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2088 - 90 Day Fiance (s12e10) "I'm Questioning Everything" with Kimberly · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

• 0:12
  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, walk into pink shade. It's Tuesday. It's DLC Tuesday. Yes,
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: who's back, back, back again, Jimmy's back. Tell your friends, Hey, Kimberly,
• 0:22
  Speaker 1: I'm happy to have you back.
• 0:24
  Speaker 2: Hello. Don't ever call me Kimmy.
• 0:28
  Speaker 1: The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: No, No, I don't like it. Kimmy Gibbler on Full House.
• 0:36
  Speaker 2: I sometimes as a kid, and I didn't not like it.
• 0:40
  Speaker 1: I get it, I get it. I wouldn't like that either.
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: I hear you, now, I hear you. I respect you.
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: Listen my office. I'm at my house now in Virginia,
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: and I haven't been here in a month, So I
• 0:50
  Speaker 1: don't know if anybody's opened the door to my office
• 0:52
  Speaker 1: in a month, because I walked in here and I
• 0:54
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, so no air has been flowing through
• 0:56
  Speaker 1: this room.
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: So can it smell?
• 0:58
  Speaker 1: No, it just smells a little like nobody's opened the
• 1:01
  Speaker 1: door for a month, you know.
• 1:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the respector's face, So I guess, or the day.
• 1:06
  Speaker 1: I don't want the dogs to come in here to
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  Speaker 1: eat all my Poshmark stuff. So I've got a candle
• 1:10
  Speaker 1: lit and I go a little fan going, and so we'll
• 1:12
  Speaker 1: see what's happening. But you're back and people were asking
• 1:17
  Speaker 1: where you were? Would you want asked?
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  Speaker 2: You had great guest people, and no one cared.
• 1:24
  Speaker 1: I had great guests. But that doesn't mean people didn't
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  Speaker 1: want to know where you were.
• 1:29
  Speaker 2: Oh well that's night. They're just more really curious.
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: Well yes, always so tell the people where you were.
• 1:36
  Speaker 2: I had a medical thing happened. I almost died. It
• 1:43
  Speaker 2: was just as exciting as Mary Payne's almost dead. Yeah, no,
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't, damn it.
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  Speaker 1: It was pretty serious.
• 1:52
  Speaker 2: It was pretty serious, but not like that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if you would have given it another week,
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  Speaker 1: who knows.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, And I almost did, just for the story,
• 2:02
  Speaker 2: just so I could get some merry pain sympathy for
• 2:05
  Speaker 2: she almost died. Yeah. I had a bad liver number
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  Speaker 2: like twenty five times higher than it's supposed to be
• 2:16
  Speaker 2: and very dangerous to be that high, like unheard of
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  Speaker 2: to be that high, crazy, No one had ever heard
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  Speaker 2: of a number that high.
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  Speaker 1: And so literally any medical professional you spoke to was like, well,
• 2:27
  Speaker 1: that can't be right, that's not possible. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I got some like a abdomen cte MRI thing,
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  Speaker 2: and I had bile duct stone obstructions which can get
• 2:45
  Speaker 2: cause like infection and sepsis and stuff if they're not
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  Speaker 2: treated right away. Yeah, So that was in the hospital
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  Speaker 2: for four days. They took out the obstructions and they
• 2:57
  Speaker 2: took out my gallbladder the next day and they cut
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  Speaker 2: my cara. So thank you for talking about my karra
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  Speaker 2: on the show A friend that I was the friend
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  Speaker 2: with the butthole that was cut because they need to
• 3:14
  Speaker 2: get out these bile ductstones. So but I'm doing so
• 3:19
  Speaker 2: much better, and thank you. I My insides were like
• 3:25
  Speaker 2: how Shay's outsides look. But now look at me. I'm
• 3:29
  Speaker 2: thriving and I just have a bunch of incisions that
• 3:33
  Speaker 2: are still healing and stuff, and.
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: Here you are.
• 3:39
  Speaker 2: But I'm so excited to be back. Yeah, what's Shaye's excuse?
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  Speaker 2: Because look at that man who looks like death and
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  Speaker 2: I my liver was in bad shape. And look at me.
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  Speaker 2: I look, I look great, I'm glowing, and this man
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  Speaker 2: looks like he's dying of dysentery.
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  Speaker 1: He does, but you don't drink, and he does, and
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  Speaker 1: that's yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And my river was failing and I don't drink. That's
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  Speaker 2: what's crazy. This man is eighty years old, drinking out
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  Speaker 2: of a beer funnel. No, I'm so excited. Thank you
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  Speaker 2: for covering for me. You had some amazing guests. I
• 4:23
  Speaker 2: listened to all the episodes, loved them. Bring me in
• 4:26
  Speaker 2: these people full time.
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  Speaker 1: You should kick me off because they're great. That's that's
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  Speaker 1: always your concern. And I don't know. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: where that comes from. It's some sort of deep rooted
• 4:37
  Speaker 1: fear of rejection. I don't know, but like you're literally
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  Speaker 1: in the hospital saying things like, please don't replace me.
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  Speaker 2: Please. Matt already has a show.
• 4:49
  Speaker 1: So does Chris Fira, so does so does Kim.
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  Speaker 2: They can't do another show. I mean, I have another show,
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  Speaker 2: but true, it's fine. But anyway, thank you for your concern.
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  Speaker 2: I am. I'm so excited to be back and I'm
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  Speaker 2: ra going to go with these people.
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  Speaker 1: All right, But you feel better, like because you were
• 5:07
  Speaker 1: not feeling good, like the week before that. It might
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  Speaker 1: be two weeks you were not feeling well.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was not feeling well and I'm still feeling
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  Speaker 2: a little sore, but I'm feeling much better. My numbers
• 5:18
  Speaker 2: are still quite high, like five times higher than what
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  Speaker 2: they should be, but they're coming down slowly.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, good, good, because everything probably has to kind of
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  Speaker 1: get back regulated.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and my body has to learn how to not
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  Speaker 2: have a gallbledder and things like that.
• 5:36
  Speaker 1: So welcome to the club. Welcome to the no gallbladder club.
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  Speaker 1: We welcome off.
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  Speaker 2: No one needs one. If you have one, you're a loser.
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  Speaker 2: Gobbletters are so nineties.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have an appendix?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: I do too. I'm still hanging on to my appendix
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  Speaker 1: that hasn't gone out. I mean, yeah, but I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: it's next. Well, we're very glad to see you, and
• 5:58
  Speaker 1: I'm very glad that you're back, and I'm glad that
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  Speaker 1: you're doing okay, and I you are. You are a
• 6:03
  Speaker 1: famously very private person. So I just said you had
• 6:07
  Speaker 1: a medical issue that you were dealing with, and I
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  Speaker 1: thought she has to tell it. She could tell it,
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  Speaker 1: or I'll just stick with that. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Just say you have a friend with a Kara issue.
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  Speaker 1: Right, I mean, it could be anybody. It could have
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  Speaker 1: been my friend Mary, it could have been my friend Whitney.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Lots of people have Carara issues, by the way,
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  Speaker 2: Yeah they do, right that we do that that she
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  Speaker 2: does not deserve that, this sort of shaming that we
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  Speaker 2: call a body.
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  Speaker 1: Part, but you knew what it was right away.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.
• 6:36
  Speaker 1: So we have a new ad, not this week, but
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• 6:44
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• 6:47
  Speaker 1: for this show in particularly because people are so obsessed
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: with their bidets. They are, and they're going to send
• 6:54
  Speaker 1: me a T shirt because they asked a T shirts
• 6:56
  Speaker 1: eyes that says, ask me about my butthole. Stop, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I send it to Kara.
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: No, she doesn't need anybody to ask.
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  Speaker 2: Are they going to send you a bidet? Yeah? Stop,
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited for you. Yeah, I've never used one. I
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  Speaker 2: I'm very curious. High praise.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The days are in fashion largely because of the show.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like in this country.
• 7:24
  Speaker 1: I think so too.
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  Speaker 2: The Learning Channel.
• 7:27
  Speaker 1: The learning Channel, by the way, somebody sent me something
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  Speaker 1: and I think I'm going to read it when we
• 7:33
  Speaker 1: get to Katie and Josh. But did somebody else send
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: me something else that was learning? And every time they
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: send it things to me, I go, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: thank you TLC Learning.
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  Speaker 2: I do feel like I learn.
• 7:45
  Speaker 1: Oh, you learn a lot because you watch all the shows.
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  Speaker 2: I do, and I feel like like I sometimes I'll
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  Speaker 2: just know a country and then I don't know geography.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm like, I know that because of a ninety Day,
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  Speaker 2: or I know that because thank you a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I told you when we did Bingo at the Beach.
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  Speaker 1: There were some things that I knew because of the ninety
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  Speaker 1: Day about countries. Now, did I know the flag that
• 8:08
  Speaker 1: has a shipwreck on it? No, but now I know
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  Speaker 1: it's Bermuda. I We'll get that same question again. So
• 8:16
  Speaker 1: all right, let's let me pull up my notes here
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: because I had to quickly change computers because of just
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  Speaker 1: technical issues with that other one. Because it's the big
• 8:24
  Speaker 1: expensive computer, so of course it's the one that's decided
• 8:27
  Speaker 1: maybe it doesn't want to work. But I've got the
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  Speaker 1: little one, my baby Mac, and she's she's home and along.
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  Speaker 1: So ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, episode ten, I'm questioning everything.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that should just be this hole in her show.
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  Speaker 2: That should be the name of the show is ninety
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  Speaker 2: Fiance colon. I'm questioning everything.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, not to bring up a bad subject about the colon,
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  Speaker 1: but yes, by the way, your car is okay though.
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  Speaker 2: Right, oh, yeah, it's fine, Okas, I don't even feel
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  Speaker 2: that part of it. Okay, she's part of the procedure
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  Speaker 2: to get out the obstructions. I guess they don't fit naturally,
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  Speaker 2: Like how big were they?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know it normally. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: That can't be right.
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  Speaker 1: When I told Ingrid that you had a bio duct obstruction,
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  Speaker 1: she was like, oh my god, that's so serious. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, wait what, and then I got panicked. I
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  Speaker 1: go Then I started looking it up and I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I got to stop. Okay, Yeah, Katie and Josh is
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  Speaker 1: who we're going to start with. But let me read
• 9:33
  Speaker 1: you really quickly what a listener sent me. Her name
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: is Ray and like the girl that sings, I would
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  Speaker 1: like a ringing yes, like it spelled like that. So hi, MP,
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  Speaker 1: I'm watching the latest ninety day episode. I'm sure you've
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  Speaker 1: gotten a ton of messages from fellow listeners, but I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to offer a perspective on Katie. I. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: Ray gave me her permission. I asked her, I am
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  Speaker 1: diagnosed with OCD and I'm so disappointed that she's simultaneously
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  Speaker 1: misrepresenting what OCD is and using it as justification for
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  Speaker 1: her impulsive behavior. OCD is so misunderstood. It's traditionally been
• 10:13
  Speaker 1: seen as the cleaning disease, and while contamination type OCD
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  Speaker 1: is real, I have somebody in my family that has that.
