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Should She Let Her Husband "Get Even"? · Podcast - Big 98.7

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Well, it's about to heat up in here because we're entering the judgment zone.
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We know, every Tuesday we like to talk to somebody who's got themselves
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in a bit of a predicament, and today that is an understatement. We're
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going to call her Leanne, and I think you'll understand why. We're going
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to have a little alias for her. All right, So she's on the
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phone now, Good morning, Leon. What's going on? So my husband
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and I have been married for eight years and we went through a rough patch
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recently and we separated for a few months. That's so yeah, okay,
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yeah, but we are reconciling now, and we even started counseling. But
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I came clean and admitted that I had a relationship. I mean, it
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was really like a one night er while we were on break. But he's
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having some issues with that, and I can imagine he has this idea that
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maybe we should go, like he should go have a night with someone different
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to like level the playing field. He thinks it will help, and I
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sort of agree, but I don't know. I'm not sure what to do.
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You're considering it, yeah, I am, because you do want to
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get back with him. You feel like you've moved on from your issues other
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than this one, and you feel like it's work do it. Yeah,
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I definitely feel like it's worth it, and I feel, you know,
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I feel guilty and if I get to do that, then he should get
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to do that. But but also I don't. I don't want him to.
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I was gonna say, I don't know if you could really get past
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that. It's easy to say like, oh, yeah, I did this,
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it'll make me feel better because of your conscience, But ultimately he would
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be with another woman, right, I think you just let him do it.
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No, I mean, if you really want to get back with the
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guy, it's sort of a hail Mary. I'll give you that. It
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might not work out either way. But you guys, it's like a process.
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Like she they were on a break, she was in a situation.
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So now he has to find somebody put a situation out there. Who knows
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what could happen. There's all sorts of websites for that. Oh my gosh,
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that's not the hard part, right, Len, here's what we're gonna
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do. We're gonna get some people's opinion on this. Of course, it's
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the judgment zone. So you're gonna hear some judge responses. Do not worry.
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It's all in the effort to help you. Okay, Okay, thank
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you all night. So the number is seven oh one two eight h one
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ninety eight seven. You can call us, you can text us, but
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either way, let us know what should Leanne do. You can't set this
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situation up like okay, I mean there's no I know this is not traditional,
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but in an untraditional circumstance, there's untraditional solutions. Okay, let's pretend
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she doesn't. Let's say they don't go forward to that. They just try
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to reconcile. You know that ain't gonna work, right? Is it ever
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gonna work? Then? I mean, you won't know it's your teat when
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it comes to a situation like this. In my opinion, I don't know
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it. She doesn't even understand how that is going to affect her. Yes,
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I know you hurt him, you were on a break all of that,
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But now to like create this situation of whatever it may be, maybe
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there won't be feelings if they cross that line, it doesn't matter. You're
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you're still having to communicate with somebody to go and do this. No,
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not seven o one two eight one ninety eight seven. Good morning. So
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here's a deal. When they were on a break, she knew the consequences
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of her having this one night of right, right, So if that's the
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way it's going to be, then let them do it. Also, you
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know, like maybe they should enter the possibility of like an open relationship deal,
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you know. I mean, Okay, if you judging Hugh Jackman by
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the way, you could talk all day. You have my full attention right
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now. You have a lovely voice. I get what you're saying, because
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even though they were on a break, I'm doing air quotes here. We've
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all been on breaks. We know what that means. You're supposed to be
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finding yourself. It's not just an excuse to go horse around because you know
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that. Still, if you're on a break, technically that means that you're
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going to go back, right, I mean, otherwise you would break up.
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Yeah, and that's why you said what you said. She knew what
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the consequences. She knew that would hurt him. So if you ever wanted
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to get back with them, either you shouldn't have done it, should or
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you'll let him do this. Guys, I just can't get best the fact
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that he has to like find somebody right now while they're working on their marriage
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to go through. I just I mean to be like, he already has
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somebody a little prospect. Hey, we appreciate your call. Where are you
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calling from the way to London, England worldwide? Amanda, look at us.
