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Speaker 1: School of Humans. On January eighteenth, twenty twelve, a contractor
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Speaker 1: was walking along a road in Dover Township, Pennsylvania in
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Speaker 1: York County when he noticed a plastic bag. The York
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Speaker 1: Daily Record newspaper, who did a great investigative series on
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Speaker 1: this case, by the way, interviewed the guy who found
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Speaker 1: the trash. His name is Anthony. He was talking about
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Speaker 1: how he got pulled into a real life horror story
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Speaker 1: super randomly. Basically, he stopped to pick up a piece
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Speaker 1: of trash and he was going to throw it into
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Speaker 1: the back of his truck when he picked up this
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Speaker 1: white plastic food Saber grocery store bag. The bag was sealed,
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Speaker 1: it was heavy, and it had a weird kind of
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Speaker 1: liquidity consistency. At first, he said he thought it might
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Speaker 1: be a dead animal, but then he saw the blood
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Speaker 1: and what looked like long, gray human hair and skin.
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Speaker 1: He called the police, and the Northern York County Regional
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Speaker 1: Police Department were the ones who initially responded, but they
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Speaker 1: soon realized they needed additional support, so they sent the
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Speaker 1: scalp to the Pennsylvania State Crime Lab for forensic analysis.
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Speaker 1: The lab confirmed that this was human. They ran the
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Speaker 1: DNA and they could not find a match to anyone
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Speaker 1: in their system, So the human skin and hair became
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Speaker 1: a John Doe case officially. Unofficially, detectives called it the
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Speaker 1: food saber bagcase. So that bag and that strip of
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Speaker 1: skin remained in the crime lab and that's where it
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Speaker 1: stayed until five years later. This would lead detectives to
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Speaker 1: a sixty seven year old, diminutive grandmother who looked like
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Speaker 1: a sweet little lady, but who was guilty of pathological lies,
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Speaker 1: a horrific murder, and who some people believe could even
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Speaker 1: be a black widow potential serial killer. I'm Catherine Townsend.
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Speaker 1: So let's go back to late twenty eleven. Shortly before that,
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Speaker 1: passerby made the gruesome discovery of a scalp in a
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Speaker 1: food saver bag. According to the criminal complaint, the bag
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Speaker 1: quote contained bloodstained items, skin and hair. There were other
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Speaker 1: things in that plastic bag that had blood on them.
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Speaker 1: One of those items was a piece of queen sized
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Speaker 1: bed sheet, But detectives had no idea where the bed
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Speaker 1: sheet came from. They didn't have a body, they didn't
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Speaker 1: even have a head. Meanwhile, across the country, a woman
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Speaker 1: named Kim Villa had not heard from her father, Thomas HAYDENR.
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Speaker 1: In a long time. She told The York Daily Records.
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Speaker 1: She and her dad were not super close, so it
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Speaker 1: wasn't unusual for them not to talk for a while,
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Speaker 1: but it had been years. At this point. Kim had
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Speaker 1: not really talked to her father since two thousand and five.
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Speaker 1: She was wondering what to do now. I bring this
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Speaker 1: up because inevitably some people will say, well, she hadn't
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Speaker 1: really talked to her dad in years, How does that happen?
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Speaker 1: How did she not know something was wrong? Unfortunately, in
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Speaker 1: this situation, I've seen it over and over in families.
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Speaker 1: Someone might not realize their loved one is missing for
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Speaker 1: months or sometimes years, and there are reasons why this happens.
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Speaker 1: Kim said. The reason this happened in her case is
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Speaker 1: because Thomas's wife, his second wife, Virginia, who he had
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Speaker 1: married in nineteen ninety eight, was telling Kim that Thomas
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Speaker 1: was there, that he was sitting right there, but that
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Speaker 1: he just didn't want to talk to Kim because of
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Speaker 1: things that had happened in the past. Kim had believed
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Speaker 1: Virginia for a long time. Kim told the newspaper Tom
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Speaker 1: was not a perfect man. It seemed like Tom had
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Speaker 1: had a pretty rough childhood. She said that her own
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Speaker 1: childhood had involved physical and verbal abuse at times from
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Speaker 1: her father. Thomas was originally from Maryland. He married Kim's
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Speaker 1: mom his first wife, when he was young. They were
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Speaker 1: married for twenty years. He worked several different jobs, so
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Speaker 1: the family moved around the country a lot. They eventually
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Speaker 1: settled in Gonzales, Louisiana, for a while he worked as
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Speaker 1: a police officer, Then the family moved to Virginia. At
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Speaker 1: some point, Thomas was working for the Postal Service and
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Speaker 1: on that job, he got injured. After that, he was
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Speaker 1: eligible to receive Social Security disability. By the mid nineties,
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Speaker 1: Thomas had divorced his first wife after twenty five of marriage,
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Speaker 1: and he was ready to date again. So he got
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Speaker 1: a friend to help him get online and try chatting
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Speaker 1: to women. That's how he met Virginia Fogel. They ended
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Speaker 1: up meeting in real life and they started dating. Thomas
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Speaker 1: and Virginia married in nineteen ninety eight. Now this part
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Speaker 1: is interesting because multiple media sources say neither of their
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Speaker 1: families neither Thomas's or Virginia's knew about the wedding until afterwards, which,
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Speaker 1: let's be honest, is never a great sign. Kim told
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Speaker 1: the newspaper she didn't like her stepmom. She did not
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Speaker 1: trust Virginia. She was suspicious of her pretty much from
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Speaker 1: the start. She felt that she was kind of insincere.
