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Yoreh De’ah 194:4-14. Niddah: Giving Birth and Miscarriages, Afterbirth, Gender, Caesarean · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  Hey there good morning we are in some uncle Saudi dalid lettuce.
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  We are in six dalid y'all the Vlad Hi she she gave birth
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  properly to Africa. He peel a Shiloh then another
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  sack or placenta came out. I think it's a birth sack ain't
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  enough for sheshe Vlad, we don't have to worry.
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  She had like twins and one and one and one was a nasal.
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  You don't have to worry about that.
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  I'll tell you a sub of lodge. She let us far.
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  We say that this is this was from the this is leftover from
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  the baby that was born, but that's only until 23 days of
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  only appeal that nasal Tila. But if a nasal came out came
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  first ain't telling about Shulia should appeal a we don't say
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  some she had an Apollo. She had a miscarriage.
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  We don't say, well, there's a Shulia afterwards.
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  It was from the original original miscarriage.
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  She has a Shulia elite thing that you made two of us on a
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  cava and it let's say she had an she had a she had a miscarriage
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  and then and then, you know, 20 days later another like the
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  placenta or bursac, whatever it is came out.
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  They don't tell that was from the first one.
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  We say there was a there was probably there was a second
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  there was a second fetus of some sort.
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  And therefore she has to sit even again, too much, too much
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  on The Cave from the birth. I was just I'll just just give
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  you a random number. I'm just saying that the Huff
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  Gimel was from the that was from a proper proper person delivery,
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  proper birth right. I was just saying that.
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  I was just saying just giving you an example after after, you
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  know, let's say she sat 14 days for the first one and then and
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  then and then, you know, shortly after that Shulia came out, she
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  has to sit another 14 days, right Until 20.
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  No, until 23 days after we can be toiler on the first one.
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  No, this is the second case is if she had a miscarriage.
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  The second that was if she had a proper birth.
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  Now, the second case, she had a miscarriage and the question is
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  if you had something come out within 23 days, can you be Tyler
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  on the miscarrier? And then first miscarriage and
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  she has to sit one set of what? One, one set of 14 days in the
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  end. And she's no, she has to sit 2
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  sets of 14 days. Regular birth, then one.
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  Yeah, she's telling me. She's telling me from the
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  original birth. She's not telling me a second
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  time. That's that.
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  That's the thing. That's only a second time.
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  I'll go just to mention I just to be clear from yesterday, I
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  mentioned that the thing the Indian about not of of being
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  punished and Lille are bringing that 41 and and 81.
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  It's a it's a it's, it's just a it's a Milo.
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  It's it's not not a cube. It's just a it's an Indian as
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  Igor says, it's a Sukana, but but it's not a it's not a cube.
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  Obviously, you know, if you didn't if it happened, don't
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  worry about it and North and just want to be clear that it's
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  only like a you know it's not a it's not mamish halacha.
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  It's just ignore. Hey, Yatta Hashil Yatkila.
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  Let's say let's say the placenta came out first in the sack.
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  Ain't toilet noise sub is large tailor Aqua.
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  We don't we're not toilet on the on the child, which is is born
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  right afterwards. If you who've been Kayama, even
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  if he's, if he's 100% healthy, the Shulia you saying that you
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  made too much of the cava and crochet is so let's say again,
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  we have the 23 days. So let's say that we say it's
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  all that they're connected. So let's say the Shulia comes
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  out, comes out and then you know, and then I said that,
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  right, you know, you know, and 18 days later she gave birth.
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  And so, you know, so we we don't, you know, and let's say
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  she and let's say she gave birth to a boy.
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  All right, let's say she didn't say it 14 days and she gave
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  birth to a boy and so she she sat seven days.
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  We're going to tell her that you can't you can't go to the mix
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  until you sit 14 day until you do 14 days.
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  At least 14 days could be either.
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  I don't know. I think he has to be 14 days,
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  but he she would need to sit a separate.
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  He made too much on the cava, even if I'd say she gave birth
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  to Azaka or something like that. Vav he also makes Australia the
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  ambition Olympics of the show. You came out of your reshare,
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  though, think Mara, you'd see us Adam Adam Shaney and then they
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  came and then it came out fully on the on the on the second day.
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  They after horsesh's via resharing of the enema 1 Ella
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  Miami Shaney we're horsesh for the you know that that that the
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  later was started on on on the first day.
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  But she's she's Tamaya Leyda right, obviously, but she only
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  starts counting the day after right and just Agav, just to
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  mention over here that the what's the beginning of consider
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  the beginning of of birth. It's not really mentioned the
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  chauffeur art so much, but it's it's from when you know, it's
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  it's it's you know it's from when.
