Latest / EGGS! The Podcast / Eggs 465: Resilience, Action, and the Entrepreneurial Mindset with Jeff Amerine
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- 1:44Hey everybody. Welcome back to Eggs.
- 1:46Today's special guest is founder of Startup Junkie Consulting and
- 1:50the Startup Junkies Podcast. His name is Jeff Ameri.
- 1:53And Jeff, welcome to the show. Hey, thanks for having me on
- 1:55Ryan. I'm looking forward to it.
- 1:57Absolutely. I'm thrilled to death to have
- 1:58you here just in doing a little bit of research about you and
- 2:01where you come from and you know, sort of your background.
- 2:04It, it's very interesting to me. I, I come from, I'm living in
- 2:07Salt Lake City now, but I come from a small part of southeast
- 2:10Idaho called Pocatello. And Idaho, much like your home
- 2:14base of Arkansas is kind of one of those fly over places that
- 2:17sort of gets forgotten. And I was listening to a talk
- 2:20you were giving a Ted talk and you were just talking about sort
- 2:22of the Sam Walton and Walmart startup and how they sort of
- 2:26decided to go to these little towns and stuff.
- 2:27And I remember when the Walmart first came to Pocatello and, you
- 2:31know, at that time, the concept of startups and, you know, new
- 2:37business ventures and stuff like that, especially for young
- 2:39people, didn't exist. And, you know, now I live in
- 2:42Salt Lake City and it's a much more bustling startup community
- 2:45down here. But the culture is kind of odd.
- 2:46And as a guy from a small town, I find it a little bit hard for
- 2:49me to fit in. So I'm really excited to talk to
- 2:51you just about startup culture in general, but also I think
- 2:53we'll have some similarities and the fly over state sort of
- 2:57approach. So anyway, so let's start maybe
- 2:59a little bit, just, you know, get your background out there.
- 3:01Let's talk about where you come from and how we got here today.
- 3:04Sure. Well, I'll try to give you kind
- 3:06of a shrink wrap version of the last 61 years.
- 3:11But feel free to take your time because it really is interesting
- 3:15and some of the experiences you've got in particular, I
- 3:18think really lend to the person you became.
- 3:21For sure. I I think it's important to
- 3:22cover that stuff. Yeah, absolutely.
- 3:24Thank you for that. And again, thanks for having me
- 3:25on. But but yeah, I I didn't come to
- 3:28entrepreneurship as you know, waking up as an 18 year old
- 3:32thinking someday I'm going to start businesses and have my own
- 3:35business. I grew up in a military family.
- 3:37So what that meant was I went to six different grade schools.
- 3:41I went to two junior highs and once my dad retired, I I did go
- 3:44to just one high school, but we were all over the world
- 3:47literally during the kind of the height of the Cold War.
- 3:50He was a multi engine pilot in the Air Force.
- 3:53And and so I grew up in a way that I think developed a bunch
- 3:58of resilience around having to make friends fairly quickly and
- 4:02realizing that you needed to do that because you might not see
- 4:05him again. And, and there was a certain
- 4:07element of change and excitement in what's coming next that that
- 4:12I think kind of stuck in some ways.
- 4:14And so the family business for me growing up was the military.
- 4:17My dad had been career Air Force, my brother was career Air
- 4:20Force. My sister was an Army officer.
- 4:23My brother-in-law was we were all military.
- 4:25This is a long sort of and turns out upon further research, every
- 4:29generation back to the Revolutionary War had served in
- 4:32some capacity. So it was something that maybe
- 4:35his epigenetic, I don't know, but that was kind of my
- 4:37universe. And then my dad retired.
- 4:40We that took us to North Central Arkansas, which is was a
- 4:43smallest of small town. After being kind of a
- 4:46cosmopolitan kid who had lived all over the world and all over
- 4:48the country. We settled in the place of 7000
- 4:52people in a county of less than 20,000 people that was rural and
- 4:57cliquish and everybody had known everybody since, you know,
- 5:00conception in that town. They were, they were, it was
- 5:03really tight community and was strange being an outsider.
- 5:05And I thought, well, OK, it's learn some things, learn how to
- 5:09do some farm work and haul hay and take care of cows and rotor
- 5:13till gardens. But I ended up leaving thinking
- 5:16I would never come back. In 1980 I went to the Naval
- 5:18Academy, starting my own military career, spent four
- 5:21years there, had a great time in Annapolis, MD, then took my
- 5:24Commission in the Air Force and spent 6 1/2 years in the Air
- 5:27Force, thinking initially that was going to be a career for me,
- 5:31I would be a 30 year guy, etcetera.
- 5:33Along the way, it turns out I didn't have good enough eyesight
- 5:35to fly, and I'd always dreamed about flying.
- 5:38I got injured in the Special Forces pipeline about halfway
- 5:42through my career. I spent the last 2 1/2 years in
- 5:46research and development and in program management, which really
- 5:49kind of an on ramp to industry. And I left out the part that I
- 5:51was intercontinental ballistic missile launch officer during
- 5:55the Cold War for four years and 165 days underground convinced
- 5:59me that I needed something a little more active, even though
- 6:03it was a really important job and way more responsibility and
- 6:07accountability than a 24 year old should have with billion
- 6:10dollar systems and nuclear weapons, etcetera.
- 6:13But but anyhow, that was the on ramp to the commercial world.
- 6:16I spent after that back in Annapolis, MD, Baltimore, MD
- 6:21area. I was with Westinghouse
- 6:22Electric. We built a satellite systems,
- 6:24both commercial and defense oriented, got a lot of worldwide
- 6:29product management business development experience.
- 6:31And, and I falsely began to believe that I could run my own
- 6:34business based on that time that I spent at Westinghouse.
- 6:38And then for the next bunch of years launched a number of, of
- 6:42tech or telecom related businesses.
- 6:45Some work, some didn't work. I, I ran an international FCC
- 6:49licensed telecom carrier in the precursor days of voice over IP,
- 6:55did some pioneering work between here and Asia on that with my
- 6:58team, a bunch of different things related to telecom and
- 7:02software. And, and so much so that I think
- 7:05the the total number of startups is 9 / a long career at 9:00
- 7:09that I would admit to. There may have been some others
- 7:11in there that wouldn't admit to, but but learned a bunch along
- 7:15the way. And those were in kind of the
- 7:16ugly old days in the, in the 90s and early 2000s before there
- 7:21were really organized Angel groups.
- 7:23There wasn't really mentoring. No one knew what an accelerator
- 7:25was. There wasn't AY combinator.
- 7:27This was you're an idiot. You left a great job.
- 7:32You wanted to start something, you figure it out, and good
- 7:35luck. There really wasn't any kind of
- 7:37a startup infrastructure support system, not I always happen to
- 7:41be in the East Coast for a lot of that.
- 7:43There wasn't anything like what his was developing in Silicon
- 7:46Valley at that time. It was still a lot of
- 7:48conventional business people back there, but I learned a
- 7:51bunch of things along the way. Every mistake you could make as
- 7:54a startup founder, I made more than one time.
- 7:56In some instances, spending money on the wrong things,
- 7:59focusing on the wrong markets, hiring the wrong people.
- 8:02That process of maturation is what has led me to what I've
- 8:07done in more recent years. And so when when I left the East
- 8:10Coast to move back to be closer to my folks, that's what brought
- 8:13me to Arkansas. And we actually work for
- 8:15American Freightways, which was a large less than truckload
- 8:18carrier, rapidly growing, fastest growing in the country
- 8:21between 1982 and 2000. And when I joined, they had just
- 8:25been acquired by FedEx, became FedEx Freight.
- 8:28And it was, it was an interesting transition to go
- 8:30from being an entrepreneur who had spent some time in big
- 8:33companies to being back in a big company that was initially run
- 8:37like a startup. It was still family controlled.
- 8:39And so we had a lot of ability to look at opportunities to take
- 8:44risk and to deploy technology and to dominate the markets we
- 8:48were in when the FedEx acquisition occurred.
