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DLHS Hour 2 | What Had Happened was Friday · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: It is.
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  Speaker 2: What it happened was Friday, so Tuesday.
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  Speaker 3: What it happened was a study shows that the kids
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  Speaker 3: behave eight hundred percent worse when their moms are around
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  Speaker 3: or whatever. That is a crazy percentage to know, eight
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  Speaker 3: hundred percent worse. That's that's a lot a crazy percentage
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  Speaker 3: to put on family courts usually side with the mother
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  Speaker 3: and custody case. Should that practice be revisited with fathers
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  Speaker 3: getting the ads?
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  Speaker 2: I asked that question.
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  Speaker 4: You said the percentage that Doo gave is high, But
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  Speaker 4: it is factual that children that are raised by their
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  Speaker 4: fathers separate from their mother, or raised with a father
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  Speaker 4: in the house with the mother, tend to have more
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  Speaker 4: of a sense of discipline. They have they have regiment behavior,
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  Speaker 4: they have better followed through, and they tend to pick
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  Speaker 4: orderly mates when they go on to decide to make
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  Speaker 4: children of their own. The military has done studies of
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  Speaker 4: that and it's high. And it's the same thing with
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  Speaker 4: college graduates. It's the truth.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I agree with the eight hundred percent. Eight hundred
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  Speaker 5: percent is when kids can steal, that they can get
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  Speaker 5: away with what they're doing. The other two percent it's
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  Speaker 5: when dad goes to AI which is an ass infliction.
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  Speaker 6: So I get the eight hundred.
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  Speaker 5: Percent kids just clowning around mom waiting till to get home,
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  Speaker 5: but that that's not gonna take that. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 5: can I can understand the two hundred percent on that
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  Speaker 5: foots and that they're gonna get from David.
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  Speaker 7: I think the kids learned at a very very early
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  Speaker 7: age between both parents what they can do and what
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  Speaker 7: they cannot do. They learn from their father what they
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  Speaker 7: can get away with, what they cannot get away with.
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  Speaker 7: They learn from their mother. Mother tend to be a
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  Speaker 7: lot leaning when they come to their children. Father tend
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  Speaker 7: to be a more stern. You know, their mom will
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  Speaker 7: try I'll tell you three times not to do something,
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  Speaker 7: but your father will only tell you one time. The
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  Speaker 7: second time it's gonna be a slap on your butt
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  Speaker 7: or he's gonna discipline you. So I think kids learn
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  Speaker 7: at a very very age. My kids learned a very
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  Speaker 7: very age. They knew they could not get away with
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  Speaker 7: things with me, and with their mom they could. And
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  Speaker 7: that was the same way with my mom. I could
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  Speaker 7: get away with them my mom, but my dad I
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  Speaker 7: knew if he told me one time that see it.
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  Speaker 1: I agree with the comments about the children feeling safe,
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  Speaker 1: but I'd like to add the children act up, tend
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  Speaker 1: to act up more with their moms because they feel
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  Speaker 1: safe in expressing themselves more so with their moms than
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  Speaker 1: with their dads. I think dads are less maybe patient
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  Speaker 1: or you know, open to them acting out and may
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  Speaker 1: you know, evert that discipline more so or before the
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  Speaker 1: mother would. So I think if it's safe in expressing themselves,
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  Speaker 1: and that could be in any very variation of ways,
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  Speaker 1: whether it's a tantrum or or whatnot, but I think
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  Speaker 1: it's a safety an expressment self.
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  Speaker 8: Well, I think that the question it seems kind of elusive,
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  Speaker 8: but I think the kids act out with the mother
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  Speaker 8: because they can get away with it, and they don't
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  Speaker 8: get away with all that behavior with the father. So
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  Speaker 8: as a dynamic of structure and parenting that the kids
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  Speaker 8: are going to do or behave where they can actually
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  Speaker 8: get away with it, and unfortunately a lot of father's
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  Speaker 8: not going like that.
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  Speaker 9: I understand and where everyone is coming from and their
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  Speaker 9: perspectives of who their parents were in that household. And
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  Speaker 9: I also know and understand why the mother is going
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  Speaker 9: to be the one to get the santrum because her perspective,
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  Speaker 9: she's the nurturer there with her for the most time.
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  Speaker 9: And then when they're not with her, who's probably the provider.
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  Speaker 9: And as far as the father, and when he is
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  Speaker 9: around and he is active, no one, whether it's going
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  Speaker 9: to be the son or the daughter, he's not gonna
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  Speaker 9: want to discipline them. It's gonna hurt him if he's
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  Speaker 9: a true father. And when he does, it's gonna hurt
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  Speaker 9: the children more because they're used to it.
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  Speaker 10: Being the mom.
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  Speaker 3: So yesterday on what it happened was Rolling Stone wrote
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  Speaker 3: the twenty greatest are they name the twenty greatest R
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  Speaker 3: and B songs of the twenty first century?