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  Yeah, we'll get to it in. We'll get we'll get to it in a
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  minute. So it's a little warmer for us a
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  little bit more. But what?
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  We'll wait a minute. Zion appellist the Bruce Bohemia
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  Khayeva of she had a miscarriage and it came out Khayeva.
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  Oh, for Shulia Shuraba and there's a Shulia with it.
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  Anna Khashev Slovakar. We don't have to be for another
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  Vlad. I mean Anna Shuraba, but if it's
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  not attached Khoshche Sivanakar, we say maybe she had she had she
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  had, you know, 22 some 2 fetuses in there.
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  Avabisha Vlad Hanidme, Hanidme Zafar, Khoshini thing they made
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  too much of like Eva and Shrila Shilya.
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  And even if the Vlad looks like Azahar, but we we still say it's
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  still it's still unclear and she has to wait and she has to wait
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  14 days. It's still a connection of a
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  Suffolk and she has to wait 14 days.
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  Hess how you let his tum tumor androgynous noise and you made
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  too much on a cable. This is something I gave.
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  She gave birth. It was a tum tumor androgynous,
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  which is Suffolk. You know, the tum tum is that
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  the the the private area is covered over.
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  So they don't know what it is or drugonist has both has both have
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  both organs. Then it's natural sulfate and
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  she has to say, Oh, you made too much on the cable test Nugisha.
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  She peela she she felt that she she had a miscarriage or any of
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  dance Ma, but she has no idea what it was feel the heist of
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  the Heskas Mubarris and even if she she didn't really know she
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  was Mubarris, she was pregnant. I raised zoo to me and Laida,
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  she's to me a lady with possession sharement of the Cava
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  heights and the crucial shadow was in the cava right now.
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  Again, we're talking about it was after 40 days and she felt
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  like, you know, it was something that it was something bigger
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  like it wasn't it was something it was, you know, sometimes it
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  can happen and you know, using the bathroom, whatever that you
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  know that that she felt it was something.
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  So she has to be processions you'd Neptaka Vlad if the if the
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  blah if the fetus you're broken up in her may or let's say they
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  had to break it up to get it out.
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  You know you know they also aver aver Ben.
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  She also say they are evarian whether it came out you know
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  aver aver going. She also her regular shake.
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  Then she also Shalala say whether it didn't you know, go
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  in the regular order of the body.
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  Ain't it to me later. She also rubo she's not.
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  She doesn't have to can't start counting until most of the most
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  of the most of the of the fetus is out in the answer Rocha of
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  Kulo que echo that if the head came out completely.
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  I raise a Carrubo that's next shove Rubo the inlonet.
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  And it wasn't you know it wasn't and, you know, broken into
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  pieces. I don't know limbs He ought like
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  a Darko and it came on the Nafa and then they then they feel
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  came out regular regular birth machine tastes like a doctor
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  Raziki lobe when the forehead after the forehead comes out and
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  this considered a born Alphabetia Nefta Africa, even
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  though the rest of the the body. Let's say there was a NATO.
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  It was a miscarriage. You know the IT was you know it
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  was dead or stillborn. Unfortunately, these things
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  happen and they had to you know they had to you know in order to
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  to get to get it out. They had to be you know they
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  have to do what they have to do Then even the once the pedajas,
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  once the forehead comes out, then it's considered you start
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  counting. She starts counting from then
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  well self daughter. She also look what's vanish,
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  even if it didn't completely deliver LL feel when she also
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  holds the pros door. Even you know, even if it went
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  just outside the pros door, then that's enough to be considered.
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  You look, you know Hootzia Uber eschealdo with 0 e-mail to me,
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  Aleida. So we have the case of parrots,
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  right? He stuck his hand out and then
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  Zara was born, let's say 20 days later.
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  So she would be to me, Aleida. All right, that would be, that
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  would be the situation. Or any limb, any limb that would
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  be that would be considered to me.
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  Aleida, your base Heisa Makasha lele.
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  She was she was having contractions.
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  Shama color just here, I'll just mentioned.
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  So the The thing is, is that it says that she's Tamaya from one
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  from the point where she can't really walk, where she has to be
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  supported to walk there. She has she has contractions to
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  the point where she can't walk anymore.
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  And that that we can say that's CFS like ever.
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  And then and then from that point on, she's she'd be to male
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  and the husband would not be allowed to go ahead and to and
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  to touch her that they have to be knowing her cockles.
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  Question is when that is water breaking is not considered CFS
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  like ever. And it's not she's not to me
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  from that point the the mucus plug that comes out and she is
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  not they're not she's not the tomato later either.