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Speaker 1: I know this is something I've said before many times,
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Speaker 1: but it is very difficult to be in that position,
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Speaker 1: the position of being suspicious of someone that a family
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Speaker 1: member is dating, because sometimes in those situations when you
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Speaker 1: try to warn the family member, people do tend to
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Speaker 1: shoot the messenger. I've been there myself, and it could
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Speaker 1: be really difficult to walk that fine line between telling
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Speaker 1: someone the truth, telling them the information you feel they
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Speaker 1: should know, and not alienating them. I don't really have
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Speaker 1: any great advice to give about these situations, by the way,
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Speaker 1: I just want to let people out there know it
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Speaker 1: does happen, and actually I've been there myself. Virginia was
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Speaker 1: born in nineteen fifty one. It seemed like from what
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Speaker 1: The York Daily Record said, her own family said that
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Speaker 1: she was kind of a pathological liar growing up. Her
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Speaker 1: children said they never really knew their mom. They never
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Speaker 1: really knew what was going on. Virginia had some weird
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Speaker 1: stories about her background. For example, she said her biological
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Speaker 1: mother traded her to someone else. Another couple things like that.
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Speaker 1: The children basically never knew what was true and what
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Speaker 1: wasn't true, which meant that when Virginia did tell crazy stories,
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Speaker 1: even if sometimes they were true, people tended not to
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Speaker 1: believe her. This will become important later. Long story short,
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Speaker 1: Virginia's own children did not know much about her, or
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Speaker 1: about really their own family background. A lot of it
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Speaker 1: was a mystery. After Thomas disappeared, Kim, his daughter, and
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Speaker 1: the rest of her family found out something else. They
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Speaker 1: found out that their dad was not Virginia's first husband,
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Speaker 1: or even her second husband, like many of them had assumed.
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Speaker 1: Thomas was Virginia's third husband. Virginia had been married twice before,
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Speaker 1: and both of her husbands had died very suddenly. Virginia's
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Speaker 1: first husband, I say first, but with the caveat that
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Speaker 1: it's the first that we know about. Knowing her proclivities,
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Speaker 1: I would question everything as far as we know. Virginia's
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Speaker 1: first husband was a man named Edward Claba. He was
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Speaker 1: a janitor at Sykesville Middle School in Maryland. Virginia and
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Speaker 1: Edward were super young when they got together. When they married,
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Speaker 1: Virginia was still high school age. They divorced in nineteen
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Speaker 1: seventy three. Virginia's daughter Carolyn told The York Daily Record
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Speaker 1: they split up because Virginia was having an affair, and
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Speaker 1: then tragedy struck. Virginia's ex husband was found hanging in
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Speaker 1: the school gym on November twenty first, nineteen seventy four,
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Speaker 1: less than a year after they were divorced. It was
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Speaker 1: determined that he had taken his own life. Virginia then
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Speaker 1: married her second husband, Floyd Fogel, shortly after that, also
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Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy four, Virginia was about twenty three. By then,
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Speaker 1: Floyd was a lot older, and they had a little
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Speaker 1: bit of a scandal to start with. Apparently, Virginia was
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Speaker 1: the babysitter for Floyd Fogel. They started to have a
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Speaker 1: sexual affair, she got pregnant, and eventually they got married.
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Speaker 1: They had a daughter together named Connie. Virginia was very
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Speaker 1: close to Connie, and Virginia and Floyd were married for
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Speaker 1: about sixteen years until nineteen ninety that's when Floyd died
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Speaker 1: of a massive heart attack. That would mean when Floyd died,
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Speaker 1: Virginia was thirty nine, still young and looking for love again.
