Latest / Untraditionally Lala / Harry Jowsey Is Too Hot To Handle
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- 0:06Speaker 1: What is that gorgeous?
- 0:08Speaker 2: It's La La pet welcome back to give them Lla
- 0:12Speaker 2: podcast before we get it on and pop in reminder.
- 0:17Speaker 2: I want to meet you when I go on tour
- 0:19Speaker 2: for the brand new tour. That's right, give them Lalla.
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- 0:26Speaker 2: we're kicking off in Irvine, but y'all can't come to
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- 0:36Speaker 2: New Orleans, Houston, Austin, and Dallas.
- 0:39Speaker 1: I will see you all.
- 0:40Speaker 2: If you want to purchase tickets, go to give Them
- 0:43Speaker 2: live dot com.
- 0:45Speaker 1: It is about to be lit a s. What's up, Jess?
- 0:49Speaker 3: Hello Lala? How are you? How is your weekend?
- 0:52Speaker 1: My weekend was fucks?
- 0:55Speaker 3: Tell me tell us all about it.
- 0:57Speaker 2: Well, I went to this party fun on Saturday.
- 1:02Speaker 1: You came and met up. M hmm.
- 1:05Speaker 2: It was for one of the writers on Euphoria. I've
- 1:07Speaker 2: actually never seen Euphoria.
- 1:09Speaker 3: Have you not seen it? Because you know the vibe
- 1:11Speaker 3: and it might cause you anxiety or you just haven't
- 1:13Speaker 3: gotten around to it.
- 1:14Speaker 2: So I respect Euphoria because everyone loves it, and I've
- 1:20Speaker 2: seen a couple of episodes like the very first season.
- 1:24Speaker 2: I thought the acting was incredible, the storyline, like, I
- 1:28Speaker 2: thought it was an incredible show, like give respect where
- 1:31Speaker 2: it's due amazing for me. I don't think people realize
- 1:35Speaker 2: how terrified and put off by drug use that I like,
- 1:42Speaker 2: I'm I cannot stand it. Yeah, it makes me sick
- 1:46Speaker 2: to my stomach.
- 1:47Speaker 3: That makes sense. And season one is heavy. I think
- 1:50Speaker 3: the pilot is like heavy, right, that's where like Sindaia's
- 1:53Speaker 3: characters like you see her like I think overdose or something.
- 1:57Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:57Speaker 2: The last episode I ever watched was when then Daya
- 2:00Speaker 2: went over to someone's house and someone puts fetanol like
- 2:04Speaker 2: on a knife and tells her to lick it or whatever,
- 2:08Speaker 2: and it was just I just can't go there. And
- 2:12Speaker 2: then a lot of people have said, like, if you
- 2:14Speaker 2: have kids, it'll make you so worried, and I'm like,
- 2:16Speaker 2: I'm a worrier as it is. I don't need to
- 2:18Speaker 2: expose myself to more worry. So I feel like there
- 2:22Speaker 2: will be a day when I watch it, but I
- 2:24Speaker 2: have yet to watch it. Yes, but that yeah. So
- 2:28Speaker 2: it was this writer's birthday. They had it at Tom Tom.
- 2:32Speaker 2: She's a huge fan of Vander pump. I always get
- 2:35Speaker 2: extremely humbled when you have like real talent who do
- 2:39Speaker 2: incredible things and they're like I love you.
- 2:42Speaker 1: And I'm like no, no, like what you do is insane.
- 2:46Speaker 2: She was like, the crazy thing is though, it is
- 2:48Speaker 2: like your guys show the shit that comes out of
- 2:51Speaker 2: your mouths, like you can't write that shit.
- 2:53Speaker 1: You cannot. And so it was like a cute little moment.
- 2:56Speaker 2: There were incredible people there and I just was living
- 3:01Speaker 2: my best life. I got home at twelve thirty, which
- 3:03Speaker 2: is late for me.
- 3:05Speaker 3: That's late. That's a good time to get home.
- 3:06Speaker 2: I think it's the perfect time because then I need
- 3:09Speaker 2: at least a couple of hours to wind down, right,
- 3:11Speaker 2: you know. And my gusbands went to an after party.
- 3:15Speaker 2: They got home at four, and I'm like, that would
- 3:18Speaker 2: send me into sheer panic.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Right because I am.
- 3:22Speaker 3: We'll go ahead.
- 3:23Speaker 1: What were you going to say I get emotional? I
- 3:26Speaker 1: should I wasn't.
- 3:27Speaker 2: This wasn't an emotional night. I should say I get
- 3:30Speaker 2: an interaction hangover. Okay, So when I go out, even
- 3:35Speaker 2: though I'm not drinking, Like if I have a night
- 3:39Speaker 2: out where it's late and I've been talking to people,
- 3:42Speaker 2: the next morning, I feel like I've been hit by
- 3:44Speaker 2: a bus.
- 3:44Speaker 3: Lala, You're an extroverted introvert. That's what I am. That's
- 3:47Speaker 3: what Kyle is. That's like that what it is, an
- 3:50Speaker 3: extroverted introvert because for years I thought I was an
- 3:52Speaker 3: extrovert because I'm just like when I'm out, I talk
- 3:55Speaker 3: to people. But an extroverted introvert. To be an introvert,
- 3:59Speaker 3: recharge means being alone. And when you're an extrovert, recharging
- 4:05Speaker 3: your batteries, like I have to be around people. So
- 4:08Speaker 3: people would probably assume you're an extrovert because when you're
- 4:10Speaker 3: out you're social and this and that, but like it
- 4:13Speaker 3: takes a toll on you.
- 4:15Speaker 1: It did, and you have.
- 4:16Speaker 3: To recharge by like being by yourself or someone who's
- 4:19Speaker 3: super close to you. And just like chilling out, that's
- 4:23Speaker 3: a real thing. You get like physical like you get
- 4:26Speaker 3: like physically exhausted.
- 4:28Speaker 1: My body hurts.
- 4:29Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that's the same.
- 4:31Speaker 1: And I so I came home.
- 4:33Speaker 2: I took like a warm bath, I took a couple melatonin.
- 4:37Speaker 2: I laid in my bed, and the next morning I
- 4:41Speaker 2: slept until ten thirty. I slept until ten thirty yesterday,
- 4:44Speaker 2: and it was licked. It was yeah, but then I
- 4:47Speaker 2: fucked myself because you stayed up late, yes, last night,
- 4:50Speaker 2: and then it's Monday, we got a work day, I
- 4:53Speaker 2: got ocean waking up and I'm like, oh my god.
- 4:56Speaker 1: I do that?
- 4:57Speaker 3: How late did you stay up last night?
- 5:00Speaker 1: Probably until like one thirty? I was texting a cute boy.
- 5:04Speaker 3: You were yeah, okay, wait, what can you say about
- 5:07Speaker 3: that test? Because anything? Any details? Is this actually? Because
- 5:12Speaker 3: you said on the podcast a couple episodes ago you
- 5:15Speaker 3: said you have certain men for certain things. So is
- 5:19Speaker 3: this boy like what what is he fulfill? Is he flirty?
- 5:23Speaker 3: Is he like safe?
- 5:24Speaker 2: Is he.
- 5:27Speaker 1: As of right now? And what I need in life?
- 5:30Speaker 1: Kind of everything? Really? Yeah?
- 5:33Speaker 3: Oh that's cool and just over text. That's awesome that
- 5:37Speaker 3: he can do that just.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Over text and am like talking. Yeah yeah, but he
- 5:41Speaker 2: has like an actual job. Okay, okay, you know yeah,
- 5:47Speaker 2: it requires him to like, you know, and I have
- 5:50Speaker 2: an actual job.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:52Speaker 4: No.
- 5:52Speaker 2: I was like, I'm like, I'm going to stay up
- 5:54Speaker 2: because I'm having a little bit of fun. It's cute,
- 5:57Speaker 2: I know, it was really cute. That's fun because you know,
- 6:00Speaker 2: I lost a couple of dudes to the PI well,
- 6:07Speaker 2: dropping like flies, dropping like flies, and I don't miss them.
- 6:13Speaker 2: But I was reading today on the GRAM, so I
- 6:17Speaker 2: always thought that Pamela Anderson I had read online Pamela Anderson,
- 6:21Speaker 2: by the way, while everyone else is trying to look
- 6:23Speaker 2: like the like exact photo copy of Kim K, like
- 6:28Speaker 2: I have to look like Pam Anderson icon just a nicon.
- 6:33Speaker 1: Oh my god.
- 6:34Speaker 2: It's like also because I have no chance of looking
- 6:38Speaker 2: like Kim K or else. I'm sure I would go
- 6:39Speaker 2: and try to do that, but like, it's just it
- 6:41Speaker 2: could never happen. Yeah, I'd have to literally have a
- 6:44Speaker 2: head transcen, you know, like Pamela Anderson is, like, Okay,
- 6:50Speaker 2: I look good as a blonde, Like we can we can.
- 6:52Speaker 1: Try to be like the busted version. Fine with that?
- 6:57Speaker 3: Would you ever go bleach blonde? Because I think you
- 6:59Speaker 3: could kill it. I love a good bleach blonde.
- 7:02Speaker 1: I want to do that.