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  Speaker 1: That's like obsessed with clean. Is so much more complex
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  Speaker 1: than that. It's also ego dystonic. Ego dystonic, meaning the
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  Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts someone has are actually the opposite of what
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  Speaker 1: their core values are. So people with OCD are terrified
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: of accidentally or impulsively acting on their thoughts. I see,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know that. That's interesting. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: totally invalidate her experience. She's been in treatment, but I
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  Speaker 1: highly suspect there are other diagnoses here at play here,
• 10:56
  Speaker 1: and or an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. You think sorry,
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: I wrote a novel, just wanted to share my experience
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  Speaker 1: of what it's like to have OCD and watch this season.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, Ray. I think that this is super interesting
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: that she says, your intrusive thoughts are opposite of what
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  Speaker 1: your values are, So I think that's really really interesting.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's part of it, but we'll get to it.
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  Speaker 2: But I also think she is very conflicted Katie because
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  Speaker 2: she does not want to settle down yea, and so
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  Speaker 2: she is self sabotaging a lot of this.
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  Speaker 1: Yea.
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  Speaker 2: She does not want to marry him, so part of her,
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  Speaker 2: I think does want to live and drink and make
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: out and do that. But then when she tries to
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: buckle down and say I'm not going to do this,
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  Speaker 2: her thoughts patterns go in a cycle and make her
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: want to do it even more. It's like if you
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  Speaker 2: have a fear of heights and you stand on like
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  Speaker 2: a balcony your skin that your body just might jump,
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  Speaker 2: Like I think that's it's and it's very scary, and
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: you don't want to jump. You're scared of heights. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you feel like your body might just do it and
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  Speaker 2: you can't stop it, and you're scared that happens.
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  Speaker 1: That's interesting because I am scared of heights and that's
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  Speaker 1: how I feel. I feel like, well, this one is
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: gonna crack and I'm gonna fall through, you know, mm
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: hmm yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Or like you get in your head like I'm in
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  Speaker 2: if you're in like church or temple, and you are like,
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  Speaker 2: what if I just yelled out something right now? I
• 12:29
  Speaker 2: shouldn't do it. Oh my god, what if I do it?
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  Speaker 2: What if my body just does it like that?
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  Speaker 1: I've never had that thought.
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: That's thought that I've had. So yeah, I think, But
• 12:39
  Speaker 2: I think there's a plethora, a constellation of ailments going on,
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: like with Shae, also with Katee. But up here in
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  Speaker 2: the noggin.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Shay's are mostly physical. God bless.
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  Speaker 2: Oh god, we're starting with these, Yeah, we're starting with them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, oh god. Okay, let me get my
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: notes because I just don't like talking about them. So oh,
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  Speaker 2: I was like kind of hoping they would be off
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  Speaker 2: the show. I didn't really have anything wrong with me.
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  Speaker 2: I was just hiding out. I was just trying to
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: wait out their time on the show.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: So I did like what Kim from Craig Kray said
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: about Katie not having enough shame. I thought that was
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: so spot on and she and I because I say
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: it all the time about society, like people in society
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: now because of social media, because of reality shows, like
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: and people on the Internet just trying to become famous,
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: like no one has enough shame, Like like people would
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: rather be the villain of a reality show than not
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: be on a reality show, like oh they get the
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: villain edit because they're on TV or I'm on social media.
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  Speaker 2: I went viral because I blew off my left testicle
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: doing fireworks. But at least I went viral even though
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: I was, even though my parents lie and say they
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: don't have any children because they're so embarrassed of me.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: That's a great point. I forgot Kim made that point,
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: but you're right. You're completely right on that. Yeah.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: There's a woman on last season of Below Deck, which
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: is now like love Island on a boat. It's just
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: like trashy hookups all the time now, and it used
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: to be about people working at their job.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: She on the first night out with her new coworkers said, oh,
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  Speaker 2: on my last charter, I left the boat with three
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  Speaker 2: STDs and she was laughing and bragging about it. Ew
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  Speaker 2: because that's what her online persona was going to be,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: like the party girl.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: At the party grade STDs.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, ragging about it.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: I don't think that's cute, now, mother, My mother would
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: be horrif exactly.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: So, Katie is going on a run with her friend Ryan,
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: and she is just shockingly inflexible and has no balance
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  Speaker 2: for someone who claims to be a runner and is
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: in their twenties. She couldn't even touch her knees bending
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  Speaker 2: over it.
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  Speaker 1: She's so can you. I don't understand people to get
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: so hungover and then decide to exercise.
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  Speaker 2: No, I think that's a weird cycle that has to
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: do with the drinking cycle, and maybe some body issues too,
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  Speaker 2: an exercise compulsion that's like a punishment after you drink
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: or overeat. I think there might be some of that
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: in play too, because this woman looks horrible like her face.
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  Speaker 2: It looks like what SHA's insides and mine were recently,
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: like like if the liver disease, going to jail, losing
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: your job, breaking up your marriage, all of those negative
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: side effects of drinking. Don't turn you off. Katie's face
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: should and shase you, guys.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: Kimberly's back and at date dateline is where you can
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: DM or any comments.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: She has no color, No, she has bags under her eyes.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: She looks like death, and she's like, let's go on
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: a run. So also, Shae is Katie's future. If she
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: keeps up that look in the mirror, Katie, you are
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: going to turn into Shae. It's gonna be one of
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: those that you look in the mirror and a different
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: reflection comes back at you and it's Shae and Anna
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Bell's behind him, like, stop drinking, Katie, Katie, you don't
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: want to look like my man. So she says, I'm
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: worried that Josh is reaching his breaking point and won't
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: want to be with me if I keep acting like
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: I'm acting. Yeah, I think that's why she's acting like that.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: I think because she does not want to marry him.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I think sabotage.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Yes, I think it's or just.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Sabotage, because it's just not even self sabotaged to sabotage.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: She's trying to sabotage it because she's doing that instead
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: of taking any accountability, she's just going to sabotage it
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: to be like, well, yeah, I'm a fuck up. So
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: that's why he left me. But that's what she wanted
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: instead of like saying to him, I don't want to
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: do this.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: And she did say last week or a few weeks ago,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I didn't want to do this. K one Right now,
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: I know, I mean.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Whether why they're still there, I don't know. He's just
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: constantly posting on Instagram.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: So she explains, I tell myself to make out, to
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: not make out with people, and then I tell myself
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: stop obsessing over these thoughts. Then I sort of relax,
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: and then I make out with people. So it's a
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: weird vicious cycle. And she says, I need to control
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: my drinking. Finally, finally it's brought up. Finally ten Yeah.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: So and then Ryan says, I'm worried about your relationship
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: with alcohol, and she goes, why why.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: She doesn't feel good? She can't. Her synapses are not
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: going together in her brain. It's not it's it's terrible.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: She looks terrible, she feels terrible.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Oh girl, Okay, and again, and we do think there
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: are multiple things. There are multiple isms going on. One
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: might be I suspect autism or aspergers, and one is alcoholism.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: So there are so many isms going on right now,
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: and at least one of them is finally being addressed.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: So he says, you know, you can be very fun
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: and chill, but drunk Katie does things that sober Katie regrets,
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: and all of your friends regret because you physically assault them.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's all last week where two of her
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: friends had their hands just fully on her face, fully,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: two different guys putting their whole hand directly on her face.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: And again, if the roles were reversed, and this was
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: a man trying to do this to a woman.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: He would be kicked off the TV.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: I mean, well not this show, not this show, but
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: other shows.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: So he says, you know a lot of the drama
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: in your life comes from alcohol, and you keep doing it.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: So Ryan tells us he's concerned that Katie is self
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: destructing her happiness. Yes, Katie says, well, you know, Josh
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: told me this morning that he was disappointed in me,
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: and it made me feel very sad and bad and bad.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: And she's worried that she's going to ruin her life.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: And he says, do you think Josh will actually leave you?
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: And she's like, I think I'm pushing the limit. And
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: he says, why do you think Josh keeps forgiving you?
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: Because no one else would with it.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: America is not just so much more wonderful than England
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: that he's like trying to get here. He could visit
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: at any time. We have an open door policy with England.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: You know, some people on Reddit suggested he has a kink,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: like a shame kink, you know, like likes to be humiliated.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Okay, and now I know if you heard of that, Yeah,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: but that's a no.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: But that's when people are like, is he just really
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: actually into this because he feels like he's not worthy
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: of it. So he likes being humiliated in public and
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: being cuckolded constantly. No, I don't think that's what that's happening,
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: So she says, I think he thinks I'll be a
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: good partner long term? Does he?
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: Does he want?
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: But he's overlooking my past behavior and your current behavior.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Yesterday's behavior as well. Yes, and probably tonight's probably tonight
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: if luck comes her way, probably tonight. Yeah.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: And that actually I did some you were talking with
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: somebody about how she's not that great when she drinks,
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: and she's also not that great when she's sober, and
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: because she's kind of mean to him, like about the
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: money spending. Yeah, I think she's constantly in a state
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: of being hungover, which makes you angry. She's like a
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: and if she goes one day without drinking, I think
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: she's like a dried drunk, like that sort of anger.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: That is, you have all the you're not drunk, but
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: you have all the you.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Know, behaviors of a drunk. Yes, I know.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So she's never just one hundred percent clear headed
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: without either being drunk or being reacting from being without alcohol.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I get all that is correct.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: Yes, So she's worried that Josh will stop and he
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: won't have he'll have had enough and he'll leave her.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: And because of her OCD, the fear is torturing her
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: instead of taking steps to fix it. So it's that
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: just kind of an ADHD thing too, Like it's the
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: task of fixing it is so overwhelming, So she just
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: sits and stews in the fear of him leaving her.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: So you do not right, Yeah, So she says it
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: would break her heart if he leaves her, and she
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: loves him, she doesn't want to mess it up. Okay,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: she doesn't treat him like she loves him. But Ryan says,
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: I know you're on the clock to get married the
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: ninety days, but maybe you shouldn't be. And she says,
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: I agree. Realistically we should not be getting married right now,
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: but we have to if we're doing this. And she
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: says she's torn between settling down and being young and
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: having fun and one second she'll she'll in one second
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: she'll flip between wanting to marry him and then thinking,
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: if we get married, will be miserable.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting that Kim Cray when she was on.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: She pointed out that everybody gets married on the OG
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: ninety days. She's like, they almost always get me all
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: the time. My dad she's like, I'm sure they get married.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I was like, it's crazy that we're twelve seasons in
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: and I'm still like, do you think they're going to
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: get married? She was right also.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: Because we fall for it every My dad was like,
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: they're not going to get married. They're not going to
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: get married. I was like, if we did the stats,
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: ninety nine percent of the people get married. They might
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: get divorced later, but we we see a wedding, which
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: makes you think these issues are fabricated for this show. Yes,
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: people really want to come to America or willing to
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: overlook horrible things in their relationships. Yeah, a meto.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: I mean when I was watching them this week, I
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: was like, I can't wait to this reunion. I hope
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: everybody just rips them a new one.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: I know. I hope he wears leggings to the reunion.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: And a tank top. I hope everybody listened to my
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: interview with Mallory so cute.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: She's so how fun is she?
