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Dad Class · Podcast - Big 98.7

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Speaker 1: I took a dad class yesterday. Your boy is the
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Speaker 1: world's all knowing baby right now. Holy smokes, did I
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Speaker 1: learn a lot. I was so jacked when it was
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Speaker 1: done because I went and told Koreos, I know everything.
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I know everything. There's nothing I can't handle.
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Speaker 3: I will say this, I'm so excited that you took
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Speaker 3: the class. Like, what a proactive, wonderful thing to do.
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Speaker 3: A ton of stuff as a soon to be dad.
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Speaker 3: Now the one thing that I was worried about is
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Speaker 3: exactly what has happened. I thought, oh great, he's gonna
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Speaker 3: take this class and think, now I know everything.
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Speaker 2: I'm the world's greatest father already and I'm not even
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Speaker 2: a father.
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Speaker 4: Okay, why did you need I need to know what
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Speaker 4: you have learned?
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Speaker 1: I learned a lot. Now I know nothing about babies
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Speaker 1: right zero.
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Speaker 3: And this class was specifically about what, like, just babies
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Speaker 3: in general, like the first few, the first forty eight, no,
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Speaker 3: the first like a few weeks after the baby comes out.
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Speaker 3: Detail for us what it is.
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Speaker 2: You were trying to learn.
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Speaker 1: So I took this wonderful class called the New Dad's Playbook,
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Speaker 1: right and it was cool there the guy who led
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Speaker 1: it it was just online. The guy who let it
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Speaker 1: seemed like he cared and really wanted to teach us
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Speaker 1: some stuff. And there was a bunch of other dudes
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Speaker 1: in there who were in this class too, so it
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Speaker 1: was pretty cool.
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Speaker 2: But basically you learn from the very beginning when Adam
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Speaker 2: and ipo.
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Speaker 1: You learn what to expect on the day of, and
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Speaker 1: like how you can plan to get to the hospital safely,
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Speaker 1: where do you go when you're in the hospital, what
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Speaker 1: to do the first forty eight hours after the baby's ride,
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Speaker 1: things to look out for with mom in weeks months
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Speaker 1: down the road with postpartum things, things about how babies
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Speaker 1: need to lay in cribs and what can be in
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Speaker 1: these cribs and what can't be in these cribs. Basically
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Speaker 1: give us an basically nothing can be in the crib zero.
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Speaker 1: So I learned that. They also showed some different holds.
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Speaker 1: I got different names so I can remember them. It's
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Speaker 1: one of my learning techniques or whatever. You got that
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Speaker 1: football hold. Three points of contact, all right, get that
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Speaker 1: head up, save that neck you got I call it
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Speaker 1: the sack of sugar, where you like put it over
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Speaker 1: your shoulder kind of and you hold the head so
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Speaker 1: you can kind of burp it.
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Speaker 2: And then there's this.
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Speaker 1: One where you kind of cradle it in your arms
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Speaker 1: where the legs hang off the side of your arm
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Speaker 1: and you have the face basically hand down in your palm.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes that can help with gas or burping or whatever.
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Speaker 1: I learn so much. I also learned how to change
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Speaker 1: a diaper, and I never really thought about this, but
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Speaker 1: especially if you have a daughter, how you got to
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Speaker 1: clean them. You gotta go front to back exactly. He
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Speaker 1: also gave us this tip where you could potentially use
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Speaker 1: two diapers when you're changing them. Right, So you lay
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Speaker 1: the baby on the on the changing table right and
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Speaker 1: you put you know that there's a changing tap, put
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Speaker 1: the second diaper underneath already, so that way when you
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Speaker 1: take off clean the baby, they might potentially just go
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Speaker 1: again right away it happen, so then you already have
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Speaker 1: a second diaper under there.
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Speaker 2: That's not a requirement, but it was just a little.
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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, that is a good tip.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I learned a ton of stuff. I learned about
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Speaker 1: how no matter what, some parents get lucky and it
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Speaker 1: might only last a couple of days. For some at
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Speaker 1: last weeks, but they reach this certain age where they
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Speaker 1: just cry for you know, whether it's thirty minutes to
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Speaker 1: six hours or something a stream case. I learned all
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Speaker 1: of these things. I also learned that if you're frustrated
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Speaker 1: and for whatever reason, baby can't calm down, it is
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Speaker 1: okay to leave it in its crib for a tiny bit,
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Speaker 1: let it cry and just walk away so you can
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Speaker 1: calm down, so you don't get frustrated. And it's okay
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Speaker 1: to do that for a few handful of minutes. You
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Speaker 1: can't you know, you can't do it for four hours
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Speaker 1: or anything but a handful of I learned everything.