- 7:02Speaker 2: I gotta get my hair healthy. I've been taking my
- 7:04Speaker 2: neutrafold pills like a mad woman, and then I want
- 7:08Speaker 2: to do it. So I'm obsessed with tom See I
- 7:11Speaker 2: always do it. I call it Tom and Pammy, Pam
- 7:15Speaker 2: and Tommy. I'm obsessed with it. And I read that
- 7:18Speaker 2: Pam Anderson will not watch. She has zero interest the
- 7:22Speaker 2: show Pam and Tommy. That's a show, the TV show Hulu.
- 7:27Speaker 2: But then today it comes out that she's doing a
- 7:29Speaker 2: documentary oh on like the real Story, and she claims
- 7:35Speaker 2: on this it's like a handwritten note and on the
- 7:39Speaker 2: top of it it says Netflix. Right yeah, and she
- 7:42Speaker 2: writes something out and she says not a victim, but
- 7:45Speaker 2: a survivor. And I was like, damn, oh my god.
- 7:49Speaker 2: And it's signed by her with a kiss that is
- 7:52Speaker 2: the goat. So I'm so excited.
- 7:54Speaker 3: Did it say what? I mean? I doubt it? But like,
- 7:57Speaker 3: what when's it coming out? What streaming platform is any
- 8:00Speaker 3: or no?
- 8:00Speaker 2: I guess Netflix. Oh, because it said Netflix on the
- 8:04Speaker 2: little note card. It was like a Netflix notepad.
- 8:08Speaker 3: Is Pam and Tommy on? You said, oh, well, that
- 8:13Speaker 3: would make sense. I thought it was on a Netflix
- 8:17Speaker 3: note card, Like Netflix, you did me wrong. And I'm now,
- 8:23Speaker 3: oh my god.
- 8:25Speaker 2: So I'm freaking out so excited. I dove into Baywatch
- 8:29Speaker 2: last night.
- 8:30Speaker 3: Oh I couldn't know. Everybody get wait, why is it
- 8:33Speaker 3: so cheesy? I don't think I've ever seen it.
- 8:35Speaker 2: There's like these people in the middle of the ocean
- 8:38Speaker 2: quote unquote middle of the ocean and they're.
- 8:40Speaker 1: Like hew, and they're like drowning themselves. There's no waves,
- 8:44Speaker 1: there's nothing, They're they're like forcing themselves underwater.
- 8:50Speaker 2: I was laughing and I was like, I can't, oh
- 8:53Speaker 2: go through with it, so I put Friends on instead.
- 8:56Speaker 3: Okay, I've never seen Baywatch. I was I've been watch
- 9:00Speaker 3: the newest season of Search Parties out.
- 9:03Speaker 2: Oh search Party is such a vibe, but I haven't
- 9:05Speaker 2: seen it since it went on to HBO Max.
- 9:08Speaker 1: Isn't that what it's on now?
- 9:09Speaker 3: Yeah, on HBO Max. But it's way different, like season
- 9:12Speaker 3: three was last season, and then I think this season,
- 9:14Speaker 3: season four or maybe four or five one of those,
- 9:17Speaker 3: so much different than season one.
- 9:19Speaker 1: Search Party was originally on what.
- 9:23Speaker 3: I don't know, because I didn't see it until it
- 9:26Speaker 3: was on HBO Max because I like binge watched it.
- 9:29Speaker 3: But I think it was like TBS. Maybe I don't know.
- 9:32Speaker 3: I was a TBS and it's so good.
- 9:35Speaker 2: I loved it, And then I had no idea that
- 9:37Speaker 2: it switched to like a streaming service, so I just
- 9:39Speaker 2: thought it went off the air, and I'm like, it
- 9:40Speaker 2: was so good, why would it not still be on?
- 9:43Speaker 4: Yes?
- 9:43Speaker 2: But it's I'm going to start watching that too. I'm
- 9:46Speaker 2: trying to dive into like actual shows because all I
- 9:51Speaker 2: watch is Housewives and Friends, and I have to like
- 9:55Speaker 2: when you start looking at the cast of Friends and
- 9:59Speaker 2: being like, wait a minut, You're not supposed to look
- 10:01Speaker 2: like that, It's like, okay, you like really need to
- 10:04Speaker 2: like get with the times.
- 10:06Speaker 3: How many times have you rewatched Friends, like the entire
- 10:10Speaker 3: all the seasons? What do you think?
- 10:11Speaker 4: One?
- 10:12Speaker 1: Hundreds?
- 10:13Speaker 3: Are you serious?
- 10:14Speaker 2: Hundreds of times? And I still go so funny, it
- 10:18Speaker 2: never gets old.
- 10:20Speaker 3: I've watched it one time through in the office, I've
- 10:22Speaker 3: watched it. That's the only show I've watched multiple times through.
- 10:24Speaker 2: Yeah, so that I'm venturing, Like I just finished Inventing
- 10:27Speaker 2: Anna and I loved it?
- 10:29Speaker 3: You did?
- 10:29Speaker 1: Did you not love it?
- 10:30Speaker 3: I didn't finish it because I got listen. I love
- 10:33Speaker 3: the show, respect the show, obsessed with the actress. Yeah,
- 10:37Speaker 3: but I got a little bored.
- 10:39Speaker 2: And I know that's even a chance because the last
- 10:42Speaker 2: couple of episodes are wild are so good. Really There's
- 10:47Speaker 2: one scene that she has with her attorney and it's
- 10:51Speaker 2: like bone chilling.
- 10:53Speaker 3: Really, Okay, I need to get back into it because
- 10:55Speaker 3: I love the accent.
- 10:56Speaker 1: Get into it.
- 10:57Speaker 3: Yeah, I need you see the twenty twenty on her. No,
- 11:00Speaker 3: I need to see that. Okay, watch that because that's
- 11:03Speaker 3: on Is that on YouTube?
- 11:05Speaker 1: You can watch it on Hulu? Do you have Hulu? Yeah,
- 11:07Speaker 1: I'll give you my passwords. No, I have.
- 11:10Speaker 3: I've got if any if I have anything, if I
- 11:12Speaker 3: spend money on anything, it's all of the streaming. Yeah,
- 11:15Speaker 3: all of them, Disney plus I've got.
- 11:17Speaker 2: Them all yeah, same yeah, and I watch one of them.
- 11:21Speaker 2: I'm like, all I watch I know. I think I
- 11:23Speaker 2: got like yeah, No, I only kept my nuts like
- 11:26Speaker 2: subscription because they had Seinfeldt. Really, now they're gonna have
- 11:30Speaker 2: Pam Anderson's documentary, so now I'm staying for that too.
- 11:33Speaker 3: I even have Peacock guys, I have, of course, I
- 11:36Speaker 3: have Peacock's my mother Ship. Wait, that's what Housewives of
- 11:39Speaker 3: Miami's on?
- 11:40Speaker 4: Right?
- 11:40Speaker 2: Or amuse Housewives of Miami, which is so good? Why
- 11:45Speaker 2: isn't it on Bravo?
- 11:47Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 11:47Speaker 2: How are we gonna put Summer House on Bravo and
- 11:50Speaker 2: not freaking Real Housewives of Miami?
- 11:52Speaker 1: It makes no sense to me. That's weird.
- 11:55Speaker 3: Okay, Wait, I want to jump back. Really quick to
- 11:58Speaker 3: the party. Yeah, I'm curious, and I know the listeners
- 12:01Speaker 3: are too. Did you meet any cute boys or no.
- 12:05Speaker 1: There were a lot of cute boys there.
- 12:08Speaker 2: Okay, But like I, I have a very You wouldn't
- 12:14Speaker 2: know it when I say I have a very specific type.
- 12:18Speaker 2: You wouldn't know it by my last relationship. But I
- 12:22Speaker 2: have a specific type and I've gone.
- 12:25Speaker 1: Back to that.
- 12:26Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 12:28Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I just I like what I like. I've
- 12:30Speaker 1: always had like a you know, I love the tattoos.
- 12:33Speaker 3: Yes, that makes the height. Okay, that makes sense. Speaking
- 12:38Speaker 3: of that a little bts you guys. Lala, I was
- 12:42Speaker 3: sitting with a couple of friends because we were celebrating
- 12:44Speaker 3: a friend of mine. She quit a very toxic job.
- 12:47Speaker 3: So we were celebrating it, and there was a few
- 12:51Speaker 3: men at a table next to us, and I was like,
- 12:53Speaker 3: oh my god, I see a specific man. Lala would
- 12:56Speaker 3: think he's so hot, like she's in the next room,
- 12:58Speaker 3: and I over to him. While Lala came to say hi,
- 13:03Speaker 3: and I walked over to him. I think I didn't
- 13:05Speaker 3: realize his girlfriend was sitting at the bar. Okay, I
- 13:07Speaker 3: did not.
- 13:08Speaker 1: She was well, she oh you met her?
- 13:10Speaker 3: No, No, but like if it was his girlfriend. She
- 13:13Speaker 3: was sweet because she like laughed and smiled and like
- 13:16Speaker 3: maybe it was just a friend. But I walked over
- 13:19Speaker 3: to him and I said, I always have to say this.
