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- 0:14Welcome to Meet Me at the Deli, a food advice podcast where the
- 0:18Pickles and slaw are always free.
- 0:22I'm Liz. And I'm Jeffrey, every episode
- 0:26we're answering your burning food and culinary questions, and
- 0:29we're sharing stories and insights from years working in
- 0:31the industry and living in our self.
- 0:33Made so Jeffrey, Hi. Hey, Liz.
- 0:38How Are you sure it's Sammy? 'S Romanian.
- 0:40Yes, this was a gift. Isn't it a great shirt?
- 0:42A. Classic.
- 0:43Got a shout out deli's got a shout out.
- 0:45The deli universe, you know, Sammy's not a deli, but in the
- 0:47deli universe, I. Also, know that you're a sucker
- 0:50for swag. You love free swag.
- 0:54I love free swag. Send me your swag.
- 0:57OK, so couple things that are on my mind.
- 1:01We just confirmed that we are going to be doing a live taping
- 1:06of Meet Me at the Deli at the Borsch Belt Festival on July
- 1:1026th in Ellenville, NY. Very exciting.
- 1:12I am so excited because we love the Borsch Belt, full stop.
- 1:17Liz, what is full stop? What is the Borsch belt?
- 1:20The Borsch Belt is a, it's a, it's a region of upstate New
- 1:24York that, that once was the vacation destination of New York
- 1:33City's Jews and many other communities, by the way.
- 1:36But it was a string of hotels, retreat centers, bungalow
- 1:39colonies. And it is famously known for a
- 1:43couple of things. This, this region that really
- 1:46thrived around what 1920s to 1960s, I would say was the, the,
- 1:51the heyday, these gorgeous hotels, the Nevele, which some
- 1:56of you have, you may have been to.
- 1:58These were hotels that were known for incredible comedy and
- 2:04huge portions of food. Huge, huge portions of food.
- 2:08We're talking about breakfast. You know, the not even breakfast
- 2:13buffet. Forget the buffet.
- 2:14You had these waiters that would carry out trays, anything you
- 2:17wanted. You could have poached eggs,
- 2:18scrambled eggs, pancakes, seventeen kinds of juices.
- 2:22That's just breakfast. You know what I mean?
- 2:24It was multi course meals and these were very Jewish places.
- 2:29I know my father was a waiter in a hotel.
- 2:32Which hotel was he in? The Pines OK and your family
- 2:36vacationed at. We had a lot like, so there was
- 2:38a, there was a Yoskowitz family farm in the Catskills.
- 2:41I don't know if you know. That I don't.
- 2:43My grandmother and my great aunt Yetta were the social
- 2:47coordinators at the Vegetarian Hotel up in the Catskills.
- 2:50So good. And I growing up, I even went to
- 2:52Kutcher's, which was, you know, one of.
- 2:54The Kutcher's is the classic. One, one of the classics and we
- 2:57went up. They're like 1 summer.
- 2:59I got a taste of it. It's just sort of like I got a
- 3:01taste of Mrs. stalls knishes on the, you know, in Brighton
- 3:04Beach. I, I, I, I, I, I, I tell the
- 3:07Alzheimer's. I've been there.
- 3:08Do you know what my favorite term for the Bush Belt is like
- 3:10the the region, the sour cream Sierras?
- 3:14Yeah, One of the existing terms there.
- 3:16Yeah. We both have these connections
- 3:18to this place. And the Borscht Belt Fest, by
- 3:20the way, is put on by the Borscht Belt Museum and the the
- 3:23museum, you know, we we've been connected to the museum.
- 3:26We've been at the Borscht Belt Fest and multiple times.
- 3:28It's telling the story of this region and this this really
- 3:33particular slice of of Jewish immigrant American history.
- 3:37And so it's what a fitting place for us to talk bring our bring
- 3:42meet me at the deli, you know, to this community, to this place
- 3:45and to have some really good conversations while we're there.
- 3:48Yeah. And I just would say for me, any
- 3:50excuse to be upstate New York in the summer.
- 3:53Come on. Yeah, you know, Yeah, OK.
- 3:55But but you were mentioning that you got a cool text from a
- 3:58friend. I got a phone call from my
- 4:01friend, a friend of mine, my friend Clarence from college.
- 4:04So if you remember last episode, we had Adam Chandler on as our
- 4:07guest. We talked, we had a question
- 4:10about celebrity sandwiches. And at the end of the
- 4:13conversation, I don't remember if it was you or him.
- 4:15And you said next like, let's all have an idea of what our
- 4:19celebrity sandwich is like if we.
- 4:21Were to What is our sandwich? If we were to go, if you were to
- 4:23go to the deli and order the Liz Alpern, what would that be
- 4:26right? I want it.
- 4:27I want it. So I so first of all, first of I
- 4:30did not have this answer. I I struggle with the concept of
- 4:33favorites like like what sandwich would I choose?
- 4:36You may not know this about me, but I when I was in high school,
- 4:39every day I made a different sandwich.
- 4:41I got my college essay on creative sandwiches.
- 4:43So like choosing a favorite who that would represent?
- 4:45Me, I had trouble choosing. I did not know that you that you
- 4:49had a sandwich. Every day, big part of my
- 4:50identity. That said, I got a call from my
- 4:53friend Clarence, who listened to the episode and called me up
- 4:55just to tell me, guess what, I know my sandwich.
- 5:00And so Clarence called. Clarence.
- 5:02Gave me gave me his sandwich. So you ready for it?
- 5:07OK, a white bean hummus ricotta salata roasted like a thinly
- 5:11sliced roasted eggplant on ciabatta.
- 5:15Wow. So and Clarence has Italian
- 5:18heritage, so you can kind of hear it in the sandwich.
- 5:20That's a yeah, that's a Italian vegan ified sandwich for me.
- 5:25Ricotta salata. There's there's cheese.
- 5:26Oh right, there's cheese. OK, so vegetarian ified.
