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Ep 18. Unlock the Magic: Three Common Habits Blocking Your Manifestations · The Manifestation Station

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Music.
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You're listening to the Manifestation Station podcast.
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I'm your host, Holly Edwards, and together we can help create your magic.
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Hi, everybody. Welcome back to another episode of the Manifestation Station.
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I am your host, Holly Edwards, and I am here with you for the next half an hour or so.
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We've got a good one today we are talking about
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unblocking your manifestations so
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you may find that you are
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putting in all your work all your effort all your positivity all your visualizations
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into manifesting your desires and do you ever feel like they're just not happening
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and you feel drained and you go what why is it not happening you feel like you're
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following all the steps of manifesting?
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Well, there are some behaviors, there are three behaviors in particular that I like to focus on.
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These behaviors are so, so, so common.
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I can't tell you how common they are. And if you're doing any of these three
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behaviors, they could actually be blocking your manifestation.
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I say they actually could be.
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It's most likely that they are blocking your manifestation. And these habits
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and behaviors are things that you might even be doing subconsciously.
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And it's so important. If you can change these behaviors, turn them around,
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you will unblock your manifestations.
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Now, when I'm chatting to friends, colleagues, or I've had some clients recently
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who they tell me all the work they're doing, all the amazing work they're doing,
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and they're not doing it wrong.
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They're doing really really good work and you've got to put the work in if
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you want to manifest but they they tell
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me something about what they're not doing or
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certain things they're saying or doing or they don't even
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realize they say to me something in a session and I will get into the nitty-gritty
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they'll say something to me in the session and it's one of these behaviors and
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I go you're blocking your manifestation now I've I've had a few of these before
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I'm going to get into it so you actually know what I'm talking about because
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I can probably hear you down the podcast going,
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just tell us the bloody information so that I can stop blocking my manifestations.
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And I'm here to do that. But what I will tell you is that I've had this many
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a time when I'm trying to manifest something myself.
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And as soon as I stop doing these three things, everything starts to happen.
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So shall we get into it? Yes, I hear you say.
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Well, the first thing that is really important, so this is going to change your
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manifesting game, lift your blocks on your manifestations.
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The first thing is to ditch the negative talk.
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Never, ever, ever talk badly about yourself, even if it's a joke.
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Now, I've spoken to you about this before on another episode of the podcast,
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but it is scientifically proven that
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your brain does not know if a statement is
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true or make belief it sends out the same
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signals to your cells the same signals to
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your body and releases the same energy out into the universe whether it's true
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or not true so even if you're joking about yourself now what I've noticed recently
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a lot of clients that I'm working with they kind of come out with the same repetitive
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phrases about not finding what they want.
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So say, for example, I have quite a lot of clients that I work with on a one-to-one
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basis with their manifesting and wellness journeys. And they're looking for love.
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And they're looking to meet their soulmate. And they will tell me all the work
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they're doing. But then they'll say something like, well, maybe I'm just not meant to meet someone.
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And I think what it is, it's a self-preservation thing.
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Or it's a protection thing. Because then if you don't meet anyone,
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it's almost like you've told yourself that anyway, and you've told everyone
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around you, well, maybe I'm not meant to meet anyone.
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Or, you know, they'll tell me about the dates they've been on,
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and they tell me they've been doing all this manifesting work.
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And then they say, yep, I've actually been on some dates recently,
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and this one was rubbish, and that one was rubbish.
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But, you know, maybe there's not someone out there for me.
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Maybe there's not someone out there for me that meets my expectations.
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Now, a lot of these phrases come out kind of in jest, but the universe is always listening.
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And your reality is shaped by your words and your thoughts and your feelings.
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So whether you're just joking and going, oh, well, I'm not going to meet anyone
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or, you know, maybe Mr. Right isn't out there.
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Then the universe is listening and will match your reality to your words and feelings.
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So this is why it's so, so important to ditch the negative talk.
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Don't talk badly about yourself, about your circumstances, about your appearance,
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because the universe will match that reality.
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So if you're putting out constant thoughts of lack of self-worth,
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lack of self-confidence, talking about your body badly.
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Joking how unhealthy you are or how you feel fat in your bikini,
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all of these things will be your reality.
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So you could be doing all of the steps of manifestation, all that hard work.