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We made it well, thanks sir? All right, bye bye,
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oh very nice. Obviously listening on the Big ninety eight point seven, app
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what do you think mesmeriz right now? Seven one two eight h one ninety
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eight seven? Should she let him quote get even? It's the judgment zone,
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so by all means get a little judge. Let us know it a
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Manda in the morning, Big ninety eight point seven. Of course, a
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lot of the conversation won't be about the super Bowl, whether you like it
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or not. You know, the super Bowl, though, it is kind
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of cool because it's a little something for everybody. You don't have to be
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a big football fan. In fact, I feel like it's non football fans
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who seem to embrace it the most. Yeah, we already have a couple
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of friends who are like, Hey, what's everybody doing for the Super Bowl?
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Do you guys want to have a party? Get the kids together,
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have a little fun. My only beef with the Super Bowl is why can't
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we I get advertisers and everything like later on and the later the better,
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but can we just have the game at like noon or one o'clock? Okay,
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I get that to your thing. But it's at like five. I
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mean it's it's earlier than most it's evening primetime football games. I know it
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just it feels like you have all day. Why can't you? I mean,
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I think a little earlier. I would listen to you if you said,
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why can't we do it on Saturday? Oh? Even better? That
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would be great, you know. And for me it's again, it's just
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become a tradition in my life that every year the Packers, they don't just
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lose in the playoffs, my favorite team. It's always heartbreaking and it makes
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me not want to even watch football or think about it. It's so sick
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when you care that much about something, Amanda, and I know you would.
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You would never understand having this sort of passion, Oh you or something,
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yes, but when it ripped your heart out like that, I just
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want to move on. I just wanted to be golf season. I don't
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want to think about football. I want it to be over. Will I
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go to a super Bowl party if invited? Sure, just because I,
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like many other people Amanda, in fact, seventy four percent feel like the
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food at the super Bowl party, oh yeah, is the best part about
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it. So that was actually the topic of our conversation in our little group
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chat. I had seen and I actually just saw one of my other group
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of friends. They did a chilly shark couterie. So you like you put
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together on a thing, you put like a whole pot of chili, maybe
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a couple of different kinds, and then they put like cheese, crackers,
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free doos, like everything that you like onions, like you'd put all the
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toppings. So they made that, and then another one I just saw that
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I really wanted to try, especially if we have all the kids together.
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You make different kinds of macaroni and cheese, but then you get the topping,
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so you could do like burnt and buffalo chicken, whatever you make like
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a big macaroni and cheese bowl. Wouldn't that be cool if you're willing to
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do it. And I appreciate people who'd go to those lanths, because I'm
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definitely the guy probably just gonna grab a bag of chips at the grocery store.
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The gas station on the rail guy was like, oh, yeah,
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no problem, we need me to bring anything, and hopes they're gonna say
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no, we got it covered, and you know're like, should I bring
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them bag of doritos just so we don't look like we're showing up empty handed.
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And they're the ones that sit on the counter and at the end of
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the night they're still unopened. Thank god I brought those. You know,
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I walk in with a case of cores, the light that it was originally
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a twelve pack, but there's seven left in there. Just being the cheapest
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man are you're the guy too. If you don't finish them, you take
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them when you leave because you brought them. Absolutely, Oh my god,
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I don't want to burden somebody leaving my loose beer can? Is that bad?
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I don't know. I love eating so much so Super Bowl. Really
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it's just the best combination of foods, like the wings, the chili,
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the dips. I mean, you can go all day with the dips,
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you really can. There's so many A French onion dip with ruffles, chips,
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buffalo chicken. I I haven't made that yet this year. The seven
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layer dip. Oh my gosh, anybody else hungry? This is killing me.
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The other thing, too, is the halftime show. I'm really excited
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about Usher. I think that's gonna be so exciting. I don't know.
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I know, it's good fodder, it's like fun to talk about, but
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at the end of the day, it is so at this point, we
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just accept the fact that it's lip saying the whole time basically yeah, and
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he's just a good entertainer, and we forget that. I mean, this
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guy has like the Michael Jackson vibe, goes spinning around dancing. I don't
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care. I don't need to see a grown what is he fifteen out?
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I don't need to see a man spinning around like that does nothing for me.
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I already read a headline that said, no, Taylor Swift will not
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be performing at the super Bowl, because of course, we all think that
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she just has that sort of power because her boyfriend is in the game.
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She's sorry, Usher, like, you know, you can do the period
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you get to the pregame, Amazon show or whatever. They did, break
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it all out, and the chances of her being at the Super Bowl are
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real good, real good? Is that right? Uh? You super Bowl
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commercial person anymore? Well? Advertisements? No, it never was. I
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never understood why we get so repped up about commercials. I love it.
