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Capítulo 031: Amor Prohibido · Locatora Radio [A Radiophonic Novela]

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  Speaker 1: Radio radio Radio Commies, a myth and bullshit radio phonic
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to look at the Radio. This is Mala
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  Speaker 1: and this is Theosa and we're last local and of
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  Speaker 1: Look at that our radio is a radio phonic novella.
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  Speaker 1: Are having the brilliant legacies and geniuses of women and
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  Speaker 1: to be here, Happy February. I feel like it's been
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  Speaker 1: so long since we last recorded. Yes, we kind of
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  Speaker 1: just like put out three caplos in like a span
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  Speaker 1: of a week, and then we're like, okay, were we
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  Speaker 1: gotta we gotta travel to Oregon. Oh and did we travel? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: we did, we traveled. Yes. So the January February two,
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  Speaker 1: we were in Oregon. UM the University of Oregon MITSCHA
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  Speaker 1: and the Multicultural Center and the Uo mo hit Is
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  Speaker 1: Organization invited us out to do a workshop to workshops
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  Speaker 1: and a keynote, and we have so much to say
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  Speaker 1: it was really fun. Also, can I just say, elephant
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  Speaker 1: in the room. We're recording for YouTube now, and I
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  Speaker 1: think we're still adjusting. We are still adjusted because it's
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  Speaker 1: like the cameras like having a third look here, like
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  Speaker 1: our third member that were still getting used to. Oh god,
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  Speaker 1: hey everyone, hey everybody. So no, we went to Oregon.
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  Speaker 1: We were in Eugene, um, which it was my first
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  Speaker 1: time in Oregon. I've never been to Oregon before. Um,
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  Speaker 1: and I thought it was beautiful, so green, the air
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  Speaker 1: was so clean. Yeah, we're so cold. We were like,
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  Speaker 1: let's clean out our lens. Let's get this l a
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  Speaker 1: small residue, you know, the l a grime because LA
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  Speaker 1: can be very grimy. Yeah. Um. And so first we
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  Speaker 1: got there and of course the students picked us up.
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  Speaker 1: They took us to our hotel and they got us
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  Speaker 1: a really nice hotel. You know. Um, we hung out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was basically like a little mini look at that
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  Speaker 1: retreat because we honestly, we didn't have time to really
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  Speaker 1: do any sight seeing and to go around Eugene unfortunately.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, we got a lot of work done
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  Speaker 1: while we were there. We were still working, taking conference
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  Speaker 1: calls and doing all that good stuff that we like
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  Speaker 1: to do. So we were still working and then of
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  Speaker 1: course prepping and doing all of our work for the
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  Speaker 1: conference and the workshop. So but it was amazing, It
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  Speaker 1: was great. We had a really great time. We did
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  Speaker 1: our Goddess Worship workshop with the Uomo hitters and other
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  Speaker 1: students that were there, so hopefully we gained some new
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  Speaker 1: listeners and shout out to our look a moot is
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  Speaker 1: they were there, such as Vedo, Maria and Edith Yomeda
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  Speaker 1: fabulous people and all the other more hits that were amazing.
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  Speaker 1: It was amazing to meet Aliya. It was cool to
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  Speaker 1: be around like the students. It was I felt so nostalled,
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  Speaker 1: like so nostalgic about my own undergrad years. And one
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  Speaker 1: thing that I really loved was and this cato is
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  Speaker 1: all about love if this is our OO episode, you know,
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  Speaker 1: And I could really feel the love there on campus,
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  Speaker 1: not just for like you know, the podcast and everything,
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  Speaker 1: but like for the community. Yes, there was a big
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  Speaker 1: sense of community there with them. With the students we met,
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  Speaker 1: the Yuo Mohadist students that we met the Multicultural Center,
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  Speaker 1: Like at one point the girls had us over to
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  Speaker 1: one of their apartments and like it was a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of the students there. We just were all hanging out
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  Speaker 1: and talking and we ended up dancing at the end
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  Speaker 1: and it was really fun and like I miss having
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  Speaker 1: all of my home girls in one spot, right, That's
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  Speaker 1: what we were saying, Like when you're on you're doing
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  Speaker 1: your undergrad like you're never in that not close proximity
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  Speaker 1: to your friends like ever again, Um afterwards, you know,
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  Speaker 1: after you graduated and move away, so it was super graded.