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: She's so fun? I could have talked to her all day.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: I know you guys felt like like you're just Southern
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: gals having.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's really really cute. She really loves her a
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: medical coding career, which I liked that. She was like,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: she's very into it. And you know, the dogs were
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: just you could hear the little nails like all.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Over the floor.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I was like, how many dogs do you have in there?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Like twelve? She was like it feels like it. Yeah,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: So okay, let's move on to Asha and Maxwell. All Right,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: this is a great episode because I get to speak
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: in tongue, So everybody to get ready for that. Asia's mom, Juliette.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know what I have. Every time she comes out.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: She doesn't look like a Juliette to me. No, so
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: I'll just keep writing it down. So yeah, Asia's mom Juliette,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: and Maxwell's family Maria Clement and Blaze. Well Blaze is Adariot,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: but their shit talking about Asia's age. Right, That's where
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: we come in because Maria Blaze has just come in
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: and Maria says to Blaze, do you know something that
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: mama just told me? What did you know? Asha is
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: one hundred and forty.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Six years old.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: And Blaize goes what she says, yes, thirty eight, and
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: she goes, what huh? She says, well, she's way older than.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: They're like, where where is her wheelchair?
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: She can't?
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Where are those dentures? My god? She doesn't even smell
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: like hard candy and mouthfalls.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: She needs to get her her testrascerone pellette in her
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: ass right away.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: Asting like I wish when they When she walks in later, Asia,
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: they had gotten up and like guided her to seat here,
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: let me help.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: You now, Juliet Asia's mom is sitting there just drinking
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: her wine, like, well she's old, all right, thirty eight?
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: Whoa and did all this?
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: It's so funny. She started the whole thing. She didn't care,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: so the talking had. Blaze uses a Rachel Zoe line
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: from Real House as the Beverly Hills. She goes, is Maxwell, okay,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: that's hilarious. She goes that age difference is too much.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I thought I thought they were joking. Surely she's not
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: thirty eight. So then Asia and Maxwell come in and
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: a She's like, okay, everybody, I brought the snacks and
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: she tells us, Okay, we're gonna have these snacks we're
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: gonna have these drinks and we're going to tell them
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: about our decision to get married. So Maxwell says, all right, everybody,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: we want to let you know that while Asia is
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: in Nigeria, there's gonna be a little wedding. We're going
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: to get the documents and go ahead and apply for
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: the spouse of visa. And Juliet says to Maria, Mama.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: They call each other mom and mama is so funny.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: She goes, Mama, are you disappointed? And Maria goes, I'm
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: just surprised, and Blay says, I am bothered. I have
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: just found out she is way older than you, ten years.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: The difference is too large. And Maxwell says, where are
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: you talking about this? And how did you know? Juliet
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: put their glass of wines like I said it. I
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: said it. And Maxwell says, okay, this is how the
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: mommy knows because the other mommy told so when you're talking,
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: head Asious says, I deliberately did not tell these people
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: my age. My mom spilled the beans and to me,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: it's between me and Maxwell and they don't need to
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: have any opinion on it. And with that, I agree.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: I agree. Yeah, so Blaze says.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Did she tell her mom not to say anything though
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: these people?
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: She did? I think she did, and I think mom
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: got you know, she's not eating much and they get
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: out red wine. She's just like whoa. Blaze says, Look,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: I love you as it's a compliment, sandwich. Here we go.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: I love you as a person, and I think you
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: have a good character and personality. But I'm not supporting
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: the age difference. God sets the rules of marriage, because
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Maxwell goes who says you have to be a certain
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: age to get married, and she says, God sets the
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: rules on marriage. Ninety eight percent of marriage is the
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: man is older than the wife. Otherwise it is hard
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: to submit to the husband because you will always remember
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: that you're older than him. So I cannot approve. And
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: this is too much. Asia says, So if you love
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: me as a person, just judge me as a person,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: not based on a statistic. And this is why you
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: gotta remember Ashia does have a doctorate. She is a smart,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: smart person. Even though she kind of seems a little airheady,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: she is smart. And then the dad, Clement says to Maxwell,
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: this is not what I've expected from you, and I
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: don't like this. So Asia says that you're talking to it.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: All they need to worry about is that we are
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: walking down the all and there is nothing they can
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: do about it. It is God ordained period.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: I really don't think you need to stop saying that
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: because God had your visa denied, so that's true. Perhaps
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: there's a some static on the line with God.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I think God, God really wants them to get married
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: in Nigeria. Okay, So Blaise says, right, but all of
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: these things will take time. And then how long after
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: he comes to your country will you birth kids? And
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: she says, I don't know, like a year. He has
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: to get a job, he has to get settled. We're
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: not going to do it right away. And then a
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: she goes, why are you so worried about this? Who
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: created time? God? And God put us together in a
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: certain time, So we will trust God's timing, right, sweetie.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: And then she goes, and also, in America, we have options.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: We can freeze eggs, we can have zergas, blah blah blah.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: You know, yeah, Angela coutote it for me.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I appreciate they have those options in Nigeria as well.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: You know, yeah, probably. I love this blaming God for everything.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I murdered someone, but it was God
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: ordained because it happening. And God is the plants and
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: the trees and the everything, So.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Get on board God. So I'm talking to her. She says,
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: fertility is really personal, and we're also faith based people,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: so why don't they have faith? Let's get biblical, Okay.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: In the Bible, Sarah was ninety years old when she
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: had her first child, So if God wants it to happen,
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: it will happen. Now listen, I'm not a biblical scholar,
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: nor did I read this particular part of the Bible,
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: but I'm highly doubting this. Somebody gave birth at ninety
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: years old?
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: How dare you? Mary Payne, I'm just saying that happened.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: The arc happened, It all happened. It's right there in
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: the Bible.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I would be willing to bet that a man built
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: an arc and put two of every animal on it
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: before I would believe that a ninety year old woman
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: gave birth.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: It's true.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: It's true.
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: Also, I feel like they need to look into how
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: a lot of religion. I'm not going to say anything okay.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Then Blay says, okay, so that didn't work about the age, okay,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: so all right, I got another thing. I worried about
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: her treating him bad in the future. And Juliette says,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: he's a grown she's still swilling. He's a grown man, Maxwell,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna let her mistreat you? And he goes,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: she won't even try it, except for at the restaurant
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: earlier and then before when we were upstairs, But after that,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: she won't even try it, even when she talked about
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: my eyeballs, in my hairline and my skin. Besides that,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: she won't even try it. She respects me one hundred percent.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: And he goes, but you all keep talking about submission.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: But in the Bible it says a man and a
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: woman sub submit to each other. It's not just the
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: woman submits to the man. And I have always told
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: you I am not looking for a wife. I am
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: looking for a partner, and with Asia, I have found
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: a partner and I like that. Yeah, now I believe
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: in their love.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: Oh stop, okay, I do.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: I believed in it before, but now I really believe
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: in it. So Blai says, well, your mom says you
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: won't mistreat him, so I'll believe her. And then she
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: and then she finishes off her compliment sandwich with I
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: don't hate you, yep, I love you. I love you.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: I just have fears. When somebody says I don't hate you,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: they hate.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: You, they hate you. Why else would that you say that?
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Why else would you say? I would never just go
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: up to my friend and be like, hey, are you doing.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: I'm glad to check on you. And also I don't
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: hate you. Yeah, it's a weird thing to say. She says,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: she just has fears, and Asa said, Asha says, the
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: number one thing here is the Kingdom of God, and
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: Clement says, okay, yes, and I have decided age is
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: not Age is just a number and it doesn't matter.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: God told me just now, five.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Minutes ago, you said I don't want this for you,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: my son. This is you're making a bad decision. But
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: now he heard about Sarah and the ninety and then
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Mom says, you know what, You're right. God blessed Sarah
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: and she was old. So at least Asha has not
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: reached Sarah's age.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: I mean five or six. Here she will because that's
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: how they're acting.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: But ninety yeahinety so Dad says, okay, so God can
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: still bless Asia and Maxwell with children, yes, and A
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: she goes, okay, so now that we've all agreed on that,
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: let's join hands in pray. And she says, our father
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: who are in heaven. I was like, she's gonna do
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: the Lord's prayer, but she starts with our father who
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: are in heaven, you know, bless everybody whose hands are
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: touching here today, and a.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: La la la la la la la la lah blah
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: blah blah.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Amen, nobody bass and I nobody laughs. Nobody goes, what
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: the fuck just happened?
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: No, she did that the first time she was there.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: They probably laugh about it. She's gonna come. Do you
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: think she's gonna do the tongues. Yeah, she's probably gonna tongues.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Maxwell are You're gonna have to learn that language?
