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End Of Struggle Love - Paul Okoye Flaunts His New Younger Girlfriend · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to my channel.
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  My name is Lorenzo defect and this is burnt with Florencia.
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  How are you all doing? I hope you're doing great.
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  For today's episode, we're going to be talking about Paulo.
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  Coelho a poll of P Square. Hey yesterday was very spicy and
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  hot on Instagram on our bus enjoy internet because publicly
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  He took his girlfriend, his Bay to church and initially broke
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  the internet because this was just at the back of his divorce
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  which was filed last year, in fact, and it's okay.
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  Which was his ex-wife celebrated, their 70th
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  anniversary on Instagram last year, so it was kind of
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  confusing when the divorce documents leaked because I think
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  they were trying to keep it under wraps because you cannot
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  celebrate We invest three and then file for divorce at the
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  same time. I don't know.
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  The, the how that works for, you know, people are surprised,
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  people didn't even believe it because the publicist we both of
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  their publicist were saying that oh oh, did anybody who verified
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  the documents? That was linked.
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  He was actually just love our that leaked documents online so
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  they are publicist came out and said no.
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  How is the how who verified those documents that all this
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  huh? Angry bloggers.
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  They were just blogging at the meantime I need to call you move
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  to the US with her three children and let me just go back
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  if you know P Square you know that in the early 2000 they were
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  the twin sensation do me. I do you was like what are the
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  major heat study had? And everybody loved P Square.
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  Now after a decade, I think this was in 2011, 2012.
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  These are having issues Um, peace out.
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  Clear was always online. Accusing Pollock, way of, you
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  know, certain things. Like they were three jobs at
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  each other colloquial was accusing Pizza of listening to
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  the devil piece of clay was accusing poll of not being a
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  brother to him. This fight lasted for almost a
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  decade, guys, and all the fingers were pointed at Lola.
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  These are girls a wife because she was older.
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  I mean, LOL, I just celebrated her 50th birthday and Peter,
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  Kadar either in their early 40s. Maybe 4142 basically.
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  So you could see the age gap between them Allah was Yoruba.
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  So people automatically assume that she was the problem, they
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  blamed her for everything. Nobody was even looking at our
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  ninja nobody was looking at. Arnie's Okoye.
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  They just so hard. This sweet girl, you know, Sighs
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  sweets. Nobody everybody was attacking
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  Lola at that point. So after many prayers online
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  fans were praying for peace quest to come back.
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  Finally, they go back together and they said I doing shows and
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  one of the person that was absent in that this new
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  reconciliation is their elder, brother Judah, Curry, now Judo
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  Korea according to Peter, Coco, you was one of the major
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  problems that they had. Because according to piece of
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  Code, by the way, we're running the brand P Square brand.
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  When we go to shows events endorsement and everything, they
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  split it equally into three and you do everybody take their own
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  share. He's our boy was not happy with
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  that share because he was like, we are the ones doing everything
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  we perform. We do.
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  And then he's just sitting down there taking, you know, what is
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  not like every manager sometimes managers they take five percent
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  15 percent 20, This ends why don't we renegotiate ordeal
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  which judoka is so that he can take what normal manager stick
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  colloquial was not having it fall away said well he's one
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  writing the music he is the main vocalist.
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  So anyway at the end of the day the reconciled but after that
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  reconciliation judoka why was nowhere to be found?
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  And I think that was when people started noticing that and it'll
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  cool We do they come the wish. Happy birthday and all that.
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  Even Paulo Coelho poliquin, never wished Lola, happy
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  birthday but he said I wish you a happy birthday and people
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  started working that, okay? If palooka is having problems
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  with his wife, there may be, the issue is actually a need to
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  work, maybe the issues are little Cory.
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  Like, okay, what is going on Anita by then?
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  And it's a has started like trying to because she was a
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  full-time, housewife taken care of Saint.
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  And the twin that they had. I think I need to, I decided,
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  you know, I am young. I can do something for myself.
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  She opened the clothing Branch was doing well, actually, she
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  went to the UK to launch our clothing.
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  Kids clothing brand, I think and that was it.
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  So I think she got busy and Paul God's busy with the house, help
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  with the household and aneesa was no happiness, she fell.
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  For divorce, and nobody was hearing anything before you
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  could say p.m. and it's a moved to the US with her children.
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  I think there was one people was like, okay, something is going
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  on on to just love our lit, the divorce document, I mean, it was
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  juicy, it was spicy, Anita was asking, and it does ask you for
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  everything like she, he was like I was there when before you
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  become who you are. So I deserve Everything and
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  people are like how can I knitted a she's greedy how can
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  she be asking for all these things anyway I don't know how
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  they settle because none of them actually came out even their
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  publicists came out on, do not deny the whole thing.
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  So we don't know how far they've settled, one-year anniversary
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  after that bass, boost Paulo Coelho decided to flaunt his new
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  girlfriend, who looks on that aged.
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  I mean, she looks, she should be 16, 17.
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  She should do. So your, I mean, those people
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  are not even talking about him flaunting his girlfriend, they
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  were more about her age because Polo Korea is in his early 40s.
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  I mean, she is definitely in her, let's say, a maximum, early
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  twenties, or maybe 18. 19, people are thinking like,
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  colloquy, if you're going to date, somebody why don't you
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  date somebody closer to your age range.
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  She's an On influenza. So maybe she understand to work
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  or maybe she understands the brand.
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  More people were more talking about.