- 8:51All that change. It was a lot more like working
- 8:53for the government. I mean, process was slow, a
- 8:56little more bureaucratic. You know, it was a 10X bigger
- 8:59company now in total. And that wasn't a good fit for
- 9:02me. So I ended up leaving doing one
- 9:04more startup, which was Silicon Valley Base.
- 9:06I happen to be based here in Northwest Arkansas.
- 9:09I built the transportation logistics vertical, learned a
- 9:11bunch of stuff, stayed with that through doing a lift out to a
- 9:15one of our partners that was based in New Zealand and it
- 9:18said, I'm done with this whole startup scene.
- 9:21I've, I've done it, I've been there, I've had some fun, I've
- 9:24learned some things. I checked in at the University
- 9:27of Arkansas and help run their technology commercialization
- 9:30function for seven years. And just your happenstance got
- 9:34pulled into teaching new ventures in the Walton College
- 9:37of Business at the University of Arkansas.
- 9:38And I thought this is this is my terminal job, this is going to
- 9:42be it for the duration. And along the way it became
- 9:45apparent that the, the startup scene in Arkansas was not very
- 9:48well developed. There was exactly 1 early stage
- 9:51fund. There were no entrepreneurial
- 9:52support organizations. There weren't a lot of new
- 9:55ventures getting created. The state saw that Milliken
- 9:58Institute did a study that said you're going to be dead last in
- 10:00every category you want to measure.
- 10:02If you don't do more things that are knowledge and technology
- 10:05based, your your state wage rate is going to stay low.
- 10:08You're just not going to advance as a state.
- 10:10So they kicked off this thing called Innovate Arkansas back in
- 10:142007 and the guy and it was Win Rock International.
- 10:17So Winthrop Rockefeller International, a big NGO that
- 10:20was the prime for the state of Arkansas.
- 10:23The guy who was running it said we got a couple of former
- 10:26Stephens Bank investment bankers involved with us.
- 10:28We don't have any operators. People who have made money,
- 10:31raised money, been operators, you know, built companies.
- 10:35And so he said, well, why don't you quit the university and come
- 10:38do this with us? And I said, why don't I not do
- 10:40that because I just got here. But maybe, maybe I can, maybe I
- 10:44can do this on a part time basis because it could be accretive to
- 10:46all the stuff I'm doing in tech transfer.
- 10:48And that's the genesis. And this is a little bit of a
- 10:51long winded wind up for what became Startup Junkie.
- 10:54It was a completely accidental business with no plan, no lean
- 10:57canvas, no customer discovery that I kind of got sucked into
- 11:00just because of what I had done in the proceeding 20 something
- 11:04years. And that was the beginning of
- 11:06what has become an entrepreneurial support
- 11:08organization. The Startup Junkie brand that
- 11:11touches probably 2000 entrepreneurs a year, puts on
- 11:14about 250 events, has presence in South Korea and Singapore,
- 11:19and is rapidly growing one of the larger and more successful
- 11:22entrepreneurial support organizations in central US.
- 11:26And it's this weird business model, which would probably be
- 11:28familiar to you, where all the services are completely free to
- 11:31the entrepreneurs and 3rd party funded.
- 11:35And the reason why that was important was because I learned
- 11:38that customers with no money are really terrible customers.
- 11:41And that's every small business and entrepreneur you ever met.
- 11:45And yet it's so critical to the economic vitality of the country
- 11:50to have the survival rate for startups improved.
- 11:53And so we essentially sold to the federal government, the
- 11:57state government, and places like the Walton Family
- 11:59Foundation that if you fund us to provide these services, we
- 12:02can show you measurable outcomes that will build this viable
- 12:07venture ecosystem that will have all kinds of tangible benefits.
- 12:11And so we've been at it with this unsustainable business
- 12:14model we've sustained now for 15 years and are continuing to grow
- 12:19along those line. Along the way, we got involved
- 12:21with writing a book called Creating Startup Junkies, which
- 12:24talked about how to build sustainable venture ecosystems
- 12:26and unexpected places and fly over locations really anywhere
- 12:30in the country where you don't have a history of it and, and
- 12:34launched several venture funds along the way.
- 12:36Because people ask, well, why'd you do that?
- 12:38It's because no one else was doing it.
- 12:39Somebody had to do it. So we did it and, and got in
- 12:42that part of the game as well. But that's it.
- 12:44That's kind of the from Genesis to current day.
- 12:49Yeah, I don't know. That's it, man.
- 12:50It really makes that seems much smaller than it is.
- 12:53I think no, that's an incredible story.
- 12:55And actually there's a ton of stuff that I, I want to try and
- 12:58cover the, I mean, some of these are recurring themes on the show
- 13:02that we're, we're really trying to get to the root of and figure
- 13:05out how we can help our, our listenership to sort of engage
- 13:08in some of these things. And one of the things I wanted
- 13:09to maybe start about is that, well, actually I just wanted to
- 13:12make a comment too. So I have a small marketing
- 13:16agency and we have a team in Barcelona and we've been working
- 13:19really hard to try and develop startup culture and things like
- 13:22that in Spain because that just doesn't exist over there in the
- 13:25way that it does here. So I'm going to have to check
- 13:27out your book. Maybe there's some collaborative
- 13:28future that we need to look. At absolutely would love.
- 13:31That foreign countries because a lot of the the team that work
- 13:34for us are a little bit entrepreneurial minded, but the
- 13:36infrastructure doesn't support them and so, so maybe there's a
- 13:40way to come around on that. So anyway, back to the
- 13:43conversation here. So one of the things I, I really
- 13:45took an interest in early in your life was you mentioned the
- 13:49term resilience specifically. And it was something that you
- 13:52think you developed as, as being a person who was a military
- 13:55child and, and forced to move around.
- 13:57And basically you, you translated that resilience into
- 14:00being able to build new relationships in each city or,
- 14:03you know, spring back from basically, you know, you get
- 14:06comfortable and then it's all stripped away and they have to
- 14:07start over again. And I think that that is a, a
- 14:09huge factor for startup people, especially, you know, I mean, I
- 14:13can speak from my own experience and being a, a probably not that
- 14:17successful startup junkie, but a perpetual starter upper of
- 14:20businesses, meaning I'm constantly starting things, but
- 14:23there's a lot of them that just kind of fizzle and, and you
- 14:26know, but, but I really enjoy the process of starting these
- 14:29things. And so, so I end up doing a lot
- 14:31of the starting, But that sort of try and fail mentality, I
- 14:34think is something that's getting lost on kids that are
- 14:37maybe, you know, coming up now or maybe a generation or two
- 14:40younger than me, which is, you know, I even look at kids.
- 14:42I, my oldest son is 17 and I'm looking at people that he goes
- 14:45to with and like how devastating it is to fail at something, you
- 14:51know, to the extent that they just won't even try sometimes,
- 14:54you know, it's like they're so unwilling to risk failing that
- 14:57they won't even give it a go. And, and so I wanted to talk a
- 15:00little bit about developing resilience as a skill or as a
- 15:03trait of your personality, because I think some people are
- 15:06probably born with this and, you know, some people are thrust
- 15:09into it through situations like what you're talking about.
- 15:11But I think to roll this out more broadly to people and, and
- 15:16really convince them, right? I mean, there's no shortage of
- 15:18Instagram memes that say, you know, you know, fail forward
- 15:22and, and all this kind of stuff. But I mean, do you have any
- 15:24insights just maybe from your own experience or from people
- 15:26you've worked with on how we start to craft a maybe a culture
- 15:30of resilience or a set of characteristics that allow us to
- 15:33be resilient through these kinds of?
- 15:35Yeah, it and it, it, it's got a, it's, it's hard to get that
- 15:41mindset by someone sort of autocratically saying you need
- 15:44to think this way to some extent.
- 15:47People I think need to be LED towards it in a way that and,
- 15:51and I think there's an element of incrementalism to it.
- 15:53And what I mean by that is failure is not a fun thing, it's
- 15:57not a good thing. And you want to make the failure
- 15:59small and kind of close together and not necessarily life
- 16:04impacting. I mean, I had some epically
- 16:06large failures in running businesses that were devastating
- 16:11personally. I also had some great successes
- 16:15and I think some of that built the resilience.