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  Speaker 1: I agree with Mama, like definitely nostalgic. There's so many
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  Speaker 1: things I would have done differently during my undergrad and
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  Speaker 1: like now obviously being out and like having this different
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  Speaker 1: sense of community. I would have done so much differently.
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  Speaker 1: So myself, for example, what would you have done differently
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  Speaker 1: if you had to do undergrad over again? Oh um,
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  Speaker 1: I would have changed my major. I would have started
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  Speaker 1: to broad longer. I probably would have. Um, there's I mean,
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot. I mean, my relationships I think affected
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  Speaker 1: a lot of my undergrad So I would have done
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  Speaker 1: so much differently. So it's nice to see the way
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  Speaker 1: these Mohadas have really built their community. Beautiful community, beautiful community,
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  Speaker 1: and it just seems like they really take care of
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  Speaker 1: each other and are just willing to learn together, grow together,
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  Speaker 1: and then bring speakers out because we heard about some
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  Speaker 1: future speakers that they're trying to bring. We can't say anything,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, it's really great to see the Mohad
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  Speaker 1: is doing the work that needs to be done, you
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  Speaker 1: know what campus and let me just say, and it
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  Speaker 1: was not lost on us Between Mitscha and of course
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  Speaker 1: the conference friends. The fifteenth Annual is the reason why
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  Speaker 1: Mitscha of University of Oregon flew us out there because
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  Speaker 1: we gave a keynote for the youth conference, right, and
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  Speaker 1: the theme was so we wrote this really great keynote.
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  Speaker 1: In my opinion, it was really great. It was real good. Um. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we can't lie. And you know, we really brought this
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  Speaker 1: theme of like, you know, planting your seeds and blooming
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  Speaker 1: and growing and you know having to you know, pluck
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  Speaker 1: the weeds and not block anyone's sunshine and not block
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  Speaker 1: their growth, right, and really talking about that in the
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  Speaker 1: sense of um, when you're in a community that was
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  Speaker 1: multiple needs, right, layered needs, layered needs, it takes many
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  Speaker 1: many seeds right for a successful harvest. It's never never
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  Speaker 1: just one seed, right, Um. So yeah, all those themes.
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  Speaker 1: We're not going to give it the whole thing away.
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  Speaker 1: You had to be there, you had to be there,
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  Speaker 1: had to be there. Um. And then I also want
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  Speaker 1: to shout out because what we did to tell them
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  Speaker 1: about the Latino Tech in short of podcast workshop we
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  Speaker 1: did that one was so fun. So we had done
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  Speaker 1: sort of like a podcasting workshop at u c l
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  Speaker 1: A for one of Silky shout out, Hey, I know
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  Speaker 1: you're watching one of our favorite fans anyways. Um, So
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  Speaker 1: Silky is a genius and is this brilliant professor and
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  Speaker 1: she had a class at u c l A. And
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  Speaker 1: we came and what department was it was chi Study,
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  Speaker 1: So for Chikana Chikano Studies class, we went as the
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  Speaker 1: podcast and we talked about podcasting. We took that same
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  Speaker 1: workshop and we sort of developed it for high schoolers
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  Speaker 1: and middle schoolers and we called it Latin x Tech
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  Speaker 1: and basically we had them, um break off into groups,
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  Speaker 1: the students and build their own podcasts from the ground up,
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  Speaker 1: from like having a name, to a logo to a
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  Speaker 1: hashtag you know, um, you know all that stuff the
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  Speaker 1: stuff that we've put together our podcast. So we're really fun.
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  Speaker 1: We did um, of course we'd laid the foundation, and
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  Speaker 1: we talked about like our our development and what we've
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  Speaker 1: done and what's work and what what we've had to
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  Speaker 1: improve and all those things. And also at the workshop
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  Speaker 1: up there were two more hitters from Portland's that drove
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  Speaker 1: and their local motives. I want to shout out Filly
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  Speaker 1: and Roso they were so fun. So they took us
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  Speaker 1: to get drinks afterwards, and then we spent the whole
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  Speaker 1: afternoon with them at before we flew back to l A.
