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- 0:51Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, today's episode.
- 0:52Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, we're going to look at how to transform music drama into mental strength.
- 1:01Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, we've all been there.
- 1:03Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We had a terrible day, boss was a nightmare, you got into a silly argument with a friend, and now there's a quiet dread setting in your chest.
- 1:17Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So you do what you have always done.
- 1:19Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You put on your headphones, your earbuds, find that one album that always seems to get you and press play.
- 1:30Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're looking for comfort, maybe an escape, but then something strange happens.
- 1:37Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The sad songs don't just understand you, they start to feel like they're drowning you.
- 1:44Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That melancholic singer isn't just a companion, they're an anchor, pulling you deeper and deeper into the funk.
- 1:56Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The album you love suddenly feels like a trap.
- 2:00Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And before you know it, an hour has gone by, and you feel even worse than when you started.
- 2:09Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This is an incredibly common experience.
- 2:13Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We turn to music as a lifeline, only to sometimes find it tightening around us.
- 2:21Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But what if this happens not because of the music itself, but because we've been using it all wrong?
- 2:30Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What if there's a way to flip a mental switch to transform music from a source of emotional drama into a tool for building real lasting mental health strength?
- 2:46Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Stay with me because that's exactly what we're gonna break down.
- 2:50Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's time to go from being a passive victim of our playlist to an active conductor of our own emotional state.
- 3:01Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: First, we're gonna look at the promise, the passive versus the active switch.
- 3:09Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The core idea is there's a huge difference between passively listening to music and actively engaging with it.
- 3:18Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For most of us, most of the time, we're passive listeners.
- 3:23Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Music is a soundtrack to our commute, our workout, our work day.
- 3:29Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's background noise, a vibe enhancer that we just let wash over us without much conscious thought.
- 3:41Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And when we're in a good mood, that's totally fine.
- 3:45Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But when we're feeling vulnerable, this passive consumption can be a dangerous feedback loop.
- 3:54Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You feel sad, so you passively listen to sad music, which can then reinforce and deepen that sadness.
- 4:04Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's like getting stuck in an emotional echo chamber.
- 4:09Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now let's be clear, passive listening isn't the enemy.
- 4:15Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Sometimes putting on a chill playlist and just letting your mind drift is exactly what you need to de-stress.
- 4:24Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The problem comes up when this is your only way of interacting with music, especially when you're going through a tough time.
- 4:35Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The alternative is what we call active engagement.
- 4:41Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So we're going to call this alternative active engagement.
- 4:46Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This is about listening with intention and awareness.
- 4:52Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It means you're no longer just a consumer of the sound, you're a collaborator in the experience.
- 5:00Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're using music as a specific tool to achieve a specific outcome, whether that's understanding an emotion, processing it, or deliberately shifting it.
- 5:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Think of it like the difference between floating aimlessly in the ocean and actually knowing how to swim.
- 5:27Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: When you're just floating, the current takes you wherever it wants.
- 5:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You might drift to a beautiful shore, or you might get pulled out into a dangerous rip tide.
- 5:41Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But when you know how to swim, you can work with the water.
- 5:47Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You can decide which way you want to go, how to handle the waves, and how to get back to shore when you need to.
- 5:57Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Flipping this mental switch from passive to active is the first and most critical step.
- 6:05Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's about taking the reins and deciding that you will tell your music what you need from it, not the other way around.
- 6:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now let's get into the proof.
- 6:19Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The science of sound and mind.
- 6:23Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This isn't just a feel-good mindset trick, it's a concept grounded in how our brains are wired to handle sound, emotional, and attention.
- 6:37Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're not talking about literally flipping a switch in your skull.
- 6:42Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The reality is way more interesting.
- 6:46Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Your brain has multiple interconnected networks running all the time.
- 6:51Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: When you listen to music, especially songs with strong memories attached, you often fire up deep-seated neuropathways.
- 7:02Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You can activate regions like the amygdala and hippocampus, which are major players in emotion and memory.
- 7:13Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This response is often automatic and powerful.
- 7:18Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's why a certain song can instantly make you feel nostalgic, joyful, or heartbroken.