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Speaker 1: As we said before, she married Thomas eight years later
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Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety eight. She was forty seven. Thomas was
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Speaker 1: five years younger. Virginia and Thomas sold their properties. They
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Speaker 1: bought an RV together, and it was hard for his
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Speaker 1: family to keep track of him because Virginia and Thomas
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Speaker 1: crossed the country. They moved around a lot. Again, in
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Speaker 1: these cases, the family dynamic can be very tricky. Some
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Speaker 1: family members had their own issues with Thomas, and they
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Speaker 1: didn't realize that the rest of the family was not
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Speaker 1: able to locate him. The last time that Kim spoke
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Speaker 1: to her father was in two thousand and five, and
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Speaker 1: then for the next couple of years, as we said before,
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Speaker 1: she didn't speak to him at all. She would call,
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Speaker 1: Virginia would answer, and Virginia would always have an excuse
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Speaker 1: for why Thomas couldn't come to the phone. Kim blamed
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Speaker 1: herself since she had had a minor argument with her
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Speaker 1: dad the last time they spoke. It seems like Virginia
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Speaker 1: kind of used that as a reason why her dad
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Speaker 1: apparently didn't want to talk to her. Kim got frustrated
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Speaker 1: with this. She started asking Virginia basically for proof of life.
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Speaker 1: She wanted Virginia to send her a photo of her father.
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Speaker 1: She said she wanted this even if he wasn't up
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Speaker 1: to talking to her. She wanted to know he was okay,
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Speaker 1: but Virginia refused. Then Virginia told her Thomas didn't want
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Speaker 1: to have anything to do with her at all. She
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Speaker 1: said Thomas had called Kim a greedy little bitch. This
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Speaker 1: blew Kim away because she had never known her father
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Speaker 1: to talk about her like that. Later, Virginia told her
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Speaker 1: her father hated her, hated the rest of the family,
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Speaker 1: and didn't want to see any of them. Kim was
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Speaker 1: growing more and more concerned. She wanted to know what
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Speaker 1: happened to her father, and Kim started to figure out
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Speaker 1: it wasn't just her. Her brothers had not talked to
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Speaker 1: her dad either. Then Thomas's brother passed away and twenty fourteen,
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Speaker 1: Thomas did not even come to the funeral. After that,
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Speaker 1: pretty much the whole family knew that something was very wrong.
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Speaker 1: So then one day Kim told the newspaper she got
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Speaker 1: a call out of the blue. It was Carolyn, one
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Speaker 1: of Virginia's other daughters. Carolyn asked Kim if she had
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Speaker 1: talked to Thomas recently. Kim said no, and Carolyn said
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Speaker 1: she was worried about Thomas, who was her stepfather. She
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Speaker 1: said she had not spoken to him since the fall
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Speaker 1: of twenty eleven. She had been close to Thomas. Carolyn
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Speaker 1: said she was surprised that her stepfather never showed up
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Speaker 1: to her Christmas party that year, and then she never
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Speaker 1: saw him again. So now Kim has gone from being
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Speaker 1: concerned about her dad to having the terrifying feeling that
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Speaker 1: her dad was gone and never coming back. What happened
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Speaker 1: to Thomas? How could he just disappear so suddenly? And
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Speaker 1: how did Virginia explain that to everyone? It turned out
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Speaker 1: that it depended on who you asked. She told some
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Speaker 1: people that Thomas was in Mexico taking care of some
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Speaker 1: mystery medical condition. She told other people that he had als.
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Speaker 1: When Carolyn asked her mother about Thomas, Virginia said Thomas
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Speaker 1: was gone, but that he left a note for Carolyn.
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Speaker 1: Carolyn looked at the note that Thomas had supposedly left behind,
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Speaker 1: and she noticed it didn't seem to make a lot
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Speaker 1: of sense. First of all, it started out Dearest Carolyn,
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Speaker 1: which Carolyn said was not the way that Thomas talked.
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Speaker 1: It felt very unnatural. The language was way too flowery,
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Speaker 1: and the letters said that he was never coming back.
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Speaker 1: So she was probably asking herself if that was how
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Speaker 1: he felt, why he didn't just tell her, or at
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Speaker 1: least text her or call her and tell her that
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Speaker 1: she knew something was up. So that's when Carolyn called Kim.
