Latest / The Curve / RTC144: The new way to borrow and invest smarter, with Sam Rosenberg.
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- 0:00Welcome to Raising the Curve, a podcast designed to teach you everything that you need to know to be better with your money.
- 0:06Come and learn alongside me, Sophie Hallwright, a total beginner from the finance expert Victoria Harris.
- 0:12So I've asked all of the questions you wish you could so that finance, investing and growing your wealth actually makes sense.
- 0:18Yes, it's expert education but with promise will not be boring and in the wise words of sheer...
- 0:22My mom said to me, you know sweetheart, one day you should settle down and marry a rich man.
- 0:28My mom, I am a rich man.
- 0:30Come and talk and learn and laugh with us because together we really can raise the curve.
- 0:36We are about to speak to Sam Rosenberg who has created ideated, split, absolutely.
- 0:44Everything into this new amazing FinTech, which actually I should explain because I remember when I heard people first saying FinTech and I was like,
- 0:52what's that? Essentially it's a financial tech product.
- 0:56So I think the reason why I found this conversation particularly so fascinating is that what you're told a lot when you speak to business advisors or investors or anything is
- 1:08you're trying to solve a problem, you're not actually, you don't want to just come up with a product idea or a business because you think it sounds good.
- 1:16You need to be really looking at what is a problem that you're trying to solve.
- 1:20And the reason that this new product called Belong is so amazing is there's this real problem when it comes to age versus money with investing.
- 1:30So when you're younger you've got a lot of time on your side but you don't have a lot of money but when you're older you have a lot of money but no time.
- 1:39And obviously when it comes to investing you need both, you need time and money.
- 1:44And so speaking to Sam about how she came up with this business idea and the functionality it's essentially like looking at how people make so many returns when it comes to getting a mortgage because you're able to leverage money so you can borrow money from the bank and it just basically compounds the amount you can return.
- 2:03So let's just say you bought a house, oh my god actually I don't trust myself to explain this by myself and fix not here but essentially it's the idea that when you borrow money you only relive to pay back what you borrowed but it magnifies the amount that you can make.
- 2:17So similar later that she's created a whole product that allows you to borrow money and actually then invest with more so it's really cool.
- 2:25And I think what was so interesting is that her background is from she's done a lot of studying and one of the degree she was on behavior economics so understanding how and why people spend money.
- 2:38How and why people either do or don't invest and she's created a whole product that that speaks to everything that she's learned when it comes to people and money.
- 2:47So this was a super interesting chat for us and honestly one that we could have just had with her at a cafe but we thought actually I think that our audience would be really interested in learning about this and the more that we put content out that is business related the more feedback we seem to get from people enjoying it.
- 3:06And so please let us know if you listen to this and you're like I don't know I didn't learn a lot and didn't find it interesting because it would be really good to know we have so many conversations like this one privately and we just thought it would be fun to bring it to you so you can get a peek inside of some of the conversations that we have with incredible business owners over here in the UK and in other parts of the world so we hope that you enjoy it and with that here is Sam Rosenberg.
- 3:36Firstly welcome to our first ever South African. I love podcasts. Firstly I want to explain how we met because it was kind of like I want to say serendipitous.
- 3:47That was the way that I was going to go for. So Sam reached out to Instagram was like hey love what you girls are doing and I would love to catch up with you guys.
- 3:57Life got in the way and then I was actually the dinner friend of a friend was like I should introduce you to my friend Sam who's created belong and so finally connected.
- 4:04We want to see you on the podcast learn more about belong what you're trying to achieve your investing journey and all of the about so welcome.
- 4:10Thank you very much. Thanks for having me.
- 4:12Can we start by getting a bit of an overview as to how the idea came about yes of course I studied economics and law specialized in behavioral economics and then further specialized in financial decision making.
- 4:25Behavior economics so it's the intersection of psychology and economics that's quite incredible and then you went into financial financial decision making.
- 4:34So essentially behavioral economics is understanding how economic players how they make decisions why they behave the way that they do.
- 4:41And it's found on this idea that you know traditional economics is that we're perfectly rational that when price goes up demand goes down and that's just that doesn't hold in reality we're not perfectly rational we're actually perfectly irrational in these predictable ways by understanding those predictable
- 4:57rationalities we can then drive behavior or influence behavior for better.
- 5:02Oh my god I always wanted to do psychology psychology and money psychology and economics I just think yeah I find just people's behavioral patterns and humans psychology in general is fascinating.