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Good luck? Maxwell. So I don't want to, okay, I
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: don't want to start the pregnant thing again like we
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: did Viva, because we were wrong, but everybody was wrong
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: to not just us. Yeah. I do think Asha in
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: one of these dresses does appear to have a baby bump.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: Oh interesting that she.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Seems to be masking with a wild pattern.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: We were right with Anna Lynn, so we were fifty
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: fifty last season and they put them both in baby
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: Dell dresses.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: Yes, and this dress she's got on has got kind
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: of the right under the boob thing.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: So and you know they film all these talking heads
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: like at all different times, so it could be when
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: they filmed you know anyway. Yep, just saying And then
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: I said, how long ago did she say she saw
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: him before this? Because it was a few months.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: I thought it was eight months though.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: See I thought I was practically a year because they
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: thought the visa was coming. Yeah, so she definitely is
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: only there like three weeks.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: So she was frount enough time.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: But it could be.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: But next week in the preview it was a fake
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: out pregnancy.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: So now you're not the only one.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: So what if right when she got there, she was
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: ovulating and got pregnant and she is like club yes
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: right away, And then what if like when they're filming
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: these talking heads, like four months later, she's alone, she's
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: in Alabama and she looks pregnant exactly, or what if
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: it's just an illfitting dress exactly? Speaking of ill fitting, clothes.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about Marissa and Edward. Oh yeah, not everybody
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: should wear leggings, guys, not everybody. Medo for example. Mito
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: is a great example. And yes it might be another example.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: There we go in my opinion, guess who else should
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: wear leggings this gal.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not saying we should.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no, no.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Marissa and long suffering Edward. So she comes in, Hey,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: I need to talk to you. I just had to
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: redo all the trash. I told you to take the
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: trash out to the curb? Did you understand me when
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: I said that? And he's like, curve the curve. He
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: didn't understand curb. And she's like okay, and he's like,
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: but I did I tick out the trash And she says,
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: you need to make it neat. You can't just throw
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: everything out there. And it's looking like a total disaster.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: My neighbors are gonna think we're pavos. So he's like,
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: I don't it's trash. But he didn't do it right.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: And she's like, I'm not gonna get aggravated if you
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: don't know a word, but I need you to like
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: understand what I'm saying. It's a lot on my shoulders
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: for me to teach you every little thing. So I
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: just need you to listen and comprehend what I'm saying.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: What's wrong with her?
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: She's what?
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about the trash. Do you think he
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: he just took some trash bags and put them on
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: the curb. But maybe he was supposed to go in
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: the garage and get the can and roll it out
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: to the curb, but he didn't know there was a
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: big can in the garage that you roll out, like
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: he thought, Oh, I just take these bags from the kitchen.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: I think he brought the cans out and they were
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: askew from how they should be. Really, I think it
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: was that little of a thing. And she's because everything
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: this is a disaster. Oh if it's not perfectly her way, okay.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: And maybe one of the bags was like sitting next
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: to it or on top of the bin because the
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: bin was overflowing.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Like, although we did see what that fence looked like,
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: I mean, she.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Is she posted this week that the fence is still
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: like that and she needs like anybody local they can
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: help me with the fence.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's been months. If you really cared about the fence.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: You could have had someone else fix the fence. You
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: could pay someone to fix the fence.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: I think it's a hilarious talking point to be like,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: look at my cartoon fence.
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: If people are driving by taking pictures, is that the
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: fence from the Learning Channel, I saw it a ninety
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: day fiance. That's the famous fence.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Last week we talked when you Weren't here about Marissa's
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: mom had posted on somewhere. Yes, I saw it about
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: the whole thing about what makes Marissa's special, and she
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: was saying it like my daughter's a loser. It was
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: because he said he had been married to an American before,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: and the American moved to the dr and he never
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: wanted to move to the United States. Do you find
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I found that shocking.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: I am never shocked by what they leave out on
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: this show. It's crazy, like remember Lauren had children, Lauren
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: with the seafood in the bathroom? Yeah no, I yeah,
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: that is very interesting her, the mom and Marissa are
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: just so defensive online about how they're being portrayed, and
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: it is making them even more unlikable.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I can't wait to the renew when the mom
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: comes on and then maybe Sean Robinson or Ross Matthews
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: will say, who did your face? What is incredible?
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, So Marissa tells us it's been tough. It's
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: taking him longer to integrate into the culture, and I
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: should have I should be more patient, but I was
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: under a different impression of how things would go.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: What who What was the impression?
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: How did you get that impression? It's making me second
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: guess if this is the right thing for me. It's
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: always for me, it's never once for him. So she
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: goes to meet her gorgeous mother. God, that would suck
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: constantly being compared to your mom, and that neck skin
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: is just staring in the face all the time.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Perfect, just like perfect.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: So she bitches to her mom that Edward has been
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: trying to help out, but he's messing everything up and
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: that he's not an idiot. She says that.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: To give him the benefit of the doubt that he's
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: not an idiot.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: This is a great way to get your mom to
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: approve of him. But to complain and say you're giving
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: him the benefit of the doubt that he's not an idiot.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: So mom says, well, he doesn't know the area, the culture.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: That gets old after a while, and she talks like
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: old money, and Marisa says, he's so warm and so
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: great and I'm always criticizing him and it's not nice.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: And then we see a montage of her yelling at him.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: He's like, bro, and she's like, don't call me bro.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: Can I taste this? Don't taste it with your fingers.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: That's disgusted, just constantly him sitting in the back seat
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: of the car because for some reason her child gets
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: to sit in the front seat and mom defends her
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: and he's like, you can't be nice all the time.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: He's too nice. That's not good. He needs to stand
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: up for himself or he'll start to resent you. And
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: Marisa says, yeah, he does need to stand up to me.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: He needs to be a man. God, I hate that
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: this is the Paula Russ thing on Last Resort.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Well that's justified because he's.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a doormat. So Marisa says, I've been upfront and
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: honest about how I'm feeling, and he just says we'll
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: figure it out, like no big deal. And that's not
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: appropriate when I say I have doubts and which my
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: favorite last line of a movie ever.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: Yes, doubt, I have doubts.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: So she tells her mom that she has doubts and
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: she loves him, but you know he is going to
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: contribute and he has to get up to speed or
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna lose it. It's always like speed with her, like
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: just relax.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't understand how she expects him to
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: just again, No, the morning routine, No, the nighttime routine.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: Know when people need to be picked up? No, what exactly?
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: The recycling goes on the left of the trash goes
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: all the right, Like, how is he supposed to know? No?
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: And Mom says, well, he's a nice guy, but you
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: can't teach someone to have fire in their belt in
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: ninety days if you don't see ambition, it's not there.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: And Mom says, you know, keep your head on straight,
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: and she's like, but in her talking head, she's like,
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: I'm thrilled that Marissa has doubts. Basically, that's it. She's like,
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: did you hear that she's starting to have doubts? And
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: she doesn't think Edward fulfills every part of her perfect, charming, smart,
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: gorgeous daughters on life on every level and that's what
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: she deserves. So then she takes Marisa takes Edward to
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: the park to talk, and finally she says, how are
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: you feeling about things? First time? Yeah, she says, I
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: feel like I've been very rude and snippy to him,
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: and I feel badly about it, but I can't help it.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: He's just so dumb.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, bangan every single night is not enough. I'm
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: gonna need it a day to be nicer. Yeah.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So he says, you know, I've been a little aggravated,
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: and I know I can't communicate it perfectly in English,
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: but I'm new in your country and it's taking me
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: time to learn things. And you know, he says, yes,
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: it's been hard for you. You talk about it every
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: fucking day, but it's been hard for me as well.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: I'm the one who left my entire life to move
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: to a new country. He says, I feel so much
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: pressure to be perfect, and if I speak up, there's
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: a problem, but if I stay quiet, there's a problem.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: So I feel stuck and I feel like I can't
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: do anything right. And he says, she's very impatient with me,
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: and she gives me attitude and then she's never with
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: anything I do. And so she says to him straight up,
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: I've been a bitch and I'm embarrassed by my behavior.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Good.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: She's on an apology tour this week, and she says,
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: I've been feeling fears that have clouded my behavior. My
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: fears because of your dumbness have made me be a bitch.
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: So it's really your fault that I've been a bitch. Correct, yes,
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: So she tells him she's having serious doubts about the relationship.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: And she says, have you had doubts And he says no,
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: and she says, well, you always think the best of
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: every situation, and I think the worst. And he says,
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: in my life, I haven't had a choice to just
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: stop and cry. I just have to make things work.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: And so she says, well, I'm sorry, I don't have
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: the same conviction that you do. I need you to
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: understand why I'm not sure. And he gets upset and
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: he gets up and walks away for a minute, and
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: he tells us, you know, if she wants to walk away,
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: she can walk away. I know my value and I'm
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: not going to drag myself on the floor for anyone.
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: I don't have to endure this shit from anyone. And
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: I was like, good for you, Edward and your newly
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: circumcised penis has found their balls finally.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Oh and I loved it all. They were showing the
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: shot of her sitting on the grass, but like the
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: shot was behind her over to where he was talking
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: to production. Yes, and she's like, I wonder what they're
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: talking about over there. I was like, wow, they really
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: don't take them very far to talk to him.
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: The sound doesn't carry I guess in that field that
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: they were in. So he goes back and she's like,
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: you know, this is part of the how you feel
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: in buddy, how you doing? Like she says, you know,
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: this is part of the process. We have to stay.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: We have to have these hard conversations to make our
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: bond stronger, to make sure that when it comes to
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: our wedding, we are good to go because we've had
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: all these hard conversations. And it doesn't mean I don't
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: love you. I don't hate you, and I hate you
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: brought you here if I didn't love you. But you
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: need to be able to manage through these hard conversations
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: and difficult moments. And he says, my life has been difficult.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: I know how to be in difficult things. And she's like,
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: then why do you just walk away? And he says,
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: because I don't like to show weak weakness. I don't
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: want people to see me like a crying like a
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: little girl. And she says, it's okay to show emotions
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: and if you don't, then I'm always the crazy one
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: that's showing emotions. And I feel better after letting these
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: emotions come out, and you deserve to feel better too,
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: And I need you to show emotions or we're not
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: going to make it. So fix your emotions too, and
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: the way you take out the trash, and she says,
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: I need him to put me in check and be
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: a man. And maybe when he just says I love you,
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: I love you, everything's fine, I love you, It's going
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: to work out. Isn't actually real. It's making me think
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: like he doesn't really feel like that. He's just putting
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: on a facade and he's just using me to get
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: to America and doesn't really love me. That's why that's
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: where I'm spiraling, because he never shows negative emotions, so
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: that can't be real.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: But I mean, I feel like she's known him for
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: a long time, and if this is the way he's
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: always been, then this is the way he is, you know.
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: A positive person who is like, I'm going to make
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: the best of the situation no matter what.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And she's like, I'm just gonna be as mean
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: as possible to get him to be mean back to me.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: So he shows emotion, but if he's not that kind
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: of person, he's not going.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: To do it totally. Yeah.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Oh this glady, Okay. I mean, maybe she's going to
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: have some sort of a fantastic redemption arc, but I
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: hope so.