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Speaker 1: Carolyn and Kim joined forces. They were determined to figure
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Speaker 1: out what really happened to Thomas. In twenty sixteen, Kim
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Speaker 1: hired a private investigator, The investigators started surveillance on Virginia.
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Speaker 1: By this time, Virginia had moved into her own apartment.
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Speaker 1: The PI interviewed neighbors and people who interacted with Virginia
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Speaker 1: on a regular basis. Even though she was a pretty
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Speaker 1: private person, on occasion, she did like to talk about herself.
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Speaker 1: When people asked if Thomas was gone and what happened
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Speaker 1: to him, she told them that Thomas was in Mexico. Again.
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Speaker 1: She told some people that he had als or lou
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Speaker 1: Garry's disease. Apparently, she also told some people that Thomas
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Speaker 1: was dead or some combination of those three excuses. None
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Speaker 1: of the stories matched, but no one figured that out
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Speaker 1: for a long time. The PI told Kim that Virginia
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Speaker 1: was telling people that Thomas had left her suddenly sometime
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Speaker 1: in twenty eleven. On January twenty first, twenty seventeen, Kim
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Speaker 1: called the Pennsylvania State Police to perform a welfare check
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Speaker 1: on her father. They went to the apartment and talked
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Speaker 1: to Virginia. She told them that her husband had left
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Speaker 1: her in twenty eleven. She said he had gone to
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Speaker 1: get medical treatment in Mexico and that he never came back.
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Speaker 1: They asked her well, how did he leave the house
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Speaker 1: without a vehicle. She said that his brother, Spencer, had
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Speaker 1: picked him up. But police found Spencer, they talked to him,
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Speaker 1: he said this was absolutely not true. He never picked
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Speaker 1: his brother up. He never took him to Mexico or
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Speaker 1: anywhere else. Police were obviously very suspicious, but they needed
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Speaker 1: more evidence. Now, I do want to call out the
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Speaker 1: really good work of the police department, because in so
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Speaker 1: many of these cases, people call me literally almost every
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Speaker 1: week with a story about how a family member has
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Speaker 1: disappeared unexpectedly. They believe someone's lying about it, but often
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Speaker 1: police do not investigate further. In this case, the police did.
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Speaker 1: They really took the time to build a case and
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Speaker 1: put the pieces together. They followed the paper trail on
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Speaker 1: the house. They found out that on November fourth, twenty thirteen,
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Speaker 1: Thomas Hayden had sold his share of the condo he
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Speaker 1: owned to his wife for one dollar. That transaction happens
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Speaker 1: a lot between husbands and wives, so that part is
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Speaker 1: not necessarily a red flag. But the next part to
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Speaker 1: police absolutely was. Because they looked at the person who
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Speaker 1: would notarized this transaction. They found out this signature was
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Speaker 1: Connie Pender Virginia's daughter. Police later pulled in a handwriting expert.
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Speaker 1: The expert's opinion was that Virginia Hayden had signed Thomas's
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Speaker 1: name to that document, according to the criminal complaint. The
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Speaker 1: next year, Virginia sold the condominium to someone else. The
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Speaker 1: buyer paid one hundred and thirty five thousand dollars. Police
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Speaker 1: tracked down the guy who had bought the condominium from Virginia.
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Speaker 1: He said when he bought the place, he bought it
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Speaker 1: basically as is. He said a bunch of furniture and
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Speaker 1: other stuff was included as part of the sale, but
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Speaker 1: he said he noticed that when he moved in, a
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Speaker 1: couple of tho items were missing, including a queen size
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Speaker 1: bed and a large rubber mat that had been in
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Speaker 1: the garage on the floor. They asked him if Virginia
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Speaker 1: had mentioned her husband. The buyer said Virginia told him
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Speaker 1: her husband was dead. But when police asked Virginia about this,
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Speaker 1: about these conflicting stories, she always had an excuse, and
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Speaker 1: by now she was telling everybody Thomas had been abusive.
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Speaker 1: She said Thomas had been so abusive to her that
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Speaker 1: he was dead to her, and that's why she was
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Speaker 1: telling people he was dead. So after Kim made the
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Speaker 1: missing person's report and the welfare check happened, the information
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Speaker 1: was shared with the Northern York County Regional Police, and
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Speaker 1: a detective there remembered the food Saber case. They pulled
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Speaker 1: up Thomas's driver's license. When they saw him, and they
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Speaker 1: saw his long gray hair, they wondered if he might
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Speaker 1: be the person they'd been trying to id from that case.