- 5:14But to hear that you've married the toe yeah how cool and so did you think I want to work in advising financial institutions as to like what you think you're going to see or my research wasn't gambling addiction which was can we do a whole other episode on that I be fascinated.
- 5:34So I did my master and it had just kind of landed in South Africa as this new thing in the academic space a lot was going on in the rest of the world Australia with the next unit UK also had one where they were embedding behavioral science into the way they created policies.
- 5:49So the famous one was the organ donation.
- 5:52Oh the default.
- 5:53Yeah so it's like it's like it's like pension you automatically roll you have to opt out.
- 5:59Is it the idea that if you say to someone like it's a lot harder to decide to opt out opposed to.
- 6:06Yeah well it's kind of one of these predictable irrationalities because most of the time the rational thing is to just go with the default.
- 6:14But that's the easy thing to do so we know that most people go with the default even if it's not the rational thing to just the irrational thing to do it's kind of like when you see a really long line outside of a restaurant the rational thing is obviously a good restaurant because all these people are lined up.
- 6:28But there is a chance that it's actually not a very good restaurant everyone's lined up because people are lining up because everyone else is lined up that's called the herd effect we see we just follow the herd.
- 6:37But would the irrational thing to do be to wait in the queue or to go to somewhere that doesn't have a queue.
- 6:43The perfectly rational thing to do would be to research the restaurant slow down your decision making look at the menu see if somebody actually want to do.
- 6:51And so this nudge like what was happening in terms of some of the policy changes that was happening at the time and so you thought this is kind of interesting.
- 6:59Yeah I was like this is so cool by pure chance as I finished my masters a friend of mine knew someone who had just started was pulling together the first team of applied behavioral specialists in Africa.
- 7:14So I joined that team I was specifically looking at the way people behave with their money I worked with all the big banks the insurance companies investment companies on how to embed behavioral thinking into the existing products and processes.
- 7:26Would this be like when I'm booking on Ryanair to go to Barcelona for the weekend and it's like do you want to pick your set and I'm like no but then they make the color the opposite to what I'm trying to click so then I always get confused and I'm like well maybe I do want to pick it and then I'm like no I didn't want that.
- 7:46So what it comes down to is system one and system two thinking system one is very reactive knee joke reactions if I say what's one plus one you say it's two if you see people standing in line for a restaurant that's a knee joke reaction if you see it the color of the buttons green and not red that's knee joke reaction system two is slow rational thinking where they're not I should save and invest where they're not I should immigrate like these big life decisions should happen in system two.
- 8:12But what is happening is we make most of our decisions in system one do you just go around all day going no that system one no I'm not going to fall for that I'm going to fall yeah I could be so clever with the way that you talk to people the way that you can products the way that if you understand and well that's one of the problems of that is because we have some of the smartest people in the whole world creating marketing campaigns.
- 8:37And green buttons when they should be read in the UX to get us to spend more money instead of saving it and when you say UX you mean the user experience yeah holy shit though and terms of creating your own product kind of genius and so what would you do when you were working with financial services companies like can you give us an example of something yeah so big one was retirement savings.
- 9:01So in South Africa you have two opportunities to access your retirement savings one when you retire at the other time you have you can access your savings is any time you move job.
- 9:12What which is crazy yeah I mean that was great like 40 50 years ago when everyone stayed in the same job but now with people moving all the time people getting access to their retirement savings every two three four years every time these young people in their 20s 30s move job they get a phone call from pension provider saying.
- 9:30Hey what would you like to do with your retirement savings and obviously I want to take it and go.
- 9:35Obviously yeah and I'm in this very uncertain space moving jobs.
- 9:39What was like during COVID when Australia gave that option to take out.
- 9:44I think it was $20,000.
- 9:45I did.
- 9:46It was $20,000.
- 9:47If you ever won off your $20,000 withdraw.
- 9:49And that's a one.
- 9:50If you had made that decision in system two you would have sat down and thought do I really need all of this what am I going to spend it on you would have done a budget for it.
- 9:57So a system one has nothing to do with how you like it's purely on the way they make the decision rather than the process because for me I had to apply to take that money out.
- 10:07No one was calling me to say do you want to take it out.
- 10:09So just a system one versus system two of anything to do with that.
- 10:12So it kind of is the process that you used to make the decision because you leaning on these mental shortcuts.