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Speaker 2: I I'm not the best dad ever.
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Speaker 3: I love how excited you are. This is bringing me
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Speaker 3: so much joy. The excitement that you have for becoming
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Speaker 3: dad warms the cuckles of my heart.
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Speaker 2: Gabe.
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Speaker 1: I also learned about one of those things when they
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Speaker 1: ride in the car, Carci, thank you car. I might
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Speaker 1: have to re listen to that that point in the
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Speaker 1: PowerPoint celebrating.
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Speaker 5: Life's little victories. Every morning we practice gratitude on Big
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Speaker 5: ninety eight point seven.
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Speaker 6: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
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Speaker 6: basket joke busted out when it was someone's acting hard.
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Speaker 5: Share your little victories with us at seven oh one
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Speaker 5: two and oho one ninety eight seven.
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Speaker 3: Kids.
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Speaker 2: I also needed to win that day. Do you have
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Speaker 2: a little victory for us here today, Angie.
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Speaker 3: I was literally just complaining about this a couple of
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Speaker 3: days ago that I loved seeing the snowplows go by,
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Speaker 3: but I had yet to see Teddy Snowsevelt. And my
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Speaker 3: boyfriend Mike is a huge history buff and his favorite
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Speaker 3: president is teddylt And today, on the way to work,
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Speaker 3: Teddy Roosevelt was going down the twenty fifth right, Yeah,
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Speaker 3: well I didn't see him Avenue.
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Speaker 4: Well, I never know the difference.
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Speaker 2: That's a great que twenty fifth Street, fifth Street.
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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, so we saw Teddy Snowsvelt, and I really
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Speaker 3: love the Teddy Roosevelt decal on the side. That's how
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Speaker 3: we knew that it was Teddy Snow'svelt, and that was
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Speaker 3: really exciting. So so far, I've seen buzz Ice Clear Wheeler,
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Speaker 3: the Snowpeeler, Teddy Snowsvelt, and that's it. I think I
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Speaker 3: still need plow a bung up Betty wide out. It's
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Speaker 3: like a bingo car.
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Speaker 6: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: No, I The fact that they put these names on
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Speaker 1: these snowplows is genius because I will do everything I
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Speaker 1: can to try to see it. To see It's almost
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Speaker 1: like the McDonald's Monopoly car. It's like I'm trying to
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Speaker 1: catch them all kind of Pokemon style here. It's like, oh,
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Speaker 1: I need to find boardwalk. But I have seen I
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Speaker 1: saw Teddy Snowsvelt for the first time this past week
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Speaker 1: weekend shopping with Corey at Costco. We saw, Gosh, how
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Speaker 1: great and I was like, oh my god, I've seen
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Speaker 1: Teddy Snowsvelta.
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Speaker 2: I have not seen him yet.
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Speaker 1: I have seen buzz ice Clear, which seems to be
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Speaker 1: kind of popular in our neighborhood. Yeah, I've seen Plowa
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Speaker 1: Bunga and Teddy Snow's.
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Speaker 3: Okay, you've seen plow A Bonga and I have not.
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Speaker 3: This is very exciting. I feel like the snowplows are
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Speaker 3: local celebrities.
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Speaker 1: The one hundred percent are what was the other one?
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Speaker 1: There's one I haven't seen that. Oh, I've seen Wheeler
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Speaker 1: the snow I have not seen Wheeler at least to
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Speaker 1: my knowledge. All right, all right, we also do have
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Speaker 1: to give a big shout out to Sarah her little
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Speaker 1: victory today. By the way, thank you Sarah for texting
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Speaker 1: us at seven oh one two eight zero one nine
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Speaker 1: eight seven. Her little victory for yesterday? Excuse me? Was
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Speaker 1: she actually completed her to do list? So a way
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Speaker 1: to go to the Yes.
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Speaker 3: That's a major victory. I have a to do list
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Speaker 3: on the whiteboard at my house that only like three
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Speaker 3: of the seven things are checked up.