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Speaker 1: Forensic testing indicated that Thomas's DNA was a match to
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Speaker 1: the scalp they found in the food Saver bag. Those
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Speaker 1: remains had been sitting there for six years. Finally, Thomas's
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Speaker 1: family knew what happened to him. Detectives believed they knew
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Speaker 1: what happened to Thomas too. They absolutely believed Virginia had
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Speaker 1: killed him. Detectives had a lot of circumstantial evidence here.
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Speaker 1: They also have stories that don't match, and, as we
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Speaker 1: have seen on so many cases, stories that don't match
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Speaker 1: our huge potential red flags. But Virginia was a good liar.
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Speaker 1: She had an excuse for that. She said she made
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Speaker 1: stories up because she was embarrassed about the fact that
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Speaker 1: Thomas left her. She told other people that he had
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Speaker 1: been so abusive. She was trying to forget so even
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Speaker 1: though they caught her in lies, it was difficult to
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Speaker 1: prove they still didn't have a body. In July twenty seventeen,
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Speaker 1: police interviewed Virginia. She told them a bunch of different stories. First,
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Speaker 1: she said she was embarrassed about Thomas leaving her. That's
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Speaker 1: why she said that he went to Mexico. Then suddenly
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Speaker 1: she said she actually had seen Thomas since he disappeared.
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Speaker 1: She said she saw him in Puerto Rico while she
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Speaker 1: was visiting there in twenty fourteen or twenty fifteen. She
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Speaker 1: said Thomas was abusive. He was physically abusive. She was
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Speaker 1: terrified of him. She said that's why she hadn't said anything,
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Speaker 1: because she had been so scared when she saw him again.
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Speaker 1: Police knew by this point she was full of it.
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Speaker 1: There was no evidence that Thomas was ever abusive to her. Finally,
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Speaker 1: they took a picture of the scalp in the plastic
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Speaker 1: bag and they showed it to her, But detectives noted
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Speaker 1: she didn't really have any reaction to that. In fact,
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Speaker 1: she didn't have much of a reaction to anything. She
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Speaker 1: seemed totally emotionally flat. So while all this is going on,
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Speaker 1: police are trying to find people who can shed some
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Speaker 1: light on Virginia's real character. They did find one person
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Speaker 1: who she was close to, her grandson, Mike Harris. Police
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Speaker 1: talked to Michael and he said he and his grandma
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Speaker 1: would joke all the time about the best ways to
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Speaker 1: get rid of a body. He said that Virginia used
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Speaker 1: to joke about how feeding a body to pigs with
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Speaker 1: the perfect disposal method, because apparently pigs would eat everything
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Speaker 1: except the hair and not leave behind any traces. Her
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Speaker 1: grandson said they would watch true crime shows together. He
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Speaker 1: described her as cool. He said she also told him
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Speaker 1: if you wanted to get rid of a body in
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Speaker 1: a body of water, you had to stab it multiple
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Speaker 1: times to make sure that it would sink. Side note.
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Speaker 1: This part was especially freaky to me and I'm sure
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Speaker 1: to many true crime fans because real talk. I make
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Speaker 1: these kind of jokes all the time. My mom and
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Speaker 1: I watch true crime shows together. It's always been our thing.
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Speaker 1: So the idea that someone would joke about this not
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Speaker 1: because the humor deflects some of the dark thoughts or
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Speaker 1: the horror of what is happening, but because she did
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Speaker 1: this for real is absolutely terrifying. It's like Patrick Bateman
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Speaker 1: from American Psycho in the body of this innocent looking grandma.
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Speaker 1: Police tried to figure out if Virginia had had a
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Speaker 1: grain of truth in those comments. They did find out
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Speaker 1: that shortly after Thomas vanished, Virginia did some housework. She
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Speaker 1: did some home improvements. One of those was pouring down
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Speaker 1: some concrete for a new patio in the backyard. This
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Speaker 1: is crazy and dark as well. She and her son
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Speaker 1: in law Michael, actually joked about that patio. She made
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Speaker 1: a comment about how there could be a body down there.
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Speaker 1: They could be hiding a body. Police searched that area
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Speaker 1: with ground penetrating radar and dogs, but in the end
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Speaker 1: they found nothing. Luckily, according to police, Virginia did something
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Speaker 1: that helped them. This always amazes me when this happens,
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Speaker 1: but it happens a lot. There are a lot of
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Speaker 1: narcissistic people in the world, and a lot of people
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Speaker 1: who are narcissistic and who lie. It's like, even when
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Speaker 1: they should be quiet, they keep talking. I think it's
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Speaker 1: because they're so convinced they can lie convincingly. They've been
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Speaker 1: able to deceive so many people for so long that
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Speaker 1: they just think that they're going to continue their story
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Speaker 1: is going to be believable. They can't see how ridiculous
22:21
Speaker 1: their own story is. If you're lucky, they will keep
22:24
Speaker 1: talking and sometimes they will shoot themselves in the foot.