- 10:18So it's all about these mental shortcuts system two you don't take any shortcuts you do all that hard thinking system one you take the mental shortcut.
- 10:25Do I need the money.
- 10:26Yes, that was your first decision.
- 10:28You then just had to apply you to really made the decision that you want to take the money.
- 10:31What were you trying to change within the system and South Africa for pension specifically.
- 10:35So we weren't working at a systematic level.
- 10:38We were more layering on top of the existing processes at each individual institution.
- 10:44So for example, in that case we want to encourage people to keep their money when they got that phone call to say no I don't want to take it.
- 10:52And we just made changes to the contact center script.
- 10:55For example, we use something called anchoring.
- 10:58You get a call you say hi.
- 11:00We see you moving jobs.
- 11:02You've got 10,000 pounds of retirement savings. What would you like to do with it?
- 11:06I'm going to say I'll take the 10,000 pounds. Thank you.
- 11:09We changed us to say hi in order to retire happily one day.
- 11:12You'll need 100,000 pounds.
- 11:14You're currently have 10,000 pounds.
- 11:16What would you like to do with it and just giving them an anchor what they need.
- 11:19And they're just so easy.
- 11:21You're not saying that you're degrees.
- 11:23It's so mind-blowing to think that that's such a tiny tweak but the enormous impact that that would be having in a positive way.
- 11:32It's like saying do you think I look good on this outfit?
- 11:35No, what would you change about my outfit before you leave the hat?
- 11:38Yes.
- 11:40I think I'm suffering forcing.
- 11:42Do you think I look good?
- 11:44Yes, yes, yes.
- 11:45So when you were working within that space, would that have been a two-year project?
- 11:50Do you have to come up with all these examples and do interviews and tests that would work?
- 11:55How has that even...
- 11:56Yeah, so we did a lot of AB testing and experimenting.
- 11:59In an example like that, we'd listen to a whole bunch of conversations with customers and then figure out basically where the biases were in the conversation
- 12:08and come up with a whole lot of ways or behavioral theories for how we could counteract those biases, implement them into the script.
- 12:17Split the context into like two groups, one group uses the new script, the other group uses the old script and seeing what the impact is.
- 12:25So these projects ran for about three or four months and then we'd kind of handed over to the institution to implement across the board.
- 12:32Did bail on come because of frustrations within working in the system?
- 12:37I'd love to hear what was happening at the time that sparked you, I think, actually there's really something here.
- 12:43I think that's why I was absolutely loved it. I was going to do that for the rest of my life.
- 12:46And then very quickly, it was almost like the walls of my life were closing on me.
- 12:50I could very clearly see the next 50 years, like living in South Africa, working and consulting, doing this thing that I love.
- 12:57And weirdly, that really scared me. And I was like, there has to be more.
- 13:02Like I couldn't have cracked the code at 24 years old.
- 13:05That's not how I used to be.
- 13:06I was just out of my masters.
- 13:08And that's when I started thinking about, okay, well, what would I do?
- 13:12And I knew that it was still going to be in behavioral economics.
- 13:16It was still going to be with the way people behave with their money.
- 13:19But there was definitely an opportunity to be doing it at a grassroots level.
- 13:22So to be building businesses from the ground up based on what we know about the way people behave.
- 13:27But I had no idea how I was going to get into that.
- 13:30So I moved to the UK and I did my MBA at London Business School.
- 13:34And that was the best thing I ever did because I dropped the blinkers.
- 13:38And all of a sudden, it was quite clear how I could make a career out of building products.
- 13:45And businesses from the ground up using behavioral science, you could start your own company.
- 13:50What was that, what kind of light bulb moment of like?
- 13:53Belong is the company I'm going to create.
- 13:55For me, it was a massive misconception was that one day you wake up, you're like,
- 13:59I've got a brilliant idea.
- 14:00I've got a problem I want to solve. I've got the solution.
- 14:03And I'm going to be a founder.
- 14:05It wasn't like that at all.
- 14:06It was like one day I just woke up and I was like, oh gosh, I've just been the last year of my life becoming an entrepreneur and now I'm a founder.
- 14:13And so it was very much a journey.
- 14:15There were definitely micro light moments.
- 14:19One of them was meeting Nick Hungerford, the founder of Nutmeg.
- 14:23He mentored me during my MBA.
- 14:25Oh, that's amazing.
- 14:26Yeah.
- 14:27Just for anyone who's not based in the UK, Nutmeg is a trading platform.