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Speaker 4: I need to get it together.
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Speaker 1: Well, I have a little victory I've been waiting to
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Speaker 1: tell you all morning since I saw you, Angie. Yesterday,
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Speaker 1: my dog got a brand new jacket that I have
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Speaker 1: been waiting since December fifth to get.
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Speaker 4: Really, so what was the hold up there?
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Speaker 1: So for my birthday, I asked, you know, hey, can
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Speaker 1: I want this kind of dog jacket for Wanona? Right?
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Speaker 1: So my mom ordered it and I think she ordered
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Speaker 1: it from the Earth's core. Okay, it took forever to
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Speaker 1: get here. Okay, So it shows up and I was like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: this one, get the extra large, YadA, YadA YadA. Well,
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Speaker 1: I don't know if the sizes don't work the same
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Speaker 1: where I'm assuming this came from in China. But I
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Speaker 1: got an XL and this I don't know if it
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Speaker 1: would have fit over my leg much less my dog.
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Speaker 1: Oh that was tiny. So it took forever to get
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Speaker 1: here and didn't fit. And then Corey saw, you know,
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Speaker 1: she could see it.
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Speaker 2: I was just sad. I was bombed.
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Speaker 1: I'd been waiting on this thing for my dog for months,
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Speaker 1: well over a month. Yeah, And so what did she do?
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Speaker 1: She was like, well, this one work as she pulled
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Speaker 1: up amazon As. I'm a thirty five year old man
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Speaker 1: throwing a mini tantrum and it showed up in the
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Speaker 1: mail yesterday.
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Speaker 2: And this thing is perfect.
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Speaker 1: It is a dog jacket with the harness built inside
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Speaker 1: so I don't have to put the dog jacket on
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Speaker 1: and then the harness over the jacket, and I have
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Speaker 1: my dog looking like an idiot.
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Speaker 2: While we're on walks.
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Speaker 4: Do you have a picture of this?
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Speaker 1: Yes, I've got a Oh do I have a picture?
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Speaker 1: I've got a billion.
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Speaker 3: Please post at the very least one to the big
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Speaker 3: ninety eight point seven Facebook page.
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Speaker 4: I gotta see this.
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Speaker 1: I have wanted a dog jacket with a harness built
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Speaker 1: in since the beginning of my life.
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Speaker 2: Apparently it is how jacked I was to get this thing.
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Speaker 1: And of course it's pink and adorable for my sweet Wanona.
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Speaker 4: I love this.
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Speaker 2: I was good life.
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Speaker 4: Cory Corey is a good one.
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Speaker 2: Well, she might be listening right now, so yeah, you
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Speaker 2: can call her by her name. That's fine.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, Cory, you're the best.
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Speaker 2: I'm so jacket the dogs out.
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Speaker 1: This story's just so adorable that I wanted to start
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Speaker 1: your seven o'clock off on just a funny, cute, adorable
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Speaker 1: story that has a happy ending. Okay, this woman has
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Speaker 1: a pet parakeet. Now I'm not a bird person, but
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Speaker 1: to each their own. If a pet parakeet is what
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Speaker 1: brings you joy in life, I want you to have
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Speaker 1: that pet parakeet, and I want you to take care
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Speaker 1: of it like.
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Speaker 2: It's a baby. Yeah, we're not gonna yuck. You're young, exactly. Now.
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Speaker 2: Sometimes things happen with pets.
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Speaker 1: Okay, the gate accidentally gets let open, you know, the
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Speaker 1: horse gets out and ends up on the golf course.
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Speaker 1: I've seen stories like that, actually, but this person's parakeet
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Speaker 1: sadly got out of its house. Funny enough, this parakeet
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Speaker 1: flew all the way to school and met up with
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Speaker 1: the owner in their kindergarten class. This pet left home
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Speaker 1: to reunite with its owner. Is so adorable. And if
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Speaker 1: you have pets, they do funny cute things all the time.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes they get out or lost, and it is the
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Speaker 1: most terrifying thing on earth. Sometimes you find them in
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Speaker 1: a precarious position. Let me know, did you ever lose
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Speaker 1: a pet and then obviously you found it? And it
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Speaker 1: was just kind of funny where you found it. Did
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Speaker 1: it go down the street to the donut shop? My dog,
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Speaker 1: if she ever got out and got left, would probably
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Speaker 1: end up at the McDonald's because she goes through that
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Speaker 1: drug through a lot.