- 16:17The thing that I always worried about were people who had kind
- 16:20of lived the charm life where they'd never failed in anything
- 16:22because when they got to that first obstacle, and inevitably
- 16:26you will where things didn't go right, they don't know how to
- 16:30react. So I think educating young kids
- 16:34that taking risk, qualified risk, taking small risk and
- 16:39building up your confidence along the way and and asking
- 16:41yourself the question, what's the worst thing that can happen?
- 16:44You know, I'm probably not going to die if this business fails or
- 16:48this venture doesn't work or this project doesn't work.
- 16:50Even if I lose a job, if I'm in a big company and I'm taking a
- 16:53risk on something I really believe in, if I'm good in that
- 16:56job, I'm going to be good at the next place as well.
- 16:59And so it's just convincing people to to have enough
- 17:03confidence to actually go for it and do it in a reasoned way
- 17:08where you're thinking about what's the worst case outcomes
- 17:10that can be associated with this.
- 17:13Some of that I kind of had to do because as a kid, like I said,
- 17:17we were moving around all the time.
- 17:19I was introverted by nature by some of that.
- 17:22So I had to kind of work to get out of that shell of being
- 17:25situationally shy and meeting people and getting involved with
- 17:29stuff. And I still have to it still
- 17:31kind of takes energy from me. Big group settings with a lot of
- 17:34people. I don't know, but you kind of
- 17:36push yourself through it. And I think that's where the
- 17:38resilience comes from. It's it's a matter of just the
- 17:41experience of doing it. And some of it is just that
- 17:45element of confidence that realize it.
- 17:47Hey, those people that have the capability of doing something
- 17:50big or trying something big, why not me?
- 17:54Why can't I do that as well? And I think as as leaders and as
- 17:58educators and as motivators, we have to constantly try to
- 18:01reinforce that, not in sort of this sort of superficial
- 18:04mythological way that often comes from Silicon Valley and
- 18:08elsewhere, but in a very practical way.
- 18:11So you never know. You never know what's going to
- 18:14happen unless you try. So you might as well try.
- 18:17Doesn't mean you shouldn't be prepared, doesn't mean you
- 18:19shouldn't take qualified risk, but just have the gumption to
- 18:22give it a go and start small. Start small and make it
- 18:25incremental as you go through it.
- 18:27Yeah, and I think, and I can speak a little bit from my own
- 18:29experience, it sounds like I, I'm similar to the way you
- 18:33described yourself, which was somewhat introverted and sort of
- 18:35really had to push myself out. And I, you know, in my earliest
- 18:39days, you know, before I was truly, you know, had a, had a
- 18:41business of my own. I mean, I had toyed with it.
- 18:44I'd freelanced on the side. I'd done all this other stuff.
- 18:47But eventually it took a layoff for me to go to work for myself
- 18:51and kind of go, OK, I've landed, wait a minute, nothing, nothing
- 18:55bad happened. Like what's going on?
- 18:57Like it turns out I actually had enough work.
- 18:58I like, what am I doing? You know?
- 19:00And so, but I was, you know, wildly risk averse.
- 19:03I wouldn't have actually taken that step on my own probably if
- 19:05I hadn't been shoved out the window, you know, sort of baby
- 19:08bird style. And so for me, it really took
- 19:10that kind of nudge, you know, but I think that nudge doesn't
- 19:13maybe have to be as dire as a as a layoff.
- 19:15I mean, it could be from a family friend, It could be an
- 19:17opportunity. But that's I think why you hear
- 19:19about so many like sort of startup hustler types that are,
- 19:22you know, doing something on the side with the purpose of growing
- 19:25into that position, you know, trying to move their way out of
- 19:28maybe the company they work for, but they're kind of working on
- 19:30the side. It's that hedging, right?
- 19:32Yeah, it's a super good risk management philosophy and it's
- 19:35something that's that's more readily available to do today
- 19:38than maybe ever before where keep the day job, start the side
- 19:41hustle, even build a virtual team on the side hustle.
- 19:44And when it gets to a point where you've got revenues out in
- 19:47front of expenses or adequate traction, you'll know when the
- 19:50time is right to make that, to make that jump.
- 19:52And it's it's more possible to doing that today than ever
- 19:56before just because the infrastructure is there, the
- 19:58technic, the technical infrastructure, people are
- 20:01comfortable working on remote teams.
- 20:03People are comfortable having kind of a portfolio of
- 20:06activities and engaging with a new start that might be a side
- 20:11hustle. So yeah, I think.
- 20:12I think that the time is it's you're, you're more able to do
- 20:16those sorts of things that were exceedingly difficult early in
- 20:18my career today than ever before.
- 20:21Yeah, I think that's right. Another sort of aspect of your
- 20:24background that I wanted to talk about.
- 20:26And as somebody who would categorize themselves as being
- 20:29more on the creative side than on the discipline side.
- 20:31Yeah, not to say they're mutually exclusive, but like I I
- 20:34see myself as being a little bit more out here and a little more
- 20:36wild than sure, probably as disciplined as I can be.
- 20:39So I'm always saying, you know, I'm sort of creative 1st and
- 20:41business guy, 3rd, 4th, 5th, right.
- 20:43Somewhere down the line I do have to do business.
- 20:45But at the end of my the rest of my day, I just really want to do
- 20:48creative things. So as a guy with military
- 20:50background, though, I mean, obviously there's some force
- 20:52discipline in there. You know, coming from military
- 20:54family, you probably had a little bit of family discipline
- 20:56too. Sure.
- 20:57And I think that there's a bit of that that, you know, kids are
- 21:00probably missing out on generally nowadays.
- 21:02You know, I mean, I'm sure there's a whole spectrum, but,
- 21:05you know, but I think in general, if we're just speaking
- 21:07in sort of generalities or the kinds of things that are
- 21:09attached to, you know, the Gen. Exers and the Gen.
- 21:12Z and you know, all the all the stuff you hear throwing around,
- 21:15it seems that like general discipline towards business is a
- 21:19struggle for some people or maybe general discipline towards
- 21:21life is a problem for some of them.
- 21:23So I wanted to talk to you about sort of just the balance of
- 21:25discipline versus creativity, or as I'm calling creativity to
- 21:28mean sort of this, you know, be allowed to just chase your
- 21:31little butterfly around the work.
- 21:34But you know, there's sort of a balance that I think needs to be
- 21:36struck there. And I, and I'm wondering if in
- 21:38your experience as somebody who obviously has a disciplined
- 21:42background, but you know, has what I would consider sort of a
- 21:46creative streak, which is you're applying your discipline or
- 21:48you're applying your skills in a creative way, even if done in a
- 21:52disciplined way. I wonder if you'd talk a little
- 21:54bit about just sort of the value of discipline in your own life
- 21:56and then maybe how important it is in, in, you know, the young
- 21:59entrepreneur. 'S life, yeah.
- 22:00I mean, it's, it's excellent. And a lot, a lot of times people
- 22:04assume that the military person's persona is these are
- 22:08rule followers, these are conformist, these are people
- 22:12that, you know, always stay within the lines.
- 22:15And there are those types of folks within the military that
- 22:18if it's not written somewhere and it's, or it's in a Reg, then
- 22:21that's what they're going to do. There's also a wide number of
- 22:23very successful military people that are always on the edge of
- 22:29breaking a rule, trying something new.
- 22:32There's a famous book written by a guy that's now deceased to his
- 22:34original commander of SEAL Team Six named Richard Marchenko.
- 22:38And he said when he was in Vietnam, he's one of the first
- 22:41SEAL UDT members, He had this thing where he'd say unless
- 22:45otherwise directed, and he put it into an acronym.
- 22:48And so you'd go out and take the initiative on things within the
- 22:50rules of engagement unless otherwise directed by higher
- 22:54headquarters. The reason why U.S. military
- 22:57historically has been successful, and I'd see this is
- 22:59all the way back to the Continental Army, is the ability
- 23:02to have centralized planning and decentralized execution, which
- 23:05requires people on the ground in the moment to be creative in the
- 23:09way they, they do things. And so my bias was always a
- 23:14little bit towards, I'll follow the rules, I'll show up on time,
- 23:19I'll do what I'm supposed to do. But when I'm not directed
- 23:22otherwise, I'm going to be creative, you know, I'm going to
- 23:24be pushing the edge of the envelope and everything that we
- 23:27do. And I would say I largely
- 23:28applied that in business. And that didn't work especially
- 23:32well in large structured businesses.