- 14:30So it's like a DIY similar to Shazies or steak.
- 14:35And he introduced me to my co-founder.
- 14:37He's always says that he introduced us because we were speaking to him about the same problem just using slightly different language.
- 14:44So from my behavioural background, I was speaking about these irrational decisions we make.
- 14:48Looking at a macro level, millennials are the first generation say to be less well-off than our parents.
- 14:52We aren't building wealth.
- 14:54We don't have the tools to build wealth that our parents did.
- 14:56And everything around us is about instant gratification.
- 15:00And Abby, on my co-founder, her background is an investment banking.
- 15:03She worked in Fintech for a long time.
- 15:05She was speaking to him from a more mathematical or rational perspective.
- 15:09And she was saying, you know, in order to build wealth, you need to get in earlier with more benefit.
- 15:13Benefit from compounding the classic Warren Buffett approach by and hold.
- 15:17And they just aren't any solutions out there that are encouraging that and owning that narrative.
- 15:22So he put us together.
- 15:24It really resonated with me in that I studied economics.
- 15:28I specialised in the way people behave with their money.
- 15:32I worked in financial services.
- 15:34I was not doing an MBA and I still wasn't investing.
- 15:37So now I'm sitting there.
- 15:39I've done invest.
- 15:40I've got 500 classmates that I'm like, okay, they definitely invest.
- 15:43So let me talk to them about why they're not building wealth.
- 15:45And what I very quickly realised is that they weren't investing.
- 15:49Because I remember when we called up and you told me a story about how you were talking to a friend or something.
- 15:55And we're like, do you invest?
- 15:57And they lied and said, yes.
- 15:59Because I thought that you invested.
- 16:00And when you said you didn't invest, they're like, oh, thank goodness.
- 16:02Because I don't have to say that.
- 16:03So this whole thing of like, well, we're learning about economics and finance.
- 16:06So therefore we should be.
- 16:07It's embarrassing.
- 16:08Nobody wants to talk about it.
- 16:10It's so weird.
- 16:11Yeah.
- 16:12And when you ask people, they immediately go to very rational reasons.
- 16:17So I don't know how to invest.
- 16:19I don't have the expertise.
- 16:21There's an estimated 300 billion of cash sitting in the hands of 18 to 44 year olds in the UK.
- 16:28Cash.
- 16:29So that means they're not investing.
- 16:30They're not investing.
- 16:31It's just sitting in the bank.
- 16:33I'm trying to think what can be done to make a big hoar about this.
- 16:38I also think there's an element of, I don't have time.
- 16:42These are the very rational reasons people give.
- 16:45I don't have the expertise.
- 16:46I don't have the time.
- 16:47I don't have the money.
- 16:48As we start peeling back the layers, we see that there's all these other reasons that people don't invest.
- 16:52They like the feeling of liquidity.
- 16:54It feels safe.
- 16:55Yeah, it does.
- 16:56It gives you a feeling of safety.
- 16:57So if people don't have a decent amount of that, you wouldn't want to part with more money to invest.
- 17:03The challenge comes in when you're holding on to more than you need for emergency savings.
- 17:09So £20,000 for the average millennial living in London is probably more than your emergency savings.
- 17:16But we just don't know how much to invest.
- 17:18I feel safe.
- 17:19Just hold on to all of it.
- 17:20Investing it feels like giving up control.
- 17:22If I'm going to invest it, I feel like it needs to be a meaningful amount.
- 17:25Enough amount.
- 17:26I don't know what a meaningful amount is.
- 17:28It's like when I looked at my boyfriend, ex-boyfriends.
- 17:32Boyfriend ex-boyfriends.
- 17:33It's a long story.
- 17:34I was even better before you were there.
- 17:35Very good.
- 17:36And I hope he doesn't mind those saddles.
- 17:38But he had quite a lot in his savings or in his liquid account.
- 17:43I was like, well, why?
- 17:44I might need it.
- 17:45I'm like, when are you going on a $40,000 holiday?
- 17:47You know, I was like, that is wild.
- 17:50It was that whole safety net thing.
- 17:52What would be the top five reasons that people either avoid or don't invest?
- 17:58So that's the first one is around the safety net of the liquidity.
- 18:02You do need emergency savings.
- 18:03You should always have emergency savings.
- 18:05But anything above that money you don't need to live should be put to work.
- 18:09The second one is around people feeling like they lack discipline.