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I just hate now that they usually release everything beforehand through the Internet. You're
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like, you know the internet, right, Yeah, they drop it on
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the internet. They drop it on the Internet and start sharing them, and
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I'm like, don't spoil it, because there are some times where you're just
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like, this is a great commercial. But I do think that we have
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our hopes so high for him anymore, Like the bar has been set high,
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so it would take a lot for you to go, oh, that
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was actually really good. That they're not as funny anymore because people are sensitive,
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you know what I did? There used to be like really edgy,
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offensive super Bowl commercials before we got all soft and woke. I don't remember
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that time, I guess. I mean the guys on the Budlight commercial going
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like that really no man? Did did that get them? Yeah? The
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Frog, the Budweiser, Clydesdale's did upset cry. Sometimes some of them are
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emotional like that, we're probably due for a good crying one. I feel
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like they sort of take some years off to let us recover, and then
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they hit us with another one where a dog dies or something. I don't
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know, I know, I know, maybe they're not, Maybe they Maybe
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I am more moved by the commercials. Yeah, I think so, Amanda
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in the morning on seven. Either way, man, we're gonna have a
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heck of a weekend. You and I wait, was chatting. We both
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have a couple kids' birthday parties. Yeah, my daughter got invited really to
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her first birthday party that isn't a relative or like a neighbor, friend or
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something. So really excited where she's making these friends I hope not the internet
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at school? Yeah, on her snapchat at five she's met somebody online.
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Oh stop it no, Uh that was fun at her take care. I
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know, I'm really excited about it. She's gonna be just giddy knowing that
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she's going to this. But it's just crazy that we've already crossed into this
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new life. It's like new parenting for me. It just feels like when
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they're young, it's its own thing, but now you're just eventually now you're
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like full on mom because now you got to start interacting with other moms,
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right, So what are you going to go to the party. Yeah,
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I mean, well, she can't drive yet, Pike, so I'm going
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to bring her there, can't she can't. Nope, she's she's not able
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to drive yet. Yeah, going to go in and going to go in
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and then yeah, it'll be two hours of mingling with people. I don't
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really know which how exciting, I know, just different. Yeah, Now
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do you get a gift for this five year old? Yeah? That was
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one of the first questions I asked. I'm like, okay, so what
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is this. What is your daughter into? It was arts and crafts.
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I'm like, perfect. It's the nice thing is is when they're around your
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age, you know. You know sometimes when you have a niece or a
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nephew that's a little bit older, you're like, gotta go gift card or
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figure that out. But the only pressure I have right now is kid's birthday
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is coming up. The end of March. Didn't even cross my mind.
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Because we have COVID kids, We've never really had a birthday party. Last
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year, we had a few neighbor friends over because she wanted to meet Raffle
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style birthday, so we got cupcakes. Not yes, remember Sydney want the
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five year old. Oh that's right, you weren't here yet. She wanted
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a spa meat raffle birthday. I'm not kidding you. What have you done?
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What did I do? She loves a meat raffle, So it was
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great when people were popping over to our house. It was just a weak
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night and my neighbor brought her like a thing of steaks and she was just
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so excited about it. I'm like, this is amazing. That sounds incredible.
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And now what the birthday party are going to is something less exciting,
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I'm sure. Uh no, it's gonna be at games galore, Oh for
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fun. How much are you spending on a five year old's birthday? Because
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I feel like that's just one of now going to be probably every month.
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You'll have another birthday party from now until i'd say twenty year under. Yeah,
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something like that, just a little craft kit something, yeah, because
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I would never you always to think I would never want to put that pressure
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on somebody else either. You know, you want to bring a gift because
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that's the polite thing to do and it's sweet. Yeah. Yeah, Well
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I got a big birthday party myself. Nephew's turning three, very exciting.
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What's the theme? Big, big, but no theme? It was sort
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of a last but Sunday morning is the time frame nine am we're talking,
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which you know, I imagine for parents it's like great kids are upping at
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it. Oh my gosh, your sister is a genie before nap time.
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Now for the childless uncle t T who had a week end to himself that
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he was not likely going to indulge in Saturday night, and it might be
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a little more challenging, but we're gonna be there either way because you only
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turned three once. It's at the YMCA. Are you kidding me? At
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nine am? Birthday? I love this. It's been a long time time.
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We used to swim. That was like a ride a passage. Growing
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up here in Fargham, wore going to the downtown YMCA on the weekend.