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: I don't know, because she's really one of the most
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: unlikable people we've She's it's been rough, unfortunately.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: Shae and Annabelle, all right, well, oh god, we opened
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: with a lot of wooo woo woo Shay baby, Shay baby,
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: what woo? And Shae, a fifty five year old man
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: is doing a beer funnel with a bunch of twenty
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: year olds.
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: No one this close to death from scurvy should be
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: drinking out of a beer funnel.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: He later says to her, that's how you drink alcohol faster, baby.
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: You don't need to drink it faster. You just set
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: up an IV and get it right into your veins.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: Is that how badly you need to drink? I mean,
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: what is wrong with you?
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: It's awful. So he walks up to Annabel, who's sitting
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: in a chair, and he goes, hey, you doing my
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: pretty little Filippine almost sit by you, and she's like uh.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: She turns around and he tries to kiss her, and
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: she kind of does like okay and pushes him away,
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: and he goes, give me that tongue. Let me see
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: that tongue. If somebody said that to me, I just
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: stood up and said, that's it.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: I just threw up into my mouth a little.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: All these people are leaving. You're never allowed to see
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: any of them again. You're no longer drinking. Sell this
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: lake house. Let's go like that. If that is what
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: you think is cute or funny, that's discussing.
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: Especially coming out of his mouth with his teeth, the
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: smells that must come from that mouth.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: And her face is like oola. So here's something that
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: I've noticed here that I've noticed a couple of times
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: on this show they mention more than once, and this
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: happens with other couples that these two are married, and
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: they don't edit that out I know. So it's either
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: sloppy production or they are married, or it's just a
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: drunk girl saying it. Nobody corrects her, but nobody says
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: they're not married.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: So it's very weird. Perhaps they did get married one
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: of the times that he visited her. Yeah, yeah, and
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: this is a spousal visa.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I don't Yeah, okay.
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: But we still don't know the timeline of him being
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: with her and being with what's her face and having
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: a baby and having good Right, this whole thing is murky,
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: as murky as his teeth.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: It's worthy. It's murky, like Forrest and Sheena like our
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: first I ever seeing each other. But then we see
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: pictures from twenty nineteenth together. Yeah, yep, so this girl
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: Aspen is talking to his daughter Alison saying, you know,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: it's wild to see Annabela in person, Like I didn't
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: even know he was married, and I was like, wow,
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: he's had a wife this whole summer, and Allison goes, yeah,
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: he's not single, he's married or like about to be married.
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I gotta get my lines right.
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: So if it's true, and this is all sort of
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: how they've messed up the timeline here, the production didn't cut.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: This is weird, Yeah it is.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: That makes me think they're just drunk and saying wife
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: when they mean fiance.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: Right, It's like Dia on Love after lock up, Who's like, well,
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: I was in a twenty year marriage, yeah, and then
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: I was this this guy for two years and now
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: I've been with this guy for one year. I was like,
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: you're only thirty, so you got married when you were ten.
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: Also the fact that this can we just talk about
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: this party? I know you already talked about with Kim
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: the like people. Yeah, the band.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: It's like it's just a guy, but.
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: They have like fake music playing over it. But like
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: because they don't have rights to I don't know. But
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: like no one's even raising their voice like they're at
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: a party. It's just because there's it is like there's
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: like eight people there, right, It's it's like a parody
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: of Malory's White Trash Party, except that party actually looked
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: fun and this party looks so lame. It's like people
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: just standing around like at an eighth grade dance or something. Yeah,
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: it's so stupid.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: See bring your own share, Like, yeah, it was it
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: was like a like going to a kid's soccer game,
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: bring your own chair in.
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it literally it just didn't even look fun. Like
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: drunk people are supposed to be a tiny bit fun
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: so you can put up with their dumb antics. These
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: people are not even being fun.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: And I kind of wonder if this was in the fall,
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: right when the time changed, so it probably did get
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: dark like at six, But they told everybody to come
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: like at four thirty, and you're only going to film
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: into like ten thirty, and then that's when the real
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: fun's going to start, but we're not going.
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: To get to see it. That's totally possible. I disagree
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: with Kim that these people are going to bed by ten.
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: I think, oh yeah, no, no, no, because half of
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: them are twenty year olds for some reason are partying
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: with sixty year olds.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I don't understand this at all. I don't understand this dynamic.
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: So I think these girls hang out with Shade because
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: he's buying them alcohol. Yeah, and they're friends with his daughter, yes,
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: and maybe one might sleep with him if she was
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: really drunk and she thought she could marry him without
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: a prenap because he looks like he might die soon,
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: so you might not have to be with him for
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: that long, right.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: I don't think one of these girls has any thought
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: of sleeping with him. I think they just like flirt
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: with him, like he's the gross old drunk dad at
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: the party and he'll buy us free stuff. Yeah. So
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: we get this new girl group. It's Chandler, Aspen, and
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: Hallie dressed in the exact same outfit and they're maximum
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: thirty years old, maximum and they're all dressed alike. And
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Aspen says, you know, Shay, he's such a big flirt
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: and he told me he would buy me an island,
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: and you know, he's asked me to stay the night
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: here and stuff, and it's all I have to say
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: about that. She's the one that said she didn't know
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: he was married, so yeah.
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: Right, she's the one who might I feel like maybe
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: is looking for a rich husband that she could be
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: on easy Street for until he dies.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I guess Shaye considered rich and Paduca.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: I just can't tell.
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: He said island. Also, let's stop talking about islands. We
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: don't need to take Epstein's island has made islands bad.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: Let's stop talking about buying people islands.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: You don't have island kind of money. Shit you don't
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: even have like.
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: You again, like Mary Payne said, you have three trailers
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: to your name.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: So really, yeah, yes, uh don't and don't forget that
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: Nichole's shit. He has that too.
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: So now the band is playing. It's a guy with
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: a guitar, and that's when he says, like she comes
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: up and he's doing like a funnel, you know, a
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: beer bong and she comes up and she goes like,
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: what are you doing? And he goes, wait's funny. Let
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: you drink a faster, baby, and she says I could
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: tell you're drunk. He goes, harmy beers? You think I hired?
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: She goes like twenty. He goes, no, baby, I had
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: like six. You had six and that beer funnel? What
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: are you talking about? And then he goes, no, maybe
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: I had had that many. And he looks over at
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: that other lady that was there earlier, like can you
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: believe this? Get a little and she goes, you know what,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: I have a headache. I'm going to bed. He goes, nah, nah,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: don't start. We got friends here. They're all here to
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: say you babe, and Nicole says Annabel, this is a
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: Lake party. That makes a difference.
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: So they talk about these like this is the met Gala,
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: like we should all know what this is. Yes, this
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: is legendary across the world. So how have you not
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: heard of lake parties? This is the Lake party because
• 57:35
  Speaker 2: she's birthday.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: So she goes, Okay, I'm gonna go inside and put
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: you to bed because I'm going back. I'm going back
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: to the party. These people are here. It's kind of
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: embarrassing from me, babe, it's kind of embarrassing. And she goes,
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: you're drunk and you're flirting with people, and I don't
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: want to be around you. And he goes, come on,
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: let's go back to the party. Let's go have fun.
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: Come on, and you're talking to it. She says, these
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: people are drunk and I want to go to bed.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: I do not want to deal with us. So he
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: goes back out to the party and he's like, you know,
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: white man over white dancing.
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: And the talking head Alison pulls a chakana and says,
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: I don't like that she's bossing him around. And this
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: is tame Shay Babey for sure, Like maybe they aren't
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: meant for each other. If she can't hang with this crowd,
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: and maybe she should go home, like go back to
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: your family, go girl.
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: We were waiting for it though. We did hear that
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: people thought she was a mail order bride, so we
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: were waiting for go back to your country, Alison.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: You know, we had kind of been on her side
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: at this point, but now, well, I like that.
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: She was at least fainting that it was for Annabelle,
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: that she was showing interest in being a saboteur. Like
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: she would be like, I'm doing this for Annabelle because
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: I care about her, right her dearly. I don't hate her.
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: But now she's she's drunk, so she's like, yeah, just
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: go back. She said, if you can't hang with these
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: lake people, right, get out of here. What again? These
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: people are so lame.
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: It's so lame. I mean it is like Shay and
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: people his age, beer funneling, and then you got a
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: bunch of thirty year olds who maybe they're just swinging
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: by the lake party and then they're going out to
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: the bars. They're like getting fret drinks first. Hopefully they're
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: all taking an uber.
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: I doubt it.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, lets see we're gonna move on to Debbie and Meadow.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: My god, oh god, I really I to think that
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: they actually got married. I need that proofs that they
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: actually got married, not that they file a marriage certificate. Right,
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: but there's a wedding date, because there is not any
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: way in the world that she should marry this guy,
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: like it is so apparently clear to anybody with eyes.
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: And that this is. At some point in this season,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: we always stopped feeling bad for some of these people,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: and I think this was the episode for me that
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: I just stopped feeling bad for Debbie because she's being
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: so blindy blind, blindly ignorant to the situation.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: Willfully ignorant. Sometime.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: Thank you. So I almost died, Mary Payne words right.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: And you almost add on the anniversary when I almost died.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: I know, Keisha, watch out for next year.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: No, because I was. I was not dying on my birthday.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: I was out of the hospital. I was almost dying.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift's wedding and fourth of July.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well seven seven on July seventh is when
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: I almost died.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: I know, my birthday, so good things and bad things,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: full circle of life.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: Well, I wish your happy birthday and you didn't like it,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: but too bad.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: That's what I do think you.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: Okay, Debbie Amato fifty five days to wed dn'ta do.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: So we're talking head, she says, since the blow up,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: Mito has flat out ignored me, and I'm really trying
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: to process this in my head and in my heart.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: I love him, but he is showing me who he
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: is and it's a big reveal and we can't linger
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: in this no talking like, I don't know if there's
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: anything I can do to make it better. But he's
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: emotionally immature and hard to communicate with.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he goes silent. You can't deal with silent treatment.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: Why does she feel that there's something she used to fix?