- 18:14So what we hear a lot is I know that in order to invest in a meaningful way,
- 18:19I should put down a lump sum and then contribute monthly or on a regular basis.
- 18:25But I also know myself.
- 18:26I don't have the discipline to do that.
- 18:28So I'm not even going to start because I won't be able to keep up with it.
- 18:31It's like trying to do so over October being like, no,
- 18:34but I know I'm going to drink on the tens.
- 18:36Exactly.
- 18:37So I'm not even going to start.
- 18:38I'm not going to do it.
- 18:39Oh, you're going to drink on the 29th.
- 18:40So I'm just not going to do it.
- 18:42Exactly.
- 18:43Links to that.
- 18:44There's also this feeling of having lost that on too much time.
- 18:47I should have started 10 years ago.
- 18:49It's too late now, even though I'm like 35.
- 18:52Too late.
- 18:53The fourth one is the thinking that investing equals stock picking.
- 18:58People thinking that they have to pick stocks index tracking funds is the biggest unlock for customers,
- 19:03like realizing that, oh, you can actually buy the market, like just breaking down that decision-making.
- 19:07And then I'd say the most prominent reason that people don't invest is prison bias.
- 19:14We are hardwired to favor the current self over the future self.
- 19:19That's all about instant gratification and delayed gratification.
- 19:21It's like the marshmallow experiment where you have the marshmallow experiment with the kids.
- 19:25Yeah.
- 19:26And you give them one marshmallow and you say you can either eat marshmallow or you can wait 10 minutes
- 19:30and you'll get another marshmallow.
- 19:32And the kids eat the first marshmallow and don't wait for the second one.
- 19:35That's the decision to invest.
- 19:37You can have one marshmallow, say, or you can have two marshmallows 10 years from now.
- 19:41But what behavioral economists have found is it's not as simple as a thousand pounds for Sam today
- 19:45or 10,000 pounds for Sam in 10 years from now.
- 19:48It's actually 1,000 pounds for Sam today or 10,000 pounds for a complete stranger 10 years from now.
- 19:54Is that because that concept of me and the future is so far?
- 19:5845-year-old me is the same as 45-year-old stranger on the street.
- 20:02Because I was like, I can't even imagine myself 45.
- 20:04That's why when you say invest for future you, I'm like, it means nothing to me.
- 20:08Just what is future me?
- 20:10I don't even know what I'm doing tomorrow.
- 20:12I've known in 15 years time.
- 20:14Oh my god, I reckon that we should like create a new at 60s.
- 20:18You can see it.
- 20:20Oh my god, me at 60 and I haven't been invested.
- 20:22Me at 60 and I have.
- 20:24And like, what I look like, what my situation.
- 20:26Oh, that would be quite unlawful.
- 20:28They did a study on that. I'll send it to you.
- 20:30Oh, I got a message.
- 20:32In the US, on 401k, and showing people an AI generated picture of their future souls.
- 20:36And people were more likely to contribute more to their pension after seeing that image of themselves.
- 20:42I reckon I would. I reckon that would be unlawful.
- 20:44Yeah, it's fine.
- 20:46So let's jump into what is belong.
- 20:48It is encouraging this generation, inspiring this generation to be long, to take a long term perspective on their wealth.
- 20:56Be long.
- 20:58And be long. I love it.
- 21:00Yeah, so in a lot of ways, just productising Warren Buffett's advice of buy the market and hold it.
- 21:06He says that anything less than £100,000, just put in the S&P.
- 21:12That's Warren Buffett's advice, don't mind.
- 21:14And creating a product that makes that really straightforward.
- 21:18Based off all these insights, we came up with the boosted own feature.
- 21:22Fundamentally, it's an investment platform where you come on.
- 21:26You can choose from four index tracking funds.
- 21:28We've completely cut out the complexity.
- 21:30You make three decisions.
- 21:32I know.
- 21:33Just so, Jane, yes.
- 21:34So I'd be up.
- 21:35Get it out now.
- 21:37There's a second part.
- 21:38Sorry.
- 21:39Which was one of the three decisions.
- 21:40So first decision is how much we would like to invest.
- 21:42Anything from £1,000 upwards.
- 21:44Second decision is which of these four index tracking funds would you like to invest in.
- 21:48And then the third decision is with all not you want to take out this optional boost loan.
- 21:52So let's say you come on to our...
- 21:54Sorry, do you say boost loan.
- 21:56Boost loan.