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Speaker 4: Oh, that's funny.
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Speaker 3: Have you ever lost a pet and then they came
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Speaker 3: back or you found them somewhere weird?
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Speaker 1: No, we did have a cat that was gone for
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Speaker 1: like a day and it was just, I'm not even
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Speaker 1: kidding you, four feet ten four to six feet on
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Speaker 1: the other side of the fence under our neighbor's deck.
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Speaker 2: So no, not great.
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Speaker 1: But there was this one time growing up, we had
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Speaker 1: this family dog named Lola.
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Speaker 2: And Lola was she a show girl? I'm sorry, no,
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Speaker 2: she was if you asked her.
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Speaker 1: But we were looking all over the hot She was
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Speaker 1: less year old, maybe eight months old, and we were
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Speaker 1: looking all over the house for our dog.
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Speaker 2: You know, we couldn't find her.
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Speaker 1: And she had a fence in the backyard so it's
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Speaker 1: not like she could really get out, we'll say, or
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Speaker 1: she'd have to do some work to get out, I guess.
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Speaker 1: And we're looking all over the house for our dog,
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Speaker 1: and we're like, well, what the heck, I mean, it's
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Speaker 1: not like she went outside.
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Speaker 2: Where is she?
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Speaker 1: And I come from downstairs looking for our dog to upstairs,
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Speaker 1: and here is our sweet Lola laying on the couch.
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Speaker 2: Now, Lola didn't go on the couch at our house.
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Speaker 1: She just a was never really interested, and she had
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Speaker 1: black and white fur so it stuck out like a
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Speaker 1: sore thumb on this couch, so she was kind of
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Speaker 1: a not couch dog. I come upstairs, I'm looking for
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Speaker 1: our dog. All of a sudden, where do I find
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Speaker 1: our sweet Lola on the couch. And she instantly sits
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Speaker 1: up like, oh no, I just got caught, And so
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Speaker 1: I calmly got her off the couch, told the whole
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Speaker 1: house to stop worrying. I found her, And to this
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Speaker 1: day I have never told my family where and what
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Speaker 1: Lola was doing until unless you know me, Mom or
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Speaker 1: Dad is listening right now here on Big ninety eight
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Speaker 1: point seven, So big Revelationola, I kept that secret for
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Speaker 1: the entirety of your life, and you know, sadly Lola's
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Speaker 1: not around anymore, so I think it's free to tell
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Speaker 1: the story.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight zero one, nine eight seven.
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Speaker 2: Where did you find a lost pet? Lily?
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Speaker 4: My bearded dragon was gone for three days.
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Speaker 6: I found him inside a boot.
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Speaker 3: I hadn't born in months, and I don't know how
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Speaker 3: he survived.
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Speaker 6: I also just don't want to know.
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Speaker 2: That's insane.
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Speaker 3: That's one of my biggest fears is finding critters in
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Speaker 3: my shoes.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I wouldn't love that either, James, what about you, dude?
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Speaker 6: My dog got out of my yard a couple of
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Speaker 6: years ago and he was gone for almost like two hours.
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Speaker 6: I looked everywhere for him and no luck. But when
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Speaker 6: I got home there he was sitting on the front porch.
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Speaker 3: So you checked everywhere, but there just had like an
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Speaker 3: adventure and I was like, I'm ready to come home now.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that is probably what happened. Seven oh one
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Speaker 1: two eight zero one nine eight seven. When you lose
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Speaker 1: a pet, it can be the most nerve wracking thing ever,
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Speaker 1: and normally you don't care where they're at. When you
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Speaker 1: find him, you're just glad you found him. Yeah, but
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Speaker 1: if you've ever found your horse on the golf course,
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Speaker 1: or maybe little little Fred at the Krispy Kreme donut.
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Speaker 2: Shop, let us know about it. This morning. On Big
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Speaker 2: ninety eight point seven, this is am I the problem.
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Speaker 2: It's me hill On the problem.
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Speaker 3: It's me.
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Speaker 2: We'll hear one side of the story and with your help.
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Speaker 5: Decide if it's right or if maybe you're the problem.
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Speaker 4: That's right, I am a problem.