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: What is it that she did because.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: She did absolutely nothing. But he is somehow convinced that
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: he still has the upper hand in this relationship. After
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: he screamed at her friends and her at the Haunted House.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: It was so rude to her and her friend in
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: the car so rude.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: It's all on him, but somehow she's taking part of
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: the blame for this.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: So she's vacuuming, and she says, she's like the cameras
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: are here, so we're gonna talk about what happened the
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: other day.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: And he goes, why is she vacuuming? And he's sitting
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: on his ass.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: She's you constantly see her. She's emptying the dishwasher, she's dusty,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: she's vacuuming. He just sits stares at his own headshot.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: So she goes, why don't we go to the lake.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Let's get out of here. So the drift of the
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: lake and there in the car and she goes like,
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: this is kind of weird to be in a car together.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: He's like dead silent. So they sit at the lake
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: and he says, do you think what happened with me
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: was right? And she goes, no, it was bad behavior
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: across the board, meeting everyone, And he goes, well, no,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like to remember it. So it's
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: okay because she indicated that he had done something wrong,
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want to remember it. Yeah, And she goes, well,
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: it's not okay. You're very closed off off and I
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: know this is a conversation you don't want to have,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: but we do have to deal with it. We have
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: to talk about things. And then he just forlorn forlornly,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: forlornly stares to the lake, and she says, I get
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: the feeling. Not the lake, Not the lake, oh no,
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: the river of the lake. Lake.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: Can you imagine Mito at the lake party?
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: What if she just went? But his was like, Hi, Hi,
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: I didn't know y'all come to the lake.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: I got a beer funnel.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: It's shay by bye. So he looks at the lake
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: and she says, I get the feeling. You're not happy.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: What was your clue? And he says, he says, I
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: love my country, my world. To be in your world,
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: and I think I deserve a good heart and a
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: good person to be with.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: Then go back home. Were you looking at flights the
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: other night? He's weird that you have. I guess all
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: the airports were shut down. That's every airport able to
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: go back. Okay, I didn't hear about it on the news.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: But she says, she says, right, we both deserve that,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: and I love you. And then he closes his eyes
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: as if she has said I'm going to stick a
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: hot poker up your cara. Like he closes his eyes
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: and goes like like she has just stabbed him. When
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: she says, I love you, and he goes, oh traumatic.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: Clid Duckstone obstructions.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Yes exactly, and he says, you know, I don't like
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: for you to tell me that all the time, like
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: I don't need to talk all the time. I love you,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: I need you. No, no, no, and she goes, I
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: know you love me, you wouldn't. This man just flinched
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: as if you were tied stones to his ankles and
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: about to throw him in that lake and make him
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: do a beer pong with a shade, like like.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: You don't have to say it your face. He says
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: it all I know you love me.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: As he's like, oh, she says, I know you love me.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't have done all you did if you didn't.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: You don't say it, but I know it, and he goes, okay, excellent,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: very good, and she goes what he goes, you know
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: you know you say it? Okay, excellent, good, Okay, So
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: you're talking head. He's so pissed. He goes, you know,
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: if you love someone, you don't say it all the time.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: You should just do something. Just be kindness, be supportive,
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: defend me. She doesn't show me that. She shows me
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: the life, not just no, she shows me the life,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: not just love. This woman enrolled you in acting school,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: has taken you in, has flown you across the world,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: got a bigger apartment for you. What what do you mean?
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 2: She contradicted you in front of people, and that's bad.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: That's it. That negates all the other stuffy. Also, she's
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: not asking you to say it over and over again.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: She wants you to say it once before she marries you.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: She wants you to say I love you once once.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: So she says, well, you know, and he says you know.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: He says very good, very good, excellent good, I'm glad
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: you know it great, and she goes, okay, so you
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: know what happened. I don't know what to do to
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: make sure that doesn't happen again again. It's not up
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: to her. It's up to him to control his emotions.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: It's not up to her to constantly be like Danny
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: and Nia or Nia is always on the valley trying
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: to like, okay, let me just make sure it's okay
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: so he doesn't blow up. And he goes, I don't
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: have a plan, and she's where your plans should be.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: To stay here? Why why do you want him to
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: stay there?
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: Have you had any fun at all? He's been there,
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 2: not a moment since the sight seeing with the legkings
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: and the tank top and the posing on the street.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: Have you had fun?
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: And even then it went to shit because when they
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: went to return the thing, then they had a fight.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: She says, well, your plan should be to stay here,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: and he goes, it depends on you. You have to
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: fix it, and she goes, no, it's not just a
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: me fixed No no, no, no, no, no, you You're
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: gonna have to get honest with yourself and with me.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: Talking head, She says, Mino has turned this whole thing
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: around on me. He won't take accountability on his side.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: Ever since he's been here, it's been all about him.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: Relationships are about compromise, and he's been single for a
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: long time and I'm starting to see why.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, yes, Debbie, thank you.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: So get him out of here. So then they go
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: back to the apartment and he's looking forlornly out of
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: the window and he sadly kicks the socker ball against
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: the wall, like poor me.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 2: It's like a teenage boy who has been grounded by
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 2: his mom.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: One h So the talking head they're sitting together, and
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: I didn't realize they were sitting together. They showed her.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: I was like, she's in this shot. He says, I
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: will forgive her, but not forget, and then they pull
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: her into the shot and she's like like Debbie Downer, Oh.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: Give her for what or something?
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: For what? And he says, it is hard to forget
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: something like this, but I will continue with her to
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: see what's next.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: And if it accused him of having sex before marriage too,
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: with that other woman.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she said, you can fuck that horror, but
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: you can't give me compassion.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: That pissed him off too, because he's pretending he's a virgin, right.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: He's well, I think he might be. He might be
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: a virgin with women, right, if the kara doesn't count,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: he's good.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: So he says, you know, if she does, if it
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: continues like this, if it's bad, I will book a
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: fly back to my country. And so she says, well,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: I think it would be foolish to throw away six years.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: And he says love is not enough and sometimes the
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: heart changes and people change. But we will see. He's
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: a manipulative, gaslighting monster. He is.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: See. I think he's a narcissist and a manipulator.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because somehow now she's like, why would we throw
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: away the six years when she just said, and her
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: talking to head like he's pitting the blame on me.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: He's taking no accountability, he's making somehow he's turns it
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: around like I did something wrong.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: M So her daughter perfect victim to this sort of behavior.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: Yes, her daughter whose name I cannot remember and I
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: didn't write down. She walks in and goes, hey, uh,
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: what's going on? You're crazy? Kids? Feels pretty tense in here.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: What's what's going on? And Mito is sitting on the
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: couch admiring his own headshots one by one and looks
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: at the daughter and goes, look, I don't need I
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: just need quiet and rest.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: And she's like, fuck off, you don't pay rent near
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, she's like, she goes okay, So
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: she walks out. So I guess she texts her mom
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: like you want to get a petticure and get rid
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: of this loser. Now they go to the most ridiculous
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: petticure place I've ever seen in my life.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it did not look comfortable or leisurely.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: This place is ridiculous. They have port swings hanging from
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: the ceiling as the petticure chairs.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: No, that's not comfortable.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the country signs and where you look for
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: your colors? Above it it said Farmer's market. What are
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: we doing?
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: What?
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: What? Okay? So the daughter goes, yeah, this is not
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: great with me though. He just sits on the couch
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: staring at his own headshots. And she goes, yeah, I
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just waiting for like the right moment
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: to have an aha moment of what to do. And
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: the daughter goes, you have mounting evidence from the couple
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: of my he's been here, Like, who cares if you've
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: been dating him six years? The clock is ticking. You
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: need to make a hard choice and quick. And she says,
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: what if what happens if you go through with this?
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: You're legally bound and now it's just going to get worse.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: Now what are you going to do? And don't forget
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: now you're responsible for him for ten years financially yep,
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: And Debbie goes, I don't know. I just I just
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: need a couple of things from him. I need a
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: formal proposal, and I need him to say I love you,
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: and the daughter goes, what, And she says, the truth
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: always has a way of rising to the surface, and
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: I need time. I need time. I'm just not ready
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: to get up, give up the.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 2: Fact that he hasn't done those two very simple things
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: that are just lip service. Yeah, to go with this
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: charade of loving her and wanting when he really just
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: wants to get to America. Like every other man on
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 2: this show that is scamming. A woman does says I
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: love Like, remember, how what's this Daniel talk to Lisa?
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: It was like, I love you, my beauty, my queen.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: These people are willing to put in the lip surface
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: of the scamming. He's not even willing to do that. No,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: that's how little he cares about you.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: He thinks that he's such a cat. She should just
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: be hashtag blessed that he's even wanting to be in
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: the same apartment with her. So she says, he's never
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: said I love you, and the daughter goes, yeah, he's
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: here now, and this is the reality. It's not a
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: fairy tale. I hope that you're actually seeing the truth now.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: She's not.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: I'm talking to Debbie goes. It hasn't quite reached the
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: point yet where I'm willing to call it. I need
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: to see some forward motion from Mito, because I'm really
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: not sure if he loves me.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, he doesn't.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: He doesn't.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: That he doesn't, he doesn't. She needs to learn about
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: sunk cost fallacy, Like, just do a quick Google search,
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: just read the AI you know, blurb about it. It's
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 2: textbook what you're doing.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: Yes, totally. She's like, well, I just give them three
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: more days.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've already put in six years. I don't want
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 2: to lose that.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: She could get on Tender in New Orleans or Silver
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: Singles or whatever and find somebody in a heartbeat.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 2: She's pretty, she's Cute's got a job, good job, she.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: Has a cute dog. This apartment, got a Mercedes. Come on, okay,
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: let's go on to Thomas and Paula.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: Oh god, okay. So she has brought the stepmom gifts
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 2: at the farm with a tiny suitcase and a note
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: that says, we are waiting for you at our wedding and.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: I'm looking for something in here that I could have tiny,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, do you have something tiny?
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: I have? Like a little this is just it it's
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: like a fidget thing.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: That looks like a tiny roots cube.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 2: Look, here's here's a tiny remote control for my lights.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: Okay, my hold on, I've got this. Sorry, that's my
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: right in the camera.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, join on video.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: I also have a tiny nail.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: File like I have Tiny New York City. Adorable look animated,
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: it's so cute. I have Tiny New York City. I'm
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: manifesting it. What am I manifesting? Going there for Librofest?
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: If you didn't get your tickets, it's sold out.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 2: Sorry go ahead, Sorry, so we warned you. So. Also,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 2: they have a new American gothic farm hero shot that
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: hilarious and he's smiling, and I was like, how are
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: you on this farm with your allergies? Sir? I thought
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: your allergies were deadly?