- 21:57I want a boost loan.
- 21:58So how it works is to build wealth.
- 22:01We need two things.
- 22:03We need time and money because we need our money to compound over time.
- 22:07The challenge is that unless you come from wealth, we rarely have these two things at the same time.
- 22:12Because when you're young, you typically have all this time ahead of you.
- 22:16But you don't have the capital to invest for to compound.
- 22:18And when you're older, you have less time, but more capital.
- 22:23If you come from wealth, then it's easier because you've got the capital and you have the time.
- 22:26You're both lucky.
- 22:28Yeah, most of us don't have that.
- 22:30So what the boost loan looks to do is correct this.
- 22:33In addition to all those other behavioural or psychological blockers that we identified in our research.
- 22:38So you come on to our platform.
- 22:39Let's say you've got £5,000 to invest.
- 22:41You then have the option to apply for a boost loan, which will give you another £5,000.
- 22:45So on day one, you can invest £10,000.
- 22:48The full £10,000 goes into that fund in your name.
- 22:51And you repay the £5,000 boost loan monthly out of your pocket.
- 22:56What I love about this is that it's like there's that whole preface of wealth breeds wealth.
- 23:01You can't give someone at the tail end of their life more time.
- 23:05But you can give more people at the beginning of their life money.
- 23:08So it's like you can solve one of those things.
- 23:10It's like let's give people when they're younger, more money and see how that compounds over time.
- 23:16Do you know what this sounds like?
- 23:17It's sort of similar to how you lend money when you are buying a house.
- 23:22Because you can benefit more from the leverage.
- 23:25It's kind of similar.
- 23:27Right, it's kind of you get a loan to be able to invest more.
- 23:30We've taken the structure of a mortgage.
- 23:32And at the time they've seen the stock market.
- 23:34Yeah, it's enabling young people to tap into leverage asset returns when they're younger.
- 23:38Which is exactly what a mortgage enables you to do.
- 23:41Do you have a lot of people that are scared?
- 23:43Yeah, I think a lot of it comes into how we position the proposition and the information we provide to the customer
- 23:49when they're taking out the product and making sure that they understand both the benefits
- 23:54and the risks is really important and being totally transparent with the risk of the product.
- 23:59What is the risk and what would the like interest be?
- 24:02Currently it's 6% interest fixed.
- 24:06So am I right in thinking then?
- 24:08You kind of need on average minimum of a 6% return to be able to make it makes ends.
- 24:15That's the most basic way of thinking about it.
- 24:17What's the return of the market over the past 30 years?
- 24:20On average, the return of the market is 10% over the last 20 years.
- 24:25Yeah, yeah.
- 24:27Well, the point is definitely more than 6% on average.
- 24:31And it's definitely more than 8% on average.
- 24:34So you're getting a better return if you invest even with a loan than if you went.
- 24:41So why would I not go to the bank and just be like, hey, can I borrow $10,000 to invest?
- 24:46We had some customers who told us that that's what they've tried to do.
- 24:49They just couldn't get a personal loan at a low enough interest rate.
- 24:52It's so genius. It's such a good idea.
- 24:55I love it.
- 24:56One thing I wanted to talk about,
- 24:58are there any cultural differences when it comes to money with South Africa in the UK?
- 25:02In South Africa, just given the socio-economic and political context,
- 25:07money is definitely more of a talking point.
- 25:10I feel like in the UK we don't speak about it. It's a taboo subject.
- 25:14You recently got married.
- 25:16Congrats.
- 25:17Congratulations.
- 25:18Thank you.
- 25:19Does he sell South Africa?
- 25:20Yes, he is.
- 25:21And so did you have similar approaches to money?
- 25:24How did you deal with money within your relationship up until the point of getting married?
- 25:28Yeah.
- 25:29You know, if you put pre-nups in place,
- 25:31I'd love to hear how you've managed them.
- 25:33As soon as our relationship started getting serious,
- 25:35we had the conversation about finances and how we'd manage our finances.
- 25:38Given that, I obviously had just finished my MBA used most of my savings
- 25:43and was now starting a business, wasn't taking a salary at the time.
- 25:46He had a far more secure job.
- 25:48He works in private equity.
- 25:50And that just set the tone for the rest of our relationship of finances,
- 25:53just being this really open conversation that we have and budgeting.
- 25:57Did you think you wouldn't have brought it up because,
- 26:00in short, it was wrong, but like you weren't earning.