- 13:21Speaker 3: I've only done it a couple times, but I go, Hi,
- 13:24Speaker 3: what I'm about to ask you is not for me,
- 13:25Speaker 3: don't worry, but are you single? And then he like
- 13:30Speaker 3: looked at me, and I was like, it's for a
- 13:33Speaker 3: friend of mine. And then he looked over at the
- 13:34Speaker 3: table and saw Lala and he said, he said, oh wait,
- 13:39Speaker 3: he goes. He looked Laala up and downing and he said, yeah,
- 13:43Speaker 3: I'm single. And then I looked at him and I said,
- 13:46Speaker 3: are you really single? And he said no, I'm not
- 13:48Speaker 3: really single. And I was like okay, and I walked
- 13:51Speaker 3: back to Lala. He was beautiful, but it was so
- 13:54Speaker 3: fun to give her credit. I told her that and
- 13:56Speaker 3: she's like, yeah, no, I'm not even gonna look his
- 13:58Speaker 3: way again because.
- 14:00Speaker 1: They're such dogs.
- 14:01Speaker 3: That's what That's exactly what you said.
- 14:03Speaker 1: Men are such It looks me up and down. Yeah,
- 14:07Speaker 1: it's nothing in here for you.
- 14:10Speaker 3: I did too, nor that was funny.
- 14:13Speaker 1: I have a specific type.
- 14:16Speaker 2: I know what I'm looking for and Yeah, this guy
- 14:23Speaker 2: is doing just that right now.
- 14:26Speaker 1: That's very easy.
- 14:27Speaker 3: Yeah. On that note is a man named Harry Jousy
- 14:31Speaker 3: Jowsy jowsy. Yeah, your type.
- 14:37Speaker 1: Not we could make it my type. Sure.
- 14:42Speaker 3: A little teaser for who may be on this episode today.
- 14:45Speaker 2: Yes, I'm so excited to have him on. I did
- 14:47Speaker 2: his podcast, I think it was last week, and he
- 14:50Speaker 2: is so fun, so funny, and I'm looking forward to
- 14:55Speaker 2: having him on.
- 14:56Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys were fun. You guys were so fun
- 14:59Speaker 3: to well.
- 15:01Speaker 1: I like people who like literally say anything. Yeah.
- 15:05Speaker 3: Yeah. And you know what's very interesting, we watched I
- 15:08Speaker 3: watched them record his podcast first and then Laala's second,
- 15:12Speaker 3: and it's a very if you've heard his podcast because
- 15:14Speaker 3: it came out last week with Laala, it's a very
- 15:17Speaker 3: different tone in conversation.
- 15:19Speaker 2: Well, so we recorded the same day and I was like,
- 15:25Speaker 2: when we did his, we jumped on mine and I
- 15:28Speaker 2: was like, I'm I think I may have judged you
- 15:31Speaker 2: too soon. Yeah, I think I say that to him. So, yes,
- 15:34Speaker 2: we're going to take a quick break and we'll be
- 15:38Speaker 2: right back with Harry Chousey. We're back My Loves with
- 15:47Speaker 2: a man who gets assalled wet really Yeah, sure, but
- 15:54Speaker 2: I'm wet all the time, so don't feel.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Too special for the way to take the weight out
- 15:58Speaker 1: of my show.
- 15:59Speaker 2: Harry Joosy, Hello, I have a burning, fucking question.
- 16:04Speaker 4: Ah for fox sake, I know, and I want questions today.
- 16:08Speaker 2: I have a feeling that you're an open book and
- 16:10Speaker 2: this is a question I've been wanting to ask you
- 16:12Speaker 2: for a minute.
- 16:14Speaker 1: Are you hot to handle?
- 16:18Speaker 4: Yes?
- 16:20Speaker 1: And your circumcised?
- 16:21Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 16:21Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 16:21Speaker 1: Well good on.
- 16:22Speaker 4: I thought that was a question. Usually people ask me
- 16:25Speaker 4: if I'm circumcised.
- 16:26Speaker 2: No, I would never ask that question. I wanted to know,
- 16:28Speaker 2: like if you're too hot to handle? Did you win
- 16:30Speaker 2: that game?
- 16:31Speaker 4: I was one of the ten winners?
- 16:33Speaker 1: Oh there's ten?
- 16:34Speaker 4: Yeah, unfortunately, what did you walk away with? Seven and
- 16:36Speaker 4: a half grand? But I gave away ten on my
- 16:38Speaker 4: Instagram the day we won.
- 16:39Speaker 1: I was just like, fuck this, really, who'd you give
- 16:41Speaker 1: it to?
- 16:42Speaker 4: I did like a big giveaway on my Instagram because
- 16:44Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, like you guys, like
- 16:46Speaker 4: thank you for the support. Without you guys watching the show,
- 16:49Speaker 4: we wouldn't have a show. So I was like, I
- 16:51Speaker 4: just want to give it to you. And then I
- 16:52Speaker 4: was trying to like lead by example for the other
- 16:53Speaker 4: cast members like, hey, like you should just give back
- 16:56Speaker 4: and like do the right thing, give it a charity.
- 16:58Speaker 4: But turns out every one is entitled assholes and they
- 17:02Speaker 4: just I guess they wanted this seven and a half k,
- 17:04Speaker 4: which isn't really life changing.
- 17:06Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, we didn't munch pussy for so long
- 17:09Speaker 1: for this money?
- 17:10Speaker 4: Yeah you and then we had to wait a year
- 17:11Speaker 4: for it.
- 17:12Speaker 1: Holy hell, I know. So how did you get on
- 17:15Speaker 1: that show?
- 17:15Speaker 2: Because that was really like the show that like you
- 17:18Speaker 2: became a somebody, right, yeah pretty much.
- 17:21Speaker 4: Well I'm still like nobody, but like it put me
- 17:24Speaker 4: on the map a little bit. But yeah, it was
- 17:25Speaker 4: the the casting process is pretty wild, like we uh
- 17:29Speaker 4: it was really like really intense, like how many people
- 17:32Speaker 4: have you said with? Like what's going on this week?
- 17:33Speaker 4: What's going on there? And I walked in to the
- 17:36Speaker 4: show thinking that I was about to have like a
- 17:38Speaker 4: massive orgy, like I was so horny. Yeah when I
- 17:40Speaker 4: walked in.
- 17:41Speaker 1: Did you remember did you know how many people you'd
- 17:43Speaker 1: slept with?
- 17:43Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 17:43Speaker 1: They asked that question, Yeah yeah yeah, how many?
- 17:46Speaker 4: Uh, I know many people know it? How did you
- 17:50Speaker 4: think I've had sex?
- 17:51Speaker 1: I want to say, you're pushing between like eighty and
- 17:54Speaker 1: one hundred.
- 17:55Speaker 4: We'll go with that. More damn less than two hundred,
- 18:01Speaker 4: but more than one hundred fifty.
- 18:03Speaker 2: When did you lose your virginity When I was fourteen? Okay,
- 18:06Speaker 2: so you had a and you're what twenty almost twenty five?
- 18:08Speaker 2: You said, Yeah, damn, do get tested for STDs?
- 18:13Speaker 4: Of course? Yeah, I think the I think for me,
- 18:18Speaker 4: like I'm again, I am open book, Like I like to
- 18:21Speaker 4: talk about this stuff, and I hate the the like
- 18:24Speaker 4: people like trying to sluts shame or like be worried
- 18:26Speaker 4: about if you had sex with this many people. It's like,
- 18:28Speaker 4: how do you know?
- 18:29Speaker 1: I would never judge you for sleeping with that many people?
- 18:32Speaker 4: But how do you know what you're into until you
- 18:33Speaker 4: try it?
- 18:34Speaker 1: That's so true.
- 18:35Speaker 4: And like I know more shit than I knew than
- 18:38Speaker 4: when I had sex with like ten people, Like I
- 18:40Speaker 4: know what the fuck's going on now?
- 18:41Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you push into the two hundreds. You know
- 18:44Speaker 2: a body?
- 18:45Speaker 4: Yeah, and I know where the clitteris is, which a
- 18:47Speaker 4: lot of guys don't apparently.
- 18:48Speaker 1: Well, good for you. I'll meet you in the bathroom
- 18:50Speaker 1: in five minutes. I'm just kidding.
- 18:52Speaker 4: I'd say you just kidding. I'm gonna get worked up here.
- 18:55Speaker 4: I told you you can't be talking like that.
- 19:00Speaker 1: We'll get back to you.
- 19:00Speaker 2: But listen, before any of that were to ever happen,
- 19:03Speaker 2: I would send your name, your age, your birthday to
- 19:07Speaker 2: my PI because I'd need a background check on you.
- 19:10Speaker 4: Oh you have one of them?
- 19:11Speaker 1: Yes, I do, Yes, I do. Absolutely. A PI is
- 19:14Speaker 1: a piece. No, that's what I do.
- 19:17Speaker 2: Oh, a PI is a private investigator.
- 19:23Speaker 1: This is called being smart.
- 19:26Speaker 2: I got to know the red flags before we jump
- 19:28Speaker 2: in the bed or wherever it may be. So anyway
- 19:32Speaker 2: back to you, I would never judge you for sleeping
- 19:35Speaker 2: with hundreds upon hundreds of women, but I'm glad to.
- 19:39Speaker 1: Know you're safe. Like you get tested for STDs.
- 19:41Speaker 2: All right, so you walk in, they ask how many
- 19:44Speaker 2: people you've slept with. You get a phone call, They're like, Hey,
- 19:46Speaker 2: you're going to this island. This is the game because
- 19:48Speaker 2: it was on an island right where you all.