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  Speaker 1: So it was super great to meet them. We have
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  Speaker 1: the best logan. What it we really do? Our listeners
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  Speaker 1: are so fun, are so much fun? Oh my god, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: our listeners are so hopefully will be in Oregon again,
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  Speaker 1: that would be great. I think we will be. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: we might. Maybe we'll spend a little bit more time,
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  Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, to play a day of leisure. Yes
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  Speaker 1: if you will, yes, if you must. You know. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So that was our our time in Oregon. It was
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  Speaker 1: super great. And then you know, we came back and
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  Speaker 1: you know, back to work. Yes, here we are, and
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  Speaker 1: here we are, and here we are I think with
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  Speaker 1: we're going to jump into one of our segment ready mama.
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  Speaker 1: All right. So yeah, locas, we got this listener question
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  Speaker 1: a few a few weeks ago, a few months ago.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you're listening more. This is such a great question.
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  Speaker 1: UM definitely hit home for me, So I'm gonna go
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  Speaker 1: ahead and ask it. Um. Okay, I'm a bisexual Mexicana
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  Speaker 1: and my dad has a hard time with me dating women.
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  Speaker 1: I'm currently dating a guy and no I'm a bit Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I get the sense that my dad is quote relieved.
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  Speaker 1: This bugs me for some reason, and I'm not sure why,
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  Speaker 1: because although my dad had a hard time with me
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  Speaker 1: dating women, he didn't quote disown me or anything and
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  Speaker 1: said he loves me regardless. Have either of y'all experienced this.
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  Speaker 1: You can take this one away. You can you can
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  Speaker 1: take this one away. This is relevant. Okay, girl, I
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  Speaker 1: feel like you are reading my life tbh. Um, I
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  Speaker 1: actually feel this way, and I think this was um.
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  Speaker 1: You know, not to get too deep, but I feel
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  Speaker 1: like this was It was a really hard. It was
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  Speaker 1: really hard for me to um move away from my
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  Speaker 1: lesbian identity into my queer identity because I felt because
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  Speaker 1: I'm so firm, the people weren't gonna understand that I'm
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  Speaker 1: queer or pan sexual or bisexual. It was more like, oh, yes,
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  Speaker 1: see her phase is over. Yes, So I really struggled
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  Speaker 1: with fairness, was exactly I've really struggled with being okay
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  Speaker 1: with dating men um And the same thing. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like my father was never like outwardly homophobic with me. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I think it was more subtle, like he wouldn't necessarily
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  Speaker 1: acknowledge my partners as my partners friends favorite friends, and
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  Speaker 1: he would never say their names. He would say la
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  Speaker 1: things like that, very coded, coded things. And now I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I wouldn't say he's happy that I'm dating
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  Speaker 1: a man, because I don't know if any fathers ever
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  Speaker 1: really happy. But you're you're dating right, right? And like
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  Speaker 1: when I don't come home, he knows where I'm mad happy,
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  Speaker 1: you know, favorite? Right? Right? So I mean, yes, okay,
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  Speaker 1: So I have either of us experienced that, I mean, yes, definitely,
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  Speaker 1: And I think your feelings are valid, especially you know.
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  Speaker 1: Oh and this is what I had this discussion with
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  Speaker 1: my mom recently actually, because she was like, well, how
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  Speaker 1: does you know your your boo feel about you identifying
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  Speaker 1: as queer? And I'm like, um, well, he wouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: with me he was right, and I had to have yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I had to have that discussion, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: just because I'm dating a man now, it doesn't make
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  Speaker 1: me and he was queer. Let's start there, right, Let's
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  Speaker 1: be clear, yes, right, yes, there are certain privileges when
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  Speaker 1: you're in a perceived heterosexual relationship, but it doesn't negate
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  Speaker 1: your queerness, right, So I think that that's really important.