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But if you're joking negatively about yourself or you're talking negatively
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about yourself to people or situations or circumstances.
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That's all you're going to get back. And you've got to imagine that you've got
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this block on your manifestation.
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If you ditch the negative talk, I guarantee you things will start happening.
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There are loads of ways that you might be talking negatively about yourself
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or your circumstances, your situation, your home life.
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And as I mentioned many, many, many times in other episodes,
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a lot of your thoughts are running on your subconscious on autopilot without even realising.
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So some of these phrases you might not even realise a lot of the time that are
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coming out of your mouth.
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But you may say things like, I'm not good enough.
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Oh, things never work out for me. Oh, the amount of times I hear that one.
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Oh, well, things never work out for me. I'm always unlucky. I never win anything.
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All of these things, these energies, these words you put out.
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I always say your words are like casting a magic spell.
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So think wisely about what words you put out. If you're saying things never
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work out for me, the universe goes, yep, okay, I'm going to match your energy.
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You're right. Because the universe is on your side. It's going to mirror you
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and mirror your thoughts.
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The universe will go, yeah, okay, cool.
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You're right. Yeah, nothing ever works out for you. maybe you
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say I also get this one a lot well manifestation works
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for others but not for me I actually had a message recently
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on Instagram I actually felt like
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I've been trolled for the first time I thought is this a compliment or
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is this terrible but it was from a complete stranger and
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I put a post up about how I
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manifested my soulmate and I
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put a post up and I put a list of all the
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things that I did with my manifesting work to
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bring in my soulmate which I wholeheartedly believe
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that is the reason that I'm now in the
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relationship that I was looking for and it's exactly what I was looking for
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and I worked really hard on that and what I wanted and how I manifested it so
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I put all of these notes on a post to help other people because I know for a
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lot of people one of the main things, especially if people are single, obviously.
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One of the big things that a lot of people want to manifest is the perfect relationship,
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whether that's a new relationship or to improve their current one.
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But that's one of the main things that clients see me for as well,
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is that they want to manifest their perfect relationship.
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So anyway, I'd written down a lot of the steps and a lot of tips and tricks
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that I use to manifest my relationship.
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And this person that I didn't know, I don't know, they commented on my post
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and they said, I do like stuff like this.
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However, it's all right for people like you. You're obviously very lucky.
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Things don't work out like this for me. Now, kind of felt like I've been trolled,
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but it was also quite sad because I thought I just wanted to reach out and speak to this person.
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Go, I know how you feel. I know how you feel when everyone else around you is
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getting in relationships or they're all loved up or whatever it is that you
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desire and you see everybody else with it.
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I get that and just go, oh, well, it worked for them, but that's their story.
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I kind of wanted to reach through the computer and go, no, these are steps.
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These are practices. These are mindset shifts.
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These are manifestation steps that will help you get your desire.
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And I thought well don't go but it also seemed
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the way it was signed off I can't remember if I've worded that properly but
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it seemed a bit kind of like a bit of an insult rather
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than just like a good for you it seemed like a bit like well it's all right
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for people like you but not for me so you know stop posting stuff that's how
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it sounded I was really put out I thought oh do I reply and be like you know
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not very manifestly of me to go well up yours so obviously I didn't do that
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and And I thought, do you know what?
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I just sent a message and I said, I'm sorry. I'm sorry you feel that way.
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Look, you know, I really do believe in manifesting. If there's anything I can
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do to help you, let me know. But I wish you well on your journey.
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And she came back again and she said, it doesn't work out for people like me.
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It was really sad because I just wanted to shake
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her and go it's that kind of language and
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being stuck in that kind of victim status
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that you're only going to receive energies
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that match that energy but equally I
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get it when you're feeling down in the dumps if you feel like you've
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had a run of bad luck or your manifestations aren't coming true
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it can fill a safer space to
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be in victim status because it protects you from if
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you go I'm never going to get anything then your expectations are
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so low it's almost protecting you you don't
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realize the damage that that is doing to your
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reality and your future because you are blocking anything
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good from coming your way even if there's anything good coming your
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way and you keep going you keep pushing it away by saying
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things don't work out for me I'm really unlucky manifestation works
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for others but it doesn't work for me so you feel
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like you're protecting yourself and it's a safe space to
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be in that negative frame of mind but you have to lift it you've got to ditch
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the negative talk and even if you're not feeling positive right now and you
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can't at the moment jump onto a positive frequency at least ditch the negative
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talk so that you're on kind of a level playing a field.
