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Yoreh De’ah 265:12-266:2. Bris Milah: The Meal, Shalom Zachor, Prayer; On Shabbos · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning. We are belkosmila Rishi sammeth
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  AC eve. You're the best.
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  No hugging la sot suda biomha Mila.
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  So the minhug is we make a everyone knows this.
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  We make a suda, we make a nice festive meal in order of the
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  breast Mila la khakila. We do it the same day.
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  If it can't be, it doesn't have to be.
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  In particular, we know that by if it's on a tightness can't be
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  the same day. Gras quotes the pirke
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  durabiliyezer that says Vyama Abraham ET yitzhak veno
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  benchwanat yamim. That's right.
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  So he had the breasts 8 days and then he brought him and then he
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  brought a korban and he made a Simcha UL mishte Shen Amar vyas
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  Abraham mishte gadol by Yom igamel ET yitzhak.
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  So most of us are more familiar with when did Avraham make a
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  party when for his son. So Rashi, I believe Rashi says
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  after two years because that's when stop nursing but here or
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  whatever or got a certain age, whatever it was.
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  But now, But anyways, here there's another perush that that
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  party was referring to the day of the Bruce Mila on the eighth
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  day. OK, Kiska Chuva just points out
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  like like all mitzvahs mitzvah, it's good if you go and join
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  your friends suruda like a bris, like a wedding and we mishatev
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  don't just send the card Haga vinagula kahat mignon surudat
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  Mila. It's good to get a minion
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  umigres suudat mitzvah, and this is a Surat mitzvah, OK, And avil
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  can join as long as there's no live music.
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  The Khomishi Eno auchel de Surat Mila have Ki have came a new de
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  la Shamayan. And if a person doesn't eat or
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  partake at least something from the suruda, so then he's
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  considered like shun from the shamayan from the heavens.
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  That's only if you have, you know, good, good standing people
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  there of all evening. Sioux Binaydam shayna
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  Mahuganian. But it's it's it's not a very
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  nice crowd. Ayn Sarika al Khosham.
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  You don't have to sit and eat over there.
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  Oh nahagula. So it's Siouda O mishta Bilal
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  Shabbat is also a a min hug to make a Siouda.
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  The the Friday night. That's the Shalom Zakhar, the ah
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  ah Shinola Zakhar. Right after a boy is born that
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  first Shabbos, you make a Shalom Zakhar Nick Nassim Eitzel at
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  Tinok Litom Sham. So you go where the teen where
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  the where the baby's in the house and you eat over there.
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  The Who gang cane si with that mitzvah and the Shalom Zakhar is
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  also a SI with that mitzvah. OK, a few reasons that are
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  given. One of them Taz brings from the
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  Chiomas edition because that's when everybody is around.
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  Why Friday night this you can make a suruda anytime because
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  everyone's home for Shabbos during the week, people are
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  busy, people are travelling, but on Shabbos everyone's home.
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  So that's when you should make you should do it.
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  And what's, what's the the main purpose is to give thanks or to
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  publicize it or to also say de vreitara and hopefully that'll
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  help bring a shmira for the baby.
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  Then he also quotes another reasoning from the Midyashraba
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  that I believe he says Samasha a king kings makes makes a decree.
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  And he says no one's allowed to see me in the palace until they
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  first see this noble woman. What's so so appeal to prepare
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  the person to get ready to you know, you don't just, you know,
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  come off straight from the street in your shorts and AT
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  shirt. You you have to at least see
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  what Malchus looks like on one level before you actually are
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  ready to see the greater Malchus.
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  The king. So too Shabbos, right.
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  If within a week with the the Brit is on the 8th day, right or
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  later. So the Brit's on the 8th day.
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  There's always a Shabbos and Helu Kadesh Baruah doesn't want
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  the baby to have a brasemila until he at least lives and goes
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  through the Shabbos and gets from the kedusha of Shabbos.
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  And then he's he'll be more prepared to enter the the
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  covenant and to be to have the brasemila.