22:28
Speaker 1: And that seems to be kind of what happened here. Remember,
22:32
Speaker 1: the detectives were following the money they found out about
22:35
Speaker 1: the condo, and then because remember Thomas was receiving Social
22:39
Speaker 1: Security payments, they found over one hundred and sixteen thousand
22:43
Speaker 1: dollars had been deposited in the joint account Thomas shared
22:47
Speaker 1: with Virginia. Virginia continued to take that money after Thomas
22:51
Speaker 1: was gone. Sometimes if investigators can't get someone from murder
22:55
Speaker 1: right away, they will start with fraud because the federal
22:59
Speaker 1: government will get their money. But the criminal investigation continued.
23:04
Speaker 1: They executed US search warrant on Virginia's home. They found
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Speaker 1: a lock box with all of Thomas's stuff in it,
23:09
Speaker 1: including his driver's license and his passport, which, by the way,
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Speaker 1: he would have needed for foreign travel to Mexico or
23:16
Speaker 1: anywhere else. It was right there. His Social Security card
23:19
Speaker 1: was there. This is something that it seems like he
23:22
Speaker 1: never would have left home. Without Also, why, even if
23:26
Speaker 1: he was planning on leaving, and especially if he planned
23:29
Speaker 1: on getting medical treatment, would he ever stop taking his money.
23:32
Speaker 1: That idea is absolutely ridiculous. It makes zero sense. They
23:37
Speaker 1: checked records. They found that Thomas's passport had never been used,
23:41
Speaker 1: so there was no evidence he ever went to Mexico
23:44
Speaker 1: or anywhere outside the US. He also had not accessed
23:48
Speaker 1: his bank account or any money since he disappeared. They
23:53
Speaker 1: were also checking out other elements of Virginia's story. They
23:56
Speaker 1: tried to verify the information that she had given them
23:59
Speaker 1: about Thomas's illnesses. They went through his medical records. They
24:03
Speaker 1: found no evidence at all of any serious illness or
24:06
Speaker 1: terminal illness, no evidence that he ever, at any point
24:10
Speaker 1: was diagnosed with als. They did find, though, that Thomas
24:14
Speaker 1: regularly saw his doctors. His last doctor's appointment in person
24:18
Speaker 1: was on September twenty seventh, twenty eleven. He was supposed
24:22
Speaker 1: to see the doctor again on October twenty fifth, but
24:25
Speaker 1: Virginia canceled that appointment. She told the doctor her husband
24:29
Speaker 1: had left town. They found out that Virginia had bought
24:35
Speaker 1: a gun. Records showed that she had bought a three
24:38
Speaker 1: fifty seven caliber handgun on October second, twenty eleven. She
24:43
Speaker 1: claimed she sold it to a private party. Police never
24:46
Speaker 1: got the weapon. They found something else that I thought
24:49
Speaker 1: was interesting. They found Virginia's day planner in her house.
24:53
Speaker 1: Next to November one, twenty eleven, Virginia wrote Tom had
24:57
Speaker 1: left for Mexico. Some investigators wondered if that might have
25:01
Speaker 1: been code for something else. And all through this process
25:05
Speaker 1: Virginia acted like she didn't care. She was actually very lackadaisical.
25:09
Speaker 1: At one point she said she would write whatever they
25:12
Speaker 1: wanted her to write. Later, she said she would admit
25:15
Speaker 1: to whatever people in her family wanted her to say.
25:18
Speaker 1: She sounded like she could not care less. She said, quote,
25:22
Speaker 1: I put Thomas Hayden in there, so be happy. I
25:26
Speaker 1: give in, so leave me alone. So there it is.
25:29
Speaker 1: That's my confession. End quote. PennLive dot Com reported Virginia
25:34
Speaker 1: had a food saver vacuum ceiling machine at home, which
25:38
Speaker 1: could have explained why the bag was sealed. Even though
25:42
Speaker 1: she was outwardly somewhat cooperative, though Virginia continued to taunt investigators.