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  Speaker 2: And there was no Danzelo and there was.
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  Speaker 6: No Chris Brown.
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  Speaker 2: R Kelly.
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  Speaker 3: Was there was no R Kelly or Chris Brown. Leah,
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  Speaker 3: you think they got it right? That was a question
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  Speaker 3: we supposed you said.
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  Speaker 6: We can't leave out R Kelly. Let's be for real.
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  Speaker 6: You know, people do things in life, but musically, let's
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  Speaker 6: be for real. That's the case, then we'll be punishing
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  Speaker 6: the Europeans forever. Not to say it like that, but
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  Speaker 6: come on, they made biggest atrocities in the world. The
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  Speaker 6: brother made a couple of mistakes. We get it, but
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  Speaker 6: come on, the music, bro, it's timeless.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a myths for me. I don't understand this list. Well,
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  Speaker 5: maybe because it's the two thousands on because most of
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  Speaker 5: my hits, the R and B hits to me, or
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  Speaker 5: the best ones were from the nineties, but since they
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  Speaker 5: started with the two thousands, I don't know, man, it
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  Speaker 5: still seems like a myths, Like I don't understand why
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  Speaker 5: a Kisha Cole is not there, Like I'm an R
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  Speaker 5: and B fan and I.
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  Speaker 8: Love That's all love that was.
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  Speaker 5: That was a hit. For a minute, I don't know
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  Speaker 5: it miss for me.
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  Speaker 10: Hey, yeah, they got that list wrong, man, I listen
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  Speaker 10: to every date. We should already know if anything they
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  Speaker 10: got that LI. We went together because they were sounds
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  Speaker 10: who like rolling white rock. I got to remember what
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  Speaker 10: they listened to. We know what we like, and of
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  Speaker 10: course we know that list is wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Man.
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  Speaker 8: Nextwell gets far down the line.
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  Speaker 10: No no, no, no, no, call Chris no, and there's no
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  Speaker 10: way Braid is supposed to be in front of LI.
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  Speaker 10: I just had to call to get that out of
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  Speaker 10: my spirit because that just bothered me, man.
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  Speaker 3: And then finally a Black woman confronts the white women
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  Speaker 3: with braids that they didn't do that the bo Derek
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  Speaker 3: tin Man, do.
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  Speaker 10: You think it's offensive if I wear braids?
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  Speaker 5: Yes, because you don't understand the culture or the meaning
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  Speaker 5: behind the braids.
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  Speaker 2: White girl with braids.
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  Speaker 11: Just doesn't fit right in my spirit, Like you're.
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  Speaker 6: Literally trying to cause plain.
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  Speaker 2: How am I trying to cause play you?
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  Speaker 1: When vikings and then the braids, I'm a Viking with
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  Speaker 1: this hairsael right now, And if anything, you're cause playing
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  Speaker 1: me because you're were in a wake right now, which
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  Speaker 1: doesn't fit right with my spirit.
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  Speaker 2: You guys just want to be us so bad? Did
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  Speaker 2: you think she had a point those to you said?
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  Speaker 5: I think I would have a problem with that because
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  Speaker 5: Black people have been discriminated against, treated badly, talked about
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  Speaker 5: badly for so long just for wearing our hair in
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  Speaker 5: its natural state. I mean, the Prime Act was created
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  Speaker 5: just so that we could wear our hair the way
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  Speaker 5: we want in public and at work and stuff. And
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  Speaker 5: half of the country still, half of the states in
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  Speaker 5: this country still haven't even adopted that Act.
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  Speaker 6: But I got a problem with that, and I just
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  Speaker 6: like to say, we have a lot of nerve getting
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  Speaker 6: that at white folk wearing black hairstyles. And this is
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  Speaker 6: the reason. I just walked down the street today and
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  Speaker 6: I saw seventeen black women with blond hair, I mean,
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  Speaker 6: with white hairstyles, and we wear just so many of
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  Speaker 6: their hairstyles. We don't have that many. They can't do
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  Speaker 6: too many of our hairstyles with their hair, but the
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  Speaker 6: ones they can do, they do with the goods, with
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  Speaker 6: the curls and you know, things like that. But I
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  Speaker 6: think we should get just so so upset about these
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  Speaker 6: black women wearing white women hairstyles. I totally agree.
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  Speaker 5: It bothers me every time I see this because they
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  Speaker 5: talked about us, they cut off our hair.
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  Speaker 6: We couldn't even have our own own traditions where we came.
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  Speaker 5: From Africa, you know, and now they're copying but we do.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I got a problem.
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  Speaker 6: In just a given bro. We are the first humans
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  Speaker 6: on the planet, so yeah, how are they gonna say
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  Speaker 6: we took something from them? They always got to come
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  Speaker 6: behind us and take something. But the only problem is,
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  Speaker 6: I don't have a problem with you take it from
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  Speaker 6: the culture, but I think it's.