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  Speaker 1: And I just want to say, if you're listening, your
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  Speaker 1: feelings are totally valid, and I feel you boo, and
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  Speaker 1: just keep doing you. And you know what's interesting is
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  Speaker 1: like your parents, like you're saying, your parents are never
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  Speaker 1: really happy about whoever you're dating, or one parent might
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  Speaker 1: be happy, the other one is not right, And I
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  Speaker 1: think it's interesting too, Like your parents will tolerate your
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  Speaker 1: partner until your partner is no longer your partner, when
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  Speaker 1: there's a breakup, another gone, and then all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 1: you here from everybody in the family. Well, we didn't
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  Speaker 1: really like them that much anyway. Over a girl. We
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  Speaker 1: don't want to tell you, but here's the t I
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  Speaker 1: had a friend who lives in New York City who
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  Speaker 1: was like, you know me and me and your mom Zoe.
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  Speaker 1: You know, me and your mom kind of agreed. We
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  Speaker 1: didn't think that that person was the one for you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, I find out that my friends
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  Speaker 1: and my mother were all communicating behind my back, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean. So it's just funny, like, but
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  Speaker 1: it's interesting because I think, you know, we can only
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  Speaker 1: push our parents so far, and sometimes I'm just grateful
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  Speaker 1: even for just silent Tacit just acceptance, yes, you know,
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  Speaker 1: as opposed to outright like yeah, you know, I don't
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  Speaker 1: like it. Stop that, get out of my house right, well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't mean. Yeah, And I did date somebody briefly
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  Speaker 1: that my father was so unhappy. Oh yeah, I remember
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  Speaker 1: that and that and that was some outward like I'm
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  Speaker 1: not talking to you kind of ship and like I'm
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  Speaker 1: not gonna fucking I'm not going to talk to you
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  Speaker 1: until you decide that, you know, this relationship is over.
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  Speaker 1: That's some more that was, and same thing in real ways. Everybody,
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  Speaker 1: all my family was warning me and was like, don't
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  Speaker 1: do this, don't do this, don't dates that one. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And I was like and then at that point I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I was like speaking of my dad's calling
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  Speaker 1: it right there. Yeah, father, Poppy, not daddy. There's a
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  Speaker 1: different there's a difference, there's a different Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: that's hilarious. All right, goodness. So yeah, so there's your answer.
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  Speaker 1: so okay, so more into our topic. So what does
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  Speaker 1: that come to when when you hear that phrase? I'm
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  Speaker 1: probably what does it bring to mind for you? Like,
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  Speaker 1: what are your immediate references I think of? I'm going
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  Speaker 1: I think of painful love? Yeah, the best kind I
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  Speaker 1: think of, like the love that has you up at night, right,
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  Speaker 1: because something is keeping you from being with that person,
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  Speaker 1: whether it be your parents, society, whatever it is, whoever knows,
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  Speaker 1: whomever it may be. There's always something in the way
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  Speaker 1: right right, whether that be distance, right, whether it be
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  Speaker 1: your own emotional unavailability, another person's emotional unavailability yes yes,
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  Speaker 1: or just even knowing that the person is not the
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  Speaker 1: one for you but still wanting to, you know, see
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  Speaker 1: see how this person is going to you know, play
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  Speaker 1: out in your life, or what the relationship is going
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  Speaker 1: to teach you even though you know it's not the relationship,
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  Speaker 1: but you want the experience. Anyways, Sometimes sometimes I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I don't mind, you know, when a person is
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  Speaker 1: not your life partner. For sure, there are those people
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  Speaker 1: right that you meet them and wherever you meet them,
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  Speaker 1: whether that's when you're out, you're in school, you know, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: here here, there, here, whatever, um and you know, like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: this person is going to be a lot of fun
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  Speaker 1: or this person is a little bit of trouble and
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  Speaker 1: I'm down. But I know what I'm getting and I
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm not going to get. I know that
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  Speaker 1: this has an expiration day. And even though I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to fight it, yes, eventually some ship is going to
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  Speaker 1: blow up in. This person's going to be out of
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  Speaker 1: my life. Yeah, even when you know, because the universe, God, Shiva, whoever,
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  Speaker 1: is sending you a million signs to keep this person
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  Speaker 1: away from you, like I don't I don't know her,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know her, I don't see suddenly I can't see.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to ignore all the signs and I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: seek out this person that I know is bad for me.
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  Speaker 1: That's gonna send me into a very dramatic life spiral.
