situations for a reason.
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  That means is one person that's a challenge of beat the horn
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  might be in the area of business Is it develop a certain
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  understanding of how to approach finances.
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  Another working challenge to be the home might be an area of the
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  children and they're going to develop a certain strength to be
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  the home in that area. Someone else might be health
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  someone else, something else and that's they're going to be the
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  king in there. You know in their world, they're
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  going to be very strong in that area because they worked in
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  themselves and they had that background same we dealt with
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  examples yesterday. Someone has different areas and
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  different nations, different areas.
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  Getting along with people would be how to deal with your own
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  mental health, how to deal with certain stresses of life,
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  whatever, how to deal with certain influences, certain
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  challenges. Every person has their own fight
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  and therefore every person has their own results.
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  And if that's the case, just because we gave you steps for
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  that, it's unanimous, it's across the board, That's for
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  all. It doesn't mean the effects are
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  going to look the same on every person.
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  That's his overall point. And that makes you understand.
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  And your job is never to become the other person.
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  Never. Your job is only to become the
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  best version of yourself. You can use other people's
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  strengths as a means of becoming yourself.
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  Your job is not even to become what should have been on the
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  ruling. It's to become your what should
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  have been. You can use one more share, use
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  uses immunity, uses total knowledge, uses process and use
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  it for yourself. But your job is not to become
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  him ever as he does, I think. And he says, right, He says the
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  way to understand this better is to understand the bottom line.
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  What is the bottom line of every single Jew?
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  The bottom line of every single Jew is one thing.
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  In your own version, hoil of a en enu ella la assot mashiesh
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  NACHA truajillo trobo. Your entire job in life is to
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  make Hashem, to serve Hashem, call, make our shem happy.
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  That's your entire job and life. It boils down to one thing, and
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  that's literally like taking life, taking the whole humongous
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  route. Everything that goes in it take
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  your entire life. Everything happens in it.
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  You have about probably about 10 channels that are on at all
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  times, right? Yeah.
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  You're dealing with family, business, personal community,
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  many, many layers within personal, many, many layers.
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  And then family melee is the business.
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  A lot of things going on, social, friends, all those
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  things, they go, all those channels put them into a funnel
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  and they all found that funnel down to a very tight narrow
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  pathway, which is what goes into serving God.
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  And everything that you're doing boils down to that.
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  Everything boils down to that. And I might or I might not
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  serving Asian Zehu. And if it is that simple, if
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  it's that basic, then he's telling you every person has to
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  use their own tracks. But to that end result, So yes,
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  we all have A1 pathway, which are the steps that he takes.
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  We all have our own way of doing it, which is the lives that we
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  have. And we all have the same bottom
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  line, which is serving God through our means.
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  So yes, our end results are going to look different.
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  But at the core, if you dig deep, it's supposed to look the
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  same. It sounds like a contradiction,
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  but the same thing. It's also different because you
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  have your makeup. I have my makeup.
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  But at the same time, they have a common denominator, which is
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  am I serving God through this? Am I serving him through my
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  MUNA? Am I, am I serving him to my
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  character? Am I serving him to my learning
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  my version of learning my version of my version of
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  character? But am I serving God at the
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  bottom line as the one question the person should ask on the
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  day, the week, the month, the year, the wife Oh my serving
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  guard. If yes, I'm in a good spot.
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  If no, I'm the work to do. That's the whole idea.
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  I want to boil the entire thing down to a very, very small basic
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  thing. That's it is what it always work
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  to do nothing to absolutely yeah, yeah, there's always I
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  mean, no matter how good you are, there's always improved
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  100%. Do you want this true.
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  Do you want this to be a common you come your you all rule a
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  comment the not the end of your life.
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  You want it to be a bottom line, which means not to be whatever
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  and by a funeral and they get up and they say so and so is very
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  cute and he was very good at ball right.
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  They're a little bit you know, they're not doing the right
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  thing that it's been doing the president's disservice because
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  that's not his bottom line. His bottom line is whatever he
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  did, maybe it was his character, maybe it was kind of a nice
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  person he was, maybe it was the hello that he made.
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  Whatever you aren't used, there's something to be all
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  learning that he did, but it's got to be something that's
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  productive and productive the means of serving Hashem.
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  So you have many, many people with many, many tracks and
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  they're not the same, completely different worlds.
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  They can live in different places, they can do different
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  things. They they apply themselves to
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  Hashem differently, but they have a bottom line to serve God.