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  And it used to be a story that the you know, the doctors used
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  to sometimes it would sometimes it could be even nowadays.
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  So pull it'll pull the plug without the without the woman
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  knowing and to start later. If they do stripping, then then
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  she is tomato later, because that's definitely the you know,
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  he's definitely the the made the, you know, the she bleeds
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  from that and everything. And that's she's definitely
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  tomato, tomato. She's tomato Anita from that
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  point on, if the doctor does that, you know, having, you
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  know, if if she's dilated, that doesn't so she sees something
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  that's she's not the she's not considered, she's not considered
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  the you know, the Anita. And if her, her contractions are
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  coming, you know, hard, hard, you know, hard and fast, you
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  know, love exactly. Everyone's different, you know,
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  so it's hard to know exact hard to know exactly.
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  You know, if it's coming every 5 minutes, it's coming every 3
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  minutes it's got I don't know. It's hard to know at a certain
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  point it's hard for a woman to stand and therefore at that
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  point, if she would be to me and she can be considered to me and
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  neither whether a husband the question is is a husband allowed
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  to hold her hand during later? So value says, see, I didn't
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  look at the chuva inside. He's quoted as he was.
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  He's saying he was he was maturated because, well, pick
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  off that fish. A lot of other place game.
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  That's an astronomy place game. I'll say that you know that I
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  mean, most many astronauts opposed given say that, you
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  know, say that make it tasty. It's very Lahachtman.
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  You know, why, why, why hold her hand?
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  You know, so the the the the question seems to be that
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  listen, obviously, Nitrof Daito and she you know, Daito, you
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  know, you know, I need her. I need his hand.
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  I can't whatever you say that obviously that case.
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  I'll twist him with a green and smelter.
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  The key is to discuss it beforehand.
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  You know, if she's expecting it, you know, say listen, you tell
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  her that the police can know whatever during the thing.
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  She's some reason she needs it. Honestly, You know, my wife said
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  that you know, you know, during later the thought, the thought,
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  the you know, you know, she you know, she didn't, you know,
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  thought of me coming anywhere, you know, anywhere near, you
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  know, was like, you know, anything to do with me.
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  You know what happens, you know, the Kamara says that I'm darned.
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  The woman makes you know, screams at her husband, you
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  know, whatever. Like if the union, you know,
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  really, you know, husband shouldn't shouldn't say Oh no, I
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  need to hold your hand to hold your hand like it's a thing.
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  I don't know. I don't know face.
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  I don't know if they did it in Europe, but I don't know to me
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  it sounds you know, I don't know if was talking to the value was
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  talking to Victor and I I'm not even sure.
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  So yeah, obviously these things can be discussed beforehand to
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  avoid the Shiloh of intratheight or not in the whatever the
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  Shiloh can be asked then anyway, I used to Makasha lately Bishama
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  coalition of lad and she heard the crying of a baby, you know,
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  and she's considered, you know, she gave birth.
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  Yeah, sure, sure. The roadshow close the pros,
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  though, and even if they check and it's not there, the bed, the
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  head went back in and then let's say then then then the sheel
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  came and then whatever. Then the baby came out.
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  So she's you know, so then she starts counting from from the
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  first day. That's interesting Shile of the,
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  the, the, the the husband was they were lying.
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  They were a lot. They're you know, they were
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  lying. And then she was pregnant and he
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  was awake and suddenly he heard he heard the baby crying from
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  inside from inside his wife's from inside from from his wife.
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  And and so the oh, maybe she's to me later.
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  No view the says, you know, like you know, she she was sleeping.
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  If she was really giving birth, she wouldn't be sleeping the
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  rights. You know, it doesn't make sense
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  that he heard the baby crying from inside inside his wife or
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  he imagined or he heard from the neighbor down the block whenever
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  he was half awake. Stop interesting, Shyla, you
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  know listen, you know the Chuba that would have felt that the
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  that it was important, you know that you know important to try
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  to chuba back so I don't see their brother brother have to
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  pay attention even to strange, strange shiles.
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  Yukimo you lettuce to Umi Michelle Vlad Akavero.
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  She gave birth to twins and and and the second one waiting for
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  you to know after the first one was born first, the second one
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  was born after the story of in the year the year 2000, there
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  was a there was a prize being given or something to to the
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  first baby out of what city It was first baby born like the
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  last baby born, the first baby born.
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  So it was a Doctor Who his wife was pregnant with twins.