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: You know. That's a great point. That's a great point. Now,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: don't listen. Don't come at us perfume allergy people.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 2: I'm sure there are differences, but I know there's a lot.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 2: I have seasonal and like environmental allergies, and a farm
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: for me is just horrible.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So well, his is just perfume, Okay.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 2: Hers is his just perfume, not super glue. So Thomas said,
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: tells us, we are going to invite them to the wedding,
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: but we're also going to tell him that my mom
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: is going to be there and they might freak out.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: So they're having a picnic outside. They make her of
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 2: a vegan burger. Paula. Paula is wearing a dress for
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: some reason, and she's changed like five times and they've
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: been there twenty.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: Minute into all the plaid, and she wants.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: To get how many dresses for the wedding, like two? Yeah? Also,
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: Queen Mary Katie worked at the ghost Haunted House thing
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: for Halloween one year and she played a ghost. I
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: can't remember which one, but like a big one and
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 2: she won like Ghost of the Week or something. I
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: got a certificate because she worked on the Queen as Yeah,
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: for one of their Haunted House Halloween things one year.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: So does she know all the ghost stories because I'd
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: like to hear her.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, mm hmm, okay, yeah, but she'll tell us exactly.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: So they're talking about the wedding and Paula is trying
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 2: to manifest her family coming to the wedding, so she's
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: bought a lot of miniature people to be like wedding guests,
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: and she gives it's cute. She gives them the mini
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: suitcase with the miniature things in it. The stepmom loves it.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: She's like, loves the little suitcase. She's like, I love
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 2: miniature things, and she's like a tiny pig. I love it.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: And so they asked more about the wedding. It's all
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: going great. They're like, it's going to be in Long
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 2: Beach and we really want you there. And the dad's like,
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 2: who's coming, and Thomas is like, oh, so and so,
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 2: so and so so I did invite mom and stepdad.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 2: And then things get very tense and the dad tells
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: us that Thomas and sister were kids when they got divorced,
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 2: and we see a photo of Thomas as a kid
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: with maybe a pad of butter on his head.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: Did you see that? I didn't notice that.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: It was very funny. I didn't understand what was happening.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: I'll try to text it to you, and the mom
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 2: said the mom, it seems we don't get all the details.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: The mom left and has no contact for a long time. Yeah,
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: for the rest of their childhood, it seems like, and
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: the dad raised the kids.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: Well, that's what I had to assume. I had to
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: assume when the step mom was so pissed. It was like,
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: how dare you know she comes back in their life
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: when they're older and I get no credit.
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I texted you the photo. So the dad
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: is like, this was so hard raising the kids on
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 2: my own. Even the women do it every day. But
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 2: he was is he said it was horrible, and he's
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: very he's still very up, and he says to them,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 2: we'll try to come, but I'm not sure if we're
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: gonna be able to make it. And then the stepmom
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 2: is like, yeah, I have a farm hand that would
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 2: need to take over the animals, and I don't know
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: if I'll be able to come. And Thomas is like
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 2: it wouldn't be complete without you there, and they're like, world,
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: try Now. Paula is very confused because in her world,
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: she's like, this is our wedding. They should of course
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: come and not worry about the animals. So she's like,
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: please come, I will say a prayer and manifest good
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: things for the pig and the cow and the donkey.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: Please come, and the dad tells us. Paula thinks she
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: knows what should happen, but she might not understand the
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: full situation and I will never speak to Thomas's mother
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 2: ever again.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be bad with both parents there. It
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: could kind of ruin the whole thing because Thomas will
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: be so worried about you know, low up.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so the dad is like, well, it's your wedding
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 2: and you two are the most important people that need
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 2: to be there, so basically, don't worry about us if
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 2: we're not there.
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: So, I mean, I'm glad that he invited his mom
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: and I'm glad for whatever the situation is that they're
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: able to have a relationship. Now. Yeah, but that has
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: to be hard, as you know, we don't know how
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: long the stepmom's been the stepmom. And if she feels
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: like I completely raise these kids, this woman made my
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: husband's life hell, then totally, then you can see why
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: she's so bitter about it. And while she got so
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: pissed with Paula posted all those pictures. But Paula didn't
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: know that it's not Paula's past a bear. You know. Okay,
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: you sent me this picture, let me look at it. No,
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: I don't think that's a pat of butter on his hair. Ahead.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: I think that. Let me okay, I think it is
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: his cowboy hat. It's got like a feather or something.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: I think, oh, okay, I think it's part of the hat.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: But it's funny that you thought it was a pat
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: of butter. I didn't.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: Maybe because I can't have butter right now.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe because you're hungry. Okay. Let's sten with Mallory
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: and rash Sheet and well, when I talked to her,
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: she did call him rash it.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 2: She did interesting, and I was like, just what you.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: Guys used to rush Now you're saying rash it and
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: I was calling him rash sheet.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: Damn, it's not rush it. Though it's definitely rash sheet.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: I don't think that rash it is the way it's pronounced.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: Well, I did like how she talked about him brading
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: his mother's hair. I thought it was cute. So got
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: lots of nice comments on my interview with her. People
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: are some people in the comments going under it and
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: saying things like he's a loser, you should nump with
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: me on and wants your money. I was like, you know,
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: let's don't.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 2: Let's just I don't think that's true. But I do
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: think he's being an asshole and a lot of is
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 2: I'm always happy with him in this episode, yes, but
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 2: there's a lot of conflicting information on social media because,
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 2: like one person said, they did get married and they
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 2: like saw proof of it. But he's on social media
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 2: in Turkey saying he doesn't have a wife.
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: So I think all that's fake and I think they
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: are married. I don't know that for I didn't ask.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: I mean I had a TLC person on the thing
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: with me. I didn't ask. This is just my thought
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: because I believe in their love and I think that
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: they probably did get married. He could just be visiting. Yeah,
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: and once again, let's roll the tape when Ray Payne
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 1: is wrong at the end of the season.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 2: Okay, so most people do get married, so it would
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: be truly shocking if they don't get married.
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: It'd be truly shocking if it doesn't work out. As
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: much as they love each other. But you know, when
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: I talked to her, they really only dated like four
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: months before they did the visa, and she'd only been
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: over there like twice.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: So it was a little crazy. She had there four
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: times total, and the fourth time was when they were
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: filming and she picked them up to bring him back.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was only it was less than a
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: two year window, but you know, when you're young. Yeah. Okay,
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: So these two were going to a farm league type
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: of baseball game in Huntsville. The team was called the
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: trash Pandas, which is hilarious because Huntsville does have like
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: a full NASA thing. Like I told her on the interview,
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: my friend Juki used to work at like the space camp.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: So it is funny that they would shoot. The town
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: got to choose the name, and they chose trash Pandas
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: instead of rockets. That's funny, which is hilarious.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 2: So also I do think that White Trash Party was
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 2: quite tongue in cheek because oh, yeah, there are, like
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: you said, NASA, there's lots of really big companies. Yeah
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 2: that people work at that live in that town. So
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: it's not Hicksville, US, No, it's not.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: So the team is called trash Pannas and she goes,
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: you know, at baseball games when they do them, you know,
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: somebody throws out the first pitch, it's like ceremonial, and
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: she goes, you know, who's gonna do it?
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: He goes, oh, like it's gonna be some Turkish celebrity
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 2: that he's heard.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: Of, Kevin Costner, and she goes you. He's like, no,
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: what is so funny? And then they're talking Eddy. He's like,
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw it eleven miles. She was like, you're
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: gonna throw it? What? And then he keeps like holding
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: up his muscle and she's like, I don't know what
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: you're saying. So they meet up with Mikayla and her
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: husband Wren spelled Ryan Wren and and then Brandon is there,
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: pan overdoor Brandy. Brandy's there, and the talking head Brandon says, uh,
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: you know, with Rash, it's been nothing but straight disrespect
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: and why even invite me if all he's gonna do
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: is throw shade my way, Like you know, uh, I'm
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: an ally, not an enemy, So I don't know what
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: to do about this guy. But if he keeps it up,
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: I will be the enemy and he don't want that.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: M So Rash is so excited. He throws out the
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: first pitch and he's there asking him where he learned
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: about baseball, and he says Twilight. So they play base
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: on Twilight.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 2: They have that slow motion game in the Field.
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: No, I don't know. I never saw Twilight.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: It's funny just because they've aired, like on social media,
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: people have put the scene without music, without the dramatic music,
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 2: and it just looks ridiculous because they're just like jumping
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 2: in slow and slow motion and running really fast, but
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: it's all like slow. It's very dramatic, but there's no music,
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: and you see how stupid it is.
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, well, I guess in Twilight they played baseball and
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: that's where he learned it. Yeah, So they all go
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: to sit afterwards, and she's gonna sit next to Brandon
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: and he's like, no, you can't sit there. I will
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: sit there. She's like what, He goes, you can't sit
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: by Randon. So she's like, oh god, all right. So
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: the national anthem is starting to play and Brandy goes,
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: get up. Now. I agree with Rash in this sense
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: that Brandon didn't have to say it like that, But
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: Rash's being such a dick to him. So what else
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: is he gonna Mallory? Was it saying to him stand up.
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: Malloried and stand up either, By the way, I watched it,
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: like three times she they say please rise for the
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 2: national anthem? She's still sitting. She's still sitting until Brandon
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 2: kicks them, and it's like, get up, get up. Why
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 2: didn't she say something like she.
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: Should have said, oh, this in our culture, this is
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: where we stand up. You have to take your hat off,
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, so this makes it mad and he
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: says in Turkish culture. She says, well, I don't know
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: why you're mad. In Turkish culture, you guys are so
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: proud and you even take this stuff more seriously than
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: Americans do. He goes, in Turkish culture, I would have
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: politely said, okay, this is a time where we stand
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: up and let me explain it to you. You're always
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: taking But she didn't do that.
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 2: Then you haven't been politely talking to Brandon.
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: Wow. And he goes, you're always on brandy side and
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: she goes, no, I'm not. He goes, it's breaking my
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 1: heart because you're always on Brandy's side. She's like, oh
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: my god.
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 2: He needs to stop saying that that's the new Like,
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 2: I'll go back to it. I go Russia.
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So Mallory and Michaela go to get some beers
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: and the guys are all sitting together. So Rashid asked
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: the guy's questions about like the game, the game of baseball,
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 1: and Brandon starts to talk and he cuts him off.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: He goes, no, I only want to listen to wren.
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 2: This is that that he's being such a dick. He's
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 2: being a dick, and brand the fact that Brandon was
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 2: going to explain baseball to him, like was still trying.
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: Still trying, after he'd been so rude. Yeah, So Brandon goes, well,
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: if you just want to listen to him, I go
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 1: get a beer. So he goes to get a beer
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: and Wrenn says, hey, listen, I've known Brandon a really
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 1: long time and he is my best friend in the
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 1: world and he is a good guy. And Russian goes, okay, okay,
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: and he goes, I just want to let him know
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 1: he has no intentions with your wife. Wife wife again again. Oop, Sorry,
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: I hit my microphone, and it says, just just give
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: him some time and get you'll see the good side
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 1: of him. You just have to give it some time.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: And she says, no, I do not want him to
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: be friends with me and my wife. This is my
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 1: culture and we don't do this. So Mallory comes and
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: she's just being so fun. She's like, here, look it's
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: funny because it's a beer and a baseball bat, Like.
