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Season 3 - Episode 240 - Believing in people · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the Good Morning from the Chicken Coop podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and mastermindset
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  coach. Filled with inspiration,
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  distinctions, perspectives, and possibilities, we help you to
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  cultivate a mindset that leads you to create the best version
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  of yourself you could ever imagine.
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  Join Kim every morning from one of her favorite happy places,
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  her chicken coop, along with all her chickens.
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  Hey everybody, good morning from the chicken coop.
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  When was the last time you actually showed someone, Told
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  someone, but really showed them that you believed in them?
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  I think this is incredibly important as an act of kindness
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  to people, to let them know how much you believe in them because
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  it lifts someone up. And this is something I do
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  regularly based on my the role I have in the world.
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  My calling in the world is to coach people, help people, lift
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  them up, give them different ideas and possibilities of
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  seeing things. But a big part of it is
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  believing in them, helping them believe in themselves.
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  But honestly, it's really me believing in them because
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  sometimes they'll say that to me.
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  Do you believe that I can really do this?
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  And the answer honestly is without question.
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  Because if you're believing the things that you need to believe
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  and taking the actions that you need to be taking and staying
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  consistent in your emotional state, then without question,
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  you can. You can make anything happen
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  when you put your forces in the right direction.
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  Now, I truly believe that this happens across the board and
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  it's just a matter of somebody believing in you.
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  Sometimes you just have to have somebody believe in you.
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  And it's very scary when you don't have people believe in you
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  because you feel like you're all by yourself.
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  And you have to learn to, you know, help yourself.
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  You have to really learn to help yourself.
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  And that's something that I have consistently gone through my
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  whole life doing is making sure that no matter what happened, I
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  believed I could take care of myself.
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  No matter what, I could always believe and myself no matter
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  what because it was so important to me.
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  I did. I have people that believed in
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  me, yes, but I didn't want to just rely on those people also.
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  But it is really nice when you have it.
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  So if if you are a person out there and you've had people
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  believe in you like I have, it's much easier to say, you know
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  what, I'm going to start really believing in myself, using those
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  people from my past. Like even though they're not
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  with me, I know they believed in me.
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  And I'm going to keep remembering that and bringing
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  that forward into myself because that's what I do with my dad and
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  any other teachers that I may have had that really believed in
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  me. I, I focus on that because I
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  know I can bring it forward. Any trainers I've ever had, I
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  know I can bring that forward and I can use it.
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  So it's a tool. But there are people who have
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  never had that. Can you imagine that they've
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  never, ever, ever had that? And that's what I'm talking
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  about. Find a way to bring yourself to
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  a place where you know, without question, you can believe you
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  can 100% give them that gift. And no, it's, it's possible to
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  help somebody lift themselves up, but it's, it takes the
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  ability of saying, you know what, this is important to me.
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  I'm going to do this because I, I not only do it for myself, but
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  I do it for them in the process. And I get the gifts too.
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  So it's to me, this is just such an essential part of it.
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  And more and more and more, I believe that these things are
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  necessary because the world seems so callous and it seems so
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  opposite of what we want to create.
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  And the most important part of it is to recognize that we have
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  the gifts that change it, and we change it. 1 belief at a time,
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  one compliment at a time, one tiny action at a time.
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  It doesn't have to be all these big grandiose items that go out
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  there. It just has to be 1 little bit
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  at a time. And the more we do it 1 little
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  bit at a time, the better off we all are.
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  So I highly encourage this to go on.
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  Find someone, even if it's just giving people compliments.
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  You know, you go get coffee. Most of us go get coffee and we
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  just order our coffee and walk out the door.
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  We say thank you and we walk out the door.
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  Some people don't even say thank you, but I believe anybody who
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  listens here says thank you. So when you're standing there
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  and you're talking to somebody, say, you know, I come here every
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  day or you're not talking to them, let's say, but you're
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  standing there waiting for your coffee.
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  You say, you know, I come here every day and I just want you to
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  know how much I appreciate the fact that you make my coffee
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  every day. You will see people light up
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  because that's like a little sprinkle of I believe in you,
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  thank you. And sometimes you have to use
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  the exact words. Listen, I just want you to know
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  I believe in you. I believe that you're going to
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  be amazing at whatever you choose to do.
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  And if this is what you choose to do, you already are amazing
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  at it. Give somebody the gift to my
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  friends and watch them blossom and give yourself that gift too
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  because it makes a mad difference.
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  All right, my friends, I will see you tomorrow.
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  Have a blessed day. Bye.