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I don't think I have ever been to the downtown YMCA. No, man,
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we had some times. I can still picture it, like is yesterday
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walking in, you check in, then you go down the stairs. I
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got the locker rooms on the left, the little playroom on the right,
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where, oh my gosh, id we have some good times. So so
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are you gonna get in the water. You're gonna play with the kids have
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fun. Uh, probably not. I don't think. I don't think Uncle
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Tt and Uncle yo Yo are gonna get wet yoyo. That's our nicknames for
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the kids. Got it, got it, got the kids for us.
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No, I don't know. It's been a while. They haven't recently installed
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like a swim up bar, a cabana at the YMCA pool. Do you
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know is a full bar? Right? I'm assuming, yeah, full bloody
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Mary bar and everything for you. Then we'll get Amanda in the morning.
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I now Amanda Stills. Let's see, let's see, well, I love
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this Gwen Stefani and No doubt are I guess getting back together for Coachella and
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you just forget. I mean, they live these lives and then they have
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a totally different identity. Their parents and Gwen Stefani's ten year old son,
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Apollo, I guess, came home and right before bad was kind of like,
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hey, mom, everybody's talking about you guys going to Coachella, and
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I hear it's like this really big festival. So she had to explain to
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him that and then she said she had to pull up the Don't Speak video.
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They were watching it. I'm assuming he's heard No Doubt music before ten
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years old, and this is the first time she's showing him that, Like
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if that was me, Lord knows if we have a kid, ever,
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the amount of time I'm going to spend showing him low standards music videos.
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I mean, it's gonna be like he's gonna have a memorize as soon as
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Lauren's pregnant, you're gonna be singing jams and all that stuff to her belly.
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And then also, I guess she had to explain because she was dating
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one of the guys in No Doubt at a point in that music video,
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so I had to point out, like that's Tony. Tony and I were
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together, daddy, and yeah, exactly before your daddy was with the maid.
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Oh gosh, I forget about that. Oh the was it the nanny?
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Sorry nanny? Is it? I don't know, They're two totally different
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jobs. Yes, people still called our maids a thing house cleaner. Yet
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I feel like it went the way of janitor. Oh gosh, just out
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the window, Taylor Swift. You can run, but you can't. What
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do you mean, Oh gosh, did you used to date a janitor or
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what a custodian. Thank you, Amanda. Oh yeah, Janitor. Anyway,
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Taylor Swift, God, you didn't get me like I didn't. Taylor
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Swift basically one of the Kelsey is. We're getting so much insight now as
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to how normal she is. People are trying to like blow this up and
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make it out to be like, oh, yeah, she's a superstar.
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We get it. But when it comes to her going to these football games,
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everybody who was in the suite with her after they won the other day,
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she's just hanging having drinks, party and doing her own thing, really
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supportive of him. But also when she was going down to the field to
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greet Travis, she was making sure that Donna and his dad and everybody were
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there. And I don't know, I'm just I'm here for it. I
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love it. The haters are gonna hate, but who cares. Well,
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She's just a normal person, yeh, in this situation, and I think
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she deserves this. It's just it's hard to imagine as as being really really
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normal people, you know. But at the end of the day, she's
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a warm blooded human being who feels the same things we feel and talks about
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the same things. It's just her job is a little unique. Yeah,
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and you can totally tell that they really are into each other. And Travis
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had said like I love you to her, and she whispered, trying,
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trying so nobody could hear, but they caught it. She says, I've
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never been so proud of anyone ever. Oh wow, I'm her ex boyfriend.
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I'm a little offended, okay, And this whole situation has been uncomfortable
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for me for quite some time. And then when Kanye started posting pictures of
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his wife Bianca Sensory on social media where she looked like she was just a
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staged prop, almost like a mannequin, like he's parading her around as though
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she's I don't even know, like what would it even be? Like a
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show pony, A little bit like a show pony, if that's still a
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thing. I think it might have went the way of the janitor. But
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oh yeah, oh so I know she's very scantily dressed, not a lot
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going on there, So I don't know. I don't know what he's going
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for. But so her friends are saying that she used to be super interactive,
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so she was a model at one point, so she had her own
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Instagram, probably how he found her, to be honest with you, I
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don't know their whole entire backstory, but she has completely just dismissed everybody in
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her life. They kind of feel like she's trapped. They hate the fact
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that he has just taken her off of social media. He has told her
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and brainwashed her that she can't be on there because she couldn't handle the negative
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comments. But nobody would give you negative comments if you weren't posting naked pictures
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of your girl. No, And I don't know. She doesn't say a
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word like you said, so I don't know if this is what she wants.