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Other phrases I hear a lot, I don't deserve this, it's too hard to change.
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It's too hard to change, I'm set in my ways.
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Again, you're just saying to the universe, I'm not changing for whatever good
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things you're bringing me, so don't worry about bringing them to me.
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I always fail when I try something new.
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I'm not brave enough to try something new. I hear that a lot.
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These people are scared to step out of their comfort zone into this kind of state of positivity.
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Like I say, that negative space, which is weird. It's really weird, isn't it?
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That being in that victim status or in a negative space can sometimes feel safer
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because it's the self-preservation thing.
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Other things I hear a lot is money is hard to come by.
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There's no other way I can receive money other than my job which is nine to
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five and it doesn't pay enough.
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A lot of people come to me and a lot of sessions I run are people wanting to manifest money.
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People want to be financially free and financially thriving.
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So when you're saying money is hard to come by, or you have these limiting beliefs
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of the only way that you can get money in is from your nine to five or from your actual day job.
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That's a limiting belief. And that's money is hard to come by.
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Money doesn't come to me. All I get is bills.
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You're speaking negatively about money.
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Now, speaking negatively about money is promoting a sense of lack of money.
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So if your words, thoughts and feelings are coming from a place of lack,
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you're only going to receive more lack of money.
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You're not going to go into a fruitful place for money or an abundant place of money.
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Other things I hear, I'm unlucky, I never win anything.
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If you go out with that mindset, you're just not attracting the energy where
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your mindset and your energies and your frequency can shift,
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where suddenly you start coming into good fortune or you start having really
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lucky things happen to you.
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Now, a lot of things at the moment, a lot of things online about manifesting,
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some of it has been rephrased to lucky girl syndrome.
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Lucky girl syndrome I quite
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like that in a way it's just another way of rephrasing
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or marketing manifesting lucky girl syndrome
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everything good happens to me these people
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who seem to have it all and
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to seem to always win everything and they never put any weight
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on you know they're always slim no matter what I
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eat you know those people those those people that go
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oh my god I can eat everything but I just don't put on weight and
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inside you're going oh god that's you know
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you hate that these are lucky girl syndrome kind of people who know the art
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of manifestation because they ditch the language they say rather than saying
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I'm unlucky I don't win anything they're like I'm lucky everything good comes
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my way everything that happens to me is good and works in my favour.
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And just shift in your language, even if you don't believe it at first.
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And that is the key here.
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Even if you don't believe it.
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Try and shift your language. Try for the next week, do me a favor.
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Try for the next week to shift your language and shift those thoughts.
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Even if you don't believe it, start saying, oh God, I'm so lucky.
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I suffer from lucky girl syndrome or lucky guy syndrome. Money comes to me so
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easily. Everything I touch turns to gold.
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Just start saying these phrases because like I said at the beginning of the episode,
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you have to remember your brain does not know the difference between something
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you're making up and telling it, something that's fantasy or make-belief,
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or something that is a real statement.
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It will send off the same signals and therefore you will be releasing the same
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energy that aligns with that thing back into your life.
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So just start saying it even if you feel like you've got to fake it at first.
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Fake it at first because by repeating these phrases and repeating positive statements
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instead of negative ones, ditching the negative talk.
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If you repeatedly tell yourself these positive phrases, repetitive statements
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can rewire the neural pathways in your brain just from repetitiveness. So keep going with it.
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Keep telling yourself how lucky you are. Why not?
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Also, rather than play out all the negative talk in your head,
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give it a chance and play out the positive.
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How much more fun is that? the other thing I
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hear all the time is I'll never
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find love I said that one before I'll never find love
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he's not out there for me no one matches my expectations maybe everyone's everyone
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there's no good people on tinder there's no good people online dating there's
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no good people anymore you say that because you're down in the dumps because
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maybe you've had some disappointing dates or you've had no dates.
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But that kind of language is going to do you absolutely no favours.
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Switch your lingo. Ditch the negative talk.
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The other thing I find an awful lot, and when I work with clients,
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this happens all the time, but people are very self-critical of themselves.
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So we've kind of just been talking there about the negative talk about your
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life or situations you may find yourself in.