- 23:34It actually worked a little better in the military because a
- 23:38lot of those organizations were all about not wanting you to
- 23:41take chances, not wanting you to take the initiative, wanting you
- 23:45kind of to stay within the line. So I was always a little bit of
- 23:47a rogue cowboy or a rebel in large organizations.
- 23:51So I would say it was for a lot of former military folks, it was
- 23:57this balance of, yeah, I'm going to do what I have to do to stay
- 24:00out of trouble and to accomplish the mission, but I'm going to
- 24:04take as many liberties as I possibly can to accomplish the
- 24:07mission. And as an entrepreneur, I think
- 24:10that the interesting thing that brought is I wasn't afraid I'd
- 24:14show up on time. I had the interpersonal skills.
- 24:18I also will say that I wasn't, I'm not particularly good at
- 24:21developing processes. I'm not a point A to point BP
- 24:24person. Kind of an inspirational book
- 24:26for me was written by Gino Wickman called Traction, and he
- 24:30talks about two personas, the visionary and the integrator.
- 24:33I realized early on, and it's kind of like you said it, I was
- 24:36good at being a starter, good at the vision.
- 24:38If I was going to build a business at scaled, I needed an
- 24:41integrator. That was a good point A to point
- 24:43B person that was very much in the details and building
- 24:47processes. I think entrepreneurs need to be
- 24:49introspective about what are they really good at and if
- 24:53they're not really good at that role of integrating and detail
- 24:57and process, they need to have somebody who is so that they can
- 25:00do what their best at. So I brought in, it turned out
- 25:04to be my son who was an Air Force contracting officer.
- 25:07When his final commitment was up, he was thinking of getting
- 25:10out. He wanted to go work for big
- 25:11consulting companies. I said, come help me build this
- 25:14business And we've been working together now for 10 years
- 25:17because he very much had those skills I didn't which was point
- 25:21A to point B, process oriented details, etcetera.
- 25:25And so to the, to get back to your original question of
- 25:28discipline versus creativity, I, I stay on the creative, the
- 25:32vision, the new business side. He folks, he does some of that,
- 25:36but he focuses a lot on the details around the discipline of
- 25:39making sure things are getting done on time.
- 25:42And so I think the key there is you know what you got to do, you
- 25:45show up on time, you got the skills, but the important thing
- 25:48is if you're not great at that, have somebody on the team who is
- 25:51that can help actually build a business that scales.
- 25:54Yeah, I love that as a distinction because I think
- 25:56there's a lot of people and, you know, again, I probably would
- 25:58project my own experience onto a lot of this stuff.
- 26:00But I mean, I think that there's this feeling among sort of, you
- 26:04know, young founders and people who are trying to go it alone or
- 26:07maybe start their own new business that the onus is on you
- 26:11to do everything right. I mean, there's always these
- 26:13comments about we have to wear lots of hats and we have to do
- 26:15all this stuff and and, you know, to some extent you do.
- 26:17I mean, you can't necessarily start off with a giant team,
- 26:20right? You've got to build a lot of
- 26:21times. And so, but I think the, the,
- 26:24this distinction that you're making is right, You know, I
- 26:27mean, you can even, you know, compare it to I, I don't know,
- 26:29finding a, a good partner in life, like a, you know, whoever
- 26:32you marry, for example, for sure, you know, often you're not
- 26:34marrying somebody who's exactly like, you know, you're marrying
- 26:37somebody that has a, a set of characteristics that are
- 26:39different than yours or somehow better than you or, you know,
- 26:43fills voids where you don't or something for sure.
- 26:45And, and those seem to be the relationships that, that work
- 26:48best, right? The people who are sort of
- 26:50living in a little echo chamber or whatever.
- 26:51I think eventually get tired of hearing your own thoughts coming
- 26:54back to you all the time. I think sometimes you gotta have
- 26:56somebody challenge you. And especially if you want to
- 26:58grow, whether it's in a relationship personally or or in
- 27:01a business relationship, I think it's valuable to hear, you know,
- 27:04some feedback and get some pushback every now and then and
- 27:07then on your, on your ideas. So one of the things that I
- 27:10think, and maybe this isn't, isn't right, but I think a lot
- 27:14of people who are young entrepreneurs who are sort of
- 27:17looking for the where to go and how to get started.
- 27:19So maybe this would be the customers that come to you and
- 27:21you can help me understand if this isn't right.
- 27:23But my assumption is that they're coming to a person like
- 27:26you, a consultant or a, a somebody, you know, in any realm
- 27:30of sort of startup consulting or education or anything like that.
- 27:33And what they're looking for is the way, right?
- 27:35So I think a lot of us have this notion that there's a path that
- 27:38you can follow if you wanna be an entrepreneur.
- 27:40And maybe there are some truths along the way that are gonna
- 27:43work across businesses or across whatevers.
- 27:46But I think generally what you discover, and it's certainly
- 27:49what we've found in doing this podcast across 360, some
- 27:52interviews with different startup founders and CEOs and
- 27:56things like that, we've discovered that there truly is
- 27:58no way. I mean, so you can go and ask
- 28:01and you can hunt and you can look and try and find the way,
- 28:04but there isn't a the way. There just is a way.
- 28:07And so in your way is different. So I wonder if you could talk a
- 28:10little bit about just how the startup that might come to an
- 28:13organization like you and you know, is looking for support and
- 28:17maybe looking for that, How do you help them uncover sort of
- 28:20their way? Yeah, Yeah, it's a great
- 28:22question. It's a great question.
- 28:23And and this is one of those things that's really
- 28:25confounding, particularly for students.
- 28:28And I teach AI, teach a lot of undergrad and and grad students
- 28:32and they're expecting it to be the sort of rote, you know, it
- 28:36was written on the tablets type of way and it isn't.
- 28:39I mean, there's more than one right answer.
- 28:41Now, having said that, there's some really interesting
- 28:43frameworks that have developed over the last 20 years that
- 28:46we're big fans of that are particularly useful in new
- 28:50venture development, in new product development and new
- 28:53service development. And they're used from K through
- 28:5612 all the way through, you know, the Fortune One company
- 29:00has bought, bought into a lot of this thinking and all it really
- 29:03is. If I could summarize and if
- 29:05Steve Blank or Eric Reese or Ashmore were on, they would
- 29:08chastise me. But it's really this idea of
- 29:11applying scientific method to validate or invalidate your
- 29:15assumptions about what's going to drive your business.
- 29:17And all that is captured within a variety of different books and
- 29:21the lean startup methodology and in customer discovery.
- 29:24We're pretty big fans of that, quite honestly.
- 29:26We teach that, we believe that we use some AI driven tools that
- 29:30have been developed around that philosophy.
- 29:34But but all it is, is exactly what we all learned in the 6th
- 29:37grade. Come up with what the key
- 29:39assumptions are around your business, around what problem
- 29:41you're solving or unmet need, around the customer segments,
- 29:45around the unique value proposition and the benefits of
- 29:48the solution, the cost structure and the revenue structure and
- 29:52how you're going to measure progress with key metrics and
- 29:54channels, your unfair advantage. Come up with those guesses or
- 29:58those assumptions and then develop a really good set of
- 30:02open-ended questions. There's a book called Talking to
- 30:06Humans by a guy named GIF Constable who was at NYU Stern.
- 30:11Ask good open-ended questions that avoid confirmation bias.
- 30:15The the fallacy that all of us who are idea generators have is
- 30:19we fall in love with our own ideas.
- 30:21We don't want to hear that our baby's ugly, right?
- 30:23Well, we've kind of put people in the mindset of being a
- 30:27consultant to their own their own venture that they're trying
- 30:29to create and try to kill it as many different ways as you can
- 30:33by asking really good questions of customers, subject matter
- 30:38experts and other, you know, sort of influencers and really
- 30:42listening to what to what they say.