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And she's enjoying every second of it. And I get if you want
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to be an ertzy, fertsy kind of guy. Cool. And that's where
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some people are saying, Oh, it's just art for him. This is
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a woman who has should have a voice, Like, why are we acting
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as though she's being captured in a shower captured in the show. You saw
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the picture where she's just a shower pick. Yes, oh yeah, the
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shower pick like a man in the morning. On Big Nutty eight point seven.
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We are in the judgment zone where, yeah, we are we're gonna
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call her Leanne. Sensitive situation. Her and her husband married eight years,
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had a little rough patch, as people do, went on a break and
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she admits to having a one nighter during the break. Now he wants to
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get even because they want to reconcile, but he said in order to do
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that, he wants to be able to have a night as well with somebody
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else. Yeah, And she said they're going to counseling, and she's she's
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actually leaning more towards like, yeah, go do your thing to make herself
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feel better. And I like it. I know it sounds crazy, but
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I think this is pretty much like the last ditch effort. Otherwise it ain't
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gonna work. Seven on one two eight h one ninety eight seven, Jessica,
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what do you think? So I had a family member who tried to
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do this and it did not go well. I tread yeah, tread water
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very gingerly. Do you know how it got arranged? Like how the whole
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one not you know, the get even portion of it. How that was
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It was a long Yeah, it was a long time ago. It was
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more I mean it it ended up being like turning into an open marriage and
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then it just kind of didn't work, I mean exploded from there. Yeah,
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gotcha. Okay, Well, interesting perspective. Thank you, Jessica,
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yep I big ninety eight point seven. Who's this, hi, Britta?
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What do you think? What should they do? I think think that regardless
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of what she did, whether they were on embrace, whether it was a
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separation, if they thought it wasn't going to work, if he's wanting to
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level the playing field and get even, they need counseling because it's not an
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adult relationship at all. Well didn't she say they had started counseling, So
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maybe that is some good advice, like talk to your counselor about it and
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hopefully they can nip this in the butt, because there's no way any counselor
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is going to recommend this. And like I said, I know it's very
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untraditional, but I feel like it's the options here are it's not going to
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work, or you try this and it still maybe doesn't work, but at
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least you tried. That's wrong man, anyway, I just there's something about
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the whole I have to get even I have to do exactly what you did.
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That's just not healthy, sure for sure to I mean, I guess
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like, if you love somebody and you're trying to make it work, you
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shouldn't want to be engaging with anybody else. Like how uncomfortable your heart should
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just be with that person exactly, big ninety a point seven. Who's this
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right? So what do you think? I think this a really bad idea.
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It didn't work out for Ross and Rachel, so why would it work
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out for that Rachel spoiler? We also the last episode they end up together.
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I missed this episode. It was full of drama, and you know
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what nowadays thinking about like actual health of it, there's pregnancies that could happen,
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STDs that could happen. It's just a bad idea. Well that idea,
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it sounds like he's gonna probably do it either way. So this way,
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if you're involved, you can control the logistics. Stop very pis It
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could be a very sterile environment. You know she's gonna be there, and
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then it's a whole nother situation like hey, can I drop you off and
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pick you up? Honey? I mean no, nope, Do you need
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to take an uber or should I pick you up? Weird around? Yeah?
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Well, thank you for the friends reference. I know Amanda is on
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cultured and doesn't understand it, but beautiful, thank you for And we got
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a few texts as well. We do. We got somebody saying I believe
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she should would in fact let him do something, But I don't think she
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should just you know, let him pick one random girl. Perhaps she should
21:06
be involved kind of going up. Yeah, that's the compromise and maybe being
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there if you're picking up what I'm putting down really spicing things up. But
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there's also a husband chiming in. He says, as a husband, I
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wouldn't even want to do that. I mean, things happen when you're separated.
21:23
It's just time to move on, go through the counseling, address your
21:26
issues. If counseling doesn't work, I guess move towards divorce. If that's
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how you guys feel. Otherwise, you've worked through it through counseling and that's
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going to better your relationship. Yeah, I don't know. Does that feel
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like the best resolution? Well? Yeah, I think like option one would
21:41
just be to call it. I feel like if you want to try it,
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it doesn't hurt you. Know, worst case scenario, you just end
21:45
up divorced. Anyway, I think try it you think. No, no,
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try it. Just see what happens. I mean, that's fun with
21:56
it. This isn't like a McDonald tappy meal. Just go grab the toy,
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have some fun with it. Like no big beyond there you go find
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some marriage the final judgment in our judgment zone. Have some fun with it.