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Speaker 2: On Big ninety eight point seven.
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Speaker 3: We had Tanner right into us and he is on
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Speaker 3: his wife's side, but he does also want to know
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Speaker 3: if maybe his wife is in the wrong.
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Speaker 4: Okay, hey, this one real simple man.
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Speaker 2: A few words. Hey, it's Tanner.
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Speaker 3: My wife was asked to be in a wedding party
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Speaker 3: and she accepted, but after the engagement party and bachelorette party,
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Speaker 3: we realized just how much it's going to cost us
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Speaker 3: when all is said and done, my wife backed out
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Speaker 3: and the bride took it well in the moment, but
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Speaker 3: she's been cold and distant with my wife ever since.
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Speaker 3: I think you can't expect people to go into debt
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Speaker 3: just because you're getting married. Do you think the bride
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Speaker 3: needs to get over it? Okay, and oh man, no, Gabe,
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Speaker 3: what do you think?
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Speaker 1: This is a wonderful case of what do I say?
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Speaker 1: Both and both? And this is a both, And I
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Speaker 1: think it's totally fine to be like, you know what,
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Speaker 1: I thought I could do this, I can't. I'm really sorry. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's fine. Your friends should not want you to go
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Speaker 1: into debt if something is financially tough for you to
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Speaker 1: do at that point in time. But to mister Tanner
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Speaker 1: and his wife, Bride's got all the right in the
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Speaker 1: world to be disappointed and sad and maybe just kind
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Speaker 1: of not talking to you right now. She totally is
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Speaker 1: in the right to be bummed. And I don't know,
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Speaker 1: feel a way about it. That doesn't mean she's gonna
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Speaker 1: hate you forever, or that doesn't even mean she doesn't
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Speaker 1: like you, but maybe she's like, Okay, fine, I'm just
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Speaker 1: gonna avoid you for a little bit until I kind
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Speaker 1: of get over this.
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Speaker 4: Yeah. I get that it's a both.
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Speaker 3: And I feel, however, that I'm more annoyed with Tanner
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Speaker 3: and his wife because I feel like.
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Speaker 4: You should have run the numbers before.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to do all the fun part.
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Speaker 4: You got to do all the thumb part.
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Speaker 3: And the other thing is the wedding, the engagement party,
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Speaker 3: and the bachelorette party.
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Speaker 4: She's in the wedding party at this point.
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Speaker 3: Maybe it's a situation with the bride where it's like, okay,
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Speaker 3: well we're so far into this process. Now you back out,
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Speaker 3: Then like what what if bridesmaids dresses were already purchased
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Speaker 3: and stuff, and like filling that spot because if you have,
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Speaker 3: I'm going as though it's traditional where it's like groomsmen
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Speaker 3: on one side, bridesmaids on the other. If she backs out,
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Speaker 3: then now who's gonna walk with that groomsman?
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Speaker 1: And then ask that's really crazy, Angie. Just some dude goes, hey,
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Speaker 1: I actually don't need you to stand up there. He's
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Speaker 1: not gonna care. They can make that, they can make
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Speaker 1: it symmetrical pretty easily.
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Speaker 4: Well, I just think that that's annoying. And then asking
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Speaker 4: someone else to fill in.
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Speaker 3: The spot is difficult because it's like, well, now they
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Speaker 3: don't have as much time as they would to get
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Speaker 3: a bride'smaid's dress and that can take a long time.
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Speaker 4: And then also, well, why are you asking me so
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Speaker 4: last minute?
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Speaker 2: I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I feel like that they really put the bride in
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Speaker 3: a bad spot, and if she would have just backed
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Speaker 3: out from Jump and said, listen, thinking about it, I
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Speaker 3: think it'll probably be too expensive, so I'm gonna back out,
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Speaker 3: like from the beginning, that would have been better my sister,
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Speaker 3: whenever it is that I get married again, my sister
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Speaker 3: who I love and would obviously want her to be
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Speaker 3: my maid of honor. She said to me, Okay, I
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Speaker 3: want you to know that I'm really bad at planning
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Speaker 3: things and I'm broke most of the time, so if
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Speaker 3: you need me to be a maid of honor and
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Speaker 3: that I'm doing all the things I cannot And I
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Speaker 3: was like, that's fair, and she told me from jump.
