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- Sean Graver: You can feel your mood drop the second you see them walking towards your desk, and you haven't even said hello yet. Hey, I'm Sean, and this is Prayer Before Work. The Apostle Paul writes something to the church in Philippi that I think about a lot at work. Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish. Now that's Philippians. two fourteen and fifteen. And notice how Paul approaches this. He doesn't say to put up with the grumblers. he says don't become one. Now we've all worked with someone whose default setting is complaint. You know, the coffee's bad. That meeting was pointless. Management doesn't get it. Nothing's ever fine. And somehow every conversation ends up there no matter where it started. It's exhausting. And honestly, it's contagious. You can walk away from 10 minutes with that person and find yourself griping about things that didn't even bother you an hour ago. But here's what I've had to learn the hard way. You can't fix someone else's outlook. And it's not your job. Trying usually frustrates both of you. What you can Can control is whether the weather over their head becomes your weather. And that doesn't mean being cold or dismissive. Sometimes a genuinely hard thing is happening and a person needs to vent it once and be heard. But that's different from a pattern. And I think the test is simple. Like, is this a one-off moment? Or is this just how they talk now? And if it's a pattern, you're allowed to set a little distance. You're allowed to redirect the conversation. And you're allowed to be kind without treating every complaint like it's your burden to bear. And and Paul's not asking us to like fake happiness, he's he's asking us to not let someone else's grumbling become the soundtrack of your day. Because it very easily can. Your peace at work is worth protecting. So let's pray. Lord, you know exactly who drains us and exactly why. Give us the patience for the people we work alongside, even the hard ones, and give us the wisdom to know the difference between showing up for someone and getting pulled under by them. Keep our own heart from turning into a mirror of their discontent. And let us be someone who brings a little more light into the room, not less. In Jesus' name, amen. Go make today count.