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  Speaker 1: Spiral I was gonna say, but I want it. I
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  Speaker 1: hearn for it, and make me cut off all these
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  Speaker 1: people that are connected to them. Right, why don't we
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  Speaker 1: do that? I don't know, because you're horrible. That's that's
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  Speaker 1: and I've always known that about myself. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: just have to be honest, like I like to create
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  Speaker 1: drama for myself. Do you know? I think at this
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  Speaker 1: point in my life my self love is not getting
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  Speaker 1: into dramatic relationships. That's how I'm going to practice that.
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  Speaker 1: At this point in my life. My my current partner
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  Speaker 1: is like, no drama. And sometimes I find myself getting
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  Speaker 1: in these like self sabotaged ways of being like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: well where is the drama? Like how come you know
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  Speaker 1: the needle the pin hasn't dropped right, how come the
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  Speaker 1: shoe hasn't fallen off? I'm like, what's going on? I'm
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  Speaker 1: like going hold on? And then my book has to
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  Speaker 1: be like it takes things for what they are, like
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  Speaker 1: let them be, go ahead, And I'm just like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you're right, trust trust the car, right, yeah, embrace the calm. Right.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe there's not a storm coming, Yeah there might not be. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: That being said, let's giving to our song break your
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  Speaker 1: song break or Cara, belly rostra and and and and
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  Speaker 1: and and and and and and and and and and
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  Speaker 1: and and and and and and and and belly rock
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  Speaker 1: and and and then bell rang and and and and
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  Speaker 1: and and and um from from from um um from
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  Speaker 1: from Umm, from of it and ship and we're back
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  Speaker 1: part in US, part in US. So so Valentine's Day
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  Speaker 1: is coming up. Valentine's Day is coming up, and we
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: are hosting in events with Yao and not A call
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: her publisher and it's gonna it's called la It's going
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: to be at the at the l A Theater Company,
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: I think Los Angeles Theater Center and in springing Spring
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Streets l A. UM tickets are still available, almost sold
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: out though they're twenty five dollars. Starts at seven thirty.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: There's a bar we're hosting. Like we said, UM, super
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: super excited. There's gonna be another a few other poets
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: that are performing along with YESSICAA is going to be
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: performing and then we're going to do a Q and
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: A after so we're gonna be facilitating that. We love fancying.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: We love posting. We really do. Yeah. It's a good time. Yeah.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: So you know, talking about Valentine's Day, UM, throwback to
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: what do we do last year? For it was a
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: hot ass ratchet as mess. We were each other's Valentine's.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: We were it was a Gallantine's. It really was. It
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: was a lot of fun. It was super super sweet.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: We um, we were supposed to go out to a
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: nice dinner and ended up ordering Papa John's. We had
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: pizza and we just you know, got drunk and turned
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: at Mama's place. Yeah. Well, first of all, we met
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: at my place, and my apartment is very small, so
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: it was like how many girls? It was the Mummy
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: collective Melissa and and I feel like she had a
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: friend there, did she? I don't remember, but I think
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: it was just about okay anyway, So it was like
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: what like six or seven six whatever, those numbers had
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: up to seven women. Um, and so we were drinking
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Henny obviously honey and pineapple and other things. I was
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: drinking champagne, champagne. We were drinking Henny and pineapple out
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: of champagne flute, right, which is what I like to do, right,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: I like to drink out of champa. So anyways, um,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: we're leaving right, and we were going to the short
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: stop on sunset and freaking the light you know, Okay,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: when you go to a new person's house, like you
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: don't always know like where the steps, where are the lights,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: where the corners? What do you look out for? Like
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: you're not aware of the space. And it was dark
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: and you know, my house is a little bit it's
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: a little bit old, a little bit ratchet sometimes, and
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: like our lights are not not everything is lit, and
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: some of the lights are late, and some of the
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: lights are in weird places. And so poor Marisa, she
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: didn't see this step. The light comes off way late,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: and maritsa falls and fox up her ankle and while
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: she's on the floor, and I'm like, oh my god.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: But then the light comes on, so we can see
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: our predicament. But we couldn't avoid it. And she was limping, limping,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: she limped into the uber, but she was a fucking
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: trooper and she rallied and she limped all the way
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: into the short stop and up to the bar. Girl. Yes, literally,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: I think we just to care of her the night,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: bout her drinks. Yeah, like you know, had her seated,
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: we're sitting with her, and her was elevated. We were
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: single host that year, All of us were single at
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: the same time. Could you imagine, girl, nobody stand a chance.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: It was terrible and nobody nobody was safe. No, not
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: even us. We weren't even safe, right, So, yes, that
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: was Valentine's Day last year. But it was fun. It
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: was a nice Galantine's It was a lot of fun.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Um much has changed changed. It's still Galantine's Day for me.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah you have a boo. I have a boo. But
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: you know he's not like a Valentine's Day person. Yeah yeah, yeah.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: So I checked with him before I booked the event obviously,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: like hey, like, you know we're going to host this event,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: Like I just want to check in, like are we
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: going to do anything that say, do we have plans?