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  That's it. You can serve God and you're
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  learning and you're praying and the way you treat other people
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  and the character that you do, you can serve them and it's
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  going to play out differently. It's going to play out
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  completely. You could have brothers who live
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  different lives, siblings, right?
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  The same thing. You can have families, you can
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  have everyone lives, different lives, no problem.
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  But the bottom line must be the same, which is we are here to
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  serve God. And the overall theme is you
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  start to sit and you find things in your life, big things that
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  have nothing to do with God. You start to get rid of them.
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  Now there are things that make you happy, that make you calm,
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  that may give you a Peace of Mind that you use to make
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  yourself a stronger person to then serve God.
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  It's fine. But things in the system that
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  have nothing to do with Hashem at all, Over time you get rid of
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  that and you'll see the more you mature, you'll find there aren't
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  that many of these things. Means making peace and other
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  people is serving God. Making money is serving God.
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  Oh learning, serving God. Praying is serving God.
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  Getting along with other people is serving Hashem, going and
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  making other people happy serve Hashem.
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  Making yourself happy very well can be used.
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  Serve as him. So it's not getting along with
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  family and joining family. All that's proper.
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  There's not that many things that can be considered someone
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  just going on a joyride for no reason at all other than the
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  fact that they just want to do it.
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  That might be something that you think deep.
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  If it's completely extra and completely unnecessary, it
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  doesn't even do anything for him and it doesn't make us tomorrow
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  any better than today. OK, That's might be something,
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  that whole Ave. might be something you can question.
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  Why are you going here, 'cause I want to, if that's it, is it
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  going to be, you know, makes you happy?
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  It's OK, makes you happy to therefore lead to tomorrow being
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  better. And yes, it's OK, makes you
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  happy because you're out, you know, you're out literally at
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  the brink and you need it and it's also OK.
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  It's got to be in your system observing our channel.
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  What this does is not 0 exactly What it does is it allows
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  everything in your life. If you have his minds out
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  everything to be in mitzvah. Everything you're eating, you're
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  drinking, you're sleeping, everything exactly getting
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  dressed in the morning. It's all in mitzvah so long as
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  it has its common denominator. So this end of the book where
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  he's telling you a key theme which plays out very differently
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  in other PHPA person, he is telling you your goal is not to
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  be the same as your friend, but your goal is to have the same
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  common denominator as every great Jew since the history of
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  time. And that is to be a better
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  person and serving of Hashem. And you know what's funny, if
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  you dig deep, it's not only Jews.
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  I won't even have Hashem. So for them it's not the same.
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  But I give you something where I notice, you know, after the next
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  one. So you I was listen, I told you
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  I was listening sports talk and and somehow every guy is crying.
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  Funny thing, for the same reason the common cry was common cry
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  was they wish their father were around to celebrate the win with
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  their father. I heard this I can't tell how
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  many times, right? That's a funny emotion.
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  All of a sudden these people people care about family.
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  Fine, that's one thing. And then on top of that, the
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  common appreciation of the team or is the fact that there's no I
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  in team that they all get along, that the old friends, the team
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  and that they're humble and that they kept doing this stick of
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  it's, it's, it's the score is 00, all that thing and everyone
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  like that all of the sudden. So now it's all of a sudden you
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  spend the last 20 years getting nervous.
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  I spent the last 20 years getting nervous from every ball
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  player that's banging his chest and it's making, you know,
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  tattoos of himself and, and, and also, like, chaos, right?
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  And all talking about themselves and talking about themselves in
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  their person, All this nonsense. And you thought, and I thought
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  that, OK, we lost the world. I guess the world's impressed by
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  these guys. I guess they would like these
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  guys. I guess they like when people
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  talk about themselves as if they're mushiya.
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  OK. Then you find out it's not true
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  at its core. The entire world at large really
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  appreciates people when they're more human, when they're nicer
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  and a little bit more humble. And you just, a lot of people
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  have a lot, a lot of dirt in their way and they get therefore
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  enamored by the nonsense that's gleam.
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  That's people who have, I don't know what they have.
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  We have it much clearer. And we should therefore realize
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  that at our core, there is a common denominator.
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  And that common denominator is not just to be a good person on
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  top of that, it's to serve a shaman through that person.
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  But it'll play out differently each person, and your job is to
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  allow it to play out differently in yourself.
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  Stop with this and this is the end of the book.
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  I accept the impeccable diary. I get to go to the CU now, no?
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  Making money.