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Speaker 1: A lot of this depends on time too, like how
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Speaker 1: much time is there until the wedding to kind and
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Speaker 1: also this be a scenario maybe it was exciting and
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Speaker 1: the bride was like, yeah, here's my guess on the cost,
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Speaker 1: and the cost shot way up and they weren't expecting
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Speaker 1: that that also could have happened.
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Speaker 4: What are your thoughts?
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Speaker 3: Seven oh one two eight oho one nine eight seven
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Speaker 3: is the bride being bratty by being cold to this
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Speaker 3: woman who backed out of being in the wedding party?
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Speaker 3: Banner wants to know if his wife is the problem.
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Speaker 3: A girlfriend of hers asked her to be in the
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Speaker 3: wedding party. She said yes, but after the engagement party
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Speaker 3: and the bachelorette party, she realized, ooh, too expensive, so
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Speaker 3: she backed out. And the bride was cool with it
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Speaker 3: when she said so, but has been acting cold and
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Speaker 3: distant ever since. He wants to know if his wife
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Speaker 3: was the problem for backing out, or if the bride
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Speaker 3: should just get over it. We also had this on
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Speaker 3: our Facebook page. Laura said, not the problem. It's expensive
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Speaker 3: to be in weddings. Maybe a conversation earlier so the
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Speaker 3: bride could think of more budget friendly options, or possibly
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Speaker 3: your wife could have said I will support you fully
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Speaker 3: on the day, but I'm not financially in a place
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Speaker 3: to attend other events.
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Speaker 2: I think that's that's actually a pretty good idea.
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Speaker 4: I think that's the correct way.
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Speaker 2: I can't go to the parties, but I'll stand there
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Speaker 2: with you. Yeah.
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Speaker 4: I like that.
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Speaker 1: I like this is from Emma. This is actually interesting.
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Speaker 1: Backing out after parties started is kind of a big deal.
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Speaker 1: That's embarrassing for the bride. That is kind of interesting. Oh, hey,
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Speaker 1: you went to all these fun, cool, exciting, you know,
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Speaker 1: hopefully whatever things. Yeah, and now you can't do this?
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Speaker 1: That is that is interesting.
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Speaker 3: Listen, if I'm the bride, maybe I am mad at
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Speaker 3: that I do like this, because so rarely do we
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Speaker 3: get this as an answer. Julia said, I don't think
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Speaker 3: anyone is the problem. Wow, it's totally fair and valid
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Speaker 3: for the bride to be upset. She doesn't have to
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Speaker 3: get over it if she's feeling hurt, but probably doesn't
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Speaker 3: want to make it a big deal for you, your wife,
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Speaker 3: so she's taking time to be in her feelings. Your
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Speaker 3: wife is also totally valid in saying no, because being
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Speaker 3: in a wedding party is a big financial commitment and
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Speaker 3: is not always feasible for people. So your wife did
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Speaker 3: the right thing by backing out. Julia, what a well
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Speaker 3: articulated thought. And I don't think we've ever had someone
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Speaker 3: say no, one is the problem.
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Speaker 2: Well, then Emma comes in with a hammer here.
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Speaker 1: Emma said, the bride has every right to feel hurt,
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Speaker 1: even if she's trying to be polite. Okay, then this
19:32
Speaker 1: is kind of interesting. You know, I feel it's a
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Speaker 1: both and situation. We do run into those from time
19:37
Speaker 1: to time with am I the problem? And I think
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Speaker 1: collectively we could agree Bride in the right to feel sad,
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Speaker 1: Tanner's wife in the right to back out.
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Speaker 3: So I'm gonna say, Julia ask as a sentiment that is,
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Speaker 3: I think they're both the problem.
19:58
Speaker 4: I'm upset this.
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Speaker 1: Morning, and she's having a rough go, especially the last
20:02
Speaker 1: fifteen or so minutes here.
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Speaker 3: So Brooklyn Beckham went on this entire rant about how
20:09
Speaker 3: his mom and dad are terrible, but specifically to his wife,
20:13
Speaker 3: his wife, Nicola Pelts. So Nicola Pelt, safe to say,
20:16
Speaker 3: considers Victoria Beckham a terrible mother in law. And we'll
20:21
Speaker 3: get into some of that in the tea. But I
20:24
Speaker 3: posted on the Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page
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Speaker 3: this is a safe space share your mother and law
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Speaker 3: horror stories, because I have a few mother in law
20:34
Speaker 3: horror stories of my own, and I thought it would
20:37
Speaker 3: be such a nice bonding experience.