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But, oh my goodness, if I could tell you the amount of things I've heard this
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week come out of people's mouths,
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particularly women but maybe that's because I've been
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around women for a bit longer because if
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you don't know me and my life yet well
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you will you won't know that I work in film and tv so
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I design the makeup and hair for tv shows and films and I work with very famous
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actors and directors so I'm predominantly around a lot of women and if I could
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tell you the phrases and the things that I've heard to come out of some women's mouths this week.
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I've heard things like, oh my God, oh my God, I'm so fat, I can't wear a bikini this week.
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A lot of these comments and phrases are in jest.
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As I say, the universe is always listening.
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Your thoughts create your reality.
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Your words create your reality.
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I've heard, oh God, I'm so fat, I can't wear a bikini this year.
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I'm going to look like a whale on the beach.
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I've heard people say, God, I'm so tired, I need chocolate.
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Why am I so fat I've seen women
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looking in the mirror at work on our makeup trailers pull
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their face apart and go oh my god I look so rough oh my god I look so old I
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need Botox I've seen people looking at their teeth and saying why have I got
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such wonky teeth no wonder I don't have a boyfriend I've heard people say oh
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my god well if that person could get a boyfriend and I can't then I'm done for.
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All of these things, all of these phrases, I just want to get everybody and
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cuddle them and shake them and bang their heads together and say, watch your language.
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Watch your language. The universe is listening. You are like a magnet.
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You are going to attract in more things that align with those words.
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Now, I'm not saying, can I just say, for the record here, it's really important to say.
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I'm not saying that I get it right all the time. Oh my gosh,
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no. I think, you know what?
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I have manifested some mind-blowing things.
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I've had some amazing, amazing things happen to me, things that have literally
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jumped off my vision board and into my lap.
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Yes, I have lucky girl syndrome because I work at it every day,
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but I do not always get it right. I don't get it right.
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Sometimes I wake up, look in the mirror and I go, oh God, you know,
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I'll pull apart and think I'll put an outfit on and I can see my tummy in that.
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Does my bum look big in this?
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Listen, there is a part in all of us that have this narrative of self-talk,
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negative self-talk that goes on in our brain that we say to people.
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We say things to protect ourselves.
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Sometimes we don't realize we're saying it. Sometimes we don't realize we're doing it.
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And that is why this podcast today is so important, because if you can recognize
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that you're doing it, and I guarantee you,
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even if you are the most amazing manifester, and I know that there are some
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already amazing manifesters that listen to the podcast,
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I guarantee you, you're all still doing it in some way, your negative talk.
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And if you can ditch that, you are going to unblock your manifestations.
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You are going to receive the things that you are desiring. You are going to
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attract in those good things that you want to bring into your life.
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Now, if that is not your motivation, I don't know what is.
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So ditch the negative talk.
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Firstly, ditch it. and even if
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you can be on just a level playing field then that
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is a bonus but even better if you
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can switch into positive self-talk or
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positive thoughts of yourself positive thoughts
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of self worth then even better because you
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are going to unblock that manifestation and you
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are going to fuel your manifestation coming
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to you even quicker so if
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you're saying I'm not good enough swap that for I am more
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than enough just as I am now there's some
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people that might think I'm a bit bonkers but sometimes I walk
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around the house and I say out loud out
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loud positive affirmations now I sometimes do this if I'm feeling a bit rubbish
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or if I get some bills I walk around going I am a money magnet everything I
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touch turns to gold money flows to me effortlessly and
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Or I say, I'm so lucky. Everything is working out in my favor.
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And I used to think positive affirmations were a bit wishy-washy.
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I'm not going to lie to you.
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I thought they were a bit like positive affirmation. Is that going to change anything?
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But as I said before, you have to remember it's the repetitiveness of saying
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these positive phrases that will rewire your brain.
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The more you say it the more you believe it and the
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more the universe will listen and bring those positive things
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to you yes a swap I'm not
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enough for I am more than enough just as I
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am if you're saying things never work out for me just like that girl on my Instagram
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post turn it around and say everything is working out in my favor instead of
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saying manifestation works for others but not for me say manifestation is always
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working for me in perfect timing.
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If you say I don't deserve this turn that around to say I am worthy of all the
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abundance love and success coming my way.