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 2: It's funny, disgusting, it's hot, flat beer. Yeah, in a
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 2: plastic bat with micro plastics.
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: By the time you get to the bottom, it's going
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: to be real gross gross. And so she goes, look,
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: it's fun and she hits it to him and he.
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: Goes, also, let's not add alcohol to this already Volatiley graduation.
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 1: And he goes, I don't want and she goes, oh hell,
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: and then she goes, you know you're putting everybody here
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 1: in a difficult position. He goes, I don't care, and
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 1: she goes, okay, so you don't care about me, and
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 1: he goes, I do care about you, but I don't
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: want this, and she says, Mikayla and I play this
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: whole day, so y'all could squash this beef and hang out.
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 1: And Branda says, yeah, man, I thought, like after the party,
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: we decided we would have mutual respect and rush. She says, no,
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 1: after the party, I told you delete my number, delete
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: Mallory's number. I don't want to be friends with you,
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 1: and Brandy goes, well, that's not how it works. And
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 1: that's not your choice to make. And Mallory goes, yeah,
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 1: he's not going anywhere, he's going to be around and
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 1: you need to get over it. And right, she says,
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: this is not right in my culture, and so she goes, okay, well,
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: then put on your big boy pants and move the
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 1: fuck on. And he says, no, don't say anything else
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: because I don't want and I don't want to be
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: friends with him. So Brandon goes, I have been straight
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: up with you and you have shown me nothing but disrespect.
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 1: And right, she says, for the last time, I will
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 1: say it, I don't want to be friends with you.
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: And Brandon then throws his bag of popcorn on the
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: ground like towards his feet at him and he goes, oh,
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 1: this conversation is so I'm leaving, I'm dipping, I'm out
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: of here.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 2: And he leaves.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: So we're talking to head Rush. She goes, who does
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 1: he think he is? He just has the height and
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: that's it. He's trying to lecture me with his tiny brain.
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: Fuck off. Okay, you Rash, You are being a complete
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: dick here and we like you and we think you're key,
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 1: which such an asshole. Yeah, so now right. Valerie looks
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 1: over and goes, are you eating the popcorn that he
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: threw at you? And he goes, yeah, it's good.
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 2: I was fine with that. I was like, that popcorn
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 2: is probably eight dollars.
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: Yes, so long as he didn't touch the ground, it's fine, delicious.
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 1: She goes, well, I'm completely embarrassed and I want to go,
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 1: and he goes, all right, So I'm talking to her.
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: She goes, I'm annoyed, I'm angry, and I think he's
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 1: just pushing Brandon to make Brandon look like the villain.
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 1: So in the car, she goes, I'm not happy with you. You're
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: just being a complete dick, Like, why can't you just
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 1: say hey and shake his hand? That's all it has
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 1: to be. What is the issue, and there doesn't have
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 1: to be an issue, And then she's starts it. I'm like,
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 1: I don't have any family here. My friends are my family.
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: And when I had the car accident, and he says, baby,
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 1: they are not your family. She says, I am talking,
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: she says, and she says, when that car accident happened,
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 1: I only had my friends, and one of my friends
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 1: who stepped a big time was Brandon and he goes, Okay,
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 1: that was then, but I'm here for you now. I'm
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: here for you now. She goes, I understand you couldn't
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 1: be here and that wasn't your fault. And she keeps
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 1: trying to talk and he goes he literally like makes
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 1: fun of her, and he goes, wait, are you like this,
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 1: and he goes, listen to me first. Listen to me first.
• 1:30:36
  Speaker 1: If I don't like your friends, you delete for me.
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: I deleted my family for you.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 2: Now, this is a huge warning. This is like a
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 2: woe man out there. If a man wants to isolate
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 2: you from your support group, bad red flag, red flags,
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 2: red flags.
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: We're waving them. We're waving them. I'm so happy to
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 1: be back at home with my tiny red flag and
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 1: not the one I made out a duct tape. And
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 1: he doesn't quite understand this term because he's saying, you
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 1: can delete your friends for me, I deleted my family
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 1: for you, Like, no, you didn't know.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 2: You did leave your whole family for one hundred percent.
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 2: But that doesn't mean it should just be you and
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 2: herror against the world, right, Like her friends can become
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 2: your new friends and your new family.
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 1: And you can also make other friends then you can
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 1: make other friends, and then they can become her friends,
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 1: you know, m hm. And she goes, okay, you didn't
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 1: delete your family, and he goes, I'm here for you,
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 1: So what do you think I'm here for you? So
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 1: talking head Mallory goes, this is terrifying. We're supposed to
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 1: get married in two months. This is not the man
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 1: I fell in love with. I did not sign up
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 1: for a man who was possessive and controlling. Maybe it
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: is a culture thing, and he did give up his
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 1: entire world to be with me. But on the other hand,
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 1: we're in America and I'm an American and I'm not
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: putting up with this. Yeah, So he goes, what do
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 1: you want? So what do you want? And she goes,
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 1: I want you to apologize to him. This is ridiculous
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 1: at this point. It doesn't matter what happened in the past.
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 1: You're just being a dick to him now. And he goes, really, really,
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 1: you're breaking my heart with this. And so then they
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 1: walk in the front door and she just like slams
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: the door like he goes, bye, slams the door in
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 1: his days. So I'm talking, Eddie says, she really broke
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 1: my heart first with this contract, the pre nap, and
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 1: now with Brandy and I am the husband. You have
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 1: to take my side. So obviously next week something else happened,
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 1: so it's gonna be okay.
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 2: But next week looks very fun.
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: It does.
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm excited next time.
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 1: On Edward and Marissa are having drinks at someone's house
• 1:32:49
  Speaker 1: and he Edward says to the guys, okay, so what
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: do you do for a job, And the one guy
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 1: goes on, but You'm in finance, and the other one says,
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 1: I'm an insurance broker, and talking to Eddie goes, these
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 1: are the kind of people I would take care of
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: the hotel, and now I'm hanging out with them. It's crazy,
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 1: But I mean, she's the kind of person you would
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 1: take care of a hotel, and you did take care
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 1: of her at the hotel, and one you banged her
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: and then you banged her. So Marissa says to her friends,
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm losing myself and what should I do?
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 1: And the one friend goes, this is the Marissa I know,
• 1:33:23
  Speaker 1: all right, Okay, Annabel goes to church and is real judgy.
• 1:33:27
  Speaker 1: She didn't like it. She's making fun of it. She's like, yeah,
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: we're gonna clap, We're gonna see what are we doing?
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 1: This is where we're standing. I hate this. And then
• 1:33:35
  Speaker 1: they're outside and Alison goes, well, I'm not changing churches
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 1: just because she wants to, and then Annabel tells Alison,
• 1:33:42
  Speaker 1: once again, you act like a spoiled brat. It's not
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: gonna go over well. Asha calls her brother cousin, the
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: guy that we met before, huh, and she goes, well,
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 1: we decided we're gonna go ahead and get married. And
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: he says, bitch, you crazy, and she goes being very
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: disrespectful and he goes, bitch, are you crazy? Are you
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: pregnant or something or what? So then I think that's
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 1: a red hair match.
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 2: Shirk take out. Yeah, I'm not sure, fake out, because
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 2: she gives a look like, oh no, he knows that
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 2: I'm pregnant.
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 1: He could tell by my face. Now we see Mallory
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: and her friends altogether, same group. Brandon's there, and she says,
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: maybe y'all can help. Raw shen't understand I want a
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: prenup and Michaela goes, I'm the one who actually suggested it,
• 1:34:30
  Speaker 1: and Brandon said. Brandon says, did you ever take into consideration.
• 1:34:36
  Speaker 1: He packed up his whole life and moved here. And
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 1: Rynn says, he has put everything he has into you.
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 1: Why not do the same and put everything you have
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: into him?
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 2: And Rash is like, hmmm, I.
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 1: Just like maybe these guys are something.
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 2: Brandy has my side interesting. Maybe I'll call him Brandon
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 2: from now on.
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 1: And this man with the tiny breen seems to have
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 1: some been good thoughts. Mmmmm ah God. Then Devi tells
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: me too. She has a surprise for him. She takes
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: him to a little chapel and says, what do you
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 1: think it's a place where you can get married? Because
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 1: I think that I think they are coming down to
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: like the last ten days. Yeah, and he goes, I
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 1: think he looks tired.
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 2: When he sees that it's a chapel.
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: He goes like this, He goes, I think it is
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 1: time to go home to my country. And then she
• 1:35:29
  Speaker 1: goes outside and falls to her knees crying. Wow.
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 2: I wonder if it was like a test, like I'm
• 1:35:35
  Speaker 2: going to take him to this chapel where really, this
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 2: is a time to prove it to me. Are you
• 1:35:39
  Speaker 2: here for me to get married or not?
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 1: Or maybe She's like, I'm gonna take in this chapel
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: make him marry me because in the vows it says love,
• 1:35:46
  Speaker 1: and that'll be my chance exactly because she's already said
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: she wants a real proposal and a ring and he's
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 1: clearly not doing that.
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 2: No, they're giving Danielle and Mohammed read.
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 1: We were when he was like, yiss her because it's all.
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 2: Better, and yeah, yeah he couldn't. It's rama, don I
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 2: can't kiss you.
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 1: I can't kiss you, so so high to the marriage.
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 2: Now during this ceremony in front of your friend.
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Now that's it. Now. I don't know
• 1:36:17
  Speaker 1: if you have a Kimberly's Corner because I don't know
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: if I don't.
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 2: But I don't really have time. I have to run
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 2: to a doctor's appointment a follow up.
• 1:36:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, well here's what I will tell you. Yeah, when
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 1: we record for Last Resort, which comes out on Friday's
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: on the Prime Feed, guys, five dollars a month, four episodes,
• 1:36:36
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• 1:36:38
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• 1:36:40
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• 1:36:43
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• 1:36:45
  Speaker 1: I'll just say that. I don't want to say anything.
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: I can only give it away everybody that's it. Kimberly
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 1: and Katie have a podcast it's called A Date with Dateline.
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 1: I watched whatever Dateline was on Friday about the bluegrass
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 1: something something. Are you guys can bring that? Yes, he
• 1:37:00
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• 1:37:02
  Speaker 2: I know they're putting the summer ones on now, but.
• 1:37:07
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• 1:37:09
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• 1:37:12
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• 1:37:15
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• 1:37:29
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