- 19:50Speaker 4: We didn't know anything about it. The only thing we
- 19:51Speaker 4: knew is that it was for Netflix and it was
- 19:53Speaker 4: a reality show. It was like one of the first ever.
- 19:55Speaker 4: But it was like so I and clad, like no
- 19:58Speaker 4: one knew about what was going on, like we didn't
- 19:59Speaker 4: know why we were going there, what was happening. We
- 20:02Speaker 4: just know it is a dating show. It was called
- 20:03Speaker 4: at the time, it's called untitled dating show. Okay, And
- 20:06Speaker 4: because no one even knew, like even there, the producers
- 20:08Speaker 4: were just like, yeah, like it's so ironclad, like no
- 20:11Speaker 4: one knows actually what's going on. Like we were in
- 20:15Speaker 4: we're in different hotels all around like Mexico, like each
- 20:18Speaker 4: cast member, so there was no chance of any single
- 20:20Speaker 4: person like running into each other.
- 20:22Speaker 2: So your cast and then they just fly you somewhere
- 20:24Speaker 2: and put you in a hotel and then what you
- 20:26Speaker 2: had to jump on a bus and you all go
- 20:28Speaker 2: to the same place obviously because you need to be
- 20:29Speaker 2: in a house together.
- 20:30Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, so you're you're in, uh, you're in like
- 20:33Speaker 4: your hotel, and then you're left like a week like
- 20:36Speaker 4: like obviously everyone's a bit jetlaged, a little bit bloated
- 20:38Speaker 4: from flying, so like relaxing in the hotel.
- 20:41Speaker 1: I love that you said a little bit bloated.
- 20:42Speaker 2: They're like, if we're going to get these people to
- 20:44Speaker 2: fucking lose money, yeah, they're gonna need to get their
- 20:46Speaker 2: bloat down so solid vehicles.
- 20:49Speaker 4: Yeah no, yeah, So and then we go in, but
- 20:52Speaker 4: it's all like you're blindfolded, so you don't know where
- 20:54Speaker 4: you are, what's going on. It's kind of crazy.
- 20:55Speaker 1: They blindfolded you well, like.
- 20:57Speaker 4: Before you go on the villa, so you can't see
- 20:59Speaker 4: anything behind the scene stuff, and you kind of.
- 21:01Speaker 2: Were you each designated to like a person that could
- 21:04Speaker 2: actually see to walk you in.
- 21:06Speaker 1: Yeah, just picturing this. I w was this on camera?
- 21:10Speaker 4: No? No, no, no, this just before you're about to like
- 21:13Speaker 4: step foot in it because they want to get your
- 21:15Speaker 4: initial reactions. They want to have like a camera on you,
- 21:17Speaker 4: so like you're pretty much hidden. And like I went
- 21:20Speaker 4: in and I knew there was a person beside me,
- 21:22Speaker 4: but I didn't know who it was or what was
- 21:23Speaker 4: going on. I could just feel like an energy here.
- 21:26Speaker 4: I'm like, who the fuck is this? And then as
- 21:27Speaker 4: soon as they took out blindfolds off, I was like,
- 21:29Speaker 4: oh fuck, this dude's a fucking stallion. I don't have
- 21:32Speaker 4: to go beside this dude.
- 21:34Speaker 1: So how many how many dudes? How many checks?
- 21:36Speaker 4: It was like five and five, I believe.
- 21:38Speaker 1: And we're all the chicks banging.
- 21:40Speaker 2: Yes, he's nodding, not really.
- 21:47Speaker 4: Trying to think. I can't. I really can't remember, like
- 21:49Speaker 4: a lot of a lot of like the people like,
- 21:52Speaker 4: I don't know, pretty forgettable?
- 21:54Speaker 1: Is it most of them forgettable?
- 21:56Speaker 4: Or no?
- 21:56Speaker 1: Like you sounded more excited about the dude that was
- 21:59Speaker 1: next to you. That was a stallion.
- 22:00Speaker 4: He's a great guy. He's an awesome dude.
- 22:03Speaker 1: Like his name David, David. What does David do? David
- 22:07Speaker 1: is a burt whistle.
- 22:09Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's an interesting last name. Not everyone's pulling
- 22:12Speaker 4: up their phones that he's a He's a great looking dude.
- 22:15Speaker 4: He's the nicest guy on the planet. And he's English.
- 22:17Speaker 4: He's a great accent.
- 22:19Speaker 1: Was everyone with accent?
- 22:21Speaker 4: Uh? To me? Yeah?
- 22:24Speaker 1: I feel like his is this him?
- 22:26Speaker 4: That's him?
- 22:27Speaker 1: His body's good. I can't tell about the face.
- 22:29Speaker 4: No, he's on it. But the personality is the killer.
- 22:32Speaker 4: Oh really, he's the greatest dude. Yeah, he's such a sweet.
- 22:35Speaker 1: So we know he's got the personality on you. I'm
- 22:37Speaker 1: just kidding.
- 22:39Speaker 2: I have to bust your balls because the second I
- 22:41Speaker 2: walked in here, he stands up. Harry stands up, Yeah,
- 22:45Speaker 2: and he's just ready to go. So I got to
- 22:48Speaker 2: bust your balls, get you down to you know, equal
- 22:51Speaker 2: playing field and then I'll build you back.
- 22:53Speaker 1: Up to where I need you to be.
- 22:54Speaker 4: Yeah, and then what point do we make.
- 22:55Speaker 1: Out as soon as this is over?
- 22:57Speaker 4: Perfect?
- 22:58Speaker 1: And then I'm going to go home to my baby.
- 23:00Speaker 4: Oh amazing.
- 23:03Speaker 2: Okay, So what was the goal of the game. Not
- 23:06Speaker 2: to have sex that's how you win?
- 23:08Speaker 1: Yeah, not because I live under a rock. So you
- 23:10Speaker 1: have to walk me through this.
- 23:11Speaker 2: I need to know how you came to be someone
- 23:13Speaker 2: that everyone is obsessed with, because anybody I told that
- 23:16Speaker 2: I was having you on today, Yeah, like dripping po Nani.
- 23:20Speaker 1: Everywhere, tell them to me. That's okay, DM him please.
- 23:25Speaker 4: So the premise was we need to build better relationships
- 23:29Speaker 4: and more meaningful relationships because they got people that are
- 23:31Speaker 4: pretty much like, you know, just like hot, horny, And
- 23:35Speaker 4: that was a I guess, like what we're good at
- 23:37Speaker 4: just being like no, like talentless and just like horny people.
- 23:41Speaker 4: So they're like, oh, we want to get you on
- 23:43Speaker 4: and like help you build more meaningful relationships. And there's
- 23:46Speaker 4: like workshops where you like discover more about yourself and
- 23:51Speaker 4: try and like I don't know, look inwards instead of outwards. Okay,
- 23:54Speaker 4: And then that was the end goal. But I was like, Eh,
- 23:59Speaker 4: I'm gonna have sex and fall in love. Well, actually
- 24:02Speaker 4: I fell in love first, so I was like, you
- 24:04Speaker 4: know what this is, this is my person. And then
- 24:06Speaker 4: obviously sex and relationships and whatnot kinds of follows up.
- 24:09Speaker 4: But I knew as soon as I met her that
- 24:10Speaker 4: that was like she was great.
- 24:12Speaker 1: And how long did that last?
- 24:13Speaker 4: Like two months? Now we were on it off like
- 24:17Speaker 4: a yeah, I don't know, it was it was a
- 24:19Speaker 4: very yeah. Interesting.
- 24:21Speaker 1: So is the point for you guys to like build relationships?
- 24:24Speaker 2: They want you to leave in a relationship but not
- 24:27Speaker 2: have sex until you like know each other. Like how
- 24:29Speaker 2: how far into this show or this like competition.
- 24:34Speaker 1: Did you hit that?
- 24:37Speaker 4: I think it was like a couple of weeks in. Yeah,
- 24:39Speaker 4: So like we were the so you get like little
- 24:43Speaker 4: watches as well towards like like halfway through, where like
- 24:46Speaker 4: if they light up green, like all the rules are off.
- 24:47Speaker 1: You're allowed to go crazy, so it doesn't count.
- 24:50Speaker 4: Nothing counts, so you can like go nuts. But yeah,
- 24:53Speaker 4: we got put in a private suite one night because
- 24:55Speaker 4: they wanted to help our relationship like go to the
- 24:57Speaker 4: next level. And I think we spent like two thousand
- 25:00Speaker 4: or twenty thousand or some shit in that that night,
- 25:03Speaker 4: which was because we were just having sex. Wow, Yeah,
- 25:06Speaker 4: yeah it was. It was really embarrassing performance by me,
- 25:09Speaker 4: but we go through it.
- 25:10Speaker 1: So then did this help you, like when you were
- 25:14Speaker 1: done with the show?
- 25:15Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 25:15Speaker 2: Or are you back because you we just talked about
- 25:18Speaker 2: an unfortunate sexual experience you had with a person.
- 25:23Speaker 1: A few days ago?
- 25:24Speaker 4: Yeah? Month?
- 25:25Speaker 2: Are you a few months ago? Are you just back
- 25:27Speaker 2: to like banging it out? Or do you look for
- 25:29Speaker 2: meaningful relationships? I mean you're only twenty five. I advise
- 25:32Speaker 2: you to not look for meaningful relationships.