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Where you planning something? And if he doesn't like to
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: plan anything, so he was like, we can do something
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: on the weekend, like do you And I was like okay,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: perfect Um. That was the answer I wanted to Right,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: you got what you were like, got what I was
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: looking for. And it was funny because throwback, um we
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I was telling MoMA actually that after our Valentine's Day
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: the morning after waking up, he had actually started following
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: me on Instagram current boo. So I was like, full circle.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Would you look at that? Right, that's so funny. I know,
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: how cute? Did you post a photo that Valentine? I did?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I was looking hell of fine and he liked it.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: He did like he did like it. He took the bait.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: He did. He took the bait the bait, right. I
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: love putting some bait out there and you just know
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: that they're going to bite, and then when they bite,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: you're like, yep, you're like on time. I knew what
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: I was doing. I knew what I was doing. We
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: always know what we're doing. It's true. We do even
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: when we're not thinking about it. It's like, oh wait,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I knew what I was doing all along. I got
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: my desired result, even if I didn't know that I
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: desired that result. Right, I got what I wanted. It
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: worked out. We're good exactly exactly that. That's that's the best. Yes,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: So okay, going on theme right, talking about moo um
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Mama brought up an interesting point about self love. Yeah,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: so self love in its own way, isn't why so
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: so often right, like especially women, um and I would
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: say most especially also like queer men, to be really
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: into yourself and to love yourself and want to take
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: pictures of yourself and spend time on your makeup and
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: your hair. We're always called conceited and we're always like
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: talked down on for that, you know, And we're self
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: centered and we're narcissistic, and we're shallow. People love saying
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: that women are shallow and girls are shallows. A shallow
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: friends are shallow, frivolous. I'm like, that is our love
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: language for ourselves, is to spend time on ourselves and
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: to look at ourselves because this performance is not just
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: for the outside world. We perform for ourselves. If femininity
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: in many ways is performance, right, and like, okay, to
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: quote Brittany, there are those of us that do the
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: entertaining and then others who are watching for me, since
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: we can establish femininity as performance in many ways right,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: we are performers, but we also perform for ourselves and
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: then everybody else they're watching, they're the audience, right, and
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: sometimes the audience needs to sit back and shut the
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: funk up and let the show continue, you know what
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: I mean. So for me, that's what I think of
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: what I think of self love, Like we're not supposed
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: to love ourselves because then we're shallow, we're self centered,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: but we do this for ourselves absolutely absolutely so in
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: its own way, it isn't right because we're not allowed
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: to do it. We're not allowed to outwardly do it.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: We're not allowed to talk about it. We're not allowed
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: to post too many selfies, right, We're not allowed to
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: take the time for ourselves that you know, we need
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: um establish our boundaries, say no to people, right, those
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: are the things that we're not allowed to do, especially
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: as women and fems. Yes, especially um. And then you know,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: obviously there are different types of like there are certain
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: types of loves, loves that are always going to be
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: like forbidden, right, So whether that's because of race, class, gender,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: like people always find a reason to problematize a romantic
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: encounter or unless it's like sis head inside of marriage,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: everything else is fucked up, and that honestly excludes most
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: types of love, right, Yeah, Yeah, I feel like, um,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: by default, all of my relationships have been like amoro
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: because of the queerness, right, with the exception of my
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: current one. But you know, all my past relationships have
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: been ado because because of the queerness and um, whether
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: that be like from society or any type of like
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: internalized homophobia or internal misogyny like that mask energy even
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: like queer folks, queer women all that ship. Yeah, and
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: I feel like the theme of is so common, like
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: in music so much Mighty Achi, Lost Love forbidden love.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: Fucking yes, sucking the Vicenti fans came for her, Yes, yes, yes,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: hey girl, I know you're watching um much love. Yesica
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: had tweeted out the other day, Um about how Fernandez
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: that iconic song every mexicanald's, every latinos favorite song, right,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: they all sing it about themselves, right. Um, She's like,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: that's the ultimate funck boy anthem, you know, because he's
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: talking about like I'm broke, I got no power, I
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: got no influence, and nobody listens to me. Why the
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: funk would I? Why are you cry? You know? Um?