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No, it's not my bike. It Amanda in the morning. Come
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on, get up on, big do my man go a little far with
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the proposal here. I get that it's all been done. Nothing's original anymore.
22:18
However, this guy, well, he wanted to propose to the love
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of his life. Okay, Manda, this just happened. It's gone viral.
22:23
Him and his fiance now are driving just down the road as you do,
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when suddenly a person on a motorcycle whips in front of the car and
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parks it, and another pedestrian who is on the sidewalk approaches the vehicle in
22:37
an aggressive manner, and they're insisting that the couple of the man in his
22:41
now fiance get out of the car. They also have a concealed gun.
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Stop, get out the car, Get out of the car, Get out
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of the Oh my god, they're freaking out. The guy and the girl,
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and we were getting carjacked right now. Then another motorcycle approaches. We
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got a full gang. Now there are five men with bandanas, and so
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the couple gets out of the car and so the man goes down on one
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knee while the woman they paw over to him. He dies, not the
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look on her face is she's horrified, as you might be if you were
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getting carjacked at gunpoint. Yeah, because mentally I'm about to die, Like
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there's no getting that out of your mind. So even if there is something
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so amazing happening to my other side over here, I'm not okay with that.
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Well, you guess it. Man on his knee pulls out a ring
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and proposes, and all the men the sticky bandits do they basically kind of
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like just sort of back off. So they're in on it. It's not
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just coincidence. Those are the grooms men probably. So what is his what's
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his thought process here? Well, his thought process he wanted to make it
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a memorable moment for his lady. And for her part, you can tell
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she's collecting herselves thinking, oh my god, is this real? And then
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she says yes obviously because they embrace, But she's doesn't like hit him,
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or she hits him gap or there's multiple slaps laughing, sort of playful.
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Yeah, I sort of like, oh my god, I really thought it
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was gonna die there as you might be. Do you think it's too far?
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I think it's great. I think that's super original. This is sort
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of like when you have a real bad dream and then you wake up and
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you realize it's not real. Like, what a relief. We should all
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be able to feel such a relief. I mean, I'm not gonna probably
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say no, but I'm also gonna be super annoyed by the situation. You're
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really not gonna say no. I mean, come on, are you just
24:26
jealous? Because, let me guess, Nick probably just what got down on
24:27
a knee and said will you marry me? Yeah? Well, I was
24:30
in my gym clothes on a Monday after I brought home the ring. Oh
24:34
come on, really, did I miss that detail? When you got engaged
24:38
you brought the ring home? You remember this career? Remind me? Okay,
24:44
So what ended up happening is after my mom had passed away, I
24:47
had wanted I had gotten her rings. She had two rings and she had
24:51
really big hands, So I wasn't able to like take those rings do anything
24:56
with like there was no transforming it. So that was my goal, like,
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oh, that would be awesome to have like a sentiment of my mom.
25:00
So when I went to the ring place to like, hey, what
25:03
can I do with these? Like can we do this? And they're like,
25:06
honestly, your best bet is to just trade them in. I'm like
25:08
okay, and they're like do you like any of these things? I'm like
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yeah, I guess. So I picked it out and then I brought it
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home. I'm like, here you go. Cause Nick knew. I mean,
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that was like the whole plan, but I thought I could create something,
25:18
you know what I mean, Like it was all with it. You
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bring your mom's rings into the ring store, they say, well, here's
25:22
what we can do. We'll take them. What it was just one of
25:27
those more of like a trade out situation, you know what. Oh good,
25:33
they didn't just steal them, like oh these are nice ring. Here's
25:37
what's going to happen. We'll take the rings and you turn around and walk
25:41
out here. Yeah that's how okay. So it wasn't like a surprise thing,
25:45
but it was never going to be a surprise I mean, we had
25:48
talked about it. It was a whole second marriage. Wouldn't have been a
25:52
little more exciting if there was a gun involved, if he showed up at
25:56
the jewelry shop and like it was a hecet tree. Now here's what you
26:00
mean to know. Well, I, for one, was a little nervous.