- 25:34Speaker 4: I think that when you at a point where I'm
- 25:37Speaker 4: at right, I don't really like I didn't really get
- 25:40Speaker 4: excited about sleeping with new people because it not for me.
- 25:42Speaker 4: It's not that fun. I would rather get to know someone,
- 25:45Speaker 4: get to know what makes some tick, and like get
- 25:47Speaker 4: excited about that. Like at the moment with my career
- 25:49Speaker 4: where I'm at my mentality, I just don't enjoy going
- 25:54Speaker 4: out and getting fucked up and like hook out with
- 25:56Speaker 4: people like I say, with the majority of people when
- 25:58Speaker 4: I was younger and going out and like just not
- 26:01Speaker 4: giving a fuck because right now, like this is probably
- 26:04Speaker 4: the least amount of people have slept within my life,
- 26:06Speaker 4: like because I'm just a little bit more hell back.
- 26:09Speaker 4: And again, like we were talking before about like off air,
- 26:13Speaker 4: about like spirituality and whatnot, and I've been very conscious
- 26:16Speaker 4: about like my energy transfers because I know that I
- 26:19Speaker 4: give a lot of energy and I like to make
- 26:21Speaker 4: people feel charged up when they leave me. And I
- 26:23Speaker 4: know that, like when you have an intimate experience like that,
- 26:27Speaker 4: there's a big transfer that goes across. And I just
- 26:29Speaker 4: get get a little bit cautious because I know I've
- 26:31Speaker 4: been with people before and there was like my X
- 26:34Speaker 4: not very not a public X, but a very private
- 26:37Speaker 4: X before and any anytime after we would I would
- 26:40Speaker 4: leave her, I would have finished having sex. I would
- 26:42Speaker 4: just be so drained and like tired and like sad,
- 26:45Speaker 4: and I'm like, I don't know what's going on. Then
- 26:47Speaker 4: I realized that I just have to be a little
- 26:48Speaker 4: bit more cautious with who I let connect with me, right.
- 26:53Speaker 4: And I think that falling in love and being in
- 26:55Speaker 4: love since the show and having that beautiful feeling of
- 26:58Speaker 4: like having a person maybe me realize that, like there's
- 27:01Speaker 4: no better feeling than just having someone and sticking by
- 27:04Speaker 4: them and having your best friend and knowing the ins
- 27:07Speaker 4: and outs and how to make that day better.
- 27:08Speaker 1: No, I feel bad that I busted your balls.
- 27:11Speaker 4: So good you can.
- 27:14Speaker 2: No.
- 27:14Speaker 1: I love that I'm activating again. Sandy's bad. No, I
- 27:20Speaker 1: feel the same way.
- 27:21Speaker 2: I think when you go through certain experiences, you realize
- 27:24Speaker 2: like the people who are going to suck.
- 27:25Speaker 1: Your energy dry.
- 27:26Speaker 2: Yeah, And a lot of times, like you said, you
- 27:29Speaker 2: would sit there and think like why am I feeling
- 27:31Speaker 2: so depleted after I'm with this person. That's like your
- 27:33Speaker 2: intuition telling you, like the energy is off, this is
- 27:36Speaker 2: not the right person for you, and the sex could
- 27:39Speaker 2: be great. Yeah, because I'm in that zone right now.
- 27:42Speaker 2: Of course I talk about like I'm just looking for
- 27:44Speaker 2: a big old dick and that's about it. Really not
- 27:47Speaker 2: the case, Like I need to feel something that is
- 27:49Speaker 2: like a safe place. Yeah, you know, because all that
- 27:53Speaker 2: other shit fades again. You're you're in a different stage
- 27:57Speaker 2: in life. You know, you're almost twenty five. Like me,
- 27:59Speaker 2: I'm thirty one with a child. Like anyone who I'm
- 28:02Speaker 2: bringing in, it's like I have a baby. Yeah, you know,
- 28:06Speaker 2: like Harry, you don't seem like you're ready to be
- 28:08Speaker 2: a stepdad.
- 28:09Speaker 4: Right depends depends on a woman.
- 28:12Speaker 1: That's what I mean.
- 28:12Speaker 2: Though, you have to like really think about all of
- 28:15Speaker 2: these things when you're getting into a relationship. That's why
- 28:17Speaker 2: I say, I get it, like you're into the energy
- 28:20Speaker 2: and stuff, but you should fuck your brains out.
- 28:22Speaker 4: I've done enough of that.
- 28:23Speaker 1: Come on, and yeah, you've been going since fourteen.
- 28:26Speaker 4: I also have two kids as well.
- 28:28Speaker 1: You're such a liar.
- 28:29Speaker 4: Bruce and pissy Pants my dogs.
- 28:31Speaker 1: Oh I wasn't aware of pissy pants.
- 28:33Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm a full time, full time, stay at time dad.
- 28:36Speaker 1: Bruce is your dog who's kind of fat.
- 28:38Speaker 4: He's fat and ugly and chunky, but he's fun.
- 28:40Speaker 1: Who's pissy Pants?
- 28:41Speaker 4: It's my best friend's dog. And she's a little frenchy.
- 28:45Speaker 4: Well she's period pants right now because she's just bled
- 28:47Speaker 4: to li over the couch and catch.
- 28:49Speaker 1: Do you have a roommate yes?
- 28:51Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 28:51Speaker 1: Is it a girl?
- 28:52Speaker 4: No, it's a guy.
- 28:53Speaker 1: Is he hot? Uh?
- 28:55Speaker 4: He looks like an egg? But we love him. Yeah,
- 28:59Speaker 4: he's great. I love him.
- 29:01Speaker 1: How do you How did you meet him?
- 29:03Speaker 4: I saw his brother on TikTok and I was like,
- 29:06Speaker 4: you look like such a fucking prick. I want to
- 29:09Speaker 4: be friends with you because he was like going in
- 29:10Speaker 4: his drive TikTok. Yeah, yeah, I was. He had a
- 29:13Speaker 4: video of him going in his driveway and it was
- 29:16Speaker 4: like a fleet of like rolls Royce's. And I was like, Wow,
- 29:19Speaker 4: this guy is so fucking like stuck up and rich.
- 29:23Speaker 4: And I was like, this is an interesting life. I've
- 29:25Speaker 4: never seen anyone like this. So I DMed him. I
- 29:27Speaker 4: was like, would love to hang out, and then they
- 29:28Speaker 4: got back to me. They come and stayed with me
- 29:30Speaker 4: in La and then just completely click, like very spiritual,
- 29:34Speaker 4: huge into manifesting, just like obviously just like me, the
- 29:38Speaker 4: persona that's online is a little bit different to what
- 29:40Speaker 4: you get in reality of course, and we just we
- 29:45Speaker 4: just connected, like he just sees it on like a
- 29:47Speaker 4: high level, on a bigger level, and he's he runs
- 29:50Speaker 4: like these huge state fairs and has a software company.
- 29:55Speaker 4: He's just genius.
- 29:55Speaker 1: He's really he's like inspiring to you as well.
- 29:58Speaker 4: He's motivating. Yeah right, he's really great. I love him
- 30:01Speaker 4: the bits, and his whole family's just like being really
- 30:03Speaker 4: welcoming as well. It's just like my family over here
- 30:05Speaker 4: and they just I don't know, it's really good because
- 30:08Speaker 4: I there's that saying that you are who you surround
- 30:11Speaker 4: yourself with. And he just thinks on such a high level,
- 30:14Speaker 4: like it's not like a million dollars like level, it's
- 30:17Speaker 4: like he was thinking about billions. Like he's thinking about
- 30:19Speaker 4: how am I going to be able to take care
- 30:20Speaker 4: of my kids kids kids? Like that's how And he's
- 30:23Speaker 4: twenty two. He's always thinking he's young. Yeah, yeah, like
- 30:26Speaker 4: he he's singing on such a crazy, crazy level. And
- 30:30Speaker 4: I've never I've never met anyone so successful. Like he
- 30:32Speaker 4: showed me a snapshot snapshot of one of his businesses
- 30:36Speaker 4: today was from the last twelve months. It's like nineteen
- 30:40Speaker 4: million or eighteen million.
- 30:41Speaker 1: Holy shit, it's crazy.
- 30:45Speaker 2: So did you expect Like what were you doing before
- 30:49Speaker 2: you got onto that show?
- 30:50Speaker 1: Because now, like what's you're following? Are you more into
- 30:52Speaker 1: the TikTok? Like when it comes to social media, like
- 30:54Speaker 1: where's your where's your fan base? How many followers?
- 30:57Speaker 4: I got four and a half million on TikTok and
- 30:58Speaker 4: four mila on inside?
- 30:59Speaker 1: Can you put me on your TikTok?
- 31:01Speaker 4: Yeah? If you want to do some cringe stuff.
- 31:03Speaker 1: It has to be cringey, of course.
- 31:05Speaker 4: Well I don't know. We could we could figure it out. Yeah, okay,
- 31:09Speaker 4: we can make some crazy magic. Do you know a
- 31:11Speaker 4: new TikTok? At all?
- 31:12Speaker 1: I just discovered TikTok?
- 31:14Speaker 4: Have you just discovered?