25:47
Speaker 1: In another weird twist, Virginia told police if they wanted
25:51
Speaker 1: to find Thomas they should look in her second husband's grave,
25:55
Speaker 1: remember he had died of a heart attack. They did,
25:58
Speaker 1: but they found nothing there. They charged Virginia in connection
26:03
Speaker 1: with Thomas's death. They also charged her with sixty four
26:06
Speaker 1: additional counts, including forgery, conspiracy, theft, receiving stolen property, and
26:12
Speaker 1: tampering with public records. This was related to her allegedly
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Speaker 1: forging Thomas's signature on that property transfer and to her
26:23
Speaker 1: stealing the almost one hundred and seventeen thousand dollars of
26:26
Speaker 1: Social Security payments. They were able to prove Virginia's daughter, Connie,
26:32
Speaker 1: had been in on this. In twenty seventeen, they charged
26:35
Speaker 1: Connie with two counts of tampering with public records and
26:38
Speaker 1: two counts of conspiracy. Still, though they had no body,
26:43
Speaker 1: they needed to figure out how Thomas had been killed.
26:46
Speaker 1: They needed to piece together a story for the potential jury.
26:50
Speaker 1: They interviewed a forensic pathologist, doctor Wayne k Ross. The
26:54
Speaker 1: pathologist examined that food saver bag. They found there were
26:58
Speaker 1: tiny sprays of blood there, so the pathologists concluded Thomas
27:03
Speaker 1: probably had been killed by gunshop. There were bone fragments
27:08
Speaker 1: in the bag that were also characteristic of gunshot wounds,
27:10
Speaker 1: there were traces of lead in one of the bone fragments.
27:13
Speaker 1: All of this pointed to being shot in the head.
27:17
Speaker 1: Police believed that Virginia probably went up to Thomas while
27:21
Speaker 1: he was lying in bed, maybe even asleep, and killed him.
27:25
Speaker 1: Doctor Wayne k Ross said during a hearing, quote, the
27:29
Speaker 1: task of dismemberment supports the conclusion that Thomas Hayden died
27:33
Speaker 1: of violent death at the hands of another individual. End quote,
27:37
Speaker 1: and this part is horrifying. The pathologists could not say
27:41
Speaker 1: for sure whether Thomas was dead or alive when he
27:44
Speaker 1: was scalped, but they pointed out if Thomas was alive,
27:49
Speaker 1: that would have been a fatal wound and he would
27:51
Speaker 1: have died shortly afterward. The pathologists believed that after Thomas
27:56
Speaker 1: was dead, his killer had dissolved the body in some
28:00
Speaker 1: kind of caustic substance, and that the only thing left
28:04
Speaker 1: was what invests stigators found in that bag. On April eighteenth,
28:09
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, Virginia was arrested and charged with Thomas's murder.
28:14
Speaker 1: She was ready to go to trial in twenty twenty two,
28:17
Speaker 1: but hours before the trial was supposed to start, Thomas's
28:21
Speaker 1: family got word Virginia took a plea deal. Originally she
28:25
Speaker 1: was being charged with first degree murder. She ended up
28:28
Speaker 1: pleading guilty to third degree murder. Her sentence was six
28:32
Speaker 1: to twenty years in prison. Now, there were some mixed
28:34
Speaker 1: opinions about this plea deal. I can see both sides.
28:38
Speaker 1: On the one hand, some people were totally outraged. They
28:41
Speaker 1: felt like this woman clearly murdered Thomas in a brutal
28:44
Speaker 1: way and covered it up for years. I can see
28:48
Speaker 1: that outrage, but I can also see the prosecutor's point
28:50
Speaker 1: of view. You have a situation where there's limited forensic
28:54
Speaker 1: evidence tying Virginia to Thomas. Also, I really don't want
28:59
Speaker 1: to overlook the fact the prosecutors were probably thinking about
29:02
Speaker 1: the fact that Virginia was going to show up in
29:05
Speaker 1: court looking like everyone's grandma. All it would take was
29:09
Speaker 1: one juror to believe her story or even have questions
29:12
Speaker 1: about her guilt for Virginia to get an acquittle. The
29:15
Speaker 1: prosecution probably did not want to take that chance. They
29:19
Speaker 1: knew this woman is a liar. Over the years, she's
29:21
Speaker 1: gotten away with murder, and some people believe she might
29:25
Speaker 1: have gotten away with it, possibly more than once. I'm
29:28
Speaker 1: going to go back to something here. We were talking
29:30
Speaker 1: about Virginia's grandson, Michael, some of the things that he said,
29:33
Speaker 1: some of the comments.
29:34
Speaker 2: That she made.