- 5:31Yeah. What's intriguing to me is that
- 5:33it's it's it's intriguing that someone would say white bean
- 5:37hummus is part of their celebrity sandwich.
- 5:38So SH Clarence bless you. Well, and Clarence's partner
- 5:45shared their sandwich as well, so ready for this one.
- 5:49Rye bread, hummus, Pickles. I feel like it doesn't know what
- 5:56is its ethnic identity. The sandwich.
- 5:57Like, but you don't have to know.
- 5:59I appreciate it like you got some crunch from the Pickles.
- 6:01It's simple, easy to pack for a picnic.
- 6:04I'm just going to say I like, I like both of these sandwiches.
- 6:06Yeah. They are not like Larry David
- 6:09would not want anything to do with these sandwich.
- 6:11No, no, no. You know what I mean?
- 6:12There is no fish. It's like, it's like all wrong
- 6:15but you know. Yeah.
- 6:19I feel more stumped than ever, Like I didn't even think about
- 6:22the universe where there was like wiping hummus on my
- 6:24sandwich on my celebrity sandwich.
- 6:26I was delighted just to like, I was like, Clarence, hey, thanks
- 6:29for doing my homework for me. I don't have to copy.
- 6:31Listening to the. End listening to the end like
- 6:34you listen all the way through. So I love that.
- 6:36So I wanted to share that with. You Clarence, I love that.
- 6:38I too got an amazing text from someone and I want to share it
- 6:42with you. Yes, so you might recall our
- 6:45episode. What about Pacha?
- 6:47How can I forget? Right, right.
- 6:49Pacha. It just doesn't go away.
- 6:50We do a whole episode of our podcast and it it follows us.
- 6:54So here is this amazing text I got from my friend Leora.
- 6:58She said it's poking around the Internet.
- 7:00She did not know that we had this show.
- 7:01And your episode, your your show came up and I saw the episode
- 7:05about Pacha and I had to listen because my father talks about
- 7:09Pacha all caps all the time. He has talked about it for as
- 7:14long as I can remember. Sometimes as a memory, sometimes
- 7:19as a joke, sometimes just to root a conversation in something
- 7:24Jewish. And he knows that will make the
- 7:27person feel connected to the olden days.
- 7:30Wow. So so she shared a little bit
- 7:34more about sort of using Pacha as a way to connect with her dad
- 7:38and sharing the episode with him, but also because she was
- 7:41like, I never took it seriously. And I finally.
- 7:45Got it. Wow.
- 7:46So. Thanks Leora for sharing.
- 7:48That was very moving to us and thanks for listening to What
- 7:53About Pacha? And if you haven't listened to
- 7:54that one, you might be intrigued to listen now.
- 7:56An instant classic. OK, well, that was amazing.
- 8:00That's so beautiful. OK, let's get into some
- 8:02questions. Let's do it, all right.
- 8:03We got a lot of good ones today. OK, why don't I read the first
- 8:06one? Hit it OK.
- 8:08This is from Jess in Manhattan. I love Jewish deli food and
- 8:14other Jewish food in general. I particularly enjoy noodle
- 8:17cogel in parentheses, the sweet kind, brisket, knishes, latkes,
- 8:22matzo ball soup, pastrami, Pickles, and hala.
- 8:24Loving this list here. However, I have so many food
- 8:27sensitivities, allergies, and limitations when it comes to
- 8:30food. Where in New York City can I
- 8:32find a place that is super allergen safe and will make
- 8:35modifications and accommodations to us Jews with gut issues?
- 8:39Considering most Jews have gut issues, I'm always surprised by
- 8:41the lack of this. And that's it.
- 8:44So the question here is, what about what about people with
- 8:48food sensitivity? Right?
- 8:50So so, yeah. So, Liz, anything, anything that
- 8:53jumps out of you? Any thoughts?
- 8:54I have some thoughts here myself.
- 8:55Yeah, I have so many thoughts, you know, where do I even begin?
- 8:59You know, I thought about this question a lot.
- 9:01And this, this is something that people ask us a fair amount.
- 9:03It's not uncommon for people to have food sensitivities, food
- 9:07allergies, you know, they're on an elimination diet, they're
- 9:10doing something and they but they still want to hold on to a
- 9:12flavor or taste that is meaningful, traditional, reminds
- 9:15them of childhood. And so this is something that
- 9:18comes up, a few immediate thoughts are that in this world
- 9:25of newer delis opening for a younger crowd, I definitely see
- 9:31more on the menu that is allergen friendly.
- 9:34So I would just say generally, like I've seen more delis, maybe
- 9:37not a catches, but but more of the new delis having gluten free
- 9:42bread on the menu, right? I'm seeing them do even labeling
- 9:46things right, which can be really hard at a classic
- 9:48institution. They're not necessarily labeling
- 9:50things right. Yeah, I'm seeing some of those
- 9:53items being highlighted. I'm seeing something like a
- 9:55Latka, which is easy to be gluten free, being made gluten.
- 9:59Free. It rarely is though, actually,
- 10:01but. It's not, it's not hard to do
- 10:03it. So you're seeing it a little bit
- 10:04more, you know, but yes, it is really that what I guess I'm
- 10:07seeing is more of that happening like I'm just seeing a general
- 10:11in, in the newer delis that are opening up.
- 10:14I am we are also seeing a, a movement toward vegan delis that
- 10:21we've seen, which does not always solve food sensitivity
- 10:24issues, right. That does not mean that you're
- 10:26going to have gluten free, but we are seeing like in in
- 10:30Rochester, grass fed Rochester, right?
- 10:32We're seeing in Brooklyn in my neighborhood, there's a deli
- 10:35called ATM vegan Deli. Oh, I don't know that one.
- 10:38It's like it's kind of like a counter that you take things
- 10:40out. There's not like a sit down and
- 10:42it's not necessarily a Jewish deli.
- 10:44It's it's a little bit more like a deli that, but there are
- 10:47referential things. So there's like a mushroom
- 10:49sandwich, you know, and they definitely have gluten free
- 10:52bread and they're making sure they fry their fries in oil.