26:04
Alex Murda. Of course, he had a murder trial last year,
26:08
and he was convicted in June of the murders of his wife Maggie and his
26:11
son Paul. But there was some jury tampering that was going on, and
26:15
there was a lot of question marks, people going could he maybe get out
26:21
and have some sort of new trial. Thankfully, yesterday a judge rejected it.
26:25
But he just he's a one of those guys, kind of a weasel.
26:27
You're like, is he gonna somehow get released? Like figuring it out?
26:32
I don't know. I just thought of this murder murder hmmm. Makes
26:37
you think, Hey, dude, am I the first one to think of
26:41
that? No? They have a whole Netflix Netflix show called the Murder?
26:47
Oh yeah, well, I feel like I just come up with it,
26:51
Bud. I think there might have been a few means too, like murda
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murder, convicted of third degree murder. Not funny because there's two people.
27:00
Well, actually even more because there's still a lot of speculation about the random
27:07
kid who had died. There's well listen, I told you yesterday, I
27:10
said it out loud that I am very anti death in real life. Don't
27:15
like it? No one, thank you. Yeah, I don't think a
27:17
lot of people are. I know some people want to treat it like it's
27:18
just some true crime podcast. It's real life. These are real times.
27:22
I really get into it though, Like the Kansas City situation. Still waiting
27:26
for the autopsy reports. There heep hitting refresh. I know what happened to
27:30
those frozen guys. I can't blowing my mind. It's true, all right,
27:36
American Airlines and United having a little fun with the Super Bowl Kansas City
27:38
direct flights to Vegas have some fun names on the ticket numbers, uh nineteen
27:44
eighty nine for a little play on Taylor Swift nice AA eighty seven. And
27:49
then we've got two to eighty seven from Taylor Swift twenty two. And then
27:52
somebody finally decided we're not even gonna go the Taylor Swift way. We're just
27:56
gonna do fifteen and eighty seven for Patrick Mahomes and Travis Kelce. Fun with
28:00
numbers. I did see now Taylor Swift fans who are not a part of
28:06
loving football whatsoever, but they're watching just for her, the best thing I've
28:10
ever seen. So what do we do for the Super Bowl ladies? And
28:12
they're saying do we make friendship bracelets? And say eighty seven? Do we
28:17
have sparkly parties? Do we wear dresses? I mean it's a Taylor's version.
28:22
I don't know. Girls, Just have fun, do your thing.
28:27
And the man who pleaded guilty to stealing the ruby red slippers from Judy Garland,
28:32
I guess the museum night Rock ripped them off of her feet. This
28:37
animal, there's no place like home. He is only getting a fine,
28:44
twenty three thousand dollars fine in one year probation. He's not getting locked up
28:47
for this. No, this has been going on since two thousand and five.
28:49
Finally yesterday that decided they were going to rule on it. Well,
28:53
I'm sure is Conscious will eat away out of the rest of his life.
28:56
That'll be sentenced enough. Where do you think Terry John Art and goes around
29:00
bragging like I'm the Ruby red slipper guy. Oh absolutely, wouldn't you?
29:03
No, Yeah, I mean one of the one upsides of committing crime is
29:07
that you can talk about it the rest of your life. For example,
29:10
me doing that prank call. You know, a lot of bad things happen,
29:12
but at the very least I get to talk about it. I guess
29:15
I don't be bragging about that, though you have a missed ameme, not
29:19
bragging. At no point am I bragging. It's a crime to prank call
29:23
somebody, as I've learned. However, you know, so may say,
29:26
now you're teaching others, that's right, what not to do? It's like
29:30
somebody who It's like when you get a minor in high school and then you
29:34
have to go talk to the kids in the elementary school about why they shouldn't
29:37
drink in high school. I never did, really, really, I didn't
29:40
know, and I didn't either. I just remember the kids coming in.
29:42
Really am I like that as a form of punishment, but also sharing your
29:48
story. Although college was a different story. I had a major in advertising
29:52
and a minor in consumption. Whoops? Was that better than the murdoing?
29:57
At least? Yeah? Did I did? Sunny today. Hi you forty
30:03
r. Nelson Hall caught me red handed. Yeah, anyway, what did
30:11
they call them? Well, you had your on the dorm floor, you
30:15
had your what do they call them, ah, the student who lived there.