- 31:15Speaker 1: How long ago? Jess? Did I discover TikTok? September?
- 31:19Speaker 4: Wow? Really?
- 31:21Speaker 1: Yeah, I told you. I'm like a ninety year old.
- 31:22Speaker 1: I'm like, what is this TikTok?
- 31:24Speaker 4: No, it's great.
- 31:25Speaker 1: I have a zero access to it. Just handles all
- 31:27Speaker 1: of it.
- 31:28Speaker 2: She gets the content, she tells me what to go
- 31:30Speaker 2: upstairs and do, and then she's like, hey, I just
- 31:31Speaker 2: posted this on your TikTok. I'm like, looks great, sounds good. Wow,
- 31:35Speaker 2: four and a half million followers on TikTok. Did you
- 31:40Speaker 2: want to be an entertainment like before you join the show? Like,
- 31:42Speaker 2: what was the point for you? What were you doing before?
- 31:45Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 31:45Speaker 2: But did you just kind of like do it because
- 31:47Speaker 2: it sounded fun? You were bored and young?
- 31:50Speaker 4: No, so Abby said the story a million times. But
- 31:53Speaker 4: I was at university. I was on a double degree
- 31:56Speaker 4: in business in and I had a bit of a
- 32:00Speaker 4: rough run where my brother's best friend committed suicide. Okay,
- 32:03Speaker 4: and I was in a really confused state because like
- 32:07Speaker 4: I was sitting there like damn, Like I wish I
- 32:08Speaker 4: could have just made him laugh. I wish I could
- 32:10Speaker 4: have done something that made my friends laugh or made
- 32:13Speaker 4: them like giggle or just have a good time. And
- 32:17Speaker 4: I remember I was sitting by the water with my
- 32:20Speaker 4: dog and I was just like crying. I was really upset.
- 32:23Speaker 4: I was listening to xxx is like one of his albums,
- 32:26Speaker 4: and was really it was really dark because I was
- 32:28Speaker 4: also really depressed. I was like, I hate university. I
- 32:31Speaker 4: hate all these people telling me how to think.
- 32:33Speaker 1: Where were you.
- 32:34Speaker 4: In a space called Lismore, which is in Australia, And
- 32:38Speaker 4: I was like, I hate people telling me how to think.
- 32:40Speaker 4: And then one of my friends, Helen, she tagged me
- 32:43Speaker 4: in an application thing of a show called Heartbreak Island
- 32:46Speaker 4: in New Zealand, and I'm like, oh, this is my sign.
- 32:49Speaker 4: I'm just gonna go do this and if it works out,
- 32:51Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm gonna I'm gonna figure life out. I
- 32:53Speaker 4: don't need to be at university. I don't need to
- 32:55Speaker 4: be with these fucking idiots that out of date and
- 32:58Speaker 4: don't even know a fucking think or two. So I
- 33:00Speaker 4: applied for this show and when I went on there
- 33:03Speaker 4: I think this is when I started first ever manifesting,
- 33:05Speaker 4: because I was just telling myself the whole time. I
- 33:07Speaker 4: was like, I'm gonna win this. I'm gonna win this,
- 33:08Speaker 4: I'm gonna make everyone laugh. I'm gonna do exactly that.
- 33:11Speaker 4: I went on the show I Want one hundred thousand Dollars,
- 33:13Speaker 4: made my absolute best friend in the world, Chris John,
- 33:17Speaker 4: and then we moved in together when I was in Auckland,
- 33:20Speaker 4: and from that point forward we've just been good to
- 33:22Speaker 4: the hip. We started a brand together, did a whole
- 33:26Speaker 4: bunch of crazy stuff, lived the really interesting lifestyle, and
- 33:29Speaker 4: then Suicide's kind of thing that like continues. It's like
- 33:32Speaker 4: a very I think New Zealand has a highest suicide
- 33:35Speaker 4: rate in the world. Same in Australia, Like the male
- 33:37Speaker 4: suicide rate is just bonkers. So I was again like fuck,
- 33:42Speaker 4: like I need to find something to make more people laugh,
- 33:46Speaker 4: Like I don't know how else, Like I can't I
- 33:48Speaker 4: can't call and hug every single person that's sad in
- 33:50Speaker 4: the world. Like we all have like lives of roller coaster,
- 33:53Speaker 4: we all have ups and downs. So I'm like, what
- 33:55Speaker 4: can I do that's gonna make like people laugh or
- 33:57Speaker 4: make people like have a giggle or like just a
- 34:00Speaker 4: ten second break from their like crazy life where they're
- 34:03Speaker 4: just gonna look at some idiot on a screen and
- 34:05Speaker 4: just be like it's kind of funny, like distract distracts people.
- 34:08Speaker 4: I don't know. That was my thought process. And then
- 34:11Speaker 4: I was applying for everything for like months. I was
- 34:13Speaker 4: for every single show that would ever pop up, like
- 34:15Speaker 4: I would DM casting agents. I'd be dming every single
- 34:18Speaker 4: person for like months and months and months, and then
- 34:21Speaker 4: I was I was meant to do Love Island UK
- 34:23Speaker 4: because I have a UK possible and then this was
- 34:25Speaker 4: the same casting people and they were like, hey, this
- 34:28Speaker 4: would be great for you. So I went across and
- 34:31Speaker 4: again didn't know it was too at the hand or
- 34:32Speaker 4: didn't know anything about it. They just said it's gonna
- 34:35Speaker 4: be great and you're gonna have a good time. So
- 34:36Speaker 4: I was like, you know, I trust the universe everything
- 34:38Speaker 4: as a plan. And then yeah, it's been crazy ever since.
- 34:42Speaker 2: So did you have a TikTok before you went on
- 34:44Speaker 2: to this show? Way this all happened, Like I like
- 34:47Speaker 2: to say, Vanner Pump Rules is what I would like
- 34:50Speaker 2: it to be as a springboard for me.
- 34:52Speaker 1: Yeah, this is like that was that show was your
- 34:54Speaker 1: spring board?
- 34:54Speaker 4: Of course? Yeah, it literally, And I think it's really
- 34:57Speaker 4: interesting that sentence because reality TV starts when they go
- 35:02Speaker 4: on a show, they're just like, cool, I've made it,
- 35:04Speaker 4: like this is it. Like a lot of people from
- 35:07Speaker 4: my show or the pre or the seasons after kind
- 35:10Speaker 4: of just like make it their entire identity and just
- 35:13Speaker 4: stick by it and like don't do anything else. It's
- 35:15Speaker 4: really interesting. I'm like, why don't you just try and
- 35:18Speaker 4: branch out or do another show? Like you guys are
- 35:19Speaker 4: cool because you guys have a season on season, but
- 35:21Speaker 4: like for us, it's like one season you're done, like
- 35:23Speaker 4: the next is coming, You're washed out, and like it's
- 35:27Speaker 4: for there's only like a handful of people that have
- 35:29Speaker 4: used it as a springboard to go to the next
- 35:31Speaker 4: level or to keep moving. Like a whole bunch of
- 35:33Speaker 4: people have just completely been like left in the grass.
- 35:36Speaker 4: It's crazy. It's wild.
- 35:38Speaker 1: I may have judged you too soon.
- 35:40Speaker 4: I get that. It's okay. I put on a bit
- 35:43Speaker 4: of a show when I'm like on camera, well.
- 35:46Speaker 2: I just did your podcast, and it's a very different
- 35:48Speaker 2: vibe than what we're talking about right now.
- 35:50Speaker 1: Yeah, you're deep, you're smart.
- 35:51Speaker 4: The coffee's worn off.
- 35:52Speaker 1: I'm seeing Like.
- 35:55Speaker 2: When we were first talking, you told me you were
- 35:57Speaker 2: almost twenty five. I said you're a baby. You said
- 35:58Speaker 2: you're a man. I said, yeah, you wait a man,
- 36:01Speaker 2: I'm seeing the man.
- 36:02Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 36:03Speaker 1: Good for you.
- 36:03Speaker 4: See whatever you want. Honestly, you just let me know,
- 36:06Speaker 4: so good for me. I guess right, whenever you need it.
- 36:08Speaker 1: I'll take you up on that when you're looking for
- 36:11Speaker 1: a chick, because chicks are throwing themselves on you at
- 36:14Speaker 1: all times. I get it. You like the energy. But when.
- 36:19Speaker 2: What's like the look you into blondes you into Burnett's,
- 36:22Speaker 2: do you not discriminate?
- 36:23Speaker 1: It's like, come on, come all, what is it?
- 36:26Speaker 4: Great question? And you're gonna hate this answer. Very attracted
- 36:28Speaker 4: to energy. Like if okay, if you're talking to me
- 36:31Speaker 4: and like it feels really nice and like it's flowing
- 36:35Speaker 4: and like things feel good and you feel like a
- 36:36Speaker 4: good person, yeah, then I'm just gonna give you absolutely everything.
- 36:40Speaker 4: But if you're like I don't know, if you look
- 36:42Speaker 4: like a blow up doll and you have like shit energy,
- 36:43Speaker 4: like I don't really care, like go away, leave me
- 36:45Speaker 4: in Like I don't want to like like I'm just
- 36:48Speaker 4: gonna regret it. I'm just gonna wake up and feel
- 36:50Speaker 4: shit about it. So like, right, I would rather just
- 36:52Speaker 4: like be hang out with someone that I enjoy like speaking.