- 30:44And then see where those patterns are, something we'd
- 30:47call qualitative inquiry, customer development or customer
- 30:50discovery. And then validate before you
- 30:52build anything if there really is demand for what you're doing.
- 30:56So Long story short and all that, there's no one right way
- 31:00to do it for very early stage, brand new.
- 31:04I've got an idea. I think Lean Canvas and customer
- 31:07discovery is kind of as good a process as has been developed in
- 31:11the last 20 years. And there's a lot that's been
- 31:13written on it. There's a lot of great tools
- 31:15that support it. We're big fans of Ashmore and
- 31:18Running Lean, and I already mentioned talking to humans, but
- 31:21I I think those ought to be templates or guides that most
- 31:25startup or small business owners get familiar with.
- 31:27Yeah, No, I, I like that and I think both of those are great
- 31:30resources. I wanted to ask you though.
- 31:32So one of the things you mentioned sort of at the top was
- 31:34that Startup Junkie Consulting was sort of spun out with
- 31:37neither Lean Canvas or customer discovery.
- 31:40And maybe innately you understood who the customer
- 31:42might be and some things like that, but you didn't maybe go
- 31:44through a formal process. And this, I think, goes back to
- 31:46this notion that there isn't necessarily a way to start a
- 31:50business, right? I mean, there's lots of ways to
- 31:52do this. And so I wonder if you'd talk a
- 31:54little bit about just your experience and spinning up the
- 31:56new business and, you know, basically starting from scratch.
- 31:59I mean, obviously you've come quite some ways.
- 32:01And then maybe tie that into, you know, I don't know, for the
- 32:04young startup entrepreneur, you know, or young entrepreneur
- 32:07maybe in a place like, you know, Bentonville used to be or like
- 32:10Salt Lake used to be, or like Pocatello ID, where I grew up,
- 32:13where maybe we're looking for, you know, opportunities to start
- 32:16to build a culture around the startup that maybe I want to
- 32:20launch. Maybe I want to start a company
- 32:21and I need to build a support system.
- 32:23You know, can we talk about, you know, how that might happen or
- 32:26sort of how all those things work together?
- 32:28Yeah, yeah. And, and so the startup junkie
- 32:31experience was, was such that I knew a lot at that point about
- 32:35conventional business planning because everything I'd ever
- 32:37build up to that point was you write the 50 page business plan
- 32:41and executive summary that nobody wants to read.
- 32:43You come up with the fictional, the fictional forecast, which is
- 32:46based on scaling large business assumptions down to a small
- 32:52business. And then you try to go out and
- 32:54get people interested in investing or interested in
- 32:56working with you on it. Everything I'd done up to that
- 33:00.15 plus years ago was kind of based on that we started.
- 33:05And so when I launched into Startup Junkie, I was like, this
- 33:08isn't going to be a real business.
- 33:09This is kind of like a fun ad hoc side hustle.
- 33:13I didn't even have an LLC created in the beginning.
- 33:16It was all Schedule C stuff that that I was putting on my income
- 33:20taxes in the beginning. And then it was just one of
- 33:23those circumstances where there was such a Greenfield here at
- 33:27such interest, and I was one of the few sort of seasoned
- 33:30operators that was available. That stuff started flowing on an
- 33:35inbound basis to say, well, we'd really like to do an
- 33:38accelerator. What do you know about running
- 33:40accelerate? Can we get some federal funding
- 33:41to run accelerate? And I was like, yeah, we can
- 33:43probably do that. And we probably ought to focus
- 33:45on supply chain and retail because that's what we have
- 33:47locally. And so we got some funding.
- 33:49And the Walton Family Foundation said, you know, what you're
- 33:53doing statewide is great. We need more focus around
- 33:56Northwest Arkansas. Can you help build a series of
- 33:59events? And so we're like, yeah, OK,
- 34:00we'll do an elevator pitch contest.
- 34:02We'll have a little Angel forum where people get together.
- 34:05We'll start trying these things because we had heard from Brad
- 34:09Feld and others, you know, this needs to be entrepreneur LED.
- 34:12It needs to be event driven. It's like, OK, I have no idea
- 34:15how to do events. I'd never done any events in my
- 34:17life, but I can probably figure it out.
- 34:18And just a funny aside on that point, one of the first pitch
- 34:23contest we did, we called Gone in 60 Seconds, 62nd pitch
- 34:27contest, a little bit like Gong Show meets American Idol.
- 34:31And we were so unsophisticated. We were going to do it in a
- 34:34barbecue joint. We showed up with the projector,
- 34:36which was just going to be a way of sequencing the pitches.
- 34:39So we knew who was going to present.
- 34:40Nobody brought a screen. And so we had to snatch one of
- 34:43the tablecloths off the table and hang it on a window.
- 34:46And that was the freaking screen that we use in that first pitch.
- 34:49So Needless to say, over 15 years, we've kind of grown into
- 34:53an event management company. But all of that stuff was a
- 34:55sequence of events where we figured out how to say yes to
- 35:00fill gaps that were in the market.
- 35:02And we had the good fortune of there being large organizations
- 35:05that wanted to fund that activity.
- 35:08And they were tolerant in those days that we really know what we
- 35:11were doing, but that we were going to continue to grind our
- 35:14way through to make these sorts of things happen.
- 35:17And so in that instance, would we have been better if we'd been
- 35:21a little more thoughtful, if we'd used a lean canvas
- 35:23approach, if we had understood our customers more?
- 35:26Yeah, we probably would have been a lot better.
- 35:28We it probably wouldn't have been as much trial and error,
- 35:31which is why we're big fans of that approach now and doing the
- 35:33customer discovery. So it was a right place, right
- 35:36time, a fair amount of luck associated with it and the fact
- 35:39that I was just maybe uniquely positioned based on my
- 35:43experience and a lot of other markets to be able to do
- 35:46something like that locally. So I would say, having said
- 35:49that, being able to say yes to things and then grinding my way
- 35:53through to figure things out, doing something's wrong and and
- 35:57then quickly getting better. I think it was Guy Kawasaki that
- 36:00famously said at Apple, we deliver garbage and we make it
- 36:04much better really quickly. So it was that idea of I'm going
- 36:08to roll out this minimally viable offering, whatever it is,
- 36:12and get better really quickly. And so we were doing things that
- 36:16were very similar to what the Lean Canvas and what Spiral
- 36:19methodology and what Agile says you should do without knowing
- 36:23what to call it. Yeah.
- 36:25No, I think that's right. And that probably comes a little
- 36:27bit from not having that formality of program.
- 36:30You know, in, in Silicon Valley, they probably already had this
- 36:32concept in place, but in a place like where you were coming up
- 36:35or, or developing this business, that's how it was.
- 36:37And I think you're right. Or, I mean, I think your story
- 36:40even exemplifies, you know, some, some of the topics we've
- 36:42talked about, right? This resilience, this
- 36:44willingness to raise your hand, this, you know, being able to
- 36:47push through the, the, you know, fails and the, you know, yeah, I
- 36:50mean, all the way down to just, you know, what seems trivial,
- 36:53you know, using a sheet as a, as a screen.
- 36:55You know, it's just that that trait or that characteristic or
- 36:59that willingness to think of on your feet and go, OK, well,
- 37:01let's just hang a, a, a curtain or a tablecloth up and we can
- 37:05make that work. Improvised depth and.
- 37:07Hailing and walking out the door upset because you didn't have
- 37:09spring. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly,
- 37:11exactly. And to your other point, you
- 37:14said, well, what if you're in a smaller area and where, where do
- 37:17you even get started? And so this is great if you're,
- 37:20if you're an entrepreneur and you're in a smaller area and you
- 37:23want to get something started. We, we think about there being 4
- 37:26pillars to consider when you're thinking about what's going on
- 37:29locally. One is what's the available
- 37:31talent pool? You know, do you have the
- 37:32entrepreneurial talent? Do you have the tech talent?
- 37:35What's kind of the status of that, so to speak?
- 37:37The next is capital access. What's available on the debt and
- 37:41equity side, Are there venture funds, are there Angel groups,
- 37:44etcetera. So an assessment along those
- 37:46ideas. The third piece is what's the
- 37:49existing entrepreneurial culture?