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If you're saying it's too hard to change say I am constantly evolving and growing with ease.
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Even just saying these positive affirmations now I can feel myself growing I
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can feel the confidence rising in you as well.
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If you're saying, I always fail when I try something new, I don't have the balls
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to try something new, then say, say this, every step I take leads me closer
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to success. I love that one.
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If you have money blockers, then say something like, instead of saying money
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is hard to come by, say, money flows to me easily and effortlessly.
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If you're saying, I'm just unlucky. I never win anything.
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Nothing good happens to me. I'm so unlucky. Swap this for.
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I create my own luck and attract incredible opportunities. You can make your
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own ones up, guys. This is just me giving you some examples.
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If you're one of these people, one of my many clients or one of the many people
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in the world who are looking for love or a better relationship, rather than saying,
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I'll never find love, say, love is all around me and I am open to receiving it.
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And just for the record, you can feel unloved even if you're in a relationship,
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but maybe you want to improve relationships that aren't just romantic ones.
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It could be with a parent or a sibling or a friend.
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So rather than saying, I don't feel loved, say love is all around me and I am open to receiving it.
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Instead of saying, who am I to have what I want? I don't deserve to get those things.
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Turn it around and say, I am powerful. I am deserving and capable of creating my dream life.
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So there's some food for thought for you guys. That is the first step,
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the first step in unblocking your manifestations.
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Even if you do this this week, things will improve. You will attract things into your life.
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You will start noticing really amazing, lovely things happen in your life and
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you'll go, that's weird.
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That's weird because I listened to that podcast the other day and I started
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to ditch the negative talk and now things are going to happen to you.
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Start doing it today, start doing it now while you are listening to the podcast.
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So that is the first behavior you need to ditch to unblock your manifestation.
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The second step, the second behavior, the second thing you need to stop doing
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in order to unblock your manifestation is to not dwell on something if something hasn't gone your way.
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This is a biggie. This is a biggie. And again, through my clients, I hear this.
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This is the same three things I hear all the time. One is the negative talk.
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This second one, I hear so many times and they'll go, do you know what?
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In fact, I've got a client that I speak to regularly and they're having one-on-one
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sessions weekly. I'm going to go.
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They always come out with phrases that align with this step.
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And they'll say, do you know what? I'm doing all the work. And I thought I was
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really good. And they're single and they're looking for love.
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And they say, I was doing all this. And then someone reached out to me and we
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were texting and it felt really good. And I thought, this is it. This is it.
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This is it. This could be the one. And then they ghosted me and it's all gone to pot.
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And what they do is they suddenly sink in
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every area of their life and they kind
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of it's almost like they throw all of their manifestation work
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into the bin and go well do you know what that's messed that up now you know
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what it got my hopes up and it didn't work out so it's all rubbish and it's
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like they throw in the towel so easily so please listen to me when I say to
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you do not dwell on something when it hasn't gone your way.
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And remember this, you've not been rejected, you've been redirected.
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So if something hasn't gone your way, you need to turn this around into a positive and say, okay,
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this thing or this thing at this time or this person or whatever it is you're
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trying to manifest, that something that hasn't gone right, whether it's your
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dream house and the sale of your house has fallen through.
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Or your bid for the house didn't go through and someone went in with a higher bid,
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Again, I've had another client recently, they lost out to what they thought was their dream house.
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I say to them, you have been redirected. You've not been rejected.
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You have to put your faith and trust into the universe.
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The universe will always bring you what you want or something better.
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So if something hasn't gone your way, you have to trust.
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You have to trust that there is a
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better plan for you and that you are being redirected
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onto the path that you are meant to be on that's what
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you have to remember now this person this person
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that i was working with recently where they were
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envisioning their dream house they found a
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house on the market and they really really wanted to
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buy it and she was manifesting her socks
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off to try and get this house and she was visualizing herself
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in the house she put it on her vision board she was being positive about it
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and she had people coming around to view her house and she was like it has to
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be this house this is the perfect there is no other house out there for us well
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sadly a couple of weeks later the sellers took it off the market and she was devastated.
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And she she sunk and I get it of course you are disappointed and you are allowed
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to be disappointed but you cannot dwell on it you cannot dwell on it thinking
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that was the only house for me.
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So I said to her, look, we need to work through this. You have been redirected
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and you can't think of it now, but I'm telling you, there will be a better house out there for you.