- 36:55Speaker 1: To, and like, do you care if they're like jobless
- 36:57Speaker 1: and want to come up off of you?
- 36:59Speaker 4: Not a good fuck? Really well, if you're my girlfriend, like,
- 37:01Speaker 4: I want to do what I can for you, sweet,
- 37:03Speaker 4: and I've done it in the past where like I've
- 37:05Speaker 4: helped them stop businesses or put them in positions to win,
- 37:08Speaker 4: and I don't care if they use me, because like
- 37:10Speaker 4: it's a it's just a lesson. It's not the right loss.
- 37:13Speaker 2: Did you say that you do like to fuck the
- 37:15Speaker 2: fans or no Ah, fucking fans is weird, you said,
- 37:20Speaker 2: But why do you not fuck fans because you have such.
- 37:22Speaker 1: A big following. I feel like most chicks are going
- 37:24Speaker 1: to be a fan.
- 37:25Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess I have fucked a couple, Like.
- 37:27Speaker 1: I'm sure you fucked a lot and you don't even know.
- 37:29Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I don't know. The thing is like I
- 37:31Speaker 4: don't really I never I hate calling people my fans.
- 37:34Speaker 1: I just call my friend your people, your people.
- 37:36Speaker 4: I call my friends because like it's just it's it's
- 37:38Speaker 4: a weird time. Like, I'm not justin Bieber, I'm not Drake.
- 37:41Speaker 1: I know I feel the same way. I always feel
- 37:42Speaker 1: weird calling it.
- 37:43Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just like, you're just an extra friend that
- 37:46Speaker 4: I haven't met yet, right, so like I want to
- 37:49Speaker 4: meet you.
- 37:50Speaker 1: Okay, you know I feel the same way.
- 37:53Speaker 4: But I probably fucked a little them back to your point, like,
- 37:55Speaker 4: and I probably I probably will fuck a few more.
- 37:58Speaker 4: You should, So if you are a friend, send me
- 38:03Speaker 4: a message.
- 38:04Speaker 2: Slide in the DM Is that where you find most
- 38:06Speaker 2: of these checks? I guess yeah, because you have a
- 38:09Speaker 2: big female following.
- 38:11Speaker 4: Yeah, I love my women.
- 38:13Speaker 1: You love your women powerful, They're amazing. All right, So
- 38:15Speaker 1: what are you working on right now.
- 38:17Speaker 4: At the moment. I just finished filming a pilot show,
- 38:20Speaker 4: which was really cool.
- 38:21Speaker 1: I'm scripted.
- 38:22Speaker 4: No, I was a host, wow, which is the first
- 38:24Speaker 4: time I've ever done that, which is really interesting. I
- 38:26Speaker 4: hope it gets picked up if it doesn't be crazy,
- 38:29Speaker 4: but just more reality TV stuff like I enjoy being
- 38:33Speaker 4: I enjoy not thinking about things. But no one actually
- 38:35Speaker 4: knows this. I've been taking acting classes because I want
- 38:37Speaker 4: to be a little bit more serious. Wow, because you know,
- 38:40Speaker 4: like I just want to add, you know, like I
- 38:42Speaker 4: want to add more to the resume. Like I want
- 38:44Speaker 4: to be like total more valuable than just like Harry
- 38:47Speaker 4: from to at the Handle. I want to be able
- 38:48Speaker 4: to be like, oh, you want to put me in
- 38:50Speaker 4: this position or do this, Like sure, I would love
- 38:52Speaker 4: to do that, Like I've been training for it, so
- 38:54Speaker 4: I want to make sure that whatever comes my way,
- 38:56Speaker 4: that I'm prepared just in case.
- 38:59Speaker 1: Do you like it? Do you like the acting classes?
- 39:01Speaker 4: It's really interesting because it makes you feel like a
- 39:05Speaker 4: kid again. And I've never i haven't really had a
- 39:07Speaker 4: moment where like I get to just be silly and
- 39:11Speaker 4: use my imagination, like go read a script. And my
- 39:15Speaker 4: acting coach, Kimberly, she's an angel. She will like make
- 39:19Speaker 4: me just feel really comfortable and like think about like
- 39:22Speaker 4: what's actually going on because it's one thing with words
- 39:25Speaker 4: on a paper, but like you have all these questions
- 39:27Speaker 4: in your head and you have to like make up
- 39:29Speaker 4: scenarios or like answer them and in ways that you
- 39:31Speaker 4: think that this person grew up that way or thought
- 39:34Speaker 4: that way. It's really crazy. It's really interesting.
- 39:36Speaker 1: Yeah, you get to play pretend.
- 39:37Speaker 4: Yeah, it's awesome.
- 39:38Speaker 1: That was like the one thing when I was a kid,
- 39:40Speaker 1: I was like that's I would watch Mary Kate Nashley.
- 39:43Speaker 2: Yeah you know who they are, right, Okay, So I
- 39:46Speaker 2: was obsessed. I had every book, watched every movie the
- 39:49Speaker 2: whole time. I would always think like they're pretending, Like
- 39:53Speaker 2: I want to play pretend acting?
- 39:56Speaker 1: Was that?
- 39:56Speaker 2: So I totally get that where you're coming up with
- 39:59Speaker 2: it's like simple pages on a word or words on
- 40:01Speaker 2: a page where you're like, I get to just like
- 40:04Speaker 2: create my own thing with us.
- 40:05Speaker 4: Literally, And I think the best thing is that doing
- 40:09Speaker 4: as much as possible, or like just trying to diversify,
- 40:11Speaker 4: not as much as possible because you don't burn out,
- 40:13Speaker 4: but like stuff that like keeps your like the your
- 40:17Speaker 4: fire field. You know.
- 40:19Speaker 2: I think it's a good call that you're doing that
- 40:21Speaker 2: because you're gonna have a lot of people who are like,
- 40:25Speaker 2: we want him to come and do this because he'll
- 40:28Speaker 2: make sure that the project gets out there and is seen.
- 40:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 40:31Speaker 2: But if you can back that up with a talent,
- 40:34Speaker 2: it's like the whole thing. What did they say, a
- 40:36Speaker 2: triple threat? It's like you can sing, dance, and act.
- 40:38Speaker 4: Yeah I can't do any of those, no, but you.
- 40:40Speaker 1: Have a big following. Now the triple thread is so different.
- 40:42Speaker 2: It's like he's got a he has talent, he's got
- 40:44Speaker 2: a big TikTok following and like good on Instagram.
- 40:48Speaker 1: And average white cock and the average white cock? Is
- 40:52Speaker 1: that what you said? Is that like a? Is that
- 40:55Speaker 1: like a? I find that people with accents use the
- 40:59Speaker 1: word cop.
- 41:00Speaker 4: Yeah, it sounds it sounds scary when you say it. It
- 41:02Speaker 4: sounds like cock.
- 41:04Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm used to like calling it the dick, right,
- 41:07Speaker 2: you call it the dick, like a dick, big old dick,
- 41:10Speaker 2: the dick.
- 41:11Speaker 4: Juicy, gurthy schlung.
- 41:15Speaker 2: No, I've never heard that, but everyone with a fucking accident.
- 41:20Speaker 1: A pork sword, meat hammer, meat hammer.
- 41:24Speaker 4: No, you've never had a meat And I.
- 41:26Speaker 1: Can't say that I'm turned on by any of those words.
- 41:28Speaker 4: What if I was like whispering like do you want
- 41:30Speaker 4: this meat hammer? Would that that would have help?
- 41:33Speaker 1: No? Grab just dry out.
- 41:37Speaker 2: My body is like exactly the same. Well have you
- 41:41Speaker 2: whispered that before? No?
- 41:42Speaker 4: I never, never, never. I'm just I'm just trying to.
- 41:45Speaker 1: Feel do you whisper do you want this cock?
- 41:48Speaker 2: No?
- 41:48Speaker 4: I've never said that. I've said other stuff that's like
- 41:54Speaker 4: probably possibly worse. But yeah, I haven't said do you
- 41:58Speaker 4: want this cock? Because that's a little bit weird because
- 42:00Speaker 4: like you're already having sex, is like they already have
- 42:02Speaker 4: it technically, like it's already inside them. So like why
- 42:05Speaker 4: would you fucking say that? Why would you bring it up?
- 42:06Speaker 4: Like talk about something else? You know?
- 42:09Speaker 1: That is such a good point.
- 42:11Speaker 2: Now, anytime I have sex, if someone whispers in my
- 42:14Speaker 2: ear if I want, I'm gonna be like I already
- 42:15Speaker 2: have it.
- 42:16Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like shut up, dickhead, like think of something else.
- 42:20Speaker 4: I don't know, Like do you want to get some
- 42:22Speaker 4: food after this? Do you want to like hang out?
- 42:26Speaker 2: I feel bad for my listeners because literally every episode
- 42:29Speaker 2: for the past however many weeks, always goes back to
- 42:33Speaker 2: like getting laid, Like I know, every yes.
- 42:36Speaker 5: Come said, yeah, like do you have a vibrator to
- 42:40Speaker 5: use that obviously, but there's nothing like like a man.
- 42:47Speaker 4: Around Yeah, like get picked up and like.
- 42:50Speaker 1: Fuck yeah ragged, Yes that would be nice.