- 7:27Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: When you're passively listening to a sad song while feeling down, you're basically letting those automatic emotional circuits run the show on a loop.
- 7:41Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's very little conscious intervention.
- 7:45Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But when you decide to actively engage, you recruit other powerful brain networks, specifically your attentional and executive control networks, which heavily involve your prefrontal cortex.
- 8:06Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: These are the parts of the brain responsible for focus, decision making, and directing your attention.
- 8:14Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Let's make this concrete.
- 8:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: When you intentionally decide to focus only on the bass line of a song or try to pick out the harmony, you're given your executive control network a specific job.
- 8:33Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This act of directed attention doesn't shut off the emotional parts of the brain.
- 8:41Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Instead, it changes the balance of power.
- 8:45Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's like turning on the lights in a dark room.
- 8:48Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The room is the same, but you can now see where you're going and choose where to put your feet.
- 8:58Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: By guiding your focus, you can interrupt the automatic ruminating cycle that passive listening can fuel.
- 9:09Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's me.
- 9:11Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That ruminating cycle.
- 9:14Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Wow.
- 9:15Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Plus, research shows that enjoyable music can trigger a release of dopamine in the brain's reward system.
- 9:27Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A neurotransmitter tied to pleasure and motivation.
- 9:34Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: By consciously choosing music you know has this effect on you, you're giving yourself a tool to help nudge your own brain chemistry away from a state of sadness and toward one of motivation.
- 9:54Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's not a magic cure, but it's a way to actively participate in your own mood regulation.
- 10:04Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So when we talk about this switch, what we're really describing is a shift in neural strategy from being passively driven by automatic emotional reactions to actively using your brain's powerful attention systems to navigate, process, and influence your emotional state.
- 10:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Let's get into the practical steps, your toolkit for mental strength.
- 10:37Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Knowing the science is one thing, but applying it is where the real change happens.
- 10:45Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Let's break this down into four practical steps you can start using today.
- 10:50Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This is your toolkit for turning music into your personal mental strength trainer.
- 11:00Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The diagnostic, step one.
- 11:02Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Name the feeling.
- 11:04Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Before you can change your emotional state, you have to know what it is.
- 11:09Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Often we just feel a vague cloud of bad, which could be a mix of sadness, anger, frustration, or loneliness.
- 11:20Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Using music as a diagnostic tool is the first step in active engagement.
- 11:28Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Here's the exercise.
- 11:30Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The next time you're feeling that turmoil, don't immediately try to run from it.
- 11:36Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Instead, scroll through your music and find the one song that feels like a perfect, honest reflection of the storm inside of you.
- 11:47Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now, listen to that one song with total attention.
- 11:53Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And as you listen, your only job is to ask yourself, what's the main emotion here?
- 12:01Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Is it grief?
- 12:02Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Betrayal?
- 12:04Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Is it a quiet, hollow loneliness?
- 12:08Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: By matching a song to your feeling, you give that feeling a name and a shape.
- 12:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This act of identification is incredibly powerful.
- 12:22Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It externalizes that emotion, letting you look at it instead of just being lost in it.
- 12:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're not ruminating, you're diagnosing.
- 12:36Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You stop being a victim of the feeling and have become an observer.
- 12:45Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Step two, the ISO principle, mood matching and shifting.
- 12:53Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now once you know your emotional starting point, you can start to shift it.
- 12:58Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But one of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to force a huge emotional jump.
- 13:07Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you're feeling deeply sad, blastingly and aggressively, happy song often backfires.
- 13:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It can feel jarring and dismissive, making you feel even more alone in your sadness.
- 13:24Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This is where a concept inspired by music therapy, sometimes called the ISO principle, can be incredibly useful.
- 13:38Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The idea is simple.
- 13:40Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You start with music that matches your current mood and then gradually introduce music that guides you toward your desired mood.
- 13:52Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It works because the first step is validation.
- 13:56Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The initial music says, I get it.
- 14:01Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I know where you are right now.
- 14:04Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Here's how to build a simple mood shifting playlist based on this idea.
- 14:11Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Let's say you want to move from high anxiety to a state of calm.
- 14:18Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Track one, match the state.