- 10:55That's like clean oil, right? So it's like there's things that
- 10:58are happening. Mort and Betty's in LA doing a
- 11:01lot of stuff. I mean, I'm thinking Orchard
- 11:03Grocer on the Lower East Side, which is a vegan and it's not
- 11:06quite a deli, but it's like in this on the Lower East Side,
- 11:09they're doing sandwiches. They're.
- 11:10Creative and. It happens to be vegan, but it's
- 11:12also doing like very vegetable forward alternative kind of
- 11:17things. Yes.
- 11:18OK, so you're saying lean into like the new bougie gentrified
- 11:21deli? I think for me that is my first
- 11:26first response. So I would say I think this is
- 11:29super real. Like I'm not even thinking about
- 11:31answering the question as where to go as much as like what did
- 11:34what to do about these sensitivities and what you know.
- 11:37So I will say, yes, so many people in my life have various
- 11:42food sensitivities of all kinds. I should mention my grandma
- 11:45Lily, the one who went to the Vegetarian Hotel and the
- 11:47Catskills. Not only a vegetarian, she dealt
- 11:50with many, you know, medical issues and health issues, and
- 11:54she was a health purist like she was.
- 11:57Your father's mother. My father's mother, OK, really
- 12:00eating healthy. She did not want my dad going to
- 12:02the deli like going to one of the famous stories in the family
- 12:05was when my father in like up in the Catskills of the vegetarian
- 12:08hotel. He, he and his father, my, who
- 12:11I'm named after Grandpa Julius, they got in the car and they
- 12:14drove to Kaplan's in Monticello and they got a hot dog.
- 12:19And you know which, my love of hot dogs and they came back and
- 12:23I met. He always said he snuck away.
- 12:24I said, dad, couldn't she tell? He's like, she could smell it
- 12:27all over us. Oh my God.
- 12:28But so she went to this vegetarian hotel and what I,
- 12:31what I, I, the question is where to go out to get these foods?
- 12:34But what what I actually hearing is, you know, the Jewish foods,
- 12:38the delis aren't so healthy, but actually the deli, my
- 12:41grandmother not liking my father going to the deli is actually
- 12:45similar to a lot of Jewish mothers who didn't want their
- 12:47kids going to the deli because the deli wasn't the health a
- 12:49place to go get healthy foods. It was a place you got, you
- 12:52know, cured and salted and smoked and nitrate full foods.
- 12:58This wasn't the good healthy food was at home.
- 13:00So the annoying answer to Jess is the best place to get these
- 13:03things is at home and a lot of these traditional foods eating,
- 13:08eating, you know, your live culture pickled food, having
- 13:11your nourishing broths and soups.
- 13:14Right, Matzo ball soup is eat. It's just matzo ball soup.
- 13:16There's a lot there eating your, your gluten free buckwheat,
- 13:21roasted buckwheat, kasha. These things are actually,
- 13:24there's a lot of gluten free stuff.
- 13:25Yeah, in our in our cookbook, we have a kasha, A buckwheat bread.
- 13:29So there's a lot of ways there's actually a history of
- 13:32nutritional gut friendly foods within the the Eastern European
- 13:35Jewish Canon. The deli isn't the best
- 13:38representation of that. So I just want to get that out
- 13:40of the way to say. And so, yeah, my grandmother was
- 13:43someone who cooked a lot of those foods at home.
- 13:45Sometimes, you know, they weren't always the best, most
- 13:48flavorful. My grandma Ruth is known for the
- 13:50better cooking, but she was able to eat a sensitive diet and
- 13:53still kind of be in keeping with this Eastern European Ashkenazi
- 13:57Jewish. Approach.
- 13:59Yeah, I have a friend who's gluten free who just had a who
- 14:02just had a baby and I and I made as sort of my my meal for them
- 14:07and their meal train. She really wanted Latas, but all
- 14:10the latas nearby were always filled with gluten.
- 14:13So I made gluten free latkes and she was so delighted.
- 14:15It was so easy. I just potato starch.
- 14:17I didn't put any flour, nothing, no bread crumbs.
- 14:19It was really easy. So I would just say consider
- 14:23thinking about making some of these foods on your own.
- 14:25Not too complicated. We can provide some recipes.
- 14:28But secondly, go to the deli and if you order kasha not with the
- 14:32varnishkas, not with not not that varnishkas or noodles, but
- 14:34not with the the bow ties and you just get kasha and mushrooms
- 14:38you're. Delicious.
- 14:39A wonderful, wonderful treat. You get your chicken soup, no
- 14:42noodles, no matzo balls. Have it with some kasha in
- 14:45there. Great.
- 14:45We're having so good. Have it just with vegetables,
- 14:47straight up. You know, listen, you don't need
- 14:50the bread for the pastrami. Just go, go.
- 14:52If you go to Katz's, sometimes it'll slice some pastrami.
- 14:54If you, there's nothing. It was like in our last episode
- 14:56with Adam. You just meet into face.
- 14:58Examine that. I've cultured Pickles your
- 15:00sauerkraut. Those are so good for your gut.
- 15:03So there's ways to explore that gut health.
- 15:06You just might have to be the annoying patron at the
- 15:08restaurant. But guess what?
- 15:10Half of the deli are annoying patrons.
- 15:12Think about all of the people scooping out bagels in on Long
- 15:15Island, or do I say South Florida, you know, think about
- 15:19all of the all the low fat pastrami orders that are out
- 15:23there. We're already annoying.
- 15:25So annoying. Just annoying.
- 15:27Just. So annoying.
- 15:29I I love it, Jeffrey, I love it. I love these two sides of our
- 15:33answers. This is great.
- 15:35And, and, and I would say ultimately, you know, some of
- 15:40what I hear in this question as a sort of like yearning for a
- 15:44way that maybe just used to be able to eat and can't eat and
- 15:48like, and I hear that and that is, that's real.