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  Speaker 7: Trying to rename something that we already know was already
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  Speaker 7: braids or.
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  Speaker 6: Baby had next thing you know they called the.
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  Speaker 12: Forehead lashes or yeah, I put a wing on my face.
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  Speaker 12: It was like, no, you you copied some baby hair
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  Speaker 12: and you did an now bro, but you did some braids.
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  Speaker 12: I'm trying to rename everything we already did, trying to
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  Speaker 12: tell it.
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  Speaker 5: Back to my name is training them from Buffalo, New York.
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  Speaker 5: And I do a lady, a white lady's hair, and
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  Speaker 5: I crochet hair her hair. I don't see anything offensive
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  Speaker 5: about it. It depends on the person. You know, some people,
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  Speaker 5: you know they're doing too much trying to be black
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  Speaker 5: act black.
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  Speaker 1: But if this lady, like this lady, she just really
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  Speaker 1: love our hair and the crochet looks good on her.
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  Speaker 12: This is Jermaine and Charlotte, North Carolina. I absolutely think
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  Speaker 12: that is beautiful. I wish all of them would try
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  Speaker 12: to look like us, that America would be great. I
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  Speaker 12: don't know about that again part because you got to
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  Speaker 12: do something for the be again. America never did that
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  Speaker 12: to be again. So yeah, I think that they all.
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  Speaker 4: You do it.
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  Speaker 10: It's a beautiful thing.
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  Speaker 11: My issue is this, I do have a problem because
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  Speaker 11: everything that we are they say they hate, and everything
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  Speaker 11: they hate they try to be Get our complexion, get
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  Speaker 11: our ends, get our hair, get everything that we have.
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  Speaker 11: But they hate.
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  Speaker 5: Us and even like our black men, but they hate
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  Speaker 5: black people, but they want to have all of our characteristics.
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  Speaker 8: That's sad.
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  Speaker 3: Now, in it's time to give a deserving someone to shoot.
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  Speaker 6: The Week award.
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  Speaker 2: Now it's time for the shoes who do the week aard.
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  Speaker 7: Here we go again.
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  Speaker 2: Savannah Chrisly is a reality TV star, entrepreneur, and license
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  Speaker 2: sprielts her. She's best known for her roles on the
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  Speaker 2: USA Network shows Chris Knows Best Wow. So why is
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  Speaker 2: Savannah Christie this week's recipient of the shoe Booty of
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  Speaker 2: the Week Award? You don't get to astros. Savannah Montana
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  Speaker 2: gets the shoe booty because this Georgia peach is rotten.
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  Speaker 2: It is disgusting. Savannah came under fire as guest co
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  Speaker 2: host on the view She's filling in for Alisa Griffin,
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  Speaker 2: the resident Republican on the show Wow. The thing is
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  Speaker 2: Selsa knows the political framework. Savannah came with her tired
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  Speaker 2: magascript give me your best shot, fell I could take it.
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  Speaker 2: It heat it up when Savannah said that Trump is
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  Speaker 2: not a racist, and she said it ten toes down
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  Speaker 2: with her full chest. Then she got fact checked so
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  Speaker 2: hard her lies filed for emotional distress. Emotional damas she
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  Speaker 2: sat there as an amazed child listening to a fairy
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  Speaker 2: tale for the first time when they told her how
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  Speaker 2: Trump targeted DEI programs, went to court because he wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: rent to black people, and it makes me cry to
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  Speaker 2: even look at him. During Black History Month, made the
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  Speaker 2: Obama's Black History monkeys, Savannah fired back from the MAGA playbook,
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  Speaker 2: He's done more for HBCUs Buzzer wrong again. What you
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  Speaker 2: just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things
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  Speaker 2: I've ever heard. That was all Obama. Trump just had
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  Speaker 2: to sign the papers the silver spoon, Savannah said the
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  Speaker 2: things that racists say. I have a black friend. He
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  Speaker 2: helped look at my African American off. Yeah, I'm just
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  Speaker 2: going to say that quiet part out loud. The reason
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  Speaker 2: she's riding so hard for Trump is because he gave
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  Speaker 2: her mother and father a full pardon if they were
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  Speaker 2: in prison for wire fraud, bank fraud, and taxivasion.
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  Speaker 10: Well, that comes as no big surprise to Lisia.
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  Speaker 2: Now her role is to defend Trump like her name
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  Speaker 2: was on the Epstein List. Savannah's on a show called
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  Speaker 2: Chrisly Knows Best, but all she proved was Chris Lee
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  Speaker 2: don't know. Jack. You are really dumb for real, and
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  Speaker 2: that's why the se booty of the week the ward goes.
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  Speaker 7: Too Savannah Chrisly.
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  Speaker 2: Now here's a swift kick in the ass.