- 37:51Are there events, are there activities?
- 37:52How are people getting together? We've discovered over many years
- 37:56now, the only way you reinforce the realm of what's possible is
- 38:00having this regular cadence of events that will drop people
- 38:03out. And you can be intentional as as
- 38:05they say at Google and other places about creative
- 38:07collisions. And in the fourth pillar is
- 38:10community engagement, flagship enterprise engagement,
- 38:13university Community College engagement.
- 38:15Getting those folks to understand that this is really
- 38:19crucial. Small business and
- 38:20entrepreneurial vitality is the one thing.
- 38:23It's kind of like the moneyball play.
- 38:25Rather than trying to buy lottery tickets, which is
- 38:27typical economic development is we're going to attract in a big
- 38:31plant, we're going to try to attract big companies.
- 38:35What we do in entrepreneurship and entrepreneurial ecosystems
- 38:38is you're taking your destiny in your own hands.
- 38:40What are our assets? What are aspirations?
- 38:42What are the constraints? What can we do?
- 38:45And you can do it without building buildings or having a
- 38:48center or all that expensive infrastructure.
- 38:50Just start getting meetings and activities and people together
- 38:55to talk about what they're doing.
- 38:56I can remember more than 15 years ago, there was a coffee
- 39:00shop here called Big Mama's Coffee Shop.
- 39:03I'm not even sure if it's still there, but it was near the
- 39:05university and a bunch of the sort of emerging aspiring
- 39:11entrepreneurs I would say would get together on a regular basis
- 39:14talking about their hopes and their dreams, what they were
- 39:16working on and their side hustles.
- 39:18And I was kind of an old guy in that mix.
- 39:20And we just started showing up and that became a regular
- 39:24practice where and it was actually a precursor to things
- 39:27like 1,000,000 Cups and other nationally organized things.
- 39:30But those those sorts of meetings and gatherings are
- 39:34hugely important. And if you're in a small area,
- 39:37that's one place you can start right away.
- 39:39Get the people together that are small business owners or
- 39:42aspiring entrepreneurs on a regular basis to talk about what
- 39:44they're doing. Figure out how to help each
- 39:46other. No, I think that's right.
- 39:48And they want to lead into a question about sort of the
- 39:50importance of mentorship and finding coaching and things like
- 39:53that. But but I think you make a great
- 39:55point there and I just wanted to sort of use, you know, the
- 39:58example of you creating, you know, startup Junkies consulting
- 40:02as a, you know. One of the needs that you saw or
- 40:05that you addressed in your area was the lack of these little
- 40:08events and and I mean for, you know, a more simple term, lack
- 40:11of community around entrepreneurship.
- 40:13That's right. And so in what is also just by
- 40:15coincidence, A entrepreneurial move, you started creating the
- 40:19events, right? You started doing the things.
- 40:21And I think that that can be sort of a model for somebody in
- 40:23a small town or in a community that's, you know, got a maybe a,
- 40:27you know, a burgeoning entrepreneurial community, but
- 40:30it's not there yet, right? You know, taking the initiative
- 40:33to go out and actually start throwing these events and start
- 40:36putting on things or, or partnering with national
- 40:38organizations like 1,000,000 cops or any, any of these types
- 40:41of things. You know, you can start to not
- 40:44only, you know, from a business standpoint, start to develop
- 40:46your name, your, your reputation, your, you know,
- 40:49place in the entrepreneurial ecosystem, but and you will
- 40:52learn a ton from it and you'll start to get it, you know, build
- 40:55a network of people, which I think is for a lot of
- 40:57entrepreneurs where they really thrive.
- 40:59But I think that just by virtue of creating those events, you
- 41:03know, you're sort of doing the entrepreneurial thing.
- 41:05And I think that that's really important.
- 41:07But what you mentioned just there at the end about sort of
- 41:09this group of guys that were getting together at the coffee
- 41:11local coffee shop, I was trying to come up with it.
- 41:14There's a an organization here in Utah that's basically a bunch
- 41:17of retired ex fortune whatever CE OS and stuff like that.
- 41:21And they get together, you know, once every couple weeks and they
- 41:24do these Zoom calls and they'll have politicians on or they'll
- 41:27have business people on or they'll do whatever.
- 41:28And then they have they have a weekly meet, right?
- 41:30And that moment of spending time with them is maybe kind of what
- 41:35you described, which you were the older person in the
- 41:37opportunity in this group. But what you brought to that
- 41:40group was you've got a bunch of, you know, anxious minds or
- 41:42hungry minds here that are ready to do something exciting.
- 41:45And they've got those hopes and dreams.
- 41:46And then they can leverage the your experience to try and
- 41:49figure out how to materialize those things.
- 41:51And so I think that then takes me back into this idea of
- 41:53mentorship and just how important that kind of thing is.
- 41:56I think, you know, we, we touched on it earlier, but a lot
- 41:59of entrepreneurs tend to feel kind of isolated or solo, like
- 42:02it's all on me to do this. And you know, I, I personally
- 42:06have employed coaches and worked with different people.
- 42:08You know, even this podcast to some extent is a, a way of
- 42:11networking and developing relationships with people.
- 42:14And you know, so I wonder what your thoughts are around sort of
- 42:17mentorship and coaching, you know, as one sort of vertical,
- 42:21but then just sort of the value of community in general.
- 42:24Yeah. I mean, it's it, it's crucially,
- 42:25it's crucially important and and a couple of couple of ways to
- 42:28think about that. One is there's so much that can
- 42:30be gained from the peer-to-peer networking as well, because what
- 42:35you find out is all the entrepreneurs and small business
- 42:38owners are likely, even if they're in completely different
- 42:40segments have are facing similar problems, but they all have
- 42:43different networks and they can all be connectors for each
- 42:46other. So a good degree of mentoring
- 42:48can come on a peer-to-peer basis.
- 42:50People that are kind of at the same stage, mentoring, where I
- 42:55like to separate mentoring also into the idea of there's mentors
- 43:00and then there's subject matter experts, mentors.
- 43:03The best mentors for a small business owner or startup are
- 43:06people who have actually walked the walk, maybe not in that same
- 43:09space, but they built things, right.
- 43:11Mentors are not typically people have spent their entire career
- 43:14in a large company. They are going to have a context
- 43:17of subject matter expertise that can be hugely valuable if you
- 43:20want to know something about that space.
- 43:22But you got to be really careful not to take their advice on what
- 43:25it takes to build the business because they don't know, they
- 43:28haven't done it, it's they've had a legion or an army of peace
- 43:32people working with them versus being in an entrepreneurial
- 43:35context. So understanding that difference
- 43:38between mentors and subject matter experts is important.
- 43:40The other thing I'd say is when you seek out mentors, it's good
- 43:45to find people that want to help just to be helpful, particularly
- 43:49in the beginning. They're not looking to make some
- 43:51percentage. They're not necessarily looking
- 43:53to get paid. There's plenty of consultants
- 43:56and coaches that you can pay to do it, but a lot of mentors are
- 43:59going to want to do it because it allows them to vicariously
- 44:03relive that part of their life where they were an operator
- 44:07without having to take all the risk.
- 44:09But they, they see the, the value in what they're doing
- 44:12right. I mean, there's a lot of people
- 44:13that want to that want to engage with small business or startups
- 44:17just because they want to be helpful because they remember
- 44:19how hard it was. So seeking them out is really
- 44:22important. And some of them, if they're
- 44:23really good and you want to have a more material commercial
- 44:25relationship, they won't even ask for options.
- 44:28But if you offer it, there's going to be a lot of
- 44:30ingratiation that will come from that as you think about stock
- 44:33options and whatnot. But it's hugely important.
- 44:36It's hugely important. Now one thing I would say about
- 44:38that, we've been lucky enough to be part of a number of mentor
- 44:42driven programs over the years. And we we we participate with
- 44:46the University of Arkansas on one called the Venture Mentoring
- 44:49Service, which was based on an MIT platform.