- 15:50You know, I have uncles who all had heart attacks and you know
- 15:53what they don't eat at the deli anymore, right?
- 15:55It's like they don't eat that food anymore.
- 15:57And I know they, they've like that.
- 15:59That's a thing. It's like you have to you're,
- 16:01you're yearning for something that maybe you can't have any
- 16:03more. And so you have to kind of do
- 16:05your best and have it in doses in whatever way your body can
- 16:08take and and know that like that is hard.
- 16:12Just like you yearn for a recipe that someone used to cook for
- 16:15you. You know, that is no longer with
- 16:17us. That's food.
- 16:18What I think will be fun, by the way, is if we put like an anti
- 16:21inflammation or like a allergen free like some of the recipes
- 16:24that we love. I'm thinking like check.
- 16:26The show notes. No borscht things like.
- 16:28That yeah, we got some. Great stuff there.
- 16:29We got some good stuff. And so we'll be just, we'll be
- 16:31in touch with some recipes. Yeah.
- 16:33Thank you for the question. Great question and would also
- 16:38actually love to hear anybody else's take on any of this
- 16:41because I think it's a really interesting question.
- 16:42If there's any spots we missed, let us know.
- 16:46By the way, if you have a question, don't forget to submit
- 16:48it to us. We love a question.
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- 16:57You're so good at remembering to.
- 16:59I just, I just want those questions, you know, I'm feeling
- 17:02it. OK, OK.
- 17:03Shall I, shall I read our next question?
- 17:05OK, what makes iconic foods like Holla Jewish if their origin was
- 17:17German? From Laney in Tampa, I've just
- 17:24ready to for Jeffrey to unleash. Oh my gosh.
- 17:27He's gonna unleash. No, no, no.
- 17:29What a great question. It's a great question.
- 17:31So, so I think let's just provide just like a little bit
- 17:33of context here, which is that Laney from Tampa is implying
- 17:38that the origin of Hala really is a German bread, not an
- 17:42explicitly Jewish bread. So what makes a food Jewish?
- 17:46I think that's the question. Yeah, this is a great question.
- 17:49We actually have a debate, We've had an ongoing debate for years
- 17:54about our like, so even even just the term Jewish, right?
- 17:59I think we tend to use when it's a specific food, you know, like
- 18:03let's just talk about kasha, for example, we'll often say, you
- 18:07know, Eastern European or Ashkenazi Jewish, but in Kala I
- 18:09can say that's one of those foods that now it's kind of
- 18:11transcended ethnic identity. It's become if you go, you know,
- 18:16around the. World Jewish culture.
- 18:18Culture kala has become so ubiquitous.
- 18:20It's been embraced. In some ways it's become part of
- 18:22this like extended Jewish. So I would say that you can
- 18:25really make the case that just from a descriptivist
- 18:28perspective, you go to any community around the world and
- 18:32most of them, maybe if you go to Ethiopia, it might be different,
- 18:35you go to India, but most places around the world, Tala will be
- 18:38served on the Sabbath. Origin or not, it is.
- 18:41It is there. It is omnipresent.
- 18:43Anthropologically speaking, yeah, anthropologically speaking
- 18:46is a complicated approach to take.
- 18:48So I celebrate Christmas every year by eating Chinese food in
- 18:52the Jewish style. And to me, like that is a Jewish
- 18:55ritual. It's not a Jewish food, right?
- 18:56But so it becomes complicated. I I love this question from
- 19:00Laney because I think about this all the time and I tend to think
- 19:04that there are very few foods that have any Jewishness
- 19:08inherent. Inherent, right?
- 19:09It's the feeling we get from these foods that we ascribe to
- 19:14them that make them like this. So the example hollows a good
- 19:16example. Can you guess what I what I the
- 19:18example I like to use? Pickles, Pickles, Pickles.
- 19:23Pickles. I grew up, come on.
- 19:25And did you grew up thinking Pickles were Jewish?
- 19:27Of course, I grew up thinking Pickles were like the most
- 19:30Jewish food imaginable. Right Lower East Side barrels,
- 19:35Kosher dills, Pickles. Hey right, you're at the at the
- 19:39deli. Boom, Pickles.
- 19:41Yeah, Pickles on the plate. It's just part of part of the
- 19:43everyday. And guess what?
- 19:47Well, all around, all around, you know, the world, people eat
- 19:51Pickles. But when I, when I went to
- 19:53Poland for the first time, every single meal, Pickles.
- 19:56And all the Poles, they were eating the same kinds of
- 19:58Pickles, sour, they got their half sours, they were eating
- 20:01sauerkraut with every meal. And this thing that felt so much
- 20:04a part of my Jewishness and my Jewish identity, this food that
- 20:08felt so Jewish was also Polish. It was also Lithuanian.
- 20:12It was also Hungarian. It was also German.
- 20:15And I really had to contend with that.
- 20:17What actually is Jewish about these foods?
- 20:19And it turns out like very little.
- 20:22It's just, you know, the many Jewish picklers and immigrants
- 20:25came and started selling Pickles and we became identified with
- 20:28them. Kala, like the the joke I always
- 20:31make is if you go and get some brioche at Trader Joe's, it kind
- 20:33of tastes just like the kala. You know, store this butter and
- 20:36there's some dairy in there. It's kind of just brioche
- 20:39braided and it's dairy freed. So that's kind of my take on it
- 20:43and that maybe that's simplifying it.
- 20:45No, I don't even know if it is. Yeah, Yeah.
- 20:47I mean, look, you know, I'm with you on this.
- 20:49And there is this argument to be made that there are some foods
- 20:54that have a fundamental Jewishness to them, among them
- 20:59matzo, right, which is a you could you go, it's just a
- 21:03cracker. We've been do this for already,
- 21:05Jeffrey. It's a cracker.
- 21:07It's a thin, crunchy cracker. Everybody has a cracker or a
- 21:09flatbread, right? Or a flatbread.
- 21:10But a matzah needs to be made in a certain amount of time.