- 14:21Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Start with a song that reflects your internal state.
- 14:26Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For some, this might be a fast paced rock song or an intense electronic track.
- 14:34Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For others, it could be a chaotic dissonant piece.
- 14:39Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Track two, introduce a little stability.
- 14:44Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Your second song should be slightly less intense.
- 14:48Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Maybe it still has a strong beat, but the tempo is slower and the melody is more structured.
- 14:58Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're starting to bring a sense of order.
- 15:01Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Track three, begin the cool down.
- 15:05Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now pick a song that is noticeably calmer, an instrumental track with a steady rhythm, or a simple folk song could work well here.
- 15:19Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Track four and five, arrive at calm.
- 15:24Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Your final tracks should represent your goal.
- 15:28Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This might be very slow, ambient music, a gentle piano solo, or even recorded nature sounds.
- 15:40Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Music that encourages slower breathing and peace.
- 15:47Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A quick word of caution.
- 15:48Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you're matching a feeling like anxiety, pay attention to how you feel.
- 15:54Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For some people, intense music can be a release.
- 15:59Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But for others, might actually ramp up the physical symptoms of anxiety.
- 16:06Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If that happens, just skip ahead to the calmer tracks.
- 16:12Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You've just created a guided journey for your nervous system.
- 16:17Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A gentle ramp instead of a jarring leap.
- 16:22Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Step three, the active listening exercise.
- 16:27Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A pattern interrupt for rumination.
- 16:32Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Rumination is that destructive habit of getting stuck in a loop of negative thoughts.
- 16:40Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Could be doom scrolling, social media.
- 16:44Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Your brain just replays the same worries over and over, and passive listening can often be fuel for that fire.
- 16:54Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: An active listening exercise can serve as a powerful pattern interrupt to break that cycle.
- 17:03Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's basically a mindful practice where music is your anchor.
- 17:10Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Here's the exercise.
- 17:12Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Only takes two minutes.
- 17:14Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: One, choose a song.
- 17:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: An instrumental piece is often great for this because lyrics can sometimes pull you back into your thoughts.
- 17:25Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Try to pick a song with a few different instruments or layers.
- 17:30Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Two, set your intention.
- 17:34Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For the next two minutes, your only goal is to follow one single element of the music.
- 17:41Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It could be the bass line, the drum pattern, the main melody, anything.
- 17:49Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Three, listen actively.
- 17:53Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Close your eyes, put all your focus on that one chosen song.
- 18:00Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: One chosen sound.
- 18:02Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Follow it like a character in a story.
- 18:06Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Notice when it gets louder or quieter, faster or slower.
- 18:13Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Four, gently redirect.
- 18:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Your mind will wander, that's for sure.
- 18:21Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's what minds do.
- 18:23Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: When you find yourself playing an argument, replaying, you find yourself replaying an argument, or thinking about your to-do list, don't get frustrated.
- 18:36Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Just notice that your attention has drifted and gently without judgment, bring it back to the instrument.
- 18:47Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Why does this work?
- 18:50Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're giving your brains attentional networks a job to do, creating competition for your cognitive resources.
- 19:01Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It offers a temporary but profound break from the rumination loop.
- 19:08Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're not trying to suppress your feelings.
- 19:11Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're just proving to yourself that you have the power to direct your focus elsewhere, even if it's just for a minute or two.
- 19:23Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Step four, the lyric journey.
- 19:27Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The lyric journal.
- 19:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Decode your own story.
- 19:34Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Music with lyrics often feels like it's telling our story.
- 19:39Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We can use those lyrics as a tool for self-reflection and processing, a practice inspired by techniques used in music therapy.
- 19:52Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Here's a simple way to do it, which we'll call a lyric journal.
- 20:00Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: One, select a resonant song.
- 20:04Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Choose a song whose lyrics are really hitting you right now, whether it's about heartbreak, hope, anger, or confusion.
- 20:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Two, focus on the lines that matter.
- 20:20Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You don't need to write out the whole song, just listen and jot down the specific lines or phrases that leap out at you.
- 20:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Three, ask why.
- 20:34Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: In a journal or a note on your phone, write down why those lines resonate.