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  And also thirdly, some say the reason is because when the baby
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  was in the born, he forgot all of his Torah.
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  So he's a little bit like an other and there's an Indian to
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  go visit in Avell, very big Indian.
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  So too, that's the Indian of visiting the baby, OK?
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  For that reason, those are the three reasons that are mentioned
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  in the toss. OK?
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  Yud gomo Yong nila shahalbi Yong to anitsi boraktuvium.
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  So any time you have a brissimilon one of the the fast
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  days that we're all familiar with today's Udzine Battamas,
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  for example. So then meet Paulolyn Slikhot.
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  Even if there would be a bris in the in the in the show in the
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  morning, we still say Slikhos the Omrin vidoi kadharcom and
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  you say all the regular Vidois that are part of Slikhos, the EN
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  omrin Vidhurachum belong nephilis are pine.
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  But any of the regular that's done during the year.
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  So all of that we always that's skipped.
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  It's skipped all year and it's skipped also on a fast day.
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  But you would say the Sikhus and the V do it.
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  That's in the Sikhus Hagah Avalomrin Keller Kapaim.
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  But we do we do say that Rama says the Munich is to say Kya
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  Kapaim before they take out the sifatara.
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  Even though there's a Mila that day, there's a discussion what
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  to do about Lamnat Sayak right between Ashrae and Duval Ezion.
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  So the general Minogue is by Ashkenazi and they do say
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  Lamnatsea because they say it's brought down over here with
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  mission Sarah de Anuka, right? It's it's Sarah for the baby
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  that that has to go through the the Mila.
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  So that's in honor of the baby. And they do not say Yehiratson
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  after Kriya Satara. However, the Abu Drum and Kobo,
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  they, he's quoted in the shot that they do skip Lamnetsea
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  because it's either a Yom Tsara, because Lamnetsea has the words
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  or it's about the Yom Tsara and this is a day of Simcha for the
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  father. It's like, do you look at the
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  baby? Do you look at the father?
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  And also he says it's a, they say it's a Yom Yom Damila is a
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  Yom Simcha for keep for the kiyom of the mitzvah.
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  So all right. Anyways, so the Spartan do not
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  it, that's their custom. They need not to Lamatzeh.
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  But this Spartan, it's actually quite simple.
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  Lamatzeh is pretty dependent upon Tacheman throughout the
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  whole year. It's if you say 1, you say the
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  other, you don't say you don't say pretty simple Ashkenazim.
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  It's always it's always a question each each day on its
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  own merit. OK, we finished that just to
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  finish the shock. He points out that the minag is
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  if you can do the bris in the morning at the end of davening.
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  So you do the brisk before Aleno.
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  So you conclude Aleno after the bris.
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  Otherwise Ashkenazim always say elenu after a bris, at least
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  that's the general minute, even if it's on later on during the
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  day, not kosher to the to the tfila in the morning.
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  They also say elenu. Why is elenu so important?
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  So one couple explanations is because elenu is we always say
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  elenu at the end of a tfila. It's like this, the conclusion
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  of a tfila and the Brismila's a kind of like it's fila DOMA la
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  Corban. We said a Corban's like a Voda.
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  So and then also the whole, the whole, the whole theme, our
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  whole theme is about worshipping A Kurdish sparkle, making a
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  brisk with the Kurdish sparkle. And we are not like the Glen.
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  And that is the same thing of Elena Lechebaya.
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  Oh, most people you say, many people do say Elena twice.
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  They say they save the brisk for after Elena and then they do it
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  again. OK, so whatever your show does
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  and there's an also an Indian to keep on your filling for the
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  breath. Some people put it on and
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  because the Milo, you know is an oat.
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  So to filling is an oat. Yeah, I'll just point out also
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  from the Pasak Lehudi Maita Aravis Simcha Sasan Vikar.
