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Diva Mia: Life has Miracles that will lead to your True Happiness · The Diva Details

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  Welcome to the Diva Details. Welcome to the Diva Details.
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  Where bold, confident women embrace life unapologetically.
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  From love and sex to wellness and reinvention. We keep it raw, real and powerful.
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  No filters, no limits. Just fearless conversations to help you thrive.
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  Let's dive in with Diva Mia and Diva Cat.
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  Hey, beautiful souls. Welcome back to the Diva Details. We're going to go deep
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  today and get real. I'm going to talk a little bit more about rising higher.
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  This is Diva Mia, and today I want to talk to you about something that has radically
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  changed my life, and it might change yours too.
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  Now, I know sometimes life feels like it's throwing bricks instead of blessings.
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  You get hit with a breakup, a business failure, a health scare,
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  or just, you know, quiet moments of doubt that feel louder than anything else.
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  But the truth is, every challenge carries a gift.
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  Every challenge can be a lesson. Every setback has a message in it.
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  And every closed door might just be redirecting you to your future destiny.
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  I think sometimes we get down when we think that the doors are closed or we
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  can't achieve something because we didn't get the opportunity we wanted.
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  But that just may be a great opportunity for a lesson to learn.
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  Think about a time in your life when things didn't go your way.
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  Maybe you lost someone, maybe a deal collapsed, maybe you tried to take weight off and it just stayed.
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  What if instead of spiraling and asking, why me? Change that to say,
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  what is this trying to teach me?
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  Every rejection is a redirection. And every breakdown can lead to your biggest breakthrough.
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  But you have to receive it. You have to be receptive to the gifts that God's giving you.
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  It doesn't always come in gold wrapping. Sometimes the best thing in life is
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  a challenge that you need to overcome.
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  And sometimes it looks confusing. It could be chaotic. There could even be a loss involved.
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  But you know what? There's a growth there, and you just have to seize that opportunity.
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  Growth never feels like growth while it's happening, I must say.
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  It feels painful. It can cause resistance in your mind.
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  You may have a block that doesn't want you to move into a change area or into
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  a growth area. You can have fear and loneliness.
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  But that's where your soul expands. That's where you truly grow.
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  I don't think life gives us challenges to break us. I think it gives us challenges to grow us.
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  So think about it that way. It's growth. It's not breakage.
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  It throws them your way so you can build your capacity.
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  But the question is, do you have the capabilities of? And I think everyone on the planet does.
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  We just have to choose to grow and choose to change.
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  There's wisdom, love, faith, strength, discernment. All of those things help you along your way.
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  I think it's kind of like weightlifting, but for the spirit, right?
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  Just like when you go to the gym, without pressure, you don't make any gains.
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  If you're just flapping your arms in the air, you're not really making any gains.
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  You have to push through the pain in order to grow.
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  And then sometimes we have to ask ourselves, what in our life am I avoiding
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  doing that I know I need to do,
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  that in my heart and in my soul I know I need to do in order to evolve?
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  Because that typically is exactly what you need to do to take it to the next
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  level, to raise your standards, to grow and find those lessons and those gifts that God's giving you.
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  The first thing I think is we need to make sure our environment is friendly to receive.
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  And we don't only need to just declutter our mind and clear our mind and maybe
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  meditate a little bit and clear the space.
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  We also need to declutter our houses.
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  I think a lot of times we are held back by the mess in our house i think our environment,
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  slows us down and if we can
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  declutter our house we can declutter our mind i think our spirit will just soar
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  and then surround yourself with good people don't surround yourself with people
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  that are going to hold you back and whenever you have something good happen
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  they turn it around and make it all about them surround yourself with people
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  that want you to expand and inspire you that challenge you,
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  you're here to grow as a person and be exactly who you want to be.
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  But you can't be that way when other people are holding you down.
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  It is much harder to fight to get up,
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  When people are holding you down, if you can be on your own,
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  it's actually easier than being around negative people.
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  And say no to anything that doesn't align with you. A lot of times,
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  especially us as women, we say yes to help everyone.
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  We say yes to do everything for everyone. And if it doesn't align with our purpose
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  and align with what we want to do, we should not be doing it.
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  And sometimes we say yes to people just because they're friends or family and
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  we think we are obligated to. but if it doesn't align to your purpose,
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  you should not be doing it.
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  I think one of the biggest things is being grateful for what you have because
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  the more grateful for what you have, the more you invite in new gifts and new
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  blessings into your life.
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  I'm grateful for the challenges I've had. I am so grateful for all the lessons
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  I've learned because it's taken me
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  into a whole new growth and a whole new level up and it can for you too.
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  But you got to watch for the signs. I don't know if you believe in God or if
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  you believe in the universe or source.