- 20:42Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What specific memory do they trigger?
- 20:47Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What fear do they put into words?
- 20:51Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What unspoken hope do they give a voice to?
- 20:57Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Find the theme.
- 20:59Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Look at your notes.
- 21:01Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Ask yourself, what's the central theme connecting these lines for me right now?
- 21:09Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Is it a fear of being misunderstood?
- 21:13Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A desire for change?
- 21:15Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A feeling of loss?
- 21:19Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now this process transforms the song from something you passively absorb into an active tool for self-discovery.
- 21:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It helps you externalize what's going on inside.
- 21:36Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Make connections you hadn't seen before, and find the words for feelings that might have just been a confusing mess.
- 21:48Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You're using an artist's words to help you find your own.
- 21:55Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now, section four building long term.
- 22:00Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Resilience.
- 22:02Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: These techniques are fantastic for managing tough emotions in the moment, but the ultimate goal is to build lasting mental strength and emotional resilience.
- 22:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that means using music proactively, not just reactively.
- 22:22Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: One of the best ways to do this is to create what you might call a mental strength soundtrack.
- 22:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This isn't one playlist for when you're sad.
- 22:34Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's a collection of playlists you build in advance to help you access different mental states on command.
- 22:44Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For example, a focal focus playlist, an instrumental music like lo-fi, classical, or ambient that you use only when you need to do deep work.
- 23:04Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A courage playlist.
- 23:07Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The songs that make you feel like you can run through a brick wall.
- 23:12Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This is what you play before a big presentation, a difficult conversation, or a tough workout.
- 23:22Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A resilience playlist.
- 23:24Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Songs that remind you of your own strength and past wins.
- 23:30Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The anthems that have gotten you through hard times before.
- 23:37Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: By repeatedly pairing this music with a specific mindset, you can create a helpful mental cue.
- 23:47Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Over time, just pressing play on your focus playlist can signal to your brain that it's time to concentrate.
- 23:58Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This idea that intentional music can help build resilience is supported by some interesting research.
- 24:09Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For instance, a 2025 study in a BMC journal looked at an eight-week music therapy program with 256 participants.
- 24:25Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The results showed that the therapy significantly boosted the participants' emotional resilience, which in turn improved their sense of well-being and even their employability.
- 24:44Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now, it's important to note this was a formal therapy program, not just a personal playlisting, but it highlights the incredible potential of using music with intention to build lasting coping skills.
- 25:03Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Some studies also suggest that actively making music is associated with resilience too.
- 25:14Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now section five.
- 25:48Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's when the music is no longer a tool for processing.
- 25:55Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's a crutch for rumination.
- 25:58Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you notice this happening, that's your cue to consciously switch to a different technique.
- 26:08Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And this leads us to the most important point of all, a critical safety warning.
- 26:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The techniques we've talked about are tools for managing day-to-day emotional wellness.
- 26:25Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They are not a substitute for professional mental health care.
- 26:31Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Music can be a fantastic supplement to therapy, but is not a replacement for it.
- 26:41Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You are struggling with persistent depression, severe anxiety, trauma, or having thoughts of harming yourself, please reach out to a qualified therapist, a counselor, or a crisis hotline, a crisis support hotline.
- 27:03Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Seeking professional help is an act of profound strength.
- 27:10Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For years, for years, you may have been letting your music dictate your mood, using it as an emotional crutch that sometimes gives way.
- 27:23Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But now you have a new blueprint for your relationship with sound.
- 27:30Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The power isn't just in the music, it's in how you choose to engage with it.
- 27:38Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You can move from being a passive recipient of emotion to being the active, intentional conductor of your own inner state.
- 27:52Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You can use it to understand your feelings, guide yourself from anxiety to calm, interrupt negative thought loops, and build a foundation of mental resilience.
- 28:10Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So the next time you put on your headphones, don't just listen, engage.
- 28:16Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Turn your playlist into a training ground for your mind.
- 28:33Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now I'm curious what song makes you feel powerful?
- 28:38Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Share it in the comments below.
- 28:40Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And let's build an awesome community playlist of resilience.
- 28:45Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And don't forget to subscribe for more ways to master your mental well-being.
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