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You will end up in a house that you are so happy in that you'll be so grateful
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that it didn't work out with the first house.
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And do you know what? A couple of months later, another house came on the market and it was amazing.
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It was bigger than the other house and it was better than the other house,
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but the budget was way out of her reach
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so she saw this house and she thought oh my god that's amazing
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well all of a sudden some months later
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the sellers had to make a very quick sale for
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some unknown reason and they slashed the price
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of this house my client went in
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put an offer down snapped up the
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house and they have just exchanged so
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those months ago when that dream house
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fell through she was devastated and
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she couldn't ever imagine being in a better home
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than that one she had seen before but here she
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was in a bigger better home and it
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hadn't broken the bank we when that first house fell through she was quite rightly
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disappointed and and I wouldn't blame anyone for feeling disappointed you are
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allowed to be disappointed of course you are but it's it's about not sitting
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and dwelling into that place and throwing the towel and going,
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well, nothing works for me.
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It's all fallen through. And that's the really important thing here.
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So what's important, we work together to get her to that place of kind of trust
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in the universe and going, do you know what?
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I said to her, you have to envision that everything will work out as it's meant to.
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And she worked really hard and she decided to trust the process.
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And then there she was. She couldn't believe it. She can't believe it.
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She's in this new house and everything has worked out in her favor.
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And I think the same thing happens a lot with relationships.
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I think whether that's an ex-partner or maybe you're dating and you're chatting
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to someone and you think this is it.
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You know, we're really well matched. This is amazing.
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And maybe you have a date and then you get ghosted and you've put all of your
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everything into this working out.
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And then And when it doesn't work out, and the same with an ex-partner,
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you can't envision yourself with anyone else. You become a bit obsessed about someone.
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You look on their social media, look at what they're up to, and you fall in love with...
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The idea of you and them together. And you can't imagine that there will ever
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be anyone better suited for you.
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And same when you're dating someone, then you suddenly get ghosted.
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What happens is you come crumbling down.
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And if you allow yourself to dwell and go, well, that's it.
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Nothing ever works for me. It didn't work. I put everything in.
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And now look what's happened. That person that I was talking to
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has disappeared you can't get your ex back
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and even even if
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you really want your ex partner back it's a
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still about letting go and trusting this new path this redirection that you're
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on and not dwelling on what isn't happening at the moment if you wholeheartedly
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believe and trust that the universe has your back and will deliver what you want or.
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Who you want and someone better.
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It's very hard to do it. I've been there when you really, really want it to
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work out for someone. Be disappointed. That's okay.
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And then trust the universe has your back and be excited for your redirection.
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I think that's the thing. Be excited and think, well, I'll tell you what,
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if there's someone better coming, that's amazing.
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And also even with your ex, it doesn't mean that you won't get back with your ex.
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You still have to trust your redirection and if it's meant to be your ex it
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will be your ex but this redirection will take you onto a happy path with your
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ex a more fulfilling relationship with your ex and maybe you get over the hurdles
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that you've been arguing about or the things that you fell out over.
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So it's about trusting the universe and not dwelling and remember that you have
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been redirected, not rejected.
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So the final behavior to ditch and then your manifestations are going to be unblocked.
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And it's about not obsessing over the end goal.
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Now this is a funny one because what you have to do when you're manifesting
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is you set your intention of what it is that you want. and you drop it.
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Put out what it is that you want to manifest and you drop it.
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Imagine yourself ordering something from Amazon.
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You put your order in, you send the money and it's out into the universe.
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You don't obsess about it. You don't obsess about how it will reach you.
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You don't obsess about your product's journey of when it gets to the post office,
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when it will get to the postman and how it will be handled?
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Will it be brought to you by van or on foot and how it will get through to your front door?
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It will just be delivered.
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So you don't obsess about it. You have to put your order in,
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visualize, do your positivity and drop it.
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Because if you are obsessing over your end goal and needing it so badly,
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you're almost promoting a sense of lack and a sense of fear of not receiving it.
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So if you are so desperate and so fearful over not receiving your end goal,
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then you will be blocking your manifestation.