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  So he, he he went ahead and was induced her and, and had the
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  last baby born and then and then and then pushed and had the 1st
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  baby born. I don't know, you know, right
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  after 12, whatever later when the first one comes out, she's
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  to me later morning. You made 2 of Mishi Yatza Akram,
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  however, right? This is the let's say she was
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  tomatoated, meaning let's say she didn't even see Dom, right?
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  I don't know what. And then, however, she's
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  tomatoated for the first one and then she's made, she starts to
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  for the seven or 14 days when the second one came out.
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  But you know, Risha Niker, she was Zahar.
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  And if you could tell, the first one's a Zahar, but Shaney Niker,
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  she who in the cava And the second one, it's Niker that she
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  is, she's in the cava. Oh, Shaney zed, he can't tell
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  right? That second inu zahar in a cava
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  Mona, right Mona mishiyota shani me tuma in a cava.
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  So then you start counting, you know, whatever reason is not
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  nicar. You start counting tuma from the
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  second from the second birth. You dial Yutzy Dolphin, the
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  cesarean section in Loyot Adam Dolphin if the blood only came
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  out, you know from from the incision e-mail to Haira me
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  Leda, I mean neither or me Ziva. She's she is she's she's she's
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  tired. She is she is she she she
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  doesn't have too much Leda. The question is, is she up for a
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  second? Not sure she would do we how do
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  we pass through the mice? She's like she doesn't have to
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  sit through in the game. I'm not sure usually also I have
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  no idea. I guess it's sometimes I guess I
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  don't know people would know if there's blood or not, but you
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  know it doesn't basically talk about it.
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  I don't know. It says that she's not smeal
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  either. However, I don't know that's if
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  she doesn't see any blood past this issue.
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  You probably see blood, but I have no idea.
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  So the she Indian person should ask a ask a person in China.
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  Okay, we'll start. I'll start.
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  I'll just do a Duma here with Hey, there's in your Harcaucus,
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  you know, but you know, it's the Harcaucus in the beginning of
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  marriage is like the that's like the big Shiloh, you know,
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  whatever it takes time to get used to, you know, get, get used
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  to the the the whole idea and, and, and to figure out, you
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  know, at some point, you know, the, you know, the husband and
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  wife get into a rhythm of what they do and what they don't do
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  and what's whatsoever and what's not.
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  And, and it comes like, it comes like second nature.
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  There's a question of, you know, we're going to get into, you
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  know, not not handing stuff and carry all these things.
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  There's a question, you know, is, you know, and the and
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  they're worried about about being embarrassed or about
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  Satsnius, you know, whatever, you know the emesis is that
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  Lamisa like you know, so like the Shiloh, you can can be hand
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  hand hand her something in power, hand her baby in public
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  amnesia says like, OK, you know, you know, Busha, what Busha is
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  there used to be everyone knew. Sadly, you see the chiffonar
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  everyone talks about they they wore big day neither, but she
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  couldn't sell. She was a Khazaka.
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  Everyone knew everyone was in neither what women are in
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  neither. It's not a it's a natural part
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  of life, you know, and you know, and even if the different couple
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  cops that they're in neither OK, say there it's natural part of
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  life. Like what?
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  It's one thing, you know, when it comes to going to the Mig to
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  a fight, I understand is what to be OK.
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  It doesn't mean they should do well, you know, should do a big
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  hot, you know, a big show of it, but the ratio says it's that
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  there's no you know, you could be yeah, you don't you don't
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  have to show everyone, but the nice is you can't you can't be
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  mad here. The Hirako's because of cover
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  the Brius and and she's embarrassed.
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  You know the you know that they you know, there's certain cool
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  as you can do, but at a certain point and to a certain point,
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  you can't be you can't be Makila just because of because of the
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  covet abuse and and being and being embarrassed.
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  And so and the and the our caucus by by Ishton ETA doesn't
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  apply by other women also to discussion by let's say other
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  HSH. Some say that that what do you
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  mean kosher Kane, you're like, you know, handing money back and
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  forth and things like that close chicane you shouldn't do.
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  And there are there are people who are Macbid, you know, see, I
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  don't know there are people who are macbid on such a thing.
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  There are people who are Macbid. I don't know.
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  I didn't get into all the details.
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  I didn't speak to those people. I know, I know, like you know,
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  some you know, some casino, you know the casino are very Macbid
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  on on that not to take a girl, not to take anything from a man
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  or whatever. So yeah, there are people who
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  are mash bid on. Some say no, these are just
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  harakos because they're special harakos because of the fact that
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  husband and wife can become to hargit a regular and therefore
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  they're more it's more math mirror Fiat Al fear meneg.
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  You can see this whether you can take money from the cashier in
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  the store or not, you know, and that's the, that's the you have
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  to ask a shine.