- 44:52We did another a bunch of work around something called Mentor
- 44:55Camp which brought in mentors globally to engage with high
- 44:59potential startups. We've got an active set of
- 45:01mentors and SMEs that we use in all of our programs.
- 45:04The thing I think is really important about all that is for
- 45:08the founders to develop a really well defined filter.
- 45:13And, and what I mean is there's an opportunity to get mentor
- 45:16whiplash. You've you've seen all these
- 45:19experienced people and they're all going to give you different
- 45:21insights based on their experience.
- 45:23The best founders are the ones that can take all that input in,
- 45:26be very respectful, ask good questions about it, listen well,
- 45:31but then they filter and synthesize what the real truth
- 45:34is based on all those inputs and the really good ones.
- 45:37There's there's a guy named Ryan Frazier that now runs arrived
- 45:40homes who's an entrepreneur that came out of here.
- 45:43He's running up to large VC backed venture in Seattle now.
- 45:49He was fantastic at taking in all those inputs and then
- 45:52filtering out what he heard and then getting back to those
- 45:55mentors to say, this is what I heard.
- 45:58This is what I learned now this is what I'm going to do because
- 46:00ultimately he was the one accountable to actually
- 46:04implement and execute and to be successful.
- 46:06But that's that's a healthy way to think about engaging with
- 46:10mentors and subject matter expertise and understand and
- 46:13understanding the difference between.
- 46:15Yeah, I think that's smart. And I like the distinction of
- 46:17trying to find somebody who walks the walks.
- 46:19My my wife and and mother are both teachers.
- 46:22I come from a family of educators and the and they hate
- 46:26this phrase, but there's this kind of ucky phrase out there
- 46:29that is, you know, those who don't do or those who can't do
- 46:32teach, right? And so, and I think that
- 46:34sometimes, especially we were talking earlier about just sort
- 46:37of the ready availability of almost anything and everything
- 46:40nowadays due to the Internet, that this has spun up a lot of
- 46:43people who actually can't do, so they're teaching.
- 46:46And so you've got sort of this extra filter that you need to
- 46:49look at, which is the, the, I guess Internet mentor that, you
- 46:54know, has spun up a course, done whatever, but it's not really
- 46:57based on anything in particular. So I think that there's a little
- 47:00extra filtering that has to be done these days.
- 47:02And so, you know, finding a good mentor by virtue of either
- 47:04having walk the walk themselves or by a good referral or
- 47:06whatever I think would be a good way to do something A. 100%
- 47:10agree. Yeah, 100, you have to, you have
- 47:12to be discerning because there's a lot of people out there with a
- 47:15book or a program or a set of slides that maybe haven't,
- 47:20they've been on the fringe, but maybe they haven't actually done
- 47:22it. So that's really.
- 47:23Good. The next thing I wanted to talk
- 47:25to you about a little bit and, and I have some theories about
- 47:27why this is, but one of the things that I think is sort of
- 47:30the perpetual plight of the small business person is there's
- 47:34sort of this looming imposter syndrome or something hanging
- 47:38around over their their shoulder, right?
- 47:40Sometimes they're not that confident in what they're doing.
- 47:42They know they want to do it, but they don't know the way.
- 47:44They don't know the path. And not to focus so much on the
- 47:47imposter syndrome, but I think what it spins up is this
- 47:49activity where we feel like reading every book and watching
- 47:52every video and doing everything.
- 47:54So we do a perpetual ingesting of new things, but we never
- 47:58actually act. And so I wondered if you had any
- 48:01insights or, or, or things that you could share in terms of
- 48:04actually making action out of the things that we've learned.
- 48:06And you sort of alluded to it a little bit with this example
- 48:08that you were just talking about where he was able to, you know,
- 48:11take in all the things these different mentor types would
- 48:13would give him, but then he was able to apply what made sense
- 48:17or, or formulate his plan based on what he's learned.
- 48:19And so I wonder if you could talk a little bit about that
- 48:21moment, that tipping point we get to between we've learned
- 48:24enough and now it's time to act because I think it's just a
- 48:27matter of fear and we'll kind of kick the stuff down down the
- 48:29road. No, I'd love that.
- 48:32I'd love that question. I love that question and for
- 48:35lots of reasons. In fact, the second core value
- 48:39and our core values is take action.
- 48:41So I mean, number one is do the right team.
- 48:43The second thing is take action. We always try to have a bias
- 48:46towards action and what we do. And, and part of that is driven
- 48:49by the fact that regardless of how well researched you are, and
- 48:52it's great to have an encyclopedic knowledge of the
- 48:55area that you're trying to build a business in, but at some point
- 48:58you have to take action. You're never going to have
- 49:00probably more than 70% of the information you need.
- 49:04And you're going to learn so much more by actually doing
- 49:07something and engaging with the customers and taking that step
- 49:11then you will by continuing to be caught in sort of the
- 49:15analysis paralysis mode of it. Now it is good to benchmark and
- 49:20it is good to read the, the, the sort of Seminole works and it's
- 49:23good to be a, a sort of voracious consumer of
- 49:26information. But there's no replacement for
- 49:29taking action. You're going to, you're going to
- 49:30get immediate feedback from the market by doing that.
- 49:33And the one thing I'll say about markets and customers is there's
- 49:36sort of a ruthless level of efficiency there.
- 49:39You find out about a bunch of stuff.
- 49:42If you go ahead and take action, if you go ahead and launch that
- 49:46beta product you have, if you go ahead and try the service, if
- 49:50you go ahead and put that event on, it's not going to be great.
- 49:53It never is great the very first time you do it, but the whole
- 49:56point is then you incrementally and quickly iterate and get
- 50:00better based on what you learn. I think it's the only way to be
- 50:04successful. And I'll further this response
- 50:07with just a little bit more. When I was at Westinghouse and I
- 50:11was a system engineer and a product manager, we had digital
- 50:14designers that would never release a new board because they
- 50:19were trying to get 1/4 decibel more performance out of it.
- 50:23They've already met the requirement, but they were
- 50:25aiming at perfection. Life, to use a mathematical kind
- 50:28of analogy, is asymptotic. You never quite get there.
- 50:33It's always aspirational, but you have to take action or you
- 50:36never will even approach that level of perfection.
- 50:40So I, I mean, it's a really good point you brought up.
- 50:43You just have a bias towards action.
- 50:46Get as much information as you can and then act and you're
- 50:49going to learn. A ton I love that so the last
- 50:52thing I want to get into just, you know, in these closing few
- 50:54minutes is is sort of around in the notion of choosing a path.
- 50:57I think that there's a set of entrepreneurs, maybe not
- 51:01everybody, you know some people come from a family business,
- 51:03some people have have a passion that they've landed on things
- 51:06like that. But I think a lot of times, and
- 51:08maybe this is just sort of Internet culture, but we're sort
- 51:10of prompted to act on our passions and move on the things
- 51:14that are, you know, a really deep and emotional to us.
- 51:17And, and I don't think that every startup necessarily has to
- 51:20be that way. I think that, you know,
- 51:21obviously it's good to have some, you know, at least care
- 51:24about what you're doing, you know, and I think it's important
- 51:26to be. Interesting.
- 51:26Yeah, yeah, yeah. But, but I think a lot of people
- 51:29spend and maybe this is just one of these procrastination
- 51:31techniques where they spend a lot of time trying to identify
- 51:33what their passion is. And then the the worst part, or
- 51:36maybe the the other side of that coin is the people who are not
- 51:39necessarily chasing their passion, but they're chasing
- 51:41somebody else's passion by virtue of, hey, I've seen the
- 51:44guy with the yacht on Instagram and I want a yacht.
- 51:47So what's he doing? You know, so let me chase down
- 51:49his path instead of, you know, living my own life or trying to
- 51:53figure out my own way. And I think that's especially
- 51:56common nowadays and sort of, you know, especially among young
- 51:59people who are up to their eyeballs on social media and all
- 52:02this sort of culture of, you know, wealth and things like
- 52:06that, that we put on social media.
- 52:08And so I think people are in this position where they're
- 52:10having a hard time delineating what what's actually their
- 52:14thoughts from the thoughts of others.