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  So we know Sasan Khazam say it refers to Pedrush Tamila Vikara
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  Yakar refers to filling Simcha. We have a suda and aura that's
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  some say that's that's one of the sources for there's a
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  custom. I haven't seen it ever, but to
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  light a candle in the show at the during the Bristol Mila,
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  right? We mentioned that earlier that
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  there is such a custom. Some say it's really the I don't
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  know. So anyway, so I was just
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  pointing that out. The custom also many say is
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  because of covered in Hebrew Mitzvah.
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  It's for the ambience, just like at a wedding, some say I might
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  be a schooler for having Tamilia Kahamin, which also ties into
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  aura. OK, one last thing we mentioned.
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  OK, so when there's a bris in show.
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  So the other thing that's interesting is Alva Rahamin.
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  The men, I guess we skip Alva Rahamin.
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  That's Rashkanazian. They skip Alva Rahamin on if it
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  comes out on Shabbos we're talking about right?
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  And unless it's the maze spirit, then I think most will say it.
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  That's and then in Sidcotka also if it's if the burst is at man
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  of a time and since it cuts for Shabbos afternoon manka that can
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  also be skipped. What is skipped?
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  OK, let's start at least so begin Simon Resh Samakhav is
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  Mila Dokha Shabbos be young tov. OK, so now what happens if I
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  burst Mila the 8th day comes out or is it dokha Shabbos?
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  So first, before we get there, all Mila baby Bismana men,
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  she'll love Bismana whether it's proper time or not.
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  It's proper time. In other words, whether it's on
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  the 8th day or on the 12th day or the 10th day, whatever the
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  reason might be. OK, so then dokhe sarat, it's
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  always dokhe the S here she in yesh, but sarat, right?
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  Leprosy she in yesh. Well, that's how it's often
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  translated. But whatever it is shiimisha
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  baharat, but or you have this lesion, you have this baharat on
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  the skin, right? It's a Bora orola AF alpi
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  Shiisha sitsata baharat lotas. And even though it's Allah, it's
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  also the reisa to cut it off Hota IMA orola.
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  We do cut it off when a if it's on a brissimila, if it's on the
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  the orola that needs to be cut because it's an assay doche lota
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  assay that takes the precedence aval imaharshinimo.
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  Now what happens if it was a proper, proper bris and then
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  later on there's a kosher 100% all good.
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  And then the the foreskin grew or the seras glue with comes
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  with the skin and now he doesn't look Mahul anymore.
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  So we learned already about this when you have to cut again and
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  don't cut again. But let's say you would need to
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  cut again and you need to cut it because of Maris Ayn.
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  That's the only reason why it's only me Durabana.
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  Because once you did a bris, you're done, you're good for
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  life. You can never go back.
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  It can never become puzzle on a Darisa level only.
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  I mean Darabana because of Mari's aim.
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  If it grows back, so therefore it's only because there's an
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  Ester love the Arisa to cut it and so therefore it's not going
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  to be so. Therefore that takes precedence.
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  Cabanche not sorry, Kalamulopa Maherat LMR because the second
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  cutting would only be Darabana and that's not going to Trump.
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  That's not it's not going to override the the love of cutting
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  the sarat. OK, that's not so common.
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  Here's what is more common. But Mila Dokha, Yom Tov, Chavez
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  Bismana. So now the halacha is it's
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  khazal based on the absurdum and the masura.
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  It's clear whenever the 8th day lands on Shabba Sir Yom Tov, it
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  is certainly Dokha the Mila certainly doka Shabba Signonto,
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  right, because it's it would be Doka, the esser of the ABA
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  Shrita. It's Kabbalah and which OK,
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  well, she'll love is mana. But if it's not in its proper
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  time, it's in other words, that means it's not it's on the it's
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  not on the 8th day. All right, We're talking about
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  it got pushed off for whatever reason, Ena Doha.
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  So then it's not Doha based on the absukin, because I'll say
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  it's only Doha Shabbos if it's on the 8th day, not if it's
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  afterwards. And if it's before the 8th day,
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  you can't do it. It's too early.