30:18
Let's go home monitor. We'll call them the home monitor. So they
30:21
were there, and then of course you had campus security. If they decided
30:25
all a thank you, there you go. Yeah. Yeah. So no,
30:29
if they deem it serious enough, they call the police, and the
30:32
police come and bada bing baa boom. All right, your grandma sees your
30:34
name in the newspaper and says, I better not see your name in the
30:37
newspaper. Wow, this is really triggering. It was quite the experience.
30:42
Things not to do. I get a man in the morning seven. Well
30:47
you got a little situation on your hands, don't you. I sure do.
30:49
So what's going on with your kitchen decord? Well the other day is
30:52
so we have in our kitchen above the cabinets. It's just a lot of
30:57
wide open space. It's very open. It's a very white washed space.
31:03
It is just for my I'm not saying it's good to bad. Some may
31:04
call it a farmhouse vibe with like the black and white. I take maybe
31:08
the farm out of it. But my husband is more of like, oh,
31:11
why don't we put up the deer heads so to be fair, they
31:15
aren't like the deer heads that have like the fur and everything on them.
31:18
He's doing the ah, oh yeah, so that sounds nice. He had
31:26
three of them that he put up on our upper area, probably a year
31:30
ago, way up above the cabin way, above the cabinets, and I'm
31:33
like, they've annoyed me, but I just haven't gone up there and taken
31:34
them down. And so is what what annoys you about? Well, first
31:38
of all, because they aren't centered the way they should be. There's a
31:41
tall one that should be in the middle, because if you're going to do
31:44
three, that's fine, but then you need to have the one that's a
31:47
little bit wider in the side, just so it evens out. So when
31:48
he's out in the woods providing for the family, he should really be more
31:52
conscious of the antlers being absolutely And so this year he was. He shot
31:56
a deer and he ended up having one that had more of a like a
32:00
wider thick rack. It was a little bit taller. I got home this
32:02
weekend and all of a sudden there's five of them in our kitchen. I'm
32:07
like, what are we doing here? Like I was willing to compromise with
32:10
three, we think five is too much. Yes, I think you look
32:14
the photo you posted. Honestly, I think it's a nice little accent to
32:15
what else, which is otherwise sort of boring got going on? I just
32:20
I don't know, you know, I got a little surprise for you.
32:21
I actually have called him. He's on the phone right now. So good
32:23
morning, air Full, Good morning, Nick, how are you well?
32:27
Good morning. I understand you you've been sort of redecorating the house, trying
32:30
to go for the old all on your own. The Woodsman decort, Well,
32:34
I had a pretty good week down an, I figure I better put
32:37
them all up the one now. So Amanda is she pushing back about the
32:40
fact that you want them all up in the kitchen? Whoa, We've been
32:44
in here, what two and a half three years? There's nothing else up
32:46
there. But I decided i'd better, you know, kind of make it
32:49
my own house. Well, I mean you do live there. I imagine
32:51
you pay part of the bills at least, So okay, I think it's
32:53
only fair. There's nothing up there because nothing needs to be up there.
32:58
It's a nice open space. I would nick. I mean, looking at
33:00
some of the photos and being in your kitchen before, I mean it's very
33:04
very depressing. Come on, so plain. Here's the thing. Five of
33:08
them that is aggressive. He had three up for a little while. Now
33:13
he has five in the kitchen. I mean, well, five is very
33:15
symmetrical. Looking at the photo of it, I think you're onto somebody with
33:19
five. I agree. Would you say, historically and you are an Amanda's
33:22
relationship that generally you're the one conceding things and sort of letting her do things
33:28
her way. Would you say that's accurate? She tends to get her away
33:30
quite a bit. Okay, look around her house and tell me if you
33:32
see any cheetah print. There is not an ounce of cheeta print in her
33:37
house because you squashed it. I just turned around and saw a blanket.
33:43
There's all a blanket. Literally, you gotta have one accent to the white
33:47
walls and the white cabinets and the white counters. Now we have white deerheads,
33:53
five of them in the kitchen. Deerheads tell a story at least,
33:57
so do they know you're bland? Eggshell walls? I sit there and I
34:04
think about all the memories I got. Next up where you have an Iowa
34:08
state helmet with number forty two up on the No. No, that's a
34:13
story. Well, what she doesn't know is I have a pheasant that duck.
34:16
I need to go get it. Point two. I see, I'm
34:19
gonna hang those from the ceiling. I'm thinking a big bear rug somewhere down
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the line. Stay strong, Stay strong, brother, I'm with you.