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- 0:00Hey. This is in hypothetast number three hundred seventy- eight of shepherd Joseph
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- 0:29the previous three hundred and seventy- seven podcast in Joseph Ordon is a Christian.
- 0:34With Oy José Ordoñez, he tells us about the importance of Fidel and
- 0:38Babconyugal economic in the welcome marriage. Marriage treason is not just a matter of
- 0:48sentimental or sexual infidelity. There are many ways to betray a spouse, such
- 0:56as betrayal of the economy. Many locals live in poverty, in debt or
- 1:02suffering because the money they earn goes like water between their fingers. He constantly
- 1:08questions himself and seeks eagerly. The reason why they live from Afugia in Afugia
- 1:12in most cases is because both men and women do not know that mutual fidelity
- 1:19in economic matters is very important to maintain God’ s blessing in the house.
- 1:27Couples believe that their economic cunning is worth more than the practice of principles
- 1:34based on Conjugal transparency, to which God is constantly calling us. Pay attention
- 1:42to the different points that we will talk about today about the economic infidelity that
- 1:47causes many bankruptcies in the marriage economy. From today you have negative economic consequences
- 1:53when number one, when you lend money from your spouse' s hidden family
- 2:00budget, I give you an example. You need to lend money to a
- 2:07family member, a friend, a friend, and you think. I know
- 2:12that if I consult him, he' ll tell me that I don'
- 2:15t better avoid the problem. I lend the money to my little brother for
- 2:19example and then my brother returns it to me and my spouse won' t
- 2:23find out. In most cases, the little brother does not repay the loan
- 2:29and the matter becomes chaos for the offending offender who took a risk for which
- 2:35he must now respond. And even if it were the case and the little
- 2:42brother returned the money on time and the spouse didn' t notice, it
- 2:47' s a disloyal act to do negotiations in secret from our partner, because
- 2:54perhaps our spouse will never find out. But God, yes, God loves
- 2:59loyal marriage. Don' t make financial transactions that your wife, your husband
- 3:07doesn' t know, because heaven won' t accompany you in them.
- 3:12Number two, you' re financially unfaithful. When you lie to her about
- 3:17your income, I ask you, your husband, your wife knows how much
- 3:28you actually earn. It' s not about being watched in every aspect of
- 3:30your life by your spouse. This is confidence, which is the most important
- 3:35currency in the marriage economy. When we keep the economy as open books where
- 3:44I know in detail the economic space of my partner and she in turn knows
- 3:49mine. We can get closer to handling the marriage aspects as a whole.
- 3:54God likes it. That God delights in marriage unity. Remember that from Genesis
- 4:01he said it and the two became one and when he created them as a
- 4:06couple, he blessed them. With these words, let them be fruitful,
- 4:13that they have dominion over every situation. If I have figures unknown to my
- 4:17wife, if I keep double accounts, if I haven' t been completely
- 4:25honest with the money I put in my saddlebag, I will devalue the most
- 4:30important currency in my family economy, trust. Note that the Bible says every
- 4:35deceiver finds a superior deceiver. That' s there in second thymus. Chapter
- 4:43number three, verse number thirteen, while those evil phonies will go wrong by
- 4:48cheating and being deceived, you realized stop for a moment and make the right
- 4:56decisions. If your spouse doesn' t know, I don' t know
- 5:01your entire financial reality. It' s time to start being honest. I
- 5:04guarantee you that God will bless you greatly with your change of financial attitude.
- 5:11Number three, you' re financially unfaithful when you have and you don'
- 5:17t contribute enough. One of the traps brought by marriages living with charges equal
- 5:21to fifty percent is that one of the two has already met their goal.
- 5:29He feels that this should not be paid for because it is the responsibility of
- 5:33the other party. I' ve already met mine. They argue now it
- 5:39' s up to my spouse to comply. Marriage is a covenant in which
- 5:43two are engaged in order to help the other. The unequal yoke spoken of
- 5:48by Lord Jesus. These are two oxen pushing with the same force to keep
- 5:54the plow straight, but look also at what ecclesiastes chapter number four green from
- 5:59nine to twelve better are two than one, because they get more fruit from
- 6:05their effort. If they fall one lifts the other woe that falls has no
- 6:13one to lift it. If two sleep together, they' ll warm up.
- 6:17Just one how it' s going to warm up. Only one can
- 6:21be defeated, but two can resist. The three- wire rope doesn'
- 6:28t break easily. If your husband or wife needs you to help him with
- 6:32his financial burdens for this or that occasion and you have a way to do
- 6:40it, do it. This is also a show of love. Number four
- 6:46you behave financially when you get a discount on some purchase and you don'
- 6:53t share it. The Bible treats the economy as one. Remember, from
- 6:59the moment you got married, there' s no money or your money.
- 7:03There' s money, money that' s owned by both of us,
- 7:11regardless of who made it. What' s more, seeing it from the
- 7:15right perspective, it' s not her money or his money. It'
- 7:19s the money he owns God. Wife and husband are mere administrators of the
- 7:28administration who have over him will receive damages or benefits from the attitude they have
- 7:35between them. It will depend on how much more the sky opens up to
- 7:41benefit them, that is, when you make economic decisions. God, from
- 7:45heaven, observe the attitude of your heart to that good. If they give
- 7:50you a discount, if you earn a bonus, if you get an inheritance,
- 7:56if you win a draw, the truth is they both won it.
- 8:01In conclusion, economic fidelity produces prosperity in the decalogue of God' s law.
- 8:07The commandment says you will not steal and many times, with any of
- 8:13these attitudes we are stealing from the person with whom God has commanded us to
- 8:18have a sacred covenant until death do us part Today is the day to change
- 8:22the attitude, to have an open, frank, determined dialogue with our spouse
- 8:30and to be able to compromise that God be the one who blesses us when
- 8:37he sees our transparent economic course that God blesses you. You have listened to
- 8:41Pastor José Ordoñez in his podcast number three hundred and seventy- eight of Christian
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- 9:22we want God to bless you and give you a chance to maintain a healthy
- 9:26marital economy. Happy day for everyone