- 21:15And it is also ritualized. So it has this double whammy
- 21:18that like you see it. But you're absolutely right.
- 21:19If you just somebody just saw that on the table and didn't
- 21:23know any of the context of how it was made, they would
- 21:25absolutely could just say it's a cracker, it's a flatbread.
- 21:28Sure, but there's more to the story with Matza, right?
- 21:32That's what people say. Yeah, it's listen, I hear you.
- 21:34I say, I hear you. And I think that the word that
- 21:37you said, their context is everything here.
- 21:39Yes. And so I think about, you know,
- 21:42I think about being in Scandinavia and there being all
- 21:45this smoked fish everywhere and and they're being herring.
- 21:48And I was, I was in Stockholm and I went to the markets.
- 21:51Salmon, Harry. It's amazing.
- 21:53And these are all these things that I associate with being
- 21:55Jewish, right? In New York, you go to Russian
- 21:57daughters, you go to, you go to your shell skis in Brooklyn,
- 22:00your appetizing shops. And so I, I go there and there's
- 22:04all these smoked fish and things and there's Pickles and
- 22:06everything. But you know what was missing?
- 22:08Bagels and schmear. And I was like, what am I going
- 22:10to eat this smoked fish on, right?
- 22:12And so and so even though, like, so there's something about the,
- 22:16the locks, the Nova that herring and they're being on A at a the,
- 22:22you know, luncheon after a kiddish.
- 22:24Right, and it is Jewish. And being on a bagel with the
- 22:27Italian capers, you know, like nothing in that sandwich besides
- 22:31the bagel itself really can claim any Jewishness.
- 22:34And even the bagel this questions, right?
- 22:35But the together and the context in which we eat it, the
- 22:39experience is what makes it and the way that we love it, like
- 22:44the, the, the joy you bring. So to me, it's that joy that
- 22:49comes with like this, the familiarity and the love and the
- 22:52obsession with some of these foods.
- 22:55And like holla, like we're obsessed with holla.
- 22:57Like obsessed. I've seen, I saw a woman wearing
- 22:58holla necklace and holla earrings the other day, you
- 23:03know? And her dog was named Holla.
- 23:05It was so weird. So, so I think, you know, I am
- 23:10aligned with you. I always push back a little bit
- 23:12on the, on the matzah thing, maybe the cholan thing, the slow
- 23:15cooked Sabbath Stew, very particular.
- 23:17It's not just a Stew, it's something else.
- 23:19However, I think that like what we come across a lot in our work
- 23:24is people saying things like they want to know the origin.
- 23:27They want to know where did rugelach come from?
- 23:29Where did bagels come from and and where did a knish come from?
- 23:33And we can answer as best as we can, right?
- 23:35And we have lots of historical information about all of these
- 23:38things, but we can't I, I feel what I always have to say is
- 23:41you're never going to get as satisfying of an answer as you
- 23:44want, because these are not single origin foods, right?
- 23:47These are not foods that come from one specific place and
- 23:50time. These are foods that clearly
- 23:53evolved, changed. There were Jewish and non Jewish
- 23:56hands on them at any given moment.
- 23:58They didn't, you know, they weren't like somebody said, and
- 24:00now I've created the knish. And this is what a knish is.
- 24:03It's like it's dough wrapped with stuff, right?
- 24:04Like that didn't happen. So I always have to tell people
- 24:07when they want to know the origin of a food.
- 24:08I'm saying, I'll say I'll tell you as much of the story as I
- 24:11know, but there's so much of the story I don't know.
- 24:14The first of all, there are historians whose job it is to
- 24:16dig in, and even they can only know as much as they can know,
- 24:19right? So for me, that is also
- 24:22important in this question is that you?
- 24:26No one can. Can anyone really claim anything
- 24:29yet? There are times and places that
- 24:30people can claim things. But in this context, when we
- 24:33know that Jews have moved from place to place in assimilated,
- 24:36lived with their neighbors, have brought ingredients from here to
- 24:40there, and combine them with ritual practices, to say that
- 24:44really anything is Jewish is a little bit problematic without
- 24:48the context, without the rest of that story.
- 24:51So in America, Pickles are Jewish because Jews popularized
- 24:55them here, because they're called kosher dills at your
- 24:58standard grocery store. But is a pickle code?
- 25:01Is a pickle Jewish? I, I, I appreciate what you said
- 25:06and I'll just say a couple things.
- 25:07One is, I think what we struggle to appreciate is that Jews were
- 25:11the popularizers of a lot of these foods.
- 25:13We were the spreaders, the transmitters.
- 25:15So, so in, in New York, while Pickles were enjoyed by many, it
- 25:20was, they were popularized here. I mean, there were Dutch
- 25:22immigrants beforehand who brought Pickles and Germans, but
- 25:25they were really popularized in the New York consciousness right
- 25:28by the Jewish community here. That said, when I went to the
- 25:30Rosendale Pickle Fest in 2008 and I was there with lacto
- 25:34fermented sour Pickles, I was in a sea of vinegar brine Pickles
- 25:39and it was the least Jewish place that I've ever been.
- 25:42And. These Jewish places and.
- 25:44Here I was like the only, you know, with the only Jewish
- 25:47pickle in the bunch. Right, and you're at a pickle
- 25:49festival. I'm at a pickle festival and and
- 25:52go so, yeah. So The thing is, I think that
- 25:53there's a whole pickle culture and tradition in the South and
- 25:56the Midwest that has nothing to do with Jewishness.
- 25:59Absolutely. It's the, it's, it's this
- 26:00particular style of pickling that we have here in New York
- 26:04that makes a lot of Jewish people feel, hey, this is me.
- 26:08But it makes other people feel like it's them too.
- 26:09And I think we need to hold that too.
- 26:11Yeah, Yep. Interesting, Lanny, great
- 26:15question. Cool question to talk about this
- 26:17all day. Yeah, definitely have.
- 26:21All right. We got one more today, OK.
- 26:24So this is from Eliza in Brooklyn.