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  Whatever you believe in, there's always signs. You just got to pay attention.
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  And you got to raise your standards. You know, raising your standards is so important.
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  If you really want to receive, you got to raise your standards more in life.
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  You got to raise your standards in love, in your relationships, even with friends.
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  You got to raise your standards with your finances, with your happiness, with your peace even.
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  Raise your standards on your cleanliness. Raise your standards on your house.
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  Raise your standards on everything surrounding you. Even raise your standards on your kids.
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  Hold them to a higher standard, and you'll be amazed at how quickly they grow into that standard.
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  They will fill those shoes so fast just because they are guided and directed by you.
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  Low standards are going to attract low vibrations. You're going to attract low
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  vibration people. You're going to attract low vibration, ounce of money, relationships.
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  You don't want that. So raise your standards, raise your vibration,
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  and then the right people will come to you.
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  When you elevate your energy, your values, and your habits, they just improve.
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  You start attracting what I call miracles, things in your life that you're like,
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  how the heck did that happen? And you manifest it.
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  When you clean up your space, you notice that,
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  things happen right at the right time for you. It may be that you've been looking
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  for a partner for a while and things haven't really clicked and all of a sudden
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  everything just aligns.
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  Or maybe you're looking for a promotion and you clean up your space,
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  you clean up your headspace, you get clear, you get peaceful,
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  you start to experience joy and all of a sudden you get a promotion.
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  It's always there. It's always been there. The crazy thing is you just never
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  received it. You weren't open to it.
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  The faster you can get open to receiving things, the more likely you're going
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  to have better things come into your life.
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  You are so worthy of love.
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  You're worthy of abundance. I think sometimes we think that we're not worth
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  the extra job or the extra money or the flow to come to us, but we are.
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  You're worthy of joy, beauty, peace. You're worthy of it all.
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  But you have to be open to receive it. You've got to open your eyes to the possibilities.
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  Open your heart. Stop going through the motions.
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  Stop living like a zombie. Trust the process.
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  Life is not punishing you. Life is preparing you for the next step.
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  But you got to raise your standards. You got to elevate your soul.
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  I think that as we grow, we learn that life's gifts are there for a purpose.
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  Life's lessons are there for a purpose. We just need to learn what it's for.
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  Sometimes we break up and we have to rediscover ourselves. Sometimes we lose
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  a job, which means we need a new alignment.
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  And sometimes we get ill, which means we need to learn a new way of healing.
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  I know I've had some health issues and I've learned some really amazing ways to heal.
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  Which I honestly don't want to change a thing because I think this is going
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  to propel me into a life of health for the rest of my life.
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  And I believe it's going to allow me to live a lot longer. So what could have
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  been a setback or a letdown changed my whole trajectory in life.
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  It changed who I am. And I am growing in a way that I never thought possible.
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  I think sometimes we think our challenge is there to knock us down,
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  but honestly, I feel like it's just weightlifting or resistance training.
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  A challenge is just a resistance training for the soul or for the spirit and
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  to help us grow emotionally.
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  I don't think that growth ever feels really good. It's kind of like you go to
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  the gym and sometimes you're pushing through a set and it's really painful,
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  but when it's over, you're like, oh, that was awesome.
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  It's the same thing with growth. You gotta push through.
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  And a lot of people, I think, as soon as things get tough, They think,
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  oh, maybe I'm going in the wrong direction.
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  But really ask yourself, am I doing the right thing? If you know in your heart
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  and in your soul and in your gut you're doing the right thing,
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  you shouldn't be changing directions.
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  Just because things get tough, you just need to look around for the lesson and
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  the challenge and find out what it is.
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  I think one of the big things for me is you've got to have a breakdown before a breakthrough.
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  So a lot of times those challenges will lead to maybe even a breakdown. But don't quit.
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  Keep going. Persevere. I think one of the crucial things is to declutter your
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  mind, but it's also, you know, you've got to declutter your environment, align your boundaries.
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  And gratitude is a magnet, but you've got to ask for signs.
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  So just to wrap it up, I just wanted to give you a quick little anecdotal way
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  to say, hey, keep your eyes open.
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  Life is amazing. Life is wonderful, but you've got to look for the signs.
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  Keep going. When you think you can't keep going, because you're going to have
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  a growth mindset for the rest of your life if you do.
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  Life is always offering you more, but only if you want to receive it.
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  You got to trust the process elevate your
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  energy and stay receptive to more
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  things to miracles coming your way i encourage you to keep growing and glowing
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  up and receiving as much as you can but long term i hope that you will grow
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  into the person you've always wanted to be this is diva mia have a wonderful
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  day and keep growing up and glowing up.
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