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: But anyway, so like, um, I also feel like in
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: so many novellas is just a constant theme totally. I
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: mean that's what makes it so traumatic, right, Like how
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: we said in the first half of the right we
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: want we want the trauma, right we were We've grown
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: up with all that drama, right, so we're like, okay,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: that's that's the only way to be in a relationship, right,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: all this drama. Right, But um, I mean so okay,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: So we see the novelas right, classic of course and Selena,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Um that is just like the anthem yeah, and forbidden
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: love in that song she's talking about you know, almost
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: you know, it's almost the defendite this classes. So it's
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: like I am imagining. I'm wondering, like in the song right,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: like what is her position? Is she the one that's
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: not good enough? Or she the princess that's too good
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: and he's not good enough for her? I don't think
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: we really know, because even in the video, right, she's
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: is there another? Is there a person in the video?
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: Doesn't she gets stood up? Isn't Is that the one
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: where she's out and she's wearing the T shirt, the
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: striped T shirt and the jeans and she has the
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: long but the road with the road, I'm getting my
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: references next time. I'm like, for me those when she's
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: out in the desert and there's like the doors at
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: the door, she's wearing that beautiful like red tie like outfit. Um, yes,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: is there a man? Is there a man? I don't remember. No,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: she's wearing the white yeah, but she's also wearing red
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: in a part of the video. Yeah, see she stands alone.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Who knows? See, So it could be like right, um,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: like I've had family basically tell me like, oh, well,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: we don't like such and such because we don't think
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: that they're good enough whatever that means. Who's heard that before?
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: No one's good enough, No one's good enough, No one's
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: good enough. I guess my grandma. I wasn't here when
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: this happened, but my mom told me that my grandma Natcha,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: they were watching TV and they were talking about, you know,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: the Prince and Megan Marco, and my grandma was like,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: so he met her in l A. And where were
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: my granddaughters when the Prince was here? Where were they?
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: What were they doing? Being hosed? Wasting? Sorry? Sorry I
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: missed the Prince. I missed the Prince. I missed the Prince.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: I was over here being sucking occupied by all these
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: fucking trolls dudes out here instead of meeting the Prince.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: That's what I was wasting my time. I was wasting
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: my time. That's definitely what happened. Anyways, funny, okay, funny,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: So music, Um, movies? Did we talk about movies? I
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: mean the basis the basis for all this ship so
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: much is you know the Romeo and Juliet right, that's
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: like the continued um, Yeah, what is it? Winto theme
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: and it reoccurs? What is it called trope. No, it's
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: there's something else. It's like a motif. It's a motif.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Don't know that the trope Now, I don't know anyway, well,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: that the recurrent, the literary device, one of those things
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: in literary device, this that they hammered into us, like
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: our entire education, but we can't remember. I would even say,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: I would even say, I wonder how much is the
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: story of Adam and Eve even and just like from
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: the fucking jump. First of all, it's so brutal the
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: way that the Bible imagines like men and women like
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: taking his rib out, Like what the fuck? Why? It's
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: so grotesque? Right? And then there I don't even know
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: are they even in love or they're just put together,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: put together, you know, just put together. There's no Yeah,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: And I do not believe, right, because what's the story
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: that that the snake spoke to Eve? Right? And then
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: she went and was like here, try this apple. I
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: don't believe it for a second. I don't believe it.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I don't believe it. They did. I wronged, was framed.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I would a favorite on the Sinking College about how
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Eve was framed. Eve was framed, y'all, and she did
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: it because she was a writer or die. We don't
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: need to be writer or die. We don't need to
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: be right or die. She was a down ass bitch.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: And I think that she was framed. I think that
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: that that they put all the blame for this ship
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: on the woman, of course, right, of course, So that
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: just laid the foundation for patriarchy of hosogy because women
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: ruined society exactly that they ruined the garden of Eden.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Look at pistemologies. That's a survivor narrative. I don't believe
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: that you did it. She was framed. She was framed. Um. Okay,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: so um, okay, tell me this is too personal? Okay, yeah, yeah,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: what is it? Um? Can you give me a personal