- 26:28I see a lot of schmear options, cream cheese schmear options and
- 26:32I'm not sure how I feel about them.
- 26:34Sweet seems straight up wrong. Thoughts.
- 26:39I appreciate. I appreciate the simplicity of
- 26:41this question. It's very New York insidery.
- 26:43It's like not even mentioning that at a bagel shop.
- 26:46There's no context. Just around, there's a lot of,
- 26:48there's a lot of options around. Bagel shops There are a lot of
- 26:51sweet cream cheese varieties. Or just, I don't think it's just
- 26:55the sweet. The sweet seems straight up
- 26:56wrong, but we can say, you know, you're, you're there.
- 26:59There's olive pimento, there's a tar cream cheese.
- 27:02There's, you know, your your vegetable cream cheese, chive
- 27:05cream cheese, salmon, cream cheese, blueberry cream cheese,
- 27:07strawberry cream. Cheese.
- 27:09Honey walnut cream cheese. There's crazy cream cheeses.
- 27:13So many cream cheeses. Yeah.
- 27:15How do you feel about those? All right, Yeah.
- 27:19So I'm with some friends the other night and they they're
- 27:21telling me about how they love blueberry bagels, two of them,
- 27:26close friends of mine. And they know me well enough.
- 27:29And they say, Liz, we know you don't approve.
- 27:31We know you're not comfortable with us liking blueberry bagels.
- 27:36But then you know what they said?
- 27:38I said, Liz, have you ever had a blueberry bagel?
- 27:42And I was like, no, so then this is 48 hours ago.
- 27:49This just happened. And I had to think about this.
- 27:53And they said, Liz, try it. Just fucking try it.
- 27:58And I think the schmear thing might be the same.
- 28:02I think that maybe I look upon those sea of schmears and like,
- 28:07Elisa, I judge them. I'm like, who would want all of
- 28:10these flavors of schmear? But do I get them?
- 28:14Do I try them? What if I like them?
- 28:16And like, is that a betrayal to me?
- 28:18And like, what do I think? Am I just holding back on
- 28:22principle? You know what I mean?
- 28:24Like let's, let's, like why can't I get past a poppy bagel
- 28:28with chive cream cheese, you know, with scallion cream cheese
- 28:31and lox, Like can I go? And, and it's like, I won't, I
- 28:35won't go further than that. And when you're at a party and
- 28:38they have them, they're always just going to have the cream
- 28:40cheese, the standard and maybe some lox cream cheese and maybe
- 28:42some, some scallion cream cheese.
- 28:44So it's like you don't even get the chance to try it.
- 28:47Wait, did you not eat a blueberry bagel?
- 28:48No, we weren't at a bagel shop. We were at a bar.
- 28:51But then like. I haven't had it yet, it was
- 28:54just this just happened. I'm going to propose first.
- 28:56Tomorrow I do it. No, you do it here.
- 28:58You do it in. Like in the podcast studio, next
- 29:01time we record in the. Future time, OK.
- 29:03I'll do it. OK.
- 29:06I've had a little bit. A blueberry bagel I can speak
- 29:08to. That you have had it so.
- 29:09You know what, I, I will say a couple things.
- 29:12I am, I'm like tired of all of the bagel purity.
- 29:15Like there's a lot of bagel purity out there.
- 29:17I I I I I feel it myself like all I really want like even
- 29:20though. It's interesting you say that
- 29:21because I feel like you you're a little bit of a bagel purist,
- 29:24but OK. I am I'm I'm obnoxious bagel
- 29:29purist like I I hate myself. Why can't I just enjoy a honey
- 29:32walnut cream cheese on a? Like you would put honey walnut
- 29:36butter on bread and feel fine about it?
- 29:38Yeah. Yeah, it's, it's kind of a funny
- 29:40thing. So I, I, I, I, it's such a
- 29:41beautiful craft and I respect it so much.
- 29:44And I want the like, I want what I want.
- 29:47I want maybe a poppy seed, maybe a sesame like usually in
- 29:50everything bagel. And I want like I want, I want a
- 29:53savory cream cheese, right? I want that.
- 29:55You want the savory I. Want and I usually like one with
- 29:57an allium of some kind, so maybe it's chives, maybe it's
- 30:00scallions of some kind. But like I've had dills and
- 30:04other playful nods to the tradition.
- 30:07Like that's for me, that's like the most creative.
- 30:08I want to get like dill, like dill on the cream.
- 30:12And then I want, of course I want Lox or Nova, some tomato.
- 30:15Like I want the classic. That said, if we just think
- 30:19about it, take a step back and say it's just like bread.
- 30:23The breakfast sandwich. And it's people want sweet and
- 30:25like I've I've had these fleet sweet cream cheeses and they are
- 30:28flavorful. So I want to have a space as an
- 30:31obnoxious bagel purist in my life for people who like
- 30:34blueberry bagels with sweet cream cheese.
- 30:36And I can think back to a time of my life when I was in high
- 30:39school. I spent a summer at the
- 30:40University of Michigan and doing one of those summer programs.
- 30:43Yes, of course. The only bagel place nearby was
- 30:46the Einstein Brothers Bagel Shop, and this is one of these
- 30:49Midwestern chains. I think they have them maybe all
- 30:52around the country seen them. And so, you know, I didn't know.
- 30:55But you know, even though I, I came from this world of New
- 30:58Jersey bagels, I didn't know better.
- 31:00And I ordered the asiago bagel and I liked it and it was the
- 31:04first time I had it and I had a honey walnut.
- 31:07Salty it's good I. Had a honey walnut like sweet
- 31:10cream cheese. On an asiago bagel.
- 31:12On like a different bagel of different.
- 31:14I wouldn't. I knew enough.
- 31:15OK, OK. And like, yeah, I knew what I
- 31:19was doing wasn't like I wasn't going to the bagels for you in
- 31:22in New Jersey where we used to go with the Chateau in Maplewood
- 31:26in Melbourne. But what?
- 31:29But I'm like, this was it, Was it satisfied something?