- 26:03And therefore, you were the, I guess, the inferior earner.
- 26:06So you didn't want to bring it up? Do you think that's...
- 26:08Yeah, I think that was definitely a part of it.
- 26:12Which is even more kudos to him for bringing it up.
- 26:14I was about to say it's pretty cool that he did.
- 26:16Yeah.
- 26:17And so, where did that evolve?
- 26:18Because starting a business, not taking a salary is a pretty difficult place,
- 26:22particularly in a really expensive city like London.
- 26:24Did you, at that point, agree on what?
- 26:27That would look like on how you'd be able to support each other.
- 26:30So what we'd essentially decided was that his career was going to pay the bills
- 26:37and buy the house and put our kids through school.
- 26:40And mine is our earlier retirement.
- 26:42That is such a good way of looking at it.
- 26:44Like you were almost sacrificing now from a money or an earning capacity
- 26:49for the future.
- 26:51Yeah. You guys.
- 26:52How much pressure did that feel to you?
- 26:55To belong to the A, incredibly financially successful.
- 26:59And B, to not feel controlled or owned by a hand if he was paying for day-to-day things.
- 27:07I'm very fortunate to have an extremely supportive and understanding husband.
- 27:12He definitely doesn't add to the pressure.
- 27:14And if anything, he takes away from it.
- 27:17And in terms of the controlling this, not at all,
- 27:21I think a lot of that has got to do with him as a person and our relationship.
- 27:26But I can very easily see how that could be a dynamic for some people.
- 27:31I would find it really hard if I was earning the majority of the income
- 27:36and also giving someone allowance or controlling what there's been thing.
- 27:40And vice versa, if they were doing that to me, I'd just find both ways.
- 27:44I don't know.
- 27:45I think I seriously have to work on being okay with it no matter what way it is.
- 27:49Imagine if you saw them just going on a three-way holiday
- 27:52and not working on the business, you know.
- 27:54I mean, house the business going.
- 27:58It would be hard to be a general legend in that situation both ways, I think.
- 28:04There's no such thing as overcommunicating.
- 28:06I found and trust.
- 28:08Do you feel pressure with yourself as well being an entrepreneur and becoming a mother
- 28:14that you've now going to have like two babies?
- 28:16And how you're going to step away or you're a suicide time for that period of adjustment?
- 28:22It's really difficult.
- 28:23I'm fortunate that I have role models, one of them being my co-founder
- 28:29and she is an absolute superstar.
- 28:31Wow, that's incredible.
- 28:32I do think it's leading by example, isn't it?
- 28:34If you've seen someone else do something, it's less scary.
- 28:37Okay, final questions.
- 28:39What would be your biggest money or investing to?
- 28:42I'd say just get started.
- 28:44What would yours be?
- 28:45Mine would be you always have enough time.
- 28:48If you're 20, if you're 90, if you're 45,
- 28:52you've always got time.
- 28:53You can always join the club.
- 28:54Always join the club.
- 28:55What are some of the ways that we can overcome when we do have,
- 28:59like whether it's going to invest and you have a tiny little voice in the back of your head,
- 29:03it's like, oh, but maybe you might, you know, I think there's a lot that could be said for if we understand the way our brains work,
- 29:08we can probably rise above what those tendencies are,
- 29:12rather than falling to just whatever is what a matter.
- 29:16What it requires is a consumer understanding or a retail investor understanding of those things,
- 29:22but that has to be coupled with products that also encourage the same behaviors in the same ways.
- 29:29Because it doesn't help for us to be so aware of, okay, I know that complex T freaks me out.
- 29:35So I need to be aware of that and I just need to like track on and answer all the questions as I'm going through the app.
- 29:40But then the app is also like overly complex.
- 29:43Yeah, and I think that's happening.
- 29:45You can start to see a lot of tech emerging from amazing female founders who are creating products for specific people.
- 29:52So how's it launched?
- 29:53Yes, we've launched.
- 29:54And if you want to learn more, be dashlong.co.
- 29:59What countries is available on right now?
- 30:01Only in the UK for now.
- 30:02Sorry.
- 30:03Is it coming soon to the rest of the world?
- 30:04Global domination.
- 30:06Yes.
- 30:07Yes to that.
- 30:08Okay, can't wait.
- 30:09Thanks Sam.
- 30:10Thanks for coming in and looking forward to getting to Cape Town.
- 30:13Thanks.
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