- 42:52Speaker 2: I'm begging for it at this point, really, yeah, don't
- 42:55Speaker 2: get too excited.
- 42:55Speaker 4: No, I'm just I'm just I'm listening.
- 42:59Speaker 1: How do you go about making your tiktoks?
- 43:01Speaker 2: Oh that leads me to my next question.
- 43:05Speaker 4: Surely I fuck someone straight to TikTok.
- 43:09Speaker 1: But you said that you do like cringey shit.
- 43:12Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I've never seen your TikTok before because, like
- 43:15Speaker 2: I said, I have no access to the TikTok.
- 43:16Speaker 4: Yeah no, it's usually just like funny because like I
- 43:19Speaker 4: can't dance, I can't sing, and I'm not the hottest
- 43:21Speaker 4: guy on the app. So people aren't following me for
- 43:23Speaker 4: any of that stuff. So they've followed me because I'm funny, Okay,
- 43:26Speaker 4: So I'll just do like there'll be sounds where I
- 43:28Speaker 4: can put like words on the screen that makes it
- 43:30Speaker 4: like comedic, and that's how I go from there. Like
- 43:33Speaker 4: so people just, I guess enjoy that stuff.
- 43:36Speaker 1: And then so your content is funny.
- 43:38Speaker 4: I don't have anything else to offer people.
- 43:41Speaker 1: And how long does it take to make a funny
- 43:43Speaker 1: fucking TikTok?
- 43:44Speaker 4: One second?
- 43:45Speaker 1: So you don't have a day planned out where you're
- 43:47Speaker 1: like today's TikTok day.
- 43:49Speaker 4: No, Because like I'll be sitting there, I'll find a
- 43:52Speaker 4: sound and like when that idea comes to me, I
- 43:54Speaker 4: know that I'm going to use that sound for it,
- 43:56Speaker 4: Like I'll just to like after this, I'll probably just
- 43:58Speaker 4: scroll click a sound. Okay, that's funny. I'm gonna put
- 44:00Speaker 4: these words on it, and then I'm gonna do it later.
- 44:03Speaker 2: You're telling me that you have four and a half
- 44:04Speaker 2: million followers based off of funny fucking sounds.
- 44:07Speaker 4: Of course people have more for less, so think about that.
- 44:11Speaker 1: It's just such a strange world. I cannot grasp it
- 44:14Speaker 1: for the fucking life of me.
- 44:16Speaker 4: Yeah. No, like you missed out in the pandemic. It
- 44:18Speaker 4: was it's a big hit. You could have been great,
- 44:21Speaker 4: but you fucked up.
- 44:22Speaker 1: I fucked up.
- 44:24Speaker 2: I can't get with it because by the time I
- 44:26Speaker 2: felt like I had mastered Instagram, which let's be very clear,
- 44:30Speaker 2: I still have not mastered shit.
- 44:31Speaker 1: Yeah, by the time I felt.
- 44:33Speaker 2: Like I had Yeah, it was like Instagram, No, it's TikTok,
- 44:36Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm exhaust you.
- 44:39Speaker 4: Are you doing anything on reels? Reels is huge?
- 44:41Speaker 2: Right now, Jessica, do we do anything on reels?
- 44:47Speaker 4: Yeah? See it?
- 44:47Speaker 1: Reels is now huge? What is that? Is that an app?
- 44:50Speaker 4: It's Instagram's TikTok.
- 44:51Speaker 2: Oh.
- 44:52Speaker 4: So what I do is I go on my TikTok
- 44:53Speaker 4: and I find the videos that have done the best
- 44:55Speaker 4: and I just take them from TikTok and post on
- 44:57Speaker 4: my reels, but just without the watermark, because I know
- 44:59Speaker 4: it's to do good and I don't want to sit
- 45:01Speaker 4: down and recrely.
- 45:02Speaker 1: Is your fan base different on TikTok than Instagram.
- 45:04Speaker 4: Well, I feel like that it's not the same. Like
- 45:06Speaker 4: I have more audience on TikTok.
- 45:09Speaker 2: I always say, I'm like, if it's going on one,
- 45:11Speaker 2: don't post it on the other, because what's the point
- 45:13Speaker 2: of following me on both if you're gonna see the
- 45:17Speaker 2: same thing.
- 45:17Speaker 4: Because on Instagram you're gonna get photos and daily stories
- 45:20Speaker 4: as well. On TikTok you're just getting funny videos. So like,
- 45:23Speaker 4: I know the video is gonna do good because it's
- 45:25Speaker 4: already done go to another platform. So I'm just gonna
- 45:26Speaker 4: push it, give it a go, because it's going to
- 45:28Speaker 4: hit a new audience that may have never seen it before.
- 45:30Speaker 4: Like people are gonna be like, oh my god, yeah
- 45:32Speaker 4: it's relatable. That's why I know, Harry, like I've seen that,
- 45:34Speaker 4: or they're gonna be like people gonna scroll past that,
- 45:36Speaker 4: I've already seen it. But yeah, on real, its like
- 45:39Speaker 4: they're pushing that shit like crazy. So it's going to
- 45:41Speaker 4: hit a difference.
- 45:41Speaker 1: You figure this out on your own.
- 45:43Speaker 4: No, I just it's my fucking life having your job, Yeah,
- 45:47Speaker 4: to learn about this shit.
- 45:48Speaker 1: Is it weird to think that you're a TikTok star?
- 45:51Speaker 4: Well, because I'm not.
- 45:52Speaker 1: Like, isn't that it wouldn't that be considered like a tick?
- 45:55Speaker 1: Like with that amount of followers?
- 45:57Speaker 4: No, because like I have friends with kids that have
- 45:59Speaker 4: like thirty million folks.
- 46:00Speaker 1: But then who are you?
- 46:02Speaker 4: I'm Harry from No, I'm Harry. I'm a reality star.
- 46:05Speaker 1: And what like when you're written about, when you're written
- 46:09Speaker 1: about online? Yeah, what does it usually say?
- 46:12Speaker 4: YouTuber? For some reason? So I said, don't Google I'm
- 46:14Speaker 4: a YouTuber. I try to change it. I was like,
- 46:16Speaker 4: I'm not a YouTuber, I'm a TikTok stuck.
- 46:19Speaker 1: Hey, there we go. He said it because I always.
- 46:21Speaker 4: Think like I'm a porn star me too, really have one?
- 46:26Speaker 4: Have you a video?
- 46:27Speaker 2: No? But by the way, I would be totally fine.
- 46:32Speaker 1: I always say this.
- 46:32Speaker 2: I'm like, I've sent newdies back in the day. Yeah,
- 46:35Speaker 2: and I'm sure I know for a fact I've recorded
- 46:38Speaker 2: myself doing fun stuff sometimes with another person.
- 46:43Speaker 1: Would I prefer it get out there? No? But like
- 46:47Speaker 1: if it did, you're fucking welcome.
- 46:50Speaker 4: Yeah. See, I have a sex tape. I'm when to
- 46:53Speaker 4: release it. It's sick.
- 46:54Speaker 1: You're such a bullshitter you want to see it? No,
- 46:57Speaker 1: I don't. Maybe after put it on TikTok.
- 47:01Speaker 4: Yeah, that was a quick way to get my accountra if.
- 47:03Speaker 4: I put af for OnlyFans and they deleted my account
- 47:06Speaker 4: for like two hours.
- 47:07Speaker 2: Oh wait, I did hear about this? Do you know
- 47:09Speaker 2: who Sonya Morgan is? No, okay, I'm obsessed with Real
- 47:12Speaker 2: Housewives of anything. Yeah, And she was promoting her OnlyFans
- 47:18Speaker 2: on TikTok and they kicked her off of TikTok it.
- 47:21Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's very like g rated.
- 47:24Speaker 4: Yeah, because there's a little kids on that, and I understand.
- 47:27Speaker 1: That's what it is.
- 47:28Speaker 4: It's the kid But like, also, my audience on TikTok
- 47:31Speaker 4: and Instagram is like eighteen to thirty five, Like, oh yeah,
- 47:35Speaker 4: Like I didn't have kids on my shit. Like, we're
- 47:37Speaker 4: fucking we're a strong army of midture individuals.
- 47:40Speaker 1: Can you cuss on TikTok?
- 47:42Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't give a fuck. Yeah, I cuss wherever
- 47:44Speaker 4: I want. I'm Australian.
- 47:45Speaker 2: Wow, I love I'm not Australian, and I cuss wherever
- 47:50Speaker 2: I want to.
- 47:50Speaker 1: Wow and whenever.
- 47:51Speaker 4: You are a badass bitch.
- 47:53Speaker 1: I'm a classy motherfucker.
- 47:54Speaker 2: Wow.
- 47:55Speaker 4: We should kiss.
- 47:58Speaker 1: We will just give it some time. A p I
- 48:00Speaker 1: look into you. I'm totally fucking with you, all right.
- 48:03Speaker 1: This was amazing. I loved having you on. You're deep,
- 48:06Speaker 1: You're deep and funny. You hit all the news you'll
- 48:11Speaker 1: find out later.
- 48:13Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much for listening to another episode
- 48:16Speaker 2: of Give Them La La. I will catch you next week,
- 48:18Speaker 2: my lobs.
- 48:18Speaker 4: Thank you so much