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: example of oh my god, a little or small? Well
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: how much time do we have? Girl? No? You know,
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I um once dated somebody who lives in a different country.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: And I haven't shared this like on the podcast, and
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: I haven't shared this on the internet really, um, but
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I once stated someone who lived in another country and
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: this country was Cuba before before the embargo was lifted. Um,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: And it was a few years ago, and I like
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: used to fly myself like by myself. This isn't my
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: early twenties, I was like love for love. Between the
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: ages of twenty and twenty two, I traveled to Cuba
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: by myself at least three times, and I had like
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: a Mexican travel agent who was based in Caffoon, who
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: like would buy me my tickets and I would Western
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Union in money, and then I was like, you were
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: doing the girl listen number one and I would fly
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: into Kunggoon and then sneak into Cuba. But nothing bad
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: ever happened to me. That's good. I'm glad you were
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: able to do that. I mean, something bad did happen,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: and that's why the relationship. But it was him, it wasn't.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: It wasn't my travels. It wasn't. I wasn't in trouble
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: on like an international level. It was an inner personal
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: of Krable, you know. Um. So that was definitely like
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: an Amota Probibi. Though I would say, um, you had
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: like travel restrictions on you girls at Hella, travel restrictions
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: like my passport could not get stamped, like I had
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: to have the stamp somewhere else. It was a whole
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: fucking thing. But I never got in trouble. Um, And
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: I hope that me talking about this publicly, I'm not
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: going to get in trouble now if the Feds get me.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: This is why I know that there's lots and for me, like,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: I haven't really unpacked that relationship and what it means
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: to like obviously be an American, like dating somebody who
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: lives in a Cuba in Havana or dating someone who lives,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: you know, in Latin America. Obviously there's a lot of
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: There's a lot there as far as para dynamics and
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: this and that and this and that and this and that.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I was Hella Young had to be honest, Um, I
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: was in it for two years, you know what I'm saying.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: So I will talk more about it one day when
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: I can really process it because I'm still like just
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: so shocked that I did that. I did it. I
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: did it and I'm alive. So anyways, how about you,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: You're I mean, you have you shared a little bit,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: but an example for you about and I'm probably be
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: the one in your life right Okay. So I don't
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: want to get too deep into my past because this
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: is raw, you guys, this is real. Ship for us.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: Refused to talk about past relationships very fair or do
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: it very vaguely. So I'm gonna actually, I'm gonna pull
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: from a fun example and say that current Boo and
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I when we were dating, we worked together, So I
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: kind of an amunto, right, because we don't want anybody
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: to know already there were people that work that they
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: didn't funk with me, they didn't like me, right, shout
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: out to. So I was like, here comes with the osa,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: right dating the cute new guy who everybody has a
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: crush on. How many men were there at the office,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: you know, before him? I would say, there's a hand
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: there were. There were a handful, maybe five, right, Um,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know if any of them. I think maybe
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: a few of them were like single or available, but
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: they weren't like the ones that you would date, you know.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: So well the and there there comes you know, now
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: my my partner, right, And I was like, had my
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: eye on him, and I was like, what was it
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: that caught your eye? Oh, he's tell fine, he has
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: a beautiful beard, and you know it connects. Um. He
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: takes really great care of himself and it shows he
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: you know, practices all his self care and does things
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: for himself. You know he's all about the maintenance, blah
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: blah blah. So I would say that you know, dating someone,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: were you dating someone that you work with, right, and
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: not wanting it to be obvious in the office also
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: gives it its own like rush, right when you're like
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: exchanging glances and you're texting each other like all these
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: sexy things, and while you're in the same room, you know, right,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: and like you're in a meeting and they're sitting behind
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: or he's sitting behind you, they're sitting behind you, and
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: then you know you're constantly you know that there's this
• 35:47
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