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  But filobizumana Ena Doha ella hamila atsuma U Priya umetzitza.
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  No, on Shabbos, what is dokha? What is dokha?
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  On usuri de araisa, it's only doing the Mila itself and the
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  Priya itself, right? That's cutting away the skin and
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  that's OK. And that's also allowed.
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  No, this is really mishum sakana.
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  This is primarily mishum sakana. It's not so much, you know, it's
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  like a add on, but it's really that's mishum sakana, OK, at the
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  drawing the blood so that that we're we're allowing that
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  because now it's a sakana. But filo pirish, OK, Filo pirish
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  kozar al Sisi in Hama akrin. Now, whether it sits in Hama
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  akrin dahaino inisharma or or a hoferro gova shala Tara.
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  So this we explained at length before.
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  If you have most, even in one little area, you have a strand
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  that's covering most of the height of the atara.
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  In other words, you have a piece of foreskin that's left and it's
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  Mahakiv. It prevents the child from being
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  considered Mahul and he's still an arrow.
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  So then even if you wake, you realize that it got left behind
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  5A minute later, 5 minutes later, five hours later, it
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  doesn't even matter. It is still Doge Chavez.
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  OK, I'm just, I'm just thinking let's say someone by mistake did
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  it on the 7th day and now it's violated the 8th day and you see
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  it see it's not myoplan, you would still go back because
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  today is the 8th day and this is 100% myopic.
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  So in that case, when you know it's myopic, right, if it's not
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  a Suffolk, you know clearly it's myopic and it's clearly on the
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  8th day you go back anom myopic. But now let's say you have extra
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  tissue tag. This is more common by the Prea.
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  You have some, I mean, it can be by the outer layer as well, but
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  it's more common by the Priya. But whatever the case is, let's
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  say you have a little bit of tissue tags and let's say we all
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  say it's, it's the the baby's 100% quotient.
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  The Bruce Mila is 100% good to go for life.
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  However, it's a little bit extra tissue tags.
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  It's not as pretty and you can have flabby tissue over there
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  and it's might be embarrassing. It doesn't look as nice and you
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  want to cut it away. It's not nice.
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  So therefore, as Moshe wanted to point out, as a Caleb unveiled
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  anyways, Valshaina me Akvi and you love Piresh kozar.
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  So then as long as you didn't put your hands down and leave,
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  you still are going back. Well, let me explain up.
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  And as long as you're still Osek and the Priya for sure everyone
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  says you're still that's not called piresh.
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  Even if you put your hand down and you look at it and you're
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  looking, you're still you're still there.
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  The E pirish, but once you decide, OK, you're done.
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  So then ain't no khazi, you can't go back anymore.
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  Some say get there is metsiza, so I'm not sure.
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  I guess the the mole will decide.
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  But basically once you do metsiza, that's when it might be
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  too late already. Maybe you have a few more
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  seconds, I don't know. But OK, you're done right.
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  So now you're putting on the bandage and you can't go back
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  anymore. And then generally speaking,
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  Lamai said this really doesn't usually come up because you know
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  what, Jamal knows it's Chavez. So he's going to do the best job
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  he can and he'll take a look and at the Priya, he's still looking
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  until it's all done. And then he'll put the bandage
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  on and he's not going to look at the baby till tomorrow.
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  So usually you're not going to see since you're not my Akvi,
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  OK, Right. Once in a while you will have
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  some moalim. They'll like to save part of it
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  for the room 10 minutes later to fix up that he will not do on
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  Chavez. Can't do on Chavez.
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  OK, Ian Pirish. Obviously if it's sitting on the
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  Aqua and obviously you still do it, but OK, Ian pirish in a
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  hozer venotium aleas Bonita and you put on the bandage cloth.
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  OK, Haga Motor, the Taotel Azema, the author Hamila, the
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  Hatsunio Bachatzer Hamne Urrav Alfagav, the Anot Sariko Ode,
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  the Otto Chavez to have the hooks of Banish Mashas, the
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  author, the Hyatt Sariko, the Otto Chavez Kenya Elite.