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  She is too young. She is too young as in Pete's.
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  Paulo Coelho. Why are you dating somebody
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  that? Is that in your own?
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  She doesn't understand life. Just yet to to understand.
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  I mean I think that was the age where I need her was when he met
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  Anita. I think he just wanted that
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  Jungle of, I think you wanted all.
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  All all, they used to have when they were younger.
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  I think he just wanted to rewind time and start all over again.
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  And he's able to find out with a former.
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  This has generated a whole lot of conversation on social media
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  where people were announcing that struggle love is trouble of
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  what it because when I need her and Lola actually met P Square,
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  the story was that during University of Jos, they were
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  performing, you know, School performance and all that he was
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  dating Anita and then Peter metal melodic Point had money.
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  I mean, and it's also came from money but not as much as Lola.
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  Lola was much older and willing to spend like she had her own
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  money, not her dad's money and it's on the other hand, she had
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  her dad's money. Maybe if they need money, should
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  go to a doctor to get money for Lola.
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  Had her own money. So Lola was one spot.
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  Answering them. Lo Largo de my new apartment.
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  No lucky, because for music video, I mean, you need money to
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  run all those things and Lola was the money behind it.
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  So they struggled all through Dane, although piece, I still
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  Lola. I was just so determined to make
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  his marriage work and I so much admire him for that, because if
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  colloquy was wanna went through, what's Peter went through?
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  He would have divorced and neat a long time ago.
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  Paulo Coelho on the other hand. He is no longer with a little
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  Qui although I need to I wouldn't say that.
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  Struggle, love did not pay ha. We never can tell because
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  there's also a probability that she would have married into
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  Wells and then fine and everything.
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  But she is okay, I mean from the divorce documents She she she
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  has money. She asked for everything and
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  also because they both houses in Atlanta, so she's fine, she is
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  okay. But that conversation of
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  struggle love is struggle of really worth it because all
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  these men you see Marion second wives.
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  They their first wife they marry them when they had nothing in
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  the bill together and today they are man.
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  Second wives for me personally, I don't think I have any problem
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  with struggle love as long as you are improving yourself.
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  I think we are probably. The problem is, is, if you are
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  dating somebody who is struggling and you just solve,
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  you're struggling, or you're pouring, all your resources into
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  that person forgetting yourself, then that is a problem because
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  one day, this person is going to wake up and tell you and get
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  married to somebody. D half his age and then your
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  desktop with three children taking care of them and you just
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  they're basically and a person hit the Run button on their life
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  and they are living large and you debits are most times.
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  When you see people being resentful, when you see people
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  being bitter, talking about struggle of is because yes the
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  both of you are struggling at that point.
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  But what you did was building, somebody else, And forgetting
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  yourself. So, what I'm going to say is,
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  there's nothing wrong with struggle of because you are you
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  yourself at that point you're struggling.
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  So that is why the both of you are trying to work something
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  out, but the problem is, don't just Struck with somebody and
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  then forget yourself, you building.
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  Somebody else. Also build yourself be selfish
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  build yourself even within those trouble.
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  I mean you can support people emotionally even financially but
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  that does not mean you should put your dreams or your
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  aspiration at the back burner while you're trying to help a
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  husband or partner or your boyfriend succeed, are you
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  thinking of Okay, once he succeed is going to help me
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  stop. So 90% of the time, it doesn't
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  work that way. Regardless of the relationship
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  you're in, whether that person is even.
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  What are you not even in the struggle relationship?
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  Whether you are in a relationship whereby.
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  Everything is soft. There is money, everybody.
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  There's money for you to spend and you're happy.
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  You still need to find time to develop yourself regardless.
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  Because have you seen the rate of divorce?
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  You knew you coming down with his more and then you wake up
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  and don't go telling you. I just found somebody that is
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  half your age so this marriage is over.
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  What do you do or do not even tell you that the marriage is
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  over? They were just go chasing
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  everything in skirt-chasing. You house help like Polo query
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  allegedly chasing your house help.
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  So you'll be forced to kind of get out of that relationship but
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  what are you living with? With what skill are you living
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  with? What qualification are you
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  living? What can you do for yourself?
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  Regardless of everything. That is there, that is not
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  understanding. When people talk about struggle
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  of, it's not about the struggle of is about, as you're
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  struggling. Don't just pour all your
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  resources in that person because tomorrow, you're going to resent
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  them. People locally is, you know,
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  chili with his 16 years old girlfriend.
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  Lonnie tokyu Plaza, forties is Berkeley with our three
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  children, although she's in America but I don't think it
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  should be easy on her. Looking at her husband showing
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  off a 16 or 17 years old girl as his girlfriend as his love
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  celebrating one year anniversary.
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  When she last year just a liberated are 70.
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  Anniversary that would be hard. That would be hard.
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  And I mean, a lot of people were saying that oh she filed for
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  divorce. Who are they expecting him?
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  Not to move on but that is not the point.
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  The point is can he? He should have found somebody
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  that is closer to his age and we would not be here talking about
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  this. So let me know what you think.
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  Do you think that we are just overreacting because she is
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  younger? Do you think that Pollo Loco is
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  just trying to rub it into his wife?
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  Like, you know, I I met you at your 18.
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  I can get somebody. I can bug.
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  Somebody who is also 18 at this age?
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  Is that a point? Hmm.
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  So thank you very much for watching today's episode.
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  Please like like like and share. Thank you very much.
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  Bye. Bye.