- 31:32And like, that's what most people get access to.
- 31:34That's what they know. That's what's interesting to
- 31:36them. And I, I think about, I think
- 31:39about your friends went a bagel shop in Kentucky.
- 31:42Yep. Who?
- 31:43And people came and said, oh, I'm here for the Jewish
- 31:46doughnut, you know? Yeah.
- 31:47And they came, they didn't know. And of course they expected.
- 31:50It's like a doughnut. They want something sweet.
- 31:52I really. So I want to have a place for
- 31:54them, even though I find it abhorrent, the idea of these
- 31:58foods, those sweet cream cheeses.
- 32:00So, so our, our hot take is we need to open our minds, yeah.
- 32:08I do think we need to try a couple of sweet bagels and cream
- 32:11cheese. On on here.
- 32:13OK, Because I am going to Long Island tomorrow.
- 32:14So I'm like, should I try something tomorrow?
- 32:17Maybe you should just try it. Just try tomorrow and I'll bring
- 32:19it to you. Yeah, I can figure it out.
- 32:20I'm just saying if I'm going to Long Island, I should probably
- 32:22get a bag. Maybe you should.
- 32:23Scoop it out or get a Flagyl. I Love Actually.
- 32:25I actually always get a flagyl at the place.
- 32:28I mean like and. This idea I love a flagyl.
- 32:30Let's also just say this is how these foods evolve and like we
- 32:33may not always like these evolutions.
- 32:35And that said like things like the cinnamon Raisin bagel, which
- 32:38we, you know, discussed a few weeks ago that like that was
- 32:41invention of lenders. That was a modern American bagel
- 32:44innovation, but it had reminiscent flavors.
- 32:47So I think it got it got. It got a pass.
- 32:49It got a pass. But but blueberries, those are a
- 32:52big piece of Polish history and culture too.
- 32:54So and and then part of the shtetl.
- 32:56And so maybe we just need to be. Yeah, I think we need to be more
- 33:00open minded and I think we need to have more love in our hearts.
- 33:06And you do too. Eliza, in Brooklyn, you sound a
- 33:08little judgmental about the bagels.
- 33:12Okay, very good. That was fun.
- 33:14I'm going to bring us some sweet bagels next time.
- 33:16That's fun. Amazing.
- 33:18Okay, Liz, we did it. We're here.
- 33:21We're at our Fetch Caval share segment.
- 33:25OK, this is we're sliding into the vinyl seeds.
- 33:27We're we're we have a chance to fetch your Kfell about something
- 33:31that's been on our minds. Maybe we have something to share
- 33:33with the other one. Yes, something we brought for
- 33:35each other. So this is this is it.
- 33:37This is the moment I've got something for you and I've got
- 33:39something to share. Well, I've got something for
- 33:42you. I don't have anything to share.
- 33:44Well, I just got something for you, so I'll give you mine
- 33:46first. OK, so as you might know, my
- 33:51beloved Shira just came back from Japan and she was in Japan
- 33:56officiating a Jewish wedding in Japan.
- 33:59Very cool, classic experience. Classic one week in Japan and
- 34:04she brought, of course, an empty suitcase with her to fill up
- 34:07with food to bring back. Lots of noodles, lots of ramen,
- 34:12lots of fun treats. A matcha too.
- 34:17Yes, and a matcha salt, which I have yet to try.
- 34:19I'm very excited. Very interesting stuff.
- 34:21She has a close friend who's Japanese, so they went to the
- 34:23grocery store together. And really, it's a real treasure
- 34:26trove. And she even brought you
- 34:30something back, Jeffrey, because she knows that I had told her
- 34:34that you did an exchange program to Japan in high school, I
- 34:38believe it was. So she brought back this
- 34:41adorable Spartan of soy sauce. First of all, how cute.
- 34:46That is. Is it not the cutest?
- 34:47Oh my. God and I love small cute things
- 34:49as you. Know so cute it has like a
- 34:52little it's like a little milk jug kind of thing and it's a
- 34:54dashi soy sauce. So it has like bonito in it and
- 34:59it's delicious. We did check to see if there was
- 35:02any shellfish and there is not. She had a translator app.
- 35:05We checked it and anyway, it's super vibrant and you definitely
- 35:12can't get this in the United States.
- 35:14So enjoy it and use it in for all your soy sauce needs.
- 35:19Oh my gosh, Shira, thank you. And thank you, Liz.
- 35:21What a wonderful. Oh my God.
- 35:23Come on, when you go across the world, you got it.
- 35:25You know, you can get some things in New York, but you
- 35:26can't get everything. I, I love this and that I, that
- 35:30was, I will say like what an experience you know, to be there
- 35:34in high school. But the thing I didn't know then
- 35:36was that you bring a suitcase back with food.
- 35:38Yeah, Yeah. You wouldn't have known that in
- 35:39high school. Thank you.
- 35:41You're welcome. I've got something for you, but
- 35:43it's don't be too excited, OK? I have the butane canisters.
- 35:52Oh my God, You know what? It's so funny.
- 35:55I was fucking looking for these because you telling me you were
- 35:57going to bring them to me, and I had an event this weekend and I
- 36:00was like, where are they? Look, I had enough because we
- 36:03ended up doing one thing. Chilled.
- 36:04Yeah, because it was so hot. So I figured, so these are these
- 36:08are these, you know these like what tin cans of butane?
- 36:12So funny a. Few different ones.
- 36:14And I, I, I was going to give this to you and I kept
- 36:16forgetting and but as I, I packed them to bring to you and
- 36:20I was just like, wait 2nd. We spent so much of our so much
- 36:24time in our lives handing things off to each other.
- 36:26Yeah. And these are canisters to use
- 36:28to, you know, one of those omelette stoves that you take.
- 36:31Like it's a catering stove. Yeah, I had, I had an event.
- 36:33I just used them. Yeah, whenever we do an event
- 36:35and we always bring these and we're always passing stoves and
- 36:38canisters. Of yes, yeah, we really are.