20:40
Speaker 4: But I learned two things.
20:42
Speaker 3: People don't follow directions, and apparently everyone had a better
20:46
Speaker 3: mother in law.
20:47
Speaker 1: Than I did. My mother in laws are wonderful. They're
20:50
Speaker 1: super sweet to me.
20:51
Speaker 3: And then okay, exactly, and then so you didn't comment
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Speaker 3: on this post asking for mother and law horror stories
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Speaker 3: because you don't have one to share, because if you
21:01
Speaker 3: love your mother in.
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Speaker 2: Law, I would have just had to share it with
21:03
Speaker 2: you right here as part of the job.
21:05
Speaker 3: Well, I have seen so many comments of oh, I
21:10
Speaker 3: have the best mother in law. I have no complaints
21:12
Speaker 3: about my mother in law. She's the best. All these
21:15
Speaker 3: positive things about.
21:17
Speaker 2: Mother in law.
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Speaker 4: And when I tell you, then this post wasn't for you.
21:24
Speaker 1: Angie wanted someone to join her in the mother in
21:28
Speaker 1: law horror story business.
21:30
Speaker 3: Yes, I wanted to commiserate, But here everybody is.
21:34
Speaker 2: With the most company, Angie.
21:36
Speaker 3: Here everyone is with a delightful mother in law, and
21:39
Speaker 3: I just do not have that experience.
21:42
Speaker 2: We're cool now.
21:43
Speaker 3: Important to note that my ex and I are no
21:45
Speaker 3: longer together and she and I are cool now.
21:48
Speaker 4: So the issue was that we were together. That's what
21:51
Speaker 4: she didn't like.
21:52
Speaker 3: And she once wrote my husband a letter asking him
21:57
Speaker 3: to leave me.
21:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that'd be rough.
22:01
Speaker 3: She really took the time, and it was a handwritten letter,
22:04
Speaker 3: like took out a sheet of paper, grabbed her best
22:08
Speaker 3: pen and.
22:09
Speaker 2: Wrote with a quill. Did she dip it in the ink?
22:11
Speaker 4: Yes?
22:12
Speaker 3: And it was in calligraphy, and she wrote a two
22:16
Speaker 3: page letter front and back detailing why he should leave me.
22:21
Speaker 3: So that's my mother in law horror story. Meanwhile, everybody
22:25
Speaker 3: else has the best mother in law.
22:27
Speaker 4: The history of America, and I didn't need to know that.
22:30
Speaker 1: Yeah, Angie feels alone. But you know what, Angie, I'm
22:32
Speaker 1: going to find someone to accompany you on this mother
22:35
Speaker 1: in law horror story journey that you would hope to
22:38
Speaker 1: go down. Yeah, there is someone who said there isn't
22:40
Speaker 1: enough time or space to write all the things she
22:42
Speaker 1: has done. So on a happy note, I haven't saw
22:44
Speaker 1: her spoken to her in five years. In life is
22:46
Speaker 1: so much easier and less toxic. So there is one
22:49
Speaker 1: person with you.
22:50
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you. What is her name?
22:53
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to share that, but
22:54
Speaker 1: you But you can go to Big nine boy It
22:56
Speaker 1: on Facebook and check it out for yourself.
22:58
Speaker 2: Let's be friend. There might be a hug waiting for you.
23:05
Speaker 2: Happy National Hugging Day.
23:09
Speaker 1: This is a day that occurs on January twenty first
23:12
Speaker 1: and is officially recognized by the United States Copyright Office.
23:16
Speaker 2: Obviously, this is not a public holiday.
23:18
Speaker 1: If you get work off because of National Hugging Day,
23:21
Speaker 1: sign me up. The purpose of the day is to
23:24
Speaker 1: help everyone show more emotion in public. The only way
23:27
Speaker 1: to celebrate the day is by offering a hug.
23:29
Speaker 2: To anyone in everyone you want.