29:35
Speaker 1: Michael said Virginia would joke about how you could give
29:38
Speaker 1: someone an overdose and make it look like a heart attack. Now,
29:42
Speaker 1: Virginia's second husband did die of a heart attack. She
29:45
Speaker 1: made comments about looking in his grave. Maybe these were
29:49
Speaker 1: just jokes, maybe there was nothing to it, but I'm
29:52
Speaker 1: not sure about that. If I were investigators, if I
29:55
Speaker 1: had any questions about how Virginia's second husband died, I
29:59
Speaker 1: would be looking through that autopsy report finding out if
30:02
Speaker 1: he was taking any nitro medication, which is the comment
30:05
Speaker 1: that Virginia made to her grandson. I would be looking
30:08
Speaker 1: for any irregularities. Virginia's daughter, Connie, pleaded guilty to tampering
30:14
Speaker 1: with public records and conspiracy for her role in notarizing
30:18
Speaker 1: that forged deed. All she got was two years probation,
30:23
Speaker 1: and as shocking as it sounds, Virginia may not be
30:27
Speaker 1: incarcerated for that long. She's in her early seventies now,
30:31
Speaker 1: she's doing her time in Muncie, and she will be
30:34
Speaker 1: eligible for parole in a couple of years. I'm bringing
30:38
Speaker 1: this up for a couple reasons. Number one, I feel
30:41
Speaker 1: so sad for Kim and for other members of her family.
30:44
Speaker 1: I cannot imagine how tragic it would be to have
30:47
Speaker 1: to deal with not just the fact that your father
30:49
Speaker 1: has been murdered under these horrific circumstances, then you also
30:53
Speaker 1: have to deal with the reality of knowing that this
30:55
Speaker 1: woman has lied to you for years, she kept you
30:58
Speaker 1: from your father. So not only did Kim have to
31:02
Speaker 1: lose her father, she had to live with six years
31:04
Speaker 1: of thinking that her father was mad at her, that
31:06
Speaker 1: he might hate her, that he didn't want.
31:08
Speaker 2: To talk to her.
31:09
Speaker 1: I think about the cruelty of that. It is just breathtaking.
31:12
Speaker 1: Kim reached out so many times. That was such a
31:16
Speaker 1: cruel thing for Virginia to do to her in addition
31:20
Speaker 1: to committing that murder. The second reason is if and
31:23
Speaker 1: when Virginia gets parole, I think people should be concerned.
31:29
Speaker 1: She was prosecuted for wire fraud charges for concealing Thomas's
31:33
Speaker 1: death and stealing the money from Social Security. According to
31:36
Speaker 1: a press release put out by the United States Attorney
31:38
Speaker 1: General's Office for the Middle District of Pennsylvania. The maximum
31:42
Speaker 1: penalty for those charges would have been a total of
31:45
Speaker 1: two hundred and forty years in prison. That's also mind
31:48
Speaker 1: blowing to me, by the way that someone can get
31:52
Speaker 1: a six to twenty year sentence for murdering and scalping
31:56
Speaker 1: someone and face two hundred and forty years for financial fraud.
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Speaker 1: But that's the world we live in. In the end,
32:04
Speaker 1: Virginia took a pleading for that as well, and she
32:08
Speaker 1: was sentenced to just eighteen months on those charges to
32:11
Speaker 1: run concurrently with the other charges she's incarcerated for. Based
32:16
Speaker 1: on Virginia's past and the things she's been convicted of,
32:20
Speaker 1: she may have done her time when she comes out,
32:21
Speaker 1: but in my opinion, the public is at risk. I
32:24
Speaker 1: believe she's never shown any sign of remorse, and she
32:28
Speaker 1: is still fairly young. She may be in her seventies,
32:31
Speaker 1: but my mom is about her age. She looks and
32:33
Speaker 1: acts super young. It's important to remember, even though she
32:37
Speaker 1: might be a grandmother, you can't assume just because someone
32:41
Speaker 1: has gray hair and a sweet little smile that they
32:44
Speaker 1: are not up to something evil. I am not ruling
32:47
Speaker 1: out the possibility there may be other bodies and other
32:50
Speaker 1: victims out there. The most terrifying part is this woman
32:54
Speaker 1: has murdered and scalped someone and we still might not
32:59
Speaker 1: know all of the secret she's hiding. There could be
33:02
Speaker 1: more victims out there. To this date, Amas's body has
33:06
Speaker 1: never been found. I'm Catherine Townsend. This is Helen Gone
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