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So you have to, again, you put your faith and you put your trust into the universe and you are going,
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okay, I've told you what it is that I want I would
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really appreciate you universe going off and getting
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that thing for me and bringing it back I know you will
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bring it back to me and I know I will receive it so I
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won't obsess over where you find it how you
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find it and how you bring it back to me I just know that
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you will do that and you have to release your
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fear if you fear so much
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that if it doesn't happen if you don't get your
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desire then you won't be happy you will
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be blocking your manifestation you have
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to learn and do things
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to be content and happy in the now and enjoy your journey and it's is it's that
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famous famous phrase of it's not the end goal you know it's the journey happiness
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isn't at the end it's the journey but it is so true and it's so important when
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you're trying to manifest.
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Contentness now happiness now trusting the journey and getting to the point
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where you go do you know what if I receive that or not,
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It's fine. That's fine. I'll be happy, whatever.
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That's when you will start receiving. Now, I don't know if you've ever had this.
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I've definitely had this a few times in the past.
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When I'm trying to manifest something, I follow all of the steps and I've been
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really positive and I've put it on my vision board and I imagine myself with
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it and I'm aligning my behaviors and acting though it's already mine.
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But you do want it so badly. You want it so badly that you're like,
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God, how's it going to get to me?
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When's it going to get to me? I need that thing. I need that thing.
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And then sometimes you can become exhausted and drained when it's not happening.
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And you can kind of just get a bit, oh gosh, where is it?
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And you've sort of, I don't want to say you give up hope, you just get exhausted from it.
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And then all of a sudden, when you do that, you kind of go, I don't really care.
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I don't really care if I get that thing or not. And then for some reason,
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and I've had this so many times, that is when you kind of hit your manifesting
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sweet spot and all of a sudden you start manifesting and it's because you've
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let go of that attachment.
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You need to release that tight grip you have on your ex-partner,
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on the money, on your dream house, that desperation.
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Release that, set your intention and let it go and you will unblock your manifestation. Isn't that amazing?
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Just they are three very simple behaviors.
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And I guarantee you, even if you're a very good manifester, you will be displaying
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some of those behaviors.
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If you can ditch those, stop doing those things.
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Stop speaking negatively about yourself.
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Stop dwelling when something hasn't gone your way and stop obsessing.
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You will unblock your manifestation and you will receive what it is you're trying to manifest.
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Trust the process, trust the universe and enjoy it.
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Enjoy it knowing that your manifestation is already on its way.
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If you knew and trusted that it was already on its way, then you would ditch
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these behaviors anyway.
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You wouldn't obsess over it. You wouldn't dwell on the things that haven't worked
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out and you'd feel more confident. So you'd ditch that negative talk about yourself.
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So start talking proudly about yourself. I look amazing. My body is healthy.
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I have a healthy body that I'm taking out in my bikini next summer.
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That relationship has fallen through, but that is okay because I'm not going
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to dwell on it because I know I have been redirected onto the right path.
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I'm not obsessing over my manifestation because I am enjoying life now.
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I'm enjoying the process and when that happens, that will be amazing.
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But I'm enjoying my life. The more you enjoy your life, the more you find positivity
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in your life, the more your energy will be matched and you will receive more
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things to feel positive about, more things to enjoy and more happiness.
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So follow those three steps to start unblocking your manifestation. I feel excited for you.
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Because when I work with my clients and we get to this point and we kind of
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pick around in their stories and we find that thing that's blocking them, life will open up.
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So I hope you can take those on board.
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Start doing those now. Start ditching those negative phrases about yourself
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and your life and enjoy your life now.
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Enjoy your life now and it's all going to happen for you.
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I know it's all going to happen for you so I
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hope you enjoyed this podcast I really enjoyed
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this episode I feel like this is this is a
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big one that will change the game and I can't wait
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to get your dms I can't wait to hear your
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messages I've been having so many from you recently
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about amazing things that have been happening to you so I'm
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so pleased please do keep dming me
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and let me know how this works out for you let me
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know when you start ditching these behaviors what comes
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into your life and what you manifest into your life
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it builds the energy when i hear what's happening with you and i will keep you
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posted with free content i'm posting a lot of tips and tricks and things that
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you can do to shift your behaviors in order to manifest every single thing that you want.
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So keep in touch and until next time I can't wait for you to unblock your manifestations
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and remember this I'm going to leave you with that quote that we learned earlier
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you've not been rejected you have been redirected. Goodbye.
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