- 36:41And I always have like butane which I probably shouldn't keep
- 36:43in the car. No, you should not leave it in
- 36:45the car when it's 100°. I know I didn't have it in the.
- 36:48Summer, OK. And so I was like, I need to get
- 36:50this. And I was just like, you know
- 36:51what? I was just like this reminding
- 36:53me of all of the, like, crazy shenanigans and all the random
- 36:55things we've passed between each other.
- 36:57So I was like, I'm going to give you some butane canisters.
- 36:59On air, this is a true sign of our life.
- 37:02So yeah, I also love that these are these Korean butane
- 37:05canisters, because I know exactly where these are from
- 37:08because I know that I bought these and gave them to you and
- 37:10now you're giving them back to. Me if I went back and forth.
- 37:12Like 4 times no question because they're from this $1.00 store on
- 37:15Myrtle Ave. But I do know you have other
- 37:16events where you need butane coming up.
- 37:18Yes I do. I do.
- 37:19I have a bunch of events this. Summer so, so perfect.
- 37:22So I wanted to give those to you.
- 37:23Thank. You so much.
- 37:24This is a practical thing, not not a gift.
- 37:27So glad I finally have. But I had a kefel for you.
- 37:30OK, OK. So I was in Philly over the
- 37:33weekend and our, our friend Ari Miller, a chef, he is someone
- 37:39like I, I've sort of known him for his entire, most of his chef
- 37:42career. He is someone who was a
- 37:44journalist who, who, who started writing about food and he was, I
- 37:49met him when he was cooking in, in restaurants.
- 37:52And he's been in Philly for now, I don't know, 10 years, 12 years
- 37:56or so. And I, and I, I've got, I've
- 37:59gotten to watch him. I watched him open one of his
- 38:01restaurants. I was there on like opening
- 38:02night. I was there like when it closed
- 38:03during COVID, you know, and done events and stuff over the years.
- 38:06We did an event together just past December, this Hanukkah
- 38:11event. And he's been working and, and
- 38:14chefing at a restaurant called Posthaste in Fishtown in
- 38:17Philadelphia. And I got to go there for the
- 38:20first time. I got to go there for a proper
- 38:21dinner and a couple of things to point out One one is he's doing
- 38:25some really cool things including having a pay what you
- 38:28can or what you want dinners on Sunday nights and I just like
- 38:33first. Off, you know I love that.
- 38:34Shit, what what I really appreciate about about I I love
- 38:38having friends in the food world and supporting them and going to
- 38:40their places. But when like Ari really
- 38:43embodies these values, he calls it relationship cuisine.
- 38:45He's like really close with all of his suppliers.
- 38:48He only brings really good quality ingredients and he runs
- 38:51a kitchen that I would described as a shtetl kitchen in that like
- 38:55everything gets used really, it's thoughtfully and
- 38:57creatively. So one of his signature dishes
- 38:59is this they call it like a, you know, million layer lasagna.
- 39:02But all he makes lots of pastas and he's become really good at
- 39:05pasta over the years and pasta that he says has no Italian
- 39:09connection. And he and he like uses all the
- 39:12scraps to make this like layered lasagna that they he and he uses
- 39:16all these like greens and he has like this like cheesy green
- 39:19sauce. And then and then they actually
- 39:22deep fry this like, so it's like this like square of lasagna that
- 39:25they slice and it is so good. And I got to, I mean, wow, they
- 39:29were doing some of the like, you know, like the trend, like the
- 39:31duvet dog, the kind of like pastry wrapped hot dogs, but
- 39:36this incredible duck breast, like it was unbelievable and
- 39:40just just an incredible meal. I was there with my partner Emma
- 39:44and some friends in Philly and we just kind of sat down and
- 39:48just had like an unbelievable meal.
- 39:50That was just, and I got to watch and see a friends like,
- 39:53you know, like see his style that's developed over the years,
- 39:56kind of mature to this beautiful way.
- 39:58So it was just like a wonderful experience and great to see
- 40:01those values on display. And so I, I just like, really
- 40:05wanted to share that with you. I just like I really.
- 40:07Respected the meal and just like loved being there and loved
- 40:10seeing like the way that I've seen these foods evolve.
- 40:13I love that this is this is the definition of a Khfell.
- 40:17Yeah, this is you being like, I'm Khfelling.
- 40:19Yeah, because you got to go to Ari's restaurant and you're
- 40:22like, I had to tell you. Yeah, and also.
- 40:25It's like you call me like I got to tell you about Ari, except
- 40:28you don't sound like that. In a few years, the other thing
- 40:31I'll say is he he he makes a chopped liver or like a liver
- 40:35Pate and I'm not had talked to him about it and because he was
- 40:39looking for ideas, because he uses he was using the yolks and
- 40:42not the whites. I was like, well, guess what?
- 40:44In our cookbook, we did chopped liver, deviled eggs.
- 40:46We did the yolks in the in the liver.
- 40:49And then we actually filled the and we kind of made these
- 40:51beautiful. Deviled eggs.
- 40:52Those deviled eggs. And so they have on their menu
- 40:54now chopped these chopped liver, deviled eggs.
- 40:57And so I kind of love. And he's always looking around
- 41:01for interesting ideas. And so I was just like, way to
- 41:03go. Love seeing a friend doing great
- 41:07work, serving amazing food and yeah.
- 41:10And what a delight. Such a delight.
- 41:14It makes me think. I've been saying I need to go to
- 41:17Philly. It's like I should just go down
- 41:18for one night and go eat at that restaurant.
- 41:21Yeah. You know, do a little road trip
- 41:22night. Yeah.
- 41:23Never do things like. Go to fish down.
- 41:25It's actually not that far with when there's no traffic.
- 41:27No, it's not far. It's like not a big deal.
- 41:29I should just do it. I always say it's easier to get
- 41:31to Philly than to get to Washington Heights.
- 41:33It's the same, at least the same difference, Jeffrey.
- 41:37We did it. We did it.
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