23:31
Speaker 1: Now, there are a lot of benefits to hugging if
23:33
Speaker 1: you didn't know this right, Hugs provide major benefits by
23:36
Speaker 1: releasing is it oxytocin yes, reducing stress hormones like cortisol,
23:45
Speaker 1: lowering blood pressure, boosting immunity, and improving mood by increasing
23:48
Speaker 1: dopamine and serotonin. I have a wife who I love
23:52
Speaker 1: more than anything on earth. Her name is Corey. When
23:54
Speaker 1: Corey gets home, I always hug her for ten seconds
23:57
Speaker 1: and she is over it in about two. So Corey's
24:01
Speaker 1: getting a big ten second or today.
24:03
Speaker 2: I love this.
24:04
Speaker 3: I admittedly there are people who don't like to be
24:07
Speaker 3: touched and hugging is not their jams, so maybe this
24:09
Speaker 3: day is.
24:10
Speaker 2: Not for them.
24:11
Speaker 4: But I love hugs for all of those reasons.
24:15
Speaker 3: And I also heard from a TikTok therapist I don't
24:19
Speaker 3: know if they're actually my song definitely really yeah, but
24:23
Speaker 3: that it's important to have eight hugs a day minimum.
24:28
Speaker 3: And so it was my New Year's resolution in twenty
24:31
Speaker 3: twenty four to give my children eight hugs a day
24:35
Speaker 3: and I have never once missed that really.
24:38
Speaker 2: Yeah.
24:39
Speaker 3: The only time obviously is if like we're literally not
24:41
Speaker 3: in the same state.
24:42
Speaker 7: Right, But other than that, that'd be tough, that'd be yeah,
24:45
Speaker 7: other than that, eight hugs a day, and today we
24:48
Speaker 7: will have an extra special long hug and they will
24:51
Speaker 7: be so annoyed, but I gotta do it because it's
24:55
Speaker 7: a National Hug Day.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is wonderful. And there have we ever hugged Gabe?
25:00
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know. I don't think.
25:02
Speaker 1: So we leave them the old like maybe down hug,
25:07
Speaker 1: but never just a nice, full on hug.
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Speaker 4: Well, because hr is a thing, let's not start today.
25:13
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll pass all right on the way. We've got
25:16
Speaker 1: Lady Gaga and Bruno Mars. You know what, give someone
25:19
Speaker 1: a hug today. That is a challenge from me to
25:21
Speaker 1: you here on Big ninety eight point seven. You know
25:23
Speaker 1: who I'm gonna hug today and I'm looking at him
25:24
Speaker 1: right through the glass air in the studio.
25:26
Speaker 2: Dave Dave and Moose on the Fox. I'm gonna give
25:30
Speaker 2: them both a hug because they have no clue what
25:32
Speaker 2: today is. And see how freaked out they get. That's
25:35
Speaker 2: my plan.
25:38
Speaker 4: I need some good.
25:41
Speaker 5: Starting off the day with something good. This is Gabe's
25:45
Speaker 5: good news on Big ninety eight point seven.
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Speaker 1: A Minnesota veteran recently celebrated his ninetieth birthday by parasailing
25:55
Speaker 1: off the Florida coast alongside his doctor and granddaughter, Doctor
26:01
Speaker 1: Uncle Earl.
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Speaker 2: Is that you know?
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Speaker 1: Doctor Amy hild Phillips had promised a decade ago to
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Speaker 1: join Arnold Sonny Locke in for the milestone, after he
26:12
Speaker 1: had previously parasailed for his eightieth birthday in Clearwater and
26:17
Speaker 1: earlier in Hawaii.
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Speaker 2: This is just a parasailing goat.
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Speaker 6: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: The trio traveled from Minnesota to southwest Florida, where they
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Speaker 1: parasailed and it took them into the Gulf and launched
26:28
Speaker 1: them high above the water lock in. A US Navy
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Speaker 1: veteran says the experience was smooth and enjoyable, and his
26:35
Speaker 1: family welcomed him back to the beach with applause and photos.
26:39
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, right now, I don't want to
26:41
Speaker 1: go parasailing ever. This guy there's a fight exactly. This
26:45
Speaker 1: guy doing it at ninety years old. Absolute goat and
26:50
Speaker 1: a set of gumption that I would just say.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's incredible.
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Speaker 1: Good on him, Congratulations to him and happieth Happy ninetieth
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Speaker 1: birthday to Arnold.
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Speaker 2: The world is full of nice people. If you can't
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Speaker 2: find one, you gotta be