- 52:16And so I wonder if you could, if you've got any pointers or any
- 52:19insights. And obviously, I mean, a lot of
- 52:20start-ups probably come to you with an idea in hand.
- 52:23But I mean, you know, do you have any thoughts either from
- 52:25your own experience or from people that you've met along the
- 52:28way where, you know, maybe they they are entrepreneurial and
- 52:32they do want to do a thing, but maybe it's not really their
- 52:34thing. And by virtue of conversation or
- 52:37coaching or whatever, they're able to actually uncover what it
- 52:39is they actually care about. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 52:44And there's been a lot of discourse around, you know, the
- 52:50mythology of pursuing your passion because sometimes that
- 52:54doesn't have any overlap with what a viable business can be.
- 52:58I mean, it there, there might not be any intersection there.
- 53:01I think being introspective about what am I good at?
- 53:05Sort of what, what am I? What do I, what brings me energy
- 53:08and what am I good at? And then the other aspect is
- 53:12what would people value and actually pay for?
- 53:15That's kind of another important part of it.
- 53:19I think looking for that kind of intersection is important.
- 53:24And realizing that the business you're working on today might
- 53:28not be the business that you're going to work on forever, But if
- 53:32it's a means to an end, you know, for, for winning, however
- 53:37you define it. And winning is seldom piling up
- 53:40a big stack of money. Winning is at the end of day
- 53:43feeling like I had some kind of impact.
- 53:45This was purposeful. This meant something.
- 53:49This solved a problem for a customer.
- 53:52This had a ripple effect in a in a positive way to a lot of
- 53:56people that I didn't even know by virtue of what we did.
- 54:01It's not easy there. There's a lot of iteration
- 54:04that's required to try to get there.
- 54:07The last thing I would say about all that is the most unhappy
- 54:11people I've ever met in my career are the ones who were
- 54:14100% one dimensionally focused on how much money they could
- 54:19make. The happiest people I've ever
- 54:22met are the ones that said we solved a big problem and it
- 54:25turned out we made a bunch of money, but we started by wanting
- 54:29to solve a big problem that we cared about, that the market
- 54:32cared about, and that's how we pursued it.
- 54:34Guy Kawasaki, Guy who's written numerous books and was the chief
- 54:39evangelist at at the Macintosh division, said make meaning and
- 54:44the money will follow. He said that in the art of the
- 54:46start. I really believe that.
- 54:48And again, it's not, that's what I'm passionate about
- 54:51necessarily, but it was meaningful.
- 54:53There was a purpose behind it. There was a vision that made
- 54:56sense. The other thing I'd say too is,
- 54:59and this is a little bit of a tangent, but I think it's
- 55:01important, a lot of people in the startup in the
- 55:04entrepreneurial world get caught up on the less than 1% prospect
- 55:09that everything has to be venture capital backed. 6/10 of
- 55:121% of all companies are actually successful in getting venture
- 55:16capital. There's a ton of great companies
- 55:18that never raise institutional BC money.
- 55:21They might raise Angel money, they might not raise any.
- 55:22They might build it on the based on customer revenues.
- 55:26We should dissuade ourselves and we should actually not even
- 55:29celebrate raising venture capital.
- 55:31Nobody celebrates getting a loan.
- 55:34Typically it's a it's a necessary evil.
- 55:37And so I think if people focus on building a fundamentally good
- 55:41business that solves a problem that they care about, that
- 55:45people actually pay for, that's pretty good orientation.
- 55:48Fundamental economics, fundamental economic thinking,
- 55:51figuring out how to get revenues out in front of expenses and
- 55:54sustainability and understanding your customer and delighting
- 55:57your customer. Those are the kinds of things
- 55:59that that I think people need to focus on if they're trying to
- 56:02build something that they feel good about and that that, you
- 56:05know, ultimately they might make some money in it, but it they're
- 56:08going to feel good about what they.
- 56:10Do I think that's right? And I think it's a really good
- 56:11point that that concept of making meaning, I think there's
- 56:14probably some sort of just like universal human truths out
- 56:17there. And it's really easy for us to
- 56:19go, oh, well, you know what, I just want to make money.
- 56:21I just need to, you know, I need the biggest house.
- 56:23I need the whatever, you know, And so I think it's really easy
- 56:25to focus on that or get caught up in that.
- 56:27And that's maybe sort of a, I don't know, an immature approach
- 56:31or a novice approach to business.
- 56:33It seems like because I think what you start to discover, and
- 56:36this is something too that we've sort of have discovered through
- 56:39this show, just as even growing entrepreneurs ourselves, nothing
- 56:45happens overnight. Everything is layered on.
- 56:48There is no shortcut. You can't just get to the end
- 56:50and learn something that you're going to tell me today, I'm
- 56:53going to have to Add all that stuff on top of my layer cake
- 56:56and eventually I'll get to the knowledge that I needed to do
- 56:58the thing I wanted. But it seems like for most
- 57:01people who are sort of established in business and
- 57:03who've been doing this for a long time, what it ends up with
- 57:05is something like what you're describing.
- 57:07I was impactful to the lives of my employees.
- 57:10We did something great for the community.
- 57:12We, you know, made an impact globally that did XY or Z, you
- 57:15know, like, but you never hear them go, Oh well, yeah.
- 57:18But I also cashed out those stock stock options and I got
- 57:21that sweet Bugatti. Like it's almost never that.
- 57:23And so there's sort of this, you know, contradiction of of things
- 57:27going on in society right now, which is sort of the posturing
- 57:31and the flaunting and the pretending we're rich or putting
- 57:34off images that aren't necessarily real.
- 57:36The the Instagram version of life where you know, everybody's
- 57:39on vacation all the time and, and everything seems great.
- 57:42And then there's sort of the reality, which is you actually
- 57:45don't feel good if you're doing that stuff.
- 57:46You'll feel much better if you're doing this stuff.
- 57:48Yep. So I think that's an
- 57:50interesting. Insight.
- 57:51Yeah, well, and, and again, not to get overly philosophical, but
- 57:56I, I think it was Gandhi that said to find yourself, lose
- 58:00yourself in the service of others.
- 58:02And you can do that as an entrepreneur and you don't have
- 58:04to be a social entrepreneur, doesn't have to be a nonprofit.
- 58:07But if you think about are we doing right by those clients
- 58:11we're serving? Are we making, are we empowering
- 58:14them? Are we inspiring them?
- 58:15Are are we changing lives? That's the kind of thing that
- 58:19will drive you to continue with the grind to put in the late
- 58:23hours, etcetera. And I think that we need to kind
- 58:26of get back to that the superficiality of, you know, how
- 58:30big your bank account is or what kind of car you drive that is
- 58:33fleeting. And nobody's going to remember
- 58:35that it's it's short term gratification.
- 58:39But if you can point to the fact that you really did something
- 58:42that changed lives, that move the needle on in society and you
- 58:46built a business, whether you call it a social venture or not,
- 58:50that did some of those things, I think I think that's a better
- 58:53orientation. I think you're right.
- 58:54Well here Jeff, in the in the closing minutes, let's where can
- 58:58people track you down online? How could they engage with your
- 59:00organization if they so wished? Yeah, yeah.
- 59:05So you can find us@startupjunkie.org.
- 59:07That's the the primary location. If you want to learn more about
- 59:10the book Creating Startup Junkies, there's a site called
- 59:13Creating Startup junkies.com as well, or you can find it on
- 59:17Amazon. And, and if you're, you're
- 59:19interested in what we do in the venture capital world, you can
- 59:21find us@catroncapital.com as as well.
- 59:25And that's, and I'm all over LinkedIn all the time as well.
- 59:29So definitely look me up. I I'm happy to help anybody.
- 59:33We'll share all those links in the the show notes so well.
- 59:36Thanks so much, Jeff. I really appreciate you taking
- 59:38the time today. It's been an awesome
- 59:39conversation. I think we learned a lot.
- 59:42Hey thanks for having me on it was great talking to you and
- 59:45best in luck with all your future.
- 59:47Thanks so much. I appreciate you and thanks to
- 59:49everybody who tunes into the show this week and see you.
- 59:51We'll see you guys next time.