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  So what do you do with the knife when you're all done?
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  What did you do with all the the whole setup?
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  We're assuming normally that this knife is is Muxa Mahmad
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  Gufa. It's expensive.
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  You don't use it for anything else.
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  You're not going to cut your vegetables with this knife.
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  You save it special for this. So therefore in general, we
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  assume it's Muxa. But here he set aside to use it.
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  He knew he has the Moab was already designated Friday.
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  He checked out the baby. He looked everything he knew
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  he's using his his knife for the Shabbat.
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  So therefore he he he double set it aside.
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  It was Huxa before from Muxa. Now it's Hoktah for it to be
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  used. So he undoes the moksa and
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  therefore it's not really a moksa.
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  And that is the the sock of the Rama that you're allowed to now
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  take it and and put it somewhere.
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  Don't leave it lying around to get damaged or lost.
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  You, you now you carry it, you put it where you need to and put
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  it somewhere safe in the hutzer and then leave it there.
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  That's the way he writes. And the shock says he also
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  agrees with the Rama that that's 100% OK, but it's better not to
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  move it around some not let Sarah at all.
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  He does right. Really.
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  Technically it's smutter, but as he concludes in the he writes,
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  but you shouldn't just carry it around because in general it's
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  mukhsa and just just, you know, put it down safely and then
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  leave it there. The taz argues and says really
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  it's mukhsa aval makhshiriya enam dokhin.
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  Now this is clear. Everyone agrees that preparing
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  anything that you have to prepare for the mukhsa that is
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  not dokhe Shabbos Kevan shahiya F shala.
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  So tell me about young. So it's anything that can be
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  done air of Shabbos must be done air of Shabbos and can no longer
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  be done on Shabbos. There's no Hector for Nashira
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  Mila. It's not Doka Shabbos, only the
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  actual cutting because that couldn't be done before
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  obviously Lfica A and Osim sucking lamubo.
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  If you don't have a knife too late now, you have to wait till
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  after Shabbos. You cannot make a knife.
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  And we're going to talk about with the goy later on.
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  We can't even ask him to make one, but let's we'll talk about
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  the goy. Afterwards, the aim Mevine Otto
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  Mimako, Mimako and you're not allowed to carry it from one
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  place to another because that's how it's that's scaring whether
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  it's moving at Dalaranos for sure Saravi and work from one
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  riches to another and it's back to Hokoschavos.
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  So that's 100% ASA. It's a Mr. de Raisa, so you
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  can't do that Levio dera Levio dera gagging Bechatseros Shaloh
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  irvu, right. If you can't bring it through
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  again, this is also all levels of the Araisa so that you can't
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  do because there is no and there is no error one second right.
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  Even there are even if Sadrabbanan is asar, even though
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  Sadrabbanan is asar, that's going to be OK for a boy.
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  We'll see you later. Shabata sakin begag.
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  However, this a little bit of a technical thing, which is not
• 21:11
  really so common. I don't think la maisa, but this
• 21:14
  is this is from Hakos erving. If you have a knife up on a
• 21:19
  roof, the khatzer or a khatzer Moto la vio mise lazer, maybe it
• 21:25
  can be common. OK anyways to carry it from one
• 21:28
  khatzer to another khatzer from one dog to another dog when it's
• 21:32
  not tied to the house. So then since it was there to go
• 21:37
  from the house through the khatzer to another house.
• 21:42
  So that's what can't be done. But if it was in a khatzer just
• 21:46
  to go from one khatzer to another, then it's OK.
• 21:48
  A few iru khatzeros imhabati, even if it goes 'cause that's
• 21:54
  that's the case of that's that's mutter carried from one khatzer
• 21:58
  to another. And even if one of those
• 22:02
  Khatzaros had an arrow tied to a house, it's still mutter to
• 22:07
  carry from one khatzer to another Khatzer when they're
• 22:10
  completely adjacent.